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Good in bed though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:54 AM
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I don't really understand your story. Either the men or the women could have fulfilled either role in that scenario. Protector is more or a psychological concept which is a remnant of evolution because as you say they no longer require protection from wild bears. It's more akin to a father/daughter dynamic. They want someone who'll encourage their independence/growth but also guide them and step in when they need help. Like a safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:52 AM
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You think there are a lot of rich, handsome, high status men who know how to talk to women who are not having success with women? You're wrong. That's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:44 PM
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Yeah and logically, what attracts women is looks, money, status and game. Hence the 'logical' advice is to improve these areas and you'll get pussy. Attraction isn't the enigma women try to pretend that it is. Brad Pitt has all the above attributes and the majority of women in the world would drop their panties within 20 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:25 PM
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Women are waiting at the finish line with their asses in the air
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:20 PM
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I didn't say they had them lining up. I said they have options. The average guy has very limited options. Below average likely to have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:41 AM
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I assume most people would rather spend their lives with someone than alone. All women have options, many men have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:38 AM
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Nope. That's not what I said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:36 AM
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I genuinely have no idea what you're talking about. Is English your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:27 PM
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No one says desirable men aren't working hard. They're saying they aren't directing that hard work at getting women, women are the biproduct. Loser guys offer commitment in exchange for sex and let the woman dictate the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:13 PM
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I'm sure you could, I'm just pointing out your 'study' is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:21 PM
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Make sure to check for objects behind you before backtracking that quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:01 PM
1

188 participants rated their willingness to engage in a relationship with a hypothetical individual with a specified number of past sexual partners, ranging from 0 to 60+. I could provide more evidence than that anecdotally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:57 PM
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I wasn't asking what your milestones are. I'm saying if you're looking for a relationship, the best way is to start very casual, date multiple women and then whittle them down to one you want to commit to. This means expensive first dates / flower crowns are not a good idea in general. You may get lucky and get good results using your one at a time overcommiting technique, but it's not good general advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:18 PM
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"your anecode proves nothing" Provides anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:10 PM
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You are one of the multiple women he is fucking and he doesn't see you as a long term option. He'll always be there until you ask for commitment, at which point he'll tell you he can't offer you that and you'll either move on or stay in his harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:03 PM
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Yah they are. I'm a manwhore and my last girl was a 27y/o virgin until she met me. She was 'saving herself for marriage'. Lasted about 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:45 PM
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Chaste women aren't chasing male virgins. They're chasing the same men as all the other women. Chastity is not something that women naturally desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:15 PM
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That's precisely the point I'm making
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:27 PM
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Ok that's great. If you want to continue down this line I can recommend a good cloud for you to yell at.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:20 PM
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Yes but it has no effect on the skill level needed to get a guy to fuck you, which is what this thread is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:18 PM
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Sure you can dance, sing. Just standing there and pointing aggressively at your vagina would work equally well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:17 PM
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Yes but that has nothing to do with what anyone in this thread is saying. Try and keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:15 PM
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Any girl can get action with their male equivalent or lower
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:13 PM
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Yeah this only works for non-fat, non-ugly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:32 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's fun or not, it's all you have to do. If you wanna make it fun for you, go right ahead. It's just not necessary and takes zero skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:31 PM
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Basically every guy who goes to a bar or club is there because they hope a non-fat, non-ugly girl will start talking to them and they may have a chance to sleep with her. If you go up to a guy, talk to him for 5 minutes and then say, "I know this is a bit forward, but I find you really attractive, would you like to go back to my place and have sex?" - every single one will say yes. The only thing that might put them off is that they think it's a scam and they're gonna wake up with no kidneys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:00 PM
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You're really overcomplicating this. Try my way and see if it makes an ounce of difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:56 PM
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Also, someone with a wild past is not likely to be happy waiting until marriage for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:51 PM
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Yah it takes a lot of skill to walk up to a guy and say 'would you like to fuck me?'
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:50 PM
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If it's what you truly desired, yes. However most girls don't truly desire that, and I'm not likely to end up with a girl that does. But in those circumstances, I'd be okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:41 PM
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If it's what she truly desires, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:58 PM
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Welcome to purple pill debate. We speak in generalisations here because it's easier than typing 'in general' before every sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:17 PM
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We aren't dating, I'm just providing you with one of the 100 dicks you crave. No feelings involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:12 PM
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Yes, absolutely. If you aren't fat or ugly I'll be your first volunteer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:30 PM
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I mean there's a word for women who request money, goods and services in exchange for sex - and I have nothing against that career path. But yeah obviously this only applies to relationships where she loves him and otherwise feels happy. Women from good stock normally seek support (financial, emotional), protection, being a good father to their children, stable, driven etc - you know - the things that help build a healthy, stable relationship - not holidays to Dubai.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:57 PM
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Because women don't crave 100 different dicks but men crave 100 different women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:32 PM
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Thanks, I'll add that to 'things I know about women'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:47 PM
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Yes, it's the logical extension of your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:47 PM
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Someone feeling something is harmful doesn't render it so, unless you believe harm is purely subjective. I'm saying innately men want other women and there's nothing wrong with that. They're perfectly capable of loving one woman and fucking multiple women. It isn't objectively harmful, it's subjectibe Unless society recognises that, the only way to get a desirable woman and satisfy ones desires is to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:46 PM
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Do you want 100 dicks? A new one every night? Maybe sometimes one in each hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:38 PM
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Well isn't this just the last bastion of a failed argument if ever I've seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:36 PM
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Quite a bit. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:33 PM
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Unless you're writing to me from Saudi Arabia, no they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:32 PM
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Women don't want 100 dicks. Guys want 100 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:31 PM
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It is harmless and I'd like women to recognise it as such. But speaking with people such as yourself shows we're still a little way off. Although things are improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:31 PM
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Cool. Let me just go and tell her which clothes she should dress in and that she should do it because she loves me. I'll let you know how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:29 PM
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That's some twisted logic. I have the right to tell her to give up the things she wants because she loves me? This seems like a formula ripe for abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:10 PM
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Women do mind, that's precisely the problem. I never claimed they didn't. Only that they shouldn't. Lying, cheating and stealing are not the same. One of them is illegal for starters. No one has been hurt by my actions, life goes on as normal (another distinction between cheating and stealing). Problems are there to be solved, and this is the only way this one can be solved with society as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:08 PM
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If men say they want an open relationship, it narrows the pool of available women by at least 95%. We don't want to be stuck with the weirdos. We want a decent women who allows us to fuck other women. With societal expectations as they are, the only way to do this is convince her to have threesomes or cheat behind her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:55 PM
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You may be an asshole, but it doesn't change the fact that you can love someone but still fuck other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:52 PM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:49 PM
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Exactly. That's why you gotta sell the idea of a threesome and if they still don't agree you just cheat and hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:43 PM
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No, because the only women that are looking for that are damaged. We want a traditional girl who lets us step out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:35 PM
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Ah yes, the old favourite 'everyone is different' argument. These are generalisations. In general they hold true. In general women don't crave hundreds of dicks. In general men crave multiple women. Fucking another woman does not damage the relationship in any way. In fact it probably means you treat her better because you aren't sexually frustrated. Playing the hurt feelings card is bullshit too. Get over it. It's just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:30 PM
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You may be an asshole, but it doesn't change the fact that you can love someone but still want to fuck other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:25 PM
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15-20 Normal range, perfect and non-flag-raising. Normal range for a Geisha?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:14 PM
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I'd say on average 5 is fair. Ongoing casual arrangements are in the same camp as one night stands. Shows that she's not looking for a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:03 PM
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Most girls volunteer info, especially if they want to find out yours. My current girlfriend did this because it's clear from our demeanours I've slept with more people than her. Completely agree that it's an attitude thing. If you've been with enough women, it's pretty easy to spot an ex-hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:12 PM
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Depends on age but if we're talking up to the age of 30, anything above 5 means there's some one night stands in there. It's not necessarily the body count though, it's the mentality it represents. I want a woman who is searching for someone to settle down with. Sometimes relationships dont work out. But hooking up with guys in clubs / off tinder shows she doesn't have the right mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:07 PM
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Pressing the enter key is not a struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:42 AM
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Paragraphs are your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:37 PM
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It's better for a woman to cheat with another woman than with a man. It's worse for a man to cheat with another man than with a woman. the lesbian scenario is seen less as a threat and the man probably doesn't think his girlfriend is gay, just experimenting. No real stigma for girl on girl. the two men scenario makes the woman think he's gay or at least less of a man. A lot of stigma attached. Not saying it's right or wrong, that's just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:20 PM
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Haha dude I dont want to patronise you but im like 3 steps past that in red-pill terms. I literally feel no jealousy. If she felt the need to fuck someone else I'd be cool with it because it would give me free reign to do the same instead of having to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:29 PM
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I honestly don't think that's the case but can understand how one might come to that conclusion as I know some women who would indeed hide it. I'm not sure what game I'm supposed to be playing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:25 PM
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They do 100% support what I'm saying. Go spend a few days reading or watching them on YouTube yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:58 PM
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I don't think any of those subs support what you're saying. Both sexes cheat but again generally speaking men want to maintain their side piece but stay with their woman. It's the women who will more often leave. Anecdotally everything red pill says about cheating holds true (generally speaking). My male friends can fuck without feelings. My female friends need to like the guy. I even asked my girlfriend if she had to have a one night stand what type of guy would it be with. She couldn't even an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:55 PM
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There's no question that historically speaking women have been abused both more frequently and more severely by men than vice versa. I personally believe men cheating isn't as bad as women cheating but I think there's more room for debate there. My reasoning would be than generally speaking men are able to separate emotion from it and literally just wanna fuck whilst still wanting to stay with their woman. I think women need to actually like the guy in order to fuck them which is a threat to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:10 PM
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Well then there's a clear mismatch between the vibe you give off and your desired outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:43 PM
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I mean, I'd fuck you and pretty sure most of the guys here and lesbians here would too. I wouldn't date you though because you look like a girl who comes with a lot of baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:39 PM
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Unless you want to play semantics, venting is exactly what you do when you go to a therapist which clearly is useful. You tell them about the areas of your life which cause you stress/anger/pain/anxiety and they listen to you without judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:30 PM
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Venting is super useful. The problem is when you have no filter and think other people are a resource for you to unburden your anxieties/anger onto. Women tend to not filter what they say so everything they feeling comes spewing out every time. That's why they get labelled moany / negative. Men have too much of a filter which is why they get called emotionally repressed / lonely / unable to connect. Somewhere in the middle is best, vent if you need but be aware of how the other person is feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:16 PM
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This dude just been watching too much goggins. We've all been through that phase. It'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:28 PM
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This isn't about anecdotal evidence, I'm very happy with where I am. Stating that 100% of your life outcomes are down to your own actions is simply untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:59 PM
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Your actions determine 100% of your outcome. This is simply factually untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:46 PM
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There are many men who wouldn't be in the top 30% of men regardless of how much they go to the gym or how good their style is. You're overestimating how much one's own actions determine the outcome. It's basically the same philosophy as the American dream, work hard and you can make it when it flies in the face of actual tangible evidence which places America just below Lithuania on the social mobility index. If you're born rich, you're likely to stay rich / become richer. There are success stor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:00 PM
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I don't know what the hell you're talking about. If you're top 5% you can just treat tinder as an all you can buffet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:56 PM
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Yeah a lot of people spout this horseshit because they don't like the idea that they're controlled by pussy. You did it for the pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:42 PM
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Yah but going to the gym alone won't get you women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:34 PM
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If say when within the 20% there's subsets depending on the woman's taste. E.g. a purely materialistic girl wouldn't date a poor dude even if had looks, status and game. So only 5% have it all which would basically attract the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:29 PM
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Men don't want to make themselves 'relationship material' They improve themselves so they can sleep with a lot of women. The areas to improve are looks, money, status, game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:26 PM
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Also if they aren't complaining as much sexually it's because gay sex is pretty straightforward. If there's mutual attraction it's made relatively clear and few hoops to jump before getting down to it. I don't know if that's the same for lesbians or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:24 PM
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Great tune
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:42 AM
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https://youtu.be/eu2OYcgr4rM
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:18 AM
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https://youtu.be/eu2OYcgr4rM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:45 PM
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Being outside without a male guardian is a crime. No it's not. You're confusing Iran with Saudi Arabia. I do however agree with the sentiment of your post. The feminism angle is the lens with which western media has chosen to view the uprisings which shouldn't necessarily be viewed cynically as these uprisings were caused by the murder of an innocent woman for not confirming with the backwards dress code.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 11:03 PM
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Which chemicals are those then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:34 PM
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Nah I'd be hurt if she left. It'd be losing my favourite pencil. But if she leaves I'd just fill her void with a variety of different women, whittle them down to a few good ones and then finally settle on one to pop out a few kids with. It's pretty simple really. Familial love is different, you're bound together for life - like or or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:42 PM
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Most people who believe in Disney love don't think it's real love if one person cheats. Regarding the hypothetical, out of 7 billion people I'm certain that there's many people who I'm more suited to be with than my girlfriend but I'm also certain there's many more less suited.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:11 AM
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If it was in the way the other person described it he wouldn't get getting head from a lovely young lady in the oval office.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:41 PM
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Exactly. We completely agree. I don't doubt Bill loves Hillary and I don't doubt that he didn't enjoy getting head from his employee in the oval office either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:01 AM
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Shh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:06 PM
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My evidence is that the vast majority of men with options exercise them. They don't choose one woman and mate for life. Where's your evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:41 PM
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r/men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:38 PM
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I realise you're not gonna listen to my advice but I'll say it anyway. Don't settle down until you're at least 35. Go travelling, learn a new language, meet new people every day and most importantly don't tie yourself down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:22 PM
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So yeah I'd say that's a lot for your age. What you're saying doesn't add up though. You want a deep connection but you've slept with 11 women by the age of 20 just because you 'could' not because you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:17 PM
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2-3 for every year after 18. So if you're 30 then it'd be like 24-36 women. If what you value is a deep connection, why have you slept with so many women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:10 PM
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You already slept with lots of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:48 PM
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Yes but you don't have the option to sleep with many women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:04 PM
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Nah not just for sex. She's a good girl. Kind, loyal, doesn't give me shit, good with my family. We get on really well. I'd like to have kids in the future so it makes sense to settle down. If I didn't want to have kids I definitely wouldn't be anywhere near as inclined to settle down. Maybe that would change when I'm 50 and my sex drive has calmed down. I didn't claim to be able to sleep with anyone I want but I have options and don't hesitate in exercising them. She's in it for the typical gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:45 PM
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The reasons I initially outlined in response to the Disney definition of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:10 PM
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Yah. My best friend says the same. He just got married. He's short and below average looking and doesn't have options. He's slept with 2 women in his life. If I didn't have options I would do the same. It's a coping mechanism and it's not a bad one. Basically every rich, handsome, powerful man in history has fucked multiple women. Very few married at 21 and lived happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:09 PM
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I understand what you're saying because this is what every woman says. It's not what men say nor what they think. They want sexual variety. Everything you've described in your definition of love can be obtained from your friends / family. You're taking what you want and assuming it's the same for men. It's not. I'm currently in an LTR and very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:57 PM
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Men are able to feel love deeply Define 'love' They are capable of emotional intelligence, kindness and gentleness just like women. I didn't claim otherwise Not to mention ask anyone whos been in love and theyll tell you the sex is 100% more amazing. That's what women say. Men who have options are looking for variety. Always have and always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:27 PM
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Yah. Most guys don't feel this way. That's what women think they're selling when they talk about love but that's not what we're buying. Fulfil me sexually, give me space, don't make my life harder. Do this for a long enough amount of time and I'll start to trust you instead of thinking it's a way to lock me down. All of this vague spiritual connection bullshit is basically Disney brainwashing from the age of 0. It's not what the majority of men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:08 PM
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Not a lot to be honest. That's why I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:54 PM
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Define 'love'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:52 PM
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It's equally racist but not equally damaging when one is in a position of power. If someone calls me a 'dirty gringo' or 'yank' or something it's nowhere near as insulting as using the N word because of the history of slavery / segregation / prejudice.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 09:27 PM
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You're
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:40 PM
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I see the guys as a mix of incels, larpers or PUAs with varying levels of success. When I read a comment from a woman on here I'm always imagining an overweight, below average looking girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:49 AM
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Option 4: anal loophole
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:37 PM
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According to OP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:35 AM
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How have you ended up on PPD without even the most basic knowledge of evolutionary drives?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:57 AM
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Getting shit when you complain Vs getting free shit all the time because you have tits Hmm.. I wonder which I'd choose
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:50 PM
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Henry the 8th
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:47 AM
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I think it's called "The Will Smith" effect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:05 PM
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Economically speaking yeah but I'd much rather fuck a Colombian than a stuck up Beverly Hills / Manhattan girl regardless of my wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:58 PM
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Currently in Colombia but considering going back to Thailand next thanks for the tip
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:02 PM
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It is if you get out of the shithole United States
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:44 PM
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Looks, money, status, game. I'm guessing you missing game. Also women don't care how much you squat/bench. If you top 20% in looks, money status and game and also top 5% in just one of those areas you're gonna have a lot of sex with attractive women (if that's what you want).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:35 PM
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Could someone come and collect their child, they're making a scene
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/22 11:48 AM
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Gross. Who even allowed this midget to speak.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/22 11:11 AM
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But I want d cups
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:10 PM
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If I want d cups then I should also be a d cup
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:08 PM
1

Stop clapping you seal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:53 AM
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Easy mode for guys is when you have looks, status, money and game. It doesn't change at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:53 PM
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I like your brain can I buy you some rohypnol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:11 PM
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R.i.p. this sub
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/22 04:10 PM
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Seriously. Literally the definition of socialism is "workers owning the means of production". People thinking it's 'everyone divides everything equally' are mainly brainwashed Americans who have had 100 years of anti-commie progaganda shoved up every orifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:59 AM
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If you have his face it's acceptable. Also you would absolutely clean up in a gay bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:39 AM
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Threesome is with two women Two guys is a train
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:39 PM
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okay, she is clearly not a monogamous or committed person and views sex more liberally than I do That's a whole lot of words for she's a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:33 PM
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Scroll down
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:21 AM
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I'd love to see a relationshipadvice post "should I break up with my girlfriend because she won't take it up the ass?" I'm sure everyone over there would be really understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:19 AM
1

I think the advantage men have is they aren't that picky. That means for a dude in decent shape, with good game and a cool lifestyle can have a choice of many women and if one girl rejects him - just move onto the next. Girls are much more prone to getting hung up on one guy. Even the really good looking ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:22 PM
9

She sounds like a straight up 5
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:32 PM
14

I think the question is, would you attract more women if you were super romantic / attentive / loving or if you were stand-offish / refuse to offer committment / make it clear they aren't you main priority
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:08 PM
2

Because they have status and game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:48 PM
4

Men like looks Women like looks, status, money, game Every relationship you know started that way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:34 PM
1

Men are attracted to looks Women are attracted to looks, money, status, game
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:23 PM
2

New generation of narcissists, social media validation and endless stream of potential dicks via tinder. Times are changing my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:20 PM
1

No one says it's impossible. They say she settles. So yeah it happens all the time and there's an explanation for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:19 PM
1

Your tldr is longer than my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:56 PM
1

Tldr / it's your fault her pussy's broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:35 PM
1

I've been with two women who told me they'd never cum, not even on their own. One got a bit defensive about it so I didn't prod but the other was really open and said she still enjoyed it and didn't think about it too much. Either way it just baffles me. If it were me I'd be frantically googling "how to cum" and finding a way to make it happen. But maybe it just shows that it's more important to guys than it is to girls. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:33 PM
1

Thanks for the link, that was super interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:16 PM
-2

The issue with this is that it's not a fair split. I can fuck other women and still love my wife, want to be with her, support her etc. Her version is she leaves me for another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:59 PM
1

https://youtube.com/shorts/GJNx95YmnrE?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:44 PM
2

Manwhore here. I don't even know how I slept with just woman before over a period of months/years. Hard to put the genie back in the bottle now that it's out but ultimately do want a family in the future. I'm fine with emotional monogamy but new pussy turns me on a lot so don't know how I can just sleep with one woman for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:49 PM
21

Completely agree. It's actually a well known 'anger phase' as most guys become red pilled after a break up / rejection. There's also unfortunately some cross over from incels / mgtow who seem to harbour more hostility. Most of the red pill forums do call this shit out though. Like 'stop whining, focus on yourself and the things you can affect'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:59 AM
0

This isn't an airport you don't need to announce your departure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:47 AM
1

There's plenty of apps that have longer bios. Tinder is the most popular because most people really are that superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:43 AM
2

This assumes people's feelings are constant. Might seem like a good idea before they actually move in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:41 AM
128

Girlfriend telling me she wanted to marry me one week, ending it over text the week after. Googling to find out what happened. Found asktrp subreddit which was the only place that had advice that made sense. Then read the rational male, which described every relationship I'd had in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:37 AM
1

cries in sex addict
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:46 PM
2

Fair enough buddy. Looks like you have basically maxed out your potential. I'm guessing you have a cool life with a lot going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:17 AM
1

Numbers, quality of women, how easy to lay (many dates/expenditure/dangling commitment), how many on rotation. Do they know you're fucking other women? Can you tell them to leave after you fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:55 AM
1

Define 'do pretty decent with women'
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:44 AM
27

Against the rules. That sub is for women who have a list of demands/baggage and then are asking where are all the good men
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/22 11:35 PM
66

r/whereareallthegoodmen
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/22 08:08 PM
164

Haha I think a lot of people are cunts but some are so entitled that they don't even try to hide it
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/22 06:38 PM
20

I think this is a bit extreme. If you're top 20% you can have a pretty good time on tinder. Even more so if you go abroad.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/22 06:38 PM
2

Yeah, I think the main counter arguments are: cost fear of getting stabbed / robbed / STDs feeling seedy That's what's stopped me so far. But I think I probably will try it one day if the opportunity comes my way.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:56 PM
2

You didn't answer the question. Have you done it? People pay for experiences they enjoy all the time. You don't pay for friendships because they're mutually beneficial. If you're in a situation where one party is providing a service of value, focusing on only your needs, you do start paying (e.g. mentorship/life coach/therapist etc).
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:00 PM
0

Have you tried it? I've never tried it and have the same instinctive reaction but I think maybe it wouldn't matter as much as we think it would.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:50 PM
17

Didn't read. Never raw.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 11:53 PM
28

Works both ways. Saw a post this morning on TRP whining about how 'simps' are ruining the dating market for dudes. The more you limit a guys/girls options, the more control you have over the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:12 PM
6

Nah. If youre talking about what the average man can afford then you need to compare it to how easily the average man can get sex with women he finds attractive. I'm also speaking about you, you can't consistently bang attractive women with 2 hours invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:00 PM
11

Your comparison is stupid. You can't meet and bang women consistently with only 2 hours invested. You basically just humblebragging about lucking out and meeting a slutty woman and then comparing that one off experience to a life of high class escorts. A more realistic comparison would include the amount of time you have to invest to get the date (getting blown off, ghosted, dead end convos). cost of dates (a few cocktails where I live would run you about 60/70$) time invested on the dates thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:33 PM
8

I think this comment is pretty spot on. We shouldn't be bothered. The issue works both ways. Beautiful women will overplay their hand in their 20s, get used by fuckboys and then complain they can't find a good man. I think everyone would benefit from some self reflection and thinking what would actually be healthy/desirable in a partner. They might start to value kindness/family values over beauty and riches. That way you remove yourself from the rat race and stop these feelings of resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:30 PM
17

It's not drama. It's down to supply/demand and women wanting to date upwards. Top 20% of women want the 1% man. Next 40% of women want the top 10% man. Final 40% of woman want the top 20% man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:30 AM
28

I think it's more like: 0.01% hyper successful men > Stacey > all other men Like if you're a billionaire, a celebrity, a pro athlete etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:13 AM
29

What a world that would be where women would openly show interest. Complete game changer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:31 PM
4

I don't know what you're talking about I think it's really pretty
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/21 08:22 AM
44

It's also the victim status that bugs me. Women get a short end of the stick in many ways but they refuse to acknowledge when men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:11 PM
2

/thread
/r/askTRP01/05/21 02:00 PM
1

u/trpcops u/jamrocklion
/r/askTRP01/05/21 02:00 PM
84

The woman is saying "I have lots of options but choose the wrong men" The man is saying "I have no options" Equating the two is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:11 AM
1

👍
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:04 PM
0

u/trpcops
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:02 PM
1

Ok, that's great. Here's the Wikipedia entry if you feel like looking into it. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_conflict
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:18 PM
1

It's called sexual conflict theory. Both men and women are programmed to reproduce as successfully/efficiently as possible. Women have to put in a minimum of 9 months committment. They are programmed to find a partner that will stay and bring them food/resources and help them raise/protect their offspring. Men have plenty of sperm to go around and have to put in the amount of time it takes for them to cum. They are programmed to look for many sexual partners and have many offspring. This isn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:20 PM
1

Because the underlying implication of every argument in this sub is that the statement generally holds true. Not that every single woman/man acts like this. If I said 'women prefer men who are taller than them', I'm speaking generally (even if it's not explicitly stated). I'd argue that you wouldn't pull someone up about this and start talking about your friend who dated a short guy. You are only debating it because you don't like the conclusion. Every statement made here can be contradicted wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:57 PM
1

"I know someone who doesn't do this" is the last bastion of a failed argument around these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:09 PM
1

Yeah. I've met women that date short dudes. Does that disprove the statement 'women like tall men'?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:32 PM
2

Not in the way that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:27 PM
9

Ha it's like going round in circles. Desirable guys have options. They will often choose to keep their options open because guys inately desire sexual variety. Women: 'well, we don't want guys who play the field' Well, that leaves you with undesirable men or religious guys. Women: 'well we don't want undesirable men' So, join a church I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:12 PM
15

The relationship is the incentive for you. What is his incentive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:04 AM
2

Neither. You want them to be secure and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:54 PM
1

It would be better to say that for 9/60 married couples, the woman makes more money. Which is probably in line with what people would expect. Women do look for successful men, as successful as they can feasibly get whilst also getting loyalty/security. I don't even see how that's a cause for debate. This is especially true when they get to their 30s, hardened by past experiences, see their friends settling down and having kids and sense that their time is running out. They give up hopes of true …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:54 PM
7

Do you even read the sources? This study shows 60% are married, 33% both work, 9.7% of women make more than their husbands. The stat of 30% is of married couples who both work. (I.e. 9.7% OF 33%).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:35 PM
17

And 40% of breadwinners in American households are currently women You realise 25% of those 40% are single mums? That stat is entirely misleading. here's the link
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:38 AM
77

Nah. It's fear of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:56 PM
2

This is one of the most stupid things I've ever read
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:04 AM
7

Ok now say it again and replace "lying about what you want" with "what you said you looked like", then say Abracadabra and a double standard will appear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:16 AM
7

No, did he by saying he wants a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:02 AM
5

We did it guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:01 AM
7

So if they said "I look like this all the time" and then slept with a dude, they raped them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:59 PM
93

There's a woman unironically spitting straight up red pill truth in the comments with tons of upvotes. She's basically used a whole load of words to explain "women need to like you to sleep with you, men need to like you to sleep with you again". A lot of men know that they have to pursue hard and be super enthusiastic to even get a 1st/2nd date with a woman. A lot of them also know they have to stand out more than other potential options you might have. This isn't necessarily an indication that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 09:36 AM
1

So, are you looking to date this girl or be friends with her? If you want only friendship, no problem. Tell her you feel the same as her and that it's strictly platonic.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:28 PM
4

A relationship without sex is a friendship. So yeah, it really is all about sex. A girl who has any interest at all would never say "Want to make clear that you are just a guy friend to me right?". She's sensing that you might make a move and she wants to nip it in the bud before it happens to avoid any awkward situations. Everyone here is telling you to move on because no good will come from you pursuing this girl.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:57 PM
5

Dude, please listen. You're way too invested and you're way too reactive. The dudes on here are giving you medicine. It doesn't taste good but it is what you need. Then you react negatively and they wind you up and you go for the bait. It's not how someone with a solid frame acts. They're right. You're too invested in this girl. She's told you directly that she's not interested. Even if you think she doesn't mean it, the only way to deal with this is to focus your attention on other women. She'l…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:26 PM
1

It's weird that the more wrong you are the angrier you get. I guess you're going for the doubling down strategy as opposed to learning something new. I shall leave you to work on your unresolved anger issues.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/21 06:32 PM
1

The CPI takes no account of housing costs
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/21 05:36 PM
1

Haha I laughed at your username. Populations in the developed world are pretty stable and in some instances, in decline. It's extremely likely that increasing education levels and living standards in the developing world would have the same effect.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/21 05:05 PM
1

Yes - they use the CPI. This (conveniently) does not include the cost of housing.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/21 04:52 PM
1

How are you measuring real wages. Using the CPI or factoring in house prices? https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/e1jrvw/oc_salaries_vs_house_prices_in_uk/
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/21 04:42 PM
1

By what metric?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/21 04:36 PM
6

I think they mean stop chasing air-head 9s and find a rich, down-to-earth 7.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 03:25 PM
7

You should have money and have your life set up before having kids. The average person should also be able to work any job full time and have enough for decent housing and a decent standard of living (all the essentials, food, water, utilities and a few extras per year). Problem is, real wages have been stagnant/in decline for the last 40 years. Cost of housing / raising kids / giving them a decent education has risen considerably. So I agree with the personal responsibility angle, but I also ag…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/21 09:06 AM
24

He weighs approx 325 big macs
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:12 PM
7

I'm looking forward to my retirement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 07:21 PM
5

Haha you think unnatractive 70 year olds with a paid off mortgage are porking 20 year olds?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 07:11 PM
11

Ha yeah - I'm not thinking billionaire rich. More like dude with a paid off mortgage and a range rover.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 06:14 PM
4

I think a dude benching 70kg would be considered an intermediate lifter. It's not normal to be able to bench 70kg straight off the bat. I'd recommend mixing up the routine (weight and reps) every 4 weeks and yeah getting decent amounts of protein from actual food (not shakes).
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:24 PM
13

Genuinely curious as to whether a woman like this would have options. I reckon if she would lower her looks standards considerably and went 15-20 years older she might be able to snag a rich dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 05:08 PM
1

Haha like playing chess with a pigeon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:54 AM
0

Haha we're definitely on different wave-lengths dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:10 PM
8

/thread
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:02 PM
6

I'm a dude but for me, a lot of it is about what kind of role-models they had growing up. If their parents had a good, healthy relationship, they're likely to value and inherit the traits that helped build it: loyalty, stability, teamwork, communication, tolerance. This makes them extremely unlikely to cheat or trade up. However, you'll find that very few people have these role models. Instead, increasingly people come from broken homes or unhappy/arguing parents and look up to celebrities, Inst…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/21 09:50 PM
-1

Ok, I'll try one more time. Many people don't want to work. Many men don't want their woman to work (want a full time mum / homemaker). How does the first statement render the second moot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:11 PM
1

Many people don't want to work. Many men don't want their woman to work (want a full time mum / homemaker). How do those two statements contradict each other? Or how does the first statement render the second moot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:58 PM
2

All true. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:36 PM
4

They need them to, but that doesn't mean that they want them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:13 PM
86

You sound codependent as fuck. Time to break up for good and get to a place where you're happy/doing well on your own. Then look for someone who enhances your life. There's loads of subs for self improvement, I suggest checking them out e.g. r/productivity
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/21 10:13 AM
7

Having no instagram is better than having an average instragram. Having an instagram if you're actually living a cool life is better than both.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:56 PM
30

It's cool, dude. Every person here has done some stupid shit in the past. Just learn from it for the next one.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:43 PM
50

Plenty of women being exploited by men too. OP made a series of mistakes and got exploited. It's his fault, not hers. As Patrice said, you don't blame a rattlesnake for biting you. It's their nature. You take the necessary precautions so you don't get bit.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:38 PM
119

Also don't get someone a job expecting something in return / loyalty. Give because you want to give. The only time you're owed something is when a contract is signed.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:58 PM
7

Reddit tip #1: Don't debate a dude called gaylubeoil
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:37 PM
1

Looking forward to your next FDS post "Why we should give LVM a chance in search of a genuine connection" I'm sure it'll go down real well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 09:43 AM
1

So I'll ask again, why don't women choose poor, ugly, loser men who they have a 'real connection' with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 09:31 AM
1

I'm sorry but you actually don't seem to understand the debate. No one said men over 40 are loser men. No one said women don't date younger men. The percentage of women who do so has no relevance. This is about natural biological sexual preferences and whether one should subjugate them in favour of more 'noble' relationships (and if so, to what degree).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:59 AM
0

"here's some more unsubstantiated stigma and an anecdotal case of a random celebrity you've never heard of. I rest my case"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:11 PM
3

Dude, are you nuts? Never remove the hat.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:28 AM
-2

This is only argument women can put forward. That the dude is immature or isn't well adjusted or has some kind of problem. It's simply an attempt to shame/stigmatise guys into acting in a way that would suit women. Guys are biologically programmed to find youth attractive. When we look for a partner we look for someone attractive. Yes, we can subjugate our natural desires in search of 'a real connection', just like women can not consider a guys attractiveness, wealth, success, social status. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 09:55 AM
2

Yeah. He might have been sensitive to social judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:43 PM
-1

I'm not really sure what conclusions to draw from that story. You think guys would be put off because other guys desire their woman? Both men and women are attracted to people who are already in demand..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:35 PM
1

Granted those stereotypes hold true in general. However, there's plenty of twenty somethings who aren't social media addicts. There's plenty of 40 year olds at Coachella. I'm saying, given a free hand, a guy will choose a 20 something. He'll choose a twenty something with a good head on her shoulders, but still a twenty something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:26 PM
4

Yes, and none of these men were given a free hand. It's like me saying 'if women could choose any man, they'd marry a millionaire'. ' And you say, 'well obviously not because most women don't marry millionaires'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:21 PM
1

Yeah. Give women rights / the freedom to choose and they'll prefer to date within their age range. That doesn't prove a 40 year old dude wouldn't prefer a twenty something. In fact your argument seems to support mine. In societies where men (or religion, i.e. men) make the rules, they marry younger women more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:15 PM
1

How many 40 year old dudes can get an attractive 20 something? About 9% sounds right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:04 PM
4

Give a 40 year old dude a free choice of any woman on earth, most dudes are going to choose twenty-something. Give a 40 year old woman the same choice most women are not choosing a twenty-something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 10:44 PM
16

Women want two things: to be the object of desire for the desirer to be superior to her in every way except attractiveness Normally this means men who are confident, comfortable with their sexuality, set financially, cultured, mature etc. These tend to be older dudes. Having said that, I think that gender differences are narrowing and it probably will be more common in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 10:32 PM
2

I think it gets to the point where everything that needs to be said has been said. Just read the main stuff and take the bits you agree with and apply it to your life. I saw some cheeseball dude on YouTube talking about how he has 'mares' in his 'stable' that he rotates and when one leaves he replaces them. That's when you know all that's left are rip off artists trying to make a quick buck.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:40 PM
10

There's a good guide here
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:43 AM
7

Yeah. I have anecdotes too. A good friend of mine was dating this 8/10 girl for about 3 years. He's a 5/10 looks, had his own pad and a job but nothing spectacular. What I'm saying is you can snag one if you're lucky but it's the exception to the rule not the general trend. Anyway she dumped him and now he's dating a chick at his level.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:37 PM
7

Above average ≠ desirable. Most guys here want to fuck hot 23 year olds. Hot 23 year olds do not fuck middle class suburbia.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:27 PM
17

Their* Their* Outclass* The vast majority of guys in their 30s aren't desirable. They're living distinctly average lives. Use the energy that you spend thinking about external factors and turn it inwards to see what you can do to ensure you don't become an average 30-something chump. Hint: gym/health, sufficient money and life goals beyond pussy
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:25 PM
84

It's a troll account. Look at their recent posts.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/21 05:51 PM
17

No exceptions. She can become the queen on her own and then take a husband. Or she can marry a King, be the queen (and second in command). What some women try and do is take the shortcut of marrying the king and also expect to be first in command.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 02:57 PM
11

There's a fine line between ladies-man and gay best friend
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:47 PM
11

This is the standard RP response to marriage questions. Basically, yes I want marriage but I'm not going to settle (i.e. prove you're worthy, don't presume you're entitled to it).
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/21 10:03 PM
15

It depends how you define 'success'. There's a difference between being able to attract women and being able to sexually attract women. Dudes with good jobs, decent physique, good habits etc will naturally attract near-wall and post-wall women. They aren't going to have 23 year olds lining up (which is what most guys here want). To achieve the latter, you need to be jacked and live a certain lifestyle.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:26 PM
1

Probably wise not to flash money around those parts... Language exchanges are very city dependent. Most places are like nightclubs where it's generally a sausage fest and the best looking / most charismatic dudes leave with the girl who basically came there to have a few drinks and hook up. This is especially true if it's at night/in a bar. Some actually take place in clubs or move onto them. If you go again, try tinder and report back your results ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:08 PM
1

I do speak Spanish but it's not just Latin America where this applies. 2 guesses I'd make based on what you said: - I was living the high life. Always get a very nice apartment in the best part of the city. Put in my profile that I'd be there for a few months. Maybe you didn't do either of these things - Tinder is a relatively new phenomenon in most developing countries. Could have been you travelled before say 2015/16.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:43 PM
2

Yup all true. It's certainly unattainable for the vast majority. I'm just saying, you have to compare it relative to what's available. If you got real money and lead a cool life, looks don't matter as much. Your case doesn't prove otherwise. Ive travelled the world and been in cities where I am in the top 1%. It's like being a girl on tinder. Every swipe is a match. I came back from Colombia with over 1000 girls in line (tinder gold shows you who's liked you). That's after sifting through probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:51 PM
5

Don't wanna be a dick, but in London you're most likely in the bang-average bracket. Get a penthouse in Mayfair, or a house in Holland Park or Hampstead, get a Porsche and then come back and say how things haven't changed. You've gone from middle class but living at home to middle class but got your own place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:36 PM
5

Yah very subjective. I don't know who any of those chicks are but a 7, Yara Shahidi doing it for me a lot more than some of the 9s or 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:01 PM
22

She must be pretty unattractive if she's giving out her number and the dude is saying 'lets talk more on the app first'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 12:28 PM
13

Two dudes isn't a threesome. It's a train.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:53 PM
1

It's the kind of answer you give when you start at the conclusion and work backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:37 PM
41

Precisely. If you're a pragmatic bi-guy, you'd never tell a girl you're trying to date because it limits your options. If you're a bi girl it doesn't limit your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:36 PM
9

"men who dislike women" "Fucking gross caricature"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 10:47 AM
1

Ha I guess you're talking to the angry side of this sub. Personally I don't feel wronged and usually get what I want. But yeah you're right, you have to have something the other person wants but also make them feel like they never truly have it conpletely, and that it could be someone else's in a second if you stop appreciating it. This goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:16 PM
3

Nah, being a fuckboy is pretending you might be open to something when really you just want to smash. The psychology of wanting what you can't have or what you feel is beyond your means/worth is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:09 PM
7

It's not about being an asshole, it's about being better than her. It's about not needing to trade commitment / money / gifts for sex because what you offer is superior to what she has. If you're indifferent, don't give too much attention, have plenty of options and don't take any shit then some people will label this 'asshole' behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 06:39 PM
4

I don't want to sound like a dick but I really can't be assed countering such a cliche argument. If you really do want to know what the issues are with rampant capitalism then I'd advise looking up: stagnation of real wages over last 50 years widening gap between rich and poor stock market / house prices Vs CPI (and it's implications) lobby groups / campaign money links to world's richest people / corporations the myth of 'charitable foundations' (e.g. bill gates / Zuckerberg) social mobility in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:06 PM
3

Church or abroad. I'm an atheist, so I chose abroad.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:08 PM
1

Rivelino's reverse cowgirl test What what in the what what?
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:48 AM
11

Best answer right here. Elephant in the room is wealth inequality which goes hand in hand with rampant capitalism which goes hand in hand with this generation's role models being big lipped insta influencers or dudes with more abs than braincels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 10:35 AM
5

Or she could just have really bad taste in women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:40 AM
2

I think what they claim (which I agree with) is that a woman having a degree or a good job does not make her more attractive. That statement doesn't negate the statement that people often date within their social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:57 PM
2

We don't ignore it, we just aren't biologically programmed to be attracted by it. I agree that logic should override our biological desires, but unless you sit down and reflect, often it doesn't. However, you won't find many wealthy, educated men with broke-ass college drop outs (and even less visa-versa). Most people date within their social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:06 PM
5

Don't let this reasoned argument stop others from misrepresenting the rationale for TRP though. None of OPs assertions are contradictory yet they're presented as such. It's pretty simple. Men should self improve continuously self improve. Date multiple women, vet and discard the sub-par ones. Settle down (if he decides that's what he wants) in his 30s or later with a good woman in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:04 PM
1

Whether that's true or not is besides the point. RPW don't exclusively date RP men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 12:12 PM
4

I mean, I accept that I'm attracted primarily by youth and beauty and that I want to have sex with multiple women. That doesn't mean that I'm going to spend my entire life doing it. You can understand your biological desire without being trapped by it. Same for RPW. They recognise that a dominant woman in a relationship often leads to an unhappy marriage. Therefore they seek a worthy and trustworthy man as a leader whilst they play a supporting role, which is ultimately what most women desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:26 AM
11

You should be above getting worked up over people who sell their bodies for money. It's not a privilege. I don't want to sound 'mightier than thou' because I struggle finding my life purpose. But I'm certainly not jealous that I can't ever make it as an e-prostitute. It's shallow and empty. Think what kind of person they must be. You should pity them.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:29 AM
3

Haha same here!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 11:14 PM
1

Yeah if it's less then they can fill in the gaps - as long as there's enough to convince them you could be what they're looking for. But one strike and you're out. Women scroll tinder like, 'That one looks like too serious. That one has a weird smile. That one looks like he's trying too hard.' Most guys are like, 'shes perfect - she's not fat and she doesn't have blue hair.'
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:13 PM
10

Well until socialism destroys us, which at this rate will be less than 30 years, but in the mean time. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:32 PM
12

It's not about the less they know. It's that women are hyper-critical and so one little thing can disqualify you. Therefore, the more pics you have increases the likelihood they'll find something they don't like.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:50 AM
11

Property and passive index funds. The FIRE subreddit has generally solid advice. And anything that promises more than 10% returns per year is a scam.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:15 PM
6

Yah I spent 3 months in Colombia in 2019, one of the best countries I've been to.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:09 PM
4

Not to mention the easier you get something, it has less value. This is precisely why I recommend doing it. When you can get pussy every day, it lowers it's value. This frees you up to focus on your mission (hence the second paragraph).
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:28 PM
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Hey buddy - as a man who has done/is doing this. Yes, it's true. You can go to third world countries and live/fuck like a king if you've established a good passive income in a first world country. I would recommend it. You'll probably dismiss the second part which is, ask yourself what do you actually want to do with your life? Imagine you have all the money you'll ever need and you can get most women into bed relatively easily, what next?
/r/askTRP06/03/21 04:55 PM
45

Ha yeah. In the UK they're called gentleman's clubs. And if you're poor you just go to the pub.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 01:13 PM
28

I think listening to every episode of The Black Phillip show is even more essential than the sidebar. He just had a way of explaining things. There's a write up of time hoe here and a link to the clip if anyone is interested.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:42 AM
10

I'll be honest, if they're ghosting there's something that they didn't like. It could be the 'ick factor', could be you are shit in bed, could be small cock, could be you aren't as smooth as you think you are. If I were to guess it would be the smoothness/awkward factor. Girls in their early-mid 20s still exhibit remnants of the teenage years where everything is 'cringe' / 'awkard' / 'lame'. You prob come off as an older cheese ball. To keep them around you basically need to be a blank canvas so…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 12:45 AM
13

Yah - well you know what you gotta do if you wanna get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:12 PM
10

Do you have any muscle? Be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:03 PM
5

I think 2012-17 were the golden years. It's still great for when I travel but in my home country it's full of big lipped insta wannabes with profiles like "never on here follow me on insta @hotcumdumpster69".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:36 PM
3

Most women in 1st world countries are not forced to be housewives against their will. Most men are not forced to slave away for their family. Men aren't forced to be strong and masculine and women are not forced to be passive and feminine. They make the choice 'freely' but there is a strong societal pressure to conform to gender 'norms'. With capitalism you can argue for systemic change (e.g. increased socialism / workers rights / minimum and maximum wage / free health care). I'm not sure what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:59 PM
5

Whilst I agree, one issue with this outlook is that the market decides. If you are a rough, rugged, manly man then women will want to fuck you. If you are a feminine dude then you'll have a lot harder time attracting women. Therefore you can decide to play the game, alter parts of yourself (e.g. build muscle, work on body language, become more dominant) or you can take a stand and say 'im not playing". I'd equate it to capitalism. Everyone knows the system is fucked but you can either play or be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:26 PM
0

Yeah - I pretty much already outsource all of my needs. Housekeeper, PT, nutritionist, therapist, kick boxing instructor. I'd be happy to have a nanny to pick up the slack but ideally I want a woman with strong maternal instincts that makes our children the number 1 priority. Then extra help on the side. I just don't want to get screwed by "I fell out of love" or whatever else. I see it as, you're free to leave at any time but you don't get the financial benefits of being with me if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:03 PM
1

Yah that's basically the conclusion I've come to. It's a shame because it does rule out a significant proportion of women who may be otherwise compatible. I think I'm like most guys who wants to find a kind, consistent, loyal partner and create a happy, stable family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:57 PM
2

I'm a man with a high net worth. In my country, a woman can marry me and then divorce me, taking half my assets. What should I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 11:46 AM
5

There's a red pill reading list which you can find using the search bar. It's got everything from pick up guides to Taoist philosophy. I downloaded a while back. It's got all the books in one downloadable file. This site has a lot of crossover with that list and a few extra.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:27 PM
25

This post has really separated the men from the boys. OP you've made your decision. It's backed by logic. Stick with it.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:35 PM
6

They were asking for sources of RP gurus who have been outed. We can all see what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 10:31 AM
8

You've come here and said that they have been outed. The burden of proof is on you. If you had claimed, 'theres no proof these guys are successful with women' then you might be right. But youve claimed that counter evidence exists and then when asked what it is, just given their names and called bullshit. I don't watch any of these guys but I know that Rollo is married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 09:46 AM
1

Hey - 6s need love too!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 09:24 AM
1

Then go and argue with people that think that, I'll be on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:42 AM
1

No, they think they are fucking people like Brad Pitt i.e. rich, popular, handsome, successful
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:05 AM
-1

I do alright but I appreciate your concern
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:02 AM
2

Ha - yup, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:50 PM
5

It's difficult to contradict anecdotal evidence but my first area of exploration would be that these men aren't 'losers'. They're likely the high-school drop-out who has access to drink/drugs/parties. They still have a social circle and they're offering access to the things that are desirable for that age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:38 PM
2

Asking what RP believes is like asking 'what do republicans believe?'. Some believe that big government is bad and some believe Trump is going to expose some paedophile ring or whatever other retarded conspiracy theory is going around. RP is no different - there's a lot of autists, larpers, keyboard warriors, salesmanship and general bullshit. It doesn't change the fact that most men will assess only a woman's youth and beauty before fucking her whilst most women will have more barriers to entry…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:30 PM
0

I didn't set the bar. Nature did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:11 PM
2

"Having sex is not the same as having sex with a partner who values your sexuality more than the materials you give them"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:09 PM
3

We is men. We don't want to fuck women because of their job, social status or money. We want to fuck them because they are hot. The same cannot be said of women's desire for men. If you gave a woman a chance to sleep with an illiterate, broke, loser Brad Pitt who lives in his mum's basement, most women would not. If you gave guys the option to fuck an illiterate, broke, loser, Angelina Jolie who lives in her mum's basement most would run there, say hi to her mum and head downstairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:02 PM
4

No it doesn't because we don't give a shit if she's working or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:54 PM
1

I think you're arguing against the wrong person. I was just saying that in relation to the other dude's argument, you should tackle the ball not the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:34 PM
2

Yeah - punishing them as a deterrent. Not because he's a sadist. Also, making two separate arguments does not constitute a contradiction. Like I said - I don't agree - but your critique isn't accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:37 PM
4

I agree. It's really a problem that has no humane solution. Ideally you want more educated / responsible people in the world. But educated / responsible people have less kids. How do you solve that issue? I'd go for massive investment into education, maximum wage, redistributive tax to try and achieving relative social equality. But realistically, this is not going to happen. Others go for more direct methods like put something in the water. The solution that most of the West has gone for is 'ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:20 PM
0

He wants a strong deterrent and for people to take more responsibility for their own lack of financial planning. I don't agree with his method but misrepresenting his argument achieves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:08 PM
43

I have a good friend who doesn't even put pics of his kids on social media. If they're out for a walk the kids will be facing the other way or something so the kids' privacy is respected. This kid has been screenshotted from tinder onto Reddit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 04:23 PM
25

I think I can save her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 04:21 PM
5

No homo but I looked through your profile and your body transformation is incredible. Great work. As far as your Tinder luck goes, I genuinely have no idea. Could just be which city you're in. I've used tinder all over the world and generally the richer the country/city the more difficult it is. But generally speaking, if you're an 8 out of 10 on Tinder, you'll normally match with 5s and 6s quite comfortably. So maybe you're only swiping girls that you think are at your level, but those girls ar…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:22 PM
1

Guys don't click on OPs profile... Trust me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/21 09:17 PM
2

You sexy minx you.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 08:27 PM
14

It's been said 1,000 times on here I'm sure. If you're not in the top 10% attractiveness, neither will work and you need to approach in person (whilst continuing to improve) If you're in the top 10% of attractiveness, either will work but you should still approach in person (whilst continuing to improve)
/r/askTRP10/02/21 07:55 PM
12

Most men can't get regular casual sex. Therefore they're happy to settle for a decent enough woman who they can sleep with regularly. I don't think many guys will 'date' a woman they dislike but they'll definitely fuck them regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:50 PM
8

This is the best insight into pair bonding that I've read
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/21 02:16 AM
2

It's not exactly a like for like comparison with the US. In the UK health care is free. The gap between rich and poor is smaller. Taxes are higher. On the flip side if you work any job full time you generally have enough to get by.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 02:12 AM
3

This advice is absolutely spot on I did exactly what is described in the last paragraph. Now I'm balancing it out with index funds. Money makes money.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:16 PM
9

There's pros and cons dude. But no one's going to advise getting a girlfriend just so you're experienced at having a girlfriend when you don't currently want a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:52 AM
5

Haha fair enough. At least you apply it consistently. I'd incorrectly assumed you'd have a double standard that pressuring a woman for sex is wrong but pressuring for marriage is fine. I still think it's wrong in both instances but we can agree to disagree there.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 11:32 PM
1

I'd say it's related. It's the same situation, roles reversed, with sex substituted for marriage. Is pressure growth?
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 11:15 PM
7

OP doesn't know why he's waiting. That's why I suggested talking to him. If she were to just kick her feet up and say nothing she'd be open to getting strung along. The fact that she's having the conversation is a gentle reminder of her expectations. There's positive and negative pressure. Would you repeat the same 'pressure is growth' mantra to him if she had told him she'd sleep with him by now and then she hadn't?
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 10:58 PM
6

OPs post sounds like she's pretty happy in the relationship and from what she's described it sounds like he also intends to marry her. There's some underlying issue that's causing his hesitance which even OP isn't sure of. Therefore I'd advise asking him, listening to his answer and seeing what the state of play is once both of them understand each others position. This isn't a 'pressure to succeed' situation. Marrying her isn't an objectively correct path, it's a subjective one. He needs to dec…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 10:45 PM
8

I don't wanna hijack OPs thread but if you've experienced similar then I got over it by travelling a lot, learning new skills, meeting some great women.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 06:38 PM
2

I read this is in Patrice's voice. 100% logic, 0% tactical soap.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:05 PM
60

I dated a girl, mid 20s, virgin (saving herself for marriage), never been kissed. Good family, good job and head-turningly beautiful. A complete box ticker. She wanted marriage from about 3 months in. We had sex about 6 months in (she told me she was ready). However, her lack of relationship experience - in my opinion - made her very naive. I'd been dating/having sex since I was 16 and she'd never had a boyfriend. All her friends were getting married and she just went by emotion, 'it feels right…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 03:35 PM
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Disclaimer: I'm a dude His actions are clearly telling you he's not ready. You've got your future mapped out and he has it mapped out too and there's obviously a discrepancy there. I'd recommend a direct / honest / zero-pressure conversation asking what his vision for the relationship is and seeing whether a compromise can be found. You want to avoid being strung along but you also want to avoid pressuring him into doing something that he'll regret/resent you for later.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 02:14 PM
5

What's a massage boy and what's a yogi
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 02:13 PM
5

Search for 'DARE not DEER'. Also try illimitable man, he has a long article on shit tests.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 10:07 AM
11

How frequently do you think it's down to laziness and incompetence? Whilst only anecdotal, I know no one who's ever been fired for those reasons. I know plenty that been made redundant. The first dude has a point. Whilst it can be depressing to think other people don't care for you unconditionally, it's better to just accept that that's human nature and to prepare for it. It's also why TRP often advises to go make sure you have been with your partner through a difficult period before marriage to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 12:37 AM
1

Personally I have no excuse. I'm just saying if you were the son of Jeff Bezos then you'd have a lot easier time breaking into the top 1% than if you were the son of a garbage man living in the ghetto.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:33 PM
1

It's undeniable that the hand you were dealt has an impact on how hard/easily you can improve. No one's saying stop trying but there has to be an element of realism in there too.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:27 PM
2

Tell me about it. The gym closures have hit me hard. I'm doing home workouts but it's just not the same. Can't wait for things to open up again.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:20 PM
2

Wealth Top 1% is extremely difficult if you're talking about wealth/success because the overwhelming majority are born into it. Top 20% is very achievable if you weren't dealt a completely shit hand. Body Top 1% achievable but will mean sacrificing other areas of your life. Good genetics will also be helpful. Top 20% very achievable if you keep active, gym 4 times a week and eat right Social Generally correlates with wealth. If you've got a high powered job / high quality education / family cont…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:18 PM
2

Did you buy GameStop at $300?
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:10 PM
6

I've been saying the same thing for ages. It's exactly the same thing except more memes and more anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:08 PM
1

I don't wanna steer you wrong so have a look yourself but I remember something in the back of my mind that it's kind of more of an afro/Carribbean party culture (like Rio is a melting pot) and darker women. Also they have the carnival there. It's definitely less visited than Medellin and Cartagena (but therefore more dangerous for tourists and probably harder to integrate).
/r/askTRP05/02/21 09:35 PM
26

I don't see it as a way to gain the advantage. I see it as a technique to stop yourself being taken advantage of. TRP is reminding guys of their value and to stop investing in loser women and getting nothing in return. Instead, you should be cautious and actively vet women for red flags. You also shouldn't appease women's threats to leave by offering committment unless you also want to be comitted. At the same time it also argues for a continuous self improvement drive which will enhance your li…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:26 PM
1

I've only been to Medellin but from the people I spoken to and the research I've done it would be: 1) Cali (multiple recommendations for nightlife / friendly people) 2) Barranquilla (a bit wilder/crazier/more dangerous - think like Rio but much smaller). 3) Bogotá (a complete shit hole but has some cool cultural/touristy places) Heard good things about Cartagena too but I think it's more of a seedy/party destination which I'm not into so much. Might be fun for a week though. Overall though I cho…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:56 PM
20

Don't shit where you eat
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:37 PM
1

I had something like 'pasando el verano en Medellin'. Something vague. Maybe Covid has something to do with it? I went pre covid. I guess all the bars and stuff are shut now? Yeah not just el poblado but the nice side next to all the posh bars and restaurants, not the party side. Penthouse with a terrace and mountain views. So I'd take them to this cocktail bar next to mine and then say let's grab a pizza and eat it back at mine. I had tickets go go back last September but they got cancelled due…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:33 PM
1

I still have a screenshot on my phone showing over 1000 tinder matches on my way home that I didn't get a chance to respond to. It was like shooting fish in a barrel. I do speak fluent Spanish though and I put in my profile that I'd be there for a while so maybe girls weren't as scared of the pump and dump. I also had a penthouse in the best area. Anyway that aside I feel like we should be best friends. I'm in my 30s, speak 3 languages and basically just a full time travelling sexpat.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:12 PM
8

Dude seriously. What the hell are you doing? Stop dating ghetto trash. Most of them have boyfriends / pimps and/or have at least 3 kids. I spent 3 months in Medellin last year. It was the easiest place to meet women I've ever been (possibly on par with Manila). Every single woman I met came back to my place on the first night. Maximum age 23. You are the prize over there, start acting like it.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:00 PM
3

Totally agree. I'm not into bdsm but I think the same applies for all porn. I hate fake/too perfect women and scenarios. Women want to be the subject of genuine animalistic desire and men want a woman to desperately want them to fuck her and completely submit to him. Therefore you need a backstory. Why does he want her and why does she want him? That's why you get weird (yet extremely popular) scenarios like 'stuck in a washing machine' or 'what are you doing step brooo?'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 07:01 PM
3

Haha sorry I'm all out of Disney stories, can I interest you in a healthy dose of reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:19 PM
3

Haha I have no idea what the gamer girl bathwater thing is. But yeah I'd agree that male nature enjoys domination and violence and women's nature likes being dominated / submissive. That's basically the premise of evolutionary biology when applied to relationships. There are inherent reasons why we are built this way and it's enabled our species to survive/thrive. It doesn't make either is morally right or wrong or even superior. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 04:49 PM
5

The same dynamic applies to anything you enjoy. It's not only applicable to addictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 03:29 PM
8

It's a bit chicken and egg isn't it? Porn has got more extreme because that's where the demand is. That kind of porn becomes the most popular so people make more of it and more extreme versions and the cycle continues. Very few people actively prefer softcore or 'romantic' porn. There's definitely an element of human nature that enjoys domination and violence. Just look at the most popular movies, TV shows, games...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 03:25 PM
1

There was literally a post a few days ago on TRP that was asking whether it would go mainstream and every single person agreed that it wouldnt. The reason is because anytime any of these topics are debated, you get strawmanned into being a misoginist/alt-right nut job in the same way Cathy Newman tried to do to Jordan Peterson.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 02:38 PM
26

I think he's asking, is this innate and therefore difficult to avoid no matter how many women there are or was his one broken? Personally I don't think it's vulnerability per se but more an over eagerness to share both the content of your problems and their burden. Women want to feel close to you but they don't want you to seem weak/helpless. It's kind of the same with men displaying 'feminine' characteristics. If you are hygienic and tidy then that's desirable generally but if you are shaving y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:45 PM
2

I also do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:03 PM
0

I almost never want them to stay either. My standards for people I'll hang out with and my standards for who I'll fuck are not the same. Mark Normand (stand up) had a good bit about this. I do all the work trying to impress you and, if it works, you sleep with me. Then it's your turn to convince me I want you to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:06 PM
20

Dude, go to the doctor.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 03:19 PM
14

Agreed. And always trust your gut. If it doesn't sit right then there's a reason. OP also brushed past his other two plates pretty quickly in the description. I don't wanna be an asshole and call bullshit but if it were me I'd probably be weighing up what I'd be giving up a bit more. Giving up two other women for one who I've known 2 months doesn't sound like a good trade off on the face of it.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:05 AM
36

That's how men think. We are attracted by women's beauty and youth and because it's often not easy to get sex, we rationalise that we might as well stay and the relationship slowly escalates until marriage kids (and most likely divorce and/or misery years later). Don't try and override your nature. Keep dating multiple girls you find attractive but actively vet them for green flags. If your objective is marriage/kids then funnel them down until you have one left that isn't a bat-shit crazy whore…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:42 PM
24

I don't care but please at least fuck one of them
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:18 PM
2

I found this article quite helpful. TL/DR - everyone has a natural style and different women are drawn to different styles. Try and incorporate all of them and mix them up depending on who you're chasing.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 09:51 PM
1

Haha it is what it is baby
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:14 PM
13

How are you even on purple pill if you believe that? Men are attracted by youth and beauty. Women are attached by looks, status, wealth, social standing, loyalty (all to varying degrees). If you offered a man the chance to sleep with a dirt poor, dumb, illiterate carbon copy of a prime Angelina Jolie - 90% would say yes. He'd be enamoured with her at first and then either stick cuz he thinks he can't do any better or cut her loose later down the line. Give women the option to sleep with a dirt p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 11:18 PM
3

Sorry but this isn't true. Men love women on the front end. Women love men on the back end. If we're thinking 'fuck yes' in the early stages it's based on sexual attraction and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:01 PM
55

I mean.. this is pretty standard advice whether you're a man or a woman. I said the same thing to my friend who was dating a girl with kids and still talking to her ex. I said the same to a female friend who was paying into the mortgage without her name on the deed. Consider what happens if things go wrong and take reasonable precautions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 04:27 PM
2

Post it then
/r/askTRP13/01/21 12:29 PM
6

Best response right here. I love animals but I travel half the year. I'll get a dog when I'm 40 and I'm settled down.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:47 AM
7

Fuck him and prove her wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:03 PM
6

Eh - I think it's a valid question. A lot of women want to force conversation/phone calls/texts because they feel like that's what couples should be doing. Every one of my exes has asked 'why don't you text / call me more?'. Always go with you gut. If she's trying to make you talk to her when you'd rather be doing something else then don't do it. If you do wanna speak to her more, then do it. If you're asking whether you should do it based on 'building and maintaing attraction' or some bullshit …
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:18 PM
8

Honestly I think this dude is too far gone. He's going to carry on doing what he's doing regardless. Diagnosis: Severe oneitis Treatment: Speak to other women, work on your life purpose.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 01:53 PM
8

Im one of these men. Reasons: Cultural. western people are normally more individualistic and materialistic, less 'worldly' i.e. only watching Hollywood movies, speaking one language, only knowing about their own culture, politics, etc. I speak 3 languages and I'm super into different cultures so it's just a deal breaker for me if someone has no interest in that. Family values. Often raised by parents who kicked them out when they were 18 or made them pay rent. Then when the parents get older the…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/21 12:31 PM
1

You probably are putting enough effort in but just not channeling into the right areas. It needs to be authentic, targeted with an outcome in mind. Otherwise you just turn into one of those mindless people that goes to Machu Pichu to take a picture and say that they did it. The experience didn't change them or enrich their lives, they just did it to feel like they are interesting/adventurous.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:42 PM
1

From your post and your replies, to me it seems like you're doing all the right things to cover your ass and say 'but I did all this!' but your heart's not really in it. I'm in a similar position, well off financially but it makes me a bit too comfortable and not willing to get out of my comfort zone sometimes. I recommend putting your money to work and outsourcing your needs. Get a therapist, PT, masseuse, nutritionist, chef, stylist or whatever else you need to both push you and support you. I…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 09:40 PM
3

I gotta say I don't really follow the logic even though I agree with the conclusion that monogamy is the best system. Wouldn't the Pareto principle also assert that 20% of the people do 80% of the work and therefore negate your assertion that the sexless 80% would down tools (and hence collapse of society)? Also the stigma you're arguing against is against cheaters / hypergamy. My understanding is that 'slut shaming' is more often levelled against women who sleep around, i.e. riding the CC but n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/21 07:49 PM
6

I mean.. ever heard of trophy wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:19 PM
4

In Germany it's actually the first thing you offer. I've gone in for a handshake before only for the girl to turn around and unbuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:17 PM
10

I'm not sure this is true. If you're a truly skilled carpenter making good money then its probably more attractive than 20k bank job. I think they're more likely to look down on things society looks down on like garbage man, truck driver. Generally greater skill, training, money and perks are viewed favourably.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:22 PM
8

If you travel a lot / visit cool places / have exciting experiences it definitely increases your SMV. Social media can be used as a form of advertising to show that you aren't the average chump. However, too much of it turns you into an empty attention whore. I don't see an issue with posting one pic in each place and then just signing out and getting on with your life. Like a permanent online advert for you and your life.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:39 PM
10

Ok mate see you tomorrow.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:50 AM
19

I've never abided by this. Granted I won't start talking about it at work or with people I don't trust but I want to hear opposing viewpoints and to be challenged. Firstly, it can point out areas where my logic may be flawed. Secondly, it can reaffirm my views if no convincing counter arguments can be found. If you're only in your head the whole time, it's its own kind of echo chamber. A lot of my friends still believe in 'love' and 'the one'. When I started to talk to them about this stuff they…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:08 PM
5

Think I found another one of those Americans who speaks as if America = the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 08:41 PM
84

Fuck him missionary and maintain eye contact to assert dominance
/r/askTRP30/11/20 04:58 PM
2

1) Who are the "red pill prominent voices"? 2) No one said the peak is 40. I would argue that the peak is around 28-35. Body filled out, finances in check, experienced and more confident. Any later than that and you need to start compensating using a combo of staying in amazing shape and/or being famous and/or becoming extremely successful. It's true that a significant proportion of women in their early 20s in the countries you've listed will not date a man in his 30s because it sounds 'icky'. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:52 PM
3

Firstly, all you need is a percentage of attractive women in their 20s to find men in their 30s attractive. Not all of them. Secondly, this depends on the country. I'm guessing you're in the USA because most people that are in the USA speak as though their experience is how the world works. Fly to South America, Asia, Eastern Europe or anywhere that has maintained more traditional values and age gaps of 10 years plus are extremely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 03:25 PM
19

Family guy did this for me. I just see the scene where he puts his finger in the poster's butt hole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/20 04:03 PM
1

Does your partner know your number?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 01:01 PM
7

Exactly. Bigfoot deserves love just like anyone else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 11:30 AM
116

How would I go about finding someone who would pay me $20 to suck my dick? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 02:57 PM
1

Very beta. True alphas make them watch.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:03 PM
4

you made them watch??
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:10 AM
25

This one gets it. Most of us have no problem paying, we just want to feel appreciated and not taken advantage of.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 05:01 PM
2

Good advice. I thought I was gonna read some dude saying 'stop whining' or some shit.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:09 AM
9

TRP just highlights the realities of the dating market. People can choose to navigate it how they wish or ignore it completely. Some people come at it from a place of anger. Some people use it as a way to manipulate people into getting what they want. Some just use it as a cautionary tale so they don't end up miserable in the long run or giving away half their shit. Personally I subscribe to the majority of it, i.e. women are attracted by status, wealth, looks, strength, loyalty (all to differin…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/20 10:45 PM
1

Optimal depends on the outcome you're after. I like honesty and logic because it's stress-free. If your only goal is to keep them around for longer then I agree with you, there's better methods than mine.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:47 AM
2

Probably not a popular opinion but I always choose the route of honesty and logic. Just say you understand, but you don't believe in going exclusive because someone asks for it, you choose it because you've decided that overall it's the route that will make you most happy. Right now you don't think it is. She can take it or leave it.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 09:47 PM
14

I don't understand.. if the house is yours and you weren't married how could you only be awarded 35%?
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 08:16 PM
1

I mean you've presented all the possible negatives. Equally I could present all the possible positives. I think it's a bit of a crap shoot either way.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:41 AM
5

Ha yeah I'll need a nice little nest egg in case that comes to pass. My grandad lived with us until he died last year at 93 with severe dementia. We'd never even consider putting him in a home. Id feed him, bathe him, wipe his ass - whatever he needed. But I appreciate that times may well change by the time I reach that age (assuming that I do).
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:54 PM
1

Cheers buddy. Appreciate your insight as always.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:48 PM
22

Yeah to be honest, this is exactly what I believe and preach. Half of marriages end in divorce, at least half of the remaining unhappy. I just have a fear of being 70, all alone, sitting in a rocking chair. Blood ties are the only true loyalty I believe in and progeny is the only chance of something akin to immortality. So my plan is to reduce risk as much as possible but still go ahead with the wife and kids someday.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:42 PM
44

What about when you're 60 or 70? Surely that kind of life has a shelf life. My parents are in their 70s and whilst they do fight from time to time they enjoying doing simple things together and their grandkids are their number 1 source of joy. I'm not criticising, I don't plan on getting married or having kids anytime soon but my vision of old age is a wife, kids and grandkids around me.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:32 PM
13

But(t) fuck her friends
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:47 PM
2

It's difficult to say from the info you've provided but if you've ruled out money and looks then that leaves social status as the next big one. Maybe he's the life of the party 'funny' drunk dude who's always making people smile. It could be she's fucked in the head and is attracted to a certain type of fucked up person. I understand the need for reflection, we've all been there. But believe me when I say try and minimise the amount of time you think about it (delete every reminder / block all f…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 09:01 PM
4

Yet you felt the need to go back and delete your world of Warcraft post...
/r/askTRP16/10/20 04:09 PM
3

Your only posts are on world of warcraft and nofap. I very much doubt you've fucked around 400 women.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 01:09 PM
9

This was really painful to read. You've lost all control. You need to decide what you want and start calling the shots. Instead you're 5 steps behind, responding to her actions. Everything you've stated is "she did this so I did this.. then she did this!". Why is she in your house? Why did it take her breaking up with you to start improving yourself (gym / clothes)? Why are you letting her take your dog? You obviously never prepared relationship insurance. By which I mean, make sure the house is…
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:30 PM
15

If you marry them you have to show them the chart. It's in the sidebar somewhere.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 09:40 AM
6

The biological imperative to procreate and give yourself and your offspring the best chance of survival
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:14 PM
2

I'd be more scared that 'she' is a he
/r/askTRP02/10/20 01:57 PM
3

So true
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:05 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with finding a healthy balance. Accepting one's natural urges but adopting them to modern morality. The problem is many people will try and argue that broccoli does actually taste better than Krispy Kremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 01:44 PM
1

Here’s another generalisation, “women like tall men”. There are exceptions to this rule. However, not many would argue against it. It's the same thing to say "men prefer younger women". RE: the rest - fundamentally we have the same perspective. We just disagree on how selfish human nature is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 07:37 PM
1

Yup. So we agree. Younger women are higher value and men would date them if they could. Regarding the cynicism. Relationships are transactional. Most of the time it's not a simple trade of resources for sex. This would be prostitution or a stereotypical gold digger (both of which exist). Instead, as highly evolved primates, we have learned that working in groups, doing good by other people, will often bring future rewards. These are transactions, but more subtle ones which take place over a peri…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 09:17 AM
1

So if a man's peak value is in his 30s, and a woman's is in her early 20s, then why do these two groups so rarely date each other? Partly social stigma. I never used to even consider dating a women more then 3-4 years younger. It was just a belief I held which I never questioned. I'd tell myself they'd be too immature or 'it'd just be weird'. Whenever the man's value is extremely high (actors, singers, models, very successful businessmen) he is likely to attract and date much younger women. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:57 PM
2

The girls who had no interest in you when you were 20, will probably still have no interest in you when you're 30 Most men are more financially secure / higher status at 30 than at 20. If you believe that a considerable factor in what attracts women is wealth / status then it follows that men will be more attractive to women at 30 than at 20. If you don't believe that women are (at least in part) attracted to wealth / status then there's no point reading on. ​ The notion that women can't find gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:38 PM
28

It's not that they didn't choose them because they hadn't met them yet. It's that they consistently made bad choices in their 20s and now expect a settled / established man to invest in a rapidly declining stock. Men in their 20s (low value) = I just want to find a nice woman and settle down Men in their 30s (high value) = I've been burnt / rejected so I'm not going to allow any woman in easily Women in their 20s (high value) = I just wanna have fun / party / experiment Women in their 30s (low v…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 10:13 AM
8

Dude are you lost?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:46 PM
3

I dunno man. Maybe we should ask one of the mods for permission.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 11:14 AM
9

This is the one OP. Listen to the man.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:16 PM
10

You feel inadequate and that she's the best you can do. The truth is with that mindset it was always going to end. If you're already managing to bang a 9 then you must have something going for you. You're probably a 7/8 with a little bit of money and in the top 20% of guys. People like that luck into a 9 every now and then but they'll be few and far between. The only solution you have if you want to bang 9s regularly is continue to improve until you're in the top 1% or even 0.1%. However, I'd st…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:54 PM
8

There are, in fact, only black and whites when it comes to moral questions Much more intelligent people than you or I have been debating the great moral questions for millennia. If you have some groundbreaking new information on this topic please do share. ​ To say that it's mature to have no convictions is totally backwards No one said this ​ A mind which blows in the wind and changes direction based on the crowd? Replace this with 'a mind that seeks new and convincing evidence from different s…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 05:34 PM
10

Yeah it wasn't an accusation against you, more a comment on the direction that the world is headed. There is a difference between having an open mind/balanced perspective vs just being in denial. Which is he? As far as the kid-raising goes, the no.1 most important thing is to encourage their critical faculties. I.e. examine the evidence for themselves, draw conclusions, teach them how to spot the tricks/manipulations people use to distort evidence. So as long as he's logical, rational and places…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 03:30 PM
36

To be fair I would argue his stance is the mature one. There's no black/white answer to life's big questions. 'Alt-right' vs SJW, Socialism vs Capitalism, Red-pill vs blue pill - there's truth on both sides (to varying degrees). The real problem is a combination of widespread ignorance and arrogance. People who have a closed mind who think they have all the answers. The correct solution is to always keep an open mind, accept that you could be (and almost certainly are) mistaken in some of the co…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 03:09 PM
2

Haha so true. No one wants to see scalp.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:40 PM
1

How much nudity is excessive?
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:24 PM
9

Fried chicken?? True alphas grill
/r/askTRP13/08/20 03:14 PM
19

Full disclosure I'm a dude but here's my advice: Don't assume your friends marriages are perfect. Grass is always greener. They may well divorce/be unhappy in the future. Yes, good looking people (especially women) have a much easier time of things. A 9/10 will have offers left right and centre. However, just like guys, women can offset a lot of unfortunate facial genetics by being in great physical shape/dressing well etc. This comes down to whether you see the investment as worth it for the re…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/20 11:53 PM
11

Ha - love this
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/20 10:12 PM
1

People's desires, goals and expectations are not uniform. However, most men want to have a lot of casual sex but also want the stable family life + kids. These desires are often not congruent and some kind of trade-off needs to be found. When it comes to settling down, most men do not want a woman who has been railed by 100 different men. I don't place a value judgement on people's life choices. Nor do I believe in restricting anyone's choices as long as their actions do not harm anyone else. As…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 08:25 PM
6

It's in my head and in most other people's heads. If you offered a man the exact same woman yet one had had 100 sexual partners and the other had had 3, the vast majority would choose the one with 3. As I've now stated twice, I believe in free choice. I wouldn't want any restrictions imposed by an external force on two consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:11 PM
1

Are you saying that one should only hold opinions on issues that affect them directly? Do you practice what you preach?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:44 PM
2

I'm not against casual sex or the women who practice it. I believe in free choice to live the life you want whilst recognising that actions have consequences. People of quality (men and women) weigh up long term aims Vs short term desires and find some kind of trade off which suits them. Having a lot of casual sex means you give into your short term desires and compromise your long term aims - if your aim is to find a good husband. This is because sleeping around lowers your value as a woman in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:41 PM
3

I'm asking for personal responsibility for one's actions. With respect to 'what are they supposed to do?' I find it helps to ask oneself 'how would I want my daughter to act?'. Personally, I wouldn't want her to repress her sexuality but at the same time I would not want her getting railed by 100 men. I'd want her to make responsible decisions and think about how her actions today will affect her life in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:30 PM
54

What we don't like is a woman not owning her decisions. Fuck 100 guys if you want to and if that what makes you happy but realise few men will want to commit to you. We love sluts when they own being a slut. We don't like sluts who become born again virgins and decide it's time to cash in on a rapidly depreciating, well-used asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 11:42 AM
2

The Tories of today are just a continuation of Blair's Labour, with Labour veering to the left under Corbyn and now trying to reclaim some of the (relative) centre ground under Starmer. It's referred to as 'free market economics' with the caveat that big businesses/banks get huge (taxpayer funded) bailouts when they fail. The same is happening all over the world. That is not capitalism. That is socialism (i.e. the state / taxpayer propping up business and the idea of "too big to fail").
/r/askTRP03/08/20 04:34 PM
19

Late to the party but here's my take: You have to be willing to lower your standards considerably to be satisfied with Tinder. It's very rare you'll get a date with a girl on the same level as you. If you're an 8 and you're happy with 4's/5's and a few 6s then happy hunting. If that's not good enough for you then it's gonna feel like a knock to your confidence because the girls you find attractive are matching with the 10s. That's why most people are saying approach in person. I know quite a few…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:52 PM
3

I don't know if I'm allowed to call the TRPcops about this but he definitely deserves a visit from them
/r/askTRP01/08/20 10:55 PM
15

run
/r/askTRP01/08/20 10:51 PM
2

Agree with the Radish. I don't think he means any disrespect saying you aren't a serious reader. Someone who consumes 2-3 dense books a week would get through that book in an afternoon. Agree that it's not the most well written book, however. Also, if you've spent a little time on here before reading it a lot of the terms would already be familiar.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:51 PM
5

Completely agree dude. Guys commenting this are confusing attraction with LTR material. How can you tell if someone is kind / loyal / has shared values within 10 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:34 PM
4

If you listen to Patrice O'Neal he speaks on this point a bit. Fundementally women don't want 100 dicks, they want one (or possibly 2/3) good dicks. Most guys innately want 100 women. Also, women often cheat to upgrade (branch-swing) not through pure desire. I don't think there should be a hard and fast rule for anything. Ultimately you alone set your own standards for what you want/expect in a relationship.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:42 PM
-3

What has been debunked?
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:31 PM
3

This is the one OP. White and handsome is no.1 most important, followed by rich, speaking the local language and being fluent in English. Source: been to all of 'those' counties
/r/askTRP22/07/20 09:16 AM
2

https://youtu.be/A572eclLc68
/r/askTRP20/07/20 10:34 PM
8

Madonna whore complex https://lmgtfy.com/?q=madonna+whore+complex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 01:34 PM
1

Try the FIRE subreddit. Lots of decent advice on their IMO
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:31 AM
3

There's infinite ways to make money. The basic principle is find out what people want, give it to them and charge them. If you've developed the social circles and are outstanding in a particular skill then you'll be able to find people willing to pay you money for your skillset/knowledge/ability.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:14 AM
11

That's cool buddy. Keep at it. For me the basic principles of becoming 'sucessful' are: sort your money out (don't buy stupid shit and invest your money) sort your body out (get in shape and stay there) expand your social circles (make friends with new and interesting people) find out what you like doing and become exceptional at it And don't get married until you're at least 35
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:02 AM
1

Pick a skill and stick with it
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:43 AM
9

he moved in
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:04 PM
2

I think everyone (including men) has a limit where they'll just cut and run. Women, because they often act on emotion are more prone to doing this seemingly out of the blue. I think it's undeniable that some women are less likely to cheat / leave / be hypergamous than others. It's not saying that there's a magical one that won't, it's saying some are markedly better than others. But sure if you want to completely mitigate the risk then I agree, the only safe way to do so is to never get married.…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:25 PM
2

Yeah I guess it depends what he means by legal. My parents for example get half of the others pension when one dies - in perpetuity. I'm very cautious when it comes to marriage but think I will marry one day. Like one guy here says, just find an average looking girl with good values from a relatively wealthy family.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:02 PM
6

Depending on the country there are tax incentives i.e. joint allowances for certain tax thresholds.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:36 PM
1

I'm not criticising anyone (different dude to whoever posted the first comment in this thread). I'm just saying your analogy was wrong.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 10:55 PM
3

I mean I'd probably go somewhere in between. Someone who's learned the theory, put it into practice but not got so old that the theory is out of date.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 10:17 PM
5

What a moronic idea. I guess you avoid doctors who don't have serious illnesses. This example doesn't work. He said "Never trust a bartender that don't drink". So it would be "Never trust a doctor who hasn't put his treatments into practice".
/r/askTRP08/07/20 09:12 PM
2

There are obviously levels. Some women are more inclined to cheat or turn on you and others less so. 'No unicorns' from my perspective is the idea that inherently all human are self-interested and everyone has a level at which they would cut someone out and never look back. Aim for a good woman who has strong family values and supports you in your life goals. In return, continue to be valuable to her by being the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:47 PM
4

https://youtu.be/7WH1Bsdzh7A
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:52 PM
1

I've just checked this out. It's actually quite interesting how similar it is to TRP. i.e. - improve yourself, be the prize, don't give them what they want until they've earned it, reward and punishment, focus on your goals.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:26 AM
11

Find 4 other women and stop focusing on her.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:28 AM
12

Open your wallet and take out an Amex centurion card
/r/askTRP18/06/20 10:26 AM
1

Majority of people don't engage with the argument or the evidence. They just dip in, find some ammo which supports their point of view and label it bad. It's not too hard to find ammo here. I saw a post on the main sub with lots of upvotes about how Muslims are being imported by governments to sow divisions within society so "they" can rule us more easily. When I asked for a source/evidence I got sent to a Wikipedia conspiracy page. If I was 18 and impressionable I might think 'well they were ri…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:54 PM
3

It's not you. It's the dude who's probably tries to shoehorn his views on immigration into every post. I'd recommend asking them where they are from early in the exchange. They'll normally ask you the same back.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 11:21 AM
28

Completely agree. She sensed she was higher value in that moment and ended it. She'll probably regret it but I'd never take her back.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:38 PM
6

If you want an explanation for her behaviour it's this: She was horny and made a decision with her horny brain. In the morning she sobered up and was thinking with her rational brain. She's probably thinking what she did is taboo/wrong and wanted to distance herself from the act. All you needed to do was back off until she was horny again. If the sex was good she'll come back around.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:12 AM
2

Agreed. There's differing opinions on here and I think its a judgement call but personally I've got too much to lose.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:19 PM
3

Do yourself a favour right now and learn to critically analyse bullshit claims such as 'sounds making you grow taller'. Look for scientific evidence that either supports or disproves it. In this instance you'll find absolutely zero scientific evidence that this claim is true. Luckily RP generally attracts more logical / critical minds. However if you ask the internet these kinds of questions you're going to waste a lot of your life (and probably money) believing in horse shit. Also, you don't st…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:17 PM
1

Find another bitch. This one's broken.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:57 PM
2

Making me hungry for lasagna
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:09 PM
3

47
/r/askTRP17/05/20 11:20 PM
2

Reddit is a breeding ground for unsubstantiated anecdotal evidence. If there's any scientific evidence then reference it. Otherwise, I call bullshit. From what I've seen, cold showers and making your bed can contribute in a small way. Things like no-fap are on a par with people who believe they can manifest things by thinking about them.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 11:16 PM
1

Check her I.D. before you do anything
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:50 PM
21

2 guys and a girl is called a train. If she says that then she can choo choo the fuck outta there.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:49 PM
1

Great response dude.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:00 PM
1

Agreed but you gotta set firm rules otherwise people hamster their way into being beta and calling it alpha.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 02:33 PM
2

This is either terrible English or award winning poetry
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:06 AM
3

There's two types of traveling workers. Those who go abroad, stay in their own expat bubble and spend a decade partying / fucking / doing drugs and then coming home with nothing but herpes. Or there's the kind that immerses themselves, learns the language, meets new and interesting people along the way and uses their experience and networks to build a business. If you can be the second kind of person then do it. Most of the people I met were definitely the first kind.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:02 AM
6

The only way to win the game is not to play. The reason why she's acting this way is completely irrelevant. You only want to be open and honest because her games are making you feel insecure and you want clarification where you stand. This is exactly how you should be making her feel, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:19 AM
1

There is a guide on here somewhere if you give it a search. It's pretty simple stuff though. Just keep it light and short, create a couple talking points based on cool stuff you're doing (avoid boring run-of-the-mill questions) and set up a date asap. I also find just noticing funny stuff specific to a person and sending it to them works. E.g. I saw this really long German word in a news article and sent it to this German chick with my attempted pronunciation. She laughed, couple of lines of bac…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:02 AM
18

To me it sounds like she knows that she's got you. She needs to be thinking that you aren't bothered whether you see her again or not because you've got 10 other options. The best way to do this is to actually forget about her and pursue other options. She'll be back.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:55 PM
12

People don't shit on social media. It's can be great social proof if you actually have a cool life. The problem is people want to bypass the cool life (or overestimate how cool they are) and take the easy route to meet women because it's easier than talking to them IRL. Also, if you are looking to use the fact you've got 15k followers to game girls, you'll get the kind of girl for whom having 15k followers is important i.e. an airheaded instathot
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:39 PM
1

I think most people are willing to lie if it will benefit them and their close circle. All you're witnessing is that on a much bigger scale.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:33 PM
2

haha I'm sorry bro I couldn't resist. In all honesty I'd advise to try and wean yourself off Tinder. The games stacked against you. Women have their pick of men and most just use it for attention. Work on approaching face to face. Keep failing and learning until it becomes second nature.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:09 PM
3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zMAA35gh9So
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:04 PM
0

Spent 3 months in Colombia last year. Can confirm everything you said is true. Most girls I dated were working, going to uni and gymmed 3-4 times a week. Always looked good whenever I saw them and still had time to party.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:21 PM
9

lol this is an excellent sentence
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:17 AM
9

I'm in the same situation. Can go the Ronaldo route and get a surrogate. Personally I think I'll find a good 20 year old when I'm 40 and pop out a few kids with her.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:58 AM
4

All credit to Patrice O'Neal. If you haven't seen it, watch his stand up and the Black Phillip show. Genuinely life changing.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:57 AM
19

You can get dental dams. Just ask her "do you mind if I lay this sheet of plastic on your pussy before I eat it because I think you might be diseased' If she's a good girl she'll understand.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:34 AM
4

My best friend is Indian. I call him curry face and he calls me terrorist. We can do this because there's an underlying understanding that neither of us mean what we say and it's funny. That's different to him taking me to an event with Indians and I start calling everyone curry face.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:39 AM
3

Thanks for this buddy
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:31 PM
1

1) you're not a rock star 2) see 1
/r/askTRP02/05/20 09:07 PM
7

"I don't have Instagram/snapchat because I'm not a 13 year old girl"
/r/askTRP01/05/20 04:42 PM
5

This is a tough one. To me it sounds pretty 50/50. If you're going to stay at home make sure you don't spend any money on stupid shit so you don't have to do it forever. Save hard, invest and set up your future. If you move out then you'll have a great time and have some great memories to look back on. If your friends are cool with you coming over all the time (maybe even bringing girls?) then I'd stay at home and try and have the best of both worlds. Personally, I stayed at home, built up savin…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:08 AM
1

Haha date or plate I think the point still stands. 50 women minus: - whales - genetically unfortunate - crazy I'd say you're most likely left with a handful of women. SMV works both ways.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:41 PM
1

I would definitely contest your maths but yes overall the higher the SMV the greater your options. However, how many of those 50 women are women you would never date? Probably at least 40.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:08 PM
8

What would you gain from calling them out?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:30 PM
1

Wrong wrong wrong
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:27 PM
9

Honestly, the easiest way to make money is by having money. You need to have the capacity to save and invest. If the area you're living in makes this impossible, I would suggest relocate. If you're young, perhaps live with your parents for a while, build up your savings and buy assets which generate income (stocks/property). The other alternatives are get a high paying career job (which pays at least 2 x the average income for your area) or start a business. I never went the career route though …
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:38 PM
3

I answered a similar question a couple of days ago. It's a balance. One extreme would be PUA (learn techniques just to get women) and the other would be MGTOW (focus only on what you want, regardless of women). TRP is more of a middle-ground - self-improvement which naturally leads to pussy. However, 'improvement' is often narrowly defined as increased wealth, looks and fitness. If you're more spiritual and go down the meditation/'what do I actually want?' route then you'll probably end up at ni…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:14 PM
1

If it's not going to damage your growth in the long term (e.g. make you broke) I would definitely do it. Not for the women but going to another country and learning the language/culture is a great way to grow as a person and opens loads of doors. I spent half the year travelling and now speak 3 languages fluently. I've made a ton of new friends and dated women from all over the world.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 11:23 PM
2

this
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:30 PM
3

Sure. It depends how much you value both. Basically, one extreme would be PUA (learn techniques just to get women) and the other would be MGTOW (focus only on what you want, regardless of women). TRP is more of a middle-ground - self-improvement which naturally leads to pussy. However, 'improvement' is often defined as increased wealth, looks and fitness. I would argue that no-one on this forum have a true 'purpose' (including me) because if they did, they wouldn't be on Reddit.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:02 AM
1

Basically, yes you're right. There is a contradiction in doing things only for you and also wanting lots of sex. I'd advise that you try and find a balance. Also, if you're a kickboxer / warhammer level 50 elf and a girl asks 'what are your hobbies?', maybe lead with the kickboxing.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:08 PM
1

Who knows? I've dated clingy before. I just say that I don't have time to talk on the phone or text unless (I deem that) it's important.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:56 PM
1

You should be setting the paramters for the relationship, not her.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:51 PM
0

If she fucks you it's because she decided to. You don't owe her anything.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:40 PM
2

It may be different over there because I'm in the UK but over here it means shes an airheaded hoe.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:23 PM
1

This dude's gonna be on ex-redpill faster than you can say "i'm sorry baby please take me back"
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:42 PM
1

Where's the dude with the popcorn?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:13 PM
6

haha this is my guilty pleasure too. The funniest thing is whenever there's an 18 year old dating a 28 year old, the top comment is always "he's taking advantage of you" or "he's not mature enough to date someone his own age" Translation: My vagina is quickly drying up and I'm trying to promote a social stigma against men dating younger, more attractive women
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:30 PM
12

I was thinking she is the one. GTFO
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:14 PM
2

Gonna chime in here. I think you're both right in certain situations. Generally I go with vagueness and often its not brought up however sometimes it's just too glaring to continue avoiding and honesty is the best choice. Example. I was recently in Colombia for a few months and dating 3 women. When one would ask to meet up and I had plans with another, at first I'd say "Can't - going out with a friend" but it was pretty obvious and a bit inconvenient because they'd afterwards they'd probe with "…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 12:27 AM
4

This.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:47 PM
4

This. This. This.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 04:47 PM
4

You aren't going to get huge amounts of solid advice when posing existential questions such as this on here. Most of the guys are pretty young and just chasing ass. However, I do agree with the comments that say there is no logical upside (but you might get lucky - some marriages are happy and do last forever even if the man is BP). I'm also pretty high net worth and unmarried. I've thought about it and the only real solution is to marry in a country where divorce rape is less of an issue and/or…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 09:43 AM
23

A girl, yes. Girls, no.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:33 PM
4

Approach, get number, arrange date asap, text only for logistics, escalate, take her home, fuck her. After that's done you've escaped the friendzone and you'll never be able to increase her notch count and she'll never be able to think of you in a completely platonic way. After you've fucked her if you still feel the need to call her and make her laugh or discuss the merits of Plato's philosophy then go for it.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:51 PM
7

Stop paying attention to social media. And if you can't get off it completely then hide any chick you see as a potential sexual conquest so you aren't tempted to give her attention
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:19 PM
5

Are you fucking any of these women? Because if not, everything beyond line 2 of your process is completely pointless
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:17 PM
4

I'm sure you know well enough that you shouldn't listen to her. She's into you precisely because there's some mystery left. And if she wants to leave you let her walk.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:14 PM
10

I think if she's stopped pushing for an LTR and seems to be genuine she's probably found some new cock.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:07 PM
5

Depends where you look. If you meet her in the club or if she's 'travelling alone' I bet she's sucked more dicks than you've had hot dinners. However, there are many 'more traditional' girls with low body counts or even virgins. Problem is standard game won't work on them. You gotta dangle a relationship in front of them as bait because they know how to spot a fuckboy.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:48 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:02 PM
2

(just kidding hope you get over your depression)
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:16 AM
2

Well why don't you just go and marry the other guy then
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:15 AM
2

You haven't really detailed what's changed so it's difficult to offer any advice. It's either you or the world around you. At 31 though, the people you want to make laugh are probably 'settled' and most likely have a kid or two. This tends to make people more serious and takes away some of the carefree, darker humour. This is just conjecture though. From your description, it could be anything.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 11:03 PM
1

Don't message her, short answers which aren't looking to prolong the conversation if she hits you up. Work on yourself. Text her to meet up when quarantine is over.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 06:33 PM
1

What is her reaction when you escalate?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:50 AM
33

Self discipline is like a muscle. You need to build its strength gradually. If you go from 0 to 100 in one day it's likely you won't be strong enough and you'll fail.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 10:48 AM
13

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zGqL7lI9CEo
/r/askTRP10/04/20 02:17 PM
-2

If anyone has any scientific studies detailing the benefits of nofap I'd be interested in reading them. To me it's one of those things that sounds interesting and kind of logically makes sense (more testosterone or drive due to the body's desire to mate). However, I've looked and found nothing concrete. Just a lot of anecdotal evidence.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:42 AM
1

Que dijiste en español?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:47 AM
8

I don't have oneitis but I'm interested in her Then I assume you are chasing 5 other women as well? And wondering how to keep their interest?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:42 AM
2

Just try and lose the ego buddy. If you don't care what people think of you then they can't get to you.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:52 PM
7

Ah, to be 16 again..
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:41 AM
52

It should be irrelevant though as it's apolitical but unfortunately there are always those who try and hijack it to support their own political beliefs.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:28 PM
1

Bro, do you even khoreshe baademjun?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:21 PM
19

Stop Skype calling girls you haven't slept with
/r/askTRP06/04/20 01:26 PM
6

Girl 2 is playing you to get more evidence to send to girl one. Don't send anything incriminating via text to girl 2. Under normal circumstances I'd say ask her to meet up in person. This way you can deny anything she claims you said or if she actually is into you, you can proceed as normal. However, during Corona times, probably better to just ignore girl 2.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 01:25 PM
2

If she's a plate stop giving her so much attention. Also, who the hell asks 'should I change my photo?'. She sounds like an air head.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:22 PM
2

Haha no I would say redditors are very much on the side of nofap (hence the downvote of my comment). I mean when I go to find any scientific studies to support the idea, there don't seem to be any.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 09:29 PM
1

I've looked it up before because the concept sounding interesting but every claim they made was disproven.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 03:14 PM
3

To be honest it's not the advice that bugs me it's the level of questions. Scroll through and see how many you can answer with 'you have oneitis - find another bitch' or 'text only for logistics'.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:03 AM
3

Can anyone actually point to any credible evidence that no-fap is beneficial? I totally get the damaging aspects of watching too much porn but what exactly is the issue with choking my meat?
/r/askTRP05/04/20 10:57 AM
192

Ignore. You'll gain nothing from responding.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 10:50 AM
-5

Why don't you just stay with her and get some side? Take a trip once a year and sleep with a few girls then come back to your loving partner. Best of both worlds.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:56 PM
7

Precisely
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:43 PM
5

If that's what you enjoy and if those are your moral boundaries then fine. Not many will share your opinion. However I'd probably guess that you're pretty young. If you hit the gym consistently (basically become a man physically) and have/survive a few failed relationships in your 20s (become a man mentally) your perspective will probably change.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:31 PM
15

I think this dude's been sent back in time to terminate you.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:22 PM
2

Not sure what you're on about. Sex is the end goal and not a byproduct. Doesn't mean you don't enjoy the process of getting there.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:21 PM
2

It feels good if there's sex at the end of it
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:16 PM
5

This reads like you were the plate and you broke
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:46 PM
267

She'll change her mind another 4 times in the next week. Just be consistently inconsistent. Give her a bit of attention then take it away completely. Keeping her guessing plays on her insecurities and ultimately will have her come running. She should be questioning her own appearance / whether she's good enough for you. Not the other way around.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:30 AM
1

Attention / try and awaken captain save a ho
/r/askTRP26/03/20 07:53 AM
2

Having travelled quite extensively, I think it's fair to say that women from the US (and increasingly the UK) are materialistic and shallow. Women from SEA and SA are more traditional. There's some crossover in attractive traits in a man e.g. wealth. Wealthy guys can provide for the traditional girl (and her parents/13 siblings) and can buy Gucci purses for the shallow. Fame may also fit into this category. However, things like DJ-ing wouldn't be a 'respectable' profession for a traditional girl…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:30 PM
4

A lot of the issue is with the age of the people posting/commenting. Realistically if you're 18-25 and haven't had those crushing experiences it basically just turns into PUA questions. It's difficult to understand the concept of a life mission and goals beyond banging women when you're a horny 18 year-old. I know I certainly didn't...
/r/askTRP20/03/20 09:38 PM
2

Why would countries want to import Muslims? To what end?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 03:14 PM
1

This argument is stupid. Communism preserving eastern Europe as western Europe falls into decay? Try going to this country, forging a life/opening a business/affecting democratic change in one of these countries (not visiting with sexpat dollars). TRP is about building relationships based on traditional roles and navigating women's real desires and intentions. No place for neo Nazi bullshit.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:04 AM
2

Also TLDR but it sounds like you should be posting in a 'normal' relationship advice subreddit. If you're jumping into relationships with one woman and say you have 'really started liking' them then you aren't really accepting any of the principles of TRP.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 11:29 PM
2

I think this is very true. Thanks for the reply. I do hate that dynamic because I like to consider myself better than a 22 y/o uneducated, lower class, 9/10 girl and she should be grateful for my interest. But like you say, that feeling doesn't correlate with the laws of supply and demand...
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:53 PM
3

I'm in El tesoro. I'm a pretty seasoned traveller and always managed to avoid the gold diggers. Wouldn't pay for anything more than a drink or 2 unless we are already sleeping together and to be honest on previous travels the girls would often buy me dinner/drinks (I think to try and prove that they aren't in it for the money). They've almost always been middle class or higher girls, educated and 28+. It just seems to be my niche and no idea how to break out of it. I guess it will serve me well …
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:14 PM
1

Haha. I do. Got anything else?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 05:10 PM
1

Agree that there's no right and wrong. There's no hamstering, this is very much part of the learning phase. I'd prefer radio silence at all times and just texting for logistics but seems as though this might be too extreme to keep a girl interested and indeed leads to pissing them off. This is counterproductive as I have to spend time correcting the bitchiness it causes / losing previous invesment of time getting to the fucking stage.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 09:55 PM
1

Haha I hope you don't take this the wrong way but I feel like you're me in 5 years time (I really hope you're older than me otherwise I got some catching up to do). One of my best friends is from Hong Kong and his family is loaded. He'd never tell the girl how much money he has. While working in Manila he finally found (and married) a Filipino girl, beautiful, from a good family, educated and super down to earth. From the outside it seems the perfect relationship. This is what I'm trying to emul…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:35 AM
1

Precisely that. Her money was always spent on frivelous things and mine would be on the core items. I guess I haven't moved on entirely. I've been on a few dates and actually have my first plate which is genuinely the best sex I've ever had. But when you're at the brink of marriage and sincerely planning the rest of your life with someone it's a hard fall back to reality when it all goes to shit. Weirdly, I actually came here to post a question about a new girl from tinder who kept asking detail…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:19 AM
1

Thanks for your reply. I think I mentioned she was on good money. She was content working but ultimately I think I would have been the sole provider. I wouldn't say she was typical princess syndrome but there were elements, although I think this came from the high standards she was used to from the places she'd go to if that makes sense. Outwardly she was quite humble. I wouldn't say it wouldn't make a dent, she would basically spend all of her wages each month but not go into debt. I would neve…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:59 AM
1

Thank you for your reply. Her father was actually a strong character and I think a lot of the issues were caused by his life outlook Vs mine. She told me many times she was impressed how I've managed to be successful despite not going down the typical 9-5 route and obviously the sex (which her dad could never find out about - not even that we shared a bed). I think ultimately I just overestimated the sway that i held over her. I really relate to the point about it being like a business transacti…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:46 AM
1

Thanks for your reply and your honesty. I'm not really fussed about the girl being a virgin, as long as she hasn't been tossed about. With regards to the lie, I felt that line of questioning was completely inappropriate when you're meeting someone for the second time. I didn't make out I was poor and it was pretty clear I wasn't (from the car I came in or the way I present myself). But when asked how I'm going to provide or make sure she has everything she wants, my reply was 'well I think first…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:29 AM
16

I'm starting to think there should be a minimum age limit to this group
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:15 PM
2

I think you have to balance your short term and long term ambitions. There's nothing necessarily wrong with buying something if it doesn't significantly hinder your long term aspirations. I think it's useful to ask yourself what you ultimately want for your life and what gives it meaning. This however is not always an easy question to answer.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:41 PM
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