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DebateTrumpFucksKidz/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:07 AM
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"I no longer want a physically attractive partner. I've matured."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:22 AM
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Shit let me find a dark hair girl with gray at her roots I'M SOLD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:14 AM
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as you age, women in your age group become less superficial. No they just realized that they can't demand the prices they've been demanding. They're still just as superficial. They still want what they want, they're just realizing they can't get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:10 AM
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Yeah but older women aren't looking for casual. Older women are looking for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:08 AM
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The common misconception is that we aren't saying that men age like wine by default. As a 43-year-old man I'm well aware of the work I have to put in to look good. I have to lift harder, have to eat better and it takes a lot more work to maintain my body at 43 than it did at 23. But there are two distinct advantages that being an older man has: The resource game is on point. I'm going to continually earn more and more until about my 50s. I have that over about 95% of 20-year-olds. I'm still able…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:08 AM
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Your problem is you're conflating terms. A man is not a simp for spoiling a woman who has returned investment. A man is a simp when he gives value to a woman who has not done anything in return for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:57 AM
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The ones that have arent online bitching
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:26 AM
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Wild take on what I said. Purple pill gonna purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:15 AM
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You: "Marriage doesn’t benefit women." Also you: "I mean I am happy being married" I'm not even gonna try with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:48 AM
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No. Some women try to control men via sex. If it works, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:44 AM
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I totally agree. I think women should totally avoid the institution of marriage as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:43 AM
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I love that even the purple pilled men are in here calling bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:15 PM
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A lot of guys today act like planning dates, paying, or “entertaining” women is some kind of feminist psy-op. It is. Modern women want those traditional things without the expectation of traditional behavior on their end. The scam is that they don't outright say it and instead pretend that a man's traditional behavior will yield traditional results. Its a terrible scam, and any man without blue pill blinders can see it, but yet it works. But that story ignores a reality of why men traditionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:31 PM
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You're asking for people's opinions. People have different opinions. Besides, the line is used as a counterpoint to the lie that "women age like wine". It's intentionally hyperbolic to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:09 AM
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Oh it's never going to happen. There are too many men that rely on female validation and can't stop thinking with anything but their penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:48 AM
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The Final Solution. Men need to exit the dating field en masse. Give women their greatest fear - a world without male resources and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:51 AM
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Women don't expire. They aren't milk. What does happen is that they become less competitive than their younger counterparts. This doesn't apply to wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:48 AM
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Lol whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:28 PM
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Lol I'm a black man in America. You think I haven't experienced dating discrimination? It has zero effect on me outside of the narrow window of the population that doesn't want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:28 PM
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Cool. Argue with someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:42 PM
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I like how I was asked a question about how I do something and you just wanna argue. Argue with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:35 PM
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Okay so the first one I get. If you view that as providing. At least when it comes to money only. This is what women are talking about when they say they want a provider. Protecting seems to be a hypothetical thing instead of reality. It's very much a reality. One way that men protect their families is by moving them into safe neighborhoods. The thing about protection is you don't even know what's happening because you're not in danger. How does the leading thing work? Do you have an example? I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:32 AM
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I can't speak for other men. I provide by paying all the bills. I make enough money to cover everything. I admit that's not a luxury all men have. I protect by being a 6'0 235 muscle animal and having the good judgement to not be in a position where i need to use it. I lead by having a direction in my life that includes my partner. I also have clear relationship goals and expectations so she isn't wondering what I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:07 AM
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Okay, I'm a bigot. Big fucking deal. /Jerking off motions intensify
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:02 AM
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It's only an appeal to nature fallacy if it doesn't accurately apply. Last time I checked humans are a part of nature We are literally primates, We still share the same sperm/egg relationship that other primates do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:57 AM
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The other side of that coin requires your cooperation. I will not provide for a woman who demands independence. I cannot protect a woman who does not listen when I set limits. I cannot lead a woman who refuses to follow. Fortunately that isn't my struggle, but I feel bad for the men who are expected to do these things with an uncooperative woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:56 AM
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I don't want to date white women because they will never understand my lived experience or the experience that our children will have. If you want to call me a bigot for deciding who I allow into my personal life, then I'd love to hear that argument. Bear in mind that my personal preference to not date them has zero impact on their lives whatsoever outside of that one arena.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:53 AM
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I'm going to let you in on a shocking secret - both sexes compete for mates. The difference between men and women, is that their reproductive strategy dictates selectiveness servers whereas ours is quantity-based. That leads to men needing to be the ones to actively pursue and women to make themselves good options to be pursued. Again just because you don't like it doesn't change shit. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:49 AM
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I edited my reply. I don't want to waste my time using the Socratic method on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:04 AM
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If youre not a simp, you know there are other ways besides chasing. Please, enlighten me. Actually let me not even do this - I am going to save you some time. This is a trap. I'm trying to get you to admit that you do things to attract the opposite sex. In your narrow mind you think chasing is literally going out and hunting women down. Everything you do to make yourself more appealing to the opposite sex is, in essence, chasing. It is competing against other men for the opportunity to mate. Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:01 AM
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How is what I described simping?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:53 AM
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Please explain how what I said was "simping".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:47 AM
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Nope. It makes more sense for men to pursue women because women have to be more selective about mate selection. From a biological perspective, a woman can only have a very small number of children over her lifetime as a man can populate an entire country if he's good enough. This means that women have to be more selective and thus should be the ones being approached and refusing mates. You see this pattern literally everywhere in the animal kingdom among primates. Unless we stop being primates, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:23 AM
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I mean, the bulk of women don't seem to understand this given how they want (and feel like they deserve) apex men while being staggeringly mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:23 AM
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What is it that makes these women you’ve never met in these other countries Stupid of you to assume I've never left the country. What is it that makes western men deserving of more than their American women counterparts? Because we're worth more. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:51 PM
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Yeah, and if you would put half that energy into your life here in America… Maybe an American woman would actually want you and you wouldn’t have to “train“ to become a passport bro. Have you considered that American women aren't worth it? I'll tell you straight up - The only reason that you American girls can get dates is because the men don't have a choice. Men who can choose don't choose American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:30 AM
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You think international dating is easy? Fuck yes. It's very hard and expensive it takes lots of planning and strategic execution. You're right that it isn't cheap. But it isn't hard to plan or execute, especially if you go to a place where English is commonly spoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:27 AM
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Ah, so words don't mean words. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:56 PM
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I don’t think women want to be providers, most want equality/equity. You literally said this. Out your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:50 PM
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Shhh. Women who stay at home have it so hard. Imagine the strain of having to make clothes, or having to do laundry by hand, or getting water from the well to wash dishes, or gathering plants for food, or hand scrubbing every surface to keep it clean. If only there were machines that could ease their burden!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:17 AM
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Thank you for admitting that women don't want to provide for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:58 AM
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Power? I eagerly await the day a man is allowed to stay at home with his children without being viewed as a failure. Working to support a family isn't power, it's servitude. It is a willing servitude, to be clear - but a man working 40-60 hours a week to support a family isn't thinking "fuck yeah look at all this power that I have." Once again, women demonstrate that they don't understand the lives of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:57 AM
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What is your point? This is a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:51 AM
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it doesn't happen. Never said that. Strawman. and if it does, your limited experience doesn't count. Personal experience isn't data. and if they seemed happy, they weren't. Never said that. Strawman And if they were, they can't possibly be because the stepdad is a looser. Never said that. Strawman And if they really are happy, they won't be for long because they'll miss the dude who pumped and dumped them. Never said that. Strawman. Also, they guy is "willingly cheating himself" What does he get…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:23 PM
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Holy fucking crashout
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:15 AM
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Your limited personal experience isn't data.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:03 AM
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They were just trying to take an opportunity to dig at red pill men, per usual
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:59 AM
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There's this revenge fantasy about single moms struggling to find decent men. It isn't a "revenge fantasy". It's a very real complaint from their own mouths. I disagree, single moms can find men Sure. It happens a lot. men who are relatively well-off (in comparison to the woman) That's not a high bar considering that most single moms exist below the poverty line. and are willing to financially invest in her kids. Again, it happens. RP says that it shouldn't, and that any man who willingly does i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:19 AM
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Take your issue to them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:00 AM
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You said a stupid thing. If one sentence was too hard for you to understand and apply to your statement, any further discussion would probably cause unintentional nosebleeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:54 AM
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What a stupid thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:23 AM
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Yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:05 PM
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Because of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:04 PM
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Women release one egg per month, for less than 40 years. They are the reproductive bottleneck. It's right there. All you had to do was read
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:02 PM
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You aren't wrong actually! I should definitely have chosen my partner using red pill philosophy instead of blue pill philosophy. Did you think this was some kind of burn?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:54 PM
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But none of those things matter if he's hawt. Really that's the criteria that women use to decide who they let cum inside them. I'm not even saying "don't fuck hot guys", but don't give random men babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:15 PM
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Men generally tend to fall into one of four categories, based on where they rank in attractiveness and usefulness. Attractive & Useful: "Real man" Unattractive & Useful: "just a guy" Attractive & useless: "fuck boy" Unattractive & useless: these men don't even exist to women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:47 AM
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I was busy making the money so she didn't have to work. But I was also taking time to do things like boil bottles and all that other shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:28 AM
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You're really doing metal gymnastics to avoid addressing the point. Blue pill doing what blue pill does
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:15 AM
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Well I'm sure you did miss the point once you started crashing out but that's okay, I'm patient so I'll say it again so you can address it: there are men who you can look at and - based on their patterns of behavior - can say hey that person will probably make a good father.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:20 AM
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You are the king of missing the entire point. You missed the point on my initial reply, You're missing the point now, and I have a suspicion if I reply to you you're going to miss the point again. I don't know why I'm trying but here it goes: Go bang Megan Fox or Oprah Winfrey, if you believe they’re as easy to get as normal women who look similar to them. A woman who looks like Oprah is easy to bang because she looks like Oprah. A woman who looks like Megan Fox is hard to bang because she looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:17 AM
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The reason that you attached onto that one cheeky comment rather than address the actual point is because you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:12 AM
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I personally believe this is cope from men. Since the fuck when are women like Megan Fox low on options, even of high quality? Famous women have big fanbases too. A woman who looks like Megan Fox will have as many options regardless of her status. Her options are determined by her physical attractiveness and that's it. A woman's fame and wealth is not a factor in men's calculus. As an aside, You notice how you said Megan Fox and not Oprah Winfrey - a woman who is far more wealthy and far more po…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:57 AM
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Well let's be fair I'm sure her day is full with having... /Checks notes machines that do laundry, and machines that do dishes, and machines that cook, and machines that help with housework. Seriously on the rare days I got to be a stay-at-home dad that shit was so cake. I literally had all the laundry and all the shit done was able to make a meal and had time to spare. I had so much time on my hands I didn't know what the fuck to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:54 AM
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Oh so now suddenly women's intuition isn't worth shit? But let's be real, there are men who you can look at and - based on their patterns of behavior - can say hey that person will probably make a good father. But y'all don't have to listen to us. Just keep opening your legs for the guy who's in a band and who sleeps in the back of a van. I'm sure it'll work out great.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:51 AM
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I always hated that trope. Motherhood is not the most difficult job on the planet unless you fuck it up. Maybe single motherhood is difficult, but why are you having babies with men who aren't good dads? For a married woman motherhood is a cakewalk compared to what men do in the world on a daily basis. My ex-wife would bitch about how her life was so goddamn hard when she was raising our newborn. I just stared at her as I got back from my job where I had to run 5 mi a day in the hot ass Alabama …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:35 AM
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You're not missing out. Religious black girls are the fucking worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:32 AM
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Women will generally have more options than men. The only time this rule differs is if the man is at the apex, then he will have vastly more options than an equivalent woman. Men face a struggle of options, women face a struggle of quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:31 AM
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Sorry that's been your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:28 PM
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I've said it before and I will say it till the day I die: Men become what women want in the dating market. If women valued integrity and honesty and courage and decency, Men would be knights in shining armor. But they only value muscles and money so fuck it - We get muscles and we get money and fuck the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:40 AM
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And yet we exist in a world where decent quality men who are full of honesty and integrity are often overlooked in favor of attractive men without those traits. Again the question isn't about "good" it's about "suitable". Moral goodness and character are not primary traits that women select for. When women complain about a lack of good men, it's usually because they've chosen attractive men with no qualities such as integrity, honesty, or character and then act surprised when those men act witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:19 AM
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The majority of people are good people and so, by extension, the majority of men are good men. The issue here is y'all conflating "good" with "suitable". Just because a man is "good", as in morally or ethically good, does not mean he's a suitable partner. Likewise a man who is "bad" or immoral may still fit your criteria for what makes a suitable partner. The reason that men say that there are plenty of good men is because women say "there are no good men". If women were to say "there are no att…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:02 AM
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Nobody is by virtue of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:53 PM
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I mean, that's cool. You could have corrected your horrendous spelling but you opted to get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:28 AM
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Are you having a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:18 AM
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Hot take: there is no "male loneness epidemic". The only people pushing this narrative are women who are attempting to get men to fall back into line and get into relationships with women who offer little to nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:13 AM
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We aren't under the delusion that what we (and I use "we" loosely, because I think it's simping and I don't do that) are doing is "empowerment".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:59 PM
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I don't care about the respect of a gender that sells pictures of their buttholes for $5.99 and calls it "empowerment."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:04 AM
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You going to address what I said, or are you just going to pivot?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:52 PM
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If you want to debate what I'm talking about, address what I'm saying and not what you think I'm saying. Otherwise, I'm good. I'm not here to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:48 PM
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It's a silly argument to think that every red pill man is an incel, especially since most of us are red pilled because of our experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:36 PM
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Describing the female of a species as "female" isn't insulting. Get over yourself. Edit: You would never have thought that the people who are so upset over being pegged into gender roles would fight so hard to be identified with the label associated with gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:30 PM
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Id just want someone who likes me for the person Iam. Which is something that I do for the opposite gender That's where you're fucking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:29 PM
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Shaming language.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:26 PM
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That's a cool strawman of his position. Care to address what he said?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:26 PM
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If you want to make stupid strawmen, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:22 PM
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You can think whatever ignorant things you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:52 AM
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When he marries you, let me know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:46 AM
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If you're dating a man who is willing to play by traditional gender roles, he's going to expect a woman to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:20 AM
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Unless a woman signals transparent indicators of romantic interest- prolonged eye contact, attempting to strike up conversation with you, or light touch, it is best for men to just avoid women when they are out in the world. Is there a handbook called "Signs that a woman wants you to approach her and acceptable venues to do so?" Pretty sure there isn't. Women flirt in different ways. Don't get me wrong, I don't agree with approaching women in public - If a woman doesn't make an aggressive move t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:18 AM
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We need a solid case to offer them commitment and resources which is what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:15 AM
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So you understand this, yet you don't understand how men don't have access to abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:12 AM
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No you're just paying for nothing. You're not making a solid case to date women and foot the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:36 PM
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Can men get pregnant? Why is it so hard for blue pill people to answer a 7th grade biology question?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:05 PM
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Can men get pregnant? If not, then access to abortion is the sole purview of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:31 PM
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This is the blue pill for you. They're willing to adopt any contradictory and illogical opinion to win an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:16 PM
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You might say that only women can get pregnant, and sure if you want to think of it that way Can men get pregnant? I didn't think the blue pill was so damn delusional that this actually needs to be asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:54 PM
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Can men get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:53 PM
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I heard this repeatedly Citation needed. If a father can opt out of caring for his children, why should he have rights to his children? He shouldn't. You having fun kicking the shit out that strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:50 PM
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>He wants it for free I can tell that you're a woman because you think dating is free as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:49 PM
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I don't disagree with you, but dating a traditional man requires you to be a traditional woman. Most women don't want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:48 PM
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Men aren't obligated to pay in the era of equality. You cannot demand conditional chauvinism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:46 PM
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Can men have abortions? Simple question, and your evasiveness says everything I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:44 PM
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If you can walk away from a child without repercussions, why would you have rights to access and make decisions for that child? No man is arguing for that, and I challenge you to find one. The financial abortion argument is about allowing men to have the same ability to opt out of fatherhood that women have to opt out of motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:43 PM
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You aren't going to get honest discussions from women on this. They will fight all day to keep their right to kill a fetus, but then will also fight to avoid giving men the right to walk away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:39 PM
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Can men have abortions? Are you so intent on being wrong that we are going into "boys have a penis, girls have a vagina" level discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:37 PM
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I was refuting a point made by another user: Men also have the exact same access to abortion as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:36 PM
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Well pregnancy is only something that women can go through, right? So women are the ones with sole access to the end of pregnancy. Thank you for supporting my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:07 PM
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Does a woman require the man's permission to perform an abortion? Can a man force a woman to have an abortion? No. Therefore access to abortion is solely a female prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:27 PM
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What constitutes a simp in y’all’s eyes? A man who is giving value to a woman who doesn't offer anything in return. Is calling a man a simp missandry? I honestly don’t know and would like to be educated. No. To me, it truly seems like treating a woman well is frowned upon by men; why is that? We have no problems treating women well. The problem comes when you give a woman preferential treatment when she offers you nothing in exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:29 AM
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Good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:28 AM
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It's like saying people who complain about police brutality shouldn't be allowed to call the police when in trouble First, most of us don't call the police. Second we're not comparing the police to bears because that's stupid. We're fully aware that bears will eat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:07 AM
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It is amazing what women will say in your presence when they don't see you as a sexual option. They feel really comfortable telling you about all the men they did wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:05 AM
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"You chose the bear" is the perfect reaction. If women feel comfortable categorizing all men as dangerous predators and "choosing the bear" based upon the experiences that they have had with the men they've chosen then it's perfectly reasonable for us, the random men that they demonized, to remind them of their choice. You don't get to insult an entire group of people and then expect them to treat you with civility and courtesy when it's convenient for you. Women are completely free to choose th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:59 AM
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You asked for an example, I gave one. I'm glad you agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:24 PM
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One example right off the top of my head: The body positivity movement. Women have hijacked it to make being obese an acceptable beauty standard. They even made "fat phobic" a term that carries weight beyond "I don't want to date fat girls" while having zero equivalent body positivity for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:48 PM
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Except men are constantly told that we should stop being inadequate whereas female inadequacy is encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:35 AM
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Aren't we though? No. You're legally an adult. We have a legal age for a reason. I'm literally in the military and everyone just calls us kids. Except you're not a child. You are legally an adult. If were under 25 or so, we're just kids. Please list the jurisdiction that the age of adulthood is 25. 16 year Olds are just kids but they e signed up for war. Drummer boys were only children. It's 2025. You're welcome to join us in the debate we're having now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:43 AM
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If you're old enough to sign up for war, you aren't a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:15 AM
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"I don't know a thing, so clearly it isn't common knowledge."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:14 AM
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"You only get flak when you're over the target."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:33 PM
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TRP isn't about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:25 AM
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Yes. Red pill is solely about intersexual dynamics and doesn't apply to other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:23 AM
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They should have to settle for the things that their decisions brought them to. Until you can name something that a single mother can provide that a woman without kids can't that is of benefit to a man, your position is useless. You can't shame men who have options into choosing the worst options on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:16 AM
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Involuntary impregnation is rape, regardless of which gender does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:14 AM
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Exchange of value. That called trade. And trade of sex called prostitution. OP, in this very thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:14 AM
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That's what she doesn't understand. The logical end to her position is that everyone who exchanges anything for sex, to include commitment and security, is a prostitute. Unlike her, I clearly defined what I deem to be prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:09 AM
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I asked a direct question. Try answering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:34 PM
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Men with options might exercise those options. It isn't required.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:47 PM
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Notice how you didn't address the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:31 PM
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Why bother getting married? Single, I am responsible for myself and don't have to assist a woman who, statistically, makes less money and spends more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:36 PM
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Bit isn't it easier to survive retirement with 2 Pele having IRAs? Not when it's two people. Moreover a single man makes more for himself than a couple makes divided among two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:45 PM
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In b4 women start using words like "narcissistic" and "intimidated" when the real answer is "women have nothing to offer that offsets the risk men take from marriage."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:34 PM
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If you're playing for sex with something of value, as you've stated, that means they are prostitutes As I've stated before, I only call women prostitutes when they exchange money directly for sex. Don't put your misogynistic attitude on me. you're calling them that. No, that's you. Fix your misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:54 PM
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Again, you are calling women prostitutes for going on dates and having consenting sex. Not me. You need to work on that internalized misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:43 PM
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"I wouldn't do it though." - and yet you did. Quote where I called a woman a prostitute for sex after a dinner date. Do it, or apologize for fucking lying. Really, don't reply unless you do this. You said that you've paid with dinner for anal (i think it's pretty cheap to be honest) No, I paid for dinner with money and you missed the point. I'll explain it to you Barney style: I had no problem giving the demands she had for the date because she was willing to meet my demands for the date. A mutu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:38 PM
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I mean you are free to use escorts It's weird that a woman would say that about a casual arrangement that many women favor. If you want to walk around calling other women and the sisterhood prostitutes that's your choice. I wouldn't do it though. I only call women prostitutes when they take direct cash for sex, but you're bold for broadening the term. It's weird to brag that you can't pull off an attractive woman. I don't have problems finding an attractive woman. I also don't have problems find…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:18 PM
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then why there are no women whining about not getting stacy treatment You fucking kidding right? There's an entire world of average Amandas out there crying that men don't give them the princess treatment they feel they deserve. men can't shut up about not getting chads, when they are not chads? And TRP will be the first one to tell those men to get their money up, to get their muscle up, and do the work. If you want top tier results you got to be a top tier man. The difference here is that wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:15 PM
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People at the top of the market, men or women, don't have to make demands. By existing at the top of the market the competition for them is so great that the competitors will willingly offer up things that they wouldn't to people at the bottom of the market. That's why Chad doesn't have to demand sex on the first date. That's why Stacy doesn't have to demand princess treatment. Those things are just given because the competitors want to stay competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:35 AM
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I'm not demanding, he either pays or i'm out That's literally the definition of a demand, but okay. As I mentioned in my reply to you, The other party fucking off and leaving you alone is always on the table. Here's the thing - the market is undefeated. If you could command that from men they would do it - you wouldn't have to ask. The competition for you would be so great that these men would do it in order to stay in the game. If you're not seeing it that's because your market value is not hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:02 AM
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No. Sabotage is a strategy, yes, but it is not the best one. Sabotage as a strategy is bad because it's a problem of scaling. If you're out here in the dating market your competition is literally every other man in the dating proximity of the woman or women that you're after. Trying to individually sabotage each and every one of those men is a losing play. Hell even trying to employ strategies to sabotage groups of men is a losing play. The most effective strategy you can employ is to build your…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:57 AM
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Bingo. TRP will be the first to tell men that if they aren't giving a woman what she wants she'll move on. We don't mince words about how attractiveness, resources, and status matter. It's the people (men and women) who want the Chad/Stacy outcomes but don't want to accept what it takes to get them that have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:49 AM
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Oh I fully got it. But it's silly because there are women who actually move through the world like that. Moreover, some of her points, I even acknowledge. Yes, men will do more for Stacy than they will for plain Jane. Yes, women will do more for Chad than they will for mid-tier Mitch. TRP understands these things. It's the blue pilled world that bemoans how unfair they think the dating market is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:47 AM
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If you could command it, you wouldn't need to spend so much time demanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:45 AM
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In this case we're only talking about the trait of "confidence." You can be attractive and have all the confidence in the world but the moment you fail to perform you are looked at as a joke. You need demonstrated success or capacity to pair with confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:40 AM
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Well, when you can spell Chanel we can talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:39 AM
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I think women should refuse to pay for anything on a date I think women should choose what they prefer so that the man can make an informed decision. Men often tell here how humiliating it is to be treated "worse" than previous partners. You're leaving out an important bit. We don't want to be treated worse while giving equivalent or greater investment. I believe that most men payed for a date, so why should i split cost when he had different standards for another? Are you willing to give the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:38 AM
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Confidence is only a desirable trait in people who are successful (Note that i did not say "attractive"). Confidence in things you are a failure at is seen as delusional. If a super model said "I'm a 10", it would be plausible. If an ugly person were "confident" and said that they're a "10", we'd laugh. If a millionaire said "I'm confident in my ability to be successful at making money" we wouldn't think twice. If a homeless person said that they had a good way to make money, we would assume the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:20 AM
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This is vomit-inducing. You don't have any semblance of an argument, you're just spewing nonsense thinking it's deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:21 AM
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Well, this is one way to prove that everything that the radfems say about us is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:19 AM
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You're not gonna get an honest (if any) response
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:11 AM
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You sure did kick the shit out of that strawman. If it weren't for women demanding nothing from men society in itself would collapse due to these vermin. Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:10 AM
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Cool. Let's put it to the test. Give me a good argument for abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:02 AM
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Every argument you can make that supports a woman having the right to abort supports a man having the right to abandon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:42 PM
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Your analogy fails outright. Let us imagine that, one night, you are driving a car while intoxicated and cause a terrible collision. In this scenario, only one party consented. In this scenario, car accidents are not an expected or common occurrence while driving Your analogy fails because pregnancy is requiring two parties to consent, additionally sex does not always lead to impregnation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:41 PM
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All of this relies on one base assertion: That men will continue to offer commitment. We won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:00 PM
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Men are not more upfront than women be for real I was replying to that. Her post itself was a ramble of unrelated nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:35 AM
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Even if we let him go that route, you have to remember that men are not free to engage in an outright exchange of resources for sex. It's illegal in a lot of areas and the social stigma that comes with it can be prohibitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:31 AM
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Not until marriage. Provision is a husband duty, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:28 AM
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You didn't answer the question. You didn't answer it because it destroys your premise flat out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:42 PM
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Which of the two genders is expected to initiate dating? Thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:11 PM
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If that expectation is fine, do not ask a man to open his wallet ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:06 PM
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Okay, go with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:44 PM
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This is a wild take. Honestly, it speaks as to how you would act towards someone who is genuinely interested in you and doesn't demand that you jump hurdles to be with them. What it means for me is that I don't waste time or money pursuing women who aren't interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:22 PM
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That's one take. There's a larger group that women and blue pillers don't want to acknowledge: The men who have watched other men get screwed and said "nope." They don't want to acknowledge that group because then the deflection of "who hurt you" is ineffective and it forces them to accept that women behave badly and are sheltered from it by a blue pilled society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:25 PM
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How did you know they were red pill? Did they give you the secret handshake? Fucking Gary. It was Gary, wasn't it? He's always trying to show off the secret handshake to bang chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:22 PM
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"it doesn't apply to me so that must be true for all women!" This is so exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:21 PM
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You're mistaking the symptom for the disease. Red pill only talks about these things as a response to the disparity between the things women say and what they respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:20 PM
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I used to do that until I learned that women who like you will do anything to be near you and don't demand that you pay on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:18 PM
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Lol no. The average woman is getting cooked up by the average man. You've been watching too many movies. Also, women are also bathing apes - just like men. Your lack of violence is actually "I don't want to get my ass kicked by bigger apes."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:01 PM
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Until women wake up as men, it statistically isn't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:00 PM
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This is why feminism is a mind virus. Women want freedom. Feminists fought for the right to say no to sex. Yes, men gave us that right. That's the problem. Only a feminist would be upset when someone advocates for their interests if that person is a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:41 PM
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I did you the courtesy of directly replying to your point. I ask that you do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:23 PM
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Feminism is what did this I don't see very many feminist cops enforcing laws. The fact of the matter is the only reason that feminism works is because men agree. Because we're arguing about the point that OP made, If men decided that rape was okay y'all wouldn't have a fucking choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:51 PM
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On a outcome and societal based perspective I say arranged marriages are far better : higher success rate, parents match making couples for correct reasons, proper vetting of spouses, and social reinforcement from family friends and community. With that said, I can't support anything that violates bodily autonomy. And not being able to choose the person you spend the rest of your life with (ostensibly) is unacceptable in my worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:08 PM
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You're actually making an argument against the point you think you're making. What you're showing is that society has evolved and developed over time and things that used to be considered acceptable are now considered unacceptable by a broad enough majority of people to warrant a change in laws. In short: men broadened the definition of rape and made it even more illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:03 PM
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If men would support legalizing rape it would be legal. The majority of laws are written by men and pretty much all laws are enforced by men. If men wanted something to be legal it would be legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:58 AM
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I challenge you to find person who is in support of rape because they're red pilled. You might find a rapist in support of rape, but that's not related to them being red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:57 AM
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I don't even... What? I can debunk this instantly, with one question: Is rape legal? Honey if men wanted to legally rape we wouldn't have made rape illegal. What are y'all going to do? You definitely can't fight us. What are you going to do? Call other men, that's what. The fact of the matter is rape is illegal because men don't want it to happen. We think it's bad. We think it's bad and we outlawed it. We, men, enforce punishment for those who commit it. Don't post something this stupid again
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:53 AM
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Most of the time, y'all aren't as cute as you think you are. I'm going to say it - Most women are ugly and/or overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:37 AM
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No. I got into this relationship because of my views and approach. I'm a very egalitarian man in every area of my life except my intimate relationships, and I make it very clear that I'm in charge. Because of that, I only attract women that are happy with that arrangement. It's funny how if you're upfront about who you are and what you want, you'll tend to attract people with a similar mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:32 AM
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I think that people who demand others to be mind readers don't deserve relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:22 PM
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Fucking gross. #nofatchicks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:01 PM
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You'd be surprised how often even progressive straight gals suddenly think you're icky and trying to hit on them Welcome to being a man, except they make that assumption about us by default all the time regardless of how unattractive they themselves are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:45 PM
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They don't demonize sexually average men. Sexually average men are invisible. They demonize sexually average men who want sexual access. When those men stop becoming invisible, then they get demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:43 PM
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Weird that you're mistaking the outcome for the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:20 AM
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What the hell is there to address? It's just baseless snark.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:27 PM
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Some of you do. Most of you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:20 PM
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You calling this long winded only points out your short attention span.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:19 PM
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news flash It is, because women like to bullshit as if they aren't "shallow" when it comes to picking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:08 PM
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We also select for attractiveness, we just don't pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:07 PM
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This seems like a long winded attempt to avoid accountability when women cheat. Can't really tell because it's so disjointed and rambling that a clear point (or even a clear subject) isn't present.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:57 PM
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Men, this is important. You just got another confirmation that women select for attractiveness over all other attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:56 PM
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Keep your standards. We just don't want you to blame us when you don't get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:34 AM
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Odd way to avoid the point, but that works I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:33 AM
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That's a big assertion. Care to back it up? The position I would take is that women do things once they become easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:29 AM
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OP, Blaming men for the relationships that women consent into entering is a bit tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:28 AM
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Our lives as men significantly improve when we stop acting like fucking misers. We ought to serve others. We ought to be generous. Why? I get that you think that but you haven't demonstrated that. If you want to serve others as a personal choice, that's your prerogative. When you turn that service to others as an obligation, that's slavery. You clowns act like serving others or giving of yourself is somehow beneath you. Strawman. You are misrepresenting my argument and attempting shaming languag…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:50 AM
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I think men and women can have genuine friendships, but it has to be very clear from the outset that there are boundaries that will not be crossed by either party. Those friendships are also more likely when the woman wants sex more than the man, because she cannot leverage his desire for her personal gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:09 AM
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And that's it folks. If you're giving me friendship you get friendship in return. If you want more than the friendship package, you got to offer more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:07 AM
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Why is the epitome of masculinity always directly related to the service and benefit of women? Odd how a man's never called super masculine when he takes his own interests into account and works on being a better version of himself and only for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:06 AM
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I'm still convinced that user is a tanuki.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:05 AM
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Can't, the comment was deleted by the admins
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:12 PM
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Present said data.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:31 PM
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Fine. You're a man or a tanuki or a toaster. I don't give a fuck. Address my points and quit mewling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:41 PM
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I don't have people in my life that think like that, thankfully
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:33 PM
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Women just expect emotional maturity from everyone. HAHAHA. "Emotional maturity" is a bludgeon that you women wield when it suits you. You don't whip it out for other women or even yourselves. This is why women have strong friendships and communities outside romantic relationships. I've seen how you women treat each other. Y'all hate each other. They provide each other with family-like love and support without the expectation of sex. Because y'all aren't lesbians. Try this nonsense line with a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:58 AM
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Absolutely nothing. As an egalitarian, I have the same expectations for my male and female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:31 AM
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You greatly underestimate the power of stupidity. If stupidity could power a Lantern Corps power ring, it would be the most powerful ring of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:02 AM
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Hold the fuck up... I'm supposed to not rape? Shit, I've been confused this whole time. Next thing you're gonna tell me is that murder is impolite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:59 AM
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Moon water sales would go through the roof! You know, if they had men to build houses with roofs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:58 AM
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Hold the fuck up... You crashed the fuck out on another comment thread over this data you claim was "mAnIpUlAteD" so you come and make a whole thread thinking it's going to go any better? Okay.jpg You'll like to lie and manipulate data to create a fake narrative that women do more or similar SA on men. Women commit rape. Arguing about "who rapes more" is like competing in the oppression Olympics. How about we punish all rapists instead of taking your misandrist approach? If men actually think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:57 AM
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I don't waste the energy responding to certain people when I can look at their posting history and get a good idea of what they're about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:42 AM
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He should have chosen better as men on here like to say. I know you're being cheeky with your response, but you're actually right. Men who choose poorly find themselves in this position. Men should only give commitment to women who are fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative. If men did this, they would never find themselves in this position and the women who want to be domineering, masculine, and aggressive can belong to the community like they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:58 AM
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I'm going to agree with you but before I go into that, point of order: Words have meaning. Overuse of the term "cuck" has rendered it impotent. In fact I would argue that your use of the word has detracted so much from your point that people are now arguing about your use of the word rather than the point you were trying to make. Regardless, onto your post. What the heck is it with men like this? I'll directly answer your question. It's because these men have perceived low optionality. They thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:34 AM
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That's fair. Unfortunately, I'm only able to work with what we have available. Tell me, what conclusion would you draw?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:10 AM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:02 AM
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You can't claim women are becoming single moms Did women stop becoming single mothers between the time I made this post and right now? but yet the birth rate is dropping. But...it is. How can these men losers "as you claim women are sexing" if woman's standards are for getting "rich" men. I'm sorry - I am not fluent in derp. Rich men deserve women, they are by definition not losers We actually agree on that point. If women could actually keep their legs closed and only fuck rich men, that would …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:50 PM
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Lol you just contradicted yourself If you think that, then you aren't able to keep up with this discussion. Moreover, there's no need to "shame" women. Y'all will happily fuck losers - it doesn't bother me, I'm not the one making or becoming a single mom. Women can demand whatever they want from men since men Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:04 PM
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Data is presented. Woman crashes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:54 PM
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Your inability to address them is annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:54 PM
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All of this is to avoid arguing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:52 PM
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You'll learn that this user is the queen of bad faith arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:33 AM
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Address the syllogism. Point out what premises are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:29 AM
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Most men LIE about their perceived value. Deception is a part of the game. Women also lie about their value as well, except your lies are socially acceptable. Makeup and shape wear is literally lying about your fitness, youth, and fertility. Now, can you tell me specifically how men lie about their value and how women are so fucking awful at detecting it? But a BIGGER factor is women are shamed for wanting a rich man who can provide. Wrong. You're shamed for wanting those things while offering n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:27 AM
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P1: lesbians have a higher divorce rate than heterosexual women P2: according to you, women won't stay in a bad relationship Conclusion: lesbians having higher divorce rates than heterosexual couples means that lesbian relationships are worse than heterosexual ones. What did I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:15 AM
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I'm gonna blow your mind: most of us who can easily provide are not flashy or "fun". Regardless, a man's ability to provide is largely irrelevant when it comes to who women fuck. If a man's "value" were actually a factor you would have a valid point, but it isn't. Why else do y'all stay pregnant from losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:11 AM
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No. Women have very clear dating rules and they are remarkably similar to men's: I want the most value in exchange for as little investment and I will do whatever I can to engineer this scenario. If you remember that, what women do will become clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:05 AM
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I'm calling horseshit. Wanting a successful man doesn't make you a gold digger. The question is "what do you offer this man in return?" If you're offering an equivalent exchange of value to this man, it isn't gold digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:00 AM
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So women are bad to be in relationships with? Because that's the logical conclusion of your position when you take into account the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:55 PM
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Because she's a sex criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:49 PM
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No, it means we can't show women our vulnerability because they weaponize it against us when it suits their moods. Don't tell us what we mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:39 AM
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Men see sex as something being done to women rather than it being something both men and women do. Some men do see it that way, because the onus of sexual performance is usually placed on the man. It is an act of doing that can, at times, feel like you're giving all the effort. So because of this anything a woman has to say about dating dynamics is automatically invalid to most men. Wrong. Your conclusion is correct but your cause is wrong. We don't care about what women have to say about dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:15 PM
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In this scenario sex isn't an option so clearly we would be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:24 PM
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You're misrepresenting the position. if you feel that sex degrades women Multiple casual partners diminishes the value of a woman in the eyes of men looking for commitment. That's the position. Because you can't eat your cake and have it. Actually, you can. There are billions of women in the world. Some of them are worth committing to whereas some have decided to become community property.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:18 AM
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but how is the world going to be repopulated or all we all gonna die because nobody can have sex with each other? That isn't a part of the hypothetical, but even if it was, artificial insemination does exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:15 AM
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men would definitely put more effort into getting sex if every woman refused to have sex until in a committed relationship or whatever the goal is. Sure. But that isn't the scenario that OP IS SUGGESTING. This is simply a retarded take Not as retarded as you not understanding the topic. You’d be surprised how the attraction swiftly intensifies after I tell a man that I’m not interested in having sex. But sex is still in the realm of possibilities. The scenario presented is women making the odds …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:23 AM
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It’s also nice to see that you don’t see any value in women at all except sex. What a dumb fucking straw man. I'm literally engaging in the hypothetical presented in the scenario. But thanks for showing that you're dishonest debater (again).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:12 AM
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If we're talking about a world where sex exists and some men were having it and some men weren't, The lack of sex can feel like you're dying in the middle of an ocean. But in this scenario, nobody is having sex. From the most comely to the most homely, no man has any sexual opportunities. That changes things immensely. Sex not only becomes unimportant, It's entirely removed as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:07 AM
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Women don't think this. Men think this. Real life doesn't bear this out. Don't let the amplifier of the Internet cause you to lose touch with realty. Absolutely. And a lot of men won't. Most men already do. Nope. This sub and the active obsession some men have with women show that you'll never be able to do this. If the odds of sex were a non-negotiable 0% and men knew this, this is the exact thing that will happen. There's zero benefit to any amount of investment, so there will be zero investme…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:00 AM
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I'm all for it. Women grossly overestimate the male sexual need. They think we'll die without it, but we won't. Sure men will do a lot for sex. But what do you think will happen when the option of zero sex is on the table for men? I'll tell you what men will do. We'll masturbate, and then we'll get on with our fucking day. We'll go about our jobs, we'll engage in our hobbies, we'll see our friends - we will do the things we want to do and we will do the things we have to do. Most of us do that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:43 AM
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Being able to see metrics doesn't mean we look for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:23 PM
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No. Our value is directly determined by others and what we offer them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:16 AM
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Disagree...in part. You should always show up and give maximum effort for yourself. Give other people the minimum - If you spend your time developing yourself to the peak of your capability people will be happy to accept your minimum just to be in your presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:41 AM
1

I've never seen women arguing, as an aggregate, for more responsibilities to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:23 AM
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Actually, it's because all the wealth is being aggregated and hoarded at the top rather than flowing through the economy. But yes, let's blame women for trickle down economics. That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:22 AM
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Ugly women dont get casual sex HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Wait you're serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:19 PM
1

Nobody is angry. Stop projecting emotions onto strangers, it's fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:16 PM
1

It's still a numbers game. "thousands of viable matches" distributed over the entire earth isn't a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:48 AM
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Nobody's standards are too high This is bullshit. "High" and "low" are relative terms of comparison. There are people who have standards that are too high for what they offer to the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:40 AM
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My standards filter out over 99.9% of men and I’m very happily married. Unless your husband falls into that 0.1%, one of two things has happened: You found a unicorn You adjusted your standards to be more realistic which is why you're married
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:39 AM
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Why are you special? Do you think men have that information? What if we all just waited to be approached because we don't "have all these personal informations with certainty"? Moreover, how does waiting to be approached increase your chances of a man having the attributes you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:35 AM
1

I'm not making things personal. I'm pointing out something that she said
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:48 AM
1

It's a learned skill. Sure some are better than others but practice is king.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:59 PM
5

You try reading that. Don't stroke out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:57 PM
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$10 million? I'm out here cheating for free when I could be getting paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:27 PM
2

Uh... What the fuck did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:25 PM
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Always tell my girlfriend - "You think the world is mean to short, broke men? Try being an ugly woman." I actually work with this woman who is just... just hideous. And obese. You know the worst part is? She's a great person on the inside, but will never know what it's like to have sex. At least as a hideous dude you can compensate with money. If you're an ugly woman you've got no compensating tools whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:28 PM
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Confidence is not innate. Confidence comes from repeated success at something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:25 PM
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Quit your bullshit. That might apply to blue pillers, and even that's stretch Red and black pillers fully understand that physical attraction plays a huge part in whether or not a woman or a man is interested in someone. The red pill literally tells you to quit being a fat slob and to get in shape. Find me one single red pill person who does not advocate for becoming the most physically attractive person you can. FIND FUCKING ONE. Black pillers are just doom-pilled and don't think they'll ever b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:01 PM
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I'll address your title then your post. Blue Pillers and feminists need to offer men a decent alternative No they don't. The system works just fine for them - there are enough men who have not swallowed the red pill so those blue pillers and feminists can keep running the play they've been running and still achieve results. Until there's a drastic shift in the mentality of the average male to the point where being a blue piller does not get you result and feminists are not getting sufficient sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:55 AM
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Yes. This is precisely what men do. They view themselves as more valuable the more money they make. Not quite. This is what women demand of men. Y'all are the ones that make a man's income a factor. How many times do we hear women saying "iF yoUrE bRokE jUSt sAY So" You determine someone's value as a partner based on how attractive she is. We all want someone physically attractive. Women aren't lining up to date short fat men after all... And aren’t men the ones always complaining about how it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:46 AM
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It isn't men that determine someone's value as a partner based on their income.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:42 AM
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You can't try to reason women into being attracted to bisexual men. Attraction cannot be negotiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:44 AM
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Of course you don't care. They aren't a part of your potential dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:39 AM
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Ironic, since you're replying to my reply to someone who is literally using a red herring to avoid the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:24 AM
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strangers thousands of miles away Look at you, speaking as if we aren't drowning in a sea of single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:55 AM
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We don't care what y'all make because y'all don't spend that on us. Moreover the more woman makes the more she expects her man to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:22 PM
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So women should just never have children? Not my argument. Nothing wrong with divorce. Wrong. List the number of people who get married and say "I can't wait for our divorce."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:02 PM
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Lol that made me chuckle, but probably not how you intended to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:01 PM
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Define misogynistic and point out how.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:00 PM
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You can't control being ugly. Being a single mom is the last stop on a long road of terrible choices
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:54 PM
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"Jerk" is not a synonym for "wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:37 PM
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This is arguably the most logical reply in the whole thread. It answers the question doesn't make personal attacks or straw man any positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:23 PM
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The selfish person is the single parent who expects someone who is unrelated to that child to invest their time energy money and resources when they could be investing those resources into their own child
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:22 PM
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Lol k have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:19 PM
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It isn't my job to do the legwork to support your assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:14 PM
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Sure some don't. But most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:10 PM
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So wrong. BTW, the reason women initiate divorces is that they don’t want to raise a grown man. A baby is enough. Please demonstrate how you came to this conclusion. Men raised by single moms respect single moms. Men raised by single moms see the disaster that being a single mom is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:09 PM
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If the father left, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:03 PM
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Crime? No. Series of shitty choices? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:57 PM
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Marry before you carry would be the first hurdle. Stay married would be the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:53 PM
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At this point you're just being dishonest. it takes people to decide if they want to have sex or not Given that men tend to want sex a lot more than women how come men aren't having all the sex they want? Because women control who has access to sex. both genders have access to birth control, ever heard of condoms? What was the question? The question was who has access to more birth control options. You know this because you're a woman and your purposely avoiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:52 PM
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I fully disagree. The prize for being a parent of your own child is that your genetics gets to perpetuate. At its most biological fundamental level that's the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:50 PM
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For a dude who claims he doesn't date single moms, you seem weirdly preoccupied with their moral judgement I'm not a rapist but I'm also concerned about rapists in society. I'm not a heroin addict but I think heroin addiction is wrong. I don't abuse animals but I find that cruelty to animals is unnecessary and immoral. It's possible to care about things that don't directly affect and groups you aren't a part of. Nothing personal, Yet... but I can't shake the feeling that when dudes go off about …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:43 PM
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Nobody but the individual controls access to sex, Which gender is the gender that decides who has sexual access? It isn't men - Men have to try and compete for sexual access to women. Both genders are responsible for birth control That wasn't the question. The question was who has more access to birth control options?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:40 PM
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So let me get this right - You give me incomplete information and then you get mad that I don't know what the incomplete information would have told me. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:20 PM
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What incentive do I have to invest my time energy and resources into someone else's kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:17 PM
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I didn't say what's the benefit of the relationship. Try answering the question that I asked instead of the one that you wanted to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:15 PM
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SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! Thank you! Don't have babies with fucking losers!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:14 PM
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What incentive do I have to invest my time energy and resources into someone else's kid? Where is the benefit for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:12 PM
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I'm not complaining about it. I'm fully aware that people here are not going to like my opinions. Not much they can do about it. I'm just not going to waste my time arguing about their perceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:10 PM
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She volunteered the information that her mother initiated the divorce. She volunteered the information that her mother's income was largely a part of it. She volunteered the information that her father was nothing more than a paycheck and not a good one at that. I'm just going off what she said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:09 PM
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Oh I'm never saying don't have sex with them. Just don't commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:07 PM
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I can, but won't. There are no prizes for being a stepdad only sunk costs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:06 PM
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Ah, the classic "he says something I don't like he must be an incel."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:04 PM
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Well, I can't control your perception and I definitely won't argue about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:00 PM
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I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:59 PM
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As I said to you the first time: Being hyperbolic and purposely avoiding the very clear points is a good way to engage. You are welcome to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:59 PM
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Sorry about the late edit im kind of half doing something else and I couldn't get the full thought out. Personally, I don't want to be with a man who is a financial burden. Nor should you. Moreover that's a completely respectable and understandable preference. What does a man who you have to financially support get you? Nothing really. Again that's a perfectly acceptable standard. What's important here though is society will happily tell you "don't date a broke man" won't shame you for it but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:52 PM
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So I guess women should just kill their cheating husband because then she'd be a widow, right? This you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:50 PM
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I actually have no problem with child support. Fathers should support their children not just financially but in other ways as well. I think alimony is bullshit but that's a whole side conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:47 PM
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So I guess women should just kill their cheating husband because then she'd be a widow, right? That's what you said. Good work suggesting murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:46 PM
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There's actually an entire conversation there, So I'll be brief: A woman's income is a non-factor to a man yet the more a woman makes the more income becomes a factor to her. What happened to your mother is she added her income to her value to a man and most of us don't factor that in. Because of that what she was probably doing was punching well above from weight class. What's worse is that women tend to look down on men who make less than them regardless of all the other attributes that a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:39 PM
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I mean, it is since you don't want to address the points
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:32 PM
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I don't. And no man should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:30 PM
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Whatever you say. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:29 PM
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But unless you are a virgin you have no right to judge people for failed relationships. Why are you conflating "having sex" with "having kids"? You can have sex without making babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:29 PM
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Good for the men that she would have burdened.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:27 PM
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Because the approach of coddling them and treating them like they're brave champions isn't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:14 PM
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Your inability to address this post along with your earlier personal attack tells me that you're not worth engaging with. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:13 PM
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In the United States, about 28% of single mothers live below the poverty line. https://www.americanprogress.org/article/the-economic-status-of-single-mothers/ In the United States, children from single mother households are more likely to have emotional and behavioral problems as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:12 PM
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This judgement is icky. "Icky" is not a synonym for untrue. "Icky" describes your feelings...which are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:06 PM
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Who controls access to sex? Who has access to the most numerous and effective birth control options in the history of humanity? Who primarily divorces? Who controls who gets born? Women. For most fatherless children, there's a woman behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:05 PM
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Yes I will say you're completely right. They can be hard to date. My overarching point was as a widow/widower it's not really your fault to be in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:03 PM
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This isn't about me, personally. I don't commit to single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:02 PM
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Did you miss the conversation about magnitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:00 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:06 PM
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I love how kids, the actual complicated part of single parenthood, are completely glossed over in your grace towards widows. They aren't "glossed over" - they're seen as unfortunate victims of circumstance. It was always about moralizing and punishing single mothers, always They should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:05 PM
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Lol no they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:03 PM
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There are plenty of women with no kids who offer sex. You can have sex with single moms without giving them commitment. Hell, that's all some of them are good for. What offsets the downsides of commiting to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:03 PM
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You're the one making that weird jump. Kinda telling on yourself. Imagine the uproar if I were to suggest murdering your spouse. You're cracked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:02 PM
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And single fathers are a negative for a woman. Never said they weren't. What's your point? What are you trying to achieve with this post? It's pretty clear. If you don't want to engage, don't. Just don't mewl about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:57 AM
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I do not care about the odd outlier. We are speaking in generalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:37 AM
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So it’s not the having kids at all. It’s pure judgement of the mom. Mothers are not immune from judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:36 AM
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I appreciate that you see the double standard and try to avoid hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:30 AM
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Cool. Have a good day. Edit: this is how far gone some people are. They suggest murder over getting and staying married before you have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:30 AM
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Being hyperbolic and purposely avoiding the very clear points is a good way to engage. You are welcome to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:28 AM
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Thank you for your engagement with some of my points. It's weird Shaming language. Shame that you led with this since you made some good discussion points. You can't just say that i don't want single moms, i want to build my own family. No, you have to bring morality into it and degrade them. It isn't "degrading" to say "they made these series of choices and I am not interested in them because of it." If I chose to be a wife beater, is it "degrading" for women to disqualify me from their dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:27 AM
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And what exactly is he getting from them that offsets the downsides?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:18 AM
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Cool. Good thing that you don't see me doing that. Take your argument up with them when you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:17 AM
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51% of single mothers have never been married. And that's just tracking the ones who were stupid enough to carry a man's baby without getting his last name. Can't image how many more are just sport fucking without the unforced error of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:50 AM
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The difference of degrees is such a chasm that it makes the comparison a mockery. It's like comparing heroin to caffeine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:46 AM
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If I have to explain "fentanyl is not the same as butthole pictures" then one of us has lost the plot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:41 AM
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Usually when that happens, it's in response to some bullshit about how women have such perfect intuition and only want good men who treat them with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:38 AM
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Women love to fuck as much as men do, why else do we have so many single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:14 AM
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Why do women always look at the outliers whenever confronted by the averages? Who does that help? Most women over 40 who aren't married never will be. Accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:13 AM
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If a woman wants a relationship and she cannot get in, and stay in, a good one then it's entirely her fault. It isn't embarrassing. It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:02 AM
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Strawman. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:56 AM
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False equivalency. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:56 AM
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This isn't a debate, this is a black-pilled crashout. This is self-evident No, it isn't and you present a shitty argument
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:55 AM
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Lol whatever you say. Try addressing what I said next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:55 AM
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As the kids say, "cap". Now it can be argued that these things are the biggest impediments to keeping a woman I won't disagree there. But attracting a woman? You can find the most uncouth, uncivilized, savage, barbaric asshole men who have no problem attracting women because they are physically attractive. Physical attraction gets you invited to the dance. Your ability to do those other things such as have manners and grace and decorum allow you to remain at the dance. I have lived experience on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:06 AM
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No fucking idea. Men aren't the ones that push for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:01 PM
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"Wow that guy over there looks like he has a great personality." -Nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:08 PM
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I don't engage with liars
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:03 PM
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Well you're wrong. A simple Google search says otherwise. But you keep on lying. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:03 PM
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Thank you! The things you say and do allow you to stay at the dance whereas being attractive gets you invited to the dance in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:17 PM
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Literally every commercial plane has a co-captain. Tell me you've never been in aviation without telling me. A co-pilot is not an equal. A co-pilot has less authority than the pilot. They are there as a backup to keep the pilot from making a mistake. The pilot is the ultimate authority on that plane.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:16 PM
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A lot of women sure don't like men but love fucking them and their labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:29 PM
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It is always better to rid your life of quarrelsome and troublesome women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:45 PM
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TRP teaches us that society only cares about men who are productive. Men aren't allowed to fail at their function or they're discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:45 PM
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In the United States. Dating here is notoriously broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:36 PM
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You're having to explain it because you're strawmanning the original position. I get that you have to do it because you can't argue against it any other way, but please don't pretend that you don't know what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:29 PM
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Then you should have serious issues with cosmetics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:28 PM
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You did not read what he wrote because you want to make an argument against something I'm not saying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:27 PM
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Not talking about sex with your kids. Please read the post I'm replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:45 PM
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or you will drop on your knees fulfilling every demand, Simping is your wheelhouse, not ours
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:26 PM
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If you're old enough to have raised someone from birth as an adult, they shouldn't be seen as sexual prospects Why? I can never see my friend's baby sister as a sexual prospect when she becomes an adult, I watched her grow up. Even if she's not my sister, I can't not think of a baby when I look at her That's your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:05 PM
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Dating is amoral. People who bring up that "morality" argument, outside of consent, are people just mad that the game doesn't work the way they want it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:02 PM
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That's perfectly fine. If a 22 year old is into me because of what I can provide, I'll have no qualms about treating her like she's a rental.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:01 PM
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Well that may be true for you on an individual level on average that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:33 PM
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I don't give good dick to shitty women. If I can't even like you, I'm not going to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:06 AM
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Fully disagree. Reading a bio can tell you if a woman's a red flag right out the gate - doesn't matter how pretty woman is if she's a fucking headache. If I see the following lines I immediately know this woman is a waste of my fucking time: "My kids are my world" "I'm looking for my forever partner" "No hookups" Any hint that she might be pregnant Any reference to how bad her exes were The words "narcissist", "gas light", "misogyny"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:52 PM
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Boys have a penis, girls have a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:41 PM
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I'm calling bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:44 PM
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The things that make a man attractive are largely dependent on what he chooses (or doesn't choose) to do with his life. For example, a 42 year old man who works out and has his life together is far more sexually attractive than a 26 year old burnout. Our sexual appeal is not just physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:48 PM
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not all men are insecure about a woman's past SHAMING ALERT! A man is allowed to have preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:52 AM
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This is excellent advice, assuming the following things are true: "Good men" will be available when these women are done having their fun. Those "Good men" will be excited to date/marry the kind of women who rejected them in their younger years. There won't be younger women who are interested in getting married and having children instead of experimenting. Unfortunately, none of those things are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:50 AM
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Lol yeah, that's a great idea. (Not)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:50 PM
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God I'm so glad I'm too grown for this kind of nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:37 PM
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Lol that's fair! This has been enjoyable. Best of luck to you in your future coitus conquests!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:26 PM
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Well let's make prostitution socially acceptable and we'll see how fast that changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:51 PM
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Like I said I don't know your specific situation I was just talking about mine. But..uh... call me?.😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:51 PM
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I could see that. What things could make one suspect such a change? When it happens to me, I see an increase in demands for non-sex related activities or time together not having sex, an increased insistence on relationship-adjacent activities (i.e. more cuddling after sex), increased contact unrelated to sexual logistics (calling just to talk, good morning texts). Generally, it's the slow changing of "let's meet and have sex" to "I have emotional needs that need to be filled as well, and since …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:25 PM
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All neurotypical people are slaves to their sexual desires. Men are just shamed for theirs despite social and evolutionary conditioning to make us the more assertive gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:13 PM
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Most men are okay with casual sex. It fulfills the hard part of interacting with women. Plenty of women are happy to be a man's friend if the expectation of sex isn't present, so when the opportunity to have casual sex presents itself, it's a welcome change. What you're probably experiencing is what happens when we sense that casual sex turning into relationship creep. If a man is engaged in a casual relationship with you, and he suspects that you're attempting to change the arrangement he's goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:35 PM
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How can you claim to be in your "sexual prime" if you don't have results to show for it? That's like all these people thinking they're "10s" yet can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:29 PM
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Your results must bear out. If you're in your "sexual prime" but nobody is attracted to you, then it's fucking pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:20 PM
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IT GIVES YOU SUPERPOWERS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:17 PM
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What the fuck is this? No. Being a douchebag for the sake of being a douchebag does not make you attractive. The equivalent to that is the ugly girls acting mean in an imitation of the pretty girls thinking that it makes them pretty as well. No! The reason that guys who are douchebags can attract women is because they're attractive first. Don't be giving people the advice to "act like a douchebag that'll get the girls". No it won't. If you're unattractive, now you're an unattractive douchebag. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:17 PM
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It's about when she knows her body, understands what she wants, and has the self assurance to actually get it. And here’s the good part you missed: for millions of women, these two "primes" don't overlap at all. Stop trying to make old women sexually equivalent to young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:07 PM
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That's what they don't get. Most women, as long as they don't fuck it up, will enjoy a sexual prime where they can easily attract men. Men have to work to become sexually attractive. A man that won't put in the work will never experience that feeling of being sexually desired while the men who put in the work will stand out from their peers and they'll get to experience that. It's pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:06 PM
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Winning an online argument with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:05 PM
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It's like you're purposely ignoring that he's speaking in generalities. Yeah that's exactly what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:04 PM
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Your problem is that your title is accurate but your post is inaccurate. The title says that some men don't have a sexual prime which is true. But then your post goes on to say that whenever a woman gets into a relationship with a man she's settling because men as a whole don't have a sexual prime. This is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:02 PM
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Whatever you say. You don't need a debate, you need a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:42 PM
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Sorry that you haven't figured out that men are as complex as women. Please get a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:13 PM
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His dick. Love it, suck it, get fucked by it. That's what most men mean when they say they don't feel loved or human. The is the saddest thing I've read today. If you think this, it's because this is the only way that you know how to love a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:43 PM
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Obviously I don't own her. But I can't be with a woman who won't choose to follow me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:02 PM
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If you can't see the sampling error you're making, I can't do anything for you. You're asking me to "prove you wrong" then give me instructions to make the same error you made.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:30 PM
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And they have this weird idea that they still deserve the top tiers of men and they see the men at these events as desperate, which is ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:54 PM
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Far worse. You have to pay for the privilege of being hard rejected by leftover 5s. The women at those things don't even realize that they're the leftovers - they failed so hard that they can't attract men in any other area of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:53 PM
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Man goes to a lake full of trout. Man catches trout. Man insists that the only fish that exist are trout.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:50 PM
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Save the snark Shut up. What does investing and adding value to your life look like? It's not a checklist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:16 PM
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For context, I’m from a different school of thought, it’s a very low bar for me personally. I think even short term flings are deserving of princess treatment Oh boy. But to directly answer your question: a woman is "deserving" after she invests into me in a way that adds value to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:41 PM
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Hoes are my friends, hoes are my enemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:56 AM
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Research says otherwise Show me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:53 AM
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Why should one fully functional adult submit to another in a romantic relationship? A ship cannot have two captains. What if she is smarter, more competent, more efficient, more accomplished, or more effective than you in some or all ways ? Lol as if women date down. Women don't date men who are less accomplished than them because they find it revolting to "settle". Or…are you intentionally selecting for intellectually or emotionally damaged women and then grinding them down just so that you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:26 AM
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That's some real noncompliant energy there. And the logic is entirely fucked up. Let's flip it to the things women ask for: Those who seek “providers” are those who are unworthy of provision… Those who seek “empathetic men” are those who are unworthy of empathy… Those who seek “leaders” are those who are unworthy of being led… That's how stupid you sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:22 AM
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Shut up and give me your number. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:19 AM
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The question was literally about designing an ideal partner, and you're upset that he did the assignment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:18 AM
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Don't be fat Don't be a slut Don't be a bad mother I can negotiate with everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:16 AM
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Makes sense as guys cheat more Men and women cheat at similar rates. A ~4% difference isn't exactly a slam dunk point. abandon sick wives more Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:16 AM
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If you don't have a source outside of your rectal database, is it really something we can debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:14 AM
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They want to date up, which is fine. They want to "level up", which is a problem (more on that later). They want these men to settle for them. There's the problem. When these women level up what they do is they tend to develop the things that men develop careers connections property etc because they think that's success. And if you're trying to live a life alone or attract a partner who's lower than you on the social scale then that's a successful dating strategy. But if you're trying to attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:29 AM
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Lots of words to say that attraction is subjective. Doesn't invalidate that there are people above and beneath your ability to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:09 AM
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I'm going to say it outright - you have a track record of being dishonest. I'll attempt to engage you in good faith but I won't continue if you do what you usually do. Onto your post. With hookup culture, all you need is a little game and confidence. Untrue. "game" and "confidence" without attractiveness is seen as awkward and arrogant. Women (and people in general, but we are talking about women) perceive people's actions through the lens of attractiveness. Attractive people get far more social…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:03 AM
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This reply itself is evidence of leagues - there are people who you think are unattractive (i.e. beneath your tier) therefore you will not date them. If tiers of attractiveness didn't exist you would date people solely based on personality which you don't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:43 PM
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Bro are you sure you didn't swallow the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:43 PM
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I'll take it further. To acknowledge that leagues exist means acknowledging that you have a place in them and a lot of people can't handle that they exist at the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:02 PM
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Women don't pursue relationships with men who provide no benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:34 PM
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Congratulations, you discovered that there are men at the bottom of the dating market. This isn't some earth shattering revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:34 PM
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You can listen to their words or you can watch their actions. One of those will leave you with a hard cock and an empty wallet. The other will yield results.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:30 PM
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Is it worth it for women to not do what she wants in her life and not pursue education and career and say no to sexual opportunities that she could enjoy so that some day you might want to marry her? Do what you want. You're going to anyways. We're just telling you that whatever path you take has consequences. What do you have to offer to make it worth her sacrifice? "worth her sacrifice" as if she's giving something up knowing that women usually date up. wearelaughing.jpg What about in short te…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:28 PM
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Women behave terribly. Men to blame. fuck outta here with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:38 PM
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Uh huh. Whatever you say. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:02 PM
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That's why I don't bother..this entire thread is them coping
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:15 PM
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Notice how you didn't reply to what I said and just continued saying whatever you wanted? I noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:51 PM
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I'm not surprised you're purposely missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:15 PM
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Remind me how you got the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:29 PM
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They're not "confused". They don't give a shit. They hear "male loneliness epidemic" and they immediately lose interest. The only time those words leave their lips is to use it as a lazy rebuttal to a point that they can't refute otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:29 PM
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Baby mommas (note the distinction) should be shamed, but they're not only supported, they're seen as "strong and independent" instead of the fucking losers they are. Imagine having a baby for a man who doesn't even think you deserve marriage. Clown Academy Summa Cum Laude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:24 PM
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Imagine thinking this is a "gotcha"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:21 PM
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I'm good with it. More women that belong to the streets doesn't hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:20 PM
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If a woman becomes a single mother (in this context, I am not talking about women who got married and had a child then lost her husband to divorce, death, etc) it is entirely her fault and her value in the dating market should be seen accordingly. You chose to have unprotected sex before marriage. You wanna fuck? Cool. We all wanna fuck - there are ways to prevent pregnancy. There are so many ways that you have to do a literal Google search to find them all. You chose the man. You could have cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:18 PM
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I'm gonna blow some minds here: did you know that you can care about the problems of groups that you don't belong to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:11 PM
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What a dishonest reply. Rather than address OPs very terrible argument and pick it apart on its many bad points, you decide to frame it as OP not getting laid. Dont be fucking lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:07 PM
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There are no guarantees. But this whole post misses the point, so I'll say it plainly: If you pursue a man with options, you become an option. A man with fewer options has more appreciation for what he has. Why do we get this concept in everything except dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:05 PM
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Women: "Well you're just an incel" Men: "No I'm not. Are you gonna address anything I said?" Women: "If you weren't an incel then why do you keep bringing it up?!" Men, confused: "But...you brought it up?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:00 PM
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Comments like this remind me why there’s a rise in male loneliness You can't address the point so you lean into your revenge fantasy and skitter away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:58 AM
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Cringe We don't care about your label. The fact that you're using it tells me that it's effective in deceiving you and that you don't like it because it gives men an advantage. Pair that with you not finding the thing that gives your advantage (makeup) as "cringe" demonstrates that you're perfectly fine with exploiting advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:53 AM
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Logic doesn't apply here. We have tons of evidence that women corelate height with masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:51 AM
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This is all nonsense. Everyone is in competition, because we all want to pass on our genetics. There's a reason that cosmetics industry makes billions a year off of women who would kill to look 25. Quit your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:50 AM
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Because it isn't men going around mewling about how their partners are "narcissists with no emotional intelligence"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:42 PM
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revenge fantasy What a dishonest take. Shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:37 PM
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Women have become delusional in their own self worth and expectations. Yes and no. Delusional in the sense that they often desire commitment from men above their tier. Not delusional in being able to get attention and sex from men above their tier. The problem they have is when they conflate those things. They are, average women, expecting to only be courted by the top tier 10/10 men. They want it. Many don't expect it. There's nothing wrong with wanting optimal dating outcomes. Average men, abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:46 PM
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Unfortunately, we don't have any hard data and are both relying on our opinion. We'll be here all day at this rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:15 AM
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No way to really assess that outside of comparing the men they marry vs the men they eagerly fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:11 AM
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They only struggle to get the relationships with the men of their preference. They can catch a bone anytime
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:08 AM
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oh I’m sorry I didn’t include the obligatory “not all men” line that allows men to have critical thinking. My apologies, sincerely. Quit your sarcastic shit. You specific said "older men", targeting a subset of men. I know you didn't mean "all men." You said who you meant, so spare me your bullshit. I do not think it is all older men. Just a lot of them. Enough to be a notable trend to pay attention to. This should have been the first paragraph to your response. But you couldn't help yourself. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:52 AM
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Let's talk about the funnel. Everybody has an attractiveness funnel - More attractive you are the wider the mouth so the more people you attract into your funnel. The narrow part is the stuff that keeps people - the personality traits, the quirks, idiosyncracies, etc. that you find out what you get to know somebody. That's why you have people who can attract a lot but keep very little and you have people who don't attract much, yet keep who they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:36 AM
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It's an extremely weird take to see the opinion of one man and then determine that all older men are unfit for relationships. It blatantly ignores all the older men who are in good relationships. You then take it a step further by encouraging younger women to enter into relationships with older men with the explicit goal of using them for their resources, as if you can't see the correlation between the kind of man who is comfortable with that arrangement and the kind of man who has no problem tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:31 AM
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Oh you're one of these people who are not actually here for a discussion so much as you are here to push your own narrative regardless of what someone says. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:26 AM
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The older a man gets, especially after a divorce, he is less suitable for a relationship. Weird take on that. I suspect that your bias is heavily influencing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:00 AM
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Thank. You. It's like they don't understand that we can see different women in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:52 AM
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Red flags are simply things that would make a relationship with you impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:35 PM
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Congratulations, You know losers. Them being red pill or not is only correlated It's not a causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:35 PM
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I'm all for it. I think it's a low threat environment that removes any expectation of reciprocation. I don't mind paying for a coffee or ice cream for a stranger I could be interested in. I'm not gonna pay for a night on the town for a stranger that I could be interested in - that's reserved for someone who has demonstrated that she adds value to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:31 PM
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I fully agree that you should put your price up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:28 PM
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They do. If you if you ignore obvious red flags, that's on you. Those flags include high body count btw. But y'all don't wanna talk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:39 PM
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