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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Are sororities high value?We don’t go to a big party school, Greek life really isn’t a big deal here, she went to one event and was thinking of ‘trying it out’, and they did give the option to leave whenever. The main issue was some of their rules made her really uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 09:47 PM |
| 8 | The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.Honestly I wish this was talked about more. If I had a dollar for every post-birth side effect I’ve heard of from coworkers/family/friends/etc. I wouldn’t have to work. Really solidifies the child-free stance though 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 03:02 PM |
| 33 | How to piss off men (this had me rolling)🤣 this had me cackling! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 03:03 AM |
| 9 | Self Defense Items / Tools!She Defense (https://www.shopshedefense.com/) is a woman-owned small business with self-defense keychains, I think they have an ‘all in one’ stun gun too. You definitely have to check state/country laws though, because some places won’t allow pepper spray to be shipped through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Religion is by men, for menI know this post references the Abramhamic religions, but I’m curious, does anyone here follow Sikhism? And is it much different? I remember hearing that it was ‘welcoming’ (not sexist?) back in school, would anyone consider sharing their experience? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 06:06 PM |
| 13 | I experienced a switcheroo by a soft boy who ended up extorting my emotional investmentI’m pretty sure this topic was in one of the ‘which professions do you avoid’ posts, I’ll check. I think it’s this one: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/q132xw/as_requested_discussion_about_professions_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf and partially this one as well : https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/q0d75r/when_dating_do_you_have_certain_professions_that/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 07:36 PM |
| 17 | I experienced a switcheroo by a soft boy who ended up extorting my emotional investmentSeriously though—considering all the stories we’ve heard of women being harassed, assaulted, or killed (and how there is little to no discouragement of these incidents)—military should’ve been the first red flag. 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 07:02 PM |
| 6 | As a married woman, FDS Principles have measurably alleviated my anxietyProud of you for how far you’ve come! I’m glad you feel more at peace here, and are less stressed out (also welcome 💗). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:29 AM |
| 14 | Scrote hasn't washed his penis in years, has still slept with unwitting women. Disgusting.Now I need bleach for my eyes 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 12:01 PM |
| 9 | Living On My Own For The First Time At 36.Dogs are excellent alarms, if you can afford to, get a big one. The more intimidating the dog is, the less likely a guy will feel so confident as to harass you (at home or in public). Also if you are able to get a dog, consider what info is put on the collar. An address or phone number could be risky if you live alone, but just having an email address would make it easy for someone to contact you if your dog ever got lost. Proud of you for getting out, and congrats on your new apartment!!!!! Wis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:36 PM |
| 14 | Some art for my new favourite subI LOVE YOUR ART STYLE!!!! This is beautiful. 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:46 AM |
| 7 | I listened to my gut.“He’s lonely!!! 🥺” lol not my problem. He can go to therapy like any decent functioning person with problems, I’m not doing this nice shit for free (and certainly not for him). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨lol why does it look like she’s reading off a prompt 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:15 PM |
| 9 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.I’m sorry, I hope you feel better and can get out soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 31 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.And you’re not divorcing this piece of shit because?!?!?? 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:20 PM |
| 31 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Why is he planning a life where he drives you away and remarries (while being irresponsible in preventing pregnancy)? 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:12 PM |
| 20 | Reddit hates women. THEY absolutely DO! My soul dies every time I see an award in this sub.Same here. Reddit isn’t worth my money ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 18 | Hilarious Response to a Pickmeisha’s attempt to undermine the “don’t be polite to men who creep you out” song? I think you commented on the wrong post? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 9 | How do you feel about men since following FDS?I feel a lot better in my own skin, self awareness is helping me prioritize what I want in life (no longer obsessed with dating or feeling like I was missing out). And FDS really changed how I look at my relatives. Realized my dad is LV with some HV qualities (he doesn’t hit my mom, cheat, or watch porn but that’s the bare minimum). So it’s nice seeing the green flag posts on here because I’ve never had an accurate example of what a HVM is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:21 PM |
| 6 | This *guy* writes himself into the conclusion that calling a group of women “guys” is gender neutral. Oh, and a dash of racism for good measureI like the terms “hey lovelies!” And “hey luv!” which are also gender neutral, but the other options u/UnpeacefulLilly gave are generally better/neutral/less-formal (especially when they’re people you don’t know)😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:07 PM |
| 27 | Love to see women supporting and looking out for other women 👏Found it :) https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-h1Re3YqRsw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 06:37 PM |
| 19 | Female socialization starts youngYou could get her those giant legos (megablocks?) they have some cool sets, and it fuels creativity (infinitely more fun than dolls and chores for toys). 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:15 AM |
| 48 | Female self-defense protip: style your hair using tiny knives so that you always have an easily accessible self-defense tool on your person. It's time we BRING 👏 BACK 👏 HATPIN 👏 HYSTERIA 👏🤣 I was thinking the exact same thing when I saw that post! LETS BRING BACK THE HATPINS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 11 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️Damn. I had my hopes up. I’m gonna hope she was just saying that, but only the future will tell. 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:09 PM |
| 4 | "Would you punch a woman in the face for 1 billion dollars?"He’s actually her father, they started out with her making covers of pop songs and him roasting the low-value lyrics. It’s a pretty funny watch, I recommend it😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 02:26 PM |
| 3 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.Everything else sucks but I see no problem with the bottom right picture. And I wish that I was a lesbian, they look cute together! And so HAPPY! I choose to believe that the bottom right was pro-lesbian/pro-women-being-happy because I need positivity in my life 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Which age you believe is ideal for a straight girl to start dating?I’d say 25 (that’s when the brain is fully formed), I think the later you let average men into your life the more confident you will be going forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:38 PM |
| 8 | Just finished her book, very much recommendI bought it! It was a great read, very FDS. If you wanna turn off PMs you can go to settings so scrotes won’t bother you anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | [MUST READ] NEW RULES to prevent brigading and to comply with Reddit's Terms of Service.Ok! I thought there was something wrong with my account. Thanks for responding! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:13 PM |
| 2 | [MUST READ] NEW RULES to prevent brigading and to comply with Reddit's Terms of Service.Is there something up with the feed? Whenever I post something new it never comes up, and it doesn't seem visible to anyone but me? Is anyone else experiencing this? Edit: grammar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else struggle to make other lady friends? 🥺Honestly same, I don’t have a lot of girl friends either and I’m not good at making friends in general. I miss the days when I was a little kid and it was as easy as saying “you wanna be friends?” Which I guess could work but you still gotta vet the friendship over time. Maybe complementing the women around you (a specific one that starts a conversation) could break the ice. And if they give one back you can go from there. If not then you know to spend your energy somewhere else? I honestly am n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:51 AM |
| 9 | A Power-Anthem I Came AcrossThis is also the same artist that collaborated with Ashnikko on STUPID. I think her energy matches FDS very well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:49 PM |
| 23 | Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men.They just mad because the ring is nicer than anything they could ever afford. 🥱 just the average insecurity and projection scrotes do 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 12:42 AM |
| 56 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.I love FDS and all you ladies. I never knew what I was missing until I found this sub. I had never been in a women-only community before and it’s just so nice! I have never dated, and I used to feel left out because all my friends were in relationships... I hadn’t recognized my self worth until I found this place. My goal is now to have a happy and fulfilling SINGLE future, anything else is a bonus not a new path. 💕 People can bash this sub all they want. It actively helps women when people open… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:54 PM |
| 14 | i did it! i finally left him!!!CONGRATS! Here’s to a happier (and hopefully better) new year! 💕🥂 You got this! Enjoy the freedom and happiness of singledom, I’m glad you leveled up and got out safe ♡. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:39 PM |
| 22 | Most legit ‘Real Housewife’ tweet everIt shouldn't hurt that people like your sister will choose to settle for less. Don't worry about someone with pickme attitudes. Keep your standards high, a true HVM that genuinely wants to cherish you and be a part of your life wont have a problem changing his last name. Like the other Queens said, its a good vetting strategy to mention this. Losers will out themselves real quick once their fragile masculinity is "called out". Your plan is realistic not "ridiculous", I hope more women do this, e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | The beautiful, wonderful irony that a sub about dating strategy helped me realize I SHOULDNT be dating right nowFDS has given me support in believing and loving myself. I don’t think I’ll ever date, as a gen z the odds are pretty much stacked against me. I’ve never had a woman-only space before and I love it here. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 10:34 PM |
| 7 | WOW I hope she gets picked after putting other women in danger! Friendly reminder on how dangerous pickmes can be!The title is in the pic. Simple Reddit search should bring it up (it’s an AITA post obvs). Hope that helps <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 11:28 PM |
| 82 | WOW I hope she gets picked after putting other women in danger! Friendly reminder on how dangerous pickmes can be!The roommate set boundaries and said he had to finish therapy before coming over again, the sister argued that “he’s not a danger” 🚩(the brother had been coming over for months since he first told the sister). the op feels bad bc her lil brother got his feefees hurt and bc her roommate found out and was furious with her. I don’t think she even planned on EVER telling her roommate, and that’s the worst part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Pickme MusicThanks I’ll check it out! ♡ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 03:10 AM |
| 41 | Pickme MusicYeah, I just can’t enjoy some of the music from my fav artists anymore. Dua Lipa and Little Mix are fairly consistent with some HV themes in their songs. Since FDS my music tastes have actually broadened. Little Mix’s new album Confetti has got some pretty good bops that I’ve been listening to. Anyone got any music recommendations? I’m in the mood to make a playlist :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Keep your cheap dateGirl don’t engage w stupid. Block n delete at first sign of lowballing. If he just doesn’t suggest a proper date at first, there’s no point responding because there’s nothing there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 49 | A first date unlike anything I've experienced before.Girl I think u commented on the wrong post, but yeah burning his stuff was some Queen sh** after that horrible abuse he tried to pull. Girl your date sounded so nice! Congrats! (Don’t stop vetting tho queen 👑) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:11 PM |
| 26 | Always start as you mean to continue when it comes to dating! Don’t let men lowball you.I disagree. Usually there are conversations pre-date so you know what to expect. Also you are NEVER under any obligation to stay in a place you feel uncomfortable. I’m not committed to anything or anyone until the vetting process is complete and the person is consistent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 15 | Im tired...I’m sorry those men hurt you. Staying single right now is a good idea. Read the handbook. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading#wiki_pdf_version_of_the_female_dating_strategy_handbook Seriously, read the handbook (it’s obvious you haven’t). Those men are part of the past now. Just block and delete. If you are looking for the right place to post I would suggest r/AskFDS because you could get banned from this sub for breaking the rules. I believe any woman is capab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:00 PM |
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