I dont view confidence as an inherently good trait. And yet its the number one factor women (and to a lesser degree men) are interested in. Not by some small margin either, you could be insufferable in a lot of ways so long as you appear totally confident in your self and there's little chance of you spending any significant time alone.

Confidence is just a projection, and often a false one. Be confident they say, don't show worry or weakness and the laws of attraction will bring you the world. To me, confidence seems disingenuous. I like people who are having a tough time, because I'm having a tough time too.

Thanks for reading my rant. If you're not feeling confident about something in your life right now, it's ok. If anything, it means your sane.