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So how does a girl get "mentally reprogramed?" My wife is this same way. Is it because she's new to this whole sex thing, and she needs to learn how to let herself go?
/r/RPChristians26/02/23 05:06 AM
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Thanks! My bad.
/r/askRPC12/01/23 04:03 AM
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Thank you so much for your insight. I greatly appreciate the thorough response!
/r/askRPC11/01/23 06:44 PM
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UPDATE: Found a wife online from South America. She loves Jesus, has conservative values, is from a well to do family, has a dad who models traditional values to her, and she loves me. So, I was highly skeptical about online dating, and definitely found her on the cheesiest, most unlikely site, but God is good.
/r/askRPC11/01/23 03:42 PM
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Road trips are the ultimate stress test. Highly reccomend. Nothing like 8 hours in a car with no escape to reveal a person's true heart. Hahaha
/r/RPChristians03/06/22 01:44 AM
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The girls around here are not very teachable. I'm on the west coast, and there's not much conservative values here anymore. at least in my area. I am involved in my church, but there's also no attractive singles of age in the church I attend.
/r/askRPC12/10/21 09:46 PM
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This was a needed and timely post. I wasted my day today, and as a Christian, and self employed, it's a travesty. Thanks for the kick in the pants.
/r/RPChristians12/02/21 01:43 AM
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Thanks man! This is great!
/r/RPChristians22/07/20 03:34 AM
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Thanks for the input guys.
/r/askRPC15/06/20 02:24 AM
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I do fine woodworking as a hobby, as well as playing the bass guitar. Fine woodworking you could sell the items you make. (though not necessarily always at a profit.) Also, I've started a YouTube channel, of me making things, which potentially could lead to income at some point. I enjoy video editing, so theres that as well. I'm also planning on taking up blacksmithing.
/r/askRPC27/04/20 04:25 PM
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It also says that Rebekah was smokin hot and went with the servant immediately and without question, so, theres that...
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 04:40 AM
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Note: in the vetting process, is she F.A.S.T.? Faithful, Availiable, Saved, Teachable. If she's three of the four, odds are you can lead her to Jesus. But your frame has GOT to be stronger than hers for that to happen.
/r/RPChristians26/02/20 03:23 AM
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What sort of pond are you fishing in?
/r/RPChristians23/02/20 05:18 AM
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Amen.
/r/askRPC20/02/20 03:51 PM
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Muscle is built by; heavy weight, + muscle time under tension. This is why You can build some decent muscle using body weight, but you always reach a plateau. If you add weight though, e.i. hanging weights on a belt while doing pullups, or weight vests while doing pushups, you can build a lot more muscle. The "Farmers walk" is a good way to build muscle, because it's a lot of weight, + time (walking) under tension. But unless you routinely carry 60lb bags of concrete in each hand while walking l…
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 04:27 AM
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My experience has been similar. Go to church, read my bible, but kinda feel distant from God. Recently I took on a large project. In over my head. Desperation and need really seem to drive us to the Lord. I recall the verse in proverbs I believe where it says: feed me with the food allotted for me, but not too much or too little lest I steal, or grow proud and ignore God. Anyway, I think its an active thing. God says: you will seek me and find me, when you seek for me with all of your heart. I d…
/r/askRPC18/02/20 07:16 AM
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I'd like to submit a request that If it's not too much trouble to do, that the podcast also be typed and made available. Or maybe a synopsis of it?
/r/RPChristians11/02/20 08:50 PM
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I totally agree with this. Time for you to do it for YOU. A.k.a. 'You do you.' Personally I would move, for money reasons, as well as the more important, 'finding a body of believers' who will spur you on in your relationship with God. Either that or redouble your efforts to find it where you're at.
/r/askRPC11/02/20 07:04 PM
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Actually their budget is 2k. So its definitely being done on the cheap. Lots of help from friends and family.
/r/askRPC04/02/20 03:25 PM
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My sister met her betabux and they're getting married. They're both country people preferring to live on a farm/ranch. She is not fru fru. Shes looking at it in a similar way to rifleshoot. It's a big party. Colors are red and blue, and its circus themed. Cotton candy, peanuts, and other snack foods. No dancing, except for a single groom/bride dance. 400+ people expected. Just going to be a lot of eating and talking. No alcohol.
/r/askRPC04/02/20 02:54 AM
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I would sit down with the VP of the company you're with and have a talk. Tell him what you're seeing. Layout possible solutions. Communicate that you're fully on board and really want to help, and see what his response is. If he cant even acknowledge the hole he's in or be willing to take help, I'd seriously consider the other option. It's also true what skimthedross said, the current situation sounded rosy too, so maybe try to get a better feel for what you could be walking into if you switched…
/r/RPChristians02/02/20 05:51 AM
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I was homeschooled, k-12 and my parents were both teachers before I was born. I went to a "homeschool - help center" 8-12 grade and made some good friends that way, but I also had other friends that were also homeschooled. Education was good. I feel like I didnt lack the opportunity to learn or make friends. What was lacking, and in hindsight what I wish had been done differently was: I wish my parents had started teaching me about what happens after high school. "The real world." I had 0 though…
/r/RPChristians02/02/20 05:31 AM
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True. Balance is needed.
/r/askRPC29/01/20 06:05 PM
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My personal saying before I discovered the above was: "It's only awkward if you make it awkward."
/r/askRPC29/01/20 05:06 PM
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I can 100% concur with this. I've suffered from depression, more so in the past, but still on occasion and I can tell you excersise and purpose (aka mission) are the things to get you out of it. Having someone to keep you accountable/give you a swift kick in the pants is also super helpful. I agree, when you're depressed, you usually dont want to hear those things, you want people to commiserate with you, but that's not what you need. Also, memorize scripture about who you are in christ. That is…
/r/askRPC22/01/20 05:29 AM
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I dont listen to podcasts. Period. But I do follow the "order of man" on Instagram, and he seems to be pretty RP. And he has a podcast. You might check him out.
/r/RPChristians11/12/19 09:30 PM
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I personally like 'grave before shave's' products. They help prevent the skin on your face from becoming dry and itchy. I've had long beards and short beards. Oil works best on short hair and balms work better to work it down deep in long beards. just my 2 cents. Also, blow dry and comb your beard after you shower, and it will lay down nice and not get as wild on you. It also prevents some of the itchiness you can get with longer beards.
/r/RPChristians10/11/19 01:16 AM
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Yeah, this. I love having the PDF for offline refreshing, but it's outdated now.
/r/RPChristians09/10/19 01:33 AM
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I appreciate the insight and the thoughts on the difference between selfless-selfish and humble-proud. I hadn't thought of it quite like that. Thanks.
/r/RPChristians18/09/19 02:35 AM
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I second the praying about it for sure!
/r/RPChristians01/09/19 05:25 AM
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Read 'How to win friends and influence people' by Dale Carnegie. It really helped me with being more open about talking to people. I still have a long way to go, but I'm 100% better than I was. Also, like someone suggested commenting people on their sneakers, etc, I like to have questions ready, like, what are you doing today, or what do you like to do in your free time, etc. Do NOT ask yes or no questions in conversations! Also, dont be afraid to just walk up and introduce yourself to people. C…
/r/RPChristians01/09/19 02:34 AM
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Not sure if this is what you meant, but an old pastor of mine used to ask people, "where are you in your spiritual journey?" This does multiple things. It starts a conversation about spiritual things without being offensive, and it also gets them to express what they actually believe, and then you can take it from there. Edit: and if they're atheist you can ask them why, and have a chance to explain where you're coming from.
/r/askRPC27/08/19 10:13 PM
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So, would you throw the concept of "polarizing" (As explained by Mark Manson.) out the window?
/r/RPChristians13/08/19 07:10 PM
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I second the fasting. Fasting is a powerful tool that God has made our bodies to respond to, and it works great. I recommend going at least 3 full days. It helps in a variety of ways. Mental, physical, and spiritual.
/r/RPChristians11/08/19 11:39 PM
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How long were your fasts? 1 day, 24 hour, longer? I recently completed a 5 day fast (closer to 6 days) and it sure does up your self control! Also, I found that for me, it removed all sexual temptation during that time. Would be curious to know if others have experienced similar effects?
/r/RPChristians06/08/19 05:33 AM
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Hey /u/Red-Curious, need some clarification on your last three posts. In disciple making/friendships, are you saying that women make friends/disciples better by talking with each other, but guys make disciples better by doing things together? Or were you saying that doing is needed by both parties to be most effective? Btw, loved this post. *lightbulb moment*
/r/RPChristians02/08/19 06:55 PM
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This is great. Thanks for this response!
/r/RPChristians01/08/19 07:16 PM
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Since I know that you like movies /u/Red-Curious would you say the 'group'/friendships that Tolkien has in the movie "Tolkien" are a good representation of what you're talking about? Or something like a Mastermind Group ? Those types of friendships? Or can it be more base and simplistic than that?
/r/RPChristians01/08/19 03:46 PM
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Thanks man! I appreciate it.
/r/RPChristians08/07/19 05:37 AM
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I grew up southern Baptist. But I'm also way past denominations. When people ask what church I go to, after they hear I'm a Christian, I stress that it's about the relationship, not the building or denomination. Honestly, the RP has shaken me up and I'm not sure I've firmly landed on solid theological grounds (beliefs) yet.
/r/RPChristians06/07/19 08:01 AM
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Have you checked out the sidebar?
/r/RPChristians28/06/19 01:14 AM
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I really appreciated this. It helped clarify some things that I had wondered about regarding faith. Thanks.
/r/RPChristians13/06/19 12:42 AM
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This was a 'light bulb' post! Thanks RC!
/r/RPChristians14/03/19 05:46 PM
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I agree. Top notch post. Thanks!
/r/RPChristians09/03/19 05:08 AM
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Here is one company's excellent rebuttal. https://www.westernjournal.com/ceo-risked-everything-stand-gillettes-ad/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=conservativetribune&utm_content=2019-01-19&utm_campaign=manualpost&fbclid=IwAR1fnN_ADKmhSkOR-Knj5IdglJ7Xcgf1R_gcVRTO6PEEAuErf_U_87AKePU
/r/RPChristians19/01/19 11:20 PM
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An additional perspective is that people on amazon, reading that book, might have blue pill ideology, and therefore haveread/view the book as anti-feminine. So theres that. I agree. Definitely vette everything.
/r/RPChristians18/01/19 06:12 AM
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I believe this is the post u/Red-Curious is referring to. I'll leave it here for easy reference. https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/9oq10x/for_women_getting_your_beta_to_man_up/
/r/RPChristians17/01/19 09:19 PM
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I'm with ya man. I've got the same feelings. I have the blessing of having a couple other guys in my area who are also RP and a little farther along than me, and we keep each other accountable and on the right path. Step two is to find someone to disciple, or at the very least, come alongside and become red pill together, and then disciple others. It's slow going, but worth it. Just look around the church you're at, for guys who seem to really be genuine about their faith, and tactfully throw re…
/r/RPChristians17/01/19 06:23 AM
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Definitely second a post on persuasion and tactful communication. That would be great.
/r/RPChristians12/01/19 04:54 AM
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Thanks for the explanations guys, I appreciate the insight. That was really helpful.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 09:15 PM
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One of my thoughts while reading this was: Taking the 5 Love languages, one of them being words of affirmation... Does this mean that men as a whole, should ideally not have this as a love language, and that it is reserved for women only? (Since Men should be receiving their validation from God. Or not even requiring it in the first place.)
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 06:39 PM
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Thank you for this. It definitely clarifies for me, some of what I've been confused about when reading the sidebar.
/r/RPChristians07/01/19 05:43 PM
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I like this phrasing. Excellent. It's not a case of blaming. It's a case of being healthy yourself, and then setting yourself up for a healthy relationship. That will look different for each person whether they are a man or a woman. It's a case of "put your own oxygen mask on first. ​ ​
/r/RPChristians04/01/19 06:16 PM
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Just throwing this out there, but one on one discipleship sounds like a pretty good solution that's tailored to each individual, and on the plus side, has multiplication on its side. Like rocknrollchuck said, a lot of people dont even want to come to an open and honest group. So, find the ones that do, and grow them up, and send them out to help others out of shame and into a healthy sexual lifestyle. One at a time.
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 04:47 PM
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If you think she's just being nice and helping you get back into scripture, then what do you have to lose if you find out that's the case?Listen to Deep_Strength's hint. Do what you want and don't worry about it. (Key word -LEAD and with confidence.) (You're over-thinking things.) "Here's a hint. If a woman likes you, it doesn't really matter what you do because she'll be happy spending time with you. Plan and lead. Do what you want. It's not that hard." - Deep_Strength Also, to quote The RPC Co…
/r/RPChristians26/11/18 09:16 PM
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I felt like Neo listening to Morpheus explain the Matrix. Excellent job sir, on the explanations. It gives me a greater urge to make disciples of Jesus, and to teach them the truth.
/r/RPChristians24/11/18 02:50 AM
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I'd love to see these couple posts compiled into a single sidebar explanation of "the why of mission" or something. This is great. Thank you for taking the time to explain the gospel this way.
/r/RPChristians31/10/18 02:47 PM
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Well said. I agree. I'm probably in the same boat, as far as discernment goes.
/r/RPChristians30/10/18 08:17 PM
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An example that comes to mind is Paul sharing with the people on Mars Hill. Acts 17:22-31 Sermon on Mars Hill So Paul stood in the midst of the Areopagus and said, “Men of Athens, I observe that you are very religious in all respects. For while I was passing through and examining the objects of your worship, I also found an altar with this inscription, ‘TO AN UNKNOWN GOD.’ Therefore what you worship in ignorance, this I proclaim to you. The God who made the world and all things in it, since He i…
/r/RPChristians30/10/18 04:59 PM
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So, I'm a bearded dude, with about a 6 month beard of average growth, (Google pictures if you need to see what average 6 mo growth looks like) and nearly every Sunday, or any time that I'm in a group setting, someone (Usually male with no beard) will comment on how 'it's coming in nice!' or, 'Looking good' or something similar. BUT when I say, "yeah, you should grow one!" or, "You'd look good in a beard!" they always say, 'no, I can't grow one,' or, 'my wife would have a fit' or something simila…
/r/RPChristians28/10/18 06:12 AM
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Your rule of thumb is gold. Thanks for that! I've been contemplating something like that, and now I'm actually going to do it! Also, Could you either A) Expound a little more about "mission and vision" or point me in the direction of something already posted? I've read all the sidebar stuff about it, but I'm a little confused about the practical/employing bit of it. Still trying to figure out how I can practically "do" my vision of making disciples and glorifying God in the day to day.
/r/RPChristians25/10/18 06:02 AM
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Question: in all the examples in the bible of men taking wives, they all "went out and brought them back." (Correct me if I'm wrong.) How do you reconcile this with the idea of, "be on the mission God has for you, and you'll automatically attract women."?? Edit: Simplified, My understanding is that we aren't supposed to go "looking" for a wife, yet a lot of these biblical examples seem to show the opposite.
/r/RPChristians22/10/18 12:47 AM
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