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MINDSET SHIFTThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:15 AM
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STAY WOKEThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:55 AM
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STRATEGYThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:30 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:04 PM
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STRATEGYThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:35 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:31 AM
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STRATEGYThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:58 PM
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STRATEGYThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:13 PM
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LEVEL UP BRO! Throwawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:28 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:29 PM
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STRATEGYThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:45 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:07 AM
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DISCUSSIONThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:54 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Throwawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:46 AM
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DISCUSSIONThrowawayrightaway28/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:21 PM
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We have to normalize just leaving if a man disappoints once his clothes are off. Is he not as buff as you thought? His dick little? He gross? Run! Pretend like you’re sick and dip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:33 AM
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Run. If there’s a disparity between what the guy says to you and what he says to his friends, trust what he says to his friends. That’s the real him. At the very least, if a man can’t stand up to his friends means he prioritizes them and what they think of him above you and what you think of him. And who wants a man who doesn’t have a back bone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:22 AM
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This is so true and yet I’m confused by it. Why would they lie about something they know you’re going to find out about, if things go their way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:10 AM
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It is so true. I used to think it was because men would just hit on anything, but no, they purposefully go after women who are dressed down. They assume you have some sort of self-esteem issue. That’s why I always try to look good, even when I go to the gym. Men are intimidated by put together women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:05 PM
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I completely agree. We already know when ⚫️ Men are trash but sometimes it can harder to read the cultural cues of white men being trash. Stay away from woke white dudes in helping professions like social workers or dudes who work for non-profits. They are actually judgmental as hell with massive superiority complexes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:22 AM
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Is that what this pic is from? Because whatever this is I need to start watching immediately. Don’t watch Albert Nobbs though, he was very LV in that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:48 PM
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Is it wrong that I think the last picture is the sexiest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:43 PM
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I just love him so much. He was gorgeous in the Tudors, so sexy in that Albert Nobbs movie. I have watched Match Point so many times just for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:32 PM
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He is gorgeous! That smile swoon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:18 PM
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Dem thighs 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:17 PM
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Y’all have some great taste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:16 PM
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How can you see down votes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:16 PM
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Takei mocked her? I’m very disappointed. He keeps sinking in my estimation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:07 PM
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Thank you! He was hideous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:56 AM
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Post nut clarity is such a ridiculous way of excusing the fact that men will stick it in anything with a pulse. Men don’t want to take responsibility for their actions, so they blame their “animal nature.” ‘Well, a, I haven’t had sex in a really long time and it clouded my judgment.’ Yeah fucking right. This is just another way for them to hide behind excuses rather than taking responsibility for their choices
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:51 AM
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LOL 😂. This guy’s good humor cracked me up. He could barely get out his joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:49 AM
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This breaks my heart. The first thing that ever really opened my eyes to the nature of men was seeing one of my relatives go through breast cancer-twice. She had two mastectomies years apart and her husband never would take her to chemo, she had to depend on friends to get there. He was out running the streets. But that story actually has a happy ending, as he had an unexpected heart attack and died. She recovered very nicely from the cancer and inherited quite a nice estate. When he died she bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:48 AM
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Thank you! I wanted to post him last week but I could not figure out this photo system. And dude is aging like fine wine, he is still gorgeous. I loved him since I was a little girl watching the Young and the restless with my grandmother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:37 AM
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Ok. So you’re totally right and everyone who disagrees with you is the problem. Even though this a space of highly intelligent women, many of whom are disagreeing. There’s a word for that, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:16 PM
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I suggest you read what you wrote and then read the comments that call you on it. You came off condescending and belittling to women you admit are espousing the right values because you don’t approve of how they look while they’re doing it. Gee, that sounds so familiar...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:24 PM
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Media as a whole doesn’t profit from women’s insecurities? The clothing industry, the skin care industry, pretty much any corporate job and MNC profits from women’s insecurities. My issue with this post is you’re essentially criticizing women less than half your age for not knowing something I guarantee you didn’t know at their age. You’re down punching down. And the second thing is your entire post lacks nuance. As I and many others pointed out nearly everything on this earth is centered around…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:09 PM
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I almost downvoted this post on instinct because that screenshot was so horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:58 PM
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If that’s the case, can women do anything? Someone else profits when you read books! Someone else profits when you watch TV and movies. Someone profits when you’re on FDS! So should women just crawl into a cave and do cave drawings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:36 PM
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Right, and from the same women who are always posting “what wall?!” photos of 50,60,70+ actresses. If make up was that destructive, wouldn’t they all look awful? The math isn’t mathing. And if we can praise beauty in older women, how come young girls can’t experiment with and celebrate their own beauty? Sounds suss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:28 PM
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I don’t know. Would you tell a man who’s inappropriately attracted the teenage girls that his attraction is their responsibility and they should be responsible for staying out of his sight?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:07 PM
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These girls aren't responsible for other women's feelings on their looks any more than they are responsible for men's sexual attraction to them, first off. Second, the "pathetic aesthetic world" exists regardless of who does or does not wear makeup. The people who feel they are negatively impacted can certainly stay off social media and watch less tv. Third, depression isn't one size fits all. I suffered with clinical depression for years and I find makeup has always helped me feel better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:32 PM
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Incredibly true and sad. For all the shit we talk about men, they hardly have a negative word to say about boys. They defend boys at all costs. These are girls on TikTok, not women. Let them enjoy their youth. They're doing make-up, not murders. It's a form of adultification to expect girls to see the world in the way women do. And there is nothing wrong with the way they see the world anyway. I don't think I've ever commented negatively on women who have a hobby I don't care for-because I have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:26 PM
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And at what point are we going to stop comparing EVERYTHING to what men do? I thought we all agreed men were gross, sex-obsessed worthless trash. Yet, these more-feminist-than-thou chicks are complaining about women enjoying a feminine hobby. If these girls were solving equations, changing oil, or some other typically 'masculine' -associated thing on TikTok, these women would be like girl power! Is it feminism if you only respect women who are like the stereotypical male? What's next? Are we sup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:07 PM
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Excellent. So who is to say these young ladies aren't doing all that and more in their free time? We see them for a minute on TikTok, they have all the rest of the hours in the day to be great. Did you see the Don't Rush series where women were going from being in uniform at their jobs as engineers, scientists, medical doctors, firefighters, etc. to being dressed up in a full face of makeup? We can do both :) It's not a zero-sum game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:40 PM
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Sooooo true. I really can't believe we mock men all the time for always having something to say about the innocent things that women enjoy like makeup, and here's a bunch of FDS women doing the same thing. It's a damn shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:31 PM
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First off, I've read the Beauty Myth. Secondly, it "costs money and eats up time that could be better spent" according to you. Guess what? Someone could say the same to you about anything you like. The time you spend on FDS could be spent volunteering at a women's shelter, teaching yourself a new language, working a side hustle, learning to day trade. It's their time and money to spend and as I said, for many of these women, this is a job or career path. But even if it's a hobby, it's a skill. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:31 PM
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I concur and to the person above you, I say it's easy to talk big about not wanting reconstructive surgery if you've never needed any. Breast cancer runs in my family and those surgeries can be life restoring to survivors of mastectomies. It has nothing to do with patriarchy. Are burn victims who get grafts vain? Are those who get cleft palette surgery doing it for the male gaze? Losing a literal piece of your body to a disease is hard for anyone, whether that's a leg to gangrene or a breast to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:19 PM
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Thank you, fellow black woman! Do people get that NOT doing something purposefully to rebel is still centering that person as the arbiter of your humanity? Not wearing makeup for feminism or whatever is still letting men dictate your actions. These girls are having fun, learning a profitable and useful skill, and many are making lots of money promoting brands or creating their own products. Let them live. Being Dworkin isn't the only way to be feminist. If these girls understand and are teaching…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:06 PM
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This is complicated. On the one hand, a lot of these girls make money by being MUAs or influencers, which I'm all for. That's using the patriarchy to your advantage. And I also think they are having fun being young. I'm 32, I experimented a lot more with makeup and did full faces when I was in college. It's a fun and innocent pastime. Plus, the technology is AMAZING. These girls take off their makeup and have perfect skin because their interest in makeup has prompted them to work on their skinca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:59 PM
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Yes, the sub used to be a great now it’s nothing but a bunch of failed cool girls who don’t want children so they can focus on full-time on their man child or a bunch of incels who think CF means screwing everything with a shadow without a condom and then screaming “I told you I was child free” like it’s a magical spell that prevents conception and child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:46 PM
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Love it! I have to steal this because I’m CF too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:45 PM
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This guy has another post asking if he can be legally banned from his grandmother’s funeral. Apparently he’s such a jackhole that his aunt has threatened to call the cops if he shows up. What a charmer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:41 PM
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And I promise you it was only not consummated because nobody wanted him! The reason he got busted is because he was posting in a subReddit about Tinder, complaining women didn’t respond to his pick up lines. I’m guessing lockdown started last year and he didn’t have the capability of trying to cheat at work/seeing prostitutes like he no doubt was before. So after he grey rocked his wife and gaslighted her into allowing him to have an open marriage, he was still pissed he wasn’t able to trick som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:42 PM
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Once again proving that men are the ones who are afraid to be alone. They just want any attention from a woman, positive, negative, they just need us to acknowledge their existence so badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:14 PM
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I love when guys post from their real accounts and Redditors know the story sounds like crap, so they play detective in the old posts. They read this dude for filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:10 PM
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Boy moms are so sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:43 PM
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She got a lot of good advice on the thread about leaving, saving money, getting to safety, women shelters, etc. If she takes it, she’ll be fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:42 PM
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Well her parents are trash, but with some effort, I googled this and thank God for those comments! They’re all telling her to leave. But I was still disgusted by the amount of men and possibly women who were saying the husband might be “sick “and she should definitely get away from him for her safety, but just because he was screaming at her, threatening violence, and trying to coerce her into sex against her will doesn’t make him a “bad guy”. I don’t get it. Men have literally been family annih…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:41 PM
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And if something happens, they are going to be first in line to say they didn’t know. “They seem so happy, I had no idea he was abusive.” Rolls eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:35 PM
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More proof men are trying to get the p for cheap. This guy could easily afford a nice dinner, never miss the money. But he does this because it works sometimes. Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:30 PM
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I don’t have anything to say about Naomi’s connection to Epstein and co. She probably is guilty of unsavory things there. But as to all that BS about the throwing cell phones, etc., I don’t listen to or promote word one people say about black women being “abusive” or “difficult” or “hard to work with” because all that shit is just code for racism. Just like LVM will push and push and push and then call you crazy when you react to their abuse, the world at large abuses, negs, and tries to break b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:11 PM
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So true. Looking at it, stroking it with your hand, sitting on his lap, all become 10 times more fun. Whenever a guy starts complaining that over time a woman stops being as hands-on with his dick, you know he’s got a teeny todger. I never get tired of holding and playing with the pretty ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:52 PM
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LOL at men trying to get this removed. They are so bitter when women tell the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:47 PM
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Good on you for getting another kitty and shielding and defending her from your dad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:47 PM
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Wow. Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry that happened, that he did that to you and your pet. This is just another reminder everything men do, they do intentionally. Maybe you want to get another cat now? Heal from that experience? Sometimes childhood traumas can keep us stuck. And it’s always a beautiful thing to give a home to a creature in need. And your cat was quite strong. It set boundaries right away by scratching, and it got away from abuse in a hurry. That smart kitty was probably stron…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:37 PM
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That’s just societal conditioning. If you were going to regret it, you would already regret it. Motherhood isn’t all babies sleeping on your chest and that lovely baby powder smell, like they show on TV. In reality it’s a lot of hard and grueling work and many, many women regret choosing motherhood. But you really can’t opt out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:16 PM
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I am definitely the single childfree friend and I am so happy! These poor women who married/procreated with scrotes are miserable. I was just on another FDS thread yesterday and a woman asked if anybody else as parents said their family was “cursed” because their daughters were single and childfree. Bruh. I always thought I was unique in that regard. So many women came out of the woodwork talking about how their parents say that. I told my mom a long time ago, I’m actually blessed. I don’t owe a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:14 PM
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Exactly. An independently wealthy like women like this is the only type who should be a single mother by choice. Janet Jackson (though she was married when she had her child, she divorced him soon after), Kate Hudson, etc. had literal millions when they embarked on this journey. Plus Janet and Naomi were both 50 and had already slayed their careers for decades. This is more proof that children will always be there. Opportunity will not. Do what you need to do for yourself first. Make that indeli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:59 PM
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There are lots of men in the sea. There are just more in the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:33 PM
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And for the lurkers, length is not everything. You need girth, too. We want Coke cans, not #2 pencils. Nice and thick, throbbing with veins. Mmm. And technique is key. You don’t get to the World Series just because you have a big bat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:58 AM
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If you read some of the comments by those psycho survivalist types, they think having a bunker and canned goods is going to be the equivalent of being a millionaire in case of a natural disaster. They are literally rooting for the earth to fail so they can have more access to sex. Did you see what happened after Hurricane Katrina? Men who had any kind of roof over their head were advertising on craigslist for women, offering room and board in exchange for sex. They are a scourge on the earth. A …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:46 PM
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So what’s your alternative? What should women who desire a long-term relationship with a man do for legal protection?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:24 PM
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I kind of agree on the funerals. I’m a black woman and personally I think it’s completely ridiculous that this community, which barely has any wealth, will take up collections and sell dinners to put thousands of dollars in the ground. Same with weddings. I have seen people spend bookoo money on a wedding, only to go back and live with their parents after the honeymoon. Ridiculous. Nothing in this world is impractical if you can afford it. I’m not bit more interested in what people who are makin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:16 PM
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What I realize is that CoMmUniCaTiOn is a scam men made up to bilk women out of sex and emotional labor. Men don’t ever explain shit so they can always leave the door open for using you. That’s why they ghost instead of giving an explanation. But the truth is, men know that not speaking for a certain amount of time is a flat out rejection. They just don’t tell you why you’re being rejected so they can always blame losing their phone or some emergency when they want some free sex or labor later. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:08 PM
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That’s ridiculous. At the end of the day the legal protection of marriage is the best and safest route for women who want to have children and long-term relationships with men. There is literally no other way to protect yourself as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:58 PM
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Savage. I love it. I’m definitely saving this to use
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:46 PM
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Eh. How many male murderers are worshipped and admired in our society? And I don’t mean Ted Bundy types, I mean Thomas Jefferson types. Child rapist, enslaver, murderer. Yet he’s on money and monuments. Amy isn’t real, but her observations on men are. She has her bad points, but she is definitely the best female character in the book. Who do you want to be like? Bottom bitch Go who lets Nick use her continually and lie to her? She even mortgages her house for his legal defense. How about pick me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:28 PM
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I completely agree. The song makes me extremely uncomfortable. If you know men are trash, why are you engaging in casual sex with them. They are winning, you’re losing. And this whole video, the girl in the bathtub, walking around the bikini top, all of this ass shaking just seems very male gaze-y to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:31 PM
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My advice for women lurkers: think about how what you read here makes you feel. If you’re dissatisfied or envious or jealous, you can can change! Raise your standards. You don’t have to give without ceasing to some man who is just a boyfriend. Even if you’re married, you’re entitled to have your own standards and boundaries. No matter what brought you here, you can still learn from being here. Who taught you that you didn’t deserve to have your needs met? That you should always be on the back bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:20 PM
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I love this :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:45 AM
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Oh, my favorite book. Gone girl is really a primer on male female relationships. There’s more truth in that book in the Bible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:07 AM
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Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:59 PM
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Scrotes want women to be high maintenance but self maintaining. They enjoy the well-cared for appearance of a gorgeous woman but they don’t want to pay for hair appointments, manicures and pedicures, a personal trainer, meal prep, designer clothes, makeup, etc. They want you to do all of that yourself and go 50-50 with them, all for their shrimp dicks. Not in this life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:24 PM
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This is exactly what I want. I would advise you to just stop telling people what you want. You need to put them on her information diet because nine times out of 10 when they hear you are single and have bank as a woman, they think you are a free ATM. Nope. Nobody needs to know anything about your house unless they are coming over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:18 PM
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I absolutely agree! I am not a yes woman. I’m not a Stepford wife. The original version of that movie from the 70s is so dead on, because given the choice men just want a sexy robot. They don’t give two fucks about our opinions or thoughts. Don’t knuckle under , don’t give up your mind. Women continue to shrink themselves and men don’t even appreciate it. When they get through enriching themselves with your essence, they will dump you, a shallow husk of the woman you used to be. Always choose yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:11 PM
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My parents say that too! They need help. I just ignore them. They just don’t understand. My parents have a lovely relationship but they got married nearly 40 years ago. With my dad tries to give me advice, it sounds like something out of a black and white movie. When I try to tell him how men are nowadays, it literally does not compute. For example, I complained about how men are so overtly sexual nowadays. My dad responded they shouldn’t even be bringing that up until after the engagement. What…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:58 PM
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This is so true. That’s why there’s been that project to have a national Registry of DV offenders that way the national agencies like the FBI, etc. can more easily track the potential for mass shootings. But I don’t think it’s ever going to happen. Admitting that DV is not some “in-house problem” and that it’s actually linked to terrorism means our government would actually have to take it seriously, and the men in charge definitely don’t wanna see that happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:41 PM
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Since most men don’t even ensure their partners orgasm 99.9% of the time, clearly sexual compatibility is nothing but a big scam. What men mean by “sexual compatibility “is are you willing to let him enact all sorts of porn scenarios on your prone body and never complain? They don’t mean what do you need to come or what kind of sensual touches do you like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:34 PM
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I don’t usually cancel women but she’s been dead to me ever since she defended R. Kelly and blamed his young girl victims. She can chok* on her so-called feminist anthem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:44 AM
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I’ve always distrusted the whole hierarchy of needs because sex is at the base of the pyramid with food and water. Only a man, specifically a low value scrote, would put that there. You can’t go without food, shelter, or water for an extended period of time. You can be celibate your whole life with no ill effects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:59 PM
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I remember when they banned this video from BET. The fucking hypocrisy. They play R. Kelly and Chris Brown on a fucking loop but God forbid a woman defends herself in an IMAGINARY situation. Shit like that that’s why I’m so over b.l.a.*k men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:44 PM
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Do you want to see Celine really get it? Watch before midnight! That is the best, most honest movie about relationships I’ve ever seen. It gets real in a way most movies never do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:37 PM
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I was actually in this situation once, I posted about it. Back in college, I found out that my boyfriend of six weeks had another gf of a few months. I invited her over, we can find him together, and he did the same thing this guy did. Only he told her that he didn’t want to be with her after he met me, that he was more attracted to me, etc. Even in my pick me haze, none of this appealed to me. I broke up with him that day and I was never tempted to go back to him. Why? Well, first of all he was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:34 PM
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I don’t see where having children alone benefits women. If you’re gonna be single, just enjoy your single life. Why weigh yourself down with a child you alone will have to care for? You can still experience major complications in birth – especially if you are a woman of color. You can still die. There’s no guarantee the baby will be born healthy, and that will be a major expense and difficult situation you will have to face solo. Unless you can afford around the clock nanny and the best of every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:27 PM
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This is what I came to say. He described her abuse and so much detail, I know that’s what he wanted her for. I would lay 10 to 1 that the “woman” he had the affair with, was under age when it started. That’s why he’s blaming mental illness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:22 PM
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Maybe you could get a big dog. I saw a gorgeous girl the other day in a crop top and daisy dukes. Men weren’t even looking at her because she was walking a mean looking Great Dane that was almost bigger than her. She looked so happy and carefree. That dog looked like it would swallow anyone whole who even approached her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:32 PM
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Brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:18 AM
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Yum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:54 PM
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...OK I’m about to eat. this is disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:21 AM
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He says. Personally, I don't listen to a word men say about their exes unless there is some kind of independent corroboration. I expect all our exes are out there saying we did this or that-leaving out all the context of them cheating on or abusing us first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:39 AM
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Outies are fucking disgusting on men. I dated one once, never again. Also: -At least a graduate degree. I'm working on my Ph.D. -Active reader. I read at least 2-3 books a week, more often a book a day. If you don't read, I won't like you. -Clean house. -Must have own place. I'm 32, if you're with roommates or mom and dad, it won't work. Plus, I have to make sure you can function alone, that you aren't trying to wife up a bangmaid under false pretenses. -Taller than me by at least five inches. -…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:19 PM
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Sounds like she wasn't "crazy" or "abusive", he was just pissed he lost her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:59 PM
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Please tell your neighbor if he ever speaks to your daughter again that you’re going to call the cops. Or better yet if you have any man in your life, a boyfriend, brother, father, have them come over and let your neighbor know in no uncertain terms if he ever looks at your child again they’re gonna assist him in shuffling off this mortal coil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:10 AM
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But there is a great lesson here. If you want to know your place in a man’s life, just ask him about the gifts he got the girlfriends before you or just look around at the gifts he’s getting women in his life now. I was inspired to break up with a scrote BF years ago when he was telling me a long story about this elaborate present he had gotten a girl who wasn’t even his girlfriend! He had done nice things for me, but nothing to that level. I realize instantly I wasn’t the “dream girl”. He looke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:06 AM
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Older men were always leering at me and saying slick things so I just weaponize their age. They ask a question and I have to answer because he’s my boss or something like that-I just add sir to the end of every sentence. Men invariably say, you don’t have to call me sir, that makes me feel old. I just respond to that my parents taught me to respect my elders and I would never speak to a man of his age without adding sir. You have to say age like that, italicized. It gets across the point that th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:00 AM
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The fact that he had the nerve to go on that show and act like he didn’t know why he was “ghosted.” To me it’s not even ghosting if the guy does something completely repugnant on the date and you just run for your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:17 AM
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And this woman is probably going to die, and her children may follow because her husband is an idiot. I imagine he’s going to “not notice” when they get sick either or when they need food and clothing and shelter if it interferes with his video game time. I feel bad for the mother, but at the same time this is why it is child abuse to have children with an incompetent scrote. She’s a grown woman. She made her bed and unfortunately is suffering a great deal. But if she leaves this earth and leave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:49 AM
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That’s why any time in history there was an area that had an insane population imbalance of men e.g. the Wild West, transcontinental railroad building camps, Alaska, they actually had to invest in bringing in women, even prostitutes, to civilize the men. With no women or almost none, they were like animals. Even the possibility of sex gets them much closer to acting human than they otherwise ever would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:14 PM
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Girl, I went on two dates with a scrote who said, “yea, idk if I want kids. I’ll decide someday.” He was turning 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:07 PM
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Yes to this tiny little waist, big arms and developed abs! I am sick of guys whose stomachs have lapped over their belt bands! I’m a real sucker for a tiny little waist and nice abs on a guy. It shows not only does he work out, he eats right, has stamina. Yummy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:32 PM
4

This reminds me of the Grey’s Anatomy episode where this guy went to the hospital because he was sexually experimenting and got “a bottle of his wife’s hair stuff” stuck up his ass. The doctor said it was shampoo so they take him into the OR to try to remove it. It turned out to be hairspray and the aerosol caught fire. He died, I believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:20 PM
18

The utter brilliance of this commentary has blown my hair back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:48 PM
108

I have always said this. When it comes to cheating, I take my cue from men. Men try to convince women that it’s noble to stay or that cheating only happens when there’s something missing from the relationship, but I’ve asked every man in my life who is somewhat obliged to tell the truth, e.g. relatives, and they say they would never stay with a cheater. They don’t care if they’ve been married 60 years and have 10 kids, if they find out there’s any cheating, they’re out the door and never looking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:20 PM
4

See: Bill Cosby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:49 AM
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Conservative men hate childfree women and lesbians because you can’t have a hierarchy of women if there’s no ‘default woman’. If all women don’t automatically rush to bear children and do all the labor for free with only love as a reward, you can’t possibly force them into competition for LVM. You can’t keep them and secure with the stick that another woman is doing it better than they are and the carrot that if they run faster and do all the work while paying half the bills that they will final…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:48 AM
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I’ve believed this for a while, that most men aren’t capable of true love. The question is, is what they DO offer in terms of money, companionship, sex, etc, enough to put up with them? The answer is no for 99.9999999% of them. That’s why they have the cloud our heads with Disney notions of love and all the rest of that Fuckery because if women made cool, detached choices for their own benefit men would almost never be picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:08 AM
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This hit so hard I’m reevaluating my entire sexual history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:06 AM
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What an amazing little guy! You’re very lucky to have found him. I hope the three of you have a very happy relationship for many years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:47 PM
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Abroad? You shouldn’t move across the street for a man. I don’t care if you’re married to the guy, move because you want to. If you don’t want to, don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:43 PM
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Bruh! And men have the unparalleled nerve to mock women for being MUAs as a hobby. At least that is interactive, creative, and it shows that you have taste and color sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:04 PM
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Because they get off on non-consent. That’s one thing men say about porn that’s really true-it IS a substitute for “sex” for them because the truth is “sex” for most men is about coercion and domination. But, they begin to feel it’s either staged or it’s not a good enough substitute because it’s not them personally r*ping the women. Stuff like this-invading women’s boundaries, violating their space right in front of everyone gets them off. If we were to look into this guys background, I shudder …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:06 AM
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I do sympathize to a degree. All women have been groomed to believe by society and the media that our only value is and how attractive or useful we are to men. Some woman never overcome that conditioning and subsequently, when they are shown desire by a man they feel validated. She’s literally a product of her environment. Very sad. Conditioning is powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:53 PM
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Nah. Guys have zero head for sensual details. If a man wrote it it would be like, “ he motorboated my DDD boobs boobily and then we did anal. Then my yoga-instructing roommate, who looks like a teenage girl, came in and we had a threesome. giggles”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:50 PM
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More proof that being the “dream girl” is BS. He’s so in love with someone else that he slept with a woman he cares nothing for. Ohhh. If this other woman exists, she must really be special to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:48 PM
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But it’s not all about who you can pull. I’m sorry to see that the men who have so influenced life on our planet for the past 30 years are so shortsighted. What is the good of having billions at your disposal if your children hate you? I don’t think any child can be insensible of a father who makes her mother miserable and embarrasses her in front of the world. The man is almost 70, when will he have had enough sex? Seems foolish to risk your domestic tranquility in old age over women you know y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:43 PM
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This is ridiculous! Bill Gates has been old as long as I’ve been alive. He is literally moving into the last phase of his life. He needs to sit down. I have no idea how divorce could benefit either of them at this late stage. ETA: I read further down and I see that he’s a cheater of the first magnitude. Melinda is probably sick of his shit and took a page from MacKenzie Scott’s book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:23 PM
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Yeah, if somebody stalks her TikTok and finds out, put the details up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:21 PM
11

Maybe it’s a type 3 thing. I have 4b hair and white men have actually been far less of a headache than b. lack men about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:16 AM
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This is so true. I was just trying to tone up, so I joined some weight loss subs last year and I quit all of them because all these men want to do is talk trash about overweight women! Just incels. I doubt those guys ever lost a pound, all they ever did was whine about women who were unattractive to them and when a woman did lose lots of weight like Adele, they talked smack about how did it because no man wanted her. Ick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:14 AM
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And having a child alone solves the wrong problem. Women should not be thinking, “how can I have a child” they should be asking “why should I have a child?” Now people may think that I am biased because I’m child free, and perhaps I am, but I just don’t see the advantage of having a child for any woman, particularly a single one. Like most things attached to womanhood in our society, women are being told to do something which benefit society and men more than anyone else. I think most women have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:00 AM
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I completely concur. Having a child without the benefit of marriage is literally the worst mistake a woman can ever make and the most ruinous to both her happiness and all future prospects. Yes, we all love the stories of women who level up and find an HV man who looks upon her children as his own, after dealing with the baby daddy scrote, but there’s a reason that’s the exception. And honestly in these evil days, I look at any man who is eager to play stepdaddy with extreme suspicion. Pedos are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:08 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. But as to your inheritance, you need to move quickly. You need to speak to the lawyer who is probating your mother’s will immediately. I don’t know whether or not your father is the executor of your mother’s estate, but whether or not he is, explain fully to the attorney what he did to cause the loss of your part of your money. If it is something actionable, the attorney might be able to get him removed as the executor or at least recommend you some other steps. If i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:54 PM
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MIND BLOWN! I literally never thought of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:47 PM
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Don’t communicate with men for extended periods through texts, DMs or OLD. It’s how they create false intimacy and break down your boundaries. I NEVER would’ve gotten involved with my first boyfriend if I had seen him again in person. We met in middle school, he was a dick to me and I promptly forgot him when I went to high school. But during senior year, MySpace became all the rage and he began writing me long messages. Started with familiar things, then he got personal (manipulated me by askin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:34 PM
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The joke is going to be on them when he is a housebound butterball at 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:15 PM
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And Pulp Fiction. I saw that with a group of men, and men were screaming for the movie to be turned off when that massive guy got r*ped violently. Funny, these same dudes fap to women being violated. Sucks to suck, dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:12 AM
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Which just goes to show you, it was never about men "needing" sex or submission. They were married. She did everything he asked sexually and became his submissive against her own desires. And he still manipulated her into a situation where she couldn't fight back, then brutally beat and rped her. Because in his own words, "that's what he needed to do to get off." These scrotes hate women. That's their fantasy, harming us. Not kinky sex. That kink BS is just an excuse and a cover for their real d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:16 AM
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But that's how I know this isn't a real inquiry. We say this stuff ALL THE TIME. Since he stalks our sub, and I hope he sees this post, he knows perfectly well what women require in a HVM. He just feels entitled to have women, even strangers, coddle him. No. Already blocked. But I wanted to post this to illustrate men's audacity is boundless. How do you come to one of the few places on the internet where women specify we DO NOT center men, and then DM asking to be spoon-fed? What is life, even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:02 AM
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It’s like Lasik for your spirit! Bro when I look at the guys from the last few years I was hung up on, I’m ashamed now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:35 AM
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I believe the saying “love does not conquer all” just let’s women know that there are a lot more important things in a relationship. Yeah, love is great but it’s not going to pay your bills, so if you find yourself in “love” with an uneducated broke guy who is not going anywhere in life, just know that your existence with him is going to be miserable. Love will not make that lifestyle bearable. Love basically will not change reality. But “love does not conquer all “has nothing to do with a man’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:43 AM
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Their legs, how about those arms! Mmm! You are preaching to the converted, that is what I call a real man 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:40 AM
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The level up is insane. I was already pretty. But now there’s a lightness to my being. Before I was always straining, try not to come across as too much or too little, too vapid or too smart, trying to be just right, and check all the little boxes so I could get picked. Got to wear enough make up to cover the blemishes, but so little that it’s the no make up make up look. Have to wear a dress, I have to be feminine, but it can’t be too short. Getting men out of my head and just doing me, actuall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:30 PM
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Men are sick. And you ignore them and they will invent a whole relationship in their head. Treat them well and they can’t get away from you fast enough. See: Fanny and Mr. Crawford.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:26 PM
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Mmm. Soccer players have thighs like chef’s kiss I need to see where the World Cup is this year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:11 PM
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Testify 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:10 PM
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Oh God I should’ve put that. One time I was messing around with a guy I had been dating a while but we’d never done anything before. Sexy nerd, 6’3. We were Netflixing and chilling and it started going down! Until I reached down and felt what I thought was a pencil eraser. That dude was a micro, my pinky is so much bigger. I told him I felt unwell and DIPPED. If a dude has a Vienna sausage, I’m out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:09 PM
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Short is the biggest dealbreaker for me. If you are under 5’9, you have no chance with me, EVER. Right after that, fat or ugly. Bad skin. I like em tall and fit, nice abs and tiny waists. Big package and nice thighs. Stamina. Oh weeee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:04 PM
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Red flags galore. This dude is honestly just a big red flag masquerading as a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:01 PM
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And honestly that’s why there’s no point in saving yourself for these dudes, because they are filthy! Yeah she was a virgin when they got together and he’s the only man she’s ever been with-just like these men claim to want and value. And he treats her worst than a whore off the street corner. At least he’d pay a prostitute for a threesome. He expects his wife, to whom he pledged his fidelity to do it for free! This woman has never even had another man and he happily expects her to sleep with an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:24 PM
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GOOD FOR HER! It took me a minute to even get into the story because I was afraid of the ending. So often we see lib fem patsies who bend and would give their husband a threesome and kiss girls and eat pussy when she’s not even bi. And this guy even said he didn’t care if it was a man or a woman, which is really sick, but a little enlightened because typically men want to box women into their fake lesbian scenarios without reciprocating. But we have become so desensitized to men asking for a thr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:36 PM
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You mean when he raped a child repeatedly and forced her to bear his children, who he then also enslaved?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:34 AM
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To be fair, I hated Walter and Skyler. I kept watching because I love Bryan Cranston. He’s really talented, he knows how to act that character you love to hate. I also wanted to see if Walt Jr. was going to learn how to drive. And if Hank was ever going to pull his head out of his ass and figure out what was the Heisenberg he was chasing. But Walt and Skyler were toxic AF and both super annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:32 AM
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I’m 32 myself, and I hope to have the six figure income bit and the house soon, like you 😊. What has worked for me is realizing it’s not a question of you being good enough for them. It’s a question of you being good enough for them to abuse. When things don’t work out with a guy, I just realize it’s typically because I was too smart, too competent, too awesome. Men literally shag sheep. They will do it with a Mcchicken. Trust me sis, their standards are not that high. He went out on a date with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:29 AM
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Because he wants it both ways. He wants a luxury lifestyle, but he is too embarrassed that he can no longer pull down the money needed for it. He must really be failing because he has fewer expenses than ever with the kids gone, but rather than being honest and downsizing, he wants to put on a big show and he doesn’t want to work harder to actually be the success he once was, so he wants to put his wife out on the block to work like a servant. And he leaves at the most important thing of all, I’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:06 AM
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This is SO true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:04 PM
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I have known toxic women like this. It’s actually rather sad. Most women like this were damaged in childhood. Their fathers walked out or never married the mother and so now they go after taken men to prove they can be chosen, since their dads never chose them. It’s a form of trying to take back power. It’s a heartbreaking phenomenon to witness up close. Sasha is just talking to be talking, because if she ever was in a relationship with a man she really loved, she would guard him with the feroci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:16 AM
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I am CF, too. Misery loves company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:13 AM
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EXACTLY. It’s just a bunch of irresponsible incels at this point, killed everything great about the group
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:05 AM
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I’ll take some of that too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:04 AM
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Yeah, there can be good stuff in there, but it’s mostly a lot of pick mes who compete to see who can be the biggest Cool Girl in service of scrotes and then a bunch of incels who hate happy families.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:03 AM
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I completely agree. Many of the men on the child free sub are just fucking incels. By child free they mean they just want to fuck anything with a shadow without a condom. And don’t even get me started on how they are forever posting about how some women “trapped” their scrote friend. In other words another idiot ejaculated inside a woman he barely knew with no condom and now wants sympathy, even though she’s the one suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:56 AM
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Make copies of all the evidence you have and send it to your local media outlets and his family. Once his abuse of you is no longer a secret, you have a lot less to fear from him. If the public eye is on him, he’s not going to want to continue to escalate this. And culturally, a lot of times a man’s family are the only people who can get him in check. There are cheap wireless cameras on Amazon for like $15. Put them up around your property in case he comes back. And you, your mom, and your grand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:21 AM
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I love how men wanna call us lesbians because we hang out when they do everything but suck each other off. Men are so in love with their friends, they will toss the family, even their own children, to the wolves to be up under them. Projection again. They would suck each other off if there was no social penalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:11 AM
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Watch this scrote die alone. He already hit the wall, clearly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:08 AM
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This is so true. I’ve been followed home several times- why? Because I made two seconds of eye contact with a guy – once a homeless guy who was across four lanes of traffic! Men are crazy and sick. But it’s true, if they even vaguely imagine a woman is paying them attention, they notice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:03 AM
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Wow. At first I thought I didn’t need this post because I’ve never really been a pick me for men. But the steps are going to be invaluable in separating some from my family. I love them, but they have issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:48 PM
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Can you change you name or profile picture? I don’t know how this discord works, but if you can pretend to be a old, unattractive white man, do it. If you can’t, I say set up an automatic message that says all of your inbox is forwarded to your boss, Mr. Smith. When men start thinking their little lame flirtation is being seen by another old man, they’re gonna stop bothering you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:50 PM
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Me, too! Let’s start the bidding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:46 PM
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I love this story ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:45 PM
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Society depends on women to do free labor. If you aren’t having children or making the world run by raising a grown man, they feel angry and cheated. And the government knows at some point they’re going to have to subsidize for the free labor all of those independent women are now not doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:20 PM
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Brilliant translation of his true meaning, but next time don’t give him any ammunition to use against another woman. Just block and delete. And if you want to be petty, you can always tell him he’s too trash at sex for an NSA relationship. You can also throw in that his d!ck is small, like abnormally small, he’s the smallest you’ve ever had, before you block him. Now that bit isn’t FDS advice, but I thought he deserved it for that message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:11 AM
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Bruh! And when I tell you I waste no time thinking about these ugly ass Incels. Who cares? I’m too busy with fine, fit suitors. But the truth is even though these men don’t think that we are actually ugly, they’re bitter and obsessed with all women, regardless of looks. Because the truth is they know women can live without men and are actually happier that way, whereas they just want a crumb or female attention, whether it comes from a supermodel or an old obese woman. They literally need us to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:57 AM
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I can tell from all the downvotes that you have hit a nerve. The truth normally does that. So true. Marrying for love is for suckers and poor people. If you don’t want to be either, you better vet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:26 PM
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I’m weak at that last one! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:59 PM
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The only thing I disagree with is the conclusion. Whether pedophiles are born or made nowadays, I do not believe you can recover from the disease. She’s right that it’s entirely mental, that’s why sterilization and chemical castration have very little effect on pedophiles. They continue to violate victims with objects, etc. Though it is a sexual predilection these men don’t need sexual contact with their own bodies to be fulfilled. That’s why they collect child p0rn, that’s why they can be satis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:34 PM
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I think in FDS terms it’s perfectly fine for women to date younger men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:31 PM
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Disagree. Women are pretty in their 20s but it’s got kind of an insubstantial air. That’s why when people talk about beauty icons the women are normally in their 30s or above. There’s a gravity, a gravitas, an oomph we just don’t get until later when we know our power. I’m personally much prettier at 32 than I was at 20. Yes, at 20 I had the glow of youth, but I wasn’t yet developed. Now I’m a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:28 PM
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I concur. I went back to OLD this week, mostly to laugh at the profiles. Once your mind is free of all that “older men are better/more mature” indoctrination, you notice all the hunks are in their 20s. I got some finnnnnnneeeeee matches. From now on I’m viewing men like they view us, just bodies that either I’m attracted to or not. If I’m not bowled over by his looks, I’m not going forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:23 PM
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His accusation didn’t even make sense. Because she’s was swimming and never showered, she would smell like chlorine, not sweat. What a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:16 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:10 PM
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No, I wrote the same in my comment above. I had an ex with two great cats who loved him to death. And he was a huge jackass and a narc. Sometimes the exception proves the rule. And honestly a lot of men are fantastic with animals simply because they are not human. Not that they see women as human anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:28 AM
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This is what I’ve always had a predilection for men who have cats. Men who have dogs can go either way because dogs are very needy and they take a lot more BS than cats ever will. But men who own cats typically know how to respect boundaries. I must add the caveat that does not mean they don’t suck in other ways because I had a BF who owned and spoiled two cats who still turned out to be a raging narc. But it’s a good baseline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:26 AM
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I straight up lie. Pick a field men commonly have fantasies about i.e. nurse or librarian. Say that’s what you do. I PROMISE you they will never ask you another real question about where you work. It’s all innuendo to feed their fantasies. I started saying I was a librarian years ago because it’s tangentially related to my real work. In all these years not one man has ever asked what library I work at, where I got my library science degree, what my favorite section is, nothing. They’re just sitt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:54 PM
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Exactly. If you’re doing anything except intentionally putting yourself first always, you’re a pick me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:40 PM
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Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:48 AM
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As a black woman, I HATE n****** who have anything to say about natural hair. Some of the men in my family had something to say when I went natural, too. I had to let them know that their hair was the same texture as mine or else they wouldn’t be trying to lay it down with wave caps and running to get it cut every time it grew an eighth of an inch so they can pretend it lays flat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:10 AM
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I can have penetrative sex, but I’ve chosen never to do so. I’m a virgin that way and honestly it has been the greatest blessing of my life. No pregnancy scares, no need for birth control, fewer STI worries, and the scrotes cancel themselves. 10/10 would recommend. Most women aren’t getting orgasms from penetration anyway but do get: pregnant, infections, pain, and abrasions. I’m good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:46 PM
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This is great advice, but the short version is to just know that pretty much every man on earth who says he was abused by his woman partner was the abusive one. Double points if his mom or other women relatives blame her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:28 PM
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Exactly! I am just enjoying life to the fullest now and literally nothing has changed except my mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:26 PM
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It’s hard for women to conceive of being in a relationship with men we don’t particularly care for because for us, relationships are work! 99.9% of the time women are doing more labor be it physical, emotional, sexual, or something else. Meanwhile men get nothing but benefits from relationships, so to them how they feel about the woman they’re with is secondary. All they care about is how much they are getting from her. That’s why they would rather cheat than leave. They want it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:37 PM
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That's the point of this post. It's not about craving or even seeking male validation. In pretty much every society, in every institution, women are considered lesser. Their ideas, complaints, thoughts, even their pain and deaths are seen as trifles. Even ordinary women of strong confidence go overboard when it comes to men because that's what we're taught is normal! It's normal all over the world to say and think women are less smart, less capable, weaker, more emotional, less rational. Hearing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:37 PM
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This is the most brilliant thing I’ve ever read. So perceptive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:34 AM
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Body and Soul by Anita Baker. Because I belong to me and no one else, body and soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:22 PM
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Back when I was active and other subs I would just tell the women if you want real advice, reversed the genders in your story. Men go crazy if women even look at another man but they want to give the boyfriends all the passes in the world. It’s impossible to get unbiased advice, so just switch the genders in your story if you wanna know what they really think. If some guy friend had the keys to your place and walked unannounced, they would be proselytizing for a sunset execution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:15 PM
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My dream 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:08 PM
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I love baths because I’m a water sign. And recently I’ve discovered audiobooks and bubble baths go together like me and money 💴! It’s so much more convenient and your hands are free for wine or toys or whatever. Next, I’m getting a bath tray to hold snacks and wineglass. I also love: My daily workout My skincare routine, which makes me feel pampered and expensive. Journaling. Reading inspirational books Meditation. Pinterest- which is like a vision board/soothing mechanism for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:51 PM
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I shave in the summer because I live in the most humid place on earth, literally 100% humidity and temps of above 100 from June-August. Right now it’s above 90. I’ve never shaved my legs but I do my pits and pubic area every couple weeks because if you step outside here, you’re drenched in sweat. It would be far too gross for me if I didn’t shave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:40 PM
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This was crazy triggering. I’m not this wealthy, but I have a nice spoiled middle-class life. I was looked upon as a friggin pariah by many of my fellow Black people and I now realize my first bf just wanted to ruin my self-esteem and life because he was jealous. He said everything this bf in this story said to the OP. He called me spoiled and said I needed to be more in touch with the “real world.” But he sure didn’t mind sponging off of all of my spoiled benefits. I never spent any money on hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:12 PM
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Wow, I learn so much from being on here! Even that idea that we should be innately turned on and ready to go comes from a patriarchal view of sexuality. Men are pretty much ready to screw an orange at a moment’s notice, but that has nothing to do with how normal sexuality works. Normal women are stimulated by what’s around them. If you feel no desire for a long periods of time, it’s because what’s around you, i.e. your partner, is not stimulating to you. All the women who supposedly have “low li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:06 PM
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Dating beta men was good for alpha women. There was also an article in praise of househusbands shudders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:00 AM
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I don’t know if that Peddit thing was intentional but it was glorious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:01 PM
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I feel the same annoyance with make up. How many make up items that are for your freaking face have some sort of sexual name-Better than Sex mascara? NARS Orgasm blush? Afterglow bronzer? That crap is annoying. Why do they have to link everything nonsexual to sex in the most vulgar way possible? And it’s just for things that are women focused like make up and heels. Women cannot even exist on the planet and have some fun that might not be about men without people sexualizing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:58 PM
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So true, and I love your name!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:23 PM
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I don’t even think she’s problematic. I think it’s crazy how dudes like Kanye get a pass but AB got canceled just for living. And if she was a man, she would be the most famous person on this planet. Love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:43 PM
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It’s so true! Anorexia is predicated on a desire for control in situations where you feel helpless. That’s what rejecting food is, taking control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:17 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:09 AM
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God, this makes me wonder. My maternal grandmother was extremely thin and elegant. Looked just like Dihann Carol in Dynasty, only prettier. Anyway, I never knew much about her personally as she died when I was two. Her best friend, my surrogate grandmother, was just telling me all about her. Apparently, they both had a weight problem in high school and my grandmother “overcame it” by bringing a single chicken wing for lunch every day. Everyone, including my mom, her daughter, always talk about h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:21 AM
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Now, I was raised Christian, so idk if this is applicable to the Muslim faith. But when we fast or have holy days, there's this big deal made of how you're supposed to rest from work, "remember the Sabbath and keep it holy," and all that. But it NEVER applied to "women's work". When we got home from church we still had to cook a huge meal while the men were off resting and then clean up. No Sabbath rest there, let me tell you. I hear for Muslimahs it is very much the same during Ramadan. You hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:52 AM
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Money talks and bullshit walks. The reason why porn has thrived for so long is because it’s a multi trillion dollar industry. When women started tying their protest against it to billion dollar lawsuits and holding these companies financially responsible for profiting from it, all of a sudden you begin to see some real change. Porn hub was about to go down in flames when it finally had to yank all those videos. The threat of financial ruin coupled with possible jail time for the child porn is a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:24 AM
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Or set yourself up opposite the scrote. Tell your mom you would love a painting for your birthday or whatever occasion is coming up soonest. Women will stand up for their kids where they wouldn't stand up for themselves. If he challenges her to stop painting your painting, she'll fight back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:10 AM
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Did I write this and just forget? You're me, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:02 PM
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The hardest part of the internalized misogyny for me is that is has nothing to do with pleasing men, romantically. It was about my parents viewing me as worthy. I was raised in a Southern Baptist-almost cult level experience. We went to church 5-6 of 7 days each week. And the Bible is just the big book of misogyny, so I was always told I couldn't do anything. I had to be hyper-modest, covering my arms and most of my legs at church. Only skirts and dresses at church. I could wear pants at school …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:39 PM
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Thank God you didn't fall into the indoctrination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:28 PM
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Mothers often love their daughters way more than they love themselves. Just ask your mom how she would react if you dated a guy who forced you to quit a hobby to service his needs. How would she feel if you were with a guy who treated you like her man does her in general? You won't have to say much more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:15 PM
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Exactly why I’ve never had PIV sex. I made a post about that once in the childfree sub Reddit and those people looked at me like I had three heads. Basically the gist of my post was that I think the PIV for women and having children are on the exact same plane. That is, theoretically they could be nice, but in reality they both involve a lot of labor for next to no reward on our part, so I refuse to participate in either. The number of women telling me I should just get a bilateral sap. or get m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:20 PM
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And I was in college I had a good friend who was an OG pick me. That was not surprising because her mom was a pick me and my friend was born under the most ridiculous circumstances. Her mom was proudly having an affair with a married man. All throughout her childhood her mom tried to weaponize my friend to continue this affair and have continual access to the married man, who was obviously trash for having an affair to begin with. Anyway, I give all that background to say my friend would go afte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:43 PM
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I’ve read so many of her books. I was obsessed with true crime in high school. But I never read that one because I don’t like knowing anything about Ted Bundy. I’ve never known anything about him beyond the basics everyone hears. Maybe because he had a vic from my mom’s college when she attended. Found her through the rideshare board. I would always pass that board and think of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:04 AM
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Dear God, is that how she got started writing those crime novels?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:23 AM
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Anybody got the TD;LR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:25 PM
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You can throw MLK up there, too. He cheated on his wife all the time and was a trash father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:45 AM
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Not sometimes, always for women. We get nothing from sex with men 99.99% of the time, so why risk pregnancy and disease for a lukewarm douche?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:16 AM
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Now men are going to want to fight for abortion to be legal to nine months, no restriction. Hit their pockets and we get our rights
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:31 PM
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You didn’t “do” anything. The fact you were willing and knew how to trade favors for alcohol as a child just means you were a victim of trauma and unprotected. The fucking grown pedos who took advantage are guilty, not you. I mean think about it. If a teenage boy came to you right now offering you favors for alcohol would you be even mildly enticed or would you try to get help? You weren’t the problem. If it wasn’t you, it would’ve been another minor because these men are ducking child abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:28 PM
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So true. The only human females who don’t have to perform femininity to be seen as attractive are children. You ever notice how mainstream male media idealizes preteen and teen girls as physically perfect naturally? You almost never see them dying their hair or shaving anything in movies and tv shows, etc which is actually completely out of step with reality. But men with their sick minds think that women only “have to” do all that because were adult and not as perfect as their child fantasy. Me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:06 AM
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Lol, I got one too! I feel like I finally made. Mine said would you rather the tall guy with the tiny dick or the short guy with the monster dick. I ignored but the answer is the tall HVM with the huge cock. Women never have to settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:53 PM
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If that’s even a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:29 PM
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Concur. My biggest has been a guy who is about 5’10. It must’ve been 9inches and his voice is higher than mine. Girthy, too. I thought about giving him my v-card but ultimately decided I could get hurt pretty badly. One day I’ll go back and hook up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:27 PM
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He acted like a big dick to compensate for his small dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:23 PM
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And it just hit me, though certain things are positioned as “dressing professionally” as a woman, they all have to do with performing femininity, and often not in the obvious sense, like wearing high heels. For example, I’m a black woman. I have natural hair and of course throughout my life, I’ve dealt with notions of natural hair as “unprofessional”. Last year, I dyed my hair honey blonde and I’m a darker woman. I’m going to be looking for job and for a minute I was worried because I know a lot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:33 PM
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But men are ViSUaL. Tell you what, player. Visualize how you’re going to be living in filth because you couldn’t contribute to the household
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:21 PM
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Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:36 PM
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There’s a nuance I think is often missing in this beauty conversation re:black women or other WOC. For me as a darker black woman it was completely empowering to embrace doing the work of beauty in a self-affirming way. Growing up I had my hair straightened and then later permed without my permission. Small butts and lips were in then. I was always being told by society I had to work toward some ideal that looked like the opposite of me to be beautiful. But getting into communities and spaces th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:27 PM
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Tall and lean is my type, with a swimmer’s, runner’s, or soccer player’s build. Flat stomachs are good but abs are better. I like guys with delicate features, beautiful eyes and gorgeous smiles, not hulking or rough looking. Love blue or green eyes. Ideal height is 6’2 but I wouldn’t sneeze at someone taller.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:46 PM
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BL men can go to hell. Looking at what’s happening with Derrik Jaxn and how people normalize accepting cheating as part of marriage in this cesspool we call our community. Nope. I’ve been out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:33 PM
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I don’t understand how women can twist their mouths to say anything about first and second wave feminism. As a black woman, I certainly recognize how much of it was problematic. But without feminism we wouldn’t have the ability to own property, have our own bank accounts and sign our own leases or mortgages, to have our own credit cards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:20 PM
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Yes I would love to see comments from the sons and daughters of Johns. I’ve heard of a lot more men being traumatized because their fathers cheated on their mothers all the time with prostitutes or abandoned them to spend all their time whoring around, than I’ve heard of men being traumatized by their mothers being pros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:15 PM
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Yes, in trash ass Greek mythology beautiful women were often punished for existing or being victimized. Look at the women that Zeus raped by appearing as rain or a swan (Leda) or some other paranormal apparition. What broke my heart as a girl was often times Hera would find out and curse the girl instead of Zeus. Like Echo. Echo was a chatty, engaging girl and when Hera was looking for Zeus, Zeus would use Echo to distract her so he could cheat in peace. It’s not like Echo had a choice. Zeus was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:35 AM
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Because stories like that feed into the narrative of what men want to believe – that women exist to serve them. That this sex work isn’t about money or anything else that it’s all about male approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:31 PM
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There should be separate classrooms. Girls suffer from being in classes with boys. Studies show that get talked over and taken less seriously and of course there are the obvious assault issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:51 AM
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Not even. That was like when everybody puts a draw two down and it gets to you and you put down a draw four. A burn for the ages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:48 AM
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I screamed “owwwwwwwwwwww,” when I read that. I’m a woman and tall, but just the proximity to that burn was too much to handle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:48 AM
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...I don’t want to be that person but two years without a proposal is a red flag, depending on your age. If you are in college or college adjacent, rock on. If you and the guy are in your late 20s or beyond, watch yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:00 PM
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...Is this what the movie changeling is based on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:38 PM
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This is so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:29 AM
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But it just goes to show you, are the limits we set doing us any good? I agree, it is possible this guy has never touched or even approached one of these girls or any underage girl. But that's just because of the law. If there was no age of consent or stigma, mark my words, he'd be hitting on all these children. And the fact we have laws, so he's forced to pretend to be a decent human being didn't do his wife any good. At the end of the day, he still doesn't give a damn about his wife, he still …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:24 AM
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EXACTLY! This is a very famous man who could get paid to freelance and cover the WNBA, etc. if he was sooooooo interested in women’s basketball. He’s not. He’s interested in children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:07 PM
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As an Austen-phile, I must say this is the most glorious thing I've ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:59 AM
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This was my life. I thank my mom every day now for her overprotectiveness because men are looking for any little opening to attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:09 AM
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Not the links to the post, the links to the resources the commenter gave. And they seem like they’re links to other websites about emotional abuse, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:23 PM
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Since we can’t know where this was posted, can somebody link the resources that these women put in their comments. They could be super useful to us here at FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:19 PM
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I’ve always thought it was so stupid to lock these items up. If people need to steal them, let them! All of society benefits if more unwanted children people don’t have the means to care for don’t come into the world. Although I guess it means Walmart would have fewer customers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:37 PM
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SAME. It’s like lemmings to the sea. I don’t understand why women have children with men, it looks like a never ending nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:32 PM
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I’m black, too, and I was raised heavily in the church. You are 100% right. It’s one of the reasons why I eschew religion to this day. The church attract nothing but a bunch of damn narcissists and victims for them to feed on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:11 AM
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But that means women and children will suffer more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:29 PM
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But don't announce it! Put the tablets on Do Not Disturb and that'll solve the issue silently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:40 AM
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I've had good experiences with going out on dates and contriving a reason to sit on their laps or scoot past them in a very crowded space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:37 AM
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6 inches? I've only dated like two guys who weren't over 7. Sad for the micro-dicks out there. That's probably why they act like dicks all the time, to make up for their shortcomings. lol And men of size have been (in my experience), gentle, humble, not pushy, and attentive, generous lovers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:52 AM
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This is my fear as a woman who wants to adopt girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:38 AM
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When I was in college, my friend dragged me to one of those things. It was ladies night in every bar all over our College town. Sorority girls would “run the gauntlet”, going from place to place getting drunker and drunker. It was just a city full of potential victims, every Wednesday. So anyway, we go one time. I had two long island ice teas and a tequila sunrise. They made those drinks so strong, I literally fell down in the street and didn’t feel it. Ladies’ night is a scam. Thank God for goo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:10 AM
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So fucking true. I read Memoirs of a Geisha when I was in high school and I could just feel the white man emanating from it, if you know what I mean. I always felt something was off about that book, so I just looked it up and found out the information above. It’s absolutely heart rending when you read Geisha: A Life. Essentially she just spoke to this guy, Golden, at a party, then he plotted and stole her life story. White men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:54 AM
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But that's the thing. He didn't want a child, he wanted her, that's why the whole post is about how she was so hot and he wanted more and he's pissed she got a tummy tuck and lasering for her stretch marks and is still hot. She was out of his league and he thought he was going to baby trap her. Not today, scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:31 AM
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Actually, the worse part is Arthur Golden appropriated the story of a real geisha, Mineko Iwasaki, to write this book. He told her lies about what he was doing, stole her life story, didn't credit her, and sensationalized and lied about many details. She was suicidal when this book came out. But thank God she recovered and wrote her own story, the far superior Geisha: A Life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:13 AM
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Fan-freaking-tastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:59 AM
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Exactly! It's the thought, real thought, not that BS "thought" LVM use to excuse doing the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:26 PM
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It’s a very LV argument that gifts are low effort. Actually, good gifts are very high effort! The person has to listen to you well enough to know your hobbies, interests and tastes. Then they have to form an idea of what you’d like, go pick it out and then buy it-all in advance of your special event! It’s the most caring gesture someone can make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:00 PM
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Love this 🥰 So cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:05 PM
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Exactly. We don't date youth suckers over here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:26 PM
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Scandal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:19 AM
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I'm starting to believe no relationship can be trusted. I greatly admired some distant relatives of mine who had been married over 50 years, so happy, never a cross word. Recently, they both passed and I read their funeral programs. His said, "the Lord told him she was his wife in 19___". She was 15, going on 16. Still in high school and dropped out to marry him. He was 25. Men are trash. There is no justification for this kind of thing ever, but to me what made this worse than worse was that th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:12 AM
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Yes, to all of this. I was just last night explaining to my mother how stupid I thought a friend of the family was for just having a baby by some do nothing scrote. She was almost done with college, first and only in her family to go. Her older sisters have babies, but she swore she wanted better. Men will always show up to sidetrack you when you get close to the finish line. DO NOT listen to any bullshit morality tales or how later it'll be hard for you to conceive. First off, that's a lie. Mos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:41 AM
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That's the woman's job obviously /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:42 PM
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winnowing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:38 PM
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I recommend reading "You Can Heal Your Life." There's an index of diseases and the affirmations you can use to heal them. It's really great identify the root causes of something to get rid of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:43 PM
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And that man is a whole lie, because no one told him he looked good ever. For any reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:33 PM
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His lack of self-awareness was astounding! I'm like at 50, your ass is well past the expiration date as a man. But men are delusional. He says at one point, "I think I may want kids someday." WTF are you talking about, old man?! You THINK?! Someday?! Your time is OVER! If you aren't physically incapable of having children, your sperm is defective. But they live in an alternate reality where biology and time don't apply to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:19 PM
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People are always talking about cancer being environmental. It's environmental all right. Your husband created a toxic environment, which caused you to get sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:14 PM
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It's like an alternate reality. He's 50, balding, broke, unattractive, short, has health issues, and still thinks he's entitled to a young, nubile girl. I learned a lot, no sarcasm. I feel like I took a field trip to the inner workings of LVM. Worth it to learn some pretty unique warning signs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:12 PM
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I saw that! And I said to myself, she really missed out. Oh no, she has to do without a man who probably won't buy her Starbucks, but will want head in the parking lot. How will she live!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:53 PM
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Love your handle :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:03 PM
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Oh great! That was so insightful. I wanted to refer to you by name, but I didn't know your handle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:00 PM
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As long as you give credit to me for the origin of the idea ;) I'm so excited to read the finished product!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:59 PM
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They're assets he made during the marriage and they are taxable and real. Should be fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:58 PM
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I adore flowers. I really should start buying them weekly. Thanks for the suggestion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:14 PM
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But that's the beauty of legal marriage. She can leave him and have rights to this money. If she was just living with this LVM scrote, all she would've gotten was a lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:13 PM
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This is SO true. I read a book, Koen's Through a Glass Darkly, where two gay men in the 1700s had socially acceptable sex by going to French orgies and having threesomes with a woman. They were just having sex with a woman between them. And I have to say, every time I read a description of some swapping or sharing BS, it reads just like that book. Like if you read Sex and the City by Candace Bushnell, there are interviews about guys who have threesomes and multiple guys said it was a way to get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:47 PM
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This is why the most racist or homophobic states have the highest searches for racial fetish porn or gay porn, etc. Men metabolize every experience in life through their dicks. And you can bet if a guy is scared of something/disgusted by something, he's going to watch porn about it. It's sick. The minute 9/11 and the subsequent wars happened, a new porn category was invented, featuring women having their burkas or niquabs torn off and being assaulted (staged). Men "face their fears" with porn. R…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:37 PM
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One FDS woman summed it up perfectly. This obsession with swapping, etc. comes from pornsickness. These men have become so warped by porn they lose touch with reality. This is literally just like live porn to them, interactive porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:28 PM
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Both this man's wives got cancer? I'm into Louise Hay and I believe illness is often something else physically manifested. I totally believe this guy was constantly talking about "the one who got away" and triangulating his wives with the ex until they felt unworthy and it manifested like that. You know how when you're with a toxic scrote you just feel bad all the time. Your stomach hurts, you get headaches, you feel depressed, can't sleep, overeat, etc. And it get worse the longer you stay. I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:24 PM
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Oh my God, you summarized this so much better than I ever could! Please take this award.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:45 PM
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Thank you so much for posting! This guy is like a bingo of every negative possible trait in a scrote. He’s narcissistic and controlling, he seems like he belittled his wife and emotionally abused her and that’s why she left him. He’s using this new librarian chick as a placeholder and he’s clearly still obsessed with his ex as he talks about her 1 million times and the librarian like twice. The librarian is filling a need. And he doesn’t feel like she’s a catch because even though he claims his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:39 PM
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"I didn't know there were consequences for my actions! I knew you hated this, but I didn't care a lick about your feelings. But now that you might leave me and take your free labor and sex, I'm willing to change."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:41 AM
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First off, great name. I looooove Austen. Second, YES! This communication BS presumes men are slow children who need to be taught how to function as adults. This is why I'm all about the block and delete, but if you're stuck for a while, e.g. married, have fun with it. Don't communicate, model behavior. Whatever he does, do it back. He stares at women, stare at men. Bonus points if they have traits he's insecure about, like height and great bodies. He has woman friends who are too close? Cultiva…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:40 AM
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Precisely. I'm 30-ish, teach school, and I barely know what Snapchat is. I've never been on it, never downloaded it. If some 40+ dude is on there, it's to perv on children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:29 AM
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I saved it quick! Wisdom I needed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:20 AM
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Bruh! Men always have an excuse prepared as to why everything is your fault. They will gaslight you until you lose your mind, if given the chance. I find it easiest to just go dead silent on them now. They violate a boundary, I cut them out like they never existed. No conversation. No slow fade. They violate, I block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:15 AM
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Don't bother to confront, he'll make excuses and draw you in. Actions speak loudest. He's already told you what you need to know. Leave him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:21 AM
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God, men are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:14 AM
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There are studies that say men think women talk too much when men and women talk the exact same amount and they think men and women talk the same amount when women only speak 25% of the time and men speak 75%. Men think listening to us at all is a huge inconvenience. https://pure.mpg.de/rest/items/item_68785_7/component/file_506904/content
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:13 AM
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This might be radical, but have you thought of giving him custody for a week or two? A weekend is a weekend, easy to get through, plus I'm sure your ex has his mommy and whatever other women on call to do the heavy lifting. But weeks at a time, when those ladies are at work and your son needs help with school or needs breakfast, lunch, and dinner, clothes, baths, etc. EVERY DAY will have him singing a different tune. Every woman I know who has tried this got full custody with no argument afterwa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:48 PM
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Socially distanced, consensual hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:07 PM
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Hell YEA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:51 PM
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Actually, I disagree. A.) Keanu has been in a lot of questionable movies. And B.) I think the movie has some great FDS principles. Keanu's wife was right about Al Pacino/the Devil the whole time, but Keanu couldn't see it because he was too busy trying to get his dick wet with some girl who turned out to be his sister. But just like all men who play Devil's Advocate, Keanu didn't believe the Devil would screw him over and that's why he ended up getting what he deserved. And now that I think of i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:48 PM
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I saw the best comment on that once: Scrote:"If I may play Devil's Advocate for a moment-" You: "Yes, right after you go to hell."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:42 PM
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DO NOT FEEL BAD. Sometimes, it feels like the whole world is in collusion to gaslight women. The only reason I entertained this idiot's calling me was because I was still emotionally sore from a breakup. I started dating a longtime friend in Jan. Feb. 14th, he brought me chocolates and we went out but there were red flags galore that day and then he didn't communicate a word to me for over a week. I dumped him mentally and moved on. Two weeks to the day from Feb. 14 was my bday and he cropped up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:50 PM
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This is exactly why I'm not dating right now. Even when men foot the bill financially, the time cost is too high. You have to get dressed, that takes at least an hour, travel round trip to wherever the date is, that's an hour, then go on the date, that's anywhere from 2-6 hours. So that's possibly eight hours spent on some guy. Question: when have you last had eight free hours? To catch up on your sleep, to read, to binge Netflix, to just be without work, school, family/friend obligations? I bet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:41 PM
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More like, "I expect you to pay for the privilege of my small, std-ridden dick"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:32 PM
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Blocked and deleted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:12 PM
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I’ve never thought about it, but that’s probably why my dad doesn’t have many male friends and struggles to relate to the ones he does have. My parents have been married for nearly 40 years. He’s never looked away, treats my mom like a queen, and he thinks men who want to run the streets and avoid settling down are immature bitches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:23 AM
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If you go this route, just be sure to wipe your fingerprints off it first, or roll the assailant’s fingerprints onto the bottle, so it doesn’t contradict your story. If yours was the only fingerprints on there, that won’t look good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:15 AM
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That laws a joke. There’s nothing to be afraid of. Suppose a woman does use pepper spray on her assailant? Well, that means she probably got away. So there’s no need to worry about consequences. And who is going to make a complaint against her? The guy who tried to assault her? This is a truly victimless crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:13 AM
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As a black woman, yes, my inbox can attest to the fact white Men think mentioning BLM is some sort of free sex pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:45 PM
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You’re right. A young man who was really high priority enough to be vaccinated wouldn’t be endangering his high risk self/family by going around a bunch of random strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:43 PM
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Are used to think he was progressive when I was a teenager because he said that women’s response to men who demand anal should be “bend over, boyfriend.” And I still think that’s brilliant. But I realize later everything he encourages he stands to benefit from. If straight men like getting pegged, he’s benefiting. He’s just as rapey as a straight guy. Once a woman wrote in that she had done the bend over boyfriend thing when her boyfriend demanded anal and now he liked getting pegged and now req…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:14 AM
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This is very good advice. But the best possible thing in FDS world is to not have children by men you aren’t married to. It’s a trap. This is exactly how abusers keep access to their victims for the rest of their lives. If you have a child by a man who turned out to be abusive he has legal access to your address for the next 18 years. He has the right to know if you move and can contest your ability to do so in court. Babies are pawns to men. And they know that children are going to keep you at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:07 PM
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Don’t settle. You CAN have it all. My dad buys my mom flowers and chocolates all the time, cooks dinner at least twice a week (they eat out the rest of time), is constantly doing things around the house from domestic chores to handiwork.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:45 PM
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Yes, please God!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:23 PM
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It’s a standard men themselves came up with, and who gives a crap about body shaming men when they body shame us for existing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:26 PM
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Absolutely. It also shows why they’re so threatened by their daughters. A woman can wield power through her sons, but she is succeeded by her daughters. Your daughter can surpass you in stature by marrying better than you. And she can supplant you in society by being more attractive than you. Hence women wanting to make their daughters a good enough marriage, but not one great enough to eclipse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:23 PM
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This stuff can really sneak up on you. As a kid, I thought my mom was fantastic because she gave the same rules for me and my brother. Same chores, same structure- inside the house. But what has really pissed me off since I’ve been grown is how hard she would gaslight me. Like she would give us the same boundaries-“no dating!”-and then only enforce it for ME. And if I said anything, she’d be like, “that’s in your mind, I don’t play favorites.” My mom would literally rifle through my stuff to mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:20 PM
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I concur. But it’s no accident of nature that women like this have sons and then go full MRA. These women were pick mes to begin with. They were willing to go above and beyond for men who didn’t even acknowledge their existence. The son is the holy Grail. The man who will always give them unconditional love and never leave them. Hence the complete lack of boundaries and putting him on a pedestal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:46 PM
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I watched ANTM for a season or two when it premiered. But what turned me off of that Tyra was such a horrible boundary stomper. I noticed that she always made the black girls with long natural hair cut their hair in the makeover session. It didn’t matter if someone had a special personal attachment to their hair or religious convictions about their hair, Tyra was always forcing them to do something that they were visibly uncomfortable with. And nobody can convince me that wasn’t about jealousy, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:13 PM
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I would love to see the comments on this video. I bet it’s a bunch of tone policing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:28 PM
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I wish women would just be honest instead of trying to get cool points from men. Or maybe it’s them selves they need to be honest with. I think the women who do seek out casual sex aren’t even aware of why they’re doing it. When I was in my late 20s, I was working with some girls in their late teens/early 20s. This was a college campus. When we would eat lunch, these girls were always talking about hook ups and how great it was to be sexually free. But simultaneously they’d complain that they’d …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:04 PM
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It’s porn, child. His brain has been rotted by it and truthfully he probably watches a lot of stuff with underage girls. Working in a school, he has to justify it to himself. “These girls look just like grown women, who can tell the difference.” And he believes his own hype so much that he had to pretend that you, an adult human woman, look anything like a teenage girl. Even if you had the most baby babyface in the world, what teacher dresses like a high school girl at work? Your accessories, yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:58 AM
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They are looking for a woman to go 50-50 on dates, do all the emotional labor of an actual relationship, have raw sex, and treat the man like he is their boyfriend with no commitment and no exclusivity. Men are sociopaths. They claim to hate relationships, but are always trying to create a relationship like situation where they can get all the benefits with none of the work on their side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:29 AM
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This article made me cry. When you put it in the context of her life, it’s heartbreaking. So many men took advantage of her, used her and objectified her and then ultimately drove her to her death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:39 AM
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I say model behavior. Don’t explain shit. Men don’t care about your feelings and will dismiss them. So if your husband starts with the nonsense, do it back! Hire a fine male stripper or maybe a group of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:13 AM
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One guy tried that and it went viral!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:11 AM
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WTF? How can they leave the producers and distributors of porn-99% male-out of this question? It’s not like they give a damn about boys, they just wanna blame women for something else. It is the majority of men on this planet consuming the sick material who drove the market for it. But I don’t see men being held accountable anywhere in this question. Not the fathers, who either countenance their son is looking at porn or don’t watch their children or who model pornsickness to their sons. Not the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:08 AM
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I definitely have never sent a nude or a lewd in my life, so I thought I was safe and truthfully kind of judged women for revenge porn. But then I saw an article on a spate of “revenge porn” that was photoshopped ( like men pasting their exes heads onto other nude bodies), stolen (men doing upskirt videos, planting cameras in hotel rooms, or otherwise stalking women.) The fact that these women didn’t pose for these photos or the photos were fake did not stop them from ruining their lives.I even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:16 PM
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And the goalpost is always moving! I have friends and relatives who have multiple children and people STILL find a way to make that a negative! You have four kids? Oh, the youngest is a boy, better have another so the youngest is a girl, the youngest can’t be a boy! Oh, you have five kids? Better have another so you have an even amount of boys and girls. And yes, these are real comments. People want women to be baby factories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:57 PM
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This is the kind of guy who won’t even buy his wife a Valentine’s Day rose. This is why marriage isn’t the prize. She’s married to him but clearly she is not the focus of his attention. He has spent more time and money building his fantasy shrine to a cartoon character then I bet he spent on his wife’s engagement ring or all the gifts he’s gotten her ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:12 AM
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So in order to understand what’s happening here you really have to understand the social dynamics. She met this guy when he was in college playing ball on scholarship, he clearly thought he was going to the NFL and so did she. So I think one of the major motivations for her to put with all his nonsense was she thought he was going to be a multimillionaire. And the reason he was doing all that cheating is because he thought he was going to the NFL and either she would take it or he’d have greater…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:22 AM
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Oh my God. Mark my words, this man is going to be a pedophile or furry who turns family annihilator when he gets caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:26 AM
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This is complicated. For black women like myself who often get shut out of mainstream conversations on femininity, and are stereotyped as masculine in way that has real-life devastating consequences in education and the workforce, shutting us out of opportunities, the elegant life can be very empowering. These conversations need more nuance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:17 AM
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Idk. I used to feel men of Reddit represented the extremes, the worst of the worst, but if you watch TV, a lot of the terms that originated here have leaked into mainstream discourse. Chad and Stacey are everyday terms, so are a lot of once niche porn categories. I still think reddit men are the worst, but they’re like the canary in the coal mine. They show us where regular men are heading, they’re just basically ahead of the curve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:36 AM
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Zora Neale Hurston.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:55 PM
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So fucking true. The phenomenon reminds me of that Meghan thee Stallion song, “B-I-T-C-H”. It goes, “I’d rather be a b-i-t-c-h, cuz that’s what you’re going to call me when I’m tripping anyway.” You might as well ask for respect and have boundaries up front, because in the end people are still going to call you a bitch when you ask them to meet any kind of standard. No matter how much you give as a woman it is never enough. You might as well put yourself first. People make the standard, great, i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:53 PM
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YESSSSS. I am sick of people acting like I’m the problem when I point out men who are with women who are young enough to be their children. I used to tutor for a woman and she had two kids and a third little boy always showed up. I just assumed he was her nephew or something. Come to find out this was her 70 year old father’s love child! He took advantage of some girl younger than his daughter and had a son who is younger than his daughter’s children. Pedophile. And he was a big shot in the comm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:48 PM
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Whenever I see those girls who sugar for a living, yet have these pathetic boyfriends leeching off of them, I’m like you just have the whole spectrum of male depravity. One man is using you for your youth and the other man is using you for the money the first man gives you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:42 PM
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This is actually really funny. This guy is clearly a lunatic.It doesn’t even cross his mind that women are human. I hope he gets his real doll soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:03 PM
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Oh I saw that here on FDS. Some much cleverer lady came up with that 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:26 AM
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Mine, too! Congratulations scrotes, you played yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:59 AM
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First off, his ex-wife has done everything right! Yes, sis, divorce these obese Jabba the Husbands! Second, his current wife is a damn fool. That’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:53 AM
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And the thing I hate the most about that movie is Hallie went through all that drama and all he gave her was “we are in a committed relationship.” No proposal, no title. And the man that she got wasn’t the man she met. She met a rich executive on his way to the top. She got a broke part time teacher. He only wanted Halle after he was down in the gutter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:43 AM
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That’s how the Serena Joys operate. They are the ultimate pick Mes. They volunteer to subjugate other women with this traditional lifestyle BS, because they don’t wanna be at home either. They know it sucks. But they want male approval, so they make speeches about how women should have to stay at home, it gets them out of the house and they subjugate other women so they can get chose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:20 AM
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Yes, you’ll notice they never want a sexually conservative girlfriend. They always want some poor confused libfem with low self-esteem who does backflips on the dick. But outside the bedroom, she can’t speak above a whisper and she keeps her eyes down. For all the trash that western men talk about more oppressive patriarchies in Asia and the Middle East, they want the same exact kind of woman. Someone confident in bed and takes charge sexually,who is a complete submissive wallflower in life. Tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:07 AM
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I believe black women made up the term, I first heard it a long while ago in black women spaces. And red pillers need to shut the fuck up. They don’t care about racism, they’re always promoting racism and biological determinism in a pitiful effort to get their dicks wet. But they’ll say anything to try to bring this group down. Ignore them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:56 PM
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Dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:32 PM
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Anything that makes them sad is wonderful. I always hated that over sexualized mess as a kid. It’s a cartoon for children. I was a little girl when space jam came out and all those grown men characters hitting on a teenage rabbit made me uncomfortable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:28 PM
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So fucking true. They want to make you into their living fantasy sex doll. Screw that. Don’t go along to get along. Stop letting him pick everything. Express your taste. A true HVM will fall all over himself making sure he plans things that you will enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:49 PM
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Oh yeah, you can tell from their DTF ads that they are just trash now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:40 PM
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OKC was great a few years ago. But once they changed the settings so that you both had to like each other in order for messages to be exchanged, the whole app became so guy centered. The men at the top were bitter because women got all of these messages without having to match with guys or do any work. And they were bitter that men had to step up and act to get dates. It’s no coincidence, since they changed formats, all I’ve met on there is trash. And women have to do so much more work now, you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:38 PM
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I hope he drops the soap daily in prison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:25 PM
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What’s great is realizing that these men lose either way. All they care about is sex and looks and they get caught up in this eternal matrix of nothing ever being enough for them once porn rots their stupid brains. This guy is on the eternal hamster wheel, much like Tantalus. He got with the girls for just their looks, that didn’t work. Now he found someone whose personality who he likes (translation: someone who he wants to use to make himself feel good), and now she’s not pretty enough for him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:24 PM
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Brilliant. If women “unionized” and refused to be strong armed into giving free emotional and domestic labor, men would have to perform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:10 PM
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It just shocks me that this male teacher didn’t see or care about the potential for abuse in this assignment. Incels everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:52 PM
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Bussy pill? Does that mean they’re going to sleep with men now? Please say yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:13 PM
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😧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:57 PM
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That was the worst part!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:56 PM
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Ick don’t remind me! The men are just objectifying women and the women there eat it up, because hardy har, they’re not having kids. You may not go through childbirth and get stretch marks, but you will age. You might get sick. Do you really want to be with a man who only values you because you were a Pick Me porn star for him? And I just want to say the number of women on that sub who say they aren’t having children because they don’t wanna share their husband or boyfriend is truly disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:52 PM
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She’s crazy to propose to a man, but at the same time why do dudes keep on with this “I was just about to propose to you” lie? It seems like every video where women propose, the guy says that. Buddy, you haven’t proposed in six years, you mean to tell me this is the exact moment but she preempted you by a few seconds? It was never the right time before in six years, but this was the magic moment and she spoiled it for you? Yeah right. I think men just say that because they know they were looking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:45 AM
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Or they stick around and m***** them. There's a reason bl.ack m,en fetishize having mixed daughters. These women are crazy to carry children for these degenerates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:28 AM
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Rejection is such protection! Not nan one of these non-black women who married a ni*** got a prize. Good. Go, take them please. Another black woman is free. The world is realizing the issue was never us. These men are degenerate trash no matter who they pick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:25 AM
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You're just intentionally misunderstanding at this point. You have to give to even be in the running to get. But I never said because you give, you're going to get. It's like a job interview. You have to apply to even have a shot, but it doesn't follow that because you applied, you got the job. You're trying out for a CHANCE at the job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:06 AM
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Sigh, of course not. But the point is on OLD or a car site, you have to give something to get something. If I want a new luxury car at a bargain basement price, I'm going to be falling for a lot of scams trying to get it. Men who want a perfect woman while they just have a pocketful of lint and a degree from Youtube University are inevitably going to keep falling for bots and catfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:28 AM
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Pick Mes are irrational AF. I once saw a girl get mad at her friend for pointing out her BF was on Tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:22 AM
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He's obviously trying to make her leave him. It's sad, he thinks she has more self-respect than she does. He's going to leave and marry another girl in six months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:19 AM
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Lol men think life is like Pretty Woman and they're Richard Gere. But instead of spoiling the girl of their fantasies with shopping trips on Rodeo and a lavish life, they think they can subscribe to OF for a few bucks and then seduce her with "love" and their ED-suffering dicks. They think then she'll leave her life of sin and come be their private, free sex slave, because love. Then when the pretty girl in question whose videos they pay to wank to doesn't see them as Prince Charming, they screa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:11 AM
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catches Holy Ghost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:03 AM
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This is why being a Pick Me never pays. Did you see how excited he was when she said he was having a boy vs. his lack of any joy surrounding her and their girls. The very fact she knew she had to lie about having a boy to get his attention says it all. I went to their video history and he's just making a fool of her daily. Their most popular video (over 500,000 views) is "My Girlfriend Said Yes to Everything I said for 24 hours (She kissed another woman!)" He uploaded a video of her making out w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:52 AM
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"We've been together for six years and right from the start, we both knew this was it, that we were going to get married." Apparently not, because a.) it's been six years and he hasn't proposed to you and b.) you don't trust him to do it, that's why you basically Shanghai'd him. A mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:28 AM
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And if you ever get caught up with a guy who seems nice and then turns into this crazed, aggressive rape monster, remember to tell him you left your BC in the car/ or your purse and "step out to take it." Then run like fucking hell to safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:12 AM
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This is what terrifies me. I had a male relative who was always good to me. Seemed like a super guy. His wife had two bouts of breast cancer, double mas., whole works. One day, I went to visit them. I found her home alone, looking drained. She had just been to chemo. I asked where was the husband? She said HE NEVER TOOK HER TO CHEMO. Flat out refused to do it. She had to rely on friends to do it. Here's the kicker. He died without warning like a year later and she found out he had given thousand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:36 AM
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It's true. We talk about Mean Girls, but my God, your worst female enemy probably wouldn't leave you to rot if you had a terminal illness. Men can do this with no guilt to women they claim to love. Women they slept beside for decades. They're sociopaths, collectively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:29 AM
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And then are Surprised Pikachu when they die alone in a nursing home after a lifetime of test driving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:17 AM
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Thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:15 AM
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I actually found old notes I kept two years ago about OLD, from books and articles I'd read. I can't believe I did all that work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:02 AM
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Bruh YES. I was heavy into weight loss subs and the childfree sub before this, but now I see they're both toxic AF. The weight loss subs inevitably turn into men (who are also fat, btw) complaining about how all women aren't size twos and those are the only ones entitled to live, but now too many fat chicks want a Chad and wHaT aBoUt mUH Pee-pee. Pathetic scrotes. And the CF threads can be good but they have two major issues. They let incels run fucking wild. That shit is annoying. Men are alway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:58 AM
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That's so fucking ridiculous. Even the man who WROTE THE BOOK, said the whole point of the book is for you to become "bilingual". You'll always express love in your own language more naturally, but you should be making a consistent effort to express love to your partner in THEIR LANGUAGE. Fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:38 AM
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I just say the truth, regardless. Sometimes I do get downvoted to oblivion and other times people surprise you. That thread where the girl was asking if she was the AH for not wanting to spend $60,000 a year to move in with her BF and pay the lion share of his bills-that's where I got my first ever gold. I just told her the truth, that he wanted a live-in ATM and bang maid and he didn't even respect her culture enough to marry her first before asking her to leave her parents' house. And I've pre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:35 AM
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Dammit all. It can't be brigading if someone posted her info so people could support her. She really needs support. This post has me almost in tears
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:21 AM
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"Three years" and "off and on" is giving me allllll the red flags. Leave him, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:17 AM
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One time I posted in there that men cause their own deadbedroooms because they idealize and chase women who don't want to sleep with them during courtship, then are surprised Pikachu face when the woman doesn't want sex after marriage either. Why not date and marry women who like and are into sex, instead of demonizing them? The men tried to come for me, but one guy admitted he married a conservative virgin for clout and got the DB he deserved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:15 AM
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Falls down wiggling, electrified by this truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:49 AM
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No, he doesn't think he can do better than her. He acknowledges she's better than him. He wants a woman just as good, who thinks HE'S better than HER. He's fine with her being great, but he's pissed she knows her worth. He wants someone great who is insecure. Someone "beautiful who doesn't know it." The way he talks about the way his current GF always reassures him let's me know she knows he's an insecure prick. When he tries this fuckery, it's going to get him replaced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:36 AM
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Exactly it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:34 AM
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Bruh, same. I don’t care how enthusiastic a guy is, if anything seems even remotely off by his body language, I always stop and ask if he’s OK, if he wants to stop or slow down. If someone actually moved the other direction when I tried to kiss them I would self-flagellate for decades to come, assuming I stomped their boundaries and didn’t listen to all the other non-verbal no’s they had given me. Because that’s always how I feel when a man tries to force a kiss on me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:13 PM
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I so agree! FDS is changing me for the positive. I went on a second date last month that was going well-until the guy just kissed me out of nowhere. I was shocked and dismayed, so I put my mask back on (we were dining at an outdoor restaurant). Later he walked me to my Lyft and went to kiss me goodbye. I still had my mask on so he moved to remove it without even asking me! I was outdone. I ducked him and got into the Lyft. A guy who can’t respect boundaries standing up outside in the daylight is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:21 PM
16

If this were true, why do men go to prostitutes? The real deal is men like to manipulate women socially into feeling horrible for enjoying sex so they can trap women into monogamy with shitty sex partners because women won’t have enough experience to know better or are too socially ashamed about sex to demand better. Then men get to play the field and cheat on the virgin or almost-virgin they brought home because she lacks experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:10 PM
8

Yassssssssssss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:50 PM
64

This is everything. Everything men like is rapey and about a power imbalance. Young girls=inexperienced, naive, can’t compare him to anyone, easily manipulated. Virgins=hasn’t been “possessed” by another man, so pure (It’s funny how men will admit straight up that they think contact with them that makes us dirty), men fetishize the bleeding and the pain of the first time. If a woman doesn’t have a hymen, which many women don’t, or she doesn’t bleed or experience pain, which many women don’t the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:20 AM
41

It’s just like that! Perfect comparison. Except being alone isn’t comparable to starving if you have healthy self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:56 AM
9

Exactly. At this point men complaining about it is more like a porn scenario they wish would happen more than everyday problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:53 AM
36

Oh they love animals far more than they respect women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:02 AM
53

Absolutely daughters only. But then I’m very worried about having daughters because these sick scrotes will try to attack her. I will have my daughter in martial arts classes from a little girl, like I was, but I fear these crazy laws could get her locked up for defending herself against some rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:01 AM
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And they feel it’s beneath them. They feel entitled to sex by virtue of being alive.They feel so entitled to women’s bodies being willingly sacrificed to them or sacrificed against their will by the government, as long as it’s free. That’s why the whole UBI theory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:46 AM
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Exactly. And men are so proud of that shit. Like buddy if the term that describes you and sexual attraction to children has “phile” anywhere in the name, you’ve got some fucking issues and you need to be in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:30 PM
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That sounds great! Thanks for the recommendation. We need a pinned list of FDS approved movies of all genres. Safe horror that doesn’t involve women being tortured as entertainment. Thrillers that end with women coming out on top like Gone Girl. Healthy Rom-Coms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:28 PM
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Brilliant. But governments, which are mostly run by men, will never go for it. YoU mEaN woMeZ dON’t nEEd mY pp?! Having children is no longer tied to marriage which means women no longer have to center my penis and cater to my every pornsick whim WHILE doing all the childrearing and domestic labor? WITCHCRAFT AND LESBIANISM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:32 PM
8

Yes! Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:32 PM
18

I’m loving this verification info! Yes :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:07 PM
19

If a guy says he likes horror, show him Red Dragon or another movie where men are killed by the serial killer. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:02 PM
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You know how I found FDS? I used to follow the sex subreddit, idk why. Anyway, one day a woman wrote saying she (29) and her old husband had a threesome with an 18 YEAR OLD girl. She was upset because he was super hard and excited in a way he never was for her, and what did that mean? The comments were disgusting. Telling her she was paranoid, it was “natural” for her husband to be attracted to a teenager. I was so disgusted with the whole thing, I commented that yeah her husband was excited bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:51 PM
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But the joke’s on men. This is like when society tries to pressure women into having children by saying otherwise we’ll end up old cat ladies. How is that working out for them? The world population is going down and women are not bending to the societal pressure anymore. They need to learn that they need to actually give us something besides insults if they want our labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:40 PM
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Omg, I want to open a boarding school for girls! It’s for girls of all ages, particularly poor and vulnerable girls, to prevent sexual abuse and parentification at home. I feel the reason that more girls can’t get out of these home environments is because they don’t get an opportunity to focus on their studies or just be kids. So I thought a boarding school would give them a safe, contained environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:31 PM
107

Mine, too! Teen girls. I want to save them from all that abuse in the system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:22 AM
83

Rejection is always protection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:20 AM
32

THANK YOU! I read this earlier and I said this is either some sort of sick porny stepdaughter fantasy or this guy is a stalker. But the way all of the idiots in the comments were agreeing with this sick freak!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:05 AM
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...I was going to unpack this, but that Deadpool statue he’s sitting under tells the whole story. Men as a species are just schizophrenic. Some of them are saying don’t give it up too soon because then the guy is not going to respect you, which is actually the truth.Then you have others lying through their teeth about how waiting won’t protect you. When has having sex quickly got any women a good outcome? They need to get together and get their lies straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:45 AM
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I just think we all secretly know the truth. For example, my dream has always been to adopt older black girls who languish in the system, give them a good home. Do you know how many women said it was “dangerous” for me to get married if I wanted to adopt because men couldn’t be trusted around girls who weren’t their blood relatives? And they told me to give up my dream of adoption and just have my own children. Of course, they also warned that was no guarantee. I’ve actually had women say to me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:42 AM
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Best explanation I’ve see for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:31 AM
26

This is gospel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:56 PM
4

God, yes. This is why I refuse to watch the movies like Her or Lars and the Real Girl. It’s supposed to be so goddamn funny that men can humanize an appliance like a phone or a sex doll more than they ever did real women. It’s not funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:40 PM
2

...scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:33 PM
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I was moaning to my bestie about how my on again-off again ex and I were meant to be because of these stupid ass signs. (I was in college, I was an idiot.) She said, “apparently these signs don’t mean anything to him, or else you wouldn’t be the only one putting in effort.” Blew my mind. The guy emotionally jerking me around for three years didn’t wake me up but that one sentence was the beginning of my wake up call. For days, I couldn’t get it out of my mind. I have always trusted my best frien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:56 PM
38

I absolutely do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:52 PM
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Nothing but malicious compliance. I always say men say they don’t know how to do domestic chores or clean but they didn’t know how to do their jobs in the beginning either, right?! They LEARNED. And if by the end of training, they hadn’t learned well enough, they got fired, the end. Women need to do the same. If a man acts like he can’t handle the basics, give him a brief training period to shape up and let him know what the consequences are. (This is only for women who are stuck with their scro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:48 PM
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I concur. Porn is only the issue because it gives even men who have never gotten their dick wet in real life access to the ability to objectify women more easily. Someone commented on here that men’s brains don’t differentiate between actual sex and the women on the screen, so they feel as though they have had all of these partners they could never get in real life, which consequently leads to them thinking they are the prize. Long before porn was a thing, you saw the same behavior and mentality…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:05 PM
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I literally came here to say that! The body never lies. He doesn’t want her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:13 PM
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My right hand to God, if a man ever tells me, “kids are cool,” I’ll ask, “then why aren’t you going after single moms. Your kids + her kids is exponentially more coolness, right?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:47 PM
35

These guys want to be friends so bad? Women should start asking them to hook us up with their cuter friends. Lol That’ll fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:50 AM
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Are you me? For a second I thought I wrote this. We’re identical except for the small town thing. I lived in one, and now I don’t. Anyway the best advice I can give you is to go on loving love but find it other places than romance. I tried to give unreservedly to my relationships with my family because they are always there, consistently giving me love. Love yourself! Fall in love with yourself. You said you look average. Never say that again. You look average according to who! No one else’s opi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:18 AM
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I took that to mean even in his scrote screed he couldn’t twist his mouth to say she wasn’t attractive. And the only reason he message this bitter diatribe is because he got preemptively rejected by the type of woman he wanted. It’s funny, men write all their little preferences on their page, boob size, ass size, nO OnE CaReZ aBoUT yOUr caReeR, i hAVe tO bE aTtRactEd tO YoU. But the minute a woman has standards, they go all to pieces. You’re supposed to be so grateful just to be in the running f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:08 AM
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Men are so pathetic. The guy basically got the woman of his dreams-because he ran to marry her quick before she realized she could do better. And he’s still not satisfied. All I feel for this guy is contempt. The woman is gorgeous, the sex is amazing, which is all scrotes ever talk about. Oh how women are supposed to work on their bodies and looks because no man actually cares how smart you are. And now for the first time in history, a man is complaining a woman isn’t smart, too. The real deal i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:56 AM
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This needs to be pinned! Excellent work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:06 PM
7

Yes! She let him know he didn’t need to calculate that journey because he hadn’t been invited on it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:44 AM
28

“Being less doesn’t get you more.” praise break
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:41 AM
5

The greatest story ever told! I laughed and I cried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:56 AM
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I remember that. And the sad thing while she was doing it to pay her super high tuition. These people charge exorbitant rates for classes and inflate the prices on everything and are mad with students doing whatever it takes to freaking survive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:47 AM
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How is this even legal? How can you expel a child for something they didn’t do? And it would be one thing if the mother was breaking the law or endangering other students, but how can they punish her children for her doing something which is perfectly legal and harms no one but herself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:46 AM
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This reminds me so much of the narratives of enslaved people. If you ever read the narrative of the life of Frederick Douglass or the narrative of Harriet Jacobs, they don’t even waste much time talking about how much slavery is dehumanizing for enslaved Black people, because they knew white people didn’t GAF. Instead of those narratives talk about how bad slavery is for white people, how it corrupts them morally, damages your family structure, causes all kinds of societal repercussions. Those w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:19 PM
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I read the most enlightening article about how men are now dying alone and not being discovered for weeks. This as an actual trend the government is tracking. And to me it shows how things are shifting. The men who are dying now would be boomers, who lived in the era when no-fault divorce became common. In other words, as soon as women had the ability legally, they started to jettison the deadweight. So now we have this generation of vital, healthy, active older women and then there are the usel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:16 AM
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This is actually what I thought the TikTok was going to be about! How dare men accused women of being boring and not having hobbies when so many women spend the majority of their day doing labor the benefits men! It’s not that women who don’t have hobbies are boring people with no interest, it’s that they work full-time, raise the kids solo, come home and clean up after a scrote and the kids, do all the domestic labor, and also have to beg the male SO to do anything. That doesn’t leave a whole l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:58 AM
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Wow. It just hit me that being an equestrian is definitely used as a stand-in for being a bitch in black movies like Deliver Us from Eva and A Thin Line between Love and Hate. It definitely has to do with the perceived economics of it, but more so the time investment. In both movies, the time it takes to be a great horse woman is used as “proof” of why these eViL FeMaLe ViLLanZ are single. Too much time spent pursuing their own hobbies and not enough time spent perfecting their man catching skil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:44 AM
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This is the greatest story I’ve ever heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:27 PM
64

There should be another line to the “joke.” “I don’t have a headache but I still don’t want to have sex. Good night.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:25 PM
36

Next time a man makes an anal “joke”, ask him if he’d think it was so funny if a gay man made the same “joke” to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:03 PM
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That is so beautiful. We should just have a day where we give mods gold or something because having this as a safe space is so invaluable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:05 AM
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That whole statement in lacks nuance. It’s not that women are empty-headed dolls who just want to be pretty, it’s that beauty is required of women and many of them are just trying to survive. This girl was already assaulted while beautiful and not believed or vindicated. Do you know what happens to women who aren’t even considered “beautiful enough to be assaulted”? Women are barely afforded a bit of humanity when they’re considered pretty, if they’re not, it’s open season. Putting on makeup and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:37 AM
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This was absolutely fascinating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:17 PM
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It’s pathetic! I just thank God for my parents. I was raised with it as the norm to get many thoughtful gifts specific to my hobbies and interests for Christmas and my birthday that had been picked months in advance. If a man can’t come with that level of effort, I don’t need him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:41 PM
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It’s super hard work. I’ve had a lot of good experiences with OLD. I’ve met a fair amount of HVM in there, including my last long term BF. But it can be super draining doing the legwork. And the separation of OLD and real life means there’s a lack of accountability and men you meet there will often try to treat women in a way they wouldn’t treat women they knew IRL. Whether that’s ghosting, getting sexual too soon, being explicit in text, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:39 PM
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Anxiety. Child please. These men just don’t know anything about their significant others because they don’t listen! They know what to get their crusty boys, but lost when it comes to their girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:19 PM
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I love to read actual advice columns, but they’re so depressing nowadays. I read an old one by dear prudence yesterday complaining about something similar. The writer’s husband got her a $50 gift card for their 10TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY! She had worked overtime for months to buy him something special he really wanted and was understandably pissed. Prudence gaslighted that woman so bad. First, she said if the woman had to work overtime so much, she couldn’t really afford the gift and her husband w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:17 PM
12

Jesus. Is someone giving this girl some advice and help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:08 PM
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I completely concur. This is very cringe and victim blamey. I have no idea why they are calling this young lady’s look an offensive term for women. She looks great and she’s clearly quite a talented MUA. You don’t have have to look like Andrea Dworkin or Audre Lorde to be communicating a worthwhile idea. And that just feeds into the mentality of a binary. Women are smart OR pretty. She very clearly states that she was blamed for being assaulted because of her clothes and look. So yes, it is empo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:00 PM
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Nothing terrible about wishing death on rapists. They should die, painfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:08 PM
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Excellent idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:07 PM
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The idea of cameras and a dog is good, but you have to get inside the mind of a scrote. Since the police won’t do anything, have a male relative or a male friend, the scariest, tallest, biggest, most intimidating one you have, start dropping by. It might suffice to have him visit every once in a while, but if this guy is really outrageous, your relative or friend can have a talk with him. Men don’t respect women but they do respect other men. If this guy sees you’re protected, he’ll curtail hims…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:06 PM
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You know, I was just talking about this. Those 90s and 00s comedians like Chris Rock and Dave Chappelle made those “jokes” all the time. One of them was talking about how unfair divorce is for men and how he understood why OJ did what he did. And the other made all sorts of disgusting comments about punching women. Anyway, I was saying to my brother that kind of talk was disgusting and why weren’t those men held accountable? Whatever black men say black women are being too sensitive about these …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:30 AM
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Sexism and patriarchy aside, I can see the logic in women living at home till they’re married for safety reasons. Men are always trying to stalk and attack vulnerable women living on their own. I hated that hypervigilance I had to have when I was living in a major city alone. Always having to have the Uber or Lyft driver drop you off down the street, so they didn’t know where you live. Leaving old men’s stuff around so people think you have a man living with you. It was too much to come constant…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:25 AM
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Too busy banning any sub of women that says women are entitled to human decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:14 AM
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That guy is a rapist. SO MANY of his answers and just his whole affect was off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:50 AM
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...That is one of the most disturbing things I’ve ever seen. From the guy saying he lost his virginity at 14 to the ones saying they were watching porn since middle school to the guy talking about pressuring his gf for sex, the whole thing was just society in a nutshell. The really scary thing was these were the ones being PC. Like the other guys were quite obviously lying about some of their answers, trying to make things sound better. And that tall guy who said he had pressured women into sex …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:49 AM
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You’re so generous to assume they have jobs. They can comment so quickly because they are live from their mom’s basement, and have lots of free time with the lack of showers, employment, social lives, or any real friends, hobbies or pursuits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:48 AM
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This thread illustrates perfectly why I am about to just quit going on other subs all together. Reddit freaking hates women. If women are existing anywhere but FDS or a handful of women-friendly spaces, they’re attacked for existing. Major part of why I stopped bothering with AITA. But even things which really don’t have to do with gender inherently get made into a reason to attack women, no matter how wrong the man in question is. If she’s not a pick me giving perpetual blow jobs, scrotes mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:46 AM
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The truth here is undeniable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:35 AM
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I so appreciate this sub warning against gamers. You’re helping so many young women. Guys caught up in fantasy life, whether it’s porn or games, are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:33 AM
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This generation is straight crushing these pathetic scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:25 AM
4

Forget a Queen, your Aunt is a Goddess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:24 PM
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Sadly, avoiding OLD will not solve all your problems. The worst date I ever went on was a set-up, son of a friend of my parents. I didn’t really want to go, but he was handsome and my family boosted me up to just give him a chance. The date lasted two hours and 10 minutes and the two hours was because we went to a movie first. We sit down to dinner and I asked some benign question like “what are your hobbies?” He said he was a priest in the Hebrew Israelites and I was just the type he was lookin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:43 PM
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If anything men are the ones who are weird about the bathroom. Do you know that old trope about guys looking at each other in the shower or at the urinal. It came from somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:25 PM
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Affirmations. Just tell her she’s beautiful every day, and have her tell herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:13 PM
10

Brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:12 AM
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Men like that hate black women because they’re jealous of us. Beware of a man who never has anything decent to say about any woman. Like you said, even when they’re the ideal, the thin, the young, scrotes like this always have some criticism. Probably just DL and wish they could pull the HVM these women can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:41 AM
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They are sooooo humble!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:57 AM
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The Awesome Girl’s Guide to Dating Extraordinary Men-Ernessa T. Carter. Definitely the funniest novel I’ve read in the past five years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:31 AM
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I love a long bath. And you can spend small amounts of money one time and reap the benefits for years. For example, I do believe in the zodiac and there’s a great series of books called Self-Care for (fill in your sign here). I picked one up for a few bucks and I marked every free tip in there and I do them all the time. Changed my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:17 AM
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Women need to start modeling behavior right back. If a man ever tried this foolishness with me, Right before I left town, I would make sure to ogle all of his fine friends, point out every sexy guy on the street, watch porn with dudes with bigger, better equipment and point out how much more attractive they are, Because after all women are far more visual than men, studies prove it. Women can get aroused watching any kind of porn, men, women, gay men, etc. Put the shoe on the other foot and let …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:29 AM
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Amazing! What a brilliant, beautiful black woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:29 PM
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Jesus, he looks like a monster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:23 AM
12

😧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:38 AM
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I adored Hard Candy! I definitely cried a lot during A Promising Young Woman. It took me like four hours to make it through the movie. Thanks for the recommendation on Teeth though. I’m a huge movie buff and right after I watched PYW, I watched the Seven-Year Itch for the first time and I’ve been in a rage ever sense. It just killed my joy, which is finding new movies to love. This Teeth might get me back in the game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:16 AM
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Best picture? It definitely wasn’t that.Then again it was a lot better than most of the feel-good trash that gets nominated. I think this movie just explored new territory and people are so used to seeing the same old same old that the first time they actually felt a new emotion or had a new idea watching a movie they thought that made the movie great. I’ll say this: I loved the whole boyfriend arc. That was such a clever way to say “yes, all men.” And you notice the minute she called him on his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:47 PM
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Wow, these are really amazing. Laughably so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:41 PM
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I still don’t know how I feel about a promising young woman. I was so excited about it and I was so disappointed when corona came and delayed the opening for nine months. I was waiting to watch that movie for nearly 2 years. It was very good and very true. Realistic. But it felt empty, the end. Probably just too much reality for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:31 PM
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These videos/discussions always lack nuance because they ignore the fact that certain populations of women were always working because they had no choice – most black women and other WOC, working class women, immigrant women. And the work specifically that so many of these populations of women were doing was being domestic employees for white women. And this whole notion of women deserving dignity in the workplace only came into the national imagination in the 70s when white women started going …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:52 PM
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You know, she might actually believe she is divorced. They might’ve started proceedings and he claimed to have signed the papers when he didn’t or claimed to have filed them after signing when he didn’t. But I agree, don’t have any further contact with either of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:38 PM
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These were completely terrifying. Especially all those manipulative suicide threats. We just recognize that as abuse now, but it used to be a Valentine’s Day card. Thank God for all the knowledge that we continue to gain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:36 PM
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Because from the time we’re little girls, the people we love tell us we’re nothing without men. When we get too confident and have too much of a voice for their liking, we’re told to calm down, that boys don’t like girls who have opinions or minds or brains. It’s a learned response. When people respond to every single thing about our behavior by contextualizing whether or not men like it, we start to believe they are the center of the universe. And eventually our self worth is tied to whether or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:35 AM
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SO REAL. Especially that part about not dating certain types of men. I used to keep a physical list of all the types of men not to date. Police officers, military men, athletes, entertainers, firefighters, politicians, ministers, religious guys, conservatives, obvious liberals, etc. And then one day I realized my list encompassed all men. Black, white, every religious affiliation, every economic background. It’s been men all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:25 AM
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And Fez is a pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:39 PM
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I’ve heard that same line about deliverance or Pulp Fiction, where a huge powerfully built guy gets gang raped. I was actually on a college bus and they had pulp fiction on the little TVs and guys actually started screaming when the rape scene came on. But they love porn. They enjoy our pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:56 PM
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I was just about to say this! I never liked that show after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:50 PM
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I have been noticing this for a long time.If you watch Criminal Minds aka the torture porn show, they do it all. They’re constantly showing women being raped and graphically tortured. But if it’s a killer who kills men, you just see pictures of the bodies. No torture. Because they don’t think that’s amusing, it’s not entertaining to watch men screaming for their lives and writhing in agony. I quickly stopped watching that show. I really enjoyed the version with Forest Whitaker because they never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:48 PM
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This is an amazing comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:26 PM
8

Thank you so much for sharing this personal story. Too many women think that this can only happen with strangers, this story illustrates even if you reach the “holy grail” of marriage, men can still surprise you. You never really know them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:20 PM
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I wouldn’t lock myself in the man’s bathroom. You never know what he’s doing on the other side of the door and if you’ll be able to get out of the front safely. If you’re at a man’s house, the best bet is to say you left something in your car or pretend to go to the bathroom and then run out of the front door. Only lock yourself in your own bathroom. At least if he tries to breach the door you can call the police. But most men who would force you against your will if you were lying in bed, will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:08 PM
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BRILLIANT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:05 AM
71

I honestly hate him. It makes me sick to even see his face now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:16 AM
57

Well then no party for the haters. You and your girl should’ve gone on a lavish vacation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:14 AM
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I cannot wait to do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:13 AM
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It’s funny. When men have daughters from the time they are babies till they turn 18, those men hover over their daughters like a miser over a hoard of gold. They are constantly telling those daughters that men are evil-all men, do not trust a single man. Shoot, I remember I was in my teens and my dad’s friend got locked out of his house. He lived just down the block from us, so he walked over. My dad had known this guy since high school, this was his main man, his ace. So my parents had a rule t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:44 AM
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This is absolutely the stuff of wisdom. I never could verbalize what exactly was so wrong with aftercare, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:28 AM
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Beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:24 AM
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Definitely! I was once in a pretty dicey situation (but still clothed) and I screamed “stop.” The dude got so offended. He said, “why are you screaming that like I’m a rapist?” I replied, “well, I said it several times and went limp and you kept going. Isn’t that what a rapist would do?” He was blown away and I slipped out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:45 PM
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And for it to be so important to them, most of them are terrible at it. What a waste of your life. Imagine if you were obsessed with the piano and never progressed beyond playing chopsticks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:40 PM
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Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:27 PM
26

Yes, these are just a starting point. If someone has something that’s worked for them or another idea, share! This is what strategizing in the FDS is all about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:44 PM
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PREACH. I have no earthly clue what any of my exes are doing because I don’t follow them on social media or keep in contact with them at all. There’s no future in the past. Level up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:39 PM
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All over Asia. That’s why so many Chinese and Japanese young women are opting out. Marriage is a scam for women, period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:07 PM
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I think we don’t know the extent of how bad it really was before, so it seems so much worse now by comparison. There was just an article about a marriage advice book written in the early 1900s. That book read like a nightmare. You see, it was just acknowledged the marital rape was sex and sex was marital rape. There was no concept of mutual pleasure or gentleness. Women of all classes went into marriage knowing this was all they had to look forward to, but they still had to marry to survive. In …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:32 PM
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Well, he wants to have a roster lined up for when he finishes pumping and dumping her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:58 AM
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You’re kind of right. I have this theory that men only fall in love once in their lives. Everyone they go for after that is a carbon copy of that woman. That’s why you always see them obsessing about the high school girlfriend or crush 20 YEARS LATER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:13 PM
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Not just respect other men, men require their partners to look good. If you don’t look good (or have money) you don’t get the d, in the gay circles. If women required it, men would have to do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:59 PM
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It’s no accident that women have their lives derailed by so-called love right when they’re at their goals. Men who know they will never be anything seek out women who are above them and love bomb them and then when the goal is in sight, pull the rug out from under their feet to ruin their chances at being successful. The right issue at the wrong time can effectively derail your life for years. It happened to me in college and I can’t count the number of girls and women I know who have had their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:56 PM
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I would never read this, though it sounds very interesting.I find it interesting that the reviewer depicts this book as so French and says America is too puritanical to ever have such a book. That’s what kills me about this country. It’s so hypocritical. The country is not too puritanical for these grown men to actually rape children and for them to celebrate and immortalize depictions of them doing so. Lolita is a perennial best seller here. Taxi driver with its depiction of a pubescent prostit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:13 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s going to be alright. We’re all here for you and the very fact you could share this to empower and protect other women shows you’re healing. You’re overcoming. There’s nothing wrong with you. It’s normal and sane to hate those who want to harm you. You keep on healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:53 AM
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Something similar happened to me a few years back. It was 11 am on a Sunday, bright daylight. A homeless looking black man approach me on a bike. Got real close and started talking. I immediately turned and started going the other way, knowing it would take him a minute to turn around with his bags and all. He acted like he just wanted the time, but he kept coming, kept coming. I had to shriek to scare him away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:58 PM
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Well, this is just general information, you understand. But most homicides go unsolved. When the police do solve some of them it’s because there’s a connection between the victim and the killer. If a woman was to be attacked by a stranger while walking her dog and she handled business and walked away, it would be highly unlikely for her to ever be found. It’s a needle in the biggest haystack in the world. They’ve never met before. Even if the police could somehow place her in the vicinity, by th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:50 PM
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And even if it were true that women wanted to receive compliments based on attraction, that would mean we only want to compliments from men we were attracted to, not the ugmos who harass us. Ask men if they want compliments from a woman they find unattractive. crickets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:18 PM
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The best thing about this post is that all the comments are dragging him and calling him out on his crappy behavior. He actually deleted the post because people are really on his tail. Sometimes, I have hope for the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:07 PM
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Well, getting rid of an LVM is really the greatest gift of all. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:41 AM
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Awww, thanks sis. We all deserve that and I pray we get it. I’m glad my parents taught me never to settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:37 AM
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This is where a roster comes in handy. One new guy (two dates) went AWOL around the 11th and texted me today. Blocked. The other took me out and bought me a variety of chocolates. He got docked points because he didn’t bring me flowers. My parents, who never disappoint, got me balloons, a beautiful card, all my favorite candy, a makeup bag, and a cute hair holder for when I give myself facials. As always, scrotes 0-my parents 1. In college for V-Day, my first BF gave me an IPod, which he pre-loa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:22 AM
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So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:49 AM
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Black men are complete garbage, but the swirler movement is just going from one cult to another. Most black women take anything off black men, they are so glad to have one. And swirler women do the same with white men. Every man needs to be vetted, no man is automatically cool on the basis of race or wealth or whatever. I’ll say this, though, at least swirlers have providers most of the time. Black men will be unemployed and broke and still want the women supporting them to bow down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:40 AM
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Not really. What it says is once he realized he couldn’t use women, he had no use for them. He probably couldn’t be a hobosexual once he got too old, so he finally scratched around and got a place to stay. But what an LVN. He dragged his children through this all for their childhood because he didn’t want to grow up. But now it sounds like they are grown and he only has to do for himself so now he wants to steady place to live. I wonder how much of his cheap pillar to post lifestyle had to do wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:10 AM
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Men are the ones who make this whole planet about their crusty dicks. That’s how they measure their own worth and we’re all supposed to bow before the mighty phallus. So if a man can’t even get it up, he’s completely useless and needs to be left on the hillside to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:54 AM
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That is so true! And don’t believe the lie that “experienced” men are better either. Every whorish guy I ever had any sexual contact with was straight trash. They don’t have a high body count because they’re so good in bed-the exact opposite! They have to constantly pump and dump and find new partners because they are so horrific in bed nobody wants to come back for a second time. Top 3 lovers for me were a virgin, a guy who had had one partner and a guy with fewer than five partners. They were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:47 AM
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They’re too busy courting their next victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:45 PM
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Ron Jeremy wrote about the Bobbit husband’s foray into porn after he had his penis reattached. There really is a market for everything. Anyway, Ron said it was disfigured and didn’t work without a penis pump, plus the guy had to keep getting surgeries because of the lack of functionality. He couldn’t maintain an erection. Karma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:15 PM
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Brilliant comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:27 PM
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If that’s the route you’re going just make sure you have the wills, 401ks, insurance policies, etc. set up to benefit you. The reason why the sub recommends marriage is because it’s legal protection for women. Without it we often get screwed on assets and that’s important considering the wage gap and everything. Women need as much as legal protection as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:25 PM
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We’re so glad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:21 PM
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It’s fine. As we all know, and every book ever written states, men like a challenge. He’s probably been so into you for so long because you didn’t fall at his feet for acting like a human being. Now switch up the dynamic and actually treat him well and he’ll be yours for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:10 PM
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I know this must be a hard correction to receive, especially from so many people. This is too much talking. He says good morning, you say something back, there’s maybe two messages. Then you hit them up at lunch and he responds that may be three messages. Then you get home at night and you all exchange “how was your day” messages. That’s a conservative estimate of 2+3+3=8 messages a day from you to a total stranger. That’s three times in your day he’s on your mind when he hasn’t earned it. No te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:39 PM
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You're preaching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:40 AM
4

Same though! Cats are so much less energetically expensive than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:10 AM
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You're freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:08 AM
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I don't even video chat. The phone is good enough. You want to see my face, ask me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:34 AM
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Goddess. The house of the spirits was really ahead of its time. And the way she just acknowledged the rampant common place abuse of women in Latin America in narrative form was beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:25 AM
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This is why I take laws so seriously! This is why I am insistent that we need more laws to protect women – because men only care about consequences to themselves. They could give a fuck about hurting us. If there were no laws of consent or mandatory minimum age is in the US, all men would be constantly trying to get at elementary school girls or babies. Literally grown men get on social media where anyone can see them and comment on 16 year olds. tHaT’S lEgAL! Sick bastards. If there was no age …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:24 AM
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👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾 This post needs to be pinned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:13 AM
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YES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:54 AM
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Concur. And restricting access to your number is a must. Get a Google voice number or something. Because men are using the same tricks that we use, in terms of googling us, etc. using our numbers. But instead of doing it for safety which women have to do, men are doing it to find information on you they shouldn’t have. Be careful out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:51 AM
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That’s too much talking before you’ve ever met. That’s the new scam with these guys, especially the broke ones. They have nothing but time on their hands so they spend all this time talking to you before you ever meet, so you feel like you know them. This fake emotional connection makes women a lot more likely to sleep with them when they do finally meet. With OLD dating have two conversations max before meeting the guy. The first to gauge compatibility. That’s not all night, 15-30 mins. tops. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:34 AM
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That’s so sweet! I sent gifts to my mom and dad, siblings, two besties and godmothers. We have to put the focus on those who give us love throughout the year, not men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:27 AM
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Lol what’s so great is knowing these types are going to die alone and before that they will lose the ability to get excited about their reason for living, sex. Too much sex makes you desensitized and if there’s no emotional connection it becomes repetitive and boring. And anyway, his supply will dry up and then he’ll hit the wall quick and because he’s out chasing tail all the time, he hasn’t had time to lay up any money, develop a career, or any interesting hobbies. He’s going to be alone with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:24 AM
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WTF?! You didn’t even agree to go out with this freak and now he’s trying to dress you?! Time for a gun. Do you have some friends you can invite over on Sunday so you’re not alone if he does just show up? And get ready to document this. They should have their phones out and you should have yours out so when he comes to the door, you’re recording. Through the CLOSED DOOR very clearly state that you never invited him to your home, you are not interested and he needs to leave and not return. Maybe …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:03 PM
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Years ago, I met a very hot and brilliant guy in a writing group. It was very “meet cute” like the movies. I walked in, our eyes met across the room, blah blah blah. He asked me out, I said yes. Out of habit I went home and Googled him. This was a nice clean-cut guy and at the time I lived in a little sleepy college town. But I developed that habit when I did OLD in a major city. He was a registered sex offender. I switched writing groups and blocked his number. Look up every guy you talk to. Yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:00 PM
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I know what you mean. I’m a black woman and I wouldn’t piss on a black man. Ick. All men are trash but they’re the worse. Beneath contempt as men. I’m especially reminded of this during February, as it’s Black History Month. Pretty much every advance we’ve ever made as a people has come from the hard work and sacrifice of black women, which has been buried from public knowledge. Scrotes who did next to nothing get all the accolades. They never protected or defended black women and children, whic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:30 PM
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Behavior is communication. Never forget that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:08 PM
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This is why I hate dating. My family asked me LAST WEEK about my favorite candy, etc. One of my friends requested my address yesterday so she could have my Valentine to me on time. The guy I’ve been on two dates with hasn’t mentioned Valentine’s Day though we spoke two or three times this week. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:04 PM
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I completely agree. I live in the south and the weather is nice here, so I’ve been working out outside with my personal trainer. When I’m squatting, I can tell instantly by her reaction if some scrotes are watching me. I fucking hate that shit, especially because her neighbors on both sides are literally old enough to be my grandfathers. I always call them out if I see them looking. Like sir, you’re about 80. Go play with your grandchildren instead of staring at my ass, you fucking pervert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:24 AM
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YES. Men start this crap by being cheap and suggesting coffee dates and then end up being mad you don’t roll out the red carpet to your vagina after going 50/50 on Starbucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:46 PM
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...OMG. I’m so glad I found FDS. Fuck the rest of Reddit. God. These people don’t even want women to have bottom of the barrel expectations. If a woman thinks she is worthy of any kind of human treatment, they try to stomp that out of her immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:42 PM
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I was laughing and crying at the same time. That was beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:32 AM
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I think that’s it. I don’t remember the title, but the advice was gold and she was very realistic about why she’s not in a worthwhile relationship. She doesn’t follow her own advice. What’s that they say, those who can’t do, teach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:23 AM
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No harm, no foul. Like I said, I used to follow him myself. But when I was reading "Solving Single" I was literally sick to my stomach. It just hit me he obviously doesn't see women as people. That's why he advises them to act like men. He thinks the only way men will ever empathize with or even listen to women is if they mirror men. And that is true for LVM. But why would I want to attract LVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:40 PM
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On occasion he drops a useful kernel, but as a black woman I have to say Lambert himself is a sociopathic LVM and his advice will only help you attract more sociopaths. I followed his blog before I knew better and I've read all his books, except the new one. And even when I was in my Pickmesha haze several things struck me: 1. He's a trash husband. He's always using his relationship as a self-congratulatory reference, but in the same sentence talking about his harem of homegirls asking him expli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:17 PM
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This says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:07 PM
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If he expressed this to his wife, he would probably find that her kink is rooted in some sort of trauma or lack of self-esteem. Knowing her husband thinks of her as a goddess would probably heal her need to be degraded. I’m very suspicious of most of these “kinks.” Most of them just sound like unhealed wounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:27 AM
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Snaps fingers Yes! Married women and mothers were always pitying the poor single girls. But my how the tables have turned. I am single and childfree by choice and I’m having a lovely pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:06 PM
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We are on the same page! I had romantic love when I was in college and it was just like the movies. My first real boyfriend was dedicated to me, made me feel like a queen and we talked on the phone for hours every day. He really wanted to know my mind and my opinions. I was a virgin and we never had sex and he never pushed for it. That’s about the only good thing I can say for him. I realized later he was LV to the core. We were just freshmen in college but his mom had used him a husband substit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:14 PM
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I feel exactly the same way. I might just do dating while living apart. To me, the best part of the man is the dating phase. That’s when they’re on their toes. You get the interesting conversation, the creative dates, the good treatment. There are no mommy bang maid expectations because you live apart. It’s where I am right now in my life, and I love it. When a guy irritates me, which I must admit it’s pretty often, I just next him. I’m young, beautiful, and brilliant, there are always way more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:46 PM
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Ick. I need a shower after that story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:17 AM
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Update: two more Pickmeshas. One who is arguing that her parents have been together for 30 years and have kids without marriage and it’s people like me who force them to spend “thousands on a piece of paper”. Another who has been with her “partner in crime” for 11 years. Kids and no ring. But she’s very happy 😆 and she has all the legal papers she needs for protection, she says. Let’s pretend that’s true. If a man would rather get a bunch of papers, the health care surrogate, a will, etc. for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:00 AM
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She literally responded that she hates weddings, being the center of attention, and wasting money but if you could just “sign a paper” and be married, she would do it tomorrow. I wrote back explaining how easy it is to get a marriage license and how cheap. She said she had no idea that was the process. To be fair, she did seem contrite after that. And I expect she’ll probably PM me later, when the guy has another excuse why they can’t go to City Hall. Expect another convert shortly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 11:19 PM
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I tried to intervene for her and I got a lot of awards. My comment just said he’s not that into you, he’s wants all the social benefits of marriage but not enough to marry you. You should move on before you waste the next 10 years of your life. The really funny part is I got 1.7 thousand+ likes and all of these comments agreeing, except for this one other woman who is saying marriage in the first one to three years is far too soon and she’s been with her boyfriend for seven wonderful years and s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:54 PM
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OMG, this exact situation happened to me. So, early in grad school, I was part of a close knit group that lived in graduate housing and did the same program. I roomed with this one girl whose boyfriend lived downstairs in a different apartment, with a guy who was also in our program. One day I come home and our neighbors, two girls from my program, were in my roommate’s bedroom showing her the BF’s profile on Tinder. For those who don’t know, tinder goes by geographical location, and since we al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:38 PM
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It’s hilarious how they are trying to justify this misogyny based on “tradition”. I’m a black woman, when black men spout this foolishness, I just say slavery was traditional. Black men not being able to vote was traditional. White men run the country and having all the power is traditional. So are the old ways really the best way or just when it means the oppression of women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:08 PM
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Solomon was the “wise one.” And both he and his father King David were done in by their piss poor dating choices, so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:53 PM
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This may sound like a silly question, but how with the driver driving the car? When they got dropped off? I know as a woman, I always like to get dropped off down the block or across the street from my real house so the driver doesn’t know where I live. I have definitely heard about them doubling back and assaulting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:01 PM
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Supposedly so fucking visual, but can’t see dust, can never find anything in the refrigerator, can’t see how to wipe their own behind, so they leave skidmarks in their underwear, which they also apparently can’t see. Visual. Yeah right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:37 AM
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It’s so crazy. My own father, who is an HVM and has been married for nearly 40 years hated when I first started following FDS. I would leave my computer open in the kitchen and he would occasionally see the posts or I’d discuss things with him. I would tell him, a lot of the things said here are just confirming things he’s always said to me about men. And he would say, the vetting stuff is fine, good even, you should do that. But he HATED the stats on how much more domestic labor women do and ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:30 PM
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You just have to model behavior back. Scrotes don’t understand logic or reason. So just do what they do and let them “convince you” it’s a bad idea for your relationship. You get a male friend who is single and handsome and hang out with him solo and let him take you to dinner. Your BF is going to be talking about how it’s a violation of trust and boundaries and it’s inappropriate. And then he’ll say people in relationships shouldn’t do that. Then you say- ok. I guess that means neither of us wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:49 PM
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The only thing he left out is when the guy tries to be FWB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:23 PM
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