Ts9588 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	any advice to raise my self confidence and approach girls If you "don't know how to approach", but are making friends, are you saying you're at least approaching in general and the approaches just manifest into friendships? Because I mean, if you're approaching women you don't know and it at least turns into a friendship, honestly she was probably interested when you first approached. Women are pretty basic... If they reciprocate some sort of interest back towards you on an approach then they're most likely open to some kind of relationship that's more…	/r/seduction	04/11/22 09:35 PM
7	Anxiety is ruling my life Even if you can't say anything just being honest and conveying your emotions to her saying something like "sorry... I'm trying to think of something to say but you're just so beautiful I'm absolutely speechless right now... Could I just get your name? I'm blank." is way better than not making a move at all you know?	/r/seduction	27/10/22 07:14 AM
17	Anxiety is ruling my life Whatever the reason you don't approach is... It'll almost never be as bad as however bad you're making it out to be in your head if you approach. Most of the time, if anything, the girl you're approaching really appreciates and is attracted to just the confidence of you coming up to her and saying something in general.	/r/seduction	27/10/22 07:03 AM
4	Direct or indirect opener? Do you not do the same thing as a guy? Don't tell me if you're an attractive dude you aren't turned on by women you have mutual interest in drooling over you and telling you just how good you look just because you see yourself in the mirror everyday... It's the same for women, they aren't that different lmao.	/r/seduction	25/10/22 07:22 PM
7	Direct or indirect opener? Direct always in my opinion, women are into confidence and it exudes confidence. Also cuts around all the bullshit and gets straight to the point. Honestly, indirect is just wasting your time unless you're willing to put in the time and effort to win her over because she doesn't have initial interest, which is again a massive risk of wasting your time. If she has initial interest, just go with a direct opener, and if she doesn't then you get rejected, big deal, her loss. Again going back to my p…	/r/seduction	25/10/22 05:52 AM
5	HFA/Aspie bro advice? Nah man, part of the reason I replied is because you sound a lot like me before I got my confidence under control. Just saying shit like that "I am sure I will die a virgin" is a self deprecating mindset that's gonna kill your confidence. If you said that to me, a random guy on Reddit, after our first interaction, I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume you think things like that a lot more frequently, or even a lot worse most days. If that's what you surround yourself with it's no wonder you can'…	/r/seduction	24/10/22 02:43 PM
6	HFA/Aspie bro advice? I was honestly just about to come on here and make a post somewhat related to what part of your problem may be. I've been in a similar position, can't speak on the HFA whatsoever, but used to be extremely extremely extremely introverted and shy, which led to my brain overthinking like crazy when I would be with women. Question, is this a repeated pattern really stressing you out/creating anxiousness? I was a virgin for a while and didn't branch out for a while mainly just because I was so stress…	/r/seduction	24/10/22 02:25 PM
5	Ideas for first dates One thing I always thought was nice, was going to one of those places where you drink and paint together. Might help to have a little rapport with whoever you're going with before though instead of a total stranger, but that's just my opinion!	/r/seduction	24/10/22 05:39 AM
1	3 dates before sex rule, is there room for flexibility? If she's willing to go out on a date with you, she's most likely willing to sleep with you. Don't overthink it man 🤙.	/r/seduction	23/10/22 04:26 PM
3	How many times in your life have you been rejected? How often do you have dates? Agree and disagree. You're right to an extent, but as a guy in a college town, I know a ton of quality women in person from class who I've also seen on online dating apps. It makes it much easier from their standpoint and it's not as intimidating. But, you're right from the POV that approaching in person will give you much better odds to meet better women. Not to mention, there's tons of instances where you see someone from online and they look nothing like their profile. Also, regarding knowing…	/r/seduction	20/10/22 08:29 PM
1	How many girls have you approached in the past month? It was really hard the first time I started, but you gotta do it man. Literally the first time I almost had a similar experience to yours today, but right afterwards I was so relieved I actually went to celebrate by picking up a nice bottle of vodka. I was in such a high from finally getting over it and realizing it wasn't even a big deal that the girl at the cash register ringing me up was so cute I kept my streak up and talked her up too 😂. But as for my actual experience the first time, yeah.…	/r/seduction	08/10/22 06:55 AM
1	How many girls have you approached in the past month? How'd it go man?	/r/seduction	08/10/22 06:38 AM
3	How many girls have you approached in the past month? Really glad I could help homie, you should let me know how it goes 🤙🙏.	/r/seduction	07/10/22 05:55 AM
3	How many girls have you approached in the past month? 100% dude, and in my opinion at least, I always try and golden rule everything. If the roles were reversed I'd at least want her to be honest with me for transparency so the least I can do is reciprocate that back to her. Plus I wouldn't want to be with someone who isn't genuinely interested in my authentic self to begin with.	/r/seduction	07/10/22 05:50 AM
4	How many girls have you approached in the past month? I go at it solo like: "hey, what's your name... Gives name, oh cool, my name is blank, I'm not gonna lie I'm really bad at this so I'm just gonna be honest I think you're really cute and would love to get your Snapchat/number/contact info". Most of the time they're more impressed you just went up period and were courageous enough to hit on them then if you had some savy pickup line. And in my experience I've actually never gotten "rejected", I've always managed to at least get their contact info…	/r/seduction	07/10/22 05:43 AM
1	How can I take rejection graciously? "No worries, have a good one/have a good rest of your day" walk away and onto the next potential pickup	/r/seduction	26/09/22 05:13 AM
2	Should you always ask out / get contact info when cold approaching? Where are you cold approaching? If it's literally just out in public and you stop and talk to them, keyword being STOP, they're most likely going somewhere. When I suspect the convo is nearing an end I just go "well I don't wanna hold ya up any longer or make you late to what you're doing, any chance I could get your number/Snapchat/contact info so we could have a chance to talk some more?".	/r/seduction	21/09/22 12:02 AM
3	Depressed because lack of sex Get a new psychologist... That's not what you need.	/r/seduction	19/09/22 01:47 AM