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Regarding the Columbine Shootings, Brooks Brown, one of the closest friends of the shooters, did an AMA about the whole thing (it's archived, you can find it on google). Having recently read the AMA, I couldn't help but raise a brow to this comment, especially after I clicked your link expecting something to do with David Cullen, and surprise surprise - the main source after skimming the article seems to be David Cullen. In Brooks ama, he mentions multiple times that David Cullen's book is essen…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 11:24 AM
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Time is your most valuable asset. Be Accountable. Book "4 Disciplines of Exeuction" is great. Replace the word "Organisation" with yourself and "Teams" with "parts of yourself". Change Yourself Before Changing the World. Accept Reality. Enjoy that life is a game! - You'll be 10x happier You can only live in your fantasy world for so long until you start to hate yourself. Learn Structures, Data Analysis. This is not for a job, but for your personal life - You can start with Excel, it's easy, fast…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 02:33 PM
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You're missing the point. It's not about being a snowflake. It's about keeping the quality of the sub in tact, and if you let random noobs run loose and not make them accountable for lowering the quality of the sub, then while it might seem like a "small thing" - if you let things like these slide, the sub will slowly but surely destroy itself from within from becoming low quality, and the people will move on saying "ehh, how did Redpill become so boring and low quality, it's not what it used to…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/21 07:28 PM
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How much does the whole process cost in a month? I'd like to try it out if it's less than 30 bucks.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/21 03:21 PM
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Not necessarily. There's only so much time in a day, and not everyone is willing to look at a new post and read it thoroughly without knowing if it's worth it. A good hook or a summary can make the person make the final decision. There's been plenty of times where I was skeptical of reading a post, but after opening it - I'm presented with an interesting premise or a TL:DR at the top or bottom that makes me want to read it all.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 01:24 PM
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Big if true Also - really enjoyed 👁⃤ Fantasy — It's Not Enough To Only Dream👁⃤ .
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 12:37 PM
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''coping'' and ''escaping'' also apply, perhaps helps someone get the memo.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 05:25 PM
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When a relationship is structured correctly, the guy gets what he wants (the ability to pursue his mission in peace while his partner helps) and the woman gets what she wants (the ability to help an alpha male pursue a fun mission). Woujo, with all due respect, this is pretty much what I said in my last paragraph, so I don't see how we're disagreeing here. That said, there are a couple of problems even with this argument : For this kind of a relationship to take place, one requires an insane amo…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 08:20 AM
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They understand that if a woman likes them for their status and money, she doesn't truly like him and he may have sex with her, but not get too emotionally invested in her. Someone gets it.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 04:44 PM
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Spotless post. couldn't find a single thing I disagreed with like some other posts in the past from you GLO. If there's one takeaway from your posts in general for me - it's your ability to keep the audience's attention with your use of language, examples, analogies and your overall writing style. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 09:10 AM
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You're trying to fit a square figurine in a triangle shape. Monogamous LTR relationships aren't natural. It's a bluepill fantasy. Imagine trying vetting a friend to see if you can be "Long Term Friends" and build a life together - no matter how good you guys are right now, you still have only half the control and life will happen. You can enjoy a long term relationship if you wish, but remember to not take it too seriously. Accept things for what they are instead of trying to use the Red Pill to…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/21 08:00 AM
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We're in agreement. All I'm saying is that it's not impossible to succeed if you look like a subhuman precisely because you have a choice.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 05:15 PM
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Looking like a subhuman will make it impossible for you to succeed. Incorrect. Lets say you wanted to buy a product, and the only thing you see at first is that it's price is $1000 dollars. You'd probably be thinking "hmm, that's a good amount of money, I'll pass." Well what if that product was a 100% cure for cancer and you had it? You'd suddenly be thinking "wow, only 1k for a 100% cure? That's ridiculous." The point is - a product's chance for it to be sold is not just based on the price, but…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 08:41 PM
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A big misconception in society is that men and women are the same. For one to win, the other one has to lose. At the end of the day - life is a competition. You can also view it as ''winning less'' if the word lose doesn't suit you. The bottom line is - someone is always winning more in any facet of life, and especially relationships. If a guy is getting what he wants (sex, peace etc) from the girl while giving her less of his time, commitment and energy to her - he is winning. If the girl is ge…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 11:07 AM
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The moment you recognise that you aren’t getting the results you want because you are not good enough, is the moment you know you got work to do. This is correct. The issue is that most people decide to escape / cope instead - vidya, booze, drugs, people...anything that dances around the thing that they actually should be doing. Everyone's guilty of doing this, the question is - to how big of an extent. The only true escape in this world is success.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 06:19 AM
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The same way beta males want women to accept their behavior as "alpha" , the same way losers want to convince others that they're valuable and the same way fat chick try to convince you that they're hot. It's a giant shit test to the world where low-value people try to cope with the fact they are, as their description suggests, low value. Instead of trying to change the world or look for excuses, change yourself and look for answers. The moment that you accept that you are evil, that you're a hy…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/21 01:48 PM
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I can agree with that. I will also let the majority pay this price so that I can succeed with the natural way and fulfill my own goals and selfish desires.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 10:15 AM
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I think he did a manouver that was talked about in the "Respect the Jab" post here a couple of days ago. Dude probably went full sperg mode, read TRP for the first time, got some "A-ha" type moments, thinking he now knows the wa6 and tried to take his boundaries back / go for what he truly wants as a man. It's not that trying to have multiple chicks in your LTR is something bad, in fact - it's natural. The problem was the execution, which makes sense cause most people who come here first turn in…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 01:34 PM
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Nice frame hold bro, you sure alphapad me.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 08:04 AM
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everyone playing their own optimal strategy turns into what we have now. And what's wrong with what we have? Redpill's problems are in a lot of ways very ''first world''-ish and not that important in the larger scheme of things. You're lacking perspective. Every guy on here thinks hes a top guy or will be in a couple of years. New Flash: Most of you will not be. Yes, ''relativity'' exists, which makes this impossible. monogamy would allow you to at least get some sexual advantages. Yes, but it's…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 09:42 PM
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Fundamentally, socially enforced monogamy, what the west was built on, was the sweet spot where everyone wins. Disagree. Men are not meant to be in a monogamous relationship. ''Women are the gatekeepers of pussy, Men are the gatekeepers of commitment''. When the woman gives up sex, the man has the advantage. When the man gives commitment, the woman has the advantage.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 10:53 AM
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Briffault's Law is not meant to be taken as 100% truth, but a pretty accurate pattern. Even Paretto's principle isn't always 80/20 in every situation, it's just a guideline. I choose who passes and fails my vetting process. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, women are the gatekeepers of pussy. You wouldn't be 'vetting' or 'choosing' anything if the girl didn't find you valuable in the first place. Because she can't easily leave me because I'm the shit, I have power. And yet she is still the …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 07:08 PM
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She is still running the scene. Even if you are 'the prize', It's because the female is deriving benefit from this type of an association with you, because for women - you being the prize is valuable to them (at least for a large portion of women, even if it's subconscious). You can be 'running the scene' as you put it and have all the game in the world, but if those things aren't valuable to her for whatever reason in that moment in time or at all - no association takes place. Even if you manag…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 03:45 PM
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It does. Men with Game = valuable to women, aka the female "benefits" from this association with the male. Remember - Value is always in the eye of the beholder, and unfortunately for most people (not just women) - their value systems are crap. You might have game, but some women will still find the overall product, aka you, not valuable for a variety reasons - your looks, logistics, how they feel - literally any reason you can think of. It's not that YOUR value is low necessarily, but that your…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 01:24 PM
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There's the petty revenge aka your one, and the real one - winning in life in the long term.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 08:23 PM
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Yes, 1 bad trip and you're fucked for life, becoming this guy. I'm surprised ''Let's cope with reality by escaping'' is something endored here on TRP. I don't know a single person I respect or who would be considered succesful that uses psychedelics. The best way to cope with reality is with reality. Embrace it.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/21 06:51 AM
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Yes, and I'm pointing out it's bad quote.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 09:51 AM
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Yeah, The Slight Edge is a memorable read for sure, leaves a positive dent in your subconscious.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/21 04:20 PM
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Shit advice. If you are spending time with your family just because its "what you should do as a man" as if its some sort of a responsibility and not because you want to, then that's stupid. There are plenty of valid reasons not to spend time with your family - no common ground or interests, bad environment for you mentally, not helping you achieve your goals etc. I understand why some people don't want to do anything with their family. Family and friends in general a lot of times are the bigges…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/21 08:52 PM
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At first, I thought it was just a solid post. Then, your last 2 paragraphs alone made this post an excellent one. You put a concept that I've been thinking about for a while in a way that's easy to understand. This concept doesn't apply just to the gym. It's one of the more important concepts of life itself. Always keep the momentum going. Objects that are in motion tend to stay in motion, be it a positive or a negative trajectory, so when you are on a positive streak - the key is not to stop. T…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 07:04 PM
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Compensating is not necessarily a bad thing, otherwise going to the gym for your personal aesthetics (even if you aren't insecure about how you currently look and just want to look even better) would be considered ''compensating'', when in reality - a person can absolutely improve in areas without necessarily being insecure about their current state.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 05:20 PM
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Read, lift, follow your passion, get OUT of the house, make money, and use your mouth to talk to people in real life. Follow your passion is terrible advice on it's own. Rest I agree with. Overall - a solid post.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 10:19 AM
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No. She's a plate.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:19 PM
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Yes, but see - that particular statement was black or white as well. You get the point.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:09 PM
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...but we do. You've never noticed other guys shit testing you, seeing how you respond to banter / quips etc? It's not just women who shit test. You are always playing the game, and everyone, including yourself, is testing you to see where you lie in the hierarchy and how you should be treated.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 11:29 PM
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Why is TRP so black and white? Simple. There are a lot of newcomers to TRP, and the best way to unplug them is by explaining things in black or white terms. If you constantly had to say "GIRLS WITH TATTOOS are sluts...but actually...there are cases when X or Y apply... so while it might be a red flag or a sign of impulsiveness, context still matters, so you will have to vet for yourself... Guess what? Someone who is plugged in will read that shit and think "Oh, thank god, so even Redpill says th…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 11:18 PM
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I've meditated before, even consistently for a couple of months 20 minutes a day. Not sure how much it really helped considering where I'm at now.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:38 PM
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My experiences tell me otherwise. Go figure.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:50 AM
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I ain't saying they are a cuck, I'm saying it's a red flag. Big difference.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:56 AM
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I'm not even sure what to answer to that. Good luck? Asktrp assumes everyone's an incel / cuck these days lmao.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:08 PM
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? Who said i'm judging. Ladied and gentleman, an assuming autist over here.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:48 AM
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So... my dick is never gonna be hard then? What's the point of becoming Redpilled then since you start looking at relationships rationally instead of emotionally? Like relationships are fucking useless unless you want entertainment and some memories. It's like a less instant-dopamine video game, but overall - is a pretty low-return activity based on the time-investment. Then you also have to deal with the fact that you can never fully control the other interaction, and that people don't have dis…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 04:08 PM
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I will just add that the fact you lost your virginity very recently makes me think that in your head you thought that sex will fulfill you in some way that other things could not, and you're now realizing that most of the time the juice isn't worth the squeeze and you should work on your mission (your business in this case). Great realization to have brother, this is a critical step in being able to maintain steady on your path to fulfill your mission, maybe bang a couple more chicks just so you…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 01:10 PM
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Fair comment. Yeah, It's not a huge issue, but I do want it resolved. Gonna experiment with a lot of stuff. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:00 PM
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lmao
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:13 PM
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Oh fuck, I just ate a clove in one go... fucking hell, you ate two of these a night? Guess I need to get used to them, but shit - pretty crazy. I wonder if my stomach is gonna hurt after ahah.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:30 PM
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Alright, got it. Thanks for sharing, will respond. Gonna see a girl tommorow, perhaps the garlic can help even if it's for 1 night ahah, not counting on it though.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:15 PM
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Alright, you've convinced me. Gonna go to the store now, try this shit out. Can you intake more than 2, and why exactly before night?
/r/askTRP19/12/20 03:16 PM
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Mate unless you're 50 and/or have heart disease or diabetes, the vast majority of these cases are due to one thing. Your heart and soul isn't in the same place that your head thinks you need to go. Youre focused here on externalities and superficial surface stuff, and you need to be asking yourself questions about the heart and soul instead. You mind is saying "I need to do this" but your heart and instincts are saying "Wait a fucking minute." You are right. In fact, you are precisely spot on. I…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 03:13 PM
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I am an experimental type of a guy, so I wouldn't mind doing shit like this. Could you expand on this, or is this just a classic trp shit-post. I can't tell.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 03:00 PM
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Here's the thing: it's great to have goals and work hard toward them, but what is the point of accomplishing them? It's not about necessarily achieving the goals. It's the chasing part (really chasing them, not fake-chasing), to having something to look forward to. Obsession is a good thing. Good luck achieving anything worthwhile with "balance". I'm not depressed either, in fact I'd say I'm happier than 99% of people. Anyone who gets to this level understands that nothing in life is better than…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 02:56 PM
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Trust me. A good amount of the things I liked should probably stay out of the bedroom. Definitely not first 1-5 time sex material. But sure, I'll try the anal thing a little bit.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 02:52 PM
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Fair enough. It's tough to get quick appointments these days though for obvious reasons, but might as well give it a shot.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 02:51 PM
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had a 2nd time already, still the same thing. But you know what? Good point about the psyching myself out. I think it might have to do something with that, where I'm trying "hard" to make shit happen, and instead I should take it a little more relaxed next time, figure out if that changes things.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 02:50 PM
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Don't drink caffeine. Good point about the fats zinc etc. Which are the mandatory supplements again? I think it's about time I start incorporating them into my routines. Zinc, magnesium... fish oil? What else if there is.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 02:49 PM
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I'm curious about the wine, actually. Since I don't drink and have no intentions to either, is giving them wine to drink solely by themselves fine? Guess I'll need to buy a wine bottle and test it out.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:17 PM
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Dude, I'm proud of you for being confident enough to pull off the "let's chill at my place for the first date" move. I gotta give you props for that. It's more of a "Let's meet at place x and then go from there" ... which always leads to my home ahahah, but hey, they don't refuse going to my place so It's not the worst. But sure, probably a difference in the expectations when it comes to the girl itself.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:12 AM
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You say that as if it's a bad thing. Friends are a waste of time unless your mission and goals align with their own. Otherwise - they are just human entertainment.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 09:29 PM
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Asking for advice on how to deal with situations like these in the future =/= being invested or scared.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 01:50 PM
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Thanks for the response, pretty much says it all.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:58 PM
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Yeah, moving on to the next.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 09:33 PM
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Chicks rely on their “emotions “ and if she didn’t wanna a fuck after your kiss, maybe improve your kiss skills or something related. Re-read. I went for the kiss, and was denied. But for sure a good point - don't think too much, but do try to learn from the experience.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 09:01 PM
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The best way is to forget about game and purely focus on yourself and work hard. Mixed feeling about this. I feel like it's a separate discipline. I think that Game is both marketing and your value (perceived and actual value). Of course focusing on yourself and increasing your "product" value is important, because then you need less "marketing" to sell yourself, but unless you have insane value (someone known, famous etc), you still need game, know how to keep convos flowing, escalating because…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 09:00 PM
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Exactly. I already don't like spending time with girls because it's a waste, if I could I'd just fuck / get BJs, but I need to get my skill up, even if I don't like the process too much atm.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 08:41 PM
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Stop calling her. 2 dates and no kiss and you wanna KEEP dealing with this girl? The fuck do you call this other than assuming that I'm a chump? Why would you write the comment like this if you weren't assuming shit, I just don't buy it. Either way, it doesn't matter, so It's whatever. Your 2nd and 3rd paragraph here resonates with my thoughts. Thinking about why this happened is not really worth it, gotta focus my energy on more important aspects of my game and go from there. Cheers
/r/askTRP24/11/20 08:25 PM
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Because you're asking about how to handle this situation vs just leaving. what do you mean with "just leaving" ? It's my apartment. I told her to leave. Now I'm asking how to improve and what to learn from this situation. Don't tell me you're the fuckwit type who thinks that every single person who's trying to ask questions here is a chump one-itis beta billy. That's an excuse for writing useless comments that do nothing but stroke one's ego. Trust me - there are genuinely people who are here as…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 08:12 PM
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bitch says she doesnt want FWB. next time tell her neither do you but you also dont wanna be LTR with a prude... That's kinda what I told her as she was readying to leave... but I didn't deliver it in a good way. Then again, I don't plan to be in these situations much, so perhaps it doesn't really matter how stupid I look when a situation like this happens, because you'd need some great game to get the girl back in there... but if you had great game in the first place, the situation wouldn't hap…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 08:06 PM
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? Maybe I had the wrong "marketing", gave off the mysterious BF vibe instead of the emotional fuckboy rollercoaster chad, which I just can't keep up for a long periods of time.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 07:59 PM
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when did I ever imply that? I've known her for less than a week pretty much, and did not text other than for logistics. Thought I didn't even need to say this, but apparently on asktrp everyone assumes you are a cuck even if you are looking for advice.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 07:56 PM
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Actors in Eastern Europe? Good luck haha. But yeah, definitely not bad advice, just gotta ask someone I'm acquainted with who's on the "ins" about that stuff.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:30 PM
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How much did the whole process cost and how'd you find someone to do a service like that? "Hey, I need some quality pictures to use for Tinder, can I hire you to do some shots of me at random locations to make me look cool?" - something like that?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:08 AM
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I have professional photos What do you consider "professional photos" though? Just high quality ones like you'd see on sites like unsplash, pixabay etc?
/r/askTRP13/10/20 10:39 PM
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Girls will waste your time if you let them. For example if I send an invite and they are avoiding giving a yes or no, hard next. True true.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:08 AM
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I don't drink coffee / tea and have no intentions of going on a coffee date, especially in the evenings.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:07 AM
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I haven't I got 2 dates this week from tinder. Hmm, I wonder how big the location factor is. I live in a city with 650k~ people, go figure. If I were you I'd invest in better pictures. Yeah, for sure. Images are huge, Gonna get a good camera and make some. The biggest problem I have with Tinder is that swiping itself takes a lot of time. Even if it's an 1-2 a month best case scenario, those two hours are still more important than the price spent on Tinder Gold.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:51 PM
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the answer is always the same forever - not enough ahah. Are you using Tinder Gold? I'm starting to think that if the price is worth it, I might just use it. Nothing wrong with paying for value if it's actually there.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:39 PM
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that's the way, my friend. Be valueable (increase SMV) and find ways to communicate that value in better ways, and once everything's done - deliver on the promised value.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 08:14 PM
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Getting flaked on is frustrating, but you need to screen girls and be ready to next them at the drop of a hat. Yes indeed. I feel like there's a whole perspective I'm not seeing when even 5's and 6's flake guys 24/7, like what the fuck is even going on in their lives for a flake % that high lmao.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:58 PM
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The problem was that the girl never wanted to go on a date with me in the first place. But then it's even more confusing to me, because they look at me at my part-time job with strong eye contact + greet me, touch me if I do convo's with them etc, and yet when I text them about logistics, it's a flake because "I have a presentation" or "Have to help my grandma on my only off day" , like what the fuck even is that shit. Maybe my sample size is too small right now, I only got about 8 numbers in th…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:38 PM
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I'm actually surprised why it's getting attention now. Woujo commented, and some other guys as well. No clue why it got traction when it's this old and not even that highly upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/20 06:33 AM
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see my long comment I made few days ago in my inbox. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill28/09/20 09:23 PM
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Hey Woujo, nice to see you here. In fact, about 3 years ago you were THE reason why I went from the seduction subreddit because of a post you made to visiting TRP for the first time and well...the rest is history. A lot has changed in the last 5 months (last 1.5 months, actually) since I made the comment. Was definitely a low-point for me. Bad Habits Watched a good amount of semi-questionable porn. Wasted every single day on Instant dopamine activities like watching Twitch.tv streams, procrastin…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 07:07 AM
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Doesn't matter. Not from U.S, if that's what you're asking.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:57 PM
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6'1 and 200 pounds is considered weak now? Like I get it ideally I could be like 220 ~ but I don't have that kind of budget to eat that much, food costs.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:18 PM
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3 meals + oatmeal drink, so 4 meals. good enough to remain at 200 pounds.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:43 PM
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It's not about comparing myself to others for me. It's more about feeling weak myself.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:12 AM
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There's no "lifting on and off" you're either training or you aren't. Like another guy said, your lack of consistency is probably the main factor. Read Martin Berkhan's article "Fuckarounditis" Fair. I will say that when I'm at the gym, I'm not in fuckarounditis mode, only thing I'm fucking around is with being on and off with gym in general, and that usually happens because I see no progress for a long time when I am consistent. Gets demoralizing after a while to see no improvement.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:10 AM
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Sounds like your not eating enough carbs. You need energy to gain strength especially if you’ve been lifting for so long. Bro all I have been eating is carbs. Chicken & rice every single day + oat meal etc, and some brown bread + bananas. It can't get more carb-liek than that, except for maybe more of that calory-wise. Lower the weight and increase the reps on another day and then go back to the lower rep ranges you’ll probably make progress that way Will do. Another thing I do is add 1.25kg My …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:08 AM
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Using it.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:01 AM
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Okay. Thank you.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:51 PM
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Man, your comment alone shows you're a good person. Thanks a lot, I'll save this comment and start implementing what I can immediately. One question that I do still wonder about and have not seen concrete answers - does it matter when you eat / drink protein? as in pre or after? Cheers
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:44 PM
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a slight surplus or the same (to not drop weight.) So if I'm ~200 pounds, then whatever that is to remain at that, something like 2800 I assume.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:30 PM
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Love your stuff. 1 x body weight bp and squats is absolutely fine in my opinion. I don't want to be a comparing Andy, but how's that fine when some dudes are lifting more in a year? our problem is very probably bad technique. especially if you can't deadlift more. take videos and post to some relevant sub like powerbuilding and ask for correction. Could be. I'm overanalyzing a lot, so I constantly worry about my form. It's as if even if I had the best form, I wouldn't be sure that it's correct s…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:26 PM
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Hmm, interesting. Since he's an online coach, perhaps I could ask to find a way to contact him, privately of course. Worth a shot.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:18 PM
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I'd say around 120g of protein. Sleep quality is great - 8 hours at least, rarely less. Not sure about vitamins, minerals etc, but around 2 years ago my Test was 586 iirc.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:16 PM
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Get an online powerlifting coach How's that work? You haven't gotten any coaching at all in real life?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:11 PM
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Consistency is key. Either I'm super consistent or really off. I can admit that. There are periods where I've not skipped going 6x times a week for 2 months straight. Overall though, I'd say I'm going around 3-4 times a week when I'm going.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:10 PM
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Conan the Barbarian
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:51 AM
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BEYTA
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:50 AM
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...no? Your point was this. It's a lot like people who can't be alone. The only people who can't stand being by themselves are people whose company sucks to be around. If you can't tolerate it, it's because you suck. Which I don't agree with. Whatever, not important.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:46 AM
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It's a lot like people who can't be alone. The only people who can't stand being by themselves are people whose company sucks to be around. If you can't tolerate it, it's because you suck. Actually don't agree. My biggest strength is my solitude, I love being on my own. That said, I do think that people who can't be alone are mostly just insanely bored, hooked on dopamine spikes. Quite simply - socializing is an addiction for them, just pure dopamine. Same for gamers who can't sit still for 2 ho…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:03 PM
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Fair. I've been thinking that... I should think less and do more. Just better.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:01 PM
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Hmm, you know man... I'm not sure there's a point in knowing "how deep the rabbit hole goes". What's the point of truth anyway if it doesn't help achieve your goals? (mine being happiness). Knowing a certain amount - sure, absolutely neccessary to not get fucked by life, but past a certain point, It feels as if there's no point to it... that it only fucks with your mental state at that point.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:00 PM
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> Okay there Nietzsche..Who says you need to make the world better? This is a great point, but here's how the progression of thought went in my head. I did come to terms with realizing that I don't need to make the world better (took me two years)... however, that also doesn't change the fact that by pursuing that success and making the world worse makes me feel good either. I want to be amoral "andy", I truly do... but I feel as if I'm too self righteous. My brain just can't chase pure, easy su…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:54 PM
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But for there to be a goal, there must be a belief that it's worth it, right? That's where the problem lies. I don't have any realistic goals because I don't think chasing them is worth the effort. That, or maybe I'm just a lazy fuck. Or maybe I'm lazy because I don't have the belief... who the hell knows at this point.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:42 PM
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> Life can be wonderful. When's the last time you got out to Nature and marvelled at your own existence, tied as it is to the trees, the Moon, the stars? Great way to look at it. Maybe I've lived in my headspace bubble for too long. Maybe I should take a step back and appreciate what's positive in this world.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:41 PM
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So essentially... fuck it, don't think about it, turn a blind eye to bad shit and focus on the positive, while remaining based in reality and looking out for yourself?
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:41 PM
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I'm talking in general. Not asking to find a specific purpose.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:28 PM
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Exactly. That's why I'm making this post to find something to have "belief" in, a "realistic" mission if you will that I can actually feel being worthwhile to pursue.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:24 PM
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> All you can do is have something to work towards. True. Problem is, after a while, the belief thoughts always creep in my mind. "Why am I doing this" etc, which eventually lead to no motivation etc.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:23 PM
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Fair enough, but again - how can I live my life to the "fullest" when I can't achieve shit I want to since it relies on the world to work in a way that I want it to work, not how it actually functions. Best I can do is become successful in the "Real" world...
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:19 PM
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Elaborate. Struggling for struggling's sake seems makes no sense.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:08 PM
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But do you think you could be internally happy while doing drugs, degenerate satanic shit 24/7 if you believed it hard enough? I don't think so.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:39 AM
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> you're so decisive that it will bring you happiness, it will bring you happiness. So essentially - you have to believe it really really hard. But even then, you're still chemicals though, right? If you believed you felt great when you are not using heroin while being a heroin junkie, would that really work? I doubt it, you'd have too much physical / mental addiction to that shit etc.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:17 PM
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Hey, appreciate the long answer. Solid all around, but I liked the part about getting a job the best. Quite frankly, my schedule when I was attending university was great. Went to all the important lectures, had great grades etc - problem was, I thought what I was learning wasn't worth it, so I took a gap year. Fast forward now a couple of months and after no self control, not enough fire under my own ass and voila - I'm where I'm at today. It's as if I'm pursuing this idea of "perfect time mana…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:56 PM
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Sucks to hear, man. I will say that every year I've gotten objectively better, so there's that, but for sure - sometimes I wonder if I "like" being in this state of mind because it gives me excuses, pain avoidance etc.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:17 PM
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T levels are fine last time I checked (586) for 20yo. I really think I can conquer this myself though, but I'll keep the suggestion in mind.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:14 PM
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Don't worry man, I'm a calm dude. no BPD. My lifestyle's just shit. As for the therapist - I need to fix this on my own. At the very least, "seeking out" a therapist myself won't help me, it has to happen organically.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:43 AM
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Your answer is right there. You need to avoid that moment, in stead of thinking it'll be different this time. Much like how an alcoholic needs to abstain from "just that one drink". So essentially - no moderation here. Problem is, It's not just video games, It's wasting my time in general. I think video games aren't the issue, the need for an "escape" is. If I abstain from video games, I'm jacking it whenever I can. if I abstain from both, I'm watching endless Youtube videos etc. On top of all o…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:38 AM
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you should be able to switch between both as you wish. It shouldn't be harder than turning a light switch on and off. A light switch is balanced. Addiction is not. I've tried "switching" between both, but I'm at my 50th or more try at this point - It just does not work for me with the approaches I've tried, at the very least. cold showers, meditating, lifting I literally did all of these things, but they had no correlation to fixing my problem. It only worked because I abstained cold-turkey styl…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:21 AM
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Your comment resonated with me the most, agree with everything. Great advice here.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:02 PM
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I agree with all your points, we're on the same page in that aspect. All I'm saying is that the wording is pretty shit and without a doubt will confuse a lot of new comers, cause how are they supposed to read between the lines when they don't know jack shit yet. This then in turn gets the usual "You misinterpret what we meant" from the EC's, and the cycle goes on and on. Maybe make it less "misinterpretable" then, just a thought...
/r/askTRP25/04/20 06:00 PM
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...but I get the point. My point is that it's stupid to deny that what women want is somehow not important for you to succeed in the sexual marketplace, and EC's shouldn't be writing that shit, or at the very least - be more precise with the wording they choose.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:24 PM
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A woman is led by emotions. Emotions change. She'll want X on Monday and Y on Wednesday. Applies to people in general, not just women. You should also focus on what makes you happy. You only live one life so you need to enjoy it. I agree, but it's never a win-win situation it seems. What makes me happy, for example, does not always help me succeed with women, money wise or whatever. For example, I don't drink & I don't smoke, choices I've made for the betterment of my health, but I'm not blind e…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:41 PM
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Sounds good. Playing along is still better than knowing the bitter truth and sulking in your own misery. Truth is overrated anyway, happiness has nothing to do with knowing it as far as my experience shows so far.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:20 PM
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Nobody says you have to lift. It's just known that great body physics will have a positive impact on girls. And I said so as well? "I do it because It gives results." If you don't like it, try something else Fair advice, but so far I've found nothing that captivates me. I don't naturally enjoy most activities that lead to success in the social world, because it's all smoke and mirrors - fake. Not what I thought the world was gonna be, but it is what it is, gotta play along.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:08 PM
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Still dodging it. Your answer gives nothing to these two questions. what the hell do you do if you don't like to do the things that TRP recommends or that girls like in guys? and Like seriously - what do you do if you like being your authentic self but your authentic self sucks for others?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:59 PM
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You literally dodged the entire question. If you don't have an answer, just say it. The gaming was just an example.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:49 PM
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That's what I essentially said at the start of my last paragraph as well, but why the fuck is the wording so shit then from EC's. Just tell people not to be needy, not "don't care what women want".
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:36 PM
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Then my question is - what the hell do you do if you don't like to do the things that TRP recommends or that girls like in guys? Like imagine if you are a scrawny nerd who enjoys playing video games, has some weird hobbies that no one cares about but him etc? You want girls just as much as the next guy, but your lifestyle isn't something the girls want. At the same time - you don't enjoy the things that women want from a guy even if you start doing them, so the only thing you can do at that poin…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:30 PM
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Another thing, discipline, will power won't do it. But addicts usually don't have discipline, so how can you have the discipline to go through the process with it, or learn discipline while you are going through the process if you are bored out of your mind, over-stimulated etc?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 11:16 AM
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But the problem is - in that dopamine withdrawal period, replacing that shitty habit isn't fun, even if it is a passion. If it was, quitting would be easy. In fact - nothing is fun for at least a week in my experience, and the "happiness land" of being addiction-free always seems so far away from grasp that a relapse finds it's way back in your life before you've gotten past the withdrawal period. Here's my personal cycle of going through addiction. ​ Had enough, decide to quit bad habits / addi…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 03:57 PM
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> Take destructive habits where you consume and replace them with productive habits where you build and create. There's a problem with this argument, and I'd like to hear you address it if you can. The problem being - It's incredibly hard to build productive habits when you are over-stimulated and bored. Let's say I'm addicted to instant & easy dopamine - watching streams, playing video games all day etc. Now tell me - how the fuck am I supposed to enjoy being outside all day, or working on a pr…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 03:42 PM
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No immediate clear examples, but really - it's any situation where you are perceived to be / or do X, while Y is the reality, and in those situations, be it to the boss, co-workers, acquaintances, friends, or even family - explaining yourself sucks, but not explaining leads to them thinking that they are right, which sucks as well. On one hand, you could argue you are bad at "presenting" / "marketing" yourself then, and while that can be fixed by playing the social game, the social game sucks as…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:16 PM
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Agree with what you said. There's always something that can be done better on my part, rest is largely irrelevant.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:52 PM
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No offense, but what exactly are you trying to say here, especially in regards to my comment.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:27 PM
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Question - what the fuck do you do in situations where you are clearly not in the wrong, but someone thinks you are? I absolutely hate DEERing, but what's the play in those situations? If you don't explain yourself, everyone will think that you did fuck up since you aren't responding / getting into an argument, but explaining yourself, even if you are correct, sucks even more. Either I have to explain myself and then fucking hate that I had to do that, or don't explain and lose social value / re…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:14 PM
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