Do Looks Matter? NO, because Reality is Subjective.

boss413 · 2016-08-19T15:51:27+00:00

To those who immediately disagree with the the title, consider that 95% of the world fits in the meaty part of the bell curve. True, for the 2.5% who are super handsome, your looks matter because you get special treatment, especially by the opposite sex. For the 2.5% who are genetically ugly, you've got a specific handicap in this arena. But the middle two standard deviations? Species propagate by the rule of good-enough--"normal" is pretty much what our brains are evolved to seek out.

You should absolutely never count yourself out before trying something. Always open the girl you want, because you miss 100% of the shots you don't take and it costs nothing. Further, 80% of women's attraction comes from non-physical attributes, so believe you have something wonderful to offer even if you're not Chris Hemsworth.

BUT your avatar impacts others' perceptions of you. We're visual animals, and imagining that interactions aren't first colored by how we look is self-delusion. The double-edged sword of "it's your responsibility to always try" is that it includes investing in yourself with the gym, hygiene, and clothes.

rom9 · 2016-08-19T16:44:40+00:00

Looks maybe not so much. But what about height ?

Title	Do Looks Matter? NO, because Reality is Subjective.
Author	TrueDevelopment
Upvotes	0
Comments	5
Date	August 19, 2016 12:57 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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