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I don't disagree. Therapy might remove my fetish though, but then what? I'll get burned next time my woman branch swings. This keeps that from affecting me too much. I agree that I should lower the masturbation.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 06:01 PM
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This is pretty much her (open to my advances but rarely initiates sex). She does initiate physical touching though.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 05:57 PM
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Thank you for your post. I suppose there's a balance - I will work on removing those negative thoughts from my mind instead of immediately masturbating to them. This will help me be able to cum via my girlfriend as well. One thing I'll say about my developed fetish and defense mechanism is a comment I saw about it in another subreddit, credit to /u/MarkD40. Your sexual side is trying to protect you from the emotional pain women are capable of inflicting on you when you put too much trust in them…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 04:59 PM
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How much porn have you consumed in your lifetime? A lot. Honestly currently I masturbate 3-4 times a day, and then I have sex 1-2 times at night on top of that. As of starting this relationship a few months ago, I am only masturbating to this cheating, cuckold type porn. My personality is neurotic, psychopathic, and manipulative, and my sex habits may seem addictive but I am very successful professionally and career-wise. How did the relationship with your first girlfriend end? Did she cheat? Ha…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 04:57 PM
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Yes and it's pretty much the same as far as I can tell. I have trouble maintaining a fast speed (so fast that my fingers are blurred) for 30+ min though.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 03:54 PM
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Very good point. I'm honestly not sure. First, there's a break between me making her super sensitive and her finishing herself off - like 15 min. And second, it's possible that it's where exactly I'm fingering her or my technique that's making her sensitive?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 03:12 PM
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So she's actually fine with threesomes (FMF and MFM). I'd probably do FMF with her. Is that what you mean?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 02:20 PM
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Once a girl is sore on her clit it's over To clarify she became sore because of me not touching the right places / her losing attraction / not being relaxed?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 02:04 PM
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Good thoughts. It's possible I'm not hitting her spots. I guess it's also possible she's losing attraction. I wonder if earlier it was easier for her to cum because she saw me as a mysterious stranger fucking her, and now I'm more like a boyfriend/lover for whom she knows the daily schedule, laundry detergent used, morning wake up routine, etc. She could be upset and stressed about the fact that you can cum by jacking yourself off, but not when you're inside of her. Okay brace yourself because i…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 02:03 PM
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Thanks for the detailed reply. I would say she is genuinely attracted yes. Yes my first girlfriend could not cum at all, and was always dry. This was pre-TRP and I blame me being extremely gentle and asking for permission to touch her yada yada. My dick is only 5 inches but it's bent upwards a bit. I've just touched her cervix occasionally but I'm not long enough to actually hit it.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 01:36 PM
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Are you saying I should buy a vibrator or not? I don't think it's a good idea for me personally, because I feel like she might get dependent on it for orgasms rather than me. Edit: also I've read the sidebar completely, I'm very familiar with the concepts. Someone on this forum also called me a psychopath (you can check my fucked up post history).
/r/askTRP14/07/16 01:30 PM
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Ah I see, yeah I've done this but it's hard for me to stay coordinated/in rhythm, because my other hand is on the bed supporting my body weight too.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 01:18 PM
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Interesting... But this girl is feminine enough for me, and me dumping her because of this study would be analogous to her dumping me because she read somewhere that longer penis = greater chance of PIV orgasm. Some things you can't change unfortunately. Funnily enough, Stuart Brody (the guy you linked), published an article on that as well, although it was met with some controversy. Appreciate the citations though.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 01:14 PM
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Very skeptical but link?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 12:23 PM
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Yes but come on bro, learning to be great in bed can only help you. Maybe this post will help someone else reading this too. Besides, don't you feel good from being able to make your girl cum like crazy?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 12:22 PM
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So the first time I made her cum with only my hands and tongue, she was really red in the face, beyond affectionate afterwards, and had a crazy look in her eyes. So she's definitely experienced that before - are you saying that it's the anticipation / suspense of her receiving that feeling which puts her out of the mood? Any solutions to try to get around this?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 12:20 PM
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How would my dick reach her vagina if I'm on my knees? Though I guess I could be standing, and she could be on the edge of the bed.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 12:17 PM
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Learn a new skill. Some practical stuff: car repair, electronics repair, carpentry, a new language, tailoring your own clothes, programming, public speaking, etc.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:21 AM
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How do you get started in sales? I have little work experience, but a college degree from a good school and lots of leadership roles through college.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:24 AM
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Yeah all good ideas, thanks.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:22 AM
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I thought about this but the problem is I would have to abandon/sell it after 1 year, and it generally takes longer than that to see the fruits of your labor. I also don't have any funds to start a business.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 02:41 AM
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She takes an unprecedented amount of time to respond when you ignore her texts, and you cry like a bitch, whereas, you should be taking twice that long to get back with her. If she calls you out on withdrawal of affection, and asks 'why are you mad', you cave in like a house of cards, telling her everything, whereas you should be telling her that you have other stuff on your mind. So neither of these actually happen - if we keep mirroring each other's response time, it would eventually get to th…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 01:52 AM
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Ok so I might be playing this game incorrectly, but last time I tried to just ignore her text and got back to it the next day, she took an unprecedented amount of time to reply to all my messages for the next couple of days - almost like "revenge". Sometimes if I withdraw affection for other reasons (e.g. don't feel like sex tonight), she'll ask "what's the matter, why are you mad?" At that point, if I agree and amplify, I get the feeling she genuinely won't realize where she went wrong. But if …
/r/askTRP05/05/16 02:53 AM
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How would you deal with this? Should I just get used to it?
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:25 AM
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Aren't I entering her frame by getting annoyed by it and letting it show?
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:24 AM
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You're right, there's no time concern - I just get the feeling of being disrespected when she can't take the time to answer me, but is active on messenger talking to others. Again on the one hand, maintain frame, but on the other hand, don't let yourself be disrespected.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 10:11 PM
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Do you think there'd be any point in openly talking to her about her texting behavior (e.g. when she's active on FB but not replying) and telling her that it's disrespectful? What you said works for some stuff, but it won't for others, as an example me messaging her "Hey did Steve say we should drop off his grill this week?" There's no real time limit on that response, so she would take a while to reply.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:56 PM
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Okay so I may have exaggerated the 5 friend part. She has slept with less than 5 people, this I know for sure. Out of those ~5, one is a really close friend, the others are acquaintances. Does that change anything? So think of it like, LTR with a very feminine, otherwise obedient and great girl, the only thing is she slept with 1 close guy friend (FWB). I mean I'm sure almost everyone in this thread has been in a relationship with someone who slept with an acquaintance? Why do I feel weird if it…
/r/askTRP06/03/16 10:04 PM
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But this girl has slept with less than 5 people in her life- I genuinely don't believe I can find a woman with a lower n count than that (I am also completely non religious so it wouldn't be a church girl). The issue isn't how many guys she has slept with, it's just that some of them were my close friends.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 11:50 AM
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As a fairly short minority, I pretty much ONLY experience rejection in any modicum of online dating.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 06:25 PM
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Good advice. It's just it's hard to toughen myself when the opportunity for a rejection for an LTR is so rare (because I rarely meet such a girl, maybe 2-3 times a year). I do deal with depression (mild most days, some days I can't get up because I feel suicidal) but I am not on any medication.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:57 PM
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Probably around 5-10 times for girls I would do LTRs with, girls I thought I cared about. For party hookups, many more, lost count
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:53 PM
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But if I enjoy and actually prefer dating one girl, holding hands, going on dates, talking etc, why would I devoid myself of that pleasure until so much later?
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:51 PM
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Thing is, it'll be more than 10 years before all that is set up (talking about career) because I'm on the medical path, and after medical school I'll still be in debt for a long time and have to do residency. Of course after that I'll be making 300-500k. I know I don't fall into the cookie cutter RP mold, I do have a great desire for a strong family life with children (I even plan on dedicating my career to working with a pediatric subspecialty). I realize I could think of those things later, bu…
/r/askTRP05/03/16 04:14 AM
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That's not the type of love I'm talking about. More like something you'd find in redpillmarriage. I do want kids, and leading the household in a RP way with a good woman js a goal in my life.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 04:00 AM
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Thanks kid, you could at least contribute, it might help others reading as well. Wonder why you're on ASKTRP anyway.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 03:58 AM
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Honestly I think I am too for casual hook ups but when I meet someone I'd like to be in an LTR with, everything seems different. Call it BP remnants or whatever you will, with some girls I want to be in a monogamous loving relationship with them. And when they reject me it seems much worse than some drunk girl at a party.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 03:56 AM
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You know 50% of marriages end in divorce right? Yes, but this drops to ~15% or so when the woman has had no previous sexual partners. It is probably even lower for non-american women. Instead, have a baby, minus the marriage, write a contract guaranteeing you both 50/50 custody provided 'no fault', still have a great relationship with the mother, see the kids every day. If something goes wrong, you still pay child support, but no alimony. You still have custody, AND THE HOUSE. This just sounds l…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 05:48 AM
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The first one...but do you think my desire to have kids will just fade away? Is there a reasonable away to raise children without the traditional marriage arrangement?
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:22 AM
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Sounds an awful lot like you are trying to change your life to find a woman Don't know where you got that from my post...And I actually grew up overseas and do travel quite a bit (with regards to the overseas thing). But anyway, I'm still young, and this is just me wondering how I would be go about finding someone like this in 10 years or so, or if it is even possible.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:33 AM
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Thanks for the reply. Well, I'm more interested in drama films anyway. Although most filmmakers who have success continuously work "above the line" instead of working their way up. That is, while being a production assistant (fetching coffee) is good for you to learn the ropes of what happens on set, you can do that in a few months. The rest of the time is spent on keeping on making films with you as whatever your "above the line" role is - director, producer, writer, etc. (Under the line would …
/r/askTRP08/08/15 07:11 AM
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I don't know about "master plan", but understanding elements of TRP certainly help towards leading a successful life. I mean, without it, I would have been seriously happy to slowly build a great career up to my 30s, just to provide for a woman who wouldn't have given me a second glance when I was in my 20s.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 12:39 PM
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The specialties I'd be looking at are 250-300k average, but consider malpractice as well. One good thing though, is I'd be graduating med school free of debt. With 350k a year you can get multiple properties and build a fucking empire to generate a 1Mil/year through rent alone. How did you arrive at this math though? It usually takes 6-8 years to break even on a property from rental income.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 09:39 AM
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This sounds very good in theory (genuinely), but after learning so much about the truth of social status, true sexual preferences, male/female dynamics, I'm just cynical about "following my dreams"...if that makes sense.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 09:35 AM
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What's alpha bux? What about the idea that you should break stereotypes if your race is a hindrance, and that wealth doesn't really matter unless you're making 1 mil+ a year?
/r/askTRP05/08/15 06:39 AM
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I had felt this was immoral because I tricked the girl into this. I literally lied about everything about who I was - fake name, job, etc.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 05:34 AM
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We can continue this via PM instead, but I do have a point to bring up about that. When I had depression, I realized I couldn't talk to any psychiatrist or psychologist about my problems (which were the slow realization of TRP ideals). Wouldn't they just immediately think I'm a misogynist? Trying to swallow the pill made me feel really alone, because I realized I couldn't talk to anyone about it (well, except posts on here).
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:37 AM
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I tried but the mods said it could cause brigading or something, and that they thought what I was saying was fake anyway.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:09 AM
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Do I need to get checked for STDs if I used a condom for anal? And what does getting checked involve?
/r/askTRP30/12/14 01:26 AM
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If TRP is about being the man you wanna be and handling things like men do. You did the complete opposite. I don't deny this. As I've said I did wrong. But at the very least this experience did help me take the pussy off the pedestal. I'm hoping to be thinking a lot of my future goals these coming weeks.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 10:13 PM
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You have to understand that I still do believe I acted immorally. Personally, the good thing to come out of this wasn't the sex, but the moments of clarity that followed it.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 10:11 PM
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I agree with everything you said. From my post: In the end, I know it was wrong, morally The sheer amount of manipulation that I did made me feel a little sick And if you see the end of my old thread, I do say that I don't think that what I was doing was even RP. I know what I did was wrong, but man, I am just human. I do still feel guilty. I actually wondered if I had become a psychopath on the drive back. the RP action would be to hard next her, not seek vengeance. I agree. I'm hoping that at …
/r/askTRP29/12/14 10:07 PM
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Nah it was hard. Dealt with depression but no anti-depressants.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 09:59 PM
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The day The Red Pill just couldn't believe how a beta virgin lost his virginity. Seriously though, I do find it a little humorous that people don't believe the story. I don't really care how some internet strangers think I lost my virginity. I posted this thread, and the other one, for advice - a lot of which I got. And I mean both sides of advice, even if I did not follow the other side (telling them the truth). I was a virgin yes, but I had done blow jobs and deep throat before, so it wasn't c…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 09:59 PM
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I guess I'm flattered by your disbelief?
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:03 PM
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Well...I mean it would take some serious mental gymnastics for me to change my view that I acted immorally. Maybe she did only give sex for potential money, but that potential money was a farce, one created by me.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 12:39 PM
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Considering I had never had sex before last night, I'd say yeah I had been giving it too much value.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 12:37 PM
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Nope. Just phone number and my picture.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 12:36 PM
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Yeah. I already decided not to masturbate at all this week. Hoping to gain some self discipline.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 12:01 PM
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Well, she didn't orgasm, and I manipulated her. She's still expecting this VIP to take her fancy places.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:55 AM
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Thanks. And thanks for your insights on my other thread as well.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:21 AM
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Ok, /u/DAD_FISTER ...just for you. We first met outside the motel room door (I texted her to wait there while I went to book it for the night). Went inside, sat on the bed, talked for a bit. If you saw my other post, the background was that I was supposed to vet these girls to make sure they're sexual superstars who are good enough for my VIP boss. So as we sat on the bed, I gave her a guideline of what I wanted her to test her on. I realized a way I could get away (possibly) with no sex experie…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:11 AM
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Well I didn't like it anyway. Honestly, it smelled a bit. I'm pretty sure she farted while I was pounding her.. If you mean how, I just said "let's do anal". She looked a little surprised but we still did it.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:04 AM
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I don't drink, gamble, or smoke, but sometimes I have to watch porn and masturbate 3-4 times a day.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:01 AM
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You mean how I manipulated them? I don't want to give too many details for sake of anonymity. But, the general idea was I pretended to be the assistant to a big shot VIP, and if they hooked up with me, I could potentially hook them up with him.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 10:58 AM
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By death grip you mean that I hold my dick too tightly when I masturbate? I'd honestly follow through with the other two girls I've thought about it. One thing I am worried about is if I get addicted to this whole facade. It was incredibly easy to get sex this way...I'm on vacation right now from school, and it just sucked away so much time.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 10:45 AM
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If it was me, it would be impossible for me to not think about this constantly..I'd confront her but probably end up damaging/destroying the relationship, with her still insisting that she did no wrong.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 06:04 AM
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That's an interesting way of looking at it...never thought about it like that. that it's RP to realize, that every sexual relationship is kind of a prostitution For the sake of discussion, I'd argue that a good number (majority?) of men who do end up losing their virginity to prostitutes aren't RP, and are desperate. Might be different in other cultures, but I think it's that way here. every sexual relationship is kind of a prostitution and to just cut out all the bullshit, pay the woman directl…
/r/askTRP27/12/14 01:24 PM
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You don't think so? I think you'd lose your virginity to a prostitute if you COULDN'T lose it to a regular woman. So it's kind of a blow to the ego.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 01:10 PM
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At least give me some helpful tips then?
/r/askTRP27/12/14 12:05 PM
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I might upload pics of our convos later, but I've been concerned about anonymity ever since people here started mentioning the chance that there's a chance they'll try to do false rape charges.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 11:41 AM
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I don't know if I'd phrase it like that..As I said before I'm still in the original post, I'm still in the transition of swallowing the pill. To be honest, deep down I do believe that some day I'm going to find that "unicorn". Maybe this would be someone I could open up to. I guess I was thinking that I might not want to do something that I would have to hide, from literally everyone, forever - even potentially this "unicorn". Does that sound blue pill as fuck? I'm sure it does. I feel like I am…
/r/askTRP27/12/14 11:27 AM
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These are not prostitutes at all.... Yet they said no to $3k, maybe to $10k and yes to $15k. Wouldn't that make almost everyone (male and female) a prostitute? Would you give a super rich guy a hand job for $15 million dollars? I think a lot of people would. Again, I am not trolling. For the accusations, how would they even know who I really am? I didn't give them a real name. You are right though, this feels dangerous.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 11:14 AM
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What does "sexual strategy is amoral" mean? I see it around here sometimes. (genuinely curious and trying to understand if it relates here).
/r/askTRP27/12/14 10:12 AM
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(see my reply to his post) I am positive these are not escorts. I've even see their Facebook pages. I'm not sure how anyone could 'prove' without a doubt that a woman isn't, but I really do believe they are not.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 10:02 AM
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Well, thanks for taking the time to write that out. I'll try to address everything: 1) It's not like I was "running experiments" by mass messaging hundreds of women after adjusting a factor, then writing down the results in Excel or something. At first, I just wanted to see what it would be like to be a high status male with regards to sex life. I was in the depression phase I think, and I wanted to see how it could get better. So I made the profile reflect what I one day hoped to achieve (jacke…
/r/askTRP27/12/14 09:58 AM
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Agreed, but the fear wasn't of having sex - but of the memory of having to do this to have it. That is: I have sex and lose my virginity using deception, while all the other more "alpha" guys did it by working hard, increasing game, lifting, etc.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 04:26 AM
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Ugh why did I google it.. http://www.nj.com/politics/index.ssf/2014/11/rape_by_fraud_nj_lawmaker_introduces_bill_to_make_it_a_crime.html
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:46 AM
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You cleared up a lot of my doubts. Thanks a lot. Do you have any insight into the "danger of them claiming rape"?
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:36 AM
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That's true. I was thinking about myself to be honest. Kind of like how it's a manner of pride (?) to not lose your virginity to a prostitute. This isn't that, but you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:26 AM
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Thanks. It's not about how I'd be acting that'd be the "lie" though. I literally told them I'm an agent for a big wig, showed them photos of HIM, the whole 9 yards. They only want sex for that access - access to something that I made up.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:17 AM
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Actually, on my profile I wrote "I suck at sports" and listed my height as slightly below average. I do agree that generally what you say is true, but if you pass 500k to 1mil mark in terms of income, then less so.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:06 AM
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My main concern (and why I made this post) is not that I can game her on the date - the whole point of it is so I "vet" them sexually. I don't know if I SHOULD do this. I'm still a virgin, and this would be one hell of a way to lose it (not in a good way?).
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:04 AM
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You make it sound like I'll be making a mistake that I'll learn from. I haven't done anything yet...so if you were in my position would you continue on?
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:02 AM
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I didn't even think about that.. Lying for sex doesn't seem like rape to me? If I have it recorded would I be in the safe?
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:01 AM
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