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| 3 | Mens Rights Attorney Roy Den Hollander found dead of self inflicted GSW, suspected in Salas family slaying- same MO as Marc Angelucci's assassinationDoes anyone know more details about the judge's role in something to do with the draft and selective service? Putting aside all the Epstein stuff, it seems like that issue had something to do with Marc, the killer of the judge, and something the judge was involved with earlier. It all seems weird and fishy. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/20 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Apparently, How Joan Baez "Refused to Sleep with John Lennon"Interesting comment. I have no clue if a single sentence of this trash article is true, by the way. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/20 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Q: What does it mean to be "real men"?Really great point. Who knows what we can actually learn from images? It is still so interesting to me. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/20 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Q: What does it mean to be "real men"?Thank you for the really fascinating response. It sounds like you are speaking about male sacrifice. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/20 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Q: What does it mean to be "real men"?I really enjoy your responses. Night. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/20 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Q: What does it mean to be "real men"?Wow. I would really love to read your reaction to the video. It's like 3 minutes. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/20 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Q: What does it mean to be "real men"?What a wonderful and interesting response. Thank you. I really find your points interesting and thoughtful. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/20 07:22 AM |
| 1 | How would you as a man (in 2020) respond to these men's magazines (from 1968)?Great to read your response. I honestly don't know if the artists would be impressed by game of thrones or be horrified that their artwork, as displayed on magazine covers, might get somebody fired in 2020. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/20 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How would you as a man (in 2020) respond to these men's magazines (from 1968)?PS Crazy about the nudist colony aspect, isn't it? Anyway, thank you. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/20 06:38 AM |
| 1 | How would you as a man (in 2020) respond to these men's magazines (from 1968)?Thank you for sharing your reaction. I was interested in the covers, not trying to make an argument. Thank you for responding. The additional info is great. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/20 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Betty Friedan on Men's Liberation (1960s)Sorry to not be clearer. I was just copying and pasting something, not trying to make you dig. I read that as she was a feminist who said ideally a child should have a mom and dad or at least biologically come from both sexes. Apparently, that statement caused her grief among other feminists. Being "more relaxed" sounds open to eliminating men entirely from the process somehow. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/20 02:12 AM |
| 5 | Betty Friedan on Men's Liberation (1960s)Interesting. Thanks for the response. I found this: In 1997, she wrote that "children…will ideally come from mother and father."[59] She wrote in 2000, "I'm more relaxed about the whole issue now" | /r/MensRights | 01/05/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about Ecofeminism? I was just introduced to it, am still researching. I wanna know your opinion about it as well.Ecofeminism is especially interesting to me due to how long the "essentialist rhetoric" infused itself into yet another wave. How absolutely sexist and stereotypical it became where a "feminine" or "feminist" or "female way of knowing" approach to the environment involved the exact associations with women as the moral superiors and enlightened guardians of both the moral and now the physical world. Example: I've read Carolyn Merchant's The Death of Nature. It's exactly the type of thing that arg… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Ms. Monopoly says that without women wi-fi would have never existed. Is that true?Does it have to do with the amount of women in early punch cards, telecommunications, and switchboards. We can take that female empowerment tale back into the telegraph days. But dang, imagine the claim that men were involved in an early phase, followed by a later phase dominated by women. The claim that men invented the late phase is pretty awful to the women involved in that later phase. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/19 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Cancel Culture Claims Developers Life #CancelCancelCultureI haven't looked into the evidence yet, but Jeremy seems pretty skeptical. If it turns out to be a completely false accusation, then I hope she will face consequences. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/19 11:25 PM |
| 16 | I'm a woman and I'm curious: What are the disavantages of being born a man?Can you be more specific about the country and legislation please? I am curious. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/19 05:42 AM |
| 38 | I'm a woman and I'm curious: What are the disavantages of being born a man?Feminists will often argue that the system reflects traditional sexist roles about women naturally being better mothers. If that is the feminist perspective, it is difficult to understand why every feminist organization opposes joint custody, as far as what I've seen. Giving men equal access as loving dads is seen as bad for women after a divorce. Their gender movement fights for women and what is best for women, but certainly not what is best for men and women. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/19 05:39 AM |
| 153 | I'm a woman and I'm curious: What are the disavantages of being born a man?Men are less likely to gain custody of kids or achieve joint custody. We lose our children or access to our children as well as true influence as parents who shape their destinies, because they are the most important things in the world to us. Yet society seems to regard children as the property of women. Regardless of any explanation, there is a serious human rights violation, when it comes to a parent losing their children, especially if it only comes from the words, "I'm not happy." Men serve… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/19 04:50 AM |
| 2 | What the sexual revolution taught meI say this not to endorse evangelicals, but it is really interesting to watch older sermons especially Billy Graham who warned about the dangers of such a "revolution" well before the 60s. There is also an interesting doc on YT called "Rise of the New Right" or "Rise of the Religious Right." The 60s and the Sex Rev of the 70s are celebrated by many, many people, especially in academia. It's all about liberation, self-experimentation, personal freedom, self-oriented choices. It is very necessar… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/19 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Q: The Gender Earnings Gap for Men in PornThat is a really interesting experiment. The next time I can talk at length with a feminist, I will try this question out. You make a compelling argument on all fronts. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/19 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Q: The Gender Earnings Gap for Men in PornYou mean because more people are willing to pay to watch a certain thing, then there is more demand and money for that thing. That seems like a very correct explanation, although I also wonder to what extent it applies to things like waiting tables or tip-based earnings. Do women earn more from sexual appeal as waitresses than do men as waiters? Maybe I should be saying waitpeople in current year. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/19 05:22 AM |
| 5 | International Conference on Men's Issues 2019It's interesting that Boyce is a speaker. I've recently subbed to his channel and it's great, but I haven't seen him really deal with men's issues. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a source for a study about the differences between girls and boys in school?The Boy Crisis by Warren Farrell covers many of the studies in a comprehensive way. You can follow the footnotes from there if you want. Also Christina Hoff Sommers War on Boys | /r/MensRights | 06/03/19 11:13 PM |
| 6 | In the interest of being thorough and accurate, here's proof that... yeah guys... feminism has been fighting the draft to be made unconstitutional for a long time. please read this.The evidence is indeed interesting, and it's nice to read some of those 80s debates, but feminism had existed in some form or another for well over 100 years at that point. I think it might be reasonably argued that any critique of the male-only draft is a pretty recent development among certain feminists, especially those anti-Vietnam War crowds vs. a much long history of suffragists who engaged in things like the White Feather campaigns, etc. Still I thank the OP for bringing some evidence t… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/19 02:18 AM |
| 5 | The Shaming of Men into Military Service: The White Feather and What Really Caused WWIYes, that war is the best example that I can think of when it comes to male disposability. I suspect that millions of young men died having not a single care about the European balance of power. They were pressured into "manning up" to show the world that they weren't cowards and were "real men." It's even more disgusting that they got to a new type of war that was not chivalrous but a death grinder that treated bodies like cattle and recycling the uniforms to barely fit the new recruits of youn… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/19 10:55 PM |
| 5 | The Shaming of Men into Military Service: The White Feather and What Really Caused WWIWhile I don't think there was an American equivalent to this campaign on the streets, it is interesting to google image search Great War propaganda to see how often these things exploited the Rape of Belgium or used images of potentially victimized women to motivate men to join up to save damsels in distress and "man up." There are even images that depict lady liberty as a potential rape victim. "Men, if you have any honor, sense of duty, or bravery, you should be willing to sacrifice yourself f… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/19 10:42 PM |
| 2 | What happens when you try to argue on r/feminism. Link to original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/ap3np9/body_autonomy_and_reproductive_rights/I'm surprised you even got that far in a conversation on that sub. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/19 03:12 AM |
| 17 | So has anyone seen these women’s only parking spots? Some parking garages have these in front of the handicapped spots, you know, the ones for people with disabilities who actually do need special treatment...Except that there is a very vigorous men's rights movement that highlights the insane levels of violent wives, the disadvantages of men in arranged marriages, and the general way that men get screwed over in India....all while being our Western conception of a misogynistic society that treats women like cattle. Meanwhile the men are disposable and nobody cares. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 05:10 AM |
| 22 | Mom who seduced teen sentenced to 1 year in jail; DA calls sentence double standardAt least it's nice to see the judge called out in a media source. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 05:06 AM |
| 6 | Liveleak - Where have all the gentlemen gone?It would probably be about class not gender as she screams and calls the woman all kinds of horrible, misogynistic insults. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Feminism is Under Siege EVERYWHERETo be fair, if it is 1/5 adults who identify with feminism, that might still be like 40 percent of women unless the male feminists are spreading like a plague. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 04:55 AM |
| 9 | Liveleak - Where have all the gentlemen gone?She's wearing a $1000 coat and demanding preferential treatment on a city bus. I don't begrudge her for the coat, more power to her. But that level of entitlement for being a woman is bizarre. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 04:50 AM |
| 5 | Men only have one emotion? Does she not understand that the statement I'm fine could mean other things?Meanwhile all the sensitive guys are put in the friend zone and she can't help that guilty pleasure of bad boys and 50 Shades of Gray. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 03:18 AM |
| 7 | The ACLU Moves to Embrace Due Process on Title IXThey were bound to come around, but it is still interesting that an organization that has defended the KKK (for legit reasons) had an instant negative reaction to defending accused men. But give them some time and reflection, and I predicted that even the ACLU would come around to an egalitarian side when it comes to rights or civil liberties. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 03:16 AM |
| 4 | Just so you know where you are...The fact that this thread exists is a testament to the mods who allow for free discussion and debate. This thread would have been nuked in 2 minutes at r/feminism or twoX | /r/MensRights | 08/02/19 05:03 AM |
| 4 | Found this on r/feminism the amount of hypocrisy amazes meIf it's not satire, we could replace it with almost a word for word misogynistic comment about women who are inviting rape and should stay in the kitchen. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/19 03:18 PM |
| 18 | I just found out about this sub, what’s it all about?Hello and welcome. If you'd like a crash course, please watch the documentary The Red Pill. It could take dozens of us hours to explain things through typing, whereas 90 minutes on your part can be a good introduction. I don't mean to sound condescending and most of us welcome your inquiries, but I'd like to ask for a little bit of leg work first, if that makes sense. The doc, I think, is free to watch on Amazon Prime and Hulu. If you are curious about us, please don't expect us to first spend… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/19 04:32 AM |
| 3 | A smart woman bashes the Gilette ad and extreme feminists with reasonable arguments. "Gillette Ad Controversy - Toxic Masculinity or Toxic Feminism ???"Personally, I think it is tied into the fear of grad school, latching onto something that pleases professors, and trying to sound smart. It's a coping mechanism from the Frankfurt school to postmodernism to feminism, people are just trying to say the right things in a system that tells them to read 3 books a week and teach discussion classes. They just latch on like cult followers, and some of them make it through the system. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Serious question. I know sometimes MGTOW and MRA are at odds, but what keeps you MRA and not MGTOW, or conversely why did you become MGTOW?Well, if you're happy, then you're happy. I just find that mgtow develops that sense of personal freedom into a philosophy for all men to find happiness. I feel that I could not be happy without my loving and wonderful wife. But what makes you happy is up to you. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 04:00 AM |
| 11 | Serious question. I know sometimes MGTOW and MRA are at odds, but what keeps you MRA and not MGTOW, or conversely why did you become MGTOW?I am uncomfortable with the ways that mgtow generalizes about ALL women the way that feminism has generalized about ALL men. There are good women who make wonderful companions and best friends for life. Checking out of a system seems as bad to me as the radical lesbian feminists who went gay not because of personal identity but because of personal resentment and an openly political statement. I do sympathize with mgtow issues in terms of divorced men and unbalanced scales, but to turn your back … | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Can you guys show me a causal link between single motherhood and bad outcomes for boys?There is always a debate about correlation vs. causation, but any google search or researching the work of Warren Farrell will lead you in the right direction. WF's most recent responses and promotion of The Boy Crisis covers a lot of it. Sorry if my answer is a bit short and lazy, but honestly the question seems that way too, no disrespect intended. There is ample evidence just from a basic google search for stats on outcomes, education, IQ, psychology, etc. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 03:16 AM |
| 4 | A smart woman bashes the Gilette ad and extreme feminists with reasonable arguments. "Gillette Ad Controversy - Toxic Masculinity or Toxic Feminism ???"It's a fair point that perhaps the most radical voices get the most attention, but I also wonder if the most obscure radical voices get pushed into the mainstream by academia in some kind of trickle down way. Bell Hooks for example. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 02:29 AM |
| 12 | A smart woman bashes the Gilette ad and extreme feminists with reasonable arguments. "Gillette Ad Controversy - Toxic Masculinity or Toxic Feminism ???"A good watch, and she makes several thoughtful points. But, I kind of doubt that she (as an everyday moderate feminist) could name a single famous feminist of any specific wave that didn't have something nasty to say about men. I've been trying to find the "real feminists" who didn't say misandrist things throughout the history of feminism and it's like looking for needles in a haystack of angry voices who at best pat the "allies" on the head while still viewing men as oppressors and women as vi… | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Why does the feminist movement hate you?Your post makes me think of a hypothetical situation where the historical Bourgeoisie are being sent to the Gulags, and somebody in Soviet Russia tries to ask about universal human rights, which the Soviets proclaimed. All eyes of the state are suddenly upon that person as an enemy of the state. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/19 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Every woman in the world should be hit in the face real hard at least once in their lifeDomestic violence is wrong. Just the title of the thread gives the movement a terrible impression. Violence against both men and women is wrong. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/19 10:27 PM |
| 13 | Why does the feminist movement hate you?I can attest to some of this personally, especially if OP only has female points and not race points on the intersectional identity scoreboard. If you are committed to a career in academia and you begin to think critically and honestly, then you could end up with no hiring prospects no matter how many articles, books, classes taught, fellowships, etc. You will be a pariah for asking inconvenient questions. You'll lose the woman card as soon as somebody suspects you of being a MRA or a conservati… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/19 10:10 PM |
| 20 | Why does the feminist movement hate you?It's a long and complicated answer, but thanks for posting your question. I don't know where to begin. If you would like an overview of our movement, please see the documentary The Red Pill. If I had to nail down one reason in particular, it has to do more with the history of feminism and not the MRM. Patriarchy theory or some version of radical feminism even stretching back into the first wave has viewed gender inequality as a systemic problem in which men have power, rule the world for the ben… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/19 09:47 PM |
| 3 | WTF, what about father's rights? This is unbelievable!In the full context, he seems to be focusing on severe deformities, but even then it's still messed up. I'm generally pro-choice early months, but if the dems are now pushing the definition of life as only beginning when a head pops out of a vag and a fully-grown baby breathes, well they are truly sick progressives worthy of their own eugenics legacy. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/19 01:27 AM |
| 9 | Banned from r/feminismI was banned from that sub for posting to askfeminists. I'm surprised that you even got a few points in. They are completely intolerant of dissent. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/19 04:20 AM |
| 4 | Male Reporter Owen Shroyer Sexually Assaulted at Woman's March 2019You can kind of see her logic of, "Dude doesn't think grab em by the pussy is wrong, so I'll just grab him by the dick!" The part that sticks with me is how a. she doesn't think it's a problem (although roles reversed it is); b. he doesn't see too concerned, and; c. police don't give a shit. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/19 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Aggrieved Entitlement – women’s reaction to temporary loss of chivalryIt's an interesting article, and it makes good points, but it also leaves me with a nagging feeling that one could simply swap out gynocentrism and patriarchy, along with microagrressions, and substitute your given feminist buzz words, etc. to achieve the same level of actual aggression disguised as theory. I mean, it's taking a concept of Kimmel's seriously, reversing the roles, and applying it in an equally theoretical framework. Somebody could rewrite the article as feminist propaganda about … | /r/MensRights | 27/01/19 07:24 AM |
| 3 | It's almost as if the Washington Post says we men are almost like human beings or something. "progressives — who claim to care about all of society’s underdogs — seem to assiduously avoid these issues related to men"Rare to see it, but it barely scratches the surface on some issues. Still thanks for posting. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/19 05:29 AM |
| 1 | [18+] Recruiting members of the men’s rights community for a survey measuring opinions, demographics, and personality factors.Yeah, they won't care if the research has any validity. If it says something positive about us, it could be akin to academic suicide. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/19 05:14 AM |
| 3 | [18+] Recruiting members of the men’s rights community for a survey measuring opinions, demographics, and personality factors.There is a part that may be impossible for gay men to answer, because it's so framed along heterosexual norms. Seems like that section could skew your results into mgtow territory if you're asking gay men certain questions. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/19 05:09 AM |
| 7 | Pussy Hat Wearing Feminazi Assaults Reporter For Live Streaming Truth About Women's MarchSigh, infowars trying to milk a mic grab. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 06:43 AM |
| 6 | Weren’t they protesting for this a while ago?You base your opinion on what exactly? | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 06:40 AM |
| 2 | I saw this on twitter today. My stomach was hurting. Thinking of all the men who "weren't as affected" in wars by giving their lives to protect our freedom. Ask the veterans who survived on how their quality of life is right now.I saw something similar in the abstract of an academic paper. It stated outright that women were the primary victims of war, and apparently that claim didn't even raise a peer-review eyebrow. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 05:22 AM |
| 6 | Weren’t they protesting for this a while ago?Sir or madam, can you please point to a single thing I've written on the internet that indicates the "thing I've got with women." That is slander, and it requires evidence on your part please. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Could someone give an example of positive masculinity that does not involve being of service to women?"REEEE! Manifest destiny! White heteronormative Western, imperialistic science! Male ways of ordering the world into categories! Genocide of the peaceful Native Americans!" /sarcasm | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 03:42 AM |
| 8 | Weren’t they protesting for this a while ago?But we haven't engaged in a global hot war that requires millions of bodies on the line. Even if not completely global, just imagine a hot war with China and the millions of Chinese men and women who would die for the state. Our society would institute a draft so fast that heads couldn't even spin, and it would be young men yet again treated as disposable during a time of war. Sure there are ways to fight "smart wars," but the first response to waves of human invaders is to put men on the front … | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 03:39 AM |
| 18 | Weren’t they protesting for this a while ago?Almost 100 percent of the responses I've seen have been, "Well nobody should be drafted!" It's so ignorant of the history of the world and conscription, but it allows them to still say, "See feminism is for men too!" | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 03:21 AM |
| 2 | We need a mens rights march!The first men's issues conference (2012?) had like 50 people, which is comparable to the 1848 feminist Seneca Falls Convention. I don't think it's very realistic to expect progress in 10 years compared to the first 100 years of feminism. But MRAs are certainly doing better than the first wave which spent half a century fighting groups of other women while attacking men, marriage, and the Church. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 02:15 AM |
| 0 | Profiled by Female BartenderHonestly, meh. So what if somebody was overprotective and misread your intentions? Overprotective friends can be good friends, and it isn't an inherent judge of you, just of the potential circumstances of not knowing you. You seem like a good guy that just fell in crosshairs of a world where there are not so good guys. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/19 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Are there ANY feminist subreddits that actually discuss with MRA's?I posted there for a few weeks and never had a bad experience with a mod. I read a lot of MRA posts and lesser feminist responses. But it was closer to a debate site. Trying to debate with a feminist on this subreddit (MR here) usually means they just run away, and I spent half an hour typing a response she/he does not read. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/19 01:26 AM |
| 2 | A lot of points on here are valid, but its inportant to remember not all feminists are crazyWhat is to blame? Who is to blame? Not speaking about this thread, just your general view of history. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/19 02:39 PM |
| 5 | R/Feminism can’t even figure out the difference between hate speech and a joke anymore.Got banned from that sub although never visited. I got on somebody's shit list on AskFeminists so I got auto banned across the board. They are obviously so open to dialogue and debate. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/19 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Get fired for call off while Black women who has called off more still works at same place while under Female boss. Hmm.. This is Fine...I feel like there are two ways to look at it. I think it's true that black women face discrimination in some real world hiring practices, but it can also be due to "how can we hire her if we can't even fire her without facing a lawsuit?" You maybe missed both the discrimination and the privilege in that circumstance. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/19 05:24 AM |
| 5 | Carrie Underwood kisses 12 year oldGee will this get the coverage that the male performer got for kissing the 17 year old? | /r/MensRights | 07/01/19 05:21 AM |
| 4 | Why American Men Are So MiserablePretty good video. I was hit hard by comments about votech since I'm considering becoming a plumber after a decade of earning a Ph.D and trying to find a job as a straight white man in a field full of social justice nonsense. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | I come bearing scotch and flowersEducating about what? | /r/MensRights | 07/01/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | I come bearing scotch and flowersWhat do you want to talk about, specifically? | /r/MensRights | 07/01/19 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Found out wife cheated, children aren't mine, going to see JAG on Monday. What do I need to know for the divorce?I wouldn't be surprised if her excuse for cheating while he risked his life fulfilling a traditional gender role placed on men is: "Well, you were never here." | /r/MensRights | 07/01/19 01:42 AM |
| 9 | Dear Men: You ARE Worth Talking Tonice find. Subbed. It's kind of amazing how bad it's gotten, when you're a straight white man, somebody says, "you are valued," and it's like a long lost hug of support for you existing as a human being. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/19 01:18 AM |
| 7 | I am new to this sub! I just wanted to ask if any of you consider themselves feminists and why? :)If you want a more detailed response to this post, I would encourage you to watch the Red Pill documentary. It explains this movement and most of the problems with several of your points. Part of the thing that feminism did right was to ask women to question social expectations attached to gender. Rarely did it ask men to do the same thing, unless feminists saw a direct benefit for women. Meaning: they might care about changing men, attacking masculinity, or stopping manspreading on a subway, bu… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 07:27 PM |
| 6 | I am new to this sub! I just wanted to ask if any of you consider themselves feminists and why? :)This is why your posts are reading like trolling. You could easily do a google search on the history of feminism rather than come here and ask questions like, "So what did the feminists do?" | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 03:27 PM |
| 12 | I am new to this sub! I just wanted to ask if any of you consider themselves feminists and why? :)If you A. care about gender discrimination and equal rights for men and women; and B. make a list of men's issues compared to women's issues in the Western world; then C. you will conclude that if gender equality is a true goal, then there is clearly one group to prioritize at least at the moment. Can you name a single women's issue that might compare to child custody, prison sentencing, the lack of health or DV resources, etc? I care about women's issues too, but IMO any true egalitarian will m… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 03:13 PM |
| 9 | I am new to this sub! I just wanted to ask if any of you consider themselves feminists and why? :)Here, I'll give you a simple problem to fix, and you tell me how to do it without racial discrimination. The NBA is 74% black, 23% white, and less than 2% any other racial category. So let's be egalitarians wanting to ensure equality of outcome where every race in the NBA accords with the population percentage. How exactly do you achieve it without discriminating against accomplished black athletes (or whites for the matter)? Discrimination is treating people differently or having different stan… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 03:09 PM |
| 13 | I am new to this sub! I just wanted to ask if any of you consider themselves feminists and why? :)Trying to obtain equality of outcome is akin to active discrimination plain and simple, even if coming from an anti-discrimination sentiment. You simply cannot obtain equality of outcome without judging somebody on race or gender vs. achievements and the content of their character. It's impossible. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 02:50 PM |
| 20 | I am new to this sub! I just wanted to ask if any of you consider themselves feminists and why? :)I used to be an uninformed male feminist who equated my gynocentrism with enlightened tolerance and "awareness." But the same principles that led me toward feminism (in terms of gender equality and egalitarianism) eventually led to a complete rejection of feminism and an awareness of men's issues. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 02:24 PM |
| 18 | If you don't wanna pay you must be gayseems kind of fake tbh | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 05:18 AM |
| 18 | If you don't wanna pay you must be gayDrawn on the walls of a gulag, enhanced digitally. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 05:11 AM |
| 11 | PSU charges Peter Boghossian with ethical misconduct for the Grievance Studies HoaxIt's a really interesting case, and a misuse of IRB. Literally any academic research paper would fall under "interactions with people." I find it crazy that the IRB originated as a response to Nazi science and the Holocaust. Now this Uni is using it to enforce purity and weed out a specific type of person. And he is center left. Academia is truly beyond redemption at this point. Also could somebody please answer an unrelated question? I wanted to post this video, but for the life of me, I can'… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 04:03 AM |
| 4 | What would happen, if (by law) women were completely equal to men?This. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/18 04:35 AM |
| 5 | x Feminist Amy Siskind Tries to Get a Professor Fired for Disagreeing with HerI feel a bit conflicted because the woman didn't take away Palin's woman card for being a conservative. Yet clearly she privileges gender over politics and logic. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/18 04:32 AM |
| 5 | Organizers cancel Women's March Jan. 19 due to 'overwhelmingly white' participantsMy wife grew up in Humboldt county. There were like 3 black people in her entire high school. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/18 04:58 AM |
| 1 | So much workYeah there is a lot of pressure for men to "perform," but I've never been with a woman who just lays there expecting a man to do all the work. If something is going well, she is going to be as crazy and performative. Otherwise why not just fuck a doll? | /r/MensRights | 29/12/18 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Ranting thoughts from a depressed postdoc academic white manThank you for the encouragement. It's just hard to keep trying when feeling defeated. But I will try. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/18 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Ranting thoughts from a depressed postdoc academic white manThis point is exactly what I struggle with. I don't want to be a victim. I want to be in control of my own destiny through hard work and accomplishments. But at some point it seems inevitable to wonder if the things keeping me back are out of my control due to something institutionalized (racism against straight, white men given the intersectional mentality these days). I don't want to have the mentality of a victim, but what if I am a victim? | /r/MensRights | 26/12/18 06:38 PM |
| 7 | Washington Post runs story: "Should Children Sit on Santa's Lap?" "Some parents" are questioning the tradition due to the #MeToo movementIt's like I'm such a barbarian that a child sitting on lap or knee, well I guess I can't control my primitive and debased sexual emotions or something. Man proximity to child equals potential rapist of kids. Like I'm a lesser form of human and more like primitive beast that preys on the weak and innocent. I am not. Men are human beings too. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/18 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Ranting thoughts from a depressed postdoc academic white manWhat if the path to the money is speaking false truths and catering to social justice? | /r/MensRights | 26/12/18 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Ranting thoughts from a depressed postdoc academic white manI've thought a lot about this fact, and I appreciate the post. But at what point is it worth it to make an internet video that both dooms any hopes for future acceptance in academia yet might possibly have the chance of getting 100 subs after a year? | /r/MensRights | 26/12/18 07:58 AM |
| 7 | I feel attackedJust aim, and aim poorly maybe. Problem solved. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/18 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Can i have pink hair, feel feminine, but be a men's Rights activist and be accepted here?Why such a strong resentment of conservative men? Just curious about how you really feel about the nuclear family, tradition, and the value of religion? | /r/MensRights | 24/12/18 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Universal (men's) suffrage. When did non-landowner, non-military men get the vote?It's very complex in the US from what I recall. And it depends on race as well. The 13th through 15th amendments applied to Reconstruction era to establish both universal male suffrage and birth citizenship but even that didn't apply to Native Americans. Prior it was different reqs in each state. We could also pin it down earlier to the Jacksonian era that "resembled" universal male suffrage, but even then there are a lot of caveats. It's complicated, but I it is fair to say that most men got th… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/18 08:51 PM |
| 8 | Shouldn't be surprised, even Android dictionaries discredit misandry. Couldn't believe this wasn't a recognized word. I don't care if it's petty. Misogyny came up with no correcting.You need to charge your phone. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/18 05:05 AM |
| 3 | What are the best anti-feminist books/resources with a historical focus?While it's not anti-feminist in nature, much of the scholarship on the First World War clearly documents the hell of the trenches, the experiences of men, and how they were treated as disposable cannon fodder. It's very difficult for me to engage with the topic and still treat the concept of patriarchy as worthy of discussion. If a feminist is trying to argue that women have been historically mistreated by society, well they should also be aware of millions of men who lost their lives often due … | /r/MensRights | 17/12/18 02:45 AM |
| 5 | It's 2018 and we still have idiots who define it as "anti-feminist" to use the word "misandry" in a "non-sarcastic" way.Not even "hey it's not bad b/c no power plus privilege." They just don't acknowledge the concept. I am confused by this sub. How is transphobia connected to misandry? It wasn't for the second wave. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/18 08:27 AM |
| 8 | NBC is running coverage of men's rights tonight at 6:30 ESTSo, not enough women in STEM is a problem, but not enough men in college is not, because magically more women equals more diversity. Did I hear that right? | /r/MensRights | 16/12/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Q: Violence against and persecution of gay men vs. violence against and persecution of lesbian women?Young men are also forced into marriages in countries like Iraq. Why would men tend to feel more threatened by gay men? Evidence also needed here for some connection between domestic abusers and homophobic violence. Thanks for posting, but it's hard to follow some of it, to be honest. Last few points are well-taken. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/18 02:58 AM |
| 1 | College Attempts To Ruin Professor's Life For Teaching Male WritersAt this point, if Mass is a one party consent state, I think that he should attend the meeting, record it, and post it somewhere for the world to see. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/18 02:55 AM |
| 12 | FACT: Men Are Better Than Women (at Some Things)It really does show how the gender essentialism and cultural feminism of the second wave is still very much alive. It's all so incredibly sexist and counter-productive to create this glorification of allegedly feminine virtues of compassion, nurture, cooperation, intuition, etc while if men used the same language to glorify allegedly masculine ways of thinking then it's instant misogyny. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Questions for unconscious bias trainingSo some of the assumptions that go into unconscious bias are collective perceptions and stereotypes that can be negative and not treat individuals on a case by case basis, but rather to assume that a group/gender is linked to stereotypes or certain behaviors. So apply that to white men, in terms of how non-whites think about white men. Does that make any sense? | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Questions for unconscious bias trainingApply the same questions to unconscious bias against white men, their motivations, their problems, their identities, and all the generalizations about white men and whether they are fair. Heads will explode unconsciously with bias that should not be questioned at all, according to the same folks educating/re-educating you. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Q: Violence against and persecution of gay men vs. violence against and persecution of lesbian women?I read somewhere that the term Lesbian was attached to the Greek island of Lesbos in ancient times, known for what you might expect. It sounds a lot older. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 02:21 AM |
| 7 | Q: Violence against and persecution of gay men vs. violence against and persecution of lesbian women?That's a harsh conclusion, but it makes me wonder if it might be similar to Boko Haram stuff. The first time ISIS kills a woman for being gay could become an international outrage, whereas men being thrown off of buildings doesn't create a single headline. But it's hard to tell from even a lack of evidence that lesbians exist in those places. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Q: Violence against and persecution of gay men vs. violence against and persecution of lesbian women?Yes, but I can't find many examples of gay women being publicly killed, although it probably ties into the history of witch burning somehow. I'm asking more about the double standard in which society treats gay men vs. gay women. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 02:16 AM |
| 1 | What are the issues that men face?OP, perhaps it might be educational for you to spend 2 hours watching The Red Pill documentary, rather than asking all of us to spend 20 minutes typing out a list of grievances. We do want to have a conversation, and we mostly welcome the inquiry. But maybe it's not too much to ask of you to watch an informative summary before asking us to type it all out. No offense intended please. Just a helpful suggestion to help you understand this movement. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/18 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Is Conscription a valid argument regarding discrimination against men?So they must know of at least 1 example of a feminist advocating to draft women, right? | /r/MensRights | 29/11/18 04:44 AM |
| 6 | Is Conscription a valid argument regarding discrimination against men?I see it brought up often around these parts. Any understanding of societal treatment of men often centers around the draft, if we're speaking historically. It's the same kind of thing if the ship goes down. "Women and children first." It is the heart of male disposability, a central concept of the movement. Maybe you've just not seen it as much as I have. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/18 04:07 AM |
| 11 | Is Conscription a valid argument regarding discrimination against men?It's a huge historical issue surrounding the societal treatment of men vs. women. As much as people can support voluntary military service of women and equal opportunity, no one wants women today to be treated as men were treated in the past. It is relevant to me because it is very hard to reconcile the myth of male power with the powerlessness of millions of men who died during the 20th century, most often due to military conscription. It's like a very first question for advocates of patriarchy… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/18 03:53 AM |
| 17 | University Bans Use of Capital Letters Because They 'Scare' Students Into FailureTHE PAPER IS DUE ON THE 14TH!!!! "aggressive male patriarch trying to dominate me . #scarymen " | /r/MensRights | 19/11/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Women say to men, Go! Fight that war for me!I've never heard of this. Can you explain the evidence? Did somebody specific do a study or comparison? | /r/MensRights | 18/11/18 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Women say to men, Go! Fight that war for me!Would the world be different if run by women? Who, in particular would be drafted to die in war? | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Women say to men, Go! Fight that war for me!It's like this entire sub is equivalent to when somebody on a feminist sub says "What about men?" Instant downvotes and presumptions of trolling when just adding layers of complexity to a conversation. I wasn't trying to dismiss the lived experiences of men. Just trying to have a fucking conversation. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Women say to men, Go! Fight that war for me!male disposability. I'm not sure how more bluntly I could classify a crime against humanity and a human rights violation in the extreme. I can't think of much that occurred in the trenches that doesn't fit that category of an ultimate violation of human rights during a time of war. Some things are so obvious that they should go without saying. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 03:59 PM |
| -2 | Women say to men, Go! Fight that war for me!Dude, you're really reading into my comments things I'm not saying, as if you suspect that I am feminist troll. It's reactionary to the core, but it is also understandable given the topic. I am only trying to say that there are multiple ways to view propaganda as appealing to both men and women. 'I care deeply about men during this time of conflict. There are tragedies a plenty. It's like because my comment didn't sound like putting men first then I was suspect, which is the same kind of crap I … | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Female Privilege - The Musical!Suddenly Trump's hair reminds me of early Beatles hair. I liked seeing him bob it. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 01:56 PM |
| -1 | Women say to men, Go! Fight that war for me!I wasn't trying to sound flippant about male disposability, although I see how it can be read that way. I was trying to acknowledge the realities of the trenches during the war and how society treated men like disposable cattle. And I would never say that the experiences of men and women during the Great War are equivalent in any significant way, although scholars still debate the extent of gang rapes and murders in Belgium. I was simply trying to point out in an awkward way that propaganda is m… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 01:46 PM |
| 12 | Women say to men, Go! Fight that war for me!Great post. It's even more striking during WWI when most soldiers probably couldn't tell you what the war was about other than saving or protecting women from German rapists. The propaganda is striking in terms of how victimized women were used to motivate men to enlist or comply with a draft. The entire episode is one hell of a refutation of "rape culture," when men were dying in the trenches while the war was sold to them as "your duty is to man up and protect women in danger of rape." The pro… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Holy crap. This is the most enraging thing I’ve ever watched. This poor dude. I want to know what happened to the girl. Hopefully jail time.So just a general question here: What if she misremembered the date of the attack? What does the case have to stand on if that was the actual case? I'm not saying he is guilty or not guilty, but please answer me this folks? What was the date last Tues? Don't look at your comp clocks and do reverse math. What was the date last Tues. If somebody falsely accused you, would the date be set in stone in your memory? Could it be possible that the accuser got the date and time wrong, if you were the vic… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 04:50 AM |
| -3 | Women say to men, Go! Fight that war for me!This image could also speak to the heartache faced by millions of women who had to send their sons, husbands, and brothers to war. That required putting the national interest above the personal, despite not knowing how you'll survive. Yes, yes, male disposability etc, but this image can be heartbreaking regardless of gender or even how society can treat men during a time of war. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Do women have a hard time empathizing with men and boys?I think about this issue in a couple of different ways. It's not a he vs. she thing from my experience, but just a related set of blinders. Compare, for example, a man who spends 25 years driving a truck, missing quality family time, and even maybe experiencing a divorce b/c "he was never there." He may have been taught or trained for years that he does not question his role, or the detrimental effects it may have on his life. He might become defensive and blindsided by a mere question. The sa… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Just thought this should be said.Can you legally wear a body cam? | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 02:38 AM |
| 1 | USC Library Censors Article on ‘Female Privilege in Prison Sentencing’I think we would need clear evidence that this is more than a database or tagging error in a convoluted library system. I've had to use library systems where some of the top relevant results went mysteriously missing due to IT idiots "upgrading" their search engines. I even got to a point of using dusty card catalogues and index cards when their "new and improved" search delivered irrelevant spam. Certainly some reasons to be suspicious, but anyone who can google can read Starr's paper. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/18 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Do you support trans men rightsHow is wearing a skirt showing emotion, as if men can't show emotion in flanel? | /r/MensRights | 14/11/18 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Human rights organisation posts video about men's rights.Not perfect, put progress in the discussion. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/18 05:59 AM |
| 5 | I can’t close my eyes around my 4mo daughter.I don't understand why the photos would be used against you. There is nothing sweeter than to see a new parent exhausted to the point of sleep while holding a baby. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/18 05:54 AM |
| 8 | My anti-man familyThanks for sharing your story. My own recent experience has taught me that teenage independent thinkers are smarter than aging progressives. I don't know if that is a good generalization. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/18 05:51 AM |
| 2 | I think I'm part of the problem, but I might also be part of the solution.Troll fail. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/18 02:10 PM |
| 4 | I think I'm part of the problem, but I might also be part of the solution.Again you are thinking of consequences in terms of physical harm. That is not the reality of domestic violence or parental abuse. Often, the physical harm is easiest to cope with. It is the emotional distress that can really fuck up a person's mind, confidence, and mentality. Imagine, for example, a father who never touches his daughter but refers to her constantly as a worthless whore or reverse the genders. The physical side of it can be momentary. The emotional side can last a lifetime. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/18 12:54 PM |
| 19 | So apparently men aren’t smart enough to understand what consent isHow feminists talk about gay men is continuing to cause red pill moments among gay men. If I was a gay man, I could not list a single reason for a current alliance with the modern forms of feminism. It's like, "hey you ally, get to the back of the bus with your misogyny! Thanks for coming, shithead." | /r/MensRights | 30/10/18 12:48 PM |
| 6 | I think I'm part of the problem, but I might also be part of the solution.You have a conception of domestic violence that is entirely about physical strength. If we can learn anything from existing and biased studies on intimate partner violence or parental abuse, physical strength is only one component on the psychological harm caused by violence. There is verbal and emotional abuse that can also be very damaging. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/18 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Can somebody please explain the "womyn" and "womxn" thing?When they speak do they actually pronounce the x in womxn, almost like wimXem? | /r/MensRights | 28/10/18 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Can somebody please explain the "womyn" and "womxn" thing?Is that the sole motivation? Simply trying somehow to remove "man"? I'm trying to understand it from their point of view, but I can't find a good explanation other than random article that inserts the term without justification. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/18 06:31 AM |
| 1 | How the hell is the men’s liberation subreddit not blatantly known as a feminist propaganda machine?Thanks for the interesting reply. Maybe I'm reading too much into 1972's liberated man, and not thinking of how alone WF may have been. You really can see it though, in terms of how a pro-feminist perspective led him to ask questions about men and gender expectations, almost as if men had never even asked the questions that 2nd wavers ask, such as "Am I happy with this role assigned to me? Does it feel fulfilling to be a slave to a job? Can I be more than what is expected? Do I have to die in a … | /r/MensRights | 23/10/18 01:10 AM |
| 9 | How the hell is the men’s liberation subreddit not blatantly known as a feminist propaganda machine?Not men's rights per say but a nascent "men's movement" that led to a split. Relying on wiki here and my knowledge of Warren Farrell, but it sounds plausible that there was a definitive moment in time where the group that spun off had originally at least co-mingled with "men's liberation," before they all said to hell with patriarchy theory! Excerpt: "The modern men's rights movement emerged from the men's liberation movement, which appeared in the first half of the 1970s when scholars began t… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/18 02:17 AM |
| 6 | Radical feminist calling on her counterparts to "reclaim" their title as "man-hating dykes"When did the radfems lose that particular distinction? | /r/MensRights | 22/10/18 01:25 AM |
| 13 | How the hell is the men’s liberation subreddit not blatantly known as a feminist propaganda machine?Well it is pretty known around here for that. From what I understand it originally stemmed from a split in the men's movement between a pro-feminist camp and the movement that you see here. They've always been that way, and I kind of imagine some feminist overlords laughing as they watch the men play in their designated and segregated space. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/18 01:11 AM |
| 8 | "even a MAN can do it!" - a mirror to the "you mean a woman can open it?" advert from around the same time.This stuff was incredibly widespread. For every ad that gets called sexist against women by today's standards, there was probably one or more targeting women, especially in the 50s when women had the most consumer spending power while many middle class men slaved to jobs. A lot of the humor was jest, but exactly the kind that gets called out today for being sexist against women. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/18 01:04 AM |
| 3 | 5 surprisingly feminist silent horror films. feminism everywhere... in the silent horror movie too BSThe silent film era was actually a sort of heyday for powerful female actors and Hollywood producers. What is interesting is that many of the tropes of the era would offend feminists of today, stuff like damsels in distress due to an abusive father or arranged marriage. There were lots of "men, you must rescue women" themes, particularly during WWI. One of the big themes of the early 20s was also love for love's sake, not societal expectations placed on women, as well as interracial romantic com… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/18 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Former Radical Feminist Cassie Jaye explains why women aren't reaching t...Full interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFqAbXIlfvQ | /r/MensRights | 21/10/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | When women fight sexism with sexism (these signs are plastered all over my campus)I had to read this quote 3 times to figure out whether it refers to men or women. Then I noticed it was Kimmel. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/18 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Name being slandered over false accusation - help pleaseIf the worst is that you steer clear of parties, then maybe it's not so bad. A lot of men have faced much worse due to a scorned ex that tries to ruin their lives. Not sure if you have any good options other than keep your head down, finish school, and move on with your life. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/18 04:38 AM |
| 10 | Is my 12 year old daughters coach a creep? Do I possibly ruin his career and him from his job or am I over reacting?It is creepy unless the whole team does it as part of some kind of team communication. There is nothing to see here but a concerned parent. If the guy is pitchforked with no due process, then that might be a MR's issue. I would imagine that many people here would be concerned if a female high school teacher tried to contact our sons through social media. That is how it usually starts with the 35 year old teacher and the 14 year old boy. Same for us with daughters. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/18 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Is a red wave coming in? | How the anti-male hysteria of the Kavanaugh supreme court hearings turned voters off feminism and the Left even as far away as here in Australia.It was my #walkaway moment. I can no longer vote democrat. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/18 04:16 AM |
| 7 | Why does this sub have to be so politicized?I consider myself a centrist as well. I am also a former male feminist who came to this side via a natural progression via Warren Farrell, taking gender issues seriously, and coming to terms with the priorities of the moment in terms of gender inequality. I've only been attacked a few times by one particular person who kept telling me to "go back to men'slib," without checking if I've ever posted there. But regarding your comment about partisan language, I have to say that some of it is understa… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/18 02:56 AM |
| 11 | Men are never falsely accused, and never suffer from false rape accusationsOur male "entitlements." Any other men out there know what this phrase means? Is it long hours? The dangerous job? The headaches? The loss of family time? What exactly am I entitled to get for having a penis? | /r/MensRights | 09/10/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Oh hey guys the bleach manspreading thing was fake who would have guessedIt's hard to corroborate that it is fake other than trusting some blog quoting another blog. Unless maybe you can speak Russian. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/18 02:31 PM |
| -3 | Oh hey guys the bleach manspreading thing was fake who would have guessedI may have missed the evidence that it was fake other than Russian media was pushing it and an unverified claim of a Russian actor. What is the proof? Sorry. I follow the links which lead to Russia and simply "This blog reported from this blog..." | /r/MensRights | 09/10/18 02:23 PM |
| 7 | New to MR, what do you all think of this facebook post I saw today?Every part of this statement could be gender-reversed in terms of what women are doing to protect their men against false allegations and the era that we live in, regarding how an accusation can destroy a life. Every single part, from what are you doing to protect your men to cautioning men to wear body cams. Anyone who has a brother or husband would understand that editing of the statement. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/18 04:09 AM |
| 3 | What would you do if Men had a curfew at 9pm?So would this curfew mean that only women can work the night shift? | /r/MensRights | 04/10/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Solidarity Feminism: pranksters rewrote Mein Kampf to use intersectional language and submitted it to a feminist journal. It was accepted and published.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVk9a5Jcd1k | /r/MensRights | 03/10/18 10:03 PM |
| 7 | Solidarity Feminism: pranksters rewrote Mein Kampf to use intersectional language and submitted it to a feminist journal. It was accepted and published.Well, just glancing through, it's not simply a rewrite that replaces "Jews" with men and "jewish conspiracy" with patriarchy. I was expecting something like that. This seems to just use the structural arrangement of MK to put forth an argument about the solidarity of a diverse movement. I'm not convinced that it is a truly embarrassing article, but I'd have to read it in detail. It takes a lot of patience when every other word is ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/18 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Solidarity Feminism: pranksters rewrote Mein Kampf to use intersectional language and submitted it to a feminist journal. It was accepted and published.This is far more epic than the legendary Sokal hoax that started the Science Wars. I kind of wish that they had waited until the mein kampf rewrite was published instead of just accepted. Academia is so undermined by cultural studies and postmodernism. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/18 09:07 PM |
| 4 | MensLib on what doesn't count as a conversation you want to see in the worldWhat was the original post explaining the title? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 01:52 PM |
| 12 | #MeToo is poisoning American politics - spikedI know that what I am about to write will sound sexist to many people. I do not want to believe, and I do not believe that women are children who lack understanding of certain complexities. Nevertheless, I am finding myself in an uncomfortable position of having to explain some basic facts about due process to the women in my life who do not understand some basic things. Maybe I'm mansplaining. Maybe I'm treating women like children. "But dear, do you understand the role of evidence in a crimina… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 01:20 PM |
| 11 | BREAKING: Second Woman Makes Accusations Against Kavanaugh As Doubts Over Ford's Claims GrowPlus, I know that I never liked it before, but there was always a tacit acceptance. If the president was a democrat, well the supreme court pick will fit his right to pick his candidate. Nobody on the other side necessarily likes the pick, but it was his pick. The main question was is he/she qualified, not their moral character at the age of 17. Our current president has both the house and senate on his side. Yet, if he can't put forth a reasonable pick without gov grinding to a halt based on a … | /r/MensRights | 24/09/18 02:53 AM |
| 34 | BREAKING: Second Woman Makes Accusations Against Kavanaugh As Doubts Over Ford's Claims GrowI am so disgusted by this smear campaign. They don't give a shit about the women, the crimes, or anything remotely serious related to sexual assault. They are using accusations for political reasons. And they don't care that these things can destroy lives of even the most saintly of folks. Not sure why this is the straw that broke the camel's back for me, but I can no longer call myself a democrat, although maybe the term classical liberal still carries some weight. It's time for me to #walkaway… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/18 01:17 AM |
| 18 | Male Feminist Michael Kimmel has now been accused #MeTooIt's just amazing to me that somebody like Kimmel could go to such lengths to demonize his own race and gender, while surrounding himself with angry feminists who hate men along with intersectionals who hate white men. What could go wrong? It's like trying to play nice in a lion's den, but "oh, I'm not like your other prey, I promise." | /r/MensRights | 23/09/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | American University charges $242 million or $18,616 per student for its mandatory diversity "inclusion" program excluding white malessource? | /r/MensRights | 13/09/18 03:44 AM |
| 6 | I'm done" My male colleagues don't have this dilemma. " It's so incredible that the entire article is about how working long hours has negative effects on her health and well-being, while not even pausing to consider the effects on men when they are slaves to a job. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/18 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Male suicides drop to lowest level since records began" saying that a greater focus on men’s mental health was encouraging them to seek help. " I don't think that is the main factor, although it might help if these numbers are accurate. It's the economy. When so many men are still internalizing a "provider/protector" set of gender expectations, suicides are highest during depressions and lowest when they can fulfill those roles. Women are less affected by something like, "you aren't a good wife if you don't provide for everyone else." I'm pretty su… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/18 12:49 AM |
| 16 | University demotes Title IX coordinator in midst of lawsuit claiming she's anti-heterosexual" leaving her position as MSU’s Title IX coordinator and director of the Office of Institutional Equity. She’s now an adjunct instructor in Native American studies " That is a serious demotion. Perhaps MSU is different in terms of pay, but adjunct profs can barely survive as college professors, unless they have a life partner with a good job. It's usually somewhere between $2000 and $4000 per class for a 15 week semester. And most colleges won't give adjuncts more than 3 classes because then the… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Men Are Human - A Roundup Of The Latest Articles!It's an interesting looking site with a lot of potential. I only say this to be helpful: There are some issues with spelling, grammar, etc. I noticed several things in the mission statement section, like: "In or modern world, male victims to be openly hated" I look forward to seeing your site grow. It's a catchy domain name. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/18 02:07 AM |
| 5 | If Albert Einstein applied for a professorship at UCLA today, would he be hired? Starting this fall, all faculty applicants to UCLA must document their contributions to “equity, diversity and inclusion." Current faculty will be required to submit the same to be considered for a promotion.No. There are outright communists who could be fired under existing state laws that were put in place during the Cold War. But there was never any political capital to be gained from repealing those oaths and laws. Imagine a politician saying, "Educators should not have to be loyal to our country or our laws!" Instead, nobody enforces those laws, similar to how sodomy is still illegal in many states, as is XXX pornography at a time when every computer can access XXX pornography. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/18 05:04 PM |
| 5 | "Weird Al" Yankovic - Alimonywonder how this song would go over if he released it today. Al's already starting to get a lot of hate about "harmful stereotypes" and "offensive and triggering" insensitivity. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/18 02:19 AM |
| 4 | If Albert Einstein applied for a professorship at UCLA today, would he be hired? Starting this fall, all faculty applicants to UCLA must document their contributions to “equity, diversity and inclusion." Current faculty will be required to submit the same to be considered for a promotion.Some major state universities in the south still have loyalty oaths, first put on the books in the early Cold War. I had to take one. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/18 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Feminist Censorship - 07/2018 - Journal of Information EthicsA quote: All together, there is an extreme overabundance of books dealing with women’s issues rather than men’s. These figures can hardly be reconciled with the belief that we live in a patriarchy. How could a patriarchal society pro- duce nearly 100,000 publications on feminism? Notice also that the number of titles on discrimination against women exceeds the number of titles on dis- crimination against homosexuals by a factor of 40, even though discrimination of homosexuals is probably more se… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What I feel is the most frustrating part of the Roe v. Wade debate from a MRA perspectiveIt sounds like you are saying that I can kill my dog. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/18 07:52 AM |
| 3 | What I feel is the most frustrating part of the Roe v. Wade debate from a MRA perspectiveyou seem to be just dismissing somebody's argument. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/18 07:45 AM |
| 4 | What I feel is the most frustrating part of the Roe v. Wade debate from a MRA perspectiveWhat is the difference? I ask as somebody completely on the fence with no scientific training. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/18 07:21 AM |
| 4 | What I feel is the most frustrating part of the Roe v. Wade debate from a MRA perspectiveThat seems to be a strong tactic of the left, to bring up an extreme "case study." I feel like anytime I ask a reasonable question to a leftist, the response is, "Didn't you hear about the grieving mother who lost a child due to x y z.?" | /r/MensRights | 28/06/18 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Trudeau has boxed himself in with his own zero-tolerance policy on sexual misconduct: Opinion | CBC NewsThe male feminists set themselves up in front of a firing squad, while they apologize profusely for crimes that didn't happen. I can't ever imagine the MRM doing this stuff to female MRAs. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/18 04:14 AM |
| 2 | A Scholar Asked, ‘Why Can’t We Hate Men?’ Now She Responds to the Deluge of CriticismIt seems too good to be a non-parody. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/18 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Thanks, “Men”Why is men in quotation marks? | /r/MensRights | 25/05/18 03:09 AM |
| 3 | On Being Banned From r/FeminismDo you know of any examples of real world scenarios where feminists have to actually confront criticism? It only seems to happen online. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/18 09:55 PM |
| 8 | About the posts in this sub which hit r/all...I may be mistaken, but I recall reading a mod post here explaining that this sub is on a blacklist from the big ones. Again, I may be wrong. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/18 10:34 PM |
| 19 | In 1963 Betty Friedan released "The Feminine Mystique", commonly cited as setting off "2nd wave" feminism in the US. In 1979, she had some interesting things to say about men's rights.I think there are a lot of other quotations, and she deserves some credit. She predicted dire consequences for the women's movement if it ignored men. She hated many of the radical misandrists. Friedan also really inspired Warren Farrell. She also says interesting things about the male counter-culture that don't sound very different from WF. I've never read the Feminine Mystique or The Second Stage back to back, but the excerpts I've seen have nothing really do with men oppressing women. Rather,… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/18 09:24 PM |
| 41 | Are we just gonna ignore this? This deserves an immense media backlashCan you imagine a male actor admitting to using clitoral "shavings" from African baby girls to help with hair loss? "Yeah I put the pussy on head!" There would be crickets in that audience. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/18 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Another School Shooting By A Boy: When Is America Going To Realize It's Failing Its Young BoysDo we know yet if this is yet another example of a boy shooter from a fatherless home? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/18 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Feminists read true facts about feminist statistics, and accept themThese words come straight out of Christina Hoff Sommers' video for Praeger Uni. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/18 11:09 PM |
| 71 | Mother murders son over custody dispute ... news paints HER as victim: "Playboy Playmate Stephanie Adams' life plagued with personal woes before death plunge with son"1 detail about the 7 year old boy; he was 7. Full bio of a model who killed said boy, CHECK. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | The world would be better off without menI am surprised that there isn't a line in there about men being less evolved than women, as if we're the missing link between women and apes. I guess it's implied by dogs, not apes. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/18 04:25 PM |
| 7 | Honestly curious, does this sub generally believe that women have gained enough institutional power to oppress men? I agree that men face oppression, but it appears to be at the hand of a patriarchal system that is enforced by those (men and women) invested in maintaining that system. Thoughts?Yes, I remember all the heads turning when some religious leader said that if a woman didn't want to get pregnant, she should keep a peanut between her knees. Without even a hint of awareness people say almost that exact thing to men who want to have some degree of choice over their reproductive destiny. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/18 04:19 PM |
| 10 | Honestly curious, does this sub generally believe that women have gained enough institutional power to oppress men? I agree that men face oppression, but it appears to be at the hand of a patriarchal system that is enforced by those (men and women) invested in maintaining that system. Thoughts?Thanks for posting your question. One of the issues I often run into is a feminist or a feminist-leaning egalitarian who assumes that MRAs are somehow the mirror opposite of feminists, and we're not. So many feminists have a cartoonish boogeyman version of "men are responsible... men are the oppressor... men built the oppressive system, etc." So when they consider the MRM they assume that we blame women the same way the feminists (at least the non-liberal camps) blame men or patriarchy. So your … | /r/MensRights | 18/05/18 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Saw this getting coffee. No straight boys allowed? Where the hell did “equality” go?Would somebody with more time and patience post a list of contacts and/or FB pages for each company sponsoring this event? I'm in the midst of finals, but some kind of list with links would be nice to send a message of anger at gender based practices that violate the CR Act of 1964. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/18 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Feminism and the MRM, a missed opportunity?I thought she did a pretty good video on fathers needed, saying so many things that you rarely hear a feminist say like, "fathers are good." I don't know if she'll go batshit crazy on patriarchy theory or rape culture. I just wanted to share the link. You might be right that it will all crash and burn in terms of trying to find a middle ground. There have been feminist allies to men's rights. Never the radfems though. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/18 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Saw this getting coffee. No straight boys allowed? Where the hell did “equality” go?Tulsa has a few hipster spots where it's quite common. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/18 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Feminism and the MRM, a missed opportunity?OP you might find this new and obscure YTer interesting. I stumbled upon her stuff, which isn't much although still new. It's the first example of a feminist I've seen who understands a lot of men's issues and tries to resolve men's rights with her particular brand of moderate liberal feminism. Check her out if interested. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6NDA6ZJYRKmeISxF6XG8XA | /r/MensRights | 13/05/18 09:03 PM |
| 6 | The Sexual Revolution’s Angry Children | At its core, #MeToo represents a rejection of the sixties’ vision of erotic liberation." often chemically enhanced, animal spirits, " WTF. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/18 04:20 PM |
| 3 | I'm in love with a feminist, and we are going to watch The Red Pill at some point. I've never seen it. I need guidance.I've met more than a few feminists who are moderate/liberal/equity feminists, and they've agreed with much of the film, but they cringe at the end decision of CJ. I think you can have a productive conversation, and it can even grow your relationship. The biggest hurdle I encounter is that many feminists either consciously or unconsciously blame men for x, y, and z. So when they seriously consider the MRM they have to be repeatedly told that we don't blame women or even feminism itself when it co… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/18 10:51 PM |
| 3 | I Am Allowed To Say “Men Are Trash”It would be interesting if a site like AVfM posted this exact article but changed men to women, masculinity to femininity, etc. It would be satirical gold, but of course then sites like Jezebel would link it as evidence of how truly misogynistic the MRM is. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/18 10:18 PM |
| 5 | Buzzfeed : 33 Reasons Why Men Should Be BannedThis is just recycled internet trash passing as witty journalism. It's lazy. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/18 01:05 PM |
| 2 | ‘Ain’t nobody got time for this’: 911 dispatcher sentenced to (10 days in) jail after hanging up on thousands of callersWhat does this have to do with men's rights? Yeah, women can be lazy and heartless too. What's the point of posting it here? I'm confused. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/18 05:04 AM |
| 3 | How did women go from extremely oppressed to extremely privileged so quickly?I read this post as trolling from some kind of feminist "gotcha" perspective. It ignores historical realities and how women were actually treated, even in the most allegedly darkest of times. I wouldn't say it was extremely oppressed to be protected from war, treated with reverence to the point of seeming utterly protected, and put on a pedestal as the beacons of moral purity. And that stuff goes way, way back. Honestly, you sound like a feminist just gradually approaching these issues after a h… | /r/MensRights | 23/04/18 04:57 AM |
| 4 | A girl lied about getting abortion. 10 months later, I find out I may be a father.I agree that you need legal advice not reddit advice, but I also agree that step 1 would be a paternity test before you decide how committed you will be to this child. You obviously have no obligations to the woman, IMO, but it's a different story if you're coming to terms with fathering a child and what that actually means for an innocent human being who needs a father. Personally, I would commit to being as active as allowed IF I know it's my child, even if I can't stand the mother. But the mo… | /r/MensRights | 23/04/18 04:38 AM |
| 4 | Just wanted to share an experience of mine regarding penis size...Reverse the sexes and this would be grade A sexism of a patriarchy/privilege club of entitled sexists. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/18 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Why we need this movementIf you ever find yourself researching an academic database that collects info on scholarly articles in hundreds of academic journals from the liberal arts, try searching "misogyny" and "misandry." It's astounding. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | A YT feminist takes fatherlessness seriously (Just a lone moderate among an army of wolves?)good point here. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/18 05:54 AM |
| 2 | A YT feminist takes fatherlessness seriously (Just a lone moderate among an army of wolves?)Yeah, I agree. She sounds like a 2nd wave liberal feminist or even an equity feminist like CHS. We don't really know yet, but it will be interesting to see how fast she gets excommunicated from the loudest camp. I would post this video on a feminist sub if I wasn't banned from those subs. It would be interesting to see if some feminists attack her just for saying, "fathers are good." | /r/MensRights | 14/04/18 08:21 PM |
| 2 | A YT feminist takes fatherlessness seriously (Just a lone moderate among an army of wolves?)It was surprising to hear a feminist say these things in a positive way, even though the things said were just kind of "gee, duh, fathers are good for children." The fact that this stuff surprised me perhaps jars with the common cultural climate of today and how very few feminists state the obvious. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/18 04:22 PM |
| 18 | Seattle men arrested for prostitution required to take class on feminism, patriarchy, and toxic masculinitySo, are the prostitutes victims of patriarchy? | /r/MensRights | 14/04/18 04:54 AM |
| 11 | The Four Terrible Things That Are Destroying Boys In Our CultureI've also seen them say that statistics are problematic, even racist. It can be seen as sexist simply to point out stats regarding fatherless homes and the correlations with poverty, poor educational performance, criminal behavior, drug use, teenage pregnancy, etc. It's like they stick fingers in ears and internally scream, "you're saying single-mothers can't do it all!" | /r/MensRights | 12/04/18 02:03 AM |
| 7 | The Four Terrible Things That Are Destroying Boys In Our Culture"17 million kids live in homes without fathers." I see this 17 mil number, but I also see: "An estimated 24.7 million children (33%) live absent their biological father." http://www.fathers.com/statistics-and-research/the-extent-of-fatherlessness/ | /r/MensRights | 12/04/18 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Can Feminists and Men's Rights Activists Find Common Ground? (Random YT feminist seems aware of some issues and asks for fact-based dialogue)Well I think that they latch onto their personal versions of feminism to be sure, although now clearly CJ rejects the label but doesn't describer herself as a MRA. But I guess my point is: how many of them are out there? I honestly wouldn't be surprised if a majority of self-described feminists could not define or support patriarchy theory, because there has never really been a dialogue. There might be a silent majority, judging by the fact that the vast majority of humans in the West support ge… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/18 04:40 AM |
| 15 | Has this ever been said here?What's a "walmart yodel kid"? I don't understand this tweet or what it's trying to say. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/18 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Can Feminists and Men's Rights Activists Find Common Ground? (Random YT feminist seems aware of some issues and asks for fact-based dialogue)Thanks for the interesting reply and clarification. I too am a fan of Sommers. But I also have no problem calling her a feminist, since she self-identifies as one. Meaning, perhaps NAFALT, even if the sane ones are far and few between, or simply don't speak up. Cheers. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/18 02:41 AM |
| 8 | Can Feminists and Men's Rights Activists Find Common Ground? (Random YT feminist seems aware of some issues and asks for fact-based dialogue)I don't think this is entirely fair. Yeah, she could prove to be like most feminists and have zero knowledge about the history of the movement or the actions of feminists. But she isn't some puppet on a string wielded out by SCUM as a distraction. I've grown to believe that there are a huge amount of feminists attracted to the "gosh, duh" aspects of a movement that claims to seek gender equality. Cassie Jaye was one of those, IMO. I'm also hesitant to call her an idiot. She clearly knows Farrell… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/18 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Is sex better with an FGM female or an uncut girl? What has your experience been?sigh, no words here. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/18 08:56 PM |
| 54 | Giant Comp of Anti Feminism Evidence...I feel like this stuff is yet another example of how many everyday feminists are so unaware of the history of their movement, yet criticism is so overwhelming that they associate it with aggressive "mansplaining" with logic, stats, and links. I don't know how to reason with such a crowd. I know more about their movement, but trying to educate them comes across as dickish to them. So, what's the solution. It's like trying to teach a BLM activist about the actual teachings of Dr. King, in contrast… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/18 04:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about conservative, anti-feminist female voices defending men, but defending traditional male roles?Any key examples here,please? | /r/MensRights | 04/04/18 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Buzzfeed "Are you sexist" quizI lost brain cells. "Quick pick a doctor! If you pick a man, you're sexist! If you pick a woman, you're not sexist!" Why not? Well picking waman, especially black waman, is not sexist or racist, but picking a white man is! | /r/MensRights | 04/04/18 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Disgusting Double Standard In Spielberg's Ready Player One.Just curious how he knows it's really a girl his age and not a 45 year old man pretending to be a girl on the scifi internet? | /r/MensRights | 04/04/18 12:41 AM |
| 10 | While the shooter at YouTube today was found to be a woman, I urge you to not use this tragedy as an opportunity to score points for the MRM, it will only make MRA's look like bad.Can I please get a citation for that stat? I'm familiar with Starr's research claims, but that is a strong claim and I imagine that the types of crime don't match. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterJust a question here for anybody, based on things Warren Farrell recently said about the connections between male shooters and fatherlessness: Would it also be fair to investigate if this female shooter grew up without an active and present mother? | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterPerhaps it might also be relevant that society tends to value and protect female life, while treating men as disposable. So it's (often seen as) a far more heinous act for a woman to be murdered, especially by a man. Double standards like this are everywhere. Also, regarding your abuse claim, we now have many definitions of domestic violence that include more than physical abuse. Many feminists expanded those definitions to include verbal and emotional abuse. We're seeing less of a willingness t… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:52 PM |
| 23 | While the shooter at YouTube today was found to be a woman, I urge you to not use this tragedy as an opportunity to score points for the MRM, it will only make MRA's look like bad.I think it's a relevant topic, not to "score points" like we're using a tragedy for gains. I am curious how quickly sympathetic questions will be asked about what the boyfriend did to push her over the edge. Generally speaking, when a perpetrator is male and the victim is female, all sympathy goes to the victim. But when the perpetrator is female, lots of sympathy but not all go to the perpetrator. I can't imagine somebody asking, "What did the wife do to him to make him murder her? But those ar… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterActually, Fox does, if that interests you: http://fox5sandiego.com/2018/04/03/police-investigate-possible-shooting-at-youtube-headquarter/ | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterNobody asks these questions sympathetically when sexes are reversed. Nobody asks "What did she do to drive him to the point of murder? Was she abusive, and he finally snapped and lost it?" It's part of the reason for the sentencing gap. When women do bad things, people sympathize with the perpetrator. When men do bad things, people sympathize with the victim, generally speaking. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Police respond to reports of active shooter at YouTube headquarters - Female active shooterI see a lot of "female suspect" in headlines. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 10:07 PM |
| 9 | Askmen, how do you enforce the patriarchy? [Humor]I would honestly not be surprised if a part of your post gets quoted by a feminist journalist as proof that this sub is evil and part of rape culture. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/18 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Askmen, how do you enforce the patriarchy? [Humor]It's actually pretty funny to read men trying to think of how to enforce patriarchy. They are as clueless as feminists who believe it exists. The mens are such bad engineers, but maybe the internalized misogyny explains things, yes? | /r/MensRights | 02/04/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Jonathan Pie - The Gender Pay GapShe's not a real feminist right? I can't find the book on Amazon, so I assume everything is made up here. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/18 03:54 AM |
| 22 | Thanks to Bethesda, MD for acknowledging men as victimsBasically, "Thank you for calling. It's a nice thing to hear support for male victims and our work with men in the community." | /r/MensRights | 30/03/18 02:19 AM |
| 28 | Thanks to Bethesda, MD for acknowledging men as victimsI called and thanked them for including male victims. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/18 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Book Recommendations about Men's Rights?Anything be Farrell is good, although it's important to consider his 1974 Liberated Man as a product of a progression from feminism to men's issues. Almost everyone I talk to started reading Myth of Male Power, so it really is a foundational text for this movement. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/18 12:16 AM |
| 10 | Can somebody explain to me why this Stormy Daniels thing is such big news?? I mean, the affair was consensual. And I’m sure many high profile men have to enter into similar agreements. It’s ridiculous that this GIRL is getting away with this extortion and nobody cares.The dems wouldn't care if the accuser was a prostitute with a history of false accusations. They are simply pursuing every avenue to hurt Trump. If it was democrat in office, nobody would care about sex with a hooker, or a porn star. They are hypocrites, but politics works that way. Whatever leverage they have will be used and abused. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/18 04:34 AM |
| 7 | What does this subreddit think of Feminism and Feminists in general ?It really is amazing how many self-described feminists I've read or responded to who don't know the history or beliefs of their own various movements. Perhaps that is to their credit and may indicate a limit of the reach of academic jargon and media trolls. Yet, it's so jarring having to explain patriarchy theory to a feminist, who is often shocked to learn how these concepts are used, especially in higher ed. It's like having a conversation with a black nationalist who says, "Um, that's not tru… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/18 07:41 AM |
| 16 | What does this subreddit think of Feminism and Feminists in general ?I agree although I would add that it's really difficult to find the ones that do. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/18 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Can you be both a mra and a feminist?Well there are a lot of different camps of feminism, as I tried to explain. CHS has a perfectly legit right to still call herself a feminist, while railing against those "who stole feminism." | /r/MensRights | 24/03/18 05:12 AM |
| 7 | Can you be both a mra and a feminist?I was a self-described male feminist, and I married a female feminist. When I came around to the MRM, there were a ton of long debates together late at night on the front porch. After about a year of truly confronting the evidence and familiarizing herself with the radfem side, she now identifies as both a MRA and a feminist, but clarifying it with either liberal feminism, equity feminism, second wave feminism, or everyday gosh-gee-duh-women-are-people-too feminism. I guess I still do as well, e… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/18 04:54 AM |
| 54 | Men's Issues School Assembly ProposalTry not to blame feminism. Stick to stats, facts, and motivational language. That's a big school with a ton of male students with varying needs and issues. I would try to focus on those needs and issues, not some kind of root of evil that might offend anyone. Best of luck. I hope that you continue this activism on a college campus. It is desperately needed. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/18 03:54 AM |
| 2 | I made a song about the issues in society that we have to deal with as men, and it has a music video now! I'm hoping it shows the unique struggles of being a guy in contemporary societyWell, it's creative. Portapotties wouldn't be my number 1 issue though. It just makes it seem like we don't have some very real and pressing human rights issues, sort of like, "What do guys have to complain about?" Still it's creative and pretty decent music video for an indie artist. So good luck with your music. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/18 03:28 AM |
| 2 | All-female engineering team build bridge in Miami to widespread praise. Bridge then collapses, killing eight...I think a mod debunked this the other day. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/18 02:31 AM |
| 8 | What women actually wantI think it's relevant to men's issues as well. It amounts to women to some degree experiencing what so many men have experienced with provider roles, and so much that comes with those roles can be unhealthy and personally damaging. So when a woman goes from "The grass is greener on your side," to, "Fuck this. I want some personal time and control over my life," then it can speak volumes about the male experience that rarely gets discussed. Let's see what might happen then with these women taking… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/18 04:30 AM |
| 0 | Feminist explains in detail why "all penis-in-vagina sex is always rape". Yes, they really believe thatAre we sure that this is not parody? | /r/MensRights | 19/03/18 04:25 AM |
| 2 | What women actually wantvideo link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCftJ8Hf0kI&lc=z23ktvrjkxvlerofeacdp434mqtmg3rkqt5fsgppuqdw03c010c.1521418493705497 | /r/MensRights | 19/03/18 01:57 AM |
| 0 | What women want? (Crosspost from r/funny)Is there a version of this with audio? Edit: found it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCftJ8Hf0kI&feature=youtu.be | /r/MensRights | 18/03/18 09:41 PM |
| 2 | If you're in the mood for a rambling and misandrist speech by a radfem who judges and slanders Cassie Jaye and female MRAs, then enjoy!It is pretty honest, at least the parts where she says things like, "I don't care about men as a feminist. Feminism isn't actually about gender equality." | /r/MensRights | 18/03/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | If you're in the mood for a rambling and misandrist speech by a radfem who judges and slanders Cassie Jaye and female MRAs, then enjoy!I just want to clarify that the title of this thread is sarcastic. If you have the stomach to listen to this person ramble for 20 minutes from a completely uninformed and hateful position, then you may choose to do so. It's jaw droppingly stupid and totally ignorant of female MRAs, who are a vital and wonderful part of the movement. I wouldn't mind it if a mod altered the title to be "A rambling..." | /r/MensRights | 18/03/18 04:29 AM |
| 7 | Men can’t even advocate for rights?? Gee, I wonder why you’re single..Reminds me of Amy Schumer. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/18 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Men can’t even advocate for rights?? Gee, I wonder why you’re single..It's all so, "Demands! You are not worthy of my text because Demands!" At least, as others say, it's a good set of red flags for any sane man not wanting to stick in crazy. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/18 03:31 AM |
| 7 | Let's say a transsexual male to female pre-op withholds his penis information to a male date, who do we fight for?There should be no deception if possible. Given that only like 0.3 percent of the country is trans, and deception isn't usually possible (given that we just kind of know when a man tries to be a woman or vice versa), then what percentage of dates are we actually talking about here? A man who doesn't know that his date was born a man? I've seen about 10 fairly passable examples (on the internet) in my life where that might occur, but b/c people want to normalize it and exaggerate the extent that … | /r/MensRights | 17/03/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Need help with a situation at work!I don't know the legalities of any of this, but I would try a repeat experiment to get it on tape, like your friend asking to know what his weaknesses were for the position, so that knowledge would facilitate future growth. Cell phone on record in pocket, so long as it doesn't violate any state laws about recording somebody without permission. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/18 04:21 AM |
| 11 | Cracked misinterprets men's rights as incelsI don't know what Incels is, but I recognize Cracked for its so uninformed slander at any attempt at comedy. My god, when I was a kid, Cracked was funny. They haven't made me laugh in 25 years. How is it still a thing? | /r/MensRights | 15/03/18 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Avoid MensLib if you actually want to talk about men's issuesI don't know. When I think of what happened to Pizzey or Sommers, I don't think of a group of surrounding and supportive feminists who seriously want to address men's issues, but then turn their pitchforks chasing the monster of Frankenstein at the slightest deviation from groupthink. The dissenting feminists sure had their pitchforks, but never a phase of, "Oh yes of course we too care about men, just like you, Sommers and Pizzey! Now obey our answers, you sorry sympathizer!" I feel like Sommer… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/18 04:06 AM |
| 12 | Avoid MensLib if you actually want to talk about men's issuesYeah this stuff goes back to the 70s and Warren Farrell beginning to express independent thoughts from supervised lens of feminists. They have a long history of tyranny. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/18 04:00 AM |
| 26 | Avoid MensLib if you actually want to talk about men's issuesAt this point, I feel like there needs to be some master post about men's lib. I grow tired of writing the same thing over and over again. It's all been said before. They know our criticisms and rarely engage. And they are ban happy with anyone who isn't kowtowing to feminist overlords. Lots more can be said, but I grow tired of repeating my points every few days. Just avoid, and maybe don't make a stink about it here. I feel like all of us know what that "community" really is and how they treat… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/18 03:36 AM |
| 6 | 3D printer can print homes for the homeless, potentially solving a major men's rights issue of homelessnessSo who pays for the printers and workforce? And imagine the luxury of a $4000 shanty made of tents and scrap. I am skeptical of this. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/18 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Harvard adds sanctions on single-gender clubs to handbookIt's also unsettling to me how it's almost common sense that special spaces are needed to encourage and motivate women in universities that are 60 percent women. Yet any discussion of male spaces is given no leeway at all, almost like it doesn't matter that men may need those spaces too. Of course, I'd rather see integration with men and women not being excluded from either. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Harvard adds sanctions on single-gender clubs to handbookI've read this a few times and it's hard to understand the basics really. Non recognized groups, yet still excluding frats, or is it activities by recognized groups that include unofficial activities. I can also see them using this to prohibit any unofficial men's club, even if not gender exclusive. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Bobby Lee's girlfriend admits to only being with him for his money. His reaction speaks volumesI'm seeing a lot of comments that this clip was edited out of context, with her saying complaining first that he doesn't know how to show love except with money. I'll have to hunt for an unedited version. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Is this a title IX violation? If it is, what should I do?Also OP see the story on Harvard that I just posted. It might be useful. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 10:45 PM |
| 15 | Is this a title IX violation? If it is, what should I do?You are entitled to file a title IX complaint. "No person in the United States shall, on the basis of sex, be excluded from participation in, be denied the benefits of, or be subjected to discrimination under any education program or activity receiving Federal financial assistance." It's seems like a clear violation of title IX if the activity is connected to a program that receives Fed assistance. I think it's also illegal for them to punish you for filing a complaint. Don't take my word for it… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 10:36 PM |
| 2 | SHOCKING! Former Feminists Ticking Biological Clock Causes Major Panic!While listening to this it kind of amazes me that we don't see more older 2nd wavers forming coalitions to educate women about these life choices, and the costs of putting a career ahead of family. I certainly see many older men around here lament the things they lost (possibly including a wife and children) by focusing so much on a job or career. It's like the feminists just idealized what men had and thought it was all roses, sunshine, and POWER! | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Bobby Lee's girlfriend admits to only being with him for his money. His reaction speaks volumesNot sure who these people are, but it's so deserving of going viral. Edit: I can't tell who actually says, "love." Was it edited into the clip? | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Mayor Shuns Demand of Men's Rights Group to Change Firefighter Camp NameAt this point, I'm kind of at a loss for examples when it comes to spaces, organizations, or groups that are only boys, except for say a sports team. Frats, I guess. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 05:11 AM |
| 5 | I think the "Mens rights" movement should also try to include some sort of friendly/aligned womens issues movementThere are a few allies if we consider CH Sommer's brand of equity feminism to be a real thing, in terms of more than just her. It's just hard to find the moderates beyond the names I can count on one hand. I used to post on the FeMRAdebates sub, and some of the feminists were interesting, smart, and nice. But at the end of the day, I think the elephant in the room for such a grouping would involve making a list of important rights and injustices faced by men and women. It's pretty clear to me th… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 03:53 AM |
| 1 | College student faces felony assault charge (for beating up boyfriend who just broke up with her)There a lot of states where, if a man did this to a woman, it would be a misdemeanor. Assault is not a felony in many places, although aggravated assault with a weapon or assaulting an officer can be a felony. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 03:12 AM |
| 9 | menslib doesn't care about your opinionThis kind of stuff is exactly why earlier MRAs split from men's lib, and it's also why men's lib is a joke. As you say, almost any discussion that doesn't blame men for their own problems is verboten. I often think of a cartoonish image in my mind: A feminist overlord dressed in communist style pants suit is casually looking down into a pit where they've placed the men. "Let's have them talk about men's issues, so long as they are self-deprecating and don't have any original thoughts beyond what… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 02:58 AM |
| 29 | Woman fatally shoots someone fleeing: despite video evidence, gets acquitted by a juryI'd like to see the reactions if a few actors staged this exact scene but reversed the genders. How they could acquit is astounding given the video. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/18 02:49 AM |
| 2 | The exploitation that gets no attention: abuse of male slaves by female slave-owners in the Antebellum SouthAt least it acknowledges male victims. It helps that white women are the perpetrators in the author's willingness to even consider the issue. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/18 03:24 AM |
| 3 | The exploitation that gets no attention: abuse of male slaves by female slave-owners in the Antebellum South"Although it is impossible to know exactly how many black women were sexually assaulted under slavery, such abuse was widespread." Um, how exactly do we know that? If it's impossible to know, then how do we know that it was widespread? No footnote on that one. It sounds true, but what is the evidence? The article seems full of these types of claims without evidence. It reads like a first year grad student's attempt to sound knowledgeable. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | [Cross-post r/askfeminists] Am I encouraged to be both a Feminist and an MRA?If you truly believe in the textbook definition of feminism and also believe in men's rights, then I don't see the problem, although I think being an egalitarian would cover both sides. But if feminism is seen as an ideology of patriarchy theory, misandry, and bullshit statistics, then I don't think it's possible to reconcile the two. Edit: OMG they recommended the menslib sub to help you. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/18 01:59 AM |
| 3 | YupWhy does this have anything to do with feminism and not just some ho and a cheating boyfriend? Plus violence against men or women is wrong. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/18 04:09 AM |
| 14 | How could a biological father get out of paying child support?Well you should ask for a paternity test. If you are the father, then you created another human being. That carries responsibilities, obligations, and hopefully engaged parenting of a child who needs a father. Although if you were the mother you might be able to abandon all responsibility or just kill the fetus. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/18 03:00 AM |
| 12 | The amount of men quote replying this with "that's me" is disgustingThey don't seem to even understand the idea of refuting an opinion to validate a counter opinion. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/18 08:07 AM |
| 10 | Master post for combating feminist propagandaYou a bot? | /r/MensRights | 11/03/18 07:17 AM |
| 23 | Master post for combating feminist propagandaShe won't read it let alone click a single link. I feel like it's a waste of time. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/18 07:16 AM |
| -1 | I am a feminist leaning woman who would like to know more.Why don't you want to face unwanted truths but at the same time seek out insight that might challenge you with sources? Insight should be personally challenging, but you make it sound like you don't want to be challenged. This perspective is confusing for me, unless you consider insight to be a person's subjective experience that validates your own feelings about the world. I don't mean to sound condescending, but it's just honestly very confusing. If genuinely seeking to grow, I seek out things… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 08:21 AM |
| 6 | I am a feminist leaning woman who would like to know more.Unicorns are magical and majestic creatures. Don't slap unicorns please. Unicorns are friends. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 08:04 AM |
| 28 | I am a feminist leaning woman who would like to know more.The more that you learn about Farrell, the more you will understand our movement, at least a big portion of it. And Farrell, like you, started from a feminist perspective. I say this as a former feminist (and I don't expect you to change your views), but there is a very direct way in which a feminist belief in gender equality can lead directly to a MRA belief in gender equality, once some of the baggage is gone. Other MRAs might downvote me for saying that, but if you ascribe to the textbook def… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 07:25 AM |
| 20 | I am a feminist leaning woman who would like to know more.Eric, ease into it, bro. He or she seems nice. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 07:20 AM |
| 52 | I am a feminist leaning woman who would like to know more.Hi and welcome. Your questions are honestly a bit vague and could provoke a 3 or 4 page essay. I'm not complaining, and I would like to engage with you, quite sincerely. But I don't even know where to begin in trying to be concise here. So I'm wondering if there might be a more productive way. Have you seen The Red Pill documentary by Cassie Jaye? You can stream it on most platforms from YT to hulu or Amazon. It would give you a good overview of our positions, and then you could focus your quest… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 07:04 AM |
| 6 | Broward sheriff's captain who gave initial order to 'stage' not enter Stoneman Douglas is ID'dAre we supposed to use this case as proof that women are somehow less heroic or able cops? Just curious as to the intent of posting it here. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Student barred from class for claiming there are two gendersIt's also, I would imagine, a very small minority of feminists who are able to reconcile their feminism with a book written by men thousands of years ago. I remember reading about the first wave's attack on Christianity and the Church, so the tensions have very deep roots. For many feminists, Christianity was the system (or might we call it patriarchy) that they fought against long before it was capitalism or patriarchy as the system. But then again who knows how fashionable "Christian Eco-femin… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 04:35 AM |
| 6 | Feminist prof says husband's repeated requests for sex were violations: She "acquiesced," learning coping strategies, such as reading a book to keep her upper half occupied while her husband engaged her lower half.Was that a best-seller? | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 02:32 AM |
| 38 | Feminist prof says husband's repeated requests for sex were violations: She "acquiesced," learning coping strategies, such as reading a book to keep her upper half occupied while her husband engaged her lower half.I also find it interesting that she has such a primitive view of her man needing a hole to fuck. Yeah, some guys are like that. But she seems to not even consider how he might of felt just trying to satisfy her while she's stone cold, emotionless, and unresponsive. I'm honestly not sure how some guys can keep an erection under those circumstances unless they just close their eyes and fantasize about somebody else. I wonder how this feminist would respond to her husband watching porn while she re… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 02:17 AM |
| 24 | Feminist prof says husband's repeated requests for sex were violations: She "acquiesced," learning coping strategies, such as reading a book to keep her upper half occupied while her husband engaged her lower half.I can't shake the mental image of this being Big Red reading the SCUM manifesto during sex, so now I'm sharing that mental image with you. Enjoy. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 01:46 AM |
| 29 | Student barred from class for claiming there are two gendersWell I hope this case goes viral. Students should be rewarded for critical thinking and challenging a professor, regardless of conservative or liberal ideas. Here is a full interview with the student. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5OMbNK9As4 I don't know much about that second podcast, but geez those hairdos. I hope this student didn't unwittingly go onto an openly white supremacist podcast. It could really hurt his image. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4wtJgZEyD8k | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 01:14 AM |
| 15 | Psychology Today - Is Toxic Masculinity a Valid Concept?"Are rams exhibiting toxic masculinity? Are female fiddler crabs succumbing to antiquated notions of masculinity as promulgated by the crab patriarchy?" Cathy Newman: "So you're saying we're rams and crabs???" | /r/MensRights | 09/03/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | A very interesting read from Psychology Today"Are rams exhibiting toxic masculinity? Are female fiddler crabs succumbing to antiquated notions of masculinity as promulgated by the crab patriarchy?" I spat coffee laughing, thinking of Cathy Newman: "So you are saying we're no different from rams and crabs????" | /r/MensRights | 09/03/18 06:54 PM |
| 47 | Philip Davies asks feminist MP if her proposed law against misogyny will also apply to misandry (you can guess the answer)"particular gender imbalance affecting women." Evidence please. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/18 06:16 AM |
| 5 | Australia: "We need to support more men to become primary teachers"More male role models might be good for male kids. It's strange that statement almost comes across as rocket science. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/18 06:13 AM |
| 5 | Thought I might share this here?"But everyday is international men's day..." *mumbles something about 77 cents without considering for a fraction of a second the life of a truck driver or garbage collector. Muh oppression! | /r/MensRights | 09/03/18 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Is war deaths a male rights issue?Forced conscription is a major men's rights issue. Regardless of the will to fight, forcing someone or telling them that they must fight or kill to be a "real man" is a violation of human rights. And many men lost their lives trying to live up to their gender expectations to sacrifice themselves. People play a video game called Player Unknown's Battlegrounds, where you just drop somebody in a situation in which they are usually destined to die. Imagine that happening in real life, and that is th… | /r/MensRights | 08/03/18 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Men in America (Part 1) - Tucker CarlsonDon't let him go into academia, please. It's a path of self-defeat for men. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/18 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Men in America (Part 1) - Tucker CarlsonI don't know about some of his numbers, but I had to stop watching this at one point because I cried, out of pent up rage. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/18 04:01 AM |
| 4 | Have you been raped?I often wonder what people would think if the scenario involved reverse genders, where an ex-boyfriend just shows up, rips down a girl's pants, and screws her with no foreplay. If she was frozen and did not verbally or physically say no, then I wonder what folks would call it. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/18 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Have you been raped?I wasn't raped because I never said no or resisted, but I had an ex-girlfriend show up unannounced, said nothing, and just mounted me for a hate fuck. She didn't seek permission and just felt entitled to my body, but again I didn't resist. She didn't even try to kiss me, just off with the pants kind of thing. I think the only words she said to me that night was after climax, when she said, "How does it feel to be used?" I was like, "It was kind of hot." She was very disappointed with that answer… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | So I messaged that Antifa group that protested Christina Sommers- this is how they spread lies about the MRM, connecting us to incel, etc. More to come.Uneducated communist thugs. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/18 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Ms. Chris Bourg, director of libraries at the MIT - 'There is research that shows that workplaces that are plastered with stereotypically ‘tech or nerd guy’ cultural images – think Star Trek – have negative impact on women’s likelihood of pursuing tech work and of staying in tech work...'Can you imagine working in a cubicle all day and occasionally looking up at a Hillary Clinton bobble head? That's kind of like a dystopian nightmare. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/18 02:45 PM |
| 8 | Ms. Chris Bourg, director of libraries at the MIT - 'There is research that shows that workplaces that are plastered with stereotypically ‘tech or nerd guy’ cultural images – think Star Trek – have negative impact on women’s likelihood of pursuing tech work and of staying in tech work...'Star Trek is one of the most inclusive and female-friendly scifi shows in history. Do they really expect posters of 50 shades of gray in a tech environment full of geeks? I've met more female Trekkies than male Trekkies in my life, and I've been to a Star Trek convention. They are full of women, as are the post-TOS shows including Voyager which featured a female captain. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/18 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Man on trial accused of putting his finger up woman's anus during sex“He was trying to hook me.” Can anyone explain what this means in slang? If she told him to stop, he should have stopped. It is interesting that the article has to clarify that she didn't orgasm, as if that is relevant. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/18 02:13 PM |
| 3 | My SO is a wonderful person and we have been together many years however I have noticed that wherever we sleep she always chooses the side of the bed away from the door so that I get done-in first.You're the one speculating about your SO hoping you're "done in" before she is. "So serious" about the side of the bed? Really? Are you just trolling this sub? | /r/MensRights | 06/03/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | The proper response to white knightsIt's kind of like feminists asking men to NEVER comment on a woman's appearance in public. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/18 02:06 PM |
| 2 | My SO is a wonderful person and we have been together many years however I have noticed that wherever we sleep she always chooses the side of the bed away from the door so that I get done-in first.People have preferred sides of the bed to sleep on. It's not some grand conspiracy to make you take a bullet. She may just prefer the side of the best most away from the light coming through the door. If you really want her side, tell her. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Academy Awards Men-Are-Predators-Women-Are-Heroic-Victim Fatigue: Television Ratings Drop to All-Time Low 26.5 Million Viewers. Easily the least-watched Oscars in historyAh, you're right. Somehow I looked at that chart and thought the 2017 figure was the 2018 figure. Still I'm convinced that a big part of it is general declining network ratings. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 11:40 PM |
| 6 | Academy Awards Men-Are-Predators-Women-Are-Heroic-Victim Fatigue: Television Ratings Drop to All-Time Low 26.5 Million Viewers. Easily the least-watched Oscars in historyConsidering that it still got a few more viewers than 2008, I'm not sure if we can attribute the numbers to the politics and virtue-signaling, as well as a general disregard for Hollywood misandry. Edit: My numbers are wrong. It was the lowest. I'm pretty sure that these numbers simply reflect the death of broadcast television more than anything else. But I will say that it's quite noticeable that all the best picture picks since the W years have been political message flicks mostly, without rew… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 10:07 PM |
| 2 | What can I do?I would say don't solely rely on the internet. If you can obtain a space and time for a men's issues group, say in a local library for example, then make flyers and post them where you think they'll be effective. Perhaps the flyers can draw local folks into the facebook part, but I wouldn't expect anyone to intuitively seek out the facebook group. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 04:19 PM |
| 3 | We are going to discuss the pay gap at school this Friday. Could you help me?English, but a very simple explanation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QcDrE5YvqTs&t=12s | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Indian Woman cop tries to swallow bribe money after being caughtI'm not really sure why this isn't just about police corruption, but we have to somehow bring in gender to say, "Ha, see women can be corrupt cops, too!" I get that it also goes against the "women are wonderful" rhetoric that some feminists push, and that part of the goals of the MRM to see all of us as a mixed bag of equally fallible humans. But a part of me also feels like this sub too often takes something that is "woman does X!" but nobody would post a story about a corrupt male Indian polic… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | real talk. how do men perceive transgender menGiven that I ask that question about my identity 15 years ago, I can't imagine if it involved gender reversal. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 05:28 AM |
| 6 | But equality laws were just supposed to screw over boys. Girls empowerment camp canceled after attorney claims it violates anti-discrimination lawsYou want them to protect by getting out of the way? Imagine telling a police officer that line of reasoning. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 05:08 AM |
| 1 | The gender pay gap of British MPs - Can you spot the obvious flaw?But I'm asking what would a female MP's income be valued at if it included additional income like jewelry from a spouse? It's a wealth factor outside of traditional employment. So where do we draw the line at the "outside factor" part? | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | The gender pay gap of British MPs - Can you spot the obvious flaw?I'm not sure that I understand your reply. A quick glance at wiki suggests that guy made millions through illegal activities. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 04:47 AM |
| 4 | The gender pay gap of British MPs - Can you spot the obvious flaw?How about jewelry and gifts as well, which can be liquidated for income in the future? | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 03:47 AM |
| 25 | real talk. how do men perceive transgender menI'm honestly not sure why the label of "men" is so important. How can somebody on the one hand claim that gender binaries are wrong yet at the same time demand to be recognized according to that binary, because they are really a "man"? Otherwise I don't have a problem treating anyone with respect. I just don't really understand all the contradictions, but I don't walk in their boots. Another part of me asks, "Why would any woman in 2018 want to be recognized and treated as a man, along with deal… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 03:30 AM |
| 2 | The gender pay gap of British MPs - Can you spot the obvious flaw?Interesting. That sounds like even looking at the governmental positions is shifting the question of why so many more male politicians have backgrounds high up in the corporate world, whereas female politicians do not. I know that also has nothing really to do with an actual wage gap but more men willing to do those jobs. Yet this article is focused on the politicians, not the background "problem," which could be understood by so many other factors. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 03:02 AM |
| 4 | The gender pay gap of British MPs - Can you spot the obvious flaw?In the states we would consider that type of side job as unethical considering that someone can't be both impartial and partial to an energy company, which is why Trump had to (theoretically, at least) put his financial empire in other people's hands. Does that conflict of interest become a problem for UK MPs? | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 02:39 AM |
| 8 | Jimmy Kimmel Says Penis-Free Oscar Statue Is Hollywood’s Ideal ManHe's never been funny. This whole crowd of late night hosts is such a stupid group of partisan hacks, and I can't even remotely compare them to the greats. It's like comparing SNL of today to the Bill Murray, Chevy Chase, Eddie Murphy era. But yeah, hashtag Kimmelcutoffyourdick | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 02:16 AM |
| 9 | The gender pay gap of British MPs - Can you spot the obvious flaw?Would you say my analogy is right or is there something about what these "outside earnings" mean? I'm not sure that I understand your other comment here about how additional part time work can also be related to the full-time job. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 02:11 AM |
| 89 | The gender pay gap of British MPs - Can you spot the obvious flaw?That's so ridiculous. It's like, "These two cashiers make identical wages and work the same hours, but the woman also sells books on Amazon. Therefore there is a 10 percent wage gap between female and male cashiers (relating to the job of being a cashier)." Am I reading that right? | /r/MensRights | 05/03/18 01:54 AM |
| 2 | What do you think this study is trying to accomplish?I wonder what the definition of sexual aggression is for this student. Isn't it absolutely known that alcohol lowers inhibitions including fears of sexual rejection. To not include women sounds like confirmation bias, as well as some underlying belief that sexual desire crosses over into violence for men psychologically. And I wouldn't be surprised if the test subjects are given no choice as to genre of porn, and the researchers try to arouse them with 50 on 1 gangbangs. Even that type of thing … | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Sad story about homeless WOMAN told by NYT. Would a man receive so much help?Lots of social experiments on this stuff, but many of them are probably staged. I'll let you decide if this is real: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmC4ikxT4v4 | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 09:31 PM |
| 3 | What do you think this study is trying to accomplish?I'm not sure why it's so gender specific in trying to determine how alcohol changes how people act or think. I'm pretty sure there are bookshelves of studies on it as a general non-gendered issue, so the gendered part is confusing. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Sad this isn't talked about more in mainstream...It's nice to see this fact-checking. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 09:03 PM |
| 9 | Louisville judge jails mom after daughter refuses visitation with dadWell that's a complicated case, and I don't know what to believe. If any of the evidence is true, the dad needs anger counseling and supervised visitation, but I also can't believe that fingers in the car door was intentional. The child is clearly terrified of her father, which must have some basis, although it could be greatly influenced by the mother's perceptions of the father. Is there any standard when it comes to say a 14 year old refusing to do the weekend thing with one parent who has th… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 09:00 PM |
| 52 | But equality laws were just supposed to screw over boys. Girls empowerment camp canceled after attorney claims it violates anti-discrimination lawsAn interesting story. It is nice to see some consistency when it comes to these things and governmental funds. Now if somebody could please send a letter about the need for a White House Council on Boys, since they have one on girls, or, god forbid, some equal awareness campaigns for men's health issues. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Just watched Chris Rock's Netflix specialI thought it was a mixed bag, mostly unfunny, with some truly cringe worthy race baiting. A few moments of one liners here and there about how hard men have it, but coming after saying very racist things about white people. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Want men to support feminism? Stop treating them as the problem.Yeah I was about to copy and paste that quote like you did. It's jaw dropping in the unawareness of men's issues and disadvantages. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 07:19 PM |
| 12 | MRM in TV/film.There was a Bones episode that dealt with men's rights. I never watched it but I remember reading about it. I think it eventually portrayed the MRM as awful and misogynistic, but there were a few moments when characters were like, "Yes those statistics are true..." | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | So a man apparently killed himself in front of the White House todayPlease note I was in no way advocating suicide as an answer, just trying to speculate on what may have led to such a terrible thing. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Men's Sperm Counts Are Dropping, and Scientists Don't Know WhyIs this a joke post? I find the rape fantasies very disturbing, as if a feminist is trying to describe "how men think" without actually understanding men. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 07:56 AM |
| 8 | Men's Sperm Counts Are Dropping, and Scientists Don't Know WhyI also read on a MGTOW forum a theory that went like this: The pill contains synthetic female hormones which eventually make their way into everyone's water supplies. This seems similar to Rachel Carson's type of argument about pesticides. Could the use of birth control pills really potentially lead to human extinction due to males indirectly consuming synthetic female hormones? Does that sound like a crazy theory that blames feminism for the end of civilization, or might it have some scientific… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Men's Sperm Counts Are Dropping, and Scientists Don't Know WhyThe linked study suggests a big difference between developed and non-developed regions of the world. It makes me wonder how many developed countries do it compared the US. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Men's Sperm Counts Are Dropping, and Scientists Don't Know WhyOn the one hand, the evil fluoride in the water reminds me of that scene in Dr. Strangelove with the anti-communist general screaming belligerently about a communist conspiracy to destroy the West. It sounds like Alex Jones territory. On the other hand, I've never looked into to the basis for any of those claims. If DDT had unforeseen consequences, why couldn't fluoride? | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 05:42 AM |
| 8 | Men's Sperm Counts Are Dropping, and Scientists Don't Know WhyAre you saying that men had more access to sex or sexually promiscuous women prior to the Sexual Revolution of the 70s? Plus I imagine that the vast majority of men masturbate far, far more since the 50s. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 04:48 AM |
| 28 | Men's Sperm Counts Are Dropping, and Scientists Don't Know WhyI've seen so many headlines about this problem. It seems like every 5 months a new scientific institution reviews existing studies and sounds an alarm. It has to be related to some human behavior or type of consumption that increased dramatically since 1970. I wouldn't be surprised if it's something like plastic bottles, processed foods, or florescent lights. Any other guesses? | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 04:44 AM |
| 15 | When Everyday Feminism says, Men, don't lead, your voices are listened to. I laugh. 1. They're not. 2. I keep on remembering about how I have been treated as an equal, and that our voices being listened to more is an asset for the movement, for it means that the message is spread.That blog is such trash. Imagine a MRA parody addressed to female MRAs, where the genders were swapped but everything else remained the same. "Women... you want to be allies... be quiet, shut up, get to the back of the line, we determine whether you are an ally... don't womansplain..." I think an article like that would become as infamous as Elam's parody of Jezebel. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Title IX and Mansplaininga negative gender-based remark is illegal I feel like this is super subjective, and if true feminist studies wouldn't be legal. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 03:12 AM |
| 14 | Title IX and MansplainingTry it out. It would be interesting to hear a response. I can definitely see the Title IX office seriously consider how somebody interrupting a woman and saying she is womansplaining so please shut up... a case could be made for "creating a hostile environment." On the other hand, you're also asking the university to police words and restrict a certain phrase. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 03:11 AM |
| 0 | Galileo and the Phallocentric UniverseThis was entertaining, particularly the mix of read and fake facts. Not really sure why it's posted to this sub, but I've subbed to that guy. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Electrocutate all men!!!Someone should ask her if she also supports shock therapy to train the gay out of gays, you know to train them to be straight. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 01:24 AM |
| 2 | I'm writing a report for college about men's rights. What are the best sources I could possibly use?I would pick 3 or 4 big issues, like father's rights, domestic violence, and male disposability. We could easily help you find two really good sources for each topic. Are there 3 or 4 aspects of the men's movement that you think are most important? | /r/MensRights | 04/03/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I'm writing a report for college about men's rights. What are the best sources I could possibly use?What is the college class and location? The sources could overwhelm you, but we might be able to pinpoint things. What is the assignment, length, and academic expectations? | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 11:40 PM |
| 3 | More like, she made it up to screw over the guy! If this was the genders reversed, then it'd be more likely to be received with no sympathy (Which is unjust). What do you think?!A bit confused by your headline, but you do realize the Onion is satire, right? | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 10:43 PM |
| 3 | H3 Reacts to Hot Female Teacher Sleeping with 14 Year Old Male Student (and the hypocrisy of double standards)I get what you're saying here, but perhaps consider that you may not be a good judge about what turns on a heterosexual man if you don't experience any significant attraction to women. I often ask a similar question about why some more flamboyant gay men can pretend to be experts on what makes a woman fabulous for straight men, lol. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 10:33 PM |
| 3 | H3 Reacts to Hot Female Teacher Sleeping with 14 Year Old Male Student (and the hypocrisy of double standards)It might be worth noting that H3's audience is probably a ton of high school boys. He started out with reaction videos, prank debunking, and comedy sketches, so his audience is probably similar to pewdiepie. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 07:32 PM |
| 4 | H3 Reacts to Hot Female Teacher Sleeping with 14 Year Old Male Student (and the hypocrisy of double standards)That's a fair reading. I'm not really sure what the other person is trying to say here. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 09:50 AM |
| 0 | H3 Reacts to Hot Female Teacher Sleeping with 14 Year Old Male Student (and the hypocrisy of double standards)I don't disagree with you, but it seems troubling to me that a feminist is essentially deplatformed from a reddit sub. Sure the first post was questionable in logic and language, but my god, it's like you folks descended like vultures. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 09:46 AM |
| 1 | H3 Reacts to Hot Female Teacher Sleeping with 14 Year Old Male Student (and the hypocrisy of double standards)Sorry that you got so downvoted. I hope it has more to do with your arguments than there is a horde of anti-feminists here who just downvote a feminist. I can't really tell. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 08:16 AM |
| 3 | I have trouble assessing where the gender war stands in my country.You're in a former satellite state of the Soviet Union, which promoted feminist reforms for a long time. Honestly, I really don't know much about Hungary, but I would be surprised if there wasn't a legacy of Draconian laws that benefited women at the expense of men, beyond simple gender equality for equality's sake. Your family court laws sound like child visitation rights but with equal pay for kids. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 07:28 AM |
| 32 | H3 Reacts to Hot Female Teacher Sleeping with 14 Year Old Male Student (and the hypocrisy of double standards)You are objectifying her, which might seem like a bigger crime to some folks than the story itself. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 07:05 AM |
| 10 | H3 Reacts to Hot Female Teacher Sleeping with 14 Year Old Male Student (and the hypocrisy of double standards)I don't think I am resisting agreeing b/c you are a feminist. If anything, my eyes bright up when I do see a feminist around these parts. An echo chamber is healthy for no group. Thank you for your comments in support of equality. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 07:02 AM |
| 15 | H3 Reacts to Hot Female Teacher Sleeping with 14 Year Old Male Student (and the hypocrisy of double standards)Thanks for conversing with us as a feminist. I'm not sure how a court would judge the level of seduction vs. the simple fact that at a certain age a kid is a kid. And trauma is difficult to judge considering it can build up over decades after the fact. And what if somebody claims later to be traumatized despite no verbal cues at the time? And it definitely sounds weird to me that a feminist wants to bring in relevant sexual history of a victim as potentially relevant information. Again, thanks f… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 06:31 AM |
| 76 | H3 Reacts to Hot Female Teacher Sleeping with 14 Year Old Male Student (and the hypocrisy of double standards)Er, wait a sec, but is there evidence that the two had sex? The more I look at this story, the more it sounds like she sent him nudes and helped him get weed. But they were also disappearing together doing who knows what. It doesn't really change Ethan's bigger comment about how nobody takes male victims seriously and the comments section is a dumpster fire of "Best teacher of 2018," "Luckiest boy in the world," or "I'd tap that when I was 14." Very little awareness or compassion for boys in the… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/18 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Writing film about a man going through a divorceNo problem. I'm browsing NCFM website and there are quite a lot of resources and articles in their library section under help. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/18 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Writing film about a man going through a divorceThe National Coalition for Men, I think, specializes in these kinds of topics. You'll probably be dealing with a ton of anecdotal stories, but it should help here. Also watch the Red Pill documentary if you haven't done so. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/18 11:36 PM |
| 11 | Huge blow to the Ryerson Men’s Issues Awareness Society: Court rules that the University has the right to deny them student group status.If they're going to use male privilege as a reason for denying this group, one might think that step 1 would involve proving that it actually exists. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/18 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Only Batman could get away with this.What year is this from? Just curious. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/18 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Never paid attention before, but the lyrics to "Billie Jean" are totally relevant to the MRM...But what was the original mistake beyond dancing with the girl? | /r/MensRights | 02/03/18 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Never paid attention before, but the lyrics to "Billie Jean" are totally relevant to the MRM...The one part I've never understood about the song is, "Mom said think twice," followed by "don't think twice." x 2. I just don't understand the meaning of that advice to men. Maybe I'm dense. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/18 06:04 AM |
| 21 | Never paid attention before, but the lyrics to "Billie Jean" are totally relevant to the MRM...Every time this song comes on the radio, I am reminded that it's fictional, but wow could a random woman have so much power over the number 1 richest pop star of the year, simply by making an accusation or claim after dancing with him. It's pretty sobering in terms of the perils of power vs. a single woman's claims. According to the song, he didn't even sleep with her, yet he has to come out with a public statement that the kid is not his son. Be careful what you do, don't go around breaking you… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/18 04:25 AM |
| 4 | Are you still a blue-piller subconsciously?I think that I'm maybe still blue-pilled about the third world when my instincts tell me that women are oppressed, particularly in countries that stone women for witchcraft, heresy, or adultery. Or many of the places that practice FGM. These seem to be backward places that throw gays off buildings and stone women, almost like the Stone Age. Yet, I'm pretty ignorant about those countries, cultures, and religions, and the more that I learn about the laws in places shocks me. And it's also very dif… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/18 04:09 AM |
| 7 | The Future is Male T-Shirt - Perfect to trigger feminists!The future is equality, not male. This shirt is as offensive to me as "the future is female" shirt worn by a radical lesbian feminist. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 10:27 PM |
| 20 | Yet another female politician this time accused of rape not asked to drop out of the race.Seems like due process was followed here, so I can't jump to conclusions about her guilt if we're going to be consistent about false accusations. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Guys, have you ever been "catcalled" by women (and how did it make you feel?)8th grade is pretty young to try to handle such a situation. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Guys, have you ever been "catcalled" by women (and how did it make you feel?)How do you know that women do this for these reasons? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Guys, have you ever been "catcalled" by women (and how did it make you feel?)I am unfamiliar with the term non-plussed and I tried to google the definition which gave contradictory explanations of either being surprised or not surprised. Did you mean the you were totally not bothered by it? Or were you perplexed? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 03:50 AM |
| 7 | (Sex romp, not rape of 14 year old) Science teacher, 26, sent nudes, had sex romps with teen boy student, cops sayCan you offer any examples that include a young girl being described these ways? I'm not sure your example really argues much, given that boys are not described as victims of women or men, whereas young girls always are, for just reasons. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | But if you don't open doors then it means you're rude and you hate women. Can't win in any wayI see a lot of confused men compromising by slightly holding the door behind them for everyone. We can't even do something nice or chivalrous without being accused of oppressing people. But we don't want to stop being nice, so the back held door is like a compromise and safe thing. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Why is this subreddit way more popular than r/feminism?Probably would be 500k subs if it included banned people at the feminism sub. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Guys, have you ever been "catcalled" by women (and how did it make you feel?)It does make me wonder from an evolutionary perspective, why women don't verbalize attraction and men are expected to initiate mating. How did that come about, when it seems advantageous if different, given that a lot of men don't say no or don't resist? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Guys, have you ever been "catcalled" by women (and how did it make you feel?)Were you oblivious because they expected you to read minds? Or, were the clues really there? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 01:11 AM |
| 20 | (Sex romp, not rape of 14 year old) Science teacher, 26, sent nudes, had sex romps with teen boy student, cops sayEverybody would call this either rape or child molestation if genders were reversed. Can anyone imagine a headline about a 26 year old man having a "sex romp" or "sexual relationship" with a 14 year old girl? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 12:54 AM |
| 2 | I love that Pewdiepie is red pilledbut think about the wamen | /r/MensRights | 28/02/18 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys consider yourself alt-right?Your post reminds me of a saying that "If you're not liberal in your twenties, you have no heart. But if you're not conservative in your 40s, you have no brain." It sounds insulting to a young leftist but pretty common sense to an aging liberal, even one who is not a conservative. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/18 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys consider yourself alt-right?Thanks for the kind clarification and reply. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/18 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys consider yourself alt-right?I suspect that a lot of alt right people would consider this wikipedia piece to be slander from the left, but here it is: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alt-right | /r/MensRights | 28/02/18 03:15 AM |
| 6 | Do you guys consider yourself alt-right?Eric thanks for the reply. I've been in several situations that are just completely unacceptable if it was directed at any other group. You know how sometimes anti-feminists can't say the word "feminists" without spitting and making a disapproving face. Well, maybe some of that can be understood since feminism is an ideology depending on our views beyond the textbook definition. But, I've been in several situations where a speaker can talk to a crowd and say, "white men," where I can't tell if t… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/18 03:08 AM |
| 7 | Do you guys consider yourself alt-right?I believe that I have faced discrimination as a man, particularly as a white man trying to get a job in academia. I cannot subscribe to your view that men's rights and race have nothing in common, when many leftists demonize white men as the worst type of man. I don't want to sound all intersectional, but it's hard for me to deny that intersection. And there are many traditionalists around here that I enjoy reading. Just my two cents. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/18 02:35 AM |
| 8 | Do you guys consider yourself alt-right?No, although there should be nothing wrong about white people recognizing the contributions of Western civilization to the world and the present. If other groups can have pride in their cultural contributions and accomplishments, then I don't understand why Europeans or Euro-Americans cannot also do so, while also recognizing the darker sides of their ancestors' influence, in terms of slavery, imperialism, etc. (which isn't confined to the West). It still kind of reeks of identity politics thoug… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/18 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Why I Don't Respect FeminismCrazy that I've never heard of this YTer and he has 400k subs. Thanks for posting something added to my sub list. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/18 04:06 AM |
| 13 | An article about this Sub as a "Safe Space for Guys to Share"“I think women have been horribly marginalized in our society and treated badly. You just can’t compare the women’s rights movement to anything going on with men. They aren’t even close,” Provis said. Anyone want to start the BS train on this claim? | /r/MensRights | 26/02/18 10:47 PM |
| 7 | Why is there a need to go for men's rights exclusively?I also care about women's rights, particularly in third world countries. But take a moment and grab a piece of paper. Regarding the Western world, make a list of legit women's issues and then make a list of legit men's issues. When I do that the scale of human rights violations and issues are overwhelming on one side, even if I grant that there is a 77 cents wage gap (I'm not saying there is). But even if we take every feminist complaint as incredibly legit, maybe with the exception of "rape cul… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/18 03:19 PM |
| 9 | SPLC Slams ‘Factual Feminist’ and Other Women as Part of 'Male Supremacy’ MovementI wonder about this too. The SPLC usually targets organizations and websites but not individuals with their slander. So might libel laws apply or whatever suing for defamation involves? | /r/MensRights | 26/02/18 03:07 PM |
| 2 | 500 Icelandic physicians back bill to outlaw circumcision - EuropeThe response to this is pretty hysterical as far as the opposition. Sargon made a video about it, but it might be buried in TWIS series. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/18 01:06 PM |
| 7 | Southern Poverty Law Center Warns of "Female Male Supremacists"It's amazing that they would include CHS when I don't really consider her a big voice for MRAs unless dealing with the boy crisis, education, and misandry. But I've never heard her really directly address male disposability, the draft, circumcision, and fathers' rights. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/18 01:03 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend’s ex is falsely accusing him of emotional and sexual abuse at the university where they both work. He might lose his job. Is there anything he can do??It's gotten to the point where I don't have office hours with a female student unless it's in a location that is video-taped. I feel like I need to be wearing a body camera on a college campus. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/18 01:51 AM |
| 4 | "Just like a real woman it makes you nut too fast, he thought. Just like a real woman it makes you pull out."why am I reading this fiction? It's very strange and obviously completely made up. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/18 01:05 AM |
| 9 | If we don't have the support of the government, politicians or celebrities like feminism do, if we don't have the support of the media ( we are even listed as a hate group), and if every time we try to make a change, we are opposed by feminism...On a positive note, the public discussion of men's rights is unprecedented, in particular during the past 5 years. Just the fact that feminists hubs are at least aware of men's issues (even if they spin them to blame men or patriarchy), this movement has become a significant challenge to feminist ideology and power, even with smear tactics, censorship, and silence. Feminism is in crisis mode when something like 80 percent of people believe in gender equality but only 15 percent want to be associ… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/18 12:56 AM |
| 5 | "Tesco pay uproar proves we should buy from retailers that pay female staff fairly"I wonder which job is safer when a worker is tired and working overtime: the warehouse or the cash register? | /r/MensRights | 25/02/18 05:31 AM |
| 13 | Why not support Islam?Some Islamic countries throw gay men off of buildings and they treat women as second class citizens. Your post is either trolling or a joke. Or, maybe, just maybe, you are a feminist who realizes how ridiculous it is to support both feminism and certain Islamic regimes. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/18 06:05 AM |
| 18 | Why can't men make false sexual accusations just as easily as women can?Men know that they won't be believed or even if they are, they won't be taken seriously. I don't recommend that anyone make a false accusation, even if wronged by false accusations. Two wrongs don't make a right. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 02:54 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend’s ex is falsely accusing him of emotional and sexual abuse at the university where they both work. He might lose his job. Is there anything he can do??I think you may need to get him to talk about it. This kind of stuff eats strong men alive until they explode into blubbering yelling about how they are failures and life seems out of control. That's what happened to me, personally. It just grew and grew until I exploded of emotion. Being a grad student who does really well, you feel a lot of control over your life and destiny. Everyone tells you that you're doing the right things. You go through all the efforts, sometimes even learning foreign … | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Are males losing interest in watching sports as media replaces announcers with women?I do have some fond memories of the robot wars shows on SyFy. It was probably the closest I ever got into sports. But why would they think that women might be more attracted to sports by including life stories and personal dramas vs. a play by play? That seems maybe kind of stereotypical or sexist to assume. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 05:17 AM |
| 4 | My boyfriend’s ex is falsely accusing him of emotional and sexual abuse at the university where they both work. He might lose his job. Is there anything he can do??From personal experience a man in a rough postdoc situation can feel incredibly helpless and at the mercy of an indifferent world. I certainly feel that way as a straight white man trying to get and retain a job in academia. If this stuff is following that period of intense anger, resentment, and sheer futility, then he might be in a position to think, "Wow, I did everything right, and now I am at the mercy of a vengeful woman." A lot of normally sane men would give up and simply cry on the ches… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Are males losing interest in watching sports as media replaces announcers with women?Is it obvious that the female announcers don't really know the sports as well, or is that maybe an unconscious bias against their reporting? | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 04:44 AM |
| 8 | My boyfriend’s ex is falsely accusing him of emotional and sexual abuse at the university where they both work. He might lose his job. Is there anything he can do??He should also document every email, every text, and have any character witnesses to events. I'm not really sure how these investigations work, or if he'll even be allowed to present counter-evidence. But if he can offer evidence of "Hi honey, I love you so much" text after the period when she is claiming emotional and sexual abuse. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 04:39 AM |
| 5 | After Legal Mediation failed, I have no optionsI know that it's unfair and inconvenient, but you're actually pretty lucky IMO. Losing a weekend with your kid is peanuts compared to what a lot of guys around here have lost. They would move, change careers, or even be homeless if it meant having some access to their kids. I hope that I don't sound unsympathetic. She could probably cut you completely out of the child's life by making a false accusation and pursuing a restraining order. Sorry if my words are not more encouraging. It's wonderful … | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 04:29 AM |
| 13 | My boyfriend’s ex is falsely accusing him of emotional and sexual abuse at the university where they both work. He might lose his job. Is there anything he can do??It sounds like he is teaching at the same Uni as his dissertation was done. Is that correct? He should secretly record any and all tribunal hearings that they put him through. If there is no due process, those recordings might be his only hope (via Lindsey Sheppard style embarrassment for a Uni). | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 04:17 AM |
| 5 | The boys bathroom probably just got a new paper towel dispenser...I'm kind of expecting the first defacement to be on the "She believed she could so she did" followed by white out saying "my fucking boyfriend, that cunt." Assuming this is a high school. And no not advocating anyone do that. It's more like inspiration plus bathroom humor, so what could possibly go wrong. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 04:07 AM |
| 5 | New Rule: Hollywood's Grey Area | Real Time with Bill Maher (HBO)It would be interesting to read a study that analyzes a ton of historical and modern romance novels. It was one of the most thriving genres that made centuries of women literate. How many of the men in those novels would offend the MeToo movement of today? And is there a single romance novel of today, in which a man awkwardly gets a woman's explicit consent before timidly trying to touch her in a romantic way? Bill may be correct here that there is no real distinction in the actual behavior of m… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 03:24 AM |
| 4 | Are males losing interest in watching sports as media replaces announcers with women?I think that all of this may be just a part of broadcast TV dying. Sports programming didn't adapt to a changing landscape. Perhaps alienating male viewers didn't help things, although I don't understand why a female announcer would inherently alienate men. After all, some of them are nice to look at compared to a Madden. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 02:56 AM |
| 12 | White males need not apply: Universities continue to hire faculty that meet diversity quotasI've spent the past 4 years visiting the academic job boards every other day. I can't tell you how many times I've seen job ads blatantly state their preference for women, minorities, and people studying non-Western topics related to social justice and diversity. I've even seen several feminist studies ads that are seeking a "black or Latinx feminist," rather than wording it as they often do as "a scholar who specializes in feminist studies while working closely with African American studies on … | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 02:14 AM |
| 6 | Colonizing Mars is Like Sexual Assault, Says Gender Studies ProfessorDon't forget to include some kind of unconscious homosexual desires since Mars is the dude planet that we're trying to violate and penetrate. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/18 05:02 AM |
| 9 | Colonizing Mars is Like Sexual Assault, Says Gender Studies ProfessorI read the original article, and I can only conclude that the foundation holding all the logic together is a view of men in which they think: "Me must conquer and rape! Me must be MAN! Conquer and rape, I do." *Man beats chest as he salivates over the helpless women of the enemy village. To prove his manliness he must go out, exploit poor and helpless "Mother Nature," and have his way with "her." He's essentially a motherfucker humping the dirt out of a will to subjugate everything including the… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/18 05:01 AM |
| 3 | A Swedish study found, for instance, that “gender studies” are the best financed, but also most biased and least objective of all disciplines within the humanities and social sciences!"Next issue proclaims a discovery that water is wet. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/18 01:58 AM |
| 4 | The SPLC has declared A Voice For Men to be a "male supremacist" organization and has thus included them on their "Hate Group" list.link please | /r/MensRights | 21/02/18 10:22 PM |
| 26 | The SPLC has declared A Voice For Men to be a "male supremacist" organization and has thus included them on their "Hate Group" list.Elam should sue for defamation. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Metoo advocate Lawmaker 'invited aide to spin the bottle', accused by several men of harassmentReally? Spin the bottle was a game that horny teenagers played and maybe some college kids. I can't believe that anyone over 30 would be like, "hey, let's play spin the bottle in my hotel room." | /r/MensRights | 21/02/18 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Crowder: "Male Privilege is a Myth" College Campus interviewsIt's definitely virtue signaling to the crowd that "I'm not like what I appear to be!" | /r/MensRights | 20/02/18 02:55 PM |
| 8 | Crowder: "Male Privilege is a Myth" College Campus interviewsI wish Crowder had pressed on the point that men and women are biologically different, just to see the Greg's mind try to squirm out of the "transphobic" implications. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/18 02:54 PM |
| 16 | Crowder: "Male Privilege is a Myth" College Campus interviewsThanks for sharing the link. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/18 05:37 AM |
| 5 | Crowder: "Male Privilege is a Myth" College Campus interviewsHow is he all over the internet now? | /r/MensRights | 20/02/18 05:34 AM |
| 9 | Crowder: "Male Privilege is a Myth" College Campus interviewsHe does this regularly and probably typically decides which "guest" makes the most interesting interactions. There is no way to know how the other exchanges went, I guess. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/18 05:33 AM |
| 26 | Crowder: "Male Privilege is a Myth" College Campus interviewsCan you share a link please? | /r/MensRights | 20/02/18 04:13 AM |
| 19 | When Will We Have the Guts to Link Fatherlessness to School Shootings?Great article. It would be interesting to also know some stats about juvenile criminals who do have present fathers, yet have absolutely terrible relationships with those fathers for some reason. In other words, what percentage of overall delinquents had good relationships with an active and loving father? | /r/MensRights | 19/02/18 02:31 AM |
| 2 | From Chris Rock's new show: "Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something."Finished watching this special, and I gotta say it was the worse CR special he's ever done. Depressing topics without a lot of punchlines. He looks kind of strange like post Hollywood plastic surgery. And if somebody edited some parts to replace the word "white" with "black" it would outright offensive and racist. Sure, a few interesting nuggets here and there about men and women, but, as somebody else pointed out, it was an identity politics shitshow that at best wasn't funny and at worst was d… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | From Chris Rock's new show: "Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something."I was just watching this and he says, "If you don't punch your black male children in the face, it's child abuse." That was after minutes of classifying white things as evil (or making white things evil) for his kids. It was disgusting, and I can't only imagine how any of these jokes would go over about black girls. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/18 04:55 AM |
| 2 | It is said in Poland that 'Feminism ends when a woman needs to get the fridge to the 3rd floor.'What's complicated about changing a diaper? I did it maybe a thousand times, and I barely remember that year or two of my life. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | This is really succinct, measured, and intelligent video that I think perfectly explains the movement, especially to people who might initially disagree.Please learn about our movement with an open mind and not something you see on Portlandia, Cracked, or Jezebel. This video is sheer nonsense and slander disguised as satire. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/18 12:58 AM |
| 8 | Mother abandons baby in airport, dismissing all personal responsibility with only a hand-written note.There certainly wouldn't be any sympathy for the poor, unprepared father who felt overwhelmed by the responsibility to care for the human he created. Yet, we somehow have a completely different standard for young women, even with some folks praising girls for taking their infants to safe havens vs. a trash can. I can't even fathom the similar argument along the lines of, "Well, at least the dad did something responsible when abandoning a child, instead of outright killing it." | /r/MensRights | 10/02/18 01:33 AM |
| 26 | Mother abandons baby in airport, dismissing all personal responsibility with only a hand-written note.You don't find it a bit perplexing that men are held accountable for 18 years of an unwanted child's life, while denied any legal options over the birth of the child, yet a woman can feel entitled to do this, with a hand written get out jail free card, apparently? | /r/MensRights | 09/02/18 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Why is Dean Esmay Falsely Accusing Roosh and Me of Rape?virus attack from that website | /r/MensRights | 09/02/18 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Why MEN are importantBut now we have "womxn." | /r/MensRights | 09/02/18 06:07 AM |
| 9 | California lawmaker Cristina Garcia, featured on the cover of Time Magazine as a key supporter of the #MeToo movement, is now under investigation for sexually harassing and groping a former male legislative staffer. Other complainants coming forward.I do respect her response here, in terms of taking the men's claims seriously. Of course, she may not really have a choice but to save face. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/18 05:43 AM |
| 2 | USA: 'Don't ask twice': Facebook and Google staff told not to ask colleagues a second time for a DATE in love at work legal crackdown. Work, "Love Contracts" must now be signed. But they are not legal in Europe.It's kind of like they never ran a company before getting caught up in a scandal. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/18 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Al-Qaeda publishes magazine for women by a woman on how to be a good wife to a holy warriorI'm not trying to encourage any kind of organized provocation of feminist subs, but it would be really interesting to read what a Ask feminists sub has to say about this magazine. Would they feel comfortable criticizing Islam and Islamic patriarchy at the same time? Or would they suddenly be silent because somehow Islam is higher on the intersection (oppression Olympics) than women or women's rights? It would be an interesting thing to witness from an observational point of view, kind of like wa… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/18 02:20 AM |
| 8 | The University of California-Merced is hiring an administrator well-versed in feminism to support 'student driven events' such as 'activism' and 'political activities.' Website says, 'We are utiulizing [sic] womxn to be more imclusive [sic] of the diversity within the category of womxn.'From urban dictionary: "A spelling of "women" that is a more inclusive, progressive term that not only sheds light on the prejudice, discrimination, and institutional barriers womxn have faced, but to also show that womxn are not the extension of men (as hinted by the classic Bible story of Adam and Eve) but their own free and separate entities. More intersectional than womyn because it includes trans-women and women of color." I get how the term is trying to take out "men" from "women" but I do… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/18 12:35 AM |
| 3 | The University of California-Merced is hiring an administrator well-versed in feminism to support 'student driven events' such as 'activism' and 'political activities.' Website says, 'We are utiulizing [sic] womxn to be more imclusive [sic] of the diversity within the category of womxn.'"Womxn in the Wilderness Backpacking Trip." Not sure whether to be terrified, amused, or a little turned on. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/18 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Woman sues ex-boyfriend for half of his $6M lottery winnings.What is her point, that he promised to share while he also promised, probably, to never leave her? | /r/MensRights | 07/02/18 11:34 PM |
| 21 | Woman sues ex-boyfriend for half of his $6M lottery winnings.I must be missing the part where it clarifies that any man owes half of his stuff to a current or former girlfriend, for reasons undisclosed. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/18 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Reported Cases of Sexual Abuse Against Men Triple in England and WalesI didn't see any mention of female perpetrators. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/18 04:18 AM |
| 9 | Feminism's A Bridge Too Far? (F1 Drops Grid Girls. Cheerleaders are next.)I think that Dave is right that this kind of stuff leads to a massive red pilling of ordinary women. Perhaps it's wise to not stand in the way as they tarnish their own movement. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/18 08:26 PM |
| 7 | So much for the argument that the phrase including women when discussing wartime casualties isn't downplaying male lives, but a recognition that women are "civilians".I just watched an ad that depicted a medieval battle, in which there were a significant minority of female soldiers, almost like rewriting history, but set at odds for how society views violence against women. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/18 07:42 AM |
| 0 | My friend feels discriminated against and needs helpInteresting. I mean, it's pretty obvious that men will go out of their way to help cater to women. It's in our DNA. That it might negatively affect men around is kind of a no brainer, because of course it will. But there is also something very noble there about men, self-sacrifice, etc. We can be very noble, but dumb creatures unaware of how our actions affect other men, when we are focused on women. Maybe consider that aged old cartoon about men who put a coat on top of a puddle for women. Do t… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/18 06:54 AM |
| 3 | My friend feels discriminated against and needs helpWhat do you mean that the manager drugs and supports the woman? That sounds like a crime. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/18 06:32 AM |
| 2 | CNN: Cuckolding Can Be Positive - Tucker CarlsonIt is an interesting question about why the political left can seem anti-family or anti-family values. I've been on that side and I've seen it creep out of the woodwork, so to speak, in weird ways, from a disregard for traditional relationships to some kind of association of the family unit with heterosexual couples and white men. I've never seen the left offer a compelling alternative other than some idealistic notion of communal or collectivist living, which sounds like a totalitarian or culti… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Actress from The Wonder Years speaks out, blames cancellation on a bogus sexual harassment claim against the show's male leadI don't really find this very convincing to be honest. Actors get in bubbles on shows, particularly ones that start out as strong as TWY did, but by the sixth or was it the seventh season, that show was really limping on gas fumes. The magic was gone, and nobody wanted to see Kevin Arnold's college years. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/18 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Why Scientists Finding Water On Mars Is Blatant Misogyny: I am a proud third wave feminist who is outraged by the recent discovery of water on marsSeems to be an obvious parody making fun of feminist science studies. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/18 08:06 PM |
| 29 | Trump Declares He Is Not a FeministI kind of expect the following: Trump on Saturday: "I wouldn't call myself a feminist, but I'm pro-women, pro-men... I love everybody." Media on Sunday: "President Trump admitted to being anti-woman..." "He obviously doesn't understand the definition of feminism..." Or, "If you are pro-women, you are by definition a feminist." "Does this confirm everything we've suspected all along???" The talking heads will chime in with both fake outrage and smug self-congratulation about always knowing the tr… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/18 04:41 AM |
| 17 | Ron Jeremy on Getting Banned from AVN Awards for Groping: 'People Grope Me All the Time, Too'"I will fuck you for money on camera, but don't grab my tits as a joke off camera, OK?" | /r/MensRights | 26/01/18 03:29 AM |
| -1 | r/MensLib is terrible. I was hoping for an Even handed approach to both mens and womens issues, but instead i saw nonsense. Case and point look up what they have to say on one of their Aziz Ansari postsI don't understand why this reply got downvoted. So I upvoted it. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 03:01 PM |
| 8 | r/MensLib is terrible. I was hoping for an Even handed approach to both mens and womens issues, but instead i saw nonsense. Case and point look up what they have to say on one of their Aziz Ansari postsEvery time I browse men's lib I am reminded of the SCUM Auxiliary from the SCUM Manifesto, where the only remaining men in a feminist and communist utopia are foot soldiers who go before tribunals to say, "I am a turd," in the hopes of spending some time with the dominant and superior female leaders. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 02:20 PM |
| 7 | Day dreaming.WTF is the point of this post? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 05:45 AM |
| 3 | This feminist group is turning little boys into woman...It doesn't look like a group but some random person's tumblr blog, and it could have been easily created by an anti-feminist wanting to parody a straw man version of a radical fem. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 04:24 AM |
| 2 | This is a billboard I have seen in my home town. I understand the sentiment (we shouldn't feel sorry about Down's Syndrome), but I feel really uneasy about this. Is it just me?Yeah, sort of like it's upsetting if somebody said, "Sorry, it's a boy." So why are people not upset if it's "Sorry, your kid has DS." | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Nothing like a good old man hangingI think this is a parody. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 03:48 AM |
| 10 | Why am I a terrible person just for being a man?Sounds about right, as far as a typical experience for a lot of white men. But, it's also interesting now that it's happening to white women, even white feminists who are told to get to the back of the intersectional bus and not speak unless given permission. It will be interesting to see how alienating all white people, and then probably some other alleged demon, affects these movements. It's group mob behavior reminiscent of a still timeless clip: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrzMhU_4m-g | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 03:46 AM |
| 3 | This is a billboard I have seen in my home town. I understand the sentiment (we shouldn't feel sorry about Down's Syndrome), but I feel really uneasy about this. Is it just me?I sort of see what you're getting at, but the "sorry, it's a boy," seems to be the shock value of the billboard. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 03:39 AM |
| 4 | I've never read anything so stupidWell that was sickening to read. And it's even more sickening to think it was some teenage girl writing in the comfort of a home, having apparently no knowledge of the history of male trauma, PTSD, etc. And meanwhile everything around her, from her home to her iphone to her school and car... all of it mostly built by men. Yet she tweets away, giving little care or concern to the sacrifices, work, and deaths of so many men who built this world. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Would this result in permanent ban on other subreddits if genders were reversed?I think this is a joke, since quoted pieces stated benefits from female rape, so the punchline is how outrageous a statement would be if reversed. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 03:15 AM |
| 7 | This is a billboard I have seen in my home town. I understand the sentiment (we shouldn't feel sorry about Down's Syndrome), but I feel really uneasy about this. Is it just me?I don't understand it. Why would they say "Sorry..." but not sorry in smaller print? What does being a boy have to do with DS? Am I being dense here? Is the message, "Hey if you're not sorry it's a boy, then how can you be sorry that your baby has DS?" | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Germaine Greer says women 'spread legs' for Weinstein movie rolesSorry, to add and the fact that she could find a major publisher of that book indicates the mentality of an era, to be deferential to feminists and be so invisible to victimized boys, it just speaks volumes about her privilege as a notable feminist who could really get away with anything, while claiming victim status. Just imagine that book with gender reversed today. The author would be rightly called out and mobbed, for promoting some older person's attraction to the young and undeveloped oppo… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Is Jordan Peterson the stupid man's smart person?It's good that you reach outside echo chambers with an open mind. I do so too, but it's always so disappointing when it comes to intellect, reason, and evidence. Particularly from the left, and I say that as a former leftie. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Germaine Greer says women 'spread legs' for Weinstein movie rolesYeah, a google image search easily reveals the creep factor, while a wikipedia description summarizes: Greer has described the book as "full of pictures of 'ravishing' pre-adult boys with hairless chests, wide-apart legs and slim waists". She goes on to say that, "I know that the only people who are supposed to like looking at pictures of boys are a subgroup of gay men," she wrote in London's Daily Telegraph. "Well, I'd like to reclaim for women the right to appreciate the short-lived beauty of … | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Why is it worse to insult a woman than a man?It's just part of a long tradition of "that's not how you treat a lady. Women are special." Imagine being a woman walking down a frontier street in a frontier town. It's over the top with pretty young women, but it's still deferential toward elderly women. They are honored and cherished, and most men will stop what they do to assist a woman in distress, need, or simply want. In the example of a pretty young woman, every man would stop walking, remove their hats, and bow to the female. How's that… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 03:24 AM |
| 11 | NASA openly pushing full-on SJW Feminism to entire workforceAlso, isn't it kind of patronizing to implicitly tell a woman, "Oh you poor deary, I know that at NASA, the best and brightest are mostly the nerdy guys, but you don't worry. We see your potential to grow! You show promise, too! Why? Because you are a woman, and that counts for something special, right? Don't you want to be treated special because you are a woman? Surely, we can't hold you to the standards to compete with those best and brightest penis people. Plus, we really, really want to imp… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 03:14 AM |
| 7 | Is Jordan Peterson the stupid man's smart person?This is author is pretty low hanging fruit, but JBP should invite for an interview. The article is so smug, as if, "I can figure out the conservative lunatic after a day of web searching" vs. JBP's lifetime of learning on complex issues and philosophies. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 03:02 AM |
| 1 | NASA openly pushing full-on SJW Feminism to entire workforceTo be fair though, some of this stuff comes from Lockhead people, right? | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 02:51 AM |
| 7 | Germaine Greer says women 'spread legs' for Weinstein movie rolesHer Beautiful Boy book has her, as an aging woman, posing adoringly above a barely legal (if not earlier) naked boy with his genitals covered in rose petals. "But only men can be pedos," might be a defense of that stuff. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 12:56 AM |
| 11 | NASA openly pushing full-on SJW Feminism to entire workforceI keep finding gems in this thing: "If we better understand why men become feminists, we can more quickly shift the burden of dismantling sexism to those who benefit from it and off of those are disadvantaged. Because in the end, people are the solution, not data." "We need to give people permission to showcase themselves, and this often entails hiring and nurturing employees who show promise and potential instead of focusing exclusively on the best and brightest." | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 12:45 AM |
| 7 | NASA openly pushing full-on SJW Feminism to entire workforce"Incentivize managers to be creative and inclusive." | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Liberal feminist professors are decidedly illiberal with students whose opinion differs from theirs.Talk about fingers in ears, and it's not a professional tone for an instructor. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 05:12 PM |
| 2 | People Are Roasting The Guy Who Made An MRA Edit Of 'The Last Jedi'No evidence that he is a MRA other than journalists thinking anti-woman equals MRA. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Oxford University gives women more time to pass examsIf it's applied to all, then why would they assume that women would do better with an extra 15 minutes when competing with men who are statistically doing better with a shorter limit? Do they expect the men to just give up at the extra 15 minute mark and not continue to compete? I am not saying that men doing better is a result of men being better, just that I don't understand the logic of giving two teams an equally longer 9th inning and expecting different results, simply because one hopes for… | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 04:19 AM |
| 5 | Haha, love it! Way to trigger some deranged feminists! #WomensMarch2018This looks photoshopped, and although I would respect the sheer tenacity, I don't think "women get back in the kitchen" is a good thing to associate with MRAs. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 04:14 AM |
| 8 | So this is a poster in my brother's high schoolDo an image search for cultural feminism or gender essentialism and you'll find so many graphs like this one. The third wave may claim to be against it, but it's still ever present when it's convenient to glorify the allegedly feminine while demonizing the allegedly masculine. You really should file a complaint. This is outright misandry, and it only makes the boy crisis worse. This is the exact kind of thing that brought Jordan Peterson to tears on a recent radio interview. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 03:14 AM |
| -3 | Don't worry a man will clean it up.Great meme. Make it so. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 02:30 AM |
| 8 | Is this right? College Housing.I'm divided on this one, since recent BLM activists in California succeeded in getting a segregated dorm. I think that MLK Jr would be spinning in his grave. So combating one form of gender segregation with another doesn't seem like a really good solution at a publicly funded university. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | 'It's too late to start whingeing now': Feminist Germaine Greer slams #MeToo campaign by saying actresses 'spreading their legs' for Harvey Weinstein was 'tantamount to consent'The same woman who posed lovingly over a teenage boy with his genitals covered in rose petals for her book The Beautiful Boy. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Lincolnshire council's website on domestic abuse acknowledges, mentions and caters for both genders without any bias. It specifically states "In Lincolnshire, ALL of the domestic abuse services can be accessed by women and men." I'm delighted to see this progess in my home county.Just as an experiment, you might try calling the shelters and seeing if services are comparable to statistics. I've seen too many cases where a female focused shelter or service is under pressure to acknowledge male victims and provide services. So they get around this with short term hotel vouchers for men while frequently not advertising those services much. It can be akin to separate but unequal services and accommodations. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Wow. This abstract from a feminist essay on gender and war. Can anyone defend it or explain the logic?How could postmodernism be considered a counter Marxist tool? | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 11:58 PM |
| 21 | Oxford University gives women more time to pass examsThey care so much that things are slightly more male by the numbers. If they even it out, they won't look back if the numbers reverse. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Wow. This abstract from a feminist essay on gender and war. Can anyone defend it or explain the logic?This seems pretty conspiratorial to me. I can see why the NSF would fund anything remotely critical of Marxist theory, especially post-Sputnik. And it was probably a few pennies to fund a liberal arts predoc, compared to what the sciences were getting. They probably also had to fund at least some of the social sciences to seem comprehensive, and anything critical of Marxism would probably get some cash. To make bigger conclusions seem a little bit like a leftist feminist Illuminati. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Wow. This abstract from a feminist essay on gender and war. Can anyone defend it or explain the logic?Well, it's a paper in the humanities so authors usually pay licensing fees and other costs directly while the journal peer reviews and prints it. Also, even if we take way over-exaggerated accounts of the Rape of Belgium and believe every account at face value, despite the propaganda uses, it wouldn't be 1 percent of the numbers of men who died from mortars, machine guns, infections, or shrapnel. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Wow. This abstract from a feminist essay on gender and war. Can anyone defend it or explain the logic?It's an interesting response, but I see a lot of problems with the numbers. Take WW1 for example. The numbers on wikipedia (which seem pretty accurate) is around 9 million military deaths, along with many more millions MIA, vs. an estimated 7 million civilian deaths. At least for the Western front, and outside of Belgium villages, there weren't many campaigns against large cities since aviation wasn't capable of it. I'm pretty sure most of those civilian deaths are on the Eastern front with scor… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 11:21 PM |
| 9 | Having a hard time feeling able to ally with feminism.I've had similar conversations. You have to kind of get past the defensive response of "well, that isn't the fault of women!!!" but I've never personally met a feminist who straight up said that kids should be kept away from loving and good men. They will consider it violence against men, but it takes a ton of debate to show them that we don't necessarily blame women for it, since they are so used to blaming men for problems affecting women. I've been successful at disarming that rhetoric. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 03:26 AM |
| 6 | It’s easy to predict where the Cathy Newman backlash will leadA little resentful that I had to give this site a login in through facebook, but: "so Newman turned from exposed bully into embattled victim" Is this what is known as the Sarkesian tactic? | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 03:18 AM |
| 5 | Found this gem at the women's march. Pure EVIL.She spelled feminists correctly, for a cardboard sign. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 03:05 AM |
| 7 | Having a hard time feeling able to ally with feminism.I am a MRA with a loving wife who still describes herself as a feminist. It can take months or years of respectful dialogue, but eventually she and I both learned from each other. Sometimes those debates make two people stronger, kind of like Fred Hayward's line from TRP, when understanding the point from A to B is also like understanding B to A. Two people can grow intellectually from that exercise, but it takes time and patience for both parties. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Jordan Peterson chokes up: “Young men are christened as rapists."I see Mike B posted the full audio but there seems to be a way that the BBC aired this but is sitting on it now. The video looks like a captured livestream. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 01:24 AM |
| 7 | I [23M] was sexually harassed last night and I just thought I’d share my experienceI've seen so many women do things like this stuff that makes Trump's "Grab them by the p@ssy" comment seem tame in comparison with what women can do and be seen as "funny." | /r/MensRights | 20/01/18 03:35 AM |
| 1 | C4 calls in security experts after presenter suffers online abuse: Ben de Pear, the editor of Channel 4 News, said Newman had been subjected to “vicious misogynistic abuse”. We wish her good health and safety.I've read a ton of the YT comments on that video, and I've never seen anything resembling a threat or even really a misogynistic comment unless you count things like "feminist got rekt and has no logic skills" which is a pretty fair descriptive statement about that interview. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/18 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Loving Step Father Fell In Love with Step Daughter (13)This story is sick, and I wouldn't call it "loving" and "fell in love" to photshop a 13 year old girl onto porn. Why post this here? | /r/MensRights | 15/01/18 11:42 PM |
| 28 | Dave Chappelle defends Louis C.K., Kevin Spacey, Harvey Weinstein in new Netflix comedy specialI just watched it, and among other things he doesn't directly defend Weinstein or Spacey at all really. He also spends a lot of time empathizing with women and the metoo thing. At most, he makes a joke about how a woman felt uncomfortable as Louis CK masturbated during a phone call, when the punchline, "Don't you know how to hang up a phone?" At the end, he tells a long story about how Hollywood, capitalism, and prostitution often works in similar ways, with a plea to change the system. The arti… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/18 01:49 AM |
| 19 | You can't deny it. Gender studies is full of male-blaming biasThe Guardian continues to confuse me with misandry followed by surprising articles like this one. It's probably due to needing lots of articles while not paying authors. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/18 04:53 PM |
| 8 | Do Feminists Think Men Are Disposable? | Katherine Spillar #RPRFHow does somebody like Spillar not have some awareness of the contradiction in saying, "Women are ________, and celebrate our feminist movement that undermines gross gender stereotypes that say women are ______." | /r/MensRights | 01/01/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Question for a traditionalist or conservative MRA: How to reconcile a defense of traditions with the negative effects of traditions on men?And this is generously using the US as an example. We were late to the war and suffered a fraction of the casualties. That war killed probably 100 million people and forced conscription of men was on a massive scale. Lots of civilian deaths account for that number. Numbers would be closer if we threw childbirth out and just compared men and women killed in wartime conditions. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Question for a traditionalist or conservative MRA: How to reconcile a defense of traditions with the negative effects of traditions on men?I don't really have a good question or follow up other than to say that I've been reading and re-reading this post today. Thank you for sharing. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/17 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Question for a traditionalist or conservative MRA: How to reconcile a defense of traditions with the negative effects of traditions on men?Because many of the traditional gender roles and societal expectations placed on men are harmful to men physically and psychologically. For example, imagine what it was like during the Great Depression to be placed in a box of provider/protector responsible for not only spouse but children. Or, imagine what it's like for men to feel like they have just "suck it up, get it done, and be a real man" which can put them in dangerous jobs or dehumanizing jobs with long hours and a loss of quality fami… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/17 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Question for a traditionalist or conservative MRA: How to reconcile a defense of traditions with the negative effects of traditions on men?I guess my question is "Have we done that chucking out mostly when it comes to the treatment of women, but not when it comes to how men are treated due to traditional gender roles?" | /r/MensRights | 30/12/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Question for a traditionalist or conservative MRA: How to reconcile a defense of traditions with the negative effects of traditions on men?No, you might be reading into my post here. Many feminists are either blind to men's issues, blame men's issues on men or patriarchy, or generally dismiss the entire concept of men's rights. It amazes me how many feminists I've seen online who almost sound like a man from the 1950s telling women to "know their place and shut up or get back into the kitchen, you mere woman-child." Only they speak to men along these lines while even resorting to sex shaming, body shaming, or outright humiliation. … | /r/MensRights | 30/12/17 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Question for a traditionalist or conservative MRA: How to reconcile a defense of traditions with the negative effects of traditions on men?I would define a traditionalist in terms of wanting to conserve time-honored values and ways of living, which might include traditional gender divisions of labor and/or roles. I think there might also be a nostalgia there for the "way things used to be," especially given the fall out from the Sexual Revolution, the varying divorce rates, the amount of fatherless homes or single parents, etc. etc. A defense of the nuclear family, the importance of Christianity, and "family values" all tend to be … | /r/MensRights | 30/12/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Question for a traditionalist or conservative MRA: How to reconcile a defense of traditions with the negative effects of traditions on men?Interesting reply, and it saddens me that it was wasted on the person who resorted to insults. How would respond to somebody responding to the last sentence that "Yes, but that is only because women were denied the opportunities to contribute to Western civ in meaningful ways. After all, it wasn't really that long ago when many doctors in the West believed that educating a woman presented risks to her reproductive functions." | /r/MensRights | 30/12/17 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Question for a traditionalist or conservative MRA: How to reconcile a defense of traditions with the negative effects of traditions on men?It sounds like you are saying that some sort of differentiated yin-yang arrangement has obvious benefits vs. trying to erase a division of labor (except that many feminists still seem to be OK with divisions of labor that negatively affect men). Can you elaborate on why eliminating gender differences flies in the face of common sense? Is it due to biology or psychology? | /r/MensRights | 30/12/17 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Question for a traditionalist or conservative MRA: How to reconcile a defense of traditions with the negative effects of traditions on men?An interesting post, thanks. Putting aside the bad deal for men in terms of few compensations for disaposibility, would you have any problem with strictly differentiated gender roles in which those roles are historically reversed, say a female provide and a stay at home dad? | /r/MensRights | 30/12/17 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Question for a traditionalist or conservative MRA: How to reconcile a defense of traditions with the negative effects of traditions on men?I would also like to see a source. Given the sheer numbers of male deaths in the 20th century, there would have to be an astronomical amount of women dying during childbirth. Of course we could complicate things with female civilian deaths, especially during the Second World War. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/17 02:15 AM |
| 3 | I'm currently with my two baby girls that I see twice a year and I still don't know how to actCan you elaborate? What happened and what are the circumstances? Why do you feel that you don't know how to act? | /r/MensRights | 29/12/17 05:41 AM |
| 19 | Woman (44) arrested for "having sex with" a 13-year-old boy. Top responses are "lucky boy" and "don't judge her; she was in a difficult place in life"They would call this rape if it was a man. I've lost track of how many times I've thought that while seeing these stories. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/17 05:33 AM |
| 2 | According to (((Scientific American))), men don't like the environment because being eco-friendly makes you a bitch and we're men God damn it! We gotta stay masculine! Caring about the environment makes you a pussy! Right men?!The article is so ignorant about the roots of modern environmentalism. From glorification of the untouched frontier to the rise of conservation movements, there was a lot of manliness to go around, unless you want to call Teddy or even Nixon feminine. It's like they want to only acknowledge Rachel Carson as the "founding mother" advocating for "mother nature." | /r/MensRights | 27/12/17 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Cenk Uygur Did Nothing WrongI feel like Sargon is being classy here. I doubt Steven Crowder will take the high road. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/17 03:38 AM |
| 5 | “All men are trash.” Stephanie Pio, an Instagram fitness model and teacher. You can email the principal of her school at [email protected]This looks like doxxing and trying to incite a lynch mob to get somebody fired for wrong think. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/17 04:34 AM |
| 4 | Walmart thinks all men will be forgetting to shop until December 24th apparentlyCompletely sexist and I am very surprised nobody has called this out. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/17 06:04 AM |
| -1 | Andrea Ramsey drops out of race for Congress amid sexual harassment allegationsI don't think it's right to cheer about this because something that can frequently happen to men happens to a woman. If it's wrong when it happens to men, it's wrong when it happens to women. Or, it's justified if due process is followed. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/17 08:34 PM |
| 19 | THE MISANDRISTS (2017) - OFFICIAL TRAILERPlease gods of 4chan, reproduce this trailer scene for scene with men and title it "The Misogynists." All hell will break loose. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't I punch my wife if she insults my mother? If it's fine for The Pope, it's fine for me.Intimate partner violence | /r/MensRights | 23/11/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't I punch my wife if she insults my mother? If it's fine for The Pope, it's fine for me.IPV is wrong. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/17 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Infowars internet crank who tried to appropriate us and mrm issues humiliated in mainstream media.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJMy_BWD3CI About the 1 hour mark, although the full talk is enlightening. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/17 07:18 PM |
| 7 | Women says she's not concerned about innocent men being punished for fake accusations since "it's not that common" then contradicts herselfSorry, I didn't realize this was a writer and known activist. I thought it was just a random woman's twitter. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 11:21 PM |
| 4 | Women says she's not concerned about innocent men being punished for fake accusations since "it's not that common" then contradicts herselfI think you're supposed to blur the name, according to the mod policy. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Infowars internet crank who tried to appropriate us and mrm issues humiliated in mainstream media.If you apply your standards to the amounts of starvation, natural, and unnatural deaths to communist countries, the numbers are staggering. Yet, somehow you will not blame communism, but instead probably point the finger at foreign powers. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Infowars internet crank who tried to appropriate us and mrm issues humiliated in mainstream media.I don't even know where to begin. Your glossing over the Ukranian famine at a time of record exporting of grain (for PR reasons during the Great Depression) is amazing. It's like you're getting your history from a Soviet supervised radio network. What exactly is your direct evidence that capitalism is killing 20 million people a year? How does that evidence stack up against the realities of living in China or Venezuela? I predict that you'll blame capitalism for everything wrong in a capitalist … | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Infowars internet crank who tried to appropriate us and mrm issues humiliated in mainstream media.It's like I'm having a beyond the grave conversation with Lee Harvey Oswald, at least before he actually lived in Russia. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 09:05 PM |
| 6 | Infowars internet crank who tried to appropriate us and mrm issues humiliated in mainstream media.Anyone waving a sickle and hammer is promoting one of the world's most murderous regimes, which killed far more people than Nazism. It's the flag of one of the most authoritarian regimes the world has ever known. If you see it as the good guys, then you are an authoritarian and an apologist for things as evil as Nazism, even if protesting what you see as fascism. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Infowars internet crank who tried to appropriate us and mrm issues humiliated in mainstream media.For "non authoritarian communists" they sure love waving around the hammer and sickle while blaming the world's problems on capitalism. Citation on anarchist beliefs of antifa needed please, because what i see are things like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D5_J566cXSU | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 08:15 PM |
| 6 | Infowars internet crank who tried to appropriate us and mrm issues humiliated in mainstream media.Have you read 1984, and have you looked at the pro-communist stances of antifa? I don't think you can both understand Orwell and sympathize with the end goals of antifa. They are deeply contradictory when it comes to the horrors of totalitarianism, which Orwell illustrated. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Infowars internet crank who tried to appropriate us and mrm issues humiliated in mainstream media.I'm not sure what this has to do with men's rights. I don't remember PJW appropriating mrm issues, and the counter arguments against a conservative interpretation of Orwell are weak, particularly in relation to antifa. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Are jokes about men 'hate speech'? Facebook seems to think so"misogyny is protected but misandry is not..." Holy hell, I had to stop reading. Probably every man reading this article is wondering how facebook, of all places, might be doing something to treat the two equally. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 04:36 AM |
| 8 | Al Franken Acuser Leeann Tweeden Groping and Grinding on Several Men Including Robin WilliamsI can't find a single story about this side of it from "respectable" news sources. It's almost like nobody considers it a story since it's either a woman doing it, or she's not really an important celebrity. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 02:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm worried I'm becoming a misogynisthttps://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/16/feminism-poll_n_3094917.html There is also that huffpost poll. Do you have other sources to support the "closer to half"? I'm just curious as to what a solid evidence-based number would be. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/17 01:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm worried I'm becoming a misogynisthttps://www.vox.com/2015/4/8/8372417/feminist-gender-equality-poll Sorry, it was people, not women, although a similar huffpost poll put it around 20 percent. These are two very liberal sources. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/17 01:45 AM |
| 32 | I'm worried I'm becoming a misogynistOnly 18% of women would identify with the label of feminist, depending on the region and according to which poll. Try not to see all women as reflected by a minority. That is the line when it passes from the MRM to MGTOW stuff, IMO. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 04:22 AM |
| 8 | American Circumcision Won Best Documentary At The Lone Star Film Festival!!!!Anyone know the time table for a digital download? | /r/MensRights | 13/11/17 12:39 AM |
| 11 | My history teacher thinks that men are responsible for all violence.Perhaps approach her after class and ask her to google recent studies on DV that indicate more correct stats. She may just have never researched the issue. I've met phDs who've never taken 3 minutes to google the wage gap stuff, and they just recycle points their earlier teachers make. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/17 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Any ex-feminists here? I'd like to ask you questions...Why does this question only focus on women and not many of us former male feminists as well? It's as if your premise is that feminism is for women, so how could women possibly give up on it? That question displays a view of feminism that is not about gender equality but relates only to women's issues. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/17 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Current Controversies within Intimate Partner Violence: Studies find the most frequent pattern of abuse is bidirectional, followed by female only. Male only was least frequently reported and this was from both men and women’s reports.I was expecting new data, but the article summarizes studies from 20 years ago. It's crazy that such information was so deliberately suppressed or ignored. Thanks for posting this. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Men need an alternative to the toxic men’s rights movementEvery few days I search google news for "men's rights." Since they revamped Google News, it's almost all negative hit pieces with the exception of a local news station once in a blue moon. Why do you ask? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/17 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Men need an alternative to the toxic men’s rights movementThanks. It was a strange interaction unlike my normal time on these forums. Sorry if I overreacted to an obvious bot. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/17 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Men need an alternative to the toxic men’s rights movementWhat did I do to deserve anything resembling a reputation around here? I don't understand your responses, as if I am someone of notable posting, who should be noted for saying anything. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Men need an alternative to the toxic men’s rights movementWhat are you implying? I'm sorry if I misunderstand your response, but the response seems very weird to me. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/17 05:43 AM |
| 5 | Men need an alternative to the toxic men’s rights movementIt's so incredibly lazy. I'm sorry that I did not archive post it. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/17 05:40 AM |
| 4 | ‘House of Cards’ cancelled amid Kevin Spacey sexual assault allegations | Toronto StarBut is it also possible that in his own awkward way, Spacey is not denying it because to accuse the victim of lying would be equally sinful in the eyes of the left? Almost like, "What the hell do I say? I can't accuse a victim of lying, so what can I say with absolute confidence? I don't remember any of this." Either way, the accusation ruins his career regardless of actual guilt or innocence. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/17 04:19 AM |
| 5 | ‘House of Cards’ cancelled amid Kevin Spacey sexual assault allegations | Toronto StarBut what do you base that feeling on other than the accusations of one person? I think there is an issue there that is much more sinister. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/17 03:51 AM |
| 4 | ‘House of Cards’ cancelled amid Kevin Spacey sexual assault allegations | Toronto StarIt is an awful accusation, and his response was pretty terrible. But, my god, is there any evidence whatsoever that warrants the cancellation of HoC and even the rebuking of the guy's emmy's? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/17 03:40 AM |
| 5 | In an article about male feminists the author believes sexism is theoretical to men and men do not know what it is like to live with sexism every single waking hour of their lives."Dear men, you need to listen to us about sexism, but we don't need to listen to you about sexism. If you don't agree, go directly to no-woke prison and do not pass go." | /r/MensRights | 24/10/17 03:39 AM |
| 13 | Big Red! The Red Pill Raw Files, "Does Feminism Work on Men's Issues?"I think she needs a YT channel or a podcast. It would be great for the MRM if she lit up the internet more with such nonsense. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/17 06:58 PM |
| 5 | MEETING THE ENEMY A feminist comes to terms with the Men's Rights moveme...Well that was absolutely phenomenal. Please internet gods let this video go viral. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/17 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Meet the non-feminists fighting for men's rightsThese women are somehow supporting men's rights by strolling on the beach in bikinis. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/17 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen."violent commentary and even direct threats" will warrant some evidence there. I appreciate your open mindedness, but what is the evidence? | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 05:39 AM |
| 14 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.It really depends on scale and impact of complaints. If you believe that we live in a rape culture, then that is certainly a legit issue. If however you question certain narratives that see issues to child custody as very important, then that affects the debate. There is a lot of grievance to go around here. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 05:34 AM |
| 4 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.Perhaps simply having a conversation where nobody is on the defensive is a good start. Can you say more about discrimination against men, especially where gender norms are involved? I am just curious what you mean there. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 05:15 AM |
| 5 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.Do you see how easily you moved there from a pretty simplistic (IMO) theory about the oppression of women under patriarchy to the oppression of people under capitalism? It's all very top down in terms of who is the villain and who is the victim. It doesn't seem like an easy way to get around complications and serious questions, simply by shifting the blame. I hope that makes sense. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 05:12 AM |
| 18 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.Thank you for a detailed response. I would invite you to consider our movement in regards to the challenges faced by feminists, who had a lot of moderate and legitimate complaints, but also had a significant minority of outright man-haters and angry women, for legit reasons. So many of the responses to you will be a mixture of rational and encouraging people and men who feel burned by women for legit reasons like losing their kids. Imagine trying to have a rational conversation with men, when so… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 05:04 AM |
| 7 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.Yeah, but she (if a she) is going further than most in being willing to listen. As Fred Hayward says in TRP, the distance from point A to point B is the same as point B to point A. A willingness to hear alternative perspectives may come with a sense of moral superiority, but it's at least a willingness, so why not make the most of it? | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 04:54 AM |
| 5 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.A human being willing to have an intelligent conversation with an opposing side. Your humor is very juvenile to me, and it is not productive to dialogue. Others may disagree with me. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 04:52 AM |
| 5 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.I am saying that the side willing to have a respectful and open dialogue always wins, even if one side sounds morally superior. I don't think taking the high ground is a big mistake, and our side defending what it believes shouldn't be a problem that requires demonizing an individual. I also think that you read into the OP something that you wanted to read into it. Perhaps try just talking. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 04:41 AM |
| 9 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.A willingness to consider alternative points of view is never a weakness in my opinion, regardless of which ideology has power and control. This could be a productive conversation. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 04:32 AM |
| 8 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.Regarding issues that matter to men, may I ask what dialogue you have seen on your side relating to fathers' rights, circumcision, the prison sentencing gap, or any other men's issues? Or, has the framing of these issues been far more about how men affect women, and not how men face unique social problems? Many of us believe that people should not be treated differently under the law due to race and gender. Do you see any ways in which men are discriminated against in today's society? Thanks for… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.Seriously, you want to welcome somebody with imagery of a cock in the face? I don't think you should be afraid of dialogue. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 04:23 AM |
| 107 | Feminist woman here, in the mood to passively listen.I'm not sure where to start, but welcome to a conversation. It would greatly help us if you could watch The Red Pill documentary and tell us what you object to and disagree with. Otherwise, I'm not sure where to start, but I am excited by the opportunity to have a genuine and open conversation. Many of us are leftists and former feminists. Can you please be more specific about why you are dismissive of men's rights? Which rights or are these things a non-issue? Thanks for posting. And most impor… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/17 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Should my Highschool hire better teachers?Imagine being up to eyeballs in debt, after banking on a career in academia, where you suddenly realize that you are an unwanted demographic... Would you harden up and speak the truth, after your spouse made so many sacrifices to support your dreams? Let's say that you are also a fairly new parent... | /r/MensRights | 16/10/17 03:28 AM |
| 9 | Just like to recognize Denise Young Smith, diversity VP at AppleJust suggesting that people are more complex than gender, race, and sexuality got her into trouble. That's fascinating. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/17 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Should my Highschool hire better teachers?We could definitely use a sitcom similar to Family Ties, where a conservative teenager rebels against his hippy and idealistic parents. Marching around the house in a praise Kek t-shirt with older liberals thinking their poor son has joined a cult. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/17 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Should my Highschool hire better teachers?You are describing today's college campus environment. It's become a day care of sorts where professors walk on egg shells. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/17 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Should my Highschool hire better teachers?I say this a classical liberal. When this kind of shit is obviously bullshit to high school students, then that side has lost, whether it's kids rebelling against the Victorian standards of the 1950s or kids rebelling against the Sexual Revolution by going conservative and evangelical. The left is clearly losing this culture war, and the youths of tomorrow may be able to modernize the Republican agenda in ways that make it progressive and good. Thanks for your post, OP. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/17 07:25 AM |
| 13 | Isn't this treating men as sexual objects?I would love to see somebody rewrite this article, but with women. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/17 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Stay classy folks!Imagine how disgusting it would be to live in a world where men didn't consider vagina punching violence against women, but then REEEEE if anyone advocated fighting back against men? How would a feminist respond to that set of standards? | /r/MensRights | 14/10/17 03:29 AM |
| 9 | College Group says People Questioning Wage Gap are Fascists; Should be PunchedThe very attempt at stating a wage gap is the definition of obfuscation. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 10:31 PM |
| 6 | On the wall at my doctors office.I'm not sure how this is a Veteran's issue, compared to the VA's shoddy history with mental health etc. It's also a bit tough to imagine that a female veteran who served with rowdy and foul-mouthed men could be traumatized by a cat call. But, it would interesting to call the number as a man, upset and traumatized because a woman was staring at him on a subway. I wonder how they would respond. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Question on the Great Depression, traditional gender roles, and the option of fulfilling those rolesWhat answers have you found, if any? | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 05:26 AM |
| 4 | NZ Woman with 17 previous convictions gets 11 months for killing husbandThis would be unbelievable, even if it was somehow an abusive man in Turkey who is sentenced to less than a year of house arrest after killing his wife (with 17 convictions). Anyone know how this woman pays her bills during the 11 months. It almost wouldn't shock me if there is state assistance. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Am I in the wrong??Teach your mother that violence is violence. It's not somehow cute when it happens to men. Perhaps show her a few of those social experiment videos on YT where everybody laughs as women assault men, but nobody tolerates the reverse. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 03:28 AM |
| 1 | I need helplegal proceedings? Huh? | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 03:24 AM |
| 12 | Man having consensual sex with woman squeezed her breasts too hard. Result? She is now taking him to court describing it as "a serious sexual assault". Sounds like a parody? No, just the modern face of women's rights."During intercourse, he pulled her hair and repeatedly squeezed her breasts despite her telling him to stop because it hurt, Jersey Magistrate's Court heard." You really want to defend this guy? There are some people that get off on causing pain during sex. I was once just viciously bitten and clawed by a goth chick. Luckily she stopped when I indicated that "Who the fuck likes you doing that??? Stop." Seriously, she almost drew blood, and I stopped it. This could be a clear case of abusive sex. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Mother loses custody after not vaccinating childEverywhere I see this story has very little info on the father, and whether he was seeking custody. It's almost like he doesn't matter until the judge wants to punish her for crazy and irrational behavior. "Well, you want to act that way... I just remembered that the child has a father too!" | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 03:14 AM |
| 1 | As a "feminist," I'm pleasantly surprised by this subIt was an attempt to be diplomatic, lol. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Title IX Debate Explained: Laura KipnisWhy do you think? Please share. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/17 04:43 AM |
| 1 | As a "feminist," I'm pleasantly surprised by this subGreat comment, ColonelSwede. I too was considered an ally until suddenly demonized. This will soon also happen to a ton of white women, given that they are next in line of a firing squad of intersectionality, so to speak. And there are members of college BLM groups that have no real knowledge of the Civil Rights Movement, as strange as that seems. They don't even understand the philosophy of MLK jr. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/17 03:43 AM |
| 6 | As a "feminist," I'm pleasantly surprised by this subMany feminists self-identify due to a definition of basic gender equality. MRAs strive for gender equality too. Your comment doesn't seem very helpful to getting to know why somebody identifies the way they do before judging them. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/17 03:38 AM |
| 2 | As a "feminist," I'm pleasantly surprised by this subThis is the definition of critical thinking. Great story. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/17 03:35 AM |
| 4 | As a "feminist," I'm pleasantly surprised by this subThanks for the response. Please note that I never said that the lack of sympathy or awareness for male victims was the fault of feminism. I agree completely about the deep cultural biases, although we may differ on some aspects there. I do take issue with several of your statements in paragraph 1, but I don't want to come off as patronizing or mansplaining stats vs. lived experiences. I think that you could be on an interesting intellectual journey, similar to my own. As a former feminist, I cam… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/17 03:27 AM |
| 10 | As a "feminist," I'm pleasantly surprised by this subThanks for sharing your views. I've been here for a year, and I've never seen a lack of sympathy for proven rape victims, nor have I seen anyone dismiss the trauma of sexual assault. Rather, one of the things that we try to work on is spreading awareness to other men on how they can be victims of rape and sexual assault, as well as a huge percentage of domestic violence victims. You speak about the "female experience" and "what it's like to be a woman." As a man, I have to listen to you to try t… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/17 02:48 AM |
| 23 | Why is this happeningI do like the idea of teaching young girls how to be more self-sufficient while teaching young boys a few things that train them to be nurturing and loving fathers. But I suspect that merge would result in attempts to feminize boys, eliminate competition, and reward participation for participation's sake. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/17 02:22 AM |
| 117 | Why is this happeningThey have the draft, when it comes around. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/17 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Imagine the backlash if this was a men's only event...I would make an identical flyer replacing women with men. Post it up, and see if anyone comments on it. Perhaps replace the breast cancer with prostate cancer too. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/17 01:03 AM |
| 8 | Campuses Cautious As They Adjust To New Sexual Assault Guidelines"from "preponderance of the evidence" to a "clear and convincing" standard, making allegations harder to prove. "That discriminates against complainants," Clune says. "It certainly undermines the concept ... that the proceedings be prompt and equitable." It's almost like they're talking about a show trial in the Stalinist era. How can these things be fast and efficient if we're required to prove guilt??? | /r/MensRights | 12/10/17 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Boy Scouts Will Admit Girls...Something tells me that the next step will be to only allow boys into girl scouts if they a. identify as a girl, and b. pose no danger to girls. Neither requirement will prevent girls from joining the boy scouts. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/17 10:54 PM |
| 35 | I think girls should just have the opportunity to be a member of any organization they want regardless of gender.If that is the author's stance, then male students should be allowed to join sororities as full fledged live in roomies. Any objections to that? | /r/MensRights | 11/10/17 08:49 PM |
| 11 | As a "feminist," I'm pleasantly surprised by this subThanks for reaching out. Is there anything in particular that you don't agree with and would like to have a civil discussion about? Many of us enjoy that discussion with open-minded feminists, and some of us, like myself, used to describe ourselves as feminists. Anyway, welcome to the sub. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/17 05:48 PM |
| 9 | Being told to “man up” means ignoring issues to the point of a suicide attempt. I’m not sure if this is the place to post this but, I know many of us have been in the same boat.Thanks for your comment. Sometimes I find it difficult to know if there is a central message on this issue, considering that I've seen many posts that equate the OP's repost of a tweet as an inherently feminist message about how men need to be liberated from "toxic masculinity" that includes stuff like "man up" and machoness junk. Of course, the feminists often frame the issue in how men treat women, and not how men can run into bullets like eager buffoons ready to die for honor and duty. Would … | /r/MensRights | 11/10/17 03:47 AM |
| 21 | Being told to “man up” means ignoring issues to the point of a suicide attempt. I’m not sure if this is the place to post this but, I know many of us have been in the same boat.I think the term "man up" has led to the deaths of millions of men, particularly during times of war. It is one of the most harmful phrases, because it encourages men to a. sacrifice themselves for their family, b. sacrifice themselves for their country, and c. just sacrifice themselves period, as if their lives are disposable as risk-takers and heroes who may somehow be a 1 percent that saves the day. "Man up" is like "Don't question anything, and run toward the danger. Sorry, if you get killed… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/17 03:36 AM |
| 13 | LEAKED: The AntiFA Manual very important to understand that the far left is very anti male and anti free speech.This could be a hoax or just the delusional rantings of one person. I kind of think it's a hoax given that it's calling all white people fascists. I would wager that this manifesto was written by a loyal Kekistani. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/17 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Dateline Shorts: Men's rights activists in IndiaYou make some great and thoughtful points here. I really hadn't considered the male experience with arranged marriages. And, yes, I had an instinctive response when it came to women's rights in non-Western countries. After a day of reflection, people were correct to call that out. I think that it just stems from sympathy for a very old first wave ideal that marriage should be based on love and mutual respect aka Margaret Fuller's Women in the 19th century. And today the question often gets divid… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/17 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Suzanne Venker on Feminism; New Red Pill Raw FileYes, I definitely got that feeling from the War on Men. It was almost an attack upon women for wanting to change men, with very little awareness of the harms of tradition upon men. Almost like, "fuck you feminists, quit bitching about this man who will take a bullet for me." I had to read between the lines there. Still, she is an interesting voice to hear. But, in the end, it's hard for me to reconcile traditionalists with the second wave inspired fight against traditions and societal expectatio… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/17 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Media Matters Already working to make America Great Again in 2020 "The men's rights movement is a "gateway to white supremacy" and regularly spurs violence"At least they got a few things correct before bringing out Futrelle. Stuff like this has become so transparently dishonest. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/17 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Dateline Shorts: Men's rights activists in IndiaThanks for the reply. I know very little about Indian laws and customs. And I was very wrong. It turns out men go to jail for adultery but women are protected. https://www.youthkiawaaz.com/2015/10/adultery-law-in-india/ I'm trying to understand exactly how 498a is abused. It's interesting though. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/17 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Suzanne Venker on Feminism; New Red Pill Raw FileNo problem. As I said it's an interesting read. Just know that you're paying 10 dollars for a 36 page essay. I was expecting a book. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/17 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Suzanne Venker on Feminism; New Red Pill Raw FileI read her Kindle book The War on Men. I was pretty disappointed in parts of it, particularly a scathing critique of some feminists like Betty Friedan. It ends with an interesting diatribe that blames so much on the sexual revolution. It's definitely a book for conservative MRAs, and many liberal MRAs would find Farrell more palatable. But it's worth a read through, and I enjoy reading conservatives who will challenge my biases. I wish she had been in the film. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/17 07:39 PM |
| -3 | Dateline Shorts: Men's rights activists in IndiaI can definitely see how this variant is viewed as a backlash against women's rights in a traditional, religious, and (one could say) misogynistic or patriarchal society. They bring up many legit issues, but isn't India still a country where women lack some basic human rights, while the vast majority of marriages are arranged by families? And I remember reading stories about women being jailed for adultery in India. Edit: Can anyone explain how recent changes to the law in India are biased again… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/17 06:30 PM |
| 38 | I was banned by r/feminism for posting this picture.You got banned for quoting a feminist at their feminist sub. That's rich. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/17 09:54 PM |
| 21 | I'm done with this bull shitIf somebody replaced this review with gender swapping terms, it would win an award for sexism. "Male characters get the short end of the stick!!" | /r/MensRights | 05/10/17 03:28 AM |
| 1 | An alternate perspectiveMight you please expand on how women on men violence is enacted in a non-Western society? This is a fascinating perspective. Is it psychological or physical? | /r/MensRights | 05/10/17 03:11 AM |
| 1 | An alternate perspectiveGreat post. Welcome to this sub. I don't agree with a lot of what you say, but I respect your willingness to speak your mind and converse. Thanks for engaging. When we try to engage with feminists, we usually get a ban, so I appreciate hearing your points of view, even if I disagree. I think that much of what you are referencing was influenced by existing gender bias in terms of stereotypes about women being good, somehow instinctively nurturing, and morally superior to men. So, it kind of made … | /r/MensRights | 05/10/17 02:56 AM |
| 22 | I'm done with this bull shitAnd many won't even think about this during a Kill Bill scene. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/17 02:47 AM |
| 57 | Man sues restaurant for charging "man tax".Great story. I'm looking forward to the future details. Marines are so brave. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/17 02:45 AM |
| -2 | House passes 20 week abortion cut off with exceptions for rape. Q: Might that increase false accusations?While I have nothing but sympathy and compassion for this particular case and example, it also reminds me of one of the most frustrating parts about the entire abortion debate. Pro-choice advocates have a goal in mind, but they also often have a bag of extreme examples, which they use as a bag of ammunition when it comes to defending a position against a reasonable and generally moderate standard. It almost comes across as disrespectful to the extreme victims, when their stories are used as toke… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/17 06:32 PM |
| 11 | Would You Date a Feminist? | Are her stats really correct about how many women identify as feminists? They seem excessively high.The polls from Vox and NPR put the number of people (men and women) who identify as feminist at less than 20 percent. And those are two liberal sources. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/17 03:31 AM |
| 2 | House passes 20 week abortion cut off with exceptions for rape. Q: Might that increase false accusations?Since asking this question, I did a bit of research. It seems as if some places that adopt this type of thing require that a victim of rape immediately files a police report to even have her exceptions considered. By whom as the arbitrators, it's hard to tell. But advocates for reproductive rights usually respond with the stat that only half of rapes are reported. But it does kind of raise another question: If a woman experiences rape and wants to have an abortion, why not abort early on? If she… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/17 03:01 AM |
| 122 | This is just disgustingI'm seeing a ton of this stuff in terms of blaming men and masculinity, while few of those writers even seem aware of the number of men who shielded female bodies with their own bodies. How are those men so invisible to these folks? | /r/MensRights | 03/10/17 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Has Feminism in Silicon Valley Gone Too Far? Steve Head, Red Pill Raw FilesThis guy is the first MRA or sympathizer that I've ever heard say,"Men have NO rights." Come on, that is just hyperbole, don't you all think? | /r/MensRights | 03/10/17 03:45 AM |
| 7 | Censorship at 2XCYou could always consider the ears of the men's lib folks. They will be happy to discuss issues like this, as long as you blame men, patriarchy, or masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/17 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Cassie Jaye, director of the world's first men's rights movie, has been *unpersoned* by Wikipedia.None of it stops there. There is actually a page on 'cultural feminism' that tries to claim it never really existed, gender essentialism and all. Somehow, it's just a label the right uses to smear feminism. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/17 01:52 AM |
| 50 | Cassie Jaye, director of the world's first men's rights movie, has been *unpersoned* by Wikipedia.So incredibly petty. Does that require a mod or could it have been done by random feminist wiki edits. They've been targeting wikipedia for some time. Some of the historical rewrites are Orwellian. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Criticizing feminism without being too hostileI tried to explain the how in the sentences above that question. Basically, if you can find some shared goals with earlier waves, then it can help disarm a few readers who assume that you're anti-feminist, which in their mind is anti-woman and hateful. They will call it hate speech that has no place on a college campus. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Here we go again - not the first time that I've shared one of this person's posts.I'm expecting them to somehow link this guy to MRAs because maybe he watched a MGTOW video or something. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 08:01 PM |
| 10 | Nothing better than to say “you raped me” on Facebook.I can only imagine the internet outrage if a woman worked 50 hours a week to support a part-time husband. She catches him cheating, and he says, "You're never home. What was I supposed to do?" | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Is men doing more housework the solution to all gender problems?A good and fair point. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Is men doing more housework the solution to all gender problems?Flexibility doesn't mean equal work inside and outside the home. In many cases, women are earning more than men. I see no reason why a woman as the primary provider should not expect her partner to contribute extra work in the home. Or, vice versa. And there is something almost ideal about a stay at home parent who does his/her best to make sure the other half doesn't have to do much in terms of laundry, housework, shopping, bills, etc. And in the case of say a woman working 34 hours and a salar… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Is men doing more housework the solution to all gender problems?A greater work/family balance and greater flexibility in roles are positive goals, IMO. But, there is often a lot of hypocrisy in certain feminist circles which show little respect for stay at home moms, yet simultaneously argues that stay at home dads somehow "fixes" men. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Criticizing feminism without being too hostileThis reminds me of the claim that all history is men's history, and therefore reflects the male experience. It's so much rubbish that can be easily debunked by asking follow-up questions. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Criticizing feminism without being too hostileI think that this is good advice. OP, I'm not sure why you have to start things with criticism, when criticism could be implied by taking some degree of inspiration from an earlier wave or some branch of moderate or liberal feminism. Ex: Women's rights advocates inspired women to question their traditional gender roles, as well as traditional societal expectations placed upon women. A men's group will facilitate similar discussions, allowing men to discuss gender/sex roles that have been damagin… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Camille Paglia on Hugh Hefner's Legacy, Trump's Masculinity and Feminism's Sex PhobiaGreat interview. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Circumcision and penis size = circumcision is good?I searched for Kellogg and got no hits. That is kind of amazing. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/17 02:58 AM |
| -1 | U. of Colorado Says No Thanks to Betsy DeVos and Her Tougher Sexual Assault Investigation StandardsBut can the sec of edu decide to withhold fed funding from a major university education system, in the way that the dear colleague letter suggests that fed can do? If not, it seems telling. Does the secretary of education hold such power? | /r/MensRights | 01/10/17 07:51 AM |
| 2 | U. of Colorado Says No Thanks to Betsy DeVos and Her Tougher Sexual Assault Investigation StandardsBut what is the gun? Can the sec of edu really cut off a uni like UC? If not, what does it tell us about the willingness of universities to submit during the Obama admin and resist under a Trump admin? Sorry for all those abbreviations. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/17 07:34 AM |
| 9 | U. of Colorado Says No Thanks to Betsy DeVos and Her Tougher Sexual Assault Investigation StandardsCan DeVos actually unilaterally prevent federal funding? If not, I feel like it proves that unis were just begging to go down the road of the dear colleague letter without any real threat to funding. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | I ask franklyMen are valued as success objects. Women are valued as sex objects. All of that stuff needs to change for the betterment of both sexes. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/17 06:25 AM |
| 3 | A popular feminist board is discussing this image as a "double standard" and how unfair it is for girls. In the meantime, baby rape.I imagine that this kind of stuff is exactly how Germaine Greer got away with publishing that semi-pornographic book on barely teen boys. When she is standing over a 13 year old's junk covered in rose petals, and nobody says anything, then there is clearly a sick problem. And nobody is recognizing how sick and demented it is, because it's boys. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/17 05:44 AM |
| 23 | The new minority on campus? MenI'm also torn on this one. Many of these college degrees are useless in life. The fact that so many men are not pursuing those degrees might not be a bad thing for men. It could force colleges to re-focus on real world skills that lead to good-paying jobs. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/17 05:22 AM |
| 3 | The new minority on campus? MenAt least this college seems to care. I can't say the same for the administrations I've taught under. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/17 05:18 AM |
| 6 | A popular feminist board is discussing this image as a "double standard" and how unfair it is for girls. In the meantime, baby rape.It would be very interesting to confront this said discussion with a screenshot of a "pick me up daddies, I'm into older guys" onsie compared to a similar reverse alternative for boys. To have that level of cognitive dissonance confronted would be a very interesting train wreck to witness. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/17 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Male Sex Robots With ‘Bionic Penis’ Might Replace Men Forever! -This statement, with genders reversed and posted at a feminist sub, would be a pretty good example of outright misandry. NAWALT | /r/MensRights | 30/09/17 12:50 AM |
| 25 | Men in Silicon Valley Are Becoming Men’s Rights Activist Thanks to Liberal WomenSo many of these identical articles with the same sources. I've also seen feminists spin it as "rich white men complaining about being oppressed! lulz!" | /r/MensRights | 30/09/17 12:43 AM |
| 17 | Male Sex Robots With ‘Bionic Penis’ Might Replace Men Forever! -I wouldn't be surprised if the MSM has a serious discussion on rights of androids before it focuses much attention on fathers' rights. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/17 11:09 PM |
| 16 | Texas teacher gets 10 years in prison for sex with 6 students, 2 at same time"Robertson could have received up to 20 years in prison for each of the seven counts." | /r/MensRights | 29/09/17 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Does this sub think the school system favors women?It also doesn't help for young white men to be put in a position where they have to go into debt to attend classes that outright demonize their gender and Western civilization in general. It's kind of akin to "give us your money so that we can teach you about your toxicity and the evils of your capitalist, imperialistic, and racist heritage. Come on, cough up the dough, boys." And if they get through a four year liberal arts degree, it is practically worthless. They can do a lot better with a 1 … | /r/MensRights | 28/09/17 05:27 PM |
| 9 | Does this sub think the school system favors women?Men are down to around 37 percent of university students, while there is a ton of evidence that primary education has been phasing out everything from dodge ball to competitive academics. Nobody seems to care about boys dropping out or doing poorly, as if it's somehow justice deserved in the name of progress. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/17 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Feminist Harvard Law Professor calls for reform in campus sexual assault cases.An interesting interview. Thanks for posting. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/17 05:02 AM |
| 5 | Carl Benjamin (Sargon of Akkad) and Jules Gomes, ‘The Rebel Priest’, join the list of speakers at The International Conference on Men's Issues 2018I do like Sargon, but he's probably going to say very little about men's issues. Instead, he'll attack feminism. I'm a fan of his, but I also think he is an example of an anti-feminist who doesn't necessarily do much on men's issues per say. Unless anyone can link me his videos on topics like circumcision or the prison sentencing gap that isn't just a side note while bashing buzzfeed... | /r/MensRights | 26/09/17 01:33 AM |
| 7 | Why MRAs and Feminists DON'T Work TogetherI had issues with the part that claims MRAs believe that men are oppressed. Isn't the rejection of an oppressor v. oppressed model a big part of the MHRM? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/17 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Nobody Likes Feminism: that's what happened, Hillary.She tells men to "man up." | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 01:52 PM |
| 5 | TIL The vast majority of men in the United States weren't allowed to vote until 1856.Interesting. I never knew there were 10k drafts. Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 02:51 AM |
| 5 | TIL The vast majority of men in the United States weren't allowed to vote until 1856.A draft in the 80s? | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 01:54 AM |
| 4 | The Women of Denver's Emerging Men's Rights MovementI've never heard CHS outright advocate for many specific men's rights issues like circumcision, prison sentencing, joint custody, etc. I've never heard her offer an opinion on the MRM. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 01:48 AM |
| 11 | Missouri State University and others are creating anti-male emasculation programsI would really encourage MRAs to attend these events and speak out. They are giving us a place on campus to discuss men's issues. There is no reason that men can't respond to the way the conversation is being controlled. We need people to congratulate the intentions of helping men, while politely explaining the problems with the feminist perspective on toxic masculinity. I would love to hear their response to "Men are now a marginalized minority of college students, and you've taught us that it'… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/17 06:49 PM |
| 3 | The Women of Denver's Emerging Men's Rights MovementOn point 3, it is really interesting that the article has a lot of male and female voices, but the title is "the women." Even a sympathetic article can be gynocentric. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/17 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Well, look who I got a ticket to go see. Going to see if I can record it.Yes, of course. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/17 04:03 AM |
| 8 | Well, look who I got a ticket to go see. Going to see if I can record it.I sort of predict a dismissal along with a doubling down, but i think that we might be surprised. If she has one shred of honesty and compassion for men, then she would be embarrassed by her statements and admitting of some degree of ignorance about the MRM. However, if she doubles down, it's absolutely transparent how she is more concerned with power and tactics. She has to know the question is coming, or she is living under her Ms. Magazine echo chamber of a rock. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/17 04:01 AM |
| 23 | Well, look who I got a ticket to go see. Going to see if I can record it.Ask her if she's seen The Red Pill, and if the movie has caused her to reflect on her positions and views of the MRM (compared to her statements in the film). | /r/MensRights | 19/09/17 02:06 AM |
| 2 | mra's say they're not sexist/ misogynist, and hate mgtows...I don't understand your objections to this quotation, other than you believe the OP is "really" saying something that you think the OP is "really" saying. What specifically are you objecting to other than stereotyping, because the feminist side has a very long history of stereotyping gender differences when it put women in a positive light. There is no way to read that quotation as men above women unless you buy into gender stereotypes that feminists promote. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/17 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Gender gap in physics blamed on boys being able to project pee up walls [No, I'm not kidding]When I first heard of pee games, I was in college. It meant something different. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/17 06:13 AM |
| 4 | Gender gap in physics blamed on boys being able to project pee up walls [No, I'm not kidding]Knowing is half the battle, bro. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/17 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Gender gap in physics blamed on boys being able to project pee up walls [No, I'm not kidding]How far up, bro? | /r/MensRights | 16/09/17 06:06 AM |
| 7 | Gender gap in physics blamed on boys being able to project pee up walls [No, I'm not kidding]Writing my name in snow somehow contributes to an understanding of physics? Please explain for us idiots. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/17 05:37 AM |
| 6 | Gender gap in physics blamed on boys being able to project pee up walls [No, I'm not kidding]I've never heard of it. It's almost like they think boys are trying to play volleyball with ping pong balls. I have no idea. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/17 05:26 AM |
| 126 | Gender gap in physics blamed on boys being able to project pee up walls [No, I'm not kidding]So, do men now deserve some credit for their aim, or will there be a double standard that we can't aim but peeing made us good at physics? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/17 07:07 PM |
| 41 | Gender gap in physics blamed on boys being able to project pee up walls [No, I'm not kidding]Is this a serious website or parody? Not a single citation for: "strong evidence for the widespread nature of certain kinds of pee-based game-playing." | /r/MensRights | 15/09/17 06:20 PM |
| 19 | Anti-Father's Rights "Women's Coalition" campaigns against a pro-Joint Custody rally.They seem to believe in equality, until they privilege from inequality. That is telling, and the fact that they don't realize it speaks volumes about their mindset. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/17 03:33 AM |
| 6 | Sex robot Samantha maker branded 'pervert' for This Morning interview hits backIt's fascinating to watch the evolution of this technology. If anyone hasn't, try having a conversation with evie AI. It's both very creepy and strangely intriguing at the same time. It makes me think that we may only be 50 years away from debates about the rights and treatment of androids. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/17 01:55 AM |
| 2 | ACCORDING TO "SCIENCE"?: Chick Vikings Debunked (@ 3:10)Yes, I can believe that this person is an exception to a general rule, but surely it's not out of the realm of possibility that, for example, a daughter of a prominent Viking leader could have proven her skills as a strategist and even a warrior, enough so to be revered by men and buried accordingly. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/17 01:50 AM |
| 1 | ACCORDING TO "SCIENCE"?: Chick Vikings Debunked (@ 3:10)According to wiki (for what it's worth): It was common to leave gifts with the deceased. Both men and women received grave goods, even if the corpse was to be burnt on a pyre. A Norseman could also be buried with a loved one or house thrall, or cremated together on a funeral pyre. The amount and the value of the goods depended on which social group the dead person came from.[1] It was important to bury the dead in the right way so that he could join the afterlife with the same social standing th… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/17 01:26 AM |
| 13 | Title IX coordinator under investigation for screening video disputing 1-in-5 rape statI think the real question here is has anyone legitimately disputed a single thing in that Prager U video? Any single claim or interpretation at all? | /r/MensRights | 13/09/17 05:11 AM |
| 6 | Absurdly Expensive Man hating College Faces $5 MILLION Budget Crisis After Radical Loons Run WildIt is pretty amazing that nobody asked the question, "Are we sure that we should demonize a big chunk of the students who are spending/borrowing 70k a year to go to our school?" Expensive private school that trashes men and whiteness... perhaps that is not the best business model. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/17 02:17 AM |
| 4 | The brilliant Philip Davies MP re-elected to Women and Equalities CommitteeIs Gavin Shuker new to this committee? I don't see any clips of him related to issues of gender and equality. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/17 06:38 PM |
| 26 | Men should learn that silence is golden.This is called dehumanizing the enemy. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/17 05:12 AM |
| 12 | Finally, powerful women are speaking up for the rights of men. Equality just got a step closerAnother surprising article from the Telegraph. They have been really inconsistent, yet it's still encouraging. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/17 08:31 PM |
| 4 | The Death of a Dishonest FeministAgreed. Plus that headline is like celebrating a human death for points. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/17 07:23 PM |
| 8 | Red Pill Raw Files - How can a man be raped - Harry CrouchCrouch seems kind of hostile and patronizing to Cassie. Maybe this was an early interview, and he got more trustworthy later on. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | [Read Second Para] How is this not discrimination?By trans (men), I'm assuming that they mean women transitioning into men, but not men transitioning into women. Did I read that right? | /r/MensRights | 11/09/17 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Questioning College Rape Epidemic Could Get You Fired " Christopher Rodgers is paying dearly for challenging the conviction among some of the students at Fordham University's Rose Hill campus that there is an epidemic of rape on America's college campuses."One might hope that all those "strategies for success" classes that freshmen take could include a definition and explanation of critical thinking. If it has become that controversial at Fordham to present two sides and evidence, then it has ceased being a university. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/17 02:41 AM |
| 2 | CNNs article on title IX review specifically mentions a "men's rights group." Any idea who?If I recall, DeVos met with the National Coalition for Men, aka Harry Crouch and associates. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/17 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Starting a men's rights group on campusYou may not have time, unless you lift a lot of stats from The Red Pill (which is fine as far as I can tell). If you're able to cite the CDC, FBI stats, Starr's report on prison sentencing etc., they might be forced to take the issues seriously, especially if their initial reaction is "men have no problems." | /r/MensRights | 07/09/17 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Starting a men's rights group on campusYou might have more traction taking out the word "rights," but if that is the purpose of the group, then I'd say go with it, since removing the focus on rights could be seen as dishonest marketing or something. You should be very clear that the goals of the group are related to the needs of men in higher education. Men are dropping out, and they now account for around 38 percent of university students. Point out that if this situation was happening to any other group of students on that scale, t… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/17 07:22 PM |
| 18 | Dear Abby: Expectant mother hasn’t told husband he’s not the fatherDear Abby, how can I avoid consequences for my actions? I don't want to lose the man I betrayed. Please help. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/17 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Is everybody here right/conservative/traditional Christian or are there leftist/liberals who agree with these principles as well? Every liberal friend I have would cut ties if they knew I subscribed here.It's pretty awful how a side that proclaims tolerance and pro-diversity has zero tolerance for questioning the party line or a diversity of political opinions. We are fellow travelers in that scene. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/17 02:51 AM |
| 24 | Is everybody here right/conservative/traditional Christian or are there leftist/liberals who agree with these principles as well? Every liberal friend I have would cut ties if they knew I subscribed here.I'm what one might consider a classical liberal but not a regressive or progressive SJW. I came upon the MRM as a male feminist. While investigating claims, sources, and stats, I got red pilled by evidence and logic. I lean left on a lot of issues, but the conservative and skeptical sides are winning a lot of arguments these days. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/17 09:41 PM |
| 3 | It's Not FeminISM That's The Problem, It's The FeminISTs - "not my feminism. It is a cancerous hybrid that has shape-shifted itself to trick people."Can somebody still be a feminist while rejecting the concept of patriarchy? It's a brave article, but I would probably classify it as egalitarianism, although she should feel free to use whatever label she wants. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/17 08:06 PM |
| 5 | Toxic Masculinity as Wiki defines it.Ok, almost nothing, lol. Even then, many feminists contrast that self-reliance with cooperative and co-existing feminine traits, while implying those feminine traits are morally and socially superior to male ego, competitiveness, aggression, and selfishness. They do this even as they try to reject gender essentialism as a product of the first and second waves. It goes along with the outrage about the Lord of the Flies remake. On the one hand they want to undermine gender stereotypes and even arg… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/17 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Toxic Masculinity as Wiki defines it.If we took stereotypes about the worst aspects of traditional femininity, while ignoring positive stereotypes, then it would be the same type of definition. Notice how absolutely nothing is said here about traditional aspects of masculinity that promote duty, honor, self-sacrifice, provider/protector mentality? One could argue that those are damaging too, but this definition focuses on stuff that negatively affects women, not what saves them from a sinking ship. It's myopic. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/17 05:32 PM |
| 6 | All-Female ‘Lord Of The Flies’ Provokes At Implication Women Can Be BadBut, but, it doesn't make sense since the womyns are all compassionate, peaceful, co-existing, nurturing, sugar and spice and everything nice. They're turning Lord of the Flies into a utopia, right? /sarcasm | /r/MensRights | 05/09/17 04:43 PM |
| 2 | IAMA father who got sole custody of his daughter while active duty, in the Baptist bible belt with a female judge. AMAIs she heartbroken about it, or does she seem uninterested? Just curious. Putting the money issue aside... since many men found themselves in a similar situation in terms of only being able to visit their kids. I can't imagine the heartache at shifting from a loving and involved father to only visiting my kid, as if I'm a weekly Santa Claus. But I'm guessing that doesn't describe her situation. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/17 04:08 AM |
| 3 | I recently found out through DNA testing that my dad is not my biological father. I need advice and don't know where else to turn to.Yes, I guess I would. Perhaps I came at the situation far too empathizing with a father who learns that he really isn't the father, although he was the father. It's perfectly understandable. My apologies to the OP on that one. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/17 04:04 AM |
| 2 | IAMA father who got sole custody of his daughter while active duty, in the Baptist bible belt with a female judge. AMADoes she now have any visitation rights, etc? | /r/MensRights | 04/09/17 03:48 AM |
| 2 | I recently found out through DNA testing that my dad is not my biological father. I need advice and don't know where else to turn to.Do you have any university access? There are a few things that you could try with a few database tools that are available to university students. I found a picture of my great grandfather with a tool called ProQuest. I would also suggest a phone book. If it's a common last name in the SF area, you could dial them all and say, "I'm not trying to sell anything, just seeking information about my father." Good luck. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/17 03:41 AM |
| 2 | IAMA father who got sole custody of his daughter while active duty, in the Baptist bible belt with a female judge. AMAWhat was the basic distinction over the best interests of the child, in terms of you vs. her? Was it a positive on your part or a negative on her part? | /r/MensRights | 04/09/17 03:32 AM |
| 21 | I recently found out through DNA testing that my dad is not my biological father. I need advice and don't know where else to turn to.Please consider telling the man who raised you how special he is. He may feel hurt by your search to find your "real dad." He was your real dad in all but genetics, unless he wasn't there at all like the biological father. Also, consider that the biological father may have been just as betrayed by your mother as your acting father. He may have no idea that you exist, so barging into his world might take some very slight and considerate easing into it. Putting all that aside, I'm not totally sure… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/17 03:25 AM |
| 10 | Just started at university, my male privilege and systematic misogyny won't get past this savvy society.Perhaps email them. Say that you are interested in gender equality and if they would be interested in screening The Red Pill. It would be interesting to know their response to that inquiry. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/17 07:01 PM |
| 8 | Anyone on this sub like Jordan Peterson or do you all hate him for the "weasles" comment he made about MRA?I like him and appreciate his perspectives on the dangers of postmodernism and how it corrupted many academic disciplines. But he's just not as informed on MRAs or MGTOW. Everyone has strengths, weaknesses, and blind spots. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/17 02:42 AM |
| 2 | THIS is 'too political' for TV? Outrage as broadcasters refuse to show an ad for Father's Day – because it's 'too close' to the vote on gay marriageIf we follow the logic of the critics of this ad, then any depiction of white people reinforces the normative demographics of Australia's population, and is therefore insensitive to how non-white Aussies feel when looking at representations of the norm. I can't think of any other objection other than it is a positive depiction of men, and these critics seem far more offended by that than concerned for the happiness or well-being of the children in the ad. It makes no sense. And feminists wonder … | /r/MensRights | 02/09/17 06:32 PM |
| 3 | My boyfriend left me after marital rape PILI don't believe this person is real. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/17 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Looking for some sources on the sentencing disparity between male and female child molesters.Check out Prof. Starr's findings in her study. It's about general sentencing, but the gap is across the board, regardless of crime. Her study is where the 63 percent figure comes from. Just search "Prof. Starr prison sentencing gap." | /r/MensRights | 29/08/17 01:53 AM |
| 4 | Some questions for anyone who considers themselves an MRAThanks for the response. Please spare me dirty jokes. "Which question do you wish I had asked?" Any honest inquiry into the men's rights movement from an open-minded person (who doesn't just assume that we are women-hating jerks) might be something along the lines of: "What rights do men not have that women have, or what rights do women not have that men have? What, exactly, are you men and women fighting for? How might a feminist agree or disagree with your fight for gender equality?" That set … | /r/MensRights | 27/08/17 07:41 PM |
| 15 | Some questions for anyone who considers themselves an MRAThese questions are really silly, as if you expect to confirm a bias that MRAs are 40 year old virgins who are losers in life, so that somehow explains their belief in true gender equality, fathers' rights, and the worth of men. I can't think of any other explanation for such a list of questions. It's as if a MRA goes into a feminist thread and asks, "At what age were you physically abused by a stepfather?" And, "How do you feel about beauty standards?" (while the author assumes that all feminis… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/17 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Newsletter on UCCS: 'Veterans should be banned from four-year universities'I support the cry-bullies' rights to voice their ideas, etc., but their lack of respect for the men and women who risked their lives is astonishing. Whoever wrote this garbage has probably done nothing in terms of duty and sacrifice to enjoy the opportunities of a college education. Edit: This is probably a parody. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/17 09:33 PM |
| 9 | Bad enough there was a 'free the nipple' campaign attended by literally 25 people & the paper has multiplied that by ten. Now they're trying to fan the flames. This is near my town. What can I do to shut them down the next time they try?This free the nipple stuff is the most legit answer to "What rights do men have that women do not, in the West?" It's a legit issue IMO. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/17 01:50 AM |
| 2 | AMA on the "Wage Gap" doesn't go too wellA wage or a salary, please pick. And income from investments and rental properties applies to what percentage of women, when referencing all here? | /r/MensRights | 24/08/17 05:07 AM |
| 6 | Hillary Clinton creep-shames Donald Trump in her new book. Seems he invaded her personal space, or eye-raped her or some such crap.If she has had sex with Bill in the past 25 years, I'm not sure how she call feel creepy in the presence of Trump. But, I wouldn't be surprised if she hasn't had sex with Bill in 25 or 30 years. So maybe it's possible. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/17 05:01 AM |
| 5 | I just need to ventI think maybe the default thought here is "If a man was doing anything she was doing to a woman, would society punish the man?" If the answer is yes, then exercise your legal rights and take precautions. There should be no double standards. Stalking is stalking, and harassment is harassment, etc. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/17 04:55 AM |
| 5 | AMA on the "Wage Gap" doesn't go too wellYes. You may find CH Sommers explanation helpful. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBFfI9925Q4 | /r/MensRights | 23/08/17 08:58 PM |
| 19 | AMA on the "Wage Gap" doesn't go too wellwages imply women are paid less for the same jobs. Earnings show that on average women earn less, mostly due to choices, fewer hours worked, and a different family and work balance (which many men don't have the luxury or pressure to pursue). | /r/MensRights | 23/08/17 07:04 PM |
| 16 | IT'S BECAUSE OF THE PATRIARCHY...right?Can anyone imagine a version of Chris or Dave that is as unfunny and gross as Schumer? She can't even compete with Andrew Dice Clay in terms of comedy. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/17 03:31 AM |
| 61 | Studies Show Lesbians Much More Likely to Beat, Sexually Abuse Women Than Heterosexual MenI have seen so many other studies or articles about the high rate of DV among lesbians, so I didn't really invest much in squaker as a source. But, I do often wonder how much this phenomenon has to do with a camp of radical lesbian feminists who didn't really become lesbians out of a natural exploration of feelings and attractions, but rather a conscious political statement. So, I wonder if DV can be the result of that displaced rage and lack of genuine homosexuality, if that makes any sense. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/17 06:06 PM |
| 13 | False propaganda that we hate gay men is being spread on redditI have never seen a homophobic or anti-gay thing posted on this sub, unless you count skepticism about the social construction of gender identity. Skepticism and science are good, IMO. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/17 04:34 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with the false claims that the MRM is a gateway to white supremacy?Great post. Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/17 04:28 AM |
| 11 | How to deal with the false claims that the MRM is a gateway to white supremacy?I think it's very important to stress that the MRM is a politically diverse group that has grown far more diverse in recent years. Many of us lean left or right or other. As much as it might sometimes irk a few people who are very committed to either side, perhaps both sides need to be proud of the intellectual and political diversity of people within the movement. After all, we are concerned with men and boys of all races and creeds. It's maybe pretty different from some kind of group identity … | /r/MensRights | 19/08/17 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone tried another WH petition for a Council on Men and Boys (during the Trump admin)?ps. I know this exists: http://whitehouseboysmen.org/petition-signers But it's not the WH petition site that guarantees a response if it gets 100k signatures in 30 days. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Men’s-Rights Activism Is the Gateway Drug for the Alt-RightWell, that answers my question below. I didn't notice it was DF. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/17 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Men’s-Rights Activism Is the Gateway Drug for the Alt-RightDo you all think this article is just ignorant or purposefully deceitful? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/17 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Muslims beat up feminists for disrupting eventApologies if mods find this post irrelevant, but I found it interesting, given many discussions had here about feminist apologies or oversight when it comes to Islamic misogyny and the treatment of women. It will be interesting to see how other feminists respond. Any predictions? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | A Charlottesville "Unite the Right" Protester linked to MRAs, according to his progressive, feminist, Vegan familyI can't help but get the impression that both the uncle and nephew seem like actors. Am I paranoid? | /r/MensRights | 17/08/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | A Charlottesville "Unite the Right" Protester linked to MRAs, according to his progressive, feminist, Vegan familyI hope they still think that. The longer they believe people are so gullible, the longer they appear as obviously transparent, uninformed, and misleading (intentionally). | /r/MensRights | 17/08/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Biggest thing I got from watching the Red PillThanks for watching the film with an open mind. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/17 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Are there any histories of the men's rights movement?Thank you. Can you recommend the best place to start? I would also be very interested in any work that traces some aspects of the movement back into the nineteenth century, if such a work exists. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/17 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Are there any histories of the men's rights movement?Wow. Thank you so much. Okun was the one I was thinking about, but I had no idea about the others. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/17 06:09 PM |
| 19 | Why Guys Get Turned on When You Orgasm — and Why That's a Bad Thing"If a man can't make his partner satisfied, he is a selfish bastard. And, if he does, he is a selfish bastard." There is no winning with these folks, and they clearly don't understand the ways that men think when they actually love a woman. It's almost like men can't really love. They only love themselves. It is pretty disgusting, as far as the thinking goes. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/17 04:03 AM |
| 2 | We're men. We fix and move on. Stop whining."Be a man" is one of the most harmful phrases in history. Any estimates on just how many men died like cattle rushing toward bullets or sacrificing their lives? Probably billions in the 20th century alone. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/17 01:33 AM |
| 9 | Dear Men: You Have ValueI'm not sure why anyone would distrust you for saying these things because you're a woman. Men value hearing some of these things, particularly from women. It is a little like a canned pep talk, but I appreciate it nonetheless. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/17 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Patriarchy!"Can't be sent to prison"? Er, what? | /r/MensRights | 19/07/17 03:53 AM |
| 16 | Columbia gives ‘half-assed’ apology to exonerated student accused by ‘Mattress Girl’Did Mattress Girl really go into porn? Edit: Nevermind, googled. That woman is pretty unstable. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/17 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Misogyny: The Sites (more from the SPLC)Wow. I didn't realize this was from 2012. Sorry. I was looking at "full coverage" of DeVos from Google News and this showed up at the top. Google News has gone to shit. Trying to use it to discover news relevant to the MRM is now pointless. They are pushing a 5 year old article to smear the MRM, as if this article is "full coverage" of what is happening now. It shows as if published 11 hours ago. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/17 04:48 AM |
| 13 | Betsy DeVos Plans to Consult Men’s Rights Trolls About Campus Sexual Assault | A feminist is outraged that someone in power wants to hear about men's issues and men being denied basic legal rightsSo much smear and conflation in this article. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/17 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Where did "mansplaining" come from?I recall seeing the term around 2013 when a woman objected to facts vs. "lived experiences" and subjective interpretations. It was as if a man explaining reality and stats was suddenly offensive to how she "inherently" knew of the world. Just my way of framing that could be called offensive. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/17 03:53 AM |
| 13 | Are you happy with your circumcised penis?The part about it all that is kind of a mind fuck for me is that, even in moments when I am at the receiving end of pleasure for my sake alone, I still feel an enormous responsibility to convince my partner that I appreciate everything she does for me. There is a performative aspect of receiving a BJ that isn't really about enjoying that moment; more like you want your significant other to know that you enjoy it. So, the performative burden is still very much there. Do we really, as circumcised … | /r/MensRights | 10/07/17 03:26 AM |
| 17 | Do women belong to or post to this sub?Yes, of course. Every few weeks, somebody asks this question. And it tends to not understand the sheer amount of leaders, YTers, and advocates who are female MRAs. But it's an understandable question that an outsider often asks. The MRM has way more prominent women than feminism ever had, in terms of prominent men. Their movement's most prominent male feminist became a founding father of this movement. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/17 02:08 AM |
| 21 | Are you happy with your circumcised penis?I can barely feel blowjobs, to be honest. I get off on the aesthetics of it more than the actual feeling, but I don't know how common that is. I've never discussed that stuff with other men. They seem to act like BJs are just inherently incredible. Sorry if TMI. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/17 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Woman acquitted after raping a 14 year old boy because the victim looked matureI would love to see a half-legit news site publish this very article, but reverse all gender identifiers, just as a social experiment to see how the world would react to a man serving no time because the 14 year old girl had very large breasts and acted "mature." Then, to see the reveal of the opposite would be interesting, in terms of the reactions. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/17 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Is their anything a Man can do that a Woman cannot in the western world?But isn't all of this stuff inherently against men's best interests, when they have so few reproductive rights? Why would so many men want to rank up their "scores," when it decreases their choices over their reproductive destiny, economic livelihood, and general rights? Why do men act against their own self-interest? Given the lack of reproductive rights, you might think that men would be absolutely careful of playing roulette with their destinies. We should be incredibly hard to get, given the… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/17 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Is their anything a Man can do that a Woman cannot in the western world?I'm not so sure it's really that petty. When I view photos of middle-class women in nineteenth century, it's almost like their respectable outfit was similar to some middle-eastern countries today. Although many modern day feminists will object to it today, sexual liberation and the showing of skin could go hand in hand with a powerful, independent woman. There might be a way to view the bikini top as the last remnants of the "Western burka" or practice of veiling women. So, I guess I get why it… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/17 01:40 AM |
| 43 | Is their anything a Man can do that a Woman cannot in the western world?Free the nipple seems like a legit example. Women can be arrested for being topless, and men cannot, at least most outdoor places. North America, I mean. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.You seem very apt to critique, yet offer no viable solutions. I learned this trick in higher education, but I grew frustrated with the endless critiques for the purpose of critique alone. I found it frustrating and not really constructive. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.So what is your solution, if I may ask? you've identified a problem, so what is the solution? Please just clarify. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.Um, yeah but go look at Soviet work sites too. I ask you again to state what is the solution? Or do you have an alternative beyond shaming corporations but not shaming state actions? Would you like to shame Soviet systems for doing exactly the same? If so, let's have a great conversation. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.What is your third viable alternative to state control or corporate control? What system are you actually advocating for here, other than damning corporations? Please be specific. What system are you advocating for? Are you libertarian? | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.What do you mean by mixed economy and how does it contrast to free market capitalism, without the role of the state? | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.Germany is a beckon of freedom, are you claiming? | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.OK, sorry. What is your solution? | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.What is the entity that doesn't place profit above all? Your solution is the state, unless you have other suggestions, here. The state has gotten about 3 or 4 million men killed in the past century. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.So who gets the control now? And how do they exercise that control? If your answer is the state, then there will be many justified rebuttals based on history and facts. The state hasn't been good for men, possibly worse than corporations. So, who is the real culprit in this scenario? | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.So how does a company compete if not motivated by profit? What is the solution? Your answer may be important here. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 04:59 AM |
| 5 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.As opposed to what, exactly? Any evidence regarding Karen would be relevant. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 04:53 AM |
| 6 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.Citation needed please. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 04:50 AM |
| 8 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.citation needed please. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 04:50 AM |
| 5 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.How so? I came back to this thread after reading this: https://pjmedia.com/trending/2017/06/19/trump-admin-begins-to-dismantle-obama-campus-rape-tribunals/#comments Paul makes many additional points from his point of view. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 01:17 AM |
| 8 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.After the statement, Paul said that he wasn't saying that from a view on politics but from a view on men and boys, rather than all these other republicans who don't care when a man is insulted but cry foul when a woman is insulted. It's gynocentrism. And he also said since Lincoln, not the equivalent to Lincoln. I'm not sure what Paul means by Lincoln being a great president for men and boys. A lot of men died. But a lot of men were also freed from bondage. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 12:54 AM |
| 19 | Paul Elam declares Donald Trump greatest US President since Abraham Lincoln.The MRM is open to people across the political spectrum. One of the most influential founding fathers was Warren Farrell. Yes, there are notable conservatives, but I've never seen so much dialogue and conversation within a movement that cares for something essentially non-partisan, in terms of men's rights and men's issues. I lean left in the classical liberal sense. I think that I could have a decent conversation with somebody like Elam. I can't think of many comparable individuals on the left … | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 12:30 AM |
| 7 | A light hearted post for the Sunday. Have a nice day everyone!Is this any different from a "I drink male tears" coffee mug? | /r/MensRights | 02/07/17 08:10 PM |
| 11 | Why gay men are divorcing feminists and joining us. This dude is another woke gay man. Love Prince of Queen's channel.I enjoy his content. Sometimes the jokes and insults can be a little petty and mean, but his overall arguments are usually great and logical. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/17 02:35 AM |
| 6 | Blind recruitment trial to boost gender equality making things worse, study reveals. Authors Suggest Opposite to Promote "Equality"A very interesting study. I wonder why exactly women hold a 3 percent advantage due to just being women, as far as making the shortlist. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/17 12:55 AM |
| 3 | I think feminism is tunnel visioned by its focus on labeling everything negative after men (patriarchy), and this tunnel vision is going to eventually end feminism.Why would you reply to me if you only offer such a vapid and empty rejoinder, as if to say "I know you are, but what am I?" Do you actually want to debate or engage in schoolyard bullying? | /r/MensRights | 01/07/17 04:55 AM |
| 1 | I think feminism is tunnel visioned by its focus on labeling everything negative after men (patriarchy), and this tunnel vision is going to eventually end feminism.I don't think that you said anything meaningful with this statement. What does it mean to listen to listen, not to respond, unless you inherently discredit any critique? | /r/MensRights | 01/07/17 04:52 AM |
| 3 | CNN new day producer says Kellyanne Conway looks like she was "hit by a shovel," calls Trump "crazy" yet the left isn't saying that's sexist and ageist!If any comment against Mika's appearance is by default sexist, then this comment about Conway should be seen as sexist. But either way, it's not actually sexist to make a negative comment about a person's appearance, regardless of gender. One side just uses it for gains, and it's so obviously dumb. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/17 04:50 AM |
| 1 | I think feminism is tunnel visioned by its focus on labeling everything negative after men (patriarchy), and this tunnel vision is going to eventually end feminism.So, in other words, defer or respectfully be silent. Otherwise, any response is hostile. So, you there be silent! The authority has spoken! Do not deny lived experiences! | /r/MensRights | 01/07/17 04:45 AM |
| 3 | I think feminism is tunnel visioned by its focus on labeling everything negative after men (patriarchy), and this tunnel vision is going to eventually end feminism.yawn. So obvious when a feminist starts to try and sex shame, often quite literally 1 minute after yelling out about the misogyny and sex shaming of women. Brains should think. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/17 04:43 AM |
| 1 | A few examples of mainstream misandry from HBO's "Newsroom"Sorry that my capture tech was subpar, but I wanted to share some interesting clips. My viewing of this series was influenced by this sub and its content. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/17 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Guy Records Roommates Abusive Psycho GirlfriendThis is really old, but interesting. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/17 02:28 AM |
| 12 | Playboy losses audience because of vomiting trashy feminist propagandaAfter reading about halfway through this trash, I got an ad to "continue my journey down the rabbit hole." Playboy killed itself awhile ago. Magazines were a dying form of media, but the PC crap and pandering didn't help it. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/17 11:12 PM |
| 12 | The most important movie I watched with my husband was also the most unexpected | Probably as good a review of The Red Pill as you could hope for from a women's/feminist blogThe blog is evidence of how warped it can be just for a feminist to consider how traditional gender roles affect men. It's like she had never even considered it. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/17 04:18 AM |
| 7 | Can we still be men?I'm OK with some of your points, but it's a slippery slope between some of your instinctual and ingrained chivalry and a long tradition of men running into bullets, to protect women, children, and homeland. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/17 05:00 AM |
| 3 | A twisted review of The Red PillIt's also so blatantly sexist and stereotypical. Classic glorification of feminine virtues, women as goddesses or exploring their "inner goddess," etc. It's baffling to me. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/17 06:38 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill: I watched it, so you don’t have to. X-post from r/australiaThis was completely lazy. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/17 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Would anyone here be willing to have a civil conversation with me about men's/women's rights issues?Feminism, as it was presented to me, was a no brainer. Of course women are human beings, and they deserve equal rights. It's just obvious to anyone who cares about human rights in general. What isn't obvious are men's issues, and it took a lot of questioning on my part just to care about men. It's like I defaulted to some assumptions, without really even considering my own options, even if it involved becoming a dad. I invite you to consider that what you witness here is a men's liberation movem… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/17 05:57 AM |
| 2 | The Duluth model is made to consider men the default aggressors and women the victim, this is pure discrimination against innocent people. Why don't men take this to the streets to protest against it?It kind of comes down to a very basic thing that Elam said in The Red Pill. If any other group had something comparable to men's issues, then so many, many people would raise hell. He adds, "It's almost like men aren't human beings," which I think is kind of a provocative point. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/17 03:59 AM |
| 8 | What do you guys think of /r/MensLib?Once you discover the beliefs and identities of the overlords of menslib, you discover and know everything that you need to know. I am somewhat sympathetic, given that I would put Warren Farrell in this camp during the 70s and 80s. But, in the end, you have to ask: Are they helping men for the benefit of men and looking at men's issues on their own terms? Or, are they trying to somehow fix men for the benefit of women? There is a noticeable difference between these approaches. I welcome any cons… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/17 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Would anyone here be willing to have a civil conversation with me about men's/women's rights issues?It's very nice to see so much open dialogue in this thread. I haven't read every post. I used to be a male feminist who became a MRA after trying to debunk the MRM. I am also fairly well-versed in the history of feminist theory and academia. If anyone from the other side wants to have a dialogue, then I'm very open to having a constructive and respectful conversation. Reply if interested. Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/17 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Cassie Jaye on Alex Jones Show at Height of Megyn Kelly ControversyA very strange interview. Is it good or bad publicity? | /r/MensRights | 16/06/17 08:28 PM |
| 3 | It should be the men's compromise movement not the men's rights movementIf we demand to be allowed to be loving fathers, then we demand to be present and loving fathers. There is no compromise to be had. We demand to be loving and present fathers, and you have to deal with that demand. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/17 04:55 AM |
| 3 | What is your end game?We want gender equality. If you want that too, then let us have a conversation. But, you seem to be charging in with a lot of preconceived ideas about who we are and what we secretly want. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/17 04:49 AM |
| 3 | What does it really mean to be a man? | CNN.comI get that it's focused on fashion and style, but I've never read a more meaningless discussion of men and masculinity as if everything relates to dress, fashion, make up, etc. There is no seeming awareness of the real question at hand, in terms of gender roles, societal expectations, disposability, chivalry, self-sacrifice, manning up, etc. It's CNN style, so I can't really expect much more, but imagine a similar article about what it means to be a woman, which is focused entirely on fashion. I… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/17 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Paul Elam responds to Andrew O'QueefThanks for the comment. Just imagine if feminists did something like this to Karen. Her worst night out should somehow refute her best arguments...? We would all say WTF?? | /r/MensRights | 14/06/17 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Paul Elam responds to Andrew O'QueefI thought there were shaming tactics and character assassination based on one video of a bad night out. I usually enjoy Paul's videos, but he took every cheap shot he could to refute this person "because he's a drunk." Some cheap shots here, to be honest. Let him stand and fall based on his sober bias and stupid questions. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/17 04:55 AM |
| 0 | Rape culture? What Happens When a Feminist’s Son is Accused of Rape?This reads as kind of fake, to be honest. It's like an intellectual exercise of what a feminist might say in this scenario. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/17 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Am I wrong?Well the other part of their chant is "racist." Where the hell did that come from? At some point, we can't overthink the origins of these things when the protesters didn't do any basic research, and then they decided to call us "Nazi scum." | /r/MensRights | 14/06/17 03:21 AM |
| 17 | Am I wrong?I've tried for a while to figure out where anyone got an impression that the MRM is transphobic or anti-gay. The best I can guess is that many feminists assumed that we are all tradcons from like 20 years ago, culture wars wise. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/17 02:28 AM |
| 7 | Paternity Testing Ban Upheld in FranceThis is pretty terrifying. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/17 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Seeing how socially acceptable casual misandry is on Reddit is disheartening.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDGpy4ueUEM | /r/MensRights | 26/05/17 08:51 PM |
| 57 | Seeing how socially acceptable casual misandry is on Reddit is disheartening.This reminds me of a recent video where a girl was just doing her best to try to physically assault her man. He looks at her and says, "Do you want to go to jail?" She pauses with a confused look and responds, "For what???" | /r/MensRights | 26/05/17 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Internalized Misandry?I also kind of like "internalized chivalry" so long as chivalry isn't glorified, but instead approached from both the admirable and the horrific. To me, it's kind of just a slippery slope of duties and obligations. Man holds a door open for a women. Man places (cartoonish example) of coat over puddle for a woman, sacrificing his coat for her feet. Men yell women and children first on a sinking ship. And, then, the most extreme of governments telling men to man up, do their duty, and sacrifice th… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 01:55 AM |
| 9 | Internalized Misandry?I think the concept of internalized misogyny is very disempowering, as if women's choices are not really choices, but they've been somehow brainwashed by patriarchy or societal norms. It's amazing the degree that feminists will dismiss human choices when they don't like the choices certain women make. I don't think internalized misandry is a useful concept either, but there is something. I'm not sure what to call it. We could talk about internalized chivalry, a "man up" psychology, and all the s… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/17 06:28 PM |
| 8 | Just watched The Red Pill, here's some random thoughtsYes, I thought Katherine Spillar came off as one of the most heartless and uninformed interviewees of the film. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/17 09:28 PM |
| 3 | One thing that frustrates you the most about feministsThey often don't know about the history and actions of modern feminism, in all its variants. We have to educate them about the actions of major feminist organizations like NOW, and then we can be called mansplainers. We know more about the history of feminism than they do, quite often. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/17 04:04 AM |
| 4 | Serious question - Why is the breadwinner expected to keep the homemaker in the lifestyle they've been accustomed to (with alimony), but the homemaker has no obligation to continue keeping the breadwinner in the lifestyle they were accustomed to?A loving and devoted wife is far more valuable as a life partner than "an occasional use" of a vagina. Women are people, and a person is valuable beyond a hole to fuck. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 03:58 AM |
| 17 | Serious question - Why is the breadwinner expected to keep the homemaker in the lifestyle they've been accustomed to (with alimony), but the homemaker has no obligation to continue keeping the breadwinner in the lifestyle they were accustomed to?I don't think sex is a service in a loving marriage between two people who respect each other, but I get your point here. It seems pretty simple to me. A lifestyle is associated with a certain income, not the luxury of a partner who does unpaid work, although we could make a case that a stay at home parent is paid work by the working parent. Some of this stuff is a hang over from an older time. A woman could be financially devastated by a provider husband who just decides that the twenty-somethi… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 01:56 AM |
| -2 | we need to restore the like balance to its rightful placeI didn't see any justifiable reason for physical violence against a person, regardless of gender. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 03:23 PM |
| 2 | "MRAs and Feminists Should Work Together." Reactions or thoughts?terribletweets, after about 4 or 5 instances of you telling me to fuck off, I've decided that this reply will be my last to you. I'm not sure what I can say or do to meet your ideology purity test regarding men's issues. You're like a McCarthyist screaming about Communist infiltration and pointing a finger at a witch. So, I'm going to block you now. First reddit block. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 01:03 PM |
| 1 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?If a man said this to you with genders reversed, what would you call it? | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 02:58 AM |
| 4 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?I give up on you. If you had any remote clue about the experiences of men during the Great War, you would find this comment deeply offensive. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 02:57 AM |
| 3 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?disagree based on what? Actual statistics or your feelings? | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 02:51 AM |
| 5 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?I've never facepalmed so hard. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 02:49 AM |
| 8 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?OK. It is pretty clear who came in charging with a sad delusional rant about patriarchy without taking a few minutes to use google. Bye. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 02:47 AM |
| 7 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?Alright, clearly this is a waste of time. Please just take five minutes to google the wage gap myth. The "constant fear of rape and assault" is the product of bogus and misleading stats. Your feminism has done the opposite of empowering you, and that makes me sad. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 02:44 AM |
| 8 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?Feminism is supposed to mean gender equality. People should not be treated differently based on gender (and we could add race, sexuality, etc.) Are you aware that you just contradicted that fundamental definition of your belief system? Men are sentenced to 63 percent longer prison sentences than women for committing the same crimes. Women and men are treated differently under the law. You seem OK with that gender disparity and discrimination. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 02:39 AM |
| 7 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?You are ill-prepared for this debate, so I suggest that you consider it a conversation and have an open mind. We have lots of nice juicy citations for you, but at this rate, you may shut down and run away with fingers in ears. Here is one, just to test the waters. https://www.law.umich.edu/newsandinfo/features/Pages/starr_gender_disparities.aspx We can refute your claims in this post. We will have to teach you about the actions of NOW, the largest feminist organization in the United States. They… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 02:26 AM |
| 5 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?And the saddest part about WWI is how governments manipulated men by appealing to chivalry in a war that lacked chivalry. The central moral justification for war was the "rape of Belgium," meaning the German treatment of women, children, and some men (always put in that hierarchy). Men tried to "man up" and they rushed like rodents into machine guns. Some feminists handed out white feathers to shame the men who were too cowardly to save the "women and children." | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 02:21 AM |
| 5 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?You believe in a sociological system that places men above women. We will now ask you for evidence of that assertion when men are treated as the disposable gender both as canon fodder during times of war or the vast majority of dangerous jobs. What is your evidence that this patriarchy exists? Is it the vast majority of experiences faced by men (who die younger) or will you point to the elite CEOs? The second part of your response seems to suggest that men have problems because they are not allo… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 02:14 AM |
| 5 | What's one example of an actual men's issue that isn't just the product of patriarchy or a bizarre edge case?Yes, we can name many. Can you first please define patriarchy and explain how it is "actually" responsible for men's issues? | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 01:58 AM |
| 2 | "MRAs and Feminists Should Work Together." Reactions or thoughts?Perhaps not the category of dangerous jobs? | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 01:05 AM |
| 2 | MGTOW and Legitimate MisogynySome of the most misogynistic stuff on the internet usually has a MGTOW or PUA label, although perhaps it's maybe a radical and angry fringe that gives outsiders a bad taste for the whole. Generally, I am sympathetic when their anger is directed at the treatment of men. But, I cringe when it so easily translates to "Women are all __________." Their anger is sometimes indistinguishable from their hatred. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 01:01 AM |
| 6 | "MRAs and Feminists Should Work Together." Reactions or thoughts?Pathfinder, this was just a video I stumbled across and posted, so I hope that you don't associate me with the video maker. The point about circumcision also surprised me. I've never seen it raised as a feminist issue, although I've met many feminists who agree that it's bad. And I've never seen a feminist organization have a problem with the most obvious form of gender discrimination, the prison-sentencing gap. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 12:28 AM |
| 28 | Finished watching The Red Pill last night...wow.Thank you for sharing your thoughts. "I feel like I've been fed delicious bullshit about the MRA movement for the past decade or so. I feel somewhat ashamed that I didn't do my research before dismissing this movement." You were not alone here. I initially believed some of the slander and conflation when I was a male feminist. I spent a long time researching, following the footnotes, finding the statistics and methodological assumptions used by feminist groups, and it led to a life-changing red … | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 12:20 AM |
| 10 | Feminist Laurie Penny: will robots and automation make men obsolete?The misandry is strong with this one. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 12:03 AM |
| 319 | No words...Wow. Are you sure this post isn't a parody? | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 12:02 AM |
| 2 | "MRAs and Feminists Should Work Together." Reactions or thoughts?Great post. I assume that when you refer to child custody, you mean NOW's fight against shared custody. I don't tend to blame feminism for the tender years doctrine and a long tradition of associating women with motherhood. It's a curious thing to me that feminists should fight against a "women as mothers" stereotype and expectation, yet many groups seem uncomfortable with shared custody as a starting point. I've even seen some examples of feminists saying, "You weren't there for half of the chi… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/17 11:29 PM |
| 3 | I got slapped in the face last night for being uncircumcised...I would run away from this woman. She cares more about you being "normal" than about you actually being normal. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/17 02:29 AM |
| 12 | *SPOILER* Miss USA Pageant Winner Slaps Feminism Right in the FaceI'm not sure who watches this stuff anymore, but I'd like to see a clip, if it's a brave woman speaking her mind in the midst of being judged for the size or her rack and her "talents." Beauty pageant stuff is so cringey. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | How come nobody is talking about this in this sub?Why would the judge not evaluate the police evidence as definitive? If the evidence is definitive that the man was speeding, why would the evidence be inconclusive? OP, are you trying to suggest that somehow this man got off scott free, in spite of the evidence because he was a man and the judge was female? I'm not sure why this case is relevant for MR other than a tragic story about possible injustice and a man losing his child and parents due to the actions of another man. Please explain. Sure… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/17 02:20 AM |
| 1 | There are growing indications that as The Red Pill spreads net enabled feminism is in an increasing state of collapse. P¬))Or, it could just reflect some behind the scenes drama, which plagues most any gathering of feminists who start to turn on each other. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/17 12:30 AM |
| 19 | I recently became involved in domestic violence awareness. I tried finding domestic violence shelters for men near me. Unfortunately, there are only 6 shelters that are even relatively near me. 5 of the shelters are specifically for women and children, the other one is for homeless people.You should call each shelter and ask if there are services provided for men. Make sure you can get a definitive statement and not just a reference to a website. There are many services in my area that, if pushed to the wall, will admit that they offer some services for men, such as hotel vouchers. Those services are not often advertised but they do exist if a service is asked directly. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/17 12:22 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of this argument from a feminist?It kind of reminds me of Warren Farrell's basic observation that women are seen as sex objects and men are seen as success objects. I'm not entirely convinced of that generalization in terms of women and men having more complex associations. Women, for example, were once viewed as morally superior to men (and still are by some feminists). Just some random thoughts here. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/17 01:58 AM |
| 2 | An Interesting YouTuber Discussing Men's Rights and Child CustodyYes, she seems very intelligent and well-spoken. She could be a very good ally. I subbed. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/17 01:41 AM |
| 17 | Thinking of y'all todayIt really is a nice change to see so many active fathers. I took my daughter to a park last weekend and had an interesting experience around a tire swing, as 3 dads all kind of took turns pushing the swing for each other's kids (all on the same swing). There was a weird social etiquette thing happening where each guy wanted to share in the task, but was a bit confused if the other guy was ok with him pushing the swing. It was kind of funny. But, I've also had a few experiences where women will g… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/17 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Is the MRM about men gaining rights or preserving them?I don't understand the question. People should be treated equally under the law. If they are not, then they should. What rights are men fighting to keep that women do not have? | /r/MensRights | 08/05/17 03:48 AM |
| 5 | I work with one other person, a female employee. We are alone all day in the office together. How do I protect myself from false accusations?I would be very, very aware of which parts of the building and office have cameras. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/17 01:26 AM |
| 1 | This still from "The red pill"You are free to browse my post history to see I meet your standards of ideological purity. But, I would have expected that attitude more from the sub you mention or from a feminist sub. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/17 01:22 AM |
| 20 | Wow is this how people think of us?I just had a similar debate online. A feminist was conflating MRAs and MGTOW (especially angry MGTOW), and I tried to explain the differences and overlaps. Her/his response was essentially, "You do it to us by calling all moderates and radicals 'feminists,' so we'll do it to you too!" I'm not sure how to process that exchange, especially from a person who clearly doesn't call out the radicals. Then again, perhaps the MRM could do a bit more to call out the radicals among MGTOW. Perhaps my experi… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | This still from "The red pill"Just curious how people would respond to the following argument: "What you are seeing here is the combined result of patriarchy and toxic masculinity. The patriarchy hurts men too. Men start wars, and warfare is an extreme form of male aggression, so they should fight them. If we dismantle patriarchy, these numbers would change. And, a world with more female leaders/politicians would be a more compassionate, caring, and cooperative place." I am not making this argument, but I've seen it brought … | /r/MensRights | 03/05/17 07:01 PM |
| 10 | Student Falsely Accused by Alexa Romano wins settlement against SDSUI don't see a single negative consequence for the woman who falsely accused him, other than her guilt. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/17 10:56 PM |
| 7 | Gauging interest and support for a Warren Farrell YouTube channelIt's a good idea, but with the current adpocalyse, you'll need to rely on patreon far more than youtube ad revenue. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 06:14 PM |
| 6 | The Greatest Failure of the Feminist Movement is that it Alienates Potential AlliesI've never hidden this fact, and my posts have been consistent. I have said a lot of negative things about the men's lib crowd, and I have never posted there, iirc. "Go back..." is the exact kind of alienation that the OP describes regarding feminism. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 04:51 PM |
| 2 | The Greatest Failure of the Feminist Movement is that it Alienates Potential AlliesHave you considered doing a bit of estimates about the amount of followers they gain by this tactic and the amount of people that they alienate, just going by the numbers of white, cis, heterosexual men or straight white het women? I am just curious as to how the demographics line up, and what it actually means. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 05:32 AM |
| 1 | The Greatest Failure of the Feminist Movement is that it Alienates Potential AlliesI think you are exactly right in your analysis. But, from the feminist side, it's almost like a knee-jerk reaction of "I can't believe somebody is saying this, so obviously they are lying!" I wish that there was more debate or even just conversations. One side seems to long for a conversation, and the other side has fingers plugged into ears. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 05:26 AM |
| 2 | The Greatest Failure of the Feminist Movement is that it Alienates Potential AlliesPerhaps, but please show me the evidence of intellectual dishonesty among the MRM. I can show you countless examples from the other side. I don't think that is an irrelevant coincidence. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 05:17 AM |
| 3 | The Greatest Failure of the Feminist Movement is that it Alienates Potential AlliesI agree with many of your points here. Thanks for posting. I think it's especially important to stress how men are now finally doing what women have done for decades, in terms of a debate. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 05:13 AM |
| 8 | The Greatest Failure of the Feminist Movement is that it Alienates Potential AlliesYes, patriarchy theory is kind of a non-starter. It is too disconnected from the experiences of most men, especially those at the bottom, doing the dangerous jobs. An "infiltrator seeking sabotage" kind of reminds me of Cold War propaganda about enemies among us. I too have had good discussions on an individual level, although it is usually with feminists who aren't well versed in patriarchy theory and more well-versed with the "duh" definition of gender equality. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 05:07 AM |
| 2 | The Greatest Failure of the Feminist Movement is that it Alienates Potential AlliesI haven't had a similar experience, to be honest. The MRAs will ask for evidence, if I have a viewpoint that is out of lockstep, in your words. Yes, there is often a reactionary among them, but they are far more open to dissent and questions. The anti-feminists are the "show me the evidence" crowd. The feminists tend to be "show me the indoctrination and buzz words" crowd. Just asking for evidence of patriarchy gets you banned at a feminist sub. Asking for evidence here starts a debate about sta… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 04:59 AM |
| 19 | The Greatest Failure of the Feminist Movement is that it Alienates Potential AlliesI appreciate your post here. I came to the MRM as a male feminist trying to debunk men's issues. When I found some legit complaints about unequal treatment and human rights, I was almost immediately ostracized (by feminists) for deviating from the standard narrative. I still remain hopeful that there is a moderate core of non-radfems out there who care about equality. I would hope that they take men's issues seriously, as Betty Friedan did. But, honestly, it has become difficult to find the natu… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/17 04:28 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean to be a "real man"?What types of things are they asking you to do, in order to prove that you are a "real man"? Thanks for the response. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 04:53 AM |
| 7 | What are /r/MensRights' thoughts on /r/Menslib?Having been banned by feminists to subs I've never even visited, I can't imagine a more totalitarian attitude toward dissent. But if it exists at men's lib, then it has got to be frightening to the extreme. I pity the poor guy who wanders into their men's issues web wanting to talk about losing access to his kids. He is heart-broken and looking for a place to talk about men's issues. I would imagine that he gets put against a wall and whipped into censorship. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 04:00 AM |
| 3 | What are /r/MensRights' thoughts on /r/Menslib?Very interesting last sentence there. Thank you. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Is The Red Pill worth a watch?I haven't seen a single argument against the film that has merit. But, I have seen a ton of slander by journalists and students who've never actually watched the film. Watch it and decide for yourself. I recommend it. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 02:15 AM |
| 15 | What are /r/MensRights' thoughts on /r/Menslib?I have some degree of sympathy for their side. If Warren Farrell is seen as the father of the MRM, then there was a time when he squarely fit in that camp, approaching men's issues from a feminist perspective. Indeed, many MRAs still ask how men can be liberated from harmful gender expectations that damage their bodies and minds. Having said that, the men's lib folks, especially if Michael Kimmel is the acknowledged academic leader, are doing more harm than good these days. Kimmel straight up li… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Annabel Crabb: The Red Pill ban is an absurdity only online activism could create | Even this left wing/progressive newspaper has to admit the feminist hysteria is ridiculousIt's such a callous and dismissive review, and the snarky tone speaks volumes about the lack of empathy for men and men's issues. But, as others have said, it's still a step up from "This movie will rape you!" | /r/MensRights | 22/04/17 04:54 PM |
| 36 | Professor Says Male Student’s Paper Was So Triggering She Had Trouble Distinguishing Him From Her RapistI wouldn't be surprised if this is InsideHigherEd's version of the Sokal hoax. It is probably not real, but it could have gotten through the peer review of leftist academics who are too scared to even criticize it. If it's real, wow. To question a feminist's narrative is likened to raping her or something. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/17 03:15 AM |
| 582 | A white male pretending to be a feminist trolled Huffpost by sharing "White men shouldn't be allowed to vote" and they fell for itThere is a more disturbing story here. Huffpo retaliated, doxed the author, and delved into his work history. They may have even contacted his employer, because he had to resign. https://heatst.com/culture-wars/sly-hoaxer-who-humiliated-the-huffington-post-has-lost-his-job/ | /r/MensRights | 20/04/17 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Seeking understandingHistory of science is particularly prone to revisionism, because it has traditionally been taught as a history of dead, white guys. Historians of science go to pretty far lengths to highlight the role of women (in order to balance out their field): "No, it's not what happens in a lab, but in an inclusive fieldwork environment! No, the real father of chemistry was supported by a real woman genius... No, this madame or that madame, or this or that naturalist." I can understand their frustrations w… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/17 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Question: Why Do You Continue To Talk To A Society That Hates You?American society used to treat African Americans like cattle, to be bought and sold. Societies evolve, in spite of who benefits from preventing the evolution. What's right is right. What's obvious to anyone who truly cares about equality is obvious to anyone who truly cares about equality. This movement is on the "right side of history," in my opinion. It doesn't really matter who holds the power advantage at the moment. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/17 03:14 AM |
| 2 | The phrase 'innocent women and children' is sexist, racist, and inaccurate - CBCYeah there is something strange happening with the CBC, almost like 2 senior editors are fighting about the agenda. They can be regressive one day and refreshing the next. Or, maybe it's part of becoming self aware of biases. Who knows? | /r/MensRights | 20/04/17 03:09 AM |
| 4 | We must restore the patriarchy to it's former glory!What is it lately with these kinds of posts, coming in suddenly from people who seem to lack a basic awareness of the goals and perspectives of this movement? Does the OP really think we're a bunch of neckbeards that want women back in the kitchen, barefoot, and pregnant (to steal Elam's phrasing)? It's like we raise awareness of the genital mutilation of boys, and they want to call us wife-beaters and misogynists. If this is our opposition, it isn't very impressive. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/17 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Senate passes bill with an amendment that would require women to register for the draft.Somebody should ask Cruz why it makes more sense to him to support forcibly drafting young men into military service. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/17 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Seeking understandingHow has your class pushed the issue? | /r/MensRights | 19/04/17 11:42 PM |
| 12 | Fox News Submits to More Feminist Lynching - Bill O'Reilly Is Forced Out at Fox NewsIt's hard to judge this one, because we just don't know if the allegations are true, or if he just repeatedly settled rather than fight false accusations. And I would be hesitant to call the accusers feminists if they work at Fox News. There is video evidence of how much of a dick O'Reilly can be on set. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/17 09:19 PM |
| 2 | The phrase 'innocent women and children' is sexist, racist, and inaccurate - CBCI am not sure how she will be attacked for this by other feminists, but the attack is brewing. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/17 07:07 PM |
| 19 | Protesters say genital mutilation doesn't happen just to girls, boys need protection tooIt's disturbing that the headline is "protestors say," as if anyone who spent 5 minutes researching the history of circumcision would say, "Well that's a provocative point of view to call removing a very sensitive part of the penis 'mutilation'. Gee, those interesting protestors and the crazy things they say!" As Cassie Jaye showed, it only takes a 5 minute YT video to see it for what it is. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/17 03:26 AM |
| 1 | New puritanism at work in refusals to show film The Red PillAnyone know why they turned on Germaine Greer? Let me guess: It had nothing to do with her book The Beautiful Boy, which borders on pedo or is outright pedo. That's probably OK for them. But, if she said a man cannot be a woman, then she got crucified. Does my guess come close to reality? Ugh... while reading I clicked back here to comment, and now the article is behind a pay wall. Can somebody archive it please? | /r/MensRights | 18/04/17 10:50 PM |
| 4 | CBC report on free speech on university campusesThe CBC seems all over the place, but this was a good report. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/17 04:34 AM |
| 24 | Men's groups apparently are misogynistic....“The acknowledgement of patriarchy… is one of our core values.” If they can't tolerate an ideology to be questioned, then this university is not a place for the free and open discussion of all ideologies, their flaws, and the evidence." | /r/MensRights | 18/04/17 02:06 AM |
| 5 | What is your ONE strongest reason for the existence of the MRM?Discrimination on the basis of gender is wrong. Inequality in justice, parental rights, or bodily integrity is wrong. Men have legitimate issues when it comes to human rights, equal access, and resources. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/17 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel uneasy about associating with women?I wouldn't be surprised to see men start wearing body cameras. It's only a step beyond dash cams at this point, due to needing to document a guy jumping from the street onto your car to sue you. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/17 02:49 AM |
| 15 | Cassie Jaye's response to the University of Sydney's decision to ban The Red PillWow. What absolute slander. It's either completely ignorant or deliberately lying. Nobody who watched the film can make these statements. I find it hard to believe that this person would not take the time to watch the film, yet also take extra time to dig up something on Elam. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/17 01:35 AM |
| 13 | Cassie Jaye's response to the University of Sydney's decision to ban The Red PillCan someone please post a link to the original statement? | /r/MensRights | 14/04/17 01:26 AM |
| 46 | Cassie Jaye's response to the University of Sydney's decision to ban The Red PillAt least it's good publicity for the film. I had not realized the movie has already won an award. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/17 01:17 AM |
| 6 | A woman I hate is forcing me into fatherhood. People would praise a woman having an abortion even though the man wants a kid. But people hate me for not wanting to be a dad.then sympathy given zero. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 05:19 AM |
| 4 | A woman I hate is forcing me into fatherhood. People would praise a woman having an abortion even though the man wants a kid. But people hate me for not wanting to be a dad.If you are the father, there will be a small child looking up at the world and asking, "who's daddy?" Your lack of care for his or her happiness is disturbing. At least show some degree of care and concern for the people you bring into this horrible world. Do you give a damn about about anyone other than yourself? Show it. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 04:59 AM |
| 2 | A woman I hate is forcing me into fatherhood. People would praise a woman having an abortion even though the man wants a kid. But people hate me for not wanting to be a dad.Well get a paternity test to make sure, but don't expect the child to blame the mother. He or she is going to blame you for not being there, and most likely he or she will be disadvantaged because you aren't there. Children who don't have positive male role models tend to fuck up. If you make this choice now, then that is part of the equation. Your child may go to prison, and you're not blameless. You may be the problem. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 04:54 AM |
| 4 | A woman I hate is forcing me into fatherhood. People would praise a woman having an abortion even though the man wants a kid. But people hate me for not wanting to be a dad.I think that it has a lot to do with it. You are thinking of yourself. Dads think of their children. You didn't have a dad so you defaulted to the first choice of thinking about yourself, not your kids. There is a cycle of fatherless homes, and you seem to be perpetuating that cycle, because you never had a dad. These are not meant to be harsh words. You seem to not understand what it means to be a dad because you never had a dad. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 04:46 AM |
| 3 | A woman I hate is forcing me into fatherhood. People would praise a woman having an abortion even though the man wants a kid. But people hate me for not wanting to be a dad.Is it possible that you grew up in a fatherless home? I don't really want to ask about race either, but understanding that part might be relevant to trying to grasp the issues at hand. Did you have a loving father? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 04:34 AM |
| 1 | A woman I hate is forcing me into fatherhood. People would praise a woman having an abortion even though the man wants a kid. But people hate me for not wanting to be a dad.You made a human being. You are responsible for your actions. Now, you might be responsible for a vulnerable baby's life. If you don't care about the human you created, then you don't care about the human you created. You won't find much sympathy for that view, I suspect. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 04:28 AM |
| 6 | A woman I hate is forcing me into fatherhood. People would praise a woman having an abortion even though the man wants a kid. But people hate me for not wanting to be a dad.If it is true that you are the father, then you just created another human being. If you don't care about it, then I don't know what to tell you. You are a human being who doesn't seem to care about the human being you created. Dr. Frankenstein had more care for the monster that he made, even though he ran from it. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 04:20 AM |
| 7 | A woman I hate is forcing me into fatherhood. People would praise a woman having an abortion even though the man wants a kid. But people hate me for not wanting to be a dad.It's the definition of a dead beat dad who only cares about himself, not the consequences of choices. The mother could be the worst person in the world, but, if paternity is true, he is now a dad. No sympathy given for a man who wants to make a child miserable. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 04:06 AM |
| 14 | A woman I hate is forcing me into fatherhood. People would praise a woman having an abortion even though the man wants a kid. But people hate me for not wanting to be a dad.No child deserves to be miserable because of your feelings about a lack of options. I hope that you reconsider when you see the spark of life in your child's eyes. Kids need dads these days, IF IT'S YOUR KID. Get a paternity test. Don't sign anything without knowing that you are the father. If you wore a condom and nothing happened, in terms of the condom breaking, there are some big red flags. It's still possible, but fairly unlikely so long as you were safe. If it's not your kid, you might be … | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 03:36 AM |
| 1 | University of Sydney Union Disallows Screening of Mens Rights Documentary 'Red Pill'At this point, I don't think that there is a "academic feminist lobby" at work. Universities are just frightened by any student (of a certain category) who claims to feel unsafe or "invisible." You could be the most respected scholar of gender studies at an Ivy League school. That still doesn't really count for much. Administrations are scared of their students. It comes down to "Do we allow a movie to be shown if somebody is claiming stress and PTSD? Who cares about a movie... Cancel the event.… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 03:32 AM |
| 40 | A woman I hate is forcing me into fatherhood. People would praise a woman having an abortion even though the man wants a kid. But people hate me for not wanting to be a dad.I have sympathy for the lack of reproductive rights here, but you also made a bad choice. Women have options for a bad choice, but men do not. The choice still sounds bad. Did you wear a condom? You should care about the kid regardless of how you feel about the mother. Try to be a good dad. I wish you the best of luck. Kids need loving fathers regardless (or especially because) of the mother. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 03:28 AM |
| 10 | Google refutes pay gap, says they don't underpay women.So it seems to come down to the equivalent of the labor department saying, "Female doctors earn less," with Google responding, "Our radiologists make the same. Our plastic surgeons make the same." | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 03:23 AM |
| 1 | I just saw a commercial to sign up for the draftAnyone have a link to this commercial? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/17 02:06 AM |
| 3 | I need to write a persuasive essay for my English class, and would like to write about men's rights. Any advice on how I should write it and what to focus on.If you are new to men's issues, Cassie Jaye's new documentary The Red Pill is a good overview. I would pick 3 specific issues like circumcision, father's rights, and the prison sentencing gap. Trying to research every part of the MRM is overwhelming for a school project. Good luck. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/17 11:05 PM |
| 2 | MR's Reading Group (Week 1): Warren Farrell's "Does feminism discriminate against men? A Debate." Chps. 1-3.A separate subreddit? Please send a link. I have no problem other than I'm not sure if it will get going as a small subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/17 03:19 AM |
| 1 | From Men's Studies to Male Studies: The State of the Field (see comment)Wow. thank you for the words of encouragement. The feedback is really appreciated. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/17 03:00 AM |
| 0 | From Men's Studies to Male Studies: The State of the Field (see comment)Hi folks, I am an academic who has recently become interested in the men's movement and the "state of the field" of male studies. I am fairly new to the field, so this article is my "diving in," trying to get a grip on the issues. I would really appreciate any critique of what I got right and what I got wrong. Suggestions for further reading are welcome. Thanks for your time! | /r/MensRights | 11/04/17 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?Week 1 has begun. I decided to just pick something that was easily accessible and see if people respond. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/64gztq/mrs_reading_group_week_1_warren_farrells_does/ The reading for this week is a few excerpts from Warren Farrell "Does Feminism Discriminate against men?" Next week, somebody else can pick the choice and make the thread. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/17 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?I am deeply skeptical of the men's lib perspective. I think that viewing men's issues through the lens of feminism is a flawed perspective that doesn't approach men, men's issues, or masculinity on their own terms. It's like trying to address men's issues with feminist overlords. But that doesn't mean dialogue or interaction is a bad thing. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/17 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?I'll try something to see if it works. Please watch for a new thread posted every Sunday night. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/17 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?Yes, perhaps we could at least begin by using free and accessible pdfs. We might decide in the future to do a full book or something, but I think you're right. Asking people to buy books is unrealistic for this type of thing. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?A few free and accessible places we might start: Tom Golden has an essay on misandry: http://menaregood.com/malebash3-11.pdf (about 13 pages) Warren Farrell's cliff notes for the Myth of Male Power: http://www.warrenfarrell.org/TheBook/ There is a 3 hour audio version/interview of the Myth of Male Power: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L8Raufh8fP8 Introduction to the Feminine Mystique (about 20 pages): https://nationalhumanitiescenter.org/ows/seminars/tcentury/FeminineMystique.pdf A 32 page essa… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?It sounds like one of the big "Feminist Reader" books might help us. There are quite a few books assigned to gender studies courses that have a mixture of excerpts from notable works. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?I was thinking about this aspect as well. Personally, I like the idea of sticking to books that are easily available via kindle, because it might be a nightmare trying to get everyone to get copies of books in advance, but some of the suggestions would be great but not available via kindle. We might do something off the grid, so to speak, to make sure everyone has copies. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 05:09 PM |
| 4 | In my mind it was real.I don't get the title of this thread from the clip? Just because she didn't report it at the time, it only exists in her mind? I am confused. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Hi. I talked so much shit that someone recommended that I check out this sub.I was just relaying my impressions of the MRM. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Hi. I talked so much shit that someone recommended that I check out this sub.Those issues are definitely part of our conversation. There have been several threads over the last 2 days describing what you describe, when it comes to perceptions of active and involved fathers. Stick around, look around, and decide for yourself if this is a good place for you. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 04:04 AM |
| 6 | Hi. I talked so much shit that someone recommended that I check out this sub.We have some legit issues with the actions of feminists in the past and present, but this isn't necessarily a place to vent about feminist BS and SJWs, at least that is my impression of this sub. The "rights" part of men's rights is a serious discussion. The "sjw fail" compilations sometimes make their way into a discussion, but they are not a central focus. Regardless, welcome to you for checking us out. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?That book looks really fascinating, and I had never heard about it before. A look at the broader activities of various groups would be wonderful. I imagine that it goes into a lot of detail about the pro-feminist and anti-feminist splits that broke up the early MR movement. That would be a great book to discuss and digest, as we discuss more recent developments. Perhaps we could even get a few men's lib folks to contribute to a discussion. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?Yes, I think so, but I've never been involved in a reading club, only academic seminars (which can be hell, lol). | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?Thanks for the interest. I would definitely prefer it if the choices came from everyone involved. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/17 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Anyone interested in a MR Reading Group?I would imagine that all of us are very busy, so I wouldn't want to do the book a week thing. That's a torture reserved for overworked and underpaid graduate students. Something more along the lines of: One week could be part one (first 3 chapters) of The Myth of Male Power), or maybe each book 50 pages a week or something. There's no reason to stress anyone out. We could do a chapter a week if we wanted to do so. Thanks for the interest. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/17 11:18 PM |
| 5 | NSFL - This is what domestic violence looks likeAfter like punch 50: "Do you want to go to jail?" She answers, "For what?" Anyone know more details about the aftermath? | /r/MensRights | 08/04/17 09:47 PM |
| 11 | It's nearly impossible to find child care work as a man. (short rant)I've seen a woman rush to grab her kids from the park while walking my daughter to the park. That is the world that we live in. Because it's unusual for men to be active fathers alone with kids in kid-friendly zones, then men are immediately suspect. The world is getting silly. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/17 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Accused of Making Women Feel UmcomfortableI would just try to forget about it. Many companies are quite desperate to diversify middle and upper middle management. You'll probably go far with the company with a good work ethic, but a woman and a false accusation can absolutely destroy your prospects of advancing. It's kind of a no win scenario, because if you don't stay friendly with women, then that makes them uncomfortable as well, as if you don't value female subordinates, making them feel invisible. I agree with others that HR needs … | /r/MensRights | 08/04/17 08:27 PM |
| 11 | Daisy Tackett wants campus rape accusations to appear on transcripts so accused men can never go to collegeJust an accusation alone? If I was still a college student, then I would feel compelled to wear a body cam 24/7. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/17 12:11 AM |
| 2 | "Men's rights activists troll major science fiction award."Anyone else find it amusing that they are fighting for an award named after Gernsback, who helped bring the scifi mag into the world. Anita would lose her shit just browsing the old covers and the representations of half-naked damsels in distress, as well as the scantily clad femme fatales. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/17 10:41 PM |
| 6 | Why "feminism will not be the movement to address men's issues"I see it similar to how feminists often view the 1950s housewife. Was it a choice? Yes. Was it also influenced by societal expectations and gender roles? Yes. Was the woman a product of her time? To some extent, sure. Feminism allowed women to question their roles. Men never really did anything similar. They sucked it up, "manned up," and followed previous generations into unsafe work for lucrative pay, because they were trained to think of themselves and their worth as providers. The MRM, espec… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/17 09:52 PM |
| 10 | The Red Pill- Movie Review!!I've been watching her for a while. I had been putting her in my Dave Rubin category of anti-sjw who was peripherally interested and aware of men's rights, but not totally familiar with them. It's good that she saw the film and learned more. She's an interesting and intelligent YTer. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/17 09:10 PM |
| 9 | There’s a Hysterical, Paranoid War on Fatherhood – and It Hurts All Of Us says Martin DaubneyI experienced something similar last summer. I was walking my 5 year old daughter to the park to watch her play. A woman was there with two kids. When she saw me approaching the park, she grabbed her kids, rushed them to the car, and sat watching me at the park for about 5 minutes. She then let her kids back onto the playground and stared at me, letting me know that she was watching me like a hawk. I had no words for how angry it made me. I am a clean cut guy. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/17 08:16 PM |
| 11 | "Men's rights activists troll major science fiction award."Yes, absolutely no evidence of MRAs. Almost like MRA = Troll | /r/MensRights | 07/04/17 07:57 PM |
| – | Feminist punches guy 15 times and he REFUSES to hit back! (HD)I asked feminists if this guy should fight back or just take it. If you'd like to know how they respond: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/6410gs/should_this_guy_have_fought_back/ | /r/MensRights | 07/04/17 03:24 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW.OK. Most feminists and casual posters tune out when I ask this question. I'm just asking for an open opportunity for you to criticize patriarchy in the non-western world. That's all. But the joking comment also puts me off guard because I'm not sure if you are serious. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/17 04:50 AM |
| 2 | MGTOW.Liv47, Please criticize Islamic patriarchy and the treatment of women in the Middle East. Tell us why those societies are unjust. Tell us why Muslim women are oppressed due to radical Islam. Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/17 04:11 AM |
| 3 | MGTOW.That isn't sad at all. More voices and perspectives, please. What one person calls a troll is another person's truth teller. Free speech is a good thing. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/17 04:08 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW.I always say that I can sympathize with the group to a certain extent. I suspect that a big chunk of MGTOWs are men who feel burned from a relationship or divorce. They may have very legitimate reasons to be very angry, and perhaps there is some therapeutic value to the venting, just as maybe there was with misandry and radical lesbian feminism. But, I usually can't stand the amount of misogyny that MGTOWs show with "All women are gold diggers... Women manipulate... secretly plot... etc. etc." S… | /r/MensRights | 06/04/17 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Please help me find footage of anti-male sexism on cable newsIt's not real news, but I threw together some misandry clips from HBO's Newsroom. https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/694365956108984324 | /r/MensRights | 06/04/17 10:10 PM |
| 10 | Are Women Who Are Pro Men's Rights Allowed To Post And Comment Here?Of course. Welcome to the sub. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you defend the stance that we do not live in a rape culture in non muslim first world countries?https://www.minds.com/archive/view/695340613263958025 | /r/MensRights | 04/04/17 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Feminism will apparently solve all men's issues, according to this feministI wrote a response, if anyone is interested. https://www.minds.com/blog/view/695713398502989839 | /r/MensRights | 03/04/17 08:02 PM |
| 19 | College plans to fire professor who taught 'Men in Literature' classAnyone know what the actual compliance request is? This guy needs to be on a show with J Peterson before the college fires him. He better speak out, or he's toast. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/17 12:48 AM |
| 2 | A Brief Lesson in the Differences Between Men's GroupsYou could become a very influential and important voice in this movement. You seem honest, intelligent, and fair. That is what many of us hope for, in terms of people simply speaking up for men. You may fall victim to a backlash of sorts: "Why does it take a woman to be listened to..." Personally, I was very surprised that you knew the great details and nuances of the movement, yet I had never heard of you. You seem different, in terms of an anti-SJW YTer. You've done your research, and you sort… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/17 04:12 AM |
| 3 | A Brief Lesson in the Differences Between Men's GroupsHi. I was searching for "men's rights" videos posted on YT today. I didn't see your earlier post on the MR subreddit. It's a great video, and thank you for doing it. Sorry for the double posting. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/17 03:53 AM |
| 3 | My Frustration with the Conflation of Different Men's Groups (Video)Sorry, I didn't see this thread before posting a link to the video. This is an important video. Please keep making these types of videos. Your insights are greatly appreciated and needed. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/17 03:50 AM |
| 6 | Plymouth University student has been denied the chance to set up a "men's rights" forum - because they do not suffer discriminationI can't think of any other demographic that would be dropping out of school as a minority of graduates, yet have no sympathy when it comes to a focus group at a college. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/17 02:23 AM |
| 8 | Bridgegate scandal: Same exact convictions, same judge, same case. Man gets two years, woman gets 18 months. It's so blatant at this point.18 months vs. 24 months is progress compared to the 63 percent stat. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/17 02:20 AM |
| 32 | Student has grade docked for using 'mankind' in English paperPoints taken for diction by an English professor who doesn't understand the roots of a term from Old English. Is anyone really surprised? College has turned into day care, if the students aren't expected to know, while the admins cater lessons to their potential feelings due to their misunderstanding of a term. But, to be fair, the term itself now has nonsense and contradictory dictionary definitions based on. A. The correct usage of the term B. The more recent incorrect way that feminists hear … | /r/MensRights | 30/03/17 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Why Should I Give A Fuck About Women's Rights? They Don't Give A Fuck About MineIf you believe in gender equality, then it shouldn't matter who ignores whom. Human rights are human rights. We can make a good case for importance of both men's and women's rights. Saying that men "have none" is ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/17 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW to the MRM what Radical Separatist Feminists were to the Second Wave?But how is dating part of the "system"? What if you just become friends and fall in love naturally? You gained nothing from a longer term emotional companion? Was she actually an emotional and psychological companion? Very interesting points here. I am really trying to understand, and I recognize that you are taking a moderate position. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/17 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Is the Red Pill Movie REAL?This is a great listen. It's sort of like listening to a man who simply begins to ask some really important questions. We all know many of the answers, but seeing the self-awareness is fascinating. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/17 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Is MGTOW to the MRM what Radical Separatist Feminists were to the Second Wave?Thank you for this response. I can understand the contractual part of your answer, but you also including dating/marriage in the risk of sanity here. What is it about dating that is comparable to a bad contract or one-sided legal contract? I guess the part about MGTOW that I understand and sympathize with most are marriage and divorce. But, what is it about simply having a loving woman in your life is to be rejected? Sure, political lesbianism was a political choice, but at least there was some … | /r/MensRights | 28/03/17 12:52 AM |
| 7 | If you guys called it "men's issues" instead of "men's rights" I don't think anyone would have a problem with itOk so still make a list. What options do men have and what options do women have? Please put yourself in the position of either. What options do they have? Just please make a list of the options. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/17 07:07 AM |
| 3 | If you guys called it "men's issues" instead of "men's rights" I don't think anyone would have a problem with itMen are sentenced to 63% longer prison terms for committing the same crimes as women. How do we address that inequality? You can please check my source here. How do we address it? | /r/MensRights | 25/03/17 06:57 AM |
| 5 | If you guys called it "men's issues" instead of "men's rights" I don't think anyone would have a problem with itPlease make a list of male options. Now make a list of female options, regarding an unwanted child. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/17 06:39 AM |
| 1 | If you guys called it "men's issues" instead of "men's rights" I don't think anyone would have a problem with itDo you agree that people should not be treated differently due to issues of sex, gender, race, religion, sexuality, or anything else you'd like to add to the list? Can we proceed from there? Do we agree on that principle and that discrimination and inequality is wrong? | /r/MensRights | 25/03/17 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Male chick lives matterhuh? | /r/MensRights | 25/03/17 06:31 AM |
| 3 | If you guys called it "men's issues" instead of "men's rights" I don't think anyone would have a problem with itWould you like us to list the specifics rights issues? | /r/MensRights | 25/03/17 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Banned from LateStageCapitalism because...Sounds like a Marxist sub, so censorship and suppressing dissent is not surprising. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Ideas for an Op-Ed?There are many liberal MRAs. I wouldn't classify the movement as opposed to classical liberalism. If anything, it takes certain principles of egalitarianism to the logical degree. But, the topic might still count since it is unconventional. Have you watched The Red Pill documentary yet? You can rent it on YT, itunes, etc. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Teen ran into a church half-naked and claimed she was gang raped by black men but that’s not really what happenedI find it difficult to even speculate about what she was thinking her. Could she have been trying to scare her boyfriend from shipping off? | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 07:23 PM |
| 6 | Angel Soft put out a nice father/daughter commercial."men are the worst." "Yep," says the good and loving father. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 06:02 PM |
| 7 | How do MRAs feel about the insult "cuck"?I'm not sure that I totally understand how the term is thrown around. On the one hand, it seems like an insult to men who aren't manly enough. On the other hand, the men's rights movement questions and critiques those traditional notions of manliness. I feel like it's more of a MGTOW term tossed around these parts, but maybe I'm wrong. There is nothing wrong with men not "manning up," but this term seems to be thrown at white knights for not doing so. So I am confused. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 03:58 AM |
| 4 | Banned from r/feminismMaybe test it. Claim to be a feminist and make a defense of the stay at home mom as noble and a vital contributor to family. See how they respond, although they are probably monitoring this thread now. Would they tolerate that kind of "internalized misogyny"? | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 03:53 AM |
| 5 | Banned from r/feminismCan you imagine the gift of the following: Big Red decides to make a YouTube channel and broadcast to the world. It would be a glorious gift. She'd probably make some money by providing material for endless commentary. I welcome her to speak more and more and more, please for all time. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 03:50 AM |
| 21 | Banned from r/feminismYeah, that subreddit does more to confirm anti-feminist suspicions about their intolerance for dissenting views than any other sub. They are a treasure trove of intolerance, when it comes to diversity of ideas. And that is telling, if we wish to extend it to the broader movement. They basically like to shoot themselves in the feet to prove the points of anti-feminists. For that, the anti-feminists are grateful. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Who says size doesn't matter?I really don't understand why this post is here. I envy the guy's cock though. It's impressive. But still not sure what this has to do with men's rights. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 02:27 AM |
| 16 | Asking about Men's Rights at an SJW club.No problem. Welcome to the discussion. Can you tell us more about what this club was about? Is it a high school? No personal details needed. I'm just curious as to the purpose and type of place of the meeting, and whether the "hate" comments came from a teacher or authority figure. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 01:56 AM |
| 6 | Denver Post warns that rebooting the Matrix helps the "alt right men's rights movement," so therefore it's a bad idea.PS. You've got to read the absolutely ridiculous description of the MRM in this article. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/17 01:11 AM |
| 5 | Female Teachers Having Sex With Male Students Does Cause HarmFirst sentence really needs citations and examples. Any specific examples of well known feminists who say child molestation does no harm if done by a woman to a boy? | /r/MensRights | 15/03/17 08:16 PM |
| 6 | USA male infant genital mutilation rates by states.Why so much lower in Western state? | /r/MensRights | 15/03/17 08:12 PM |
| 9 | Debate on Australian Television: Have men become second class citizens?The feminist was so obnoxious, as was the male host. Thanks for posting. Any dialogue on TV is better than no dialogue. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/17 08:06 PM |
| – | Female Advocating for Men's Rights?um, you will find many female voices here. If somehow a female voice is important in convincing you, then you may find one. I guess start with the honey badgers, although I'm not sure why your vagina matters. The fact that you have a vagina doesn't matter. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/17 06:05 AM |
| 6 | How do MRAs explain this study revealing gender bias against women in STEM?At best this study documented unconscious biases on the part of search committees, not systemic discrimination. They have to spin it multiple times to try to make the point about systemic discrimination on the part of search committees. Still, that stuff means something, if true. I would like to see a similar study surrounding race to see how a white male candidate fares in liberal arts compared to a black woman with a similar resume. There is enough of this stuff to go around. What, in the end,… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/17 04:22 AM |
| 2 | idiotsWhat? | /r/MensRights | 15/03/17 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Unrepentant Rapist Amy Schumer's Netflix Special Trashed In ReviewsI made it about 8 minutes into the Netflix special. This was really bad, if the whole thing is like the first 10 minutes. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/17 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Is this the world's first 'guybrator'?It doesn't really sound like anything new. Just marketing spin. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/17 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Sign the petition in the comments!If we adopt the same tactics of the enemy, then we can't point to their tactics as evidence of how easily social justice slides into the totalitarian left. It's not about taking the high ground, if we are fighting to preserve freedom, critical thinking, and intellectual diversity. I'd rather lose the war than abandon the principles and ideals that led me to the MRM. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/17 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Discussion question. What are /r/MensRights thoughts on the concept of "toxic masculinity" and how gender roles play into systematic discrimination against men?Thanks. That's very interesting. I found this particular quotation revealing for some of the similarities to MRA critiques of patriarchy: "I want to reject the concept of patriarchy as at best a muddled term simply mean women’s oppression (in which case it cannot explain this oppression), and at worst a completely idealist notion which has no basis in material reality. I want to show that it is not men who “benefit” from the oppression of women but capital. I want to look at the way in which the… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/17 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Radfem equates science, atheism, and objectivity with patriarchal (and evil) male thinking; Praises her own intuition, non-Western truths, and psychic abilities.I know it will not surprise you, but she also considers Valerie Solanas to be one of the most important feminist voices of the second wave. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/17 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Sign the petition in the comments!If the universities were places with a large diversity of thinking and perspectives, then it's not indoctrination to listen to a feminist before going to your crazy libertarian guy's history class. Colleges should be places for critical thinking. Trying to police the podium is not. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/17 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Petition: Publicly Apologize and Resign for Slandering Cassie Jaye's Documentary "The Red Pill"Same post literally 5 posts down. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/17 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Discussion question. What are /r/MensRights thoughts on the concept of "toxic masculinity" and how gender roles play into systematic discrimination against men?Do Marxist feminists object to patriarchy because it places gender above class? If so, what distinguishes Marxist feminism from simply Marxism? | /r/MensRights | 14/03/17 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Sign the petition in the comments!I disagree with adopting the tactics of SJWs. An apology for slander would be nice, but getting her to resign is similar to how some professors were treated during the era of McCarthyism. She has a right to say whatever dumb or incorrect crap she wants to say. Or, it's similar to how people are trying to get Dr. Peterson to resign. Free speech comes with delusional and crazy professors. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/17 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Are Mens Rights Shoved Under The Rug & Ignored/Laughed at?Very interesting video and perspective. I'll sub on YT. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/17 09:11 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill (The Movie)I would suggest giving her a few days to process the information. Then try to have a conversation that starts with: "So, we both agree that gender equality is the ultimate goal. How can we go about solving both the problems of men and women? How can we be allies here?" See how that goes. If she dismisses men's issues as unimportant, then you might have a pretty significant relationship hurdle. But talking it through might also make the relationship stronger. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/17 09:06 PM |
| 7 | Discussion question. What are /r/MensRights thoughts on the concept of "toxic masculinity" and how gender roles play into systematic discrimination against men?I'll bite too. I'll go with the google definition: "Toxic masculinity is one of the ways in which Patriarchy is harmful to men. It refers to the socially-constructed attitudes that describe the masculine gender role as violent, unemotional, sexually aggressive, and so forth." This concept is flawed to most MRAs, particularly since many of us do not see the concept of patriarchy as a useful conceptual tool, and it doesn't match the reality of how society has treated non-elite men, especially duri… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/17 08:51 PM |
| 25 | Calgary Professor Rebecca Sullivan Explains Men's Rights Movement to CBCSomebody pays her for her knowledge. Isn't that scary? The amount of nonsense and misinformation is way off the scale here. The scale is broken. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 07:38 PM |
| 7 | The Film Feminists Don’t Want You to SeeAn interesting article, but it gets so much of the terminology and stats wrong. Still, it's interesting to see a sympathetic reaction from somebody who encountered a lot of new information. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 06:46 PM |
| 1 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadYou are citing me a 1918 law when universal male suffrage happened for many decades prior. You are missing my point here. If you want to say that women were gifted the vote, well so too were men prior to 1918. That these obligations were later imposed after the fact is a separate issue. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Lauren Southern leaves RebelI don't understand the support among folks who think she's turning neo-nazi or something. I've never really liked Rebel, but I like Southern. It's just a bit disturbing to watch from the sidelines, when there are a lot of people cheering her own for leaving some kind of Jewish conspiracy or what not. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Re: The Red Pill Movie.. Do men need shelters though?I disagree. I've seen a woman reduce a man to a complete shell of his former self through passive aggressiveness, emotional violence, and outright daily misandry. Surely, we care about that stuff too. Women can be especially powerful in this realm of psychological warfare. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 05:14 AM |
| 3 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadI think that there is a number 4: The women who truly are inspired by the definition and cause, yet don't pay an ounce of attention to what any of these other folks do. They can be very rational and sympathetic allies, especially when they don't know what the hell tumblr is. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 05:10 AM |
| 0 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadI think that we agree on more than we disagree on. But the two (the vote and selective service) did not go hand in hand until many decades after universal male suffrage. Yes, the male package could include a lot of duties, obligations, and sacrifices, but nothing was specific until the 20th century. "Even that is too much to ask." Agreed. But I might suggest to you that the MRM are the first generation of men actually asking or questioning the expectations placed on men. Many generations of men … | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 04:57 AM |
| 1 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadI think that the lack of a challenge was simply men manning up as men always had done so. It wasn't challenged until somebody recognized the societal obligations of men as potentially unfair. This was a burden placed on men, and they marched willingly toward their deaths. But I don't think it was a conscious trade-off for a right to vote. If anything, it was men fulfilling a long duty of chivalry. The vote was kind of meaningless when it came to traditions of self-sacrifice, bravery, and stupidi… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 04:40 AM |
| 1 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadBut the civil war draft was very different, IMO. It of course depends on whether we're talking about North v. South, state by state. There were vast numbers of men on both sides who could vote and avoid military service. I don't think many people connected the two things together at the time. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Re: The Red Pill Movie.. Do men need shelters though?I get where you're coming from, but perhaps something should be said here about emotional and verbal violence that can demoralize men. It's not all about physical force. There is sustained, long-term emotional and psychological abuse that hurts men. Breaking it down to a knife fight may obscure the truth here. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 04:27 AM |
| 2 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadThis only applies to British men when universal male suffrage followed the Great War (and maybe Canadian men). The Supreme Court ruling, if I recall, also came down during a time of war. Wasn't it like 1940ish? There was no reciprocal duty imposed on men that combined voting rights and military service prior to the Great War draft in the US. Yes, you are right that the connection has grown over time, particularly between 1917 and 1974. But to say that men were drafted with the vote while women w… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 04:05 AM |
| 7 | Calling Out Dr. Michael Kimmel's BS on MRAs being against domestic violence shelters for women (?)One of the shelters in my Texas town is using hotel vouchers now. It would be interesting to know if the vouchers are preemptive due to the California lawsuit, or if it is a genuine concern for men on the part of these organizations. Thank you again for the info. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 03:33 AM |
| -1 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadOf course, but the other narrative can be equally problematic. To claim that voting came with societal obligations for men to serve while it was "gifted to women" is equally problematic. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 03:23 AM |
| 1 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadYes, you are correct. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 02:33 AM |
| 7 | Calling Out Dr. Michael Kimmel's BS on MRAs being against domestic violence shelters for women (?)Thank you, Karen. This is a fascinating story. You left us on a cliff hanger about the verdict there. Thanks for chiming in. If anyone remembers a specific HBR episode that covers this in detail, please share the link. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 02:20 AM |
| 1 | 1 in 6 american women has been victims of attempted or completed rape, any explanation why the percentage that high ?I don't think that is the case for this particular study. Its definition of rape is straightforward. It does conflate rapes and attempted rape through the threat of violence. But it doesn't explain whether the threat is spoken or assumed due to body language. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 10:58 PM |
| 1 | 1 in 6 american women has been victims of attempted or completed rape, any explanation why the percentage that high ?It is a CDC study, but not the later 2010 study that conflates sex and alcohol with a lack of consent. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 10:39 PM |
| 2 | 1 in 6 american women has been victims of attempted or completed rape, any explanation why the percentage that high ?https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles/172837.pdf for the full study. It was, and I'm quoting from the pdf: a telephone survey of 8,000 women and 8,000 men about their experiences with rape, physical assault, and stalking "Although the survey sampled both women and men, this report focuses on women’s experiences with violence." (in fact, I don't think they even asked men about sexual assault or rape) So, it is often wondered how the questions were catered to reigning assumptions about DV as a gendered i… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 10:28 PM |
| 3 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadIt depends on what we count as the beginning. By around the 1830s, almost every state had universal male suffrage without property requirements. Now, in practice, it was restricted to European-Americans. The 19th amendment would happen almost 100 years later, which expanded the federal vote to women, although by that point, many many states had passed female suffrage, and some women land-owners had been voting since 1800. I'm just saying that the Britain model is quite convenient for MRAs, espec… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 10:00 PM |
| 3 | 1 in 6 american women has been victims of attempted or completed rape, any explanation why the percentage that high ?This particularly citation is attributed to the CDC | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 09:44 PM |
| 3 | 1 in 6 american women has been victims of attempted or completed rape, any explanation why the percentage that high ?I've tried to track this one down before. Their full citation: National Institute of Justice & Centers for Disease Control & Prevention, Prevalence, Incidence and Consequences of Violence Against Women Survey (1998). (Statistic presents information on the total number of male and female victims in the United States, using a study from 1998. Because the U.S. population has increased substantially since then, it is probable that the number of victims has, as well. RAINN presents this data for educ… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Re: The Red Pill Movie.. Do men need shelters though?Anyone know of any stats on the number of DV shelters that offer men some degree of services. I know in my area, there is a shelter for women that will put men up in a cheap hotel or a donated room of a house. I'm curious how common that is. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 07:12 PM |
| 3 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadI think we need to be careful here. This chronology applies particularly to Great Britain and Canada, if I recall. Universal male suffrage existed for a much longer time in the US, depending on the state, black codes, 14th and 15th amendments, etc. It was at least on paper, if not enforced at the state level. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 07:05 PM |
| 15 | Re: The Red Pill Movie.. Do men need shelters though?Your ex is stating one of the many poor justifications, which typically say that men should simply take it, man up, or rely on physical strength. A large percentage of male victims of domestic violence do not fight back. They are taught from an early age that the worst thing that a man can do is hit a woman, even in self-defense. So your example here kind of proves the point. Women have a safe place to go. Men are just expected to take it or sleep in a car. Or, they are expected to "man up," bec… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Pretty underwhelmed by The Red Pill.I actually partially agree with the OP when it comes to father's rights. There is just so much reliance on individual horror stories and anecdotes, but I grow frustrated when trying to break down the 81-83% custody gap stats, just trying to see what percentage is due to the choices that men make, or the amount of dead beat dads. The same way we can break down the alleged gender wage gap can be applied to the custody gender gap, but I rarely see links posted to studies. Nevertheless, much of what… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 06:01 PM |
| 10 | r/mensrights and r/feminism taking the high roadSome of us have been desperate to find moderate feminists willing to listen, as there are many of us that take women's rights seriously. There is common ground, if both sides are serious about gender equality. Thanks for posting. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/17 05:54 PM |
| 8 | Radio Interview with Cassie Jaye, Maker of "The Red Pill"This was quality journalism and a great interview. Thanks for posting it. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/17 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Hey guys, help me find some posters.The closest thing to a poster that I can think of is Harry Crouch's wall of stats, as seen in the 2nd preview trailer for the red pill. You might look at some of the CAFE billboards, but I'm not convinced that their 50/50 stat on DV is accurate. I am more persuaded by the 40/60 percent. Please update us on the posters and any reactions from other students. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/17 02:11 AM |
| 3 | TIL in 1968 a feminist wrote a public manifesto proposing that "all men must be exterminated". Then she shot several times Andy Warhol almost killing him. She was freed after only 3 years and continued to stalk and threaten Andy Warhol. Feminist organizations praise her even todayI recently made a review of the SCUM Manifesto for YT. You might enjoy it, if you can tolerate the robot voice. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwMKBD61oy4 | /r/MensRights | 10/03/17 03:01 AM |
| 1 | WE DID IT! 'The Red Pill' is the #1 documentary on Google Play!!It's also now on YouTube for rent | /r/MensRights | 09/03/17 07:53 PM |
| 3 | [Question] What is the best way to buy The Red Pill Documentary to show support to the makers?I'm not sure what is available in the UK. Amazon.com is now streaming it for rent. It's on YouTube, Vudu, Vimeo, itunes, etc. I would check amazon.uk. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/17 07:51 PM |
| 17 | WE DID IT! 'The Red Pill' is the #1 documentary on Google Play!!It would be very nice if mods or somebody comprised a fully comprehensive sticky on anywhere and everywhere to digitally download, with links and price points. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/17 03:11 AM |
| 2 | "The Red Pill" opens at number 6 of Amazon's dvd top-selling documentariesWow. number 3 now. Awesome. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/17 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Interesting: To Prove Gender Bias, a University Had a Male Actor Read Hillary's Debate Lines, and a Female Actor Read Trump's. The Results Were...UnexpectedI'm not really sure how Trump was the antithesis of liberal policies. Anti-nafta, anti-globalism, pro-infastructure and American jobs, and perhaps the most openly pro-LGBT republican I've ever seen in my lifetime... oh yeah and anti-neocon. What exactly besides the pick of Pence made him so conservative? | /r/MensRights | 08/03/17 02:09 PM |
| 10 | "The Red Pill" opens at number 6 of Amazon's dvd top-selling documentariesAny source here? I see it in stock. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/17 05:09 AM |
| 6 | "The Red Pill" opens at number 6 of Amazon's dvd top-selling documentariesBreitbart listed all of the ways to rent it for $5 digitally. It involves sites like itunes, vunu, and vimeo. Still, not netflix. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/17 05:09 AM |
| 10 | Interesting: To Prove Gender Bias, a University Had a Male Actor Read Hillary's Debate Lines, and a Female Actor Read Trump's. The Results Were...UnexpectedThis was really fascinating, and I'd like to see the full debate. I had leaned toward Bernie for a while, and then I leaned toward Trump with reservations. But watching this gender swap was incredibly revealing about Clinton v. Trump. Every liberal I know would have voted for the female version of Trump, and that is telling. And now Guardian unlisted it, which is also telling. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | History behind sentencing gap/double standards in custody disputes and trialsWiki is so outdated now that it almost requires html knowledge of text codes. I tried it once and was very discouraged. It's not like a blog post or word doc. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/17 03:52 AM |
| 7 | "Don’t trust everything you read in the psychology literature. In fact, two thirds of it should probably be distrusted." Women vastly outnumber men in psychology. Men have complained about discrimination. More diversity would improve the quality of the science.It is interesting that a new journal of New Male Studies that is the most sympathetic and supportive of Men's Rights has a ton of psychology folks. I've been wondering about the connections there. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/17 03:49 AM |
| 2 | History behind sentencing gap/double standards in custody disputes and trialsThe history of the sentencing gap may be something that has never warranted much study. A feminist might blame the patriarchy, while a MRA might point to a long tradition of double standards. We don't even have a wikipedia page on the sentencing gap, so I'm not sure how you'll approach it historically. The tender years doctrine will help you with the history of custody disparities. Also, check out a YT video by Vanessa Fischer on the "Angel in the House." It goes into the historical "moral super… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/17 01:57 AM |
| 11 | Oklahoma abortions: Women may need partners' permissionThe part about this that I don't understand: What prevents a woman from getting some random signature from a male friend granting her abortion rights? There doesn't seem to be a mechanism to determine paternity unless a man contests the paternity. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/17 02:11 PM |
| 2 | SJW Nonsense- BGVotM Feb2017- Male Gaze Theory Is Even Crazier Than You ThoughtIt's pretty shocking to see how something so crazy yet academically fashionable can become so influential. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | The Scum Manifesto (A Review)Hi. I just wanted to share my review of the Scum Manifesto. Sorry for the audio quality. Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 13/02/17 01:19 AM |
| 3 | 12 year old uses adult dating site says she's 18. Meets a 25 year old, he touches her in his truck, next day she calls sexual assault. Thoughts?I find it pretty difficult to believe that a 12 year old could pass as 18, but I'm sure that there are examples out there. I feel like any guy who hooks up with a girl claiming to be 22 asks to see an ID or determines age due to other factors. At this point, I don't blame men for carding a 28 year old woman. He has so much to lose for not being careful. I still get carded for alcohol, and I am way beyond 28. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/17 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Oh so sensitive they areStarting a family can be a good thing. Employers should be expected to treat pregnant women with consideration and respect. I don't get the issue here. If conservatives value the family, then they should value the economic security of the family and its mother. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/17 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Canada: Have you been sexually assaulted? The Globe and Mail wants to hear your story. Will they share men's stories?Somebody please send this one to the Honey Badgers and CAFE. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/17 03:45 AM |
| 2 | "How successful were the Bolsheviks in achieving gender equality?"Conclusion is that communism was very successful in the public sphere, but not as successful in penetrating, monitoring, and regulating the private activities of the home. So the implied critique is pretty revealing. Maybe they would have had more success with those two way TVs in 1984. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/17 03:43 AM |
| 6 | We're growing on youtube, compared to feminismBut that is far more true for feminism. I usually do a weekly search for "men's rights" and most of what is there is MRM or MGTOW. Do a weekly search for "feminism" and it's full of sjw cringe compilations and mostly anti-feminism videos. I find the numbers hard to believe though, because the daily upload of "feminism" tagged video far outpaces the number of "men's rights" videos. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/17 03:39 AM |
| 26 | My professor brought up the wage gap today.. in a totally irrelevant class.Virtue signaling as a way to insert humor into the classroom | /r/MensRights | 09/02/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | What "male privileges" can we identify?OK, if there is a format that you prefer, please let me know. I associate the men's lib crowd with insta censorship and banning if you don't tout the party line. But, if there is a place to have an honest and open conversation, I'm all for it. Basically, you are coming across enemy lines with deep prospects for how your party may treat you. What can I do to make you just speak your mind? | /r/MensRights | 09/02/17 05:31 AM |
| 2 | What "male privileges" can we identify?Yes I do. The basic premise of Marxist dogma is the oppressed working class vs. the oppressive industrial class. The basic premise of 1st wave feminism is the oppressed women vs. the privileged male hierarchy. There is a very clear parallel in the rhetoric, images, and the ideology. They substitute the working class with women in general. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/17 05:17 AM |
| 1 | What "male privileges" can we identify?So let us have a healthy discussion. You have been fairly guarded and cryptic about things. Can we let the guard down and talk about stuff? | /r/MensRights | 09/02/17 05:12 AM |
| 1 | What "male privileges" can we identify?I appreciate your perspective here, but it's hard for me to sympathize with men's lib, when patriarchy theory and gender studies are so heavily stacked against an honest and open discussion about men, as framed by men, and not framed by feminist overlords. I find this sub to be more honest and open. By "red pill" do you mean the red pill subreddit or a general philosophy? The lack of moderation and the pro-active attitude toward free speech keep me attracted to this sub. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/17 05:00 AM |
| 1 | What "male privileges" can we identify?This is a very interesting response. I am confused about you comment that feminism is anti-socialist. Can you please explain? I see a lot of similarities between patriarchy theory and Marxist theory. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/17 04:51 AM |
| 1 | What "male privileges" can we identify?Are you making a distinction here between MRAs and more of a men's lib crowd that has been pro-feminist at least in methodology? Or are you referencing general egalitarians vs. MRAs? Sorry, also trying to understand the get a feel here. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/17 03:23 AM |
| 1 | What "male privileges" can we identify?I get your link, but I'm not looking for examples from MSM or the ways that society discusses alleged male privilege. If anything, MRAs are very good at debunking most of what is called male privilege. I am rather asking what a MRA would list as legit male privileges if they also want to argue that both sexes experience both discrimination and some degree of privilege. I am perfectly capable of googling the nonsense misandry that is out there. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/17 03:14 AM |
| 3 | What "male privileges" can we identify?I've always heard that meninism is a parody movement, not a serious discussion about gender expectations, cultural beliefs, etc. The serious side has always been attributed to the MRM or simply the "men's movement." | /r/MensRights | 08/02/17 10:57 PM |
| 1 | What "male privileges" can we identify?I really agree with your last sentence here, before you edited the post. I rarely hear MRAs discuss what might make the list. For example, men have the privilege of going topless in public places, or a presumption of authority when speaing, or as earlier noted, a presumption of competence. I was thinking about what might have gone right with feminism as a movement for equality if they had embraced joint custody or had an honest conversation about female privileges. So, I am hoping to have an ope… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/17 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Found this on one of my city's most popular community Facebook groups. I was pleasantly surprised by the OP getting served with logic rather than blind leftist support typical of the group.I don't understand this post. Yeah, women can act like men. We are all human. I didn't see the "logic rather than blind leftist support." | /r/MensRights | 05/02/17 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Justice Democrats respond to my email about men's rights issues in their platformI just looked up the wiki page to know what a "justice democrat" was. This is the same SJW nonsense that got Trump elected. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/17 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Can men's rights and feminism coexist?My response to your question will probably be divisive among other MRAs, but I came to this movement as a male feminist trying very hard to debunk the MRM claims and stats, only to experience a red pill journey of sorts. Let's put a few things first. MRAs tend to understand both the history of feminism and feminist talking points much better than most everyday feminists. I think there are a lot of feminists out there who do truly believe that the standard definition of "equality of the sexes" is… | /r/MensRights | 04/02/17 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Need to vent. I'm devastated.But what is in the best interests of the child? If conservatives want to believe in the rights of an unborn child, surely they should believe in the best interests of a 5 year old, regardless of the mother. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/17 04:55 AM |
| 3 | From the Chancellor of UC Berkeley: Good on them...Yes, where was the protection that was paid for, in this case? I haven't seen much of any footage that involved university police or police in general during the most violent stuff. They charged the college republicans $7000 for maybe 4 hours of enhanced security. Anyone have video evidence of that protection? | /r/MensRights | 03/02/17 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Need to vent. I'm devastated.Are you really advocating for the death of an illegit child? What kind of monster are you? | /r/MensRights | 03/02/17 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Need to vent. I'm devastated.If she knows you as daddy, you are daddy to her. You are in a lot of pain, but try to remember that to her, you are daddy. That makes you daddy. In that sense, she is your daughter and always will be. What's best for her is what you need to fight for. You are a father, even if not technically her biological father. Does she even know anyone else? | /r/MensRights | 03/02/17 04:17 AM |
| 8 | So I'm a liberal...Lots of liberals and former feminists here. You've only begun the journey of discovery. Please continue. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/17 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Quebec mosque shooter was a "loner" and "Internet troll."I keep trying to follow the sources here, since the police haven't said much. Many times it keeps going to different french sites or sites that seem like small blogs that just assert his anti-feminism and pro-Trump beliefs as fact without showing any evidence of those beliefs. They just reference so and so says... Is it plausible? Of course. But I can't help but see an intent for some journalists to assume that he was a right winger white nationalist. And they throw in the anti-feminism as if th… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/17 02:53 AM |
| 2 | I don't like leftist MRAsI agree with you to a certain extent, but does it not seem reasonable that tradition tends to last longer due to tradition, while leftist experiments in social justice can go horribly wrong very quickly? Perhaps it's all part of the process of trying something new. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/17 05:25 AM |
| 6 | I don't like leftist MRAsI'm sorry, but I am having trouble following the reasoning here. Let me put it to you simply: Do you believe that men and women are human beings, and that all human beings should have equal rights under the law? Regarding you last quote, I advocate for a female draft. I believe that men and women should be treated equally under the law. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/17 05:12 AM |
| 9 | I don't like leftist MRAsHuman beings should not be treated differently due to race, gender, sexual identity, class, etc. etc. I know that I could be accused of falling back on some kind of textbook definition, but I've honestly never met another MRA who wasn't also an egalitarian. Do you disagree with that original statement as a men's rights advocate? | /r/MensRights | 30/01/17 04:54 AM |
| 8 | I don't like leftist MRAsThe left is not a monolithic group. Many of us will claim ties to the Enlightenment, the expansion of democracy, and the flourishing of human rights in the Western world. Yes, you are identifying some very extremist turns like the Russian Revolution. But, leftists also deserve credit for the creation and expansion of egalitarianism. If you are a MRA, I would expect that you like the concept of egalitarianism. However misguided at times, the left pursues that goal, even if the methods are tragic … | /r/MensRights | 30/01/17 04:41 AM |
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