TumbleweedEast9077 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	You can’t negotiate attraction.	Debate	TumbleweedEast9077	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 03:32 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	You can’t negotiate attraction. That’s the point I’m arguing against. Every study in attraction proves that looks is by far the only thing that matters. Even if you argue that personality and confidence matters ( which is believe it does to) all of that is still connected to looks. Confidence does not come from thin air. If someone was bullied through their developmental years ( and most cases of bullying is caused directly due to looks https://www.k12dive.com/news/appearance-reported-by-students-as-top-reason-for-bullying-exp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 04:30 PM
–	You can’t negotiate attraction. That’s true, but social media now also inflated the looks standards of women. Women didn’t need men in the 70s-90s yet the dating scene was way more fair and forgiving.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 04:13 PM
–	You can’t negotiate attraction. “My girlfriend lives with me for free and eats my food” you are proving my point. Do you think if you were 6”4 and a 7 in looks, do you think that you still need to put in the same effort?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 04:09 PM
–	You can’t negotiate attraction. You’re right, but even those other qualities pale in comparison to how important physical attributes are. Each study came to the inclusion that looks are innately the most important part in a relationship https://interpersona.psychopen.eu/index.php/interpersona/article/view/3433/3433.html#:~:text=Outward%20appearance%20(or%20physical%20attractiveness,29).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 04:05 PM
–	You can’t negotiate attraction. Again she’s attracted to what that lifestyle and status can do for HER not you. If you didn’t have that she wouldn’t be with you. How is this different to hiring an escort. Physical attraction is non negotiable. It doesn’t matter that you’re broke, and a loser if you’re attractive a woman will go out of her way to help you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 03:56 PM
3	The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die already That’s not realistic, we don’t know the situations of those ugly/short guys. We don’t know if the guy has money, financially supporting her kid or etc. A girl being in a relationship with you does not always mean she’s attracted to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 03:52 PM
–	You can’t negotiate attraction. I’m not telling anyone to give up, but you need to be realistic and know your short comings. I believe most guys can be attractive to women if they were low body fat, and decent head of hair. But some guys will never be due to facial features alone. Do you have any evidence of attraction growing overtime? Attraction is instant it happens subconsciously in milosecs	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 03:48 PM
–	You can’t negotiate attraction. Someone’s stated preference may be ( that money, charm of social skills) is more important but the actual innate desires are very different according to this study https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2023-58248-001	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 03:46 PM
3	The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die already It doesn’t matter how you act, you can’t buy or negotiate attractiveness. There’s nothing they can do to make it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 03:24 PM