| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 40 | My Hypergamy | [FIELD REPORT] | TinyLung | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/14 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Supporting SO's Career | TinyLung | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/14 08:15 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 9 | How do you dress for a rectangle shaped body/banana shaped body?I’m pretty straight up and down, and I like to wear a lot of a-line dresses or skirts that are high waisted and flare out. They create the illusion of wider hips while narrowing the waist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/20 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Nostalgia Night: "My Hypergamy" by TinyLungYou're in a difficult situation, but seem to recognize the reality of what you're dealing with. I'm glad you anticipate your husband's potential SMV and the decline of your own. Appreciate your husband and show him respect. Consider the cumulative practice (mental note + compliment) I mentioned in my earlier comment. You also realize your interactions with high SMV men are weakening your attraction to your husband. The enjoyment you get from high SMV men is not worth the damage it does to your m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/16 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Nostalgia Night: "My Hypergamy" by TinyLungOP here. I'm by no means a RPW expert, but my boyfriend is now my fiancé. I must be doing something right. If you're getting attention from men with higher SMV than your spouse/partner, am I correct in assuming your SMV is higher than his? If your SMV is higher than his, I can imagine it would be difficult to treat him as your captain. You can submit to a man with lower SMV than your own, hoping your submission will bring out the alpha in him, but I don't recommend this. Part of being a RPW is f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/16 11:38 PM |
| 1 | My HypergamyFeminism in academia is fascinating and something about which I am frequently complaining. "The men are oppressing the women in this" is not a literary criticism! It gets ridiculous, marking essay after essay with the exact same empty of nuance thesis. Have there been posts on this topic? I wonder how feminism manifests in different university departments. Are there any "reformed" women's studies students who identify with being a RPW? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/14 06:07 PM |
| 8 | My HypergamyI have character flaws that might disturb you even further. Guilt is a prominent and overarching impression on my mind. I made a lot of mistakes in my adolscence. Mistakes which brought me into contact with girls with similar behaviours through group therapy. False rape accusations were common place in that friend group, which I've long since abandoned. One girl went as far as a court case, which was abandoned because her story was inconsistent. I also spent a lot of time in online chatrooms and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/14 05:57 PM |
| 8 | My HypergamyHi, sorry, what is the point of TRP if not for people to educate and improve themselves? I began my post by stating that it would have a "decorum of self critisism" and I explicitly admitted to my past failings (of which you have by no means a complete history, and, note, neither does my partner, we have not shared every gorey detail from our ex relationships). You conclude that either I cannot be a RPW or my partner cannot be a Red Pill man. My partner and I are not perfect embodiments of Red P… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/14 05:09 PM |
| 1 | My HypergamyOh, that paragraph is all about me. I gotta watch myself. I'm not "trading [him] in," I've made my decision and I am committed to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/14 03:10 PM |
| 4 | My HypergamyHuh. Cool. I get to think about degrees of smiles now! I never considered being able to consciously control that facial affect on a register, but it seems super obvious now that I think about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/14 02:44 PM |
| 3 | My HypergamyWhat?! That's cool! I feel special. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/14 02:40 PM |
| 3 | My HypergamyI may be acting too friendly with all men. I make a constant conscious effort to affect warmth, smile, and laugh, after being frequently informed that I looked sad. Maintaining a platonic distance of noninvolvement is my obvious course of action, but do I have to be "cold" in our few interactions? I don't want to be unfriendly, or, God forbid, bitchy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/14 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Supporting SO's CareerI posted in this subreddit asking for advice. If I was the perfect RPW I wouldn't be asking for help. I recognize that I have faults by this community's standards. Edit: apostrophes are hard. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/14 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Supporting SO's CareerThanks for your comment. Hearing from someone with experience in this exact same situation is really helpful. I like your reminder rhetoric, it's more casual and "oh, by the way-y" than my "you are betraying your promise" tactic. This is going to be super helpful in a lot of other areas of my life because my SO struggles to remember things. It really bothers me, but he can't help it. The way I react to it is not working at all. This is the perfect strategy to use from here on out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/14 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Supporting SO's CareerHe read this thread and says you have it right. He likes the cards and finds them helpful and beneficial to our relationship, but he wants to manage their use on his own. I'm going to do the same for myself and we'll connect when we have shared relaxation activities. Thanks for your comment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/14 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Supporting SO's CareerGreat advice! Thanks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/14 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Supporting SO's CareerThe notion of a breakup entering the conversation at all is alarming to me. As a RPW I am focused on commitment. I understand their were conditions attached to the suggestions. I specified that those conditions were not met. S'all good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/14 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Supporting SO's CareerThank you for your comment. It was the first one to not make me feel attacked. You actually validated and reiterated what I wrote in my post, but pointed to the flaw in my logic. If he's not sticking to the cards, they obviously aren't right for him. And you offered an alternative means of support. I am aware of my partners goals, but I'm not sure there is anything I can do to assist him, except for with the one joint project we have, because his profession is beyond my understanding. I can offe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/14 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Supporting SO's CareerIs she saying if I want someone who is more of a workaholic I should not try to change my boyfriend into being one, but find a man who already is? I understood that, if that's what she's saying. I'm saying I don't want a workaholic, I want my SO and I want to support him in what he claims to want. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/14 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Supporting SO's CareerHe chooses the activities in the evening, right before he does them. He is changing his mind WHILE doing the activity. He is getting distracted. He has half hour relaxation activities scheduled in between 1 hour work blocks, but can't make it through the hour. There is ample time in the day for both relaxation and work and we are trying to optimize efficiency. Regardless, I will no longer support him in the schedule he sets, but concentrate on my own. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/14 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Supporting SO's CareerIt's not my schedule. I just made the cards. He voluntarily picked the activities he wanted to be on the cards as daily options, picks the cards he wants for that day, picks the order they go in, and has the freedom to change them, rearrange them, etc. I then choose my cards to accommodate his. What happens is he ends up doing relaxation activities when he has stated that he wants to be doing career activities at that point in his schedule. It's not me structuring his day. It's him structuring h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/14 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Supporting SO's CareerSorry, he chose the activities that would go on the cards. He is only doing things he wants to do, when he wants to do them. I do not plan his schedule in anyway. I've merely created visual representations of the goals he has for himself. He has specifically stated that he does not want to only relax in the home. He has far more to do beyond what he does at the office. Like I said, he has his own company to run on his own free time, as well as a bunch of other projects he is interested in. He is… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/14 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Supporting SO's CareerMy SO has explicitly stated that we (note the collective pronoun) have been too unfocused and unproductive in the previous few weeks and that he wishes to live an active and productive life. I made the cards for myself, initially. After seeing them, he asked me to make him a set. As far as my understanding goes, this is something he wants. What is cluttering his mind is all the things he needs to get done. He is constantly thinking ahead and planning, trying to organize his life to be as success… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/14 09:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you ladies stay feminine in the winter?Great suggestions already offered. Gonna reaffirm /u/eatplaycrush, here. I'm from Winnipeg, statistically the coldest city in Canada. I own a lot of over the knee and thigh high socks. Wearing them over tights adds an extra layer of warmth and is form fitting with school girl appeal. Plus, pretty colours and patterns. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/14 10:17 PM |
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