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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 05:10 PM
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So addicting its like...we were made to fuck pussy
/r/seduction02/08/17 05:38 PM
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Uh how long have you been here, 5 minutes? There are youtube links posted multiple times a day here.
/r/seduction02/08/17 04:36 PM
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When I think of a girls mind short circuiting, I think of my ex's bipolar, when shr had a manic episode she cheated on me with a guy and was sending him all kinds of lovey dovey texts using the same pet names as we do and crazy shit like that. I broke up with her and to this day she swears the mental illness pretty much tricked her into beliveing this other guy was me. She also suffered from SEVERE delusions like truly 100% believing in conspriacy theories and that it was the appocalypse. Been t…
/r/seduction02/08/17 04:28 PM
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Right girl wrong time to me, means one or both of you have mental issues or personal problems that would plauge your relationship if you were to start dating. "Right girl wrong mind, got my mind right, hit her back up: [beep] the wrong line...." the number you have dialed is not in service
/r/seduction02/08/17 04:25 PM
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I would say 'addiction' itself is not genetic, but habbit forming and the efficiency of forming/destroying habbits is controlled by several genes combined. Really OP just needs to break a habbit with porn, I guess? There is so many resources on how to break a bad habbit, if OP doesnt want to, there is no way for any of us to convince him. Its almost like arguing with a delusional person. Whenever the delusion goes away, they go, "oh" you WERE right guys! Why didnt I listen before??? OP, try drop…
/r/seduction01/08/17 06:46 PM
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Dude, your brain is trained to learn habbits and recognize patterns. To begin dismantling what you have going on, recognize this pattern: Thought -> emotion -> behavior Your brain is like a pool of random thoughts floating around being activated randomly. When you get "triggered" a thought becomes an emotion, that emotion causes several behaviors that feed into the emotion and amplify it, causing a cascading effect of negativity on your brain. You have to train yourself to look for that initial …
/r/seduction01/08/17 06:13 PM
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Wtf is number 3? Are there girls who will have sex simply by learning of a large dick hidden under those pants? And the same women would be so shocked that the guy lied that they would consider it rape? Even after they saw the smaller than expected dick and still had sex anyway? Im having so much trouble with number 3 dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 08:29 PM
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So money isnt whats attractive, its the skills, talents and passions that earn men their money that makes girls panties wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 08:13 PM
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Friends are more important than a romantic partner because that romantic partner could leave you, cheat on you, abuse you, and then what? You need some friends besides your SO. I agree that going after girls before you even have a small group of guys to hang out with is not a wise choice or you will be doing more work than required.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 08:02 PM
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Lol homefeild advantage for the hobo!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 07:51 PM
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I was slapped in the face for looking at porn (at age 21) and then told if I ever look at porn again she would fuck another guy (she did).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 07:42 PM
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I was replying to your other post of seeking validation and getting rejected over and over, i think thats the funnest part, you learn the most in such a short amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 07:38 PM
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Guys who are with their actual female friends they consider friends are not going to be overtly sexual/dominant around them, duh. If it is a guy walking up to a group of girls for the first time, and he is trying to sleep with one of them, then yes, he will turn on the sexual undertones and flirting mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 07:33 PM
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That sucks but that is not everyones expirience. Dating is fun, like a game, but you set your own rules and decide who wins and who loses all in your own head. Its not the same for every person, duh, you decided you 'won' after successfully maintaining one hot girl. Thats your own personal goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 07:28 PM
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This is the most insightful answer, I spent high school gaining skills that got me an awesome career and lifelong job security. I even failed out of college but my side hobbies and talents got me an amazing job just by showing off. My first relationship canceled out all free time for the next 4 years, I never had time for a game of league of legends, let alone anything interesting when I started dating/pursueing girls.
/r/seduction28/07/17 05:27 PM
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The thing that helped me the most was meeting and fully knowing a lot of new people. Once you realize that every single person on earth has a shit ton of issues, insecurities, problems, traumas haunting them, or other bullshit, you realize you arent alone. It becomes freeing to know that everyone is truly in the same boat at some point in their life. Once you truly understand this you will focus 100% on yourself and be able to self improve.
/r/seduction27/07/17 06:27 PM
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Some people find meditation to work for them, guided meditation or any of those new aged things that make you feel better about yourself. I listen to a lot of rap songs, not the ignorant shit, but motivational stuff like Big Sean, and just get inspired to work out, and do my hobbies every day. I think it works if you allow the music to brainwash you, just stay away from messages that push negative behavior.
/r/seduction27/07/17 06:24 PM
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"Agree and amplify" is the behavior that grasps the core of this concept.
/r/seduction27/07/17 02:55 PM
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Ive heard it being described as "showing a trailer" of yourself. That way she gets teased and wants to see the whole movie.
/r/seduction27/07/17 02:45 PM
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Girls dont go ape shit over cars, but they appreciate a nice car if you have one. Get the car YOU want to drive, and learn how to drift/slide in it so you will be able to avoid emergencies. Get to a track and do some laps and learn the absolute limits of your car. Plus it will get your need to speed and tailgate people out of your system. The amount of confidence you will have driving after all that will be useful when picking up a girl and showing her your car for the first time. You will know …
/r/seduction27/07/17 02:41 PM
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Sex for me was all instinctual no brainer shit. (Still super nervous the first times) I have a curious mind so I wanted to try everything from the kissing to every type of foreplay, before actual sex. Taking the girls pleasure in mind is a no brainer to me, but some guys have trouble with being too selfish in bed. I dont think its porn because I watched porn heavily and increasingly fucked up porn from age 10-20 and had no sexual dysfunction regarding selfishness. (Swinging and open relationship…
/r/seduction27/07/17 02:22 PM
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If you have $3k to drop, give it to your buddy, and say dont give it back unless I talk to that girl...repeat as neccesary. Bootcamp shortened into 1 day and you get your money back.
/r/seduction25/07/17 03:01 PM
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Youre LOLing at your ex sleeping with 3/4 of the school yet you preach about satutory rape and emotional trauma? Boy you should take another look at her, that is one broken ass, mentally fucked up girl to be sleeping with that many people.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/17 12:45 PM
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Its true, I absolutely was in a relationship with my dream girl, but having ZERO expirience beforehand really came back to fuck me later. I had suffered severe depression after she was sexually assaulted after visiting me at the college I was going to. This shit haunted me daily and I would always complain, never initiate any cute dates or think forward, always thinking about the past, NEVER living in the moment after the honeymoon stage was abruptly brought to an end without my consent. If I co…
/r/seduction21/07/17 03:32 PM
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Thats about it, most girls get the hint you are seeing other people or otherwise nonmonogamous, bluntly stating that you have a girlfriend is a no no.
/r/seduction21/07/17 03:23 PM
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Nah, I have to avoid them and it sucks because they smoke because they arent going anywhere in life, lol. But at some point you realize you arent taking care of yourself by interacting with people below you. Not to sound super judgemental with the above you/below you talk, the people who you hang out with nudge you in their direction ever so slightly every time you hang out with them. So i am trying to hang out with people way more successful than me in hopes it rubs off of course, lol.
/r/seduction20/07/17 10:36 AM
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So much this, all my problems in my life started because of weed, and the lack of motivation to do something about shitty situations. The stuff sucks away your time and your life, i wasted 3 years smoking weed going absolutely nowhere with my career and no where with my social life.
/r/seduction19/07/17 05:45 PM
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Can confirm that you need both...when my sex life suffers so does my concentration at work, a mix of adhd and depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 05:31 PM
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Well I think you know this but you are overthinking the fuck out of everything. It took me to be made a complete fool of and hilariously embarassed to stop overthinking things, so I'm not sure I have some magic words. Really the idea is that thinking exerts energy and the type of thinking you are doing is causing stresa and literally hurting your body. Its negative in nature, you can tell. What you do when you NOTICE these negative thoughts, is to immediately distract yourself, I often drop to t…
/r/seduction14/07/17 06:37 PM
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Yeah so not MAY lose her eventually, definitely lose her unless you want to put up with cheating and circumstances that make you go fucking insane yourself.
/r/seduction14/07/17 06:26 PM
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That hes too afraid he will lose her eventually and doesnt want to deal with the heartbreak
/r/seduction14/07/17 02:13 PM
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If sex itself is your only goal for pickup then yes, you can scrap a lot of the material here..lol
/r/seduction10/07/17 12:28 PM
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Yeah dude, fuck tinder, I thought I was missing out, I started a relationship just before the app came out. Was super envious of everyone using that app to hook up and have casual sex. Sometime a few months ago my ex used tinder to cheat on me. Thanks for leaving me with a house, dick. I tried it...maybe it was my ex, but I found it super boring, i got a lot of matches and tried different profiles and everything, but wasnt feeling it. I guess part of it was wanting to feel "better" than my ex so…
/r/seduction07/07/17 07:41 PM
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Literally you have to actually try something you dont like the idea of, but you may like the actual expirience itself once you are there living it. Try out something you literally think you will hate, like rock climbing. Seems dumb right? This shit is easy its like climbing a fucked up ladder, oh wait I'm not doing it right, there are specific places I'm allowed to hold, oh look there are different difficulties, now I can see my progress as I get better, hey this is cool! Like just go out and tr…
/r/seduction07/07/17 07:30 PM
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Muscles tensing up especially your legs can drain the blood from your boner, if you can help it try not to tense up too much! Also any girl who has had a relationship longer than a month knows this problem exists, if she doesnt she is an immature girl you dont want anyway.
/r/seduction06/07/17 08:31 PM
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One set of techniques is good for getting laid once, the other is good for actually keeping a girl, and a good one not just some club bunnies
/r/seduction06/07/17 08:23 PM
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My confidence comes and goes in waves. For weeks I have been fine but something reminded me of my ex being crazy as fuck and having sex with a guy behind my back. And nothing kills confidence like those thoughts. Total boner kill, could not have sex or even look at porn on my own. Feels bad man. Then I dont know who to be more mad at, the douche who knew my gf was mentally ill crazy and had a boyfriend and still took advantage and fucked her, the girl who gave me bible quotes on why sexual immor…
/r/seduction05/07/17 06:53 PM
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Theres a guide on spinning plates that was just posted. Basically boils down to dont take each girl out more than once per week, and be honest.
/r/seduction05/07/17 06:31 PM
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And his final thought is to forget everything he just said...to avoid the "yips"!
/r/seduction29/06/17 04:18 PM
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In kindergarten on their report card they would get a check box next to "does not play well with others"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 08:11 PM
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Any guy that has had sex with my girl has had a fun visit by people they weren't expecting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 07:46 PM
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Try getting cheated on...it will make a good person turn to Hitler so fast it will make your head spin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 07:36 PM
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It is a want, in fact the easiest way to get lots of sex is to literally not want it. Counter intuitive right? If you focus on important shit and improve yourself and gain skills, hobbies, muscles, the sex will FLOCK to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 07:30 PM
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I would argue the problem is not incels but guys who only get a little bit of sex so they become super douche bags and fuck everyone over because of how thirsty they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 07:19 PM
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When you get your heart broken enough times, you learn to stop giving a shit about whether your girl stays or goes, and when she goes, you say SEE YA!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 05:19 PM
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You never know who knows somebody or has a skill set that will ruin your fucking life, lol.
/r/seduction28/06/17 12:09 AM
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Well I still think you dont need to share anything that specific in common, for example: The guy talks to the girl and she reveals that she does competitive feild hockey, well the skinny nerd doesnt play any actual sports but he can still connect on the emotions involved. He plays league of legends, a competitive game with a ranking system that always adjusts and places you in challenging matches, you have to put in 1000s of hours to become best in the world, or at least top 1% of the world. Sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 07:09 PM
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To some yes... it really just exposes the girl as a whore and unfit for a relationship more than it says anything about the guy.
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:44 PM
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Thats what happens though when looking for a ONS, not a relationship. It doesnt matrer that the girl plays league of legends and the guy plays counterstrike, they connect on a more natural level, like shared emotions, or shared expiriences. Shared interests is more what people on okcupid go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:37 PM
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When I broke up with my ex, I calculated that it would have been cheaper to hire a hooker every day for the 3 years we were living together than to date my ex.
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:29 PM
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Is it alpha to be so fearful of other cultures and religions that you have to literally launch grenades at them? Sounds pretty insecure to me
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:21 PM
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Never heard it put that way, when you arent in the moment, the girl doesnt "trust" you. Interesting.
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:16 PM
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Making a move as in kino or making a move as in inviting her to your place? Either or, just assume attraction, pretend she is attracted to you and just go with that flow. You are expected to escalate and lead her, so do it until you get evidence that she wants you to slow down. Dont overdo it, remember, you have a million other girls out there to go after next, so it doesnt matter what happens with this ONE GIRL.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:25 PM
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Its only awkward if you dont play it off smooth and just keep talking as if absolutely nothing just happened.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:22 PM
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Two of the biggest pitfalls I notice people hit, are overthinking everything, and short attention span. Overthinking is fixed by doing what you mentioned, limiting your intake of unneccesary information. Short attention span is the internet's fault. Social media and instant gratification of googling something and its there, instantly, has made our brains conditioned to look no farther than a few days into the future. What you really should be doing is looking far far out into the future. You don…
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:20 PM
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Next time will be less humiliating, and then less so again. Imagine watching your gf get fucked by another guy and then she tells everyone in your social circle you like to watch her get fucked when you wanted to keep it on the down low (true story). Pretty humiliating the first time, but it makes you really not give a fuck the next 'socially awkward/embarassing moment'.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:11 PM
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I had the exact same thought as OP about messing with a girls hair but one girl told me flat out, that it was fine and she actually enjoyed fingers running through her hair and getting it all messy.
/r/seduction23/06/17 03:53 PM
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Its a slippery slope! That's why I actively avoid all negativity and negative seeming subreddits or media in general. In fact i dont even watch TV or movies much anymore. While I was deep in the middle of my relationship, I would feed off of negativity which was destroying my health mental and physical. When I got out, I was in so much pain that I had expirienced that when the weight was lifted off my shoulders, I had an epiphany. I basically realized that my psycho abusive ex had given me a bea…
/r/seduction23/06/17 03:41 PM
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Seriously? How many nerds go to a 10/10 model and talk about video games? My guess is probably zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:27 PM
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For the same reason I ask out 100 girls to get laid once, a girl will fuck 100 guys to get ONE long term relationship. Its a numbers game. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 05:50 PM
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You hit the mother fucking nail on the head. Damn did you date my ex too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 03:17 PM
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How hard is it to drink coffee and eat less? Thats all any fat woman has to do to get to "normal weight", dont even work out! Shit, you burn hundreds of calories just sitting on your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 03:10 PM
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Think about it this way: shes going to the gym to look hotter OUTSIDE the gym, go find her when she leaves and goes out clubbing, duh.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:07 PM
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A pic of all my stacks of drug dealing money, jk. But a stack of money should make anyone smile.
/r/seduction20/06/17 08:10 PM
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The bridge to learning seduction is to learn social skills first. You need to go out and seek expirience talking to strangers. Guys and girls, like the other poster said. This is actually my warmup for talking to girls, start with talking to a bunch of random people old and young, male and female that you would NEVER fuck. Then move on to talk to the girls you want to fuck.
/r/seduction20/06/17 08:07 PM
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Side note: noticed you were in DC, I am moving there as soon as my piss can test clean for one of them fancy DC jobs. The 5 or 6 times I've been there have been full of young fit sexy women, like night and day compared to bumfuck, USA. I cant wait.
/r/seduction20/06/17 05:25 PM
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You cant fully appreciate quality without a little quantity.
/r/seduction20/06/17 04:38 PM
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Cheating sucks ass, but remember all guys your age are thirsty as fuck and will do ANYTHING to get laid, even fuck someones girlfriend. They dont care, it sucks that your ex played along but its usually the guy leading and the guy persisting and persisting until she gives in. The bright side is that you know you couldnt be able to trust her with kids and she wont be there for you in sickness and in health. So what? The mission is to find a girl that wont cheat, no matter what, so honestly you wa…
/r/seduction20/06/17 04:32 PM
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Dude what reason did you have for not leaving with her?!?!?!
/r/seduction16/06/17 08:02 PM
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I've been the "boyfriend" in this situation and yes there is drama that will come to you lol.
/r/seduction16/06/17 05:47 PM
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Dude youre not fooling anyone with your 1 hour walk that conviently ends up at your front door. Come up with better date ideas, where you can build up more rapport, you are not giving the girl what she needs to want to fuck you. You probably make them all feel like sluts because you didnt put any effort into the actual date (a simple walk).
/r/seduction16/06/17 05:45 PM
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"Okay I know what it feel like to be young and single You know the life when your pockets got a bunch of singles You know taking double shots, saying fuck a single You know, hardly getting sleep but it' the fuckin' dream though"
/r/seduction09/06/17 08:23 PM
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Yeah its my first relationship so im not too upset, I'll be ready to play 4D chess next time...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 08:02 PM
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Seems like a lot of work compared to being single. Glad I didnt marry her...still I dont get why she would cheat given the opportunity to have an open relationship, now she gets no house, no car, no phone, no boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 07:18 PM
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I guess I screwed myself over when I paid for everything and worked long hours to give her enough boredom to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 06:07 PM
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Spot on, also realize that if your girlfriend is posting tons of cute pics all the time, that is a red flag. I was in a relationship with a photographer so she argued she posts more than the average person in terms of cute couple pics on social media. Well it wasnt that she was a photographer at all, she was insecure and hated herself and ended up cheating on me in the end.
/r/seduction01/06/17 06:04 PM
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Dont worry about it, if your fears are realized, then you'll know she isnt the right one for you. If she is so convinced by a bitter ex to leave your ass you dont want either of them in your life.
/r/seduction01/06/17 05:38 PM
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How hard is it to NOT cheat right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 03:55 PM
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Yeah you're totally right, it's got some truths and concepts that people arent really taught, but I just see a lot of people that have given up on life... like a lot of undiagnosed depression in that sub. Its sad that there is a lot of inaction and just sitting around idleing. Idle hands are the devils playground, wake up every day like youre on a mission!
/r/seduction01/06/17 03:47 PM
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The twerps on redpill are, ironically not "woke". They seem to all have been cheated on, horribly, and could not get over it. I get it! Fucking sucks to get your heart ripped out and eaten right in front of you. No one denies it's probably the worst type of pain you could possibly feel. But if you are still dwelling on the past instead of moving the fuck on and making your ex jelly with all your money, there is something wrong.
/r/seduction01/06/17 02:54 PM
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I truly believe in acting however the fuck you want whenever. But, pay attention, does it get you more phone numbers? More people talking to you? Do you make a lot of enemies? Are you being kicked out of venues? Adjust and try again. Find your own style and dont try to act how you have been taught by society.
/r/seduction01/06/17 02:50 PM
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What are you people clinging to? I was clinging to a mortgage and wedding plans for a while until this girl had to full blown cheat on me. Now that I am single, I feel fantastic, I have nothing to lose, the house is getting sold for a large chunk of money and then I am doing whatever the fuck I want ad infinitum. I guess you need a head start, but what if it never falls into your lap? You will be dead one day, do you not picture your entire future up until death, regret it, and then live every d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 03:52 PM
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I dated a paychopath too, lol. My family and friends were not telling me to leave her. They are fucking weak. They told me random cliches that didnt apply to my relationship, and expected me to figure it out from subtle hints. No people, if you think I should run run run away from a girl, fucking tell me right the fuck away! I learned after I broke up with the girl they all had very strong opinions they kept to themselves. Fucking nuts man you cant trust anyone after some bullshit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 03:36 PM
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Yeah tell me about it, first girlfriend had me hooked for 5 years because she was so attractive in this way and other ways. She turned out to be a literal diagnosed sociopath that could never trust me, and I had to cut my losses, but for a while I was trying to convince her my house was a safe space for her as long as she didnt do anything to hurt me. I had even offered her an open relationship since she had some promiscuity issues related to some mental illness, she wasnt able to stop lying to …
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:21 PM
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Correct, I was just thinking of why the other poster was so jaded, expiriencing cheating/jealousy is the only reason someone would be so salty about girls getting laid.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/17 04:34 PM
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Theres ethical ways to be a slut, and there are unethical ways (cheating) If they are cheating to get most of their partners, they have some sort of mental illness.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/17 02:56 PM
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I dated a girl that fucked my friend for 5 years. He quickly became not my friend anymore haha. Immediately when we had sex for the first time, she could tell something was different. Apparently the guy was a complete asshole in bed, would never eat her out, told her she tasted disgusting, told her that other women looked better, and when they had sex it was never with the lights on and basically she did all the work every time. She was SHOCKED to find out sex wasnt like that with everyone. For …
/r/seduction18/05/17 05:43 PM
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I am a hobby addict, for some reason I will discover something accidently, get obsessed with it and brain dump for months and buy all the equipment, and then move on to a new hobby. The problem for me isnt finding out info about the hobby, its discovering new hobbies and getting enough interest to break critical mass and get me involved. Perhaps some sort of hobby finder where you input some skills or past hobbies and it returns a list of related hobbies to choose from. And maybe a 101 tutorial …
/r/seduction18/05/17 05:20 PM
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I think the rape culture is real. The issue is not the civilians involved or not involved in a crime, its the investigation methods done by the authority figures that needs changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 09:21 PM
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Ummm dude, I witnessed a rape first hand and the guy literally got off scott free. Rape accusations do not ruin lives like you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 09:05 PM
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Both obviously have a place. Being recently single after 5 years of living with someone, I'm definately NOT looking for another girlfriend. I wouldnt mind getting laid in the recovery time though...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:07 PM
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They had arcades, which means you had to leave your house and socialize in person with other humans, the most likely way to find sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:03 PM
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Woah we still do weed bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:01 PM
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You dont. That is the correct answer. Most people who want to "open" their relationship never discussed it with their partner the first few years they were together. If you are into this type of shit, you NEED to tell your partner early.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:56 PM
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Life is weird. You invest 100% of your life into a hobby and you become an expert at it. You put 100% of your life into a girl and you lose all your friends, push her away, lose your health and sanity. People need to learn how to be alone. Alone is the default state we are in when born (unless you have a twin, I guess). Alone no one can hurt you or betray you. Its pretty fucking safe when youre all alone so it is funny as shit that everyone is afraid of being alone.
/r/seduction10/05/17 05:08 PM
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I have hundreds if not thousands of pics of me and my ex online if you google my name, we were planning on getting married, we had a long and busy relationship. How do I explain that shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:30 PM
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Only if you are in the right place at the right time and dont say anything to fuck it up. Statistics lesson for this sub: Lets say you have 100 girls in your Bio 101 class. 30 of them go to bars/clubs sometimes. Out of those 30, 12 cant hold their alcohol, out of those 12, 2 are in shitty relationships, out of those two, one finds you attractive. Right place? Bar/club, right time? Right after that girl that finds you attractive reads an all caps text from her boyfriend. This girl is 1% of the st…
/r/seduction09/05/17 07:25 PM
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I'm lifting to do all those fancy extreme sports, you know, red bull, gopro sponsored things. Why would you lift for some imaginary girl that may or may not exist? Plus its not a free ticket into someones panties, but it does make your brain a lot sharper.
/r/seduction09/05/17 07:16 PM
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I think it refers to being vulnerable in shit tests, you dont introduce the flaw, she does. "I hear that asians have small dicks" "Yeah but its not the size of the sword its how you use it in battle." You dont approach a girl and go: "i have a small dick, HOWEVER, its not the size-....."
/r/seduction09/05/17 07:05 PM
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I dunno dude, its not really "fucking" without some slapping, hair pulling or choking, which im sure our ancestors did a lot of. "Just dicks and holes" I have a fleshlight for this lol, and raw attraction = porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:35 PM
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I mean the whole post was about human nature changing and people thinking going out alone is weird. I think it has to do with this social media making everyone have low as fuck self esteem.
/r/seduction04/05/17 10:36 PM
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I feel like pre-tinder and post-tinder is a paradigm shift we should really be paying attention to. A lot of the older theory on this sub isnt as relevant as it was 5 years ago. So we simply have to adapt.
/r/seduction04/05/17 09:23 PM
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Sex is closer to a drug addiction than hunger like for steak. When you are having ten orgasms a day, you are going to have a different personality than someone who has one orgasm a week. Just like the daily weed smoker versus the dude who just smokes at partys. You need to expiriment with both and figure out which mindset (which in this case is more like blood-orgasm-concentration) fits the best with your goals and lifestyle. It will affect each person differently. Hunger for food is the same pe…
/r/seduction04/05/17 09:04 PM
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Yeah, because a person you know is less likely to find out you masturbate to them than a stranger that youll never see again....
/r/seduction04/05/17 08:57 PM
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Amen. Perfect response length, dont dwell on the past people, look at it once and move the fuck on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:54 PM
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Damn I agree with this post 100%, that is my observation and assumption as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:45 PM
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Male-male marriages have the lowest rate of divorce, and infidelity, while female-female marriages are the highest rate of both. Hetero couples are in the middle. Coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:45 PM
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Wonder if he would get this upset if she had cancer and her hair literally fell out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:02 PM
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That's very true. I honestly don't even think I'm staying in this area if I'm not tied down anymore. I have big ass plans now that I've never been able to access before. It's kinda cool and exhilarating that I can now do whatever the fuck I want, and I'm going to take advantage of it because I don't have a load of time on earth.
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:54 PM
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The biggest issue I had was that I felt like I didn't deserve her throughout the whole relationship. It became a self fulfilling prophecy. I am making it my mission to be the man that deserves that girl, or a similar one. It's weird how society has pussyfied this generation. We have the lowest self esteem, of any generation, thanks to the internet, social media, you know. You hear that hard work pays off all your life, but because of this weird societal programming, you doubt yourself, even if y…
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:41 PM
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Talking about looks? There are many thousands of 10/10 looking women. Personality is more difficult. Do they have a passion they have been very invested in all their life? Have they made sacrifices to get ahead? Are they someone you would kill or die for? Once in a lifetime maybe, you find someone who ticks all of these boxes, however the nature of this "unicorn" and the struggles that they have overcome make it very hard to date a unicorn. The relationship will be a lot of work and a lot of dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:19 PM
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You see this in society today, have you ever heard the term main bitch/side bitch? Every guy has one woman they would kill/die for, the rest are just there for fucking. But that is why marriage exists, because guys usually only want to provide for that one alpha female that stands out among all their past flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:11 PM
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Dude the worst thing you can do is be hard on yourself for not figuring out all this shit earlier. Some people NEVER become "woke", while you and the majority of active posters are actually on the right path! You're all here for self improvement, all my homies are on the same mission, JUST A DIFFERENT PHASE. Don't get phased by the difference in phase.
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:00 PM
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I had an amazing relationship and journey with the most perfect girl you could ever imagine. We tried to make it work but we started dating very young when we both had massive personal issues and insecurities. I was an extreme pussy and didn't listen to my gut and made tons of mistakes. TONS. We also had a ton of assholes that always tried to fuck up what we had. It's tough dealing with rape, psych ward, jail, hospital ER visits. Very tough. We just broke up and are the best of friends however w…
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:49 PM
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That's so true that's been my observation. It seems like very very few people who get married are actually fully ready for everything they are signing up for. I see many more problems than perfect relationships and it's all because people get married while they still have personal issues and insecurities and don't work it out while alone and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:42 PM
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That's pretty much the only strategy that has success for her actually. Last weekend, she was talking to a bar tender at a cafe for 5 min, wrote him her phone number on a note, at the end of their long conversation, and then tried to give it to him. He said I don't want your trash! And pushed it back lol. He had decided in his head that there was zero chance with this girl and he made it a self fulfilling prophecy! What a strange thing to witness first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:36 PM
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That's true, she gets massive positive attention but only at party's and clubs, never anywhere casual in the day time. Very weird how people can't loosen up without drugs and loud music these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:15 PM
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Holy shit this. My best friend has been trying to date a type that people here would call "nerds". Why would a pretty girl date a nerds? Everyone on this sub knows that never happens. Ever. Except this one wants to!!! Literally all the "nerds" she tries to talk to, they just assume she is making fun of them or being a giant cunt, when she's HONESTLY TRYING TO SHOW INTEREST. fuck you stupid nerds, seriously learn how to talk to women. This girl cries in my face that she will be alone forever beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:52 PM
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The answer to that is obvious, but what if you are making money, you live alone and single and you pay 3000 to bills every month and the rest goes to partying and sex? Is it only shameful because the person is living with their parents? Or is it shameful because seeking those egotistical pleasures is not fulfilling in the long run?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:35 PM
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Makes sense that's pretty sinister honestly...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:15 PM
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A guy valuing his virginity is less common than a girl proudly being a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:57 PM
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Being prettier than everyone is the EXACT SAME THING as being uglier than everyone. People visually and verbally express their discomfort with BOTH GROUPS. It's because the pretty girl is different. The ugly girl is different. People hate different, different means outsider. Must protect the herd, get away from me pretty girl@! Seriously have any of you ever talked to a super attractive girl? They get bullied and harassed and stalked if they use social media. They are under constant attack daily…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:45 PM
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