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What makes sex work potentially problematic to me is that it seems to be something people who are the most disadvantaged and socioeconomically vulnerable do. Now do coal mines. Or garbage collection. Or McDonald's. Or any countless literally life threatening job men do without getting deified as "stunning and brave" People framing these women as hapless victims with no agency is part of the problem. her offering this commodity to these you describe makes her a non-viable partner for commitment t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:55 AM
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the message itself - that women need to give men sex in order to subdue their violent tendencies PLEASE stop this shit. Literally NOBODY is saying this and you know it. NOBODY. Saying "Young men are experiencing a crisis of sexlessness" is NOT the same as saying "women NEED to GIVE men sex in order to subdued their violent tendencies" Just stop with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:49 AM
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Or you could, you know, experience that men experience love, affection and intimacy in a different way than women. In a way that doesn't make them "broken", but just makes them men. But nah, empathy is only for women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:40 AM
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Simple: For women to police and "call out" other women who say anything "problematic" about men the exact same way they expect men to do so. So basically, something that will never happen, because society and women only expect men to "protect" women, and not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:34 AM
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Yeah, he definitely got co-opted (and let him self do so) by the alt right. His kinship w/ Shapiro, etc basically has caused me to write him off. And he never really owned up to his benzo addiction and meltdown. Any preachy fuck that doesn't at least come out of the induced coma he was in with a bit more humility is nobody I want to listen to. I did read his "12 rules" book, and it was effective and not toxic or political and really not even preachy. I would still recommend it to a younger guy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:31 AM
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Anything "pro-male" is automatically considered "anti-woman" in 2022 and cause for cancellation. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:48 AM
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Bullshit. As a man, and as a man who has known men basically withering away from loneliness, "getting laid" absolutely very often gives men a HUGE boost and sometimes a new lease on life. Men are not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:43 AM
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You mean how we discuss high crime rates and other social problems that affect black communities as the result of systemic issues like poverty and historical racism? Like that? Does the discussion of this sound like "Placate black people or they will commit crimes!" or does it simply sound like "There are a complex set of circumstances here that need to be addressed"? Try again with your "women won't sympathize because men bad" shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:41 AM
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. Hence, you just want to get your dicks wet. Sex is important to men as men have 20x the testosterone of women. Men are not "defective women" stop judging them as such. What you call "getting their dicks wet" seems trivial because you are essentially a non-sexual being as compared to the vast majority of men. Men gain a lot more than just busting a nut from sex. Women have no empathy for this because they are incapable of experiencing the male sex drive unless they shoot up massive amounts of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:39 AM
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How many issues that women face are deemed "societal problems"? Go ahead, I'll wait. And how many of those require the entire force of the government to bend to their will? That's what i thought. But of course, hamsters will jump to this shit about "You want to force women to have sex!" No, genius, we want the problem to be discussed and not ridiculed. We want men who are experiencing the crushing weight of loneliness to be heard, and say "I feel worthless" without some cunt using the "haha u ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:37 AM
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Then discuss these are viable options. See what happens if somebody discussing that we should normalize prostitution as a means to mitigate the sexlessness problem. Want to take a guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:35 AM
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You are simply tone policing men. Because men don't use feminine flowery language to discuss loneliness with each other means you just throw up your hands and say "fuck'em" because they didn't use some live love laugh platitutdes like women do. You are part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:34 AM
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I’ve done it and it feels good to feel bad. This post hit home. I'm taking a break from reddit now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:14 AM
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Maybe women could.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:10 AM
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Lol @ the own goal. The literally do say this when they say "Chad is so HAWT, and I heard he fucked Suzie really good, now I want to try him! He's soooo laid back and care free! I love it! Nothing wrong with smoking a little weed now and then! TeeHee" "Oh, Billy? That weird creep from MIT who leads the IT department? EWWWW!!! He's sooo GROSS! I bet he's a virgin! What a loser. He thinks that porsche he bought is going to make girls want to fuck him? What a loser incel!" THAT's what they say. Try…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:07 AM
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Bullshit. They literally just clapped when he said "College educated women won't date men without college degrees"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:03 AM
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Because it shows women's inherent shallow-as-fuck hypergamy and the lack of self awareness at the consequences of this. I don't have a "college degree" but I've got 20+ years in my field and make far more than people coming in from expensive schools that didn't even exist when I started. So, I guess I get to hear these basket weaving majors cackle about how I'm "low value" because I didn't spent 4 years wasting time at keggers. It also drives home the point that women will ONLY date men better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:03 AM
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Exactly the same phenomenon at the hysterical laughter on "The View" about the man who got his dick cut off. Male suffering is ALWAYS funny to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:59 AM
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Funny, I don't remember my TV giving me a stream of dopamine hits with "likes" and "shares" and "ur so beautiful queen!" comments. It's almost as if they are nothing alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:58 AM
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No. The death of dogs and parents are "WomanApproved™" forms of emoting for men. The loss of a job, anxiety over health, insecurity over aging, those are all WomanOnly™ forms of emoting. Men engaging of those will be told they are "throwing a tantrum" and are "weak" and should "man up" before getting dead bedroomed and cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:55 AM
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How are people expressing their vulnerability matters. You mean how MEN show it matters. Women can sob on the fucking subway and get comforted by a group of strangers. . Some people have noted their personal stories where they say "I cried in front of her and she dumped me" and then conclude that women don't really want a man who cries and then they conveniently don't mention that while they cried they were also throwing heavy glasses at her head that were shattering against the wall or screamin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:52 AM
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Is there an epidemic of women demanding things from men Yes. if they don't get it they'll start shooting up the place? Women have other more covert, accepted and celebrated forms of violence and lashing out. Nice try though. I've never had a woman I'm not involved with in some way demand shit from me Now you're just fucking lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:49 AM
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It's breathtaking in its brazenness really. The same people who excuse women for anything and everything, or better yet, blame men for it, will then turn around and tell men to essentially "man up". Then waive off 4x male suicide as the cost of doing the business of being a white knight simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:47 AM
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Now do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:41 AM
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the incel brand that typically comes out in angry demands and entitlement. So the kind FDS and TwoX types make up by cherry picking posts from 4chan and other dark corners of the internet? Sure. Meanwhile, you watch this very clip and women clapping when the notion of "not dating men without a college degree" comes up, and then actually say women would have a shred of empathy for a man. LO fucking L If you can't be happy by yourself no one will ever want to be around you. Did you read that in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:38 AM
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Look at the way the women are reacting in the comments section. I’ve noticed this all through my life. No one likes what are perceived as “weak” men. The minute you show weakness as a man, you get attacked like sharks to blood - they rip you apart. Great point. But remember "mEn aRe tHe puVeyOrs oF tOxiC maScuLinItY!1!" Said as a gaggle of women gleeful laugh at men's misery because "weak men are useless"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:35 AM
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That moment was simply an extension of the "yay! haha men are suffering" shit we saw in the old clip from "The Talk" where the hens cackled about a man getting his dick cut off. Same. Exact. Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:34 AM
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I say this as someone with a higher libido than any man I have ever met Yeah, are you injecting testosterone? If not, I'm gonna have to call absolute bullshit on this. Your "sex drive" while possibly higher than other women's, does not even reach the same universe as men's. Let's cite a simple google that should open your eyes to your "struggle" and how it compares to a man's holistic suffering from going sexless: After puberty men produce 20 times more testosterone than women (4–7), resulting i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:32 AM
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Translation: Nothing to see here. There are no issues with men. No loneliness (with nobody coming to save them like women) or sexlessness epidemic(while dealing with 10x the testosterone), No mass demonization of masculinity in schools, the media and entertainment, no breaking down of male spaces like the boy scouts, golf clubs and sports. Nope. It's all some imagined "edgelord" conspiracy. All those men offing themselves at 4x the rate of women? Nonsense. Or wait, sorry "tHeyRe mOrE vioLenT and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:21 AM
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You missed the end goal of all those things: Pussy Pussy was always the carrot on the stick at the end of that grind. In other times, pussy was abundant through some not-so-nice means, and men were free to pursue other objectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:11 AM
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Great question, and the generic answer is simple: PURPOSE In modern times, with so many technological conveniences at our fingertips, more and more men are defaulting to what the human male's original "purpose" was - WOMEN. Specifically, fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:10 AM
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There is very very often no difference at all. This is what women don't get about themselves or history. Women actually do like providers and protecters and men who show competence in something. PPD has a thread every other week about how women don't even register some schlub on her radar, but then that man "talks passionately about woodworking" or whatever and she suddenly wants to fuck him. This is because women's hyeprgamy makes them seek men who can provide something to them that they don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:02 AM
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From what I know of Tate he's basically some clownish combination of a 2000's PUA and a perormative "alpha" troller running a MLM to sucker in guys just like Mystery and Owen Cook did. Peterson is way more complicated. I've stopped giving a fuck about him, but I recognize the man at least is a "thinker" to a large extent. He both benefited and suffered from getting known for refusing to use pronouns, and since then has had a target on his back by the left, even when he makes complete sense (whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:58 AM
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Would calling a fat woman ugly make them less lonely and depressed? What about telling boys to never express their emotions and bully each other for being "girly", would having more of that help them or hurt them? Seriously? this is what you got from the points I made "Boys should be able to call fat girls ugly"? And save the tired ass "men are responsibility for them not showing emotions!" - No, genius, WOMEN are the ones who will overtly punish men for such displays by considering them less th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:45 AM
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Riiiiight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:37 AM
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There is no nuance when talking about supporting Trump. None. You think this was just twitter shit? Stop hamstering. Let me guess that "perfect phone call" was NBD. The "Election was stolen" was NBD, "Find me 10,000 votes" was NBD. Hang Mike Pence was "NBD" Sicking his cult into attacking the heart of our democracy is "NBD" Jesus listen to yourself. What the fuck would he have to do at this point? Personally ride a tank into the white house with a grenade launcher on his shoulder? Jesus. The con…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:32 AM
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Partially, but I also think he's very willing to say what men should avoid but not what they should do for a simple reason - he'll get dogpiled by feminists for suggesting something as "toxic" as male spaces, ball busting as a bonding ritual or sleeping around. All of those are basically "rights of passage" for a well adjusted male, that are now considered cause for cancellation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:28 AM
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I don't remember. I called an uber, got home and made it into my house okay, took my clothes off, and ended up in bed with her somehow, but maybe I just wanted to "cuddle". I feel like she should have known better than to take advantage of me. She was overweight, and if I wasn't drunk I would have never had sex with her. I feel so violated, I'm literally shaking. Now that I think about it, I do remember her kissing me without asking first. That was at least sexual assault right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:23 AM
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What? go to any gym. literally every guy is wearing these shorts. while half the women are wearing shit that shows their pussy bulge. The aren't "hotter" they are looser and actually let more air in. Hilarious hamstering.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:52 PM
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Oh, I see. Were Clinton and Obama's policies also "directly responsible for lower black unemployment" since they were at historic lows during their presidencies? Just want to make sure I know how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:35 PM
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Ah yes, the good old opression pyramid. The 5 year old boy getting told he's a "potential rapist" sure won't interanlize that at all, because there was a slave trade 200 years ago. And the man toiling in a menial office job while struggling with depression and anxiety sure feels all that delicious "privilege" from all the woke white women castigating him for the way he sits on the bus. You: Let's demonize men as potential rapists, take away their male spaces because they are "toxic" and generall…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:25 PM
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but to this I really like to know what the left offers for men that is not emasculating? you may have misread. I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:12 PM
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That’s a huge oversimplification of his arguments. Remote work arguably has a looong and complicated list of positives and negatives. I’m working remotely now and sitting here typing into Reddit during a break, when in the past I might’ve taken a walk or talked to a colleague. I think for certain types of people it could be way more detrimental than for the average (I honestly think it improves my quality of life overall). Same. I can see where he's coming from, but I think his point is somewhat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:07 PM
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Personally I think we should use terms like toxic masculinity How about "Toxic blackness" see any problem there? How the fuck do people not get how young boys can, will and are internalizing this message that "masculinity is inherently toxic" But of course, this is the ntent of the term, like so much 1984'esque wokespeak. Everything is "white supremecy", "cishet priveledge" or "toxic masculinity" The words have lost all meaning. The words are used in effect and practice to otherise groups. That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:57 PM
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I think we get a post this good about once a month. Thank you. I hope to god there are more women like you in the world than PPD indicates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:52 PM
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I do believe there are a lot of really toxic elements of traditionally masculine behavior that harms both men and women. Now do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:48 PM
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Classic woman response: "Men's problems aren't our problems, but if you're not an "ally" you are a toxic male shitlord who should be cancelled for not protecting women" Now excuse us while we make short, little dick and bald jokes and teehee about men getting their dicks cut off. This is part of the reason why I'm gonna let women "handle" the abortion rights fight all on their own and never again lift a finger to help a single one of their causes. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:39 PM
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So I was raped? Should I go to the police?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:37 PM
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No. Just No. He would have been absolutely crucified as a "radical communist" in red states.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:36 PM
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And capitalism is a milestone on the path to a 'survival of the fittest' social darwinist lord of the flies hellscape. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:33 PM
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Lol imagine if somebody who was on your opposite political team did 1/3 of the shit Trump did openly. Imagine they claimed to be a president in exile that should be "reinstated" or actively encouraged a literal insurrection. The fact that cultists can still say "Trump Derangement Syndrome" with a straight face is what's truly frightening. You quite literally love Trump more than you care about the actual country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:32 PM
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Ok, Alex Jones. This is embarassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:28 PM
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Even if you believe this (which you don't), you have not addressed the ultimate point: Which of those difficulties and expectations are actively acknowledged, sympathized with and addressed in western society?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:27 PM
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If you attribute any of that shit to Trump's clueless and meaningless word vomit - You. Are. In. A. Cult. Trump had no policies outside of "troll the libs" "Build the wall" LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:23 PM
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They're trying to bang you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:22 PM
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Sabertooth tigers are toxic sexist shitlords.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:21 PM
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Lol. Yeah. There are certain figures that are so off the reservation that you can't support them and then claim to be a sane political actor. Trump is most definitely one of those. If you hamster away January 6th or his keeping of boxes of top secret documents despite being requested to return them, you may need to take a hard look at the rabbit hole you've gone down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:45 PM
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You clearly implied that how other men see you is of no significance to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:43 PM
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let's pretend you're right We don't have to pretend. The way you just whistled past every point I made literally proves the point. Asking me "what I mean by society" is typical hamsterism and gaslighting. You know exactly what I mean, but are pretending not to so you can score a dunk on "bitter incels" or whatever bogeyman you've invented to represent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:42 PM
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With this level of reasoning? How could I not! Thanks for helping me "do better!" Very stunning and brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:37 PM
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LMAO "hot basketball shorts" Yes, those very suffocating shorts men wear when playing one of the most physically demanding sports on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:37 PM
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… but why male models?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:08 AM
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So was abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:59 AM
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Lmao the right is for the working class. Suuure. Is this like how “the right” wants to fight illegal immigration by arresting families rather than punishing the companies that hire them as workers by the millions? The fact that the right is anti organized labor should tell you exactly what they think of working people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:58 AM
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Lol this sounds like some Ayn Rand masturbation porn. America has been a socialist / capitalist hybrid for well over 100 years. You really think we’re hurting a result of having social safety nets and Medicare?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:56 AM
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Same. All the belittling, ball busting, disrespectful hyper combative women I’ve been with have been your typical educated “type A” career women. The trashier women have actually been way better partners and way more pleasant and cooperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:38 AM
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Bullshit. I saw Red Dawn. AVENGE ME!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:33 AM
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This post is such a strange combination of self awareness but also admission that you’re using “good” men as emotional tampons by making them nod along with your FDS nuttery. I hope you cut those guys loose from your life as that shit is not good for their mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:30 AM
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Bravo. This absolutely nails it and mirrors my feelings as a social democrat who is finding it harder and harder to even be around “my side” much less defend it. I will say that the real villain in all of this is the political “outage industrial complex” I say this knowing full well I’ve fallen victim to it myself. Hell, we’re all here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:22 AM
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I’m as left as it gets. The political right does not say this shit. There is rampant anti gay / trans rhetoric but the shit you just posted is westborough Baptist level nonsense. You’re embarrassing yourself. The mainstream political left openly says the anti-male shit that has been discussed in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:17 AM
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Remember when Obama was able to speak to working class whites in red states with respect and empathy? That seems like some fantasy world now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:16 AM
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The right would happily pass a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage and possibly birth control as well. So there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:14 AM
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The fact that you use the term “kill babies” interchangeably with prevent the development of a zygote should make you maybe realize you are one of those extreme nuts we’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:13 AM
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A.) Bernie would have lost even worse B.) Trump as a populist lol Trump was simply a troll the right loved because he “triggered the libs” Nothing more. Nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:10 AM
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This is already happening. The left (of which I am a part) is forcing young men into ideological ghettos with their woke dogma. I’ve basically checked out of all social policies on the left. I don’t give a fuck. Sorry women. You wanted to shit on men so bad and you got Trump. Study the political phenomenon of blowback next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:08 AM
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While I don’t disagree with your assessment of the left in regards to being anti men, to paint the rights support of Trump as anything beyond a huge “own the libs” troll maneuver is disengenuous as well. Trump traded on grievance politics more than any leftist in living memory. He literally had no policies other than talking shit about Obama and Pelosi. He belongs in the trash heap of American mistakes and the fact that people still openly support that pathetic grifting piece of shit is a stain …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:04 AM
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I would argue you cannot be a Trump Supporter and not be a radical. The man has demonstrated himself to be literal threat to democracy and possibly worse. There is no wiggle room there. You can be pro-2a, pro life; whatever. If somebody is still pro trump at this point they are in Jonestown territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:00 AM
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Correct. Caesar basically was the “communist” of his day with his political faction challenging the entrenched crony capitalists of his day with a message of populist and wealth redistribution. This shit ain’t new.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:58 AM
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America is and has succeeded due to continuously attempting to strike the proper balance between socialism and capitalism. Throughout our history we have leaned too far in either direction but our system of checks and balances has generally kept us from going too far into either absolutist hellscape. People who masturbate to Ayn Rand or Marx tend to ignore half this equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:53 AM
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Same. But you can’t also claim (as you have been) that the left doesn’t have a huge problem with this. The right has the same problems they always have (anti gay, gun loving, bible thumping, confederate flag worship, etc) As a dem I can’t honestly say the right has gotten more nuts on specific policy positions. They are the same as they were in the 90’s. It’s their rabid insanity that’s gotten worse via Trumpism. The left has gone off the rails with the anti white male shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:50 AM
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The left, like the right has become slaves to the twitter mob in terms of public messaging. The right had the cult of trump and the left the cult of wokeness. The fact that it took a literal existential threat to American democracy (Trump) for a uncontroversial democrat to barely win should be very concerning. Fortunately, Biden is about as milquetoast blue dog dem as it gets. If we end up with some AOC “say LatinX” type of nut after he’s gone, say goodbye to the party forever IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:45 AM
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Have you been asleep for the past 10 years? I’m a social democrat and progressive in every way except the recent woke / feminist crap and have been longer than most on this sub has been alive. If I can see it, you should be able to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:42 AM
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It hurts my brain how can say this and not realize you simply need to change men to any other class to see what a piece of shit you sound like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:38 AM
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Hear that young Billy who is dirt poor and getting bullied by the jocks who are assholes who fuck all the hot cheerleaders and the nerdy bookworm girls while being oh-so “toxic”? YOU are the problem Billy! You shitlord in waiting! Stop being so entitled to women’s bodies!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:37 AM
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Lol and there it is "Drunk sex is rape" But let me guess, only when it happens to a woman right? I’ve woke up after nights partying with a girl in my bed and I didn’t remember her name but we clearly had fucked. Tell me, was I raped or was she? This is part of the problem. Women changing the definition of rape and sexual assault to comical levels that have nothing to do with the way human beings actual interact sexually. This is the “a lack of a no isn’t a yes, a yes isn’t always a yes” generati…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:32 AM
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Also I don’t think racism and patriarchy are comparable. You're right. They aren't. Racism actually exists. It’s not like every man is a potential rapist, Yes. Accoeding to feminists promoting this shit, it's exactly like that. it’s more about the idea that society teaches men about women. Like something they can use and abuse. Lol what? What society is teaching this and how? You mean like 50-60 years ago? Or modern day Saudi Arabia? Like that? How TF do women not get that shit like "teach boys …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:26 AM
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June Cleaver with no gag reflex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:57 AM
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Here’s the reality that women, and especially PPD women need to grasp and soon: The more you continue your anti “toxic” masculinity crusades, the more you invent new buzzwords to otherise and shame men, the more you gaslight about women’s behavior with words when when observable facts contradict them, the more these young men will end up in some dark ideological ghetto of the internet and become acolytes of the next generation of Andrew Tates. You’ve spent years shitting on men and boys and canc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:45 AM
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I find your lack of self awareness disturbing. The answer to your entire post is very simple: Society is designed around catering to, sympathizing with and addressing every need (real or imagined) associated with women. Men can fuck off and stop whining. This is why things like “body positivity” really just mean “be nice to fat women, but those small dick energy short losers don’t count!”, “slut / kink shaming” is bad, except if a man is dating a younger woman. Masculinity is “toxic” except when…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:31 AM
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You are going to claim with a straight face that women are judged by and have the same expectations of achievement, performance, success and providership that men do? Really? Why in the ever loving fuck with all the legitimate challenges women face in the world, they can’t admit to the ONE way they have it easier in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:25 AM
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Platitudes and drivel. Sex has been, is and always will be of immense importance to men. Everything from ships to empires have risen and fallen over this. Stop spewing platitudes that belong on some stupid positivity grifter’s insta feed and acknowledge reality. Sex and intimacy are part of a hierarchy of needs for a balanced existence as a man just like sunlight. Spouting off about a “purpose” means jack shit. There were 20 men who didn’t get pussy but had a very solid sense of “purpose” that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:21 AM
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Now do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:16 AM
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Lol holy shit. This comment was maximum woman “This stat means those men took themselves out of the sexual market.” Basically illustrating that the act of obtaining sex is so trivial for women, that the very notion of not getting itthrough no choice of your own is unfathomable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:57 AM
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Girls with boyfriends are the kinds I like I’ll steal your honey like I stole your bike
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:37 AM
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I hate that I’m old enough to get this reference. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:26 AM
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Lol. Sure it is. Let me guess. One of those notoriously honest and very candid “self reported” studies from women respondents like their true n-count (the guy in Cancun didn’t count because he didn’t cum) or porn preferences (“ethical” sensual lovemaking only!). 😂 Yeah. Those are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:22 AM
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Lol. You just assumed I was the “socially awkward guy who didn’t get invited” Nope. I went to all the happy hours. But I sure as hell saw how the dynamic worked. Women were always welcomed with open arms , and only a few select men were invited enthusiastically. Not sure how this is hard to grasp. Ever heard of “ladies night” and all other manner of “we need more women in X” incentives?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:18 AM
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Sorry. 10 inch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:13 AM
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You say that like its not a huge fucking deal. Especially for men. And it sure as shit will “stave off loneliness” for the time you’re doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:13 AM
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Dude, do you also think men only dress well, work out, get haircuts, buy nice things solely to attract women? Yes. Next question. Sometimes people do superficial shit to improve their confidence and self esteem. You are stopping at the most utterly surface level version of the explanation which is what most women ITT did as well. This is unhelpful. You now need to ask WHY does it “improve their confidence and self esteem” No different than a skinny dude trying to lift so he can start feeling bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:51 AM
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Lol it took to the end of the thread to read the one, singular honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:47 AM
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🤣 Chad really is the way men think of women as a whole. The whole “women fucking men who can do handstands” thing applies there too. “Chad wants to fuck Kim Kardashian? Brb gonna paint a new face on real quick”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:35 AM
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Lol exactly. Funny how lifting has a myriad of benefits but I’ve heard “I don’t want to get bulky” countless fucking times from women. Nevermind that it’s not even possible for 95% of them to “get bulky” from lifting, the fact that THIS is their concern should tell you everything. Why wouldn’t you want to be the burliest strongest brave strong woman who don’t need no man you could be if it’s “for you”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:28 AM
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THANK YOU. There are multiple levels to this - so why is it women can only seem to sit at the surface and talk about “comfy” and “I do it for me!” It’s pathetic. Like how hard is it to “I do it for me in the sense that these external things happen as a result” Some of this things will include “That hot guy I have a crush on noticing me” or “that girl who stole my boyfriend being jealous” But no. It has to stop at “ritual” or “the beauty of the female figure” or some nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:24 AM
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We’d prefer you don’t lie about it. You may think you “do it for your hubby” and of course don’t leave with another dude (who the hell implied this btw) but the reality is you, consciously or not, bask in the validation of other men checking you out, looking better than your female rivals and generally feeling fuckable. It only takes a modicum of self awareness to state this, but alas women can’t bring themselves to such an uncomfortable place. M Your attempt to frame men as somehow comparable i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:21 AM
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What’s pretentious is, rather than stating the dead obvious answer: “I want to look sexually attractive” somebody hamsters out some utter horse shit like “it’s a ritual” or “it’s comfy” or “the human body is beautiful” That’s what is pretentious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:15 AM
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Fucking this. Every time this subject comes up it’s the same damn playbook of gaslighting and lack of self awareness. It’s breathtaking in its brazenness. I have no idea how this verbal hamster parade can be vomited out of a human mouth and then that same person turn around and say “#beliveallwomen!” No. I don’t think I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:11 AM
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How in the fuck are Jean bootie shorts “comfy” compared to, say, loose basketball shorts. Hint: they’re not. The hamstering in this thread should put to rest any man who thinks women will look any deeper into their own motivations for their own behavior. “Comfy”. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:08 AM
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More like a classic example of how Western Gen Z’ers have become the most fragile, neurotic and pussified species in the history of mankind. A “hot stove” Jesus Christ. One off-hand comment and motherfuckers crawl into a fetal position. I would be embarrassed to admit some shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:04 AM
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they just don’t want to say that or else Bob the Beer Gut is gonna feel like she wants his creep stares. 🎰 Winner. Plausible deniability is undefeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:02 AM
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It’s honestly awe inspiring when you see women lying to themselves in real time. And their capacity to do it is somewhat frightening. It’s like those movies where somebody knows reality but just has to cling to the illusion because the know their entire world will fall apart if they face the truth. The Machinist and Nurse Betty are good examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:00 AM
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You are deliberately only looking at the surface level of your “ritual” You’re focusing on the “what” instead of the “why” Nobody believes this. If the “ritual” was truly what it was about you would be painting your face like a kabuki actor or Jigsaw. Women painting their face with “contouring” to look like a Kardashian clone can hamster about “rituals” all day. That’s not what is happening behind the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:57 AM
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Lol ah the good old “women aren’t a monolith” retort. Used by every woman on PPD when faced with common sense Women are otherworldly higher beings who could never possibly be prone to self deception about their motives. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:55 AM
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Lack of accountability: It’s not just for women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:47 AM
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TLDR - even when they “do it for themselves” … it’s still men’s fault somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:41 AM
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I’m not saying this is universal or even the most common reason, but a significant number doth protest too much about how happy they are being single. I’m sure a lot of people here know someone who is probably more bothered by being single than they actually let on. Dead on. They are so “happy” they need that constant stream of disingenuous “yas kweening” to keep them from falling apart. That doesn’t sound stunning and brave to me tbh. Keep in mind also that subreddit is mostly made up of people…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:22 AM
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The commonality with almost all of these responses from women is this: The underlying message is that men are defective in some way and women are “better” at things, and that’s why they have an easier time at… really anything. They’re just “better people” it can’t possibly be that in the chaos of existence, we just drew different cards, and women do indeed in this one area have a clear and obvious advantage. Nope. Not possible. Not ever. Women only ever get where they are because they worked for…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:55 AM
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Women: Porn gives men unrealistic expectations! Also women: Now watch me fuck this 9 inch eternally hard fake dick that vibrates at 5000rpm TeeHee
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:35 AM
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Just world fallacy. Shit men from bad backgrounds can and do very often have zero issues getting sex or relationships and your “egalitarian” ideal of a man are often virgins into their 30’s due to being seen as utterly unexciting by women in addition to very often being ashamed of their own “predatory” sexual impulses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:32 AM
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The short answer to all this is simple: Apex Fallacy The long answer; Because you want Chad and Chad doesn’t need to GAF about you. Chad has options. Chad doesn’t need to “take a shower” or “respect your career in basket weaving” Chad can get laid or a gf regardless. Thus you scroll through tinder, swiping on all the “hawt” guys and the message you with ‘sup and apply that to “men” as a class, when the reality is you are selecting for these guys. You’re not alone in doing this. This phenomenon i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:27 AM
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This is privilege speaking in real time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:53 AM
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Like trying to engage total strangers? That too. Depends heavily on the setting. In my experience, in male-dominated spaces, people prioritize socializing with men and being “one of the guys” over interacting with women. Nope. Even in the vast majority of predominately “male spaces” the woman isn’t going to be “left out in the cold”. Some white night or “nice guy” will inevitably strive to make her feel included or “seen” or whatever. This isn’t Mad Men in 1963 for Christssake. Try going to a “m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:35 AM
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You won’t address the fundamental question : Which is worse? Having the ability to use casual sex to stave off loneliness / horniness / skin hunger or NOT having that ability? There is your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:23 AM
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Holy shit. This is it dead on. Women are sexual “Trustafarians” Their version of “being single” is precisely like that rich kid moving to a big city and living “on the street” for a couple of months before he gets bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:26 AM
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Talks out “occasionally” fucking casually (generally involves walking into a bar, exist, wait) Complains Chad crush won’t put a ring on it after “talking” and 1 date. Implies he’s “low effort” for not pulling out all the stops doing parlor tricks after she “made the mistake” of having sex with him. Talks about all her orbiters. Claims dating as a woman isn’t “easy” Classic. PS Did it ever occur to you that he found the sex disappointing? Nah. Got to be his fault for “leading you on”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:03 AM
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Your reply clearly (and casually) said the loud part loudly. That you will “sometimes scratch the itch” You have no idea how big of a part that is until you experience the following: 10x the testosterone with the always-on active sex drive rather than the “dormant for weeks or months” REActive sex drive which only activates when a man presses the right buttons. Having to make all the effort in obtaining sexual encounters while enduring countless often humiliating rejections Not knowing if / when…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:53 AM
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OP gave the number 80%. That’s what I am arguing against. Who cares about the "exact" percentage. It's far too many. Most even. Let's just say "The majority of women aren't terribly concerned with violence against men perpetrated by women, and a large percentage will find it outright funny" and leave it at that. You’re right that these women should be seen as a problem but aren’t. Let's end it on this agreement then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:37 AM
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I'm fine with people, men or women, using toys to masturbate. Of course you are. Anything women do must be ok with women. 8 inch monster dildo? No problem there. Guy watches multi millionaire Sasha Grey suck a dick? Literal rapist. ​ getting off to people being raped on screen is healthy. "Raped on screen" hilarious. And people wonder why PPD women aren't taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:34 AM
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What the hell does a man who "can get laid" have to do with anything. I've known plenty of Chads and average guys - none of them joke about some other dudes dick. This reeks of how women imagine men actually talk around each other. Straight men wouldn't concern themselves about shit like this because it "seems gay" Men don't care about who other men fuck or how. Women do. Lol @ the notion of hearing a straight man talking about "big dick energy" jesus christ. Are you talking about gay men? and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:33 AM
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A) The equivalent to a woman sleeping with the whole lacrosse team is a man sleeping with the whole lacrosse team. No it is not and it never will be. Even YOU don't believe that and you know it. A woman doing hookers and pursuing barely legal boys is wrong as well. Why are you coming up with completely different examples for women? How about women chad-chasing and ordering tinder dick? How is that different? Women are exchanging easy pussy for Chad's time. That's it. It's a trade. B) I fail to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:04 AM
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Lol - weasel words. "Rape Culture" and "Toxic Masculinity" is just Orwellian Wokespeak for "the scary men with their scary male gaze" You think a 13 year old knows the subtleties of your "true meaning" when you tacitly label him a rape apologist because he has a poster of a scantily clad girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:53 AM
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Demonizing porn is an absolute hamster from women due to "muh body standards" and their own insecurity. PPD women don't GAF who makes their belt or shoes or phone, but suddenly porn is some big demonic force that must be stopped. It just so happens that's also self serving, so they don't have to "compare themselves' to porn stars anymore. Porn is a masturbatory aid for men. That's it. It helps men get off. Just like your "toy" does. Peddle "muh exploitation" somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:52 AM
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Women didn't invent "big and little dick energy" Thought this was a delusional reply. men use those phrases all the time about themselves and others. Verified. Telling me you've never had male friends without ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:49 AM
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Exponentially higher male suicide rates isn't click bait, it's reality. You just have to ignore the bit where women try to kill themselves more often. Men just succeed more often, because they use more violent methods. Women who own guns? Also more successful. Or, you know, women "attempt" more as a cry for help and attention. Nah, couldn't be that. Not women! Women would NEVER do that! It's got to be those barbarian men with their "violent methods" that prevent women executing the very difficul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:47 AM
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Isn't this a bit like saying "a majority of men aren't rapists"... like Okay great. The issue here is that these women are not even SEEN as a problem by society and by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:35 AM
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However, rooms full of men laugh at rape jokes told by male comedians too. Do you not understand the difference between a "rape joke" and a joke about "a particular woman that was actually raped"? Really? Show me a comedian making a rape joke about a specific real woman who was actually raped? Where? Where have you seen this? I'll wait for video. You just watched a room full of women laugh at this. Now show me a room full of men laugh at it. Again at a specific real woman who was actually raped.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:33 AM
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What you likely think is men who conform to your narrow definition of 'approved behaviors' are great. For all you know some of those 'great' guys hold many of the beliefs RP men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:29 PM
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t’s clearly you don’t get laid because you re charismatic , Are you one of those people who actually believes that there is some correlation between typing out reddit opinions and real life behavior and results? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:28 PM
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So, you can watch Rom Coms and realize it's not real but I can't watch porn and realize she's not really gettin throat fucked by the step dad? Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:27 PM
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This entire response mistakenly interpreted my "more" to mean "more violence" I meant more abusive shit in terms of volume and in general for the simple fact that it is unchecked and unpunished if not encouraged and excused for women to do all manner of nasty shit to men. How many times have we heard a woman do some awful shit only to come back with some kind of victim defense?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:24 PM
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I can see you just on't like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:22 PM
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Is this supposed to be something resembling a point? Or is this just another "huh huh, you don't get laid cuz ur bitter!" shit? Where TF did this notion that I don't get laid come from? Jesus, this reads like an FDS post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:21 PM
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How you're not getting the difference between a doctor or nurse helping an individual MAN (their literal JOB btw) over societies massive campaign to address Women's collective issues is baffling. This isn't click bait, it's reality. Exponentially higher male suicide rates isn't click bait, it's reality. Breast cancer getting multiple times the funding of Prostate cancer despite prostate cancer causing more death isn't clickbait, it's reality. The Boy Scouts being forced to include GIRLS isn't cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:15 PM
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This has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with the point, but you know what - I'm gonna check out, because this has the mark of a circular discussion and I just can't right now. But, for the last and final time, if women cared about equal representation it would be just for the "fun and easy" jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:10 PM
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A few women said something mean Lol this is some Ilhan Omar "some people did something" shit? But yeah, if by "a few women" you mean an audience full of them, on national TV to a gigantic audience of other women who had no problem with it.. then yeah.. "a few women" Jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:07 PM
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Here's a hint, when you're on PPD and this is the only thing you think you can type, maybe... just maybe rethink things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:05 PM
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Maybe dumb American liberals, but again, i only see them online or in like Marvel movies. TF does this even mean - this shit is said all over the place often using the "BDE" achronym. And just - lol @ "Dumb American Liberals" - where the hell did that come from - but just to dunk on you, I'll give you this: https://www.dailydot.com/debug/kari-lake-desantis-trump-bde/ You were saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:04 PM
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On What? Tik Tok? I'm talking about mainstream society, not corners of social media where you can find a subset of people who talk about how great drinking your own piss is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:25 AM
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Maybe being 6'4 and fit helps Oh for fucksake. Thanks for Chadsplaining this to me. It all makes sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:24 AM
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I see. Are those the strong, stunning and brave women again? That don't know how to use a doorknob?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:22 AM
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Newsflash: That's literally just the first step of backlash that women like those in this thread have wrought and set into motion like dominoes with their non-stop man-bashing campaigns for the past 20 years. Among other things, Misandry was a huge reason we got Trump, and by extension his 3 nutcase Handsmaid Tale judges. It's called a "blowback effect" and it's been a political phenomenon forever. Here's some bad news - I am still a died-in-the-wool liberal. I'd call myself a social democrat. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:16 AM
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Maybe the fact that they actually have tolerable personalities helps Lmao. Yep. There's that famous personality again. Getting men laid for decades, I tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:10 AM
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I already said I am / was an auto mechanic in addition to my tech job. Did you have some kind of a point about women clamoring for "equality" for only certain jobs and not others?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:09 AM
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Just world fallacy entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:08 AM
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I mean, I agree but only because I'm a comedy nerd and understand the process and have seen it done in the past. But if you think those same people wouldn't get taken out of context and a hashtag campaign launched against them for "offending a sacred group" you haven't been paying attention to comedy in the last 5-10 years. Do you think Patrice O'Neal could exist today?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:07 AM
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Tell that to Dave Chapelle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:05 AM
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Yeah it always comes to this doesn't it? "But muh rape and murder!" Women's ultimate get-out-of anything free card. "Well, so what I fucked your best friend, lied about your paternity, drained your bank account, punched you in the face, threw a drink in your face in front of a crowd, called you a pussy for showing weakness at a life challenge, tried to sabotage your reputation, keyed your car, threw plates at your head, crybullied you incessently and all the while made you think you were the bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:02 AM
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Considering a man's masturbatory aid is not "toys" but porn, yes. Yes they do. And they do it often here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:58 AM
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At some point you need to look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself why you always end up with abusive women. Yeah I knew this was coming. I'm just going to say it, I don't believe you. There's no fucking way you've dated 30 women and not had one bipolar nut. That is basically statistically impossible. Either that or you simply don't see it as "abuse" in the first place. Your attempt to try to pull the "it's a YOU problem" card has one flaw - I have many friends over the years and have see…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:55 AM
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I agree. Women don't believe men deserve anything because in their mind men are a "privileged class" that is to be brought down a peg whenever possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:53 AM
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I can assess with fairly uncanny accuracy after decades of dating the following: Misogynistic men get laid and get relationships with absolutely no problem. That's all I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:51 AM
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Oh cool ok. How is the Amish life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:50 AM
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My point is generalising that all women who’ve been raped would laugh at a soldier losing his genitals in a horrifying accident is not a point based in reality. I concede this point for one reason and one reason only - there is no "revenge" component in it. I don't believe women would laugh at this in public because - well it's a "soldier" and an accident. The women from "The Talk" or whatever, clearly felt that they had the green light to laugh it up because "That asshole deserved it" for cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:49 AM
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If you are claiming misogyny is some kind of a "deal breaker" for women, I've got bad news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:38 AM
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Then you don't watch TV or social media or listen to podcasts I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:37 AM
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She's definitely one of my least favorite new-era PPD trolls. It's pretty much predictable "team women" shit every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:34 AM
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TF does some singular weirdo on his laptop "looking at gore" have to do with a PUBLIC spectacle of cackling hens ridiculing an actual, individual man on television?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:33 AM
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Oh yes, as we all know those trusty "personality detectors" that weed out all the bad misogynistic men from getting into relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:32 AM
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Lol. That's because women do not operate in the same sexual reality that men do. If a woman had to pay for attention or use porn to get off sexually, it would probably be subsidized by the government. Do women ridicule other women for fucking themselves with inanimate "toys"? Suddenly that one is no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:29 AM
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You berate women here by calling them hoes all the time. So them calling you incles pretty much balances out the whole dynamic. I've literally never used that term on here. Try again. Also, if anonymous strangers calling you insecure upsets you so much, then maybe you actually ARE insecure. Ah yes, the old "I know you are but what am I" defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:28 AM
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as long as it does not bring the wrong ideas to men or effect them negatively Define "wrong ideas" this sounds like some religious speak. Who decides what the "wrong ideas" are. You realize how many people claim gay people are the result of "wrong ideas" right? But we all know many young men actually can’t, l So wait.. Can young women watch rom-coms, use social media and read slash fiction / Yaoi without getting fucked up and not being able to distinguish reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:26 AM
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They already don't get it - least of all from women - so ...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:23 AM
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A "Rape joke" is not remotely equivalent to this. More equivalent would be talking about a SPECIFIC woman who got raped in reality and roasting her for it somehow. Which, honestly, I can't think of a single comic, not even Andrew Dice Clay who went down that road the way these women did. This wasn't "about something" it was a specific news story about a specific person with a room full of women openly laughing about it. This isn't some "what did the guy say to his wife after she cut his dick off…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:22 AM
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No woman, not one has addressed that. For all the talk of "it was just nervous dark humor because they knew it was horrible!" they can't find it in them to admit that "dark humor" would suddenly disappear if this had happened to a woman. Funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:19 AM
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Funny how when women do something we all know the vast majority of women do (laugh at / minimize / belittle male suffering, especially their dicks getting cut off / otherwise ridiculed) it's "just some evil women" but when some man rapes a woman, it's all of men's fault for being behind "rape culture" or whatever the fuck the current terminology is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:17 AM
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Doug Stanhope and it's not close.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:16 AM
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Then it's hard for me to judge it without knowing it. Because it was 99% certainly a safe one a la Sara Silverman. As you said, with the punchline being the perpetrator or some misdirection / one-liner thing. Try telling a Jesselnik or Carr style rape joke to a bunch of Feminists. I dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:15 AM
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Now do it about a specific woman - in the news - with a name and face as these women did. That's what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:13 AM
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However, humour is a way of helping us deal with topics we otherwise would find hard to face. Women didn't find this "hard to face" they simply thought it was "funny" a shitty cheater got what was coming to him. The end. Lighten up. Don't take yourself so seriously. Seriously, that's what we're going with? Some old-timey "nantucket" style joke is equivalent to a crowd of hens cackling at a news story of the recent mutilation of an actual specific human being? Maybe somebody should crack jokes ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:13 AM
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I don't see many (any) women calling out their fellow women when they make their cute "big / little dick energy" quips. Rather a lot of "go girls"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:08 AM
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Society in 2022 is absolutely frothing at the mouth to crucify men for all crimes real and imagined. To deny the current gynocentric dogma in western society is to gas light boys en masse and to guarantee a generation of angry confused and frustrated young men. Ask every society in history how that turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:07 AM
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This can't be serious. Do you honestly believe that's what was at play here? "Dark Humor" like they were doing some kind of Anthony Jesselnik skit? This was'nt some bit at a stand-up show, this was an actual NEWS story, as in they were discussing the mutlation of a human being that had happened RECENTLY. The message here was subtle - "He cheated on her, so she cut his dick off TEEEHEE!!!" That message gets played over and over again and young men hear it and realize how worthless their physical …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:04 AM
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The crowd of women openly laughing (not groaning, not staying silent, laughing and some CLAPPING) lays to rest almost all of these arguments. It's not just some "online feminists" doing this. Women are absolutely indifferent to male suffering in ways that men can't relate to because men have an inbuilt protective instinct toward women that women simply do not have toward men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:02 AM
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The idea is that women as a whole are sadistic and knowingly cruel to men they consider lesser and therefore no women deserve sympathy for the pain they feel. How can one not understand how men are seeing more evidence to support this? How can a woman watch clips of A FUCKING CROWD of women laughing at men getting their dicks cut off and not see that there's a disparity here? Women will do literally anything to wash their hands of their own toxicity it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:57 AM
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It's based on reality. People need to not "both sides" this shit. Even hinting that some sexual harm that actually came to a woman was somehow worth huge laughs would get any man cancelled in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:56 AM
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You may not have been alive during the John Bobbitt era. Women looooved laughing about that and did so often and openly. "Big / Little dick energy" is merely an extension of this type of shit and it's used openly and with glee by women while those same women tell men not to "fat shame"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:54 AM
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Or maybe women can acknowledge the disparity instead of pretending it doesn't exist. Until I see women do that, you're goddamn right I will exercise my right to not give a single flying fuck about their suffering ever again. As long as they ridicule male suicide and depression as "not getting your dick wet" as they do here constantly, they can go it alone. I won't lift a finger to help at the ballot box or in my personal life again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:53 AM
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The way women talk, you'd think that a good 75% of men support rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:51 AM
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Didn't women make a HUGE fucking stink about how insulting the "NotAllMen" defense was? Why am I not shocked that they are the first to play that card when it suits them to alleviate their role in the normalization of this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:50 AM
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Bull. Fucking. Shit. The outlier violent men do more "physical damage per incident" to women, yes. But mainstream women do far more abusive shit, that is just less spectacular and are celebrated for it. But this is the utter gaslight women will not let go of. Women get away with virtually EVERYTHING they do, up to and including physical violence while men often end up in jail for their misdeeds. Women use social assassination, manipulation and gaslighting to hurt men. Amber Heard is NOT an anoma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:48 AM
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Do you deny that this "laugh at men getting their dicks cut off" is absolutely accepted in our society? Let's not even get into "cute" phrases women come up with like "big / little dick energy", calling men "gay" for not wanting to fuck them or gleefully using "virgin / incel" as an insult. Then those same women have the nerve to talk about how MEN propagate nonsense like "toxic masculinity"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:44 AM
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Doing hookers or pursuing barely legal girls are actual indicators of someone’s morality. I’m talking about free safe affirmative consent among mature adults. How utterly convenient to come up with some way to cast a man's sexual behavior you might not approve of in a negative moral light, and within the same argument, make the case that a woman fucking the lacrosse team is no sign of any potential red flag on her part. ​ I’m talking about free safe affirmative consent among mature adults. Got a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:37 AM
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So which is it? Do women "not like casual sex" and suffer from "the orgasm gap" or do they "fuck 300 men because they enjoy sex". Can women please make up their mind on this? This is like saying "That 600lbs guy over there may not be an overeater, he may have a rare genetic disease" - like, ok. He's the .001% of people that suffer from that. Until I know that I, you and everybody else will assume he worked for years eating his way to that weight due to a long history of poor impulse control. Imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:26 AM
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Are you saying that men and women should be treated differently? When it comes to sex? Hell yes I'm saying that. When it comes to sex (as in access to it and the ease and abundance at which it can be obtained at-will), men and women might as well be different animals which is the entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:18 AM
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I have no idea what the point is here. First, miss me with that "wOmEn aRe bRouGht Up tO ..." shit. Was the woman in question a legal adult when she got run through by the varsity team? If so, she can take full responsibility for her decision to do so. The amount of time we have to hear from women here and elsewhere that "you should have figured that out!" when it comes to men's issues regarding sex and dealings with the opposite gender has killed any tolerance I have for that lack-of-accountabi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:16 AM
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Unless you can actually quantify a non sexist way of it being unattractive you’re just being stupid imo Calling it "sexist" indicates you believe the "same standard" should be applied. This is like saying the "same standard" should be given to a dolphin and a turtle for swimming ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:51 AM
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Same here, IDGAF about what shit a woman got up to before we dated. Hell, in many cases, if she was an outright freak, that might be better because she'd be more likely to be down for threesmoes, etc. BUT, what I've noticed on PPD almost invariably is: Women have preferences: A-OK, not shallow, not "problematic" just all manner of reasons like "I feel safe" or "I don't want some loser that watches porn" or "I won't date a man who uses women (prostitutes)" etc - every single one of these are tota…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:48 AM
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Why TF is this not the top answer? This is our daily "argue the color of the sky" post on PPD I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:29 AM
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For the last goddamn time, it's not the same because men and women are not the goddamn same. Why is this suddenly controversial to say in the past 10 years? Dating a woman with a high body count means she has a high likelihood of having negative traits such as impulsivity and a lack of self control. Why? Because having sex is EASY AND ABUNDANT for women at all times. Women do not need to do anything to fuck a lot In contrast a man HAS to have usually many exceptional things about himself to rack…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:28 AM
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300lbs woman points to self: "Yeah that's right little boy! You can't handle alllll THIS woman!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:24 AM
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why would I feel special sleeping w a dude that doesn't have enough confidence in his masculinity to be ok with the fact that I had a life before him What do you want to bet you have any number of your own criteria by which you judge a man and his past. But that's different right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:22 AM
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Have you seen what the women here call men who view porn, go to strip clubs or have :gasp: gone paid for hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:20 AM
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All we ask is to stop objectifying and using these dumb analogies about them. All we ask is you dispense with the faux outrage and language policing in order to score virtue points. And BTW that's not "all you ask" - Women on PPD CONSTANTLY berate men for being "insecure" for not wanting to fuck high N women. Why do you hamster this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:15 AM
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What about: Men who fucked hookers Men who are virgins Men who have been in bisexual encounters Men who, at 35 previously dated 18 year olds Men who worked in porn All things "in the past" that women will happily disqualify a man over. Let me guess... "that's different" And can you stop with the "wE'Re nOt iNaNimAtE oBjEcTs!" hysteria. It's called a metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:13 AM
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LOL. That's not how this works. Is your criteria for having ones life fucked up due to being guilty until proven innocent becoming a household name? Silly me, here I was thinking it was having an entire school turn against you, articles written about what a PoS you are, getting protests and threats and becoming toxic to any future employer counted as a "consequence" etc. Apparently you think that the only consequence of any significance is a becoming a name the whole world knows followed by a pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:10 AM
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I know that’s probably too hard to comprehend. No, it's just absurd. There is such a thing as enabling and we are indeed doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:08 AM
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... waits for navy seal copypasta
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:04 AM
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This is true. I'd say Japanese women are generally far more of the "geisha" stereotype, but Korean women can be fucking brutal. There is not the same level of "teehee... I am quiet submissive doll" in Korean culture as there is in Japanese culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:04 AM
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This is one of the reasons I always laugh when women try to play the "Age gaps are wrong because the man can take advantage of her!" It's like.. What? I have friends that are 40+ year old literal (or virtual) virgins that would get played like this by a younger woman and never see it coming. But... Men bad, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:01 AM
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Women do not want it to happen, and we (as a society and as human beings) tend to do what women want. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:58 AM
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What does that matter? You know the point I'm making. It's that the crowing about "representation" is disingenuous at best. It's basically saying "I want this job that I want, and if you don't give it to me you're sexist!" Women DGAF about 'rights' or 'diversity' when it comes to men toiling away in those other jobs. Ever notice that? Also, working your ass off 18+ hours a day at some cutthroat corporate gig is also a "personal choice", which women also don't want to do because ambitious sociopa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:55 AM
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These men exist, also often in the form of frat boys. There was a whole commotion a month ago because some frat boy organization chanted that all women are whores and was putting that ideology on their organization. Thankfully they are not the norm but it still very much exists. Hard agree here. I left out Frat Douches and I shouldn't have. I hate these types of douchebags and always have. No argument. Choking and slapping can be ok with consent and respect. It is about the mutual understanding …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:45 AM
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Most corporate jobs are male dominated. Especially the tech field. Which is precisely the point. Why? Because guess what other jobs are "male dominated"? You guessed it. Sewage treatment, pipe fitter, waste management, highrise steel worker, coal miner, oil rig worker, ice fisher, etc Where-oh-where are the protests about the "lack of representation" here? Nowhere. Because it's not about equality whatsoever, and everybody knows it. It's about getting a cushy job they feel they "deserve" while si…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:34 AM
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This one's on me. My bad. I apologize. I misread one sentence and it totally fucked up my response. I agree with you 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:29 AM
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unintelligent person to get “tricked” into sex after waiting around to get to know them. Tell that to the countless women posting on r/dating and every other female oriented sub. ​ My men don’t bail because they’re investing time and a lot of money on me. LOL. Ok. Yes, sunk cost fallacy FTW. When has the FDS method ever gone wrong right? ​ My sex also isn’t bad. I don’t have problems in that area. An individual woman does not get to make that assessment. The man does. And unless you're an incred…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:23 AM
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As somebody who cringes at women's tendency to demonize porn on moral grounds, it absolutely can turn into an addiction like any other dopamine hit type thing such as alcohol or chocolate. Porn can (and should) absolutely be used responsibly. After years of "experience" I've settled on the following: If I have a date / potential opportunity for actual sex on the horizon (say within a week or so) I will 100% refrain from porn use. Sometimes this gets me into trouble as I can sometimes get to 3-4 …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:59 AM
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If only there were a forum on a public network dedicated to discussing things like sexual dynamics and Blue Pill / Red Pill ideas and how they match with reality. I wish there was one. Any ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:49 AM
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There are still men who feel superior to women, look down on women, basically mistreat women, etc. with no ounce of respect. Where? Where are these men? Because I've only ever seen them in trailer parks and 70's Pimp Blacksploitation movies. It's 2022. 90% of men walk on fucking eggshells around women's feelings. Men also sometimes get the idea that it is normal or ok from porn. Or, you know, from enough (feminist) women asking for them "choke me and slap me" during sex enough times that they re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:33 AM
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Cool. Hear that PPD? You support that sentiment? Or will there be crickets because he also hates "old powerful men manipulating women" the demon du jour of PPD. Him saying "gay sex is wrong (and gross)" gets a thumbs up from team women I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:25 AM
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Yes you are. You just don't know it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:24 AM
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No, it's exactly what I said. Getting a random bomb threat doesn't mean you are working some kind of job with the same inherent physical risks as working in a coal mine or fighting fires. Is it stressful? Hell yes. Does that mean you spend 8 hours a day doing something where one false move could cost your life? Hell the fuck no. You work in a damn office. Jesus. This is like saying, because there are mass shootings in US schools, working as a teacher is the same as being in the special forces or…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:23 AM
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It assumes that women don't add value to a relationship or marriage that is equivalent. Where? Where does it do this? If a woman is working 5 hour days at a receptionist job, making 1/4 of what the guy does, then coming home and making dinner and taking care of the kids, you don't get to say "Hey SHITLORD! You worked 14 hours at the office so we could that Porsche SUV that I wanted, but now change these damn diapers now that you're home at midnight after working nonstop without a break at an off…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:19 AM
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Are you serious? I just told you that a moment ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:10 AM
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You're still wrong. People have their tastes. Having a taste for young pussy is no more or less wrong than gay bears wanting to fuck twinks. ​ It's their sexual "thing" and there isn't a damn thing wrong with it. ​ Would you go into a gay nightclub and start screaming about how 'creepy and gross' it is that the hairy burly "daddy" guy in his 40's is banging the young hairless 24 year old? ​ I somehow doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:04 AM
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What does that even mean? I mean, yeah that's not pleasant, but that's like saying "I worked in a fire department taking phone calls and often people would yell at me and I had to stop filing my nails!" versus "I have to run into burning buildings on a daily basis and inhale toxic fumes constantly" Yeah... same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:00 AM
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Cool. So would you expect your husband who works a backbreaking job or, say, soul crushingly long hours in a high pressure job in order to provide for you to "do his share of the housework" when he comes home from dealing with the rat race / cutthroat business world? Or would you recognize that your supposed "emotional labor" is just your contribution to the accepted complimentary skillsets?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:58 AM
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Sick burn. Except, unfortunately I was a mechanic and have had heavy equipment fall on me, been burned by hot oil and electrocuted. I don't remember a bunch of women picketing outside because we they didn't have "adequate representation" in that field. But they sure as shit will freak out about Facebook not having enough "gender inclusivity", or Netflix putting out a "problematic" show, or a game developer creating characters that "make them uncomfortable" - Then they have all the time in the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:56 AM
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Not sure what that even means. Why aren't women protesting outside coal mines demanding "equal representation" and "more diversity"? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:51 AM
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They take very little joy in trampling someone whom is struggling Sorry, but you have no idea what you are talking about here unless you're talking about women's subtle and covert vindictiveness. If you've never actually experienced camaraderie via team activities or competition, then that would explain it. You are making the mistake women usually make by which men saying "mean things" is equivalent to actual bullying. It's not. Most great friends I have and most of the friend groups I know who …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:49 AM
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If by "opinion" meaning a man with a sample size of dozens of women whom I've fucked and, other women who my friends have fucked. Yes, that's my opinion. I think that's more valuable than a straight woman's opinion on the matter, don't you? (sample size: 1) Then again, what's your sample size of how feminists actually behave in bed (not how they CLAIM to behave)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:43 AM
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I work in a branch of the entertainment industry where we commonly have to pull 12-14 hour days towards the end of a project. Guess who's never there when we do that? But, I'm certain those girls in marketing and finance who are taking 2 hour lunches and leaving at 5 are complaining about how "entitled and privileged" us men are for making more money than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:41 AM
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Mattress girl, Duke Lacrosse and Zoe Quinn entered the chat,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:38 AM
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What percentage of men do you actually believe can do as you just described which is "fuck for pleasure on the side all the time"? How many male friends do you have that verify this? What are their physical characteristics? That's what i thought. Schrodinger's short, dad-bodded chad who's banging new chicks every week is a fucking myth dude. Stop selling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:36 AM
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Oh right my bad, there are tons of women clamoring to break that "glass ceiling" for oil pipeline workers and ice fishing. total straw man... yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:34 AM
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So just skip over the blatant issue of women "demanding" equality for only cushy jobs. You don't think that says anything? Really? And, just imagine if we told every woman that when she complained about the supposed "boys club" or "hostile work environment" It's almost like women do nothing but bitch about these situations yet come back and tell you that you suck for having a blue collar job. How about we tell women the exact thing you just said? "Get your ass to some male dominated spaces and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:32 AM
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PPD is actually one of the places that I do see men raising their issues independently but in real life men don’t seem to be good at this And why do you think this is? Bonus points if you don't throw out the "toxic masculinity" cliche because that buzzword does not explain the totality of the reasons here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:31 AM
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Lol yes, because when has a woman every complained about a man love-bombing or otherwise "tricking" her into sex even after her supposed magic waiting period? The point here is that you are implying that your waiting period is somehow a kind of filter for guys who will not bail on you because you "know they really like you" What I'm saying is that they don't actually know if they like you for a relationship until they've fucked you. What do you think "post nut clarity" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:29 AM
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You know exactly the phenomenon I'm discussing but keep moving the goal posts around to what "you" in particular (claim to) do. Why is it hard for you to admit women do this? Do you think we don't have eyes and ears and see it happen around us? And I already answered your last question 2 messages up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:30 PM
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Do you honestly believe that society has not been catering to much less "listening to" women's issues for the past 20 years? Often to the direct exclusion of men's issues? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:29 PM
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Yes, and most women will get that cushy marketing / finance / admin job with the 3 martini lunch with "the girls" while her and her friends will call the engineer who works until midnight "creepy incel" while simultaneously and unironically calling him "privileged" Outside of being a doctor or lawyer, women have vastly less demanding roles in the workforce in terms of hours and stress. Note - the lack of complaints / campaigns for "diversity and inclusion" in waste management or construction. Fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:26 PM
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And just because a man "dates" you doesn't mean he's going to magically "love" you after fucking you. In fact, in my and many other men's experience, the exact opposite happened. Will you accuse them of "love bombing" or "manipulating" you into sex if they decide they aren't into you after having sex like most women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:24 PM
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I'm not interested in "would" I'm asking you what actually happens when an unproven allegation is made against a man? Hint: It takes literal audio of the woman doing the accusing admitting not only did she attack him, but might do it again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:22 PM
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Telling your morbidly obese friend "she looks great" in a halter top is not a an admirable thing to do now matter how much you want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:20 PM
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So, inventing a scenario that is favorable to your argument? Sure. Now, in my experience and observation is that the man is generally grinding his ass off while the woman works some cushy version of a job in a similar industry. Same "socio-economic bracket" means nothing. For one, women are hypergamous when it comes to men as "success objects" - do not dispute this - it is fact. If you dispute it, there is no point in continuing the conversation. Second, you'd probably count a Pharmacologist and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:19 PM
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Great point. I take everything back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:40 PM
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Of course. Bringing up the rare genetic anomalies. More exception disproves rule strategy. You know what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:39 PM
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Who works more, more dangerous jobs, more high pressure jobs, more demanding for more and intense hours and doesn't get to make a peep about how they work on the verge of a mental breakdown half the time. Who sits in Sales, Marketing and HR jobs before hitting the bar for Cosmo's with the girls at 5pm?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:38 PM
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Sex is a prerequisite for dating. Every man who is sexually attracted to you is a man who at least has a chance to catch feelings for you. In otherwords, you reach step 1 automatically and constantly where the most men struggle to get to step 1 a few times a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:36 PM
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Also the same women who say "NO younger women want to date some old dude! ewww!" Suddenly they are a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:34 PM
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No - we're talking about straight on domination, degradation and using her as a fuck toy. And no it's not just "the kink-community ones" that like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:33 PM
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Only a hamster claims the exception is the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:32 PM
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Does she work the same amount of hours? Does she perform the same back-breaking manual labor? Does she face mortal danger in her job? That's what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:31 PM
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Because gaslighting, lies and delusion are offensive and destructive to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:29 PM
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Yes it's comedy but come on... Women will absolutely give disingenuous compliments to each other. Just because they aren't doing it with malice is irrelevant. It's the same thing they do to men when they gaslight their disneyfied version of reality to boys. Yes, they compliment eachother *sincerely* more - no doubt about that - but they do it so much it's a "cry wolf" type thing. Women saying to Bertha that "she looks great in that bikini" is destructive and ultimately bad for Bertha IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:28 PM
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I been living life in reality as a man for several decades. But, hey - go ahead and ignore what men are telling women. That seems to be going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:26 PM
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No they are not. Women often come here as a means to "own the incels" (similar to Trumpists "own the libs" motivation) They will speak in circles for no other reason to "prove your toxic ideology wrong" even if it means hamstering, lying and gaslighting. We see it every day here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:24 PM
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Are you honestly saying that men don't suffer all manner of social and often professional if not *legal* consequences the moment a woman levies an accusation at him? Not when there's a hearing, not when he gives context, but the moment some woman fires off a tweet or writes an article. Have you been alive for the last 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:23 PM
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Because, as a woman, you can afford to blithely live like that and still have a "successful" dating life. It is indeed nice being a passive participant in the dating game and still have infinite options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:11 PM
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Exactly. Women invariably fail to realize how this is a survival necessity for men and one that they themselves greatly necessitate with their own behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:07 PM
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You "dudes" you mean the top 10% and by "all the time" you mean "after doing all the work and game" then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:02 PM
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Men do not seek to create it, it's very often inherent in their professional lives as cutthroat ladder climbers, manual laborers doing dangerous jobs or having to be "the rock" for some hysterical woman. However, men will use things like sports as an outlet, so there's that. But even still, this isn't on the level of the "I just think it's funny that..." shit that women do on the regular before starting a blow up that will lead to her sobbing in a corner. Sports is to men as Real Housewives is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:33 PM
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The issue with women and the wall isn't even that they suffer more from it physically / mentally by default, it's that the "free ride" they had in their 20's where their mere existence was sufficient to get a steady stream of men trying to court them was erroneously chalked up to some kind of nebulous "vibe" or "personality" trait. Basically, women often apply their tendency to engage in just-world fallacies to themselves. If they were getting a bunch of "hot guys" coming on to them in their 20'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:30 PM
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It's the public declarations about how "problematic" submissive and dominant sex is for them. That's what's being discussed. All the things that they say make men bad in public are what gets them wet in private. They never discuss that. The same way women will decry porn, but rub one out to a "free use gang bang" video.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:20 PM
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This. This might be the biggest disconnect between internet people and IRL people. On the internet drunk sex is rape and not asking for consent before a kiss is sexual assault. IRL, that's called "A good date"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:18 PM
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Lol just walking around the point he just made. It makes all the difference in that it shows how what women are trying to telegraph is not remotely the truth. When they say "give us orgasms and call us pretty" they are clearly implying (if not outright saying) "Bring me flowers, while calling me a beautiful rose and tenderly make love to me" Not "Jesus you are a fucking hot little slut, I need to fuck you now. Take this off." ​ Guess which of these scenarios every man can tell you gets a better …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:16 PM
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Lol, a good 80% of them are, and there is a higher incidence of the "woke feminist" types being this way. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:15 PM
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This is one of those mountain top moments as a man that women will never, ever understand. I had something similar (not as glorious) My then girlfriend had her other BFF over my house after we had gone out, some guy had been trying to get her number all night and she was annoyed, so we 'escaped' to my place. We were all having fun watching stand-up, and they were ball busting me for something I said, calling me "creepy" and "rapey" so I just doubled down on the whole thing and said "Yeah, I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:13 PM
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As always "Women HATE X!!!" ... except when they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:08 PM
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It's how they get there that is the subject. They don't get there by by Billy the gentle, lovemaking and attentive partner who "checks in" constantly before each position change. They do it with the guy that ferociously eats her pussy and fucks her like his little sex slave while tossing her into whatever position he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:07 PM
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What you said in that example definitely sounds wierd and I agree it is wierd she didnt dry up. You can't be serious. The amount of women who outright (after getting fucked) straight up said "I love how you tell me what to do" is countless. And the hardcore woke feminists do this more than any of the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:05 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:03 PM
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Muh objectification. That's how.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:03 PM
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Perhaps that fat cow should go to work at the sewage treatment plant with him and help him out with his job?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:01 PM
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You planning on working in a coal mine or oil rig anytime soon?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:00 PM
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Uh huh. Poor Mommy. And who does "Daddy" run to? Nobody, because then she'd slowly stop fucking him, start treating him with increasing disrespect if not outright call him a "man baby" or tell him to "get some balls" So guess what's left for Daddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:59 PM
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. My unpopular opinion is actually that women have a very hard time forming long term, genuine friendships This. I'm guessing every man has this experience. Man is dating woman, and hangs out with all of her "BFF's" who she "just loves and adores" Fast forward a few months after man has laid down sufficient dick for the girl to catch legit feelings and form a bond with said man and show her real self to. Suddenly the pillow talk comes out about how much she hates Amber and Cortney's a slut who f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:52 PM
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‘you can get any guy you want, queen’. Do you deny that many, if not most women do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:48 PM
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Confirmed: Women always prefer to tell a pretty lie than an ugly truth. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:47 PM
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Would you care to deny what Bill Burr says about this phenomenon here? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmRmPdSOzTI Men are mean to each other and don't mean it. Women are nice to each other ... and don't mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:45 PM
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We’re expected to cook, clean, work, look pretty all the time, care for kids, and have good sex every night. it's 2022. On what fucking planet does this happen? All men have to do is go to work. Yes, in a sewer, oil rig or coal mine so that Bertha can watch soap operas while the kids are at school. Fucking shitlord privileged men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:42 PM
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Emotional labour is a term meant for service workers twisted into something else This is the favorite pastime of middle class white women. Co-opt some phrase that sounds good and use it to further cast themselves as some oppressed class.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:40 PM
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there’s an expectation on women to bear more of the mental load when it comes to relationships. Where the hell does this idea even come from? Men are "expected" by women to be "the rock" and listen to them talk endlessly about how "that bitch at work is trying to destroy her" and how "becky bought the same dress as me, she's ruining my life!" etc etc They also have to let the woman have emotional breakdowns on their shoulder over things like breaking a fingernail before a wedding rehearsal. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:36 PM
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When I want sex, I can get it with no problem. Lol. The truth leaked. And there are women on PPD that still think whether they have it infinitely easier in dating and sex is up for debate. In b4 "tHe oRgAsm gAp!" and "i dOnT lIke CasUaL!" Teehee.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:32 PM
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Women are not a monolith. Stopped reading here. Whenever anybody says this they are simply trying to create plausible deniability. No "women are not a monolith" but that is almost always a way of people throwing men off the scent of basic truisms about women (ie hypergamy, liking masculine energy, liking stoicism, etc). It would be like saying "men are not a monolith" because you have chubby chases and thus not all men like fit, healthy women. It's disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:27 PM
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Sir Mix-A-Lot covered this almost 30 years ago: "A round thing in your face AND AN ITTY-BITTY WAIST" Fat women often forget that second part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:24 PM
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It's in their nature to communicate indirectly. Cool. Then why should we believe a word they say on PPD? I mean we see it here every week. Some long ass thread of women hamstering arguments to the contrary to a very simple sky-is-blue point, with the women at the end finally breaking down and saying some shit like "Well, of course everybody knows that, we just don't need to say it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:14 PM
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Translation: Guilty until proven innocent. Basically, dating as a man in 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:10 PM
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One thing thats starting to infuriate me about this sub is the denial about just how many women are willing to barter their sexuality for access to wealthy/desirable/high status men and the lifestyle they provide. Women don't care about things like status, except when they do. Women do not use their sexuality for leverage, manipulation or to fuck the guy they like - they don't use their sexuality for any reason other than they are powerful queens. Yoga pants and bra tops are "comfy" Women are wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:08 PM
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“hE’s aKshyAlly pRoBabLy bEAtInG hEr!” The argumentations of an intellectual titan. I am humbled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:50 AM
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Lol. I ALMOST got FDS bingo. You missed “incel” and “neckbeard” But nice to see you flailing with as hominem personal attacks. I’m guessing seeing two happy people really pisses you off and that makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:46 AM
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Of course you’re not. Because you have nothing to say in the face of a real and recent example that doesn’t match your ridiculous hypothetical. I knew you wouldn’t because it eviscerates your bogeyman stereotype as did every single of my relationships with similar age gaps. I don’t feel like arguing with your hypothetical fat saggy creep straw man “example” so, we can conclude this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:11 AM
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A.) I don’t know that this is “so often the case” B.) What if it’s a fat woman going after a sexually inexperienced dude because he’s hard up and will put up with bitchy behavior? C.) What about this couple disturbs you? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBoys/comments/wt4eue/antony_starr_and_erin_moriarty/ Don’t hamster. Don’t talk about saggy balls or power imbalances. Just look at those two happy people and tell me why it bothers you so much. I predict you’ll make excuses or say “it’s different” bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:37 AM
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“You like that apple but not the orange? They’re both fruits! Hypocrite!” Yeah a parents relationship with their own offspring is slightly different than the relationship “society at large” has with an individual. But keep equating the two. I won’t stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:47 AM
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This isn’t hypercritical though. He explained that this is an irrational fear by comparing it to the cognitive dissonance involved with believing “my mother never sucked a dick in her life” He’s also talking abou HIS OWN daughter not some nebulous “women as a class” Bottom line, it’s not “some older guy fucking my daughter” it’s “ANY guy fucking my daughter” And men realize this is a purely emotional response and don’t try to hamster it with bullshit about developing brains and power imbalances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:04 AM
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Lol you want to defend this trash because I will happily take this man hating drivel apart. But, let’s start with this question: Are you familiar with the concept of collective guilt and the ways this has been used this in history? I just want to make sure we’re operating from a basic baseline of terminology because that concept will the basis by which I dismantle your paper thin arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:28 AM
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Womens preference for men is driven by their desire to have the “best man”. It’s not about being “protected” it’s about having what other women want because it heightens their status in the tribe. This is no more a practical choice than men choosing a teenage girlfriend because she has “more breeding years in year” Women think with their pussies just like men think with their dicks. Do NOT think otherwise. It has no relevance in modern society and, while it certainly still exists in womens lizar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:21 AM
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Please just let this be a troll post. Please. But if not … damn . I did not know it was possible to actually have a more toxic but ideologically worse than FDS, but OP really surprised me. Congrats. Now. I won’t be surprised if this insanely misandrist post gets locked. Who am I kidding, I his is Reddit! This is a yas kween moment. The argument here is that womens sexuality is a meritocracy that “rewards and punishes” men collectively for individual psychopathic men’s behavior. Is that your argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:15 AM
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This might be the saddest reply to this post. Jesus fucking Christ. Can some other woman step in and tell this guy this isn’t what’s happening? Not at all. Or will you just shrug, giggle then watch another deluded male enter society believing this shit until he snaps. I already know the answer, but my god this is some kind of evil shit. And crickets from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:09 AM
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But “I need to be friends first! I’m Demi!” Teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:31 AM
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You were “HORRIFIED”? Jesus Christ are women really this clueless how men’s sexuality works? 🤦🏻‍♂️ Talk about “The Blue Pill” If that “horrified” you, wait until you hear about every other man you’ve ever met that wasn’t related to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:30 AM
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You really thinks this "uR imMatUre" resembles an argument or rebuttal, don't you? But yeah, age gaps like that literally never happen... https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBoys/comments/wt4eue/antony_starr_and_erin_moriarty/ But, I'd get a good laugh at watching your sour, disapproving face look me and a younger date up and down. That would be awesome. NGL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:52 AM
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This is an even bigger age gap than that. Stay mad. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBoys/comments/wt4eue/antony_starr_and_erin_moriarty/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:44 AM
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There are least 5 of these retro-active revocations of consent in this thread alone. Who gives a fuck? If she's hot and willing, bang her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:37 AM
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As a woman in her 40s now who dated a couple of much older men when I was in my 20s, my experience has been that men in their 30s and older have nothing in common with 18-25yo women Ever notice how it's always the woman "in her 40's" who now "knows her worth" who complains the loudest about this? It's almost like it's self serving! They don’t have to be intentionally predatory or abusive, because it’s inherently predatory and abusive. Lol. Stay salty. As a woman in my late 40s, I look at young b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:31 AM
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Except nobody here is making that distinction. First tell me what you see when you this couple: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBoys/comments/wt4eue/antony_starr_and_erin_moriarty/ It's literally this: "Man I consider 'old' is dating somebody who is younger than hotter than him. Now I'm pissed" That's what it boils down to. Women on PPD are still pissed ad judgemental if a 40 year old man dates a 25 year old (as I have) - this is where you usually see the "muh fully developed brain" arguments fly ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:17 AM
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Calling somebody a "pervert" for engaging in relationships that you don't approve of is indeed bigotry. I'm glad you agree. Calling somebody "immature" for choosing to date another adult is precisely the same thing in my view. Hamster your prejudice all you want, at least own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:12 AM
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You can jump through as many mental hoops as you want to justify it but people like myself are always going to come to the same conclusion haha People like yourself, meaning bigots. Yes, I'm fully aware I'm not going to change your cemented mind. I can however, lay bare your bigotry and irrational thinking for others to see, and that's fine with me. 31 and 40 is completely different. Just the fact that you can't understand this proves my point. Fucking lol . Another own goal. You know the hilari…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:13 AM
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If all you can manage to pull from your age group are trash women, consider the possibility that the fault lies with you. Wait, how does that make sense? I pull an plenty of trash / non-trash women from whatever age group I choose. It just so happens that older women tend to be more consistently shitty, fucked up and insufferable. Plenty of them aren't. And don't pretend that college degrees and independence are to blame for your problems. Not sure who you are talking to, but ironically the much…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:00 AM
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I do not suffer traditionally masculine men you don't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:52 AM
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Yes, literally the flaw is immaturity. Baseless ad hominem. You know nothing about me, my life or her other than age. You got something to say about other groups with no information? Didn't think so. That girl literally had JUST been given the ability to buy alcohol for christ sake haha they are in a completely different headspace mentally. Newsflash. Every human being is in a "different head space". Being 21 doesn't mean they are some helpless naive child, nor does being 33 mean you are some pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:50 AM
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Yeah, I bet this act is a huge hit at the MAGA rallies. Sounds like some Emmett Till redneck justice shit. "Did you hear what that sonnabitch did to mah Ellie Mae?! Round up the boys! We're a goin' huntin!" And yeah, by all means, don't go into detail. I mean, it's not like you said "Some 32 year old guy was hitting on my 19 year old daughter, so we almost killed him" or anything like that. No need to correct that story at all. It all sounds very plausible and cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:34 AM
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it just says a whole lot about you and where you're at mentally if a 21 year old can provide that kind of connection for you. And what might that be? Let me guess, some inherent character flaw on MY part, right? Not that "she was more attractive" than the other women I knew, not that "we had fun and got along in a way I didn't with other women" - Nope, you've just got to throw in some passive aggressive nonsense lol. Live your life and stop caring so much about what other people think. Says the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:22 AM
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3rd "ur an incel" post today. Very original. Now, I am well aware of the dance involved in escalation. It's something women rarely, if ever have to worry about. The issue is when you use vague weasel words that mean something different to every woman which allow her to accuse you of "assault" because you "didn't read her" particular coy, plausible deniability giving body language. The best bet is to use a rule of thumb. Does she "pull away" when you put your arm around her? If yes, that's a sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:11 AM
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I've said here before that my sons and I had a chat with a 35 year old who was hitting on my then 19 year old daughter. Damn, it's almost like she was a legal adult that can sign contracts, get life altering surgery, do porn or join the military who should know how to navigate the very common and natural phenomenon of men "hitting on her!" Bang up job, preparing her for life in the real world, Dad! I'll drop the euphemism for a moment: We put him in the hospital. In today's edition of "Internet …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:12 PM
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You consistently fail at naunce. Downing on musicians/athletes/chess players is exaggerated fun. Ohhhh... okay, so all those are just 'teehee - it's funny - we don't really mean it!' type things But dating older men is this ominous threat that strikes fear into the hearts of women. Got it. ​ Sure did. Your strongest argument is to create a completely different scenario and context? How 😢 What scenario are you discussing? Because this has been, more often than not, the dynamic with all the younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:06 PM
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Yeah no. It's being lectured about "hateful language" because I jokingly called myself a "pussy" It's being told "pet names are demeaning" It's punching me in the face because I said I didn't want to have sex after a night out at a strip club (her idea) where she was drinking, getting catty and enraged at the younger women around and "how dare I" It's being called a "misogynist" because I told a woman throwing a tantrum to "settle down" It's being called "gay" multiple times when I politely turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:57 PM
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But perhaps the baggage, stress and general lack of energy between 2 people of different age groups is more than enough to show the relationship isn’t healthy Lol, so let's try to follow this logic, shall we? - Woman has baggage due to childhood sexual abuse, other domestic trauma = age independent - Woman has STRESS due a terminally ill parent, college debt, studying for a PHD = age independent. - Woman is fat and lacks stamina to do activities like rock climbing = age independent. By this logi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:49 PM
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most age gap relationships ≠ the bogyeman abusive older men scenario you are arguing about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:43 PM
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What? First of all, "don't date musicians, they have groupies and can and will use you!" is "wrong" But, "don't date older men, they will manipulate and abuse you!" is A-OK? Much Consistent. She has the power within this context that you created. Way to set yourself up to lose the argument 😂 Wait what. So you are admitting it's very easy for an attractive woman to hold the power / cards in a situation that's supposedly all about a man "abusing his power" Sure... I lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:41 PM
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As an older man, I can tell you "age" has literally zero to do with my own personal relationship success. None. Perhaps I never dipped as low as 16 years old, as that would seem to indicate other issues (family, runaway, whatever) that could contribute to the whole problem But, I've had 40-something women (my own age) put me in the hospital and attack me phusically more than once. I've also dated one absolutely bat-shit crazy younger woman, and that was when I had zero boundaries. Overall, tempe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:39 PM
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Sure, Jan. Those same millenials have god knows how many other hangups and mental illnesses, and would likely have fucked their lives up regardless of their age. And just lol at somebody becoming a maid/butler/caregiver Are your friends fucking geriatric men in nursing homes? Hey, you know what? I've had "plenty of friends" who have dated women with that were nurses who ended up getting emotionally abused. Better condemn nurses!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:36 PM
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Here's one of those queens in action This is the type of person that the women in this thread are breeding. Like rats.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:31 PM
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Someone touched me without permission in the past and yes, it was traumatic. Touched you in what way? Did he grab your breast / ass? That is a problem. Did he put his arm around you out of the blue? At worst, "awkward" did he tap your shoulder? If that was "traumatic" that's a you problem and society cannot and should not accommodate it. If there are women, like me, who value "asking for a kiss" above all else, there isn't much men like you can do if she experienced that as a rape. Fortunately w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:27 PM
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The closest I ever came to getting married was a girl still in college at 21 and I was 33. We met online and she pursued me, pretty relentlessly actually. We had the healthiest, most balanced and well rounded relationship I've ever had. We traveled, took classes together, cooked together, laughed and cried together. I had a good relationship with her parents and she was very close with my family. According to PPD, I'm a pervert / predator who should be ashamed of "manipulating her". Thanks PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:16 PM
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These threads probably do more to turn men to RP than any of the others save the "women like men who cry" ones. The lack of self awareness among women on PPD is astounding, but then I realize none of this is how they actually feel / what they believe. They are here because they heard what evil misogynists Red Pill men are, and they are here to dunk on them at any cost. Even if they have to make shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:13 PM
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This reads as "I need a young woman who has low self-esteem and is a little dumb. And I read it as "Don't be an insufferable cunt" I can tell you from experience, that for many different reasons women "my own age" have all manner of shitty attitudes and dysfunctions, far more than younger women. It has fuck-all to do with them having low-self esteem. In fact, I promise you the older women had far lower self esteem and just used a bitch-shield to try to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:07 PM
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This one is always a hilarious 180 when we get to the "age gap / old men are gross" threads. In other threads women aren't "that concerned" with things like hair and abs. Then we get to the age gap threads, and suddenly it's the deal break to end all deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:06 PM
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don't worry, once you reach a certain age, men will stop looking at you, in a way you will become like a broke young man, you will be invisible. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:00 PM
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If you were going skydiving, would you want the instructor that’s only ever done it once himself to show you all the safety procedures and what to do, That's not how relationships work. That type of thinking is why so many young men fail. They think "time, experience and effort are commensurate with results" They are not. There are immature as fuck 40+ year olds and 22 year olds with their own business. There are virgin men in their mid 40s (I know 2) and women with triple digit body counts in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:55 PM
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they will have absolutely nothing in common and he can use her lack of life experience against her. You may as well say "It's Adam and EVE not Adam and Steve!" with this generalizing nonsense. Human relationships are complex. Knowing pop-culture references is often nowhere near as important as having matching temperaments or attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:53 PM
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You made the argument that the majority of older men are not abusive when dating younger women in the OP. But majority of women who dated older men when they were young found the men to be abusive. Do you not understand the "squeaky wheel" phenomenon? There are just as many women who say "Don't date athletes!" or "Don't date Musicians!" Why? Because women bitch, and scorned women bitch the most. That's why there are claims of inherent power imbalance in works. A man who have the best intentions …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:49 PM
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I believe that extreme age agp relationships irrespective of sex and sexual orientation are predatory if the younger person is under 28. The older person is ALWAYS exploiting, manipulating, stifling, and sabatoging the younger person Ah yes. Gen Z women. The paragon of rationality. Jesus fucking christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:45 PM
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When I was 27 I dated an 18 year old - kind of neo-hippie liberal family. When I was 33 I dated a 21 year old - very traditional vietnamese family. In both cases the dad was fine with it, because we met and talked and he realized I wasn't some predatory PoS trying to hurt his daughter. He was smart enough to know that some other 21 year old guy isn't going to somehow have her best interest at heart due to some mysterious force in the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:43 PM
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A.) Those are pretty extreme age gaps (as in 'not legal') which puts them in a whole different category B.) There didn't seem to be any correlation between the number of years between you and the guy and how shitty the relationship was C.) None of this is really helpful without knowing how you non-age-gap relationships went. In reality, most relationship averages look something like what you listed. Some of the most insanely toxic (even violent) women I've dated were my own age. There was zero c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:41 PM
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Have you ever seen the show The Boys? If you ever wanted an example of a creepy old disgusting predator using his position of power to manipulate and coerce an innocent young woman, 20 years younger than him into doing his bidding look no further than THESE PHOTOS. This is what the good women on PPD are talking about when they are telling you how gross and creepy all you old men are! Stop approaching them! Especially at work! That guy thinks he's "better" and that she's just some innocent girl w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:05 PM
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Ascribing malice to that which can be explained very simply: They’re hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:52 PM
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Oh, of course - I forgot, the human female’s plumage turns bright red and she makes a clicking sound to let a potential mate he can proceed. Silly me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:40 PM
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Nice try. First a man who, as a rule asks before he kisses in indeed a simp. I suppose you’re one of those who believe every unwanted kiss attempt from a confused man was “attempted rape”? Out here in sane adult world that is not and will never be how it works. Timid, meek, “permission asking men” are vastly considered less attractive by women no matter how much virtue you signal. I’ve already addressed this, if she’s already got her panties wet, asking is not likely to suddenly make her shut do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:28 PM
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This thread is so locked 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:23 PM
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Lol, by “friends” you mean, social media, everybody at the bar, Chad and the bartender and her gaggle of simps and white knights Yep. Sure, Jan. Nothing to see here. No risk at all to your social standing or reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:10 PM
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Bla bla bla - “watch me dismiss everything you say because women’s problems are the ones that are important” Look, that’s great your BF asked and it worked out. I’m not going to tell you how YOU experienced that, but I literally JUST said that it’s not a “switch” - it’s a subconscious mental note women make about a man about how bold / confident he is, and that ultimately erodes her respect for him over time if he does it too much. Asking to kiss, is just fucking autistic and it seems to me men …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:09 PM
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Demanding men “ask to kiss” is some bubble wrapped Gen Z shit. You say this is a thing. I’m telling you, out in life it is NOT a thing. This is up there with a “having sex while drunk is rape!” Meanwhile, every fucking weekend this happens millions of times without issue. Similarly, being kissed erroneously is not some traumatic “rape shower in a fetal position” event. It’s the way it’s been for millennia. Only now, with the uber neurotic millennial / Gen Z weirdos online has this even become so…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:05 PM
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Lol. I have many female friends. Believe me they aren’t shy about shitting on men who didn’t “stay in their lane” or whatever. Was the dude who fucked mattress girl “famous”? Girls gossip. That’s what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:47 PM
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Nice try but It’s not this black and white. You can listen to men’s experience or live in your solipsistic “women are wonderful” bubble. It’s similar to the “women love when a man cries / is emotionally vulnerable” gaslighting. The devil is in the details. A woman will SAY, I want a sensitive guy who will ask to kiss me and cry at rom-com’s, but then, slowly like a mysterious magical force, her attraction starts to fade for a more “confident and in control” man. Women don’t even realize (or admi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:39 PM
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Only gen Z / millennials possibly think like this. This is another one of those duplicitous gaslights women throw at men. A man asking has failed the “just get it test”. You can plug your ears all you want, but this is a crucial fork in the road for men with the attraction process. On one form you have “confident, assertive man who goes for what he wants” on the other is “meek simp who would probably make a nice friend” This “asking to kiss” shit is a pussy repellant no matter how much women wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:09 PM
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Lol @ “the metaverse” That’s like saying “realdoll’s will replace women!” Sure they will. I worked in VR for years. It’s a fucking grift dude. It has 2 practical applications: Real estate and Medical Otherwise, it’s just a super nerdy niche product up there with 3D TV’s and Segways. Just because some shut ins are using things like VRChat and Meta as a virtual telephone party line from the 80’s means nothing. Just lmao at “this is how people will relate!” Fuck man. The Unabomber was way more corr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:57 PM
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In my case those “consequences” were getting dates and sex at about 5x the success rate I was before. So, yes, men, choose wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:51 PM
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You literally just contradicted half the posters here. You made no distinction between flirting and being nice. And men, ALWAYS sexualize the conversation To gauge her reaction. Fuck being called “creepy”. If she doesn’t like it, she can leave. If she stays and continues to go for it, go for the kiss at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:31 PM
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Ah yes. “nuance” up there with “signals” and “vibe” for weasel words women use to be able to choose how they feel after the fact. Tried to kiss her and she wasn’t into it? Ewww! You didn’t get the NUANCE of my SIGNALS! The VIBE wasn’t there! Oh. I just fucked Chad in the bathroom after he grunted at me. SEE THE NUANCE! Fuck outta here man. The only proper way here is for men to get used to taking risks and enduring possible rejection and practice outcome independence (primarily through cultivati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:22 PM
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So now it’s “angles and duration” What is this, some fucking Mystery Method PUA shit from 2003? All you’re doing is letting women off while telling men to “just get it” and it’s unhelpful at best and shit advice at worst. There is only one good piece of advice for men: If you have an inkling that she might be into you, shoot your shot and let the chips fall where they may. If she freaks out, or complains that you made her “uncomfortable” - tough shit. What you can’t do is sit back with some path…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:18 PM
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Again, women will very often complain that that “creep I was just being nice to tried to kiss me!” Personally, I could give a fuck if that’s what the girl says, but other younger men hear shit like that and internalize the fear of being labeled as such. I really wish women could empathize with how hearing shit like this, even peripherally, effects younger men and gives them paralyzing trepidation and anxiety, but I won’t hold my breath. And again, just being in a bar doesn’t mean any of those th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:13 PM
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Lol. Platitudes and hamstering. “Just lift, then sit back and wait for IOI’s” does not count as advice. If women are giving you “fuck me” eyes then congrats you’re Chad. This is not achievable regardless of lifting, dressing and whatever the fuck else for the VAST majority of men. That is why this “advice” is useless and really you’re just big upping yourself. Tell me, what does an anonymous guy who looks like Steve Buscemi or even Adam Driver do to get these IOI’s? “Just lift bro!” No. They are…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:09 PM
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Straw men. Please show me a man on PPD or anywhere for that matter defending, encouraging or recommending yelling “nice ass” to a woman going about her day. I’ll wait. What we are talking about in this sub 99% of the time (and I’m sure you know this) are confused, frustrated but well meaning, lonely often younger men trying to navigate women’s duplicitous and coy nature. Women use plausible deniability in almost all romantic / sexual encounters. That shouldn’t even be up for debate at this point…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:04 PM
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Gymcels exist, Chad. I mean, congratulations on your bone structure. That’s a real big accomplishment I guess. For the VAST majority of guys they can’t live like a woman and be passive in their mate attraction. But, yeah, “Be Chad” thanks for the ground breaking advice. I’m sure that will help a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:52 PM
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I guarantee you have done those things. You just didn’t do them deliberately And this is the problem with how women “flirt”. It’s all solipsistic and based on their inside feelings. If you “feel like” you were flirting than obviously you were! Nevermind that what you call “being friendly” is precisely how the next woman saw “clearly I wanted to fuck!” And that is the problem. You can list out all these nebulous things like “I played with my hair and laughed at his joke” or “I touched his arm” Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:50 PM
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Women on PPD and IRL say exactly this shit all the time Stop with this “just get it” all women are unique snowflakes shit. Men need to make a move and let the chips fall. The end. Women don’t like it? Tough shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:46 PM
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Oh of course “while flirting” because women have never, ever said things like “how did he not know I was flirting!?” That’s just more Hamsterese for “just get it” The whole point of this discussion is that what women call “flirting” is the exact same behavior they call “being nice” and “liking you as a friend” You know how a guy has to find out if she’s flirting or not? Go in for a kiss, ask her out directly, sexualize the conversation. That’s it. You know, the things women complain about incess…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:43 PM
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It absolutely works for me. My look is highly polarizing and masculine. I am not conventionally attractive enough for some woman just throw out obvious signals. Even when I was a non-threatening pretty boy that didn’t happen. Women’s attraction and sexuality is notoriously reactive You really think a guy can just sit at the end of the bar and wait for IOI’s? No. 90% of men are invisible NPC’s to women until they’ve actually done something to land on their radar. Being some passive guy waiting fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:40 PM
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“Just asking” doesn’t work because almost all women want to man to “just get it” and “be assertive” The minute you start asking / tip toeing around things like holding hands or kissing, you’ve failed. Most importantly playing the “mother may I?” game is a ticket to the friendzone as it takes away women’s superpower: Plausible Deniability How can she say “it just happened” if she said “yes you may kiss me”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:37 PM
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The fuck does “react warmly” mean? Is she supposed to moan? Put her hand over your hand? That’s not how women work. Some women get “startled” and you have to slowly escalate from there to see when she draws the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:32 PM
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And some of those men get publicly shamed because they made a woman “uncomfortable” (hello Aziz Ansari)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:30 PM
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Meanwhile the guy is paying, picking her up, making reservations, having to put on a song and dance. For 3-4 “performances” Fuck. That. You’re at least kissing on date one or you’re out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:28 PM
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Exactly this. You just witnessed this gaslighting in real time. Women: crickets It’s simultaneously your fault for not “making a move” but also “don’t hit on strangers!” Teehee.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:27 PM
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100% this. Fuck this paranoia about “making her uncomfortable” That’s the price you pay for being the passive sex. So sorry ladies. I promise you, you wouldn’t want to trade places where you were the sex risking and enduring constant and often brutal rejection. Men: Risk Creepy. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:21 PM
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And I bet those are all things you’ve done when not flirting. The fact that’s women count shit like this as “flirting” is hilarious. And they wonder how young men can be confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:17 PM
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Lol what a fucking joke. Those are all things I’ve heard women on PPD get butthurt about because they’re “just being nice and friendly!” More gaslighting from bloops. But surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:16 PM
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Lmao. You mean like “playing with her hair” and “eye contact”? Stop it. This “signals” narrative is just a way for women to have it both ways: “How could he not tell I was interested? I kept putting my hand on his shoulder and smiled at him! What a clueless loser!” Same woman: “Ewww! Don’t touch me like that Billy! I was just being nice! I’m just a touchy bubbly person! Stop acting entitled to my body, creep!” So yes, those “signals” mean fuck all. There is but one solution : Risk Creepy. Every …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:14 PM
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In todays edition of “Watch a PPD hamster try to debate the color of the sky” we have the classic: Hypergamy doesn’t exist post. Yes, despite countless studies, statistics, and scientific principles that have been understood since the dawn of man, the same argument you’ve seen women make on PPD for years so often that has been put to rest so many times that even PPD women have grown tired of moving those heavy ass goal posts to the other side of the field, don’t bother denying it anymore (ok fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:23 AM
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Can we make a rule on PPD where when an OP uses this idiotic, absurd and utterly debunked claim of knowing the “fat short loser who gets laid all the time™” that the thread gets deleted? This really should just end any pretense of good faith debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:16 AM
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You’re the usual PPD responder who is either not self aware or possibly (unlikely) an extreme outlier holding themself up as “proof” that the exception disproves the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:16 AM
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The fuck is the point of this word salad. You just got completely leveled with facts that are in direct contradiction to your claim to have “never seen” things that are self evidently common. Women say the shit Op described constantly on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:52 AM
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Holy shit. That precisely describes Trump whenever he’s caught doing some shady shit. “I didn’t do that and I am / was the president so when I did it it wasn’t illegal” etc. https://i.imgur.com/HFVyiGD.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:42 AM
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Literally skipping over every point that I addressed. I am very social and meet plenty of “people” at racing track days, baseball games and vintage technology swap meets. Guess how many of those people I want to fuck? Why oh why is it so hard for you to recognize that men do not get to be passive the way women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:25 PM
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So, on one hand “don’t change who you are / what you do in order to find intimacy” etc etc. On the other hand “Go take up hobbies you don’t GAF about so you can meet women and find intimacy” Very consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:20 PM
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What the hell does “pretending to be interested in a relationship” even mean to women? I hear women left and right claiming to have been “love bombed” because some guy took them to a nice dinner or bought them a gift. Why isn’t it on a woman to straight up ask: “Do you agree to commit to me, not have or pursue sex with others and otherwise forgo all other options for the duration of our dating process?” Or would that kill too much of that delicious plausible deniability? Anything short of “I com…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:11 AM
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This this fucking 1000x this. I’ve seen this sooo many times. Women dialing a dick on the regular on tinder or being in a “respectful fwb arrangement” with a couple of hawt guys, while simultaneously denying that soft harems exist and that “sex really isn’t that important. Stop focusing on it! Teehee”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:29 AM
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Jesus that entire buzzfeed piece on Pratt is nauseating. First, half that shit would get you dogpiled by SJW’s for “objectifying a strong woman” Second, the fact that they are unironically talking about getting wet (or hard) for him for having a “dad bod” which is basically an athlete in a bull phase is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:12 AM
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I don’t know that I’ve seen a thread that so crystallized women’s in-group bias and solipsism like this one. The fact that the majority of women here are jumping right to Beta without a second though for the man’s desire or wellbeing should tell you all you need to know about how their “empathy” works when it comes to men. ITT, basically women are saying “I never want my son to experience what it’s like to have sexual abundance in anything resembling the way women do” It never occurred to them I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:01 AM
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This is the correct answer. No man spent his life as a settled for simp beta will every truly be happy as a beta husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:50 AM
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Lol so literally painting another woman’s face on is not deceptive (hello “contouring”) but not saying “I’m just here to fuck” in the first hour is “being a piece of shit” Solipsism FTW. Also …Now do spanks, padded bras and lip injections. Lemme guess, that’s “different” right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:47 AM
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This word salad can be summed up as “just treat women like any other buddy and hope for the best” Guess how many women go do the hobbies I’m genuinely interested in like woodworking, cars and flight simulators. You guessed right. So shelve your “do what you love and the women will follow!” platitudes please. One person can do this: Chad. A genetically gifted guy is the only one who can simply show up and have things “just happen” with any regularity. Anybody else following your passive approach …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:36 AM
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Whoosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:25 AM
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Great answer. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:25 AM
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Platitudes spoken like somebody who never has had to experience life as anything other than a passive participant to the courtship process.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:24 AM
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You sound like a virgin End of conversation. You lose. Thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:19 AM
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Here’s my prediction: This phenomenon will stop when women stop being coy and actually initiate romantic interactions from the beginning instead of relying on / expecting men to initiate, lead, escalate all romantic scenarios. So… never.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:55 PM
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I have social anxiety, along with many other women, and if a guy just walked up to me and started talking I would feel freaked out. Sorry, but too bad. You are not entitled to other people accommodating your “social anxiety” any more than men are entitled to a date with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:54 PM
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Lol there was just a post that basically called out this cycle women use: A.) Give man bad advice B.) Watch man act on bad advice for years C.) Shame man for the lack of success resulting from A, generally insinuating something is inherently wrong with him. Shit is funny and sad at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:52 PM
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Not sure whether to laugh of cry at this utterly destructive “advice.” You literally proved the point of the whole thread. Women’s solipsism allows them to believe that these things “just happen” when “out living life” when, for men it is not remotely the case. Just because YOU experienced this way, doesn’t mean this is way the men experienced it. It’s far more likely men had to do all manner of things before,during and after these interactions to gain your approval. Dear bloops: Please know tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:45 PM
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Exactly. This shit is so hilarious. Whenever these conversations come up it goes like this: Guy: Hey, I’m failing over and over, anybody know why? Bloops: Whatever you do, don’t listen to those angry RP guys! Just focus on yourself and the success will come! Guy: Ok, what does that mean, exactly? Bloops: Hamster for about 5-6 more exchanges as their advice slowly evolves from platitudes to things like “get in shape”, “get your wardrobe together”, “cultivate success”, “Preselection is real” and “…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:30 PM
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Congratulations. You may as well tell people struggling financially to “just buy Lotto tickets!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:24 PM
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The keyword here is “feeling” performed to. Not actually being performed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:22 PM
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Instead I’ll have 1 of 9 predetermined personalities that I think would mesh well with you already loaded up in my brain. This is the way. Lol. Snarky nerd girl? How do you do fellow misanthrope? Let’s sit here and critique people around us! Hippie chick? What’s your sign? I usually don’t subscribe to astrology, but I’ve lately been thinking in terms of our relationship to the stars and the universe and how even our meeting tonight was set in motion by something universal and eternal Social Just…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:21 PM
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The only difference between the men you saw as “reciting a script” and the men who seemed “natural” is generally their level of skill. It’s like watching a bad stand up comic reciting stolen one-liners vs a seasoned comic that seems to be making it up on the spot while riffing with the audience and doing crowd work. The guy that seemed “natural” has done that same act about 12 times that week. Women do not have any concept of this because they do not NEED to have this skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:15 PM
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Do you actually think this is sound advice to give to a man? “Just be cool and passionate then sit around and wait for some 1/10,000 outlier like me to decide to ask YOU out!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:11 PM
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This is also nonsense. First, any man can tell you he’s gotten laid / dates when he’s been in a dark place. Jobless, drinking too much, pissed off about family, grieving the loss of a pet, all these things are not remotely prohibitive of meeting a girl and getting laid when compared to your ability to flirt and talk with them in an attractive way. About the only “mental health” type thing that will truly fuck a man up is when they are in the shitter in terms of their value as a sexual being. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:05 PM
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So, in other words, like that pathetic Psychology Today “do better, men” article - “Work on yourself to become a better beta in the unlikely event that some kween deigns you worth of a second glance” Yeah… that’s not how being a man with options works. This is solipsistic womanthink, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:01 PM
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Finally, an accurate assessment of the situation. It completely makes sense for women to give the advice they do, and to assume the “it just happened” fairytale, because that’s how they experience sex and relationships. It’s the biggest reason their advice should never, ever be heeded. They do not even know how ignorant they are about what had to happen behind the scenes to make it “just happen” As an example that would get me accused of not “letting is just happen” In my city, when I go on date…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:54 PM
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Lmao ok. And what PRECEDED “hey you wanna do X?” That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:52 PM
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No. Not “this” This is more “be yourself and join a book club” nonsense. That’s not how womens sexuality works. First you say “most women, if they are interested” while skipping right over the gigantic chasm that is “getting them interested” Womens sexuality is reactive. This means men have to be PROactive in triggering it. You can’t just show up and start “making small talk” about dry and unsexy subjects. You seriously think there is no difference in talking about safe shit like the weather, sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:35 PM
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Lol congratulations at sharing the other piece of horse shit advice: “jUsT tReAt wOmeN lIke PeoPlE!” Yeah. No. That’s now how any of this works. I have many friends who “just talk to women like normal people about normal things” all the time. They have tons of female friends who love hanging out with them. Every single one of them hasn’t had sex in years and a couple are virgins. Only a woman would think this because this is how women “meet people”. “It just happened” No. It fucking didn’t “just…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:29 PM
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risk creepy The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:24 PM
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Sorry. Nobody with balls and testosterone believes a word of this fairytale. There is zero possibility a man who hasn’t fucked in nearly a year is sitting there with his IG model friends thinking to himself “yeah, no desire to hit that at all … she’s not my type• 😂 I have plenty of fairly attractive female friends that I can hang with. I generally get along with them best when I have a gf / having regular sex with women that aren’t them. But if I was facing a year dry spell you’d better believe …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:54 PM
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I’d really like to hear the “valuable insight” these women friends who are crying to you about Chad are giving you in return. So far, it sounds like you’re dropping some RP truths on them (which you must know will fall on def ears) but haven’t mentioned one thing they’ve said or done to improve your situation. I’d imagine it would be along the lines of “I know you haven’t fucked in a year, Billy, but it’s not you! It’s just those girls aren’t mature / smart enough to see what a catch you are! Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:41 PM
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I remove the toxic “alpha-beta male” bs from my applications. Ironically, while simultaneously proving it. Being a woman’s emotional tampon because she “didn’t like that 5th steak she got for free at the 5 star restaurant” while you haven’t eaten anything but bread and water in almost a year, as if they’re remotely comparable issues isn’t the flex you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:35 PM
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I still feel like “Models” is the most balanced and most importantly actionable RPesque material I’ve read. I especially like the focus on demographics and framing “vulnerability” as a way to stop feeling bad / concealing what you want and accepting the possible rejection that comes with that. Book or Pook is also good and fucking hilarious. It’s written and phrased like the Bible - a disparate collection of stories and it works perfectly that way. The entire chapter on “perfect is boring” is wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:08 PM
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I have a few new rules for attempting to have somewhat meaningful exchanges on PPD. One of them is when a woman, rather than defending her position resorts to “But women live in fear of getting raped and killed!” That is the 100% the sign of somebody not arguing in good faith and just wants to use emotional manipulation to avoid discussing the subject at hand. The “but women get raped” is up there with “uR juSt a bItTer iNcEl!” for signs a conversation is not worth having. Tip: if your default p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:00 PM
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Yep. A Heard Stan. Again, gliding right over the shit she did because “some guy somewhere did something worse” And let me guess “reactionary abuse” or something like that? Then throwing in the classic “jUsT lOokinG foR rEasOn tO hAte wOmeN!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:33 AM
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😂 and hope she has one too many drinks and drops this info on a “girls night” Guess what comes next?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:12 AM
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… But why male models?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:09 AM
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Meaning the opposite of the fat “roll her in flour and look for the wet spot” type. Thin, petite women IMO are just easier to throw around and fuck in various ways which, I personally like. Some guys like women that outweigh them, and that’s their right too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:08 AM
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Yeah I can guess what your “position” is here if you’re lamenting her being “ruined” Conveniently leaving out, you know, the whole ass article she wrote framing herself as a helpless victim and Johnny Depp as a raging wife beater. Oh, you also left out the consequences of that article now didn’t you? But yes, let’s talk about how Amber was “ruined” lol Face it, if there wasn’t literal audio Amber Heard would be heralded by nearly all women for being “stunning and brave” for standing up to a “pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:06 AM
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Exactly this. Somehow it’s “obvious” when a girl is milking a simp for his resources and he’s not “entitled” to anything regardless of how much she leads him on because “he should know better anyway” But it’s totally, 100% on that fuckboy Chad who comes to the date with 3 other pussy scents on him that “hey I’m just here to fuck, you cool with that?” Just lol. This is just women desperately holding onto their superpower “plausible deniability” You need Chad to be ambiguous with you so you don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:59 AM
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Are you seriously holding up Amber Heard as evidence that society equally criticizes each genders misbehavior? You do realize it took literal audio of Amber Heard in her own voice claiming she “couldn’t promise” she wouldn’t physically attack Depp in the future and all manner of other things. Meanwhile, it takes a woman merely tweeting a completely hearsay sob story to get a man un-personed. There is no “both sides” here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:33 AM
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That’s me. I love skinny / petite girls. Add smallish boobs and a well shaped ass and I’ll simp all day long for that. I can’t remember where I read it, but I heard it put perfectly ( but crudly) this way: Skinny girls are the best because they’re all pussy. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:51 AM
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He literally spelled this out for you and you’re sitting here pretending not to get it This is exactly like the Zoolander “… but why male models?” Moment. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:23 AM
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he was in a social situation where meeting a woman he had never met before was guaranteed Did you miss the part where "meeting" != dating, much less fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:13 PM
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Apparently somehow he knows a ton of Tony Soprano / Patrice O'Neal clones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:12 PM
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am considered conventionally handsome. ... flirting has always come very easy to me You don't say. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:11 PM
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At least once a week, he was in a social situation where meeting a woman he had never met before was guaranteed. It's very easy to "meet a bunch of women" - You can go to a knitting or spin class. Having sex with them is another matter entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:02 PM
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Shhh, you're interrupting the just-world-fallacy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:01 PM
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These are true, but not things that are foreign to RP either. That's why RP almost always says "Lift" as step 1, also tells men to never simp / pursue dead-ends. 2 is a catch-all for so many things that are basically the reason things like RP exist. What constitutes a "cool personality" and "good conversationalist" I know dozens of guys who have both of these, and never get laid because they don't escalate and "risk creepy"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:00 PM
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You forgot "be attractive" I know plenty of unattractive guys that do exactly what you do and end up making a very nice dinner and having a "fun and honest conversation" before the girl jumps in an uber to go fuck that bad-boy who left her on read for 2 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:53 PM
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If you feel undeserving of the girl, it will show in your behavior. Instead, you should feel like both of you are lucky to be around one another. This is quite true. And, holy shit, did I used to do the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:49 PM
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I know plenty of fat/ jobless / friendless guys who get girls or get laid without much efforts I've lived in many cities in california, lived in NYC, traveled around the world and I'm... old, so I've seen a lot. I've never known a guy as you describe, and I'm sorry, I simply don't believe you have either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:47 PM
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Except it wasn't "precisely your point" whatsoever. What you said was: Put things in proportions brothers, don't let your instincts ruin your potential. After listing off a bunch of supposed negatives about sex. It's like saying "You don't want to see the sun anyway, look at all the people who get sun burned!" The fact of the matter is, sex is a very important of mental and physical well being for men - bordering on need.. And it is far more holistic and complicated than just "masturbation with …
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 10:26 PM
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Everything you listed can also be said of sunlight, intellectual stimulation and bathing. Go 2 years without those and report back on how they aren’t “the end all be all”
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 05:15 PM
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The single best piece of RP advice that changed things for me almost overnight was this: “Risk creepy” I don’t even remember where it came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:39 PM
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Great post. We should be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:56 AM
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You’re just being PC. Asian (esp not born in the west) women are, on average smaller / more petite and more traditionally feminine than their white western counterparts. I say this as somebody who has dated all races equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:46 AM
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Because you clutched pearls at the notion that women loved violent / rough porn at all and then hamstered it back when presented with evidence to the contrary by claiming we should be “suspicious” of those stats but take the “lesbian” stay at face value. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:42 AM
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Because Gen Z girls are younger and likely to be sexually inexperienced, if not virgins. Those types of girls prefer "cute, non threatening" boys to "sexy, dangerous men" Once they have lame ass sex with those twinks a few times, guess what happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:56 AM
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Personality matters a lot more than rugged abs. Just go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:54 AM
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Lol what is this shit? Yes women, being a slave to "likes" on your ass-shot is "fighting the patriarchy" Much inner peace to be found on social media 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:54 AM
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Exactly. This is why Adam Driver is considered such an anomaly among "sex symbol" men. His asymmetrical features are absolutely an aberration in women's taste, and I'm convinced there is as much bandwagoning here (and Kylo Ren stanning) as anything else. They would be creeped out by him if he were 3 inches shorter and saw him at a bar. In any case, there are maybe 2-3 of those compared to dozens if not hundreds of typical Chad types.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:52 AM
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Lol... this motherfucker.🤣 I have an 10" drop from shoulders to waist, 10% bodyfat, and a sharp jawline Do you also know how to kill me in 700 ways? Shit is SO cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:43 AM
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I just know to not any of your opinions on this topic seriously. +1
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:38 AM
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You misspelled "I was wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:24 AM
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No, the stats were from a point in time on Bumble where that filter was free. Put the hamster away. Women are ruthless when it comes to height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:22 AM
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omen may not get consumed by pornography, but they are exposed to the most conventionally attractive men picked up sophisticated tiktok and instagram algorithms. You mean how women accuse men who like petite asian women of "liking little girls"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:17 AM
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Same. Yet, Dave Chapelle just had to move his show because people IRL were so butthurt about a “comedy show. Let’s not pretend this isnt an actual issue just because it’s not prevalent among our own gay / trans friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:10 AM
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Stop hamstering. You know the reason and just don’t want to admit it. You are implying it’s only “problematic” when people prefer another race to their own which is utter nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:08 AM
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Because they are of "their" race.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:55 PM
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Go say that on a stage with a microphone in front of a crowd sometime. Let me know how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:55 PM
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... no true hamster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:46 PM
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Tons of people on twitter crow about this, saying "trans women are women!" and "it's none of your business if they're post op trans!" etc This is a very common take of the modern woke left.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:44 PM
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Yes. I think preferences for physical traits are totally fine, hair color, skin color, eye color, height, weight, etc. Preferences for certain races over others is usually less about someone having physical preferences and more about racism. So, if black women prefer black men, is that racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:42 PM
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On PPD, It's clearly only an "immoral / unfair standard" if men do it. Women don't even have unfair / hypocritical standards on PPD. Except when they do. But then it's totally different because ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:40 PM
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Yep. Another one for me was a stripper (who I had known from before she was dancing). We dated for like 6 months, and she straight up had men offering her thousands of dollars just to "hang out". This was utterly common for them. Somehow she chose to hang w/ my boring near-broke (relative to what she could get) ass versus the non-stop simps including millionaires. Shit, as a dancer, she made more than I did. But, yeah, I had "all the power" there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:37 PM
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Lol nope - the guy is all about mate guarding her. She's basically his "kept woman" - so he can ride that out as long as he can, which by my calculations will be right about the end of summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:34 PM
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power imbalance If you use this nebulous woke dictionary catch phrase, there is a 99.9% chance you're simply trying to frame men as the villain. Preferable white men. None of what you just described is remotely unique to a hot-barely legal girl willingly dating an older guy by choice. None. You're picking out stories from some backwater hick town where a man seeks out a "kept woman" type of thing. I live in a city, so I've seen and experienced tons of this. College aged girls dating lawyers, mus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:28 PM
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There's always one of these in every thread these days. Shit's hilarious. I really feel like this kind of wokeism is dying out (thank christ) and so you're seeing the remaining wokesters become more comical in their language and hot takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:22 PM
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Ive seen some women say age gaps dont matter for casual sex but theyre wrong for relationships I love this one. I've gone back and forth with women on PPD who swore how "wrong" it was, only to admit that she and many of her friends sport fucked older guys as some sort of "bucket list" thing. Fine with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:19 PM
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Seems like your garden variety FDS refugee. They're pretty easy to spot these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:15 PM
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Ah yes, TikTok, the vanguard of well reasoned and productive conversations, where utterly vapid and insecure girls go to scream about things like "West Elm Caleb". Yes, real paragon of reason and logic that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:11 PM
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obbing the younger, less experienced person of making their own life experiences and forming their own perspective In today's episode of "how can I find a way to frame women as victims, and men as manipulative predators" The fuck does this even mean? You are "living" either way. Is the older (let's face it) man locking her in a fucking gimp crate? Let me get this straight, somehow a young woman is being "robbed" because she go to do things like go on vacations and nice restaurants? By that stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:08 PM
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You forgot the best (and funniest) one: "these men can't date women their own age because we won't have them!" That one gets me every time. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:03 PM
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Bingo. It's hilarious that people don't get this. In every age gap relationship I've had, the younger woman had an army of simps vying for her attention, offering her god-knows-what (flights, gifts, rides, etc) she was in no way shape or form "dependent" on me like the PPD hamsters like to claim. Me and her went to dinner once in a while and sat on the couch watching Twin Peaks reruns 70% of the time. Yeah, but I was a huge "predator" using my "financial power" to manipulate the innocent angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:02 PM
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This is the dead-ass truth. I just went through this with a girl who had a bf who developed a major emotional attachment to me which became physical soon after. She was ready to swing until her bf caught wind of it and basically stopped it (for now)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:58 PM
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You're absolutely right about this, and while there is certainly such a thing as far more "universal chads" (ie celebrities and models) there are certainly "contextual chads" that are discussed far less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:40 PM
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Sorry if reading comprehension and technical terms used in studies are too confusing for you. You seem fine with nebulous terms like “unfair” though when it suits your narrative. So yes, a woman’s cancer is more well funded than a males cancer, but that doesn’t change the fact that 3/4 of the time funding favors male diseases. As you well know, these statistics use all manner of mental gymnastics to arrive at conclusions like this. I just gave you a black and white, stark example, you gave me "3…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:33 PM
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Thanks. I hadn't thought about the notion of going from Quest Character back to NPC, but I mean, most people with an few exes have this. But, I still wouldn't call those people NPC's they are ... something else. Side-quest characters? I guess just people from another part of the experience that you may remember fondly, know a lot about, but don't interact with. That's certainly above an NPC even if they aren't part of your "active quest". Also, sometimes they show up again. So yes, even if someb…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:28 PM
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You're confusing "Chad" with a particular archetype. There is none. There is "book chad" there is "guitar chad" and there is "jock chad" Your "type" is still a Chad to you. Those guys have a huge advantage over the NPC's, and that's the point. That doesn't mean NPC's can't figure out how to stand out if they meet the baseline, but it's not the same as being desirable on-sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:25 PM
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This matches my experience as a sub-chad, but slightly above average man. Let's use nerdy / gaming terminology. Basically, the game here is to become a "non-NPC" to a particular woman. Every sub-chad man is an NPC to a woman, that is not on her sexual radar whatsoever. A Chad is automatically on a woman's radar. Your job, as an average man is to register on her radar and evolve from NPC to Quest Character. I think many average guys have had this experience. Where there was some girl who was aloo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:09 PM
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Actually, medical fundingactually favors men. Uh-huh. Akshually, this "study" sounds like your garden variety "sexist air conditioners" nonsense where nebulous terms like "burden" is used. the disease affects more women and is underfunded (with respect to burden), or the disease affects more men and is overfunded Yeah sounds totally objective and not at all subjective or agenda driven nope, not at all. Meanwhile, let's take a look at some very simple numbers: https://archive.nytimes.com/well.blo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:42 AM
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lmao nah, I'm good. I'm doing fine at the moment, and not particularly interested in learning how to be a cringey male feminist who sexually repels women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:46 AM
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Oof. Nevermind, no time to teach RP101 today. I'm sure you can do some reading about this stuff on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:36 PM
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Take a look at your own posts, "dude" Some of the shit you say. All the mean, over the top shit I say will never hold a candle to the gaslighting you and many other PPD women engage in here that result in confused, and frustrated young men, many of whom will suffer as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:34 PM
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Fat doesn’t equal ugly though. Yes. It does, to the vast majority of men. Please do not argue the color of the sky with me. I’ve also never seen fit men with fat women unless they have a fetish for fat women. Then you've never lived on the west coast. I’m in a fairly conservative part of the US. Aka ground zero for obesity. Not a surprise we have different experiences. You probably think 5'4 / 170lb is a "good, healthy weight" for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:32 PM
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This. Like porn, this depends entirely on the motivation behind it and the way you process the behavior in general. You can very much be a porn "addict" and develop all kinds of mental and physical issues around it that will be destructive. You can also use porn "between relatioinships" or to satisfy a kink once in a while, but on a regular basis and still be totally fine with a normal sexual relationship with a real woman. However, there is an indisputable disparity that seems to bother women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:26 PM
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I’ve seen plenty of men date women who look better than them. Good for you. Not sure where you live. I'm in my late 40's and have lived in large cities and small suburbs and I've seen it maybe 3 times. Amount of times, I've seen fit, tall men dating pudgy troll women? Countless. I don’t think average or even unattractive men are treated that bad in general. Can I build a spaceship to come to your planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:19 PM
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do you guys think women get good dating advice in general? Yes. They are also taught to be weary of pretty much all men in all circumstances. Are men taught about women's potential for bad behavior? Not so much. Why do you jump to thinking people are gaslighting you instead of just bad advice givers? Because modern feminism, and its close cousin "woke ideology" has determined that everything bad is male (patriarchy) and generally white (supremacy) and thus all ills women (somehow white women see…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:13 PM
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Correct. Yet women on PPD constantly hold up the exceptions to prove the rules in their quest to dunk on "angry incels" when they actually know the real truth and are just obfuscating it. This is the definition of gaslighting. I can use myself as an example, I'm an old due who has dated much younger women. I can easily admit that the vast majority of younger women do not want to date somebody my age. I can admit that, while I've experienced it, it's not the norm, and I am not representative of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:44 PM
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If you think a smart accomplished ‘girl boss’ woman isn’t getting dicked down I have a bridge to sell ya. Oh? The ugly / fat ones? Or do you mean the hot ones who would be getting fucked regardless? Yes, the hot ones will absolutely still get dick, until their bitchy, demanding and high maintenance attitude - er - I mean - her "knowing her worth" makes any guy with self respect bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:36 PM
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This can be easily answered by simply looking at who freaks the fuck out *more* when they are - Treated the way the opposite sex is in social interactions - Expected to do things the opposite sex does in terms of work and personal success - Held to the same standards of the opposite sex in terms of charisma, confidence and strength You can simply look at how women react when a man treats her the same way he treats another man. Watch the accusations of "mansplaining" and "being a bully" fly. Neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:32 PM
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Then you're at the very bottom bottom of the bell curve, along with the morbidly obese, burn victims and paraplegic / wheelchair bound women. That fucking sucks, and I'm sorry. Men in the beginning and fat-ass middle of the bell curve get treated like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:22 PM
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All you do is whine. This is what women call "days that end in Y"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:19 PM
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Hope she sees this bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:18 PM
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they aren't gonna say "oh Suzie is a bitch" no instead they say "WOMAN are bitches" There is a simple explanation for this. Because women excuse other women's shit behavior constalty due to in-group bias and the Women are Wonderful Effect. Something that, ironically, you're providing everybody a text-book example of right now. You: Talks about how incels generalize women. Also you: Proceeds to generalize men. ​ I having an only child is bad because you might get a son who just doesn't know how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:17 PM
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Like diversity quotas, affirmative action for women, title IX inquisitions, lack of funding for any men's health issues and child support laws? Like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:12 PM
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Yep. Good thing crazy (or even regular) women never stalk famous men. 🤣 You talk about sexual partners like they're trophies, a testament to your egos Riiiight. I'll just leave this here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:09 PM
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lmao ... yes... crying at the fucking "holocaust museum" counts as one of those Woman Approved™ source of man-crying along with "my dog died" and "my mother has a terminal illness" The rule of thumb is that a man can cry for some other "more vulnerable" entity, but not out of his own emotional fragility. Not ever. Now do: I lost my job, I jut got mugged, I don't think I can handle this challenge, or I'm afraid this crazy guy is going to beat my ass. These are things, I promise you all men have w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:53 PM
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Also throw in every other woman and simp on the planet parroting the gaslighting that mommy gives and you'll be getting closer to the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:45 PM
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Yeah look nice, dress nice, smell nice Yes. have a nice personality. No. Like I can’t imagine a mom telling her son, sweetheart you did not win the genetics lottery, you’re fucked Really, you don't think women teach girls "how to women" and "what men want"? Really? And perhaps you're missing the bigger picture here. It's not just that women don't tell boys about this shit, it's that they actively prevent other boys / men telling boys the truth about it and shame the ones who dare reveal anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:43 PM
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The guy who got laid the most also cried when we left. Did you perhaps notice he didn't cry before this? How many of those girls he banged would have banged him if they saw him cry beforehand? A guy that bangs 5 hot girls in a row on some group vacation can afford to cry after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:35 PM
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All the more reason to teach boys / young men that when that girl tells you "I really like you as a friend" it literally means "You're not attractive enough for me" You might think this is "the obvious truth", but the fact of the matter is mothers, sisters, and other mostly female sources gaslight boys about how there's "someone for everyone" and "your looks aren't the problem" when those are abject lies that many boys believe in our gynocentric "believeallwomen" era. If you sit a kid down and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:30 PM
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And I don't encourage this out of a sense of "hey settle for meee!!" it's more of a pragmatic reality. A man who dates even a an average woman is going to have to deal with men throwing dick at her constantly. It's understood, and handling that situation is a life skill most men who successfully date have to learn early. Women, on the other hand, generally don't have to deal with that and most don't want to. Therefore, you can shoot for average and basically avoid it altogether because average m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:15 PM
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Most of your post is fair here except I'd caution against... I am a medical student on track to be a surgeon with being the top of my class. I have a lot to offer It's great you are doing this, but in terms of attraction and relationships, this really means nothing, and for some men, their experience tells them that as a woman becomes more "successful" she becomes a more bitchy, demanding and high maintenance partner. Being a "bad bitch" is not attractive. don’t think its fair to say women are e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:06 PM
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How many "ridiculously obvious life lessons" do women reach their 30's pretending not to understand? i.e. - "But I'm a smart, intelligent and accomplished girl boss! why doesn't any man want me?!?!" How do we, as a society treat them when they have to face the ugly truth? Do we ridicule and blame them or do we see this as a possible sign of a systemic problem? Now do men. That's what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:00 PM
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Dude, I agree with everything you said. Somehow you locked on to my opening statement about how it would be dangerous for women to be "brutally honest" Being "brutally honest" does not mean "no thanks", it means "You're not tall enough for this ride! teehee" or "eww you're balding" or "you're ugly, no thanks" *That's* what I was talking about, and I promise you in a bar setting if some woman said that to the wrong man's face there would be an unpleasant reaction. My point was that it's not about…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:52 PM
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No idea where this is happening? India? Saudi Arabia? Go to any major US city and the stats will be like 20-1 some woman saying / doing rude as fuck shit to some clueless guy just shooting his shot vs some guy getting butthurt and yelling insults after a rejection. You really think the messaging of the past 10 years hasn't sunken in? In fact the few times I have seen a guy raise his voice to a woman, he would promptly get swarmed by men to "protect" the woman / kicked out of wherever he is. Gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:09 AM
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Lmao, I'm not young and I'm not skirting responsibility for anything. I've done the work. I happen to have nephews, and friends who have swallowed the shit that society and women like those found on PPD have been selling them for the past 10-20 years. But, mainly this conversation is just not interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:05 AM
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As you well know, our discussion is about the societal norms in terms of what information we arm boys with vs girls when it comes to navigating relations with the opposite sex. But, continue to pretend it's just me "not taking responsibility and whining" rather than me getting fed up with young men killing themselves, living in isolation or just mentally snapping entirely because they aren't be given the tools (aka reality) and instead being kept in a state of perpetual gaslighting. Then, again,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:50 AM
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Exactly, nothing wrong with this goal so long as it's acknowledged that: - An 8+ man is going to have an abundance of options and thus you will have to be even higher than that, not merely "as good" you aren't competing against another woman. You are competing against all the women he will have to say no to. An 8+ is by definition top-20, and those guys live in a different world than even a 6-7 guy does. All the guys that were in this league that I've known (Chad basically) *all* would have "oop…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:37 AM
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The fuck does this have to do with anything? Besides, for every anecdote of a clueless socially r-tarded guy like this, there is a guy who gets a drink thrown in his face, told to "talk to the hand" or reported to HR for asking her out to lunch even once.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:32 AM
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Can confirm. I'm late 40's. A friend of mine the same age, is certainly within the "average" scope looks-wise. He's done literally everything by the feminist handbook. He's still a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:30 AM
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You forgot the "Teehee."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:29 AM
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Yet most men figure these things out by the time they’re 15 Oh? Tell me this oh wise one, why the motherfuck do so many women in their 30's and beyond still complain about being "deceived by fuck boys" didn't they "learn" this all at 15 too? Why do women live in a state of surprised pikachu faces for all the shit that men supposedly "do to them" when, by all accounts, they should have long since been warned of these things and "know the signs"? Guess their personality detectors must be broken. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:21 AM
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You are oversimplfying. He was talking about social skills, skincare, fashion and style as well as career. aka platitudes. "just use moisturizer bro" is equally useless if you're a 5'4 balding indian janitor. Besides, jaw surgery exists? "Just get medieval and utterly invasive surgery where you spend 6 months in full braces, then have your upper and lower mandibles sawed in half, advanced forward and bolted together with titanium rods, then spend another 3 months with your jaw wired shut, and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:07 AM
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I don’t know who lied and said they don’t they do. You are lying right now when you say this. You know exactly how young men are lied and gaslit to about this shit and who does it. But I guess it's more fun to be a useless troll because "male tears" or whatever the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:59 AM
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Do you have something to contribute to this (or really any) PPD discussion other than pathetic straw men that require no insight whatsoever? I'm talking about the current and future generations. Or perhaps you want to see inceldom continue to rise as it has been?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:58 AM
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It's absolutely a performance. Every time I get ready for a date, I literally have to do "psych up" exercises like somebody about to go on stage for a performance or a boxer doing his whole "walk out" routine complete with soundtrack. We're not talking the bullshit "butterflies" women will talk about, I have to actually fucking get "in character" and it's exhausting, but if I don't do that, I don't get a second date, and I certainly don't get sex. I suspect many other men have to do this too. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:55 AM
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Women like men that other women like (preselection) Women like tall men (wanting a protector) Women like men with defined jawlines (bone structure) Women like men who have status (provider) Women like men who are unpredictable (excitement) None of those things are generally taught to young men. What is taught is "be yourself" and "there's someone out there for you" etc You can hamster away all of those very commonly observed and understood facts, but it will always be in conflict with men's expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:49 AM
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"Women like tall men" You: /#notallwomen "Most women like tall men" You: You're just cherry picking "A large number of women like tall men" You: Their preference for tall men and it's just cultural. Besides, It's your bad attitude that's the actual problem! Do you think this is helpful? This is literally what you're doing in your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:48 AM
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Things would not be better if individual women were brutally honest about what they like and find attractive to a particular man. That would absolutely be dangerous for the woman doing it, and unnecessarily cruel to the man hearing it. But, things would absolutely be better if society and "the village", for lack of a better term, told boys the ugly truth. This doesn't happen, because for the past 50 years, to ascribe any negative traits to women in general terms goes against state doctrine. Simu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:24 AM
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Another stunning and brave take. Because, you know, men should "share their feelings" and women never "whine and complain"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:47 AM
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Ok, Tony Robbins. The spirit of your post is good, but your prescription for being a dutiful cog in some capitalist machine is the one-way ticket to betabucks-ville. Your advice won't produce a man with options. You need to understand women's internal physical and emotional attraction cues and speak to those. I know tons of men who have all the shit you describe and many are utter beaten down simps with fat girlfriends, a few are still virgins. I know broke losers who have none of what you descr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:39 AM
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The difference is that men are widely acknowledged to be "shallow" and "sex driven" and "care about looks first and foremost" Girls are taught these "facts of life" from a very early age. Guess what happens to boys at the same age? You guessed it - mass gaslighting to serve the feminine imperative. "protect women", "believe women", "women are nurturing angels", "women aren't the shallow sex", "women will love you for who you are inside" etc etc - all those messages and many more are drilled into…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:34 AM
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Just be a millionaire bro. This is not a solution. You're talking about scratching and clawing your way to a point the vast vast majority of men will never get to (they will die trying) This is part of the lie. All of your "stats" also don't mention height, jawline, hairline, etc which have WAY more of an effect than any of the other shit you've spent your whole life fighting for. And finally, the ultimate black pill here is that even if every guy did what you say, it wouldn't mean that more men…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:29 AM
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Yeah? So women's inherent hypergamic instincts and the proliferation of social media giving them FOMO and skewing their perception of what "top men" actually are has absolutely nothing to do with it huh? Despite all the studies proving otherwise, you're going with "men just suck more than they used to teehee"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:23 AM
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This is your brain on woke internet "look for the offense" brain rot. "Then don't date women" But, I'm not gay. "HOMOPHOBE! haaaate! haaaaaate! Words are violence1!!!1! "
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:20 AM
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Cool, maybe you should also add "who will let also let me fuck other girls whenever I want" to every preference a guy expresses. I want a smart girl Add the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:16 AM
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This. Too many prolific posters are clearly only concerned with one thing: Dunking on what they see as "misogynistic" RP men, even if they have to make shit up, or deny blatant facts and studies. Men here will generally accept very ugly truths about both men and women and work from there. Women first and foremost deny bad behavior of women in general or try to dismiss it that behavior as that of extreme outliers, when they know it's not the case - again - simply to "score points" against their h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:13 AM
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Not all single women can get their needs met as you assume No. Just 80% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:08 AM
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What men? Where? Outside of this sub and some corners of the internet, where, in mainstream culture is this woman bashing happening? Now, do you want to know where men are getting bashed, ridiculed and shit on in mainstream culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:08 AM
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"I don't believe studies that say the sky is blue. I say it's orange, because of sunsets. So, I'm going to argue with you about that ad nauseam, instead of agreeing on a commonly understood set of facts and going from there" PPD Every damn day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:06 AM
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Not on the internet. Not on some obscure sub-reddit - In real fucking life. How are hamsters not getting the distinction? Or are they just pretending yet again?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:03 AM
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ugly women have a much harder lot in life than a man No. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:02 AM
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Oh stop - who the fuck is doing this IRL? Some internet ideological ghetto doesn't mean jack shit. Hilarious how RP dudes get called "terminally online" yet women out here are acting like it's some cesspool of misogyny where they are being attacked left and right at random at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:01 AM
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You literally just did the circular logic thing: - Ask PPD women if dogs have 4 legs - PPD women: \sometimes* they have 3 legs! My dog has 3 legs! So, dogs don't really have 4 legs!* - I'm asking about *most* dogs, the vast majority we come in contact with. - PPD women: Well, MAYBEE some people work at an animal shelter with a lot of amputee dogs. I do, and so do ALL of my friends, so you're just refusing to accept that dogs are not a monolith! - Ok, there are dogs with 3 legs. I'm asking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:57 AM
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Lol. Why don’t you re-read the post I replied to and then give yourself thats advice. But ultimately, I’ll speak on whatever I want. You can make whatever assumptions about what I do / don’t know all day long, it doesn’t make you one fuck of difference since you don’t know my life experience. You’re the one that comes on here incessantly telling men what they do and don’t “really” experience so you wagging a finger at anybody on this sub is fucking laughable. You’re effectively a troll on this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:33 AM
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Bad posture. https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/4sa4fu/look_they_started_making_teenage_mannequins/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:11 PM
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See, "men are not a monolith" after all - I looove a swan neck and a visible clavicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:09 PM
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Gaslighting. Stop. Just stop. This is like saying "telling kids they have 'white privelege / supremacy doesn't mean X"... Bull. Shit. Kids can't distinguish the subtleties in this language and they internalize it. We know how these words are used. Anybody outside of some weird gender / women's studies student doesn't use these terms with any finesse or nuance. It's a catch-all phrase meant to otherise men in particular. If we actually wanted to honestly talk about this stuff we wouldn't use term…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:21 PM
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That happened too, but only lasted for a few days, which almost makes me feel like that part is a "brain" thing too - or at least a "head infection" thing. The annoying thing about this phenomenon is that it appears to be A..) worse for 'healthy immune systems' and B.) doesn't show up until you're over the main part of the 'sickness' phase Basically, from what I understand, there's some kind of delayed immune response that goes nuts after you don't even have covid anymore. The Spanish Flu was ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:13 PM
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Yah, I (like others) spent so much time worrying about ventilators and breathing problems, the rest of the shit just seemed like "minor side issues" - but clearly, it was just like those issues were "minor" compared to "death" I will say, I had similar reactions to my last 2 shots (fatigue / brain fog) for weeks after, so I'm hoping it's a temporary systemic inflammation thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:55 PM
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Oddly for me, I went through a phase of super easy hookups with relatively hot women (first time this ever had happened to me) I spent some time creating a really novel and deliberately ridiculous OLD profile (not much else to do) and it got noticed. Around mid 2020 when testing became more widely available, the matches started rolling in. Ended up literally having women just asking if I had been tested (I have to because vulnerable family) and we'd exchange test results, and that was that. In o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:33 PM
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COVID, even mild cases causes brain damage (though some is a little and some is a lot). As somebody who finally got it a couple of months ago, I was (stupidly) not prepared for this issue. As somebody who just started a new creative / technical job, I work with my mind exclusively. The "brain fog" has been utterly debilitating (not to mention the fatigue). It fucking sucks, and I'm counting the days and praying that it fades over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:29 PM
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+1 same thing here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:26 PM
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Crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:04 PM
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What does that even mean? Since the dawn of time women's fashion has always been more "ornate", are you confusing that with "different"? Men have not gone for more "similar" fashion, they have been just as susceptible, just in less colorful ways. Just because "black members only" isn't as loud as "dayglo torn esprit shirt" doesn't mean it's not a fashion trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:58 PM
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The red pill dispelled the fucking lies. And the earlier we get this info to the boys the better. Unfortunately there will be a good chunk of men that will be very unlucky in love. That's bad enough. But lying to them to give them false hope is torture. fucking this *1000 Dear god, the amount of years I'd have gotten back if somebody just took my gullible ass aside and explained this to me, I could have gotten about the process of learning what is actually attractive to women, instead of followi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:51 PM
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wealthy backgrounds in their home countries Kindly STFU with this victim blaming nonsense. I, for one, am (visually) white, but come from a decidedly poor background. I grew up on welfare and foodstamps. So you can put that theory to rest. The black community redpills their boys more than most, because they dont get language policed / shamed by white feminist harpies about acknowledging the truth around them. Now, back to the victim blaming: If a girl gets sexually assaulted / raped at a frat pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:46 PM
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This is a woman who actually prefers short men, so do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:45 PM
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Women are far more concerned with fitting in / conforming to the tribe because it's been a survival trait for them since the dawn of man. There are very few "lone wolf" women as compared to men. Still, fashion trends absolutely effect men just as much. Go back to "greasers" in the 50's, "beatniks" in the 60's, etc. I would say women go to far greater lengths to basically copy-cat particular women. Girls wearing lace and ripped stockings in the 80's due to Madonna's popularity has now turned into…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:40 PM
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"The problem with beauty is that it's like being born rich and getting poorer" - Joan Collins I'm seeing this up close and personal with a good friend of mine (never dated, but she was very hot). Her whole identity was / is wrapped up in her appearance. She'd do bikini calendars. Blonde, big fake boobs, tan, uses her sexuality (not sex) to get what she wants frequently. When I met her, she was already in her mid 30's but still very attractive. She partied, a lot, and all the years of sun began t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:24 AM
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One theory I have for finding acne attractive is I used to be insanely insecure about it as a teenager. So any adult with acne, I sort of feel like is a kindred spirit. Amazing. There's a "pretty cute" bartender who I finally saw without makeup and she had adult acne, and it made have an absolute major crush on her for some reason. As a kid who was called "pizza face" at school for years, this might be why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:02 AM
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Most women are not that funny, something about a females voice lacks delivery and most don't have to really "practice" comedy the way guys do Sooo damn true. I still long for nights on the couch with my ex who could legit make humor out of anything and make fun of me and herself in equal measure. I remember one (much younger which made it even more surprising for some reason) would read me things like the "navy seal" meme in a faux deep "fake alpha male" voice and have me fucking dying. Another …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:55 PM
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Oh hell yes. I love when a girl is super serious and presents an "unshakable" front (ie career women), and you finally make her blush or tongue tied. Checkmate motherfucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:50 PM
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stop watching porn Well played.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:49 PM
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tenderly moving them out of the way before absolutely violating her Have experienced. Can confirm. This is a damn good feeling. And before you all chime in - No pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:46 PM
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Women think men that cant get laid are losers. That was the original statement and it's true whether you like it or not. The claims of "Well, I don't do that!" are derailing and irrelevant and a typical tactic of women on PPD (and Reddit in general) You are trying to argue the color of the sky. Women using men's sexual prowess and lack of success as an insult isn't new, uncommon or controversial no matter how much you want to pretend it's "invented voices in my head" I suppose men came up with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:10 PM
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Yes! Totally forgot about her. She definitely has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:04 PM
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Yeah, that's kind of like saying "I have a weird thing for big tits and round asses"... yeah... not weird. More unique is a nose like Abella Danger, which absolutely ups her sexiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:01 PM
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Oh yes, this too. Just dated a girl whose 2 fronts were kind of tilted toward each other. Was fucking adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:58 PM
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I think the french call it a "trumpet nose" for some reason, and yes, that with freckles is hot AF. Somewhat relevant Evangaline Lilly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:52 PM
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That strong drive doesn’t entitle you to pussy though. For future reference, the minute you say some utterly dumb ass straw-man, reductio ad absurdum, goalpost moving shit like this, our conversation is over. Thanks, have a good sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:47 PM
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ahahaha, isn't this that shit every picture of "Belle Delphine" does? (just looked it up... it is) That forced shit is kind of cringe TBH, but when it's just a natural thing, that's when I notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:46 PM
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“Busting balls is a masculine trait BETA…. BETA MAAAAALE.” Yah, I've heard a lot of RP guys say "Don't let her disrespect you even in a joking way!" etc ... like fuck that - to me, as long as it goes both ways, that shit is hilarious and defuses tension and actually builds attraction IMO. I really find it attractive how certain women move their mouths when they talk. That's a good one. I hadn't thought of it, but I could totally see that being something a lot of guys get turned on by without eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:43 PM
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They said making it your personality (letting it define you) is what makes them a loser, not someone merely lacking. Except "They" said nothing of the sort. "They" frequently and continuously say "You are a loser who can't get laid" and "you don't get laid because of you are a fundamentally bad person" (basicall the same thing) This is an utterly common insult women use against men, and you are pretending it isn't. And you wonder why people don't believe a damn word women say? It's because posts…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:00 PM
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Based and should cause PPD hamsters in this thread to self reflect. Spoiler alert: It won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:58 PM
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Because women's lower sex drive and delusions of locking down a chad have led to an artificial scarcity for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:50 PM
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non sequitur Nobody said women don't contribute to the labor force. Women have always been good at agriculture as it lends itself to their innate instinct to nurture things and help them grow. That absolutely is a contribution to human existence. That is not the same thing as breakthrough innovation that changes the paradigm of human existence. There were tons of women switchboard operators after phones were invented. Does this mean a woman toiled alone for years in dark labs to figure out how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:49 PM
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We can go back and forth on this all day. Bottom line: Men have 2 choices. Believe random internet person who says "Nu uh!!!" or believe their own eyes and experience. I wonder which one will win out...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:41 PM
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I’m well aware many of the men here believe their entire reason for existence is to get pussy. I I don't disagree with anything else you said, but I think this is a straw-man. Even the most black pilled man wouldn't say their "entire reason for existence is to get pussy", it's more that you can't really experience a complete existence as a man without experiencing sex. Not "all the sex" not "chad levels of sex" just... not zero sex. There is a very fundamental difference. Is your entire reason f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:37 PM
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I agree with this, but the reality is getting “good with women” is much more like “getting good at job interviews” It’s largely performative and somewhat technical. Being “happy with yourself” while absolutely a hugely important thing, is not a recipe for this. The jist of the article is “go to therapy so you can stop even desiring women, and leave us the fuck alone, creep”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:50 PM
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Yes. A fiction I’ve seen play out over and over and over again with my own eyes. I must have been dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:43 PM
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🤣suuuuuure Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:40 PM
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Where aren't they this way? Masculine and hot and fuck well (nyc) vs masculine and granola / butch and fuck like feminists (west coast). I know which one I'll take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:45 AM
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I've never seen a guy successfully have a "harem" and cheating isn't the same as a harem. If these supposedly "harems" exist, many of the women probably don't realize it ergo it's not consensual nor truly a harem, and they'd leave if they found out. You aren't getting how this works. Women absolutely will "share" a chad and they will use their superpower, plausible deniability, to do so. So, yes, if Chad straight up says "I banged your best friend the other day" she might eject from his rotation…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:34 AM
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Tell you what. How about we dissolve the social norms around consent, and more broadly, prioritizing women's safety. I mean, Turn up the based. The irony of women demanding men "level up" or whatever the fuck while marching and screaming for every invented ankle high hurdle they face in life is brutal. Not enough women CEO's? YOU'D BETTER HIRE US! Not enough women engineers? PUT WOMEN IN STEM CLASSES! Women get drunk and regret fucking a guy? AFFIRMATIVE CONSENT LAWS! It goes on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:31 AM
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As you comfortably type this on a device that was barely science fiction 20 years ago, using a resource invented by men, on a device created by a man, drive on roads paved by men, buy groceries transported by men, flush your shit down a toilet maintained by a man, throw your garbage to be taken away by men, drive a car designed and built by men etc. All during a time of historically low crime, prosperity and relative peace. Good job, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:23 AM
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Lol yep. So basically the truth about the article. It's not about learning to "get what you want" it's about learning to not "want what you want" in the first place. You can sum this up by saying "ew get away from me creep!" I've given up on expecting women to understand just how existential a fulfilling sex life is to men. They simply do not and cannot get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:15 AM
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Exactly. I have gone to therapy a lot over the years on and off. It's always been a place to check in with my behaviors and strategize on next steps. It never and I mean never once felt like a place that could help me "get better with women", it simply helped me plan my life around things that were conducive to emotional well being, and recognize things that were not. It kept me honest essentially. But it had fuck-all to do with me having more success with women. That was 100% simply internalizi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:14 AM
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If this insanity doesn't entirely prove the recent thread here on PPD about how men are gaslit on a massive, societal scale, I don't know what does. I'm not being hyperbolic when I say that this article, if it reaches far and wide, which is seems to be doing, will result in more than a few men having meltdowns when they attempt to follow the abject horseshit in this article and, predictably, crash and burn. This article will be destructive. Let's recap. It starts off well enough, at least acknow…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:00 AM
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Hope she sees this bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:37 AM
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Most women don't care if their partner is fat. 🤣 Holy shit. Is there a color bluer than blue? because this is some other level of just-world bloop nonsense. What's next? All women are "sapiosexual" angels who only care about your personality? You forgot the "TeeHee"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:33 AM
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“Hey a fat guy had sex once when he was 19 at a party with a girl who did it on a dare!” Vs “Bertha can waddle over to the saloon and get some fit guy to rail her any night of the week” Sure. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:18 AM
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You misspelled “Physically attractive” That’s what you’re deliberately evading. He gets away with acting “cool” and sexist because he’s hot enough to do so. Your adherence to the notion that it’s “because he’s cool” is the just world fallacy because you don’t want to believe the dumb luck of his looks has anything to do with it. Are you getting it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:17 AM
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he fucks because he's cool That's how. That's fucking laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:08 AM
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And those fat men are not getting sex, as it should be. Not so for fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:07 AM
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blaming it entirety on lack of sexual success. First, where am I blaming it "entirety" on sex? Nowhere. Moving on... What is men's biggest driver in life, and what has been throughout human history? You know the answer to that, but you're going to hamster and gaslight that I'm saying men are "entitled" to sex and probably something along those lines. Just don't. It's tired and irrelevant. Next, many of the other things you listed absolutely contribute to the problems, but alas men are not women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:02 AM
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Just World Fallacy entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:52 AM
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I mean, if Amber Heard can be the "National Ambassador For Domestic Violence" then, I'm not sure why people here are surprised Rapskallion earned the job. He campaigned hard and won fair and square.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:46 AM
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NGL, here "finger pistols" moment got me too. I've had the opposite (like you described) where an interview made me go from thirsty simp to ... I'll move on now. That was Elisa Cuthbert. I saw her in an interview and she talked precisely like a 14 year old boy. It's hard to describe, but it was such a jolt. And it's nothing against her at all, it was just so - not feminine, and the characters she played led me to construct a vision that wasn't the case. That one was on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:43 AM
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Just take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:41 AM
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Ok. NGL. Fuck that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:38 AM
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Yet we're writing articles about how men need to "improve" for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:53 AM
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Because single women aren’t threatening violence If they don’t get dick A.) Far lower testosterone B.) Less ability to commit violence without extreme consequences (and they still do it ahem Amber Heard) C.) It's bullshit anyway, because women can always get dick. ​ Women's "more subtle way" here involves fucking a drunk Chad at 1:50 in the stall at Applebee's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:43 AM
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Because men experience women being repulsed by this repeatedly. Why don't you believe men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:41 AM
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Expressing feelings other than anger like fear, insecurity, pain, sadness.* *like women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:40 AM
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too many are falling into such toxic circles That's what happens when you lie to and gaslight a generation of boys. Congratulations, feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:39 AM
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No. Being around women makes them hold their tongue from talking honestly and openly, which is a huge part of the problem. Women's tendency to language police. I was talking to my sister's about this, and brought up about how a friend who got dumped by his gf said "Fuck that bitch" and they all clutched their pearls and talked about how "bitter", "sexist" and "inappropriate" that was. I then calmly asked them how many of them or their friends said "forget that asshole loser" after their bf dumpe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:37 AM
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Women's in-group bias is likely biological and cannot and will not change. Women vote with their pussy. All else is academic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:35 AM
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Great post. That may not help with dating, but having a community helps with loneliness. Great point. In fact, it might hurt with dating if done wrong (women will see it as "gay" or "bi" or whatever, despite their woke protests to the contrary) similar to the feminist movement so male issues can be brought to light. Step one. Have feminists stop demanding to invade male spaces while screaming about sexism (hello BOY Scouts) We might see women start losing rights, see more misogynists in politica…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:34 AM
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That's still a shitload better than "treated like a repulsive creep" so...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:31 AM
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lol - talk about "telling on yourself" holy shit. Dude, the only reason your adorably "sexist" BF isn't an angry incel is because he fucks. Let's see what happens to that same guy if he has to live a few years with a deformed face and women showing outright revulsion to him. Yeah... He's not gonna be all "girls are cute" lol Motherfuckers putting the cart before the horse with their just world nonsense as usual: "Incels are unattractive because they hate women!" You have it backwards, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:29 AM
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Yeah there's a big difference between being sexist and hating women though. Yes. It's called "being hot" and "not being hot" That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:28 AM
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Isn't that standard equipment for PPD women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:26 AM
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This. This article is clearly coming from the same "men are trash" place as the more overt ones, but is trying to frame it as "please get help so we aren't scared of you. and also work harder to mold yourself into the lie that women are telling you they want" "Emotionally available" and "share her values" lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:24 AM
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No woman gives a flying fuck if the fat, bald, indian janitor thinks she is "much beautiful" and tells her how smart and impressive she is. Stop it. They care because somebody attractive is making them feel good about themselves. Somebody they see as low value, bigging them up is of zero value to them. If Billy tells her how smart and strong she is, she doesn't gaf, if Chad compliments her ass, suddenly she's on the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:22 AM
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*treat women like people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:21 AM
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Beta Bux with a pretty, pleasant wife, who respects you for caring for her, working hard, and being a provider and protector vs Beta Bux with a raging entitled cunt who resents you because you didn't take her to Cancun with her girlfriends, and you're not Big Dick Rick, the hawt guitar player who cheated on her when she was 22. Hmm... which one should I choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:05 AM
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if we ever broke up however I'd almost certainly remain single Incorrect. If he broke up with you, you'd "almost certainly" jump on some hot guy's cock at last call to "feel sexy again". That is what a modern woman calls "being single". Self medicating their sadz away with Chad's dick while shit talking men for watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:02 AM
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The fact is EVERY man here will tell you how women have leveraged their ease of sexual access to combat loneliness and to make them feel better I've never known a woman who didn't do this after a guy broke up with her (how dare he?!). Never. Not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:59 AM
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TLDR - I can't deny that women are using their insane access to easy and out-of-their league dick as a means of coping with their terminal hypergamy. They simultaneously don't give a shit about sex, but thirst for it with hot men. Very stunning and brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:58 AM
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Men = want women Women = don't want men average men FTFY. As usual, none of this applies to Chad, which is who even average women are "holding out" for. They are convinced they're going to pull a winning Lotto ticket. Of course their "happy" for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:56 AM
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n 2022 50 year old women are not the same poor souls trapped in a world men defined. Yes. Yes you are. The rest of your post said nothing to disprove this. I am in this age demographic and I promise you this shit is absolutely accurate. Women go through their "I'm happy teehee" phase when they know they have their options on the DL. Once they realize they have to raw-dog their loneliness like men, they freak the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:53 AM
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you should see the howling and moaning done by 50 yr old woman trying to date BINGOOOOO Women are "happy being single" so long as they are getting that steady drip of validation in their DM's and likes for their sunset heart hands photo. The minute they age out of that? It's suddenly "invisible woman syndrome!1!1 society needs to heeeeellllp!!!" Nobody is buying this shit. Women are "happy being single" because they have chad's Dial-A-Dick safety net of sex and validation there at any time. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:52 AM
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lol all that is all totally true Until the moment Chad walks in
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:47 AM
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I love how women write up screeds like this about how evolved and independent they are right before getting pumped and dumped by the hawt guy at the bar that very night. Women are still simping for the hot guys, they are just content to ignore their looksmatched beta bucks because they have their own bucks (or get their bucks given to them) Every modern "strong independent woman" still desperately wants (and deserves) her "Christian Grey", and to lock him down - but she's A-OK getting pumped and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:43 AM
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He's absolutely right. The "no second date for the guy whose shoes didn't match his belt" gender cannot deny this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:37 AM
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Is it possible this is just you looking for a reason to branch swing after getting bored? I mean, let's be real - if he wasn't 6'3 you might have said "I like taller guys" if he didn't look like a model you might say "I'm just not attracted" if he didn't have a black belt you could have just said "He had no hobbies and wasn't good at anything!" etc etc This is exactly the pattern men talk about in regards to women, their neurotic nature causes them to find things not to like about men, yes, even…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:36 AM
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So why wasn't it your place to "be better" and "more interesting" and "more in tune with what he wants" the article is telling men to do with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:34 AM
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There are basically no real “soft harems” forming And people say that men aren't gaslit. 😂 women are just as single and lonely as men are but they handle it in less destructive ways Like desperately fishing for validation on social media and OLD, and fucking anonymous chads to get their "I've still got it" fix? Yeah. I guess it's nice to have those outlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:31 AM
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We agree there’s an issue. Do we? It would seem a huge number of posters on PPD... ahem... claim that these issues are either made-up or, if real, of men's own doing or a result of a "just world" punishing shitty men with loneliness on a mass scale because they suck. What do you think would help? Stop gaslighting men on a massive scale about women's behavior and actual mate selection process because you think it will make women "look bad" Protip: Be the change you want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:13 AM
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Women can also be ugly, poor, short, introverted. And they'll still get interest from tons of men if they're merely not fat. ​ It’s not only happening to men. It’s like everyone has the flu, Oh for fucksake, when-oh-when will women stop with this "both sides" shit. 4X SUICIDE RATE. Get that through your fucking head. but there’s a group of men who think it’s worse for them than everyone else. Man flu I guess? What I'd like to say to you for making this comment would get me banned. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:09 AM
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in other words be less like the guys that women are more likely to have sex with. lmao exactly - let's recall that previous thread of how men are gaslit on a societal scale, shall we? Read this article then fucking argue with that. Holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:07 AM
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No one’s killing themselves just because they’re single Simply saying "because they're single" is utter gaslighting and you know it. But, way to trivialize men's loneliness and despair in the modern world leading to a 4x disparity in male suicide vs women's. But, again, totally on-brand. We wouldn't expect anything less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:05 AM
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They just want to be treated like it. The fuck is the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:54 AM
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Men - do not fall for this. Despite extreme outlier stories, most women do not want to see you emote about your problems. It will kill their attraction, whether they know it or not. Hell, even this poster, despite the lofty words, may find her attraction and respect slowly start to erode for "some reason" as time goes on. Only ever express this type of thing to family, other men and female friends that you have no interest in keeping sexually attracted to you. Men emoting is the equivalent of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:51 AM
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by then the short poor ugly dude has probably offed himself. The Official Pill of Black Noir from The Boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:47 AM
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This is one of those situations where a culture of fear has been created among men, and they understand the consequences of even discussing such subjects in public and resentment builds over time from them having to hold their tongue. That bottling up has a way of coming out one way or another, and none of them are very positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:37 AM
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Oddly, I've found New York City to have the highest ration of attractive and available women to men, and they didn't even tend to be delusional about their leagues like California women are either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:24 AM
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Yes, men. What are you going to trust? Your own experience, or what reddit SJW18473 told you? I'll say it again, as a man who has experienced many vaginas - they are not "all the same" If you think this, you should not be speaking on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:22 AM
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Oh, trust me - I'm on your side. I said it because, the phrase is so unthinkable for anybody to say on national television or even social media that it should be a bucket of cold reality to women just how normalized misandry is. It won't be though. Women shames man's genitals = LOL Man shames woman's genitals = OMG
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:20 AM
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75% of the girls I work with are slim or skinny and their boyfriends are fit or skinny Do you work at a gym? As women here like to point out constantly, "most people are fat" so... think people underestimate the amount of people who find fatness or chubbiness genuinely attractive No. Women do not date opportunistically like men do, they date selectively, and thus the vast majority will rule out sex or relationships with fat guys. They will happily use them for rides and free stuff though. That I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:19 AM
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"Look at meeee everybody! I wear my underwear on my head! STOP saying people don't wear their underwear on their head! It's NOT TRUE!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:12 AM
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Oh I see. So "the evidence that I said didn't exist, does exist, but I'm going to now say it isn't the evidence I really meant and carry on like my point still stands." Zero faith debater - noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:11 AM
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they go for guys they are attracted to, who are also attainable Who do they have dirty no-strings sex with, and then lie about it to the less hot guy they 'coupled with'? That's the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:08 AM
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Difference is, I'm not delusional. No delusional person ever thinks they are. You mean the way women publicly innocently talk about how short, bald, small dicked and otherwise undesirable men are merely "different" and not "low value creeps"? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:07 AM
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Spoken like somebody who has never had their dick inside of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:13 PM
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Loose pussy energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:08 PM
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calling Jason Momoa average is a new level of delusion I haven't come across yet. Would you like to retract that statement? https://www.today.com/series/love-your-body/aquaman-star-jason-momoa-shamed-social-media-his-dad-bod-t158183
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:06 PM
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Uh huh toxic masculiinity rape culture male gaze mansplaining Tell me again which "idiots" ascribe things to a "whole gender?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:04 PM
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What this actually means is "fuck the very hot guys at every opportunity, but don't expect them to commit. Just fuck and bounce or FWB at most." Which is ironically what the hot guys wanted in the first place. Women's solipsism makes them think this behavior is some kind of life-hack instead of the self-own that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:02 PM
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Oh, cool - so the same things RP guys are doing about what they see as issues. Glad to know we're on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:54 PM
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It's the most common "But I see couples that are both fat and ugly all the time!" citation made by women on PPD. Keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:01 PM
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18-30 like classmates workmates In my office, every guy who has a girlfriend, the girlfriend is fat or close. And even the ones that aren't the guy is clearly above her in looks. I don't remember the last "Wow, how did he get her?!" couple I've ever seen in my city. I think it's been years. people on date nights Yes, Many of those people likely didn't meet in the OLD / IG era of dating. people on Instagram Instagram is not real life. Instagram is not real life. Say it again. parties/clubs/bars L…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:00 PM
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Lol confirmation bias. Those “Walmart” couples people on PPD like to bring up are not in the dating game in 2022 so stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:55 PM
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So what are you doing to change that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:54 PM
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Women with this mentality inherently see themselves as “dirty” when they have sex and they don’t want to be “dirty” with men they love. That’s why they are often vanilla with their husbands despite being kinky with casual partners. First, incredible post (have another award) Second, this section right here I think explains a lot of men's experience (it certainly explains much of mine) in which, even when a relationship starts off as hot, with filthy, fun, and degrading slutty sex, as the woman p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:44 PM
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Women aren't interested in relationships that "improve their life", they are interested in relationships that will make other women jealous and get their pussy wet (generally the same thing). A short, balding tradesman can easily "make her life better" with his income, know-how and attentiveness. That's not enough though is it? It's tingles uber alles and that's that. Any guy who isn't leading with sexual attraction, is going to get turned into a utilitarian beta buck. Women also notoriously jud…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:55 AM
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Lol @ "get rid of trash foods" You mean how Michelle Obama tried to, gently say that Childhood Obesity is a problem and kids should eat better and move more? Like that? Maybe you forgot how she got crucified for that. Or how about when they tried to ban "super sized" sodas in NYC? Yeah "the people" sure liked that. People need to stop with this "it's the environment" shit - it's utterly pathetic when the issue is literally between an individual and a fucking fork. That's it. These aren't burn vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:19 AM
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If you shorten the workday and improve public transit, people will move more. Evidence? People want to dismiss all elements of a person's choice to put food in their mouth, but hamster away any number of reasons people are choosing to do this. How about this - life in the US is comfortable, everybody is told they are wonderful and 'deserve' everything (especially women), people are decadent. People have no desire or ability to control themselves or restrict their gluttony because they all feel t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:36 PM
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And you just did it. If an asshole is an asshole to everybody, does he suddenly become a "misogynist" when he's an asshole to a woman? Make this make sense please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:32 PM
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A.) Being fat is utterly preventable lifestyle choice and within a person's control B.) Fat people take a disproportionate amount of health care costs driving up health insurance prices and C.) Fat people were incredibly overrepresented in Covid hospitalizations (70%) and not it's not just because "the population is fat". It's been determined to be a directly contributing comorbidity. That led to much longer lockdown / more drastic measures and a massive taxing of our medical facilities and staf…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:31 PM
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crappy diets, and our food is over processed and full of toxicities. Plus we abuse the hell out of prescrip Nah. Keep blaming externalities for literally the most straight forward, and basic form of self discipline. That's been a huge success over the past 30 years. As you can see the number of fats has gone way down since we've started blaming everything but the individual stuffing their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:33 AM
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“Personal responsibility” track is a meme. Maybe you can help me out here, how do alcoholics and drug addicts get clean? By being told to continue drinking and using? No. They have to confront they have a problem and seek the solution, and at the end of the day, they decide to drink or not drink based on how they've structured their life. "health education and healthcare" is the solution? How? by giving people amphetamines to kill their appetite? Seriously? Calories in / Calories out is too comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:32 AM
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there's a reason that fat shaming cultures have terrible mental health issues and body issues lmao - yes as opposed to our culture where absolute gluttony is celebrated and encouraged. Yes, it's that absolute epidemic of skinniness that is taxing our healthcare system. How could I forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:29 AM
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Nobody said that shaming makes already fat people lose weight. The problem is that not shaming / celebrating them makes other people think it's "nbd" to be fat. We are absolutely enabling fat people by celebrating fat people. There is a difference between "acceptance" and celebration and we have absolutely crossed that line. In b4 "fat people KNOW it's not good" - bull fucking shit - yes they know - they just don't care because why should they "deprive themselves" of pleasure. Just lo fucking l …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:28 AM
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Women's idea of "average" is colored by social media and online dating. For men, fuckable then is still fuckable now. That is not the case for women. Women grade men on a curve in relation to other available men. This is hypergamy and it's part of their software. You can see this phenomenon at work in the opposite way as well. If you are the one decent looking guy in an office, you'll see women start to get an "office crush" on you. Not because you're actually anything special, but because in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:04 PM
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This sounds like what some fat tub of shit says after finishing their 3rd tub of Ben & Jerrys. "Why should I deny myself the simple pleasures of life! I'm living! I'm not one of those idiot gymrats!" (gulping / lip smacking sounds)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:55 PM
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While this is accurate, this messaging is part of the problem. Many other places (Japan, France, etc) have just as busy lives, yet they aren't fat. Many other places are not walkable and have sedentary jobs yet they aren't fat. At a certain point, you have to look at the culture and attitudes of people. Most of the places I've listed above will shame the shit out of fat people (especially asian countries) and in America fat people are virtually considered a "Protected Class" with a "disability" …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:52 PM
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their competition anxiety will kick in sometimes I'd say most times. The switch that I've seen go off with women between "indifferent and aloof" to "attentive and flirty" when they see another woman (especially a hotter woman) giving you attention was one of the most distinct Red Pill revelations I've had. Women will deny they do it, but It's very very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:46 PM
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Is this like how people telling you things you already know is labeled as “mansplaining”? Is it like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:47 AM
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You are not an "ally" to men if you are trying to "Both Sides" the Depp / Heard case. That is all. Heard, in addition to her being insanely abusive, and admitting to repeatedly attacking JD, chasing him through the house, telling him to "not be a baby" for trying to leave escalating situations, she also... you know wrote a whole goddamn article calling him a woman beater and herself a victim which resulted in him being dropped by Disney from untold projects and opportunities. She did this after …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:19 AM
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Your whole OP can be boiled down to “what about women”, Another woman posts. Another woman proves the entire point of the OP. Congratulations. Women on this thread are not doing themselves any favors, I have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:58 PM
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Wow. I guess I've been living in the matrix all my life since I've seen it continuously. Or maybe, you know, it's you who has taken the Blue Pill and refuses to see the ugly truth around you because it makes you teh sadz?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:38 PM
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They necessarily do it because they are women (although there are specific ways in which women abuse that men generally don't) they get away with it because they are women. Maybe you need to see what happens when this plays out in real time? And chalk up another one with the "whatabout men" derailment and dismissive nonsense. Women can't seem to help themselves. It's like how they bring up rape and murder every time a man talks about how his wife repeatedly cheated on him and took half his shit.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:35 PM
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Is that kind of like how women love men who beat them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:25 PM
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For every woman in a relationship, there is a man in a relationship Wrong. Soft harems are a thing. There are tons of women who are in Chad's rotation and deluded themselves / using plausible deniability (as women tend to do) that they are "dating" End result - 1 very attractive man gets 5+ women because he's hot, and women willingly (if begrudgingly) 'share' him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:03 PM
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Average/below average guys can also get girls by having a nice/fun personality (in a honest way), though those girls probably weren't out of their leagues to start with, and they require a ton of attention and 'maintenance'... Solution? Date only who you really like, preferably because you like her personality, and remain single if you have to...try to focus on other stuff and enjoy life as much as possible in the meanwhile, there really isn't anything we can do about it. Honestly, I wish we cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:01 PM
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More "Both Sides" nonsense. Nobody ever does this when a man is accused. There is no "Team Chris Brown" or "Team Cosby" or even a team "Marilyn Manson" even though Evan Rachel Wood by all accounts entered that twisted relationship willingly because she was star struck. But, when a man willingly simps for a woman because she's hot or he's desperate, suddenly there's no "abuse of power" on the woman's part no matter what kind of awful shit she gets up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:30 PM
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I'm saying is it healthy for women to chase rom-com fantasies and prince charming and the "top man" at all times because "she's worth it" If you think the mental state of modern women is A-Ok, and they aren't lamenting all manner of shit related to men, have at it. Out here IRL, that is definitely not the case. Women are absolutely poisoning their own minds with OLD and Social Media.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:28 PM
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Women always chose among the top men available. The issue is that now "available" is every top man on Tinder. You think that's healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:11 PM
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Answers like this always conveniently forget the elephant in the room: Hypergamy Women's "choices" are notoriously relative to the available pool, and not any objective criteria. Women want the top men, and if all men get better, that simply means the definition of "top men" goes up accordingly. So, in the "bad old days" where women were supposedly "forced" to get with what you would today call "mediocre men", from a woman's perspective, they were still high value as they were providers and like…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:10 PM
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I have no idea what you mean. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:44 PM
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So basically living in 1984 where you can only toe the official line that "women are wonderful" 24/7 and only speak the blatantly obvious truth in anonymous internet ghettos. Does that sound like a healthy society to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:50 PM
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Do you afford the same consideration to the the men accused of shitty / abusive behavior? Because society-at-large sure as shit doesn't. It's telling how you take her hearsay story about Depp the and "glass bottle" as truth, but can't judge Heard's that she is on tape admitting to and declaring she'll do again because "I really don't know her" Doesn't that tell you something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:43 PM
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Change it to "check your own oil" and start again. You're trying to be obtuse to pretend you don't get the broader point of people being praised for shit that seems "not hard" to another demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:30 PM
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At what point in civilization has this "soft power shield" been so weaponized against men for so many invented transgressions up to and including the mere act of being a heterosexual male?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:09 AM
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The only women that I would suspect of harboring toxic tendencies are those on FDS, Do you date women? Because if you think the kind of behavior Heard exhibited is some kind of rare anomaly I have some bad news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:58 AM
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Absolutely, and what makes it even worse (to me) is that I'm an old school "blue collar" liberal type who wants unions, universal health care and strong social safety nets. But the feminist / woke / identity shit has converged to utterly hijack any of that to the point that it's creating mass resentment among men. Those men cannot and will not express that resentment publicly for fear of social consequences (see: James Damore) Guess where that resentment can be expressed and not censored or puni…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:56 AM
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Fair definitions. No argument. However, the fact is women have far more levels at their disposal for the use of "soft power" up to and those with the potential to be socially and financially ruinous and generally zero consequences for abusing them. They also very rarely face consequences for using "hard power" (he made me stab him with a fork!) Men risk long jail sentences for using even a minimal amount of "hard power"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:50 AM
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lol again, proving how rather than confronting the issue, women choose to create some strawman and gaslight to deflect from any scrutiny. Men: There is a very negative and poisonous environment causing men to feel alone and isolated and kill themselves in droves. We should analyze the ways that cultivate this phenomenon, including the contributions of the recent and rapid rise in misandrist / gynocentric tendencies play into this and how women are propogating it. Woman: Stop acting entitled to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:44 AM
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Except I repeatedly acknowledged the unique forms of abuse particular men levy on women. But, like clockwork, here come the Bloops to "both sides" this for no other reason than to be dismissive of a real issue: Women get away with a ton of toxic shit with zero consequence, socially or otherwise because of a plethora of issues that cause society to give women the "pussy pass" including feminism, women are wonderful, wokeism, misandry, and the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:36 AM
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The only "hard power" in this case is a man jumping out of the bushes or otherwise overpowering you and forcibly raping you. ​ How many times do you hear women claim they were "pressured" into sex. Apparently "coercive" sex is "hard power" even though the women can say no and leave at any time. But women using their own forms of subtle blackmail is not a concern at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:33 AM
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I have had at least 3 girlfriends stand in front of the door or grab me when I tried to leave so we could both cool off (in one case, leaving my own house) because the argument was getting too heated and out of control. But sure, no women on PPD have ever heard of this happening and it's such an incredibly rare thing for women who are so deathly afraid of violent men. They won't /#believemen on this no matter what because they never did it, or they've hamstered away the times they've behaved lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:31 AM
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I should have added this to the list of excuses women give to not give a shit to men's issues: "It's MEN's place to do it!" also women "YOU BETTER CARE ABOUT ALL OF OUR ISSUES!1!1"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:22 AM
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I don't see her as an abuser at all Big surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:20 AM
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they don't go crazy for good dick necessarily. lol. you don't understand how women work. Settle down E-Alpha. You've clearly never seen a "dickmatized" woman in your life. Unless you have aspergers, clearly when the term "good dick" is used, it's a euphemism for "man that soaks her panties" But, by all means, use that inability to detect subtext to go on a really cool rant about incels or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:23 AM
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the evidence that made us convinced that Amber was BAD is falsified So, Depp shit talking and venting in anger to a friend now = actual violence. Got it. If you can hear the AUDIO of the things Amber Heard said and admitted to talking directly TO Depp and still say this... well, we have nothing to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:14 AM
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Asked and answered in OP: The one and only reason Heard isn’t being universally heralded as a “survivor” and a “brave warrior for victims” is because there was literal audio recordings of her point-blank saying what she did, and even that she’d do it again. That’s where we are. That’s what it takes for even some women to finally stop defending another woman A woman on tape saying "I did hit you, and I won't promise I'm not going to do it again" is what it takes for a notable percentage of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:04 AM
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not at all lol. amber heards are everywhere. but tbh i think dudes love those types anyways. they just get mad after she ruins his life, not while she's giving bjs in sailor costumes because that's what life's all about! I hate how true this is. And I'm man enough to admit that I've played myself this way. Ever notice how women on PPD can never admit to acting a fool for good dick? Like ever? They were always "manipulated into it" and he used his "power and influence" to "take advantage of her" …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:59 AM
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Whoosh. Yes, they are. What happens when they try to talk about said women, much less "call them out" as often happens to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:53 AM
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Lol uh-huh. His huge crime: Exchanging texts with newly un-personed Brian Warner. Just read this shocking exchange!: Warner: “I got an amber 2.0, Lindsay just [pulled] an amber on me…please delete.” Depp: “I been reading A LOT of material on that and sociopathic behavior…it is fucking real my brother!! My ex-cunt is goddamn TEXTBOOK!!!” They spoke poorly of women! The horror! the horror! Burn the heretics! Burn them ALIVE!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:45 AM
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It's not the crime, it's the cover up. And women (and to a large extent western society) undeniably cover for women in this way constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:38 AM
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Not all scars are visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:26 AM
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You forgot the "mmkay?" Also, can you recommend any other ABC After School Specials?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:24 AM
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Ok, not gonna engage anymore if you are stuck on the OP literally meaning "The individual known as Amber Heard is the cause of men's problems" Like, really? That's what you got out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:22 AM
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Cool. I love when responses help bolster the case in the CMV: There is also a very common refrain from women when they see a woman do something like cheat, lie or attack a man: “Well, what did he do to make her do that?!?”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:21 AM
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Did you miss the fact that I specifically differentiated the two acts, but specifically called out the incredible disparity between the two? One gets immense attention and sympathy. One gets zero attention and often scorn and riducle. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:20 AM
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Except if rabid feral cats were breeding and attacking people left and right in a neighborhood and giving the kids rabies, we wouldn't be celebrating them, dismissing it or in many cases encouraging it because "I know somebody who got mauled by a pit bull"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:18 AM
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We have a winner. I'm convinced people in this thread pretending to not get this are doing just that. I did my best to include examples of this stuff in the OP, but I guess that wasn't enough. People are pretending to believe I literally meant Amber Heard's specific existence is "causing men harm"rather than the fact that I used her as representative of the broader issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:16 AM
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Are you familiar with abstract concepts and broader thinking about issues? Feminists like to do this a lot. I guess only they get to talk about nebulous cultural issues like "rape culture" and "the male gaze"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:13 AM
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lol - you're going with rap music huh? that's your great equalizer? A.) We know why rap music gets a pass. I'm not going to go over the way the 'oppression pyramid' works, but Patrice O'Neal addressed this better than I can. Listen to this for the 10 seconds follwing the clip start and you'll get it. I'm curious where you might fit on that list? 🤔 B.) For some reason, I remember eminem being protested pretty frequently over his lyrics. C.) Rap music and some social media manosphere ghettos vs Ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:10 AM
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No. But it is one that will get you cancelled or at the very least labeled a misogynist for saying out loud. Now do "dudebro, neckbeard, incel, predator, creep, groomer" all happily yelled at men in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:35 AM
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You're doing it right now. This is the derailing opression olympics "women have it worse" tactic that is contributing to men feeling absolutely worthless and unworthy of help and it permeates all aspects of western society. You also somehow skipped right over the 4x suicide rate for men while pointing out the obvious - that men are stronger and can inflict more physical damage. We get that. It's real. We address that. Everybody acknowledges this is a huge problem and untold billions have gone to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:33 AM
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I do not say that, nor does society at large. You have a subset of the RP / Manosphere types that say that shit occasionally and it's usually trolling. Nobody in "polite society" ever publicly says this and if they did they would get crucified.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:28 AM
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Yeah who ever heard of a drunk hookup? I mean, it's not like that's happened as an accepted part of adulthood throughout human history or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:23 AM
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Nah I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:38 AM
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Also, why are they just "tolerating" it? What are you doing? Be suave, man. Wow. Mystery solved. Everybody can go home. Hear that PPD? That's all it took. "Be suave, man" I'll put that on the list right under "treat women like people" and "take a shower"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:28 AM
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You're really not getting this are you? The analogy is basic life skills. Basic life skill: Microwaving a prepared meal, going to a restaurant, making oatmeal, a burger, a steak. I guarantee you most men can do that. Basic life skill: Taking a train, bus, lyft, etc. Most women can do that. Non-basic life skill: Preparing Chicken Parmesean with a risotto from scratch. Non-basic life skill: Changing a vehicle's oil and filter in a driveway. Are you getting it now? I know you can do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:26 AM
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You know that "poison M&M's" analogy that women love to use? Yeah... that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:17 AM
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sober enough. AKA weasel words that can be used retroactively based on whether she regrets it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:13 AM
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They're not comparable? Basically, if you take the bus you are using a vehicle. Just like if somebody eats at a restaurant they are still "having dinner" So, by your standard, if a man has access to prepared meals and restaurants, why in the hell would you judge him and shit on him for not know how to make an elaborate dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:03 AM
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Funny, every woman on the internet has claimed to ask for "consent" before so much as holding hands. Number of times I've experienced this or seen this in real life for everything from kissing, to 'surprise blowjobs'? Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:01 AM
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Change it to "check oil level" and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:59 AM
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Kind of like how you can ignore the oil change interval on your car (I know many women who do) learn to read and set the gauges in your car that tell you when it's time for an oil change, or learn to change the oil yourself? Kind of like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:57 AM
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Exact same amount of drinks / intoxication: Willingly have sex with Chad after getting a chorus of yass kweens from the henhouse at the bar and he calls back: "I was a little tipsy! we had some fun teehee!" Willingly have sex with guy she's on the fence about, that the henhouse disapproved of because he had a gf: "I was blackout drunk! He raped me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:38 AM
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In other news: Restaurants and prepared meals exist. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:32 AM
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Cool. When will you turn yourself in?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:31 AM
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Are you saying all women know how to cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:29 AM
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Do you think men are simply not eating / feeding themselves? Do you cook a candlelight dinner 3x a week? We are talking about men who don't typically want to sit there with a recipe book, just like women don't want to figure out how to change a tire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:28 AM
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This sounds like Simpanese for "Let me simultaneously big myself up for cooking, then talk about how it's pathetic it is when other men who try to leave their area of expertise (cooking) and get praised for it, as a means to show how much men suck, but avoid how the same is true for women and anything mechanical, because it doesn't suit my contention that men are uncouth and shitty"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:18 AM
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And if a woman were to change a man’s oil, what do you think the collective reaction of women and men would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:52 PM
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TIL it’s “rape” if you’re drunk and somebody makes a move. Also TIL, I’ve been “raped” dozens of times in my life. Just last week, in fact. Should I go to the police?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:50 PM
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Listen or don’t. To women? About how they (publicly) claim their sexuality works? I'll go with "don't".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:28 PM
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if someone lied to me in a way that offended me this deeply I would be reconsidering the relationship. Except, if you were a man and said this, you'd be labeled a misogynist as this guy was. “Leave” does not seem to be an acceptable answer. This is literally what RP would tell this man to do. Is this confusing? ​ I don’t care what men do on a personal basis. I’m not interested in them and don’t date them. Then... Masculine men do not expect women to fawn all over them like a lot of the men here …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:18 PM
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If you want someone to think you’re the sexiest thing on the planet, find someone who makes you feel that way. Isn't this what the fuck people are saying on this thread? ​ It’s very feminine to want to be doted on and adored and made to feel like the only person in the world, so good luck banging on with that. Lol. More women telling on themselves about how much a load of shit "men should share their feelings" is 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:07 PM
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And you are an extreme outlier, congratulations. I've had one situation like this that turned into a proper relationship. From almost day one this girl talked about how much I "turned her on" and made it very clear she wanted to fuck badly, but simply wasn't ready yet. Her n count was 1 at the time and it was a bad experience, so she was timid. I understood that. Now, contrast that with a girl who has spent 3 years banging every guy they were attracted to, and ignoring the guys they weren't - th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:16 PM
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If you think men only care about other men getting women than you might want to find new friends. I'll happily answer this question when you can point out where I used the word "only". ​ But truly I am interested in understanding why you think it’s so hard for men but easy for women. Are you seriously confused about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:14 PM
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Where is the bluepill "advice" for Dread Preselection Dual mating strategy Hypergamy Monkey branching Now tell me what percentage of boys are taught this shit from puberty the way women are taught "men are predators and will lie to get what they want" BTW - good job showing the BP gaslighting in action in real time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:07 PM
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If you're not fucking the guy in 5 dates, and not making it very clear you very badly want to - I'm sorry - you simply aren't that attracted to him. That's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:59 PM
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Another classic here: - Man matches with woman, exchanging messages - Man loses job, casually and jokingly mentions it - Woman blocks and unmatches man - People on reddit tell man it's his fault that he "dumped all that" on the woman (not your therapist / mommy etc) But remember, boys, women are the empathetic and gentle sex. In b4 "that's just one shitty woman! teehee" https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/wjbahz/blocked_and_unmatched/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:51 PM
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To some degree= the degree of “tolerating” sex, not actually desiring it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:39 PM
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Neither was your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:38 AM
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Once again, Team Women are circling the wagons around the sacred goddess of plausible deniability. If this doesn’t illustrate point blank how men aren’t allowed to express feelings about things, I don’t know what does. Women really are incapable of a shred of empathy for men. They seem mentally incapable of considering a point of view or existence other than their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:37 AM
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Nice try but bull. shit. It would be like telling woman she’s an absolute shitty man hating bitch for judging her man for watching porn or having used prostitues in the past. How often do you see that on Reddit? Oh yeah. Never. It’s also gaslighting on a societal scale because it implies the man is just having “invalid” and “unfair” feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:34 AM
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👆🏻More gaslighting. And just lovely how you skip over the part where the guys legitimate emotional reaction to the whole thing was not only invalidated but fucking crucified. THAT is the goddamn gaslighting. How do you hamsters not get this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:30 AM
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This is literally your go to rebuttal for everything that is remotely critical of women. Can we make a fucking PPD rule to stop these useless shit responses that have zero purpose other than to troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:28 AM
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Accountable: As in owning your past actions (likely from within the past 2-3 years) and not Hamster it away using some bullshit reasoning. The only proper accountable response would be something women would never say: “Me and my girlfriend saw this guy, who was irresistibly hot and wanted to fuck him. I didn’t do that with you because I didn’t find you that sexually exciting.” The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:26 AM
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That's because you've been taking dating advice from men and not listening to women. BWAHAHAHAHA.. Holy shit... AHAHAHA... fuck dude... stop it - comedy gold! 🤣😂😭 Male feminists. 😅 The unintentional comedy is always priceless. But, for the love of christ, please never - and I mean never give advice to boys. You will be setting them up for an absolute lifetime of misery and confusion and toward a possible statistic. So just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:04 PM
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And you don't get roasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:00 PM
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Oh yes, everything is equal at all times in all demographics. You know what else, "everyone sexually assaults" too! Ever kissed a man without asking? You're just like Brock Turner you predator! I must have missed our transition into a complete utopian and egalitarian society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:22 PM
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Women fucking who they want is not a problem. It's the lying about who and what they want on a mass scale so young men grow up and have a collective surprised pikachu face that their simp behavior doesn't actually appeal to the women who claimed it did, and that they wasted years or decades of their life believing the lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:20 PM
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downplay things women do to date men. ​ Don't be fat Exist Very tough indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:18 PM
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"Women and children first" Sure that was all a myth that came out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:17 PM
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Fair. As a facilitator of opportunity, Money absolutely helps a lot. As a means of creating primal attraction, it helps not at all, and can actually hurt in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:15 PM
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Did you miss the memo that women "exploring their sexuality" (ie fucking a ton of men) is "empowering"? How are you comparing this with a literal crime lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:13 PM
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Lol the fuck they do. What's a man's "reward" for helping a middle aged fat woman up after she falls off of her Rascal? Literally can't win: Help women altruistically: "Ur just an !nc3l that wAnts S3x!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:08 PM
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Lol no. No they don't. For you to "both sides" this comparing how girls are told about how "boys lie and rape and slut shame and cheat, and do all these bad things" vs "oh, girls are nice, nurturing and kind. always believe them! always! we even have a hashtag about it! Oh, and when they do get caught lying or cheating, it's because men somehow made her do it. iNternAliZeD misOgyny!" For fucksake dude, men are guilty until proven innocent (Depp, Aziz, Mattress Girl target, etc etc) while people …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:04 PM
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I mean if a "ur gay" comeback is your definition of "defeat" then... sure. You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:53 PM
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When you cite an article that specifically calls out how shut-in and disengaged a large majority of people have become from dating in general, what are you contributing to a conversation about people who actually and actively date (or try to)? How is that not at least misleading and at best gaslighting. We are discussing people "in the game"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:57 AM
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lol yes they "tried it" dozens of times while claiming that they "only do monogamy" publicly. Why do you see it as controversial that women are utterly clandestine about their true sexual nature? Men admit their perversions. Women hide theirs desperately until you-know-who comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:56 AM
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Lol wut? no. It's not changing that fast, it's just less socially acceptable for women to admit their actual "problematic" thoughts and true nature because it goes against the current feminist narrative that "gender is a social construct" or whatever the fuck. Hypergamy is as rampant as ever. The only thing that has changed is what "status" means in women's eyes. It used to be having more goats, now it means having more followers or being "a really good guitar player" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:52 AM
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No. Men have an inbuilt protective instinct for all women. I myself have a primal urge to "check on" a woman in distress whether she's fat, old, ugly, whatever. I do not have this urge with men (I will do it anyway, but it is not coming from the same primal drive) This is the kind of gaslighting that creates frustration in the manosphere. You know it's not true, but you say this anyway. Men are taught to defer to and help women at every turn from boyhood. They are also taught that they are the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:44 AM
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Yep. That feminism sure is making women want to fuck less dominant and toxic men and make them want to not do "problematic" things in bed. Seems to be doing a bang up job there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:37 AM
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then please explain why there are so damn many "women's" this and "women's" that charities, movements and campaigns if it's just so all-encompassing? And do not say "it's because women did it!" - because that's a.) a cop out and b.) bullshit anyway. For fucksake, women getting "anxiety disorders" because of instagram is treated with far more urgency than men actually killing themselves. That doesn't strike you as odd?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:33 AM
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>Men lie, women lie cabrón. Cool story. Now which gender's lies are openly discussed, warned against and vilified openly and often in every facet of life, cabrón?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:31 AM
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Men talk the way men talk. It's not your place to language police how they vent or express issues that are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:29 AM
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Women are taught to manipulate men from the time they cal walk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:29 AM
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Defending a girl that literally pleaded with her "friend" to kill himself is so on-brand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:27 AM
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Stuff like THIS reply is why the manosphere has become so popular. Egg fucking zactly. How do women on PPD not understand this by now? When you label literally everything as misogyny, toxic masculinity, rape culture, white supremacy, racism and sexism what's left for somebody who has questions, but knows the mere asking of these questions might have some internet SJW doxxing him and calling his work? What man in their right mind isn't going to seek out a 'safe space' for those discussions? Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:25 AM
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You mean like 2x, FDS, Gender Critical, The Mary Sue, Jezebel, etc etc etc All things that are basically mainstream and accepted in polite conversation nowadays? Men get ... hooters. Sounds fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:19 AM
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Hypergamy exist. But RP’s version makes it impossible to verify or falsify. I Lol. This is gold. "Yes, this thing I said doesn't exist in fact does exist, but not in the straw man way I like to frame my opponent's argument says it exists" Holy shit. I have to use this in my next argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:18 AM
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Notably, no response to this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:08 AM
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I'm probably older than you. I plenty of experience direct and observed. If you are claiming that boys and young men are not gaslit and deceived about women's actual sexual nature and basically forbidden to discuss it openly even into adulthood you are doing men a disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:06 AM
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Lol here railing against men trying improve their romantic lives and claiming women are an oppressed class at the hands of men. also "I never had anything against men"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:05 AM
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Gaslighting. We are talking about social people who attend parties, go out, etc. People who are in the "sexual market place" Did you miss this part? ""The new generation of young adults became more individualistic and less social in real life, but more involved in social media and online gaming networks," said Lei. "The changes in how young people socialize affect their opportunity to have casual sex,"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:04 AM
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Because women CLAIM this shit all the time. Women are absolutely duplicitous in how they portray themselves and what their actual sexual behavior is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:01 AM
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So, because you found a certain church mouse means that women don't engage in rampant double lives where they use plausible deniability to frame themselves as only having sex in an LTR with "good male feminists" but actually banging the tattoo'd chad in the bar bathroom on girl's night? That is the point the guy made. Women present a face to the world that is deliberately deceptive. They talk one way and act a completely different way. Then you wonder why boys (who are often raised only by women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:00 AM
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All the older men I see following them are brokies or losers with no redeeming qualities that wonder why women don’t want them. Look everybody, another concept RP talks about. Women spouting their "just world fallacy" to wish away that many misogynistic get laid a lot. What's next? "Leo only likes young women because women his own age won't have him!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:55 AM
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Women have these resources in their back pocket because they were once an oppressed group and still are to an extent. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:52 AM
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I don’t know any women that think like this. Seriously? Do you live in a fucking cave?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:50 AM
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Lol a couple of strawmen about women's small brains, and then a pathetic attempt at a GOTCHA! because he admitted that RP isn't 100% unbridled truth, so therefore it contains no truth because it makes some girls feel teh sadz by calling women out on legitimate shitty behavior. Is this supposed to be compelling stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:47 AM
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lol you may as well have just written "nuh-uh" The man schooled you and all you can do is say "Akshually, those numbers are fake" or "The advice is dogshit because it says mean things about women!" Seriously that's your rebuttal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:45 AM
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Hilarious. These people must never have had any Chad / Fuckboy friends. The shit they would talk about the women, what they did, how they smelled, etc when they were just around "the boys" would shut them up from their "Hot guys are nicer!" shit real quick. Think of Stiffler from American Pie. That shit is far more common than whatever rom-com fantasy these women are imagining.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:41 AM
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Lol seriously? That's what you're going with? "She said she did it but she didn't actually do it?!" I somehow doubt you made this same argument with Trump's "locker room talk"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:39 AM
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Lol - let's get this straight - Cardi B literally drugging and robbing men (basically the female Cosby) because they had the audacity to think they were entering into an agreed upon and consensual transaction in which they were not only robbed blind, but could have died as a result of the drugging is a "both sides" situation, but ladder climber wannabe female comedians watching Louis CK beat his dick after he asked, were innocent victims of a horrible monster with no agency whatsoever. Yes, who …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:38 AM
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Learning how to search for women who want to be approached , approaching girls in an agressive but considerate way, not being creepy, making conversation, making her laugh, connecting with her emotionally, challenge her, tease her, make fun of yourself, be mysterious, be risk taking, smoothly asking for numbers, dates, flirting, setting up the date, picking her up, making more conversation, touchy her smoothly, knowing which boundaries to push, how to creative with flirting, etc. A-fucking men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:16 AM
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Schrodinger's slayer strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:08 AM
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lol @ comparing women that sleep around with men who do so. This is like saying a man who can stay underwater for 5 minutes isn't really exceptional because fish do it longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:06 AM
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Could be. Or it could be that your wife's vagina emits a rotten codfish scented yeast that oozes down her leg when her depends come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:56 AM
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Lol absolute nonsense spoken like a 15 year old who has never had a whiff of pussy much less talk himself into some. There is such a thing as "Sexy Ugly" There are girls who want to fuck Adam Driver, Tony Soprano and Hugh Laurie. Those guys would be told to just give up and play video games by depressed blackpillers. That's not even counting the countless ugly comics who have literal groupies. Their sex appeal lies in their mental frame, swagger, confidence and IDGAF attitude. Ugly guys can use …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:41 AM
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I wasn't too happy about the taste tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:32 AM
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Lol the two biggest misandrists bigging eachother up. Huge surprise. Nothing is women's fault. Everything is men's fault. You left out the biggest item on that list: "Women vote with their pussy" That's it. The end. Cry about it. Get salty. That's the fucking truth, and women need to own it. Men's need for women's approval and attempts to please them may be a problem, but it's certainly not one that women are making any attempt to stop when it serves their needs (Pink baseball bats anyone?) Wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:24 AM
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IME, with most of the girls that Stan these femboys, it's not even a sexual thing but a weird idolization thing. It's literally like pre-pubescent girls drawing hearts on their Tiger Beat with New Kids On The Block on the cover. It's my hunch that these girls aren't primally getting wet and dreaming of these twinks "taking" them sexually, the way they would with say, Jason Momoa or Chris Evans. It's a "they're sooo cuuuuute!! heat emoji!" type thing. K-pop guys might as well be dickless mannequi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:50 AM
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The only women I've ever met that like "men" that look like the guys in those pics are very young tweenybopper types of, oddly, weird older cat ladies. No hot western twenty-something is trying bang a guy that looks like a animatronic mannequin who wears more makeup than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:05 AM
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So basically "Younger women don't find older men attractive, except when they do" If you mean they don't want to bang average older guys - Then say that. Say: "Men who let themselves go and don't stay in shape will not have success dating women" You know who also doesn't bang women in their 20's? Pasty skinny fat boyish looking guys with no masculinty. Somehow their age doesn't save them does it? But you won't say that because RP has already been saying that for a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:02 AM
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In Calirofnira, I've noticed a ton of (attractive) white women going for Asian dudes in the past 10 years. Granted, it's generally the more masculine asian guys, but still - it's great to see them break out of that stereotype slowly but surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:07 AM
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This entire OP may as well have just said: "My dad left my mom for a young hot woman, and now I'm pissed and I'm going to lash out with great vengeance furious anger!" But let's go over it again: Men are made, women are born. Because of this, some men are "made" into better men in their later years. Plenty of men were dorky and un-masculine in their 20's and grow into their looks (build, face structure, style, etc) later. Masculinity is funny like that. Neotenous facial features, while popular w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:53 AM
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Yes. My e-dick is 12 inches too. Step up to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:25 PM
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Women just don't want men to treat them like they're inferior, but actual equals on this earth. No. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:23 PM
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there are multiple jokes and memes about guys who start to work out hoping to attract female attention and then finding it’s only men who notice and complement them on their gains. Gymcels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:20 PM
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I would say those numbers are slightly under average This has and always will be the most annoying shit people that frequent the Body Building forums will do... Lol "slightly under average" lifting over 1k You realize how much this e-statting shit fucks up people who are trying to get into lifting right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:16 PM
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Yeah this is some hilarious shit. This isn't some new phenomenon. Most of PPD must be too young to remember shit like "Tiger Beat", etc, but young Leo and Depp were basically "eboys" - They had very attractive yet somewhat feminine features. They've always primarily appealed to Tweens and a niche of older nerdy women. Regardless, this is just a matter of winning a genetic lottery with perfect cheekbones, nose and eyes and facial proportions. Just lol at this as "advice" "Just have a model's face…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:47 PM
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... and people wonder why we need something called "The Red Pill" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:23 PM
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I have a life long friend who does exactly this and always has. He is a 40+ year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:17 PM
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Forget it - this little one's not worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:15 PM
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is at least a bit less than the standard ​ This also goes for short men. Are you crusading for them? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:10 PM
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Lol based on these posts, there's no fucking way those men don't know there is a judgmental eye on them and they will act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:09 PM
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Trust me. You do not want to be treated the way men treat eachother lol. Stop it. Every time I or another guy treat a woman they way they treat other men they get called misogynist assholes lol. Women don't want to be treated like "people", because men treat other men pretty brutally. Women want to be treated like porcelain dolls because that's how they think "people" should be treated, and that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:07 PM
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Almost every good relationship I've ever had started with sex relatively soon with one exception and she was basically a virgin. So... the timing of sex has zero to do with it. Looking at sex that you "let him do" to you certainly would have a lot to do with it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:35 AM
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Explain to the class how strip clubs, sex workers and porn "feed a man's ego" This is exactly the type of shit OP was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:05 AM
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Hugh Grant entered the chat. https://pagesix.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/3/2021/03/liz-hurley-hugh-grant-divina.jpg?quality=75&strip=all&w=1200
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:40 AM
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Where do you think things like TRP came from? It came from men being shamed, ostracized and demonized to the point they had to retreat to some dark corner of the internet to get answers. All the mainstream / normal ways men had to related to eachother and just be men have been completely shut down because they might make a delicate woman "feel uncomfortable" In the last 20 years we have simultaneously deified women while demonizing men. That doesn't strike you as something that might have conseq…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:16 AM
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>Women like what women like You don't say?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:07 AM
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all I’m saying is That isn't "all you're saying" in any way shape or form. You are merely trying to regurgitate feminist talking points by dismissing any unique male issues outright or simply lumping them into "people problems" Funny how when women have an issue it's a WOMAN problem that the whole world has to rally around, yet men killing themselves in droves is just a "PEOPLE" problem and we shouldn't conduct any outreach because becky tried to overdose on cough medicine after sending out 10 t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:37 PM
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I’m attracted to femininity in men Lmao. This explains the lack of any kind of perspective resembling the reality men live in. Congratulations on being an extreme outlier. Most women's pussies run far far away from emotional / feminine men. The vast majority are also repulsed from Bi men. Go ahead and shame men for their biology. Pussy / women's approval reigns supreme for men. Women consider this men being "weak" and "dogs" because women don't have to fucking walk around with a dick, balls and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:25 PM
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All correct. I felt chemically castraded on oral Fin, so that was out. Been using a topical fin / min spray as a last ditch experiment (I already buzzed my head, but just seeing if anything happens) if not, I'm ok sailing into the sunset with a buzzed / shaved head and a beard. Hair transplant was never gonna be a good option as I had the very delineated crown balding (bald spot) in the back which is the hardest to get coverage of with a transplant. It's also the worst place because if the spot …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:17 PM
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lol no. no they aren't. You spot the bad ones and have no idea how many guys have had good transplants. Machine Gun Kelly comes to mind. https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Toupee_fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:12 PM
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Same. Holy shit. My whole 20's I had the most beautiful long blonde hair. I was trying to pull the whole Axl Rose / Mike Patton thing in the 90's. Looking back, it was my whole identity. I wanted to look like an anime samurai or something. I dressed really nice to offset the "skater" look but looking back I most likely just confused people. After I finally cut my hair I had about 5 years before starting to really lose it to the point where I was visibly balding. I then started to keep a short be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:07 PM
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Not everybody can or wants to look like a generic UFC dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:55 PM
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>I'm not saying balding is better, of course not While this is certainly true for younger men, there are definitely instances of balding actually looking better. Generally older hypermasculine men. You think James Gandolfini would look "good" with a totally bald head? How about Jack Nicholson or Hugh Laurie? Nope. All are clearly "balding" but it works with their overall aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:50 PM
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As Chris Rock said, only women children and dogs get unconditional love. How can somebody be this obtuse about reality? A.) We are hard wired to "care for and protect" women B.) Men are punished by women for showing any weakness or helplessness which further discourages it. C.) When men DO try to help other men they are met with protests, hashtag campaigns and boycotts. Or those groups have to let women in or shut down entirely. This isn't a "rights" issue. The issue is societal and cultural hos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:33 PM
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>Pretty emotional retort from the “more rational” sex This preamble suggests the rest of the response would be predictable garbage. The rest of the post confirmed it. Side note: Is there a reason feminist's attempts at humor and wit is *always* just cringey "snark"? >I have yet to read any accounts of men being turned away as volunteers for youth groups or mens shelters because they can’t get laid. Goalpost moving (and more cringey snark). Men get labeled those things for merely *addressing* the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:24 PM
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>You realize you can actually do things to make this a reality right? Let's see if any of these ideas make sense... >Organizations already exist for men to mentor boys. ​ Like the boy scouts right? Oh wait. https://www.cnn.com/2019/02/01/us/boy-scouts-girls-trnd/index.html#:~:text=It's%20official%3A%20Girls%20can%20now,ages%20of%2011%20and%2017. >You can create advocacy groups to pressure politicians and administrators to encourage male teacher hires, and include more inclusive curriculum for al…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:33 PM
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As much as the issues about flirting / interacting at the one-on-one level is absolutely poisoned by the choice paradox women are presented with in the modern world, it is true that the only hack left is to focus on IRL. The issue is the same issues that have given women the overwhelming choices have also created an environment where people are less and less inclined to enter social situations IRL in the first place. As much shit as Billy gets for sitting at home watching porn and playing video …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:58 PM
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Hi. Did I frighten you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:48 AM
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It's always a shock to see an honest post from a woman on this subject. I'm not sure why this is so hard to discuss, because from my observation, about half of relationships start out that way. Yet, the hamster reigns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:43 AM
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I thought it was at the time, but I've since decided it wasn't. Too bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:33 AM
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In that case I've been raped by every woman I ever dated when they "woke me up with a blowjob" or slapped my ass without consent. Thanks for letting me know. Time to get the authorities involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:22 AM
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No no no. This is what women don't get because they don't fuck women. They don't see behind the sexual facade. It's not women you get from "dumpster diving" - It's lawyers, nurses, teachers and feminists that are like this too. Women live in this fantasy world where it's only some bar slut that gets down like this. It's fucking hilarious, but not surprising as most women cling desperately to the "just world fallacy" at all costs. WAY more women are this way than you would think. I've seen this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:52 AM
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No. I'm not saying you're lying, I'm saying that you have a sample size of one while men who date and have sex with women have a combined sample size of hundreds if not thousands. It also missed the fact that women are notorious about lying about this shit for a plethora of reasons. Again, not saying you are lying, but to ignore the fact that this lie is told repeatedly (ie "i'm not that kind of girl") doesn't really contribute anything. And as somebody else already said, it's not about pursuing…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:27 AM
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Lmao @ bloops thinking they are dunking on this question because "If she has sex she must be really into you" Meanwhile, countless claims here and in other subs about how women will have sex they were indifferent about because they were "coerced" or out of pity. Only people who haven't had a glow up and experienced the difference between duty sex and a girl that primally desires you would think this is some kind of own. You can tell when a girl thinks she's doing you a "favor" by fucking you, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:18 AM
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Money doesn't mean shit TBH. Sure you'll get sex, but it will be passionless or fake as fuck. I've known countless simp millionaires where I live. Those girls are passionately banging their drug dealer boyfriends while sugaring for the rich guy and giving him starfish at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:13 AM
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Check out all you want. You can't check out of your own nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:20 AM
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Women play trickster games with men ALL the time and in plain view (make up) but women will say/do anything to distract, diminish, deflect so they can keep their plausible deniability. And if their mask slips they play Damsel. This is so instinctual to them that it's like autopilot. When they feel like they could be exposed, a switch flips and will do/say anything to keep their appearances. Amber Heard entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:28 PM
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Outwardly: They frame it as manipulation, shallowness and being phony. Just look at this thread with all the women accusing men of trying to use "cheat codes" and "deception" to become more attractive to women. This, unironically coming from members of a gender whose entire sexual strategy is based around plausible deniability if not outright deception. Inwardly: It's disgusting to women's lizard brain because their evolutionary selection software relies on being able to separate "naturally gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:20 PM
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all seem to get really upset when people don't treat them with kid gloves? Now do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:17 PM
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This is amoral advice and an observation that will no doubt make many heads explode, but... I've noticed that showing kindness / helpfulness / empathy to an objectively ugly / fat woman in the presence of an attractive woman very often gets the attractive woman on your side and she becomes sexually receptive. Basically, a hot woman knows all men likely have an ulterior motive when being nice to her. But, if she sees you being nice to a person who is generally treated like shit / ignored, she wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:11 PM
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This thread I think represents it even more. https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vkim1f/am_i_a_creep_27m/ Guy has crush on girl, looks longingly at her Asks around about her then gets called "creepy" by girl. Asks what he may have done wrong. Pitchforks come out, dogpile on guy ensues basically calling him a rapist psycho. Think about it - if that was a woman or some hawt guy that all the girls liked "asking around" about somebody they had a crush on - would the guy get crucified lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:51 PM
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Because the idea that a man can create attraction with a woman who isn’t attracted is ludicrous. Lmao. Women: A man doesn't become hot until I interact with him and see him doing X - then ... swoon. Also women: OMG! you can't create attraction, neckbeard! The amount of times I've experienced women go from standoffish bitches to "let's fuck" puts the idea of not being able to guide attraction to rest. Typically developing people will not face more than a dozen rejections in a lifetime Please for …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:38 PM
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As somebody who was / is 100% liberal on social policies and fiscal policies, who has worked on 3 democratic campaigns in the past, has attended protests for liberal causes, I'm fucking done with yall. The circular firing squad that Obama referred to a few years ago will continue to render these self inflicted wounds on the left for the foreseeable future. The Obama years led to apathy, then Trump showed up and took advantage of that. Then metoo happened, then trans activism then it was off to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:22 PM
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One hot man can "date" several women. ​ That explains the flaw in your math. ​ The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:47 PM
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A quarter of straight porn searches by women are for videos featuring violence against their own sex. Five percent of searches by women are for content portraying nonconsensual sex. While men still search for significantly more porn than women, search rates for these more extreme types of sexual content are at least twice as common among women than men. https://www.vice.com/en/article/bm9w7v/why-are-so-many-women-searching-for-ultra-violent-porn ​ ... you were saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:36 PM
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