Judge signed the order on Wednesday. I basically have visitation whenever the ex is at work, 3 nights a week and every other weekend. The same day, her shift got cancelled. Me wanting to see my daughter volunteered to watch her and my wife’s nieces for a while so she could go get groceries etc.

She took our daughter to the grocery store with her, at 3:30 PM, I picked the other two up from after school, fed them, put them to bed. She gets back from the grocery store at 8PM, hands me our daughter to feed dinner, and leaves to go to another store, doesn’t return until 10:40PM.

Today, she works 6:30AM-7PM, asks me at lunch time if I can stay late. I said 9PM is about it because I have to be at work at 5:30AM.

Gets mad, threatens to hire a baby sitter for while she’s at work, I told her that’s fine if she wants to hire one to watch her nieces, but according to the custody agreement I get my daughter while she’s at work.

Next threat is to change the custody agreement.

I’ve seen this whole show between her and her ex for the last 10 years, and I know they won’t modify the agreement that was just signed last week, but it’s very frustrating to have my child continuously held over my head. Guess I’m just venting, but I’m paying 1/3 of my income in child support and have the kids more of their waking hours than she does…