Throwra56743821 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Who is wrong here?		Throwra56743821	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 12:50 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	"How to Keep a Disagreement from Becoming an Argument" This is great! Thank you for posting.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 09:32 PM
1	Who is wrong here? Unmarried. He recently got a new job, and cannot travel however this trip has been planned for a year now and was non-refundable. I have no other adult traveling with me, and was very reluctant to bring an infant along without his help. I am absolutely willing to admit that some of my behaviors are emasculating, and I would like to improve those. Thank you for sharing those resources.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 04:41 PM
1	Who is wrong here? No, but I know I definitely suffered at least the first ~8 months. It was easily the hardest part of my life. The last 1.5 months, I have been in a much better headspace. And actually, I don’t want to give him away. He was a planned baby, and is one of the joys of my life… but if his dad leaves I will have little to no help outside of work hours… and he gave me an ultimatum that one of us will be the primary parent. Very tough scenario.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 02:24 PM
1	Who is wrong here? Thank you for your response.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 10:45 AM
2	Who is wrong here? I do believe he’s safe for the child.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 10:44 AM
1	Who is wrong here? Yes, I am guilty of that.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 02:49 AM
1	Who is wrong here? What does nut checking mean?	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 02:42 AM
4	Who is wrong here? You’re right. As of today.. with ALL men… I’m committing to STFU when faced with disrespect and gray rocking when an answer is necessary. I think this is best for me personally… applying it to all men should help with consistency. I had tried to STFU before but would “lose” when I needed to respond.. now I know to gray rock. Thank you again for sharing this.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 02:16 AM
1	Who is wrong here? Thank you. Via text, I think this is great… what if deciding to STFU pisses him off more?	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 02:07 AM
1	Who is wrong here? Yeah, truly I think that also impacts my response… I’m so anxious because it’s my first time away and he is refusing updates… then some person I have never met is coming over and he’s saying I’m irking for asking if it’s a man or woman. Well.. at least a lesson learned in actually being vulnerable in my response. I shouldn’t be so afraid. It’s okay to be vulnerable.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:59 AM
1	Who is wrong here? I believe I have included everything in the comments at this point. Honestly, the vetting piece may be true. I will note, my other relationships had much better communication. Looking back, I believe I easily get triggered with him because I have been called names and seen his anger escalate so… I can be defensive sometimes… and my way of avoiding was to just walk away.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:57 AM
1	Who is wrong here? No, I have not. I asked for updates on the baby and he said he’s too busy.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:50 AM
1	Who is wrong here? If he is away, he will send his location, give frequent updates, FaceTime… but since I’m away he hasn’t FT once.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:35 AM
1	Who is wrong here? This was the first time he ever did that… he asked me why the baby was in a specific spot… he yelled at me though and not responding was me trying to internally calm down and he took it as disrespect and escalated.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:33 AM
0	Who is wrong here? I suppose amends were not completely reached as I did still have some harbored feelings built up… so being called a name for asking who was coming over felt.. wrong. I wasn’t looking to find trouble… but I do care about who is coming over, knowing where we live.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:31 AM
1	Who is wrong here? He was in my opinion. He blew up and started screaming/breaking my items because I didn’t respond to him.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:27 AM
0	Who is wrong here? Yes he’s been unfaithful before… which is why I jumped to that place.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:23 AM
2	Who is wrong here? These are good responses. Thank you! I think you’re right about making amends. It’s likely feelings are still lingering. He is very clearly still upset w me. I did go from 20-100… we are both frustrated I see.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:17 AM
2	Who is wrong here? How to respond to disrespect in a positive way? Was it “wrong” to ask if a man or woman would be at the home?	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:08 AM
1	Who is wrong here? Not validation for my choice… but wondering if there are additional resources for improved communication that anyone could recommend? Also, how women here might have handled themselves? I’m not quite sure how to handle disrespect from a partner in a way that transforms the dynamic positively.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 01:08 AM