TumblrPTSD Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
116	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism?	TumblrPTSD	/r/seduction	20/03/16 08:19 AM
7	In public I do not know how to be physical with my girlfriend	TumblrPTSD	/r/seduction	26/04/16 07:13 AM
0	How should I kiss as a dude with high functioning autism?	TumblrPTSD	/r/seduction	22/03/16 09:23 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	In public I do not know how to be physical with my girlfriend Are there any movies you know about that show genuine couple behavior? It could help.	/r/seduction	26/04/16 03:11 PM
1	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? Some of us (including me) have that, but as an all engrossing term it kind of bums the aspies that are not rainman smart :(	/r/seduction	23/03/16 06:49 AM
1	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? It means in day to day activities. Like I can hold a job or take the bus alone. High functioning does not imply of competency in social situations. Both a social dummy and a socially calibrated aspies are high functioning as long as they can hold a job and get there by themselves.	/r/seduction	22/03/16 09:20 PM
1	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? Hey man, first things first - Bo Bunrnham is the best fucking thing that happened to me this month. Holy fucking shit I thought Louis CK and Bill Burr were geniuses. They are, but this guy is a goddamn god and is only 25. I was AMAZED by him so thank you! Second, how does the concept of not "checking the coast cuz its beta af" sit well with the blatant segue which is basically also some form of trick like a micro tests to get something moving in a smoother fashion?	/r/seduction	22/03/16 09:12 PM
1	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? Haha you are tough Meleu but not on love ;) Could you give me a "checks" version on hand behind back?	/r/seduction	22/03/16 09:04 PM
2	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? What do you mean about the Man to Woman frame? I always read about how people say that if the girl is already on date with you that she is somewhat into you, but I always have a hard time believing it is real. The best I think is that they are on the fence with me.	/r/seduction	20/03/16 10:20 PM
3	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? Ever seen Bo Burnham's stand up? He often segues jokes smoothly by addressing the segue blatantly instead of trying to actually be smooth about it. "Isn't it super cliché when a guy does the yawn thing to put his arm around you? You know like-" fake yawn, actually put your arm around her "Let's see if this is awkward or not-" take hand while walking Shows confidence and completely removes the pressure to be smooth. It sounds both forced and awesome at the same time. I guess Ill just stop being a…	/r/seduction	20/03/16 09:37 PM
1	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? I see. So I got the "hand holding" and "shoulder" tests down. What about hand on her lower back? Could elaborate about the cheek kiss mid date? Do you just go for it?	/r/seduction	20/03/16 09:34 PM
3	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? Hey man just wanted to say thanks, really helped me here with the detailed approach. For a lot of the "normals" winging it just works so its hard to get a detailed step by step answer from people. I would like to follow up by asking how does the location affect the kino? Sometimes you can only meet in a coffee house in a very urban part of town where there are not enough places like the park or the beach that allow for intimate moments. Hell sometimes it is just cold and the girl sticks her hand…	/r/seduction	20/03/16 09:30 PM
9	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? I actually thought up of moving hair from her face, though I only know to do that when I give an excuse like "ohh theres something in your hair". Like the cliche yawn-hand-over-shoulder. Its still keno, but when you excuse yourself with tricks its not as smooth. I am looking for a way without "excuses". How do you move to guide her by the small of her back? I see state A where you are walking side by side and state D where my hand is guiding her back. What are state B and C? You cant just jump f…	/r/seduction	20/03/16 10:24 AM
42	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? This actually a very helpful advice format. Very detailed so my logical mentality can grasp it. In general what you say is that physical escalation is divided into small "checks" where you test the water with micro escalations like brushing your hand against her hand or her shoulder to gauge the response, and then when you see the coast is clear you move up to an "macro" escalation like putting your hand around her shoulder or holding her hand.	/r/seduction	20/03/16 10:20 AM