I'm approaching but am I going too slow?

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2017-02-24T19:21:39+00:00

To warm up I suggest you go to a mall and talk to all the cashiers, clerks, and waitresses you can find.

Ask them how they are doing, are they busy today, ask them if they get annoyed at annoying customers asking annoying questions.

By this point, you should be sufficiently relaxed, humored, and ready to approach some hot chicks.

SteveDaygame · 2017-02-24T02:02:55+00:00

I've been daygame coaching since 2013.. it's great that you are being so consistent, that shows a tremendous amount of motivation, but I believe the goal of approaching EVERY single day.. is a bit unrealistic to keep up, and you will definitely burn out.. we all have days where we are busy, tired, sick, etc. So my advice to guys is instead of doing 1,2 or 3 approaches EVERY single day, set a goal to do 20 or 25 PER WEEK.. and aim to do the bulk of them on one day, typically a weekend day works best for most guys. Why do it this way? Because for EVERY guy we go out and start out "out of state" meaning our social state is low/average and apporaching random women is absolutely out the comfort zone of 100% of guys when they are out of state, so the trick is to realize that let's say the first 5 - 8 approaches for the day are ALWAYS warm-ups for guys.. after you do 5 appraoches fairly back to back, your social state will be MUCH MUCH higher and approaching becomes alot easier.. so then bang out some more, a solid amount to shoot for is 15 approaches in 3 to 4 hours, you can do a little more or less, but this is a good enough level of activity so that you're approaching about 7 - 10 AFTER you're already warmed-up. So now let's look back on your current goal of ONE approach every day... the biggest issue I have with this is that you are not warmed-up for that 1 appraoch every day, you are out of state, so we can say most likely the first approach of the day will be your WORST PERFORMANCE of them all. See the problem? The first few approaches of each day are like throw aways man, they are just to get you warmed up, and once you're warmed up your anxiety will be way less, your performance gets smoother, and guess what.. girls respond better aka you get better results when you're warmed up. Any other questions you can PM me.

My website if you're interested: http://www.nycdaygame.com/

Title	I'm approaching but am I going too slow?
Author	TricksyTrampoline
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	February 24, 2017 1:23 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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