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You seem to know what you're doing, so maybe you can explain this one to me. I met a girl through a small house hangout with friends of friends, got her number at the end of the night, and went to set something up. I invited her to check out 3 apartments with me, and to see the local bars and grab dinner. After grabbing a drink at 3 different bars and dinner at one of them, she invited back to a bar in her neighborhood, where we grabbed a few drinks, back to her place, and we ended up seeing eac…
/r/seduction30/05/25 06:11 PM
1

It's about boundaries and enforcing them. As a former "nice guy" I was misled by my single-mother upbringing that, effectively, subservience to a woman's needs over your own would lead to loving connection. This was false, and is the trap that a lot of men fall into. Abandoning the self will ultimately lead to that self getting fed up and lashing out. Know who you are, and what you want, and if another person infringes on these things, defend your boundaries, whatever they are. Women are not att…
/r/seduction29/03/25 01:50 PM
2

My favorite way to get my mind cleared is to try to focus on three senses at once. I close my eyes and take notice of the red behind my eyelids. I pick a sound and focus on it, and I take notice of the sensation of my breath in my throat. When I do all three things, my mind stops producing thoughts. It's actually difficult to get all three going at once...
/r/seduction24/06/16 04:04 AM
9

The times I've done the neck, she was shy and it worked out well. If she's not into you, you shouldn't even be attempting a kiss. You should already realize it. It also fits with my personality as I do a lot of touching and grab ass. Pushing them away when we banter, and grabbing them in for hugs when they say something funny or cute. So, if after all that, I still feel that they're into me, and they present a cheek, I playfully go for the neck, instead. If it's a more intense sort of physical v…
/r/seduction21/06/15 10:29 PM
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On the cheek and neck situation, whenever I know a girl is comfortable with me, and I go to kiss her and she presents a cheek, I usually go for the neck, instead. It tends to have good results.
/r/seduction21/06/15 05:00 PM
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You have to be genuinely interested in what they're saying, and the 'right questions' are to show an understanding of their topic, with a genuine curious 'digging' through follow-ups. I don't really know how to fake it, I tend to just enjoy meeting new people and hearing their stories. Women tend to not have the most interesting stories, though, so I end up chatting with dudes at the bar all the time... But yeah, you have to be genuinely curious and ask questions which show a curiosity and build…
/r/seduction29/05/15 05:10 PM
47

I find intimate dancing to be the essential embodiment of the masculine and feminine meeting. It's basically having a conversation utilizing only body language and your sense of touch. As the man, you'll have to be the 'lead' meaning you'll have to create a story and an escalation path that fits both your role and the music. It'll be a ton of push-pull with you escalating, her submitting, her then pushing away and you having to transition that rejection into a separate path in the 'story'. As in…
/r/seduction26/04/15 05:09 PM
14

I had a girl like that in high school. I can remember occasionally she'd put on too much lotion and ask for my hands to get it off of her... ... Fuck was wrong with me. She's a lesbian now. I totally could have ... Well, probably brought her to that sexual realization quicker with how fucking awkward and weird I was back then.
/r/seduction09/04/15 06:58 PM
46

He should sue her for 3 months of lost wages + damages.
/r/PussyPass08/04/15 08:33 PM
3

Something similar happened to me in HS, but it was some freshman boy... It was fucking weird, neither of us is gay, but he tried to push some narrative that I sexually assaulted him. Said it was at some party, but everyone there said I sat on one sofa the whole time and did jack shit, while he was across the room and we never spoke. Said it happened at a camp, but everyone there said it didn't. It ended up being taken to court for Gross Sexual Imposition. I, of course, didn't get any charges, bu…
/r/PussyPass10/03/15 05:28 PM
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It doesn't have to be a great excuse if she wants to be alone, also. Don't try to focus too hard on that aspect. Hella easy if you are a smoker, or there is one in the room. I only have a cigarette when I am at a party and someone else has some. Really easy if she smokes, but if you can bum one, then tell her to come outside with you, you're set. From there, just go to a secluded part of the outdoors and take a few token hits before escalating.
/r/seduction10/02/15 07:41 PM
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Does this account for those of breeding age, or is my widowed grandmother one of the dots?
/r/seduction31/01/15 12:47 AM
1

I was just at a seminar a few days ago and they made a point to announce that they are tying to get more women in. In a room of 45 applicants, one was a woman... and she didn't have a driver's license.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:12 AM
2

I don't have them on a pedestal. They all look like short men with weak chins, long hair, and soft bodies to me.
/r/seduction27/12/14 06:01 PM
2

I always compliment on what she does, not who she is.
/r/seduction27/12/14 04:18 PM
2

I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking this. Maybe it's because I'm not married or something, but if any of my exes brought this up to me, I'd be like, "Yeah, go fuck him."
/r/PussyPass08/12/14 07:32 AM
11

Oh he's fucking set. Just saw an opportunity for a bit of friendly ribbing.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:03 PM
23

He should exercise his appreciating asset and educate himself in technology.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 04:57 PM
1

Well, when I say I need to cut, I mean I need to lose weight. I'm easily 20%+ BF. Once I get it down to a decent damned place, I can stop worrying about it so much.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 07:53 AM
1

I deadlift once a week (when disciplined) and have a nice spreadsheet that is a 5x3x1 plan I set up. 4 days a week, OHP, Squat, Bench, Deadlift. My numbers tend to stall because I want to cut, then I see the stats drop, then I gain weight, then I want to cut... So I have really been plateaued for a while.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 05:25 AM
1

I know a 27-year-old woman that is a virgin and is a nurse with her own home. She's just... I don't know what her issue is. We fooled around once a few months ago, and I had to teach her to kiss. She came at me with her tongue wedged between her lips all rigid and I had to set her straight. She's very... Eh, she's not really attractive. Skinny with small tits and no ass. Also, wears no make-up and has a nervous thing where she pulls out all of her eyebrow hairs. I just knew her from highschool a…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:19 AM
1

Eh, I know a few that are adults. I know they're just a quick cock away from racking up a dozen following it, though.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:17 AM
2

I'm planning to check out the boxing gym down the street. I only deadlift 315, though. Should I wait?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:09 AM
2

Depends, on how much bullshit I already put up from this one. A stern-look and a quick, "Get out of my fucking face," while walking away should handle the situation. But don't let that heat of anger flare up on you. That's important.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:08 AM
18

I would. But only if she is healthy, young and has nice skin and hair.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:55 AM
3

That's a very good book and taught me that I need to communicate my desires and not be ashamed for having them. Just as much as she is clear to let me know that she's not physically interested, I am free to let her know that I am physically interested in her. Tends to work out much better when I'm totally clear about things.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 03:51 AM
16

Double standard. If a man is afraid to be on his own, he's a pussy. Now if he is married or has a kid with them... shit gets more complicated.
/r/PussyPass17/10/14 05:31 PM
10

Sharing a room at any time would suck. I'm glad I never had to go through that.
/r/seduction03/10/14 04:58 PM
1

The other is like, "Savuuuuh Meeeeee."
/r/seduction03/10/14 04:53 PM
1

Should've taken her to a different room or closet and got it done that way... Though the politics of the female mind are still a mystery to me, and they may have made you come across as weak, since you were giving up your territory. Sticky situation.
/r/seduction03/10/14 04:50 PM
10

Roommate probably implies bedroom-mate. As in, two beds in this one room.
/r/seduction03/10/14 04:49 PM
1

18 seconds in, "Well wait, that's what we're doing to the Middle East..."
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 02:27 AM
12

How many men would survive if your paper money became worthless overnight. This man probably would.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:59 AM
63

I have a theory about what a woman truly wants. She seeks out a man who will survive in any situation. Who will make ends meet regardless of where and when he wakes up. They want the genes of a man who will survive on nothing more than what they can create. That's what this man does. He owns nothing, but he makes a life.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 10:23 PM
7

Mentally tricked myself? No. I was a piece of shit who was happy doing nothing but distracting my mind and indulging in sweet flavors.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:24 AM
9

They created a dissociative mindset in me which caused me to gain weight, psychologically not physiologically. As soon as I got off them, I began to start taking care of the physical me rather than just being stuck in the mental me. It also opened me up to developing real emotional connections with people, including my own family, as opposed to using everyone as pawns in some theatrical humor to gets laughs from others. I don't know if that makes sense, and it could be a mindset which kicked in …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:57 AM
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I remember how I treated them before I was medicated for 10 years on various amphetamines. I used to have the little girls flashing their bits to me all the time. Then I got pilled up, I got fat, I got lazy and became the lonely sad clown. I sat in front of a computer drinking half a 12-pack of A&W a day while jerking off when the urge struck me. I remember in PE we'd check our pulse and mine would regularly top out at around 180. Maybe I'm making excuses, but I fully disagree with this trend of…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 01:24 AM
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I had a conversation with a woman where she was saying men cheat and that they're awful for it. I basically said, "Yeah, a man will cheat, but he will keep coming back and love that woman. He'll see a woman he wants physically, will have sex with her, but come home to the woman he loves. When a woman sees a man she loves, she is totally willing to drop this man and bounce to the next one. If she is cheating, she no longer respects or loves her man, and it's only a matter of time before she leave…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 01:20 AM
6

My dad once told me he'd take me to the police department and hook me up to a lie detector test that had needles against the fingers, and if you were lying, they'd poke in under your fingernails. I was so scared, I couldn't remember what the truth was and just panicked and admitted wrongdoing. I guess I was mentally tortured on that one.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 01:15 AM
4

Haha...haha...haha...haha... That's all I got from that conversation.
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 07:50 PM
1

I changed my masturbation habits and it feels like it did when I jerked off at 8-years old. Takes me fucking 45 minutes with lube and a bowl of water to get it going, but I'm trying to get back to enjoying the physical sensations as opposed to the mental stimulation. In other words, I have been trying to retrain my body to respond to stimulation without pornography or mental fantasy. Essentially being present in the sensations I'm feeling and in the moment. I have a habit of being emotionally un…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:28 PM
2

I started on Keto to drop from 260 to about 173. I ended up looking like I had cancer. Still, it showed me that I was capable of losing the weight. From there I started lifting and doing a bulk cut cycle (which was awful and I got up around 230...then back to 180...then 215...now sitting around 200). Point being, I was in a really bad and depressed state at my size and didn't see my value to society as anything other than being the funny big guy... Then I realized I could lose it easily, and aft…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:23 PM
21

Ain't nothin' gonna break-a my frame.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:07 PM
31

Quadriplegia.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:02 AM
4

I do. Before a piss/shit, then again after and guess the weight of it... I've probably been living alone too long...
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 03:26 PM
10

If he said it at the end of the visit, it could be seen as an after-thought and not carrying much merit. If it permeated through the whole trip, and affected his attraction to her, I think it was wise of him to bring it up when he did.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:55 PM
2

I usually lose more weight when I urinate than when I shit. Yes, I weigh myself after every evacuation. And yes I am very good at it and am about 75% accurate at judging the weight to the tenth of a pound.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:52 PM
2

Yeah, but it makes you look like you have shitty photo-editing skills. What a turn-off!
/r/seduction07/08/14 03:19 PM
8

Should I dress as a police officer, or an Indian?
/r/seduction07/08/14 03:14 PM
1

Well, I let my contract expire and I ported to StraightTalk for $45/mo, unlimited everything. Pain in the ass to setup, though. My hobby is backcountry hiking, though, so if I'm not at my computer, I'm either at the gym constantly seeing my lifts, plugged into my phone and driving, or out of signal range in the woods. I haven't missed anything too dire, except for my mom's dog biting her finger off, but I work third shift so I was asleep though that. I got to the hospital afterwards.
/r/trpGAME31/07/14 03:14 AM
3

I'm not sure where you made that leap. I use it for family, GPS navigation, emai,l and tracking my lifts. Not to mention as a camera. I just keep it on silent so that I cannot be disturbed in whatever I'm doing. I typically get back to people within an hour, though.
/r/trpGAME31/07/14 03:05 AM
8

No kidding. Self defense in that situation. Just follow through that spin from her punch with a backhand skateboard and then get the fuck out of there.
/r/PussyPass27/07/14 10:54 PM
6

Yeah, I entertain myself for 10 minutes and try not to make my world revolve around the response. I tend to leave my phone on silent 24/7, now, and only check it when I feel like it. I don't like being on-call for anyone, it gets distracting.
/r/trpGAME25/07/14 12:20 AM
4

Anytime I'm having a conversation about something with a girl via text, I put my phone on silent and set it face down. I check it about every 10 minutes or so, thereafter.
/r/trpGAME24/07/14 05:21 PM
7

I have a concentrate called "Satan's Blood" that is around 800k. Usually I put a drop or two in a whole pot of chili to spice it up. I'd probably use that if I had serious suspicions.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 05:46 PM
1

All the wives of my guy friends love me... too much... Like, feet under the table and trying to sit in my lap when they're not around. I have the opposite problem... unless they're playing the long-game and attempting to develop conflict between my friends and I... Shit, I didn't even think about that until just now.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 07:10 AM
1

I lift so I know that I am stronger than most men, and so I no longer fear confrontation.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:12 AM
2

I love that moment after you've been lifting for awhile when you get your blinders on and stop giving a fuck about the people around you... That's when you get your real gains, when you do a deload week and don't give a fuck who sees you benching 70 lbs.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:10 AM
2

This is totally true. I played perfect text game with a 9 I met on OKCupid. She was eating out of the palm of my hand and sending me pictures and shit. Called me for a hookup in a bad neighborhood. She was still into me when she saw me, reached out and held my hand while she finished her cigarette... Then I opened up my fucking mouth and said some nervous dumb shit and it fell apart IMMEDIATELY. My ass needs a cut, bad, too. Sitting up around 205 lbs, but my busted looks got me in there on pure …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:09 AM
2

I'm no expert, but you got your hypertrophy and you got your strength. More reps of less weight will make your muscles bigger, less reps of high weight will make your muscles stronger. Someone will come along and correct me, shortly.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:06 AM
4

Well, you gotta have your slump buster. If I'm about to meet up with a good looking girl, I try to hit up a more attainable a day or two beforehand. Make things go a lot smoother, I've found.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 01:44 AM
1

Oh, I did that, I pulled her in towards me while saying that to her.
/r/trpGAME12/07/14 08:47 PM
1

Trust me, man. The change in energy was immediate and extreme between when I walked in, to after that moment. It went from being completely into me to finding me creepy. It was over. There was no coming back from it, so the best option was to seem indifferent to the loss, I felt. That, and drink for a day before realizing that I took a dip in the Great White tank, and I came out pretty okay, afterwards. I got blown the fuck out, but otherwise, not so bad.
/r/trpGAME12/07/14 05:38 PM
1

Probably, I might be misremembering a lot of it and paraphrasing, too. That situation was so foreign to me that I was in a really piss-poor headspace. Like, she walked out of the room for a second and I thought, "Oh, and here is where some dude with a gun comes out." I'll handle it better next time, I'm sure. At least the rest of my game is pretty on-point... Just gotta work on that fucking close.
/r/trpGAME12/07/14 05:36 PM
2

Probably not to let my nervousness come out, which was honestly mostly from paranoia over whether or not I was about to get robbed. That neighborhood was scary. If I had just chilled and waited for her to finish her cigarette, I probably would've been set. Plus, she was dumb as a bag of rocks, and at one point thought I was cancelling a date to hang with her... I didn't correct her here, obviously and said something to the effect of, "I already know her, but I don't know you... You could be awes…
/r/trpGAME12/07/14 03:41 PM
1

Well TBP is going to use this comment as an example of how low our collective self esteems are... Oh well.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 05:06 PM
1

Jesus, that last line is perfect. I gotta remember that one.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 05:05 PM
1

Oh yeah, work out, but don't wait until your body is where you want it to be before approaching. That's really my point.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:56 AM
2

Yeah, it definitely does, but my point was that it's not totally necessary. For awhile I had the mindset that, "I'll start approaching when I look like X" and it kept me from progressing on my path for awhile. Basically, avoid that mindset, but still work your body to make it into whatever you want it to be, and pull what you can in the mean time.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 09:02 AM
1

I'm not trying to be dismissive, but, it's going to take you some time to really become the man you can be. At 27, I've had an extra decade of just random go-wrong shit thrown at me that I've learned and overcame, and I'm still a dumb piece of shit. My best advice to you is to read the words of men smarter than both of us. Men who lived and experienced life and have written down exactly what they learned from it. Right now, your world view is based off of the teachings of your family and the ran…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:22 AM
1

Hell, I ain't in the greatest shape here and I get attention. I will admit that I have a nice muscular frame, but got about 30-40 lbs of fat attached to it at 205 lbs and 5'10". I do pretty well for myself, but I'm decentl with my wit and playful word games (probably why I have an okay amount of comment karma collected, honestly). Point being, a good body is the shortcut to confidence and attraction, but it ain't the do-all end-all. I focus on strength more than physique, and like I said, I can …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:13 AM
1

Also, get an ebook reader and pirate your books. You'll save yourself a ton of cash on some of these things, and a lot of the books are pdf only.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:08 AM
1

It takes time, and when it clicks, it clicks everywhere. Even at the gym I don't give a fuck about the people around me, anymore. That's my favorite side effect of it all. I'm still shit at the random approach in a club or bar, but if I set up a date on OKCupid or on Tinder, I usually crush it. We've all got areas to work on, but the most important thing is to find a stable world view that you can believe in, live in, and make decisions from. Once you can do that, outside forces cannot pull you …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:07 AM
2

I live in an area with 4 bars within 2 blocks. Always start at the farthest one and work my way home with a girl. Farthest one is the most familiar to people, but also the loudest. The one closest is a crazy gay leather bar... that's by "All or nothing" venue for when things aren't panning right.
/r/trpGAME08/07/14 12:25 AM
5

Having her help with preparation is key. Even just a simple, "Here, keep stirring this" works well.
/r/trpGAME08/07/14 12:22 AM
1

I think they're so socially intelligent that they're fairly well able to manipulate society into a model which is advantageous to their aging selves. They do it so well, in fact, that they forget they're doing it. So, in these instances, when I framed it that way, they got a real shit-eating grin and gave me kudos when they realized I was doing exactly what I needed to do to get, "A girl with a pretty face" right now. Again, I still bullshit and say it's a temporary thing. I say I just want a gi…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 04:31 AM
0

Both my mother and grandmother know my stance with these things. It started out with them being concerned that I hated women, but all I had to do when they gave me shit advice was to ask them both about their first husbands... One a young police officer, the other a greaser with a fast car, and they got it. You can't tell them, you just gotta take them back to when they were young girls and make them realize that you want to become the type of man they first fell for... "temporarily" They'll usu…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 03:40 AM
3

I've been reading a lot of philosophy. The way I see it, I'm already changing my world view based on the experiences and thoughts of random fucks on the internet... why not read the random thoughts of a Roman Emperor to see his world view? Meditations by Marcus Aurelius was what got me started. If you're broke, get a Nook for about $35-$60 on eBay or on sale, and download all the pdfs and epubs to your heart's content.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 01:29 PM
5

My personal problem is that I do not feel the need to have women in my life. I don't feel that drive to hunt because I don't see the value in it. My weekdays are spent working, my weekends are spent hiking and camping. Boozing in-between those. I'm just happy doing my shit and not having to maintain relationships. Same age as OP, pretty much the same experience. Everything fizzles because I don't see the value in committing more of my time to them. That's not to say I don't interact with people …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:22 PM
4

Had a guy like that. Lost his shit because some dude was hitting on him and then stormed out.
/r/trpGAME23/06/14 08:25 PM
2

The only time I took a girl to a nice restaurant for a first date, I used a gift card I had gotten for Christmas.
/r/trpGAME23/06/14 05:25 PM
3

I live in a bar town. I usually start at the popular noisy bar and grab a few drinks (which also happens to be the furthest from my home) and start walking in the direction of my place hitting quieter bars along the way. Just before we get to my house, I have a choice. If she's ready to come to my place, I invite her. If she isn't, we hit the gay leather bar next door. That level of novelty and what-the-fuck isn't typically in their life, so now I'm exciting. I tend to close after that.
/r/trpGAME23/06/14 05:25 PM
2

This is my issue. When I start cutting and my Bench drops under 200, I start to freak out and eat again.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:11 AM
1

This makes me want to put elmer's on my just and spend the next half hour slowly peeling it off. Or just leave it on for my next sexual encounter.
/r/PussyPass22/06/14 08:27 PM
31

Hey hey... she didn't tear them OFF, just tore them. Still shitty, but she put a big gash in his scrotum, then tried to superglue it closed. She didn't castrate the boy, though.
/r/PussyPass22/06/14 07:27 AM
1

Well, if brothels were more commonplace, it may not have been so negatively stigmatized to him. Who knows, though. Crazy fuck.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 09:33 PM
12

Unless sodomy... /s
/r/PussyPass15/06/14 04:27 PM
-1

Hell yeah, get them stupid pretty bitches still Juniors at 20.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 10:48 PM
1

Or lift so you can defend your wife. Don't just wander around in the herd, history shows that herds don't last forever...
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:19 PM
1

A slithery little sneaky snake.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:08 PM
1

Best way to send out an anonymous text is by creating a burner email address from something like 10minutemail or mailinator, and sending an email to his phone. Here's a list of the email addresses based on his carrier: Alltel [10-digit phone number]@message.alltel.com AT&T [10-digit phone number]@txt.att.net Boost Mobile [10-digit phone number]@myboostmobile.com Nextel [10-digit telephone number]@messaging.nextel.com Sprint PCS [10-digit phone number]@messaging.sprintpcs.com T-Mobile [10-digit p…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:30 PM
1

Well, the girl that I had the longest fling with, around 3 or 4 months, we would only meet at her house and fuck for hours. She eventually started just meeting me at the door practically naked because I think she got tired of talking to the unsexed me. I eventually broke it off because it became a chore rather than enjoyable to keep fucking her that often... Plus she kept wanting me to cum in her and I was getting uneasy about that. I think my problem is that I treat sex as some point to reach i…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 02:49 PM
2

With my penis.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 01:48 AM
2

... That's the first one that has ever made sense in my head. I usually can't come up with a bullshit intro line, because I don't care. I can get a conversation moving, but starting one is a pain.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 03:05 AM
1

I've only attempted the committed relationship route once, and it was her choice. After that I just sort of became flings for women already in relationships and I just sort of embraced that, a bit. I did have a non-committed thing with a girl going on for about 4 months. We'd see each other about twice a week for a few hours, all fucking. She taught me a lot of shit, actually, but she slowly became too kinky for me... which looking back on was stupid, but that was a ways back.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 02:59 AM
2

...maybe. Shit, what are you implying, here? That my post-sex persona is so on-key that the person they meet the next time, before the sex, is turning them off?! So like, I disappoint them because I'm no longer as care-free as I was the previous night when we were in bed? That sort of... adds up. They seem extremely eager to come out on that third date, but the energy seems to shift in the middle of it. What the fuck do I do with this information? Treat every woman like I've just fucked her? hah…
/r/askTRP28/05/14 09:14 PM
0

"HAHAHA! Holy shit, I've never actually had someone actually do that to me. Thanks, I'll check that off my bucket list, hun."
/r/askTRP28/05/14 07:25 PM
1

My first dates are usually pretty off-the-wall. One of them, I took a girl out to help me check out apartments in two different areas of towns, and to hit the bars in each... "Oh, are you two moving in together?" "No, this is the first time we've met. Just trying to find a place for me." That one worked. Usually though, second date is bar, then bed. Maybe I will try to spice it up, but I forget how to have fun without a bar, anymore...
/r/askTRP28/05/14 07:17 PM
8

I'm thinking it is a variation of this. I'm not trying to say that the person I project at first is a false-persona, but it is more selfish and more doing things for the fuck of it because I find it entertaining or necessary. Admittedly, I've never been in a committed relationship for more than a month, so that lack of experience on what to do after the sex is severely lacking on my part. With that said, I might just start divulging and revealing shit that I wouldn't normally because I already g…
/r/askTRP28/05/14 07:15 PM
1

Oh, it's definitely my fault. I ain't shifting blame at all. Just need to find my quirk. Once I'm talking to a girl, I can play the game easily (my approach is still awful, but when thrust into a social situation, I dominate) Just need to work on stage two. I'll fiddle around with it a bit, as others suggested and see what gives.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 07:11 PM
2

Usually the first two happen withing the first weekend, the third usually the next week. That's when it starts to crumble a bit. No serial monogamy, but the damned plates shatter before I can get the next one going.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:31 PM
1

Yeah, that's why I'm having difficulties figuring this shit out. Maybe my game with new women is solid as hell, but I get too cozy and comfortable after the sex and it becomes a turn-off?
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:14 PM
3

Sex seems to be on-point. The exes tend to give props about me, even after bad break-ups. I'm really bad at remembering specifics of conversations, typically them saying they don't want to have sex anymore, but want to continue hanging out, and then me following it up with "Well, I am looking for someone to have fun with AND sleep with, considering how short my free-time is.." or something to that effect. After that, we have an outing where things get slightly physical but never get past the clo…
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:13 PM
4

It's not confirmed it's a suicide. Self-inflicted could mean he fell or injured himself severely. What they're saying is that he wasn't attacked.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 03:59 AM
18

Maybe it ain't a screw-up, and they put forth a diet that is most sustainable for a large population, and not one that is most healthy for the individual?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 02:34 AM
-1

A brothel would've saved his life and others, I bet.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 12:31 AM
2

Well, that's just any video blog. It assumes that we give a shit about your memories and life experience, even when it is as uninteresting as, "That tree sure seems smaller."
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 12:29 AM
4

Cute enough to make me want to see more.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 09:13 PM
2

I rarely get it right after, because I am typically in a high mood. Usually about 30 minutes after, if I wasn't THAT into the girl, I try to get rid of her. The worst thing in the world, to me, is sleeping in the same bed with someone I could give two shits about. There is a difference between sleeping and passing out in the same bed, obviously.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 09:35 AM
1

I dunno. Maybe they get away with too much shit anymore and need to feel punished for the shit they know is out of line, so they do it themselves.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 08:50 AM
8

Practically every girl I know used to cut themselves...
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:52 AM
1

It sounds like you need to rework your head and stop focusing so much on what is coming next and pay attention to what is happening now. When you notice yourself doing this, practice some meditation techniques to get back into the current moment. The one that works for me is to make a quick exhale while making a noise to firmly put in your head that the vocal voice is the one to pay attention to, not the one running "what ifs" in your head. From there, close your eyes and focus on the dark red t…
/r/askTRP16/05/14 12:28 AM
9

Jesus, I have way too many of those things... Especially the ones where you realize, "I should be fucking dead for that."
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 04:58 PM
1

The other thing is that texting is more discreet and is useful if she's got a man, especially a live-in one.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 02:24 AM
7

True. I used to go to this bar and flirt pretty well with the bartender. One night I got sloshed and made out with some fat girl, and I turned around and made eye-contact with the bartender and she just laughingly shook her head at me. The dynamic between us kind of fell apart from there. On the plus side(heh), I had walked to the bar and she didn't feel like walking the half mile back to my place.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 02:16 AM
6

...I'm an idiot.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 04:26 PM
2

Problem I've encountered with this is that it tends to be women in their late 40s which share all of my interests.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 08:45 AM
3

That mood is where I like to take things. I can remember pausing and asking this one girl some questions, and thrusting into her every time she tried to answer. She couldn't spit the words out. At one point she got defiant and clamped her thighs together while responding, so I just put my hand on her throat and told her she wasn't allowed to do that. Point being, I love being in control of a woman's pleasure in the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 01:40 AM
5

Well, maybe you can beat the system and get that Alimony from her ;)
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 08:24 PM
4

I got a yeast infection from a girl because I fucked her and didn't cum or piss afterwards. I had that thing for almost a year, and all tests showed negative for infections. Dug around a bit before realizing I had an internal yeast infection, it wasn't bad, but it would occasionally burn severely after peeing. I ended up curing it by taking 2 tblsp of coconut oil each day for two weeks. Fucking awful.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 08:21 AM
2

This is a pretty quick and dirty summary of the book I'm currently reading. It's really worth your time, if you're trying to step up, to educate your mind. Philosophy is some good shit to check into. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is a damn good read, too.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:34 AM
14

Don't you give that bitch your jizz. You take your jizz and put it in your fucking pocket. Out-of-the-blue contacts like that ooze entrapment.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:27 AM
2

Had a woman over who started her period, bled on my new white sheets that I'd just bought three days earlier, then used my toothbrush before leaving. I've seen all women as filthy-fucking-creatures ever since. They're fun to look at, not much to talk about, and not worth the $1,000 my sheets would rap them in. Fuck and go home. For the record, this is after I spent my entire HS years+ chasing one woman, followed by three years chasing another. First got laid at 20. Couldn't understand why X got …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 06:28 AM
2

With me, it was a split. I was the confident leader of men, and the subservient follower of women. I truly haven't changed much about my character except respect myself more, and treat women the same way I do men.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 03:44 PM
13

Here's another key to RP... Just because women are emotional and feeling creatures, doesn't necessarily mean they are less than you. The key idea here is that they are different and whenever they tell you what they want, you can't take it at face value. Their main issue is their inability to interpret what they want, because they only know what it feels like when they have it. When a woman figures that out and learns how to interpret her emotions into a real-world application... oof, keep that o…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 03:41 PM
13

One of my favorite interactions with a woman was a rejection. Was out at a restaurant with some friends, and I was just handling all the conversation, almost all of it went through me and we were all having a good time. The waitress kept giving me the eye, which the women at the table were unnecessarily pointing out to me. Yadda yadda, all said and done I leave without making a move. Forgot my debit card and run back. Get a second alone with her and make a joke about my foolishness before offeri…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 03:34 PM
2

9 is repeated, too
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 08:52 AM
2

The thing about where you said we are "...constructed through years of socialization..." reminds me of a thing I always ask myself. Whenever I think I come to a conclusion on something I ask myself, "If I were the only person in the world who believed this, would I still think it was true?" If I have any doubt at all on it, I continue to ask questions. Very few things do I believe to that degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 10:58 PM
4

That's just part of the readjustment of society to female nudity. It's currently taboo across all spectrums of media and society. Push the boundaries, allow the gawking, and eventually those strange tits will become boring and commonplace. If you want to change the way the US views female topless nudity, you're going to have some growing pains... And we're gonna admire a good pair the same way we admire a nice ass on the street. Though if we're overexposed, we'll just take a mental photograph, r…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 09:53 PM
17

You know what I think it is? Women believe that people are the best they can be when they just sort of coast through life. When they are themselves. The idea of bettering the self is extremely foreign to them. You can't make better what you are, you can only make what you are seem better by fixing it up, or putting the rest down. To them, the idea of becoming stronger, becoming confident, changing our approach to relationships and women... it's disingenuous, not improvement. This is only my best…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 03:03 AM
4

I've had two dates, and both were sex on the first night. The one wanted me to travel across town and hang out in her mother's basement with her. No. With the other one, things just sort of fizzled after the second weekend. But yeah, they both had horror stories of the shit they met online. The one had a guy ask her to move in with him on the 2nd date...no sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 06:53 AM
1

This was 8 years after highschool. She was stacked then. A kid and 100 lbs later... not so much.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:10 PM
11

I fucked a girl once, and when I got on top of her, my knees didn't touch the fucking bed. That was a low point.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 06:54 PM
4

Yeah... what happens is HIV will infect their herpes... then it just rides along with it and... POOF! AIDS.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 02:44 AM
1

This is something I just realized. All my life I've been making choices which would create the better story so people would put value in me. As I'm passing my mid-20s, I am realizing that my accomplishments mean nothing to anybody but myself anymore. I was an entertainer, but now I have no audience and need to make the choices that have the best outcome for who I want to be.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 08:26 PM
2

I thought they could put up with more pain, you know how they toot that child-birth horn all the time...
/r/MensRights03/02/11 07:19 PM
1

I am mainly saying the sex for benefits is what the law is pretty much intended for. Teachers can get hit for sex with a student even if the age of consent in a state is 16, because they are in a position of authority for someone under 18.
/r/MensRights11/01/11 12:42 AM
1

Oh, I understand it being done in a competitive workplace environment, but where the goal is simply to educate, I don't think it should carry as much weight. It seems to be the opposite of what it should be. If a McDonald's Manager had sex with their employee who was under 18 on the pretext of a raise, it would probably garner less of a punishment than a teach/student relationship based on attraction.
/r/MensRights10/01/11 09:06 PM
-1

I don't get this sexual repression in our culture at all. What is the downside of a physical bond with an older mentor?
/r/MensRights10/01/11 08:17 PM
2

I had some kid in High School accuse me of sexually abusing him. He was an attention-seeking Freshman who got his ass kicked by a bunch of upperclassman. I wasn't there, but people said they saw me picking on him at one time, and I wrote a statement about how I didn't like the kid but never hit him. Anywho, three of us spend a night in juvenile hall for hazing (fucking ridiculous) and he runs around school bragging, then the principal calls him in and tells him to cut it out, lest he get's his a…
/r/MensRights02/01/11 03:52 PM
3

Man, you worded that funky. I thought the father died at first.
/r/MensRights28/12/10 07:29 PM
3

That's typical... You put your index finger on the back or shoulder and slowly apply increasing pressure while moving past and saying, "excuse me."
/r/MensRights08/09/10 12:07 PM
1

This is one of those instances where I see it as OK to slap around an adult. Some people just need pain as a reminder to not fuck people over.
/r/MensRights06/09/10 12:07 PM
0

My group of friends tends to get stared at by overly cautious women. This one buddy would sometimes wait until a woman just passed us and shout, "Now!" One time a woman bolted off. I hit him.
/r/MensRights14/08/10 12:40 PM
2

The problem is, I am not sure what emotions to convey without appearing weak, since this entire story is about me being fucking terrified while keeping my bud from panicking, so turning it into an emotional journey while maintaining high value is the thing I am searching for advice on. I could inject emotion, I am just not sure what emotions would be characteristic of an alpha in these situations.
/r/seduction14/06/10 10:17 PM
2

It is true :( The point is to stop at an epic moment, start another thread, and revisit this one to keep them on edge. The epic moments kind of setup a stopping point.
/r/seduction14/06/10 08:54 PM
1

Done.
/r/seduction14/06/10 08:21 PM
2

I was definitely considering taking up a Krav maga class. I have done a bit of a revamp on my life, tossing in a lot of strength training, swimming, kayaking, softball... I too am looking for something to add. Like I said, Krav maga is definitely my next idea.
/r/seduction10/06/10 03:22 AM
0

u gay?
/r/seduction08/06/10 06:34 PM
2

Yeah, I am working on myself now. I am no PUA at all, but am interested in it. I am 23 and have been with 4 women, lost my virginity at 20. So, I guess I am going ok. I have been working on my appearance a lot too, I have shed 35lbs and still have another 25 to go. So, I am following this advice already. Working out three times a week, eating healthy and staying active.
/r/seduction07/06/10 10:53 PM
2

Except she has extreme daddy issues, and as such has NO female friends.
/r/seduction07/06/10 07:20 PM
1

Man, I know it is. I think my main issue is that the woman I am closest to I tend to feel a sexual attraction to, and in my desire to shed that sensation to move forward and pursue other women, it is devolving into a sense of hatred. Following further contemplation, I think she would definitely be beneficial to keep around and help me pick up women, which is something she has actually expressed interest in. I am a tad confused on the dynamics of our interactions as well.
/r/seduction07/06/10 07:15 PM
8

So, the ultimatum is weak because it puts the future of the interaction into her hands then, correct? I should be in total control of where things are and where things are headed.
/r/seduction07/06/10 06:10 PM
2

Would it be more beneficial, at this point, to keep her around as a friend and use her as bait to pickup other women? I'm pretty sure she would actually be game this.
/r/seduction07/06/10 06:06 PM
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