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You got into your own head. Focus on relaxing and the experience not staying hard. Easier said than done tho.
/r/seduction22/08/17 02:29 AM
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The rule is still true but she approached you. The rule doesn't even apply in this context
/r/seduction21/08/17 03:51 AM
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If your friend likes you this isn't going to end well at all. Also if your friend is considered the "less attractive friend" she's probably been used before by guys attempting to get close to her friends. If you have been good friends for a while and are strictly platonic then this will be completely fine, and she'd probably be happy to wing you. Use your judgment to decide where your situation fits in.
/r/seduction04/08/17 04:01 PM
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What kind of logic is this? You got turned off by the fact that she was trying to attract you? If she would have gotten dolled up before meeting you that isn't try hard but crossing her legs to match you is? qualifying, cold reading, recognizable routines... You do realize game is literally just good social skills. People qualify to see if you'd be a good match for them. We use it in game to give off the illusion we're high value and thus picky, but people who are high value actually do give a s…
/r/seduction04/08/17 03:19 PM
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Going to let ya'll in on a little secret. Almost every attractive high value girl is "kinda seeing someone". At least she's being open and honest about it upfront. As for a response I'd go with: "What girl isn't?", and then proceed like she never even said that.
/r/seduction04/08/17 02:52 PM
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You friend doesn't need to hook up with the other girl, he just needs to entertain her.
/r/seduction03/08/17 05:18 PM
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clichés are clichés for a reason.
/r/seduction02/08/17 07:19 PM
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I don't like this approach at all. It puts the girl on the spot way too much. Its not like every girl has her elevator pitch ready for you.
/r/seduction02/08/17 06:37 PM
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Yeah, my ex pulled the same shit. Met up with her a month after and she was happy and indifferent. 3 months later and she admitted to it all being a front and is still very emotional, while I'm fine and doing well.
/r/seduction02/08/17 05:49 PM
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Your goal should be to have as much fun as possible. You aren't rubbing it in her face. Be the most social and outgoing guy there. Talk to everyone at the bars. Think positivity, and good vibes. Trust me, if you're just the funnest guy there she'll gravitate towards you.
/r/seduction02/08/17 05:27 PM
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It really doesn't make too much of a difference. If you ask her for her schedule it comes across as trying to accommodate to her which would show less value (if you believe in that sort of pick-up stuff). If you want to incorporate both approaches just hit her with : "I'm free on [insert day] and [insert other day] (at most give 3 options), you should head over and we'll do [insert specific planned activity that will entice her to come]". and then if those dates don't work just ask what works fo…
/r/seduction02/08/17 03:09 PM
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Yeah, just hit her with a: "I'm free on [insert day] and [insert other day] (at most give 3 options), you should head over and we'll do [insert specific planned activity that will entice her to come]. If she says she's busy and makes 0 effort to suggest any alternative, ghost her completely for a week and then invite her out again using the same formula. If she is busy again and makes 0 effort to suggest any alternative on the 2nd go, then you can leave it in her court. Send her snaps or post sh…
/r/seduction02/08/17 02:49 PM
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You don't put the ball in her court. Just invite her out with multiple set dates/times. Putting the ball in her court is a sure fire way to get a "I'll let you know" and then she'll never hit you back.
/r/seduction02/08/17 01:41 PM
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Then just text or snapchat her once every 3 weeks until you're back. Absence from her life will do well for you. No need to worry about someone you can't see in person right now.
/r/seduction31/07/17 01:12 PM
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Okay then just make the decision but keep in mind asking her out through social media probably won't end well and would negatively impact your future opportunity if you do see her agin.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:46 PM
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Sure you can try. She probably won't respond well and it might ruin your chances in the future. Generally guys who ask out girls through social media are regarded as desperate or thirsty. The better approach is to have the mutual friend invite you both out to something.
/r/seduction30/07/17 04:48 PM
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The only thing this means is the person is interested continuing a conversation with you.
/r/seduction30/07/17 04:41 PM
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You're stuck in a value taking mindset. Focus on having fun in these interactions and pulling and getting a girls number will seem like a natural conclusion. Also why are you only focused on same night lays. Get the girls number if it's earlier in the night.
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:08 PM
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Like the same college and you're both home for the summer?
/r/seduction30/07/17 02:36 PM
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Im confused. What do you want out of this if you live in different states? Like what is your goal here? Are you trying to create a relationship through long distance?
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:08 AM
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Of course. That's the best way of doing things, but we were discussing this in the context of improving physical appearance.
/r/seduction28/07/17 09:03 PM
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You need to work on grammar my friend. I don't really discuss topics with girls that I only know about through social media. Despite the fact that everybody creeps, it's still kind of unspoken. But if you want to take that route; hit her with something like: "I wanted to see you soon but I'd look like a ghost next to someone who just came back from holiday" - Then you can banter after that. This seeds the hangout before actually telling her that you should meet up for drinks. If she likes you sh…
/r/seduction28/07/17 04:52 PM
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Flirt with 3-4 messages, and then ask to catch up over drinks. Don't flirt with that line tho.
/r/seduction28/07/17 04:23 PM
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Yeah very easy to see why your appearance would intimidate girls. When you came off cycle or changed body comp a bit did you notice a shift in the way girls treated you?
/r/seduction28/07/17 03:55 PM
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Yes it does. You just aren't eating as much as you think you are. Enjoy being skinny but don't make excuses like its physically impossible to gain weight.
/r/seduction28/07/17 01:41 PM
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If he was actually 5'10" at 195 and 10% body fat he was really fucking jacked. I doubt he was actually 10% body fat, but if he was he for sure looked great.
/r/seduction28/07/17 01:36 PM
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Why peddle this bullshit? Every single person who actually does train knows this isn't true. Furthermore, your body composition doesn't give a fuck whether you ate whole foods or got the required macros from McDonalds. You're just setting ridiculous standards for newbies. This will result in discouragement when they work out for 2 months and realize they don't look like there favorite action star.
/r/seduction28/07/17 01:32 PM
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The absolute maximum amount of muscle you gained in 2 months was 5-6 lbs. You will not look even close to action star fit in that amount of time. Otherwise decent post but no need to inflate your success.
/r/seduction28/07/17 01:25 PM
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I think it's because DMing on instagram somehow became popularized through the media with shit like "it goes down in the DMs".
/r/seduction26/07/17 02:22 PM
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Confrontations and ultimatums with women just end up making you look like a needy spazz.
/r/seduction26/07/17 02:02 PM
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I think most here (myself included) would advise against messaging someone you've never spoken with before on facebook.
/r/seduction26/07/17 02:00 PM
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Just be passive for a bit. Don't actively seek her out. If you run into her just be energetic and kind but don't linger. In a couple weeks try inviting her out again if she doesn't mention making plans beforehand.
/r/seduction26/07/17 01:58 PM
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Who the fuck knows. Just wait and see if she texts you. If she hasn't in two days. Text her and see if she'd be down for coffee or a more original first date.
/r/seduction25/07/17 06:56 PM
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Direct: Hey, I thought you were cute/interesting and I wanted to come meet you. The opener is the least important part of this. "Hi, my name I X", is enough.
/r/seduction25/07/17 06:51 PM
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Seddit is so fast to next people. Just be persistent and invite her out again. It takes two seconds to invite her out again. Don't invest time or energy texting this girl tho
/r/seduction24/07/17 03:56 PM
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It's hard to say man. No one will ever really know. It's possible she was shy and didn't want to appear over-invested so she wanted to you re-approach her. She also could have just been not that interested and wanted to meet someone else. Regardless if you liked her you should have re-approached her later and at the very least tried to get her number.
/r/seduction24/07/17 12:54 AM
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I wouldn't ever respond to a text like this haha. Why would someone respond to this? Search value giving text messages.
/r/seduction23/07/17 05:34 PM
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You're overthinking this. Yes she's still interested. She followed-up with you, told you when she's available and agreed to a second date. You don't need to be perfect so don't be a spaz and delete her number if things didn't go the way you wanted. Outcome independence is good but you should focus on removing these formulaic expectations you have for the dates / escalation. Meet her coffee or whatever the fuck Panera is and then walk around the city or do something else you can lead with.
/r/seduction21/07/17 05:52 PM
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Yep, just on the weekend I was speaking to a girl and she was barely giving me anything back so I decided to bail. I told her I was going to meet up with my friends just to have her stop me and say "no, stay with me and come meet my friends". Some women are just shy or quiet so bailing prematurely can happen even if they are into you.
/r/seduction19/07/17 02:57 PM
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most of the things u see there are either common sense like being confident there are really just 2 rules. 1 be attractive 2 dont be unattractive. You've managed to contradict yourself already. Of course looks matter. It is constantly preached on this sub that men should be updating their clothes, hair, and hitting the gym. If you're at least a 6(which is achievable by most if you put effort into your appearance) you're going to be fine with 90% of women. Statistics show that women rate 80% of m…
/r/seduction17/07/17 04:05 PM
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it was okay to ease off and just let the girls come. I don't think that is what he was saying at all. I believe I remember a quote that said something along the lines of you are being dishonest with yourself if you don't approach a girl you want to talk to.
/r/seduction17/07/17 01:35 PM
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Go with the first option. Turn up the charm and the effort. Do not bring up commitment or give her an ultimatum. Let her do that.
/r/seduction12/07/17 07:06 PM
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"What do you do when a better looking friend, joins mid conversation with the sole purpose of stealing the girl" Why not just tell him to stop doing this? Friends don't do this to each other unless they're both in on it and having fun with it.
/r/seduction12/07/17 06:42 PM
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It comes down to him having a lack of self-confidence to do any of these things. Do you know if he is masturbating on his own? If he isn't then his sex drive might just have seemed to have dropped and you'll have to figure out why. The issue is he is going to have to want to solve this issue on his own. As for resources that will help him be more dominant/seductive I'd recommend "The Sex God Method". If you google it I'm sure you can find a torrent of the pdf. Give it a read and see if it aligns…
/r/seduction10/07/17 03:24 PM
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Nobody "forgets" the night. You must not drink much or you aren't around people who do. People do blackout and forget events that occurred from the night before. This isn't some sort of myth. It's an effect that has been studied. I'm currently on a medication and one of the side effects is increasing the likelihood of this occurring.
/r/seduction09/07/17 02:26 PM
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If that is what crosses your mind and makes you want to introduce yourself to her then go for it. The book is about being authentic / honest with yourself and the women you meet. That approach would be congruent with the principles being taught. I know others would disagree and choose to be indirect with women, but I don't think either approach is right or wrong. I use both given the context and succeed with both.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:54 PM
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Of course it won't, but you can't expect people on a forum to write out appropriate things to say that would cover every situation in existence. I have no idea why people make such a big deal about the opening of an interaction. It's probably the least important aspect.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:47 PM
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Be confident they say, don't show worry or weakness and the laws of attraction will bring you the world. To me, confidence seems disingenuous. I like people who are having a tough time, because I'm having a tough time too. I think you have a very narrow view of confidence. Confident people are well aware of their weaknesses. They just don't let these weaknesses hold them back from experiencing life. They also are willing to acknowledge when they're going through a tough time, but they know they …
/r/seduction05/07/17 08:32 PM
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Sure his theories are flawed, but the principles taught serve as a guide to have authentic and honest and interactions. I already know why Im approaching her. I'm assuming it's because she's attractive and you want to see if you'd be a good match. Then talk about what you're interested in, find out what she's interested in. Make observations about her to avoid the interview-style of approach but don't be shy to ask questions. For example: If you're in the supermarket you can make an observation …
/r/seduction04/07/17 08:08 PM
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Okay then, talk about literally anything. The content of your message matters much less than you think it does. Go on youtube and look at the videos titled something like "never run out of things to say when speaking to a girl". RSD has a bunch of them. You're literally asking us "how do I have a conversation?". The context of your approach should alter the subject matter so it isn't something we can provide a defined solution to. Think about your goals for the interaction: You are trying to get…
/r/seduction04/07/17 07:41 PM
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You've been on 4 dates with her. You both are aware you like each other. No need to say anything. Just continue to date her and others until she decides to bring up commitment. If you're getting tired, then just cut it back to 1-2 dates a week with who you find the most appealing.
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:11 PM
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You were so not into her that you made a post on reddit about her. You're rationalizing to protect your ego man. Why do you even care if she was interested or not if you aren't interested in her?
/r/seduction30/06/17 02:05 PM
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I only bring it up because there are men who women would consider attractive just by looking at a picture of them so I'd imagine that looks are a pretty big part if a woman can consider a man attractive without even knowing who he is at all. Statistics from online dating website show that women rate 80% of men as below average in terms of physical appearance. Obviously 80% of men aren't alone, and the women dating these men aren't rating their boyfriends as unattractive. So even thought I've don…
/r/seduction28/06/17 11:15 PM
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You're using looks as an excuse to save your own ego. Of course appearance matters but it doesn't matter half as much as you think it does. Look at guys like RSD Owen. The guy is a short, fat, balding ginger who's in his 30s-40s and has video of him pulling girls in there 20s from the bar. The guy in this video wouldn't even be considered goodlooking by most attractive women. Regardless, every guy can bring themselves up to at least a 6 in terms of appearance anyways, which will be good enough. …
/r/seduction27/06/17 05:58 PM
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Don't do this. This isn't good advice at all. What type of response are you hoping for from her? "Oh sorry let's go out now". If she becomes short back off and try again in a few days with value addings texts and pushing for a meet up. Girl's aren't attracted to butthurt guys.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:06 AM
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Text her once every 2-3weeks at maximum, and make sure those are value giving texts. If she texts you to fill in that space then great, and you can match what she's comfortable with. You can even try to skype or facetime with her in a couple of weeks. You can't meet with her so giving her space will work well in your favour. She probably is busy, or she's talking to her ex again and that's why she's phasing you out. Regardless of the reason there is no point in worrying about it because the outc…
/r/seduction22/06/17 02:32 AM
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You don't hate most people you hate yourself.
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:33 AM
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If you hate most people you need to change your attitude before you worry about anything else.
/r/seduction18/06/17 01:08 AM
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