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| 2 | Lets be real | ToastNomNomNom | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 03:01 PM |
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| 1 | [deleted by user]I have been asked out by girl heck they might have more balls than I do in being direct one night in the pub she was singing on stage omg she had the most wonderful voice and we clicked really well banter wise. She would lock arms with me and be kind of intimate I kind of just played it cool I didn't find her physically attractive and the next day she called me and asked me out I turned her down. But till this day she has stuck as an amazing/confident person I kind of wish I kept in touch with h… | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 12:10 AM |
| 9 | [FR]Thursday - quick few approaches in barAsk the girl to introduce you to the friend or at-least say hi to her hanging in there is important. Your getting used to approaching now its time to evolve your conversation/kino/comfort. You could have said you sure you not a witch or something bring her into your imagination. Sure sometimes they might not go with it don't think of it as a loss, more of a lack of compatibility . You are here to learn and keep pushing forwards. That said Good Fucking Job though approaching! | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Second approach ever - Rejection - Help meYour looking for people that are compatible with YOU, you are not trying to be compatible with them. She is not interested means she not suitable for you. Approaching is a WIN WIN scenario. You get the girl or you learn Learn to be charismatic , sociable ,confident, determined , persistent, vulnerable, funny , sexual , leader and so on. You only lose when you give up , You only lose when you don't try You don't live forever, so be the best version of yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 11:52 PM |
| 11 | DAE wish they could see more approaches happen in front of them?I see it is pretty rare in a sense but most the time you won't notice as approaches can actually look pretty natural so they might be hard to spot. Some people approach just asking for trivial information like directions. The more experience you have the more natural you would act like they were already your friends in a sense. Last year my friends band preformed and afterwards he just went up to a girl watching took her hand and kissed it introducing himself like it was the most normal shit eve… | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Is it worth approaching?2 things could happen. You do fuck all and fuck all happens You approach its a little scary you feel hella nervous especially the longer you wait but you realize its not actually that scary. Maybe shes likes you , maybe not doesn't really matter because you have accomplished your goal of gaining experience. Experience is worth it. | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 12:09 AM |
| 2 | A big thank you and a bit of a small victory for me.Well done! | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 12:52 PM |
| 6 | What is the purpose of life?Think of the person you would like to meet and become that person. The only person can make you happy is you. This mostly a mental decision if your unhappy ask yourself why? Since your posting on seddit its most likely you seek a relationship so you should go pursue that. However that may not necessarily make you happy being happy itself is more well rounded find your own hobbies/passions. Being self-sufficient financially, maintain your physical/mental health. The answer is derived from within … | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Neil strauss - The simplest way to setting a goal for your lifeThat cracked me up | /r/seduction | 02/10/16 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Being played by a tomboy, how to react?Don't play games be upfront, your too invested in her actions and not your own. Try to set up a hang out once or twice but if you get flaked move on. | /r/seduction | 02/10/16 01:15 PM |
| 9 | Sorry i'm lateFrame - If you feel uncomfortable so will the other person. If you identify with what your saying it doesn't really matter what you talk about with humor its being aware that your having fun for yourself being outcome independent is key. That said its usually easier said than done, so you will need a bit of trail and error no smooth sailing tricks work in the real world. | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like to be chased by men?Would you like to be chased by women? Depends if you find them attractive physically/mentally- E.g. gorgeous women with brain damage not attractive ugly women with wonderful personality not attractive You need some sort of balance. The only way for you not to be annoying is to build social intelligence which you will build through experience = win some , learn(failure). My advice being cool doesn't really work in a sense because it puts you off approaching, I am not saying be desperate but becom… | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Top 20% have 80%Lets take a pause here and talk about what efforts you have actually put into developing your game. What habits do you have(hobbies,regular approaches)? Do you always put off approaches waiting for ideal moments? Why is your game not to the standard you desire. In your own sentence you said what you lacked was experience. So do you approach , Do you show sexual intent , do you calibrate. My main tip based on what you just wrote suggests your comparing yourselves with others when instead you shou… | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 03:52 PM |
| 30 | [FR] Zero kino to sex? Yeah, I was surprised too.The field reports getting better in this sub lol | /r/seduction | 23/03/16 09:24 AM |
| 17 | How to approach a girl you don't know?Basically at the moment you are making a similar mistake most of us do. You are too concerned with her judgement or those around you. I suggest you start valuing your own actions more. Don't worry about being a creep in fact most girls will find you creepy when you first start approaching this will change over time as you become comfortable so shall she. But what do I say? Hello , my name is yada. I think your beautiful, (talk about your day) Observational Pick something out of the present envir… | /r/seduction | 16/03/16 10:50 AM |
| 7 | [FR]Never assume someone's out of your leagueFucking A | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 03:34 PM |
| 1 | "If you don't have any confidence, just fake some"Think of it this way confidence or courage means that you have to take actions that is scary by definition. You might think some people are so confident but everyone is scared its just some people keep doing things that are scary. I done a lot of ballsy stuff in my life but am I confident no. Is this going to be scary fuck yeah. Will it get easier yes, but you have to commit to taking action. Its okay to be scared but take action not for results but for yourself. Actions to take social hobbies ,… | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Daygame #1 getting started,Trains are good places to start convo they also have a set time restriction so both party don't expect much. My advice to you is its fine to talk about her university and stuff but try and find her passion too like why she is studying that. Or what she enjoys connect emotionally with feeling even though you have a short time. For example when you gave the hair elastic you could kino and even say your hands are soft/hard (hot/cold) rub them briefly. With good eye contact. Also you hesitated to st… | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to ask out a girl, failed badlyFirst props for going for it in life you should take the oh wells vs what ifs? Yeah sometimes it won't work but that were you need to develop outcome independence, respect actions you take as opposed to the results. Seems like you need to work on social skills a little bit, start by being friendly with more people just start conversation with strangers as much as you can. Some classes I would recommend Acting Improv Dancing - Salsa bachanta e.t.c Singing These classes help develop your courage c… | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 11:33 AM |
| 1 | I can't go for the kissWhat is holding you back exactly? Not comfortable with the kiss itself? Not sure if she will be receptive? Don't know how to initiate it? | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Central London - Wingman wanted - DaygameLol i think i know the guy your talking about. | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 10:02 AM |
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