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I can tell you wholeheartedly that the female was not a paid 'amateur actress'. Neither was she a friend or girlfriend of any of us, just a complete stranger that Ryan had cold approached.
/r/seduction31/10/16 04:13 PM
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Thanks very much dude we really appreciate it. ~ Rash
/r/seduction05/10/16 07:27 PM
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Haha, that is his style and it works for him immensely ~ Rash
/r/seduction03/10/16 10:58 AM
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Right, Nightgame of 4 hours sounds like the right amount however Daygame hours seem a little excessive. 8 hours do seem like a very long time to be focusing on Daygame, it depends on yourself but if it starts to feel like a chore then I would wind it down as this will come across to the girls you are talking to. If you are still as enthusiastic in your first hour till your last then you go ahead. If you really want to do it 7 times a week then the only option you have at the moment is to run som…
/r/seduction14/09/16 11:11 AM
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I am struggling a little understanding your post but whenever on a date, the closer you can sit to her the better. You cannot escalate properly if you are sitting across the table from her, which is important as you are trying to build attraction. Otherwise you become her buddy, which is not what you want. The fact that she had agreed to go on a date with you shows that she is interested in you, your job is to build that initial level of attraction as much as you can. So sit close to her, close …
/r/seduction14/09/16 10:47 AM
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If you are currently not working then I would say you should be doing it more than 2 days a week anyway, Daygame included. If you start off with an hour a day or a set number of approaches a day, after a couple of weeks it will become routine to game. If you are only doing night game it will tip the scales a bit, you should aim to do both day and night to get a well-balanced level of game. Trust me when I say momentum is key, especially for beginners.
/r/seduction14/09/16 10:41 AM
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The answer will always be to hang out with people that are better as you will constantly be learning from them, and if you are in set together your chances of the set lasting longer and even escalating increases as they know what they're doing. The major advantage to game with people that you are better than in my experience is, it may actually improve your game. One of the best ways to learn/improve in something (not just pickup) is to teach it to someone else. But ultimately the people I game …
/r/seduction14/09/16 10:36 AM
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I know what you mean! I remember the days when I couldn't keep eye contact when someone was talking to me, I was constantly looking away. I was thinking to myself that I must look really uncomfortable/insecure to them. But ever since I had started to work on my eye contact I've noticed that there are a lot of people that cannot keep eye contact and how much more confident I look compared to those people. ~ Rash
/r/seduction26/08/16 01:35 PM
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It may sound odd, but for me that has not been an issue. The eyes are pretty close together so generally if you are making eye contact it may feel to you that you are looking at one of their eyes at a time, but they will feel that you are looking into both of theirs. Hope that makes sense. ~ Rash
/r/seduction26/08/16 01:24 PM
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Absolutely correct mate! ~ Rash
/r/seduction23/08/16 02:21 PM
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Sorry dude I wasn't sure if this was a rhetorical question or not lol. Our heights and weight vary between us at True Development and it has never crossed our minds that one of us has it better than the other because he is taller or goes to the gym. We firmly believe that people should abandon that mindset as soon as possible when they start to learn game/pickup. ~ Rash
/r/seduction23/08/16 02:18 PM
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One thing that will help you overcome this is to open everyone possible. You do not need to run game on them, just talk. The easiest place to start are shop clerks and cashiers, once you become comfortable doing this take it to the next level. This is such a simple, effective and also underrated way in making you more comfortable in social situations. This will also help you on dates and when you decide to start cold approaching. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction03/03/16 01:58 PM
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We have been to numerous cities around England doing both day and night game. The most important thing for me was that I had to make sure that I was enjoying it and not being too results driven. As previously my enjoyment would hinge on results and reactions of girls and that was a very nooby mistake. Getting enjoyment out of what you do rather than what you get will go a long way in keeping your energy levels up. I would say you do not need to worry about the balance between the 2 but one does …
/r/seduction03/03/16 01:52 PM
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I wouldn't say you need to compliment their pictures as you may be already putting them on a pedestal before they even respond. If for example she mentions her job in her bio, then you have something to go with. There does not have to be similarities between you on Tinder, you'll have plenty of time to do that when you meet up. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction03/03/16 01:44 PM
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Openers that have worked best for me personally are when I make a comment about their bio or images, I don't bother with Hi's and Hello's. A fun one to try is puns and name associations for example the other day I matched with a girl named Helen and my first message was, "of Troy?" and she found it really funny and responded really well. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction02/03/16 02:43 PM
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Almost every dude tries the "Hi x" or "What you upto?" and this is a very nooby mistake. As there is a huuuge amount of dudes that do this and still do this. Just start the conversation a little light-hearted and see if she responds and then take it from there. Keep your texts simple and short, do not over text. There is like a "skeleton" of rules that can help you, if you want to know more let us know. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction01/03/16 02:58 PM
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If you need help we've posted a couple videos on why you should start and how to get started cold approaching. If you need help just ask, and good luck ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction01/03/16 02:54 PM
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When you're not very experienced, it's always best to open with a compliment, it teaches you the important lesson of not being afraid to show sexual intent, which is very much key to a solid interaction. When you get more experienced you can open indirect e.g. "Hey are you Swiss?", "What book are you reading?" Etc. with the confidence and knowledge to convey your intent throughout the interaction. With that said, I recommend that you stick to direct compliment openers for the time being until th…
/r/seduction01/03/16 02:51 PM
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Cold Approaching >>>>> Social Circle gaming in my honest opinion. You do not need to limit yourself to the women you know, you may like some of them but are they actually your ideal woman? do not settle. Cold approaching will give you the belief and confidence to be able to approach any woman, anywhere. Literally none of my close social circles consist of all dudes and that is completely fine. If you need help on how to start cold approaching just ask. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction01/03/16 02:49 PM
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This.
/r/seduction29/02/16 01:59 PM
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In personal experience there a few pros and cons to approaching conservative girls. The Cons, They get very shocked and even scared that they are being approached. You will have to carry the conversation a lot of the times. Even if the interaction goes well it is difficult to pursue it further because they are set in their conservative ways. Not very open to Kino The Pros: They can become very flustered when you compliment them Some of them can get really sucked into the conversation which can b…
/r/seduction29/02/16 01:58 PM
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To be honest I do not wait for an IOI, you can literally just approach. Present your personality, do not try to impress the girl or get reactions from her. If you are at ease with yourself it will go a long way. Some girls will like you some girls will dislike you and this is completely normal. If you need help with how to approach, we have a youtube channel where a couple of us talk about this. True Development Youtube Channel ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction28/02/16 02:30 PM
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First, just check the vibe of the texts, if you have built a good foundation she will be more open to the idea of meeting up in person. If you believe there is sufficient comfort then ask her out to something simple, a coffee date is ideal in my opinion for a first date. When asking her out make sure the subtext is saying that it is a date and not 2 friends hanging out. Things to note, Take your time replying to her texts Do not constantly text each other as the attraction can wear off Keep your…
/r/seduction26/02/16 03:25 PM
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Deep inside you know what the correct decision is. When you are unsure whether or not to talk to the girl, the answer is always yes. The "Gun" is just a reminder that talking to the girl is the correct thing to do. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction26/02/16 02:13 PM
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Right, I understand what you are getting at. There is a ratio on Seddit where only about 10% of posts are giving "Good" value in my opinion. Which does need to change, we have been trying to shift that ourselves. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction26/02/16 08:44 AM
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I think "ridiculously inane" is pretty strong, this is a genuine issue that some people have had that I have met. They would say that it does not come across as "spontaneous" if you both made eye contact and then approached. It did happen to one of my friends once where the girl could see him about to approach so she broke stride and started walking away from him. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction25/02/16 02:45 PM
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Just been there recently and there are a ton of hot girls, if you are in the central region there are a lot of tourists where there are a lot of females who are "There to have fun" in almost every meaning of the phrase. I did find it almost impossible to game because I was under the influence from one substance or another about 90% of the time I was there. In summary: Tourists are good for one night stands, stay sober. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction25/02/16 01:34 PM
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It can be difficult, just make sure when you say it you say it from a good place. With confidence and no stutter/hesitancy, good luck. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction24/02/16 01:59 PM
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Firstly you do not need to join her in Krav Muga. Try something along the lines of, "You're cute, we should hang out together outside of martial arts" and etc. Keep it "Man to Woman" even if she rejects. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction24/02/16 12:11 PM
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lol wut?
/r/seduction24/02/16 11:30 AM
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You have to be careful here, if she does not know that you like her then she will continue to treat you as her friend. Unless she has feelings for you too then you could be heading down the friendzone path. ~Rash-TD
/r/seduction24/02/16 11:23 AM
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I do not think he is a PUA because to be at that level of game you wouldn't even have realised that you're being gamed. I think the most likely reason this is occurring, is that he may have read a book, watched a video and etc in how to connect with people (There is "info" out there on how to get a girl to like you, too). I've read and watched these content and they all sound very familiar (They're a bunch of crap in my opinion) and he is just probably practicing these on you. So to answer your …
/r/seduction19/02/16 02:32 PM
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Came across this article recently. The overall message reflects one key idea in game - Sexuality is neither something to be frowned upon, nor something trashy and slutty but rather something to be owned, something to be proud of. There's a flaw in society regarding sexuality, where people are pressured to keep that sexuality suppressed and be ashamed of it. I've seen countless field reports and videos where girls are afraid to give in to their sexuality fully, because they instantly get labelled…
/r/seduction19/02/16 10:20 AM
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There are some really good posts by people that can help but you have to be careful that you do not take the wrong advice. We just released our video on Pick-up which could help you. How To Get Started Approaching
/r/seduction18/02/16 02:54 PM
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There is a group of us that used to game together and realised how valuable it is for people that struggle with women and people in general. So we put a name to our group and started teaching others, we just recently created our Youtube channel. True Development
/r/seduction18/02/16 02:49 PM
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How To Get Started Approaching
/r/seduction18/02/16 02:36 PM
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Agreed, Whilst the number can be good, an Instadate can build so much comfort and rapport that it will almost entirely deplete ones flake rate.
/r/seduction18/02/16 02:30 PM
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I think that what a lot of people, especially early on do not realise is that confidence is not something that you get, its something that I have personally experienced as something you create. It can stem from various places both good and bad. Seeking validation, when received can give you confidence and an ego boost but if you do not receive it, it will worsen your confidence. Then there are those people that say "Fake it till you make" which can work but again, not a good source. The best for…
/r/seduction18/02/16 02:25 PM
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Cold approaching is really good because you are constantly approaching, its like practicing free-throws or free-kicks and etc. You can concentrate on working on your sticking points daily due to the number of girls you will meet and talk to. A sticking point I had was my uptalk (Tonality), I did a lot of approaches and concentrated to make sure I did not uptalk and lo and behold it had helped a lot. The examples you had mentioned all can be worked on approaching and dating but, dating can be few…
/r/seduction17/02/16 01:47 PM
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For me they are very different, they can help each other but still different. If you are frequently dating you can build up the experience and references that dates no longer phase you, you will be able to get to a point that you can just auto-pilot that shit which is really great. The best reason for me to keep your cold approaching skills polished is that you can literally go to any city in your country (World even) and just pickup complete strangers. There are a number of benefits that you ca…
/r/seduction15/02/16 02:58 PM
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Just PM us and we'll talk
/r/seduction15/02/16 02:20 PM
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Sorry about the late replies man, good luck on your date (or hope it went well, not sure if you've been on it already). If you want to be in a relationship with this girl just remember not to friendzone yourself and you'll be fine. ~ Rash
/r/seduction15/02/16 08:47 AM
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You are right in saying that you should move them around so to speak as it keeps the date fresh and does not let it get stale, but obviously that may be difficult in your situation. I am not entirely sure on taking her to the mall because apart from coffee shops and food joints there is not much else unless your mall has a bit more that you can do? On my very first date I made the mistake of sitting across the table from her so there was no opportunity to get close to her and physically escalate…
/r/seduction14/02/16 01:23 PM
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Really easy, fun and helpful when conversation dries up is, The Question Game. You both have to answer honestly to questions that the other person asks. You can really get to know them with this game but make sure it's not just question after question and etc. When they answer that their favourite band is "Blink 182", don't be like "OK". Get them to talk about why they like them or that you love/hate them and etc you can get a lot of conversation with this. Then when that conversation ends move …
/r/seduction14/02/16 01:58 AM
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Sorry about the late reply dude, The 2 best ways for me are: 1) When you are with friends and you are having a good time you are already in a very happy, carefree mood which can help when talking to women. When you approach a girl with that positive energy and vibe (Especially in loud places) it can really help and the girl will be more responsive to you. Just make sure that if the conversation does not go too well do not sweat about it, laugh it off and talk to someone else it does not have to …
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:28 PM
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I think one question that you would need to ask yourself is can I have a good time without it? If your answer is yes then you do not need it. For me personally, I prefer without. This is because: A) Doing night game sober helps with your day game. B) You are completely yourself when sober, thoughts, emotions and etc. C) Most importantly for me is that alcohol for me feels like a performance enhancing drug when gaming (For some people only). You feel less anxiety, braver and more confident and I …
/r/seduction12/02/16 02:55 PM
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When they try to pull the girl away, either: Walk with and lead her and the friends. From there talk and befriend the group so they are cool with isolation later down the line. Or Stop the girl and use a false time constraint such as "2 second" and try and isolate the girl from there and pull her away from the friends. Either escalate and pull it if the friends are going mental trying to steal her back, slow the interaction down and get a solid number which is usually 50/50 response in my experi…
/r/seduction07/02/16 05:03 PM
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