TitansTaint Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Found out she has another relationship		TitansTaint	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/23 09:33 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How am I supposed to restore my sanity? Because it's the chaos she is after and not the person. The drama and excitement is what she wants to catch. She will cheat on the drug dealers and losers too. Cheating is a thrill to people like that and nothing you could do can compare to what they get from it.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/23 07:41 PM
6	How am I supposed to restore my sanity? By not taking her actions as a reflection of yourself. You're beating yourself up over something you have no control over. It's only emasculating because you feel like you are somehow responsible. You aren't. A cheater is going to cheat regardless of anything you do.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/23 07:38 PM
1	The State of New Jersey ruined my Kid's Future and my life Justice is not the goal of the American legal system. Especially not family court. When I truly accepted that I was able to quit getting worked up over it and start playing the game too. I wish I would have done that much sooner, my kids needed that from me and I let them down. I'm making up for it now though.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/23 02:10 PM
1	Found out she has another relationship Sure! 40/M/Nashville. 5'10 strawberry blonde and blue eyes. I like motorcycles (sports bikes) and video games (PC/PS5). I play guitar (badly) and work out (irregularly). Also into boxing, both training and watching. In decent shape with a bit of a gut because I love my chocolate milk. I eat steak for breakfast lunch and dinner whenever possible. Just moved into a huge house and looking for someone to help fill all the empty spaces, including the ones in me. No idea if I'm a top or bottom, I've n…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/23 09:01 PM
1	Have anyone of you guys completely left dating since Divorce? I'm leaning more and more towards dating guys. I've always been curious and I think I'm going to give it a shot. I downloaded Grindr last night. I'm still not ready for a relationship but I can prob find a cuddle buddy without too much problem.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/23 07:19 PM
1	Found out she has another relationship They have his kid, a 3yr old, saying she loves her. It was barely 2 months ago we were swapping highly emotional texts for hours every day. I know I shouldn't stalk her social media and I usually roll my eyes at what I read but this one is something else.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/23 01:24 PM
1	Found out she has another relationship I feel like I do understand them. I think I'm going to date dudes going forward.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/23 01:21 PM
2	Any advice? Yes I had to get away quite a bit at the tail end of the marriage. Never to see anyone else, simply to get away from all the abuse.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/23 01:26 AM
2	Getting motivation All you can do is keep giving yourself grace and encouragement. It's a marathon, not a sprint. You will absolutely get there. I need more moments myself and I will get there too.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/23 01:13 AM
7	Getting motivation Understand that you matter and reconnect with yourself. Make yourself your top priority. Quit blaming and judging yourself. You've been through a lot and you're hurting really bad. Of course you're going to make mistakes. Give yourself grace, take the time and the actions that you need to get yourself to a safe and comfortable place, especially safety from and comfort with yourself. Once you're there you will find things like motivation come easily. When you put yourself first you'll find it muc…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/23 11:22 PM
1	My biggest fear is that a judge will rule that my stbx and I will still be financially intertwined after divorce? How likely is this? You're assuming AL is a reasonable place with reasonable people. Family judges have absolute power with no real oversight. Even child support they arbitrarily modify based on their whims. All it takes is an ex with low morals and/or a judge with a chip on their shoulder and next thing you know you are fucked, legally, with no recourse. It's not a place of rationality or fairness.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/23 05:33 AM
1	Does it ever get better with a narcissist? No. 7 years later she still fucks with me. New husband and new kid yet I'm still the favorite toy. I hope y'all don't have kids. I told her I won't even speak with her until she gets into trauma therapy, emails only until then.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/23 04:24 AM
1	My biggest fear is that a judge will rule that my stbx and I will still be financially intertwined after divorce? How likely is this? Judge gave my ex the house and left me with the mortgage, completely in my name. She stopped paying, I couldn't afford it along with my place, and they wouldn't kick her out so I could sell. The house foreclosed and I was left with 7 years of shit credit. It finally dropped off this year. This was in AL. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/23 04:19 AM
1	Men are commonly blamed for pushing harmful stereotypes onto boys. Study shows its actually the mothers. The problem is when toxicity is used to create that strength, turning it toxic as well.	/r/MensRights	12/01/23 05:09 PM
3	Men are commonly blamed for pushing harmful stereotypes onto boys. Study shows its actually the mothers. That was intentional.	/r/MensRights	12/01/23 05:04 PM