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| 0 | How to get over oneitis?And this is where exredpill would be useful | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Question for Women: Would You Be OK With Being A Sister Wife Of An Extraordinarily Wealthy Man?Absolutely not. I can make my own money, but I can’t make a polygamous man loyal to me. Hard pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Is everyone a dick to each other because nobody wants to be taken advantage of?Someone didn’t read the linked comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 09:02 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Men are far more into casual sex than females as noted by casual sexual outlet ratios with far more men than femalesI noticed that too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 12 | Are age gap relationships like mine really that gross?I checked your profile & you’ve been asking this question for months... it’s almost as if you personally feel it is wrong/are uncomfortable with it, but are looking for external validation to tell you it’s okay. If that’s the case & you feel uncomfortable with it, no amount of responses on reddit will make you feel better — it’s something you need to talk to your girlfriend about, and spend personal time contemplating whether or not you are comfortable with. I wish you the best! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Broke up with a LTR girl and she hopped on tinder and seeking arrangement right awayYeah, they broke up. He broke up with her. OP is no longer a part of her life. Yet he’s getting upset that she’s with other men, as if he expects her to act as though she’s still committed to him. Her commitment to him ended when he ended the relationship, she doesn’t owe him anything. She has a lot of options, by virtue of being a “hottie” to quote OP, so it’s no surprise that she moved on quickly. Definitely an insecurity issue on OP’s part, it’s almost like he wanted her to be more distraught… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Broke up with a LTR girl and she hopped on tinder and seeking arrangement right awayShe’s doing the same thing TRP preaches, spinning plates. Once yours broke, she found a new one. Don’t play the victim card here | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 11:08 PM |
| 2 | For those of you who are anti-porn, how did you come to this stance and what has its effect been on your dating options?If that’s what you need to tell yourself to alleviate your guilty conscience, be my guest. Just do it far, far away from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Do men have fifteen years on women?Stacy’s Mom, anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 02:54 PM |
| 7 | For those of you who are anti-porn, how did you come to this stance and what has its effect been on your dating options?You are on a PPD post where women are asked why they don’t support porn. Multiple women respond with how they cannot support the industry due to the rape, coercion, blackmail, child pornography, and abuse that occurs, among other reasons. Here are some concrete examples of that. 1.) Pornhub verified a 15 yr old who was missing for a year. She was found in 58 videos on the site. The child was part of the ModelHub program where Pornhub takes a 35% cut of sales. Pornhub directly profited from her r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/20 06:47 PM |
| 19 | For those of you who are anti-porn, how did you come to this stance and what has its effect been on your dating options?I used to watch porn (mainly lesbian, although sometimes straight) since I was in middle school, but eventually stopped after reading about the rape/abuse in the industry & the psychological effects it has on viewers. I distinctly remember watching a video where a woman started crying and the men around her laughed, and then she kept repeating “I can’t do this anymore... I can’t do it. I can’t. No more. Please no more” quietly under her breath, yet the men around her made her keep going. She sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/20 05:57 PM |
| 5 | Women of PPD who are against porn, what is your stance on media that are voluntary like Onlyfans or not real like hentai or hentai mangas?Other women? I got the idea to stop watching pornography from men. They are the main ones talking about the negative cognitive effects it has. When women criticize porn, it mainly has to do with the treatment of the women involved (the child porn & rape openly posted on websites such as PornHub/BangBros/xHamster/XNXX/etc) which is also an incredibly valid point. Captain Sinbad on YouTube & Terry Crews were the ones who first gave me the idea to stop watching porn, and after reading numerous scie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD who are against porn, what is your stance on media that are voluntary like Onlyfans or not real like hentai or hentai mangas?Discussion & observation. I’m a very blunt person, but I’ve realized it’s much better to be indirect than direct when asking someone about something. People reveal more about themselves than they like to admit, all you need to do is give them the opportunity to do it. I’ve heard guys openly talk about their favorite pornstars in class. It’s not a well kept secret by any means, people are very open about, which works to my advantage. Also, as someone who used to watch porn for years and then stop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 12:16 PM |
| 0 | Women of PPD who are against porn, what is your stance on media that are voluntary like Onlyfans or not real like hentai or hentai mangas?This is the stupidest thing I have ever read Are you willing to give him blowjobs on command? lmao WHAT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD who are against porn, what is your stance on media that are voluntary like Onlyfans or not real like hentai or hentai mangas?I agree, I wouldn’t date anyone who watches porn either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?Yeah, it really is. You explained it pretty well | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | You know, now that I remember,was I sexually harassed when I was a kid?Literally no feminist says this lmao | /r/MGTOW | 08/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?Ew, I don’t even want to read that thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 01:52 PM |
| -2 | Best books for men according to 56 blogs (see comments for the list)Yup lmao | /r/seduction | 03/08/20 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?Again, no facts or evidence to support your claims, just your personal feelings on the matter. The latter does not mean a thing to me, so I think this conversation is done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?Sorry you can’t accept facts, women’s fertility does, in fact, peak in mid 20s. Here, Here, Here, etc. This was covered in my high school human biology course. If you cannot accept a basic biologic fact I don’t think you’re in the correct headspace to discuss topics such as this. 20 year olds are not adolescents, according to the World Health Organization. 10-19 is the age of adolescents. This is not an opinion, it is just a fact — simple human biology. Ages ten to nineteen is when human adolesc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?1.) OP specifically addressed women going into porn in his post, not men. The target demographic these pornographic films are marketed towards is men. Usually in these discussions it is always men who watch pornography defending adolescent teen porn, so no, I don’t take back what I said. The market for teenage females is much higher than the market for male teenagers; there are more men that prefer teenage adolescent porn than women. Any porn site will prove that within seconds. 2.) and it’s ext… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 06:01 PM |
| 0 | What are some signs a guy has a high n count?Yeah, it definitely reads like he has a revenge fantasy of some kind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:28 PM |
| 1 | What are some signs a guy has a high n count?That’s what he likes to believe, it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:27 PM |
| 2 | What are some signs a guy has a high n count?Maybe masturbation as well? I suppose it’s better than lotion! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:14 PM |
| 8 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?Women are most fertile when they are in their mid 20s (it peaks around 24). No woman is most fertile in their teens, that is just factually incorrect. If you are more attracted to a high schooler than a woman in her mid 20s, it certainly is not because the high schooler is more fertile, because she factually is not. If you do, in fact, find teenage girls to be more attractive than a woman in her 20s, then that is the dictionary definition of ephebophilia. Also, not letting adolescents do porn is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 04:07 PM |
| 20 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?Of course we should raise the age of majority, I don’t see why there is such a high demand for teen adolescent porn anyways. These boys and girls do have accountability for their actions, but their brains literally aren’t developed yet. They do not have full rational thought. Brain scans & empirical data will show you that easily. It’s concerning that so many people encourage adolescents to make decisions like this (through the incredibly high demand for teenage porn) when they fundamentally do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 18 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?The rational part of a teen’s brain isn’t fully developed and won’t be until age 25 or so. In fact, recent research has found that adult and teen brains work differently. Adults think with the prefrontal cortex, the brain’s rational part. This is the part of the brain that responds to situations with good judgment and an awareness of long-term consequences. Teens process information with the amygdala. This is the emotional part. In teen’s brains, the connections between the emotional part of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Ugly men have a right to be angryYeah, I don’t think he understands | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/20 11:55 AM |
| 7 | Ugly men have a right to be angryYou just don’t get it, do you? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/20 02:30 AM |
| 9 | I always wondered why women move on so quickly. I think the answer is simply OPTIONS/sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 07:08 PM |
| 12 | Do you think it's a misconception that men want sex, women want relationships?Not really feminism, just simple population growth. There’s 3 main stages Stage 1 — High Birth Rates & High Deaths Think of America pre-industrial revolution, or third world/developing countries. No contraceptives, high risk of infant death. Couples have more than a few kids to counteract the fact that many of their progeny will die before reaching adulthood. Stage 2 — Low Death Rates, High Birth Rates Think of America during/immediately after industrial revolution. People were still having just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 04:02 PM |
| 2 | How is Alpha-fux Beta-bux different than a Madonna-Whore complex?Never said they were both identical, just extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 2 | How is Alpha-fux Beta-bux different than a Madonna-Whore complex?It’s just endless shouting back and fourth. The misogynists of TRP don’t want to admit that some of their views are nearly identical to that of the radical “blue haired feminists” they make fun of. They agree on more than they think they do, despite being on opposite ends of the spectrum, because they are equally extreme. In any case, I don’t regret reading a bunch of posts from TRP & PPD because it’s definitely taught me what to avoid in men/ what manipulation tactics men use, especially when i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Where is the line between pushing and coercion when initiating sex?Case in point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Where is the line between pushing and coercion when initiating sex?Agreed, very rapey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 01:42 AM |
| 4 | How is Alpha-fux Beta-bux different than a Madonna-Whore complex?Exactly. I was watching a video from PragerU a while back, and Dennis Prager said (paraphrasing) that the only thing holding men back from raping women is the law — not personal morals, nor being a decent human being, not having empathy for others, but the fear of going to jail/getting punished. This, he said, was the reason why we should all be thankful for law & order — Without the law (according to this belief), there’d be nothing holding men back from raping every woman they see. This is ver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 01:29 AM |
| 2 | If a woman's value decreases with age and n count, how is hypergamy possible.Love this. This is exactly what I myself have been saying — the fact that your options decrease is a good thing, for it weeds out the potential partners only interested in superficial things such as beauty and age. Those are not people I would want in my life, anyways. TRP men tend to believe that the main value woman has is her age and beauty, and those depreciate with time. They also tend to believe that this is the truth, and that every man believes this. Obviously that is false, but it’s goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 12:49 PM |
| 27 | If Something/Someone Claims to Have ALL the Answers, Run. They Don’t.Yep. That’s the appeal of TRP, from what I’ve seen. A bunch of men going “THIS is the truth. Everyone else is lying to you. We are the only ones that understand how women & the world works. Everyone else is either too stupid to understand, or are actively trying to deceive you. We are the only ones who are correct. We are the only ones who use facts and logic and reasoning and science, everyone else only uses feelings.” “Run” is right. Once you get sucked in, it’s near impossible to get out. I’m… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?You’re right. I don’t :) Good talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?Glad I could provide some clarification for you :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?Again, projection. Not worth debating over this, since you obviously can’t see past your own biases & projections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?Yeah, i feel the same way about men. Their opinions don’t mean much to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | “Damaged goods”Trauma is quite literally defined as “a deeply distressing or disturbing experience.” So yes, most, if not all, people do have past trauma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 02:11 PM |
| 7 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?This is also a common response that’s brought up by men once evidence that women don’t prefer high-n men is brought up. “She says one thing, but she means another,” or “she says that now, but you can change her mind” etc etc etc. Very similar to the whole, “she says no, but she means yes” belief. I don’t really know where you’re going with this, because the same logic applies to men. Relationships are all about compromise. For women with higher n-counts themselves, they’ll care less about the n-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 02:05 PM |
| 9 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?Yep. Have actually been the woman interacting with men too. Original point still stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 02:00 PM |
| 5 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?I’m an atheist & wasn’t raised with religion, but I can see how this thinking blends with religious circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 02:00 PM |
| 3 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?That’s a common thing I hear from red pill men. You believe men that voluntarily don’t participate and hookup culture “don’t exist” because you believe all men must think like you. Yeah, sorry to burst your bubble, they do exist. If you only talk to men on TRP you aren’t going to find them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:55 PM |
| 4 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?From the data I’ve seen, that’s just blatantly false. Ironically, women are actually more accepting of lower body-counts in their partners than men are. Women said that men having less than 1.9 partners was “too sexually conservative,” whereas men said that women having less than 2.3 partners was too low. A small difference, yes, but consistent amongst 2,000+ different people. Both men and women, on average, believe that being a virgin is “too low,” however women are more accepting of sexual ine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:50 PM |
| 17 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?This. TRP tells men that if they sleep around, it’ll increase their value, which leads to them actively believing it. It’s what men want to heat, not what’s true, but it doesn’t affect me since it’s their lives and they can believe whatever they want. (I recommend reading through their subreddits so you know what type of men to avoid, though.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:42 PM |
| 17 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?Yeah, it’s right. Thanks for accepting that. Low-n women typically search for low-n men and avoid high-n men like the plague, especially when it comes to relationships. I do as well, and if you read the comments here, many women agree. If you’re having trouble grasping that concept, here’s a study on it. This study by Superdrug of 2,180 people in the U.S. and Europe does shows that both men and women say that the ideal number of lifetime sexual partners is 7-8, and believe too many sexual partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:38 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.Agreed, OP is shifting the goalpost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 01:03 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.Do not rationalize being a piece of shit. Agreed. OP doesn’t want to see that what he believes is fundamentally flawed, because that would mean he’d have to accept that he is deeply amoral and wrong, so instead he projects and says “well everyone does it, it must not be that bad, right?” Also, I’m just going to leave this here... rape noun \ ˈrāp \ Definition of rape 1. : unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 12:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.What?!!? You mean that all women... aren’t a hive mind?!?!? They have differing opinions and are capable of independent thought???!? But... but... muh AWALT!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 12:48 PM |
| 15 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.Yeah, imagine hearing a man use the words “alpha male” and “beta male” unironically in real life casual conversation. I’ve never heard it outside of the internet, and most people cringe when they hear it in real life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 12:45 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.“Men aren’t giving you proper foreplay? They aren’t acting enthusiastic and caring about your pleasure? It must be because you’re ugly, he did nothing wrong.” ^ OP, basically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 12:39 PM |
| 2 | If you are at all bothered by your SO's sexual history, would it bother you more if she slept with women or men?You’re a saint for continuing to reply, this interaction is just... straight outta reddit lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 03:33 PM |
| 3 | If you are at all bothered by your SO's sexual history, would it bother you more if she slept with women or men?This is the most hilarious goddamn thread I have ever read. Sorry for commenting on a 45 day old thread u/GennyX but jesus christ oh my god. Thank you for your valiant effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityThey gotta oWn ThE LiBs!1!1!1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 05:03 PM |
| 1 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityThey always do — they can’t accept responsibility for their own actions, so it seems, nor do they want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityGood for you, I suppose? That doesn’t make it any less unrealistic. It’s the equivalent of me saying “Well, an attractive 27 year old tall rich man who makes seven figures a year married my morbidly obese friend, therefore you can’t say all rich attractive men aren’t attracted to morbidly obese women! My personal experience clearly disproves that!” I’ve linked studies on this thread about how women do not prefer sexually promiscuous men, with the cut-off for “too many” partners being 15. [X] Low… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityThat’s pretty good reasoning behind it. I think it definitely has to do with projection as well — i.e., those types of men idolize other men for sleeping around (as you said) and come to the illogical conclusion that doing so increases their value to other women, since that’s what they personally want to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 03:39 PM |
| 1 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityObviously everything is relative — some people may expect a more conservative partner, whereas others are more indifferent. That doesn’t bother me in the slightest, preferences are just that: preferences. What does interest me, though, as I mentioned in my comment, was why men in TRP & PPD glorify this unhealthy lifestyle and believe that sleeping around with many, many women increases their value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 03:19 PM |
| 1 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityPersonal experience doesn’t mean much to me, since everyone meets different people in their lives that believe different things. I made another comment here where i linked studies disproving the fact that women don’t care about n-count, if you care to read them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 03:10 PM |
| 2 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityGood point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?You don’t have to understand them. Doesn’t mean they don’t exist, though. In both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 11:01 AM |
| 4 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityBetabuxx? Nah. Having an n-count in the double digits & expecting a virgin wife that’ll let you slap her during sex, do anal, deepthroat, tie her up, spit on her, choke her, and call her derogatory slurs in the bedroom? Yeah, that’s unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?Yes, and it disproves the belief that most men want virgins. Either extreme is not preferred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?Thats a common myth promoted here, but there’s no real scientific backing to it. This study by Superdrug of 2,180 people in the U.S. and Europe does shows that both men and women say that the ideal number of sexual partners is 7-8, and believe too many sexual partners is anything over 14-15. [x] [x]. Ironically, women are actually more accepting of lower body-counts in their partners past than men are. Women said that men having less than 1.9 partners was “too sexually conservative,” whereas men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 03:27 AM |
| 5 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityI’d be interested in these studies as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 03:17 AM |
| 10 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minority74% of reddit is male. I think that has something to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 03:15 AM |
| 9 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityDefinitely a porn addict. Maybe if he gets enough money he can pay a pornstar to pretend to be his virgin gf? Until then, I don’t have much advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 03:12 AM |
| 16 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityYep, you summed up men on TRP & PPD. It’s depressingly hilarious, knowing that they want this girl so bad but they’ll never get her. Until then, lots of hentai & porn for these fellas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 03:10 AM |
| 2 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityI agree with you to a degree with that, however it fully comes down to what they are saying. Many men on TRP believe that sleeping around with lots of women increases their value. I personally believe one part of this is due to other men on the subreddit reaffirming their beliefs, and the other part of it is from the promiscuous women they are sleeping with. (Women that sleep around (most likely) will not care about men with higher numbers, and perhaps they may even be attracted to it. Men on TR… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 02:52 AM |
| 1 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityThis perfectly describes so many men on here & TRP. You just made my day. Thank you, kind stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 01:37 AM |
| 3 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityAsymmetrical preferences don’t bother me at all in the slightest, but that doesn’t answer my question. Some fit, handsome, wealthy men are attracted to morbidly obese women, but I’m not doing those women any help by ignoring their unhealthy habits and leading them to believe that Prince Charming will eventually sweep them off their feet. Statistically speaking, that’s probably never going to happen, and she’s leading a self-destructive life. If that type of life makes these men happy, then so be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 11:55 PM |
| 5 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityIt is relevant, though. It’s in the best interest of the men you are talking with to know the consequences of their actions. They’re living a lie that sleeping around increased their value. It is only hurting themselves. To be frank, I couldn’t care less about what they are doing to their own lives, since many of the men there are not good or moral people by any means. They deserve the consequences of their actions, as does anyone. It doesn’t make sense why you, someone who seems to sympathize w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 8 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityI had this conversation with you on that same post. You yourself acknowledged that the results of these studies affect both women AND men, but you don’t like to admit that. Instead, you only focus on why ”promiscuous woman bad promiscuous man good” despite the fact that that is not scientifically supported in the slightest. For a group of men that pride themselves so much on being the “logical gender,” there is a glaring inaccuracy in their reasoning. That’s the funny thing about that subreddit.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 10:49 PM |
| 2 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityAnd I’m not disagreeing with you on that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 10:42 PM |
| 16 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityHa, agreed! I personally have learned a lot about manipulative strategies men use to trick women from browsing “seduction” & TRP, so I know which men to avoid, and how to recognize red flags when I see them (ex: negging). The cherry on top, however, comes from men on TRP who frequently talk about how they keep having quick, empty, emotionless sex with “sluts/whores/skanks,” but then later talk about how meaningless they feel in life and how empty they are. They’re so close to realizing it, but w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 10:26 PM |
| 5 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityIf you want a painfully honest answer, women who abstain from sex by choice want the same in a man. What separates incels from men who voluntarily wait for sex is that incels have no problem with casual sex, they want it, they just can’t get it. You can see this blatantly on their subreddits as well, they say their standards are low for women, and that they’d sleep with nearly any woman that wanted to — the problem is, unfortunately, that no woman wants to sleep with them. Their deep hatred for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 10:16 PM |
| 20 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityYeah, there definitely is a dissonance among what men think makes them high value to women, and what actually makes them attractive to other high value women. Men tend to be judged more harshly for sexual inexperience by other men, hence why the same is true in “manospheres” such as TRP. It’s a bunch of men telling each other what women want, despite never talking to/listening to other women. In the end, there’s nothing you can do to change their minds, nor do I want to, although lurking on thos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 09:55 PM |
| 7 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityDepends on the type of woman, I suppose. Women with low n counts looking for the same in their partner would be disgusted by high n-counts in potential male partners, such as I am myself. More promiscuous women looking for “experienced” men probably would dislike a virgin. The majority of both men and women, however, do not prefer virgins (unlike PPD would lead you to believe) as study of over 2,000 people in America & Europe by Superdrug proved. Here’s the link to that specific data, here’s tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 09:46 PM |
| 4 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityGlad you’re happily married & best wishes! I’m also in the USA, so that gives me hope! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 09:20 PM |
| 15 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minoritySame way (some) men believe that the more sex a woman has, the “looser” she becomes/the longer her labia becomes. There are actual valid reasons why a man would want a woman with a low n-count — he has one himself, wants someone with the same belief system/same view of sex he has, etc. (Women are more than welcome to hold these same beliefs when looking for a male partner as well — everyone is allowed to have their own opinion on how intimate or casual sex should be.) But to believe something th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 08:18 PM |
| 43 | To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minorityThere are low n women out there, and they tend to seek out low n men themselves. The problem tends to lay in men that are actively promiscuous/had a promiscuous past expecting a chaste LTR... Low-n women (by choice) who don’t participate in hookup culture tend to look for the same in their male counterparts. That’s just how it is, and it’s left a lot of men upset/disappointed. I do agree that they’re worshipped in this sub, which is uncomfortable — your last paragraph is dead on for how this sub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 07:38 PM |
| 4 | In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman.Honestly? Simply put, it’s to know which men I need to avoid. Men on here (#notall, for whatever that’s worth) make it very clear how they view women, and the tactics they use to manipulate them. They have no problem lying in order to trick a woman into sleeping with them. I lurk on “seduction” (cant link directly to subreddits) as well for the same reasons. The best way to learn how to recognize that type of behavior in men is to listen to the stories from those same men bragging about it, stra… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman.Again, projection. Never said I wanted a man that could sleep with anyone he wanted, all I said was that given the chance I would prefer for a man to wait until he is in a relationship rather than have one night stands with anything that moves. Ironically, I don’t think you realized that many men hold this same exact standard, except for women. Women (according to TRP, at least) can fuck anything that moves simply by opening their legs. Men on TRP are not attracted to this, though, and would pre… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman.(Brace yourself, this is another comment that’s very, very long) I understand where natural selection comes in, along-with biology. I don’t think we disagree on much, it just comes down to personal standards. We are not living in primeval times in which the goal of men is to inseminate as many women as possible, and we aren’t slaves to our biological urges. If men & women went back to behaving that way, we’d have a lot of single mothers on our hand. Society is not built on that concept — monogam… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 07:35 PM |
| 5 | In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman.While OP mainly focused on the negative effects of promiscuity in women, they also included many studies that show the effect it has on both genders. Promiscuous men are continuously viewed less favorably by women of all ages, and are also more riskier in relationships (more likely to cheat/divorce/etc). As a woman, I don’t want a promiscuous man for obvious reasons, and many studies show that other women think the same. I think the belief that men aren’t affected by promiscuity arose from promi… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 04:22 PM |
| 7 | In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman.A man not having casual sex with women does not mean that women aren’t attracted to him, it just means he has higher standards. I’d much prefer a man who had the option of casual sex and chose to control himself rather than a man who has an n count in the double digits and will bed anything that moves. The logic of “if he isn’t having casual sex, women don’t find him attractive” is inherently flawed because it disregards all personal choice from the equation. As for going UP in value, you can ch… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 04:08 PM |
| 6 | Given everything that was discussed here in PPD or TRP subs, would you switch your gender if there was a magic button?If I kept the same family and the only thing that changed was being born a man instead of a woman, I’d do it in a heartbeat. Less risk of being sexually assaulted/raped, people would respect me more (I’m pursuing a career in STEM), wouldn’t get constantly hounded on why I don’t want kids, I’d be taller/stronger and more physically capable to defend myself, I wouldn’t have to hear people telling me that I’m the “emotional sex” and therefore shouldn’t pursue a career in science, wouldn’t be object… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Given everything that was discussed here in PPD or TRP subs, would you switch your gender if there was a magic button?Ah, my bad, thought it was for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 12 | In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman.To me, it depends a lot on the reasoning. I view it as a moral issue, in my opinion — not the act of sleeping around itself (I wouldn’t necessarily consider that amoral behavior as long as it’s respectful and consensual) but the act of actively sleeping around while believing it is devaluing the women you do it with (especially if the partner don’t feel the same way and just wants to have a good & enjoyable time and believes there is mutual respect/especially if the man in question believes it d… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 09:55 AM |
| 18 | In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman.You’re allowed to have preferences as much as you want. Why would any gal want a guy that has a much higher risk of cheating on her as well? It’s the act of holding a partner to higher moral standards than one has for themselves that repulses me for the reasons listed above, which is why I avoid men like that. That’s the best option, in my opinion, because it’s not worth trying to change their minds, nor do I care to do so. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 08:30 AM |
| 21 | In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman.To me? I’m young, but I have the same standards for men as I do women. If they have had casual flings in the past (FWB/ONS) then it’s usually a deal breaker. I don’t support slut-shaming, especially from men with high n-counts towards women with high n-counts, sleeping around just shows that someone has a fundamentally different view of sex than I do regardless of gender. A man with a high n-count who prefers a woman with a low-n also shows a few things about themselves, such as 1.) Hypocrisy, o… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 08:00 AM |
| 55 | In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman.It applies for both men & women — PPD had a discussion about this where they presented similar data. Men tend to believe (falsely so) that their ability to pair bond/form an intimate connection with a woman is not damaged in the slightest through repeated casual sex/hookups, but it is. OP posted lots of studies showing the effects promiscuity has on women in particular, but also studies that show its harmful for both the sexes. The past does not predict the future, but it is a good indicator of … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?I agree with that. I personally don’t view it that way, but I know many men do, which is why hookup culture isn’t for me. I don’t know if a man would think “oh, she’s just a nice gal I had a good time with” afterwards, or “damn, that’s a nice whore that I put in her place.” I agree that thinking of sex as an action performed by men onto women is a harmful way of thinking, but I also realize many men think like this, which is why they’ll never be welcome in my bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?I believe they are fundamentally different as well, but to me, as someone who views sex as an intimate act, I would feel used after a hookup regardless of whether the person in question thought of me as a “pump&dump” or not. I understand many women don’t feel that way, though. Men tend to overestimate the value of their opinion, from my experience, and many view sex as an act done by a man to a woman rather than two people just enjoying themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?That’s how I view them myself, which is why I don’t have casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?Depends on how you see maturity, I suppose. I’m not saying that all people who sleep around are childish, but rather I prefer a more mature relationship with someone rather than just sex, as do the people around me. (At least, the ones I choose to associate with). I would view a 25 year old man who is committed to only pursuing long term relationships as more mature than a man the same age only interested in hookups at parties, since the former man is planning for his future instead of short ter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?Fair enough, then. I don’t care if the majority of men want hookups, though, because those are not the type of men I’m associating myself with. I do accept that due to my environment the men and women I interact with are much more mature than the majority of peers their age, but that doesn’t bother me, since again, I have no intention of pursuing a relationship with your average college frat-boy. If it’s 90% of men that prefer casual hookups to a life-long loving partner, then they are more than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?I get what you’re saying. For me, I’m high libido, and once I get married I could see myself having sex 4-6 times a week. That being said, I will only feel comfortable doing that once it’s with someone that loves me and someone I trust. I’m not going to have sex with someone, only for them to brag about me to their friends while calling me a whore, slut, tramp, skank, etc etc etc. There are very few ways for a woman to know for certain which men see her as “conquests” and which men see her as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?Awe, I appreciate that. I know good men exist, but I also know men (such as those on TRP) will pretend to be respectable only to get you to sleep with them. Reddit tends to be a cesspool of sexists and misogynists sometimes, hence the flair. Fortunately my time here & browsing TRP has taught me important ways to differentiate between the two. I’m young, so I know there’s lots of time for me to find “the one,” so I’m not worried. I appreciate your kindness ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?From my experience, that’s not the case, but perhaps I have just been surrounded by more people in my life that view sex in a more intimate way (non-religious, by the way). I don’t want a man that’s into casual hookups. Many men believe that since they are into casual flings, all men are, but this is simply projection from what I can tell. Yes, a lot of men are, but certainly not all, nor do I think it’s close to all. (Hookups also have a negative affect on pair-bonding & intimacy in men, which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 05:39 PM |
| 17 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?Unfortunately, we can’t assume that. Men on here & TRP brag about banging women they view as sluts/whores/easy. This isn’t a secret, either — I’ve read many posts from TRP from men that believe it’s fine to lie to women in order to get sex from them, and then “pump and dump” them. Women don’t have built in sensors in our heads that tell us which men just wanna have a casual fling and show us a good time, as opposed to the men that view hooking up as a game & women as conquests. There is a fundam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?Not all women understand this, but many do, which is why the top comments here are from women talking about how they do not want to be in a relationship with a man like that. I most definitely know men like this exist, which is why I’m keen on avoiding them. Some men will screw anything that moves, and then demean and use derogatory slurs to describe the women they do have sex with. Other men have higher standards. I’ll always choose the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?Yep — they have a very “only for me, not for thee” attitude around women. They feel entitled to sex from her, but if she has had sex with other men, then she’s viewed as a whore. Like the top comment, I’m a virgin woman and I definitely have a strong vetting process when it comes to the men I want in my life. TRP & PPD has taught me to be much more wary of men, which I am eternally thankful for because the men on here have taught me lessons that I would have otherwise had to learn from experienc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Are female standards going up?I think standards are going up for both genders. For women, there was extremely strong societal pressure to get married so they could be financially supported by men. For men, they wanted a woman to stay at home, take care of all the housework, raise their kids & have sex regularly with them. Now, women are more likely to pursue higher education, so they don’t need a man to support them. Men, if they are really interested, can try and find casual sex via dating apps. I wouldn’t marry a man simpl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 12:46 PM |
| 5 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?That’s incredibly disgusting, I’m always disappointed but never surprised when I hear stories such as this. (Hence, my flair). That’s also why it’s important that when dating a man, he’s not afraid to tell others about it. If you refuse to let me meet your parents & friends, and you refuse to meet mine, what are you hiding? There are a lot of signs of abusive relationships I’m trying to become familiar with to protect myself in future relationships, along with red flags such as these. Always bet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 01:03 AM |
| 10 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?Yep. All of this is why I don’t trust men with sex until we’re fiancés/married. As a bi woman, I’d be more lax with women if I ever fell in love with a girl, because lesbians/bisexual women are far less likely to lie in order to obtain sex. Men tend to get offended when they hear this, which I always found quite ironic, because they easily admit to doing those same things (lying in order to obtain sex, viewing women as conquests, etc... basically PPD, TRP, & r/ seduction in a nutshell) yet get u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 12:46 AM |
| 20 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?This is the best description of it I’ve heard, and I think it explains my revulsion of high n-count men wanting low n-count women. Not only is it hypocritical, it means they had no problem “lowering a woman’s value” as long as it benefitted them. That’s what disgusts me more than the act of sleeping around. That’s why I prefer low n-count men & women (as a low n count woman). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 10:13 PM |
| 4 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?Same situation, and I feel the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?Glad to see you agree as well. Best of luck finding someone who agrees (if you one day want to be in a relationship). I hope I’ll be able to find a man/woman that feels the same one day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 07:16 PM |
| 3 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?I really don’t do casual flings, so you can understand why this would be difficult to answer. I don’t find them to be attractive, nor would I trust another person I randomly met with my body (I’m 5’1 and not very strong. A man could genuinely kill me during a casual hookup, and if I suddenly felt extremely uncomfortable and begged him to stop, there’s no guarantee he would, and there’s nothing I could do to stop him). All that aside, if I for some reason was into casual flings, I’d chose the man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 06:58 PM |
| 5 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?Neither, because both are interested in pursuing casual sex. The high n-count man is more suave, whereas the low n-count man is more awkward, but neither seem to want long term relationships (at least, that’s what I’m getting from your comment. Both value the act of having sex more than a relationship/finding a lover.) The hypothetical virgin guy does not want to get into a relationship, only wants to lose his virginity, whereas the high n-count man is the same as the virgin guy but is successfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 06:09 PM |
| 2 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?& that’s exactly what I’m doing, so we shouldn’t have a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 05:14 PM |
| 4 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?Yeah. I think you should treat everyone with basic respect & dignity, regardless of n-count, but I’m not interested in pursuing a relationship with a man (or woman) who views sex as a prize to be won, or just a casual hookup. After so many flings, regardless of whether it’s a man or a woman sleeping around, your view of sex changes and loses intimacy. I want someone I can love and be intimate with, not someone that views me as another fling. Sleeping around has effects on both women and men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 05:05 PM |
| 2 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?Which is another reason why I’m waiting until I have sex, since I understand men lie/withhold truth from women in order to get sex from them. I’ve learned that from my time on here & browsing TRP/seduction to see what men think, which has most definitely made me more hesitant to have sex with a man (but not for women, since lesbians & bi women don’t tend to slut shame other women for having sex, or lie about their sexual pasts in order to obtain sex). If he isn’t someone I can spend the rest of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 04:51 PM |
| 3 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?I hope you’re happy living life that way, and that it brings you joy and fulfillment. As for me, I’m very content abstaining until I find a partner that doesn’t, and isn’t a “slut[maker].” To each their own. Also no man with big numbers is waiting even like 30 days to bed a woman Which is exactly why I don’t want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 04:34 PM |
| 3 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?You can believe what you want about that, but I’ll never find a high n count in a man more attractive than a low n count. To what you were saying about a “man having to be good at what they do to get that level of action,” that is exactly the reason why I’m not attracted to men with high n counts. They do not view sex as an intimate act, but as a game they can play — “how many women can I get to sleep with me?” It’s that behavior that is an immediate turn off to me, and shows that they have a ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 04:16 PM |
| 3 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?Agreed, woman as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 03:51 PM |
| 4 | How do low-n women react to high-n men?[Am A Woman] I don’t like high n-counts in men, but not enough for me to end a relationship over it unless there are other issues. I want someone to have a long-term relationship, always have, and I’d much prefer a partner with an n count below 10 than above. (For comparison, my n count is also below 10, and I’m an atheist, since religion was brought up in your question) The main make or break for me is how he views his female counterparts with the same number as him. If he has an n-count of 25 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"I would agree with you that things like height, race, country of origin, etc are preferences, since they are not describing behaviors. That’s the main point I was trying to make in my paragraphs about hypocrisy — it describes behaviors, not innate attributes. Regardless of whether it’s hypocrisy or not, a short woman making fun of a short man isn’t okay, nor is a tall woman making fun of a short man, nor is a short man making fun of a tall woman, etc (unless, of course, it’s banter). Just becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 07:23 PM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"I’m not going to respond to the rest of your post because it’s unrelated to my original comment, but I do stand by what I said about hypocrisy. A high n-count man wanting a low n-count woman is a hypocrite — I agree with you on the idea that it’s just a preference. It is only when he insults high n-women and claims moral high ground over them that he becomes, in the dictionary definition of the word, a hypocrite — because he is shaming others for behavior that he himself exhibits. That is not “i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 06:47 PM |
| 9 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Again, this is an alt account of u/committeeless. The mods told me that making an alt account is not against the rules, so I’m not going to ask you to delete it. Only pointing it out. I, myself, am not going to make an alt account and pretend to be a different person to make it appear like more people agree with me. You made this account less than an hour ago, and have only commented on this post. I’ll discuss this with you on your main account, the one you used to post the original post, but I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 06:38 PM |
| 11 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Those are preferences, not hypocrisy. A hypocrite acts as though they have moral high ground over someone, despite the fact that both of them have engaged in the same behavior. Here’s the google definition: “the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform” It’s not hypocritical for a tall guy to like short girls, because there is no moral high ground for him to stand on. There’s no behavior he’s engaging in that he is shaming others for do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 06:04 PM |
| 3 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Fair enough, although I don’t think my standards are unrealistic. I don’t care if my partner is a virgin or however many sexy partners they’ve had, as long as they respect those women and don’t slut-shame a woman for normal human behavior, like having 3 LTRs throughout her 20s and engaging in sexual activity during those relationships. That doesn’t make someone a whore or a “rider of the cock carousel” in my head. That makes them a normal human having healthy consensual relationships. As for the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 05:52 PM |
| 13 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"When have I ever posted in FDS? Genuine question. Not interested in a relationship now, pursuing my education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Isn't girls "learning from their mistakes" inherently better or more desirable than women who habitually choose "bad" men?Thanks, this made me feel a lot more confident in my approach to life ❤️❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Isn't girls "learning from their mistakes" inherently better or more desirable than women who habitually choose "bad" men?Not saying it’s illegal, just very comical to read about. Just saying it’s not very logical, and there is a clear double standard in which men don’t like to hold themselves accountable but crucify women for the same actions. But hey, to each their own. If you’re disgusted by a woman whose had sex before, then she’s better off being without you, and vice versa. I don’t think deception is the bedrock of society, and I don’t believe in deceiving others for sexual/monetary gain. I do understand that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | A question for the ladies, regarding the personal hygiene, grooming, fitness and attire of Millennial/Gen-Z men.....I’m assuming they aren’t referring to getting the virus itself, but due to being on lockdown for extended periods of time surrounded by food they’ve gained weight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 01:43 AM |
| 4 | What is the bare minimum for you in a partner?Literally any BMI calculator will tell you this. Idk what answer you’re looking for but by all measures of BMI she is not healthy. EDIT: nvm, you’re trolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 01:03 AM |
| 12 | What is the bare minimum for you in a partner?A BMI less than 18.5 indicates underweight (possibly caused by disease, malnutrition or eating disorders such as anorexia nervosa) She has a BMI of 16.3 and is “very severely underweight.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 10:27 PM |
| 12 | [Serious] Men who consider yourselves high value, What standards do you have for your gf in a relationship?I think I’ll reward her no girls trips if she goes over her ideal weight by 10 pounds no sex until she’s back within her idea range (I know sex withdrawal works because I’ve been using it on her for 1.5 years) Yeah, sounds like a perfectly healthy and non manipulative person to me /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 01:01 AM |
| 7 | Have you every gone in a date with a man that you weren't into just to get free food, etc.Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Here we have the rapegap (sequel to the wagegap, maybe, idk). Don't trust these whores.Again, no studies provided, only your own personal conclusions, ideas, and beliefs. Thank you. | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/20 06:44 PM |
| 8 | Women of ppd, what do you assume of a socially introverted male?This is a very important point. I myself have RBF & am introverted, but if I want to make friends I make sure to make myself approachable as well. If not, then I understand some people will automatically assume that I’m pissed off/mad at them. You can use the “it’s just who I am” excuse if you’d like, but then you also have to be accountable for the fact that some people won’t want to initiate conversation with you because of it. I never understood why trying to be more appealing and outgoing is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/20 06:41 PM |
| 7 | Women of ppd, what do you assume of a socially introverted male?I can’t speak for every woman, but as someone more introverted myself, I’m mainly drawn to other introverts as well. I don’t do that much approaching due to being shy, but if I see someone that seems interesting I’ll try and say hi to them. For example, a few years ago I saw a guy quietly reading a book that a few of my friends had recommended to me, so I went up & told him that it seemed like a good novel. I didn’t want to interrupt him since he was reading, so I only said a little bit, but the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/20 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Here we have the rapegap (sequel to the wagegap, maybe, idk). Don't trust these whores.I provide multiple data sources, studies, and reviews. You have provided nothing but your opinion. You personally believe that at least half of all reported rapes are false accusations. You personally choose not to believe all the reasons I listed for men and women not speaking up about rape. Many women have PTSD after rape, and are not emotionally stable enough to legally bring their rapists to trial. Many men who are raped feel as though they will be mocked if they come speak out against it, b… | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/20 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Here we have the rapegap (sequel to the wagegap, maybe, idk). Don't trust these whores.Yeah, I want people who falsely accuse others of rape to be punished to the full extent of the law, yet that isn’t even happening with the overwhelming majority of rapists currently. I appreciate the civility from you though, however I understand that many in r/MGTOW are very anti-evidence (as proven by the downvotes on my comment) and don’t like any information that threatens their narrow worldview. It goes to show that neither men nor women are the more “logical” gender, and people no matter w… | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/20 04:23 AM |
| -1 | Here we have the rapegap (sequel to the wagegap, maybe, idk). Don't trust these whores.The same happens to rape victims, but to a fuller extent. As I mentioned before, out of every 1,000 rapes it is estimated only 260 get reported, meaning that by this data, ~74% of rapes are not reported at all, likely due to shame, fear of not being believed, fear of having to confront said rapist in court, etc. You can personally believe & feel that the number of false accusations is higher, but no evidence currently supports that. If anything, it supports the opposite conclusion — there are fa… | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/20 02:50 AM |
| 7 | Femininity is deadAh, so you’re changing your point. First, it was the clothing that made women unfeminine and undesirable. Then I showed you women of that time period in “masculine” clothing, and your stance changed to something along the lines of “it was different back then, women now are just so much worse.” You seem to have your own definition of femininity, and are trying very hard to exclude as many [modern] women from it as you can from it while blaming “feminism” for doing so. You’re looking for a “CMV” b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 06:16 PM |
| 8 | Femininity is deadMost definitely not with a man like you, though, so I don’t see a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Femininity is deadDamn, are we really going that far back to the 1930s where women wearing pants was seen as cross-dressing and punishable by imprisonment? I guess Marilyn Monroe was pretending to be a faux-man in this outfit, since women wearing pants MUST be dressing up as men. I guess this woman is also dressing like a man for wearing.... uh..... shorts? and a sweatshirt?? The only acceptable version of femininity to you is 1940s women in dresses, yet ironically you fail to even realize that those same women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 06:06 PM |
| 8 | Femininity is deadJessica Kellgren-Fozard is a proud feminist and is the most feminine women I’ve ever seen. She talks as though she is right out of a femme fatale movie of the 1950s and dresses the part as well, and also, gasp believes men and women deserve equal rights! How dare she! I, like many women, enjoy being feminine. The 1940s style you mentioned? That’s my whole entire wardrobe. I either collect vintage clothing from the 1930s-1950s in my size to wear, or I sew it myself. I enjoy curling my hair, putti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Question for Men: Have any of you left a women over her N count or past?I agree with what you said, I just found your response funny. Sorry if that came out cryptic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Question for Men: Have any of you left a women over her N count or past?Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Is the prevailing image of women that they’re virtuous, or treacherous, promiscuous, and unfaithful, or is it more nuanced?Thank you. Your comments have really brought a laugh to my day, I appreciate it. Have a nice day :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Do gay people have similar issues in the sexual marketplace as straight people?Yep. This is exactly it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Is the prevailing image of women that they’re virtuous, or treacherous, promiscuous, and unfaithful, or is it more nuanced?sure, jan or it will be your end Love this comment, it reminds me so much of the navy seal/Internet Tough Guy copypasta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Is the prevailing image of women that they’re virtuous, or treacherous, promiscuous, and unfaithful, or is it more nuanced?my protection is very expensive That’s my greatest laugh of the night. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Is the prevailing image of women that they’re virtuous, or treacherous, promiscuous, and unfaithful, or is it more nuanced?Cool? Good for you? Congratulations? None of this had any relation to the original comment, you’re just looking for attention... which isn’t surprising, seeing as though one of the first things that comes up when someone clicks on your profile’s comment’s is a MGTOW subreddit. Isn’t the whole point of that sub for men to focus on self improvement rather than pining after female attention? Seems like you still feel the need to achieve the latter by needlessly interjecting the fact that you’d let … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 02:17 AM |
| 14 | Q4Men: Do you prefer relationship sex or hookup/FWB sex?Madonna—Whore Complex ? ETA: This complex does not describe the women themselves, but the way men view women. Freud believed that men could only view women as either whores (sluts they can degrade) or Madonnas (innocent women they cannot degrade). It says more about the men doing the judging than the women themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | What are you giving man in a fwb Vs a one night stand and in a relationship Vs a fwb ?Thank god they’re unrelated to me, then :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 07:20 PM |
| 2 | What are you giving man in a fwb Vs a one night stand and in a relationship Vs a fwb ?Great, thanks for confirming the (not necessarily true) stereotype that men only care about sex! You’re only hurting yourself here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What are you giving man in a fwb Vs a one night stand and in a relationship Vs a fwb ?Yeah, and at the end of the day it doesn’t matter what people think, because you and your boyfriend clearly see the difference yourselves and are content with it. If others aren’t able to see the difference themself, then they’re allowed to feel whatever way they want about it, but it still won’t effect the relationship you have, and you don’t need to go out of your way to prove that. Providing a select few services to someone for money is much different than being in a committed relationship wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 02:47 PM |
| 5 | What are you giving man in a fwb Vs a one night stand and in a relationship Vs a fwb ?Not OP, but the pretty clear answer is intimacy. Her boyfriend gets to go home with her, cuddle with her, share stories about life together, make food together, watch movies together, and have sex together. Sex is not the only important thing in a relationship, but when it comes down to it, due to the relationship they have it will obviously be more meaningful and more intimate. She doesn’t have to provide other parts of her body for his use nor perform certain acts in order to make it “differen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | The only way to change a woman's viewpoint is to be an authority figure or part of a social group she wants to join. Logic is completely useless, women don't respect or care about it, despite sometimes putting on a show of it.Yes, because all of those videos that came out a few years ago titled along the lines of “crazy feminist cringe,” “crazy SJW doesn’t understand FACTS and LOGIC,” “blue haired feminist goes CRAZY when presented with FACTS,” “crazy angry feminist gets TRIGGERED and OWNED” with thumbnails of angry, irate women were just from men loudly expressing their reasonable minds and definitely not characterizing the people they disagree with. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, you get the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Is the prevailing image of women that they’re virtuous, or treacherous, promiscuous, and unfaithful, or is it more nuanced?Yeah, I’ve seen that a lot here. It seems the best option is to just not have sex with them, because if you do then you’re considered a slut, and if you don’t they’ll get angry at you anyways, and why would you want to be intimate with someone like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Men, would you be okay to wait two - three months before sleeping with a girl you are really interested in? Why/Why not?Women peak fertility ~24-26, so I’m not sure how they’re “washed up” lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 01:10 AM |
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