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| 3 | It's unnatural for men to chase women.That’s honestly an extremely dramatic view on dating and just overall too serious. Dating is supposed to be fun it’s not some crazy ass mind game. Lastly you’re doing the right thing by staying away from dating with that mindset. Trying to love a man who is dead set on believing you don’t would just be emotional suicide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 07:49 PM |
| 2 | It's unnatural for men to chase women.Men don’t have to participate in dating the sad thing is that the vast majority of men will participate and will approach therefore allowing women to chill. Whereas men who for whatever reason distanced themselves from dating may end up with no relationship and eventually resentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:14 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.A lot of red pill men unironically think a penis would permanently alter a woman’s vagina like 99% of what y’all say is a mix of feelings and pseudo science. Not to mention you can take accountability for laughing at misandrist jokes and still just not give af.acknowledging you do something isn’t the same as feeling bad for doing it. All I’m saying is men do misogynistic shit and then get mad when women do misandrist shit it’s hypocritical. I didn’t even blame men in my op I’m just saying don’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 10:51 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Tbf a lot of that bonking was arguably not consensual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.It widely depends on the context of the conversation that was had when you asked that. But for the most part I don’t think it’s a bad question if we’re actually just having a casual conversation. If you criticize both genders I don’t see that as misogyny but let’s be real those conversations hyper focus on female sex workers when people criticize sex work or bully sex workers they for the most part leave out men or even praise men that’s misogyny. This goes off the idea that people are just dumb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Intent is obvious sometimes like I could call you chopped cheese and we’d all know the intent was to insult you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Have you asked the females around you if they’ve experienced that. Ik a lot of females in the army and they’ve had the exact experience I’m talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.My bf no because I generally want him to only have sex with me crazy Ik. As for everyone else as long as you know that person isn’t being held hostage or something I don’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:57 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.I wish men didn’t get upset because it’s annoying to hear y’all bitch and moan about how the whole world is against men wahh wahh. Like chill out it’s a joke.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:56 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Let’s be honest you’re not respectfully warning men against dating sex workers the same way a lot of people don’t respectfully advice women not to date broke ugly men. There’s a lot of harassment and bullying involved and it’s hyper focused on female sex workers. Not to mention the justification of rape and sexual harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Intent typically is what classes it as either misogyny or misandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:50 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Idk what answer you’re expecting with such a loaded question but pertaining to my argument i think sex workers are normal people who deserve certain human experiences and basic respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Not to be a dick here but as a man how are you going to say things that target women aren’t happening I’ve seen men slut shame and shame women’s sexuality that’s not to say women don’t but I see men do it. My current career field is overwhelmingly male similar to engineering and every senior female has given us the talk that the men don’t respect us and they over sexualize us I’ve had senior males tell us we’re just here to suck and fuck it’s real and it’s not fun. It’s only banter when it doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:46 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.As they should tbh if men want to Damn near kill themselves every time they hear a woman has had sex with more than one person I don’t see anything wrong with women shaming men for their sexuality. Not all sex work is a crime btw as a matter of fact men arguably respect criminals before they respect sex workers. Let a woman post a video of her having sex and she loses all her humanity let a man get convicted of sexual assault or rap about murdering someone in cold blood and we start saying free … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Y’all dehumanize sex workers and essentially act like they shouldn’t have any human experience outside of being a sexual fantasy for you a lot of men can’t mentally comprehend a female sex worker being human. That’s misogyny not gossip and so do men men feel comfortable telling women to make them sandwiches making jokes about beating women but the second you do the reverse all of a sudden this is an epidemic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 12:32 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Man: yeah I know she’s a sex worker but i lover her anyways. Men: haha look at this cuck you do know your gf is a cum dump right (que other insults) Also men: i just wish people would respect my decision 😡 🥹 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 11:26 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.I mean im not plotting against men i just laugh and make jokes. I still help men i don’t know and generally try to be a reliable person. I | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 03:07 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.In my experience irl and online most men do participate in casual misogyny and even when called out do not stop participating. I’m not cruel to men nor do i really intend to be and when it comes to mens problems I’m not particularly poking fun I’m just checked out of it tbh. So just to preface I’m not plotting on mens downfall or anything I’m just a silly girl that makes silly jokes and otherwise lives a pretty nice life. :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 03:03 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Yup it happens so often sometimes you don’t even notice it. But people just get tired I was once upon a time a huge advocate for men’s rights and went heavy with mainstream feminism until I got drained from the constant hostility I pretty much realized being the emphatic caring sjw doesn’t work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:56 AM |
| 11 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Not wanting to date a sex worker is your choice but let’s not act slow men go out of there way to ridicule,pressure/bully anyone who would date a sex worker they also go as far to believe sex workers shouldn’t get married, have families or even just retire in piece. To go even further they seem to believe sex workers deserve zero common courtesy and if sexually harassed or god forbid assaulted it’s pretty much shooed away because she committed the absolutely horrendous crime of having sex on cam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:50 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.It probably does make men feel alienated but like I don’t really care anymore especially if you’re doing the exact same thing! Why should women be the bigger people it has not worked so why not just have a laugh instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:40 AM |
| 9 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Oh trust there’s no shortage of young men thinking misogyny is ok but are quick to act like the real misunderstood victims when they do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:28 AM |
| 13 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Call me a cynic but has there ever been a time where men and women were harmonious it seems for most of history someone was hurting someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:24 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.I disagree because a lot of the stuff i mentioned I feel came from absolutely no where. For example it’s very common for men to unironically and indirectly admit that they believe a female sex worker’s life should be confined to sex work. Idk how tf that would stem from misandry. Same thing always thinking women belong in the kitchen or draining someone’s balls. Most casual misogyny is just reminisce of a MUCH more misogynistic world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:21 AM |
| 5 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.I disagree because a lot of the stuff i mentioned I feel came from absolutely no where. For example it’s very common for men to unironically and indirectly admit that they believe a female sex worker’s life should be confined to sex work. Idk how tf that would stem from misandry. Same thing always thinking women belong in the kitchen or draining someone’s balls. Most casual misogyny is just reminisce of a MUCH more misogynistic world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Can money or a great personality make up for no physical attraction ?I’m going to be honest for most people the answer is yes for men and women. People won’t admit it because they feel it’s shallow but out in the field it happens a lot. As for personality as long as you’re average it’ll probably work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What’s going on with the ‘older men mainly want younger women to manipulate them’ claim?9/10 older men either tell on themselves or the women who dated older men share horror stories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:02 AM |
| 1 | If women are allowed to hide their plastic surgery from men in the early stages of the relationship, then men who are dating casually should also be allowed to hide their dating intentions in the early stages.I mean a woman can lie about her intentions too. She could be using a man for money but if she does that I bet you would all of a sudden think it immoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:00 AM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereI agree to an extent just the mere action of women not choosing men leads them to the manosphere. But not being attracted to someone isn’t a crime so I really don’t feel bad about it if you choose the manosphere you can quite litteraly rot for all I care and if you commit a heinous crime may you die in a prison cell. That’s just the point I’m at rn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 12:56 AM |
| 3 | One of feminism’s biggest weaknesses is the reluctance to hold toxic voices accountable because doing so might 'validate the enemy'That’s what I’m saying people aren’t allowing those views to remain dominant people challenge those views like a lot of people. That being said if what’s being said appeals to the audience more even if you call out those takes that toxicity will spread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 07:31 PM |
| 10 | One of feminism’s biggest weaknesses is the reluctance to hold toxic voices accountable because doing so might 'validate the enemy'Calling people out can cause in fighting it’s the reason why rad fems and lib fems are always fighting. If a rad fem says men should not be treated well and a lib fem calls them out for it there will most likely be a fight. Because very few people actually take criticism well.. So arguably the constant infighting can be proof that people are trying to hold each-other accountable and maintain some civility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 05:17 PM |
| 2 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutI’m referring to the male loneliness “epidemic”. Edit: Tbf there probably is a loneliness epidemic but it’s not just men going through it it’s not just men struggling so why is it we hyper focus on men when we’re all lonely and depressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:49 PM |
| 2 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutI swear women made this exact same discovery about men like a long time ago. But when men do it suddenly it’s an epidemic and we have to think about the children… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:39 PM |
| 1 | how much internalized shame do you think you experienced from purity, sexual, and ect expectations?I remember looking up if I was going to hell everytime I masturbated. I also remember trying to convince myself I wasn’t into sex because it just wasn’t something women liked. Like it was hard out here gang 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Your opinion on men who purchase relationships or rent girlfriends.I’m going to be honest man or woman I’d pity you. It’s frankly something that would make you look like a loser. But if you’re happy who cares I’m just some random ass woman on Reddit so my opinion really doesn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Men are menIf this was all I had to look forward to I would’ve shot myself a loooong time ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Why is the "Office Siren" trend getting so much hate?This is not actually an outfit for work the office siren trend is literally just to look cool. No one gives a fuck about the 40 yo, potbelly, crushing mortgage, “I need my blu chew!” Ass nobody at work enough to waste a good outfit on him jeez. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Why is the "Office Siren" trend getting so much hate?It’s literally just copying the styling of iconic office fits from movies no one is actually wearing this to work. Not every women is secretly trying to tempt men and this line of thinking is a gateway to grape mentality. Idk why op asked men especially Reddit men who are probably in their 30s and think social media is “like totally so vapid” and they’re sooo different about a cute little fashion trend that was made by the girls for the girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.No it’s not maybe it’s because I was raised in a situation where I didn’t go to the hospital often so when I got access to it I made it a priority to make sure I’m healthy. But I don’t really think about serious injuries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.My line of work supplies me with health insurance I don’t pay premiums or anything but I still applied for it. I have annual check ups and monthly check ups for my anemia. I never applied for it thinking I’d get in a serious injury I did it because I genuinely wanted to keep track of my health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 05:23 PM |
| 8 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.If they want to give being a house wife a try we’d have to make marital rape legal, revoke mens rights and treat them like children. It’s wildly disgusting for anyone to paint that situation as ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Marriage is currently utilized as a testament of love. Most people don’t even think of the economic factors the best accusation for marriage that people give is that someone doesn’t love you enough of you don’t get married. Which it’s ok to be offended by that but the relationship is probably going to end anyways if those thoughts are already creeping in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 03:08 PM |
| 10 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.I mean back then women also couldn’t vote and generally if something bad happened they were cooked y’all here “no work” and think about not having to work while having the rights and privileges as a modern man which would be great I suppose. Not to mention y’all hyper focus on the white woman’s experience black women always worked while also having no rights I thank god every day I was born in the time frame I was born because I’d be undoubtedly cooked Lastly a lot more people who were children … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 03:00 PM |
| 8 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.Tbh if your wife divorced you i don’t think she was happy with you. So even if she did stay it would be sad to say the least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 02:55 PM |
| 15 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.The women who go around celebrating divorce often have a reason to especially if it’s a long ass shitty relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.When you’re accused of serious crime you’re going to crash out but I think everyone thinks real pf is bad and we often threaten people like this or wish the absolute worse people acknowledge that pf is worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Dear god have you seen a man when you ask to fro through his phone I swear they suddenly really care about trust and how important it is. Most guys act exactly how women act towards pat test mind you that accusation is lowkey less severe than a pat fraud accusation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Because health insurance doesn’t just cover severe damage? Like I need health insurance for my annual checkup lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.The fact that it no longer works that way is what makes your analysis void. If people marry for love now wanting to get married would be a sign of love rather than a sign of mistrust. The closest thing to that marriage related is a prenup which shocking no one offends people when you ask for one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:46 PM |
| -2 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.In the current times mandatory testing isn’t a thing a probably won’t be one for awhile. So realistically take the test if it means a lot to you. As for the child just because a divorce takes place doesn’t mean either parent has to abandon their child if anything it should give you more incentive to be the best parent you can be. If the child isn’t the fathers you really can’t save them from some sort of trauma since chances are they either grow up with no father or end up finding out that their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Just to put this out there there’s a difference between advocating for the mother to be forced to have that child because the father wants it. And just being distraught that it happened and that you can’t be with them anymore. A ridiculous amount of people do the former and that’s what typically gets hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:36 PM |
| – | Men do not understand valueSame type of guy to crash out when women call him an ATM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Brother I used two forms of slang if you can’t comprehend the rest I think you need to start worrying about your own level of education… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.If a man said he couldn’t emotionally deal with his wife having an abortion therefore he couldn’t be in a relationship anymore plenty of people would sympathize with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 11:11 AM |
| 6 | Men do not understand valueThat’s why I don’t interact with these people they’re abnormal imo and honestly just no fun. Like not everything requires a strategy especially love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Asking for a mat test is accusing the hospital of baby swapping your husband won’t be mad but that hospital would (does it matter no but I’m just showing how that accusation would piss people off). Asking for a pat test is an accusation we can go back and fourth do a couple flips and tricks but it’s an accusation. If you want to have him take that pat test then be my guess. But Ik I’m a good woman my bf knows I’m a good woman I’d even say that adds to the disrespect. I give my all and you tell m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 09:30 AM |
| 10 | Men do not understand valueLet’s be real this person only sees that as casual dating when it benefits them. If they did all these things with a woman and she told him that they were just causal and that he was nothing serious we’d get be getting a 50 page manifesto by tomorrow afternoon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 09:22 AM |
| 7 | Men do not understand valueSame men that say dating is cooked saying that meeting eachothers friends and family and being emotionally connected for a year is casual dating. I swear the people on this sub are so hyper focused on playing the game that they don’t understand what it’s like to be in love. An engagement ring or living together isn’t the ultimate sign of commitment men can propose to women they never intend to marry and live with those women as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 09:20 AM |
| 4 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Then you probably haven’t met a lot of good women or maybe you just don’t surround yourself with them. Because someone who doesn’t steal can still get upset with being accused. It’s literally a running joke that it’s extremely frustrating when you get accused of doing something you didn’t do. How else is the baby not going to be yours and if you’re truly worried about baby swapping why not suggest both mat and pat testing. You’re saying it’s not questioning but in the same reply asked why he sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.I really don’t care I stand by what I said if you have a specific fund and supplies for if your husband beats you then he has every right to be upset more importantly why would you be with someone you actively have to be wary about hitting you. Now can you have a general emergency fund obviously you can but literally going out of your way to essentially say “I think one day you might hit me so I’m going make sure I have stuff to leave” is offensive tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:59 AM |
| 5 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Pat fraud is very serious that’s why if I got accused of it I’d be offended. Same way how stealing is serious and if I said I’d believed you stole something you would probably be upset. Just because you do get upset doesn’t mean you don’t think stealing is serious it really means you understand the severity of stealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:54 AM |
| 0 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Pat testing shouldn’t be mandatory because there are people who genuinely don’t want them and I have a feeling saying you have no choice but to do it would ruffle a few feathers. Should it be free and optional at a hospital sure idc maybe if the hospital wants to pull the husband to the side and offer than ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.I mean I’ve been loyal with no issues and I’d still be offended the same way there are loyal men who offended when someone demands to look through their phones. Bottom line Is calling someone a liar or cheater is just insulting and to act like someone shouldn’t be upset when their insulted is just unrealistic. More importantly I’m not trying to scare men out of anything I’m just painting a realistic painting. I encourage men who truly feel like they need a pat test to get one but if your partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Get the pat If it eases your mind but if the woman sees that as a dealbreaker then that’s how the cookie crumbles. Just do your best to be a good father fr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Even older men who take care of themselves can look chopped there’s a certain look imo that older men need to have to be successful with young women but even then a long term relationship probably isn’t in the cards for them. It’s more like for fun only like occasional sex and older men tend to spend more on young women but if I want to be with someone he’ll be my age. But that’s just my two cents tbh older men just never turn me on unless their celebs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 02:18 AM |
| – | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.Imma be honest I think women got radicalized first and then when they essentially started treating men the way men treat women men got radicalized which just pushed women further into disliking men. Tbh I never saw the amount of radical feminism until recently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Tbh as a young woman most old men who want to crack aren’t fine shyt like at all their not even rich or cool so it just becomes gross. Now if the guy who played Joel tried I’d say yes or Aaron Taylor Johnson. But most older guys got potbellies and 50 things they need to pay off not to mention their not really fun either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:51 AM |
| 7 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Yeah that’s fine if you want to leave someone because they had an abortion that’s extremely valid very few people in this world would disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:39 AM |
| 3 | What do you think is going through the mind of a man whose baby passed a paternity test?I think the whole reason a man who has zero suspicions would get a test is because he can’t quite his intensive thoughts. The way I see it is if I never gave you a reason and you still did it what’s stopping you from continually accusing me of cheating? Why would I keep having kids with you lol. Although I think most men would be deeply ashamed and sad for asking if the baby comes out positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.I don’t really need to threaten anyone I’m not one whining about my wife possibly leaving me because I asked for a pat test… Also I typically date men that don’t disrespect me so I’d rather stick to that and have a happy family where I don’t have to be accused of being a lying whore so yeaaahhh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Nope it’s pretty much exactly what I thought | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Valid I did misread that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:37 AM |
| 5 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.It depends on the motive if you’re saving because you want to buy something or you just have a general emergency fund then that’s cool. If you’re doing it because you think your spouse has the potential to hurt you then I’d understand him taking offense. And I’d wonder why you’re with a man that you think would beat you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.If she’s storing it because he might abuse her then yeah I understand him being upset. Like why r u even with him tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:33 AM |
| 11 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.You asked for an example of men doing it not arguing that they should do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.The pain doesn’t automatically make that his kid. It has to do with why people would take offense to asking for a pat test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Fuck no. The bond was when I let you get me pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.It shouldn’t be mandatory tbh because there’s plenty of people who genuinely don’t want to that. But if it were free and optional i don’t see an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:30 AM |
| 0 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.If a woman packing a suitcase is enough for you to leave I’m not hating on that. The pain that comes with pregnancy and the sacrifice adds to the disrespect to tell me I’d cheat and commit fraud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:27 AM |
| 6 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.In this situation I’m asking for the same energy.. They can do it but bet someone is going to be mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:25 AM |
| 6 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.I trust my bf not to cheat like out of the about 2 years we’ve been together that thought has never crossed my mind because he’s just not that type of guy. I would want the same if he doesn’t trust me like that then why are we even together? Why would marry this dude or sacrifice pretty much everything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Where did I say women shouldn’t emphasize with men? I literally laid it out that I understand why men may get a pat test but no matter how many ways you spin it that’s an accusation one that hurts so I also understand why a woman would leave. Your issue is that you seem to think In order to emphasize with men you have to completely abandon your own feelings. When you don’t if you can’t get past that accusation and don’t want to stay you aren’t wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:10 AM |
| 9 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.You would think but I’ve already done nothing to arise suspicions and he still thought i would cheat and commit fraud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:03 AM |
| 7 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.What do abortions have to do with what I’m saying? Why would a man support a woman who’s had an abortion? More importantly why’re you so eager for a “ha gotcha!” Moment that you’re just talking out your ass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Yes I would and I bet the hospital would be mad af but i wouldn’t care. That’s why I said men are valid in their requests but women are equally valid for being upset. I swear I’m saying“I think it’s ok to take offense when asked to take a test and even more ok if you feel like you couldn’t get past that accusation”. But y’all are hearing “pat tests should be banned you silly moid how dare you!” And just run with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.They can I don’t think they should be stopped but at the same time I don’t think a woman is wrong for ending the relationship over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.yeah some women do cry about it they cry all the way to a lawyer. And in turn men should cry about it when that happens not try and act like what they suggested wasn’t extremely messed up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.If you feel like you need the test get it if she feels like that’s a relationship ended she should end it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 10:05 PM |
| 7 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.I don’t even think I’d want to have another kid with him because does that mean no matter what I do you’ll always doubt me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.LITERALLY! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:41 PM |
| 5 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.In a sense I guess you could say it is but it’s non comparable to a paternity test. I don’t know him now if I was doing that to my bf I can see him being offended by that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:40 PM |
| -3 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.I’m the same way I’d expect like a week of groveling and apologizing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:37 PM |
| 6 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.It would be nice if he crossed the street but he’s not obligated to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:37 PM |
| 7 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Seriously if my partner had doubts I would rather him do that bs behind my back instead of legit hurting me like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:29 PM |
| 14 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.That’s also valid if you feel that way. Especially since for a lot of women a man that would ask them that is not the type of man they would want. So why waste time tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:24 PM |
| 8 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.Ofc it happens but saying I did it when Ik i didn’t and I literally just went through hell because I love you. Like no shit I’m going to be mad… People get mad when they get accused of stealing snacks now imagine being accused of pat fraud. But because it happens as a man you’re entitled to that test it should NEVER be taken away from you. But if your partner feels some type of way or leaves that’s also understandable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:19 PM |
| 9 | Men are entitled to paternity tests but not relationships.A lot of people unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Very often actually my standards may be low looks wise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?Not at all it’s mostly a preference but there has definitely been a few times where I had thoughts of fucking a guy I didn’t know at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Would you wait for a man for a man who said he wasn’t ready for sex, or would you simply break up with him?I’d like a general gist of what his sexual behavior might be simply because there’s certain things that are non negotiable. Like a guy that doesn’t eat pussy wouldn’t be a guy for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 06:08 PM |
| 8 | Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards.What’s with this idea that ugly = good person I think from being on Reddit alone you can see that’s an incorrect belief. Some of the ugliest people Ik are the most insufferable with insane audacity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 06:00 PM |
| 2 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?I’m my experience yes they do it’s like their way of trying to impress a girl lol idk if it’s just the south tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 10:46 AM |
| 1 | The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity TestsI’m verifying an objective fact too is your future spouse lying about cheating and do they have stds both tests give you real results. It protects everyone as well. It’s pretty much the same thing and it’s still ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:24 AM |
| 1 | The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity TestsIt’s not about who’s cheating is worse although I disagree with that statement. Cheating is considered bad objectively for both genders. You could accuse both genders of cheating and the vast majority of people would get offended. The disconnect here is that you want to use this as a way to dehumanize women but you give men a pass even though according to you by getting offended from being accused of doing something wrong they must not view themselves as human. They are doing the same thing just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:21 AM |
| 1 | The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity TestsThat’s exactly why you should just get the test no one is actually stopping you but yourself. I literally said in my first response if it means a lot to you then do it. I’d say the same thing about the bank account if your husband leaves or wife leaves then womp womp at least you stuck to what you believed in and got the answers you were looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:18 AM |
| 1 | The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity TestsThat’s your choice tho you don’t need the government to hold your hand through being an adult. People get married to people who have been cheating the entire time and end up ruined afterwards. Should we mandate lie detector tests and std tests before anyone gets married or is that just silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity TestsYet again I’ve seen people crash (men included) get upset over being accused of lying about something smaller. Ask a man to go through his messages to make sure he’s not cheating and this man will become a d1 defense attorney about trust in a relationship. But I highly doubt you’d say they don’t see themselves as human. Pride is also a human trait so is having an ego getting offended by someone saying you did something wrong is just as human as actually doing something wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:13 AM |
| 1 | The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity TestsYou can literally get a paternity test from cvs or online I’d get it if it was extremely hard to access a pf but in America it’s not. The only reason I’ve seen men here actually go hard for that test is because they’re scared of upsetting their partner and would rather say “well it is mandatory so I guess we have to do it honey” then say “hey I’m not 100% sure our baby is ours”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity TestsTo ask for a paternity test is to say “I need to make sure you didn’t let another man cum in you and get you pregnant and that you’re not trying to pass me off as the father” and then you wonder why a woman who just sacrificed her body and mind to create a family with you would be upset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity TestsJust say you don’t want to treat women as humans… Humans lie and deceive yet 99% of the people on this planet will take offense to being accused of lying so does that mean they don’t want to be human? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity TestsThis is a stretch tbh practically anyone who gets accused of cheating says the same shit. I don’t think you’ve seen how quickly a guy will breakdown and start preaching about love and trust once you ask to go through his phone. People get offended and defensive when they essentially get accused of cheating and fraud on top of that (especially if they just ripped their coochie or stomach open to bring this child in the world). Let’s be real the main reason why Reddit men go hard on standardized t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?Honestly Valid especially in a red state filled with trump supporters like I wouldn’t date you but I wouldn’t say no to you paying for a few things either… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 08:38 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Why do i need a man to proclaim himself as a feminist? If you support women’s rights I don’t care and I don’t need you to label it. If you don’t support women’s rights then good for you oh my life is still great regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 08:34 PM |
| 2 | What is meant by “accountability”?Replying to UpstairsAd1235 I’ve rarely met a victim who didn’t blame themselves at all. Like it’s more common for them to go off the deep end with thoughts of feelings stupid and such that’s why so many people are quick to remind victims it’s not their fault. Can they shit on their ex while also hating themselves and their decisions. The answer is obviously yes… So in my experience victims do take accountability they just cope with it extremely poorly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 08:28 PM |
| – | Politics and dating is so annoyingThanks I’m friends with trump supporters but I guess because I’m a silly woman I MUST be lying! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 08:47 PM |
| – | Politics and dating is so annoyingSometimes I go to hard on people and vice versa and we can both say “well Tbf blah blah blah” but we both agree on the overall topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | AI gfs could change everythingIn your dreams maybe lol the only people fiening to put women in their place with sex bots are the ones women aren’t checking for in the first place 💀. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 09:39 PM |
| 0 | AI gfs could change everythingEven for lonely dudes they would not actually want an ai gf because you’d always know deep down it’s ai. It also doesn’t change anything for me because for most men if they had to choose between ai or a real gf we know what they’re choosing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | AI gfs could change everythingEven for lonely dudes they would not actually want an ai gf because you’d always know deep down it’s ai. It also doesn’t change anything for me because for most men if they had to choose between ai or a real gf we know what they’re choosing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 09:27 PM |
| 3 | How do you show appreciation to your partner and how would you want your partner to show you appreciation?Complimenting outfits is an underrated one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | How do you show appreciation to your partner and how would you want your partner to show you appreciation?I don’t think any guy who’s in a relationship even does nnn lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI don’t think it applies to what was being discussed before as we’re talking about leftist women not conservatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingMost frat boys get with sorority girls. Look at bama rush content and take a guess as to wether those women are conservatives or liberals. News flash they’re indeed conservatives 9/10. Rich conservatives usually fuck other rich conservatives and eventually get married too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI’m friends with all sorts of people but it people who’re good enough to be your friends does not mean they’re good enough to stick their dick in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI think that’s a sad layer to this I can say my political preferences because I know I can get ‘em with no problems fr. But I can see why some women would settle if they couldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:15 AM |
| 0 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI don’t feel that way but if you do you should be happy af that those people do not desire you. It’s nothing to be pressed about just shrug your shoulders and move tf on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingThe man I’m seeing is very progressive and I’m pretty much obsessed with him. I don’t need a self proclaimed alpha man when I already have the best person in my life. He was also my first and hopefully my last and you honestly wouldn’t catch me dead with florida conservative that’s so embarrassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:01 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It's ok to end a marriage/family for your own happinessHow do you think the kids will feel when they never see mommy and daddy kiss or sleep in the same room. A lot of people get on here and talk about how traumatic it was seeing roommate parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 09:19 PM |
| – | Ladies, how would you feel/react to a situation like this?If I get with a “so uhhh do you want to split this $10 check” that an instant turn off because it gives me the vibes that you were stressing over it before hand. At that point I’ll pay for it my boy 😭. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 09:16 PM |
| – | Ladies, how would you feel/react to a situation like this?Hmmm I’d feel a bit odd if he was adamant on splitting but I’d do it anyways. Probably because it’s $10 and I would’ve just paid it tbh so bringing it up makes me feel like you were thinking about it already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 09:10 PM |
| – | To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you?I’d ask why the switch if he said it’s because he learned that doing those things didn’t improve his relationship or make him happy I’d drop it. If he said just cuz I’d probably wonder if maybe he doesn’t think I’m worth that kind of effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:56 PM |
| – | How does a man’s lifestyle affect his attraction level.Probably Jensen he reminds me of my boyfriend and I like him so I think I’d like jensen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is a man lying to get sex tantamount to sexual violence and abuseHonestly I think it should be something you can take someone to court over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's ok to end a marriage/family for your own happinessBecause time is precious why spend 10-20 years unhappy 10-20 years you can’t get back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:43 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's ok to end a marriage/family for your own happinessPeople can have their parents around without them being married to each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:39 PM |
| 2 | AI gfs could change everythingI mean ai could possibly change the entire dynamic if it was good enough. Think about this: a man that can Cook,clean,give you great orgasms, change his penis size, be as tall as you want, listens, does your work, gives you attention when you want it. I can see it appealing to a lot of women. But man or woman I think everyone craves the real thing because in the back of your head you would know this isn’t real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | AI gfs could change everythingI would only get an AI “bf” to replace my dildo fr not actually date it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by societyI think this is a gender reverse post since of this is what’s said to single mothers. Maybe OP is baiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's ok to end a marriage/family for your own happinessPersonally I’d rather get divorced imagine being with someone who clearly does not want to be with you anymore just being roommates… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Men are now the most exploited class of people on the internetI can understand why people would fall into cults same reason why I understand why people create parasocial relationships. I’d even say I do feel bad that you got so low that you went to that. But I’m not going to deny an adult their autonomy/accountability. Of women are providing a service that they made clear was a service from the beginning. It’s now your choice as a functional adult to engange with that content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Men are now the most exploited class of people on the internetHence why I said scenes most of these people are clear that there is a paywall and that it’s not real. Would you hold YouTubers with a discord or interactive patreon to the same standing? Probably not because it’s that person’s choice to buy those things. I don’t care if it’s a man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Politics and dating is so annoyingNot all political differences rep fundemental beliefs and i never said they did. But you and I both agree that there are political beliefs that do which makes it reasonable for someone to reject you based on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 07:50 PM |
| 7 | Politics and dating is so annoyingBecause I want to get married and have a kid and the person I do that with should have similar fundamental beliefs as me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Politics and dating is so annoyingYou never know ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Politics and dating is so annoyingYeah I find people in Florida to be quite beautiful probably because they pay extra attention to their looks idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI’m not talking about just my friends but also if I was none of them use Reddit so if I wanted to call them ugly I could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Men are now the most exploited class of people on the internetLet’s be so real rn nobody is telling these men that they’ll be their real girlfriends after they pay 10.99. They’re offering them pornography and scenes that’s it. If those men misconstrue the relationship that’s their fault. They see a girl they want to have sex with who is close enough in proximity and nice enough then delude themselves into thinking they have a chance. I say the same thing about K-pop Stans who buy a shit ton of merch and tickets and then think that solidifies a relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:18 PM |
| 6 | When You’re Single, Half The Women You Date Already Got A ManTbh so are taken men it’s crazy how many older guys will risk their entire family for a girl who sees them as a check. Like Danm does no one care anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:05 PM |
| 7 | Politics and dating is so annoyingIt is interesting especially with how people seem to completely downplay politics depending on if it effects their dating pool. Like you should Be happy that those people do not want you… Also small disagreements can usually be looked past but if someone was pro life for example that is a huge topic that can’t be handshaked away. Same thing with lgbtq rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think it's understandable if a guy is celibate simply because he doesn't like his gender role in dating?I don’t see why I would care tbh that’s his life if he’s happy I’m happier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Men are now the most exploited class of people on the internetThese men are grown nobody is forcing them to entertain of models no one hypnotized them into being attracted to findoms that’s their choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:40 PM |
| 18 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI feel like that only applies for older millennial women who like that lumberjack look you usually find in older conservative men. I find that younger women like that feminine, tall and skinny built look that you can find in anyone really but especially leftist men who aren’t trying too hard to show their masculinity. In fact younger conservative men kinda get clowned on for either looking like complete losers or having that copy paste mop head preppy boy look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Politics and dating is so annoyingIdk about other places but for American politics racism,homophobia and sexism is often baked into it. So if you support political rhetoric or policies that support those things it wouldn’t be wrong not the date someone because of that. Politics here deals a lot with human rights and what someone seems human rights is also important. I’m friends with all sorts of people but just because you’re a good enough friend doesn’t mean you’re a good partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:22 PM |
| 12 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI’ve definitely noticed that too every five seconds I catch a repub man calling liberal women blue haired sjws but also get pressed when they’re filtered out by their politics. Like how are you mad the sjws don’t want you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:14 PM |
| 6 | Politics and dating is so annoyingWell yeah your beliefs aren’t usually something to sneeze at. If somebody was racist I don’t think there’s anything wrong if I a black person didn’t want them in my life… even though they just have different ideas from me but it’s not that simple. Also romantic relationships are so much more than just something silly. We’re talking about someone you kiss, have sex with and will possibly have kids with. Just very intimate in general it’s ok to want that person to be someone you can comfortably ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingYou can still challenge and help eachother learn while agreeing with eachother. Me and my bf probably talk about politics twice a month and we widely agree with eachother but every now and then we can still offer a different perspective. In my experience just from being friends with people of different beliefs when it’s extremely polarizing or a very important topic most of the time it’s too much. That’s why most opposed couples or friendships say something along the lines of “we just don’t talk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Politics and dating is so annoyingJust because they aren’t thought about day to day doesn’t mean they aren’t thought about at all. If you went to a democratic rally and asked everyone do they support the lgbtq community I’m willing to bet somewhere around 90% would say yes. It would be hard to find a democrat who is homophobic like you’d actually have to seek it out. I’m someone who has been involved with democrats and I’m telling you one of the main topics is lgbtq support and rights. It’s arguably one of their strongest sellin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI have a range of politically diverse friends and I’d still say they aren’t the same and I understand why politics matter in dating and even in friendships. The man or woman you date is the person you’ll most likely have children with and will spend a long time with how they think matters. I myself am haitian and I was completely prepared to end relationships with anyone who believed what trump was saying. Because it’s disrespectful and offensive to me and my people. That’s not comparable to say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:16 PM |
| 12 | Politics and dating is so annoyingLast I checked the dolphins didn’t exact control what laws are passed lol the two are absolutely incomparable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingThat’s why I mentioned the policies you vote for. Also some things about political parties are generally true. If I said most democrats support lgbtq groups and activism I’d be objectively right. Whereas if I said most republicans have a very rocky relationship with immigration I’d also be objectively correct. If someone doesn’t support lgbtq it would be best for them not to date a democrat especially if you plan on having kids. You may find the outlier democrat who’s homophobic but that’s findi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI think that’s apart of attraction tbh. If I found out a man was a trump supporter I’d probably get turned off immediately. Which is fine that just means we aren’t compatible and that it’s time to start looking again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:00 PM |
| 15 | Politics and dating is so annoyingSame me and my bf mentioned politics in passing early on and I was able to see that he was my ideal man in terms of politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI’d say I live around pretty attractive people and politics do matter. But depending on how attractive you are you can get away with it. Me personally I care about politics in dating just because if I discuss current situations I’d like to have someone who agrees and not someone I’m constantly arguing with on the topic. So i just wait for someone to express their beliefs (because people be lying) and then decide if they’re worth my time or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.The average man will take a man’s side before he takes a womens. Unless it’s absolutely heinous but even then most of the time majority of who would defend a man who did a heinous crime will be men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 04:01 AM |
| -1 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.I’m sorry I’m genuinely not reading all of that but from what I’ve come to learn is everyone has their flaws I saw something about letting women work and do 50/50 and women still complain but I can also say women are by large still expected to tend to the majority of housework. So I’ve seen more women complain about that then providing. The women who complain about providing are generally not the ones who wanted to do 50/50 in the first place and to an extent it’s your fault if you choose to mes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.I used to give them that benefit of the doubt until I saw as long as the makeup looks good heavy or not it still happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.I mean those women are in the army I think they’re being dead serious compared to men who have never enlisted and never will. War is absolutely hell so why is it that you think men are so giddy to participate in it? It’s understandable that men and women would do anything not to go to war because as we’ve agreed upon it’s hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Yeah my I know several women who are actually more ready to die and fight in a war then the men. Give men the option of either going to war or staying out of it I doubt many will say yes that’s why you gotta force them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.So makeup is prettier than natural Your personality can be previewed differently based on how you look. A lot of women who are considered classy are typically apart of the upper parts of society and I bet you they’ve had work done. Or they get their hair done in an unnatural way or their nails done and they do their makeup. Yet again unnatural. Most men who say for the streets or wifey material say it as a online thing irl if a man had to choose between a fat ugly woman who’s a sweetheart and a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.Across the world you’re telling me that the acceptance of feminism is neck and neck with misogyny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.I am talking about how humans act this behavior is not limited to the west nobody said you’re suffering is on par with anyone else’s we’re talking about how people divide each other into groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.I can see that point but MRA has definitely gotten popular amongst men. And misogyny would still be a prime example of the rhetoric you dislike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.Were talking about human behavior in general so in that sense we must include the entire world which misogyny is far far far more accepted and is an extremely good example of something that encourages the bad thinking that op disagrees with BUT he did not use it. Nor did he use any other male centered groups that participate in the same behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.I think your third point shows something I was trying to touch on. This behavior is very subconscious. You are someone who want to end the gender divide and hold everyone equally accountable. But you decided to say it’s strongly encouraged by feminism a primarily female led ideology but you didn’t mention something like misogyny which predates feminism and is far more strong and prevalent around the world that heavily encourages this divide that is usually centered to benefit men. You didn’t men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.I doubt that would ever happen we’d just find something new to cling onto like race or hair color or nationality. A lot of people operate on me and my people rationale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.I think it’s everyone tries to protect their own with some outliers ofc. Men will defend other men and women will defend other women. The outliers are pickmes and white knights who need a little more validation then most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:44 PM |
| 14 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.I agree life would be simpler if we all just felt comfortable with saying nvm to people. Personally if a guy i just met did something I don’t like I’m not afraid to say “I didn’t like that maybe we should stop seeing each other”. I do it friends mostly because I’m in a relationship but that attitude has saved me so much time and so many headaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.I’m mostly talking about dating dynamics but for people that keep up with crime stats you’ll probably find someone to give you an answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:35 PM |
| 13 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.Men definitely lie about their preferences. Saying things like “natural is prettier than being done up” or “personality matters more”. But as people say watch what they do not what they say. Women have consistently seen that men are kinder, more attracted and interested in them when they wear makeup or enhance their appreance unnaturally it’s pretty much a no brainer that a woman with good makeup and good looking surgery will beat a natural looking average woman. Which is fine but men will hoot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to himFormer fat girl here Yes men do get offended if you’re attracted to them and can be quite cruel. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Girl now you know that man would not be a trad wife 🤣. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Do you think the traditional side sounds all that appealing to most women. The only thing I can see as appealing from that is not having to work or at least not seriously. Being submissive to all his wants and needs and being constantly pregnant sounds like a nightmare. It’s ok to admit that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change.“These first estimates of erect penis size preferences using 3D models suggest women accurately recall size and prefer penises only slightly larger than average.” Well then you must disagree with the paper you linked. Not to mention I didn’t say 6 was average. Not to mention as I said before I literally said I’m not to far off in reference to my comment which is true I wasn’t too far off of women prefer .3 of what I said which is barely a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change.Even the paper you linked says several times it’s only slightly above average. Also I literally said women would prefer 6 and I was only off by .3-.4 so yeah I wasn’t too off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change.I stand corrected but still that’s not too far off really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 06:41 PM |
| 26 | Women should be taught that they too can find joy in providing for their partner.Education and access to currency are easily some of the most important aspects of civilization. Women now have a choice two aquire two very important things and now the women who didn’t are telling us to take advantage. This happens pretty much every time two generations live together but on had access to something the other did not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidI think it’s an over correction for the countless amount of men who think women must have near asexual levels of horniness. Which for most women isn’t true women get very horny and they like sex if you’re amongst women you’ll hear women talk about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidMen probably have lower standards because they cum easier than women do anything will do making the risks and rewards of casual sex ratio more favorable. Whereas for women why would I risk myself for an unattractive man who probably won’t make me cum as someone else said I’d at least like something pretty to look at if I’m going to leave without an orgasm. But ideally going home and touching myself would work better if I were single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidStatistically I’m better off with a hair brush than a random man I like to cum afterall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change.Tbf I don’t think many women are good at eyeing sizes I think most women when actually have sex prefer 5-6 inches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 05:30 PM |
| 31 | Women should be taught that they too can find joy in providing for their partner.I think women are given that advice primarily from women who didn’t have a choice and realized how terrible that was. It’s more of a warning not to be like them if anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 05:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?What about the first paragraph do you not like? The part about working less hours therefore making less money, being less educated therefore having few opportunities? I tried to find one that specifically said you had to be a single mother but most just said single parent. So that’s why I was asking for a link or quote from you. Can you explain how your third paragraph is a response to my fourth because if $40 is all the sympathy you can get then DANM!. Men didn’t really try that hard seeing as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?I’m not talking about women making less for the same job I’m saying single mothers genuinely make less probably because a very good chinch of them were significantly young when they had children, Also if you don’t have a cohabiting partner you can’t work as many hours, lastly they less educated so their opportunities for a good job is limited. The poorest person in America is probably living better than someone in a 3rd world country so that point is odd… Most government programs work like dog s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 02:14 AM |
| 2 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?I feel like people REALLY underestimate the socioeconomic advantages that single fathers have. Last I checked single fathers make significantly more (which poverty is probably the biggest indicators of well your life will go) and they’re more likely to have a female partner who can act as a mother. I’d love to see how different children end up if more single fathers were genuinely single and poorer. But nonetheless if society feels so against single mothers as I mentioned before maybe it’s time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 01:29 AM |
| 2 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?Single fathers on average are wealthier than single mothers they wouldn’t even qualify for government handouts if they wanted it… Now have a couple broke teenage boys raise a couple kids and come back to me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?that’s why I said slowly squeezed out. Also I love how a majority of those states are blue states lol. But my point still stands a lot of states allow abortions somewhere around 6 weeks which is still a gotcha because most women won’t notice they’re pregnant until around 6 weeks so really that abortion ain’t happening. With the door being opened to even create policies lol that yes I’d say abortion is being squeezed out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:24 PM |
| 3 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?Aren’t most single fathers wealthier,older, and more likely to have a non related partner than single mothers? Wouldn’t that change if most single fathers were instead teenagers, who are ofc broke and most likely without a partner to substitute as a mother figure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:11 PM |
| 2 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?Completely abandoning your kid is deadbeat behavior period but I’m saying from a perspective where the kids live primarily with the father but the mother is still involved which is not a deadbeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 07:23 PM |
| 2 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?Is it demonization if it’s the truth? As for alienation of seen both parents act a Danm fool. I’ve seen fathers stalk and harass mothers so they never have another partner and I’ve seen mothers do the same. I’ve seen fathers use the children as a way to control mothers and I’ve seen mothers do the same to fathers. Most co parenting relationships are VERY messy and both parents get real petty real fast. So I can’t say either gender would alienate the other more or weaponize the children more sinc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?Hmm I think there are much more fathers out there who just don’t want to put in the work to see their kids. I’ve seen countless of mother extend invitations for the dad to see their children but unless she brings them to him it’s not happening. That’s why I think women should actually stop trying to do all that and just become a weekend parent and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?One can arguably say it takes a lot of love to give up your children to a more stable environment. I’m personally of the belief that I want to see women give up their children to the fathers. I see no point in suffering for a role people say we’re bad at it’s better to switch the current roles in society and see how it plays it. If it works then keep it that way! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?But in the case where someone does have to leave like divorce would it be ok for mothers to give up primary custody and pay child support? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?There are already abortion bans in America that make it incredibly hard to get one… if you think they’ll stop at states rights then I have something to sell you lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 11:15 AM |
| 0 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?So do you feel like it’s safe to say it would be ok to encourage mothers to give up sole custody of children to their fathers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 09:24 AM |
| 2 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?With abortion slowly being squeezed out wouldn’t women abandoning their children happen more often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:35 AM |
| 4 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?the behavior you mentioned = neglect This is classified as men’s behavior Which means men act in a way that is emotionally neglectful. Men who are raised by their father but no mother I explained this in the OP. You have been indirectly speaking about mens behavior this entire time. By saying that women are acting like men you are saying the way they act is how men act and that behavior is emotionally neglectful therefore men act emotionally neglectful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:34 AM |
| 7 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?You keep saying that women are acting like men and like fathers and by acting that way they are emotionally abandoning their children. Therefore the most logical conclusion would be that men are also emotionally abandoning their children but I suppose to you it’s in their nature to do so? TLDR: you basically implied that how fathers inherently act is emotional abandonment. I mean boys who had no mother around who grow into men. Similar to how you described women’s possible behavior I want you to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?I’m sorry that happened to you! How do you think this would effect society if experiences like yours were the norm. Do you think it would differ depending on gender? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:08 AM |
| 6 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?So men have been emotionally abandoning their children as well that’s pretty bad! How do you think men without mothers would be effected as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?In what ways do you feel it would differ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 11:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?That’s an interesting take since most people would say moms are the ones who are relaxed about things. And are more of a friend than a parent sometimes. It also depends on the intentions as well some people would say when that dads don’t really care about their children or are involved as much as mothers are. All around very interesting and unique perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 11:50 PM |
| 5 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?Then this isn’t what I’m talking about in the scenario The mother would leave the father but she would also leave the children. To a point where many children would be able to say “I don’t know my mom”. Now in that scenario how do you think that would effect society? Like I’m not talking about women working I’m talking about straight up abandonment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?What are some negative and positive ways you’ve been effected by that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 11:38 PM |
| 4 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveSome Men get angry that womens issues and topics get so much attention and awareness. Women point out that the majority of people who support womens issues are other women. So those men need to realize that women look out for their needs that’s why they gain traction men do not look out for themselves and in fact harm themselves sometimes that’s why they get no traction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 10:08 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!He was arguing that it isn’t superficial because not having sex automatically means your wife is not attracted to you but that’s not always the case. If you supposedly love your wife and you’re with her for non superficial reasons like sex then leaving her while she is struggling physically and therefore can’t have sex is messed up. I would say the same if a woman claimed to love her husband non superficially but left when he was disabled. Now if the man made it clear from the beginning that sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 10:05 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Did he already tell her that that he would leave her if she was unable to provide sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 09:56 PM |
| 7 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested?His smile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 05:09 PM |
| 7 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveGoing off the title it’s mostly used when certain men complain about women getting support. That statement is used to explain that most of the support women get are from other women and if men want see similar support they must first support other men. As for the text I think many women do advocate for the “good” men. Unfortunately they get overshadowed by the bad ones which causes women to retreat from male centered help spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Was he honest in any way that he tends to move from girl to girl like he chooses clothes? Was he also honest about being a cheater or someone who is prone to cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!My statement was some men will generalize women even in situations like the mentioned one. You implied that’s untrue because you’ve never seen it and asked for proof. I provided proof and I’m offering more. So what’s point you’re just goalpost shifting lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Just sent you a screenshot and i can send you more in your dms or here if you want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!<image> I have a few more screenshots but Reddit won’t let me post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 03:14 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!There’s your first example a man literally saying all women deserve less because this woman was a gold digger. Another man in this comment section said all women were gold diggers… just take a stroll down this comment section or even this community and you’ll see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Someone literally said “why women deserve less” 💀 in this comment section btw Also I wish I could screenshot the comments from the og video because it was absolutely filled with men pulling an all women this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!The same way how some men call all women bad people even in a situation I mentioned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!If he had a known history of violence and told you he has a problem with hitting his gfs and you still date him I don’t see how my statement would change. I don’t see how that has to do with being tall,rich or handsome tho because I’ve seen short, ugly, broke men get violent too. Especially when they’re mad at the world… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!I never said I don’t dislike anyone. Voting for someone who literally said they would kill you and then getting shocked that they kill you is absolutely bonkers. The only people I’d feel bad for in that situation are the children who couldn’t vote therefore did not make that decision. If that man was honest about only wanting pretty women or young women blah blah blah and you still dated him what did you expect to happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Nahh if a woman did this I’d probably be a little harsher. But as i said stupidity has no gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!In the original post that was a consensual transactional agreement. If you sign a contract that says you have to pay x amount of money in exchange for x thing then one day you can’t pay x thing. What exactly do you think is going to happen? They will stop giving you x thing and that makes sense. If told everyone if elected he would kill every immigrant and every immigrant in America voted for him. I wouldn’t feel sympathy for them because you quite literally chose that for yourself. I never said… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!I believe her because I’ve seen it happen a lot of gold diggers are upfront about what they want and a lot of men have no issue giving it to them because in exchange they get access to their bodies and companionship. Men aren’t stupid especially rich men who if you’re an attractive young woman will often expect you to be a gold digger and will try to entice you with their money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:31 PM |
| 3 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Why would you date someone who admitted that they would hurt you? Are you a masochist? Murder is still murder obvi but that’s incredibly dumb unless you’re disabled I don’t understand why you would agree to such a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:27 PM |
| 2 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!If that man Said he has a history of hitting his girlfriends and you decided to be with him and he hits you then i would not feel bad for you. Because as I said in the OP what do you think was going to happen! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!I absolutely would if that man told her that becoming fat would be a reason for divorce then i wouldn’t feel bad for her. Y’all want to make this into some gender war so bad but slow is slow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:24 PM |
| 2 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Did he say he gets bored easily? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:22 PM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!This part! Some of these comments want to misunderstand the point so bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:21 PM |
| 0 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Dogs maul children every year 💀 and they’re completely domesticated gang. Anyone who just trusts their kids with random animals is slow lowkey. Hey I’m just in favor of holding grown men and women accountable for entering relationships like the one mentioned in the OP if it’s victim blaming to you then I guess there’s nothing I can say to change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 01:48 AM |
| 6 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!No longer wanting sex is not always a matter of attraction it can be one of physical health or hormonal changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 01:38 AM |
| 2 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Not to be technical but that is a relationship by definition also it’s not unheard of for men to marry their sugar babies lmao 😭. And as I said there is a specific type of man that most gold diggers go after and those men know the rules of the game in fact some of them hope you play it their way as well. They aren’t your average man… Idk why you think men wouldn’t willingly enter relationships with someone who wants their money it’s just how the world is. I | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 01:35 AM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Erm actually The banner specifically says it’s a place to discuss dating dynamics and by definition a discussion is not exclusive to debates. Also there is a tab for discussions and debates implying that the two are separate therefore debating is not this subs sole purpose. Also just to add every debate is a discussion but not every discussion is a debate. - 🤓👆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 01:08 AM |
| 0 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!A lot of people do exactly that lol sugar babies exist for a reason and do you genuinely think the 60+ grandpas who date 20 something yo models think that she loves him for him? I do believe her because as I said there are people who knowingly enter these relationships. I don’t even know how to answer the last part since it feels out of the blue but if she’s honest about mainly wanting money then I don’t think she’s wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 01:00 AM |
| 3 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!I don’t think so but I do think the men who do feel that way should be honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!It’s more of a discussion subreddit lol i would label it as a discussion but since I’m stating an opinion I have to label it as a debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 12:45 AM |
| 3 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!I believe her tbh a lot of rich men enter relationships like this and in fact lead with their money first because they want something as equally superficial aka your body. But their issue is that they never think they could possibly go broke or that there are men that are richer,younger or just better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 12:33 AM |
| 6 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!I think to an extent it is superficial because if you’re only with someone because they offer sex and not everything else that makes them them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 12:28 AM |
| 5 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!If he’s honest and says sex is something he would break up over and you decide to be with that person then it’s your problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 12:06 AM |
| 2 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!In what way is she not in the right in this situation? They had an agreement he broke it so she left. Just because being a gold digger is morally wrong to many doesn’t mean she’s in the wrong in this situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 12:06 AM |
| 8 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!If that man said he only likes women who are below 25 and you still agreed to that relationship I wouldn’t feel bad for you. Like it’s not a hard concept lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 11:44 PM |
| 6 | If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south!Never said she was cool or deserved praise but in this situation she is in the imo. She was honest about her needs and he agreed to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18?You’re really overestimating how many women actually support sex work. I think a lot of women are more against the mistreatment of sex workers. Nobody but other sex workers tend to put it on some grand pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 06:19 PM |
| – | These whole date problems are just result of brokerage of male community agreement.So are you saying disgruntled men should argue with “high value” men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Is it ever okay or socially acceptable to approach women in the gym?It’s a hit or miss location because people just don’t pick up social cues. If someone just finished their workout and they’re tired and clearly recovering then I’d say don’t approach them. If they’re just chilling in their phone sure approach them. Afterwards if they clearly not giving you the same energy just disengage don’t try to force something that won’t happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 06:07 PM |
| 14 | Is it frustrating being physically weak compared to men?I think it does frustrate me but more because a lot of men use that advantage as a way to knock women down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?Can we get a link because almost every study says the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abuse100% yes they should | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.I agree it’s mainly a social class thing but people here try to make it a gender thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.Poor treatment doesn’t have to come from a place of resentment it can come from a place of narcissism like you mentioned. Which is far more prevalent in men. They can view you as less than or unimportant compared to them just because you rely on their income. Or use that fact to shut you down in arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.I’ll give you that one but I would also say most of the shitty offenses that take place are not generally considered divorce material. Also as I said in the op women are encouraged to stay with men who are condescending. Because it’s a more favorable situation or expected in certain cultures . We can see that with the majority of people in those relationships being either from a foreign country, have “limited ” education, more likely to have multiple kids etc which points to a more traditional c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.I know women who don’t work either and they still get dogged out lol. Maybe you’re good husband which is exactly what you should be. But I’m going to say if you ever brought up how you pay for everything or fund you guy’s lifestyle with Ill intent then you’re exactly who I’m talking about gang. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 01:04 PM |
| 6 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.Just to preface I’m from Florida and I remember going to Miami for the first time. Me and my friends were chilling and enjoying the nightlife just walking around but then we hear screaming. It came from two Hispanic men one was in a car that was really nice like clearly a sports car. The other was outside obviously we kind of look but what happened in like the span of minutes really shocked me. The man in the car started revving up his engine every time the other man spoke and was say “huh” “huh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:59 PM |
| 11 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.I agree with this they tend to treat their friends poorly too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:39 PM |
| 5 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.Just because you managed well doesn’t mean that behavior doesn’t take place. People were still mistreating their spouses back in the day probably more than what happens in present times. The truth is the second an argument comes up I’ve seen both men and women use the fact that they make more money to belittle their partner. I personally believe men are not conditioned to put up with that tho and that probably rings true especially for back then when women literally had no choice but to depend o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.I don’t know why people do that I mostly see it come out in arguments you get the “who paid for that” “who funds this” type of attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:24 PM |
| 6 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.Not really I see this behavior in both. It’s more of a rich vs poor thing. For men it’s especially ESPECIALLY true when it comes to romantic competition it’s downright cruel how far some guys will go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:18 PM |
| 9 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.I think it’s amplified during financial stress but rich people in my experience are generally quick to treat you like a leech. I never understood that behavior because it would be people who live in multi million dollar homes and drive near 6 figure cars that pull out the “I paid for that” card. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:08 PM |
| 1 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themYou do know men who date women that make significantly less then them belittle their partners as well? The question would be why can women put up with it and not men? IMO it’s because women are conditioned to allow their husbands to condescending whereas men take that as a challenge to their masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themShe’s not saying men should be providers and women shouldn’t tho she’s literally saying that she wants someone closer in status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themI agree western society has not wrapped it’s head around women becoming higher earners than their potential partners. That includes men because even if men say that they would date a rich woman and be satisfied on paper it doesn’t ring true for reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:09 PM |
| 7 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themMe too most high earners are not seriously dating someone significantly below their class because they’re not in the same proximity of each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:02 PM |
| 2 | What does submission look like to you and would you do it for your future partner?I see submission as an occasional thing for example you both disagree on something but you understand it would make your partner happy and will overall improve your relationship so you still do it that’s submission to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 03:49 PM |
| 3 | What does submission look like to you and would you do it for your future partner?I don’t think it’s a trust issue just having someone who is constantly agreeing with you and doesn’t challenge you is boring . People don’t even want friends like that nobody wants a yes man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 03:46 PM |
| 3 | What does submission look like to you and would you do it for your future partner?It’s probably because submission is often viewed as total dominance or control and truths most people wouldn’t want a partner like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 03:33 PM |
| 5 | What does submission look like to you and would you do it for your future partner?Hmm I don’t really agree with that i personally believe when given the choice to surrender such a massive amount of control not a lot of people want that. I also feel that system put a lot of weak men in control who took their weakness out on women so it definitely wasn’t a safe environment. But as long as you aren’t trying to force anyone into that position and you find a woman who wants that then I’m happy for you. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Question for those that "gave up."I mean why would they if they don’t have to… If you’re going to take me as I am (which I don’t believe but for hypotheticals) That may sound mean but it’s realistic if you do not require women to be good enough in order to form families and have relationships why should women do something they don’t have to do? Edit: also I find that both and women are extremely allergic to accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Question for those that "gave up."And women get called feminist (in an insulting manner obvi) someone will always get mad when they aren’t your type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 02:51 PM |
| -4 | Question for those that "gave up."I don’t think there is anything particularly wrong with either mentality. Weddings, Pregnancy et etc is risky business you really shouldn’t settle for anything less than good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you find your male partner attractive?Very! I Literally cannot leave him alone and even when it comes to masturbation all I think of is him. We are moving into LDR territory because of school which has been so hard for me as just someone who constantly needs sex sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?It would really depend on what’s a victim mentality for you. If it’s women complaining about sexism or stuff like that I don’t think they mean it in the negative “woe is me nothing will ever work in my favor” way. Which often hinders a person I think it’s just to vent fr and laugh off frustrations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 12:08 AM |
| 1 | It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than womenThere are plenty of women who definitely just want to have sex. I personally prefer being with a partner but I’ve had moments in my life where i just wanted to cum and block someone it is what it is. Men admit that sex is a very necessary and emotionally connecting activity (albeit only when it suits whatever they’re talking about). Especially if we view it the way men in this sub do by using pair bonding during sex which both men and women do. A friends with benefits situation would be most ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How do you feel about a guy “expressing his feelings” to you?I love it! It’s something that I basically require in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Life is so interesting because I think the people I’ve had the most issues with were men. Although a lot of men like to play pretend they’re typically emotional just not in the way women are if that makes sense. In my experience it was always men who tried to talk to me as if I don’t know what I’m doing and luckily I have a bit of a mouth so I had no issue checking them nearly every time. Afterwards they’d either shrink because some people just want to desperately be liked or get way more aggres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than womenSo because men have so little standards when it comes to sex it’s now justified to mistreat and dehumanize someone who just acted on being horny in a ethical manner ? It’s not wrong to have sex with someone you’re genuinely attracted to maybe men need to start respecting themselves more and not sleeping with any hole that says “come in”~. Many men actually don’t acknowledge the negative side effects of those things in fact a plethora of men will fight tooth and nail to have judgement free access… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 05:11 PM |
| 0 | Men on here complaining that "women will call the police for talking to them" are not neurotic, they're fairly accurate, the problem is they project this (true about themselves and their experience) fact out into wider society when it isn't true for 99.99999% of men.I actually really appreciate that a lot of people on here will say it’s unfair or bash women over something like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 10:07 PM |
| 2 | It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than womenThe visceral response is from years of purity culture that won’t be washed out in just 50 years. Men also view sex as empowering but their lives will not be ruined from wanting to practice a basic human need. Not to mention as I said before the reaction towards “slurs” is genuinely dark and inhumane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 10:06 PM |
| 1 | If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves?I heavily discourage women from doing porn because society is so messed it will literally tear you apart for it besides being heavily dependent on your work. Sex work is very unsafe for women that’s why I don’t really support it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why can't you detect toxicity/misogyny in attractive men?Because stoopid human brains rationalize bad behavior in sexy people men do it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Women who espouse "Not all men but always a man" - do you distrust your close male friends and family?There are probably 2-3 male family members I trust I am a bit biased tho seeing as one of the first male creeps I interacted with was apart of my family :). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | How women train men to be angry (Dr. Orion Taraban)This is something that’s completely ungendered like people tell women all the time to be aggressive and mean for men to take them seriously because of that behavior. So to say women are making you angry is dangerous. It’s actually how a lot of abusers justify putting their hands on someone the classic “I didn’t mean to baby you just never listen and YOU make me so mad. It’s not cute and it’s not funny this type of thinking gets people killed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:52 PM |
| -1 | Men on here complaining that "women will call the police for talking to them" are not neurotic, they're fairly accurate, the problem is they project this (true about themselves and their experience) fact out into wider society when it isn't true for 99.99999% of men.I have a question are you as forgiving towards women when they somewhat fear men? Seeing as their whole lives they’ve been told the same thing and have had enough experiences to back it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?There’s a plethora of reasons imo these are the ones I think are most common. -A they could be using you for sex or as a placeholder. -B they just know you’re not compatible and don’t want to waste time -C this is really for later relationships but maybe you did something bad and she just doesn’t want to put up with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:40 PM |
| 4 | The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it?Truthfully I think the answer is something close to 50% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:27 PM |
| 6 | It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than womenIt’s not even just the dating marketplace a lot of men have been vocal on wanting the complete isolation and dehumanization of women they deem as sluts. Female slut shaming is actually something straight out of a horror show when you look deeply at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:24 PM |
| 12 | It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than womenI both agree and disagree Male sexuality is definitely treated like something you should tolerate if that makes sense which is probably not a good feeling for anyone BUT when compared to female sexuality I’d say because male sexuality is tolerated female sexuality is repressed to an extent. Like I think we all know for men things like watching porn, being horny and wanting to explore their body and preferences, being sexually vulgar etc etc is widely considered to be a boys will be boys thing. U… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.So if the reason you disagree with me because women realease hormones that bond them during sex but… Vasopressin is also a hormone that can be and is released during sex just not during ejaculation that’s where oxytocin comes in. Therefore Men would also release hormones that pair them to their “mates”. (Someone explained it quite well on subreddit here i just don’t know how to link it) I’m not really dismissive of any hormone I am dismissive of people trying to use pair bonding as a tool to pus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.So if we’re going off my post you’re saying men actually want to marry the non wifey material women but because they don’t they settle for the good girls yup seems about right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.So I guess every woman who wasn’t fat and has been fun of and degraded on her looks are making it up because apparently you said it’s not possible for her to be considered ugly. This is just a case of desperately needing to feel like a victim. Man or woman you can be considered ugly for a multitude of things. It’s ridiculous to suggest otherwise I literally gave you two examples of men degrading women they deemed ugly. If you look up the ugliest woman alive she is not overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Just like #badboy fantasy is a fixation for (some) women, it has it's equivalent among (some) men: The hot, damaged/dangerous woman who is a livewire, mercurial, neurotic but also very pretty.I’m going to give leeway by saying it may be a generation thing… Because saying stuff like “I need a crazy gf” “I need a toxic gf” “I need a stalker gf” Is said a lot and as I said Alt women complain about these men so do legitimately mentally I’ll girls who basically said exactly what I said about y’all wanting a crazy girl until she’s actually showing you that she’s crazy. Because like I said before these people are just self absorbed they don’t imagine these women as real human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Just like #badboy fantasy is a fixation for (some) women, it has it's equivalent among (some) men: The hot, damaged/dangerous woman who is a livewire, mercurial, neurotic but also very pretty.I mean considering a lot of alternative women complain about the boring men who treat them like a MPDG. I’d say it’s way more common than you’d think. A lot of young boringly average men fantasize about having a MPDG type girl or say things like “I need a crazy gf” but then they act shocked when the bitch is actually crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Interesting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Men will chase baddies who do not want them. A lot of people severely downplay just how much looks plays a part in pursuing people and how you view and treat people . That’s just how it works. Nobody is above being shallow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.The term wifey material literally came from men… Clearly they are thinking of marriage to some capacity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Already explained this to two other people. These men will still chase the baddies even if they’re in a relationship with a wifey material. It’s practically soft core Madonna whore complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.I mean the TRP mainly suggests building yourself to have access to trash women no matter how you want to spin it you’re basically working hard and changing yourself because so called trash women did not want you in the first place… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.As I mentioned before just because a man is an incel doesn’t mean he’s kind or deep. That’s also why I mentioned how incels can be incredibly rude and disgusting towards ugly women even if she is attracted to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.I said entertain that’s not necessarily exclusive to hooking up. It can be chasing someone as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Involuntarily celibate men typically bitter as hell about it too. I say potential because not every incel does the previously mentioned actions but there are incels who do. Edit: I mentioned their bitterness to call attention to my examples and scenarios. These men typically hold resentment for being disregarded by women usually on the basis of looks. But it’s interesting seeing a section of those very same men do the same thing they complain about. Which is bizarre because you think that group … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Being hubby material is more than just having sex btw. A lot of ugly men are genuine dickheads and that’s a choice… And you do understand that most wifey materials are in fact put in a box. It like a lite version of the Madonna whore complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.What hormone? I hope you’re not talking about oxytocin which is something both men and women release. Not to mention you can release oxytocin during a hug or a kiss it’s not sex exclusive nor is it woman exclusive. The podcast point is all about what you struggle with. As a woman i can have a guy over to eat me out tonight if I needed it but I can’t find the best man to marry. But also I think a lot of unsuccessful men want companionship more than casual sex they just let their ego and dicks con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.These are two examples of people being degraded for just being ugly. I provided these examples because you saying” really” implied that you may not believe me. Call me when the hot athletic,educated, successful men are being degraded lol. Ask women who used to be considered ugly what their experience with romance was before and what it’s like now. I can personally tell you it’s severely different. Being looked down on because your ugly is not exclusive to men haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.I recently stumbled on an incel thread where a guy said fucking fugly women still makes you celibate… It’s not the first time I’ve see an incel have similar attitudes towards unattractive women. But it really shocked me considering that fugly woman took interest in you and found you desirable but he basically said she was not a human and people agreed and thought it was funny. Another thing I saw was in the short guys subreddit they posted a disabled woman who found love. They absolutely tore he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:01 AM |
| 4 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Men definitely complain about those types of women using them for money and emotional support. As I said to someone else the average man will have a very slim chance of even being in close proximity with a baddie let alone cuffing them. That does not stop him from chasing her and putting her on a pedestal. That’s how you end up with “simps”. Let’s please not get it twisted they do it because she’s hot and that’s fine… An interesting thing I’ve seen is that in similar fashion men settle like a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Look at my other reply I never said intelligence was not genetic just not solely genetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.if we look at the general definition of intelligence. It does seem to be something that someone can train themselves into. “the ability to learn or understand or to deal with new or trying situations” Bonus definition: “the ability to acquire and apply knowledge and skills.“ Not to mention a good contributor of intelligence is your environment I’m not denying that intelligence is genetic but that it’s not only genetic. Edit in fact the definition of knowledgeable is: “intelligent and well inform… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.I have interest in him just not in that way which is fine really. Maybe it’s my generation but the attitude around sex is very relaxed tbh. Like I remember having very casual conversations about sex with my peers it doesn’t need to be romantic sometimes you just want to fuck and that’s fine. I feel like for older generations it’s difficult for them to understand that women are just horny creatures as well that sometimes just want to get railed but it’s definitely happening quite a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.It would completely depend on the man tbh the chances of an average woman even being in close proximity to an objectively attractive man is high the same can’t be said for men. A lot of these men chase but won’t even get a crumb let alone the chance to cuff. Even if we go off the idea that men are more attractive as they age. That’s also dependent on financial status and looks so it’s not guaranteed. Not to mention by then most women will be married by then so the pickings are slim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 02:43 AM |
| -1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Ok lol if that’s how you feel about it I don’t see anything really productive in just squabbling back and fourth lol. I’ll just take my “women logic” elsewhere 🤣 But also just want to add do you think people want to be friends with those who have positive traits or negative ones… Do you think people want to marry people with positive traits or negative ones? Most people will go towards what they perceive as positive it goes right back to what I said before the 10/10 with a shit personality will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.How so? I’m answering as honestly as I can as a young woman. If I wanted something casual I would go for the hottest guy I can get even if he’s a douche bag it’s just in that situation I’d avoid him afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Personally I only sleep with people I’m in a relationship with but if I were to be casual I think I’d fuck a hot guy with a bad personality and then block him the next day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 02:25 AM |
| 0 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.If you look into something called the halo effect you’ll see how people typically gravitate towards attractive people. Not to mention ask women who used to be unattractive or average what their experience was with men compared to after a glow up. It’s usually the same answers “I was noticed more” “men were nicer” blah blah. I can say as a former fat girl once I lost the weight it was a complete night and day difference like it was genuinely shocking. It’s quite natural to want to be around and b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.That’s interesting most African countries are quite sex negative in fact most third world countries are pretty modest. Plenty of first world countries are quite sex positive as well. I said intelligence is not purely genetic a very dumb man can become intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.That’s a very interesting take tbh but to each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Shouldn’t you be for promiscuity then considering it literally enables the human race to continue through childbirth. Also intelligence is not purely genetic not to mention if we did exclude people in society who were objectively considered undesirables we wouldn’t have a lot of the useful contributions we have today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.It really isn’t tho even incels have the potential to do this. I’ve seen them countless of times discredit a woman’s affection based of looks alone. A lot of men and women will naturally gravitate to objectively attractive people even if they have terrible personalities. Like I said to someone else put a 10/10 with a shitty personality next to a 5/10 who is literally an angel and I am confident in saying that most men will gravitate towards the 10/10 they may even excuse her shitty behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Would you say cheating would lump you in as one of those animalistic undesirables. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:34 AM |
| 0 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.We all do things that are basically our natural instincts if we started discriminating against people who just act in that way there would be no one to do the discriminating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.I meant to say the larger ends like 100+ sexual partners in the spans of 5 years. I think that might be a personal self esteem thing going on. If we’re talking about just having sex for to feel good that many partners is unnecessary imo. I would think people that need that many partners are probably trying to prove something to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Well I’m no expert but I’d say men who are objectively attractive but douchey and bummy would only be considered for sex and excitement really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Maybe but it could also be the attitude and culture surrounding promiscuity. I think the huger ends of promiscuity may be an individual thing but occasionally participating in casual sex isn’t wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:04 AM |
| 7 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Humans are horny it’s going to happen regardless really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Some maybe but for most people it’s just how humans act towards attractive folks. Seriously put a 10/10 with a shit personality next to a 5/10 who literally exudes kindness. I highly doubt the 5/10 is going to be entertained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.It is but it’s usually stuff like not liking certain photos or not following insta models and the way those men lose their shit over a simple request from supposed wifey material is insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:49 AM |
| 7 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.They treat her poorly maybe after they’ve had access to her body. But I’ve seen lots of these guys lose good girls or completely ignore them for the girl who isn’t wifey material but hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against menIt’s almost like some laws favor men and others favor women which is true. But op said there are no laws that discriminate against women which is wrong. Both in the present and in the past since ofc democracy didn’t just start happening today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 11:40 PM |
| 8 | Just like #badboy fantasy is a fixation for (some) women, it has it's equivalent among (some) men: The hot, damaged/dangerous woman who is a livewire, mercurial, neurotic but also very pretty.It’s definitely more than just sex if we look at the maniac pixie dream girl trope what draws these truthfully boring average men to her is that excitement. Her ability to let loose and be playful she brings out a side of him that he never thought he had before. It’s extremely similar to the bad boy trope the whole point is having someone exist to help you grow (while also being incredibly sexy). These men don’t want boring Nancy even if she does offer sex they’ll just say it’s too boring or the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.I think most people are blatantly saying it’s an insult it’s not meant to be taken seriously… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 11:18 PM |
| – | The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomyBe a bit of a man brother. You were off the app but you commented extensively well after I told you my findings. Now you and I both know that’s a bold face lie baby. I said men would complain and i would be called a misandrist both happened in less than 10 minutes. It happened repeatedly and some men even went as far as to personally insult me. I did have several people who shared a laugh with me when they pointed out the hypocrisy and then I told them that this was all a bit of a test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 07:37 PM |
| – | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?Brother just because you refuse to acknowledge your emotions does not mean you’re logical. I think a toddler could come up with a better solution then what you said. That’s why it’s so clear what you said came from a place of deep resentment rather than logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 12:59 PM |
| – | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?I’m not going to sugarcoat this because I’m not your mama and I’m not your daddy. From the bottom of my heart you are one weird a** “human” being. The very fact that whatever brain cells you have can’t dance around each other to comprehend how ironic it is for you to suggest ending one thing you precieve abuse through enslaving half of the population goes to show that sentiment doesn’t come from a place of logic but one of unchecked emotions. Just to emphasize that is not a normal or good though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?Then let them do exactly that! Meanwhile hopefully women can just focus on getting back on their feet and doing better every single year that passes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?Don’t give a choice? Brother we aren’t going to enslave women and if being useless was a crime A LOT of men and women would be in jail. Women should merely give the father his child or give it to the state. If accessible get an abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 03:05 PM |
| 4 | The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomyLol bro told me to prove it now that I have radio silence 💀. Red pill men are so funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomyYou can check my last 2 posts rn they’ve barely been up and people are not very happy 😬 Yup I’ve been called a sexist,misandrist and an incel all within 10 minutes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:21 PM |
| – | Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo?It really wasn’t for me personally because I was in a relationship and i would tell these men I was a minor so they’d leave me alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:18 PM |
| – | Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo?Hmmm the grocery store and just on the sidewalk tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:15 PM |
| – | Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo?Tbh I don’t either cold approaching isn’t my thing but I’ve been approached basically every where | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:14 PM |
| – | Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo?Contrary to popular belief you can still cold approach and nothing bad but rejection will usually happen to you. If you feel that cold approaching is the best option for you then do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:12 PM |
| 2 | The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomyI don’t know how to share a post but i literally just saw one where a guy said men and women can’t be friends on True unpopular opinion and there were a lot of men who didn’t seem to happy with the allegations. I’ll try to post something on the GEN Z subreddit and see if it gets traction (hopefully it doesn’t get taken down) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomyIt definitely is especially with the men in this app. The moment women say they don’t make friends with men because they’re all trying to have sex with them. You can expect a wave of misandry allegation’s coming your way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 01:46 PM |
| – | Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo?It’s always been controversial women just feel more comfortable dissing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 01:41 PM |
| 3 | The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomyBut men still complain when women say they refuse to be friends with them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 01:37 PM |
| 3 | The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomyI’ve been saying this for a minute. Men paint other men as bad guys and then get shocked when they’re treated like bad guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance, while seemingly being disinterested in real life romance?I read and watched the movie to make fun of it but DANMIT the way atlas told lily “if you ever find yourself in the position to love again just fall in love with me” mad my heart melt. Idk stuff like that just doesn’t happen in real life it’s not as dramatic or crazy. I suppose it’s the same way how plenty of men will play COD or battlefield but will never join the army or enthusiastically fight a war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 01:27 PM |
| 0 | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?It is what it is or maybe the state can take them instead. I’d actually be really interested in what being raised without a mother would do to a large portion of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 11:34 AM |
| 3 | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?Sureeee everyone knows being a single mother doesn’t pay unless you bd is rich and honey most men don’t even make enough to wipe their asses. But I do hope in these next few years we see a shift of mothers straight up abandoning their kids because this definitely too much 💀. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | What is the most submissive thing you have done for a man ?I would say it’s more or so submissive because you’re committing a submissive act by giving your time and energy to do this act even when she didn’t ask for it. It could also be providing for her because you’re giving her food. Providing and being submissive do not have to be mutually exclusive especially when it comes to love. In fact if we look at the Bible which in my opinion is where most people get this submit blah blah stuff from. Submission and providing are basically the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 03:38 PM |
| 4 | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?What money btw? The $400 that more than half of them don’t even receive in full? Or the poverty incentive that’s so appealing. Maybe it’s the fathers that don’t even fight for custody because they don’t want their dang on kids full time. Or perhaps the need to restrict abortion and possibly contraception because mothers are so Terrible we should have more of them? A lot of dads would rather shoot themselves in the head then spend a solid month dealing with their kids and a lot more only see them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 03:25 PM |
| 2 | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?I don’t even think that’s it I think a lot of women are expected to raise their kid especially by themselves. I remember I saw a video where this lady worded it odd and it sounded like she said she left her 2 kids with their father. When I tell you everyone was MAD at her. Just the thought of a mother giving up primary custody of her kids for an unserious reason posses people off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?This is really sad to say but if child support wasn’t factored in I’d argue we’d be seeing A LOT more deadbeat dads fr and I’m talking zero involvement. I just personally think women need to start thinking the same way sometimes either get an abortion or become weekend parents so they can focus on themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 12:12 PM |
| 2 | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?People tend to get mad when I suggest mothers giving away their children. For all sorts of reasons but regardless I suggest it to help women I don’t think women should feel obligated to do a job everyone says we’re bad at so instead they should just let who people think would do a good job take over and pay their little $400 and call it a day. People from all sides get mad even the people who dog on single mothers the most get their panties in a twist but regardless I’m starting to see a very sm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 12:08 PM |
| 3 | What is the most submissive thing you have done for a man ?Well I cook and meal prep for my bf ig that’s pretty “submissive” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Why might women be so averse to using female (internal) condoms?I’ve never seen one at a store tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 02:50 AM |
| 5 | Relationships are not worth if sex rarely happenI mean if sex is very important to you then yeah you should leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 02:46 AM |
| 3 | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?So you agree that we should encourage women to give up their children to the father or the state? Because that’s what I’m saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Do we have gender flipped passport brosOfc women just know how to keep their mouthes shut about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 05:34 PM |
| – | Hookups by pulling girls into Uber / dragging home 27mThat sounds very rapey ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.Thanks I actually came forward with this topic after having 4 irl conversations and 1 internet conversation of people experiencing similar! :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.But that’s what I’m saying cosplay is most likely NOT inherently sexual it was instead sexualized so much to the point people think it’s automatically sexual. That’s like saying space jam is sexual because of the ungodly amount of Lola bunny 🌽 is out there. It’s literally just porn infiltration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.Was cosplay created for a sexual purpose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.So why was porn and sex work created? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I’ve made peace with it still doesn’t mean I’m banned from complaining. Cosplay is not inherently pornographic but it has been used to promote porn. The very fact that you can’t enjoy the art that is cosplay without being hit with porn proves my point and also shows my frustration with this comment section. It’s clear I’m not looking for it but innocent sections of the internet have been used to promote porn. Instead of listening to that everyone rather squeak that I’m just looking for it and I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.My feed tends to be what you see above and I still get content relative to that but sometimes you can tell it was made to sell corn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I don’t really watch porn tho so I’m still cooked regardless 💀. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.My imterests and explore page are pretty much porn free thanks. Also if I was a crazy gooner shouldn’t I be getting more male centered content? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.It could be just instagram and Reddit fr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.Uhm no according the people in the comments you’re choosing to this porn drivel 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.It has a lot of information on me it’s pretty clear I’m a straight woman that wants to see makeup and memes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.Porn and sex work exists to sastify the human sexual need in a quick and hopefully emotionaless transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:52 AM |
| 5 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I’ve been basically saying that to a lot people here I’m not seeking OF content. But OF models are using niche and generally innocent areas of social media to promote content so even if i like platonic media I will still be recommended sexual content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.You can tell the difference there can be two robin cosplays and one has more edits and maybe some cool phonk in the background. The other has a girl needlessly bouncing her boobs while lip syncing a random audio that’s typically a little more tsundare esc (I just cringed). These are two different cosplays I don’t want to the second kind. But since it’s technically cosplay the algorithm doesn’t care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.U can see my algorithm pics in this comment section it’s pretty normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I don’t even think it’s that especially since a lot of female anime characters will sort of end up with sexy cosplay. But there is definitely a difference between I guess sultry, mature and just overall I know I look good and I’m not afraid to show it cosplay and ig belle Delphine cosplay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:26 AM |
| 14 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I’m a woman and I’ve met other women who this happens to so I think they’re just casting a wide ass net. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I posted a pic of my usual feed and I can show much much more. I already explained what usually happens is the following. I like outfit videos or anime cosplay blah blah blah. The algorithm says hey positive emu likes cosplay and outfit videos let’s show that! OF girl: “hey this is an outfit/cosplay video” Algorithm: yes it is here you go positive emu here is what you like Me: wtf I said to everyone else y’all are so eager to paint me as some 🌽 addict but I’m litteraly just a normal person and I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.Lol exactly these people are convinced I must be some porn addict complaining about my own undoing. Nope just a normal girl doing normal stuff guys sorry to disappoint 💀. Funny thing is if I said “what’s with all this redpill content showing up on my feed” I bet the same people would not be saying “it’s your algorithm bro” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I see it mostly on instagram where but my explore page is in my opinion extremely normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 10:58 AM |
| 3 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.You know what you’re right buddy have a good day 👍🏿. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.Yeah i understand that but can I be sold clothes and not porn thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.Another good example of this is cosplay the vast amount of female cosplayers are in fact promoting their OF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 10:27 AM |
| 11 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I don’t even know why I get this content I am a heterosexual female I’m not looking for OF content. I’m looking at memes, anime and typically “girly” stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.That’s the thing I’m not clicking it the algorithm recognizes that I like outfit content so it recommends outfit content. So when a girl posts an ad and disguises it as an outfit of the day video the algorithm will still recommend it to me. That’s it that’s the explanation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.I actually posted a pic of my usual explore page and I can show several that show it’s completely normal. What tends to happen is I will go for completely innocent content like outfit inspo and there is at least one or two videos of a girl clearly promoting wether that be excessive movement or interesting clothing and positions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 10:13 AM |
| 5 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.<image> Just because I can smell the “it’s your algorithm bro” comments coming here is my explore page it’s usually makeup, hair, anime, outfits and memes so how does this indicate I’m a fiend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.It’s almost like I said my algorithm has nothing that would indicate I’m into OF but instead OF creators take completely innocent niches and then promote their content on that it’s funny how words work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 10:01 AM |
| 0 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.If you end up with a woman who dresses “slutty” and then she chooses not to dress that way after becoming official all I’m saying is don’t whine on social media because that was your CHOICE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 09:03 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.Dating is usually done when there is consistent communication. Hence why i said just be transparent so you aren’t wasting anyones time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 06:26 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.That convo is going come up regardless it’s better to let them know than to waste litteraly everyone’s time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 06:09 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.Well if I said something like “when I kill people” then yeah most people would assume I’m a murderer? 🙄 So hold on if a friend of yours talks to a girl that you danced with at the club do you tell him that you dated her 💀. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 05:52 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.What’s stopping you from just asking if she would change those things once you’re official? If she says no then you have your answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 05:24 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.Idk how to word this but I think it’s ok to want your partner to change but it’s not a given that they will if that makes sense. For example I don’t think you’re particularly wrong for hoping the IG baddie stops dressing a certain way BUT neither is she for not stopping. Realistically it would be easier to pursue people that don’t need to be in a relationship to practice certain behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 04:51 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.Well when you say dating I assume you’re seeing that person more than just at the club and in that context just keep it honest and transparent with common decency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 04:44 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.I personally do not support the mistreatment of people unless they’re bad people. I hope you’re telling these women that you attract that you aren’t looking for anything serious and not leading them on I also hope you give everyone the same amount of baseline common decency not only because it’s the right thing to do but we must also keep in mind that what comes around will always go around. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:50 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.I agree but if these women allegedly don’t find 80% of men attractive physically there is most likely something other than that that would continue to qualify them something like potential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:29 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.If the 80/20 rule is true potential would be the reason why more than 20% of men will be in a relationship at some point in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:11 PM |
| 9 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.I understand that but imma be real with you… nobody cares it’s still your choice to be with someone who does those things. It is inevitably your choice to make and realistically your time to waste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:07 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.I can’t believe I have about 50-60 years of hearing this crap. I think if we as a society started telling people to stfu more life would be grand lowkey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 02:31 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.I’m seeing a lot of guys who don’t want to dwindle their options and just hope they can fight their way to changing the girl they’re with in all sorts of ways. And I’m seeing a lot of girls date for potential (to be fair tho you will be met with a lot of heat when you don’t) it’s stupid and we should leave it alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 02:29 PM |
| 10 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.But that’s where we meet a roadblock. Was she dressing that way to attract a partner or maybe she genuinely liked that style there is ofc a a possibility she just likes a lot of attention. If it’s the first one that behavior will most likely change if it’s the other two leave her alone brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 02:21 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.Were you flirting with the intention of find a date? If that’s the case probably not I wouldn’t expect you to continue flirting once in a relationship because mission accomplished. Now if you’re the type of person to flirt with everyone just for fun then yeah I’d expect you to flirt even when in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 02:10 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.My whole point relies on someone being the way they are when you meet them. Was she a hoe when you met? If so don’t be surprised when does hoe activities. Was she a hoe 10 years prior and now she’s idk a flipping pastor then that’s different and I’d say the same for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:58 PM |
| 9 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.My main point is to believe someone when they repeatedly tell you who they are. If you deem someone unfit for serious commitment and you’re looking for that leave them alone or don’t but don’t come crying to everyone else when the girl who you would consider for serious commitment isn’t around anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:54 PM |
| 5 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.You are well within your rights to want to change and encourage your partner to change. The truth is that change is not a given and it shouldn’t be treated as one. If I decide to date someone who loves ice cream most people would think I’m being ridiculous if I ask them to stop eating ice cream. I think that’s my main issue with this line of thinking just expecting for this person to change because they’re in a relationship and then feeling some type of way when they don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:51 PM |
| 16 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.I agree there are plenty of women that ride for helping provide for and the whole 50:50 mindset but a lot of these people do not want her or at least not right now… I see a lot of particular men actively state that they want to chase the “hoes” but really want to wife up the good girl. Well why should she wait for you to be done with your fun she’ll be on her merry way finding someone else and you’ll be complaining on insta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:46 PM |
| 13 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.It’ll always be much safer to see people for who they are are rather than what they can become. There are plenty of people that act the way you want them to act without needing to be in a relationship but we’re all so focused on trying to chase what we want them to be we end shooting ourselves in the foot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:42 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Tell that to the people screeching about women not wanting to be mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:31 AM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.You see typically it’s in the context of being told not to have those things not being told they’re selfish for not wanting those things. For example: Woman wants to focus on career then have kids Feminism has lied to you and told you that your career and personal happiness was more important then being a wife and mother man wants to focus on career then have kids Great job man securing a future for your family that’s a real man right there. Man has kids and a wife I was lied to I didn’t know th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:26 AM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.A lot of women couldn’t afford multiple kids even back then in fact lots of women especially minorities were still working while raising upwards of 5 kids it was either free labor or paid very very little. Single mothers are shamed for making the mistake of trusting the wrong man but without fail still be ashamed for giving that child up or getting an abortion. The woman in an unhappy marriage is often threatened with single motherhood as an attempt to keep her in an unhappy marriage. Realistica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:16 AM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Perhaps but me personally I don’t really see men being told that they were lied to when they proclaim their child free status. Or when they choose to aggressively pursue their passions rather than immediately settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 11:35 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.True that’s the attitude of being a parent and there is little to no appreciation. So it’s not insane when multiple women choose to be child free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 11:29 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.That the thing it’s not just about being called disgusting if the waste worker was told every day “you smell like shit” do you by chance think someone would want to do that job. Ironically a lot of people would say HELL NO to that job partly because it’s not seen as respectable. So she doesn’t deserve to be tired she can’t feel overwhelmed? Especially when as I said before there is a group of people who will prop up that occupation but the moment she’s tired it insults upon insults. Then you agr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:51 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.My second part was for you btw it’s probably meant as good and practically universally given advice to young (I assume) single young men like yourself. You probably perceived it as an insult so now you’re parroting it as some form of equal insult/gotcha. But I think it’s good advice for singles. Even in that second piece I never said that pursuing a relationship is bad but having it be the focus of everything to the verge of harming yourself or others is bad and that goes for EVERYONE. As for si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:30 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.They can if they want but I genuinely don’t think I’m wrong. Sure are your options a little depleted from when you were in your 20s yes and you might have to work with someone a little more than you’d like but regardless you’re not invisible and as a woman especially a fairly attractive one you’ll be on the radar until 45-50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:23 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Yeah I agree actually you should be comfortable with yourself and be ok with being single which I’ve seen single mothers do a lot. But if you want to pursue a relationship there is nothing wrong with that. I’m sure even the women you hold resentment towards would agree with that statement. They’re most likely telling you to find happiness even if you’re single don’t harm people or yourself over it and find purpose outside of a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:21 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Me personally I have not seen a lot of women who changed their minds about kids and then had a difficult time conceiving. They usually get their one and done probably because if that demographic of women decide to have kids in their 30s which means contrary to popular belief their eggs haven’t pooped out of existence. The only time a complaint will arise is if they have a hard time finding a partner fr which let’s be honest as a woman isn’t difficult even in your 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:11 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Bro just added to my list 💀 In the event of a falling out romantically with the father of your child apparently as a mother you should give up on dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:05 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Yeah because “all women are bad blah blah blah” Just a silent reminder that men like him can vote 🤦🏿♀️. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:02 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Bruh even good mothers get shitted on… My sister would be the best mother in the world lol she is not popping not one of them things out of her cooter because it’s not worth it. She even told me that if certain things were different she’d definitely have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:56 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Sureee buddy Danm near any historian would disagree with you but I have a sneaking suspicion that you don’t care. Edit: you may also want to heavily emphasize that you’re talking about western women because a lot of women across the globe are suffering. I literally just saw a child prostitute asking why being a woman is so hard shit’s actually depressing (for anyone wondering where I saw this look up the docu whore’s glory) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:44 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.I agree there are pros and cons to everything I’m a young woman who has decided that getting married and popping (preferably 1 but I’m compromising with 2 for my pookie bear) out a few kids is something I want BUT I’ve looked at those cons and i can’t blame anyone for not taking that route and I think the people who often do judge those women are typically some big contributors to that con in the first place. I wouldn’t be surprised if people decided not to be a police officer or join the milita… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:42 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.I wonder how he acts when he steps foot in an IKEA does he just start tweaking or.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:33 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Honestly a part of me wishes more women would gain significantly through divorce but they really don’t. Typically they end up poorer and they got a bebe’s kids situation but this time they’re bebe. Having kids as a woman has got to be the riskiest choice in the world and I don’t blame any child free women for deciding not to do it. I also have a bone to pick with people who yip yap about women taking the kids and such but when I encourage women to give the father primary custody and just pay chi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:23 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Couldn’t have said it better myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:17 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Same people making you feel less than are also digging into mothers. We’re truly cooked… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:15 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Women have had independence for more than century but was the climate during that entire time easy going and relaxing or incredibly hostile? That’s like someone saying hardships for black people ended directly after the civil war or the attitudes towards black people was suddenly peaches and cream when separated but equal was abolished. Funny how you are saying that whoever you’re replying to is misunderstanding my topic but I don’t even think you’re on the same chapter rn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:14 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Brother as a black woman I’d rather be dead than go back in time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?Although men aren’t rushing in line to suck each other off I would say men just respect and admire other men more in multiple ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menI mean they didn’t deny anything just pointed out that those women are probably outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menI mean I think what Nelly is saying is that admitting that men can receive pretty privilege doesn’t stop pretty privilege. So the same problem will persist in fact I think if every woman said that it would breed more resentment. So now what you’re still mad that 10/10 is still living life and women are doing what we do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menI’m going to say this is incorrect for relationships and correct for casual sex. Most people are somewhat attracted to who they’re with and want to have sex with them unfortunately women almost never have the same drive as men and our hormones are constantly changing that’s just a fact. Now for casual single spontaneous sex very very few people are choosing regular joe over and absolute 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 10:33 PM |
| – | Does Having Sex With Pr*stit*tes Disqualify A Man From Giving Alpha Male Advice?I think a lot of what some people would consider alpha males essentially pay for sex. Escorts,sugar babies, mooches, gold diggers it’s all practically prostitution. In fact I’d argue a lot of RP mentors encourage men to get successful so they can gain access to higher levels of prostitution . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.And when it was more than just traditional supplies? The feminine hygiene products was a part of the curriculum or maybe the snacks including one that were mostly for diabetic children? Giving advice is a very good thing and falls within the exact thing I’m talking about. You as a teacher don’t have to give ANYONE advice that’s not your kid so those problems outside of your class and subject are not yours to give advice for. You don’t get a bonus for every kid you help. It’s not like they were p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I think if we’re using anecdotes I can say confidently I’ve known quite a few teachers who go above and beyond. And I’m talking spending hundreds of dollars on supplies so everyone would have something, if one or two kids couldn’t go on a field trip they paid out of pocket, gave us advice,a place to stay sometimes, or tutoring sessions that lasted hours (they weren’t getting paid) and so much more. Not only that in my old school we had a built in daycare and so many of the people there were stud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 09:41 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Helping members of our tribe is arguably a biological imperative. Most animals help feed the young in their circle. Also yet again both are thankless and pointless. Also thank you for not denying that you only find it pointless because it’s not a man hoping to achieve these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 07:36 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Helping the needy is never ending and thankless but having children isn’t? Something tells me you’re only calling these dreams delusional because it’s women that are pursuing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 07:32 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.That’s fine lol nobody is going to force you to help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I can tell you the exact same story but reversed but how is that relevant to what my post is about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 04:49 PM |
| 0 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Girl nobody is trying to force you to have no kids lol you’re doing too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 04:48 PM |
| 5 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.My argument is that if you help lessen one of the burdens that come with children a lot of women would probably be open to having said children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 02:30 AM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Well during maternity leave what work are they doing? How are they advancing their careers? Who’s taking care of the children once that leave is over? It would make more sense to have a company daycare for employees to bring and watch their children. The goal is to continue advancing after having children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:42 AM |
| 0 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Don’t confuse me for one of those “WOMEN MUST HAVE KIDS”!! type of people. This topic crossed my mind because i want kids but I have great dreams. Dreams that will most likely not be fully achieved even when im 35 and would be hard to raise kids and pursue my dreams. And I kinda realized a lot of women have a similar dilemma. And I also thought about how so many men basically tell women to give up their dreams like that’s insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I mean those are all nice but nothing that would allow them to continue advancing their careers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 10:19 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.“Books are a form of narcissism” links a book to support your beliefs Yeah I’m not paying that troll tax | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 10:15 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.The main conversation is how community influences in that sense would possibly incentivize to have more kids. What you’re asking is how community influences in that sense benefit children. These are two different conversations. Also I never said you’re obligated to do so. You can definitely have that not my monkeys not circus mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 10:14 PM |
| 4 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.That’s interesting I would love to see more on that I was trying to find a piece on it but I couldn’t can you link it for me? The only thing I’m finding is that they put off having children due to career options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I mean a bad economy would still severely effect men (it literally is rn) there aren’t enough essential jobs for every man (in fact a lot of job positions would probably be cut down so that companies can make a profit) also cost of living could possibly go up which can leave you homeless,hungry or worse. Also I’d argue in most areas where extreme economic crisis happen. We open the workforce because one person can no longer sustain the household and therefore they need more workers in the home. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 09:49 PM |
| 6 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I agree plenty of women don’t want kids of their own my sister is one of them but I would argue women who don’t want kids are in the minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 09:14 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.They would rather work towards a goal the same thing that men do. I agree most people want kids as long as you lift the burdens that come with children. Including losing yourself and never fulfilling your goals or dreams. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Because raising kids takes a lot of time especially when you have no external help. Meaning that most women will need to put their dreams on the back burner or chase them. Most people will choose their dreams every single time. But if you you have external help meaning more time to pursue those dreams then you can most likely have both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 09:02 PM |
| 5 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Community. We should probably ask and observe immigrants because this is VERY common and is the norm for them. That’s something a lot of immigrants actually complain about in America the lack of community. I come from a family of immigrants and I was raised around immigrants the idea that you wouldn’t help another person’s kids is crazy to them. My mom even said sometimes in hati people would leave their kids with their neighbors for days and nobody would care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 08:57 PM |
| 5 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.It’s actually quite sad that you think most women have delusional dreams lol and a lot of dreams don’t need to be extraordinary. Most PEOPLE’S dreams are quite simple actually. I know several women that dream of writing 2-3 books, helping impoverished people especially kids,spreading the word of the lord, running small businesses, contributing to a brand or industry they love, serving their country and making sure our children get to live the way they do. These are great goals and many of the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 08:22 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Trust me I already am :)). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 08:12 PM |
| 7 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Most teachers would admit that teaching is an EXTREMELY thankless job and without the passion for it they would never do it. It’s a sacrifice because you could’ve chose a much better and lucrative job. And as a person who does go out of my way to help kids that are not mine I would say I do it because I want kids to do well especially since if they do well society does well the very society MY kids will eventually grow up in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 08:01 PM |
| 4 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.But who would raise those children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:57 PM |
| 7 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I mean truthfully kids kind of are a burden sooo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:56 PM |
| 3 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Same girl i lowkey get excited to work towards my goals. And I like working itself i just hate the people that take advantage of the culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I mean women leaving their practice makes a lot of sense especially if As I mentioned before there is not a lot of leeway to raise your child with extremely limited external support and still doing an incredibly time consuming task that is being a doctor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Yeah we’re waaaay to hyper individualistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:42 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.My solution involves changing the culture we live in but fuck me ig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:40 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Not everyone wants to be cooperate slave? Some people do want to be CEOs and run/work for their favorite companies. By earning those placements with hard work and that’s how it SHOULD work. It’s not their fault that greedy shit stains we call people ruin it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:39 PM |
| 7 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.idrk why; why do people become teachers? Or volunteer at childrens centers? Probably because most people want kids to succeed and live happily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Is equality a bad thing? Depending on where you live you already do pay for kids that aren’t yours and people do the same for your kids. We all pay for each other ; also if more women have children it’ll better the economy and safer country that your children live in by providing a stable workforce. Also those children may even end up taking care of you because there is no guarantee your children will like you enough to want to take care of you when you’re old and don’t know what day it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:31 PM |
| 23 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Yeah and realistically nobody wants to give up their dreams entirely not even men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:22 PM |
| 4 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I mean before you didn’t really have much leeway to choose your dreams in the first place so how is that Eating your cake and having it too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:21 PM |
| 8 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I must not be woman because I have some pretty badass dreams. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.What group of people? Feminist I assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:18 PM |
| 4 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Community child rearing probably if older more retired folks watched over children for periods of time. Also free or extremely inexpensive daycare would help too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:17 PM |
| 6 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.We don’t really need to but I see a lot of discourse on this topic and demonizing women for choosing careers and dreams over becoming mothers. And this never seems to be offered as a solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:16 PM |
| 4 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Probably by encouraging community child rearing if older and retired folks helped with watching and caring for kids women would have more time to pursue their dreams. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | If the RP ideas you subscribe to don’t work what’s your plan?I think it’s safe to say most people who subscribe to whatever subsection of redpill they choose do so with the expectation of a desired result. If that desired result does not happen what would you do next? That’s the question; would you switch things up, would you give up etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | If the RP ideas you subscribe to don’t work what’s your plan?So what would you end up doing if being red pilled also didn’t work for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:46 AM |
| 1 | If the RP ideas you subscribe to don’t work what’s your plan?Yippee! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:07 AM |
| 0 | If the RP ideas you subscribe to don’t work what’s your plan?Then naturally this question doesn’t apply to you now does it. :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:56 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If you want women to be open about their preferences, stop treating them as dealbreakers.I’ve had different experiences I’ve seen women overlook some REAL important dealbreakers simply because of “potential” or other highlighted green flags. Even in that one study that the RP loves to refer to the 80/20 one. It showed that were women were still very willing to talk to men they did not find attractive and men were less likely to do so. Also as a women who did have a glow up (and other women who’ve gone through similar experiences) I can say that most men would not even have the oppor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 07:30 PM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.I think the idea of there being female privilege is quickly getting more mainstream. I’d give it 10 more years. But that being said you do not need the privilege class to recognize their own privilege in order to make it a mainstream concept. You seriously underestimate how many men or even just white people actually admit they’re privileged. Most people do exactly what you just described they deflect or say it’s not actually a privilege or bring up areas where they’re not privileged. But as lon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 07:07 PM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.I agree with this statement somewhat because as a no pill-feminist woman I’ve definitely been called a misogynist for just criticizing some women. But I do feel that sometimes when men especially red pill men criticize women they get lost in their feelings and miss the mark a bit. For example plenty of men say they don’t want to be judged for wanting to split the bill. But then judge women who don’t want to split the bill and they approach the topic with such vitriol and anger even if a woman sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 05:15 PM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.All I have is 2 things to say: Even if the vast majority of women admitted that they had privileges in some areas of society. A lot of men would still take issue with said privileges because acknowledging the privileges does not equal changing society. 2, most groups with privileges will not admit to said privileges yes even men. Very few men will say “yes I have male privilege in certain areas of society” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 05:01 PM |
| 3 | The idea that women put in more effort later on in the relationship isn't true.I’m not somewhere cackling hating on men gang. I noticed a pattern that i would say is honestly sad if true I would say the same if it were about women. I’m not getting that assumption off Reddit tho I’m getting it from real people lol. I’m in fairly close proximity with people in healthcare and healthcare adjacent fields and they tell me their stories. (Hell I went to school right next to a hospital and I used to yap with the nurses who were either waiting to cross the street or saw me parking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 11:45 PM |
| 4 | The idea that women put in more effort later on in the relationship isn't true.I’m glad you haven’t. Maybe Florida men are just incapable as shit. Because my sister has been dental hygienist for about 2 years now and has worked at 2 different practices she loves telling me about these experiences. My oldest sister worked in insurance for awhile (about a year) and she has had maybe 2-3 old men Danm near bawling about how their wife took care of things. One even said he didn’t know how to make a cup of coffee without his wife. Edit: I’m ngl this has definitely peaked my inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 11:16 PM |
| 3 | The idea that women put in more effort later on in the relationship isn't true.Anyone who works in healthcare has countless stories of men not knowing their own illnesses and children reluctantly saying “mom usually takes care of that stuff”. It’s actually sick lowkey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 09:38 PM |
| 11 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?Honestly you’re an incredibly admirable woman I agree with everything you just said and how you carried yourself just now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:11 PM |
| 11 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?I agree 100% also just to add smoking is also icky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:07 PM |
| – | Men have to be a little entitled to womenIs that really entitlement? To be entitled is to like believe you have a right to something. You don’t have the right to a woman’s time, Energy, or good judgement. You seem to acknowledge that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in datingBut isn’t that just judging that person’s judgment it’s like a paradox lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastI’ve already explained the root problem wouldn’t be feminism it would be the greed that comes from capitalism. If those up top were fair and compassionate we wouldn’t probably be going through such a devastatingly rough economic patch. But because those up top choose to cut corners and as I said before try to exploit and see how much money they can save not giving a Danm about the working class we’re seeing such a depressing outcome. The Capitalism most countries practice is not inherently inhum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastYou’re arguing that women gaining rights and a choice is the cause of increased depression and dissatisfaction with life. But most women can confidently say if they were making a living wage and and everything wasn’t literally collapsing on top them. Not to mention men who want 50/50 but still expect her to be traditional in a home sense. They’d be quite happy so arguably it’s not the freedom that’s making them upset it’s the inequality and general corruption. Capitalism is supply and demand but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:37 PM |
| 0 | Arranged marriages in EastIt’s not a feminism problem because feminism didn’t ask for greedy shit stains on earth to take advantage of women genuinely wanting to work. Women entering the workforce probably wouldn’t be as detrimental if the greedy fucks up top were fair and compassionate therefore the problem is the greedy people up top not the people who want to work. It’s like saying slavery ending was a bad thing because people took advantage of more black people entering the workforce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:10 PM |
| – | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?Don’t think like that it’s very destructive idk how old you are but clearly you’re in your 30s. So what happens if you’re in your mid 40s and you’re not at the place in life you want to be at? I’m glad that you acknowledge that in yourself and that you’re trying to change it’s admirable big dawg. One thing I will say is that you need to let go of a lot things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:27 PM |
| – | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?So by that logic if you’re single in your 40s you’re no longer a catch? Plenty of people in their 40s just haven’t had much luck or had to get their shit in order and I admire that. Also yet again not in a hater way just observant you don’t seem like a that good of a person. You’re like legitimately hating on older women and insulting them for like no reason out side of probably like spite. You want to look down on these women but you don’t know them it’s overall just very unattractive behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Arranged marriages in EastYou know it took women literal centuries to get the rights we have now. Feminist didn’t just do a little dance here and there and BAM rights baby! Progression takes a LOT of time and usually require some big event to force change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:09 PM |
| – | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?I agree dating isn’t very hard for women if you accepted anything that came your way. But it’s quite smart that women DONT do that lol and they shouldn’t do that. But generally I’d argue women won’t have as hard of a time that some men like to portray I think things would maybe become difficult in their 50s but the likelihood of that demographic of women being single is kinda low. Also I want to add I do find it interesting that you feel the need to like tell all of us that you date younger wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Arranged marriages in EastI think most women want to abolish the draft?? I’ve never seen a woman seriously say the draft should exist and only men should be drafted. Also it’s a little disingenuous to imply that men and women had the same level of unfairness back in the day. Like in some countries women were legit raped on their wedding nights by the lord of the land. Not to mention for monarchs yes it was better for them than peasant women BUT they were still held inferior and raped/molested by the men in their lives an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?I don’t think black pill thinking is good either like that’s depressing af and I’m not supportive of something that can make someone like kill themselves or something. Also avoiding women also doesn’t seem helpful like you’ll probably end up being socially fucked up . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:46 PM |
| – | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?I’d disagree with this most women in their 30s are married but even as you said if you were in your 40s you would look their way. Therefore I’d argue it’s still not particularly hard for women in their 30s if they’re dating older most single 45 yo type men would not reject being with a 30 yo type women . Also for your edit take what you see on social media especially Reddit with a grain of salt. Plenty of disgruntled men who flock to Reddit for some reason shamelessly pretend to be women and mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:38 PM |
| 6 | Arranged marriages in EastI think people over conflate women gaining rights and freedoms with society just being absolutely terrible to people. A lot of people in general are depressed because they’re getting poorer but working harder that’s a society (dare I say a capitalism problem) problem not feminism. Also as most people have mentioned before traditional roles and modern roles are still up in arms. A lot of women work but still do the majority of housework and child rearing. What do you expect to happen when you get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?If I’m being honest not a lot of people are as deprogrammed as they like to believe. Like what’s the difference between what you just said about wives and gfs and the young men and boys who idolize men just because they have money and women. In a sense you haven’t escaped your programming you just twisted it in a way that gives you more hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?I think the foundation is Biological but society cranks it up if that makes sense. Like even in nature if a male is rejected by a female it not uncommon for that male to lash out. Or for the group to exclude a male that’s considered undesirable by females. It’s the same here but pair that with just blatant propaganda in the media that makes people believe that a man who is unsuccessful with women are defected it just makes things worse. I’m not very informed on any “pill” rhetoric but from what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:12 PM |
| 8 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?I can’t help but think is it love or is it value? I don’t think men are motivated by their love of women but more by their need for validation and approval. Because to a lot of men being rejected by women is to be a failure it means you’re not strong enough or smart enough or even just attractive enough. I think there are both biological and societal reasons why men crave that validation. Most women don’t hate men by default I’d argue they’re quite indifferent towards them. But throughout life a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 05:31 AM |
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