I check the TRP main subreddit, and I'm amazed that freaking EC's write this shit.
"Stop caring what women want"
"Focus on want you want, and the women will come."
"Just be yourself."
...What kind of mental gymnastics is this? She's not gonna start liking you just because you focus on yourself. She'll start liking you if what you are focusing on is also what she wants, so logically - it is about what women want. That does not mean that what women say they want is what they actually want, but the bottom line is - It is about what they want.
Imagine if a fat chick said "I'll stop caring what men want (hot chicks) and focus on myself". She gets college degrees, does her own hobbies etc, but to the opposite sex? Literally no quality dude will want her, because guess what? She's still a fat bitch - something that guys don't want.
Another example - If you're an author, and you are passionate about your writing - if it's shit or isn't something that people want to read, no one will care if you are the most passionate writer in the world, because the fact of the matter is - you aren't providing them any value (want).
Look, I understand the notion - don't put women on a pedestal, don't be in their frame etc, but fuck me - I thought this was the Red Pill - why are we ignoring basic market dynamics just for the sake of some feel-good bullshit that leads nowhere? Seems to me that the Red Pill is becoming another variation of the blue pill, just less blue.
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Omfg dude, you are missing the entire point
Live in your own frame, not the frame of women.
Is everything you do with the purpose of impressing a female? Christ
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There are a set of traits that universally all women find attractive. DGAF, High SMV, Abundance, etc.
If you want to get women, your best strategy is becoming high value and adopting these traits.
NOT trying to find out what women selectively want on an individual basis. That’s a huge waste of time, not to mention the fact that women will see through it.
That energy is much better spent on your mission, and letting these bitches come to you as your value increases. Women actively seek out high value men.
I just had a bitch I haven’t seen in a year, and never fucked, track me down through my current LTR, who she doesn’t even know, to try to get with me. I wasn’t thinking about what this bitch wants.
Becoming high value makes it easy for you, these bitches will come to you. That’s the point the ECs are making. They’re ECs for a reason.
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