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Question for WomenTrentguy24/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 07:40 PM
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Question for WomenTrentguy24/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:22 AM
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DiscussionTrentguy24/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:00 PM
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Your unwillingness to be believe me about my life and family is frustrating and unproductive. No, I do believe you when you say "you never saw ur brother " having difficulty in dating or social life what I am saying as a guy with an older sister that despite being younger , I found it hard and stressful to navigate through teenage years so I know how hard it must be for him to have you as a younger sister Like I said, some people just aren't lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:22 AM
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my brother literally could not have cared less. I don’t think most men are as hung up about this as you seem to believe. trust me they do care, like I said, having a sister deters a man's social life, Your brother would not tell u to ur face as he is concerned of ur feelings Only a few lucky ones have a luxury to live with only brothers, he wan't one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:08 AM
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there is such a discrepancy between the way he treats women and the way he’d want his sister to be treated that is precisely what all men want to do date multiple women while hoping their sis does not do the same Men who have brothers are not burdened with this choice while some who have sisters esp younger ones are burdened with them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 03:16 AM
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sigh, he might have been shamed in school if he had done that your mistakes might have reflected on him too and this in growing up years where confidence is built Check out the shamming language you used for OP when he stated he wanted to have casual sex Like I said, some men are lucky to have no sistes while others are burdened with them Your brother will be a perfect candidate for a post wall 30 woman and will serve the purpose of beta buck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 03:04 AM
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My brother dated casually when he was younger, I didn’t shame him you can rest be assured there is guilt he feels when he has no strings sex and women in order to bully him will use the excuse "what if it is your sister." a man with a brother can do what ever he wants under whose ever roof with no fear if or not his younger brother gets influenced no such luck with a sister Some men are lucky and some men with sisters are burdened
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:54 AM
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if your brother wanted to have "plates", you would shame him right, Well the option to try and be a casonova is difficult for him while not so for men with only brothers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:13 AM
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well, let me help you out It is every guy's desire to have plates and play around the field but guys riddles with sisters do not have that luxury to do so as the guilt inside them and the hammering test of their character as done on this thread by other women ( you have a sister, how can you think like this) and hence guys with only brothers have more success with women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:40 AM
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the pressure that guys that have sisters go through seriously dents their social life, such guilt, such pressure and such a situation would have never happened to a guy with brothers and hence guys with only brothers do well with women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:59 PM
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feminists ( most probably who woud be in BP) who claim that America is heading towards handmaiden's tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 04:03 PM
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Why do you think the bum beach surfer is MORE sexually attractive than a Chris Hemsworth? Chris Hemsworth would be the alpha cad if he wasn't a famous actor WOMEN WOULD DESIRE HIM SEXUALLY AND I if he were to get serious with both his life and career would settle down with him HENCE Alpha cad He went from cad to Alpha bucks because he is a famous actor I am saying both these cases >>>>>>> than average looking highly lawyer ( high beta) and all 3 cases better than timmy beta ( type you would marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 10:15 PM
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name one such community
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 10:13 PM
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You're coming from the POV of a man who must have always had limited romantic and sexual options. and you must be some1 who was strung along by an alpha and now are stuck with a stable dull guy and to ease your guilt are convinced that he is the "lucky" one you selected
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 10:07 PM
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In most circles Beta Fucks or High Beta > than Alpha Cad. if you've were had someone for more than brief fling, please tell him about his and ask for him opinion, Tell him how you were more turned on by the beach surfer dude but chose to be with your partner because he had stability i.e high beta just do not be surprised if he dumps you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 10:06 PM
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yes bum cute face gets fuckzoned. the zoned part implying it's not his choice. he didn't choose to be plated. and this is a far better deal than high beta buck, men would prefer this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 10:00 PM
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And I've been saying I'm sure you specifically would choose to be the broke cad over the JFK Jr. You've never experienced having a hook up I guess? So you would risk it all just for that? nope, over all men would prefer it, check out the men here ( a couple of them not even RP) have selected that option You've never experienced having a hook up I guess? So you would risk it all just for that? but an engaged girl had a brief fling with me and wanted to extend it further but I ended the relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:50 PM
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Yes the men who get "fuckzoned" typically lack social standing, stability, and/or money. bum with the cute face as you mentioned above??.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:47 PM
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often the stress and anxiety of worrying that the guy won't ever fully commit to her will cause women to sabotage relationships or break up with the guy first before he has a chance to hurt her. menaing, they actually want him to commit but they do not have the ability to secure his commitment They know he'd prefer a younger, better looking, lower count women and she does not fil the mould seeing his bad faults or deciding he isn't "marriage material" is a rationalization she uses to convince he…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:40 PM
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what you are saying is financial stability is a necessity to be alpha bucks other wise you are just a one month fling material I am saying I'd rather be one month fling material over timmy beta stable guy and even high beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:29 PM
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Again you're assuming all men are omegas or incels or low betas or aren't at sexually desirable. be it omega or alpha or beta, the capability of inspiring lust in a woman without having any beta traits or factors is what EVERY MAN DESIRES
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:23 PM
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again, I certainly wouldn't be let men decide what they prefer, all right
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:20 PM
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But is it really a dealbreaker to not be the best she’s ever had? Even if she is attracted to you and enjoys sex with you? let men decide what they want or what they prefer and if they prefer to dump the gf or terminate the union, respect their choice and preference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:19 PM
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The woman doesn't want the cad. She plates him. She has a fling with him for fun. yeah, right, of course . the sexual desire she has for him is how men want their potential gf's to have for them,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:18 PM
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all women want to be beautiful and want a strong man ( both emotionally and physically) and want their husbands to rock her world sexually all men want a young, slim woman with preferably no experience and be the best she ever had
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:16 PM
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Nope am serious, this is a woman you are in love with how would you want her to see you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:14 PM
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The men I highlighted can be her cad if he feels and if he suddenly decided that he wanted family, legacy, and wife he could be her Mr. Right. The man you want to be has only one option -- cad. that is alpha bucks and notice your key words " if he decides" you said what I have always believed women have flings with guys hoping they would commit and when she realised he does not want to she comes up bs excuses to soothe her ego stating that "he wasn't the marriage type anyways" and "the beta is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:12 PM
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if she's that strongly attracted to the guy, she would be totally willing to settle down with him if possible. that's why alpha widows exist. the scenario was based after reading multiple blogs wherein women claimed to be involved with men they had great awesome sexual chemistry with but good not see a potential future as the guy was a "bad boy."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:09 PM
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Normal, average people don't hang around on pill subs for fun. they may not but when in comes to wanting to be the best sexually attractive option his wife/gf partner had, all men would day yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:08 PM
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the point is the majority of the men would want to be option 2. But are afraid to say so openly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:04 PM
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High Betas / Beta Fucks can and do have flings. They typically have fun then settle down. They’re normal attractive men and they are still below the alpha "wouldn't want to be his mrs" cad and the scenario I provided was between the 2 of these options for men and men here ( not even from rp) chose option 2
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:56 PM
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so,long as she sees me applicable for a fling short term fuck, I am cool with that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:53 PM
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women who simply couldn't get their sex god to commit to them (permanently) and had to settle and the timmy beta they chose to settle down with is the "lucky one."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:52 PM
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this is a sub for debates right, well you see men here prefer option 2
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:51 PM
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Your options are limiting. Oh, I know, maybe love and marriage isn't in everyone's fate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:48 PM
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still less than a guy who with no resources manages to turn you on and hence he is >>>> high beta men prefer to be this guy, thanks but no thanks a high beta is below an alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:47 PM
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had 2 relationships made a deal with myself that I would get jacked and even if it meant just a few months of sex it would be with a woman who saw me with pure lust Done it and now am comfortable around women and with no nervous body language and looks like will have kiss marriage option good bye
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:46 PM
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no, not quite. had 2 relationships made a deal with myself that I would get jacked and even if it meant just a few months of sex it would be with a woman who saw me with pure lust Done it and now am comfortable around women and with no nervous body language and looks like will have kiss marriage option good bye I just want guys age to be able to make such options
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:45 PM
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a couple of the men who selected are not even rp
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:43 PM
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High Beta has the ability to be in countless flings? He just chose to commit and values it. still less than a guy who with no resources manages to turn you on and hence he is >>>> high beta High Betas are the ideal. They run the world. They’re the men I referenced above. good for you, men want to be alphas and any alphas are okay alpha bucks or alpha cads
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:43 PM
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careful now, women don't want men expressing opinions they don't want to hear or in this case preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:40 PM
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the post is just for click the para options are in order to what I wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:38 PM
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At any rate, for the majority of straight women the ideal mate is the “High Beta” or “BetaFucks.” How many of them have the ability to snag one, And for that reason most men aim towards that. Not toward being a broke bum or being a low unattractive beta. Like I said a few months of fling where in I am the alpha >>>>>> lifelong where in I am "high beta"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:38 PM
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edited
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:36 PM
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obviously you hate that you think you'd be a "timmy beta husband" but why would the rest of us give a shit? okay the guy who does not care does so because he does not even want to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:35 PM
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read the para
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:34 PM
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broke bum with a cute face over the stable settling down guy, hell yes I would chose him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:34 PM
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7th guy to chose option 2
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:33 PM
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somehow I don't think women will like your answer or prefer to settle down with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:31 PM
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sixth man to select option 2
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:30 PM
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so you'd be okay being the timmy beta husband, cool okay my bad 1st guy to chose option 1, I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:30 PM
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ding ding, ladies 5th guy to respond and 5th guy to chose option 2
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:28 PM
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check out the 4 men who have replied, all chose option 2 and check out the women who have replied first an insult, then telling me it does not happen thne telling me it happend but is no big deal and then another insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:28 PM
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4th guy to chose option 2, ladies, I suppose you would say these are basement dwelling insecure men and the hubby's you "chose" are the "lucky" ones
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:25 PM
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Nope. That’s ridiculous. No one wants 100% honesty all the time. God grief woman, speak for yourself Even you don’t believe that. You are RANKING SEXUAL EXPERIENCES, not classifying them as good or bad. Yeah, I am actually yes that is exactly what I am doing your feelings impact the quality of sex and then the memory of those feelings further impact them. It’s subjective. meaning for the stable guy, the woman must keep him at any costs and in this case lie to him about it, Oh well like you said …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:24 PM
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Alpha Cad isn’t worth “being tamed.” He simply isn’t marriage material. No one of repute wants to be Mrs. Him. He’s the cute broke guy with no real job or home or FTO. and out of alpha cad ( she wouldn't want to be his mrs) or settle down guy, men would still chose the first option.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:22 PM
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and if a man has to be able to read his woman's mind across time for his relationship to be genuine then there's never been a genuine relationship in history. meaning, I chose my timmy beta husband by keeping him in the dark as to how boring he his and to ease my guilt I have convinced myself "how lucky he is" I suppose if he ever got a wind of this, he would be repulsed by you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:21 PM
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the second one right, ladies there have 3 men who have replied out of which 2 out 3 chose option 2, with the 3rd one's gender yet to be confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:20 PM
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again, I follow the rules and the timeline it's just weird too see women freak out when men want to discuss this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:18 PM
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woman, I'd like to do so, but even I ain't that mean, see quite a few of your type, angry at the world and I know exactly why you are the way you are and while do feel sorry for you and the mistakes you've made, it gives you no right to be bitter at the world
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:17 PM
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u a man right, why 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:16 PM
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why are women so worried what men prefer, if they want to, its their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:14 PM
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My options are strictly 2 way with no convergence you love a woman, these are the 2 options why one would you prefer to be ? rather than the essay you've typed, please chose one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:14 PM
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oh no, it's not even the money it's just companionship, that comes afte they've hd their "fun"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:12 PM
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who are only ever used for flings but can never get the woman he wants to commit to him, would choose the opposite. yeah, trust me, the woman would be thrilles she was able to tame the cad Number of times I've lost count where in the girls in my group positively glowed with happiness that they managed to tame the playboy ( like an acheivement) and I am talking good looking classy types and it always began the same way : "oh, he was not the type you settle down with and we started with a fling an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:12 PM
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Ignorance is bliss. Nope, it is a lie on which the relationship is based because a woman wants it to be that way. A relationship is genuine if and only if the man was aware of choices, criteria and mindset that led to the woman to chose him to "settle down" Because these things are wildly subjective, human memory is terrible and there is no way her feelings about the man after the fact are not going to cloud her rankings of experiences. let me help you, SEX IS either good or bad Just because you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:08 PM
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No, there really isn't a fling category and a marriage category for most women. yeah, right https://thoughtcatalog.com/kirsten-corley/2017/09/the-difference-between-the-guys-you-date-and-the-one-youll-marry/ https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/15-differences-between-the-boy-you-date-and-the-man-you-marry.html ever heard something called "no strings attached" fuck buddies and casual sex partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:03 PM
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to insult people for no reason, mind if I return the favour
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:01 PM
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The situation relies on the men knowing It has got nothing to do with knowing, of course the spouse would not be honest to hubby and lie to him and how the well would a woman not know which sexual experience was not better for her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:00 PM
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does not matter if "I know" or not I am asking men what would they prefer, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:56 PM
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again, nothing to do with the content of the post, nothing about what men would prefer but oh no let's just throw an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:54 PM
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Having a sexual past is fine, as it’s likely my friend or brother has had his fun as well. re-read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 07:08 PM
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That’s absolutely true. I know very few men who would turn down a woman just because she’s had a sexual past. Those that would are super insecure that is what you want to believe, but it isn't so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 07:08 PM
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yeah an RP Mod who calls the anger phase as "someone having mental issues" and also uses autism as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 06:39 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 06:17 PM
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But if he was... then we wouldn't be having this discussion And he knew and believed that "she" was waaaay more sexually attractive than all of her ex-partners, would he not care how many previous partner she had? typo error I assue Yes, if he was the best she ever had, perhaps he would be okay being with her But none of this sex with emotions He should be the type of guy, she would have had a fling with in her youth and not just consider just for settling down
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 06:13 PM
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You've got the gist of it right However not the scenario I mentioned He is def some1 who is not on the same sexual attraction level as her previous ex's He is not aware of this dynamics and blue pilled in this matter How would you knowing about this case speak to a male relative you had ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 06:06 PM
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he knows, but is not aware of the sexual element women take into consideration when considering fling and ltr She is more sexually attracted to men she was with before and "chose" ur brother because she wanted to settle down with him Happy, this should be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:53 PM
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She does not discuss it with him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:21 PM
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It hurts to know your female relatives do not look out for the best intersts you have and would consider this above scenario all right for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:09 PM
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and the BP B.S that your female friends and relatives sprout What about them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:03 PM
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Nah, atleast with a marriage it would be okay for her to know that she was not just a sexual body whom he used And if he leaves her after marriage sure it hurts, but it will not affect her to the extent the scenario I mentioned about would do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:31 PM
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Lol dude, this is fucking stupid. You learn by observing the world around you and taking in salient information. How do you do that when the media is shoveling BP crap down your throats and even women in ur family lie to you about it : My sis did the opposite to me Told me muscles were not imp, feelings were more imp Girls liked sensitive guys, and all that B.S LMAO, how old do you think I am? If people are carrying all that stress, neurotic understanding of life, and "trauma" into their future,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:30 PM
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Nope, the BP lies the media sporuts, if the mum or sis cared about their sibling or son, they would make sure to tell him the truth My sis did the opposite to me Told me muscles were not imp, feelings were more imp Girls liked sensitive guys, and all that B.S
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:28 PM
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This happened to someone I know and it was very sad how she got mistreated but she finally did divorce the cad. Or do you think only men get hurt? Nothing compared to the hurt and beating her self esteem would take if she was one of them women, he cad strung laong in the promise of a relationship and then ddumped for a younger woman Bu
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:08 PM
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Yea, it's learned. Literally what learned means. You can learn this from someone other than family. yeah, right and someone apart from your family will teach you about dating dynamics who, your neibhor and the guys who develop this more easily, alphas such as gang members, frat bros, you wouldn't want to be in their circle TIL high schoolers are fucking stupid /s. Seriously though, why should he care. People have agency and are free to act how they like. Sometimes shit happens, they can either o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:06 PM
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there is no shortage of virgin men, Infact how many men do you think have the looks, status required to pull of the alpha lifestyle However if a cad were to propose to her and offer her commitment, she would be happy and grateful to her fates ( and a major boost to the self esteem ) that she was the one who managed to tame the cad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:01 PM
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may not be but still want to avoid such women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:59 PM
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I had surfer dude's commitment. Yes, I was physically attracted to him but we didn't intellectually connect, Yeah, right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:58 PM
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Nope, I wanted to go easy on you https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1ljepc/men_30_could_you_ever_take_a_former_party_girl/ You may not be a party girl, but you do fit the above category
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:56 PM
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Hint: This is learned. You can learn to not be a neurotic dumbass. No, it is developed and it comes from childhood Guys with older brothers and from sporting families develop this much easily as they grow up in it. If you are doing this, you are doing it wrong. Who the fuck tries to be a sibling's bodyguard. Doesn't stop you from being supportive of your brother or sister, but that is just neurotic stupidity. Because her choices affect how girls view you I already gave an example from my school …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:54 PM
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l men and they have known about everyone that I have ever dated and even slept with prior. Oh, they would "date" you for sure But to be the guy "you would settle down" with after you had fun dudes please tell them about this specifically and if they decide to end the union, respect their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:49 PM
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Yes. I know that's a thing. It's a vanishingly small number of men who are forign or have mental issues such as autism Anger phase RP. re-read about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:47 PM
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Nope, it is not age but sexual attraction for the surfer dude whom you could not get to commit or realized did not have the ability to commit anyway tell your man (sucker) whom you want to "build a life with" why he is more lucky than the surfer dude and then let him make the choice If he decides to dump you ( more likely) please consider yourself lucky as perhaps he was not "grown up"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:46 PM
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for men and women, the nightmarish worst-case scenarios are different
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:44 PM
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there is something called "anger phase" in TRP read about it. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1ljiop/31_former_party_girl_finally_ready_to_settle_down/ This is what men who are aware of this think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:42 PM
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k it's only possible for women to feel "raw lust" for one man on Earth? You need psychological If both men had equal raw lust why would you date one type in youth and the other when you "mature" and want to "Settle down" why not pick the "stable guy" in your youth and have him even if you were just looking for a fling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:40 PM
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by telling him that such cases exist and he could one such guy then support his choice even if he decided to dump the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:38 PM
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so the equivalent nightmarish scenario is the "numale" "soyboy" where you'd be assuming the guy cannot sexually satisfy your sister and rock her world. Nope, the worst thing I that can happen to my sis and that I consider to be equivalent of this scenario if that she is strung along and then dumped for a younger women the self esteem would take a massive beating and I did manage to stop her from getting in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:37 PM
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and that is a choice you make, good for you Let more men know about this phenomenon and let them decide whether they would prefer this union or prefer being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:34 PM
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. But she'd be wise to keep it to herself and be just as sexually adventurous with betabux bob as she did with Chad, then it's good. No, it's not good, men are not aware of it and the marriage is a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:33 PM
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If you have a weird hangup about your future wife's past lovers because you're so damn insecure, then take responsibility for your own life, and ask her up-front of her detailed sexual history BEFORE YOU MARRY HER. Like women wuld be honest She would consider me to be the "lucky one" AND AGAIN JUST TELL YOUR MALE RELATIVES ABOUT SUCH SCENARIOS you might go down in their eyes but atleast you won't ruin their life's
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:32 PM
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again these are guys who now see the reality, tell me how many women are open about such scenario's We men tell you we hate being the guy you would prefer to marry and boom you have difficulty even accepting our choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:30 PM
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That's patently false and completely laughable. Look at what men do, not what they say. those are men brainwashed into buying the BP lies AND HAVE no clue about the dynamics of sexual attraction You would be the last preference for any guy if he was more aware of the dynamics involved i,e "emotional attachment" for him and "raw lust" for the surfer dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:29 PM
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But mostly, your whole thing about how older brothers will struggle dating is fucking weird. Oh but they do, the carefree relaxed attitude that comes to men required to be successful with women starts at a very young age and that is diffuclt to develop if he has the stress of being her default bodyguard He has to avoid frat bro type of guys and those are guys who turn out natural alphas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:27 PM
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again, you have brief flings with guys you are sexually attracted to This type of woman for me would be a big no-no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:25 PM
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I don't marraige is for guys like you, self aware. Sorry, I don't think marriage is for guys like you : Self aware that women have different criteria for ltr and short term flings and sexual element plays a role in it,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:23 PM
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speak to her, tell her fortunately there has been a case like this and my sis on my advice terminated contact with the guy turns he dumped another woman and my sister was forever grateful to me It just deepened our bond ad now she asks my opinion on guys and even respects my judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:21 PM
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How many times do I have to say it She is faithul, honest and even a good companion However she had better sexual chemistry with her previous bf's that's it and guys here say that they would rather be dead alone than prefer such a union Why do you not understand that this is a deal brreaker You may not like it and consider it unreasonable but let men make the choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:20 PM
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not that she is not sexually attracted. Her not being as sexually attracted to him as much as her previous ex is what men would consider to be a lousy union It is worse than being used
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:17 PM
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yeah and women here will ay you are unreasonable Advice : I don't marraige is for guys like you, self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:17 PM
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Your argument is that a girl who had a hot ex-bf could not possibly find any other guy sexually attractive, thus she shouldn't be married to. No, again like I said, men if they chose not to marry such women should be allowed to do so and or that they need to be aware that cases as written about in OP exist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:16 PM
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Eh, the worst thing that can happen to my sister if she was strung along and then dumped hurting her self esteem I have seen a few of my female friends beg a guy not to dump them only to accept the fact that the "she deserved so much better" and "he was not marraige material anyways" This lot then indulge in mental gymnastics shown here by PPD women So would you or would you not “warn” your sister about her faithful fiancé? As long as she never gets dumped and strung along for sex, I am okay I e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:14 PM
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Literally never had an issue dating (likely getting engaged to my long term girlfriend (since we were 18 or so) this summer after life stabilizes a bit) after getting over some of my own issues (depression, autism, etc.) that were completely unrelated to having a younger sister. Are you the only brother And no, you might be the emotionally stable choice but no way would you ever be your partner's sexually charged preference. If it is then good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:10 PM
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Trust me they do, it is the fear of being shamed and being called insecure that makes men bottle this fact to themselves try reading the red pill posts and see from their POV and you will understand this better : https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1y8b6i/27yearold_fair_maiden_named_boozemunkee_is/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/38lte0/why_men_wont_get_married_anymore_women_complain/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:09 PM
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They just genuinely disagree with you about what's good for the little bastard. Tell him about such scenario's and let him decide Here many assume that their male relatives would be okay being in such a puke scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:05 PM
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She is honest about her past with me but not with my brother? Your brother or son is not aware as to how women have sexual attraction for short term flings and the level and intensity is perhaps not the same for ltr and apparently "emotional comfort" is what makes it special Please tell them about such cases Be there for him should he decide to end the union
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:04 PM
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dated surfer Chad for about 3 months before I broke up with him. Yes, he was nice to look at... but that was about it. Attraction has so many different layers beyond the physical realm that you are completing discounting. I assume you don't have much experience in relationships. Again, your call, your choice, I cannot and do not want to dictate who you can and cannot date Even if a woman has dated an objectively hotter guy in the past, it doesn't mean that she isn't capable of finding another gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:03 PM
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yeah, like I said Older brothers to younger sister( screwed if you are the only brother) are screwed in dating department and their only chance is to be a beta bucks or emotional 30'ish women's choice yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:00 PM
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Would you “warn” your sister if her fiancé had casual sex with a few hot girls in his past? No, infact I wish my sister was one of those woman whom cads choose to marry but it takes an exceptionally special woman to make a bad boy settle down and I know for a fact that my sis aint one All she is going to get is strung along by the dude and he would go on and settle down with a younger woman This is the equivalent scenario for woman and from which I would want to protect my sister No way am I all…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:59 PM
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Most women in your thread, myself included, said they would warn him if they knew that the girlfriend was lying or trying to use him. Let's say she is honest about her past Your brother is not aware of the sexual dynamics where in women have one criteria for a short term fling and another for long term material He fits the "safe stable guy" material Would you warn him about it or would you see nothing wrong in him being one Also, I mentioned, there is sexual attraction just not as much as she ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:55 PM
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Never is it explicitly stated that at that present moment, she isn't attracted to him The situation described above is where the red pill call the sucker usband "timmy beta"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:53 PM
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It's a debate sub, I want to see how many of them would at least look out for their brother or son
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:52 PM
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No, such a union would be a big NO-NO even if sex were anytime on my demand I would feel a bit weird having to be with a woman who would much prefer her ex's sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:51 PM
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The equivalent nightmarish scenario for me as a brother would be where in a guy was stringing along my sis just for sex and intended to marry another younger woman Then yes, I would do everything I can to protect her No way do I want my elder sis making the same mistakes that leave her bitter and see her husband as a settling down material
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:51 PM
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I still don't understand how the female relative is supposed to know this. Unless the girlfriend admits it, she would have no way to know Again, ur shifting the narrative just because the post makes u feel uncomfortable I said, assume you know about this Also, if a woman who rejected your brother or son when she was young and had flings with "bad boys" and now wants to "build a life" and settle down with your brother Inspite of her not telling you, this should be a clear indication that she sees…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:48 PM
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I want companionship and I would not chose to live alone. Ladies , this is the guy who is okay with this scenario cause he he made this choice knowing all the factors Again tell your male sibling about it and let them make their own and Support them if THEY DECIDE TO END THE UNION AND DUMP THE WOMAN
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:46 PM
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The post clearly explains the factor of sexual attraction She isn't sexually attracted to the husband as much as she was to the ban guitarist or bouncer with whom she had a fling and I am saying, if you'd know, would you not tell him about it But most women are completely okay about this ghastly scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:44 PM
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Those are very different things. If two people can have a functional LTR and be honest (and be given a chance to be honest) it doesn't fucking matter. again, tell him about the sexual attraction dynamics, make sure he understands that she is not as sexually attracted to him as she was to her former lover and then let him make the choice. If it comes out after marriage, you would have ruined his life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:43 PM
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I view it as someone choosing the person they want to spend the rest of their life with, (to them you are the prize, the best person for them) and to have a family with, which to me seems like something positive. You see it the way you want, just don;t expect men or other men to be okay with it Atleast tell your male relative about this, and if he is okay, well I guess that's on him Do not assume stuff on his behalf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:41 PM
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This is an unrealistic expectation of women. Women are human, they aren't pious saints that sit on a shelf waiting to be picked up by a guy. They have full inner lives unto themselves. Most men don't give a fuck what's going on in a woman's inner life, this is a fact since the beginning of time. As long as she treats him like she's never been more sexually attracted to other men, most men don't care what she thinks. Just stop, I am not saying you suppress or deny this feelings quite contrary mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:40 PM
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and you chose to ignore it and lie with it, that's fine But there are men quite a many of them who would rather be alone than prefer such a union
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:37 PM
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But is the guy being "treated right" by being in the dark in such a scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:30 PM
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Yeah I know, the number of mental gymnastics this lot come up with to reaffirm their belifs But to throw your own son or brother into this nightmare. god some guys are just born cursed to have such relatives
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:29 PM
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Most men aren't as neurotic. Men anyone want to counter this What exactly is the scenario? It keeps shifting. Is it that she's not attracted to him at all? Is it that she's just more attracted to someone else? Is it that she's had previous relationships? What exactly is your tiraide against? She isn't sexually attracted to the husband as much as she was to the ban guitarist or bouncer with whom she had a fling and your male relative has no idea of this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:26 PM
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but the scenario mentioned in the OP does not register to women as men beng "treated poorly" Guys English isn't my first language, can some1 please tell her why us guys would loathe being the settling down husband Even if the women is financially well off and would be a faithful companion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:21 PM
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but this union is not something that maks us happy, It is in the best interest of the woman and like I said men would prefer lonely death than be in a scenario prescribed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:20 PM
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Nope, read the comments, majority of them over there sprout the non-sensical college feminist non-sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:18 PM
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It's one thing to look out for self-interest but hey at least protect your own son or brother
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:08 PM
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actually she's got a point, the player actually learns about this at a very young age around 12 and from a strong male figure Why do you think guys with brothers, frat boys and boys esp with no sisters do well they are automatically steered away from BP crap
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:52 PM
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As long as she treated him well and he liked her I don't see the problem. You don't even see the problem, despite me actually typing it out several times that there are many men out there who would rather die alone than be involved with a woman like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:18 AM
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Why does the responsibility of learning How To Man fall to your sisters and your mother? Er, I have expectations from both but in this case am disappointed that women here would let their male relatives fall in this ghastly scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:17 AM
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Oh, I am, I am okay with the options, and I also okay with women being in denial but atleast be honest to your family relatives, or even is that too much to ask for
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:08 AM
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I hope that my son turns out "beta" in that I hope that he'll settle down with a nice woman who adores him, and that he will be a good husband to her. God, lady why do you hate your son so much, Take it, you would ruin his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:22 AM
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why not, if I am married to some1 I would want to be best my wife or partner has ever been with It would be a massive plus for the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:10 AM
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my family members are adult human people if they want to make poor partner choices that is their perogative. I don't interfere. let them make the choice after they know such scenario's exist and if they still want to, it is upto them You have no idea how hurtful it is to not have one of your female relatives come and protect you in a scenario like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:08 AM
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Turns out she had decided that she had hit the wall already (for various reasons) and was gonna get married. She hit the easiest target. '' Dude, you were the lucky poindexter whe wanted to "build a life with" What's that, she shagged an entire football team, come on man, that was her being "immature" that meant nothing. You were the one she always loved puke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:06 AM
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yeah, cause looking out for male relative and not wanting him to be trapped in the scenario mentioned above is creepy You have no idea how hurtful it is to know the female relatives or friends you trust to look out for you would not stop you from getting in this nightmarish scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:00 AM
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only liked her because she was hot but thought she was an idiot, No, the equivalent nightmarish scenario for women that I would hate for my sister to fall under would be if a man does not see her as a relationhip material, is stringing her along just for sex and then would eventually prefer a younger woman That would be equivalent hurtful scenario for her and I would never even allow for something like this to happen to her and expect her to help me from the scenario mentioned in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:45 AM
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And you'd be disappointed, because they wouldn't do that. I know, what's the point in having female friends or even women relatives if they cannot help you in scenario's u want to avoid :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:37 AM
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white americans are not a collectivist culture that places family over everything, adult siblings do not advise each other like this outside of very extreme situations, I don't know looking out for my siblings would mean "collectivist culture " If some1 was bad intentions wanted to string my sister along for a relationship, you can bet I would totally be there to protect her are you the same person who always posts these weird brother/sister scenarios This is a one month account and what scenari…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:35 AM
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is he the best you've ever been with ? you glossed over this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:29 AM
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just said he hasn't had any success with anyone except this depreciated whore so there ya have it, this is what he deserves. No, these are the only options he has, he need not deserve this tell him about the scenario and Let him make the choice basing on the options he has You are family dude, come on. and yes Indian, ex-muslim
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:28 AM
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and if he ever comes to know about this after marriage, it will destroy him even further tell him about this scenario and he might be in the "anger" phrase but will forever be grateful to you It is painful to be in such a union and if you could save him, please at least try
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:27 AM
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Not ideal for most, just not a super dramatic deal breaker. Women have sex. Most men can cope with that and manage not to let it ruin their relationships. It is enough to most men and I can assure your marriage rates will come down tumbling further if ever more men caught a whiff of it,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:25 AM
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baby you know thats not true, why are they trying to poison what we have" for him to get over that and probably cut his family off You tell him about such scenarios and let him make his own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:23 AM
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He's tried to date but hasn't had that much of success and the answer is still no i woudn't say anything. some men are meant to be beta bucks, who am i to disturb destiny That's like a man saying some women are meant to be used just for sex, who am I to disturb destiny It's hurtful to men that they cannot not trust the women in their life's
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:22 AM
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, I broke up with my current BF back when we were in high school because we wanted different things at the time. You dated him, that's okay Are you sexually attracted to him ? Is he the best you've ever had ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:20 AM
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you are not sexually attracted to him,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:18 AM
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why is it assumed that men are just blind idiots who can't see the reality of whats in front of them. For the same reason I trusted my sister who gave me lousy blue pilled advice that muscles were not that imp and women like sensitive men barf if the best my brother could do was to wife up a depreciated whore then i'm gonna let him find his bliss in that. there are other women in the world yet he choose to chase after this one for years. Can you lot not address the main point and not twist the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:02 AM
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The amount of people esp women who think men would consider this an ideal situation astounds me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:56 AM
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. Male disatisfacrion is a part of why the marriage rate is declining. It is not the entire reason. again as some1 who went from being to romantic marraigedreaming guy to a complete opposite this scenario is why men avoid marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:41 AM
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She would be okay with her brother being in the scenario mentioned above
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:32 AM
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The internet is the main driver behind our incessent need for instant gratification. Stop telling people what they believe. nope, I myself was a hopeless romantic with forever marriage dreams Realized about this scenario taking place and was turned off by it Read MGTOW and men's forums and you will understand why prefer being the fling material and not marriage material
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:22 AM
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I'm ok with my brother carrying himself like a fucking adult who can make his own decisions. Everything else you're typing is coming from the perspective of an insecure person looking for mommy to save you from your self victimization (and make no mistake, worrying about slutty Sally fucking a 'hot bad boy' before you is the height of defeatist self victimization) I don't understand it at all. I would hate to be the man on the above scenario why is that " height of defeatist self victimization "…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:20 AM
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or maybe I am just saying what you don't like hearing,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:18 AM
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shruggs I thought you hate men and what they desire so much so that what was it that you said ahh,,"rad fem lesbian."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:18 AM
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This scenario is much too specific for me to blame the entire decline in marriage on it. I chalk it up to a bit of both male and female dissatisfaction with the insitution, significant desire for gratification and a decline in religious belief in the west. and I am telling you it is about this scenario that men want to avoid You think it is a coincidence that with the internet boom, this phenomenon took pace, It was because men started talking about this at the only place where they would not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:17 AM
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No, he won't be ok with it. He will and more over, he will be grateful to you, look I get it you want men to be a certain way but please do not as a family member burden your poor brother with this At the very least tell him about the scenario and let him make his on choice( I can gurantee you, he will chose to be alone.) looking for a partner based on nothing else besides the probability of being left. Let men make their own choice on what makes them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:15 AM
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Hypothetical scenario mate, I asked women would they protect their family members from being timmy beta poindexter and majority of them would not #teamwomen #yougogirl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:12 AM
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maybe, but the like I said the declining marriage rates are often attributed to economy ( disregarding that in tougher times, people actually got married to save costs and during depression the marriage rates increased) But reading MGTOW and men forums and even youtube comments, I understand the mindset perfectly well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:11 AM
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This does come off as insecure. I don't know what to tell you about that. It would be insecure of me to constantly post about how awful men are for lying about their intentions, too. and that is why I will never say this openly in front of my peers and actually claim that this scenario does not bother me at all The manosphere encompasses such a small minority of men it's laughable to assume that their opinions are shared by the majority. Nope, like I said, I was a romantic who wanted to get marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:09 AM
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Though if I did have to put a number on it, I would say he was the best sex I ever had. Doesn't mean I don't find other men attractive though. again, u bp's and esp women always do this I specifically said sexual attraction and you made a debate on not inding other men attractive the woman in the scenario mentioned above had far more sexual chemistry with HER FLINGS AND MEN WOULD HATE BEING IN THE SCENARIO MENTIONED above
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:07 AM
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Or I could tell him what he's never going to get what he's asking for and he'll be okay with it Like I said, men would rather live alone and die alone than be involved with a woman like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:02 AM
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They aren't though. They aren't worried about that scenario at all. It doesn't cross their minds. I was a hopeless romantic who wanted to marry and settle down and made a u-turn when I came to know about this There's no such thing as a woman that doesn't find other men attractive. It's an unrealistic unreasonable expectation. Most men don't worry about her fantasies if she is attractive and treats him well, and fucks him often and voraciously enough to keep him satisfied Here you have a man tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:01 AM
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Why? I'm engaged, literally every other man on the planet can walk of a cliff as far as I care. Does your man know, he is not the best partner you've ever been with and is he okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:59 AM
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I've been married to a rock star frat Chad since I was 20. You are married to a "chad" but would be okay if a woman sees your brother as "timmy beta" "marraige material"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:58 AM
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She very clearly said that she would tell him if she knew the woman was lying. This is her looking out for him. She wants to marry him because he was the only one to offer her commitment and does not know about her past and dynamics where in woman have diff criteria for lust and er well "settling down love"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:57 AM
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If I know she isn't sexually attracted to my brother and only wants to marry him because she's desperate for commitment, I would advise him against staying in the relationship. Duh. She wants to marry him because he was the only one to offer her commitment and does not know about her past and dynamics where in woman have diff criteria for lust and er well "settling down love"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:56 AM
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because they are low value and cannot get the companionship and sex from the level of women they want. 2) the do want sex and companionship, just not commitment. 3) they haven't come to term with their homosexuality yet. Uh,, the grapes must be sour, In my native country there was a story about a fox who wanted to eat grapes that were to high on a tree and despite him jumping he could not reach them So, dejected he walks away and claims to himself that the grapes were too sour anyway https://www…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:55 AM
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Again, what makes you think most men are still looking for their mommy's approval on who to marry They are certainly looking to avoid the woman mentioned in the above scenario, Most guys follow their dicks before their parents. The dicks would fall down if they got to know how common scenarios mentioned above are,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:51 AM
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but if all I know is she has had casual sex and now wants a serious relationship and my brother loves her, why on earth would I think twice about it? She is not sexually attracted to your brother as she was to the bouncer in the nightclub and now wants to marry him because he was the only one to offer commitment to her, a scenario men hate to be in So, now Would you protecct him from falling into this scenario or let him fall into it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:48 AM
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The sucker of a brother you must have, some people are cursed. Be honest, this is because you are or atleast for see your self to be in such a scenario and just because you expect some1 else to be okay with you, now place the burden of it on your brother as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:44 AM
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Tell him the fucking reason why you are saying so If he got a whiff of it (AFBB), he would run away in the opposite direction and always be thankful to god, you saved him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:43 AM
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She may not be the best I've ever had, but it is very imp for me to best she's ever been with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:41 AM
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I know this might rustle your jimmies, but some families really don't give a fuck about each other's romantic endeavors as long as they're legal. I would want by mother and sister to warn me about a scenario mentioned above In fact my respect and love would increase if they were to look out for me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:40 AM
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Nothing leads me to believe mgtows are any more influential than permanent bachelor's and why do u think such men do not want the desire of companionship and sex The world keeps turning. Not quite, you see for west to survive it need a population growth or active birth rates In a few years you will my ex-religion members grow in members in Europe and then see real patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:38 AM
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None of the men I've ever known in real life have voiced that concern to me. Yeah, well look at the way I've been attacked and called insecure Now fear of social alienation and mockery would be the reason why they don't want to voice their concern. Is there any aspect of your sexuality that you fear people will know about? No one wants to be used, but most people don't disqualify their partners based on whether or not they've enjoyed sex before. Why, why do you this, here you have online men tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:36 AM
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What if you were in love with her and wanted to marry her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:32 AM
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most men don't angst over what their woman is feeling if she's fucking him and wants to have his babies. Yeah, we do, we want to be the best she's ever been with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:29 AM
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Um because people don't need to marry for social proof as much, and lack of religious influence? Nope, it's because men are more aware of this , damn lady just read one of the MGTOW or men forums and you will know about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:28 AM
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Chad will use her for a brief fling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:27 AM
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So much for depending on family to look out for me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:27 AM
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Fixed that for you. at least be honest when you're talking about your fears and feelings. Lady, why do you have trouble believing that men would like their potential partners to be most sexually attracted to them In my childhood, I always wondered why any man would not want to marry but after TRP and BP defence of the affbb phenomenon, I understand them You want men to be this secure but trust me we are not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:26 AM
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show him this post, and no He would hate to be the guy mentioned in scenario above
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:24 AM
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you feel that way, but plenty of guys are secure enough to be okay with Chris Hemsworth’s existence a celebrity is fine, but an ex that you had major hots for or the bouncer you shagged You have trouble getting to accept this point without going on various tangents and you think men are aware of this Ever wondered what the TRP'S "ANGER" phase was
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:23 AM
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she turned him down in her youth to go with the band guitarist and now wants to "settle down" with your brother jesus woman this is afbb scenario the RP talks about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:22 AM
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how many men and women meet by randomly hooking up they have sexual attraction and hence "random hookup" ever wondered since the internet and online why have marriage rated declines drastically over the last decade or two Mainly because more and more men are becoming aware of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:21 AM
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Again, I was one such man and if it wasn't for TRP and blue pill would be completely obvious to scenarios like this Again, I and so would many others would prefer living alone and dying childless rather than involve our self with a woman mentioned in the above scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:20 AM
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majority of us men would rather be lonely and die childless than settle down with a woman as described above.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:18 AM
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if instead I'm just aware that she had sex with a sexy bad boy in a band or at a club or behind the bleachers or what have you then I wouldn't say anything because I wouldn't assume from that that she is shitty Take an advice from me, this is only if you care about your brother Tell him, trust me he'll run away as soon as hears about it but He will be happy, just tell him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:15 AM
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Sexual attraction, sexual attraction Your brother is a point Dexter a scenario guys hate to be in
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:14 AM
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but if all I know is she has had casual sex and now wants a serious relationship and my brother loves her, why on earth would I think twice about it? Sexual attraction, sexual attraction Your brother is a point Dexter a scenario guys hate to be in and you will not lookout for him right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:14 AM
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Sexual attraction, sexual attraction Stop diverting from the main point,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:13 AM
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young men think they'd rather die alone than be in such a scenario but inevitably they reach an agreement where they realize relationships aren't all lustful college hookups. both parties take practicality into account. Why don't you tell the men and be more open about this phenomenon No, men do not know about this and do not PREFER TO BE IN SUCH SCENARIOS Ever wonder about the declining marriage rates, trust it will fall down to single digit percentages if this thing became mainstream knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:12 AM
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So you would allow the men you "care" about to fall in this nightmarish scenario right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:11 AM
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Just gotta to warn men that they cannot even expect their mom's or sisters or even friends to support them in a scenario which they would hate to be in
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:10 AM
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Plenty of men marry women with full knowledge of their sexual history, though. My own husband has much less than puritan taste in women. and even more far many are unaware that there are many women who indulge in the scenario described above My question: Assuming your brother or son is unaware of this, would you still help him out or be #teamwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:09 AM
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modified the post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:07 AM
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Despite men telling you how much they hate being in a scenario described above
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:07 AM
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You overhear a conversation or some one in your friend circle saw her Point is you just know again would you allow him to be a safety catch and "build a lie with her" or would you be blunt and honest with him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:07 AM
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That's a name, there is an alternate meaning in RP language, I've modified the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:06 AM
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Gentlemen, our worst might marish scenario and here a woman would still supporther fellow gender than look out for family. bewarnedfolks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:05 AM
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they seemed happy and in love I wouldn't get involved. That's because your brother or son has no clue about it. I would expect my sister or mother to be blunt about it and tell me the bouncer she banged in the night club turned her own more and I am safety catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:04 AM
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Of all the things I assess a woman’s fitness as a wife on, her wanting to have sex with someone hotter would not be one of them. Speak to men on how they feel about being in scenarios like this, and you will be pleasantly suprised Its ridiculous for any man to be that insecure. and who exactly are you to decide what a man should or shouldn't prefer I mean, should I reject every guy who’s ever looked at porn becuase the girl in the video has a bigger ass than me? Nah, it's not the woman in porn b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:00 AM
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Beta bucks is not just for money but even for just emotional companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:57 AM
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And maybe ask some probing questions about his worldview and what questions would they be and I said, she is not sexually attracted to your brother as she is to local boxer whom she shagged in the nightclub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:57 AM
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intended to use him for money nothing to do with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:55 AM
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I don't believe that having sex in her youth disqualifies a woman from maturing or being a good potential partner. She could be a great and faithful companion But Like I said EVEN THEN MEN WOULD RATHER die alone than prefer a union like this Would you tell him the truth or allow him to marry her by keeping him in the dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:55 AM
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But you only want to date women who were never sexually attracted to someone hotter than you? Good luck. Okay, yes this is what I am implying Men say this, they are okay being in love bt would rather die alone than marry a woman in such a scenario And rather than telling your brother the truth, you would allow him to remain in dark and make a choice like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:54 AM
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And this despite men telling that they would rather die alone than be involved in a situation like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:49 AM
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I surely would :P And this despite men telling you that they would rather live alone than settle down with a woman like this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:48 AM
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found himself in the ridiculous hypothetical you laid out this is something quite a few women do,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:46 AM
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The point I want to talk about is only "sexual attraction." Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:45 AM
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Gentlemen, we have one who considers her fellow x-x chromosome member No, I would fully expect my sister to come and tell me about it and again like I mentioned She suddenly "matured" and was then "attracted" to your brother and "wants to build a life with him" and you would let him do it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:42 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8tm7pm/q4w_dear_women_what_advice_would_you_give_to_your/ Check out the post I wrote about, it will answer all your questions and has the CC phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:38 AM
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If I legitimately believed that one of my brothers' girlfriends was out to use them for money You Bp' always do this, Delibrtely ignore the main point and respond to a scenario not asked about Let's say the woman in question had money of our own and a secure job too The post is about sexual attraction and you chose to go on a different tangent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:36 AM
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Better to get plain Jane who rocks in bed t The palin jane's are the ones who look to "chads" for just fun knwoing there is no way he's going to commit to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:35 AM
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t if women sleep around then later settle down it means she is not attracted to her fiance/husband as much as her previous partners? Yes, it's called an alpha widow phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:23 AM
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they are, no way would some topics I see be there when I was there The RP would never delete a single post that the mods have deleted submitted by me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:20 AM
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I have had an account for a month, have been on reddit since last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:19 AM
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Just because she wants to have a family with him and settle down doesn't mean she isn't attracted to him. She is not sexually attracted to him as much as her previous partners and just wants to marry him because he committed to her,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:08 AM
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and despite 100% up vote and reasonable discussion taking place, you still censor me, Nice,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:07 AM
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I have been visiting this sub since last year and had a gap of around 3- 5 months in between Trust me, the change in this sub is really suprising Last year the topics were much more no holds barred But since BP mods have taken over, this sub has become a softer version of BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:06 AM
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was there a man involved who you met in a particular low phase of your life and who nursed your heart and sold you "moderate islam."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:04 AM
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Christianity and Islam are equally patriarchal and Abrahamic, and very comparable in their historical misdeeds. Any1 who has studied ME history will tell you what utter tripe this statement is, No, Church commited various acts of terror not Jesus Muhamamd the "holy prophet" commited many acts of terror and created a theorcratic state with brute force UNLIKE JESUS AND MOSES. Christianity as a patriarchal system is more threatening to western (aka feminist) progress, because it held us back for so…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:03 AM
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Blue Pill is majority feminists mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:59 PM
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Are you a male or female ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:56 PM
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So ex-muslims are 'alt-right internet dwellers' , and why would this be so, This is why precisely why I say modern day liberals and feminsts are modern day nazi's Did not like what is typed = "alt right racists"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:52 PM
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Spot on analysis,
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:50 PM
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Reddit and online forums are the 2 places where we are free to discuss our problems Rather than addressing the content, you attack the source ( you do not even read what we wrote there did you) Also youtube is not a source but the clip is from ME media Say, I posted a clip from CNN of Reza Aslan ( guy's a fraud) would it be a no go for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:49 PM
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. If beta bucks means she would be using him for his money, then I would be concerned. Someone she is not sexually attracted to as her previous flames but just wants to settle down and start a family, Something majority of the men hate to be,
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:47 PM
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Discussion of Feminist alliance with dolt right islamists, a valid point which the RP ( who are ssupposed to be mentally unstable people) have caught on and ex-muslims agree with,
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:44 PM
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Check the links I posted, please go through them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:43 PM
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Discussion of Feminist alliance with dolt right islamist a valid point in RP is bizarre, why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:39 PM
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PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:33 PM
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I guess I would be concerned if he was aware of her sexual past because he may want a monogomous relationship, She after finally landing a beta schmuck would want him to settle down with her, he is nothing more than a beta buck Would you be okay with that>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:28 PM
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yep, the feminist esp are like actually ignoring the point I wanted to discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 12:20 AM
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You are the only person to actually respond to the point I wanted to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 11:59 PM
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eh, that is the entire premise of the feminist movement, men= oppressors Women = victims
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:38 PM
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yeah but I call them islamonazis cause like I said I find them to have far more in common with the right wing islamists than liberal muslims
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:01 PM
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and thus feminists of today can too be called islamonazis and fascists for I find them to have far more in common with the right wing islamists than liberal muslims
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:54 PM
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the scariest thing is, this analysis where she talks that feminism is a medicine that is used by women to sooth their wounded pride is spot on of the girls from my campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:46 PM
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yeah stopping people from speaking on campuses, calling them racists and fascists ( Nazis used to call them anti-national) is censorship Any word on the mindset of the women attracted to feminist movement that she speaks of
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:37 PM
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the censorship also she spoke about the mindset of the women and why they are attracted to this movement,
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:23 PM
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Added, a brief summary of what she said
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:12 PM
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It's gotten much worse and the criticism that is leveled out about feminist moment today and even what I have observed is being said by this woman word by word
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:04 PM
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because he rolled his eyes and laughed when I told him you’re calling me a liar. Dude, not every guy is like you. and this is how I can tell you did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 09:48 PM
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I can tell, because no way can a guy not understand where I am coming from If he says I am being ridiculous, I know you are fibbing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 09:45 PM
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Ofcourse he did, eye rolls Trust me I know you did not, cause even if a guy were to dis-agree with me, he would atleast know where I am coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 09:36 PM
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ah, okay if you don't want to face reality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 09:25 PM
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just show him my posts and please be honest of what his response is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 09:21 PM
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He was not judged by my friends lol that sounds like something off tv, not real life. do me a favour and show him this post, Chances her, he'll understand where I am coming from He may even laugh it off, but he will know exactly what I am talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 09:17 PM
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I was not raised to think he had some kind of authority over me simply for being male. I come from a feminist family with liberal values. again you could come from any family but your peers esp women (will associate his desirability levels ) will look at how he is able to protect you and should he fail, he can kiss his social life good bye
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 09:10 PM
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So knowing something you do would embarrassment to your sibling or well could potentially alienate him and subject him to mockery ( even if he says he is not affected by it ) does not matter to you and you would not care about it right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 09:03 PM
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The implications being that I should stop dating if he expresses some kind of distress over it. So it would hinge on his feelings. Which is backwards and patriarchal, and not at all how my family functions. Cause for once in your life, it is more important to look out for sibling, rather than be "anti-patriarchal" or to be a feminist Nothing wrong in that. But we choose to stay in touch, because we have a good relationship and have never tried to control each other or anything toxic like that. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:58 PM
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My brother obviously cares about me, but it no universe would he have ever told me that I wasn’t allowed to date. Why do you lot twist my words, I never said, u should not date, just take fucking care it does not cause any ill ease towards your sibling. And if he had told me that, I wouldn’t have listened to him, and I wouldn’t be close with him as an adult like I am Ofcourse you wouldn't, But he is still stuck with you as an older brother right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:50 PM
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So are you admitting you made that post? What fucking post, I made this account less than a month ago. he wouldn’t have felt a need to enforce my behavior regardless of our ages. Oh stop it, Older brothers always want to look out for their sisters I mentioned it on the damn main OP as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:39 PM
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yeah, you should join the F.B.I with such memory and go ahead ask him if he was the older brother with you, Wouldn't he have felt pressurized or not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:35 PM
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He’s two years younger than me. Younger silly, no I specifically said older brother. And no, in that case, he would not have felt the pressure to look out for you Also, what post are you talking about and if it was last fall, how do you remember it so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:32 PM
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Nope ask him if he felt pressurized by having you Again, is he the only brother and what is the age gap between the two of you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:29 PM
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doesn’t have some kind of medieval sense of ownership of me, and I can fight my own battles. the guy who was taunted too did not have any "ownership" over his sis and yet by failing to look out for her, he too became the subject of mockery and the "strong feminists" too could not see him as a potential dating material It was the first time I realized how important it was to be physically strong cause no matter who the woman, she will always want a man capable of protecting her and the guy failed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:26 PM
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girls worry about the same thing of course they do, but they happily would still want to be the one who got the guy to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:19 PM
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Anyway, id still consider it rejection. No, rejection is what incels go through Yes, if such a guy and her beta boyfriend were to be faithful, she would prefer the cad type It's just she knows her shortcomings and is "settling down" with a guy she is not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:15 PM
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Maybe not turned off, but choose not to take a risk of hurting themselves. Yeah, they are attracted to them and are prefer them, just protect themselves If the guy were to be faithful to them, they would settle down with them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:12 PM
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but they will reject him because they know they are unlikely to keep him around afterwards. mate, that ain't rejection, rejection would mean even the guy decides to be faithful to them and love them, they would not be attracted to the man. Some girls are happy to have a guy out of their league for a night. Others know they will end up used and heartbroken and thus avoid the guy. Again, they know they don't have the ability to get the guy to settle down and hence avoid the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:08 PM
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good for a fuck and that's it. Men want to be seen like this, If they meet a woman they love, they want her to view them like this and then they will be on their best to get her change her mid Why do you not understand, men want to be viewed in this manner, U seeing them as settling down material is seen as an insult by men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:35 PM
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A lot of Chad's have lacklustre personality and are either wildly arrogant, plain stupid, or (most likely) both. Still they live the dream life of the majority of men who want to be seen as sexually desirable by most women and would rather be the alphas than beta cucks husband
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:21 PM
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No, I am not saying so, but he is representative of the type of cads women desire, the suave Businessmen. the band drummer , the bartender, the hot shot athlete, You get my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:15 PM
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They will view him as less attractive (I provided a source for this), so they are MORE LIKELY to reject him, assuming less attractive men are more likely to be rejected (who could argue otherwise?) Yeah, no they won't, if he decides to commit to her and her only, I can bet you, she will settle down with him. High "RMV" people pair off in their early to mid 20s for the most part. Few exceptions. It's 2018, sweetie, you go girl era, where a woman has to "find herself firt and even those who do set…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:13 PM
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A subset are, and that subset is high value women Nope, infact High value women want to tame the cad, you get an ego boost that you were make the guy settle down Check out Amal Clooney, woman became famous for locking down George Clooney.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:01 PM
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It would have a diddly squat effect on a man's pride, call him marriage material bloke and wound his ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:00 PM
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Lol, this only actually works if a guy thinks his value as a man is dependent on his success with women. Same with the insult of "slut" and women who think their value depends on being chaste. Which is vast majority of young people That isn't how it works. In no way would how much they are turned on be equal. Oh, I agree the inexperienced woman would be a bigger turn on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 05:59 PM
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Wrongly so, because mansluts are mostly looked down upon and considered less attractive for both LTRs and STRs (surprisingly for the latter). Women just take more flak than men for it, but most men aren't celebrating other mansluts. Come on, are you telling me that women would reject a guy if he had a sexually vibrant past. Woman ( not all but most of them) want to tame the cad and james bond type, I can understand that mindset, it takes a very special woman to make a guy with options settle dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 05:56 PM
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The topic of slut vs stud has been always drummed out by feminists when asked what is it that oppress women Feminist : Oh, I banged the bartender, pool boy and businessman all on the same day and am being called a slut, not fair a guy would be called a stud, patriarchy, sex positivity #weneedfeminism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 05:43 PM
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Women like men with options because options are a consequence of being attractive. This doesn't mean that they like men who excercise this options. Yeah, but attractive men choose this option cause they know women are not turned off by it, I mean he knows being a town bicycle is not good, but a scenario where he has strung along women is fine as then the woman who he falls for will gloat it among her peers that "she was the special one whose love changed him" and he is also equally turned by her…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 05:34 PM
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“default bodyguard”, because he wasn’t, nor did I want him to be. He had no other choice, silly, imagine like the case in my school, where in a girls video was leaked. The guy was taunted in the lunch and halls every where, Now girls would pity him, some would laugh at him and quite a few would supooort him but none owuld date him and he would not be able to interact even with his male peers because it was way to awkward and the gossip would be used as a weapon anytime he had a diss-agreement wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:49 AM
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Was he your only brother and no you can date, ptovide you take into consideration how he feels about it and atleast discuss it with him, nothing worng in that Would you be okay if your social life was a topic that made your brother a subject of ridicule ? and what other post are you talkin about,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:46 AM
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Erotic novels are generally fiction, for one thing. Fictions have their roots in base desires, often the author will speak to you through their lead characters
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:37 PM
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No, I mean women react to men's performance, it's men who perform and women react based on how the guy is doing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:34 PM
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Even if she’s the best you’ve ever had, you will probably fantasize about other women sometimes. Same goes for her But I won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:28 PM
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Why would she fantasize someone below me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:18 PM
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No, I would be upset if it was my fiance, I expect to be her best and worked hard to create a body. How many husbands do you think know the wifey still thinks about the bouncer who roughed her up in back room
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:15 PM
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Charlie Chaplin too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:07 PM
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No, I would rather suffer in reality than live a life based on a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:06 PM
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that would be me living in a lie, I would not like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:57 PM
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it would destroy me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:53 PM
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meaning, the rp afbb analysis would fit you two perfectly and even Sandberg's statement Both of you started with af and had you not gotten ur guy to commit u would have settled for beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:31 PM
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He tamed himself as a result of loving me. I think there is a subtle difference in nuance there. Isn't this the plot of every romantic novel, and what RP tells women desire, . For every story like ours, there's another girl somewhere who fell in love with a bad boy who broke her heart. Yes and yours was the special love that changed the man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:27 PM
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matronly old bint What does this mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:24 PM
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Elvis had always a thing for them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:22 PM
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y. We met young, and when I met him he was a hell-raising hooligan who was sometimes on the wrong side of the law. He was more selfish back then, and more concerned with living in the moment than building any kind of future. Aggressive guy whom u tamed, ( also I hope u don't mean a bully) every romantic lit plot, u two describe as ur ideal love life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:19 PM
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But a desire to build a life together, an emotional closeness greater than that with a friend, a desire for intimacy, physical affection that is not sexual. U r describing a relationship u have with your brother like friend. where is the evidence that being the best sexual partner is the most important part of a relationship? The romantic and erotic literature written by both men and ESP women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:17 PM
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no, what made your husband an idiot and how did you foresee he would turn in "solid guy" ( explain this too please )
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:25 PM
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What made him an idiot? Is it a code for hot douche who won't settle or commit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:23 PM
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what else separates a relationship from friendship if not great amazing sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:22 PM
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I married an idiot from my youth. Luckily he turned into a solid guy. You married the guy you were sexually attracted to, you did not leave the fate of your marraige on "luck", nor did he turn into a "solid guy." And how do these women know whether or not the idiots will not turn into a "solid guy" Sheryl Sandberg could not get her idiot to commit and hence came up with this crap to heal her wounded pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:18 PM
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Sorry lady but if the sex is great and Bf is decent and they have nothing in common she will stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:15 PM
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Good heavens woman. The mental gymnastics you do, the quote is afbb, start to finish Why don't you try and not date the idiots from the start and recognie what is sexxy about right from your youth Oh wait, the idiots are the attractive douches and since they will not commit to you, You will just have flings with them = alpha fucks Yeah, every woman imagines her husband will be a bloke who is good with women but again it is only the top tier men ( idiots in ur words) who are that sucessful with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:13 PM
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No, not an English speaker. . People get over people all the time, not just because they found someone better in bed. And people pine after their exes all the time, and not just because they're good in bed. Women will always cherish the guy who gave her the best sex and left her therby hurting her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:07 PM
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Good heavens woman. The mental gymnastics you do, the quote is afbb, start to finish Why don't you not date the idiots from the start and recognie what is sexxy about right from your youth Yeah, every woman imagines a bloke who is good with women but again it is only the top tier men ( idiots in ur case) who are that sucessful with women I seem to recall ur husband was some1 you found when you were young, and is some1 you desire or was that just hot air
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:00 PM
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Yeah look at any romantic literature, to any rom-com the lead guy is the silent virgin bloke who is waiting for the right woman, oh no wait it is the sassy good looking playboy Who is a womanizer whom a "one special woman tames" Giving head to a virgin man is way hotter than a man who is used to BJs. For the record I hate Bjs and would prefer going down on a woman, Bj's are boring and not worth my time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:50 PM
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The only people obsessed with virginity are undersexed beta men, because they are terrified of competing with a girl's memory. No, that is what you want to belive, Trust me any man who has options will pick a chaste young good looking woman Young, chaste, good looking woman = Tall strong, rich man who adores you. Virginity is overrated and a poor insurance against future infidelity. Yeah, cause a good insurance is the college party girl who was passed around by the football team. Dan Bilzerian (…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:46 PM
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I gave an inference on what u urself wrote And how is it insulting to suggest u had better sex with your ex-es It is still an anon forum, relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:42 PM
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That is why she was able to move on from him,, and not still pine for him like the woman in the article mentioned in OP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:39 PM
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that woman have had better sexual partners Nope, it is not known, like I said the entire marraige structure would collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:36 PM
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It is just like a guy who only likes a girl because she is good in bed. Come on guys don't care about it, We love it if a woman is in-experiened
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:34 PM
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Yeah, look u needed "emtion" to enjoy sex with this guy you are currently dating With others it was raw intense lust and nothing more and hence " they were not marraige material" damn lucky them guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:34 PM
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trust me most men don't know about it and are blue pilled The marraige rates across US would collapse like a house of cards if this information were to be known
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:32 PM
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I want a low N count man. The playboy can keep his gentital warts dick. See notice the difference, U still want an experienced man and not desire a virgin Men would love virgins. And this across all cultures They would be happy to be the one who gave a woman her first sexual experince and this for a woman at any age unlike women who throw th insult of virgin at men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:31 PM
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Virginity is highly desired by men, you have women selling them for millions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:27 PM
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Okay, give me your purple pill analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:27 PM
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There are individual things/moves other men have been technically better at, sure. But my affection for him and history with him makes the sex we do have more meaningful. I got that from reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:25 PM
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She had no spark with her ex, With me it was different, she was a little minx
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:24 PM
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trust me for me it is sufficient to know that woman sees me as the guy with whom she wants to spend a passion filled weekend and not take home to meet the parents That is enough for me to be turned on by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:23 PM
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Oh come on, seriously just look at ur owrds : There are individual things/moves other men have been technically better at, sure. But my affection for him and history with him makes the sex we do have more meaningful. This guy was the least best you ever had, How am I assuming stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:21 PM
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Women are turned on by playboy casonovas who have been with plenty of beautiful women Men are turned on more by irgin haste woman who has not been with any1 else and the one guy who is with her is the special one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:18 PM
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You have no idea how important it is for a man to be the best sex his partner ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:14 PM
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yes, what is wrong with that. I certainly don't want to be the guy with whom mediocre sex goes to as you put it "meaningful sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:08 PM
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AF/BB does exist, but it's more complicated than the red pill heuristic allows for Oh, please give ur BP analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:08 PM
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yeah, this was bit mean on my part, I apologize, should not have happened
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:05 PM
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Oh, but that is fine Infact she even recommended me a resturant telling me it was her ex who took her there Trust me she has no hangups from him as she was never sexually attracted to him He never had any influence over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:03 PM
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If you’re ever experienced the difference between making love and having sex, that’s what I’m talking about. Building a connection with someone and learning what they like in bed and getting better at it over time also builds affection and makes life worth living. Yeah, the chemistry was better with the previous partners, in terms they were more raw and wild in bed But this bloke is with whom you have "gentle love" Sorry lady, what you describe is a raw deal to me atleast. Good for your partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:02 PM
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No, don't For people who want to go through the thread , please read the comments : https://new.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8s2dkq/q4w_why_do_you_say_that_men_who_end_up_getting/ The AFBB scenario like the the guy I mentioned in the OP post is what women said has not happened to them and happens to "only handful of women"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:00 PM
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If you are the Mod, kindly tell me why the post I wrote yesterday was removed, https://new.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8s7w5o/regarding_the_topic_of_childhood_of_guys_who_are/ Check out the BS reason you gave, It;s the first comment and I responded back and yet u expect me to trust you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:55 PM
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She moved to another continent while I stayed here Trust me anytime I want she will come back to me I however do not waste her time or lead her on, I understand I could weild control over her but don't want to do so ( It is not the right thing to do,)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:52 PM
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I was not one of those women, we don't all think exactly alike. What thread are you talking about? Also, how in the world do you have enough time to post so much??? https://new.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8s2dkq/q4w_why_do_you_say_that_men_who_end_up_getting/ This is the thread, and I am in class, and hence sitting in the back row, lots of spare time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:51 PM
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Oh Hi, just yesterday you were telling me such marriages do not exist and here is the example I am giving you and check out most of the women telling me it is what happens in most of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:49 PM
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Maybe not alpha but certainly not the loser mentioned in the links OP post Yeah no, I've seen the guy and in his presence she is barely nervous and is quite comfortable talking about him to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:47 PM
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But my affection for him and history with him makes the sex we do have more meaningful. More meaningful does not mean better sex. Sexual chemistry may fade but those memories turn to affection and make life worth living I'll pass even if the woman loves me dearly but if I am the man mentioned in the above scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:44 PM
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Spare me. I've seen the Mods remove my previous post for a non-nonsensical reason and I ain't taking that chance again
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:43 PM
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Men who don't want to deal with that or any of the linked situations should just avoid it altogether. Perfect, so men who don't want to be the man described in the OP should avoid marriage right ? It's unfortunate that the message that marriage is a seriously difficult life-long commitment isn't more mainstream. Entirely too many people go into it completely naive. Just yesteday, u had women tearing me down telling me such unions do not exist, and now here u tell me the opposite. Again, don't ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:25 PM
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The sex I have with my fiancé is in its own category, I’ve been with him way longer than anyone else I’ve been involved with. Was it better or not better than the ones you had with previous one's What is meant by "own category" Again it's the internet. It's anonymous I not asking details into ur sex life, just asking if it was better or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:22 PM
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Men are equally turned on by the inexperiened virgin and the hottie sexy bargirl Infact unlike women, men would prefer the virgin girl over the "good in bed" hottie even for a ONS and def for a long term potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:15 PM
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if they were sexually compatiable i.e she sexually desired him, moving on from him would have been a lot harder and we would not have enjoyed the same chemistry .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:13 PM
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and the sex with your current partner, is it the better than what you had with either of them or do u constantly engage in "ego battles" like the women mentioned in the third link And were either of the 2 men wanting to settle down with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:12 PM
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My current boyfriend is way better than my ex in every single aspect, but I've still had a couple dreams about the ex, it happens, crazy shit goes on in your dreams. It doesn't always have to mean something. Ur current boyfriend is he taller, stronger and better in bed than your ex, If not, thanks but no thanks, it is the scenario I am looking to avoid. Sex isn't the only thing in a relationship, and you shouldn't choose a partner based solely on how good they are in bed, that's ridiculous. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:07 PM
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My first reply was concerning the desires for others that both sexes feel after marriage and not specific to your links. and like I said, men would prefer the chaste woman over the sexy woman and unlike women would be equally turned on by both
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:00 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:59 PM
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Okay, I'll rephrase : they would not marry you, and that is what made them "bad husbad material" If no, I want to know what makes a man hot enough for a fling but would make the woman not pester him for commitment. So again please let me know why they would not make "good husbands."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:58 PM
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look, the girl I dated had a lousy ex and I was better in the looks department She was never ill at ease in his presence nor did she think about him when she was with me even though he had proposed to her and was engaged before she called it off She said the spark was missing and I can guarantee you that no matter she would not have thought about him much So, it is a case of AF BB
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:56 PM
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The suprising thing is just yesterday, the women on this sub were shouting down on me telling such marraiges do not exist and now, majority of them are coming up to me telling me to be okay with such a scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:54 PM
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or simply as the red pillers say ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:52 PM
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Yeah, were they lining up to marry you, no right, they would not marry you, It would take a really special woman to get them to settle down ( think some1 who challenges them, and u just werent' good enough) And might I add what makes you say "they wouldn't make good husbands" Sexual chemistry the primary component was there so what else was missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:48 PM
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Well you are going to be very disappointed to find out that most women do fantasize about other men. They can find actors, models attractive but still getting off on your ex. Like I SAID, then maybe I'll be alone. Won't be happy but ain't no union worth my self respect. So you want a wife to be understanding of a husband who fantasizes about another woman besides his wife but you can't handle the fact that the wife might fantasize about an actor? I certainly will not think about my ex to get off…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:43 PM
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Just someone who has been awakened from the "blue pill." Am a soft version of red pill, hate being mean but realize the importance of looks and HATE BEING THE BETA BUCK But hey. you have no problem with that so, please go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:40 PM
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But if this is just about wanting to be the hottest partner your wife has ever had, it’s a futile thing to worry about. Love is more complex than just sexual chemistry. Yeah, again stop telling men to be okay with this scenario if they don;t want to associate themselves with such women. Love is more complex than just sexual chemistry. There are guys I’ve had amazing chemistry with who I have no desire to marry. You mean they just decided to sleep with you but would not commite with you and hence…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:38 PM
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. I think it's probably pretty normal to be anxious and uncertain about getting married as the date approaches so I can excuse it. No offence, but were you bullied as a kid, did your parents not be there for you, Reading stuff like this makes me cringe,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:35 PM
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If you are a sexually experienced man the woman who you chose would make the better wife may not be as talented in bed as a previous GF. You choose who will make you the best partner in the long run. Women don't need "talent" in bed. More often than not it is the men who perform and even on feminist circles and on internet the performance of a man ( sex god) or the lack of it ( ha ha, you must suck in bed) is used as a barometer used to elevate or bring him down. Sorry, but given a choice betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:30 PM
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I already told you, it is the fear of being censored by the BP mods and hence I don't want to comment on it. I am not wanting to explain it you or any1 Just asking you to point out about the guy in the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:17 PM
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I was arguing with you yesterday about whether having sisters is a huge detriment to a man's socialization and sex life. and I explained if you are the only brother to sisters, you do not receive the proper male guidance and are doubly screwed if you are the older brother with only sister/s As ur a default bodyguard and the stress of it does not allow you to develop the carefree attitude that is required when it comes to talking to women,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:09 PM
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the mods of BP removed my post yesterday, Now last year I would have been very confident of not just sending you the PM but pasting the whole thing on the main post But now, with this sub being a softer version of Blue pill, I'll pass. You'll just screen shot the damn thing and have me banned, I am not taking that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:07 PM
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u sure were negating m yesterday such women and marriages do not exist and yet when I provide proof, u don't even want to debate Again topic stuck a little too close to home, I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:03 PM
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Re-read I beg of you, re-read and then respond
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:02 PM
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The men here would be devastated you don't want to date them but I suppose we will cope, and since we are commenting on topics completely unrelated to my post, here let me give my addition. Ronaldo leads the pack for the Golden Boot award and Portugal look good for the WC, but I am rooting for Harry Kane and England Now, respond to the question asked,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:01 PM
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Hey, ur back Gin, do you keep refreshing the sub to post on links submitted by me. Anyway am in class again, so hopefully, you can contribute to the topic So, I suppose the guy who is about to "marry" the love of his life is the lucky one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:59 PM
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Ladies, one among you thinks it is not okay for a man to expect his partner to desire him sexually, any else share the same thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:56 PM
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So, if the woman you were about to marry was feeling more sexually charged with her ex and has a battle with her ego where in "her ego" ( read the 3rd link, I beg of you, it's not just about dreams) that tells her the ex with whom she had better chemistry was not a good partner "because he would not commit" and you would still go ahead and marry the woman Jesus, man get some self-respect. Any way I asked for honest responses, and here we have one Guys, one among us would be fine with this yuck s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:55 PM
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So, me wanting to be sexually desired by the woman I love makes me a person not worthy of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:51 PM
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tL Don't wanna read : Woman misses ex with whom she had "great chemistry" i.e was sexually attracted to and still desires even when she is with her Timmy beta fiance ( cuck, oops love ).... Writer tries to tell her, it is okay, and the beta cuck sorry buck is the "love" of her life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:46 PM
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Explain dead bedrooms and women who aare not aroused despite being "in love " with their husbands ( betas)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:18 PM
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Oh come on, how else do I convince her that n orgasm that is the basic right of every women is the most important thing in a sexual encounter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:17 PM
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Ur partners suck in be or maybe you are not sexually attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:09 AM
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How many people do you think are aware of this? How many of them should be made aware of this ? and would a woman who has experienced this live a healthy sex life with her future partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:57 PM
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How common is what in a marriage or a committed relationship? I'm not sure what you're asking. Orgasm ? > If those nerve endings are stimulated in the right way (which may be different depending on the person), an orgasm will occur. Even against her will,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:51 PM
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firstly thank you for the rational, logical responses. Pleasurable emotional arousal like one would experience with a partner is a different bio-chemical process. Are you sure this is not a response masking an uncomfortable truth I mean check all the male protagonists in erotic novels, brute muscular guys who over power women despite her saying no and through lust get her to agree to the act of sex And why then is this emotional arousal missing on marriages over a period of time ( 7 YEAR ITCH)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:47 PM
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tongue, dick, fingers can all be used. But PIV is the def of intercourse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:34 PM
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That is the general def right,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:32 PM
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and being forced against their will is bad excitement which gives her arousal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:31 PM
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As a man you probably place more value on "orgasm" than women ever will. Oh, u poor woman, sorry to say climax is a must for the complete enjoyment of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:30 PM
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How common is it in a marriage or a committed relationship and why do dead bed rooms occur if it is only physical reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:28 PM
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Come on orgasm is a very rare experience right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:23 PM
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For example I like when I'm aggressively fucked, but I have never orgasm'd from PIV. That doesn't make the sex unenjoyable. Oh dear, Oh dear, sorry to say but the sex is the absolute best when u climax
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:19 PM
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men can get boners very easily, women have difficulty with orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:18 PM
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no, I meant orgasm during rape
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:14 PM
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No, Again I fully acknowledge that the experience is deeply traumatic and the victim is in emotional pain But it is shocking that the elusive desire ( attaining an orgasm ) is attained through a degrading act.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:14 PM
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Of those who report their rapes, around 4–5% also describe experiencing orgasm. But the true numbers are likely much higher. In a 2004 review paper, a clinician reports, "I (have) met quite a lot of victims (males) who had the full sexual response during sexual abuse…I (have) met several female victims of incest and rape who had lubrication and orgasm." Okay but further down : "I've assisted more young women than I can count with this very issue…There have been very few studies on orgasm during …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:10 PM
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Yep, excellent analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:09 PM
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Where have I said the experience is not traumatic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:08 PM
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you think the feeling of shame is not a reason why more women will not accept this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:08 PM
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read the article further and you will see why I quoted it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:07 PM
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a profesional therapist dealing and working with rape survivors would know better than your avg joe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:03 PM
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it is the one of the major reasons to fall in love, what else is chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:00 PM
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False, this will happen for most women, most of the time there is penetration. Women don't always experience these changes before the touching/PIV though. Oh dear, no PIV is not enough for orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:59 PM
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https://www.popsci.com/science/article/2013-05/science-arousal-during-rape Of those who report their rapes, around 4–5% also describe experiencing orgasm. But the true numbers are likely much higher. In a 2004 review paper, a clinician reports, "I (have) met quite a lot of victims (males) who had the full sexual response during sexual abuse…I (have) met several female victims of incest and rape who had lubrication and orgasm." "I've assisted more young women than I can count with this very issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:58 PM
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If those women can't orgasm from PIV, what makes you think they will orgasm from PIV rape? These are two different populations of women. But they are right between 10-50% of the women experience it : https://www.popsci.com/science/article/2013-05/science-arousal-during-rape Blood rushing to the vaginal area, swelling of the clitoris, lubrication and opening of the vaginal canal. Have you really never had sex before? Which does not happen for many women in committed relationships However, fear on…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:55 PM
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Orgasm = physical enjoyment, Men also can experience erection and orgasm during rape. The very same man will have no trouble getting aroused with a new partner But for the woman it is not the same, again re-read the links I provided
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:53 PM
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He started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:51 PM
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discussion,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:51 PM
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https://www.popsci.com/science/article/2013-05/science-arousal-during-rape Between 10-50%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:50 PM
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increased blood flow from fear has something do with it. So u mean fear and domination is a reason for sexual arousal. even though there is no sexual enjoyment. Get real : Orgasm is physical sexual enjoyment, right. It may be some sort of internal process of stress not yet understood. Sort of like pica. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:49 PM
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Yes, your mom,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:47 PM
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again as mentioned : I still call it rape and state the experience is traumatic But really though how the does her body deliver the best physical experience in her most traumatic times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:46 PM
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Ladies, please give a counter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:44 PM
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of course
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:43 PM
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Here's the study : https://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/sex-study-female-orgasm-eludes-majority-women/story?id=8485289
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:43 PM
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Okay here is the direct quote : About 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone - And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances. The Internet is rife with non-orgasmic women who say they are missing out, and statistics suggest that they are a significant group. I suspect that for a large proportion of women, orgasm from intercourse alone is just never going to happen and knowing that might give women some solace."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:43 PM
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nope, here check this out : https://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/sex-study-female-orgasm-eludes-majority-women/story?id=8485289 act of "sex now" causes certain physiological changes beyond the conscious control of the individual. What physiological changes, what are the factors that cause this changes. Fear or domination ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:40 PM
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already covered the topic online and don't worry, I top my class with full 4.0 GPA
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:39 PM
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nope, here check this out : https://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/sex-study-female-orgasm-eludes-majority-women/story?id=8485289
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:38 PM
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How may times do I have to repeat the same point : We already know that mere touching and PIV does not lead to arousal nor does it lead to orgasm So, what are the factors that lead to the occurrence of it. What is the stimuli that the body takes in to release it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:37 PM
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okay so in a forceful encounter, what are the factors that trigger the mental aspects required for an orgasm that many years of marriage do not give
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:36 PM
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We already know that mere touching and PIV does not lead to arousal nor does it lead to orgasm So, what are the factors that lead to the occurrence of it. What is the stimuli that the body takes in to release it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:35 PM
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nothing wrong on discussing the topic, I post cause I'd rather be on reddit than listen to the lecturer at my uni ( am in a class right now)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:31 PM
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Respond to the main post please
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:30 PM
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The brain often does not know the difference between good and bad excitement on a chemical level and processes endorphins the same or similarly enough. Look, I covered this right in main post, We already know that mere touching and PIV does not lead to arousal nor does it lead to orgasm So, what are the factors that lead to the occurrence of it. What is the stimuli that the body takes in to release it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:29 PM
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No, it is not going to be "hilarious," cause people here will be sensitive to the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:23 PM
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like I said, this is not a joke post, the first comment is not in good taste, please be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:21 PM
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I bulked myself up to 11% body fat and keep the relationships on my terms, trust me I know what I am talking about,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:16 PM
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> so your whole life you didn't figure that out until some internet group told you? I find that kind of lack of social awareness shocking Yeah, I made the mistake of trusting my sister, the constant barrage of media driven non-sense ( feelings are more important, sensitive guys get women *barf*) Again this is what RP says, do not trust your sister, mother or women friends when it comes to dating advice. >> what's magical about turning 30 that women suddenly become yuck? Speaking for myself I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:55 PM
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even in schools, the most obvious way to hurt a rival would be to sleep with his girl or with his sister. Why, cause it's humiliating to the guy, so just stop it, again a guy is affected if his sister is the topic of cheap talk among his peers. I can assure you, he will want to drop out of that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:42 PM
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Oh well, what can I say, it's just bad luck for the guy to be the older sibling with younger sisters and he has to deal with the short comings
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:07 PM
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Western men's lives aren't ruined because their sisters took a dick or two in highschool. They might endure a few jokes, but normal healthy people are not ruined for life over this shit. No, again trust me when I say this, men will never come out and say openly but will keep quite to hide the shame. But it will cause a major dent in their social upbringing which will carry onto their adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:05 PM
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It's 100% normal for young people, men and women, to have sex in the west. You should probably get used to it. Nope, no matter how you put it, brothers will be at unease not just with their sisters dating but if it is the only brother and he had a younger sister who was the talk of gossip among the peer group, he is at a MAJOR DISADVANTAGE as his own social development is hampered
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 04:58 PM
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men who are neither fun nor desirable and either unable or unwilling to become so should shut up and be grateful that maybe someone will want eventually them for stability and/or wealth instead. Even if you don't go for that deal and elect to forgo committed LTRs forever and go for MGTOW instead, at least if someone wanted you for something it was a path taken from a place of actually getting to take a decision on what path to take, and that's always nice and a good deal more emotionally comfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 04:39 PM
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yeah, I know, the onus is on me and to all the blokes stuck in the situation However it would be hell of a lot easier for women to ease the burden on our shoulders by making our life's easier
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 04:38 PM
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Why is it so shocking to you that there are guys who would be horrified to know that there are jerks who see their sister as cheap toys U would be okay and hi-fi ur sister, please don;t expect others to do so too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:58 PM
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cause her choices affect me too Yes, it would deeply effect me to know my sis selected some1 who saw her as a cheap play toy Thankfully, have been spared of this shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:54 PM
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Your sister's her own woman. Let her live her life. You live yours. Help her pick up the pieces if she has a broken heart if you feel the need to do something She can chose any job of her choice, any religion of her life, heck any partner she wants But oh god, be a sex positive feminist and expect me to be okay, I'd die of humiliation if it ever came out in my social circle,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:50 PM
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yeah trust me, no brother likes their sister being talked about in such a manner Even the woman would their brother to defend them I always observed this where in the guy who got bullied because of the video of his sis never had any romantic interest towards him despite him being very good looking Realized it because women like men who could protect them and the guy failed in this department
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:49 PM
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I'll do it later, only am not sure u'll pass it along to your fellow blue piller
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:36 PM
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no, I meant relationship where the guy respects her and sees her as a partner potential Again, it is stressful to know your sis could be strung along by a guy who is just faking the entire thing This is not something that guys with no sis have to worry about Double the stress if you are the older brother ( because u r expected to protect her)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:29 PM
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no problem in having a relationship with some1, but the idea the douche bags saw her as their play toy and she allowed them to is nauseating yuck yuck Puke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:24 PM
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I'll pass, I'll PM the other user and hopefully she won't pass it to you U remind me of so many of my female friends ( yes it is okay to call them female) The wrong choices in men upset them but still put on Lang Leav quotes ( google them, u'll like them I guarantee you) to show brave strong they are and how they need no man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:14 PM
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and I emphasized a scenario where it is the most difficult for a man to be sexually successful and the only option he has is to be a beta buck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:13 PM
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No I myself deduced that it was muscles that attract women and since hit the gym and became jacked But that process sped up thanks to red pill and no more trusting my Own sis when it came to dating matters For her, me settling down with a women ( after she reached 30) would have made me a winner *Yuck*
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:11 PM
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what question ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:06 PM
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Eh, I don't want a "white girlfriend" nor do I want casual sex I just want to avoid beta bucks, also I may be conservative but I am certainly not ISIS Did I not mention I was okay with sis going out non-muslim men I only express relief that non of her choices were people who would cause be embarrassment Double the humiliation if it was a younger sis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:06 PM
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yeah great western values, If it means being okay with douche bags seeing her as play toy, thank god I never had any of the western values
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:56 PM
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If the worst trauma a man ever experiences is his sister being slutty, he's an incredibly lucky person and should be thankful for his easy lot in life. Yes, believe it or not the scars from childhood bullying always extend well into your adult life and in a scenario like this where u become an object of mockery among your peers thanks to some1 else and women see you just as an obejct of pity and can never see you as a sexual being It would break you down I see plenty of guys like this and this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:55 PM
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come on why be upset about stating the obvious that men with younger sisters esp only brothers are severely dis-advantaged on dating department
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:47 PM
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I waited for 12 hours and had a pretty decent discussion here, nothing woe is me cause I am in excellent shape and how is this "racially charged" This is exactly why I say the BP mods have made this into a softer version of Blue pill sub-reddit No way would this topic be banned last year Infact leave alone this one, even the post where I mentioned my race was not "racially charged" And how is this post about me, I am doing great thank you This sub should allow topics that women do not like and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:46 PM
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what are you talking about. Seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:44 PM
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How do you develop socially when in ur growing up years ur crippled of male bonding Stress and humiliating trauma of knowing women see just as an object of pity. You would need tremendous time and strength to recover from that Lord have mercy on you if it is you younger sis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:44 PM
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yeah, no man is going to be okay knowing his little sis was school bike It would humiliate him and leave a scar permanently on his Psyche And was it about a video being circulated of his sis, cause believe it or not more than one woman has had her video circulated Trust me, this is the first time I have been on reddit and there is no other conspiracy theory over here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:43 PM
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No, hell no, because that is one massive lie; I have many of my female ( please don't crucify me ) who claim to be strong feminists but will still chase the frat boy douche type and express bewilderment over their choices I want to tell them, that strength and status are the primary desirableness straits that attract them to such men but dare not say it for being called "nice guy" Also majority of them are in depression and are in "therapy" but cannot seem to understand that it is their poor cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:40 PM
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And I'm fairly certain you're the guy who posted about essentially this same situation awhile back. Find some new material, dude. This is my first month here dummy. I never even had a damn account. So what situation would I have posted about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:36 PM
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It doesn't seem like you are happier for it though. Happy people don't carry this sort of resentment. Not happy, yes a bit upset at having being lied to, yes But compare to the alternate scenario where I am in unknown lies of Martial bliss, I'll take this lonely life anyday everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:35 PM
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anglo/scandinavian men do not anxiously protect their sisters virtue. no matter how progressive a country is trust me like I said, men would hate it if their little sisters were a topic of raunchy discussion among their peers and would avoid having friends like that ( lack of male bonding ) Also even WESTERN women despite being independent prefer men who are physically strong and can protect them ( and I include feminists in them as well.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:34 PM
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No, I never met any of them. But seen their pics, the army bloke was fit ( marine dude ) but apparently it was not that but his humble down to earth attitude that was a major factor ( now I realize it was secondary point, his muscles being the first) and the other guy was a tall guy guitarist ( like 6 ft 4) thank god for RP and emphasis on physical strength
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:31 PM
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Asian Muslim in USA, and no matter how progressive you are no older brother is going to be comfortable knowing his little sister is seen easy among his peers and is a topic of discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:29 PM
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Just being fat and picked on for it is as detrimental as anything you've talked about in this thread. Nope, u can still recover in a scenario like this by hitting the gym But for the guy, no way was any girl going to date him. They would pity him, feel sorry for him, support him but his dating life was done in school And he would have to on a constant alert as to not to receive any taunt regarding his sister That stress and humiliation would be a burden
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:28 PM
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because I mentioned it as a worst case scenario the stress that comes with it be it going out with her, or selecting ur friends so that so they do not hit on her, to making sure that no rumors of hers affect u socially , That is why I Caps locked it,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:26 PM
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I'll pass, I have enough sense to know that this sub has changed drastically since the last time I was here and heavily more inclined to the blue pill mindset Just the topics that are there would not have been there in the past year Man, wish I had an account last year, the debates then would have been fun,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:24 PM
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thankfully because of a strict home, she did not date much in her teens, in her twenties a decent army bloke ( who got killed in the line of duty, kuffar guy unknown to my parents) She is single yes, but thankfully has never been taken advantage of by frat guy type or playboys It would have been sheer torture to know ur sis had been one of the college party girls and 10 times more torture to know if it was your younger sis and ur friends were aware of this Would have to drop out of my friend cir…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:23 PM
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I myself am jacked bro, 11% body fat But like I said, it was only after ditching the BS blue pill advice my sis gave me. and having no pressure of a younger sis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:18 PM
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No one is free from this sort of thing, regardless of family set up. I don't know a single person who was not negatively impacted in one way or another by something a family member did. Yeah but in his case, the sister dragged down his life and ability around girls at the development stage Cannot think of any scenario where the guy would be this beaten down
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:16 PM
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ssibly have any personal involvement in the topic, and how your post would hit close to home. please explain how this relates to her I would, but the bp mods would ban me for personal attacks ( even though it would be a pretty accurate analysis of her on this topic)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:15 PM
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Your parents are family orientated I guess- I mean a lot are, they value setting up a good life and you getting a wife and having a child etc etc. They do this by pushing getting good grades. Why would they teach you to, in their eyes, fail? Yeah and if I did not stumble upon RP ( QUITE A FEW DIS-AGREEMENTS ) I would have been an idiot grateful to be a beta buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:10 PM
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thinks birth order is the only thing stopping him from being Chad has resonated with me so deeply that I had no choice but to lash out. I may never recover from this emotional ruin. I gave u many scenarios and specifically mentioned male guidance, but u chose to reflect only in the last worst scenario I mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:08 PM
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Asian muslim
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:08 PM
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she's literally backed every comment negating my post. This would not be the case if there was a personal involvement in the topic, it must have hit her a little too close to home
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:07 PM
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I have an older sister, I thank my luck stars I have no younger sis, the pressure to look out for her would be too much., I value my relaxed environment and thank my lucky stars
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:06 PM
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he extent of our involvement in each others dating life was a mutual "please dont fuck my friends" and even that went out the window multiple times I guess this is a cultural difference It would be dreadfully embarrassing for me to know one of my "friends" fucked around with my young sis ( yuck) hence a guy in such a scenario has to pick his friends carefully ( again a stress not given to some1 with no sisters ) and what are these situations where you're constantly hanging out with your younger …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:05 PM
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there a few guys who would be deeply hurt if they let any guy take advantage of their sis. U seem an exception
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:01 PM
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And if the frat boy had only a younger sister? Is he still hopeless? No, look again, he would have had proper male guidance to help him ( otherwise he would not have been selected in it) I just don't understand your insistence that it's all about having a sister, particularly a younger one. and I am telling you, the fact that you have to worry about her constantly is a stress which other guys are not afforded you have to hope she is smart too or any wrong choice she makes is reflected poorly on …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:00 PM
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we come up with white man privileged and say black men are at a dis-advantage cause of racial hierarchy so why not have a hierarchy for social success too Boys with proper male guidance ( more often than not older brothers hit the jackpot) Boys with only sisters ( major dis-advantage ) and only boy ( with younger sister ) majorly dis-advantaged
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:57 PM
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Look, I already stated that a proper male guidance is a must to succeed in not just social endeavors but also Professional endeavors. With a little brother, not so much stress. With a elder brother, jackpot if he can be the one to guide me With a elder sis that I had, depends if she gives me BS feminist advice of muscles not being important The last scenario, only brother with younger sisters and you are in the worst scenario possible Not just looking after her but also losing that carefree comf…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:55 PM
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you are practically supporting every comment that negates the Original post. Topic struck a little close to home, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:52 PM
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Nope, it is not. Like I said, there is a reason frat bros do well or guys with only brothers also do well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:49 PM
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eh, what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:47 PM
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U DON’T EVEN HAVE YOUNGER SISTERS? Your sure do seem to know a lot about what it’s like to be a guy with younger sisters, considering that YOU DON’T HAVE ANY. as an older brother with sisters, I always have to alert WHEN I AM OUT with them I always am tense as to who they talk to I can only imagine how it must be for older brothers and this is right from childhood No way can a guy survive this Also coincidently u did not even address the counter I gave to ur non-sensical part of the BS dating ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:40 PM
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There are so many other factors that can make a boy's life stressful. yep, agree but at any age with right guidance they can be overcome For instance if he is weak, gym can help him, if he stutters, a proper voice caching can help him But place him with the responsibility of a younger sister and put him as the only brother then the stress is a burden that the childhood cannot sustain and there is no escaping this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:38 PM
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my bad, poorly worded But yes, for only guys with younger sisters and no brothers, life is pretty stressful and stress is there throughout ur childhood something guys with brothers are not afforded .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:27 PM
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All men with younger sisters are addicts Again never said so. But if ur the only guy with sisters then u begin on a backfoot with little chance to succeed and if ur the older brother, further reduce ur chances very much indeed And yes, in this case, turning to alcohol is an option many see
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:20 PM
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jesus, he actually re-confirms the afbb theory and still cannot see the point I am making in connection to the Linked thread
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:11 PM
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My husband has four sisters (including a younger one) and he did not have these issues. Nor did any other guy I know with sisters. he had older ones too, it reduces the stress But like I said, not a specific probelm but when ur worried that some1 might hurt ur sis ( not in molest way but rather break her heart), ur double anxious a stress which is not afforded to men with brothers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:04 PM
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Never in all my life have I ever encountered any man who believed that it was his sister's responsibility to advise him on how to be masculine and succeed with girls Yeah, well I am sorry I trusted my sister on dating advice, I mean how could I even assume that my own flesh and blood would help me in my social endeavors his sister's responsibility to advise him on how to be masculine and succeed with girls. again u have added the masculine part, I wanted to know what girls liked and got BS advic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:00 PM
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yes trust me from a guy's prespective. But think expecting a 16 year old to lookout for his 13 year old sister or a 22 year old to look out for his 15-16 year old sister,, God damn, it would be nerve wrecking and will pretty much destroy ur social life. It gives u stress that u can never say to any1 and addiction is the only coping mechanism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:57 PM
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The obvious solution would be to go out without your sister. What am I missing? Like I said, the relaxed attitude that comes when u have brothers or older brother just does not develop with a sister and also check out what I wrote about selection of friends or eve nchange their attitude with brothers u can just cut off the creeps but with a sister u have to be extra cautious in who u bring home Again with such stress looming on ur head, even when ur alone and manage to find decent friends, u jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:55 PM
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So you're taking about a very specific situation and applying it to everyone. Only brother with a sisters, screwed if it is like this, double screwed if ur the older one I can understand how that specific situation would be stressful. The emphasis on brothers looking after sisters isn't nearly as pronounced in my culture, though. No matter in any culture, it is stressful, u have a sibling, u are given the task to protect them Also, if it is a girl child, then boy oh boy make sure, u select frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:43 PM
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re-read what I wrote, please just re-read again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:38 PM
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My two older (American) brothers really couldn't have given less of a shit about me. I am talking a scenario where in there is only one brother and he is tasked with taking care of his younger sister ( even if the parents are present, he is expected to protect and lookout for her) This is highly stressful and is more likely to result in the boy looking to cope or escape the stress through addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:30 PM
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I could use the computer while she was distracted on the floor. Yes it is stressful to take care of a child or teen but you can just say f*ck it. She seens to be an adult, let her learn by error. that's it isn't it, u were saddled with the responsibility of taking care of her that was lumped onto you And trust me as an Older brother the fact she could be taken advantage of is what makes them worry about the sistes For me even as a younger brother, I feel stress about who my sis meets and talks t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:03 PM
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I had a younger sister but she was a kid when I was a teen, never trusted her advices. I have no idea on how protecting her would affect my social interactions, I kind of liked having to take care of the little devil. U are not the only brother, trust me if ur the only brother and that too the older one then u can be assured that the relaxed attitude that is required to approach a woman and be comfortable around is greatly reduced as every time you go out with her, ur required to be bodyguard wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:50 AM
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Leaders and men are made, not born. It's a process. Yeah, that is exactly what I said, it is a process where in u have genetics plus good advice plus strong male figure ( only brother to sisters, u r screwed and double screwed if u r the older brother )
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:38 AM
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did u know what were the requirements to be a socially successful person, How important is physical strength for guys in their day to day interaction If yes, then U MADE THAT CHOICE, For me it was parents who thought math and science were more imp than physical fitness and a result tremendous lack of social interaction thanks to a weak body And a sister who gave crappy blue pilled advice which required tremendous de-toxification I also don't guy the red pill non-sense that u have to be mean but …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:31 AM
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So, are we supposed to blame your sister for you not getting it? Err, if a person gives u shitty advice on career and u make a judgement following it, wouldn't u be a bit upset at them I still talk to her and care for her but come on the blue pilled crap was the worst advice any1 could give men .I'm an only child. No one explained shit to me. Still my problem to solve. It's a waste to blame anyone, as it's just an excuse to keep pouting for the next ten years or so without actually DOING somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:11 AM
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no, none of us can tell others on how to live their lives Just do not tell men how "lucky" they are to be beta bucks husband
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:37 PM
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yeah and when they do high SMV men i.e men who can have the ability to choose women will always pick the younger low partner count women It's the suckers who end up married to such women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:30 PM
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> if chicks didn't give you the time of day when you were younger it's not because they're harpies trying to get their talons in your paycheck it's because you weren't doing anything to deserve it. and then at the ripe old age of 30, she finally sees the error of the ways and the bloke whom she did not find attractive at 20 is now the love of her life cause "he dresses better" > you weren't attractive back in the day, you were awkward, you didn't go to parties because you were studying. Yeah cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:28 PM
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yeah and those first few LTR relationships would involve high SMV blokes who are not "marriage material" and then a guy whom u would not have found attractive in ur younger days would be ur goto guy for settling down Anyway, sorry but it is true, there is a reason why younger woman are more desirable and it's just not about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:23 PM
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yeah, u asked what is wrong if afbb and I told u why it was bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:20 PM
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cause it is a disgusting thing to do, I mean if u r honest about it, good for u and the hubby, but if ur not honest about it and intentionally lead ur future spouse by making him think u desire him sexually and had a colorful hidden past, well that's bad on ur part Sorry lady but do u really think men do not like being seen as sexually desirable by women Why is it such a bad thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:16 PM
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Jesus, not me and judging by the rapid rate in decline of marriages in west, certainly not most men If he is okay being some1 who was not the most sexually desirable guy u've ever been with, oh well more power to you Also, not many men ( majority ) of them have the success ur partner has had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:07 PM
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AGAIN twisting my point 2 options : 1.) Sexually desirable ( do not ignore these words) guy just for one weekend away where u desire him highly in sex but not for relationship 2.) Stable guy where he is happy to be the guy u marry and "grow old together" after u have had awesome sexual experience with a bloke u found desirable but "chose" not to marry , but this guy is not high on sexual desirability list but is a "great companion" well then in that case , it's option 1 all the way Just be hones…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:03 PM
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here is one link with 562 comments that actually gave me the idea to post this topic https://new.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/5k25yv/cmv_the_socalled_alphas_women_may_date_in_their/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 09:50 PM
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I married one of the "brief fling" dudes of my youth. I didn't settle down with some boring beta bux that doesn't turn me on. He doesn't seem to be complaining. Then this post is not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 09:10 PM
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No, no, no Meaning he would prefer if a woman saw him just as a sexual god or a bad boy with whom she would spend a weekend or a holiday but would not commit to him He would not want to be the guy, she chooses to settle down with when she is older and did not find exciting when she was young and looking for excitement
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:56 PM
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> Sex with the boyfriend is great so it's not like he's missing out. No, is he the best you've ever had Why do you discount that men want to be sexually desired by their partners and be the best their woman ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:52 PM
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yeah no, guys would rather be the ones who you've go on a sexually charged weekend than be the ones you settle down and have "lifelong sex" or as it would lead to "dead bedroom"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:47 PM
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Would you have dated him when you were young, how old were you when you met him, > I broke up with the ones who were not right for me so clearly he's the fun phase of my life. Define not right for you, if you mean the sex was great but they would not commit to you, it means majority of the men would actively live alone rather than be in a scenario like ur husband Also tell him if you've ever dated bad boys just for fun and then watch his reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:46 PM
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here is one link with 562 comments that actually gave me the idea to post this topic https://new.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/5k25yv/cmv_the_socalled_alphas_women_may_date_in_their/ Again, just check out how the women do the mental gymnastics on this topic and the men call them out on their BS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:43 PM
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here is one link with 562 comments that actually gave me the idea to post this topic https://new.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/5k25yv/cmv_the_socalled_alphas_women_may_date_in_their/ Check out the mental gymnastics the OP in that post does and boy do the men call her out on the BS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:40 PM
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> And it’s besides the fact, because like many women on this sub, I met my partner when I was young and never had a slutty phase to begin with. then this one does not apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:40 PM
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You offered something good enough for him to give up on meeting new women, accept the loss on the sexual fulfillment and commit to you. He would not have much success with women to begin with and was willing to settle down with a woman who hadn't gone through the slutty "u go girl phase."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:36 PM
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Push back or do whatever you want to Just please do not tell men that they have to change their desires and consider women who "had their fun" as prizes and should be grateful that such women chose them to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:35 PM
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As they grow older women start to believe having children is the reason to exist, and whatever leads to children becomes more desirable and strikes as more interesting. At this point it seems a bit alien that someone WANTS something different, that doesn't lead to a fitting environment for babies. It's either immature, if they associate it with their youthful behavior, or completely non sense if they don't. And men claim that such men who marry a woman with such a preference ends with a raw end …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:32 PM
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here is one link with 562 comments that actually gave me the idea to post this topic https://new.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/5k25yv/cmv_the_socalled_alphas_women_may_date_in_their/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:31 PM
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> No, men as a whole do not owe me anything. I’m only concerned about the individual man in my life who proposed to me. And he is definitely pro-marriage. and here is my point, that man, would you consider him when you were young, have you had flings with men who u thought were just for flings or fun or is he the "lucky one" because he gets to grow "old with you" If yes, tell him this fact and watch as the marriage chances tumble,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:26 PM
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Guy would rather be sexually desirable to women rather than be the "settle down" or "lifelong relationship" material. Love is nothing but sexual desire along with security. If you think men would forgo the aspect of "being sexually desirable to their partner" then you have met with a blue pilled who actually would believe your lie that "he is the best ever you've been with"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:23 PM
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U can derive what ever opinion you want to derive but like I said overwhelming men would rather take the option of being sexually desirable to young women rather than marriage material or "settle down" guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:20 PM
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>didnt stop me from getting mine Not once have I mentioned anywhere that women should alter or change their preferences It's just that men would find it revolting to be considered as marriage material to a woman over 30. U live your life, let them have their own choices on what they want rather than tell them how "lucky" they are to end up as husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:17 PM
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>Yes, and the men on here need to realize that much of the women on here are not to concerned with their preferences because: they do not want to date any of them they are not even talking about them because of this Hate to break it to you, but it is overwhelming majority of men who feel this way U really think the avg John would be okay knowing that the women he dreams about marrying sees him as a stable option and still has hots ( would not cheat okay but still has hots ) for the bartender or …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:15 PM
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Just because I point out a over rutted feminist lie that such men exist does not mean you be angry with me. Yeah, well men don't owe it to you to suit their desires and base it on what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:15 PM
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Just a simple quick search on "alpha fucks beta bucks" lead me to this particular link : https://new.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/5k25yv/cmv_the_socalled_alphas_women_may_date_in_their/ Look at the way, it is being pointed out that the men who complain about it are being paranoid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:13 PM
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No. I don’t know what you mean by emotional fallback The kind of guy whom u would have never considered when you were young and would suddenly desire when you want to settle down and unlike the other "bad boys" can take home to meet your parents. > what exactly are women accusing men of being paranoid of? Any man who says he would hate to be the type of guy I described above is called weak, paranoid, insecure. > In fact, you see over and over women in this sub telling men not to get married if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:13 PM
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>You’re telling me he would have rather gotten rid of me and not be with me now. You’re telling me he’s lying to me when he tells me how happy he is we are married. Look, u r on the internet and hence here people will post uncomfortable truth no matter how much you do not like it. I'll say, yes Had you had "fun" in your youth and met him when you were over 30, I'd say chances of you two ending together would be very low Your youth and the fact you choose him when you were young made it easy for …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:09 PM
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> > A lot of the men on here from the way they make themselves sound are absolutely useless and the antithesis of anything women want in addition to that they are also the antithesis of anything that I care about. Woe is them. Jesus so much anger simply because I wrote about men having preferences, they become : "absolutely useless and the antithesis of anything women want" Seriously calm down and come up with a rational response
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 07:46 PM
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the point I made is clear, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 07:46 PM
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