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Question For WomenTootTheRoot/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:46 PM
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Wasn’t angry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:43 PM
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Ok you’re one of those, I wasn’t interested in interacting with you passed you getting offended at a normal word female*. You all want to be the victim to something. Tell me how referring to a woman as a female has ever hurt women in anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:45 PM
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Anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:38 PM
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Where did he dehumanize?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:27 AM
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Ok pal. I’m a man for starters but you’re obviously masculine asf and know more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:15 AM
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It’s actually easier for women to date women than men to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:12 AM
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Noticed how she never responded. LOL I bet that nerd is in a dead bedroom while coaching his two step sons little league
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:11 AM
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Imo men can do all the things you’ve listed. I went to school with a guy who’s 29 now and he’s an attending second year physician working in a metro area. He’s Indian, is in great physical shape, and is making bank. However for one meeting women is hard because of his race, secondly women will become either very hesitant with him as they are intimidated or will be gold diggers. He’s hardly ever given a chance as a normal regular guy. Women like to believe the advice you gave because it generally…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:02 AM
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It’s not about him being tough looking. It’s about the fact that men know danger exist when they’re about to clash with other men. A woman will see a decrease in sexual comments if she was walking with her 12 yr old son.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:15 AM
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Or the occurrences aren’t as oppressive as you make it seem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:58 PM
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It’s the truth. Women these days are hyper masculine and independent. Which lead to many failed relationships. No bigger turn off than a woman like the one I was responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:33 PM
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But quantify it. Did the person who had let’s say 15 sexual partners were give one worded answers across the board. While the person with 89 sexual partners sent you a PDF file on their body with a dissertation attached with differing factors like mood lighting affecting their libido percentage wise? Or are you saying all people can be different and even though the person had less experience they just weren’t as experimental? I believe a low experience person can be freaky asf if they feel comfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:48 PM
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Well when you live in a society with as many outright whores as we do in the west it’s very easy to understand men. Women are as modest as teeth in a meth head’s mouth these days. Every guy wants his fair share of the action. Which is why men want to fuck as many women as their genetics will allow them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:16 PM
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And he should. It’s funny how women do the same when he’s not providing enough luxury for her lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:08 PM
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Naw I legit never see it happen around me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:28 PM
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Dude you have no idea what you’re comment meant to me. I see women joist this same rhetoric all the time. Protection and etc. they are literally deluding themselves that a guy being tall or muscular somehow lends itself to more protection vs someone who’s seeking to do harm. Idk sometimes I feel like men live in a completely different universe than them. It’s like someone once said with knowledge comes more knowing of one’s own ignorance. I think women don’t know how fucked they are in the major…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:10 PM
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It takes two to be in a dead bedroom. And many of those guys I hope are cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:16 PM
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Okay. Women aren’t struggling with relationships is a blatant lie. Attractive women aren’t struggling with relationships as aren’t attractive men. Conservative or not. Did you not see in the last election how many women voted conservatively. Those women find their match as well. Point is, you probably go to sleep at night thinking men are sexless losers who argue these points. And I’m here to tell you that is not completely the case. Many men who are in TRP or whatever have whole ass wives and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:08 PM
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The message that women can do it all is in opposition of the message of being a SATH mom and a wife. It is a counter movement that the last couple of generations of women have heralded as they didn’t want to end up like their moms. Why are tank tops called wife beaters. Because it was common a few generations ago for a man to come home take off his work suit and jump straight into whooping his woman’s ahh over dinner not being hot enough. The daughters of these scenarios grew to fear relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:46 PM
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Just wow. The dissonance 😂. Goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:38 PM
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Teach what though? Please quantify this teaching? Because learning an individual person will be the same for experienced people as it is for beginners. Sex is very beginner friendly man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:34 PM
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This. I really found that wording odd as well. Anybody with experience don’t really think about “levels” like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:33 PM
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I don’t get this, What is meant by train a man up to your “level”. Every person you’re with you will be different with. People like different things. Have different zones. I can see if they meant they wouldn’t want to be depending on that persons mentality around it, likely placing a huge amount of importance on it so much so that it hasn’t been done for the majority of their young life. However physical hang ups around it always boggles my mind. Same thing with a woman, I feel it’s always more …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:30 PM
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Tbh I don’t think this is it. It seems most men are ok with being vulnerable enough to put their pride aside they and admit need women as a part of what makes them happy. Women have a weird upbringing that states men are the only things that defines a woman’s worth. So they grow to push against that narrative with hyper-independence and consistently stating how little they value men and their spouses. Kinda of sad because men then feel like they don’t have to do anything for her or treat her fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:06 PM
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Honestly you don’t get it. He gave valid advice that would work for me and him apparently and all the other men who upvoted and liked his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:01 PM
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Okay, and when men say they don’t see the point in taking their women on date nights to nice restaurants as they can do dinner at home or something remember this. Pandering/coddling is a crazy placement for this sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:00 PM
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Tbh the ways I feel appreciated in a masculine way are: When my girl gets turned on by me in my work clothes and comments on how hard working I am. When she creates opportunities for me to help in a masculine way: by waiting for me to open a door, open something(jar, box,etc..), or lift something. When she feels on my muscles or comments on my physique becoming better (gym gains or payoff) When she listens to me and talks softly during intimate conversations. Respect my decision making, like if …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:47 PM
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I mean it’s possible a guy can get casual sex from women more frequent but still be bitter to the truth that the hoes are only in it for his perceived “new” worth. I bet many men recognize how shit women are when they become rich, handsome, status improves, and etc. The way to be is to just realize women are no higher in morals than men. That’s why I will never feel sorry for women who are cheated on or used or care for their issues. They’re only going to push what’s in their interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:34 PM
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Paying is an expression of interest. If a man pays for everything that’s the same as a woman putting in hours on their makeup and outfit. Another thing if you don’t like paying a 100% then it’s incompatibility if a woman isn’t flexible on that. Move on. Being confident should be a natural thing. You don’t be something that you are. If you’re a blue man, you don’t have to wake up and put blue on. You’re naturally blue. Find what makes you valuable and an addition to someone’s life. Lead with your…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:22 PM
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Idk about you but I never see women go on dates in full pants suits. I don’t see them ordering the largest portion of meat, or leading. Women very much still follow their social norms. I also don’t get what you mean by liberated*, in what way have women been liberated?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:50 PM
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What does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:49 PM
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Why would any man like anything different than what you like? Use a brain from somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:48 PM
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I think this is a lot of ways of saying traditional gender performing. This is the equivalent of women eating small portions at dinner, or never cussing around a potential suitor. Then eventually settling into a more comfortable demeanor as the two get too know each other. Men perform as well acting more stoic or riskier to impress a woman at first. Then slowly settling into their more true selves as they get to know each other. If a woman is offended by that then she’s just picking sour grapes.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:46 AM
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Ok plenty guys say the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:26 PM
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Haha femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:56 PM
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We are the labels we take on. Many women outside of black women have felt the same about point 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:47 PM
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You’re probably right. But I was saying when men say it just go with the man’s definition of it. If a woman asked this question then maybe we can go with women’s definition of it. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:59 PM
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Most guys mean attractive looking. Idk why women complicate this. We really don’t care about the personality or etc. When men ask if women are attracted to men. We always men physically, looks, and etc. for future reference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:20 PM
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It brought me to success. I’ll say I got trashy women to fuck a lot easier. It did not work on women who expected simp behavior. So it’s good to sleep with a lot of women. Which is the success I believe he’s referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:09 PM
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I think a lot of these guys don’t have the forethought to see it this way. Men want sex with the women they see their fav. Influencers flirting with. They want the hottest women, average to below average women can go kick rocks. Men don’t care about them or their sex near as much as the “prized” women in the room. You are right, everything is transactional. Women want something out of the deal to. Which is why red pill is such a popular pill. It teaches men how to identify what a woman wants, ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:19 PM
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Women should just go make their own society. You all hate men anyway. Go bump pies elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:24 PM
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Idk why so many guys complain. Women are very easy to sleep with and if you’ve had success then you know the type of woman likely to go for you. I’m having on average just about as much sex with my fwb as women. The problem is I want an ig baddie or higher up woman in order for me to settle down. Most women are losers with just the cooch up for barter. So aye Ill use them until I find what I’m looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:23 PM
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Uhm build everything you’ve taken for granted. Men have contributed more to humanity’s evolvement and apex placement. Women have contributed by being breeding tanks for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:43 AM
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I’ve heard plenty of women claim that statement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:29 AM
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Which is influenced by a type of man. Is it fair to say low income, low educated, poor environment tends to have more men who exhibit poor behavior? If the man is higher up in those areas he probably will not be behaving as egregiously. As success is typically tied to agreeableness and willingness to work well with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:28 AM
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Listen the majority of men when younger aren’t interested in relationships. I’m going to say it boys. Most men want legendary sexcapades. We want to be the fathers who look at our sons and smile when he brings up his first crush. We want to reminisce and laugh with the boys at how many women we slept with or how many crazy encounters we’ve had. I don’t believe most guys start being satisfied with their n count etc, until they’ve reached double digits atleast. Men will do anything to get a life l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:28 AM
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I agree completely
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:40 PM
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Yea duh, I just said that. It don’t become game until they realize they have unfair advantage. Most 18 yr old girls still are able to get excited about dating some regular 18 yr old boy. Of course he has to be somewhat cool or exciting but still it’s obtainable. 24+ they’re pretty much ruined by hypergamy at this age and are in full demand mode. Not dateable at this stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:28 PM
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Naw OP is right. I believe from the age of 13-14 girls start realizing that they hold some sway. 18-21 they may be naive due to a lack of experience. Willing to settle down fast or buy into notions of love. However 24+, women start to understand that they have an unfair advantage in dating. They start to realize they can hookup with millionaires and get flown on expensive trips and etc. These women become completely un-dateable by average men. It’s fine to acknowledge this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:42 PM
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Do you think women are for marrying anymore? It’s like the foods we eat: they’re cheap, looks good, but ultimately bad for you if you ate it in the long term. The women of today are not the women are great grandfathers and before them got. The women of today are selfish, entitled, difficult, high maintenance, and combative. I’m fine with a proposition between the sexes to satisfy my base needs. At some point things switched, women are open to having sex easily, but everything else is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:41 PM
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Yea sure then I’ll just find another woman to replace her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:20 PM
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No I can call and be like this Friday or Saturday want to come over and she’s always down 100% or if not that day she offers another
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:07 PM
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Uhm I’m getting casual sex with a woman. Don’t pay her anything been going on for a year+ now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:53 PM
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lol 😂😂 less competition is wild. You’re buying stock rn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:16 PM
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Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:54 AM
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Well there is data that backs that claim. Almost 40% of men 18 - 30 are not sexually active
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:47 AM
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So basically black pill was ahead of its time and actually is the way to go for most men!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:27 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:20 PM
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Yea yea, I wish I could go somewhere to hang out and get drunk for free and get sex with people way above my league. Womp womp poor you Women would complain about gold falling from the sky. Just anything to just hear yourselves screech.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:14 PM
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No it’s the fact that you’re just going to bs me. Who gets tons of attention when going out? Who gets free shit by the boatload? Who get into all the exclusive spots for likely no cost? Who do people bend over backwards to please? Yet those places are for men? Yea rich or very attractive men. Regular men don’t gaf about your friends going out or not. The only men you’re hurting are the men you want to sleep with. Have a nice life And I wouldn’t hold my breath before your harpy friends are back a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:55 PM
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Ok princess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:21 PM
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What are the consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:18 PM
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lol they’re lives will legitimately get better because of Trump ironically by not going to bars or clubs. Bars and clubs are for women not for men. You all are the ones who get treated like princesses in that environment. They’ll stop attention seeking basically 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:57 PM
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Lmaooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:37 PM
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Well I’m happy some guys have made it over mountains to fit your standards. What does that prove. Men we know to be loved we have to be extraordinary. When guys get to that point they’re called “Chads”. We’re so happy you’re happy with your Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:12 PM
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lol how good does it make you feel that the only power you all believe you have is loneliness/sex over mens head. Even with that “power” you’re still not getting the outcomes you want, men still aren’t changing. At some point women have to ask themselves how important is sex and loneliness to men? As they aren’t actually taking any of the advice women give to achieve those things. Either it’s some apples in your camp still passing it out, or men really don’t care as much as they seem to have you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:37 AM
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Yup you hate them don’t it? It’s okay to admit it. By them I mean women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:32 AM
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Tbh you’re more likely to continue sleeping with the guys who voted red than the ones who voted blue. Only change I see happening is that you all will hold more contempt and open-disdain for men you deem unattractive regardless of how they voted. Unless women banned sex all together across the spectrum, there won’t be any real impact at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:44 AM
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Wouldn’t affect most men and that’s their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:09 AM
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Women are already inclined not to date most men. This doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:54 AM
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Elections are bs, both sides always cater by attacking one end of the spectrum. Both ends of the spectrum holds more immediate power than the middle. You side with republicans, corporations get huge tax breaks while crime increases and the middle pays for it with their valuables being stolen while the rich is insulated by gated communities with extra security. You side with the poor and tax the rich heavy, then they respond by price gouging and lay-offs, the poor being insulated by food stamps a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:36 PM
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Bro this post is embarrassing. Please delete 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:00 PM
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He’s a loser fasho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:59 PM
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Dude you’re a real loser, and I’m a black man 😂😂. The most cornball post of this week
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:58 PM
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See I like you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:56 PM
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I saw a woman twirl tf out of a light saber the other day. Also seeing women wrestle or do MMA Kinda got hot for it no lie. She was nice 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:55 PM
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Yea you’re cooked. One day you will grow older little boy and see the world from an adult’s perspective. FYI you’re probably a virgin because you speak that way and say lame things like “libtard”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:52 PM
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What do you mean? How is there no correlation. If someone sleeps around a lot unprotected it will lead to pregnancy at some point. You guys are like robots. “THeRE iS nO CorReLaTiOn BeTwEEn… blah blah”. Why is it hard to wrap your head around the obvious. It’s like America economics the worst place to be is the Middle. At the top end people are insulated by wealth so they hardly feel the effects of things. At the low end people are so insulated by poverty that they’re taken care of by the system…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:35 PM
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Because a man who is a criminal will do really well in low income environments. He’s also likely to possess extremely low standards and will sleep/propagate out of necessity. Men who are more well off have standards even for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:28 PM
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Sigh* honestly you saying this is probably the most mundane statement that could possibly happen to me. It’s like someone who doesn’t actually track their calories saying I don’t eat that much. You have definitely unreasonable standards in some way. You are a woman, you’re inherent entitlement will lend you to having them. Men imo can be the only ones who can say that statement with some merit. You as a woman will never get this concept tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:47 AM
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More single men, as they don’t offer anything to women at some point. Higher porn usage Higher violence against women Higher mental health issues Higher cases of social unrest The complete destruction of nuclear families The fall of communities More corrupt regimes (I mean this may sound bad but I know many men who don’t want to vote for Harris just because she’s a woman.) As women hate men and isolate them. They also have to realize those same men can vote men like Trump in office and other naz…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:38 PM
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Yet women find them everyday, including you. Luck is winning the lottery. Getting a decent man isn’t luck, it’s an active choice of not choosing assholes who disregards your wants/needs. This is something many women struggle with for some reason. Glad you were able to find better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:33 PM
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Oh well fuck better men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:12 PM
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A bang butler who pays the other half
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:35 PM
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Yea seems like a lot of them are following their own mentalities around it. Women have bad habit of speaking for other women and not their own experiences. Same with men to some regard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:24 PM
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Lmaoooo you all don’t even see it. You’re blind to it, but you definitely do have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:54 PM
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Brother please listen. I’ve been going to the gym a few years now and even though I’ve made great gains, I was fooling myself the last two years completely. It wasn’t until I got a personal trainer did I realize how my muscles could burn and fatigue again. How tired I could be. See after a while I had gotten used to DOMS and the muscle ache. I thought at some point you stop feeling the workouts naturally and just have to keep going. I was wrong. Much in the way of women, red pill has a way of in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:54 PM
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How much of these answers are swayed by the individuals who would be on Reddit? Idk I have had many casual flings over the last decade. Women are more willing in the situation than in the hypothetical. It’s one of those things you all say no to in theory but in practice the actions become a lot more vague
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:46 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:55 PM
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Very interesting, most of the things you said were men who are insecure you weren’t sleeping with them. I guess there is truth to being abandoned by men after the hookup but that lends to the belief you wanted more from the guy. I was speaking strictly casual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:44 PM
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But attractive men do get pursued. Attractive people will always be sought after on either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:39 PM
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Why aren’t women into exploring their sexuality? Are women content settling down only having just 1 or 2 partners for life? Do you guys not feel attraction for men and just want to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:50 PM
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Because even if women talk like op they still enforce the same bs rhetoric. I wouldn’t take much a woman says as valid advice as those women typically are speaking of men they wish to lock down who don’t want them and just slept with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:25 AM
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To have this figured out at 23, especially the third paragraph from last. Congrats man. Snooped the profile and nice looking couple as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:36 PM
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Naw I don’t even like it rn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:24 PM
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Well dude we already know what appeals to women. Younger (25 - 35) Tall (6’2+) Stylish Charming Financially Well off Physically Fit Good Sexual Dimorphism Those traits women go crazy for. Same as the idea beauty of women. But most men fit outside those traits so from there you have to grade on a curve of how much of those things are missing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:20 PM
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First off, men aren’t like women with the ability to just “wait”. Women control the entire process and can abort (well that’s how it was). Men also are required to bring more to a relationship than a woman is usually. Many men have to be impressive to women to have a child and if you want a decent woman then you have to be extraordinary. Women are the only ones with the option to wait and if they do only to realize they did want a kid then that’s their own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:50 PM
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Ok and so men are lying? My current girl is 22 and I turn 28 this year. I know a woman who’s 29 fucking a guy in his 50s and my own sister admitted she would be fine with an age gap of 8 yrs. Women make exceptions all of the time and age is one of the easiest things for them to get passed. I hope you’re happy with your 2 yr limit but that’s not at all how every woman moves. Through personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:47 PM
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The reason is because of gender diaspora in what is traditionally seen as attractive. Older women are less attractive for a myriad of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:48 PM
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Okay and plenty of desperate women in first world countries. Because guess what the standards you all have for men, men dgaf about reaching. Actually look at the statistics men aren’t marrying y’all as much anymore, they don’t care to make the money you guys find attractive, women can always try and impose rules but it’s up to men to gaf about those rules enough to follow them. That’s why so many women are single this generation around and many will be without children in old age. It becomes sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:34 PM
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No women want to have kids by provider men. If you’re a 30 yr old woman ready to have children, and the men at 30 are either unfit, have rage against women, and other issues. You may raise your age criteria to get the outcome you want. How many of you know age gap relationships? I’m 27 and can still date 20 yr olds if I wanted. Women hardly care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:31 PM
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Does it make you feel better if men don’t have children later in life? Like genuinely I’m curious a lot of women are weighing in. Do you believe this will create a sense of urgency for men to try and romance and give into women of today’s demands? I’m 27 and I couldn’t care less about having children, whether that’s something I change my mind about later is not my concern. Women can kick rocks if they think projecting this insecurity of themselves onto men will have any consequence. Are bodies w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:29 PM
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What do you expect to get out of this post? You want to feel better about your biological clock? Morality and ethics aside men are capable of fertility for their entire life. Quality of sperm blah blah ethically blah blah. It really doesn’t matter. Another thing women at age 25 start dating significantly older. They do this because they’re ready for stability and don’t have time to wait 10 yrs in a career to gain it. So a man who’s 30+ can easily still attract those women even if it’s not her pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:21 PM
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Women cope lol. Men are pretty good throughout life. It’s women whose body’s become more and more jacked with age and pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:50 PM
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I never highlighted the meek guy to say you should start small talk. Just to highlight your regurgitated experiences are a culmination of the scary highlights you face day to day. How many men have you met, crossed pathways with from 12 - 28. You’ve noted yourself the attention does go down as you age. Meaning most men are not giving you this cause for concern. As for the men hitting on children, they are worse than the drunken women in bars. Perverts who should be in prison but we live in a fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:27 PM
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“I understand you just fine. I haven’t shared the experience of wandering public spaces in search of women to talk to” This is a very disingenuous take or you’re speaking about a very specific group of men. I’m talking in broader terms. I’m sorry you’ve been made to feel hunted your whole life. However most men are struggling everyday with their own issues and just trying to get through the day. The meek guy that never spoke or looked your way in the grocery didn’t register in your mind. He was …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:56 PM
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I think me and you both have unhealthy ideas of the opposite sex. I want to address the things you’ve said in myself and examine my behavior. So I appreciate the conversation. I learned a new perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:07 PM
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Recently a woman around my age approached me at the gym asking about a workout I was doing. We engaged and had a fun conversation while performing the workout. The conversation never went sexual, I didn’t ask for her number/socials, and I made a new gym friend. Point is idk where the assumption comes from that every guy will take you speaking to them as a sign of interest. Have you guys approached that many men? Like have you genuinely approached 25+ men in the last month with friendly convo and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:49 PM
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I believe men have unfortunately been conditioned to see women as items/objects to be won over. You ever been to the fair and see people circling the crane machine with the shitty grip to get the iPad at the back. You’re the shiny object in the box and men are always curious to see what method/strategy works to get you. It is very unfortunate, and until you put it that way I wasn’t thinking in that context. Maybe men think it’s flattering to approach you not realizing you have been approached 8 …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:13 PM
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Yea I think the line blurs when you guys rarely provide context. Before you clarified I believed you were another woman hating approaches in general. I get your statements about shared interest but I’m curious what counts as disingenuous? If you weren’t shopping for tampons and was just getting dinner for tonight, and he noticed the same band on your shirt and strikes up a comment about it in passing is that still just as bad? I do believe women behave in bad faith with men, even if justified. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:36 PM
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Yea, idk maybe I wouldn’t mind a random woman approaching me at a concert or event and talking about what’s going on. However I don’t have to live in constant fear of being murdered by her either. So yea sucks for both somewhat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:20 PM
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I’m going to be honest. I believe men just don’t care as much as they complain about it. Men everywhere know what it takes to get laid at this point. Most men know what pictures women probably would want to see. However men just don’t care to put the effort in to make it happen. It’s funny because the biggest catch-22 is that p*ssy has so much power, yet really isn’t all that effective at motivating. You’re right OP I believe every man just want women to hand them some vagina as they are entitle…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:38 PM
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lol so yes. Sounding like a politician the way you’re answering that question 😂😂. We get it somebody has to bring the fat and the other has to bring the muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:17 PM
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Very misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:54 AM
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No look it up women shoplift at higher rates. Which makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:51 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:51 PM
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Women are the same way, preferring men with money and steroid use (in not an overly or obscene abusive way). So yea I’ll admit I like fake ass and tits. Glad women are already on that train and getting those surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:32 PM
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Women can’t make up large portions of violent crimes as women aren’t predisposed biological factors that make men more likely. They also can’t commit violent crimes as they are physically incapable of overpowering over half the population. Women however abuse children, shoplift, and commit paternal fraud at much higher rates than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:29 PM
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Scarcity doesn’t exist in women as it does men. Someone gave a great dog analogy. If a dog is deprived of food long enough and given the opportunity to eat it will, and it will be laser focused on eating. Vs. the dog that has had access to food uninterrupted, it can focus on other things for enjoyment. Men are usually deprived that’s why the ugliest, fattest, of whales can get corked but women will never drop below a base standard. So yea not his fault for a lack of dates at 5’3, he’s completely…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:26 PM
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No I agree with you women, can afford to be lazy and entitled in the dating market. What I am saying is I agree with OP, a woman’s pleasure of orgasm shouldn’t be the concern of men. Women should open their mouths or stop complaining entirely. Their pleasure is on them tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:22 PM
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A lot is not “all”. How does the saying go, “not every man but always a man”. Is that hateful of men? Idc you’re very sensitive, don’t ask the question if you can’t handle the feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:13 PM
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The hell are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:49 PM
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I never said women and men can’t be friends. I said women cannot be friends with men who perceive themselves in some sort of friend zone. Women befriend men who at some point try to pursue more with them but she turned them down or avoided it. Those are the friendships that aren’t actual friendships and I’ll say they make up a good portion of women/men friendships percentage wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:33 PM
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Exactly, guys like him believe your some type of lifeless doll that they just pump into or something. He is a 100% a failed feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:30 PM
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You’re an idiot. You’re acting like he’s handing her bread or something. Sex is an exchange of both partners having the agency to speak up about what pleases them equally. Women HAVE to start being active agents in their own sex lives. Instead of star fishing/ and mute mode and being upset they didn’t enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:29 PM
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Being friends with a woman is almost always an unfair power advantage in the woman’s side. Usually women want men friendships because they are typically one sided, and easier. I know a woman who has no women friends and nothing but male friends. She lets them pay for her meals, inconvenience them with emergencies, use them for rides, and etc. Those guys are probably hoping one day she will just be bored and sleep with them. So they stay yanked to her. See the thing about a lot of women is that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:02 PM
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Sigh* keep living the lie bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:23 PM
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What’s the age gap up and down you’re willing date in?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:21 PM
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How tall are you? And that’s very interesting are your hobbies more introverted people inclined?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:19 PM
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What made that line a nope for Jensen?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:31 PM
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Why Adam? How does his lifestyle compliment yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:29 PM
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Attraction and appealing is essentially the same thing dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:27 PM
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Baby every post doesn’t need a response. If nothing in what was highlighted interested you, you could have kept scrolling and saved the essay I didn’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:19 PM
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Ok dude, you went completely off the rails.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:34 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:27 PM
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What does this have to do with the question? In the hypothetical scenario you met both on an app or through a mutual acquaintance, however y’all have met it has happened. Also no need to scrutinize the details. If you could have either one, which would be more preferable for your life? It’s okay to say none as well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:10 PM
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There is a disparity in the two men attributes as it helps me validate how strong of a pull one is in either direction. Essentially I am aware the question is about lifestyle but I also wanted to introduce attributes that would make it a trade off. The women can clarify if the attributes did not affect their decision as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:02 PM
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Seems like you’re having an emotional meltdown. Please seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:54 PM
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Yea because your wife’s experience is apparently all women and your preference for none makeup is how all guys feel. I’m done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:38 PM
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Spoken like a man who has no idea about makeup. Almost guaranteed you have found a woman irresistible and didn’t know she was wearing light makeup or enhancements. You’re thinking about the over done, outside Friday night / or infamous birthday makeup. Women have known for decades men prefer natural makeup. A lot of times you see women with consistent and even skin tone throughout is because of makeup. Or her lips popping out more is because of that. You really don’t realize how much makeup wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:13 PM
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I’ll offer a counter argument, I believe women want men just as much. I have teenage nieces, cousins, and even early adulthood young women who are all boy crazy. This is a complex and convoluted topic. Let’s start here: A man with how he experiences his sexuality, is much more “forward, and immediate”. A woman with how she experiences her sexuality, is much more “reserved and cautious”. Women are the way they are because of evolution, societal upbringing, and reactionary programming. Women almos…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:48 PM
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I’m guessing you’re way over 30+. It’s very sad you’ve lived in society as long as you have and as a woman no doubt and believe everyone should fit masculinity and or femininity to a tee in the traditional sense. You don’t define masculinity for any of these men. Also Mark Zuckerberg is a nerd and so is Dwayne the rock Johnson, so is Jason Mamoa, Henry Cavill. You are very toxic in the way you view things and that just speaks to low intelligence or fundamental understanding of these concepts at …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:50 PM
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You’re a joy of a wife I bet. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:38 PM
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Obviously Op is trying to get you to highlight before the final verdict came down. If your No is just automatic like an outlook email reply, then just say that. But he’s saying assuming the guy is attractive to you, how could he have gone about his approach in a different way that made you feel safe enough to pass along your contact information. That is assuming you actually give real life approaches a fair shot, and you’re not closed off for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:22 PM
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In good faith, why do women express such disdain/attitude for non-approaching men? The ew’s and etc at men who are either introverted/inexperienced/or anxious especially in a time period where women are so damn despicably rude and mean for no reason? These are not nice women of the past, the average woman is angry/aggressive/rude/vindictive/condescending/and egotistical. So is it any wonder guys don’t make the first move as often anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:14 PM
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Thank you for this answer so helpful!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:04 PM
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lol only women get away with simping like this 😂. It’s just cringey to me, but I’m happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:52 PM
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Your comment comes off so immature. Makes it hard to believe your in the circles you’re claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:54 PM
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No, it’s because women get upset or believe a guy is arrogant for having a “prestigious career”. Women complain about a lot of things within dating dynamics. Be rich but don’t talk about how your intelligence/athleticism/creativity made it happen. A lot of women get intimidated or insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:52 PM
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You know, daddy issues aren’t always the case in such situations. But go off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:55 PM
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You mad bro? Touch grass lil kid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:12 PM
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Now it’s going to sound bad but I saw girls who looked just like her in college. Baby faced, chipmunk cheeked 19 yr olds. What’s apparent to you isn’t to everyone. I hope she’s spared from the attention and it’s sad but the fact is not all men will know at a glance I also work with a girl who’s 24 and looks similar in age to her. Listen I’m not saying it’s right. But men have been socialized to approach or their love lives will go no where. Are there misunderstandings? Yes, is it unfortunate you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:22 PM
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If you don’t like men, then why do you care? Continue to hate from a distance I’m done with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:38 PM
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Just because a group of people perpetrate something, you cannot tie that to the entire group. That what makes it hate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:32 PM
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Yes, but I also think you’re sweet for trying to help him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:14 PM
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Don’t care. That’s why we say women. Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:20 PM
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Most women cite the attention mainly starting around puberty when certain aspects of the female form becomes apparent. That implies men are not approaching kids but girls that are developing into adulthood. Just because we put an age to something doesn’t mean our biology follows suit. I can see what I believe is a woman with full boobs, nice hair and style. Approach and she ends up 16 am I pedophile if I apologize and walk away? Or is it natural you might make a mistake and recover and move on? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:19 PM
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Calm down man-shark. Nobody said it was ethical but in a society where people tell men they better try and shoot a shot. Then get mad because those same men can’t read minds or ages at glance is wild. Change the culture to change the outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:15 PM
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Attack me all you want. Idgaf, y’all need therapy. People make mistakes is all I’m saying. I don’t need the anecdotal “I looked like a fetus” idc. If they did approach a person who looked like a child then they are predators. However some young girls especially of this generation, try to grow up to fast and wear accessories you would think an older woman would wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:03 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:01 PM
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No men will fuck what they want to. He so happened wanted to fuck her for whatever reason. Idk man a hole is a hole in a lot of men’s eyes. But doesn’t mean they actually want that thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:07 PM
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Ok angry woman. Let it out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:06 PM
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Tf did that have to do with anything. I said fact women ages aren’t on their forehead. If he mistakenly flirts with a minor, then yea it sucks but move on and try to discern better in the future. Consequence of raising boys to pursue women for any shot/chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:49 PM
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Ease of access and she was in proximity to him. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:48 PM
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Ok never downvoted you. The answer is simple of every generation a number of men due to no fault of their own are not selected to send their traits/offspring into the future. He unfortunately may try everything he can but women may never go for him. Better to accept and find happiness outside of that. Than checklist your life hoping a woman comes around. A sad life to live if lived for women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:47 PM
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Several problems with shooting your shot as a man. 1.) Ruining your reputation and becoming a creep/harasser/and etc. most people shoot shots within friends group. Men lose everything because a woman was uncomfortable he flirted with her. 2.) Being rejected over and over, can eradicate self-esteem. Men are not machines, they have feelings and constantly facing rejection destroys mental health. 3.) Investment cost, men lose time and money trying to court a woman where it eventually goes no where.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:11 PM
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Pretty disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:50 PM
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Okay I have to say, men who don’t fuck fat women are generally quiet about it. A chad doing it, is very odd because he could usually procure a decent enough woman to where he doesn’t have to. To say he’s a chad but has to resort to that is very much an oxymoron. What men mean is Chad will fuck average women when not enough hot women are readily available. But his standards to partner will only be with the very top/hot women. I think even average to below average men unless fetishizing fatness ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:45 PM
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Lmaoooooo this genuinely made me laugh out loud 😂😂. Y’all are fed up with this confusing shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:42 PM
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I will say this at great concern to recourse. Sometimes is it possible that some men just don’t know? Not to try to sound foul but some young women unfortunately appear very of age. If 19 yr old flirts with a 14 yr old he sees around at the local YMCA only to learn her age and feel like shit after what do you say? Men can’t read your ages on your forehead. Some women unfortunately have genetics that allow them to seem older than what is actually the case. So it’s one thing to disclose your age a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:38 PM
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What I mean is, if we’re talking intelligence I would measure it by actual ingenuity/innovation. Anyone can take on a mechanical engineering degree. Anyone can register for stem courses. It’s fine if you take pride in the rigor of your chosen major but real intelligence isn’t marked by school. School tells you what, when, and how you’re going to be challenged and what on. It’s easy to think we’re intelligent if we study for a test that we saw coming two weeks ago. In the real world you won’t see…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/22 10:39 PM
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You think of things in a very “young” way. Lol you’ll realize in the coming years how little your Degree and keeping up with politics and etc matter. Intelligence isn’t defined by school. I would argue school is a place where intelligence is stifled. When you’re in the real world and having to navigate through all of that and creating vastly different opinions/ideas than the ones you hold now, you’ll learn how ridiculous what you’ve written is. Focus on good grades and finishing college lol. Whe…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/22 07:47 AM
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A woman who’s just a glorified ticket, benefits men how? I never said men shouldn’t pay for anything but y’all are pushing it with the expectation that he should pay for everything. If a man asks you out to dinner then yes it should be his treat but if you suggest or hint that you would like to be taken out that shit is cowardice and you should pay or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:04 AM
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Whatever y’all just want guys who have the most going for themselves, to somehow feel their not the shit. Men who work on themselves are the prize and should know their worth. And it isn’t paying for some random females food shortage or bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:02 PM
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It’s a lot of women on here giving strong push back. Op your post is very fair and it should be how the world operates. If a woman feels entitled to your money, you should take it as a red flag and ghost/leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:43 PM
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Really 100%, the whole thing. This is what’s wrong with people. A person can do a hundred great things and one mistake and people write you off. And a lot of you dweebs don’t understand that a company has to make money. They have employees that rely on them. Consumers that rely on them. So no there was never a company made that didn’t think about its financial goals and obligations. How about instead of coming for everyone else you stop pretending that your sad ass internet outrage matters and d…
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