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“Why do you never say I Love You first?” were the exact words. Yeah, ultimately I think I ingrained too much of a TRP type mindset that I forget about comfort tests, and the fact that you have to balance some Beta in for LTR comfort
/r/askTRP08/10/19 03:18 AM
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It's only 45 minutes away. Go if you want to go and feel free to stay as long as you're comfortable. I have no other info on the dynamic of your relationship so it's up to you if it's appropriate. If you're neutral about it but it's something she would value highly, considering doing it to improve your relationship.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 03:01 AM
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What? I’m just asking what you’d do.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 03:13 AM
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I've never been good at maintaining more than one plate at a time. When i meet a new girl I tend to lose all interest /ghost the previous ones. So I'm not sure what else to call it when I'm just seeing one girl at a time
/r/askTRP14/11/17 05:10 PM
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If you have an extra room in your house where you can take her to watch a movie, that's ideal. That's what i did. No pushback from parents because it wasn't like I was taking her to my bedroom, so plausible deniability
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:36 AM
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How are we supposed to answer this? I usually go for slim but not skin tight.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:47 PM
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If you can't get over it then you don't deal with her
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:15 PM
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"So what do ya think, could I go platinum?" Have fun with it, stop taking yourself so seriously, and keep maintaining frame.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:04 PM
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Just some bad oneitis. Go sleep with 10 girls or get a couple plates and you won't have time to even think about her.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:06 PM
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Hormones are likely not your problem, but doing active/masculine things can help your confidence. Start slow, you don't have to go for the kill right away. That is, just start by saying hi to X amount of girls per day or week. Then chatting with X amount per day, up to getting numbers. It also helps to adopt an IDGAF mentality in general - nothing you do really matters and even if you embarrass yourself people you'll never meet again will forget you by the end of the day. There are plenty of pos…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:04 PM
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Did you link the right post? I don't see what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:59 PM
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Dude took it up the ass then decided he wasn't feelin it
/r/askTRP06/11/17 03:01 AM
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It's been known to be associated with increased testosterone, which is associated with hair loss
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:26 PM
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Don't be a tool for no reason. Try bartending or bouncing? Both increase your SMV as well.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:22 PM
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Are you talking to HB8+ when you go out? If you're not having success then improve your game/SMV. But you have to have the confidence to go for them first, can't expect them to fall in your lap
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:48 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP05/11/17 07:52 PM
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What's LARPing?
/r/askTRP05/11/17 07:46 PM
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By knowing how to handle shittests you're miles ahead of most guys she talks to, who probably freeze up or or get defensive
/r/askTRP05/11/17 06:15 PM
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Saw you made a new post as well but I'll respond here. I agree with most of this list Cold showers What is this supposed to do? I honestly don't know supplements In my opinion a waste of money. I don't believe there's really any studies that show supplements (esp vitamins) are necessary or have an effect be more relaxed Easier said than done. You could try mindfulness meditation. I never had the patience but many people report success, not just for the bedroom but in all of life
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:57 PM
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Understand that a man needs to put himself and his respect for himself first. It's his mission and she's along for the ride. But TRP is not about what a woman can do. It's about what men can do to improve themselves and their relationships
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:55 PM
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Punish what the fuck? Just do whatever you want. If you don't want wine, pick up something that you want. If just she wants wine she can get it herself
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:53 PM
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Ok man. TRP isn't about rolling through random pussy for the rest of your life. It's about doing whatever the fuck you want, and whatever makes you happy. If you want to be in a relationship then do it. If it doesn't work, you can end it and find someone else or go back to plating or whatever. But don't make getting into an LTR a priority. Evaluate the girl first and then decide if she's LTR worthy. Making your goal to get a girlfriend is how you end up unhappy with the wrong person. Don't let a…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:06 PM
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I met one of my best friends in orientation but only by chance. There's no pressure, just be social. You'll have plenty of time freshman year to make friends before everyone settles into their groups/ frats
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:50 PM
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All girls play games like this early in the relationship, she's giving herself an easy out and an excuse to flake if she's not feeling like fucking you that day. I'd tell her to stop at Starbucks or whatever and pick something up for both of you on her way. I love having girls bring me shit. Free shit and puts her in your frame
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:47 PM
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Adding value is not necessarily a bad thing. A little bit of Beta behavior can be a good thing, and becomes more important the closer/ more serious you become with a girl. It's about finding the right alpha/ beta balance to satisfy a range of their physical and emotional needs. 100% alpha dbag game doesn't really work in the real world unless you're going for approaches and hookups on the bar and club scene. Be careful though. Too much emotional and supportive behavior too early (like explaining…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:40 PM
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If a girl was to legitimately insult my appearance I'd probably just next her. If it's more playful I'd just laugh it off. "You're so skinny" "You're just jealous of these guns" and flex
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:32 PM
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There's tons of TRP advice about increasing SMV. Just lift, groom and dress well, be confident and you will be miles ahead of the average guy
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:27 PM
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Don't fuck with porn period. It will fuck with your motivation and sensitivity for real women and relationships.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:04 PM
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Cardio cardio cardio. Obviously diet is #1 though but at least you'll be able to consume some more calories. Unfortunately a calorie deficit and therefore low energy is an inevitable part of weight loss. You put yourself in this position, now own it. No one said weight loss was fun or easy
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:03 PM
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If they really are that close of friends I could see the friend holding off dancing out of respect for her friend especially if they're all at the same party. She could still be into OP. But I agree with your last paragraph. Don't get hung up on one girl, especially in this situation where you could ruin the plate you already have and end up with neither. Expand further, there's more out there than the best friend of the girl you're already fucking
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:14 PM
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Confirm with her on Sunday or early Monday, don't let it actually be a last second thing or it looks like you have nothing better to do that sit around and hope she hangs out with you. If she blows you off Monday let her make the first move. It looks like she is actually a little interested
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:43 PM
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Only a little bit
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:40 PM
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That's fair. I'm fairly new to the application of TRP especially in LTRs, so I guess I am seeking a little validation. It's easy to internalize principles and what they should lead to, but in real life things aren't as black and white
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:30 PM
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Didnt meant for it to sound like that but I can see where you're coming from. I guess I'm just looking for what are the signs you're doing something right vs. the same bullshit lines she feeds every guy
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:09 PM
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Legally and socially speaking, you are saying "we can have kids anytime you like and I'll pay". If you're fine with this deal then ok. Just know that that is what the situation is. She has an IUD that I can always tell is there, which is statistically more effective than condoms. You can't tell me a random/drunk hookup where a condom is the only BC is more effective than an IUD. Ah. So she's planning on an upgrade later. It's more like she's afraid of the commitment/getting too attached to me be…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 04:05 PM
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"It's possible I'm used to getting erections with my own hand" You just said it. As others have said, stop masturbating if you feel this is your problem. This takes time to overcome, it's not over night. You could try 10mg once to see if that works for you. Make sure to stay hydrated and take some ibuprofen if necessary. There's so magic food, and the only exercise I can think of would be kegels. But eating healthy, exercise, and getting better sleep will all contribute to better erections. Thes…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 02:33 PM
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I don't necessarily want the commitment, as this isn't something that I see being super long term. I'm fine with the arrangement, my thinking was that I get to be excused from boyfriend duties like this, so it's a win win
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:41 AM
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Even with an exclusive partner? She's got an IUD and we're both very on the same page re abortion
/r/askTRP03/11/17 10:38 PM
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Cut out masturbating, at least for the few days to a week before seeing her. Have her go down on you if you're having trouble. It's probably just nerves and will go away as you're more comfortable with her. Use lube if she's not wet enough, something safe for condoms. Last resort get some cialis, use in low dose to help your confidence
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:11 PM
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Depends on your age and goals. But in general, lift, read, build a new valuable skill for career, learn an instrument
/r/askTRP14/07/17 02:58 PM
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Right, you're not just gonna accidentally get 'too big.' Just get in the fucking gym
/r/askTRP14/07/17 02:56 PM
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So you and your girlfriend both walk up to the counter together, and you say "just one ticket to X movie please." There are way more direct ways to handle this. No reason to embarrass her at the register
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:48 AM
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How's your oneitis destroy you, did she bounce after you couldn't perform? On to the next one. And do you have ED or anxiety? Either way, look into cialis/viagra. It can help make you more confident that you'll perform as well as give you some positive experiences to get over this hump
/r/askTRP10/07/17 11:53 PM
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Ah I get what you're saying now. Maybe I was putting the cart before the horse a little bit, but my point still stands. You're not gonna get over performance anxiety by having these bad one-off experiences.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 11:46 PM
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Are you advocating paying for the water? Or am I being dense
/r/askTRP10/07/17 11:23 PM
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Right, financially it may not be a big deal (although it does add up). I can afford to buy an extra ticket, but it's about respect. Don't sound butthurt when you say it. Make it casual- say it in the moment (as you're walking up to buy tickets, or ordering the first round) not before you go out because it will sound whiny and like you've been simmering about it. Does that make sense?
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:32 PM
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Yeah that seems super passive aggressive. Just say "I'll grab the tickets, you grab the snacks/dinner/whatever?"
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:03 PM
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Have you thought about finding a new job or a second job that will provide you with adequate income for your goals? Otherwise use the extra free time to develop valuable skills
/r/askTRP10/07/17 09:57 PM
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Seeing escorts will stifle your motivation to go after girls in the real world. Best way to get over your performance anxiety is to find a girl that will work with you through the problem (i.e. Doesn't care if you can't perform the first couple of times) until your comfortable enough with her
/r/askTRP10/07/17 09:10 PM
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Thanks for your suggestions. I've seriously considered talking to my doctor about getting some Cialis or Viagra. I think using it a couple times and having some good experiences in bed could help me kick the anxiety. The only problem is I'm under my parents' insurance and they would surely find out about any visit to the doctor or resulting prescriptions. I know that there are websites that will supply ED pills w/out prescription at very low cost, and I may have to give them a try.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 04:15 AM
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Thanks for your help, I'll look into flavored condoms. I've also looked into female-condoms as a possibility. What do you think?
/r/askTRP04/03/16 08:52 PM
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I have no problems staying hard while masturbating. I have cut back on fapping but I don't know if it's helped. My biggest fear is not being able to get it up, which in turn causes me to go soft. It's a vicious cycle.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 07:35 PM
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I cut out porn last May. I don't follow nofap but I've definitely cut back since it's more difficult without porn. In both recent scenarios I wasn't really hard until they started blowing me
/r/askTRP04/03/16 07:27 PM
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