Two men:

Adam is 5’11, very physically fit and active. He has degrees and is very social. He makes 120k a year at 26 and has a solid friend group of both men and women similarly successful. They are always making plans and traveling together. He seems very happy with his life.

Jensen is 6’4, very physically fit and active. He has a degree but runs his own company. He has a network of business associates but not friends. He makes 340k a year at 29 and he has hobbies that keep him occupied. He doesn’t really travel nor hang out with anyone (if he does it’s either family or work related). He’s a lone wolf but he seems very happy with his life.

Which guy would fit you more? In terms of your ideal lifestyle?