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I got you. That's a 10-4, sir.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 03:59 PM
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Thanks everyone for the responses. I noticed that no one suggested that the ages may be a factor. Maybe you're right. 18 and up, play ball I guess. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, and all that.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 09:17 PM
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I have very little experience with online game. I always figured it was an excuse to not work on in-person game. Have you had luck with that? Obviously, I realize there are tons of articles on here about that, just asking. I totally agree about the night game but yeah I haven't really be able to get out at night much.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 09:15 PM
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Yeah, I get the numbers game. I have just been trying to think of what has changed that could cause the slump. No excuses, self-examination, etc.. The only thing I could think of is that the last bunch of girls has been way younger. I appreciate the encouragement sir!
/r/askTRP08/02/15 09:15 PM
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Yeah I get that, but instead of using it as an excuse, I just started to say "fuck it", no excuses. Bar tenders and waitresses are pretty much the only professions I won't bother with. I mean, I can tell if she's chatting me up, has an alone moment, I'll go for it. If it's obvious she's busy, I won't bother.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 09:14 PM
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All these responses are really interesting. I wasn't asking because I did it or thought of doing it myself, rather I was interested in whether or not any of you had ever laid it all out and what the outcome was. FASCINATING!
/r/askTRP20/11/14 10:19 PM
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In an effort to learn lessons regarding losing frame/failing shit tests, I will list the Olympic fucking marathon she put me through because I failed the original shit test: -I'm moving, there's no point in meeting up except for a one night stand and I'm not that kind of girl. -You can be condescending; it isn't funny or attractive. -I'm a Leo, don't insult my intelligence or ego again or I'll claw your ass up. -I don't want to go anywhere too out of the way. -I don't like awkward situations, so…
/r/askTRP29/10/14 12:41 PM
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She texted me back. She's moving permanently but we're going out Thursday. Now I just need an activity.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 01:44 AM
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Action based. Got it.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 01:43 AM
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Welp. That settles that. Thanks folks. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP28/10/14 03:07 PM
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It's not bullshit. I am just trying to learn, especially considering I've never dealt with a girl this young. She is stunning, and indeed I would love to bang. But I am more interested in where I went wrong, and if there are techniques to recover.
/r/askTRP28/10/14 01:13 PM
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Yeah I fucking knew it. Thank you.
/r/askTRP28/10/14 12:13 PM
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Ah I fucking knew it. You're all right. Thanks guys.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 07:28 PM
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2ND UPDATE: She's coming over after work tonight around 2am. RadioSilence/Ultimatum worked like a charm. Thanks everyone!
/r/askTRP10/10/14 08:41 PM
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I now haven't responded in almost 2 days. The last time I spoke to her I told her she was on probation until she had something for me beyond chit chat. I updated the post, she just messaged me again asking if I pissed her off. I have not responded to that either. We've both made it clear it wasn't exclusive and she'll see others and I'll see others. But I have told her I won't wait around. When she last tried to call me, I didn't answer. She asked in the morning if I got her voice mail, I said I…
/r/askTRP10/10/14 02:58 AM
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EDIT/UPDATE: She just messaged me again about 10pm asking me if she "pissed me off or something".
/r/askTRP10/10/14 02:39 AM
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Exactly my point. Thank you.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 07:04 PM
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It isn't reasonable. It may sound like a strawman, but we already know about the rampant stomping-out and shaming of masculinity in schools and how it is affecting boys. In my view this is yet another step in that direction. Make no mistake, as usual, this isn't so boys and girls can feel "equally included" and/or to prevent transgendered children can "feel safe". This is to perpetuate the psycho-pop nonsense that gender is learned and hammered in by the patriarchy and that we need to do more (M…
/r/MensRights09/10/14 06:37 PM
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Hahaha shit. Thanks. I knew this was going to be the answer but as the title said, last resort. You're right.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:44 PM
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Yeah I broke that and chatted with her a few times bored at work, usually because it would always at least lead to some form of dirty talk...which would presumably lead to plans to meet, but then never did. This happened for a few days, hence my current position.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:42 PM
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See, she once "offered" me the alternative that if it was too complicated, I am free to move on (knowing that it wasn't exclusive anyway and there were others), and she would contact me less. I immediately considered this a shit test and told her I don't care how often she contacts me so long as we end up making plans, and that she didn't need to offer this sort of ultimatum because if she doesn't come around then the decision is made for me and I know she's not worth my time. Cool for #2, thank…
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:39 PM
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Cool, thanks. That's kind of what I was thinking. Radio silence her. Either she cracks and eventually goes all in, or buggers off and it's done. No action required on my part whatsoever.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:35 PM
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How encouraging that this is in Time magazine. This woman operates with surgical brevity every time. We should all be celebrating.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 06:59 PM
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I just want to thank you all for your suggestions. It is really appreciated.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 03:30 PM
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Another good one. Thanks!
/r/askTRP15/08/14 03:29 PM
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Oh shit, she goes to the uni here too...thanks!
/r/askTRP15/08/14 03:29 PM
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Brilliant. Thank you.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 02:24 PM
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Shit that's probably a good one but I can't dance. (Note: learn to dance at least somewhat).
/r/askTRP15/08/14 02:24 PM
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Thanks. This seems simple enough. Remove all pressure and pretend there is no pretense of her ever being a princess with expectations.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 02:23 PM
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Understood. I actually played it out in my mind now and see it just might work...
/r/askTRP15/08/14 02:22 PM
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Hahaha
/r/askTRP15/08/14 01:53 PM
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Thanks for the responses guys. I'm gonna keep at it.
/r/seduction15/08/14 12:55 AM
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I like the notion of that. But do I just need a better/more efficient process to close within a matter of minutes? Any advice is welcome.
/r/seduction14/08/14 02:03 AM
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