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Two cents from a not-RP following guy... Group exercise classes, early evening. Socialize, congratulate people (nice effort, etc) so this means bootcamp, CrossFit and FitLab classes (formerly Gold's Gym). Don't complain about the money, and work hard. Bonus if one or both of you join rugby teams (woman's rugby players are notorious), and obstacle-course racing teams. There's lots of nice normal (not head case) people who want sex and threesomes. But depending on your social circle and occupation…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:30 PM
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How do you know the trolly won't stop at the first of five people? The first person could be the "fat man".
/r/seduction03/10/16 03:30 AM
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As other said, if you want to see what your friends are really like, then just as an EXPERIMENT try quitting drugs for a month. See if they call or care. Keep your druggie friends apart from your real friends (have plenty of real friends!). Your ambition and success in life is GREATLY tied into the quality of your network of friends. Friends help get you places. Coasters coast.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:31 PM
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TL;DR - Don't worry about every benchmark put out there by other folks -- work on yourself. Alone time is selfish time with which you can better prepare for the world (ie, don't waste that alone time playing Counterstrike). Don't ever get so lonely that you "settle" for girls with no ambition and whose best quality is they'll simply talk to you and project they'll settle for you. I don't often agree with TRP posts, but this post I wholeheartedly endorse. Improve you, and you'll need to spend les…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:28 PM
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Shouldn't the second question simply be "men: would you engage in a LTR with a woman who had a threesome?" Because you shouldn't give a fuck what the composition was.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 09:52 AM
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The next day, it surely will!
/r/seduction08/09/16 10:09 AM
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I invited them for the dinner at my house. They said yes. So I don't need to do some night game. I just have to think how to go from the table to the bedroom. Yes. I read that in the OP. Physical activity beforehand is like a foreplay; that's why I suggested dancing. You could dance at home, I suppose. Or do burpees together. Twister is a well-done cliche. Hope it all works out.
/r/seduction08/09/16 09:58 AM
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Online IS easier (married now, but when I used it I had more dates than money and time). It's even easier now I bet. Online's easier because you can filter out those you expect won't like you, and you can project an image. women open their profile and they expect to be flirted with, while sometimes when a woman goes to a club she just wants to be left alone and drink. Online is the only option if you're shy or introverted. If you can do this in real life, do it. Get a wingman. Bonus to you if yo…
/r/seduction08/09/16 03:15 AM
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You are her backup plan. When she hits 28-32, or she gets dumped for a younger woman, she will finally "settle" for you. You're not being used, it's just women and men both do this to each other when they have more than one option. Accept it, and limit your feelings to friendship. You pursuing this is like a woman chasing a gay man -futile. I'm pretty old (mid 40s), but women at certain ages are the same in any decade.
/r/seduction08/09/16 03:05 AM
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Mos of the gays I know are athletic runners or weightlifters. Muscle attracts both sexes. So you won't change perceptions, but you'll get more hits so to speak...
/r/seduction08/09/16 02:57 AM
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Fair enough, but the comment was for him to roll one for "himself" while he chills and let's the girls play alone. I'd agree, you don't know what it would do to the others. Some people can't mix, and some fall asleep..
/r/seduction08/09/16 02:52 AM
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Not an expert, but may I suggest Make plans to go to your house, and watch some movie that doesn't matter. (Won't suck people in) but first, you want to go eat out somewhere. Japanese, Korean, possibly Mexican. drink... is there a swanky speakeasy nearby? Margarita bar? Think cosmopolitan bar with cocktails. Suggest before you go home... Dance. Even if you suck at it. Be sure to tell both of them you really want to dance with them and rather not watch them dance with anyone else. This leads to b…
/r/seduction08/09/16 12:50 AM
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This. My wife's open to the idea (she's experienced, says the act doesn't freak her out it's the jitters of doing this with either total strangers or tampering with friendships. I gotta thread this needle somehow). Anyways... I don't buy the notion that most SOs will be comfortable witnessing you and someone else having (what they see as) "better sex". And that's what it'll look like to her, if you spend too much time on the third and have too much fun. It'd be no different I suppose if the thir…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 11:45 AM
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My day is now compromised by having heard talk of threesomes, with Richard Simmons.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 11:34 AM
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This is pretty good advice, and I followed a similar script years ago. Get one fully on board, and you can find a second easily (or she can). I fucked up though. When they were supposed to meet, the date venue shifted to my primary GF's party, which over time grew in invitees. Too many friends and now co-workers means pretty lame options for co-flirting without raising awkward questions about us. Basically I had to choose one or the other for that night, and by choosing I offended the secondary …
/r/askTRP01/09/16 11:32 AM
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You post asking for advice, and you get backlash and judgement. :-/ The only thing I'd suggest is communication/negotiation of things more in your favor. How? Your follow-up posts clarify better, that you're actually interested in receiving oral from the guy. But your initial post indicated not so sure. Get her to agree that, IF you do feel awkward enough to visibly lose your errection, and she's NOT able to offset that feeling by her working harder... then the guy needs to back off (duh) howeve…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:01 AM
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And certainly in the context of fathers rights, I imagine it's rough. I'd have just as much empathy for either parent if the custody holder moves 1000 miles. but equally so if a parent can't, due to court order, move 1000 miles to start over.
/r/MensRights18/08/16 08:28 PM
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I've answered a lot of folks in /r/sex, /r/relationships, etc and while each has their own audiences, the biases in TRP seem most strictly enforced. There is never any dissent in TRP. The end justifies any means. Im sure there's the female equivalent of TRP, cheaters, sugar babies, etc. It's probably important to not look at one set of gender bias as somehow being "fair and balanced" compared to other perceived bias. The only man or woman that's it's fair to manipulate, perhaps, are ones persona…
/r/MensRights18/08/16 08:25 PM
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Sort of. I'm saying Maxim, Cosmo etc are, yes shallow, and yes too simplifies, but neither are about the evil intention to manipulate. TRP is just evil, a form of women hating (IMO). "Effective" in such a context is a dubious distinction. To me, coaching people to be manipulator so is wrong, a road so low I'd go without. I think I'd feel less dirty with a prostitute than accepting their advice (not that I'd touch either).
/r/MensRights18/08/16 02:57 AM
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If you're not "fixed", you do realize it's unwise to have sex with someone whose views on having children do not match your own views? If you're not fixed, employ multiple forms of birth control. Or at least one.
/r/MensRights17/08/16 08:54 PM
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As a man, I think it's unfair to compare Cosmo to The Red Pill. Cosmo is full of empty, contradictory advice, and on that level it's like Maxim or Men's Fitness, etc. TRP is more like the pro-cheating forums, or a woman's pro-gold digger forum if that exists. TRP encourages something bordering gaslighting, IMO.
/r/MensRights17/08/16 08:48 PM
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Wow. That's the Planet Fitness business model: keep customers failing...
/r/MensRights17/08/16 08:44 PM
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Yep. I got banned for saying saying that corrosion IS rape, and victims don't initiate FB contact with their rapists. https://m.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/4x36l2/me_26_m_with_my_fiance_26_f_of_five_years_recent/d6c9y4j?utm_source=mweb_redirect&compact=true The ban I received was for "victim blaming". To disagree with my first point, that's so sick we can just assume the moderator mid-read My second point could be misunderstood, but In context, the OP's post stated his GF told him she wa…
/r/MensRights17/08/16 08:39 PM
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First, I appreciate the work Reddit moderators do, under thankless conditions. But /r/relationships is light on warnings and heavy on bans. there's no way to appeal. You might even AGREE with the moderators and policy viewpoint, but if your grammar is off (use a double negative, etc) then too bad, permanent ban. I have tons of up votes and "thanks, that was helpful" but due to an incorrect interpretation of my last post in /r/relationships, I have a permanent ban. It's soured me on Reddit somewh…
/r/MensRights17/08/16 08:22 PM
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Is she open to being fucked by a girl with a strap-on? Are you open to having a threesome where it is "just oral" (you don't fuck until the guest leaves)? The reason people have "rules" in threesomes is because there are acts or displays which they are not comfortable with. Or not comfortable with YET (rules can change to be less restrictive). By suggesting or agreeing to rules, you are essentially removing a possibility she fears, which could make it more likely to be something she could agree …
/r/askTRP31/07/16 08:09 PM
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Just to be clear, it's certainly possible you answered in such a way (or perceived as) that you indicated you were automatically closed to the idea of a MFM, while at the same time you expected her to be open to a FMF. And I'm not suggesting you did this, as there isn't enough detail in your post to say one way or the other. But as you are a witnessto it all, you can roll that possibility over in your head and decide yourself. I'd lean towards all the other comments suggesting this was her way o…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 01:36 AM
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Fuck if I know, haha but if I've been wanting a threesome for 30 years and finally get it... I know I'm celebrating it with a tat...
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:06 PM
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Right. It's constant communication. There was a point after we got married where she said "Oh, that boat sailed LONG ago". I let it drop for a long time. Now we're actually making attempts (although, it's really only been 2 tries in 3 years... we live in the boonies and have a small tight circle of friends, which does not improve chances in this). If it happens, I'm getting a tattoo for it. She's all like, it's not THAT big of a deal (which is like telling a virgin sex isn't a big deal... yeah, …
/r/askTRP20/05/16 01:18 AM
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it doesn't hurt to accept her conditions, then after some time point out just how restrictive they are. My wife said never with friends, never online. We turned down a few. :( Finally she has GF 1:1 sex and I pointed out the hipocracy of that, the lost opportunity there, and that she's on crack if she thinks an anonymous third is going to go out of their way to randomly seduce us while we're out wearing wedding rings. That's girl fiction. That got her to agree to loosen the rules and we're makin…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 10:42 AM
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That's just as true, online or not.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 10:27 AM
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To be fair, she's throwing up pretty small roadblocks. This is a big improvement over hearing "No and never ask again"..
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:59 AM
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Simplify that rule to "We/Us, only play together". Tinder and PoF+OKCupid supposedly work. Get into fitness communities (I don't mean, just get into shape) and other groups where you have regionl "groups/gatherings". Could be comics or gaming (google DragonCon sex...). It's hard for people o meet people, but events help..
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:58 AM
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