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| 30 | Dating apps are Incel factories. | Troklokhan | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 01:23 AM | |
| 1 | How to ask her out at work? | Troklokhan | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 06:10 AM |
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| 1 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.Yes, they were. The left in the East has nothing to do with the left in the West. The USSR and China are/were leftists by the criteria of that time, in that part of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:21 AM |
| 9 | Is r/FemaleDatingStrategy just the female equivalent of Red Pill ideology?Yes, it is. They even use the same terms like "biological", "evolutionary", "high value", "low value", "female nature", etc. Run away from anyone who measures living beings in terms of "value" as if they were products, that's literally what psychopaths do. Specially if they have a "biological", "evolutionary" basis for such thing, that's exactly what Nazis did. It's borderline Neo-Nazism. Measuring human relationships in terms of profit is psychopathic behavior. Sane humans don't do that. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?Yes, that's why I say that it's not realistic to expect such thing, so I prefer to be single and avoid the stress. I am already 30 and thought that overtime I was going to figure out how to lead girls and stuff, but far from that. Also, it doesn't feel good to do so. There is no point in getting a relationship if you have to put on a front most of the time. Best of luck to you too! | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?Yeah, but they are few and far between, so it's not realistic to expect to find a woman like that who I like and she happens to like me back. Also, they more likely still want the man to take the lead. Edit: the actual deal is not finding a woman who is ok with a man staying at home, but to find a woman who is ok with leading instead of being led. If the girl expects to me to take the initiative, that's not something I would do, so the girl will have to be the one asking out, setting on dates, e… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/11/22 02:44 AM |
| 0 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?I agree wholeheartedly with the final message, and it's exactly what I been trying to show guys in this sub. Even if women do like assholes, it's not a good thing to be an asshole. Imagine if all men started becoming assholes in order to be liked by women, we would live in a very shitty world. It's said that "nice guys finnish last" but I really prefer to finnish last than stop being nice. Being nice is also way more rewarding than getting laid. In fact, being a nice is an end on itself, it's no… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/11/22 01:36 AM |
| 0 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?Those were just the first ones appearing in google, but there were several others. You can find the complete studies too. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 10:35 PM |
| 0 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?I am not blaming women for falling for narcs and psychopaths. Most people have little control of what they fall for. For example, I know that smoking is bad for my health but I still do it because it's an addiction hard to fight. It's hard to have enough self-control and rationality. Confidence and social skills are attractive traits, but what you don’t seem to understand is you don’t have to be a psychopath to have those traits, because when used without malicious intent, those are basic positi… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?Fact. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 09:35 PM |
| -2 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?Narcissists and psychopaths are ussually very confident, socially skilled, have no problem lying, and always know exactly what to say in order to get people to like them. All this makes them very attractive to women. Also, they are their own number 1 priority because they are unable to care for other people, and this aloofness and indiference also make them attractive. There is also the fact that they experience no remorse when lying or cheating, making them appear confident at all times. Here t… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Stop being delusional and stop lying to men (how to really get women to fall in love)They went from a dogmatic set of beliefs another one equally dogmatic. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Stop being delusional and stop lying to men (how to really get women to fall in love)Your advice is complete and utter bullshit for any man who lived enough. It's because of this bullshit advice that the red pill exists to begin with. Keep giving useless advice and you will only get guys even more frustrated, making the red pill bigger and bigger. OP actually gave solid advice, he is telling guys to get their shit together, which is completely rational. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Stop being delusional and stop lying to men (how to really get women to fall in love)Reallity is that a lot of men just don't have what is needed to have success with women, the sooner they accept this and move on with life, the better. It's completely ok that getting women isn't your thing. There are way more benefical things to do out there. They set more realistic goals for life instead pursuing something that you'll never get, which will only make you bitter. This sub promotes a very idealistic view of life that will ultimately lead you into unnccessary frustration. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Stop being delusional and stop lying to men (how to really get women to fall in love)They can't. You either are funny or you aren't. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Stop being delusional and stop lying to men (how to really get women to fall in love)Don't worry, there is nothing wrong or hurtful about any of your advice, this guy is just in denial. Your advice is bassically "get your shit together" which is sound advice for life in general, not only for dating. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Are men wishing to avoid relationships in droves?They are based. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Stop being delusional and stop lying to men (how to really get women to fall in love)If you’re intellectually lazy and have no life goals besides playing Call of Duty with a Cheeto stained PS5 controller in your hand, do not expect her to text you back. Put down the beer can. There’s nothing to celebrate 99% of the time. Stop calling women gold diggers. If you’re making $35k a year, who can you provide for? What if your wife becomes pregnant and falls out of the workforce? You can’t support anyone. Go to college or go get a trade. AT LEAST try to become middle class. Come on now… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?Being tall or rich is not that important, really. You can look around in the street and see that it's not the case. And it's not that "they don't care" if the man is an asshole. It's that assholes men are more attractive to women, in general. There is plenty of psychological research showing that women find men who expose psychopathic and narcissistic behavior more attractive than average, you can see just googling. So yes, most women do, indeed, get wet by assholes. Most people in this sub won'… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/22 11:34 PM |
| 8 | Are men wishing to avoid relationships in droves?In some countries like Japan and Korea more and more men choose to be single. The media even put a label on them, "hervibore men" they are called. You can look it up on google, it might be interesting to read. But this is not for the reasons the Red Pill argues. It's not because of feminism or because of "bEtA mAleS" or whatever. It's mostly because they are realizing that being single is better, and that dating creates more trouble than fun. It's important to understand though, that the culture… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/22 02:38 AM |
| 0 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Copium from "coping". | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/22 10:09 PM |
| 10 | Why does RP promote ”dread” in a relationship when we can see this:After reading a few RP stuff and listening to some of their influencers, what RPers want is not sexual pleasure after all. What they want is to have POWER. They want a woman to have total control over. Narcissistic/psychopathic behavior, basscially. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/22 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Does r/exredpill love / like men as a whole?Every person I know irl who 1 considers sex/romance a need and 2 is distraught by not having it atm has other glaring issues in their behaviors and attitudes that are the true cause of their consternation This. This. Fucking THIS. Yes, a lot of people use intimacy/sex as a way of escapism, so they don't have to address their inner demons. They are looking for Inner Peace from an external source. If only they knew they can be happy the way they are without the need to attain anything, the RP woul… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/22 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps are Incel factories.I would but there is a lot of copium in your post, making it unworthy of my time. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are Incel factories.This is at least true in my country where the pandemic killed a lot of the social life for a lot of people. However, there is no need to be bitter about it. There are a lot of cool things we can enjoy. And the future will be better for singles and "loners" that's for sure. Just seeing all the technological advancement we are doing, it's porn for nerds. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are Incel factories.It might be helpfull, but at the same time it might create unneccessary mental wanking that could make someone even bitter. IMO the best way to not be bitter is to accept reallity without negativity. If dating apps make you bitter just get out of them, don't torture yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/22 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Mainstream society still sees being single as something undesirable. Men who are single are often portrayed as losers or Incels. And women who are single are portrayed as total failures. So yes, we have a lot to improve in that sense. Do you know why today young men have an obsession with having sex or dating? I know wanting it was always a thing, but why has it gotten so extreme to the point of being THE defining characteristic of someone's existence? You got out of this mindset it seems, but w… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/22 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Hi! So, to begin with, yes and no. See, I already made clear in the comments that I am only talking about dating apps when talking about the 80/20 rule. But they STILL kept bitching. It's more likely that they got their ego hurted. their idea that women like assholes is 100% right If you look more carefully at the original text, I used the words I believe. Those words are key. Yes, I believe what I said. I am not imposing this belief as an absolute truth, it's just what I believe. In fact, this … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/22 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps are Incel factories.How much copium. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Sure, relationships are good. Can provide companionship, love and support as you say. But all that can also be provided by friends and family, it's not like if you don't have a partner you will die alone. The last paragraph is completely truth. Life has a plethora of things you can enjoy here and now, regardless of your relationship status. Dunno probabbly I am surrounded by Doomers but everyone I know has a relationship complains a lot about things that could be easily avoided. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are Incel factories.See, that's not the relevant part of the thread. If women like assholes or not is not the problem, the problem is what will you do then? Let's assume that women DO like assholes. So what? are you going to become an asshole and treat women like shit in order to have sex? if all men became assholes in order to get their rocks off the world would be miserable. That's what I think is important. Not if women like assholes or not, they are entitled to like or dislike whatever they want. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Statistically they are benefical for very few people. You can watch the statistics online, the vast majority are dissatisfied. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are Incel factories.But incels create themselves to a degree, coupled with their genetics, not dating apps. Dating apps don't create it but definitely make them grow. If you read carefully, I never stated that Incels existed because of dating apps. Though it could be argued that being online too much plays a role. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Yup, it's the sausage party. However, the reasons for the 80/20 rule are not relevant, what's relevant is what to do about it. So IMO it's just better to avoid those apps, the problem is that they are going more and more mainstream and making people bitter. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Toughen up bros. It's a pretty bitter world. No reason to blame others tho, no reason to blame women. They are enduring the same fuckery you are. Team up and wither the horrible social storm together. Don't blame each other. This :D. Blaming individuals for problems that are societal is a pretty stupid, honestly. Specially if these other individuals are also suffering from the same. edit: "Dating is detrimental for life in terms of happiness, health and longevity." I agree with this FOR ME (not … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Not for relationships but for people who are struggling with singleness and loneliness. Like, I have no interest in you breaking your relationship if you already have one and are happy with it. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Sure. But I think if more people were ok with being single, there would be a lot less suffering in this world. Incels are resentful because they believe that getting laid is a "must", they believe that your ability to get laid is somehow a reflection of your value as a person. This is the reason they are resentful with society. If they understood that being single is completely ok, they would be cool being who they are, and we would not have them doing mass shootings and stuff. I believe that if… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Cool :D. But it's completely ok to be single. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 09:04 PM |
| -2 | Dating apps are Incel factories.The 80/20 rule is true… ON DATING APPS. Yes, and the thread is specifically about dating apps, not dating in general. Though I think dating in general sucks but that's another story. However, the 80/20 rule is the less relevant part of the thread, I don't get why some of you are giving it so much importance. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 09:45 AM |
| -9 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Dating is a lot of unneccessary trouble, be it online or in real life. It's better to just live. Very few people are actually happy with their relationships. Most people date because of egoic validation, so they experience a lot of avoidable trouble. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 09:22 AM |
| 4 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Haha, makes a lot of sense. At the end of the day, dating apps are not benefical for anyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 08:45 AM |
| 0 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Yes, I know. But it doesn't matter. The 80/20 on dating sites is a reallity, and we get nothing from especulation on "why" it is like this. It just is. The only sensible thing to do is to adapt to reallity. Even if there are very good reasons, it doesn't matter. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are Incel factories.You realize that the 80/20 thing red pill people base their worldview upon came from a press release from a dating site? Yes, I know it's from a dating site, that's why I mention it on a thread about dating sites, LOL. When did I say the oppossite? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 08:26 AM |
| -5 | Dating apps are Incel factories.No, not really. My country have been locked down for more than a year and the topography of the city has changed a lot. Bars and clubs are not at all nearly as crowded as they used to be. Even the streets are not the same. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 08:25 AM |
| 6 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Loved your username xD. Yes, I agree that connection and intimacy are key, but you can find the same with friends and family, or even with pets. You don't need a sexual/romantic partner for that. Modern idea of love is very reductionist. Love is universal, and being single doesn't prevent you from having a fullfilling love life. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 02:33 AM |
| -8 | Dating apps are Incel factories.Thank you for the constructive criticism but you there is something you got wrong. I never ever claimed that 20% of men are getting all the sex, that's a very stupid thing to believe. What I claimed is that they are getting most of the matches on dating apps, which is true. My whole post is centered dating apps and only on dating apps. So I am making no mistake. It also doesn't matter if most people are not on apps, I am talking about the people who are. Also, I don't know what pickiness has to … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Do women really hate when men approach? I’m referring to a purple pilled subreddit post that started a debateAll followers of "pills" have the same issue: they take their own subjective experience as they were universally truth. The woman in the post definitely hates being apporached, but that's just her. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 12:31 AM |
| 6 | In Mark Manson's "Models" he explains one way to attract the women you want is to become a leader in your interests/demographic. Who here has done something along those lines?You can learn to play guitar in six months to a year if you are dedicated enough. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 10:00 PM |
| 3 | In Mark Manson's "Models" he explains one way to attract the women you want is to become a leader in your interests/demographic. Who here has done something along those lines?I don't think it's a good idea to do this just in order to find girls. You should do it out of passion, and girls will just come naturally. That being said, I learnt to play guitar and am going to start a band. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Rant from ex-PUA. OG PUAOh, it's you again. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | I’m a grown-ass woman, and I’m scared to ask this man out. Someone convince me to do it anyway!!Do it anyway :D | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | How often do girls agree to a date solely to be entertained freeNah, they have friends to do that. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Governments worldwide should ban Tinder and similar appsSome men just don't see a big issue with women having their shit together or not. Your standards are not other people's startandards. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Governments worldwide should ban Tinder and similar appsPoor man. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Governments worldwide should ban Tinder and similar appsHow jealous. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:44 AM |
| 4 | Redpillers hate western womenImagin believing that Latin American women are submissive, LOL. They are rather hot-blooded. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Both a conservative think tank and a progressive college institute discredit major tenets of TRP. So why is TRP still a thing?Don't know what that is. As a cityzen of a Latin American country myself, if you are basement dwelling loser you will never ever get a girl here, let alone a "model looking" one. In any case you will be able to pick some girl from a slum but they are the left overs of society. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Both a conservative think tank and a progressive college institute discredit major tenets of TRP. So why is TRP still a thing?I can assure that unemployed basement dwellers will never find a girl in Latin America unless they are picking her up from a slum. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Should you never reveal yor weakness and vulnerability to women? These comments were found in Tribe of Men's video "Woman with A STRONG FATHER FIGURE tells it how it is"What is exactly a "weakness" to begin with? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 06:50 AM |
| 0 | Are most conventionally extremely attractive women conceited and empty in your experience?Yes, it's real in dating apps. I just swipe left on them. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 04:19 AM |
| -4 | Have you guys ever flipped the script and given the girl a shit test? Might that be a way to change the dynamic of an interaction in your favor? OrShit tests don't exist. When a woman says "no" it ussually just means no. And when a woman is being disrepectfull it's just her being disrespectfull, they ain't "testing" you. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 02:52 AM |
| 5 | Can Red Pill make society go back to a time like the 1950s or a patriarchy, even go back to gender roles?This. A lot of people have fantasies and want to go back to "old times" but the reallity is that those times never really existed. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/22 05:08 PM |
| 21 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.LOL I am 29 and also only had a short relationship for one month at 20. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.What an amount of bullshit. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.They come in all ages. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 02:44 PM |
| 3 | I wrote an article about people from this subredditGood article. Now, let's be honest, the PUA community is still the only source of information for men who aren't social and want to have relationships with women. It may be wrong, but attacking PUA without offering an alternative is useless. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/22 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.Idk man, I only heard incels use the word "looksmatch". | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.How do you explain all those "average" dudes who settle with women? | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 08:19 AM |
| 8 | #1 REASON Women FIND Modern MEN UNATTRACTIVEOnly saw the first point and is already complete bullshit. A lot of women get wet like a river for those "femenine" men who paint their nails. Just look at the Glam Metal bands in the 80s like Motley Crue, singers like David Bowie, Kurt Cobain or Gerard Way, and all the new K-Pop thing. They are all bassically smothered in pussy. This girl, just like a lot of people who make videos on dating, is overgeneralizing her OWN preferences to all women. Just like TRP does with dudes. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Yupb just buy new clothes, they’ll definitely change your facial structure and height but wadevo.Looks like a mini Chad. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 03:14 AM |
| 4 | What were the most damaging aspects of the Red Pill teachings to you?I never been a redpiller but I was into PUA stuff, which shares some of the toxicity. What I found most damaging is the idea that women are there to "test" you to see if you are a true alpha male or a beta provider or whatever bullshit. They bassically say that every time a woman seems to have a will or desire that differs from yours it's actually some kind of "test" that you have to "pass". | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/21 02:04 AM |
| 7 | What were the most damaging aspects of the Red Pill teachings to you?The Red Pill phylosophy was developed in very specific areas of the USA like Vegas, LA and Miami Beach, places that have a specially shallow and materialistic culture. What the Red Pill teaches doesn't correlate with what I see in my home country. In fact, there is a notorious loser in the Red Pill called Roosh V who wrote a book called "Don't bang Denmark". He says that "game" doesn't work in Denmark because it's too much a developed country so women don't "need" a man. So "alpha male technique… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Why FDS women frequent this sub?FDS teaches how to decieve and manipulate men to get material benefits, which is the same than the Red Pill. Both the Red Pill and FDS openly promote Dark Triad behaviour. It's the same shit, different genders. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/12/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Is the American dating culture just toxic?American culture is toxic, in general. If you want to be a healthy person then stay as far as you can from every ideology or phylosophy comming from the US. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 04:31 AM |
| 7 | What are the Mistakes in Seduction/ Approaching?I would replace being "edgy" with just being authentic. If you are being a authentic and come out as edgy by accident is okay, but if you are trying hard to be edgy for the sake of it that's just immature behaviour, well adjusted women don't like that. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | What are the Mistakes in Seduction/ Approaching?Apporaching with the idea that you have been already rejected and you somehow have to "un-reject" yourself. Many PUA coaches promote that kind of approach that does more bad than good. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 08:40 PM |
| 8 | A Dating Guide for the Introverted Analytical ManVery real. Also, approaching a girl on a group and having to deal with the whole group gets tiring, sometimes to the point that it feels like not worth trying. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 01:51 AM |
| 32 | A Dating Guide for the Introverted Analytical ManAwesome read, very realatable and usefull. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?Never taken a girl to my place but I taken them to "love hotels", those are hotels in which you go exclusively to have sex, they only exist in some countries, you don't have them in the US. And I also got women taken me to their places to have sex. I never followed a real process. Each time I tried to follow a process failed horribly. Most of these times that I pulled, the girl has decided to have sex with me, so I just did the obvious. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Lost all motivation for hookups(22M)You find hookups meaningless because they really are. Hookups only give you a temporary feeling of accomplishment and a boost of confidence, but they won't make you happier in the long term. Chasing hookups is a rat race. Forget it, focus on things that will make genuinely happy. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill only talks about the extreme negative side of female nature.RP content creators are mostly Dark Triad, yes. And that's why they attract women who are also Dark Triad, and then generalize on all women based on that. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/21 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Women, is the whole "women love dominant alpha males" thing a myth?When they say "confident" they bassically mean someone who can look into their eyes and talk to them without stuttering, and can express his ideas with fair confidence. They don't mean an overconfident asshole like the red pill wants to make it seem. Same with "socially dominant", they actually just want a guy who is fairly social and not a total weirdo, you don't need to be a rockstar. Same with all the other items. Any person can be those things. Be confortable in your own skin, and be confide… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/21 04:18 PM |
| 9 | He’s handsome, in good shape, has a good job, but women in his life don’t stick around. Trying to be a ‘catch’ is a Nice Guy mindset that doesn’t work long-termThey don't, that's just one of the common myths of the seduction community. You can definitely be nice and not boring. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Fuck the gameYeah, fuck the game. Even if you succeed, it's just not worth. Most people who succeed at game are those who base their entire personality on it, which is pathetic at least. If you want then read Models by Mark Manson, it's a good read and not really "game". Focus on doing activities you enjoy, don't go to clubs unless you actually like clubing, stop using bullshit techniques and focus on being authentic. Look for a niche in which you can meat people that actually reasonates with you, and stick … | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Been lurking through this whole rp/manosphere bullcrap. Just wanted to give an compilation of the YT comments what do ya guys think?Those Red Pill dudes are promoting serious mental illness. All that "alpha male attitude correlates with psychopathy and narcisism. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on OVER PRICED Escorts and getting laid in general.This is because of the high cost of living in the USA. Of course, you can bang an escort in Thailand for 20 bucks but in Thailand the cost of living is so cheap that you can live comfortably with only 1000 US dollars per month. | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you have sympathy for men who report being sexually harassed by women you find attractive?The wisdom of a divine donkey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Unattractive people suffer worse life outcomes but men face HIGHER penalties"Men rated as less attractive earned 9% less than those with average looks; those who were rated as handsome earned 5% more than those considered to be average. So, if you are an ugly millionaire you will earn 9% less than Elion Munsk. First World problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you have sympathy for men who report being sexually harassed by women you find attractive?You know shit then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do you have sympathy for men who report being sexually harassed by women you find attractive?This is so stupid as believing that ugly women don't get raped, or that attractive men don't rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you have sympathy for men who report being sexually harassed by women you find attractive?A prepubescent kid, maybe? Duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you have sympathy for men who report being sexually harassed by women you find attractive?(e.g. "she sent me nudes out of nowhere and that made me uncomfortable", "she keeps touching my crotch") Yes, because I've been in that situation when I was 12yo with a 17yo girl. Sending nudes was not a thing back then, but there were other kind of uncomfortable situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Does dancing at a club increase chance of hookupsYes, for me it's easier to approach and hook up dancing with girls. If you mean solo dancing, then no. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Does dancing at a club increase chance of hookupsI guess it depends on the kind of nightclub and the kind of music that is played. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsSo do you think you need to be necessarily super-social to be good at game? | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsI got laid way more being unemployed than having a job. I don't have time to do approaches. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsGood post. I just recently solved my drinking problem. I have to fix my job situation, I have a job but barely have time to meet girls. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like both bad AND good reactions keep you from approaching more?Doesn't happen to me, it's depends on your original mindset. | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 12:22 PM |
| 5 | Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyesCool. | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 05:15 AM |
| -1 | Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyesYes, for sure. But if you those are not the girls you like there is no point for you. | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 05:15 AM |
| 14 | Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyesFirst and important question: were those girls hot? If not, what's the point? | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Daygame > Nightgame: My insight and analysisYes, of course. You do cold selling when you are only starting, but you won't become millionaire from cold selling. The same with cold approach, it's the best way to start but you will never get rockstar results from it. And even if you did, it would take the same hours a week than a part time job, but without getting paid. It's not "profitable". | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Best style of game for if you're not friendly?" What style of game would you prescribe to Ron Swanson? What style of game comes closest -- but actually works -- to "Hey. Are you single? Sweet, let's bang then"? " Become more attractive. Make girls to be attracted to you. They will look at you and give you approach invitations. It doesn't mean that you will fuck them all, but you will waste less time. Go DIRECT with them. Be honest, not explicit. Proper bodylanguage. Once you are chatting with her, start escalating, both physically and verba… | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 05:26 AM |
| 3 | Best style of game for if you're not friendly?First, go to places you actually like. Do you enjoy any kind of music or food/drinks? Go to those places. There you have something to talk about, and girls will be more likely to share your interest in the subject. So you have something to talk about that you are genuinely interested in. Going to places or doing things you don't like to get laid is a waste of your most valuable resource: your free time. It gets specially annoying when the girl doesn't even add any topic to the chat and you have … | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Best style of game for if you're not friendly?For him listening to the girl, such girl should talk to him the first place. It's not that easy. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How to ask her out at work?Thank you, the car thing seems to be a good idea. Those things happen in any average social circle so I don't see the problem. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Daygame > Nightgame: My insight and analysisCold Approaching itself is a waste of time, LOL. Is the game equivalent to cold selling, which the less effective way of selling, so cold approaching is the less effective way to get laid. You will get laid eventually, but only after a lot of hard and unenjoyable work. So it doesn't really matter if you do daygame or nightgame, it's the same numbers game. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Daygame > Nightgame: My insight and analysisYes, I totally agree. Only go to clubs if you really like it. I don't go to clubs anymore, I really hate it. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How to ask her out at work?Edited. Haha, my bad. | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | How to ask her out at work?I don't have time to go to clubs, that is the point. I would have to go to work without sleeping. And I don't like clubs anyways. | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | When You Can Pick Up On Her Signs Of Interest, You Won't Be CreepyIt doesn't matter if she smiles or not. | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Beta GameEach time I read the words "alpha" and "beta" I just want to puke in cringe. No kind of game is "superior", do what works for you. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 06:43 AM |
| 1 | When You Can Pick Up On Her Signs Of Interest, You Won't Be CreepyGreat post. I had the best results with women who were into me before I opened my mouth. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Approaching dancing girls at clubApproach them dancing. If you want, make eye contact with them and see if they "invite you". Then grab them by the pussy... No, go and dance with them. I don't know where are you from but in South America you just grab her by her waist and you are both dancing. Don't waste your time dancing solo unless you actually like it. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 05:19 AM |
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