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Lovedrop! I loved your kino escalation videos, so much helpful material there. I had a quick question: I am in a white American male living in Taiwan. How do you think my game has to change in order to adjust to the language barrier/cultural differences here?
/r/seduction19/09/12 04:15 PM
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I highly recommend taking the Myers/Briggs personality test in order to get a really good sense of what extent you are an introvert or extrovert (trust me, when they tell you your personality description results, it is like they know everything about you) I am an INFP, which has its strengths and challenges in pick-up. I think that it is harder to get in state with this personality because I am often 'in my head' too much. But I'm also creative and interesting, and this can have great benefits i…
/r/seduction18/07/12 06:52 AM
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I actually spent years operating under this assumption, but experience has taught me that it is an over-simplified approach. If you smile a lot, which it sounds like you do OP, then I'm sure you're the type of guy who is fun to hang out with and be around. However, few women will feel attraction to a guy who isn't "acting through his own intentions". If you smile excessively and at times where it wouldn't be your natural reaction to hearing something, then a woman can sense that you emotions do …
/r/seduction16/07/12 01:25 PM
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Ok, so a couple of things here. This story really shouldn't be in Seddit. You found a couple of cute girls on chatroulette and you're going to meet them, but seduction was not really involved. If this is really just about your question "what are some general tips for making good first impressions?" then this should be in /r/askseddit I am glad that you might meet a cool girl through this, and don't let other's judgements about the situation get to you, but understand the nature of this subreddit…
/r/seduction08/07/12 05:04 AM
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I loved this FR up until the last line: I just want a girl to call my own. Look man, you seem like a great guy, but most desirable girls won't want anything to do with someone who is not content with themselves. This line implies neediness, because it suggests that you can't be satisfied unless there is a girl in your life. It definitely took balls to man up and ask her out, but if you flood her with texts and give them impression that you don't have enough other things going on in your life, th…
/r/seduction08/07/12 04:55 AM
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Ok cool man, I see where you're coming from. I agree that being overly-talkative and trying to drop trivia facts implies that you are lower-value and that you are insecure and seeking her approval. But as far as opening sets and keeping girls engaged, I think that it is important to at least start out being relatively talktative and to avoid uncomfortable lulls. This is not to say that a few moments of silence here and there coupled with strong eye contact is a bad thing, because as long as you …
/r/seduction16/06/12 11:46 PM
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I get INFP/INFJ when I take this test. The introversion & feeling qualities are not super conducive to pick-up, but I feel like I make up for it with my creative abilities and awareness of other's feelings.
/r/seduction16/06/12 11:39 PM
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Sure, people like to talk about themselves, but shouldn't the true alpha male not feel any pressure to pretend that he is interested in hearing a girl rant on about herself? I agree that listening is very important, but I don't believe passive listening is the best route--and a girl is going to be more intrigued by and attracted to a guy that changes a topic to something of mutual interest, rather than submissively feigning interest and hoping that hours of nodding and sitting there are going to…
/r/seduction16/06/12 10:58 PM
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I agree with this as well. People love talking about whatever they are passionate about. Part of the point of my original post is that if you have a wide variety of interests and are constantly learning, then you are much more likely to have a conversation relevant to her passion. (but this is tricky territory because you should also be leading the conversation and not have it revolve all around her). Here are a couple of examples of how I see it: Bad example Guy: (couple minutes into set) So wh…
/r/seduction16/06/12 03:55 PM
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I totally agree, it is so important that what you do and the things you seek out are calibrated to who you really are. If you try to read big books just to say to you did when they don't interest you, that is not the way to go about it.
/r/seduction16/06/12 03:50 PM
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I remember seeing a video of the pua Sinn in which he said to keep in mind the saying that 'The best way to pick up girls is to have something better to do than pick up girls.' Like, if you just live your live passionately, get of your ass and do cool things then you will naturally meet people and have a better life.
/r/seduction11/06/12 05:10 AM
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Just curious: how old are you, & what type of areas/bars do you sarge at? I have found Over-the-Rhine to be a fun, growing area. Mt. Adams is decent, not entirely my scene though. Northside has a few cool bars. Of course there is the Hofbrauhaus but I feel like that is often just groups of friends meeting up who are mainly looking to be social with each other. Cincy/N. kentucky has some great bars but it can be hard to find a balance between the Bro/frat scene and the hipster scene
/r/seduction01/06/12 05:31 PM
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Ha it does seem contradictory, doesn't it? Well the way I see it is the advice in these lists serves more as a guidebook than a rulebook. I remember when I first read Mystery's book years ago I tried to follow every little structural aspect of the process. I ended up really over-thinking everything and it fucked my game up. I mean, Mystery's work is still very influential to me, but if you follow every little rule identically then you end up being a clone-not an individual-and that's not Alpha.
/r/seduction24/05/12 01:39 PM
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To be fair, I think I can see where meecham is coming from. If you have just opened a set and got a minute of attention only to see the group turn back into itself to discuss an exclusive topic for over a few minutes, then I would probably eject as well. Perhaps this is a group of friends who hasn't seen each other in ages and does not want to bother entertaining some stranger. It would be a DLV to just awkwardly hover there, because that body language conveys that you are dependent on their gro…
/r/seduction22/05/12 11:09 PM
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It helped me when I had a customer service job that involved interacting with others on a frequent basis. Just work at some coffee shop or something and you will see your confidence build as talking to strangers becomes routine.
/r/seduction22/05/12 11:03 PM
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"Knowing that sometimes all you need to do is let the pieces of the puzzle fall into place really helps This for sure. It feels great to work on different aspects of your life, just to see it all come together. You seem like a good guy, and yeah props for not hooking up with her when she was in that state--that takes some self-discipline but it definitely paid off.
/r/seduction22/05/12 03:05 AM
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I would like to hear more about your successes. I'm considering a year of teaching in Seoul, hoping that an average American could experience success in pursuing Canadian/European/Australian ESL teachers.
/r/seduction21/05/12 01:17 PM
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Wow, solid FR--I really enjoyed reading this and your advice. I was under the assumption that a lot of Japanese girls were somewhat socially/sexually conservative, but I guess a girl is a girl. Maybe you have an edge as a foreigner: being white and taller than their average guy (I'm assuming you are?), or just the idea of someone foreign having an appeal because they're unique. Not to discount anything from your game of course, you played everything perfectly. I am moving to Taiwan soon so I hav…
/r/seduction21/05/12 01:03 PM
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LOVE this. I would suggest reading some Alan Watts (Become What You Are or The Way of Liberation) for more in depth perspectives on the power of living in the present and not succumbing to the fears that society ingrains in us.
/r/seduction16/05/12 07:02 PM
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I respectfully disagree if you think there is nothing to be gained from that video. I do agree that if you are forcing yourself to be exactly like some fictional character then it will be try hard, uncalibrated, and ultimately a DLV since your not comfortable with yourself. However, many of the traits of this character, in my opinion, are extremely beneficial to learn from. Personally it has helped me just to see what it looks like for someone to carry themselves. Hank Moody does not give a fuck…
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:59 PM
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Good idea for a thread. I think this video [8:30] is one of Lovedrop's best. (I almost always use the hair tug and I feel like it gets a good response) This video got me started watching Californication. Hank Moody may be fictional, but the way he carries himself is the quintessential Alpha Male (with a few flaws of course to give the show more plot lines). Tyler Durden on Why People Fail is one of the best videos out there and gives you motivation.
/r/seduction16/05/12 03:20 PM
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Alright, I am graduating college in a few days and I really wish someone wrote this for me when I was your age so take note: Watch this video (Tyler Durden on why people fail) [Basically, what you should take from that speech is to understand that self-improvement is a long process and there is no instant fix. Do something productive every day and learn to work out your self-discipline and willpower muscles] start working out on a regular basis (you don't have to be a body builder, just get tone…
/r/seduction30/04/12 01:13 PM
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Unless you carry this style with a great deal of confidence then I think it comes off as try-hard. Ladies might get the impression that you are overcompensating for insecurities with this look. But if you feel like a million bucks in it and dont give a fuck about haters and you experience some success, i say go for it-as long as you feel comfortable and that you are expressing a fun version of yourself, not reaching to be something that you're not
/r/seduction29/04/12 11:49 PM
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I like your attitude man. Variety is the spice of life, which gives it all its flavor. Every day, I try to do: something educational (read, watch a documentary, etc) something active (work out, run, etc) something social something artistic (guitar, piano, etc) This strategy has proven instrumental in my pursuit of self-improvement I also think it is important to phase out the people in your life who are not open to new things. These people are leeches, and they try to suck the passion out of you…
/r/seduction24/04/12 01:56 PM
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Tyler Durden on How to Not Give A Damn (2 part video) Basically, warm up by acting completely ridiculous and off the wall with your friends, and then you will get in this mental state that is detached from your ego. If you can summon the social courage to enthusiastically pretend you are an alligator or robot or whatever, then this will get you over the hump and opening sets should be a breeze.
/r/seduction23/04/12 03:19 PM
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See, I don't really agree with the connection of seduction and advertising, because advertising is all about selling something through persuasion, but a good seducer does not have to worry about selling. Ads are essentially shallow promises offering little substance. The ideal PUA will have enough of a presence that others will be drawn to him. Obviously this is not to say we cannot go to some setting and expect everything to come to us, but my point is that you should not be putting any effort …
/r/seduction23/04/12 02:04 AM
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"I don't not not like you..." (smirk)
/r/seduction22/04/12 01:50 PM
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I'm not sure if you saw it, but I recently posted a link in this subreddit to this site. It talks about 30 ways to become the most interesting person that you know. Trust me, if you can work on a few of these then you will never have to worry about a dull moment in conversation. Always remember that it is only going to be awkward if you MAKE it awkward. Even if she may display a sign of being uncomfortable just enter and exhibit and exit with a "who give's a fuck?" attitude the whole time. If so…
/r/seduction17/04/12 06:18 PM
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How the hell does this work? seems like huge DLV to me. (uncomfortable silence, saying you dont have friends)
/r/seduction17/04/12 01:42 PM
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Haha well yeah like IAmTheOmNom was saying, there is nothing wrong with older forms of music. I think record players are awesome and have a lot of character. Feel free to be just another dude with an Iphone, but you can make sure she remembers you by being just a little bit different.
/r/seduction17/04/12 12:58 AM
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For the younger members of seddit, I suggest a burnt CD and then writing a girls name on it along with a heart or smiley face. I have had a number of girls burn me CDs over the years and I like to have a couple on my desk sometimes so people can see them. I like this better than the shoe thing because I feel like the shoe can give the impression that you are a player of the 'hit it and quit it' variety. I feel like a burnt CD makes a girl more curious, because it can be an intimate thing sharing…
/r/seduction16/04/12 09:39 PM
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I also wanted to mention that I like to have the following: 1- if you have traveled, something from that country like a small flag or souvenir 2- having a plant or fish shows that you can take care of something/handle some responsibility 3- something that reveals your passion (ex, guitar art) I think that the important thing is that it is calibrated well to your personality. You shouldn't force anything that doesn't really relate to your personality.
/r/seduction16/04/12 09:12 PM
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Here is how I see it: People of similar social status hang out together. If you hang out with someone who has a plethora of negative qualities and is not bringing much to the table, then they are lowering your social value simply by virtue of being around you. So I agree with you that being more interesting than average is essential to even be deemed worthy of interacting with many social groups.
/r/seduction16/04/12 07:52 PM
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In the short term you might experience some success with this sort of attitude/approach but eventually you will alienate everyone around you.
/r/seduction16/04/12 02:54 PM
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