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I believe so.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 02:11 PM
1

That’s what I’m sayin! 60/40 my ass 😂
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 09:50 PM
1

I hate to break it to you, but if there are 4 kids involved, you’re not getting a penny of that house sale.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 08:24 PM
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It’s not so much an ego thing for me but more of a moral substance or lack thereof. I’ve never been cheated on, but I wouldn’t be interested in having someone lacking moral depth in my life.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 08:16 PM
1

I would love to help man but I’m focused on Ohio’s HB508.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 02:16 AM
0

Doesn’t sound like you really have one
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 11:51 AM
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Nope. Not in Ohio anyways. The courts wouldn’t care if he was leaving her for her sister or his wife was leaving him for his brother. That’s the one thing all attorneys I have consulted with have agreed upon.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 11:48 AM
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Ide venture to say it would be a net positive for him. And it’s entirely irrelevant to the fight for his kids.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 03:03 AM
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Go have an affair. You live once.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 02:23 AM
9

Yeah it’s worth a try. No point in stretching yourself thin on something that only decreases in value. On a positive note - used cars and trucks have never been in higher demand.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/22 01:14 AM
1

Pay it.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/22 05:51 PM
7

If my wife up and left me with our 2 dogs and 3 cats and the majority of time with my kid, then my lawyer got me everything I wanted in my wildest dreams.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/22 01:55 AM
2

Don’t you get partial custody? If not, how come?
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/22 01:22 AM
1

This is a phase for sure. Right around the age where she might have a boyfriend and maybe mom allows her to stay out later with him? Or maybe doesn’t ask any questions at all? My girlfriend in highschool did the same thing to her dad just because she knew he would keep a tighter leash on her. She loved him way more though. Just a thought. I know it hurts but you two will laugh about this on her wedding day. Chin up man!
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 12:13 AM
2

Sign up on match.com (or ourtime if that’s your age bracket). Go on some dates and find a connection.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 08:59 PM
4

Can you reconcile and go renew vows while hiking the beautiful steep trails in the Grand Canyon?
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/22 01:53 AM
2

I’m not saying to purposely not respect her. All I am saying is that every ounce of ‘try’ you have available should go towards your (and your kids) betterment.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/22 01:23 PM
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Why try to respect her? Why try anything? Haven’t you tried to make the marriage work long enough? Fuck try.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/22 01:25 AM
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Why would you give up your house and put yourself and such a huge disadvantage when it comes to custody? If you do that, say good bye to your kids and hello to every other weekend dad.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/22 11:42 AM
5

I mean no disrespect but you’re still almost a kid dude. You’ve got your whole life ahead of you. Go get it!
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/22 01:09 AM
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I sometimes wonder how many family judges get assaulted? To me it seems like the most dangerous job in the world. To wave your wand and take a child away from a parent like you’re god. Am I the only one who wonders why you don’t hear more about judges getting killed? Edit addition: this is an honest question
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/22 01:06 AM
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Wax isn’t heroin, it’s a different form of weed FYI. Not that it’s not still a problem though…
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/22 04:05 PM
1

Don’t give her anything until you have a signed decree
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 03:58 AM
5

Half your age plus 7. This is THE rule. Additionally, fuck what anyone and everyone thinks. That’s what leads to most divorces anyways. Facts.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 03:46 AM
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Why won’t he see the kid for 3 years? I don’t get it…
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/22 11:29 AM
3

This very much resonates with me, but this has been a struggle for me for a few years so maybe I’ve emotionally prepared myself. If not that, then I’ve overstayed her welcome. At first it was minor annoyances like the constantly “wash you hands” requests 3-5X per day. Four years later she tries to control everything up to and including how you hold your silverware at the dinner table and correcting your grammar on-the-spot mid-story. I could deal with all this but throwing a scene at a dinner pa…
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/22 10:10 AM
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This is your life. You have 1 shot at it. It’s what ever works for you. Find your peace and happiness.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/22 09:39 AM
6

It’s separate property until you convert it to home equity (if you bought the home after you got married that is).
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/22 03:49 AM
3

Why did you let someone kick you out of your house? Those threats are empty because they’re not completely for her to decide. I told my STbX I’ll leave the house only in a body bag or court order.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/22 11:20 AM
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How many of the 6 kids are actually yours? I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you. A lot wrong with her though.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 09:34 PM
0

If she corrects your grammar while you’re talking.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/22 12:25 AM
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it’s leaps and bounds better than alcohol or ambien which cause dangerous side effects (or even the 2 glasses of wine she drinks every night). The point is that the accusation is taken at face value which it shouldn’t unless there’s proof that it has impacted any other area of your life. Which you won’t find because I’m squeaky clean
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/22 10:41 AM
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Medically. And my doctor offered me a prescription. But I am a state board licensed structural engineer and stand on a handful of committees and boards. I’m just worried that getting a medical card could come back and bite me. Edit addition: I was also told by said lawyer that having a medical card is proof that I consume cannabis and would certainly get denied joint parenting/custody.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/22 12:45 AM
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But the STBX is claiming he has a drinking problem and pretty much eliminates the chances of getting partial custody right? That’s what the lawyer I recently consulted with told me. My wife claims I’m a drug addict because I use to smoke one hit of weed before going to bed to help with insomnia. I have zero criminal record and never even had as much as a traffic ticket but the lawyer said that the court will error on the side of caution for my child and I will be assumed a drug addict until, ove…
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/22 12:38 AM
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Why wouldn’t you get at least a few nights a week at your own place with the kids? That’s fucked. I’m just gearing up for this and my hope is dwindling. I have no criminal record and by all means a class act, educated, excellent career and even the recent consultation I had with a lawyer said I won’t get joint custody! Wtf is this bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 01:39 AM
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Your kids get to stay at your house 3 nights a week and every other weekend? Or you just get to roll over to your ex’s house and visit?
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 01:06 AM
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Housing availability. That and the fact that western society doesn’t give the man a fair handshake in divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 01:00 AM
0

Tell the dudes wife fuck it why not.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 12:44 PM
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I was you a year ago and a half ago. Now we have an 8 month old. And the thought of not getting joint custody brings me to tears daily. Run. Now.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 12:15 AM
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I paid a therapist a lot of money and sessions to get this advice right here!
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 12:12 AM
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Relationships don’t have to be complex and usually aren’t with the right person.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 02:18 PM
1

I’ve amassed an impressive real estate investment portfolio over the past 15 years. I think I may just want to be the guy you hear about on the news that had two families and got away with it for decades.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 12:45 AM
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100% completely disagree. After couples therapy, I knew everything she was going to come at me with. I knew how close we were to the end of the rope. Everything
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 10:16 AM
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It was highly beneficial. It will get you a great preview of the dirt she will use against you. It took all the wind out of her sails. It will also give you a good indication of how much time is left.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 10:13 AM
2

Wow that’s like a normal daily conversation at my house. I think this bitch in my life has overstayed her welcome.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 12:40 AM
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Of course it’s going to work out in her favor. Western society doesn’t give the man a fair handshake in divorce. Is she the biological mom of your son?
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/22 11:30 AM
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Why file first? Does that make a difference?
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/22 10:06 AM
1

Sorry that this question isn’t related your post, but how did you go about finding a therapist? There are so many ‘specialties’ it makes my head spin.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/22 10:55 AM
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Holy. Fucking. Shit. How did I get this far down the divorce rabbit hole without discovering this.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/22 11:38 AM
1

You’re going through a lot of life changes and negative emotions right now and I can sympathize with the ADHD hyper focus. But you can’t trust your thoughts right now. No body could if they were going through what your going through. I remember losing my job to ADHD behavior when I was 26 and again at 28. I remember the following weeks of google hyper focus on what possible mental disorders I could have. Never in a million year would I ever have a successful career. Now I’m 40 and a senior engin…
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/22 11:12 PM
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Is your landlord okay with her taking over the lease? The landlord might as well be considered a third individual in this marriage because he needs to approve the lease situation. I had a nice tenant try to dump his degenerate STBX on me and I killed that deal fast.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/22 12:20 PM
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You get to find new pussy. Story done.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 11:24 AM
1

Sell the house and go bro!!!!!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/22 11:50 AM
2

Did you buy those extra homes (I’m assuming they’re rentals), before you got married and they’re premarital assets?
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/22 10:51 AM
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Do you care if I ask how you found a therapist? Are there therapists that specialize in divorced men? I’m not sure where to begin.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/22 07:46 PM
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No you’re not being fair at all. You’re screwing yourself over. Go get half that retirement account.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/22 02:01 PM
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You profit off the home. Period. The marriage is over. It’s about the money now
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 02:38 PM
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Bring it up in court. Maybe spinning this as a hazard to the children will help you with custody? Bringing flighty ‘flings’ around the children? Sorry man. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 05:36 PM
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