TimeForGrass Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How do I know if my measures will work to achieve the goals I seek?	Basic Question	TimeForGrass	/r/askMRP	28/06/26 12:32 PM

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4	Stick to your fucking guns. How to be immovable. Exactly, this is lessons in how to be an asshole and lose friends. If there is a shit test, sure, remain immovable, but more importantly remain calm because you know you're right. If you aren't calm, are you really right? No person is always right. If you're insulting them, you're probably wrong. I didn't say that. Marcus Aurelius did. Keep making jokes if you are right. Lighten the situation and give perspective without condescending. Ask how much it will matter in a week so why they are spendi…	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/26 07:26 PM
1	They all lie, trust your gut. No unicorns. You will reach that point in a lot of relationships. Ask yourself - what were her motives? Is she actually a good person when we consider from her perspective, or did she just do a wrong thing? So cheating, attacking me, trying to play with my head a bit too hard on serious stuff. All those are Lines She Shall Not Cross for me. Rest of the shit? If she gets a pass I do too. I'll tell her my car was making a weird noise when I really don't wanna take her the shops. I'm a good guy. She's a good wo…	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/26 06:09 PM
1	They all lie, trust your gut. No unicorns. Gotcha. Came from marriedRedPill. My bad. I can promise I did mean this constructively as I'd been thinking about this guys situation later in the day and spoke with my gf about it. We came to the conclusion it be a shame for him to throw away an otherwise good relationship. People are people and she and he both made mistakes kinda was my point, could've said it nicer absolutely.	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/26 01:03 PM
1	They all lie, trust your gut. No unicorns. Bruh ended 3 year relationship and you thought virgin?? When you said no unicorns I thought you meant 'no decent women' This is just stupidity. Of course she was fucking. Who wouldn't be? Dude you let this in, it was never a realistic fiction to begin with.	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/26 12:26 PM
1	Morality in MRP I see your point for the most part when its small things, but for the overarching relationship is there no guidance? Don't fuck other women unless that's chill, don't maliciously manipulate, lie, STFU, etc. I've seen a guy on here regale a tale of fucking a girl from the gym and cheating, whole post read like an erotic novel, guys called him out for being weird not cheating. Another guy posts that his pregnant wife is being distant and he's told to man the fuck up and go to her and forgrt his id…	/r/askMRP	29/07/26 04:03 AM
1	Morality in MRP I don't think there IS a focus on morality here. I'm questioning this myself and here's my take without reading comments prior: No little moral stances. Obviously abuse / coercion is not ok. Same as for us fellas. But a lot of this shit hurts and is for 'the greater good'. I love my wife and she's not just some woman I try game, but everyone is different and learning. Relationships are different. Some women want the man who takes control always. Some want a guy who delegates appropriately or jus…	/r/askMRP	29/07/26 03:31 AM
2	How do I know if my measures will work to achieve the goals I seek? Hey, thanks. I definitely think I have nice guy syndrome from what I've read (not much, I just do a lot for people I like, or even have just met. It can be weird when I'm fixing lights in their house 5 minutes after meeting them) but it's more from a desire to be useful and critical to people than covert contracts where I expect anything back but being on good terms I guess. Definitely a people pleaser that way. I'll check out those recommendations. MRP seems to be a varied community with a wide…	/r/askMRP	28/06/26 10:58 PM
1	How do I know if my measures will work to achieve the goals I seek? I hear you man. I realised a while back when talking to my father that all you can do is say your piece and let them do what they do. Since this post I've talked with my gf properly, hashed shit out. It was good. Full acceptance from her of us figuring this weird spot out and getting back on track with her getting her head sorted. Also hear you on #2. I feel it's move in -> engaged these days, and we both own houses with mortgages. We've talked about the future and we do want to shack up togethe…	/r/askMRP	28/06/26 10:35 PM
2	Feeling insecure about ending up alone and not finding a suitable partner (25F). How do I improve my approach? Man, 30s, talk to them. Tell them you like them once you're dating. Men like that. Personally it sounds like you're a lot of the girls I've spent 4 weeks talking to and asking out and such and then wondering if she had any idea it was a date. If it feels like I'm just pushing and pushing and getting like tepid responses but we're still dating, I just stop bothering. I don't feel like I'm starting a relationship, I feel like I'm convincing someone to like me or show any sign of that. It's easy. O…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/26 04:03 PM
2	Finally found someone i like after divorce 31 y/o guy recently interested in redpill, long term relationship. I think you are doing well. Don't put yourself down with that whole 'I've hit the wall', it's not really true imo. I want to date someone my age and sensible who I don't need to entirely support. Since I'm 30s that's 30s. My lady is a few months younger than me, very lovely, and I'm in it for the long haul. My advice would be simple: communicate when things get hard. Be level-headed. And most of all just make his week a little br…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/26 03:55 PM
1	How do I know if my measures will work to achieve the goals I seek? Thank you, and I have just had that thought myself. If I go down this path, my relationships which have so far been quite free-form and just developed as they came, and I've enjoyed them. However if I read up and apply this philosophy on LTR's, my relationships will be in some way, in my mind right now at least, a little less my own. A little more robotic. Filtered through the thoughts and words of very specific other people who've written books I must read. The framework and auto-reactionary na…	/r/askMRP	28/06/26 02:53 PM
3	How do I know if my measures will work to achieve the goals I seek? I'll spend today reading instead of stressing out around the problems of the weekend I think. Let me see if my local bookstore has it, will get me out the house too.	/r/askMRP	28/06/26 01:42 PM
0	How do I know if my measures will work to achieve the goals I seek? I don't think so, reason being she's had issues with body shape and such in the past. I've watched, argued, and pleaded as she's slowly started consuming more and more female bodybuilding and anorexia -> gym addiction pipeline content. She was bulking until a few months ago actually, aiming for body recomp. I was supportive of that, and the rest of her gym stuff, until she began looking unwell and losing too much fat for it to be healthy. I may still be cooked though, I accept that. Nobody can k…	/r/askMRP	28/06/26 01:41 PM
0	How do I know if my measures will work to achieve the goals I seek? No sidebar, I came across mrp like 12 hours ago and I've been asleep for 8 of those. Physique I'm chubby, put this in another comment but I can't work out much without severe pain, but I do what I can to try rehab the injury. Works good, solid job for my age at low 30's. Have been out of work on sick pay since health issues got too bad to continue though, however not worried because I'm prepared with income protection insurance and such. Not self inflicted, it's a spine injury that's been going …	/r/askMRP	28/06/26 01:00 PM
-1	How do I know if my measures will work to achieve the goals I seek? Over the past few months she's developed issues with her eating, and with what some would call a gym addiction. That's where my comment on her gym habits came from. She's probably pushing 12% body fat or something at the minute. I agree I have been passive aggressive, but I also strongly believe that basic attentiveness should be expected in a relationship and not bargained for or extracted via manipulation. I hear what you're saying though, work on myself and she will come. Unfortunately again …	/r/askMRP	28/06/26 12:51 PM