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DebateTopEntertainment4781/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:21 AM
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Same set o parents
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:29 PM
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Hey man, you may loathe yourself, no need to bring us into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:10 PM
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This is incredibly misandrist. Why do think so low of men? You make them sound like unevolved cavemen who communicate in grunts. Allow me to defend men to you! Men are incredibly capable of verbal communication equally on par with women. The verbal communication of Socrates, Cicero, and Marcus Aurelius are studied to today! More recent examples include Barack Obama and Toomas Hendrik! And men have managed to effect change without violence. Ghandi and MLK come to mind. No need to resort to playgr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:08 PM
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YUP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:22 PM
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And? Do you think this is some revelation to women? This is how it has always been. It’s why women travel in packs. Men are in the protection racket. God bless us there have been good women and good men who step in. Yes women. See we don’t demand sexual favors in exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:55 PM
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I think any man questioning paternity isn’t worth the hardship I go through to bring his kid into this world. He can be a genetic dead end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:01 AM
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Your distain for the extreme physical hardship women go through to bring a man’s child into this world is noted. No wonder women don’t want to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:00 AM
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You know, a lot of times the kid looks like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:52 AM
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That’s called misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:39 AM
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Image how selfish you’d be, after your wife went through deep physical trauma for ten months to bring your child into the world to accuse her of infertility without evidence. PS I don’t have my husbands password.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:35 AM
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Do you have any idea how taxing it is to carry a baby???? I had to stop work for three months - a lot of dough - to bring my husband’s second kid into this world. A woman being willing to bring your squalling brat into this world is giving you a tremendous gift and it is a labor of love. And you spit on her and call her a whore? Thank god my husband is sensible. He knows I wouldn’t just bring any rotten shitty ass kid into the world, i’’d bring his.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:32 AM
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Good for the goose; good for the gander
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:18 AM
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Hehehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:18 AM
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It’s called context. It’s a nuanced condition where you don’t rely on others for your self worth. It does not mean being friendless. I have friends. My self worth is not dictated by my friends. https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-be-happy-alone#first-steps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:33 PM
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Wow, you guys really are on the spectrum or really socially stunted. Well adjusted humans have friends. People who are completely isolated are generally unhealthy, and that has been a pattern for most of human history. It literally doesn’t mean “friendless”, it means not being over reliant on others for your self worth. https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-be-happy-alone#first-steps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:31 PM
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Yes they are - and so are you. A girlfriend isn’t just a blow up doll. You have to FIRST maintain a social relationship/friendship with her that involves many overlapping skills you need to maintain a friendship. Jesus, you have to LIKE the girl and LIKE the relationship! My husband when we were dating took me on a week long trip. It was so much fun but what I didn’t know was that he was testing me - can I be around this person day in and day out? Is there more than just a dinner and fucking. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:26 PM
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Seriously. I wasn’t a very socially astute girl and I knew that the pretty hot girls got more attention. Being nice might help on the margins, but nice didn’t make up for ugly. Why do men expect the rules to be different for them? Really everyone assumes that you understand that good looking = higher social status and more interest. Adding in the “be nice” or “learn to cook” is the second order to help on the margins
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:20 PM
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And every liberal is a conservative who got roughed up by the police
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:14 PM
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Best lesson that all people - not just men - need to learn. Being a doormat gets you walked on. And as I told my sister, after she saw my husband and I squabble - I want a man who stands up to me because I want a man that stands up for me. And men need to learn that doormats aren’t great to date either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:12 PM
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These guys really tell on themselves that relationship = sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:06 PM
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The problem is that the (woman) you choose to spend your life with will be observably lesser in some way than those "hot" (women) your getting pumped and dumped by. So you are setting your (wife) up for insecurity issues (unless (she) doesn't mind being settled for or believes your bs lies that you will spew, reverse of love bombing for (men)) It’s weird how women are some how required to limit their current options to assuage the emotions of some potential future partner, but men can go for as …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:01 PM
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Logic isn’t your forte is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:12 PM
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Upper big branch is the last one I can remember. I grew up in Appalachia, don’t talk mines and black lung disease to me. You said men work(ed) dangerous and deadly jobs. I pointed out so did women. I made my point just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:14 AM
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Thanks for posting your experience. This is exactly the type of issues I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:01 AM
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And women also worked dangerous and dead end jobs - triangle shirt waste factory fire anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:08 PM
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You are just proving the point - she never should stop working because as soon as divorce is on the horizon, it’s all his money and his stuff while she didn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:06 PM
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You want a woman to rush home to make dinner while you sit on your butt. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:04 PM
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Lmao. Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:01 PM
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Who ends up in poverty at the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:00 PM
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What truly amazes me is all the men here saying it’s ridiculous or “American” to expect people to have friends, but will also complain about being lonely or not having girlfriends. They miss the connection entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:59 PM
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“Being happy on your own” refers to romantic relationships, not friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:57 PM
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This is hilarious. Sure, good luck finding that unicorn bud - the same socially isolated woman who is estranged from her friends and family and never expects you to ever meet one family member or friend ever. But will also marry you. Oh and she also doesn’t want kids. You’ve just explained why OP’s brother (and likely YOU) are struggling. You’ve just knocked out about 98% of the dating pool - good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:55 PM
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No - the one thing a friendless person is NOT used to doing is the social maintenance needed to exist in a social matrix. Otherwise, they’d have friends. Do you expect the wife to be cut off from her own family and friends? Do you expect to NEVER have kids? You will deal with family - her family - you will deal with friends - her friends. You will deal with teachers and parents and helping your kids negotiate other kid relationships. And if you can’t hold one friend, chances are you can’t do any…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:57 PM
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Big on Buddhism and mindfulness myself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:46 PM
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This is just amazing and I’m so glad you could turn your experiences into something positive for the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:36 PM
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No. Your stats are wrong and your logic is as well. The person who filed for divorce isn’t necessarily the one who broke the marriage - unless you are going to turn a blind eye on your wife cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:32 PM
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You probably should have thought more before you made the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:30 PM
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“ matter in life are money, control and cons(u)merism.” Yes, as someone who experienced some very lean times as a kid, money is very important in the US. It was the difference between a car running or not, or whether I got to get new glasses or not. Money is REALLY important. I work so my kids don’t have to always get their clothes from good will. I work so I can get braces for my daughter. I work so they can go to the doctor if they need to. This is such unmitigated bull. Money is the differenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:28 PM
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They need to work on that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:14 PM
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Note, I married a man likely on the spectrum and very introverted. He does not have social anxiety and has always had one or two close friends. He also has a lot of acquaintances, coaches and refs soccer, and has very effective interpersonal skills. We used to do presentations together and he’d always get slightly higher scores - ass. He also has his online gaming group. He can handle social interaction and does not need me to act as his buffer, arrange his social calendar, or handle his social …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:11 PM
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I can tell why you identify as autistic. You should read Supercommunicators. Shallow social things are not shallow. Gossip isn’t always gossip. But yes bullying and excluding is shitty. Ps my daughter is autistic as well as my sister, so this is no shade. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:51 PM
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I will NEVER want to be my partner’s soul source of emotional labor. No. No. No. And I’m introverted
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:49 PM
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But they still have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:47 PM
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Sure, but then they start building a network
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:47 PM
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I wouldn’t want to date your brother, no matter how great a heart of gold he has. I don’t want to be completely responsible for managing all the social interactions of the family on the long term. Exhausting - especially to someone who is already an introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:46 PM
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Girls not having friends is a major social Liability
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:42 PM
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Example a of why you don’t want to ever quit your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:33 PM
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Because unlike you, I don’t think I’m a perfect judge of character or omniscient. I’m watching a friend’s marriage break up right now - 20 years. Hey she thought he was great! But he can’t resist other women, something that wasn’t an issue a decade ago. I’ve watched people fall ill with mental illness. I’ve watched people become addicted and turn into awful humans who steal and beat and abuse for their next hit. These were people who seemed entirely fine and law abiding. I trust my husband. He’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:30 PM
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Yes it is. It’s very healthy. We are not infalible - men or women. We marry someone at 23 or 24 or 28? We have no idea what could happen - cheating? Addiction? All sorts of major issues can pop up over 30 years. Look around. It’s pure hubris to think you know everything and that nothing bad could happen. Pure hubris
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:20 PM
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No she doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:16 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:10 PM
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I go to work because I became severely depressed at home. I go to work to pay for my kids college
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:09 PM
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“ Men go to work to keep their wives happy and support their family.” Lol. Maybe that’s part of it, but only part
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:08 PM
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Not necessarily. Not all states are community property
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:07 PM
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Yes because you pocket the money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:05 PM
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My mom said the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:04 PM
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Right? But so is he.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:03 PM
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Goddamned, I am so so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:03 PM
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I have all of those in an egalitarian marriage where we both work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:01 PM
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Just remember how loudly men yell about the SAHM “taking his money” when they divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:59 PM
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It’s incredibly naive. But those making the money can afford to be romantic pie in the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:58 PM
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“ If you're going into the marriage planning your exit strategy, why did you marry in the first place?” Only a fool fails to plan for rain. It isn’t just divorce - what about death? What if the earning spouse is injured or becomes disabled? My husband and I had several serious conversation about divorce before marriage - how it would be handled, what our shared goals would be for the kids, etc. After all, we are both children of divorce. We are still happily married 17 years later. It’s very eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:57 PM
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❤️❤️❤️❤️ Truth bombs here. And thanks for pointing out this also can impact SAHDs too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:48 PM
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This. Businesses are already slavering over getting rid of personnel through AI
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:28 PM
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A LOT of men don’t want to be fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:28 PM
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That is crazy but good on her. I didn’t like being pregnant but had my health allowed it I probably would have had three
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:27 PM
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Because men are never unfaithful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:25 PM
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White knight is a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:24 PM
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Thanks willow, I’m quite happy to be a 130 plus woman. It enabled me to get out of a terrible family and a terrible marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:08 PM
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How nice of you to tell us we are voting against our own interests. That’s what the democrats say about you all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:06 PM
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It’s a great idea, Mike. And everyone needs time to exercise - men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:04 PM
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What laws require boards to be 50% women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:42 PM
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My youngest is getting ready to start working at 13. She’s a girl and is going to AR at soccer games with dad (my husband).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:40 PM
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Crazy not having a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:38 PM
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A) most women have a drop in standard of living (ie are poorer) after divorce. This is less significant than for men. B) men remarry more quickly than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:10 PM
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Do show me all these men hankering to be daddies with big families. Last I checked, the majority of people in government leadership are men. And it’s been that way for a very very long time. Women vote for policies because it’s “chic” to do so? Lmao. Facts not in evidence but that’s your entire rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:56 PM
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“ Women entering the work force, doubled the available labour. Im sure you understand what this does to wages, job security and job quality.” Please present evidence to support this canard, as it assumes that the number of jobs themselves would not increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:52 PM
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Lmao. You guys need to read “A Libertarian Walks into a Bear.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:50 AM
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I wanted to be a man, too, as a young woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:44 AM
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Then get a paternity test. Stop hiding behind the government
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:36 PM
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None. He just said it “seems” that way. So he’s assuming
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:35 PM
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Phew, this is nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:13 AM
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It’s part and parcel of a legislative attempt to reduce the flow of tech offshore. These guys want to make a commiserate US salary while living in Thailand. That’s how they leverage there over the local men. Companies are being pressed to onshore their people. These men won’t be able to continue to enjoy their USD salary unless they come back to the US. TikTok is an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:16 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:53 AM
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That is normal American slang. Attraction\crush = a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:52 AM
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This I tell you who is nuts - rock climbers. Damn. The definition of lithe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:39 AM
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Then tell your buddies to have standards and not be so thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:07 PM
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Are you serious? Because if im going for a ONS it will be with the hottest I can score, which is exactly the same decision that a man would make in the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:04 PM
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Yup WOW is still around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:59 PM
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I didn’t say pear shaped figure. I said hour glass figure. It says a lot that you expanded it. Women may prefer men over 6 feet but really it’s 5/10. Sorry boyo, you will just have to grow up and accept that you aren’t the most attractive man out there. I too had to accept that I wasn’t a Stacy and far more average. But I’ve built a happy life. You should try that instead of making yourself miserable over what you can’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:57 PM
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Downvoting me doesn’t change the facts. Man some of you guys are so so emotional: Divorce rates right now are as low as they’ve ever been: https://www.bgsu.edu/ncfmr/resources/data/family-profiles/loo-divorce-rate-US-geographic-variation-2022-fp-23-24.html#:~:text=After%20reaching%20a%2040%2Dyear,increase%20from%202021%20to%202022. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/04/24/what-the-data-says-about-crime-in-the-us/ Maybe you are in a different country but in the us, the numbers have been…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:46 PM
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All the upvotes for the Georgian with the truth bombs!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:40 PM
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Murder and divorce are not - in fact - at all time highs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:29 PM
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lol. God no. I had a thing for a short Jewish dude in college. My girlfriends thought I was nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:20 PM
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Well unattractive guys looks match with unattractive girls
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:16 PM
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And what about the women cheated on or in dead bedrooms? Or slapped with a walkaway husband who works and then comes home and spends hours on the computer If marriage is so horrible for men, why is it they are the ones who are getting remarried quickly and at a higher rate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:08 PM
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And men tend to like hour glass figures. C’est la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:04 PM
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Considering how many men refer to women as “scraps”, I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:48 PM
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Some men continue to rail against reality - women prefer, all things being equal, more physically attractive men. Like what is wrong with you all? Did you all never grow up? Guess what. I’m not my husband’s ideal. He’s probably screwed women much more attractive than me. And? He isn’t the PHYSICALLY best looking guy I’ve screwed either. But since he’s a grown up he understands that we don’t order people out of a vending machine or put them together with spare parts. He’s the best all around for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:45 PM
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It’s super easy to rank what men like too. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:34 PM
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Neither do you. You’ll just die on the battlefield for rich men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:39 PM
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This is some serious conspiracy theory
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:37 PM
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Do you think all feminists are childless cat people?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:36 PM
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I think Nikola Tesla and George Washington were utter failures and did nothing to move society forward. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:35 PM
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The cat lady comment hits hard because it is insulting and wrong. My sister doesn’t have kids. She is very invested in mine. There have been great adults who invested in my wellbeing when I was a kid. There are great adults without kids who moved us forward as a society - George Washington ring a bell? What about Nikola Tesla and Sir Isaac Newton?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:34 PM
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Right - like they are complaining of downwind effects of the real problems
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:29 PM
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All the upvotes for Costco. Love that place and they treat their people right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:29 PM
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Costco is amazing and treats its people right. They always have low turn over and as a consequence low transition and switching costs. Costco rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:28 PM
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Dark refers to hair color
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:27 PM
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You mean the couple pooling money together can buy more? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:25 PM
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Incorrect. The less money, the less likely to marry https://www.aei.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/The-Marriage-Divide.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:24 PM
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Right? Like plenty of men aren’t going to make CEO either. That doesn’t mean their career is fading
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:21 PM
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Their career prospects don’t fade in their 30s unless it’s highly reliant on looks, ie model/actress.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:19 PM
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That is YOUR choice. YOURS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:11 PM
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Wow, you are slow. Men no longer (and never have had) the monopoly on force.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:41 PM
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Actually your type and mine are close. But in general I can’t do a big beer belly. Although my husband has one and I still love him and am still attracted to him. I wish he didn’t tho. But I also live in the SE US and we have a huge problem with obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:14 AM
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And that’s literally what women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:55 AM
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I just can’t get over how much men hate their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:54 AM
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“ Society is designed in a way that allows men's labor, presence and protection to be transferred to people and specifically women regardless of their contribution to society.” How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:51 AM
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Um yes, bunchkin. We did those jobs in WW2. And you just not going to make money anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:50 AM
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Nah, my daddy told me Sam Colt made us equal when he put a pistol in my hand at nine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:49 AM
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This isn’t going to work the way you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:47 AM
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I mean sure, cut off all benefits for poor children. Watch the rate go to zero
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:46 AM
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Eh I’d put mine lower. 50% attractive enough to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:40 AM
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This. Upvote a million times
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:21 AM
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Yes we do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:44 PM
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But men making wide sweeping comments about female sexuality is a-okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:43 PM
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Yes. That
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:38 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:32 PM
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Like only once in a big while will I find a man that induces an immediate sexual attraction response. A far larger subset of men I consider attractive but they don’t make me - to be crude - immediately excited. But with interaction, they could. And then there is a set that is a nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:31 PM
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Oh sorry. You are right. I didn’t think context.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:58 PM
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Some yes - we have the news reports to back it up. Some no. Some are victims, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:56 PM
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Okay so she SHOULD have sex with you each time you defend her from a house invader.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:54 PM
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On the plus side, if you are dx ASD, you’ll tell the woman ahead of time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:51 PM
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If my husband only married me for a fuck hole, I’d divorce him tomorrow. But thanks for letting me know I don’t need to help him when his dad died or offer emotional support - since he didn’t really need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:48 PM
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He misses all the women who post in dead bedrooms. Seems men can go quite long without sex too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:45 PM
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Another entry where a man thinks less of other men than women do. Men are capable of going long periods of time without fucking women. They have always had ways of getting off if needed. I do enjoy my sex life with my husband and have given him release even when I am not on the mood, but I’m not doing it because he might cheat. Prager has been married three times. Maybe he doesn’t know what the hell he’s talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:45 PM
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Thank for posting this. BJs aren’t always comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:41 PM
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Not really - I just need to see a reason to say that what occurred in the recent past will not continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:36 PM
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Are you kidding me? Christianity, including the conservative time, is suffering drop off. The nones are on the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:35 PM
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The US is not more conservative than it was 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:33 PM
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You know who votes for p*rn restrictions? The right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:32 PM
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Are you f-king kidding me???? All that money goes to giving birth - something men never have to deal with. And medical testing etc is geared toward men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:30 PM
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Survival is first - always. Being financially stable is essential for stable families and communities
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:27 PM
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No. Survival is first ALWAYS. This is why kangaroos can self abort voluntarily. This is why stressed animals eat their young. Survival is a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:26 PM
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“ And we're already seeing that. With the massive rise in drug use, depression, anxiety and all that shit. ” Please show that drug use, depression, and anxiety is due to being childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:25 PM
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We’ll adapt as always
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:23 PM
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Then they need a lecture
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:03 PM
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Studies show that it was women supplying the calories that allowed the tribe to survive, men too. Your feelings are not facts. And you guys claim that women are the emotional ones
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:00 PM
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Yes I get it - you are misogynistic, but plenty of healthy women don’t want kids. And it has been always thus. Read Selfish Gene - it is highly adaptive to have involved aunts and uncles even if they themselves don’t procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:58 PM
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Ideology is not genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:54 PM
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Because the texture is awful to me. It makes me ill and I’ve had some terrible experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:50 PM
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No. And I’d kick any man out of bed who said that to me. It’s painful. I tried it once. It sucked. Get away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:45 PM
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She doesn’t limit her options by not doing anal. I’m sure she’ll try more PIV positions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:43 PM
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Hasn’t happened in Japan or China
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:04 PM
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No they aren’t. There have always been men and women who didn’t want kids, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:03 PM
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Tried it; hated it; no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:01 PM
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You go kinky man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:00 PM
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I mean, your thing is your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:59 PM
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I spit. Otherwise, I vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:58 PM
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Unfortunately, this time it’s me who is really failing. But I really appreciate your insight from top to bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:07 PM
3

Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:51 PM
5

So sorry for your brother
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:50 PM
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I’m sorry that women having jobs and equal legal rights hurts your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:49 PM
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I’m so glad you did write it because I needed to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:44 PM
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I’m copying all of these down. I’ve been failing my ND daughter despite extensive counseling and work. I’m not a bad mom, but I yell way the hell too much and she knows that it’s going to be one more complaint about how she’s coming across as disrespectful or rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:38 PM
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This hits so so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:27 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:26 PM
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God I am so sorry about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:21 PM
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No, feminism sees the ability of women to get out of bad marriages impowering
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:03 PM
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For sure. And that’s what we need - an understanding that marriages are set by the individuals….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:02 PM
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Opioids are addictive. Do you have any evidence that opioid addiction was driven by mental health rather than physical addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:01 PM
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Everyone’s anxiety is higher than it has ever been. I think that’s due to the destruction of the social welfare state. We had a lot more public support forty years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:59 PM
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I am currently in a happy 17 year marriage. Maybe I know of what I speak! Step one, always, in life is to make sure you are able to independently take care of yourself. In this world, that means making money. We teach this to men, why not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:56 PM
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It isn’t. It’s a life skill. Everyone should know how to cook and feed themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:51 PM
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Tell on themselves don’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:49 PM
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Trade school and 2. The mentoring program that unions provide (that’s how my tio became a master electrician). You think only guys do this? My sister was a mechanic for a while. She’s now in IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:48 PM
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I strongly disagree with this. First, you conflate transaction with choice. A woman or man may choose to marry - that doesn’t mean they are choosing to marry for love as versus an effective economic unit. Second, women did not in fact have a choice. They had to get married, period, and their families took a very active part in vetting and approving of spouses. That’s why concepts such as dowery remain in our language even though it’s been defunct for a long time. You likely subconsciously consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:44 PM
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You mean if humans stop being human? Because social network/interaction /culture is essentially human.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:26 PM
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I’m in a successful 17 year marriage. I understand duty and mutuality. The way you speak is idealized and filled with “shoulds” - relationships should look like this or people should approach it this way. That demonstrates a lack of experience in long haul relationships. Moreover, you also appear quite unknowledgeable regarding marriage formation pre 1970s. If you are going to posit that we are so heavily individualized, leading to bad results, you will need to have sufficient knowledge of the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:24 PM
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Nah it’s great. Let them keep speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:24 AM
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I don’t think this guy is in a relationship. He has a really confused view.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:24 AM
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Yes, because rhe lower class has less access to good birth control, medical care, and family planning
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:21 AM
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Of course the logical error is glaring - if we are all slaves to our biology with the sole goal of procreation why would we have to teach girls to value find a good man and pop out kids? Why would we have to teach boys to marry? Men don’t want to marry often or have kids. Women are just catching up? The truth is that there have always been women who didn’t want to marry or have kids - men too. It’s pretty sick how you think you gain immortality through passing on your genes. You don’t. And we ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:20 AM
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We are animals who are capable of reaching for the stars. You better be happy that our only purpose in life ISNT just procreation, otherwise we’d still be on the savannah naked and hairy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:27 PM
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I didn’t. I married a man who made and makes bank. I attempted to stay home, became deeply depressed, and went back to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:23 PM
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Why don’t you spend some time researching marriage pre-1900. Marriage has very often been highly transactional for MOST of human history. Most women didn’t have that much choice who they married:
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:20 PM
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You are OP - why are you talking about yourself in the third person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:16 PM
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Hell yes it’s better to earn money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:15 PM
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Nah it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:14 PM
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They worked well for MEN. If they worked well for women, we wouldn’t have so many women going to college and getting jobs rather than marrying some dude right away and being Suzy homemaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:13 PM
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You want relationship benefits without the relationship price.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:54 PM
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Why would I have that kind of encounter with some random man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:51 PM
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Another version of shroedinger’s woman - she must be a virgin until she meets me and then fuck me on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:49 PM
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And you speaking out is to claim that it isn’t fair that women won’t give every shitty man out there sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:48 PM
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Neither do you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:44 PM
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So you need to land new pussy every weekend for good mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:43 PM
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Pets are a lot cheaper than kids. This is a very silly comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:28 PM
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Women do not struggle to hold full time jobs. WTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:34 AM
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Go to regretful parents and see if that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:22 AM
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I’m a mother. I adore my kids. I spent last night weeping for hours that I’ve failed my oldest (a girl on the spectrum) as she continues to struggle with social interaction despite years of counseling and is miserable. I’m not minimizing any woman’s (or man’s) bitching about kids under the rug. Our culture is deeply kid and family unfriendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:46 PM
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YES. I have friends who were elder siblings in big families. They either have one kid or none
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:36 PM
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It isn’t projection. You don’t know the meaning of that word
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:34 PM
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I have one of the good ones. And he still is oblivious about some of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:33 PM
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Uh huh. But that “closer bond” (which isn’t necessarily true) doesn’t put food on the table or money in retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:27 PM
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Men get affirmative action to get into college: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:54 PM
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Yes that is one of a million reasons why the birth rate is cratering. Which, fine - you don’t want genetic legacy or children, that’s your choice. But I’ll enjoy you pushing back on men here who complain about women not willing to “support society” or have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:50 PM
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She’s talking about marriage, dude. Marriage provides those protections. But women haven’t missed your point though - even in marriage, you expect women to bear the physical danger AND the financial expenses involved in raising children. And now we know exactly why the birth rate is in the toilet. Hello .80 fertility rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:44 PM
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So women should just eat the cost of child birth and parenting for the man’s kids? Why is it that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:38 PM
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YES! And I’m getting downvoted to oblivion for saying any prenup I entertain would factor in any career hits due to child birth and rearing. And I’d advise the same to any man btw marrying a high powered career wife
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:35 PM
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You want to rewrite the rules for the 1%. Your views are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:33 PM
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It isn’t shit work but it is work. And it falls primarily (but not always) on the woman. I had to lose six months of my lawyer salary (around 8k a month at the time) for my second pregnancy due to health issues. So I should lose all that investment in my career - one that he didn’t experience - just because I’m the woman. I shouldered 90% of parenting responsibility, which severely limited the cases I could take and those late work nights, so my husband could finish his degree. So why exactly wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:29 PM
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When I divorced, I ended up paying for several months of rent for my ex and like a payment of 5k to help him finish school. He helped me through school, I helped him finish as well. Do not regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:58 PM
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All of this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:54 PM
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Nothing. It’s just a throw away comment to try to blame women. Yet its men that remarry more quickly than women after divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:53 PM
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Of course you can. Had my husband insisted on a prenup (we talked about it) I would have demanded certain monetary investments for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:52 PM
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And usually I buy my friends beer and pizza if they help me move something heavy. Little old girl me has helped friends move. And they friendzoning me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:45 PM
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A girl being used isn’t the same as a guy USING someone. Men are supposed to call men out for assault or misogyny, not for being friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:43 PM
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Do you KNOW what women tell their friends? Because I sure have advised one of my friends in particular of that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:41 PM
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First, a man who loses his boner when you are naked with him can be extremely demoralizing for the woman. Listen to what men say here: oh men will fuck anything … and then, this man won’t stay hard for you? And that’s how performance anxiety shows with a man. Like the dick won’t cooperate - either they go off too fast or they lose it. Second, giving advice to men about what is good and what is bad is fraught. An inexperienced man can lash out or be “hurt” by advice. It is the most sensitive of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:27 PM
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You need counseling, muchacho. I think once you understand you are a worthy person you will see why people will find you worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:14 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:27 PM
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Social media isn’t the real world. People are very careful about curating their social media. But true enough I and my husband are in my social media profile
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:27 PM
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One can be positive toward men and not hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:21 PM
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This exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:19 PM
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That isn’t acknowledging it - that’s putting the very worst spin on it possible. And I’d walk from any one with that attitude because it evidences disrespect for my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:17 PM
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He has to be worth the time it takes to reach that point. Just think about it - you are with a woman and you never get an orgasm for months. You have to do all the work in bed with none of the reward. And in fact your ego takes a blow? How awesome does she have to be for that investment? I was in a relationship with an inexperienced man that had anxiety about bedroom activities. I had to be willing to spend a lot of time in bed with him, never letting it impact my ego and self esteem, to get him…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:11 PM
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How about MEN don’t be terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:37 PM
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I’m pretty sure my husband thinks there are a lot of hotter women than me. But I know he thinks I’m the best all around package for him, which includes far more than what is on paper. We don’t date the curated tinder profile, we date the person. You need to get realistic. There will always be someone prettier, taller, or richer. You are demanding that your girlfriend think you are George Clooney and Tom Cruise rolled into one, even though YOU don’t think your girlfriend is scarlet Johansson. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:30 PM
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Preach sister
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:30 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:28 PM
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By your statement most of the women are settling down. So what if a few panic. That’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:30 PM
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Thank you for pointing it out - it takes both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:20 PM
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“ Male promiscuity has traditionally been stigmatized too, I thought. Not in private with groups of men talking amongst themselves, of course.” This is what I responded to. So considering you have now moved the goal posts, you acknowledge that your original statement is wrong. Now to your current statement - no monogamous marriage- to the extent it applies to the husband - has not “always been promoted heavily in the west.” First, social stability was maintained by onerous divorce laws. Second, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:49 PM
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So? Men don’t get pregnant. Or are you seeking equality of outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:46 PM
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No it isn’t. Guys have just as much legal ability to do it, so carry on. Unless you want social to require equality of outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:45 PM
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Frankly, it shocks the shit out of me how absolutely uninformed you are regarding history. You literally assert men were always expected to be monogamous when one modicum of research could have easily shown you are wrong. I thought men were logical? Doesn’t logic require you to develop opinions based on fact? But my educational background is archaeology and I still avidly read history so….you asked for it: https://www.historytoday.com/archive/feature/inside-medieval-brothel https://www.brown.edu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:41 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:16 PM
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You are missing a big one - insecticide
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:15 PM
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No. Men always have the capacity to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:48 PM
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Women do not look at real rape positively. Rape fantasies are bettered ravishment fantasies Incest porn is huge in porn. I guess that means all men want to fuck their step mothers or sisters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:46 PM
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Lmao. No. I’m.m not going to be wifey homemaker while my husband screws another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:29 PM
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“ This new libfem bullshit…” hey, we learned it from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:28 PM
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There are countless decent men in the world that would have honored their lifetime marriage commitment. Sure, uh huh. And women too. They should find each other. The majority of western divorces are initiated by women. So maybe it'd be more accurate to say "Only repressive social systems or religion make Women do that." Right, it took repression to force women to stay in marriages while their husbands cheated, refused to give them money, or beat them. First, the one who broke the marriage isn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:26 PM
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Imagine using the term “ideal” in regard to humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:18 PM
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No it sounds like women already understand self restraint, not men. Why don’t you preach to the whorish sex who will, according to you, sleep with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:14 PM
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“ Women should just accept a man settles for them because he cannot have sex otherwise? How is this supposed to work?” Ah that deep loving commitment, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:13 PM
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Sigh - the one who broke the marriage is not necessarily the one who files for divorce. A woman could be filing for divorce because her husband cheated or she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:12 PM
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Somebody knows history! Do you listen to Betwixt the Sheets?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:10 PM
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Match is how I met my husband. Thanks match!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:09 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:04 PM
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And shaming only women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:02 PM
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Not really. Maybe in Christian countries (like Europe) in early modern history (ie 1492 and after). Even so, prostitution was legal all over medieval Europe and brothels were run in London by bishops. My understanding is that prostitution is and always has been generally legal in Asian cultures as well. Of course Muslim cultures allow for up to four wives? I have no idea whether prostitution is legal under Islamic law. And moving on, to ancient history, prostitution and owning slaves was entirel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:01 PM
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Wow. Google legalized prostitution in the Middle Ages. In England, bishops would run whore houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:51 PM
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She should do what brings her happiness in the goals that she has set for herself. That’s what men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:22 PM
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There isn’t . There never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:07 PM
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I agree. Great job Iron. I understand where you are coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:19 PM
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I remarried at 31 and had two children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:41 PM
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Really all the upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:04 PM
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He was never around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:29 PM
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Later marriages tend to last
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:26 PM
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Your comments have recently been on point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:26 PM
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Do you think you don’t benefit from government service
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:45 PM
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“Nurse and purse”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:14 PM
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This is not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:09 PM
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Never change
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:30 PM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:12 PM
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The cat lady term is about attacking single women, not about witches
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:11 PM
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Really, you going to be super interested in a woman telling you about her dad that abused her on date two?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:58 PM
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God yes to all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:18 AM
1

So Norah is right but Egal is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:11 AM
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Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:10 AM
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One of these days you are going to learn that the patriarchy hurts MEN, except the ones with a lot of dough, like it does women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:08 AM
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You apparently weren’t interested in getting into a stable relationship in your twenties and were sleeping around - sounds like a perfect match for the women who also were just dating around, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:59 AM
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So your fevered speculations about the looks and marital status of anonymous women is your reality? Well that explains why you were completely unable to discuss her points and had to resort to a fact free attack on her looks. And I bet you think men are the logical and unemotional gender. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:55 AM
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Very few women go that route, why would they? To the contrary, the birth rate shows that women aren’t getting bitten by babies rabies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:52 AM
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Phew - that is some cope right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:51 AM
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Are men allowed to fuck around in their twenties and then decide they want to marry in their thirties, or is it only women barred from growing up and changing what they desire? Because I sure as hell met a lot more men at 31 or 32 who wanted to wife me up than in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:49 AM
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The number keeps getting smaller
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:41 AM
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Attraction is more than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:40 AM
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Wow, just wow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:17 AM
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Dead on with the song
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:15 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:11 AM
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So you’ve got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:59 PM
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You should tell that to men. Other than being a good father, most things men are encouraged to do/being to the table women already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:52 PM
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Imagine hating a woman who likes exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:49 PM
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So you ae saying men are digesting and dirty a woman up? I guess women are wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:41 PM
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You sound like a woman and I 100% support it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:38 PM
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You should think about what it means to build a life, retirement, and raise kids over thirty years…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:34 PM
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Nah, not in my experience. And if a man picks looks over everything, I don’t want to hear one peep about alimony or that she’s not making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:32 PM
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^
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:31 PM
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Uh … no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:31 PM
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Sometimes you are dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:30 PM
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I mean a ton of women won’t date mags either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:29 PM
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Some men say it all the time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:26 PM
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You are committing “smart” person fallacy. You mistake hypothesis as fact without considering the data. In your word, if a woman can get a mate easier than a man, she will monkey branch. And since that seems “logical” to you, you assume it’s true. But humans are neither as simplistic or rational as you claim. One simple data point that casts doubt on your theory - men remarry much more quickly than women after divorce. If women can find a partner more easily than men, then on average they should…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:24 PM
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All you are doing is proving my point. You can’t assume that the one filing for divorce is the one who broke the marriage. I never claimed that those women filing for divorce all had cheating dirt bag husbands. Instead, I merely elucidated the flaw in your argument - that who files for divorce does NOT indicate who broke the marriage. And you’ve gone ahead and provided a dozen examples of why I am right. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:16 PM
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So that man is pathetic. And yes I’d say the same about a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:24 PM
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LMAO. Are you using “she won the lottery” as a common reason for divorce. First, none of those are monkey branching. Second, thanks for acknowledging my point - you can’t just point to the filing of divorce to claim that it’s the woman’s fault. It depends. Unless you want to pretend that men never ever cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:21 PM
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Only very top women can monkey branch. Why do men claim it’s a strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:12 PM
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A nuanced take - how dare you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:57 PM
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As usual, this comment deserves no respect as it continues to ignore the causes of divorce. My friend’s husband cheated on her with three separate women. Is she monkey branching when she files for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:54 PM
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It absolutely is. It’s why there is such a thing as starter wives and trophy wives. My mom warned me of it - the teacher or nurse who supported her doctor husband only to get replaced. I haven’t seen it nearly as much because in my line of work, men and women are more evenly financially matched. Both professionals etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:52 PM
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Norah Vincent was severely depressed long before she attempted to live as a man. It always fascinates me that men focus on her - who was not trans - and ignore the many trans men who transitioned to live as a man and don’t go back. Being a human being - man or woman - isn’t easy. Despite people here who claim that feminists are men haters, I’ve always gotten on well with men and really like them in general. I like the espirit they seem to have more so than women (other than women in organized sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:02 PM
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Dude yes. My husband knows I have his back
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:02 PM
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You think men have a monopoly on force? Woo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:01 PM
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Thank goodness my husband feels the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:00 PM
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“Are often perceived…” Re-read that a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:58 PM
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Not in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:56 PM
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Like if a man wouldn’t do that why do you expect a woman to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:54 PM
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I’m not submissive. I’ve never been submissive (except in bed; I like to play). And yet I have been married twice, and this last one for 17 years so far. I am less argumentative and more collaborative than I used to be but I’m not the most agreeable. Neither is my husband btw - particularly agreeable. Why do you demand women do things you never would. Why would a woman be “vp” and follow your lead if you won’t do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:54 PM
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They want to - and fat men want to date skinny women. That doesn’t make them entitled, just unrealistic. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:31 PM
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Lmao. No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:12 PM
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This deserves all the upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:08 PM
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Im curious. You want those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:07 PM
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And? Like so? And average men will twist themselves in knots for a hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:06 PM
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In IRL, you get even more side eye. I’ve loved it - my bro dated and married a women almost 20 years his senior. He was 22. It caused an earth quake. His friends, his relatives, everyone came out and were not happy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:02 PM
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No. And let me tell you - that happened with my brother and NO ONE was cool with it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:00 PM
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Two years isn’t really an age gap
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:00 PM
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Gee, so people who learned from a bad experience aren’t allowed to give others guidance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:56 PM
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And would you be good with your 15 year old dating a 25 year old? The devil is in the details. I wouldn’t care if my 25 year old dated a 35 year old, but I would if it was 15/25
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:54 PM
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No one thinks worse of men than red pills (former or not) like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:51 PM
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So men have no agency and are simply slaves to their ballsacks. No one thinks lower of men than many of the men who post here every day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:51 PM
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So my sibling was in 9th grade when a teacher formed a close and inappropriate relationship. They remained in touch all during high school. When my sibling was 19, they began dating. The teacher was 20 years senior. My sibling was 22 when they married. It ended up being a very messed up relationship. Eventually they divorced and now my sibling remarried to someone ten years younger. At the time we thought my sibling was being preyed on and manipulated. People voiced their concerns leading up to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:47 PM
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Nah. When I was 17, my 54 year old boss got me drunk and tried to take or sexual. I was a virgin still. Some age gap relationships are gross and manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:38 PM
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But not nearly as often as men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:05 PM
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If she’s in the middle of a hoe phase, don’t expect her to change. Same for a guy in his 20s fuckboi stage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:35 PM
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Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:34 PM
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I and my hub pre kids played wow together. I had to quit because I became addicted. Like always staying up late until 2 even when I needed to be up in the am. Hub still plays video games but keeps it healthy. I stay away
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:33 PM
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Your girlfriend is not the least liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:43 PM
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Not anything I’ve ever heard from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:42 PM
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I wouldn’t ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:41 PM
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“ any even remotely attractive woman is impossible.” You have to match dude, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:33 PM
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Note, men get affirmative action getting into college
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:30 PM
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Goddamned awful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:29 PM
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Yah except for all the guys who lie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:44 AM
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Good on you. I wish I could convince my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:25 PM
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Man people hate facts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:38 AM
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Are you serious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:35 AM
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They are free to be SAHDs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:34 AM
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That isn’t a traditional woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:20 PM
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“ And don't get me started about how American women who travel abroad for sex and romance are praised in those same circles and never get the same "Oh. You couldn't hack it in America huh?", ” I must have missed the Reddit where passport girls trash all American men as shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:01 PM
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Right? Like fine, go , but stop shitting on women in your own country
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:59 PM
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So you’re saying she’s a prostitute? Wow not the life I’d want. I don’t need to rely on a man for a wallet. I have my own wallet. And I’m laughing all the way to the bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:58 PM
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We are not the fattiest country on earth. And American men are just as fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:52 PM
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Yah, no. Insta libido killer for me. I like men, not baby boys. And I’m not a servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:38 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:32 AM
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Inadvertent double entendre
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:31 AM
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The rest of society is irrelevant. Only those in the relationship decide whether they have settled or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:09 PM
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Damn a real winner - serious!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:06 PM
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Nah. He’s right. This is how you want it to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:04 PM
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Nice. I won’t change your mind because I agree. If you’d have asked me before I had my first meet with my now husband, I never would have pegged him as the man for me. An hour into our beer, I was 100% set on pursuing him. God he made me laugh. Yah me!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:03 PM
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Then don’t be shocked when women take you at your word.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:49 PM
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Men SAY it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:47 PM
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When the majority of men and women are in LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:46 PM
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Women do not get “bailed out.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:45 PM
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This is ridiculous. You are basing this on a n of one. I had a traumatic first marriage and a really really shitty dad. I did not reach the point where I wouldn’t open up or considered all men trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:44 PM
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Hobosexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:43 PM
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That second is so common
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:53 PM
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Really? Visit Deadbedrooms and tell me how much those guys like living their lives without orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:50 PM
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If you are serious, good on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:47 PM
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Yes the job is the insurance. Not quitting is the insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:46 PM
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You should read some of the horror stories of kids left without any care while their mothers were forced to work (or die)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:44 PM
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Apparently non-land owning men didn’t want the vote either. We should strip them of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:41 PM
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That’s what I tell those men who claim to get divorce-r!!!d - should’ve chosen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:38 PM
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You mean like men? Who are valued on their jobs? That’s what it’s like living in a culture that worships the all mighty dollar
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:36 PM
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Nah, talk to divorce lawyers. This doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:34 PM
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Commercial hijacking of yet another event doesn’t count. Ask veterans how hollow it is to thank them for their service when what what they really need is medical care and mental health treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:33 PM
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It’s here all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:26 PM
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Says who???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:26 PM
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The stuff you all down vote is just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:19 PM
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I said he is a GOOD man - not decent, but GOOD. And he is a cut above 90%. You however are clearly in the bottom 10%. Bitterness is ugly. Maybe you’ll find a woman who thinks you are a king, but probably not with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:18 PM
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As I’m not sitting at the table with the view, it isn’t perfectly said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:03 AM
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Sure that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:01 AM
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Oh he’s nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:00 AM
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Just some troll started it, and it got a life of its own. He’s just a spineless hollow man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:59 AM
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Mom’s get covered by shit and don’t get paid for it. They have to pay for the pleasure. “ and the best the feminine can do is never going to be as great as the best the masculine can do.” Fine. No kids for you. You don’t appreciate the work involved, you don’t need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:56 AM
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Nah. That doesn’t really happen that I’ve seen. Most women are well aware of the limits of their fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:54 AM
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Then tell the men here complaining that no one wants to have kids to shut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:53 AM
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Nah, women were considered second class citizens pre feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:51 AM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:49 AM
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False. Women regularly did manual labor outside the home in preindustrialization - most animal husbandry and gardening was women’s work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:49 AM
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You have no fucking idea
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:47 AM
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Yet somehow the women have to come up with the difference. Kid still gotta eat and go to school
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:47 AM
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He is a cut above all men. And he’s only 5/6. He is my short king who has stood beside me every step of the way. He ain’t perfect (neither am I) but he is a GOOD man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:46 AM
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It’s in this comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:44 AM
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No. I stopped working and was severely depressed in six months.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:26 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:24 PM
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And 50% of doctors
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:23 PM
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That is exactly what is said now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:23 PM
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Exactly. Most of us decided, after watching how our mothers were treated, we are done. And don’t even try with the “for society!” Men get PAID to keep the lights on. You watch it here all the time - baby mamas are disgusting! Low value blah blah blah. It is hard work. I was only willing to do it because I married a man who was a cut above 90% of men. Faithful, intelligent, honest, and fully devoted to me. Absolutely hands on, never said ONE word when I needed me time. I still sacrificed a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:22 PM
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You should encourage your menfolk to support single men then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:34 PM
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Dang, go commie there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:20 PM
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We had a working contract… You mean the one where women were denied educational and financial independence? Who WAS that contract working for, because it sure as hell wasn’t for the bast majority of women AND Black men AND A lot of poor white men, too. Those billionaire tech bros and Chad’s? They don’t care about the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:19 PM
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It is not biological
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:58 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:54 PM
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That some women do that does not mean that most women do that - and generally those who are complaining aren’t emotionally intelligent or are very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:44 PM
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This exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:38 PM
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Stop blaming dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:32 PM
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Accepting it’s the same for women - the attractive women get all the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:28 PM
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Tell me about the high costs on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:28 PM
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My mom’s advice was a mix of good and bad. Don’t have sex before marriage (advice she didn’t follow - thus my brother). I advise sex before marriage myself to my kids because sexual compatibility is a must. Early sex ed and birth control is a must. Mom was right about it. Always always always get an education and a job to support yourself. She had too many friends who ended up divorced as SAHMs in their forties and facing old age poverty. In her generation, being a SAHM was expected. In fact she…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:24 PM
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Right there with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:38 PM
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Keep his stomach full and balls empty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:51 PM
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Oh lord no. Women absolutely go though glow ups when they hit the market
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:48 PM
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So you don’t know the definition of social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:45 PM
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The obesity crisis is equally one for men and is international. It is a systemic issue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:44 PM
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My mother specifically had me in lessons for golf, horseback ride, and play tennis specifically so I could do those things on a date with a guy. Not for my enjoyment. My step mom took me out as a teen to teach how to dress and when to dress and what to dress in. We have to practice to learn how to wear heels, the time it takes to learn make up…. Oh and cooking. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach! My dad was constantly after how to arrange my hair, all to turn out for a man. My dad, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:42 PM
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Let me put it this way, porn doesn’t reflect reality. And you just pointed out why the expectations are way out of wack. Having sex five times a week for the duration of an LTR isn’t reasonable. If porn is making guys think that way….
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:15 PM
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Lmao. Nice try to shift the goal posts. But porn =\= a girl being wild “within reason.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:13 PM
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Bjs are not needs - they are nice to haves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:09 PM
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I did when I was dating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:05 PM
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So the issue with porn is essentially the same problem that men claim social media/dating apps cause women. It isn’t realistic, unless I’m going to get tied up and fucked by a tentacle, sprayed by ten guys wanking on me, or fucked by my step brother. Guys get on these and think it’s normal to choke a girl, never mind that is expert level sex considering how dangerous can be. They don’t see the boring negotiating parts, the safe words, the discussions about safety or cleanliness. When women compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:04 PM
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We found a bag full of sec toys in my FIL’s closet after he died. It was awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:54 PM
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And men keep voting for the conservative fuckers…. It’s not your fault but it sure as hell puts a major damper on women’s sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:53 PM
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Men are leaving women behind …. Pass that on to all the men around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:52 PM
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You are off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:48 PM
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That is a non-sequitur. Porn does not - by and large - reflect a realistic view of sex. My husband loves sex with me - I don’t need him eating me out like they do constantly in porn (especially since I hate it) for me to know that. And I love sex, one of those HLF who has been in dungeons and other things, but I fucking can’t stand any thing being squirted in my face or anal sex. Does that mean I don’t find my husband sexually attractive. Porn does not convey realistic sexual desire in a woman. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:47 PM
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Makes false statement Is called on it And responds by insults Yah babe you are the one butt hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:41 PM
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Oral sex has been around for a long time - so have different positions - we know because the church would have a fit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:38 PM
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Oral sex has been around for a long time - so have different positions - we know because the church would have a shit fit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:38 PM
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Ok. Sending you both good vibes on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:35 PM
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Lmao. So a woman exercising her right to walk away from a relationship for behavior she doesn’t like is NOT relying on a man. Man: “stop relying on us…!” Woman leaves Man: “no not like that!” You’ll just have to meet a girl that doesn’t care that you use porn. I don’t particularly care if my husband does so long as it doesn’t interfere with our life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:34 PM
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Sounds like the choke hold issue - Dan Savage has a lot of recommendations for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:30 PM
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Lmao. Imaging being so fragile you down voted that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:28 PM
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Sex is a lot riskier for women. If it is at all possible, imagine how you’d feel fucking some who is a foot taller and outweighs you by 50-75 lbs (I’m 5 foot) and what happens if you get pregnant in Texas
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:28 PM
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Really agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:25 PM
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You were born yesterday and it shows. History didn’t start a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:24 PM
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Nope: Fat women are treated worse than fat men: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5846936/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:23 PM
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Not in IRL. I know way too many fat girls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:21 PM
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I have. But it’s a dribble in the ocean of what fat women (and fat men too) receive on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:20 PM
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Progressive does not require women to become blow up dolls for their mates
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:12 PM
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Visit deadbedrooms and tell me sex is less of an issue for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:09 PM
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This sounds like a personal problem for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:07 PM
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I am a woman and I watch porn and masterbate. B S. It’s a lot easier to jerk off than to do the act all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:06 PM
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You expect normal people to act like porn actors and actresses? You think these porn actresses are portraying anything close to desire
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:04 PM
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And men trash women for being sexually liberated and in many states are reducing access ro abortion and to bc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:02 PM
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You think they are all Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:57 PM
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Easy. #not all men. And you are assuming the pumping and dumping are Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:56 PM
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Weird, your statement doesn’t contradict hers. I bet insecure women make worse partners than secure women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:54 PM
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I’m a feminist and very happily married. It’s not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:52 PM
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So damned right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:48 PM
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Uh huh. You should see what people call fat women, dear, and you’d have a different view
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:20 PM
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We feel aversion and anger because we have been hammered for generations on how to look attractive for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:20 PM
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Here here. I had to do the same thing in my 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:13 PM
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Against other people who never did them harm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:12 PM
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If being skinny is so easy why are men so fat - they have the testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:11 PM
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Lmao - heels and dresses. Men wore heels originally and tunics are basically dresses
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:10 PM
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Lmao. I’ve yet to see one woman here claim that it’s all personality and looks don’t factor in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:08 PM
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It’s really sad that you can’t distinguish between a job and a romantic relationship. I’m not fucking the people I work with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:01 PM
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Women pay taxes too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:56 PM
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Women are not men. Sit with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:55 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:50 PM
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Same same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:49 PM
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Yes. And I felt this way long before I had children. I listened to Dr Dean Edell who was a big anticircimcission opponent. No body modification for kids until they can consent. I didn’t have boys but would have advocated hard with my husband that they not be circumcised. And I refused to pierce my girls ears until they were old enough to consent (10). Neither have done so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:49 PM
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Then I guess men should settle for morbidly obese baby mommas instead of complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:45 PM
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So, do you think men aren’t calling the plumber?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:43 PM
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People here need to investigate stoicism, the actual philosophy, or Buddhist philosophy for mind training. We used to be good with mind training and now we don’t. And this is damaging, particularly for our young men. I generally try not to get too “kids these days” but Jesus kids these days…. Shit happens. And pre modern medicine, it happened a lot - dead kids, dead families, severe injuries. There have always been a set of people who never married or were sold off to spouses they never found at…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:20 PM
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Seriously. I’d advise women to do a coffee date first. It’s what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:36 PM
0

If you review the book Selfish Gene by Dawkins, you will realize why your view of genetic investment is very wrong. With humans, it benefits the propagation of genes to have childish aunts and uncles involved. They still have a piece of their genes moving forward with nieces and nephews
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:34 PM
1

Yes bad publicity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:32 PM
1

And that’s fine to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:30 PM
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“Great benefits for a family?” Do you think women are looking for your HR benefits? Especially since they can vanish? For what it’s worth, I met my husband when I was 28 and he 33. He’s short and had a baby face. Not a land whale. Not a single mom. Did have a divorce under my belt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:23 PM
1

Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:19 PM
1

Yes with big men usually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:17 PM
1

Nah, the quality drops. And my bro, very healthy runner and skinny his whole life , had a heart attack at 55. His son was seven. He survived but there is a reason they stopped at 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:12 PM
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No one is stopping them from going through a hoe phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:10 PM
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Well men, we don't want your children, we're voting for abortion (You think the fathers want those kids? Lmao. No, I had an abortion so that I could complete my education and pursue financial independence without paying the motherhood tax. And I thank god I did it.) Well men, we don't want your attention, we're going to have you locked up for "harassment" whenever you express your sexuality without specifically-worded consent (People dont get locked up for a shitty pick up line. Let’s see how yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:19 PM
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Scroll through here and you will find oodles of men sayin women should have their rights taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:04 PM
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“Trust me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:03 PM
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No one ostracized those people??! Newton was probably gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:01 PM
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Aren’t you the one threatening to remove woman’s rights to equal legal citizenship???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:57 PM
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Please cite an example
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:56 PM
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“ Your privileges are granted to you by the active decency of the male gender. If men wanted to take all your freedom from you, it wouldn't even be hard.” And in the days of smith and Wesson, women uniting against men also might end badly for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:54 PM
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I have single male friends. I don’t judge them for being single. I don’t care. Most people don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:53 PM
2

I’m also a feminist and happily married to a dude with many dude friends. I like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:47 PM
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My husband loves that I am able to earn in parity with him so that if he needs to change jobs, my salary can keep us afloat. And vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:36 PM
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No she’s pointing out that women aren’t a hive mind and the reported n numbers show women aren’t engaging in a lot of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:30 PM
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So what? And I’ve had men be dicks to me too. Doesn’t mean all men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:29 PM
2

Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:28 PM
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Then they need to grow up. Jesus my first husband had an absolute hottie before dating me. And I wasn’t near her class looks wise. Should I have resented him over it? What are you doing? Demanding your girlfriend show you every one she’s ever dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:27 PM
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No. I didn’t judge my partners on whether they had sex with hotter women. If I’m going to be judged for fucking a chad (I did), my partners won’t be my partners. Chad asked me - a mid - to move in. I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:25 PM
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So you admit that you are wrong - and women don’t want to die alone if they can’t be with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:20 PM
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“Little hyperbolic.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:51 PM
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Oh yes it does
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:40 PM
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It’s called the curse of Eve. You e never been in a southern Baptist church have you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:11 PM
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Because they don’t have access to birth control - duh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:07 PM
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Because highly educated people have access to birth control and other things to occupy their time aside from popping kids out. This society has made it clear that if I want to retire and not be a pauper I have to work. Kids keep me from working and enjoying my pastimes. So we stopped at two
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:06 PM
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Here is the problem - I listened to Rush I the 90s. I know exactly what rural Americans were saying about women, educated, and liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:58 PM
1

Love Ken White
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:55 PM
1

We should go back to world wars where young men died in trenches or on pikes for their liege lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:53 PM
2

“Society was better when it oppressed women and black peoples…” Society was better for who?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:51 PM
1

Men are violent and should be locked in cages
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:50 PM
1

So only you are allowed to criticize? No one can criticize you? Guess what boyo, if your criticism is trashing women, yah, you are going to be criticized for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:47 PM
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Yah that’s what people say. I didn’t mean it - it wasn’t how I think. Here is the thing, the words you say and the language you use shapes your reality. This has been studied for YEARS in anthropology sociology communications marketing psychology …. Words matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:45 PM
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Dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:39 PM
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Read this stuff on this sub. All these guys whining that no one will have their kids. Of course not. They don’t want to do the actual WORK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:34 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:33 PM
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What? When has blue pill said you can’t judge a woman as attractive or not based on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:05 PM
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Because you are Muslim
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:02 PM
1

Accurate is how it turned out. Read 2025 project
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:59 PM
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And if we don’t take it seriously, men and women lecture us for being irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:27 PM
2

Not really because friendship is friendship. Friendship for just sex is not real friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:24 PM
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Schroedinger’s women: Finds you as hot as a Chad even though you aren’t Pure and virginal until they meet you but become a voracious sex monster who sleeps with you by date three. Hot until they reject you, and then they are fat ugly whores. Paraphrasing what others have said
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:20 PM
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No true red pill argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:15 PM
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Sex for women is an entirely different experience than for men. You really need to understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:10 PM
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All of this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:00 PM
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Oh yes you can. I’m an example of that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:59 PM
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My husband’s personality made all the difference for the second date. He made me laugh and laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:53 PM
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You are an awesome friend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:45 PM
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Toastmasters is great
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:43 PM
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So force. That’s what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:43 PM
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I’ve seen a pretty twenty-something use the flirt to keep a guy hoping. It’s bad behavior. But at a certain point the guy has to get some self respect and move on. And I don’t respect him for it. Just as I don’t respect a woman that keeps boinking some guy in the hopes that he finally picks her. That was one of my friends. Well, ex friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:51 AM
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Do uoh sleep or date all of your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:42 AM
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No, hon, you don’t get to punish the entire world just because some woman didn’t jump in your bed. Just like I don’t get to punish the whole world just because no man sent me flowers or wanted to date me when I was a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:42 AM
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Lmao. You didn’t say that at all. She got you nailed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:38 AM
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Are you me, because that’s almost identical to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:30 AM
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This and the discussion has been all around great. What’s wrong with you Reddit?! I really like Richard Reeves. I’ve heard him interviewed previously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:54 PM
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Every woman has that friend - phew. I cut one of them out but I can’t get rid of my sister 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:48 PM
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600 bucks isn’t even CLOSE to what it takes to pay for a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:51 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:51 PM
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It amazing to me how misogynist these posters are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:45 PM
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“Humbles herself.” Why would I want my kid to have low self esteem. Just makes her a target.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:41 PM
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Did he expect you to step into a semi-parental role?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:03 PM
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So, you’re a bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:53 PM
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If no one under 40 knows true love why are you blaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:44 PM
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“ Strongly against DNA databases of anyone. That gives the government too much power.” If you are fine compelling women and children to go through the risk and extraordinary expense of pregnancy “for the baby”, men get to give up their DNA “for the baby” too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:06 PM
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Women who have aborted get called baby killers to their face (raises hand - happened to me) all the time - nothing I can do about it, it’s not against the law and a free country. You are crying because people are pushing back on you online. SMH. People push back. Tough noogies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:03 PM
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It’s not the same kind of idea at all. Paternity fraud is FRAUD. It is bad. Choosing to date someone with kids is not fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:59 PM
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There are many good men out there that aren’t nearly as hung up on genetics (and I don’t mean the rare cuckhold situation but step dads)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:56 PM
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“ Clearly the stigma that every other country uses to curb it isn't a factor here.” Uh there isn’t higher stigma in places like Europe. And they have great access to BC and abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:55 PM
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“ I think they want them to be 100% okay being childless taking on single moms, which is retroactive cuckoldry.” This is insane. So if I date and marry a divorced father, he committed retroactive cheating? And childless women aren’t burdens. Women are expected to pay their bills and save for retirement, infinitely easier without kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:53 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:11 PM
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Where does this bs from that smoking = impulsive. It’s an addiction. It has little to do with impulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:22 AM
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These guys have never watched people die of lung cancer, struggle with emphysema, or see someone lose half their face
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:21 AM
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Weed was far more accepted and common in Europe before the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:19 AM
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And this is why no one believes it’s about “health,” when men shame women for being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:18 AM
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Nah. I’ve known (and was) promiscuous mid girls. We’ve settled down married with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:24 AM
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Nods
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:24 AM
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Declining divorce rate suggests no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:21 AM
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Interesting. I slept around a bit but never found any guys asking my number.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:21 AM
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Why do you expect to be treated like Chad when you aren’t? I’m mid but gave been friends with Stacey’s. I never have all these men trying to buy me dinner or take me on trips to the Bahamas. But it’s fine - I dated some nice guys. Married a shitty dude and then my Prince Charming. He treats me like gold. I’m not stupid enough to ask if he treated some previous girlfriend better or bought her more stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:19 AM
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That has NOT been my experience at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:08 AM
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Thanks no. My life was not wasted those years I wasn’t married. It wasn’t the end all be all of my existence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:01 PM
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Hard disagree. My parents are disasters. No way they’d pick someone good for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:59 PM
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So you’ve never read the Old Testament huh? Murder, rape, concubines? Incest?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:57 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:56 PM
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Yes that’s life!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:02 PM
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My dad sure as hell didn’t. He was the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:36 PM
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Thanks for the reply - I tend to agree. But my world feels far more as mutual. I’ve held doors for strange men, especially those I’ve interpreted as older or weaker. I’ve helped women with packages. And I’ve generally received the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:35 PM
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Bahaha no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:25 PM
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So you lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:24 PM
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No. Why would I commit to consider someone for marriage before I’ve spent any time with him. Why would a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:22 PM
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The nuclear family is an aberration in general family formation - you need to hit the history books.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:20 PM
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Because it sucked for men and women. Look at King Charles
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:17 PM
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Lmao. None of you have taken history classes that focus on domestic issues such as marriage or courting and it shows. Something like a 1/3 of marriages were shotgun weddings in the 1860s. So much for maintaining virginity. Take a look at the Patriot for an early American courtship event where the boy and girl were sowed in TOGETHER to spend the night premarriage. Circa 1900s, a girl would pick out the guy in social settings, like at church, and then send out feelers through mutual family/friend …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:15 PM
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Do men forget their best lover?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:44 PM
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Cite those studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:42 PM
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I’ve been married twice. If - god forbid - anything happened to my husband I wouldn’t ever remarry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:41 PM
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The fact you are so engaged in avoiding his point means he (or she?) has you dead to right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:39 PM
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Birth rates are declining everywhere. Look at Mexico.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:37 PM
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“ They could always be in a committed relationship with a man any time they want be because there is always a guaranteed amount of men anywhere they are that would want to be with them in a committed monogamous relationship.” Facts not in evidence. To the contrary, many men do NOT want to settle down in their twenties at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:36 PM
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This is smart. And the pair bonding nonsense comes from birds anyway, not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:34 PM
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Why should women have to be “accountable?” Do men with high n counts have to be accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:32 PM
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❤️❤️❤️ I am so sorry. She must have been amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:53 AM
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I have one- my husband remembers every goddamned date and that’s why I married him. But no other man I know seems to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:43 AM
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They may try, but they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:42 AM
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I work for insurance companies, pendejo, and all they care about is cold hard data and cash. Teen boys are insanely dangerous drivers and the insurance rates them the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:41 AM
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This is true. I have seen this in some women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:38 AM
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Then why do so few men want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:36 AM
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Rules probably. Why? That was big when I was dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:35 AM
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I don’t see why you think this isn’t in women’s favor. God knows my mom and dad and brother and every older woman in my life warned me that most men will just pump and dump. Like this is not rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:34 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:33 AM
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And many men go overseas for the chad pump and dump experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:31 AM
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Mmm. I wonder where you are. This is not my experience among my paired friends and family - these are millenials to GenX. Most people make about the same AND in a few cases, the women make more. In one case, I know the man makes much much more - she’s a social worker and he’s a partner at my firm -but he readily admits she takes care of the vast majority of the household and kids. I don’t know who spends all the money. In my case I do more than my husband but a big chunk is for the kids etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:24 AM
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You all need to stop shooting for Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:19 AM
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It’s fine. It shows us who men are - that they think that because they have balls they should run the show over any little woman. Yah no dawg. I’ve got a strong willed, intelligent, and very masculine man (knows how to shoot, work on cars, do construction stuff, throw a punch). He doesn’t run this household. We do it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:17 AM
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Tell me how you want your woman to dominate you. No? Then you know the problem with the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:15 AM
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No. Fuck that. No one controls me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:14 AM
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Obviously you pay because women are superior to men. Why else are you paying money to get them to show up to dinner? Or you can acknowledge that it’s an outdated customs and you should - like women had to do to get equal treatment - refuse to go along with that custom. In Europe they go Dutch all the time. I went Dutch when dating to avoid all sorts of societal expectations good or bad. I strongly advise women to go Dutch initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:13 AM
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“ a woman is a self-functioning independent adult, then why is there a need to pay for dates?” We don’t. I went Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:59 AM
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My husband’s thumbs are toast - I do a lot physical dexterity acts for him. I thread shoelaces, cut out insole forms, tighten straps. Am I benevolently sexist toward him because I am more dexterous than am? Is he benevolently sexist to me because he picks up heavier bags and always has? Am I benevolently sexist towards him when I cooked him dinner while we were dating? Was I when I took care of his pet? The sexism isn’t the act, it’s in the intent these days. My husband doesn’t think I’m a weak …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:55 AM
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You are missing a point - women aren’t allowed to do wrong. That’s the point of the fart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:42 AM
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Anything for men to avoid compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:33 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:33 PM
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I mean do men really care about that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:30 PM
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How can you seriously say this? The market is saturated with dating books and relationship books for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:27 PM
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On tik tok and YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:22 PM
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I guess a lot of people are psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:35 PM
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Men lying to get women into bed is … female solpsism? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:35 PM
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And you let her get away, proving why OP isn’t actually right. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:34 PM
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It isn’t true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:31 PM
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Non fat is also OF and college educated too. So he is still contradicting himself. And btw you are crazy if you think skinny = good personality. It isn’t correlated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:30 PM
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Right - and why if the danger is getting pumped and dumped would a woman ever risk it except with a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:28 PM
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Not really. I’ve watched too many men who’ve cheated on women they love to think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:24 PM
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Right there with you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:22 PM
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I see what you did there. And there is some merit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:05 PM
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If everything is exactly the same, the taller one. But if two girls were standing in front of you who were identical in all respects but one is fit and one is fat, which one did you pick? I picked the short guy because he made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:28 AM
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This is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:23 AM
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Only Chads get treated like Chads and only Stacies get treated like Stacey
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:24 AM
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In general, men don’t want kids. This is so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:11 AM
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Fat women aren’t whining they can’t get skinny dick. They are desperately trying to meet societies ideals from a prepubescent age. That’s why they have eating disorders. These short fat men would be out there actually trying I’d think differently. In fact, dismorphia for boys is sadly becoming far more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:52 PM
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No he doesn’t because he continues to refuse to acknowledge that obesity is a world wide problem for PEOPLE and what we’ve done until thus point hasn’t worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:48 PM
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Thank you for the nice comment. My response is this: The idea that society as a whole has moved toward the idea of celebrating fatness seems completely unsupported. Look what happened when ozempic and wygovy hit the market. Sure people can be looney tunes online, but let me tell you, no female gets up and decides to chow down to lose that size six. Men sometimes will but it’s about getting muscle. What society is doing - including the medical field - is recognizing that being hyper focused on fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:47 PM
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You have no idea what their doctors did or did not tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:23 PM
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I didn’t whine and complain? Oh my husband? Yah he gets plenty of attention and love. Why would I complain? I’ve got a great man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:15 PM
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Lmao. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:13 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:08 PM
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You think every man that messaged her was a top man? You think the mids aren’t demanding immediate sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:06 PM
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And how exactly is he paying?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:05 PM
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According to those posting here, they never get sex or looked at.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:04 PM
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Yes but girls with high n count are sluts, right? And useless for long term relationships. It’s impossible - you’ve got to jump into bed immediately or he won’t see that you’re worth a commitment but if you jump in bed too much you aren’t worth a commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:03 PM
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Let me know when a man discourages another man from being a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:58 PM
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Welcome to being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:55 PM
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Lmao. Exactly how? Men lie for sex all the time. And guys here absolutely encourage guys to lie about getting a relationship to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:53 PM
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Because all these men posting here shame the hell out of women for having sex and say they are for the sheets while insisting that they must immediately sleep with guys. It is impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:52 PM
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That’s you and your speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:51 PM
0

So how is it we tell the difference between the players and the guys who want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:50 PM
0

Aw she’s got a nice figure!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:49 PM
1

A whole lot of men here should ask themselves why women are so standoffish if this is their experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:48 PM
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Just because something is legal doesn’t mean it isn’t creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:45 PM
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I’d like to see some proof of that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:40 PM
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That isn’t the law in all states. Georgia is a buyer beware
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:39 PM
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Raises hand. I am in Georgia. Women are not in fact freaking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:38 PM
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I believe most states will allow you to end child support obligations. I’d like to see some stats on this though - how common is it? How often are men on the hook financially? I don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:37 PM
0

Lmao… you think this is recent? Omg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:21 PM
2

Have you heard of revenge porn? It isn’t men who were getting their bodies smeared all over public sites. That said no one should sending pics. And if you are sending dick pics to a woman, no. They generally don’t like it. I told my kids to never send those pictures, boys or girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:47 PM
2

I think you are right. A sense of humor goes a long long way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:29 PM
1

Goddamned dude - you are my husband when I met him. Baby face and all. Grow a beard if you can, it will age you a bit. He was 33 when I met him. I was 28. I was not fat and not a mother. I met him on match.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:43 PM
5

Then don’t say one word about high n count
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:39 PM
1

You mean the same jerks who claim women with high n counts are not relationship material?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:38 PM
1

“ The attractive single moms have more success because she has a sex appeal despite no value relationship wise.” She has more access to SEX and women fundamentally do not look or value sex in the same way as men. 5/6 shouldn’t be an insurmountable barrier. I married a 5/6 man. And no I wasn’t a fat single mother either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:37 PM
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If I hadn’t had years of very positive men in my life, I’d refuse to get near too many in light of what I read here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:29 PM
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Wow, not my experience. A man in uniform turns some heads. The DV rates for cops is pretty high tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:08 PM
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For number 5, I won’t lie - it was super attractive that hub can do all that stuff. I am able to as well but really hated being married to a dude that expected me to do all the female chores and male chores (I changed the oil and filter on his old mustang). The real attraction is the competence. He can iron and do laundry. He can cook. He can change a tire. Fuck yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:06 PM
3

This is so weird. I’ve never seen this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:02 PM
1

It’s none of your business to tell fat people about their alleged medical issues. It’s none of your business. It is between themselves and their doctors
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:52 PM
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Considering how weight gain is pervasive among all 1st world economies and among both men and women, maybe it isn’t that easy. It’s so easy! That’s why more than 50% of the population is failing ! But if I tell them to put the fork down like I’ve been doing for the last fifty years, I’m sure the results will be different THiS TIME!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:51 PM
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Yes we should say health at any size. The idea is that you be the best you can no matter how fat you are. Even when someone is fat they can still do exercise and other things that improve their health even if they don’t loose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:48 PM
2

Or Adele. Fat or skinny she sings like crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:47 PM
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No wonder marriages don’t last. So I should have divorced my husband and the father of my children when he began to gain a ton of weight after several disabling injuries as a soccer player made it difficult to walk? Jesus fucking Christ, I love the man, fat or thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:46 PM
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Thank everyone shitting on her and telling her she is less than for gaining weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:43 PM
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Yep, and here’s the pudding, honey. Standards are lower for men when it comes to weight: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5846936/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:41 PM
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I don’t know - you should post that here, king. Ask all those men bitching about the 80/20 rule what they care? Or maybe just maybe this isn’t bullshit gendered crap you make out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:39 PM
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So we could all look like video game characters if we just put the fork down? What’s your excuse? Why aren’t you 6-2 with rippling muscles king like those male characters? It’s easy. So easy that men are massively overweight too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:37 PM
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The Polynesians would like a word. https://hilo.hawaii.edu/campuscenter/hohonu/volumes/documents/ThriftyGenes-FromColdandProlongedStarvationAdaptationtoObesityandType2DiabetesinPolynesiansSimoteFoliaki.pdf I love eastern culture but ahum - you all have the lowest fertility rates and terrible male female relations. You can step off son.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:34 PM
1

Thank you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:32 PM
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Another to add to your quiver - the strong selection for fat retention genes in Polynesians due to their seafaring method of dispersal across the pacific. https://hilo.hawaii.edu/campuscenter/hohonu/volumes/documents/ThriftyGenes-FromColdandProlongedStarvationAdaptationtoObesityandType2DiabetesinPolynesiansSimoteFoliaki.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:31 PM
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It’s for obese people mainly. wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:28 PM
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THANK YOU great explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:27 PM
2

Why don’t you pass that on to all the short fat men here that whine they can’t get their dick’s wet. This bullying starts when women are children, not as fully formed adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:25 PM
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They most certainly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:24 PM
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Then stop shitting on fat people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:23 PM
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It’s not, dumbass. That’s why obesity treatment is difficult and a world wide problem in first world countries that no longer face severe food insecurity and poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:21 PM
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Yes he wants to feel morally superior. Wait for him to blow out a knee or destroy his feet like my husband, an avid soccer player most of his life, to struggle with weight gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:20 PM
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Looks at Oprah Winfrey. Nah, it’s not a personal failing. Maybe just maybe the people who spend their entire professional lives helping people with this know a little more than some random redditor who gets off on self righteousness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:19 PM
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No they don’t: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5846936/ Being used for sex is not awesome. And I’ll point out - how many women say “no landwhales and no fatties here.” And how many men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:16 PM
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The studies show that fat women face substantially more bias and bigotry than fat men do. Therefore, it’s not a surprise that fat women are the ones who ended up spearheading the body positivity movement. Consider the fact of everything that you’ve struggled with to lose weight for which I have absolute and utter empathy, and please also add into that that women deal with estrogen, which is absolutely proven to encourage women to gain weight instead of muscle mass like testosterone. The capacity…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:15 PM
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Really? As much as there is liposuction?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:13 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:12 PM
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It’s like you all didn’t read what the poster wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:12 PM
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Why? For your personal jollies? Because you clearly don’t care about the overweight or their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:12 PM
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No it doesn’t otherwise I’d be rail thin. But the only result has been destroyed self esteem and life long eating disorders that have caused me to have permanent health issues. Thanks mom and dad and grandad for calling me a pig when I wasn’t even fat! When both my sister and I were very slender we were still positive we were fat. Thanks dad for negging the fuck out of your daughters! You made it so much easier for my abusive first husband to force me into threesomes , block me from pursing my d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:11 PM
3

You do that king
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:57 PM
5

Considering how you are inflicting us with your shitty attitude maybe you should have your mouth sown closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:39 PM
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The logical and unemotional gender everyone!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:38 PM
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You are really dumb. Why don’t you research the massive societal changes made by Japan, Including reformation of school lunches etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:37 PM
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Let me know when you stop being salty over 6/6/6
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:35 PM
3

This is such bullshit. Most female video characters aren’t even possible for a woman to achieve without plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:34 PM
1

Lmao. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:33 PM
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No one shuns you for liking skinny women or blondes or whatever. People shun you for being dicks to those who don’t meet your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:32 PM
2

Yup. Thank god I’m surrounded by great men in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:31 PM
2

“ But generally speaking, women who embody too many masculine traits to the point they seem more masculine than feminine, will be seen like another dude.” Keira knightly would like a word. I see EXACTLY how men treat women who aren’t attractive to them. It isn’t pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:30 PM
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Oh please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:28 PM
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It’s bad but people aren’t as aware of it - I don’t see many men being steriod gymbros in my normal life but I learned about it because it’s rampant among cops. I’ve never met one women or girl on my life that hasn’t sweat about weight. I’ve not met that many men:boys obsessing about the gym. I believe it’s changing and becoming a bigger problem over the last ten twenty years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:27 PM
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It’s actionable as a society wide change. And it takes us all to put pressure on our government.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:23 PM
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AGREED!!! And cutting down in all the f—-king sugar. The truth is that we need a societal change - NYC tends to be skinner because they walk. Europe tends to be skinner because better food, more room and time to exercise, and to sleep! And access to healthcare. But those are HARD - so much easier to lecture fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:23 PM
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110%. My sister and my mother were always slender. I was heavier at various points. The eating disorders that run in my family…. My slender mother would go a week eating only steamed broccoli and triscuits. She was thrilled to have braces because at least she couldn’t eat and lose weight. And she really was never fat at all. My sister was in the 90s in her early twenties. You could see ALL of her ribs from her collar bone down. She’d cook a steak, chew it, and spit it out. I could go on. And fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:21 PM
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And I used to watch mid men that I’d be wiling to date fall all over themselves for the hot girl that wouldn’t let him sniff her perfume when I could treat him good. It happens all the time in high school and college. And then I grew up and realized that I didn’t want boys but I wanted a man. You want to know what made me really hot for my husband? When he laughed when a pretty girl tried to lead him by the dick and looked to me. I have no respect for little boys who can’t control their dicks. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:50 PM
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Men here refuse to accept the fact they aren’t all Chads and society always treat the good looking better. Grow up. A lot of women were invisible too. I was. Many of my friends were as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:46 PM
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No but it’s all mom’s fault, not dad’s. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:38 PM
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The specific issues people have are Womens physical preferences are encouraged to be vocalised whereas mens aren't. it's totally okay for a woman to loudly proclaim she wants guys 6ft+, to use short as an insult etc, whereas men aren't allowed to do the same. The specific issues people have are Womens physical preferences are encouraged to be vocalised whereas mens aren't. it's totally okay for a woman to loudly proclaim she wants guys 6ft+, to use short as an insult etc, whereas men aren't allo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:38 PM
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Yawn. Nah it isn’t. I had fun chasing a chad for a few months. Had great sex. Moved on. Women who chase people out of their league and don’t figure it out may bear the consequences. Men who chase hot girls out of their league also run into a world of hurt. Seems you guys don’t much care about men spinning plates but you think women doing the same will be “ruined.” They aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:25 PM
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Sure. That’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:22 PM
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It’s sad you admit you can’t succeed in a world where women have equal rights. The answer is that women need to get over themselves and be more flexible regarding salaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:13 PM
2

Many men have complained about this. Many
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:55 PM
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They always forget that part - that they also are messaging the hot ones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:47 PM
2

You mean like men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:41 PM
4

That isn’t what the numbers say
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:40 PM
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“ Men are individually disposable, but collectively they are way more important than women for civilization to exist.” Please. You need BOTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:00 PM
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What are women entitled to from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:00 PM
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Lmao, oh the right doesn’t like their benefits being cut either, son. But you won’t like it either. And it doesn’t reflect real well on your intelligence if you think the only way you benefit from taxes is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:58 PM
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I can’t believe this resulted in a downvote. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:51 PM
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See how men treat women who say yes too easily
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:50 PM
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Could you link? I’d love to see your stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:25 PM
3

My sis is a single never kids. She’s a great auntie to my girls and goes on amazing trips. She’s pretty happy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:24 PM
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The most sexually successful man I ever knew was a 5/6 so so Cuban dude. He had the gift of gab, smart, master electrician, and love bombed girls. I watched him line em up. It was nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:23 PM
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JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:21 PM
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If girls love it, why are dating apps sausage fests?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:20 PM
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“ Now there's always the issue that many women would rather be Chad's third side chic…” No, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:20 PM
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“ There hasn’t been a law that closed off universities from women in over a century.” Women weren’t accepted freely into my Alma mater - UVa - until 1970, 54 years ago. My mom could only go into the nursing school or education when she applied, despite carrying perfect grades and far exceeding the average male student - including my own dad. You are entirely wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:09 PM
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I think selective service is it. But it’s women’s groups like NOW that want women to be included or get rid of it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:04 PM
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Men don’t see 80% of women - they are too old, too far ir single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:03 PM
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Women are nice, accommodating, and respectful to men and people in general. If they aren’t, they get called Karen and made fun of. You want sex. That’s it. That’s what you want women to be accommodating of. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:02 PM
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All the upvotes for that last paragraph. Jesus we have so many things we could unite against
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:00 PM
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Then feel free to create a movement - lots of women will sign on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:45 PM
8

Remember the Holodomor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:44 PM
5

Sure uh huh. Yah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:42 PM
1

So they like fat girls. That’s their prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:32 PM
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No, dear, that’s the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:31 PM
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They don’t do it “all the time.” The average woman has 7 sexual partners in her lifetime. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/speaking-in-tongues/202307/whats-an-average-number-of-sexual-partners?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:28 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:22 PM
3

Their dads shouldn’t have bailed and left it on mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:22 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:21 PM
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Yes. The vast majority. Even tho men and women in the US are equally fat, but the majority of people on wygovy like products. Women do more dieting compared to men. Clothes. Everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:21 PM
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Funny and intelligent matter. They were the top two characteristics for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:16 PM
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I agree entirely. I love my husband - and I loved him when he was fat, and I loved him skinny, and I love him every which way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:11 AM
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Sure. If I’m just going to have casual sex and face all the downsides involved why would I waste it on an ugly man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:49 PM
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the main issue is that people reinforce problematic delusional standards. Nah. As a person who grew up chubby and has always fought her weight, women know exactly what men think of fat girls. They hear it all their lives. And their doctors btw way. And their jobs. There are studies about this. Do you want me to pull them? About how fat people - especially women - are treated. So sorry that these ladies haven’t had their self esteem so destroyed that they will just let you use them. Now they shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:55 PM
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Yah don’t get the bi male dislike. Not I
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:40 PM
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Because god didn’t make me look like Scarlet Johansson. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:39 PM
1

This is great
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:37 PM
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If you all are going to use economic terms to discuss the dating world, then you have to understand that the FMV is established by the price established by the seller and the buyer. You as a dude can be skinny as you want, but you can’t demand a skinny girl unless one is willing to take you up. To put it a different way, if you don’t stand out among other men and are average, you will get the average girl. So if most women are fat, you are likely to score only a chubby girl, even if you yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:36 PM
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That never happened to me as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:19 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:19 PM
1

THIS thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:02 PM
1

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:00 PM
2

My hot blonde cousin never wanted kids and never wanted to be married. She was pressured into marriage and after a decade divorced him. And to be clear, he did not want the divorce. And she’s like an 8. Slender, triathlete, blonde, blue eyed, nice face, great bust, a PILOT. Hell I’d marry her. Plenty of women never want kids or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:35 PM
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I LOVE your attitude, which I think both men and women could benefit from. I’ve also spent a lot of time with Buddhism and also the western philosophy of Stoicism. So much is out of our control. I have several friends and relatives who have reached the same spot as you - And people like you do so much for our society. There have always been people who did not necessarily have children of their body who never the less have imparted so much value to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:45 PM
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“I don’t like facts that prove I’m wrong! It hurts my fee fees.” the logical gender /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:54 PM
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College women stay married. 17 years and counting for me and my love :). As always you guys just can’t understand that the person who files the legal paperwork isn’t the one who ended the marriage. My friend’s husband cheated on her with three different women (it all came out at the same time). Did she break the marriage when she divorced? Would you file for divorce if your wife cheated on you with three different men? And if you did file for divorce, would you think it was because YOU were less…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:30 PM
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College women stay married. 17 years and counting for me and my love :). As always you guys just can’t understand that the person who files the legal paperwork isn’t the one who ended the marriage. My friend’s husband cheated on her with three different women (it all came out at the same time). Did she break the marriage when she divorced? Would you file for divorce if your wife cheated on you with three different men? And if you did file for divorce, would you think it was because YOU were less…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:30 PM
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College women stay married. 17 years and counting for me and my love :). As always you guys just can’t understand that the person who files the legal paperwork isn’t the one who ended the marriage. My friend’s husband cheated on her with three different women (it all came out at the same time). Did she break the marriage when she divorced? Would you file for divorce if your wife cheated on you with three different men? And if you did file for divorce, would you think it was because YOU were less…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:30 PM
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lol at “feral.” Love that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:21 PM
3

You are one of my favorite male posters
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:08 PM
5

You still have to acknowledge that women weren’t allowed to financially succeed independently except in a few narrow areas back in the old days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:06 PM
2

Oof I cannot imagine. It sounds like being kicked out of the Mormon church
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:59 AM
2

In sorry sweetheart. My oldest is turning 16. I can’t imagine kicking her out at 17
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:45 AM
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I join this request. I’m desperate to learn radical acceptance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:42 AM
3

So fucking awesome. I love your posts girl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:41 AM
2

YES!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:38 AM
18

Really. Do women tell you that? Or they just won’t fuck you.?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:18 AM
3

Lmao. False.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:16 AM
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Men cheat all the time. It’s not anything more than statistical but plenty of men simply cheat because they can, not because they aren’t happy or they are in a DB, at least that’s what the men on wayward spouse and adultery Reddit say. Anecdotal for sure. So if a man cheats and a woman divorces his ass, you admit it’s him who broke the relationship right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:16 AM
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Lmao. Sure my dad didn’t want to leave the marriage with my mom. He just wanted to fuck her friend and live with her. And my brother didn’t want to leave wife one. He just cheated on her, left her, and filed for divorce from her. He didn’t want to leave wife two, he just left her and filed for divorce. And my good friend’s husband didn’t want to leave her. He just wanted to fuck multiple other women and has done so over the last decade. He sure doesn’t want HER to leave tho, or sleep with someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:12 AM
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For women who are hypergamous always looking for next best thing, or only offer themselves to the hottest man in any room. It’s a revenge fantasy that more often than not comes true. (Why should they offer themselves to the ugliest. Do you?) This is true of a lot of dating women, they have nervous breakdowns sometime in their 30s that Chad no longer wants her and she’s going to have to settle for some normie. (Lmao. Not in my experience) I’m 46 I’ve known enough women for long enough to see it h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:04 AM
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Right? They literally prove the women right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:00 AM
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“It’s our way to say if I stay in shape and live a good life as a guy I won’t expire.” False. “Most women will by 40, no guy will want to take them out and have sex with them.l False “… and a fuck you to uppity young cute women we want, who only want to get with players and shun average men.” Why the fuck would a cute young woman want to be with an average man? She would want to be with her looks match who isn’t you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:00 AM
3

Men’s attractiveness all drops muchacho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:57 AM
0

And men peak around 28 - 32
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:57 AM
28

“No no, the way I age isn’t bad, just the way YOU age…”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:51 AM
12

All the upvotes!!!! ALL of them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:00 AM
1

But maybe she doesn’t want all the rest too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:57 PM
1

“Sure date around, but within the group of men that might commit to you.“ Why? You gonna turn down some hot ten because she won’t marry you? Bahaha no you won’t. I’d love to see a guy here say to his buddy: “nah man, don’t hit that 10, she isn’t wife material.” If I don’t want to marry him why can’t I sleep with him? Because it hurts your feelings? And men like to claim they are the “logical gender.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:54 PM
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“ That woman is now ruined and won’t be able to satisfied with a man on her actual level.” Did she whisper that in your ear?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:50 PM
0

Women. Men generally ignore other men in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:53 PM
0

“ And this is why women tend to struggle with accountability and self improvement compared to men.” Not been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:49 PM
7

Men get static wheb they (1) are porkers themselves and (2) when they use derogatory language. Most women just say they don’t date short men. What derogatory language do they use?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:47 PM
4

Lmao. Nah not really
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:00 PM
8

Or, get this, they don’t really want commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:59 PM
2

Gotcha. I generally agree. This is a smart and nuanced take.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:58 PM
4

Gotcha. That sounds right to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:57 PM
3

Why? Why shouldn’t they date around until they decide they want to commit. Isn’t that what men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:57 PM
24

Say you are a guy - you don’t want a LTR, a commitment, kids, or marriage. You aren’t really looking for anything serious. You have two options before you - First, you’ve got a hot mess skinny girl, 7 or 8, who just wants a situationship, too. She doesn’t want kids or commitment. You know if you call her to bitch about work, she’s gone. She won’t pick you up at the doctor’s, bring you chicken soup. Second, you’ve got a 5/10 chub. She’s super sweet though and would make you chicken soup, be a lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:54 PM
1

Maybe some make that mistake but most don’t. Just like some guys think the stripper loves them but most don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:35 PM
1

Maybe some make that mistake but most don’t. Just like some guys think the stripper loves them but most don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:34 PM
2

Most women are invisible to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:32 PM
4

Ooo share. I have opinions but I want to hear yours. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:30 PM
7

Yup. Dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:36 PM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:34 PM
0

Lmao, be a fat woman and get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:24 PM
4

“The price of vagina.” And yet men wonder why women opt out. If that’s how you look at women as a relationship, just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:21 PM
1

To be fair, I deliberately take my kids to the bank to learn thus stuff. I wonder others do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:16 PM
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Maybe men should try it. You might feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:12 PM
2

I think this is a hold over from older generations - GenX and above. When I went back out on the dating market in my 20s (early 00s), I ran into a lot of men who were in more lucrative fields who were very worried about gold diggers. I got annoyed with them treating me as if I wasn’t already doing well. I used it as a shorthand to say “don’t even try to buy me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:11 PM
2

“Vaginal hivemine.” So you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:27 PM
3

All the upvotes. SOME men seem to reveal their own low standards for relationships where they equate sex to relationship. It isn’t. And some men will acknowledge on one hand that men have no trouble having sex with unattractive women or women they couldn’t remotely care about, but then claim that women have better access to relationships (not sex) because men want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:21 PM
1

Trump cheated in every one of his wives. wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:46 PM
1

“ So, if you really think about it men are much more likely to be loyal to either ideals or people.” Yah so loyal. That’s why they cheat so much. Men are very very loyal. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh yah, and abandon their kids… forgot that one. So so loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:38 PM
1

Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:37 PM
1

“ Like “wow this girl stayed with me for 10 years of struggle, yes I have access to this hotter woman now but my girl has been there for me and what we have is special and so is she I’m not going to risk losing it” Please. The number of men I’ve watched dump the wife when they get their JD and MD….
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:35 PM
1

Lmao. I’ve seen so many guys get their MD or JD and dump the lil’ wifey who helped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:34 PM
1

Pro prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:36 PM
8

I went back to work also.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:56 PM
7

Two to three hours a day…. To climbing up the roof once or twice a year for a few hours to clean the gutters? Or do what my husband and I have - get the gutter guards that reduce it to zero and keep trees away. My husband mows every weekend from spring until mid fall. Then does nothing because our yard goes dormant. I mow too but we fight over that. So 2-3 hours once a weekend to … 2-3 hours a day (using your numbers) and you don’t see the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:55 PM
1

“ Another woman with her short ugly husband who completely let herself go. She is not holding his hand, standing close to him, or anything.” How do you know she “let herself go.” Maybe HE let himself go. Btw, I tend not to hang on my husband in public. We have two kids. We had sex yesterday morning. I still want to jump his bones. And HE’s the one that packed on 70 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:47 PM
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LMAO. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:14 AM
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Bodily autonomy is a need to survive. Ask a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:12 AM
1

No one calls you misogynistic for being against circumcision, weirdo. NOW has signed on to oppose circumcision, so show me your male right group working on that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:05 AM
2

Oh, okay, so you believe men should be held down and forced to lose their body parts and blood for the children for 9 months if required.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:04 AM
2

LOL. You assume wrong, Sure. A lot of us more progressive or liberal women have lived their lives in red states surrounded by conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:02 AM
1

It's a literal meme lady. Oh the white pretty teen girl got killed! All over the news! Meanwhile, a black teen girl disappears... crickets. I've seen the pattern recently with regard to illegals - Oh look at this awful illegal killing the poor virginal white chick. SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:56 PM
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Yup. I got respect as an attorney. I got zilch as a SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:52 PM
6

You are citing a opioid addict who is off his rocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:51 PM
2

"....who are trying to find evidence to support a false hypothesis. Their brains will filter out any evidence contrarian to their ideas/hypothesis and only focus on the evidence that supports their irrational ideas." That is the literal opposite of a scientist. A scientist is trained to accept new data and adjust accordingly. They are acting like preachers pretending to be scientists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:50 PM
2

I’m curious. More disenfranchised than black people in the south under Jim Crow? Or more than who women could NOT vote before the 19th amendment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:03 PM
0

Yes. All over PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:01 PM
1

Here here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:01 PM
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Because too many men (not all) are controlled by their testes and feel like that gives women a power over them. There are men here that say men should decenter women from their lives and I agree. Nothing hurts worse to feel like others control your happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:00 PM
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“ So the rampant misogyny you see is a response to this, an expression of rage by alienated and disaffected men reacting to a constant stream of rhetoric that belittles them, dismisses the issues they face and blames them for circumstances over which they have no control.” A response? Are you under the impression men weren’t misogynistic fifty years ago? And if they were, did you just explain why women are misandrist (to the extent they are?) If being treated like second class citizens excuses y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:56 PM
2

Men say men will fuck anything and have no standards. Are they misandrists?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:53 PM
-1

Just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:42 PM
-1

Good job proving the posters point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:41 PM
2

Women always write fan fic? What? Like 50 shades started as fan fic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:55 AM
3

Dude I went to momo con with my two teen daughters and it was FILLED with girls and young women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:54 AM
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It’s called getting to know someone over an extended period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:53 AM
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Love at first sight isn’t love, it’s lust. The exact opposite of romantic. Stop watching romcoms men: “me insta falling in lust with the hottie is romantic!” Also men; “wahhh women are shallow for wanting chaaaddd….” Again with the double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:52 AM
2

Lmao. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:43 AM
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So as the logical gender, you are going to dispute an experiment by speculation? My husband has occasionally gone into games as a female character for curiosity. He is very protective of our two gamer daughters as a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:43 AM
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Yesterday I found out that a couple I know - high school sweethearts and married for almost 30 years - are splitting. And it has me floored
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:06 PM
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Lmao. Yet men will whine how women over look the “good men” while saying this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:04 PM
1

Other than the fact that they are going to college and university at a higher rate and are an equal share of law school and med school students?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:59 PM
1

Sure. No one is entitled to a relationship with someone else. You can want to marry or to be in a serious relationship or be monogamous but you aren’t entitled. The other person can say no. And that’s life. You move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:57 PM
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Sure. Don’t date those girls. But you can’t have it both ways - you can’t both insist that women’s accomplishments are worthless to men and then complain that women don’t need to be accomplished
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:04 PM
1

It gives YOU a dopamine hit. Not necessarily her. Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:18 PM
2

I don’t need a man. And I’m glad I had that attitude since it really helped me when dating to not accept subpar treatment. I am happily married now to a man that made himself indispensable to me. I don’t need men, but I do need my husband and it would hurt so so much to lose him. I’d live and laugh but it would be like I was missing an arm or hand. I don’t need that arm. I can live and have a good life without it, but having it makes it so much better. My husband would NEVER say he “needs me.” H…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:05 PM
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lol. So yes putting up with more shit than men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:12 PM
2

the majority of women aren’t on tinder or instagram. In fact, more men are on dating apps than women, so it seems to me the ones trolling for attention and validation aren’t women. the majority of women don’t do causal sex. many women do have incredibly close female relationships but to equate it to lesbian relationships completely misunderstands lesbianism. Unless you think two men having a close friendship means that they are homoerotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:10 PM
2

Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:07 PM
5

This is bull
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:11 PM
2

I think you reinforce the excellent point that people together in the relationship should decide how to divvy up the chores
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:08 PM
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Yeah, my first husband said he wasn’t going to clean more, he did Very little around the house, said it was women’s work and that his mom did everything so why should I? He still was very unhappy when I left. So you’re ignoring the fact that some people think that their wife will never leave them no matter how bad they treat them or how they do around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:07 PM
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No one says that a marriage fails solely because of the man. Or that all marriage is fail due to the man. So that is one error.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:04 PM
3

YES!!! I practice stoicism and people abuse it all the time around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:00 PM
4

Nah. Women often will clearly tell men they aren’t interested and some men won’t take the no. Why would that change
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:18 PM
1

“ Women have zero problem with Chad leaving shit streaks in their bed sheets.” No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:04 PM
0

Not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:03 PM
1

Yes. That’s what we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:00 PM
3

Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:59 PM
6

lol. I was a stay at home mom and went back to work because the depression I suffered. Nah it’s not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:19 PM
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I’d like to see the stat for that one. I stayed home for a short period of time. I did all household chores plus
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:16 PM
3

Husband is staring at me asking me why I’m laughing out loud. Thanks for the Sunday giggle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:15 PM
1

So you don’t benefit from sex. Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:14 PM
1

Touch is essential. The data is indisputable. In other cultures men touch a lot more. It should happen here. Side hugs, pats on the back, that head thing men do with their boys - like where they rub their heads. Our culture (f the patriarchy) call men gay or other insults for man on man contact. So men look to women partners only for that. It’s something that media could help normalize, actually. Damned sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:08 PM
2

How do you treat women who are unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:02 PM
2

That isn’t what the stats show
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:31 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:29 AM
2

Yes it does. And the fact you don’t understand it is sad. People are not interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:27 AM
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You just don’t like his answer. That’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:27 AM
1

Aww this is so sweet. I have a great guy I’ve been married to for 16 years. He makes my life so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:26 AM
2

So you are saying men, who usually do not want kids now or in the past, and have to be cajoled into it are the biggest feminists of them all. I’ll let my eighty three year old dad and various eighty year old uncles who all told me it was the lil’ wifey who insisted on kids what massive feminists they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:19 AM
0

Men don’t want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:17 AM
1

MEN don’t want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:17 AM
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Stop blaming the feminist boogie man for your sister’s insanity. Case in point - I am a feminist. I have a graduate degree. I have dogs, but am not a dog mom. I have children like many other highly educated feminists. And a husband too. I’ve known men who sob when their dog dies. I guess they must have higher education and have been poisoned by feminism. Lmao. Except a lot of them are blue color. Snork.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:16 AM
1

BINGO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:03 AM
1

Lmao. We get it. You hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:59 PM
1

Uh, I know a ton of mid thirties men who have roommates. One of them I am thinking of right now is pretty athletic, short, and a teacher. He does fine with ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:25 PM
1

Lmao. Holy cow. The amount of work my mom did on me to attract a f-king man growing up!!!! she made sure I was involved in hobbies so I could golf with a man or get taken to a show. I got lectures on how to waltz, how to eat at fancy restaurants, how to host, how to cook. None of it was for me, it was training how to be a good companion and run a house for a man. I got lectures on clothing, showing enough skin but not too much, how to be a good conversationist. and the number of my family member…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:27 PM
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Lmao. And she won’t get his highschool body either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:58 PM
2

1 you think the world is pacified - lmao. 2 - you think no women were involved in building houses, technology, electricity, farms, and grocery stores. Holy hell, Ada Lovelace would like a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:48 PM
1

YES. I think marriage should be far harder and divorce should be easy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:54 PM
1

Or she could just not have sex with him anymore. That’s not in the vows either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:50 PM
2

Most women end up far poorer after divorce so your stats don’t back that up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:49 PM
4

Me too. And I tried not working and I got all depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:47 PM
6

So, you don’t know any women. Check
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:46 PM
3

Because we need good well raised kids for a successful society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:42 PM
1

Lmao. Gee, I wonder why you can’t get a girlfriend. At some point you’ll realize that you aren’t the center of the universe, your opinion is not the word of the lord on high, and shitting on what others enjoy is a great way to lose friends of both sexes. It’s sad your parents failed you so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:56 PM
2

So no facts, huh? Thanks for the concession
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:52 PM
1

You ask most people you see whether they have hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:33 PM
0

And you’d be entirely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:30 PM
1

Ha I was raised on Tintin and A&O
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:25 PM
2

Kickboxing (retired from soccer) Writing Pottery Anime (kids dragged me into it) Gardening Ski I like doing tons of different things tho - will hike, travel, body surf, canoe, kayak, shoot, go to musicals and plays, shoot pool with now husband on a league, play video games (with husband again), horseback ride… Actually there is little I won’t do and enjoy. I get tired of football though. I’ll only occasionally watch sports, even soccer. I don’t like snowboarding at all. I probably won’t mountain…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:20 PM
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He has all these “friends” and magically knows all their dreams etc. He’ll say this but turn on a dime and claim women have higher in group bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:05 PM
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“ the feminist movement of the 60s and 70s fully explained what women were giving up by seeking careers and independence. I don't think they did, because I don't think they really knew” Lmao. Men sought careers and independence. Of course we knew what it entailed when women did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:03 PM
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I sure don’t. And if he asks me, I can quit and move to a different job
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:02 PM
2

YES
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:00 PM
2

Who cares if women are alone? Who cares if women are single moms? They can go after the baby daddy for child support. I’m sure you are so so concerned about single women ending up alone… just for them right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:58 PM
1

Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:55 PM
4

Not even this generation. I’m GenX - I and my cohort watched our parents’ marriages fail at a higher rate than ever before. And we saw our mothers being treated really badly or being left in terrible financial straits after divorce if they’ve give up their jobs. Me, I’m happily married but I knew I wanted a career and to take care of myself. I didn’t want to be my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:49 PM
1

And she’s fine with being single in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:47 PM
5

My sis is in her mid fifties - never married no boyfriend now. She’s traveling the world and enjoying her hobbies and her townhouse. She’s having a good old time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:46 PM
1

The WOMAN was expected to be a virgin, not the man. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:41 PM
1

Lmao. You don’t think that ugly girl won’t treat you well? She would more likely to treat you well since she gets little male attention. You just don’t want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:34 PM
1

“ Which worked for a bit, but men are now being expected to be 5 times as valuable as there grandfathers to be worthy of women 20 times worse.” My grandfather was a male whore and cheated on his wife. She couldn’t leave - she had a bunch of kids. Why do you all continue to ignore how women were often trapped into marriages back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:20 PM
1

If women are happier single with cats, what is that to you? And SSRIs are often prescribed to manage menopause symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:18 PM
2

Lmao. Nah. I and several of my friends met husbands on Match, eharmony, and chemistry. It was a godsend for a young (20’s) urban professional. That was almost 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:13 PM
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No, they really aren’t. Most women that I know have hobbies far beyond current marvel movies or “social media.” Are you sure you aren’t talking about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:55 PM
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lol. So that’s it. It isn’t that women don’t have hobbies..: you just think it’s boring. Thanks for proving the point. Not everyone has the money to blow on pilot licenses and scuba lessons. My F cus is a professional pilot tho. Lots of ladies snowboard and ski.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:45 PM
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Yah. Saw that above - literally said he didn’t know young women who craft. Like sit down and have a conversation. You’ll find artisanal bakers, cosplayers who do their own costumes, tons of artists and writers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:43 PM
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And you wonder why you can’t find the nice young ladies. Walk around Hobby Lobby - lots of women young and old. There was a HUGE resurgence in knitting about ten years ago among women - and yes women who were in their twenties. And my girls and their friends are into anime, costume design and art. One of my kids - 15 - just took a metal working class and wants to continue. All of that is crafting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:40 PM
1

Lmao. No they fkn don’t - and I know because I’ve had to deal with a lot of guys who got tangled up in Romeo-Juliet schemes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:08 PM
1

Lmao. No they fkn don’t - and I know because I’ve had to deal with a lot of guys who got tangled up in Romeo-Juliet schemes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:08 PM
1

Lmao. No they fkn don’t - and I know because I’ve had to deal with a lot of guys who got tangled up in Romeo-Juliet schemes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:07 PM
1

Lmao. No they fkn don’t - and I know because I’ve had to deal with a lot of guys who got tangled up in Romeo-Juliet schemes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:07 PM
1

Lmao. No they fkn don’t - and I know because I’ve had to deal with a lot of guys who got tangled up in Romeo-Juliet schemes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:07 PM
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This is such a gross comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:05 PM
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This should be at the top of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:51 PM
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I got a much higher caliber of man at 28 than 22. I dated much higher caliber of men at 28 than at 19-21. It was awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:48 PM
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So basically you want someone who is still damaged so you can continue to abuse her like the exes did
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:46 PM
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You are damaged - clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:44 PM
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This is in part my story. I was only with one man who I married and he treated me like dirt. He also pressured me into all sorts of painful and demoralizing sex acts. I got counseling and some self esteem and left him. I married someone who many guys here would claim is less objectively attractive - my now hub is 5/7 and my ex 6/2. I adore my hub but Isont engage in anal sex like I did with ex. And guys here would claim that was unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:43 PM
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This. I became pickier as a woman in my late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:30 PM
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People have absolutely rejected Musk. Just because you’d change your orientation for a million doesn’t mean others would.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:43 PM
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The one who files the paperwork isn’t necessarily the one who ended the marriage. A friend found out her husband cheated on her several times. She filed the paperwork. Who ended the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:25 PM
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As usual, all the upvotes for you. I divorced my first husband after six years. It was a miserable marriage and still the divorce was awful. Do not regret it. True story - I remarried to a great guy. We’d been married for several years when I had a dream I was still married to the first guy. I woke up out of the dream, thinking I had never gathered the guts to divorce him. And the wave of depression that swept over me - my god, just overwhelming. I love my husband. I’m so glad he’s in my life. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:20 PM
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Your GF is average. If she wore a nice light weight concealer she’d probably jump a notch or two. But glad she’s beautiful to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:01 AM
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They aren’t called Saints in paradise. They are only called saints in adversity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:57 AM
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I married a short dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:52 AM
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Yes. Most women do marry those equal in status, finances, and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:47 AM
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Omg I am fucking cracking UP this is why I can’t quit Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:26 AM
2

And that’s creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:24 AM
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Yes YOUR line of work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:15 AM
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If I take off time to procreate I lose a shit ton more money and opportunity than I would if I just worked a McDonald’s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:13 AM
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They also have less opportunity loss versus someone highly oaid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:12 AM
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“ Why? Seems arbitrary. Each couple can privately determine what works for their own situation. If someone breaks a contractual agreement, enforce the remedies in civil court with all of the other contractual agreements.” So you are literally running back to court - the same court system that handles divorces - “to ensure the choices you make are enforced via punishments…” I love libertarians
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:09 AM
2

Hehe happy cake day king (or queen)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:58 AM
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YES
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:57 AM
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Oh no, I’m so sure that he has all these female friends that open up their hearts to talk to them about their hopes and dreams, and he actually messages and gets dinner appointments with her ex-boyfriends, And engages in deep heart-to-heart conversations with them. Laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:54 AM
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Nice fiction, dude. Why don’t you just say you hate want an excuse to treat women like garbage? No self-respecting or mentally healthy woman would be opening up their hearts to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:53 AM
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So you have no idea that women pay a higher financial price due to divorce than men on average
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:52 PM
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Once no fault divorce was alllowed, women’s suicide rates dropped by 20%. https://www.aclusd.org/en/news/attacks-no-fault-divorce-are-dangerous-especially-those-experiencing-domestic-violence#:~:text=10175)%2C%20researchers%20discovered%20a%20large,20%25%20in%20the%20long%20run. Had I been forced to stay married to my first husband, one of us would have ended up dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:43 PM
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We see very atractive older men pull it off (often using their superior wallets to make up for it) but we’ve seen plenty of those guys without the wallet fail. Me, I dated for a while a guy 20 years my senior. Don’t really recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:19 PM
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Lmao. Let me go to poorer countries and flash my money around. I’m sure those young women will find ME (not my wallet) physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:16 PM
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Mmm. I met my husband (33) when I was 28. Luckily he didn’t consider me another bros fuck trophy because I’d had a disastrous first marriage (no kids tho). Me? Size 8, 5 ft, blonde blue eyed, English rose skin, and an attorney. He’s 5/7 and hadn’t even completed college yet at that time although did and does very well financially. He got a devoted and cute wife who gave him two kids and carries a big chunk financially. And after 17 years of marriage no dead-bedroom. But then he’s a super confide…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:15 PM
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This is such a fucking good comment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:16 PM
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I had my first boyfriend at 19. Several other girls I know were the same. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:12 PM
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Because never ending dicks and wasting time trying to sort the wheat from the chaff is costly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:10 PM
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Or you know, you could encourage your local government to invest in free third spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:09 PM
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What a sad life you lead
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:06 PM
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Your porn habit isn’t popular culture for kids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:02 PM
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Of course, even men shitting on other men is all women’s fault. 🙄 Women over and over say that most aren’t size queens and want something more like average. Big dicks hurt me for example. No fun. A smaller dicked guy can really rock all the angles. But still men here INSIST we all secretly want BBC because they believe porn, which is for men predominately, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:01 PM
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-effortfully squeezing one's shoulders tight to pass through or to allow others to pass Don’t all people do this? I’m a woman and I do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:19 PM
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Stop having sex or carrying your part of the chores and see how fast your husband dumps you. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:16 PM
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Ha I’d forgotten but the aunt of my BF at the time shot her husband for abusing her. I was like 20 or 21? Crazy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:15 PM
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No you aren’t. Society isn’t touching your balls or saying you have to see fat women as beautiful. What society is saying is that fat women aren’t going to hide away anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:48 PM
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Like men don’t follow me around complimenting me… like wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:45 PM
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Same for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:44 PM
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Seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:41 PM
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The quip, “you can never be too rich or too thin” was directed to a woman. I go to the gym regularly. I do it - in part - because I want to keep my weight under control and be fit and attractive to my husband. Everyone - including women - are expected to keep working at being a good partner, inside or out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:40 PM
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Ah yes, the self delusion that everyone else is weak minded but never you. Suuureee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:37 PM
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Sure sure that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:32 PM
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Well no one should be a jackass turning someone down, whatever the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:31 PM
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Terrorism of all kinds causes this effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:30 PM
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I see a lot more hate from men towards women - as in “strip our rights” and “remove the right to vote” than I do of women saying the same. I REGULARLY see men here posting that. And crap how ONLY men built this world and women are useless. I don’t see women saying the same. And women saying “not dating men anymore” or “I don’t need a man,” isn’t the same as threatening to force women into second class status again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:27 PM
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My husband is likely on the spectrum. He is actually pretty good with women because he’s not shy and a great listener. Sigh, after 17 years he still makes me smile when I think of him during the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:24 PM
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If people left it at “I’m lonely and depressed how can I get out of this situation", others wouldn’t react so negatively. The problem is that the statement is usually coupled with a lot hate against the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:22 PM
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I don’t fully agree with this. I think many people on the spectrum, with extensive counseling, can have successful relationships with others. But it requires a recognition that those on the spectrum may work a bit harder with navigating social cues. As an analogy, I’ve suffered depression my whole life. It is on me to work through those issues and manage them - for my family and my loved ones. And as they love me, they give me grace. No one is perfect. And we can’t expect perfection in others. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:20 PM
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No. You going to be willing to pick up my slack and change more diapers if I’m cute and make you coffee every morning. Husband is a 2% IQ. I don’t need his goddamned programming skills for an AI chat bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:49 PM
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Please. Fertility begins to really drop at 35. For a 25 yo woman fertility is 25-30% chance each month (85% per year) At 30 it’s 20% (75% per year). I love when men spout pregnancy stats at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:32 AM
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Women in their late 20s and 30s are fertile. Look at what the dude wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:52 PM
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“ Women instead of working and building a life expect to be handed it.” I went out and worked my ass off to get my life - degrees, 401j, good job, didn’t sleep around, and guys here regularly tell me that’s ALL useless and men don’t want a career woman. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:50 PM
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In your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:47 PM
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This. I know of two. One had two kids with her husband who is now her ex. He left for a younger prettier woman. Another has one child, again in wedlock, but she lost her husband to opioids (had to divorce him) and then he put himself in an early grave. It’s like these guys are conjuring the worst situation they could envision and assume all women are like that. It’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:46 PM
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Most women aren’t single mothers with kids from two different guys. Anyone with her head on right financially isn’t breeding indiscriminately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:43 PM
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Women are trashed all over social media give me a fucking break
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:31 PM
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From the same chorus that tells women they will be alone with their cats….
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:30 PM
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No issue
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:29 PM
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There are a lot of meds that can fuck your weight up. My daughter is on anti anxiety meds. Her weight skyrocketed. She’s been skinny since the day she was born. And then she started those damned meds. But it was a cost benefit analysis. I’m hoping she will be able to be off them but she needs to function
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:28 PM
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Firstly, people do get mad when short women date tall men. Both the shorter dudes and the taller women. And I - five foot tall - really wanted a tall guy. But I got over that. Secondly, I generally don’t care that much about personal preferences. I get pissed when people use their preferences to shame others. So I don’t care that much about May-December relationships. Hell I’ve been in them. So long as everyone is legal. BUT, I do have a huge problem with men posting here about how older women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:24 PM
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Some …. Some
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:04 PM
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Yet women aren’t on them like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:21 PM
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Aw! So glad OKC worked for you! I shouldn’t have implied being on there a more extended period of time meant anything negative. Sounds like you knew who you were looking for!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:57 AM
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Maybe or maybe not. But I wouldn’t shit on him for it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:24 AM
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Then you really need to stop shaming them since that makes the issue worse. There are a million studies that back this up. But we all know the truth. You just love shaming and feeling superior to fat people. You get off on it, just like the screaming plebs of Rome watching Christians torn apart by lions. It’s really one of the ugliest traits of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:22 AM
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You should stop being a cheating bastard. Lucky for me, I married a prince
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:14 AM
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I shouldn’t have to tell my man to wash his undies. Luckily I don’t have to. I married a competent male and an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:10 AM
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You think wrong https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3149680/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:03 AM
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Thanks for admitting it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:00 AM
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Why is it you keep blaming feminism when WOMEN are more agreeable than men? Seems to be a male problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:56 AM
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Those police are protecting MEN too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:41 AM
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Not if you were a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:53 AM
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No it’s nothing like Rome’s fall. Thanks for playing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:52 AM
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This is a very mature way of seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:44 AM
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Yes yes the minority of people on dating apps (which are and have been mostly populated by men) destroyed the apps 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:32 AM
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I wasn’t on Match for more than two weeks when I met my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:31 AM
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I think it’s good. This is how maybe we move the policy needle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:23 AM
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Oof that is rough. Sending good vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:22 AM
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(1) often those comments are coupled with a lot of shitting on women and (2) it’s mockable. And you better expect a lot of men to do that mocking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:19 AM
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Covid has really caused disruption in all sorts of social items
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:17 AM
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You realize that dating apps have always had more men than women in general? And that places like Ashely-Madison had f-king bots and probably a lot of other apps do as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:16 AM
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Can you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:12 AM
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Does a phrase like “I’m a strong independent man” indicate his view on relationships are casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:11 AM
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Because it doesn’t get done
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:06 AM
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Yes dear. I’m not your mommy. My money goes to paying the house, too, so why aren’t you picking up my socks?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:04 AM
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Snork. I’m a feminist and I would fully expect my husband to hit the ceiling if I had an OF account.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:02 AM
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Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:17 PM
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Right? Fuck men. They can’t see women as people who deserve equal rights, then men should be stripped of them. But we’ll compliment you a lot. Fair trade
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:14 PM
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Aw you are a sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:10 PM
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How about just not saying AnYThING Let the fat girl with her chubby chasers enjoy themselves. I don’t go trash bears or twinks or tell them they are mid even though they aren’t my style
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:09 PM
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This. Like why do people feel the need to shit on other people? I don’t seek out pudgy dad bod dudes on YouTube to trash their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:08 PM
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You should look up the word consent - you have no idea what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:23 PM
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Not really. It’s the best way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:21 PM
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Lmao. I got pregnant twice on birth control. Maybe he could’ve worn a condom or not put his dick in it he didn’t want to deal with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:19 PM
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Who gives a shit about a tiny minority of super rich people? But I’m sure all those football players will give you a high five any day now dude. The average child support is like 400 a month. That’s nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:17 PM
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Just because you are very biased doesn’t make your statement in anyway true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:15 PM
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My dad married my mom. She had three kids with him in wedlock. He ran off with her friend. He refused to pay child support for us, leaving us struggling. No really dear, my mom and MANY women left in the lurch aren’t whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:14 PM
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You should tell a lot of men who post differently here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:03 PM
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You should tell that to men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:02 PM
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Oh for sure. You see it here when men slam older women as “jealous” or “bitter” when they try to warn younger or more naive women of red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:16 PM
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I’m sure you are the best kind of weird
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:13 PM
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Why are you blaming the mothers? Rolls eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:12 PM
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No, not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:33 PM
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It’s cute a man is saying this. I’d never had children if it forced me out of my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:09 PM
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You seem very illogical. Your opinions are emotionally driven. You should spend more time in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:03 PM
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Example 200 of emotional reasoning by men ^ “All facts that undermine my position are wrong for reasons.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:01 PM
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No you can’t. This is manosphere truisms not supported by evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:59 PM
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Not really. I’m in the same bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:56 PM
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Took me a long time to find Prince Charming - I was 28. So nah. Finding a guy you love that will support you in your 20s is hard. And in the US who is paying to send you to school? And you as a woman will be cutting off numerous productive years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:56 PM
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Stoics - those who actually practice stoicism - are generally happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:47 PM
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Thank you for pointing this out. I don’t exactly know how much this has changed since the pandemic but women are heavily socialized to avoid going anywhere solo. This is a holdover from middle/high school where a solo girl is considered a pariah. In addition, women are also heavily socialized that single women are targets and vulnerable to bad actors. You’ll see women guarding each other by watching drinks and purses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:33 PM
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