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Thanks for trying to cheer me up but I have made my own experiences and they have proven that in social relationships, especially in romantic ones, looks are pretty much 80% of what's important. Personality matters very little, people fall for the halo effect and just assume good looking people are inherently better.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/20 01:30 PM
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And I will never understand why people like you don't understand why people like me exist. I'm bottom of the barrell for male standards, I observe how I am treated and how attractive men are treated by women. I can draw conclusions from this just like an unattractive woman can draw her conclusions from observing men's behaviours
/r/ExRedPill11/03/20 01:10 PM
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I think the only decent way is to accept that the concept of black pill/red pill are true, work on yourself to increase your SMV, reap the benefits of your work but also remember to not take women and relationships seriously, since it's all about superficial things and it has literally no judgement on you as a person (even though societally your worth as a man is exclusively based on how attractive/useful you are to women).
/r/ExRedPill11/03/20 12:35 PM
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Yep, that's exactly my problem. Standards for us men are insanely high and there is basically no room for error. Once you realize this it's either doing what's necessary whilst denying yourself any emotions or just screwing relationships altogether.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/20 12:12 PM
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Why is it an extreme view, if it holds true for all my experiences? And it's not like I've not tried being unafraid, but no one can go on if all you get is nothing. But it's just world fallacy all over again, everyone who doesn't succeed is just not trying hard enough...
/r/ExRedPill09/02/20 04:14 PM
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It is weakness because it shows that I am too unattractive to get a single woman to like me. Nothing more unattractive than a guy who is completely inexperienced and who doesn't get adoration from multiple women.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/20 04:01 PM
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I didn't aks these questions the way you phrased them in the first paragraph. And I would never admit weakness in front of a woman. Women hate nothing more than weak and ugly men that are inexperienced, no woman would introduce me to one of her friends if I told them I'm weak.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/20 03:47 PM
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I'm just told stuff like I'm not ugly, I'm doing okay, these sorts of things that are obviously just nice lies. If i didn't have malfunctions and mistakes all over the place I wouldn't be constantly alone.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/20 03:38 PM
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Won't happen, I do have female friends and it never happeend with them.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/20 03:26 PM
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I guess I don't like doing these things because it just shows that it is 100% about looks. The hope that anything other than that matters has died at this point though.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/20 03:15 PM
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A prostitue isn't attracted to me, they obviously do it for money.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 10:31 PM
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If what you say is true, then why am I seeing and experiencing things so differently? I'm not trying to be stand-offish, I genuinely don't understand. All my life experience tells me that attractiveness is a very narrow scale to walk an. Every time my acne gets better due to medication or circumstance, I notice people treating me way nicer then before. The only time in my life women didn't completely ignore me was when I was on medication for the first time and didn't have as many scars as I hav…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 09:55 PM
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This is not about life in general, this is about finding at least one person who is attracted to me. I don't care about the rest of my life if I'm too ugly to get at least one moment of not feeling completely lonely in a romantic way.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 09:38 PM
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they will reject me if I don't immediately ask them out, which they will do anyway, so it really is a lose-lose situation.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 09:34 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree that men are just as superficial (although still not as much as women as I said in my post), at the end of the day the difference between ugly women and ugly men is that ugly women still get men (even if they do just use them as a "hole" and yeah i know that is degrading to most women), while ugly men rot in loneliness and don't even get the slightest bit of positive attention. Also, women don't have to approach and take the burden of constant rejection, which makes it eve…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 12:05 PM
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"I've gotta go make dinner, but the problem with incels is in how they look at the world. Everything can be improved on and changed. But until you stop seeing this world through the distorted lens that you do, you will be trapped in that cold ugly cell" Then how do you explain people like myself, who do actually improve but get no results in the realm of dating. I agree that most incels behave in a shitty and downright ridiculous way but there are people like myself who don't and still have neve…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 12:01 PM
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I honestly don't understand replies like these that try to make it seem like the world is a just place and some people just don't try enough. And of course I'm a narcissist for wanting to not be lonely for my entire life. I guess I'm just so extremely entitled for not wanting to die completely alone, aren't I?
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 11:45 AM
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I see all kinds of different women, they like the same type of men regardless. Of course I don't expect 18 year old dummies to have an absolutely refined taste in men. I might be literally incel, but I'm not a complete social retard...
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 11:36 AM
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And they will get men that are less ugly than me.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 11:31 AM
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So I can get ridiculed even more? No thanks, had enough of that in my life.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 11:31 AM
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"My #1 advice to all my struggling friends is, you find people when you're not trying to look for them." Yes, this is true if you are a woman or an attractive man, not when you're an ugly man. I never met anybody unless i forced it. And I'm just talking about platonic relationships, obviously romantically nothing ever happened either. "I met my wife a couple months after deciding to stop dating and just work on myself for awhile; I ended up helping organize an event and she tagged along with a f…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 11:30 AM
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Lol just getting a match on tinder as a man requires you to be way above average in attractiveness, getting laid 2 times per week you must be insanely attractive. Online dating is extremely competitive for guys and pretty much only the top 20% get anywhere, since women only look for those guys.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/19 11:38 PM
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All I see is women being attracted to the same type of guy all the time. Women can look and be any way they want and they still have guys chasing them, as a man you need to shape your looks and your character in one certain way or you are doomed to die alone. And that fact makes me want to kill myself, because I can't look or be the way you need to be as a man.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/19 05:27 PM
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what is psl?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 11:19 PM
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you literally said you are awkward and introverted and thus had a hard time dating. If you were arrogant and extroverted, you wouldn't have
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 02:42 PM
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Then why do I not have even a single positive experience with women? No women talking to me, no flirting back, nothing? Maybe I need to be more arrogant, but I don't see what you see in your life at all.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 02:40 PM
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Yes I do go outside. You probably think these men are below average because only the top 10% of men are even considered good or even okay looking, so no surprise there.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 02:29 PM
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I don't think there's any way to reverse this trend. With modern societal trends and technology, women have an easier time than ever to have as many high value men as they like, leaving low value men behind. And once they had a taste of the superior product, they're not going to go to the inferior one.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/19 08:59 PM
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How do you know I'm not going out of my comfort zone? That's why I know how women behave and that almost all of them are cheating on their bfs with men they actually find attractive
/r/ExRedPill08/11/19 08:38 PM
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vulnerability is pretty much by definition weakness and no, women don't like that, no matter how much they like to make men believe that. They want masculine men and masculine men don't show weakness and their intelligence doesn't matter in sexual attraction.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/19 08:37 PM
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Women do not care about anything but looks, when they like a guy's looks and his arrogant attitude they will make up all the other characteristics they convince themselves to like in men (like intelligence)
/r/ExRedPill08/11/19 08:34 PM
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How can I let others help me if everything they say is absolutely contrary to everything I see and have ever experienced myself? Why is my perspective invalid and other people's perspective correct?
/r/ExRedPill07/11/19 10:10 PM
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So you're pretty much saying I'm right in that women pretend to like one thing but in reality default back to liking stereotypical chads?
/r/ExRedPill07/11/19 09:58 PM
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Showing weakness is the biggest mistake you can make with women, you always need to be confident or better arrogant.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/19 09:55 PM
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yes of course i have talked to women, that's why I know most of them talk one way and act the other. And I won't go to therapy, have been there before and it's a total scam and doesn't help my situation.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/19 09:29 PM
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Yes, most women cheat on their boyfriends with men they find more attractive and most of them are tall, muscular and bearded. And you may say you are most attracted to men who are intelligent and show weakness, yet most women who say that will in realitiy go for the stereotypical chad.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/19 09:25 PM
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I am in law school, late 20s
/r/ExRedPill07/11/19 09:17 PM
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How can I believe her if I know that I'm objectively unattractive and no woman has ever found me attractive? It's impossible any woman would ever find me attractive!
/r/ExRedPill25/08/19 05:21 PM
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sign of weakness is any kind of negative emotion like sadness. you are not allowed to show those as a man.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:10 PM
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still doesn't change the fact that it is one of the most offputting things and a destroyed face is a death sentence as well.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:09 PM
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"Even if there is a whoman who genuinely finds you attractive..." This will never happen, it's 100% impossible.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 05:02 PM
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I have been to prostitutes and it sucks. Like I said, I WISH I wouldn't hate women, but even if I didn't, it'd still be impossible that any woman could find me physically attractive.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 04:48 PM
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My "obsession" isn't unhealthy, it's the reality of my existence. And no, I don't want to live a life like that.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 04:23 PM
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Okay so first of all, thanks for the many responses, I really didn't expect there to be so many, if any at all. Also, there's one thing I should clarify: Yes, even though I hate women, it's mostly reserved to how awfully superficial they are and to how easy they have it when it comes to sex and relationships. I am NOT harassing any women, excusing or even condoning violence towards them and I resent the general incel "culture". To be honest, a lot of these answers seem to basically gloss over th…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 03:23 PM
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Yeah obviously I should have taken care of my hair back then, but my acne now still indicates that I "don't care" about how I look about myself, but what am I supposed to do? I just doesn't stop unless I'm on really hard medication that I can't take forever.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 02:27 PM
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Of course I'm a failed man, being helpless with women at my age is inexcusable. And yeah, I wish I wasn't the way I am nowadays, but I didn't choose to become like this. I agree that waking up with good skin and muscles wouldn't immediately fix me, but it would damn sure open the door with women and at least let me experience that part of life, even though like I said I would never be able to trust any woman in that regard anyways. And no I don't think I have a cognitive bias. Women choose the s…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 09:08 PM
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Because I actually want to experience intimacy at least once my life?
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 08:42 PM
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I mean it's not that I want to think like I do, but why has my life gone the way it has up to this point? If I was a good looking man it wouldn't have gone that way, it's that simple. Sadly, looks are everything when it comes to mate selection.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 08:31 PM
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No I don't think it's the measure of life but I think it's kinda understandable that you want to make one of the most basic experiences in life? I don't get it why that seems so out there to understand...
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 08:26 PM
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I know, but everytime you that a look at the femcel subs, most of them have been in relationships, have men going after them or actively date, they have sex. How can you call that being incel? I wish I had it that easy.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 08:15 PM
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Yes I know I can fix them, but if I do and suddenly have success with women, it would just show me once again how extremely superficial women are and how everything just depends on looks. I wish I was as blissfull as most people who don't realize that everything depends on looks (obv everyone knows that looks play at least some role)
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 08:11 PM
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That's nice and all, but sex and intimacy are key parts in life and I am doomed to miss them entirely. Also, children are out of the picture for me too. Don't think that kind of life is fulfilling.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 08:06 PM
1

I obviously haven't lived with women, but why would I need that to know who they choose to have sex with and who to be in a relationship with?
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 08:02 PM
-7

I have been in therapy but it has been absolutely useless. My problems are physical, no amount of therapy will make my thin frame and acne scars disappear.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 07:58 PM
-5

I do have female friends and am around women. So I do think I know at least a bit about it.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 07:52 PM
-8

I know many women who don't fit these standards and they all get male attention and can easily get sex/relationships. Men who don't fit male standards barely get a date.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 07:47 PM
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I don't think that it affects women all that much. Even if they don't fulfill these beauty standards, they still can easily get sex and relationships.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 07:40 PM
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