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I would say I meet the 3 Es. College graduate, almost financially independent, and have lots of close friends and family. I look at marriage as an archaic institution of the past and not really useful unless maybe you're having kids. When you look at marriage logically it just seems insane to me that you're declaring in front of everyone that you're choosing this person for the rest of your life, if this was any other decision people would say you're foolish and crazy My girlfriend knows I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:36 PM
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But isn’t ironic then you’re basically doing the same thing to brown girls that white girls are doing to you?
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:15 PM
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Ok so you predominantly want to date white girls only and not brown girls?
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:08 PM
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Interesting. Are you specifically talking about older men going after women in their early twenties? I assume not an issue if a man in his mid 40s dating women in their early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:18 AM
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Ok I agree that if women are being trafficked or forced by someone else to go into prostitution I could see it being rape however what about women where this isn’t the case. They just prefer this job as opposed to other shitty jobs is that rape? And you say it’s rape because women only have sex for money, is that right? If that is the case, if women go into relationships w men or marry them just for money are these women being raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:58 PM
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Hmm… why is this in your mind rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:43 AM
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Ok so women so if a women would rather make more money being an escort as opposed to working at fast food, this is coercion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:39 AM
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How about you go over to r/deadbedrooms and see how necessary sex is to men. Many stories of men that love their wife dearly and the life they built but still considering divorce because their sexual needs aren’t being met.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:29 AM
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Hmm… you’re 21? I assume then you’re still in college or just graduated and still surrounded by college friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:48 AM
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I agree Musk is trash but none the less him and bezos both can do live whichever way they please and can impose their will on most if not all people. If that’s not high socio class then I need for you give me an example because I obviously don’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:50 PM
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So basically your definition is old money? Because all these people are high economic class, very high status and high political and economic power
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:33 AM
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Can you recommend which dating sites in particular to try out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:47 PM
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Yea I get your point that you understand necessity of escalating slowly but not necessarily liking this approach. However, the thing I find most interesting is you basically saying don’t always listen to women it comes to what works building attraction with them. Guys have been saying this for years but interesting that there are women that agree to this as well lol
/r/seduction16/04/23 01:24 PM
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Well it seems 2 other women responding to you seem to disagree and like the idea of pretense. That’s why women are tough there is no right answer for all women. You might consider it strange and weak others might find it cute and exciting
/r/seduction16/04/23 12:56 PM
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Won’t this leave out the below average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:37 PM
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But is this the right analogy? Your home, I think we all agree, you have a certain amount of expectation to privacy and not being disturbed, if you were out in public would you say you have the same expectations? Like would you treat me asking you a question in public the same way as me knocking on your door to ask a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:07 PM
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I think you're missing my point. My point is about applying the actions of individuals to whole populations. For sake of argument let's move this back to gender. If I had a deeply held negative view of women, due to my experience with 1 woman, and applied that to all women isn't that basically being prejudiced against women? For example, if I had a bad relationship and my partner stole and cheated on me and now I apply that to all women, isn't this the definition misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:40 PM
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Hmm… I don’t know about this. There are so many posts of women being mad at guys for having ulterior motives during their friendship. Basically they pretended they wanted to be friends but in the end they really wanted to be in a romantic relationship. Isn’t this basically what you’re suggesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:06 PM
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Thanks man. I did just that and went for a walk today. Felt good to be out. One question though, what’s your policy on approaching girls with headphones?
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:20 PM
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Thanks man this is much appreciated. I used to have those sessions of day game but the grind just got to me. But maybe this is just what I need to get back at it
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:44 AM
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Great post! Just curious how many hours would you dedicate to doing this on that one day? Did you ever go through a hang up thinking women don’t want you to approach and you’re bothering them? I think last one is my biggest hang up. I’ve done probably over 60+ approaches but took a break and now can’t seem to shake this thought
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:59 PM
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What would you consider women minding their own business or environment that doesn’t make sense?
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:44 PM
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Damn that sounds like quite the journey you went on. Surprised you were able to get a girl only doing 2-3 approaches a night? Or was it per venue? I wanna get good at going out solo but lots of things I read make it sound like you have open everyone constantly which sounds exhausting Also thanks for the tips. I’ll try to implement them when I go out. Is constantly changing venues so you don’t get too much in your own head?
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:39 AM
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How long did it take and how many approaches were you doing each time out?
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:19 AM
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Curious what did you do to make habit of approaching girls stick? Feel like I get in a grove where I can approach 5 in a day but then I go into a lull and get rusty which makes AA come back in full force 😭
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:25 AM
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Yea I might try night game but not sure I’m gonna give up day game so fast. I agree with that it’s a grind but the girls I’ve been able to date or hookup through it are WAY better than the girls I’ve been able to get with through apps
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:48 PM
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Yes there are many women that say don’t approach me in public also for that matter there are many women that say don’t approach me in bars or clubs either. Having said that there are many, if not more, women that are ok being approached in either scenario depending on circumstance. I get it if daygaming isn’t for you but would you be calling out a guy that approached 500 girls in clubs or bars?
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:45 PM
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Jesus… why such harsh judgment. I think what OP did was courageous and admirable to see if daygaming really fits the hype and here are his results. How judgmental you’re being seems odd especially in a subreddit about taking risks and approaching girls. @OP I guess from these findings what would you say you’ve learned? Best way forward is nightgame?
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:03 PM
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Yea but anything specific? Like you can be yourself but if the natural version of yourself is home alone all day that probably isn’t gonna be very effective
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:50 PM
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Curious. What have you tried and what didn’t work?
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:39 PM
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When you say single day lays I assume one night stands. 20 dates out of 1000 is rough but seriously applaud your determination and guts. I think I only managed like 90 approaches in life lol Where would you say conversion was toughest? Getting them to text back?
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:05 PM
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What were the results like doing 1000 approaches? Like how many did you date, go on to be your GF etc?
/r/seduction17/04/22 12:44 AM
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Good job man! On a similar journey myself. Looking to head out today after work. May luck favor us both! 🙌
/r/seduction08/04/22 08:39 PM
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Crazy… I was just considering getting a dating coach myself. But damn 8 grand? Not sure I’d be down for that Though would be nice to have someone keep me accountable and help get through sticking points
/r/seduction06/04/22 04:04 AM
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This is me. I’ve made it and no idea what to do now…
/r/seduction09/12/21 10:55 PM
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Can I ask you a question, is there a way to express your interest in a stranger that isn't harassment? In your mind is it the act itself or is it the way a person goes about it? Sure there are many avenues to meet and date people these days be in friends and/or meetups and etc and you mention being tactful, upfront and respectful, however my question to you is how is a guy supposed to practice these skills? Sure you can try and practice in those group settings but that has a lot of social risk i…
/r/seduction30/10/21 05:54 PM
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Hey man, Korean guy here and totally get where you’re coming from. Dating as an Asian man is pretty rough. And before everyone says how not worst than other races of men, this topic has been studied extensively. Multiple studies have shown that asian men and black women were consistently rated least attractive on dating apps. I’ve also found my dating life to be very hard and I consider myself a great catch. I’m educated with high salary/net worth, well spoken/funny, and in great shape (bench 24…
/r/seduction04/09/21 05:45 AM
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Not sure about giving off ‘fuck off’ vibes but I’ve approached multiple women that didn’t give me any signals to approach or any vibes that they were open to it which turned out very well. Meaning dated for short time or longer. Yes, I agree there is some of this where it could be possible the women you’re approaching are terrified of you and can’t wait for you to get away however applying that to all women is a limiting belief (It’s also a limiting belief on her side if she thinks that of all m…
/r/seduction01/06/21 10:28 PM
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Isn’t really the issue not about Chip making eye contact or waiting for some kind of signal to approach but more so, him not listening to her when she says she’s not interested and would like to be by herself? Also another note, Will Smith’s character also did not wait for eye contact or any kind of signal to approach
/r/seduction02/03/21 04:01 AM
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For me when I was doing more cold approaching a couple years back, I think I did like 50 or so approaches from those around 10 or so numbers. I went on 4 or 5 dates. Made out with a few girls, banged 2 or them and one became long distance gf for like a year. Biggest thing for me is that I find by cold approaching I get much hotter caliber of women than I do through dating apps. Not even close. Most women I get matched on the apps I would say are just plain Also not sure about anyone else but I c…
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:47 PM
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Interested to see how indirect openers work out for you. I’ve always been more a direct guy
/r/seduction21/06/20 01:31 PM
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Well I guess from those 2 or 3 times per week you get the signal, how often do you approach or try to get a date of it? If you’re anything like me, you have 2 or 3 interactions but don’t really push it further than polite conversation. That used to happen to me because these interactions were so infrequent and so when they did happen I personally felt an immense amount of anxiety not to fuck it up. Or other factors maybe I was in social group that I didn’t want to look foolish. With cold approac…
/r/seduction13/06/20 03:39 PM
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Question how many signals do you get? Or even when you get the signals do you follow through? The way that I see it, if women are throwing off signals to you left and right then yea you probably don’t need to really practice cold approaching because you have abundance of opportunities. However if those opportunities are limited then why not practice the part that you can control which is approaching and handling your fear? Not sure about you but there has been times where I’ve been given, what I…
/r/seduction13/06/20 02:26 PM
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Yea I’m in the same boat as you. Had plenty good experiences from day game (numbers, instadates, make outs and a few lays) but still approach anxiety is there. Maybe not as intense but still pretty bad. Makes me wonder if I have what it takes to really do this long term...
/r/seduction20/10/19 03:06 PM
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So true... been trying to get back in it and can do some approaches but never consistently. How do people consistently go out and do this stuff?
/r/seduction20/10/19 02:59 PM
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Ah ok I misunderstood as well, thought you were going full indirect. How do you usually transition into direct? ​ Also the thing about indirect, for me anyway, is that I go more into my head trying to find an excuse to talk to her. At which point I take too long, AA starts kicking in and then I make excuses for not doing it. I've found better results trying to follow 3 second rule and just going up right away with direct. ​ Maybe once I get more comfortable approaching again I can incorporate mo…
/r/seduction02/06/19 02:35 PM
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Awesome! Good to see guys pushing boundaries and taking risks!
/r/seduction02/06/19 01:55 PM
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Haven’t really tried shops or at least lately but makes sense especially if you like to go indirect. I respect indirect approach but kind of going the more direct approach route. Fits my personality better. Current goal is just to reduce AA as much as possible through direct which has been a mixed bag at best...
/r/seduction02/06/19 03:29 AM
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Yea very true. Actually had these thoughts and fears but was able to get past it and just do my approach. Isn't this what it's really about? Having these scary thoughts and doing it anyway.
/r/seduction02/06/19 02:36 AM
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Yup sounds right. I like to think I’m putting in time and practicing now for when an amazing girl does enter my life so I have the skills and experience not to fuck it up
/r/seduction02/06/19 02:17 AM
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Great job! Been struggling to approach two sets myself
/r/seduction02/06/19 02:07 AM
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Weird I just had this thought today. Went out daygaming in NYC and one of thoughts I was having is I wonder how many guys go out and hit on girls in the streets? 5%? Wish I was having these thoughts for productive reasons but really was scaring myself not to approach. Feared girls were being hit on left and right and they’d be sick of another guy like me...
/r/seduction01/06/19 10:30 PM
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Totally get what you mean. I get decent results with daygame, numbers, instadates and even a gf from one of my approaches, but still find it exhausting. Don’t know how to do it consistently either without just forcing myself. I treat it kind of like the gym. Basically I have a goal and just putting in the time to reach that goal. Still... it really sucks lots of days...
/r/seduction29/05/19 01:15 AM
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I don’t know. I guess some people can do that but I liked this girl. Felt like a pos being dishonest like that
/r/seduction23/05/19 01:05 PM
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How many of these warms do you do? You do them every time going out?
/r/seduction23/05/19 01:02 PM
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Yea maybe doing some warms might do me good. Kinda been plugging head first and figure first set will be bad and it can be the warm up. Have a real tough time approaching when it’s in my window of practice for some reason. I it would better if pickup just integrated w my life and not this other weird thing off to the city. You do mostly day game, I assume?
/r/seduction23/05/19 04:50 AM
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I Like this. Kind make so that you’re paying a penalty by missing this opportunity.
/r/seduction23/05/19 04:46 AM
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Yea been trying to. Actually was able to commit to 3 second for the first time in a while today which helped. I know I just have to stop myself from imagining worse case blowouts and more positive thinking. You got strategies that’s been helping you?
/r/seduction23/05/19 04:10 AM
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It really is. It’s like those old school horror movies like Freddy or Jason. Just when you thought you killed it, it fucking comes roaring back from the dead. I get what you’re saying about being in the moment because it would feel natural and I don’t overthink it. However right I just want to get to a stage where I know I’ll approach. I don’t even care if it’s a good set. I just want that courage back where I knew I would go in. Right now it’s a big fucking question mark. How do you do it? Do y…
/r/seduction23/05/19 03:59 AM
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I’m just getting back into game myself and I could be interested. What are your favorite spots?
/r/seduction12/05/19 06:14 PM
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Awesome field report! Really enjoy hearing other guys push through adversity and it pays off. Very inspiring!
/r/seduction26/04/19 12:51 AM
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Thanks man. Appreciate the encouragement. You’re right. I did it once and I can do it again
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:37 PM
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Huh?... What makes you think I was using her for validation and self esteem?
/r/seduction30/12/18 11:01 PM
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Didn’t seem creepy to me at all. Seems like reasonable advice.
/r/seduction28/12/18 10:00 PM
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Got thrown a curveball where she had to meet someone after our date. Wasn’t able to get her out of the city... =(
/r/seduction09/11/17 07:06 PM
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Not exactly helpful advice but like the encouragement! haha
/r/seduction08/11/17 05:43 PM
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Alright that sounds pretty solid. Will give it a shot!
/r/seduction08/11/17 05:39 PM
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Hmm... ok take her to a spot that’s near my place. I’m wondering if she’ll think it’s shady I’m taking her out of the city
/r/seduction08/11/17 01:39 PM
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Yup. She’s only here for a week and a half
/r/seduction08/11/17 03:33 AM
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Yea you're right. It was the booze and I know better too. Just kind if surprised me. She kept reassuring it's completely over but just struck me as really odd and I couldn't get off it. So dumb... Got any suggestions for fun topics/activities?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 01:04 PM
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Not really looking for relationship but more testing waters to see if they're interested. Really more like I'm loss adverse. Don't quite have the abundance mentality. That's a pretty good move. Just wish I had a car. Logistics is hard in NYC when you don't live in the city
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 08:39 PM
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What's usually your success rate waiting two weeks?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 08:37 PM
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Yea usually don't do art museums for first dates but she gave a strong artsy vibe and got really excited when I brought it. I get what you're saying though it was ok. The good part was that we didn't just have to sit in front of each other the whole time. I could just wander and a good test for me was that she would always catch up to me to show me something interesting. Which I usually take as an IOI. What are the mechanics of transitioning to another place and going for the kiss? Do I just sto…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 04:50 PM
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Actually I do get how awkward I can get especially when comes to building attraction. I'm very good at having a fun conversation, joking around and telling interest stories. On that other side of that coin, I have no idea how to build attraction, and I'm terrible at reading signals. I often times think she is having a fun time but not sure if I'm building attraction. Kino escalation especially is a problem for me. I have to think to do it and so I think that comes off as robotic. But since it's …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 04:38 PM
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Obviously would love a first date lay but just having a good date and possibilities afterwards would be a success. Also really in a case by case basis. Asian girl was totally fun and adorable, could see gf possibility in her. Eastern European girl is see more like a fuck buddy type
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:41 PM
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Well already fucked that up w the Asian girl. Asked to hang out with her Saturday night, our day was wed, but she said she was busy. I pretty much think this one might be a lost cause Other girl, still might work. Week is a bit excessive, no?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 03:23 PM
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That's hysterical! Nothing like ending a date with a concussion haha Ah ok 60/40 that's not bad. Of the 40 were you able to recover or just awkward that point forward?
/r/seduction17/03/17 01:12 PM
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Have you tried this? Does this work?
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:36 PM
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Kiss on the cheek? I don't know... that feels to me kind of platonic much the same like a hug
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:19 PM
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I was pushing but didn't feel like I was getting the enough back to go the kiss. People seem to be telling it's perfectly fine not to push too hard on the first date.
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:17 PM
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Yea that and she asked me about kids and marriage and my answer was 'Ehhhh I don't know' probably wasn't the best phrasing haha
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:15 PM
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If you're used I don't know how you do it. This week I've been a stressed out mess thinking about these two girls. Overthinking texts, making plans and following up. Barely got done any work Plus haven't done any cold approaches in a week! don't know people find the time
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:14 PM
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So generally don't try too hard to kiss and the end of the date, unless I'm getting really obvious signals. Ok this makes me feel better. I think I've been trying too hard to escalate on first date
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:12 PM
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Right now I'm doing mostly light touching on the arm or the knee while I'm telling a story or say something funny. Any tips for escalating further after that?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:06 PM
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What if she says Tuesday doesn't work? I figure at that point if she doesn't counter w a time and place, she's not interested?
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:21 PM
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Yea I can understand that point but it seems like every I've read says to use texting only to setup a meet and that too much texting is gonna kill your game. And that goes double if you're not that good at it
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:39 PM
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I was kind of thinking that's what I would do on the first date. I just don't really like texting to get to know someone. I don't text often and actually much prefer to talk on the phone or in person.
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:14 PM
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I like that idea. One problem is that the next time I'm free is early next week. Doesn't it sound weird to say 'Meet me next Tuesday at 8 o'clock'?
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:42 PM
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Ok thanks! I'll give that a try
/r/seduction25/02/17 05:18 PM
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Most I've ever done is probably like 4 or 5. That was a few weeks back. Those felt ok because kind of went at it like I was looking to fail but still emotionally exhausting
/r/seduction24/02/17 06:30 PM
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Man doing 1 In a day seems daunting but 25 that just seems impossible. Also when you say 25 approaches do you mean 25 direct approaches or does that include warming up like just saying hi to ppl and stuff like that?
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:15 PM
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