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Thats a nice response. Ignoring shit tests is some of the best tool, I’ve found.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:33 PM
8

OK. So yeah I've used them in dry spells, I've used them even when I'm dating someone or maybe I want to fuck a really hot girl. It seems that you are still with the stigma of going to a hooker. Do whatever you want to do, some escorts give really good service, some don't. Most of the times I want to fuck a decently hot girl with no time to game her. Bear in mind that they dont really help that much. The most Ive used them is if I want to try and specific sex position and dont want to look clums…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:22 PM
3

Nah. Why are you asking?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:11 PM
4

Yes
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:09 PM
1

I’m still going to the gym. Only thing keeping me from what would definitely be depression. Trying new things also but still feel like that sometimes.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 03:40 AM
3

Be grateful she was basically a no one. Call your best friend or parents to vent or anything.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:20 PM
4

Recently I’ve had issues and ended up crying in front of my therapist, dad, mom, brother, best friend. They don’t judge. My LTR just gets “yeah things can be difficult but don’t worry I’ll be fine, let’s go this or that place” kind of thing.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:42 AM
2

What helped me was to go to a mental health professional and/or a really close a friend and just let it all out. After that I was able to then think and work on solutions. I know TRP tells you to be stoic, but I believe that in private you can be vulnerable to let it all out and then work on the solutions. It’s not about now feeling anything, it’s about control.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:10 PM
2

This is exactly the kind of post I needed to read today, thank you
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 01:40 PM
93

“She’ll forgive you for being an asshole, she won’t forget you being a pussy”
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 12:58 PM
7

“I need validation from strangers to make decisions” you know, millenial and gen z problems
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:39 PM
17

I’ve seen hookers every once in a while and here is my take. 1) Manage your expectations. We tend to relate sex with love so we expect everyone we have sex with to love us to some degree. Know you are only there for sex. 2) Personally I don’t mind using a hooker every once in a while, just don’t rely in them because: they do not make you better at game AT ALL, I’ve seen people spend waaaay to much money on them. I’ve used to try new sex positions, they don’t give a fuck of you are inexperienced.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:08 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:33 PM
2

If it is a daytime or even weekend date, I’m assuming that I do the same thing, I start studying, working on a side project or something, right? I think the problem is that I have designed to actually do nothing on the weekend, so if I set up a date it continues indefinitely.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 05:34 AM
1

“Is it better to text something to set the tone of the interaction. . .” No. You’ll already know you are gonna fuck, you can fuck it up by being to explicit.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 06:26 PM
1

Plausible Deniabilty Keep the text to logistics with everyone except LTRs
/r/askTRP22/01/21 03:11 AM
5

What is frame by Woujo Here you go
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:11 PM
3

“Yeah I am, what’s your name?” “I’m x” “Well I’m glad you like my tweets, [insert joke here]” KISS Enjoy it and don’t over do it, the worst thing is you lose credibility and/or everyone ends ups thinking you are actually a docuhebag in real life.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 11:32 PM
1

If she does not reciprocate, would the only correct answer be to leave her?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:21 PM
1

All Women Are Like That, but Not All Women DO That.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:30 PM
33

I see you have chosen number 2. Bye.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:54 AM
39

Ok. Time out. NO ONE is out to get you. Society is in decline, and here you have a blueprint to navigate it. You can: 1) Be better and enjoy what you can in all aspects of your life. 2) Continue to whine because things aren’t as you want them to be.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:45 AM
31

Dude, talk to your bros, talk with your mother. Sucks, but what you are describing barely exists anymore. It sucks, yes, but that’s why you have to make the best of it.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:37 AM
2

Start with whatever you will fuck and go on
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:50 AM
41

Porn bad. Sex good.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 04:32 AM
2

Man I hate this so much. I could a ser 90% of all messages within 5 minutes. But I gotta wait just to don’t seem desperate.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:36 PM
1

I meant it wasn’t a “physical” issue at all. She is downright telling you, with her actions, that she does not want to be with you.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:02 AM
1

This isn’t event about sex. 3 days to reply, move on dude.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 01:39 AM
7

Shhhhhh Happy marriages/relationship don’t exist silly /s I’m getting tired of the doom some guys state here. Go have LTRs if you want to, just be ready to walk away if needed.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 11:32 PM
3

Deflect, agree and amplify, change the subject, ignore. It is a shit test.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:24 PM
14

Let your actions speak. You don’t ask to be FWB, you become FWB.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:04 AM
10

God dammit this just recks off bitch vibes. You look normal. Read the sidebar, lift. Start approaching.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:33 PM
0

Get a hooker. Your post is to vague. Why do you think you are lot getting plates? Yo say you go out but your game is trash, then fucking get better at it, approach and practice.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:29 PM
2

Don’t say it as a joke, say the actual no. “Hmph, no.” The Hmph is in a “why are you even asking “ tone and the no is in a neutral tone. NEVER explain, just say it and continue with your deal.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:37 PM
2

5'3 here. Yeah, sometimes its a struggle man, it difficult to override somethings in your mind.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:58 AM
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Imagine growing up on Disney movies. Imagine growing up watching Rom-Coms Imagine hearing everyone that you don’t have to change nothing about yourself. Imagine hearing that “love will find a way” Imagine thinking that you have to get to know a girl and that love will automatically blossom, just like in the movies right? Imagine hearing “Don’t worry, the right person will come eventually” Combine that with parents that give you shit for hugging a girl. Combine it with religious parents. That wil…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:23 AM
1

You want to be discussing 2 hours of “Your are the best but no it’s not for me”? Be direct, girls will accept as long as you don’t break frame.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:52 PM
1

Anything that’s not a solid Yes it’s a No. basic texting.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:23 PM
1

No. I honestly think if you want an LTR you are going to have to accept some faults. Nevertheless, set boundaries, next if they step over them. The key thing here is to remember that your happiness is not based around this One women. If it fails, you just move on.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:22 PM
0

“It’s ok, see ya next time” or whatever version of this. And then erase the conversation and never contact them again.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:14 PM
2

Some days I can just orgasm while on tight missionary. There may be a position that stimulates you enough.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:48 PM
1

Nothing changes if you dont. ​ I'm 27, so we are all in the same boat here. It's about figuring out life and not wanting to be in the same job when your are 35. This is not TRP shit, it's what everyone on earth deals with on their lives. Some just give up and accept and never better themselves, but here we loathe those who are not bettering themselves. ​ YOU DONT COMBAT NIHILISM. You accept it and decide what you want to do and work for it. What helps me is to journal. Let my toughts run and alo…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:14 PM
1

There is a lot of talk about your Mission in TRP But you won’t know what your mission is until you start DOING stuff.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:23 PM
4

Yesterday I opened up my journal, started writing and set up some goals. They weren’t SMART goals but they were goals. Then I did something I’ve tried and failed to do for a lot of time, I set un an scheduled for all the weekdays. Think about what you want to do, this may take some time. Write some goals, Write what are you going to do to achieve those goals. Event of it is just “I will sit down and study every day. You can modify and create better goals. Set up an schedule. The most important p…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:48 PM
1

Read Ayn Rand
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:56 AM
5

I don’t like sand. It's coarse and rough and irritating and it gets everywhere
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:10 AM
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Didn’t read. To answer your question, yes. How? You overwrite the pain with new feelings with every girl, soon enough you’ll stop being too attached. Block her on everything.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:29 AM
1

When I used to go out pre covid, all the time at nightclubs, like 15% success rate. Meeting girls through someone else was like 70% success rate Right now? Haven’t gotten laid in like 6 months
/r/askTRP17/09/20 02:54 AM
2

Can we stop with the hand holding on this sub? These guys have to read the sidebar
/r/askTRP17/09/20 02:52 AM
2

While reading the handbook I came across a very helpful definition of game for me, mental stimulation. Game is balancing teasing with comfort (push pull). After reading it I started clicking for me, still have a long way to go but understanding that gave me a boost Frame: read this Also, practice, get out there and start failing.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 07:30 PM
1

We all go at different rates. I saw results like 1.5 yeas into RP, even lifting before I knew it . My game was trash, my frame non existent. But slowly but surely got better. Slow progress is progress.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 11:02 PM
2

Bruh. . .
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:39 AM
1

Choked as in flaked, right? Then text less and less or just ghost her. If you really don’t care go nuclear and say that you should stop talking/texting. Another option is to go for a friendly vibe and have her introduce you to her friends. You are drowning on a glass of water here.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:33 AM
2

This wouldn’t happen if you only texted for logistics see. If she’s initiating set a date. If you tell her directly to stop it wouldn’t work for you. Instead you text less, as you are busy right? That keeps the hamster spinning. She keeps asking questions? “Why don’t we catch up x day at x place?”
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:23 AM
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0 Horny but also afraid of covid to some extent.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:00 AM
19

Meh. Lost my virginity to an escort so I could get over the fact that I was a virgin. Have used them every now and then. As far as frame goes it didn’t help much as the only thing different now was that I was no longer a virgin, don’t expect a big level up. I mean it helps, just now how you expect it to. Game, 0 level up, doesn’t matter what they say escorts want money and they will act for it. All escorts I’ve seen have said my cock is pretty big, I feel I’m average so whatever. My frame/game s…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:56 AM
2

Thanks, I guess I see it sometimes as a chore rather than a discovery
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 06:19 PM
5

How do you develop being interested? I’ve managed to be a better conversationalist by making questions instead but I rarely am geniunly interested. The best compromise I have found for myself is to just act interested, but I don’t really care still.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 04:10 PM
3

I’m 5’3” Fuck off with your insecurities somewhere else.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:16 PM
34

I don’t have time to read all the side bar, TLDR?
/r/askTRP26/07/20 06:04 PM
4

Just be yourself bro. No but seriously, stop overthinking OP.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 05:21 PM
2

It never ends. The worst thing is that unconsciously people see you as a kid, been there. The best advice I can give you is to lift so your physical frame will be better. And even more important, get a rock solid mental frame. I’m short and look younger and frame has been my best friend.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 01:48 AM
-7

Ok, whats with all of you and tattoos?
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:50 AM
2

While some red flags are undeniably, this is a a “You can’t have your cake and eat it” situation. Decide if sleeping on the first date is a turn off for an LTR for you. Decide if you won’t next a girl if she doesn’t put out in the first date. Remember red pill is a toolbox, you still have to create your own framework. Even if a girl has sex with you on the first date you should be able to gouge her sluttines, so maybe she might end up being LTR material. At the same time, remember that LTRs are …
/r/askTRP24/07/20 07:20 PM
24

The sooner you accept that women don’t think logically as men, the sooner you’ll get out of the anger phase. It’s all part of the game.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 04:47 PM
1

https://pmohackbook.org/easypeasy.pdf Best book
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:24 PM
5

I stay “mindful” as in: I notice when I make a mistake but I don’t dwell on it because I’m dealing with another human in that moment and I can’t just eject the interaction. After the interaction is over, depending on the setting I analyze it, if it was something too big I actually do a journal entry about it: cold approach daytime, little analysis right after; cold approach bar/night time, I will check on myself the day after, maybe remembering what I could have gotten better; having a date, mos…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:04 PM
7

I’ve had better results analyzing interactions AFTER, calibrate and then go on auto pilote again. I’ve calibrated mid date if the chick goes to the bathroom or something. I really try to be in auto pilot during the day since having a constant monologue will make you overthink everything. And also since the objective is to be as natural as possible.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:18 AM
3

Haven’t had a date or hookup since look down. I suck at texting for something more than logistics so. . . Some of my friends have managed to pull from tinder directly into a home date, from text game.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:13 AM
6

It was a rhetoric question but fine. Then stop doing that. You don’t argue with girls, you are just showing that they can manipulate you, reverting to beta mode is not showing comfort, just breaking frame. If the questions are actually small things and she gets offended that’s a red flag and demote. Stop texting bullshit and keep frame in person.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:01 PM
6

Why are you even getting in these kind of situations? Arguments in text just seems like shit text game.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:26 PM
1

That does not exists. Talk on the phone. Go dark, if she re engages you might have a chance. Honestly, cut your losses. Speak to them when all this is over see who is still interested if you want. I’m in a similar situation but basically telling myself I will find new women when I finally get out.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:38 PM
2

Cause you are still thinking that all women are saints and the hoes are the exception. Still happens to me too. It’s the other way around.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 01:12 AM
9

How far does it gets? Selling nudes? I’m fine with a high instagram follower count (depends on the contest she post obviously) but only fans is too much.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 01:02 AM
1

Tried to get a date with a girl that I had already went out and failed miserably. Had also a video call with a new one, interesting experience but sucks since no kino and difficult escalating. And online is women’s domaine. I’m just accepting I won’t be dating for a while. Sucks but don’t want to catch anything. Some guys here have managed to get new girls but at the end of the day is a coin toss. I’m just having fun (passing time really) with tinder right now, probably will make some more video…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:00 AM
1

I expected a Rick Roll you son of a bitch
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:32 AM
1

Probably just asks for their testing beforehand
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:31 AM
2

Just look for subs with whatever you have in mind. There may no be a whole sub but you should be able to find some based on your interests.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:53 AM
1

A lot of guys don’t understand and need to be told to stop actively chasing women.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:56 PM
1

It’s about not being needy you dense twat.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:21 PM
1

edited
/r/askTRP24/04/20 02:12 AM
2

Gonna leave this here. Will edit later so I can word properly my response. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- First things first, Im 5'3 to give you some perspective, cause I roll my eyes everytime someone comes here crying he is only 5'7. Now your questions. FUCK THIS MENTALITY. Okay, fine. It is objectively more attractive to be taller, we all know this. Is it harder being shorter? Yes, we all know this to. I do…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:46 PM
1

Yeah balance is the key. Honestly either all hobbies are red pill or none of them are. Just do whatever the fuck you like. A hobbie can’t be “red pill” if you ask me.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:26 AM
3

ITT: not Videogames.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:55 PM
1

It’s ok. We all are, nobody likes the pain. The difference is how it changes you. Don’t become an insecure, controlling guy. Become that awesome guy everybody wants to be with. It all comes from inside, be the prize so no outside force will ever be able to move you.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:32 PM
3

There is this thing called the sidebar
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:52 PM
2

I would advise to get the “she will hurt me if I give her the chance” mentality out of your head, it will lead to having -100 trust in any girl. See the exredpill sub for a while if you want to see what I mean. Yes All Women Are Like That, but Not All Women Will Do That. AWALT tells you to that every gun is loaded and you should act accordingly, abundance mentality is key here. Keep going man, if anything, decide what do you want from women and accept it, you want plates? Cool, go for it and don…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:51 PM
6

Only time to actually follow your moms advice for her mom to like you. Frame for her dad.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:19 AM
3

I’ve tough about this but wasn’t able to put it into words, the difference between the state and the mindset. Thanks.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:24 PM
8

Knowing that you can. You get there by having small wins over time. Also idme you want to fake it just question yourself how would a guy with real abundance would do. you are not afraid to walk away from females cause the next girl is hotter. if someone flakes you don’t care since you have other 2 chicks waiting to jump on your dick. you don’t answer messages immediately since she is not the only girls in your life. Just some examples to fake it.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:22 AM
1

Thanks for the read. Makes a lot of sense that to just have a list.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 06:03 PM
2

I got that reference. But lolwat?
/r/askTRP12/04/20 05:47 AM
14

Yeah, something having do to with girls already liking you. If there was only somewhere where this is explained. . . Nah, better keep asking basic questions in here.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 05:46 AM
2

You go out to have fun first and foremost. You go out to have a good time and act on IOIs or talking to any girl. If you get shot down you continue to have a good time with whoever you are out with. You can go out just to get a ONS, just don’t measure your time in pussy/night, you’ll end up just chasing/pedestalizing it and that’s exactly what you don’t want since If you go out and you don’t score you’ll have a bad time. Depends, have they showed any IOIs? If not you’ll only fuck up the relation…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:10 PM
8

Go talk to anyone, boy, girl, gay, lesbian with the intention of YOU having a good time. Look dude. When I learned to do a backflip in gymnastics we started on the ground, then in a trampoline with help, then no trampoline with help, up until the teachers said “OK, now do it alone” and you had to do it. All theory in the world won’t help you if you don’t take action. There are hard walls in the social game world, women or else. You just have to do it, no magic trick, no easy tip, just do it or r…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:39 PM
8

Have you applied it? Have you gone out with with intention to fuck? Have you polarized? Do you go out for a kiss? Do you invite women to your place with the intention to fuck them?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:35 PM
2

Ok I’ll bite If it’s reaaaaaly bad, I’ll write about it and it doesn’t seem that bad at after.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:33 PM
35

Just went and read some posts. All I see are men being afraid of women leaving them, lack of abundance mentality. Still interesting how you can end up if you are only thinking about pussy. Read like 4 posts of guys saying they are now afraid of that women will leave since they ingrained that part in their heads so much they can’t interact with them anymore.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:19 AM
2

It’s cool how when we get questions when someone is looking for support rather than pity you get these kind of answers.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:06 AM
8

I’m 5’3, 5’3 on a bad day, 5’3 on a good day. Tall guys get chicks more easily? Sure. So what do you do, you start maxing out everything else in your control. Some chick doesn’t want you? Who gives a shit, get another one. You are missing: frame, abundance, and clearly lifting. Go read.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 05:33 AM
5

Nah man. I easily printed the handbook and the sidebar because I know I had to read them and I hate reading on the screen. It’s not “difficult to find “ it’s just the start of the hard work you have to do to become red pill and even that is too much for some people. Most on asktrp want their 10 minute YouTube tutorial on “How to be red pill and get pussy fast method”. Just go read.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 05:24 AM
5

Get a lawyer.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 05:22 PM
5

Same, so many bios read something along being noted because of the quarantine. I haven’t event texted the potential plate in had lined up before this whole shit. Maybe it’s for the better since if I had fucked her before she might as well broked in this time.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:35 PM
0

“Almost as much as you’ve missed me”
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:26 AM
1

Same here. Figured all girls are bored. Also, not even a little commitment from them since you won’t be getting a date at the end.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 01:58 PM
1

Pm me
/r/askTRP26/03/20 01:47 PM
1

I have this
/r/askTRP21/03/20 09:51 PM
7

Sidebar god dammit!!! Mr. V Guide To Texting
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:08 AM
4

Text for logistics only.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 04:24 AM
1

You say she shows high interest and you pass all shit tests so that means you have already isolated and escalated and had sex with her, right? Taking your stuff ain’t a shit test, just disrespect in my opinion.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:41 PM
6

Alpha widows exists. There are no Beta Widows.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:24 AM
24

PressXToDoubt.jpg Try to go for it anyway. “We’ll put a towel under you”. What about 2nd dates a week or two after?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:53 PM
18

I did at 24, 26 now. Does not help with game/anxiety at all. You are going to be tempted to do it again. At least you get over it, it will be somewhat awkward however you look at it. If you do it, find an attractive hooker, seriously, will make the whole thing easier, up to you if you tell her it’s your first time, I did not. I don’t regret it, eventually I managed to get a girl home and it was way more satisfying. I even use hookers from time to time when I got the money and when I really don’t…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:54 PM
3

Fuck. That. Woman. It’s sad really.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:54 AM
3

Could be a frame problem. Maybe, maybe they are intimidated. Have you approached those girls?
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:29 AM
1

With all the red and green flags required for an LTR candidate, aren’t we all looking for unicorns? Do you ignore past mistakes if she demonstrates to have corrected them? For example, I like to party, feel like would be hypocritical of me to look for someone that doesn’t.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:21 AM
5

I look “gets asked for id at clubs” young. I usually do the exaggerated age, or goes away after that. I started doing it cause I hate that question and being told how “lucky” I am to look young.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:27 PM
1

All movements are scaleable so don’t worry about “beginner”. Pick a program and follow through it. Fuck all the haters here, dial up your diet and you can put on muscle.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 02:18 AM
68

I don’t remember where I read/heard it something about “Love is not based on effort” saying that someone(a man) could cool a water glass with his breath or whatever, but what if someone came along with iced water. You should not feel guilty for wanting the iced water. Years now I get to understand this kind of thinking women have and that you have to be that iced water, you were born like that. Ps. It was one of those tumblr posts.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 08:33 PM
2

I post that article like once a week. Answers like 60%of questions here.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 01:11 PM
8

Read Mr. V Guide To Texting Flaked once but offered another time seems good, nothing to lose, but since it’s tinder the girls are usually low invested. Don’t get your hopes up, next if she flakes again.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 08:34 PM
6

Afraid of public opinion it seems. While you have to take care of it, just saying you got rejected and standing tall will suffice in this situation.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 05:07 PM
4

Outright ignoring works too.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:56 PM
4

That’s not abundance, it’s being pessimistic about the outcome.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:39 PM
1

Sounds like I should let it go and not promoter to anything.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 06:16 PM
1

The (almost) ONS is what’s fucking with me honestly. If I knew who she was the 2nd rime around I most likely wouldn’t have tough in dating her.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 02:03 PM
2

The second time I met her I didn’t know obviously. I was a little drunk in 2017 and honestly didn’t remember her face. She presented herself differently in 2019. I failed in 2017. We have fucked while dating (2019), didn’t know I had to explicitly state it.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 01:59 PM
2

Some years ago I was a virgin, anxious dude who barely approached and was too concerned with other people opinion. Could even make out with girls on clubs and parties. Now my frame is a lot better, got 12% body fat. Get numbers once in a while, understood outcome independence. Goes for the kiss, I can actually date girls now since I’m now boring anymore. Have gotten laid. Seems little compared to other guys here but, I always smile while I remember my old self since I’m so much better now.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 01:32 PM
1

Practice pausing between EVERY word deliberately and record yourself. It is very difficult at first and it’s better to get someone to call you out in your practice session. Went to a Dale Carneige course and did this and the difference was amazing.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 04:45 PM
45

Hard work > Talent Discipline > Motivation
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:39 PM
1

Found this, should come in handy. Mr. V Guide to Texting
/r/askTRP22/01/20 10:23 PM
1

Something that helps is to stop masturbating and when toy meet someone think that you want to hace sex with her, your vibe will be different. Calibrate obviously.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:10 PM
5

A “good kisser” is usually defined by the public as some who can adapt to the other person. Having said that, if you enjoy it, keep doing it. Why would you do something you don’t enjoy? You make up the rules.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:15 AM
1

TRP is harsh the first time around for all of us, mostly course we have been lied to about women. It’s okay if you think you are a “good guy”, you don’t have to be a douchebag to get women. However your actions, thoughts and image have to be in line so you don’t come across as a creep or a fraud, which not only will mean failure with women but in any kind of social relationship. That’s why even if you can fake confidence and game it, this place is always saying to lift, sidebar and get a mission…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:45 AM
17

Man, I’m losing faith in here. Just read this and stop posting watered down copies. We already have this theory on point. Woujo guide How To Hold Frame
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 11:09 PM
9

None. Text day a day before or the same day jus something like: see you today/tomorrow. Her response will tell you if she will flake or not. Also, don’t make plans more than 3 days from today with people you just met.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:59 PM
15

It even goes around that other men start saying how jacked you are and how “I could never be like that, it’s too hard” shit they say.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 06:29 PM
0

A little practical advice. Don’t know where I read it. Don’t plan ahead more than half the time you have been together. In your case that means you should have already been 8 months with this chick. Personally, LDLTRs are a bad idea all around.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 07:08 PM
1

I’m about to take this approach since texting is too slow and I hate that my tone does not goes through it. How’s it working out for you? Do you have a time limit?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:20 PM
2

Adding to this. If you do not bounce you will only be lying to yourself. She won’t come back around and you will waste time thinking she will.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:58 PM
7

Poker
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:42 PM
6

While people here might say it’s counter productive to smile I say it is not, while it goes in line with everything else. I’m a pretty relaxed guy and even when I smile some friends ask me why the fuck am I so happy while is just a reflex. Personally I smile because I know my mentality will be better and I feel like I can approach more, makes ME feel more relaxed. Some confuse smiling with a sign of weakness but smiling in difficult times might be just as powerful as being stoic, as you are in c…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:09 AM
11

This is how I feel. I have been able to find some degree of success with women but I have to consciously be On and tell myself to not start behaving BP.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 10:30 PM
0

Fair enough
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:29 PM
1

STBX?
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:27 PM
1

Recently I have been on various first dates and never paid for something I didn’t eat/drink.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:23 PM
3

Everything and everyone here says that those are the ones that actually put out since they are looking for the perfect mate.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:49 PM
0

Something as simple as saying: “Dutch right?” or “you’re going to pay your share right?” If they say some shit along the men HAS to pay well. . . There is your answer. Or even when getting the check you get your hand out expecting her money or card. Be blunt.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:48 PM
6

Normal in all Latin America
/r/askTRP24/12/19 02:33 PM
2

Wait. Bought a bomb ass suit after college. Went to the gym. Now my legs don’t fit and I can’t use it. Sucks cause I loved that suit.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:37 PM
1

Wished those type of jobs would pay the bills in my country. I’ve always felt I’m far more suited to be moving all day long.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:35 PM
1

My 2 cents from experience and things I’m applying to be better. Kino and don’t be afraid to sexualize the convo. “How are those squats coming along?” Or some shit. Learned from Dale Carniege. Practice making a full stop between words. You sound a lot more confident, will serve for work a lot more than dates. This is a mentality. Always assume attraction. You are the prize. You are going on a four for YOU not her. If it stops being fun just call the check or leave. YOU ARE NOT HER ENTERTAINER, s…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:09 PM
3

That story reply sounds like this: “Look at me while I ignore you” She was looking for validation and you were just an asshole.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:35 PM
14

This is the reason I hate the “good thing comes to those who wait” phrase or “you are just in time”. Keep doing nothing and nothing will change.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 03:22 AM
1

I always find what I’m looking for using search.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:42 PM
1

The most porn I have watched in the last 3 months or so are instagram models or looking for a hooker
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:42 PM
1

Man, stop with that defeating attitude. There’s a difference between “No I can’t make it” and “No I can’t make it today but I’m free X day”, see the difference? And no, it’s nos exclusive to dating. Also take note, if a girl tells you something like “I work late on C day” well don’t fucking text here that day of the week. This shit ain’t even TRP just logistic thinking. TRP advice: Also get abundance or fake it at the very least.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 04:52 PM
5

There is an article stating to not pre plan future dates, you lose mystery, spontaneity and makes you seem needy. I’ll try to find it. I am at a similar situation. Girl I’m chasing never seemed to start any interaction, I made a “soft next” and she texted me yesterday, out of comfort I believe, but it is clear we are both interested. Clear advice: ask her out, isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:20 PM
21

I did use hookers but to get over my virginity. They don’t really help since you don’t really need game for them. I have used to try new positions though . . .But if you want to fuck a nice looking girl no real effort needed go ahead, it’s cool and all, still, I felt cooler gaming a 4 into bed for the first time. I got out of porn by making the decision one day and sticking to it. I still fap every once in a while but no porn is involved. Whatever works for you I guess. What actually sucks is th…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 07:55 PM
12

I’m not even that experienced and will downvote the shit out of this. Kudos on your balls. Too forward. Oneitis. Go read the sidebar. No I did not read even a 1/8 of this.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:04 PM
3

Not yet. It’s on my list along with TSGM. The thing is while reading the sidebar and handbook I realized that my problem was that I was ashamed of my sexuality (thanks mom) causing everything OP is saying.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:33 PM
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That’s because you don’t see them sexually yourself, most likely cause you were told to be a nice guy and the right women will come along. All this leads to not escalating cause you were told to not think about sex. Repeat after me: WOMEN LIKE TO HAVE SEX All girls want to be railed up by “the right guy”.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:10 PM
5

Could you give an example? I’m a situation where I’m genuinely busy and won’t be able to go out for like 2 weeks so I don’t see any reason for texting if it’s not to set up a date.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:36 PM
2

I’m 5’3 and glad I don’t have this attitude.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:29 PM
26

Hard next your phone
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:03 AM
1

Practice pausing between EVERY word deliberately and record yourself. It is very difficult at first and it’s better to get someone to call you out in your practice session. Went to a Dale Carneige course and did this and the difference was amazing.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 07:19 PM
5

Here is an article just for that.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 09:13 PM
9

Isn’t one of the most heard advices here to “treat women as you would treat children”?
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:46 PM
2

Anyone else thinks those are some long ass times to respond?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:14 AM
7

Thank you for this.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 02:14 PM
0

I’ve never liked the lock analogy for this as I feel it falls short and doesn’t paint the whole picture. I’m paraphrasing a quote from a comedian. “It takes work to be a ladies man. You have to have a nice car, dress well, be social, be fit. To be a slut you just have to be . . .there. There are ugly sluts, there are fat sluts, there are ugly and fat sluts. There are no ugly fat ladies man.”
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:16 PM
7

Yes
/r/askTRP06/06/19 01:30 AM
1

I got like 10+ friend requests on fb pending and don’t really give a shit about them because I rarely use it. I’m talking about people I see everyday. In person interaction > Friends online You are overthinking this.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:40 PM
1

Pm me please
/r/askTRP20/05/19 08:01 PM
13

Don’t be friends with chicks you want to fuck. Simple.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:44 PM
14

Get some hobbies. Invite friend for drinks. Develope a bond.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 05:51 AM
1

“Pretending to give a shit about things like their pet names” Thank you for this. I’m trying to be more social but this always sets me back, feeling like I have to genuinely have to care about that shit which I don’t.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 08:55 PM
8

Dude, you should read Confessions of a Reformed Incel. Red poll is a toolbox, not a way of life so yeah, if you don’t want to waste time with thots that’s fine. But what if Ms. Right comes and you don’t have the ability to get AND keep her interest. For that you need practice, and how could you get practice, since you’ll probably find a Ms. Right once in a blue moon, ahh with every other woman out there, even thots.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:13 AM
1

I find it easier to quit porn and keep fapping without it. Granted the first time are somewhat difficult since your brain is so used to receive porn. It is not a perfect solution but I feel it’s a step in the right direction.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:28 PM
21

There was a post a while back, where one guy was dumped when he cried when talking about his dead mother, not recently dead. Now, I’ve never read here about not feeling anything but do keep them in check. This advice is good.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:24 PM
1

As someone who once pulled something like this, stupid shit, my friend talked to me and I felt like shit for a long time. My friend and I are very close and this has never been an issue. Talk to him and gauge his reaction. If he does it again well, he is a piece of shit.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 08:49 PM
2

STOP FEEDING THE TROLL
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:45 PM
3

It’s the one with joe rogan
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:38 PM
5

In term on content, how does it compare to the one in there spill handbook.com?
/r/askTRP01/10/18 01:33 PM
3

All women are like that. But not all women will do that.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 01:39 PM
1

It came naturally. All my pants were baggy and my shirt didn’t didn’t fit. Once lifting was ingrained in my head working on something else was a little easier.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 10:59 AM
2

Welcome to your after-college life crisis. It happens to most of us when we realize that we don’t really know what we want to do in life. Anxiety settles in as you try to answer the question; What now? As others have said. Go and find some hobbies first. Your job may not be the best but if you want to change careers you will have to study again. Life is hard and we as humans have made it very very very monotonous which causes everyone to die inside. You have to fight so this does not happen. Mol…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:30 PM
8

You have oneitis, there isn’t a spectrum. Cut contact, talk to other girls.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 07:18 PM
1

I mean I can talk to him
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:50 AM
1

I found that my brother fits that bill.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 10:37 PM
2

Try it. I’m on the second week without instagram which was my biggest time sink and haven’t had any setbacks. I plan to return when I have a better mentality and will to stop looking at it.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 12:20 AM
2

One other thing. You have to get into the mentality of “She doesn’t want me, must be crazy”. Sounds somewhat corny but the I Am The Prize mentality everyone talks around here is basic for your frame.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 04:10 AM
11

Meditate. Keep yourself busy.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:35 PM
7

I feel that the big shift will happen when Boomers retire (at 65 no less) and millennials start being in a boss position.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:24 AM
8

Just imagine the level of play in sports if steroids were allowed.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:44 AM
2

Don’t know your age but I feel this is a very millennial thing to say. Our parents were educated to find a job and make a career and get married and have children that that became the norm. We came and became the generation that said things like “my job does not define me” and “this job isn’t for me” after 6 months because we HAD to like our jobs. It sucks. Yes life is a shitty grind that we imposed on ourselves but there is no other way around it. We all know that if everyone worked 2 hours les…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:43 AM
2

Yes and no. I’m flaky to some friends who aren’t as interesting but some guys clearly are not making an effort to meet.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:04 PM
17

Stop bitching, start working on yourself.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:02 AM
24

Sounds like pre-oneitis. If anything make a move, if it doesn’t pan out stop hanging out with her, you will continue to be an orbiter, which you already are.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:59 AM
1

It’s gonna take a while. I started to work on myself 4 years ago and the end is nowhere to be found. I’ve got some little wins along the way but in the end it is about the journey. Start with easiest one: lifting. Then diet, then fashion, then other hobbies and social skills in every step. Little steps go a long way. If you got already your goals then do something, even if it’s little, everyday to work towards it, you’ll see it starts snowballing. Good luck.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:18 AM
1

Virgin at 24 and was thinking on hookers to get it done.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:10 AM
2

This. I once got the feeling that I could fuck a married women. The thing is that I knew the husband and he was actually my friend too, but I was pretty sure that if he found out I would end up a The very least bested up. Never really did anything there.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:24 PM
3

I was going trough this last night and there are good reasons to keep them and to delete them. I ended up deleting Instagram and minimized my fb experience and also deleted Snapchat. The gist is that social media is a tool, it can work for you if you work on it but it all comes from your SMV, so if it not helping you why have it? I plan to return someday once I figure my shit out. If you are thinking about it, try deleting it.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:22 PM
1

Who said chivalry is dead?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:38 PM
1

“I don’t want to be your friend”
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:09 AM
1

Where did you get the money to sustain yourself and your music making before you were able to live off of it?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 10:02 AM
1

So you never had a day job?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:56 AM
6

Once did this while half drunk and basically no frame and it worked. Wasn’t really thinking TRP like in the moment. Now I come here and read this and I’m smiling like an idiot to my screen.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:30 AM
14

Call/text your friend. Set up a hangout, anything really.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:27 AM
1

What’s your day job? I’m having trouble setting time to learn music theory for this.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:47 AM
2

This. Read. Go out. Approach. Get rejected. Learn. Repeat.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:54 AM
1

I believe it is because we (subconsciously) want to find The One. This come from lack of experience or lack of abundance, guilty of this myself. Some guys here say that you really don’t internalize AWALT until you have had your heart broken, might be true . . .
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:42 AM
1

The answer is on your question itself. You get that feeling with multiple girls. So you might get it with the next one, then you realize that the good time comes from you and not them.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 10:28 PM
3

I’m 5’3” fuck off. Height is a problem if you let it. You won’t get anywhere with that attitude. Also go lift ffs
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:17 AM
1

Thanks for this post
/r/askTRP28/06/18 12:24 PM
1

1st this goes on AskTRP 2do go get practice
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 08:59 AM
2

What I do is to go on autopilot while I’m socializing, getting inside my head was a real problem. When I am alone I just basically commentate myself on my interactions or something I would have done differently. That includes judging someone sometimes. This process need to be short and concrete as you may lose too much time overthinking past situations. Calíbrate after the interaction, not during
/r/askTRP23/06/18 02:33 AM
9

Don’t. We ask for number because we have to actively ask for it. Anyone can find her on instagram or Snapchat.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 02:29 AM
9

I wanna know too. A lot of people here advise to get in sales but, what exactly?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 02:25 AM
1

Holy shit how recent is this pdf?? I don’t really like reading on a screen and was actually thinking to print the longer articles. Thank you so much.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:20 PM
3

How about you make some real friends?
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:17 PM
14

WTF did I just read? You don’t have to be RedPill to know that you have to leave her dammit. You come here telling us how you made everything for her and she cheated on you, what do you think this place is? Go read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 03:27 AM
3

This is the real answer. Remember not to make pussy your goal
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:56 AM
2

Posts like these are what keeps me grounded. I may think this girl is great and all but being aware of what can happen is key.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 10:24 PM
3

Be clingy
/r/askTRP17/06/18 01:16 PM
3

Given the words used here maybe. But an amused mastery approach should work. Like, even make another joke.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:27 AM
52

How about just ignoring these kind of shit tests? EDIT: After reading some responses, it seems that given the words used by her purely ignoring would have given a wrong signal. I believe the key thing here is making it clear that you won’t back down, verbally or not.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 06:05 PM
1

More like a comfort test IMO You could ignore it or: I don’t know if I like you then.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 08:05 PM
1

MFW when last night a girl asked me this and then seeing all these good answers Time to calibrate
/r/askTRP10/06/18 07:01 PM
14

I feel this is a troll
/r/askTRP02/06/18 01:06 AM
1

Do not ask for instagram Ask for her number
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:30 PM
1

I was actually asking from a dating/LTR perspective. I don’t mind hitting on younger girls if I’m just looking for something for the night, I rarely ask for age. The thing is since you may be in different phases of life does it bother you at all? Don’t you have a feeling as in “I’m to old for this shit”. Or am I overthinking this too much?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 01:12 PM
1

Do you have any problems dealing with girls that age? Or do you just don’t give a fuck? I’m 25 and have like this mental barrier for girls that are out of the Age/2 + 7 rule
/r/askTRP28/05/18 12:59 PM
4

Whatever you do please MAKE A BUDGET. Figure out the minimun you need to get by the month, then cushion it a little bit. Set a limit on the money you will use to go out, save for any kind of emergency.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 09:52 AM
2

The only valid reason for not wanting sex is being asexual, which if you have a crush you are not. You sound like the type of guy who tried and failed a couple of times and now is resigned to sex and relationships (been there, done that). Believe me when I say it comes back to haunt you, you can’t deny your nature. You say girls are too thoty for your taste, that’s the results of too-high standards, wanting a relationship and lack of game (been there, done that again). You feel this way because …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 06:04 PM
5

A Lot of post coming from men have this “Women are so entitled” vibe which is not surprising at all. TRP men know that most girls are “basic bitches” and don’t dwell on it, we accept it and don’t expect them to be more than that.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 09:31 AM
1

Yeah female friends or acquaintances are fine as long you are not trying to fuck them, but when a girl is approaching Best Friend status you’ve played yourself
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 05:32 AM
4

I have failed that shit test and have not had sex during period. Besides the response to the shit test, what if she is actually on her period?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 05:27 AM
3

One of my friends, who is somewhat beta if you ask me, has actually the best piece of advice on this matter: "Dont have female friends that you want to fuck." If they are attractive to you and spend too much time without approaching/escalating you will fall for Oneitus. I have been guilty of ignoring this and failed miserably about 4 months ago, that's when I remembered this advice and now will follow it. If you want to talk to someone about your feelings get an actual friend or in my case my br…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 09:17 AM
1

Logistics. Pick a table were you can be beside her. Also you can move the chair besides her while she is watching to be even more direct. Starbucks? Come on, find a better/non basic coffe place.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 09:04 AM
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