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DISCUSSIONThrowthisaway512/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:58 AM
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#KickHimOut2020Throwthisaway512/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:58 PM
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NAH, SISThrowthisaway512/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:47 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGThrowthisaway512/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:44 PM
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DISCUSSIONThrowthisaway512/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:52 AM
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NAH, SISThrowthisaway512/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:05 PM
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DISCUSSIONThrowthisaway512/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:32 PM
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DISCUSSIONThrowthisaway512/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:56 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEThrowthisaway512/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:45 AM
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The only way I wouldn’t be creeped out by the perfume would be if he worked in a high end or niche fragrance company and you both had a common interest in the subject that got brought up beforehand organically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:37 PM
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I needed to see this today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:35 PM
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Send him to a debtors' prison???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:14 PM
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I just realized that he’s wearing the same pants (flash is on in the second pic) Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:47 PM
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Perhaps, that could be a start. Maybe someone posting on the rogan sub and or Spotify subs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:55 AM
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I call them life diggers. Taking our life force one scrotey act at a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:17 AM
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I could see it, especially now that he’s on Spotify. Who wants to see if we can make it happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:50 PM
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You know maybe if we can get Elon to somehow foot the bill and send these dudes up there I might actually think the musk isn’t so crappy. 🚀 to the 🌙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:42 PM
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Exactly. I’m also extremely concerned that this will escalate into more overt forms of domestic abuse (let’s be honest it’s probably already happening) because things like this are a huge red flag. I have a similar story on a much lesser scale (wouldn’t let me get pads and locked me out of the house and I had to sit in the heat and bleed all day) and that was a major wake up call to leave. He tried killing his family the day after I escaped. I’m also quite sure she’s probably separated from fami…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:23 PM
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You bring up an excellent point about using our financial resources to crowdsource more women’s only spaces and social media campaigns/nonprofits etc. I’m curious what you think about the above ground (like FDS, non profits etc) and possible options for more underground communication (dark web, irc servers, the list goes on) I worry about women in places like Afghanistan and how some of these tech groups had to wipe off server data to protect the women working for them. I wonder if there’s a way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:49 PM
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I’m dying omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:32 PM
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About as shameful as a grown ass man in a light bright broom closet playing video games 🤮 Level up your life sis and kick man out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:05 PM
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What’s the Apple air tag?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:06 PM
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Forgive me if I can’t read the description of the ring from the website in the picture but doesn’t that say CZ? Cubic zirconia??? 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:42 PM
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Sounds like her date will be ok if he can still have room with that 2 inches. Safety first! 🤣🤣🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:41 AM
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They want a confident woman to break down. Sad but usually true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:37 PM
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Sims 3 is the best. I do prefer the older ones but I would recommend 3 compared to 4 because of the open landscape etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:19 AM
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Yeah when I clicked on it a pop up ad appeared saying something like “How to spot a girl who’s acting good but has slept with 100 men”. Jesus, 100 men? These scrotes are so deluded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:15 AM
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I agree, there were many examples of strong women in country but there’s a lot of pickme songs too. Like I think Dolly Parton is a badass woman but “Jolene” doesn’t inspire confidence in women like “9 to 5” in her later career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:17 PM
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Good suggestion about placing cans in strategic spots. I’d also recommend to place a working burner phone taped inside each bathroom counter/sink area. You never know when you might need to call the police in a hurry and bathrooms can be a place to hide but there isn’t always a exit window. In a robbery or even DV situation you might not have time to grab your phone. Just wanted to add to your great point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:39 AM
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“All I want to do is meet”. Funny that every country guy I knew had at least a horse, atv, truck or some shitty van with farm use tags on that they would use to go meet girls. What’s your excuse Jamie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:31 AM
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Cater 2 U by Destiny’s Child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:05 PM
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Hormones are another major contributing factor that overlaps between ED and hair loss. For hair loss in men, the primary hormone involved is dihydrotestosterone (DHT), a by-product of testosterone which triggers changes in hair thinning and growth. Testosterone is also heavily involved in erectile dysfunction. I would say if you see many different signs that he could be pornsick and notice this in his early to mid 20’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:52 AM
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I totally agree with the “finishing himself off” portion, especially with the looking away. cagey about internet use or web history. receding hairline before age where such a thing would be normal shifty, dead eyes that look thru you instead of a normal gaze. excessive video game use with sexualized themes/anime. A history of porn sickness in his family. Notice the fathers, uncles, relatives views on porn. Do they treat women like objects? If you ever go over to their homes do they leave out mag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:52 PM
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Mine did before the abuse started and during and after trying to get me to come back. I could definitely see that being a red flag if it comes up a lot. Good eye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:27 PM
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Years ago a well known Youtuber I was friends with once tried pulling that crap on me. “Send me some money.” I straight up blocked his ass and last time I heard he became demonetized and destitute. It doesn’t matter how well off they are, they still will be leeches if they think your a good mark. I just can’t imagine the sheer weight of men’s audacity sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:50 PM
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Thank you for your reply, I’m sorry that monster did that you you. It’s a shitty thing to realize that it’ll take years. I appreciate you sharing your story. I’m not so alone after all. Just sucks that we all experienced something similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:39 PM
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That was really hard to read but thank you for taking the time out to respond, it really resonates with me. Your completely right, all of y’all are. I appreciate that you know I’m not coming at this from a “I care about him or his response” and more from a trying to repair my body from trauma. I’m not ready. I don’t think I’ll ever be but I’ll try to look into therapy. It’s too expensive and every time I’ve tried it really doesn’t go to the level I need. (Being on the spectrum makes it harder in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:31 PM
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I know this. But I still just don’t want my body to have these issues, it’s not healthy. I don’t need a man in my life. I’m not a pickme thinking I need a man or else. I just want my body to work again. It sucks to know I’m still so broken. I don’t want my body to now be my enemy as well. Edit: I’m sorry if I sound angry. I’m not angry at you. Just upset that now even my body hates me. It’s like my ex completed ruined everything about me. I know I’m a complete, whole person but this just feels l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:33 PM
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Yeah I can’t even enjoy self stimulation. I know this takes time and I’ve taken over a year off. I know there’s no magic button but it’s getting pretty unmanageable and unsustainable. With Covid I can’t see people or meet them. I dropped all of my bad friends except for one and even though I get Covid tested every other day for my job my best friend is too scared to hang out. I’m happy being alone with myself and thoughts but I think the lack of any socialization (especially anything with touch)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:31 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate the response. I’ve done therapy and dv groups. I honestly just think it’s over for me in that dept. As sad as it is I’m just too damaged and I don’t even think 5 years time will change this. I’m just so scared. It affects everything in my life. I’ll probably just go back to isolation because it’s safer. This sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:27 PM
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It’s either he’s straight up using her and will kick her out or something even more sinister.Financial abuse, isolation (probably has property in a rural town) and the fact that she keeps bringing it up makes me believe he could get extremely violent. Perhaps even make her “disappear” and to not have to worry anymore about her asking questions. Men have done it for much less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:21 PM
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I agree. I haven’t dated in over a year. I recently tried and the guy was actually pretty decent as far as not being a blatant misogynist. But I can’t ignore what I now have learned. And I don’t think I’ll ever be able to date again. I can’t unlearn their hatred and degradation of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:03 AM
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God imagine if she’s seen him in the act! So embarrassing to know that her daughter is completely being used by a waking porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:31 PM
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Damn I work in higher security and I still could introduce people to my parents or friends. The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:42 PM
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If his mom can see who would potentially be over while she’s at work I wonder if she can see the blatant porn sickness too? Because they don’t care about hiding it ever. (The fact that she already has to have her mom play PI to figure out this asshats deal is a whole new low)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:31 PM
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THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:51 PM
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Jesus I’m 4’11 and used to deal with that bullshit from guys. Just ugh. Like why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:26 AM
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I used to have a gay male friend call/text me at one am only when at the bar and then later “so weird I have a bad sleeping schedule!” Very odd because he tried coming onto me on my birthday then denying it and now still tried with these texts. BLOCKED I really wonder what was up because the duration of our friendship was actually very emotionally healthy. Then like in the last two months it became that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:00 PM
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A football injury. Yes you heard that right. He blamed college football for never being able to penetrate once successfully (at least he was generous in other ways) But looking back i personally think he was too wrapped up in not having football that he just went soft? So weird. Found out years later thru a text after he’s married that “it now works! I miss you blah blah” 🤮 I told his wife. Felt like a touchdown in my book. Sadly she’s a pickme and is glad he is a good guy (doesn’t beat her etc …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:46 AM
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This needs to be on a mug or t shirt. I’d buy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:03 PM
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I hate to use such a degenerate term but it really sounds like topping from the bottom but even worse. Don’t try to turn your mommy role into something more “palatable” by modern standards. Why would she even find this loser attractive in the first place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:24 PM
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It always is a Kevin isn’t it? 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:45 PM
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Jesus, is it too early to have a drink? Please let this be fake. We can only hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:45 PM
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Imagine if it was your favorite sweater from your college in the load he destroyed. Imagine having your favorite clothes (and we are worth more than what he would replace) ruined because simple household tasks are “too hard” or “women’s work”. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:05 PM
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Well mine was in va but I’m a Texan. Look at my post history and you’ll see my story. Why are they all like this? I know but still.... it’s just astounding we even allow men around us tbh. Edit: also it was a weekend, white male almost 30 and he tried doing it in retaliation on his own family for me leaving him due to domestic violence. Texas doesn’t surprise me in the least. I remember the DV hotline told me that in deep rural areas it’s the worst in call numbers. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:48 PM
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Holy crap, that was chilling those stats. Why is it so predictable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:07 PM
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Did y’all notice his smile as he said that? FUCKING REVOLTING. My ex was like this. I had to disclose my past out of force and he pulled the same shit but then screamed at me for over a day straight smashing holes in the wall because I wasn’t “pure and I lied” Normally I’d say if you in a healthy relationship over time you can disclose but now I disagree. I think subconsciously they can use that as ammo in the manipulation toolbox. Especially because her story of trauma should never be told in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:14 PM
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Cheapskate LVM are waiting to invest in extra audacity this Black Friday because “nO GoLDiGgerS!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:24 PM
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“But he only takes girls he REEEALLY likes out on dates to the shallot field! See, he’s so cultured he even asked to go dutch! Totally a feminist, just give him a chance!!!” - the pickme friend who’s a cool girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:46 PM
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Once you decide your not going to be Barbra the Builder the NVM will suddenly “upgrade” with one of those tiny fisher price child tables and then demand again “What do YOUU bring to the table?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:41 PM
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Jesus, of course he’s an AEW fan. As a wrestling fan you’d get it. I love going to shows but this sight is sadly common in all promotions :( Royal Rumble this year was almost ruined when the guy next to me looked like and talked like him. Kept trying to hit on me. When I still dated I really wanted a man I could share my love of wrestling with but sadly the guys who like it are very much like that photo. And don’t get me started on wrestling guys and their podcasts/YouTube’s = complete NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:58 PM
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And not just the dick pics. Men will give away their children’s college funds in a blink of an eye of it means any chance to meet the model. They have no shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:31 AM
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Men get off thinking they “ruined” you. The audacity in him to think he’s actually more than a passing memory in your life. He’s not satan, he’s worse.... the average modern LVM. “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” - Maya Angelou And I’d follow that wisdom with a instant BLOCK when you find the trash taking itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:28 AM
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Your right, always assume anything they suggest will lead to easier sex for them. Anything. If you are thinking “ What a chivalrous suggestion...” always take a step back and see what it’s giving him. If they cared about COVID then why invite someone they don’t know into their home? Do they think they won’t get it if they use a condom? Like it just contracts on their dick? Probably because men usually only think about their dicks anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:22 AM
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I once had a platonic male friend not text me for six days because he “was busy packing” for a one day trip. Because of FDS I blocked every single man except for 2 because I expect better in my life. It feels so good to not be surrounded by LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:10 AM
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Also here is Gail Dines Ted Talk “Growing Up In A Pornified Culture https://youtu.be/_YpHNImNsx8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:41 AM
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That’s great! I hope y’all have a happy and supportive relationship. I would encourage you to still continue to vet, develop friendships and do things on your own occasionally. What concerns me is when you said “He completely understands this and obviously encourages me to end the relationship if anything red flag worthy ever happens.” I just want you to know that you can choose to respond/end things if red flags appear. You don’t need anyone’s permission. And healthy partners should want the be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:19 AM
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KickHimOut2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:47 PM
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Scrotes be scrotin’. God forbid she has any success of her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:20 PM
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Next up, “The Scrotation Effect”, a hard hitting chat show where men break down difficult issues like “why doesn’t that bitch respect me?” And “of course she was asking for it!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:06 PM
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I’m happy for you but I hate to join in and add possible rain to a parade but stay vigilant. You didn’t state how long y’all have been dating or how you met. Unfortunately it can take years to even spot abusive behaviors so please stay aware. I don’t want you to feel trapped if it suddenly isn’t so amazing and stay longer “because you don’t want to be wrong or felt like you built their image up to others and now the actions don’t match” (I’ve personally done that before.) You’ve come out of a pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:46 PM
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“I like a woman without makeup.” - Too intimidated by your looks and is afraid you will leave him so he suggests you never need it. Will rage if you put on mascara for work. “What are you looking for?” - I want to know what you want so I can pretend to be that to sleep with you for three weeks. “I like strong women.” - Is actually intimidated by strong women but wants a mommy to make decisions for him. “I need space in the relationship.” - Likely needs space in order to hide his side piece, cont…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:32 PM
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And ofc it’s teenage. 🤮 I’ll say it again, drop the man and get a dog. At least the dog will protect you unlike these NVM’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:25 PM
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This is weird. Really weird. What did her family and friends think when she posted this? At least she can be there to “spend quality time with HER man” and “celebrates his victories” when he wins. That’s bonding in 2020! Does anyone remember that fb post of the woman who was proud that her man stayed at home gaming because he “wasn’t in the streets” “starting wars” and that “he comes home to play to unwind with me, IM sOo LUcKy!” ? The only games these pickme’s are winning are 🏅 in mental gymnas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:20 PM
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Like a shallot perhaps? (Lol I had to do the bit)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:36 AM
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Bold of you to assume he owns a belt 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:30 AM
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There are women who do steroids (tbh I’m not on any now) and I’ve noticed when they do run a cycle they at least care about how their behavior affects others. And even in women’s bodybuilding communities the energy is positive and not incel at all. I’m not advocating for steroid use but I do notice these trends. And even women who do testosterone (wouldn’t recommend, I could go in why but not the point) know to not be a dick and use gear as an excuse to be an asshole. I’ve seen guys get tren and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:17 AM
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Yup, I’ve posted my story here before. I totally agree. I’m a trainer and I don’t associate with people who run tren. I almost got killed and it ruined a engagement over it. SARMS are even less tested than anabolics and harder to notice (no injection site etc) but can still drastically change someone’s personality and health. When my ex was on this crazy cycle (1000 + mg a week test +tren+decca and no pct) he tried killing himself multiple times, literally with his own two hands beat up his car …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:11 AM
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I remember when I was 18 and lost my best friend at the time by suicide at the funeral his band mate had the AUDACITY in the beginning when they ushered people in to give condolences to LEAN IN, SNIFF MY HAIR and say loudly “You smell sexy.” Not a “sorry for your loss” or anything. Tried later to get me to sleep with him. I threw ice tea in his face later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:22 PM
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Rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6. Always defend yourself. Yes you could possibly face legal issues but self defense is easier than you think in court as a woman. What’s not easier is dying or getting taken or raped. But always try to flee first instead of getting closer to the attacker and engaging in a fight. Don’t ever close the distance if you can. I’m so sorry you had to experience this. Sadly all women do at least a couple times in their life. I’m slowly developing a modern woman’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:38 AM
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Late 20’s as well, I’ve noticed this texting phenomenon happening across all ages now. When I used to date I usually dated older (ugh) and even most of the younger men would ask to take me on a proper date. In the past four or so years I’ve noticed women gen z to boomer women getting the crap end of the stick. They will lead women on, romance scams or just suck the emotional labor/energy of her from 500 miles away via Snapchat. What really shocks me is how many of these “relationships” I see and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:16 AM
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This is dark but I agree. Sometimes I think these men just want babies with big tits, not actual adult women with experiences and agency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:03 AM
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I spit out my coffee. 😭 You know NVM’s these days would be so lazy they’d door dash the gaslighting to “save on a tip.” “Babe your going to have to go 50/50 on this one. That entree of abuse was 18.00 WHOLE DOLLARS!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:32 PM
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Usually in my experience when a man says that he’s terrified because he knows it’s projection of his own insecurity. And it’s usually the most vicious man who will say this right as your waking up to his bs. But what’s fantastic is when a woman knows her worth she sees thru that SO FAST. And who would have known six months later she is THRIVING. They always try to come back. Five months, five years, five decades.... Just live your best life and that’s the best revenge. Good on you OP! I’m so pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:58 PM
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This!!! No matter your race, culture etc don’t let them convince you that you must accept the bottom of the barrel man in order to achieve “proper woman status” (Trademarked by pickme industries)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:49 PM
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Yup! And just to make the burn even worse probably made a “love of my life, blah blah blah” post on social media for all of her loved ones to see. And you know he felt no shame at ALLLL. The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:46 PM
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I feel sorry for her. Female socialization making her believe that marriage is the only real “achievement“ a woman can have. You know she’s trying so hard to not be a “GoLD DiGger like all of the other girls” he’s told her about that rejected his ass a long time ago. And that won’t get her shit except a ring that will turn your finger green. Nice for what again???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:41 PM
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From forever girlfriend to forever common law marriage. Imagine what her friends and family think when she told them and finally when they saw said “ring”. I truly believe that a ring pop has more preservatives and will last longer than that setting/stone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:01 PM
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Will do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:40 PM
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“The Great Big Cope” (Trademarked by pickme incorporated) I hope she wakes up and leaves him. You can’t even pawn that for a better life. You know she probably has invested what little she had and all of her energy into his life and received that trinket instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:34 PM
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No idea, but you are absolutely right about the forever fiancé. I really feel bad for her when she had to show her friends and family that “ring”. Especially because it’s opal and such a cheap setting it will deteriorate within a month of daily use. Opal is easy stone to scratch and will look worse than a ring pop before she gets her “big day” which will be a courthouse wedding if that, it’ll probably be common law. Since she accepted such a ring it will “be enough, who needs labels?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:29 PM
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It’s been a few years since I’ve needed to do this but I would look up their phone number, email and see if it’s already in use (like try to sign up for a profile using his info) Or if that doesn’t work anymore you could always make a account and set it to look by distance. See if he or any guys your talking to are online and in range. Works well if your in a city apt building in a busy area etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:22 PM
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The angry feminist (the boogeyman) - Men notice this strong, confident woman smiling with her head held high walking down the street. Feelings of anger rise up, “what gives her that right to look like that?” Changes into rage and finally depression when they realize she never noticed them in the first place. The woman probably grew out of any of these “boxes” she was forced into by men and culture. Might own cats, plants, be wildly popular or a loving mother. She can be any woman because she car…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:00 PM
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I wonder how the red headed girl feels not being cropped out of this loser’s tinder profile where he straight up fetishized her hair type? I’ve noticed the guys who are “super into redheads” are so weird! Has anyone else noticed this too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:30 AM
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Don’t worry he knows what a shallot is because he was a “chef” at the local Olive Garden (he means dishwasher) but will still mainsplain to you thinking he’s Bourdain anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:01 AM
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But Silverback gorillas have enough instinct to not ruin their mating chances by being unreasonable like these scrotes 🦍 Damn, it seems like men’s evolution is going backwards these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:56 AM
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Omg, sadly that doesn’t surprise me. The audacity to think that she thinks she could just “schedule” something for him and expect a trained professional to just be debased like that because “hE DeSeRVES iTt!!!” I get why these scrotes do this (porn) but society is sick when even women try to victimize other women sexually for the benefit of man. The fact that just casually suggesting prostitution as an option for other women is normalized nowadays is fucked up. Why did society teach her that we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:44 AM
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That’s a very deep statement. Makes you really think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:40 PM
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Hey maybe the bro would put out hence why he had to leave? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:32 PM
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I didn’t get any. But maybe because I can probably lift. I guess they are mad that we speak the truth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:07 PM
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I get the message but I’m still not a big fan of using derogatory language like “bitch” especially when referring to herself. Or the first thing that was worthy was “her fat ass.” I don’t want us to do any extra work for the patriarchy. We internalize enough misogyny as is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:35 PM
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Your forgetting your mace and taser on your keychain :) safety first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:15 AM
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Someone who probably has BPD or some mood disorder. Possible love bombing and can possibly turn abusive. They “might like themselves with you” now but that doesn’t mean a stable self image and you are put responsible for their wildly changing moods. It’s a manipulation tactic 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:15 AM
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Excuse me? Aren’t we supposed to throw out biohazards? I can’t even. I know the city dump does biohazard waste cleanup services. Just schedule for them to pick the whole man up + pillows. It’s the green way 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:06 PM
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Ok story time so buckle up.... I’m in the fitness community. Creatine or protein powder or even a guy going to the gym doesn’t set off alarm bells to me. Wanting to improve yourself can be great! Now if you see any of these things you need to leave IMMEDIATELY! -testosterone under the age of 40 and even older proceed with caution. Now you can be on a replacement TRT dose as a older man due to aging. If he’s under 40, on testosterone and hasn’t been thru cancer or has a illness and says he’s on “…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:51 PM
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But what about a burrito bowl that we 50/50 on, Netflix and chill but when we get there it’s his nest and chill??? 😂 /s I feel so bad for the women who are in the “modern” dating scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:16 AM
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Yeah it was bizarre because at the time he was one of the only “respectful” men who worked there and I guess he recently moved to that location. I’m so glad I left that job three weeks later. So always be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:42 AM
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Also run their numbers thru Grinder and other dating apps if they “aren’t on any” or they say they deleted their dating profile after you. If their number is already registered than you know what’s up. Background check always! There are many different sites but you can always check local counties for arrest records. Also if you ever go to their house check for mail. One day many years ago a chef I worked for paid me to go let his dog out when he couldn’t leave the line for a banquet (this job wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:17 PM
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I miss PPF and GC and all of those subs. I’m so glad FDS is still going strong and reaching almost 100k women. That’s inspiring :) I agree, Reddit is trash except for a few subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:48 PM
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I figured, thanks for the clarification. I knew it wasn’t FDS’s fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:51 PM
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Thank you. I’m surprised you were able to read my comment. Apparently I was flagged for hate speech? As a survivor of dv it really hurts. What did I say that was so hateful? When we really should be looking at women hating and the patriarchy. I love the community. I’m not mad just curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:57 PM
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I completely agree. Almost a year ago I left my ex fiancé and he tried killing his whole family after I left. I’m surprised I even made it out alive, the best acting of my life. Everyone in his community thought he was a “good guy”. Maybe on some “hard times”. These men aren’t monsters... their men and that’s more insidious. Monsters don’t marry and kill their partner. Monsters are fictional things like cartoons. These are real men and dollars to doughnuts the community would make light of his i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:52 AM
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Your right and I was being sarcastic about my original comment. As you know the bar is now in hell but they keep finding new innovative ways to get it even lower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:48 PM
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And I thought they were the more logical sex? Hmm 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:04 PM
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I agree, she’s so radiant! Make me smile just watching her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:28 AM
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I’m from there. News flash: they aren’t 🤠 But I love this state and the independent, strong women it produces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:24 AM
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Or if she asks for him to wipe his ass once. We can’t win on any front with the “modern” male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:03 AM
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To get fucking fast away from the child support office on the other side of the road.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:25 AM
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Oh yeah I recommend Gail yesterday to FDS, I’m so glad more women know of her work! I have had the same issues, many traumas and the fucked up thing is we’re not alone. I’ve never met a woman who hasn’t been victimized in some way because of the patriarchy. I pray that the tide turns and women have access to these works sooner than later. Have you heard of Sheila Jeffreys? She has some very interesting longer books on theory you might enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:54 PM
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Amen sister!!!! If you haven’t read any Andrea Dworkin go check it out, she really helped heal me once I realized the same ugly truths. A lot of women and men are going to tell you that radfem is too angry. We have every reason to be angry because we have eyes and can see what’s being done all over the world to women and girls. I encourage you to keep using your voice for positive change and to connect with other like minded women socially. Maybe when more of us get access to real information an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:36 PM
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It’s so pathetic that he leaves his kids like that. Shows you at least the dog is a more HVM because he’s at least watching them and didn’t dump them like the dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:35 PM
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You aren’t but also the culture encourages it. I believe this gig economy via prostitution thought campaign your seeing now is evidence that we need real solutions. The fact that they are priming these girls, GROOMING them to set them up for the later objectification that will be casually suggested as “empowering”. Trauma manifests in many ways. If you create a culture where women are only valued by their bodies and their nudes are one click away what agency does that give her? How can you be au…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:33 PM
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I know your being sarcastic but ugh I HATE when that’s what’s used as an excuse. The fact that a woman has to degrade herself, get abused at all to get an education. We know there are other options but I’m not here to blame the woman. I know trafficking and what it does to women’s souls. I’ve seen parents practically sell off daughters to older men in order to get money/drugs or to “be taken care of” by someone who’s older than their dad. Hell when I was 18 my mom practically did the same to me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:25 PM
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I do, sex work is not work it’s prostitution. Do we see lawyers and doctors going to Only Fans in droves? I don’t think “sex work” is really about choice, it’s about lack of options for a woman to take care of herself. Why do men say for a woman to get a OF even if they are accomplished because “Your hot, think of the money you’ll make!” Do we ask men to sell their bodies in the same manner? We need to support women who have been trafficked, who have been tricked by the toxic patriarchy by this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:11 PM
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I would have been thrilled to go to wrestling but personally that’s me. It’s a hard sport to get other people interested in so I rarely invite people. But he clearly knows his girlfriends likes so this is sad and pathetic. And on top of that it’s a local show that looks crappy.... why take her to that if you really want to show her your interests? I once took a female friend to see Becky Lynch because she thought she was cool but wasn’t a fan and I made sure on the trip to include multiple thing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:01 PM
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Thanks! I’m thinking of joining the FDS website to post some stories and theory I’ve wrote in order to remain more safe compared to Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:46 PM
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I miss my mom. She died 8 years ago. It is a sad but chilling feeling that I finally broke the cycle of violence, didn’t get trapped in a lifelong abusive relationship like she did (stepdad) and become a workhorse for the various men in her life. She would be proud. I’m just happy I actually have the freedom and wisdom now to be able to live my life how I deserve. I finally think I’m becoming the woman she never dreamed I could be. Isn’t it great when you realize that you thrive regardless of wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:12 AM
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It’s like chicklets but they cost waaay more than 50 cents and definitely leave a bad taste in your mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:11 PM
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Yeah I spent 250 on a chair and saw office chairs that are high end going for 1k on a cable tv ad! And why cancel your meeting to talk to him? Be a boss woman and cancel him instead. Probably less back pain too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:55 PM
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You just beat me to it! 😭😭😭 Is goldsiggers a new flavor of siggis yogurt I haven’t tried yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:49 PM
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I’m dying over here, needed that laugh today 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:29 PM
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Disable your messages if you can. I don’t get them because I did thank goodness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:21 PM
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Exactly! I’m about to become a personal trainer too. Amazing what we can do in our lives once we drop men and their bullshit! Props on your shoulders! That feeling of strength is so important! Proud of you too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:34 PM
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I did it! Got to 220 when years before I had abs. Luckily I’m stronger than before and getting back to what I want my body to be (got into strength and fighting) but for years I did that exact thing. It’s weird when you can pinpoint it in others and even yourself but not make the connection till years later. What helped me after all of that trauma reconnect to my body and confidence is boxing. Being able to know you can hold your own more in public is a very protective feeling. Weight gain is no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:17 PM
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I’m not going to talk about my many experiences but I completely agree. Once you realize men can’t protect you or won’t to protect their friends it’s a scary feeling. Then they try to shame you by saying “not all men!” Well frankly one man is too many so they can fuck off. You have my solidarity and support. I’m so sorry that was done to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:10 PM
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Y’all can make sugar scrubs at home if you want exfoliated skin. Don’t let Facebook and the patriarchy profit any more than they already do by selling you products to fix things. Brown sugar or coffee can work as the exfoliant. Argan or some other type of moisturizing oil and there you go! Just be sure to clean your tub or shower afterwards so you don’t slip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:07 PM
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Roll blunt - 10 min + blunt? Jesus I can already imagine the smell. And how could you honestly respect someone even if they “did the chart”? The smiley face is just insulting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:01 PM
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As a thought experiment I wonder how many times we can count in our lives where we DIDNT feel these things when we had sex? Looking back on my past I honestly can’t count many where I absolutely felt safe and didn’t need to be constantly aware that being a woman meant I had to please them somehow “or else”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:45 AM
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I also love the classic line “Can I tell you something?” (Insert some sick sex stuff) If I had a dollar every time some idiot from grade school on asked me that I’d be Elon Muskrat rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:01 PM
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This is the first thought that popped in my mind so forgive me but I noticed immediately that this could also be used as a pickme tactic to get him to stay over longer/the night? Any time I’ve had to wash my shoes from a hike it takes hours to properly dry them. I was wondering if she thought that might get him to stay over instead of use her and leave like tinder dates usually would. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:23 PM
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Dark Triad, a manipulation technique that is extremely fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:26 AM
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I’ve noticed that too in my past and with female friends of mine. Guys will bring you around their loving, fun family in the hopes that you think they are a good guy. The family is a “look at me I’m safe” ploy. I notice this in the deep south especially if the woman is more traditional. It’s a good smoke screen to make her believe he’s put together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:02 AM
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That is way too accurate for Austin. Almost brings back the disappointing memories. So glad I don’t date men anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:17 AM
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Also nobody pointed out that he got mad when she was looking for the condoms but couldn’t find them. I wonder why the condoms were missing? Also he was upset he couldn’t have sex (without a condom) so that leads her to potentially having his a child with this NVM or a std. Seems like a reproductive coercion on the down low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:07 AM
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I read the “full requirements” on another post and if it was all there I’d be surprised nobody brought up the fact he’s practically describing a jacked dude instead of a natural woman? The only times I hear guys talk about muscular women like that are on steroids, lift and/or have repressed homosexuality (or complications from steroids changing what your attracted to) So no bro I don’t think some magical IFBB pro woman will be there to slave away to some guy who hasn’t even lifted a pot to put w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:17 PM
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Yeah I looked further and you need to buy shit to get more info. I’d love to see a deep dive on this point by point. I really see it in line with domestic abuse in the short time I researched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:49 PM
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I just looked into this “Shogun Method” and it’s fucking sick. Someone needs to do a write up on this for women ASAP. It’s literally talking about how to emotionally enslave a woman. This makes PUA look like child’s play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:03 PM
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Amen I’m primarily a boxer now but I hope this discussion can point new women into better directions and methods of training.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:46 PM
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I also really enjoy Brett Contreas’s Strong Lifts program (I believe he has a new one out) I’ve noticed as a shorter woman that certain machines don’t work the way they should. Or even with a CrossFit box it was difficult to reach a pull up bar. I rarely see researched programs designed for women. Hopefully this post will give me new information!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:37 PM
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If they did then women wouldn’t have to put up with their shit stained underwear so much 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:10 PM
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I loved listening to that show as a kid.
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