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Just for fun, lets use a uno reverse "Guys List of Red Flags from a Woman" 01) She likes or prefers Tall Guys 02) Talking about her "girlfriends" and "girls night out" 03) Says anything negative at all about men 04) Talks about her ex boyfriend at all 05) Takes pride in having a high body count 06) She wears too much makeup 07) Doesn't stay fit / over a certain lb limit 08) Cares too much about her jewelery 09) Too busy taking pics instead of actually enjoying the moment 10) Withholds sex after …
/r/AntiFeminists19/07/22 09:23 PM
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You are referring to 2 specific kinds of Feminist, old school classical Feminists who genuinely wanted equal rights & treatment, and modern inactive Feminists who are Feminists mostly by name only. I've encountered both of these on multiple occasions. Both tend to believe in "Live & Let Live" and hold true to their values & beliefs when you gender swap a scenario. While both are quick to put caveats on sample scenarios when questioned, they'll apply those same caveats when you then gender swap t…
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 04:53 PM
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First off, if you wanted a better idea on the growth of MGTOW in relation to our culture, you would look at more than 1 sub reddit. You'd look at the counter to MGTOW specifically and their growth, you'd look at YouTube channels revolving around MGTOW to look at their unique viewers, their total views, subscribers, you'd look at MGTOW influencers on other platforms, you'd look non-MGTOW channels that talk & support our arguments in their own sphere of influence. Something that a lot of the MGTOW…
/r/MGTOW231/07/21 01:29 PM
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Definition?
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 01:59 AM
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Here's my story, I hope it helps you. When I was in 3rd grade, that was when home life started going straight to shit. I had just moved to a new town, step father just entered my life which by & far would turn out to be the worst person to exist in my life. It was in 3rd grade where I started to pick up a skill set. The ability to make people hate me. This ability would serve me very, very well over the years. I'm currently 23 years old. I've been a MGTOW for 6 years. I've always treated my frie…
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 01:50 AM
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I'm planning on having kids, and making them earn an inherentence. If they don't, I'll probably set up some Non-Profit or a company to provide some services for the MGTOW community. Maybe a nonprofit to help pay for lawyer fees for husband's to divorce their wives, help fathers get their kids back, provide education to help prevent men from falling into a rigged system meant to destroy them.
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 12:41 AM
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MGTOW is a lifestyle NOT a movement.
/r/MGTOW219/07/21 05:00 PM
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I was thinking of sharing that here. Tim Pool has been doing MGTOW-Lite content for awhile now, coming from a political & cultural angle. He does commentary & political news first & foremost, but I've always liked his content.
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 10:06 PM
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Challenge Accepted. I'll give you credit, given the current society & culture & laws, the solutions that the government came up with were the right ones, and even then it was implemented correctly. The problem became time. Time changes everything, and our culture, our society, our values changed. More laws were added, but we never considered throwing out the rotten old laws. The current situation we all find ourselves in is that less and less men wants kids or marriage, and plenty of women still…
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 01:10 PM
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This is why I disagree with the idea of "First Rule of Fight Club, Don't talk about Fight Club." It's a good thing to talk to others about our lifestyle, let them see the results of living our freedom fully. We are not a movement, but showing men that there is a better option, well its only human of them to logically pick the better lifestyle for themselves.
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 12:11 PM
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I've done polls in here multiple times, and any poll should be easy to understand and simple. Any poll that requires an explanation, give one in the comments and say in the poll description that a detailed comment is below. Personally, I think the biggest issue I have with the poll, is that the question asked doesn't match the answers provided. Your answers are all about how men interact with women, and not at all touching on the different lifestyles of MGTOW men. I think a better question would…
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 11:31 AM
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Then Hermit is perfect for you. Personally, I say Hermit is the best level, and most MGTOW are either Merchants or Hermits.
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 03:37 AM
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Nothing wrong with that. Being self aware of how you are mentally & personally allows you to better understand yourself and live your best life.
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 03:31 AM
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I myself am a MGTOW Hermit
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 01:30 AM
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Ok, first just to get this out of the way, I hate the way this is structured. I've been a MGTOW for 6 years and I spent 20 minutes bouncing between your options, not liking any of them. I have to pick Monk, but I would not ever describe myself as a MGTOW Monk. Next, to me, how I've always described the different levels of MGTOW go like this: Monk 1 3 Hermit 4 5 Merchant 2 4 Apprentice 2 4 6 Your options fit in my levels as I listed above. Now here are my definitions Apprentice These are typicall…
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 01:24 AM
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I've been to therapy, and I've had a couple friends who practice in the field of psychology, so I'd like to first start off with a thank you for choosing a field that requires an immense amount of patience & selflessness to pursue. I had a friend who specifically worked with kids & teens as a psychologist, I don't know the exact title of his specialty. One of the reasons our friendship ended was that he used his training and knowledge to try and "help" me become a "better person" by constantly u…
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 11:44 PM
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MGTOW of 6 years, MGTOW is a lifestyle NOT a movement. Those who oppose men choosing this lifestyle want to frame our lifestyle as a movement because you can attack a movement, you can't attack a lifestyle. In order to beat a lifestyle you need to convince each and every person who chooses that lifestyle to abandon it. To beat a movement, you just need to drag it into public light and do a massive shaming campaign. The reason why those who oppose MGTOW don't want to drag the MGTOW lifestyle into…
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 11:26 AM
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I've often asked people "Why should you tell not tell lies" and they often give me moral bs. They then turn my question on me and I tell them "There's nothing wrong with lying, it's just that the truth will always be more entertaining than the lie ever will be" Being brutally honest is something people aren't accustomed to, and puts them on notice. If you hold yourself to a higher standard, then you will be applying that standard to others to determine whether or not they stay in your life. To t…
/r/MGTOW223/06/21 08:33 AM
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Here's my story. Its often been a joke in my family that my mother is gifted at swinging a social ax, cutting people out of her life. When I started going MGTOW, I found it very easy to cut people out to. I'm naturally a generous person, but its easy to spot parasitic humans vs appreciative humans. Men & Women got cut from my life as I weeded them out. I used this now gathered peace & quiet to focus on myself, fix my own issues, grow my future. As toxic people became attracted to me, it was easy…
/r/MGTOW223/06/21 07:37 AM
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Everyone would pick that option, it's why I don't include it
/r/MGTOW222/06/21 02:00 PM
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I've been doing this for years. Unkempt beard, long messy hair, Walmart clothes, OK shoes. Focused on comfort instead of style. It's been wonderful having everyone assume stuff about me based on my appearance. Effectively weeds people out before they enter my life.
/r/MGTOW222/06/21 04:50 AM
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Amazing post, a good read. Just FYI, MGTOW is a lifestyle, not a movement. Movements try to change society, the laws, the norm. MGTOW is a lifestyle that frees men to live their life their own way.
/r/MGTOW221/06/21 01:44 PM
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Welcome to MGTOW. I've had friends both male & female be Feminists, so I understand how hard it must be on you to take your freedom back into your own hands. If you ever need help, advice, or guidance, make a post and we will help you. We've all been on this journey and if there is one strength above all in the MGTOW community, it's that we share our stories, our experiences, our successes, our pains, our struggles. . Take the time to identify for yourself what you want from life, what will fulf…
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 05:33 PM
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Yes the legal unfairness is all over the place. With 5 its more of an issue with women's behavior, motives, priorities, incentives, and perspective. Men as a whole are completely different than women as a whole when looking at each of these things. As such, when looking out for yourself as a man as well as designing your lifestyle, you need to make your own priorities logical in accordance with your behavior motives & perspective.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 01:16 AM
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I made this poll out of curiosity. I've been a MGTOW for 6 years, only recently joined reddit so I'm new here. I'm just trying to productively learn about the other men I share a lifestyle with.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 01:12 AM
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2 is about the law & divorce court, it's purely about the legal ramifications of marriage & child custody battles 5 is about looking out for your own physical mental & social well being in the regards of living a happy healthy life as well as working towards & maintaining that lifestyle that is best suited for you.
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 11:17 PM
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Good point. I'll probably make a new poll when this one runs out with more positive answers. Probably going to ask "What about the MGTOW lifestyle do you enjoy the most?" Thanks for the feedback
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 08:36 PM
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What have you done thus far? What haven't you done? How is that harder on you? It's an opportunity. Invite them over for dinner, start up a thing with your buddy where you guys cook for each other. So Mondays at his place, Thursdays at yours. Use it as an opportunity to get better at cooking, while subtly showing to him how happy you are as well showing her that you mean what you preach about living a happy single life.
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 06:06 PM
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I have some personal experience that can help. Advice at the bottom. My best friend of 5 years (at the time) had always had trouble with romance. He could always get a girl, it was making it work that was the trouble. He would always come to me for advice, and as long as he followed my advice things went well. As can be expected, he often would stray away from my advice and things would fall apart. So I'm hanging out with him, and he tells me he has a new girlfriend, and wants us to walk over to…
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 04:31 PM
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This was an amusing read. All this will effectively do is kill marriage. It'll force men to not have any choice but to GYOW out of survival. Another interesting bit, it's now domestic violence to insinuate that you will divorce or abandon your partner if they don't comply. This will just cause more sudden break ups that are severe & fast paced.
/r/MGTOW213/06/21 06:30 AM
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She never got back onto my doorstep when she was trying to get off the street. Personally, I give her 4-5 months before she tries again. She didn't realize what she had until she lost it 🤣 lmao 🤣
/r/MGTOW212/06/21 03:07 PM
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Seajacks are a good one too. Just like jumping jacks except you keep your arms raised to the same level & on the jump you bring them together still raised in front of you, on the jump to spread your legs your arms go back to the original position.
/r/MGTOW212/06/21 10:28 AM
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That put a smile on my face. I've had an ex like that, desperate to get back what she lost.
/r/MGTOW212/06/21 10:12 AM
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u/WorstIreliaWorld You've run the numbers? In that case, please present your math. I'm a math nut, I love running numbers, making encryption, and double checking other people's work.
/r/MGTOW212/06/21 10:10 AM
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What have I done in the last 2 weeks? ◇ Martial Arts (Muay Thai) 4 times a week every week. ◇ Personal Trainer 3 times a week every week. ◇ 50-70 hour workweek at my warehouse job. ◇ Magic The Gathering night with my friends each week. ◇ Cooking healthy meals that taste delicious each and everyday. ◇ Planning the further expansion of my landlord company. These things may not be what you're looking for, but independence does not always mean isolation as well. Humans are social creatures and I enj…
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 11:25 AM
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You could do what I did for a few years. Intentionally look terrible. Unkept Beard, hair, clothes you feel comfortable in but are cheap, no cologne, shower 3 times a week, and just literally make yourself unappealing. When people take offense, "It makes me happy & feel good about myself." Its a measure that really helps turn people, especially women, away from you. Also, no one cares about dick size. Absolutely no one.
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 12:46 AM
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I got a solution. You need to first understand the problem before you can craft a solution. You don't have a physical or a chemical problem. What you have is a mental problem, a perception issue. I'm 23 and had the same issue, but this has massively worked in my favor. Numbing to sexual stimulus. This is achieved through porn & a good fleshlight. It takes a lot of time, bit essentially you are doing meditation as you jerk off. If you don't perceive that in which you are experiencing and viewing …
/r/MGTOW208/06/21 07:45 PM
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I'm enjoying it as well, quality conversations are rare everywhere these days. "So how do you deal with equal pay when there's a significant income disparity on either side?" Assuming a heterosexual date, you have three scenarios Wealthier Guy & Poorer Girl = 1 Guy & Girl of equal wealth = 2 Poorer Guy & Wealthier Girl = 3 Option 2 = It's just equal Pay Option 1 = Guys already feel entitled to pay, and let's be honest, everyone enjoys showing off. If the guy here already asked this girl out, or …
/r/MGTOW208/06/21 04:24 PM
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I do agree with your summary given in your final sentence "Low quality individuals are ruining it for everyone". A lot of men come to MGTOW because either Low Quality Women (LQW) are making the current dating market intolerable and/or have seen how the laws & courts have made marriage not even a logical possibility anymore. A lot of our stories and experiences are created because we exist in a society that encourages people to be Low quality while also shaming them for it. In my experience, some…
/r/MGTOW208/06/21 01:23 PM
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My record is 6 months or 189 days. Currently I'm 1 month, I'm trying to go a year and longer. The problem with me is that I genuinely don't enjoy sex, I don't recieve pleasure from it, but I'm 23 so biology is a bitch. I have my own mind & body betraying my own personal choice. I tried a LTR recently, and it ended in disaster. I've used each of my relationships as experiments on myself and my partner, and with this last relationship I've been proven right too many times. No more romantic relatio…
/r/MGTOW206/06/21 03:32 PM
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I've always despised marriage. I knew back in my teens I'd never marry. Between 14-19 I was essentially MGTOW, I experimented with girls (I was seeing whether or not a mental condition I had at the time would either allow me to have or maintain a romantic relationship. Turns out I could, it just isn't worth it). Once I hit my 20's it became more of me working against my own mind & body for the sake of my own sanity & health. I personally didn't have truly bad experiences with females. However, I…
/r/MGTOW206/06/21 03:45 AM
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I fully agree with your premise, romance does not exist I've often said for years that "Love is nothing more than a convenient excuse to justify one's irrational and illogical actions behaviors thoughts and feelings directed towards a specific person." That part out of the way, here is where I disagree. As it has been noted with me on this reddit, 1) I'm a sadistic person & 2) I talk about MGTOW irl with others. I have talked about MGTOW with females as well, and well here are my findings. Typic…
/r/MGTOW229/05/21 02:34 AM
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Amazing post, great thing to read first thing in the morning. It reminds me of how I perceive people and life "We are our own God's. The only authority above us, the only people with power over us, are those that we allow to have that power and authority over us." One of the mindsets I have when going through life is that everyone you come across has no inherent value and means nothing. The purpose behind this mindset isn't to dismiss people themselves, but rather raise the bar for those who see…
/r/MGTOW228/05/21 11:52 AM
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I do talk openly with people around me. I have former family that tried to guilt me into "finding love" and with what my childhood gave me, I have a very brutal sense of honesty. Being sadistic as well, I enjoyed telling my family in no uncertain terms was I ever getting married nor that I was interested in relationships. In a more positive light, as mentioned in a previous reply on this thread, I have a circle of friends which enjoy debate, arguments, and are very open and honest regardless of …
/r/MGTOW226/05/21 08:46 PM
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Its amazing how often songs have a lot of MGTOW lessons in them. It'd be nice if someone made a MGTOW Playlist of popular songs from the 60's - now.
/r/MGTOW226/05/21 05:13 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm 23 and even at my age sex has become unenjoyable and without pleasure. I was talking with someone today, female friend of mine, and I told her I only ever have sex if I'm extremely high or extremely bored out of my mind. I will admit cuddling can still be really nice, but that's not really a need I need to fulfill on any kind of regular basis.
/r/MGTOW226/05/21 05:11 PM
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In my circle of friends, we enjoy challenging each other, arguing & debating, so its a natural part of our friendship. That and we are extremely honest with each other, it's just the respect we have for each other to be brutally honest in our opinions and views on each other. Not only that, but there are political buddies of mine and we disagree on cultural things as well so it's helpful to try and poke holes in each other's arguments
/r/MGTOW226/05/21 05:08 PM
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Fair review. I did stack the deck here.
/r/MGTOW226/05/21 05:04 PM
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My success is mostly driven by how I spent my childhood. I would spend hours a day hanging out on the porches of my neighbors who were 50 60 70 years old. We'd talk about the world, religion, family, life experiences, philosophy, cooking, people, just anything and everything really. My exposure to these people & their experiences combined with seeing how my grandmother handled preparing for her old age (poorly) and my own mother's lifelong struggle with health, these are the driving factors that…
/r/MGTOW223/05/21 11:50 AM
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That depends on where you are. In Maine you could because it's a 1 person consent state for audio & video.
/r/MGTOW222/05/21 09:30 AM
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It really comes down to what lifestyle you want. I look at the economic situation and agree, it's really bad to work right now and be a taxpayer, but why should the government be the only one with a money printer? I'm a landlord myself, so once I have enough properties, I can effectively retire early and do whatever I please. You don't need to do real estate, but if right now you have a solid paying job and excess cash, use it to build your own money printer whether that's Crypto, Real Estate, o…
/r/MGTOW222/05/21 08:53 AM
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