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| 1 | I cant beat oneitis...ah, what you want is to not have to come back here to post about what to do in a shitty relationship lots of pressure there. Immediate expectations of her perfection and you knowing all your flaws, assuming she knows too. Damn the media and Hollywood too for all their stories about how "real" love is supposed to be. Only practical advice I can give, when you get "feelings" for a girl, try to see her from the other side of 20 years from now. Try to see yourself as the older you who is not "OMG!!!… | /r/seduction | 10/10/14 05:18 AM |
| 1 | I cant beat oneitis...what happens is you project onto her, the whole darn romance fairytale. Who can live up to that crushing weight? If you think she is a princess and you are only pretending to be a prince, how would you know what a real prince would say / do? You don't, therefore you shut down amid little half lies and not quite true stuff you make up in order to maintain the illusion you are a prince. Well, you ARE a prince, in that you are a unique human, therefore soveregin in your own body. But guess what? Gi… | /r/seduction | 10/10/14 04:39 AM |
| 1 | I cant beat oneitis...you don't have anything except a self fulfilling prophecy turn into another person is what actors do. Why you gotta act? "at the moment that i start having feelings for the girl" is WHEN you start acting, BUT WHY DO YOU CHANGE? The person she liked was "normal" you, but as soon as you start having feelings you start trying to "look for clues" about how to manipulate her into liking you.Then you gotta "act" a certain way to fool her into thinking you know about her "clues" when you don't. It's li… | /r/seduction | 10/10/14 04:00 AM |
| 1 | I cant beat oneitis...Ah, so it's the inner substance that's a problem. All those videos make it seem like all you have to do is say a magic combination of words and the bitches will flock to you like flies to poop. It's shallow and mostly nonsense for desperate people who need to date numerous people like that's an accomplishment. However, you say "talk to girl", but not "talk to interested girl". What are your interests and why aren't you talking to those girls? Are you turning away girls because of your preference… | /r/seduction | 10/10/14 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I cant beat oneitis...Hmmm, seems you need more inner substance, less flim flam from over generalized situations that don't really apply to you. Learn to master the English language so you don't flounder for words. | /r/seduction | 10/10/14 02:42 AM |
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