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| 1 | I just got diagnosed with ASPD, no wonder i just hate connection, and struggle to get laid a lot....Amem to that brother, will watch right away. Edit:Genious take, good one here. | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | I just got diagnosed with ASPD, no wonder i just hate connection, and struggle to get laid a lot....Yes, actually this is why i am so shut in emotionally. Like i am a very deep thinker but also intense feeler, so not being that empathetic, what looks like a normal exchange for others, for me it's insufficient, and what is normal for me, it's overwhelming for others. And i have no idea, as i can't properly read it, my brain lacks that empathy card, how to socially calibrate for relationship, especially intimate ones. With friends it's much easier because you can just say the most absurd thing t… | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 07:36 PM |
| 1 | I just got diagnosed with ASPD, no wonder i just hate connection, and struggle to get laid a lot....I actually can't gain weight for some reason. Current bet is that i have an alcoholic's liver since i was a teenager due to too much coca cola. Idk how to properly repair it sadly. Might be something else entirely... | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I just got diagnosed with ASPD, no wonder i just hate connection, and struggle to get laid a lot....On the contrary, i was put on test reducing pills by the psychiatrist because i am "too focused on getting laid/horny", he said it will be short term, but i will stop taking it if he takes too long to take them off. Combined with risperidone, i don't want to grow man boobs... | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I just got diagnosed with ASPD, no wonder i just hate connection, and struggle to get laid a lot....Problem is i already struggled WHILE lying, i don't like hurting people either, but it's tempting. I just need to self maximize a bit more i guess.... | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | I just got diagnosed with ASPD, no wonder i just hate connection, and struggle to get laid a lot....Probably, maybe i have to mask less if i use skincare masks LOL | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 05:34 PM |
| – | There's just as many low quality Women as MenThe only difference is that at least, they can get some sex if they offer it truly freely. For men to refuse sex the woman needs to be like, a crackhead or something. You may say they won't like it, but at least they have more options than the similar man in her situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.This is why people do cocaine to talk to women (fairly common reason people do it, confidence), but if you want to actually get the same effects without commiting crimes, a good thing to do is to get 5HTP supplements, and basically abuse them. You feel very good when on it, like just feel good, not high good just a little aloofy at best. Call it biohacking instead of drug abuse, sounds better... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 07:54 AM |
| 0 | Personality doesn't match looks, at all, and idk how to proceed about that.That is actually zero of what i read in this sub, maybe your school of thought is very different. Or maybe i am not neurotypical or something like that, because after 10 approaches in a small venue where you know half the people there get's awkward real fast. I know guys like that, from gossip and seeing them around, they usually end up with one of the escort girls who is off duty. Funniest shit in my life, i saw a big guy high on coke all happy that he was getting with someone, i knew the girl,… | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 09:54 AM |
| 0 | Personality doesn't match looks, at all, and idk how to proceed about that.It's like a hindrance to an already tedious process, like i honestly am not very fond of just small talk and game in general. I was trying to learn mode one, but it really just got me 2 results 99% of the time, people get offended, and i get a no, people really get offended and i get a bloody nose. It's not that i can't game, it's that i get really tired after the first 2/3 approaches of a night, after that i wanna just go dance or do stupid jokes with my friends, i can't stomach hearing a bunch… | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 09:31 AM |
| 1 | easily jealous of other guys who get a lot of women.What is the point if you don't particularly care about a journey, having struggled a lot more and had difficulties just point out to having less capacity. It's like being proud you worked so hard to pay 10 dollars for a can of Coca-Cola, when your friend bought one for 1, the coke still tastes the same, yours isn't suddenly worth so much more. Ironically the trust fund baby enjoys the pleasures of being ultra rich much more than than the self made guy because he has all the free time in the worl… | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 01:44 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with 3rd parties?Yeah that is not affordable to me, so i usually try to dissociate from the approach initially. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with 3rd parties?That kinda conflicts with that 5 seconds rule, if i think too much i will always find reasons not to do it. I am honestly considering just accepting that conflict may come and it's part of the deal. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with 3rd parties?I got into trouble before the girl even said a word, i started talking to her and basically the man answered for her, with clear physical threat. So yeah, i did hit on someone's girl but i wasn't given the chance to know better... | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with 3rd parties?I mean i guess i have no choice but to get ripped then, because i will forever look nerdy (face is nerdy and i am lifebound to glasses), so yeah people do see me as an easy picking but i find it tedious to have to embarass people and i usually look like a sleazy asshole when i do this, it's cultural probably... | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 04:26 AM |
| – | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?Which makes sense considering your goals. It's not like your friends, while they might complain now, they had their fun too! Overall all valid points! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:57 AM |
| 2 | How to dance together with a girl twerking?This is actually what i am looking for! Thanks a lot! | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How to dance together with a girl twerking?Fellow Starcraft enjoyer, opinion accepted! May ladies drop on your lap as supply drops on my depots (macro sucks LOL)! | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 01:49 AM |
| 2 | How to dance together with a girl twerking?I'm skinny, i got zero tits, can i shake her's? /s | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 01:07 AM |
| – | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?I mean, some people just don't care about it, it is definitely something you can learn to deal with. For me is not that hard honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 08:23 PM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?Or work on becoming a gigachad that also works! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:20 AM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?Let me explain myself in a different way. Statistically, let's say we can prove most people lie. Given that as true, you can very smartly approach the situation as in, if i interact with a 100 people, and most of them are liars, i will more often than not be better if i treat, at least in the beginning, everyone as a liar. I might be wrong sometimes, and people might show overtime that they are trustworthy, but until then, it is much better to treat a blank slate as the most statistically likely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?The game is finding the people wanting out with you in your case. You still need to dive into the haystack to find the needle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 07:25 PM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?Not surprised, but yes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 07:24 PM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?I won't bother finding it but yes. We need another study pointing out men are also not "victims" of it, but i bet men are much more likely to like depressed/borderline girls, for reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:14 AM |
| 3 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?You don't suppose, i heard those tales being taught to my cousins when growing up. Not surprisingly i was also taught by the SAME PEOPLE how to circunvent all those barriers. Damn my mother would probably be a dating coach if she was younger than she is now, mama is no joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 01:41 AM |
| 2 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?The TLDR is that since on average most people suck, it is fair to be suspicipuous by default, and treat most as guilty until proven innocent. Being self serving doesn't necessarily target other people to harm, it only happens if we end on opposite sides. All is fair in love and war they say... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?No man you got it all wrong, we actually agree. You should do plastic surgery, because then you can be with more attractive women which in theory, have better genes. You hope your kids inherit the strenghts of both parents and as little as possible of the "bad genes". So you should do plastic surgery, because while YOU might be fake pretty (stupid idea itself), your kids and future generations will likely improve in attractiveness. Ugly guy with hot wife, is 50/50 to get hot kids, ugly guy who s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?By doing plastic surgery and having kids with a hot girl, you are fixing up your gene pool, good job warrior, ancestors are proud of you. Also more men need to take better care during their youth and be taught self care more often. Like actually keeping your hair clean and not just think "short hair doesn't get that dirty" will help you delay balding. Using proper shampoo and everything, being hot is serious business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?How are your morals doing? One question answers the other... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?Preferably date and smash your future wife a lot before putting a ring on her finger too. Focus on not multiplying also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?I think the amount of tricks one scrub can learn is being underestimated here. Like sure he might get laughed out, but he will be no matter what he does. Being toxic is an incredibly deep rabbit hole and the level of tricks one can legally pull is immense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:44 PM |
| 3 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?Depends on your circles too. Plenty of frat bros and annoying socialite girls who actually approve of bad behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:41 PM |
| -2 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?I mean, some guys practice for so long they get a bit better at it. Not saying most don't suck, they absolutely do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:29 AM |
| 1 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?I guess there is no confusion about it the And even still, there is always a way to be more toxic, that is how girls with toxic exes end thinking they are the worst garden tool in the world, while the guy actually is a big time loser who just fed her mind bullshit to make his life easier. Been on both sides of this, with the same girl actually, it was a true battlefield. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 06:55 AM |
| 0 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?So what i am getting here is, try to play fair, but randoms are guilty until proven innocent? I can rock with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 06:39 AM |
| 2 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?It is not about being good or bad IMO, it is possibly just being smart about reality, you are guilty of being statistically average until you try. Playing devil's advocate here, i don't honestly believe this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?Makes perfect sense. | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?Which is even worse for me because my instagram is actually completely empty, more followers than that but not a single post, only meme stories. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?Yeah that is all valid, but even then, i think that if she insists on instagram i should basically take it as a rejection right? | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?I don't ask for instagram, but girls just assume i did. "Hey can i have your number", "Here's my instagram", i just can't say hey i didn't ask for that. And well, if i don't have an instagram then they get very suspicious and just tell an excuse. When i get numbers i almost 100% score. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?Seems to be the best option here. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?I agree with you but sometimes that doesn't happen, should i take these as a lost cause? TLDR: Are the contact info's basically junk i should delete if i didn't get a very successful first conversation? From body language i think most girls that do give me contacts seem positive the whole time. This whole thing is so stressful wtf LOL. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?That seems good, this particular trigger case for me was at a mall, should i just take an i am busy as a rejection and move on? Because i mean sometimes it happens, and you need to deal with exceptions right? Or just take it as an L and ignore it. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?What if the girl is busy, this sound something you can't magically fix. Like if you are cold approaching in the street or in the mall, some people might be missing. Is this a case of just forget this girl and look for someone available? | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?This is plan A, but never a girl i ever approached went through with it, or even i am available for that. I try that first but it never works, then i get contacts, but what to do in this situations is my question. Should i just leave and ignore the numbers as if i never got them? | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?I mean whenever i ask for numbers, they offer their IG, should i just refuse? | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?I really hope so, i am worried that she will just go crazy this time. Worst part is that i know she gets fine for a few days when we used to see each other. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?Response, in little detail "I am going through a rough patch in life, i am mentally bad, and don't want to see anyone, and don't want to have sex anymore" Which just adds much more alarm to me. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 02:51 AM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?It wasn't non verbal, i told her pretty directly. "I have no problem treating you like a princess, because i like you alot, but you won't ever lock me down, i don't do serious dating anymore" She might not have been able to handle my standard behaviour towards lovers, i actually was so much more romantic when i dated, my nerfed version is still too romantic for me. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 02:44 AM |
| 2 | How to KEEP FWB?She is not mentally well atm, which is making me all the more worried about this. As a depressed person myself, i know we try to kick people out of our lives all the time, and that is not healthy, i think that she might be isolating herself and that is troublesome. The no sex anymore is a big alarm bell, besides the sex, i am worried for my friend. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 02:42 AM |
| 2 | How to KEEP FWB?Man, i will open up a big caveat to this story. She is not mentally well these days (few months) she got paid medical from her job (which is a nurse ironically) by a psychiatrist. I feel she is deeply depressed and she is having panic attacks, she had that from time to time. BUT, it weirdly always coincided with her not seeing me, and whenever she did she usually got better. I think that between me and her, she is having a hard time accepting we can't date, nor want to, and possibly due to her a… | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?What about her intentions to keep friends, i could pull that off easily as wanting to fuck my friends is standard. But i find it odd from her! | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?It is not so much about keeping up the FWB situation or the sex itself, she used to actually pester me a bit, so i felt pursued. It might sound extremely feminine but man, it is a million times better than hunting. Best weapon a hunter has, the one that still wins many wars today, is a trap, or a mine, you just set the bait and they eventually come to you. I don't like running after girls, i much rather put them in a position where they are coming after me. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?I think there are 2 factors. I don't do dating, i am not monogamous. And we are not only years apart but lifestages apart, i don't have structure to keep a steady relationship with her, i can't support her and she can't support me lifestyle wise. We would pull eachother backwards by trying to have a serious relationship... | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?I don't actually understand anything of what you said. Are you implying i treated like just sex but said otherwise? She is still my friend first, i am just sad she wants to cut the benefits, and i don't get exactly why... | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?While this is true, this is very cuck adjacent to me, unless the guy has the same freedom, which is rare due to scarcity. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:25 AM |
| 0 | How to KEEP FWB?Actually a genius idea, although this is VERY cheating adjacent, should give it a shot! | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:21 AM |
| 3 | How to KEEP FWB?Which is why she ie indecisive LOL! | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:11 AM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?When is long term FWB beneficial to women, how can i work towards that? I got respectable records on pipe game at least, so this must not be a fix all, can't think of much else. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:08 AM |
| -7 | How to KEEP FWB?And how do i circunvent that, filter for the exceptions whatever, do i just pretend to date then, and do so with every girl, avoiding to make it public at all? Sound viable but very unethical... | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:06 AM |
| -12 | How to KEEP FWB?The wrong part about this is that she agreed to only want the sex and friendship, it was very clearly stated that i would not want a relationship, as it was also inviable between us. And well it worked wonders and everybody was happy until tomorrow. I think she is bluffing tbh, her personal situation is shitty right now, i think i just need to see her, give her a warm hug, and she will go weak and forget those silly words! | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:02 AM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?Actually, this might make sense, unironically she always goes weak when we are in person. It happened once already, a very simpy rich guy took her on a date, they were dating for 1 week, after 1 week (LOL) they had sex, they ended there. On her own words, it feels very bad to fuck one person thinking about another... Big ego boost there! | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 08:57 AM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?I have no moral stance on this, all i said is that whatever the other might feel, i never lie, so they knew the deal from the start. I can't fathom how i am a manipulating misogynistic person when i told exactly everything i want to do, it's on the person to refuse. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 08:52 AM |
| -17 | How to KEEP FWB?Which is a disheartening situation, because my only hope here is to bait her with hope all the time but never deliver. AKA asshole behaviour. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 08:43 AM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?Makes no sense, sex was great, or she is just lying and found someone else. Who knows.... | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 08:39 AM |
| 3 | How to KEEP FWB?Which is, although natural, feels incredibly predatory of women. As in, they want things from you always, men itself is low value, only what he provides matters, which is deeply insulting to me in an emotional level When my ex started pressuring me into becoming less of a bun (i was a lost 18yo), i lost all attraction to her, like at that moment love died and now we had contracts. Now we were partners in business, not love, so quickly after we broke up. I was doing my own thing, and she was doin… | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 08:35 AM |
| -4 | How to KEEP FWB?I think i don't actually like the commitment part here, i am more into the eternal lovers vibe. Especially the living together part and yada, like i am NOT in a relationship, we are friends, who deeply love each other, i don't like getting institutions or denominations on my relationships, that usually means there are demands on both parts, i don't like being demanded as much as i hate having to enforce my demands. It gets transactional fast. I know relationships can always come and go, but i wa… | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 07:36 AM |
| 0 | How to KEEP FWB?I mean, i don't have problems with people moving on to better things eventually, but she "moved on" to nothing. The worst part is that i know her mental health is in some shitty place right now, and i know everytime we went out she got better, but maybe with an hiatus in contact she is now trying to ditch me. It seems like a poor judgement due to a complicated settings, and i fear for her not only has a lover but a friend, she might be pushing away friendships that might be harm her in the long … | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:32 AM |
| 13 | How to KEEP FWB?I think we both got attached but couldn't logistically go further. What i don't get is that it was highly enjoyable for both parties, it was sudden for me for real! | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:27 AM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?Yeah the age gap is a defining factor. What i don't get is that all of the sudden being FWB is no longer desirable, because every single time we were together she was ecstatic, so i saw no signs of problems at all. Maybe she wants to seek a boyfriend/husband, but she doesn't need to drop me BEFORE finding the guy you know?? | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Weird annoying situation, i suck at game but have a few options, it is making me sad and here is whyYou kind of got it mixed up a bit, it's not exactly about the drugs only tbh, it is because of actual tiredness and downtime usually. When i am high i am usually dancing my ass off, sunglasses on, no care in the world to anyone around me, just vibing hard to the music, and having a great time. After that, if i go to a quiet place, sit down, try to rest, not only because drugs wear off but because i am actually not basically overloaded my senses with dancing and music, that is when i get super ne… | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Weird annoying situation, i suck at game but have a few options, it is making me sad and here is whyI barely even go out with these 2 anymore, if i do it is a direct date, every party i go i am already hunting for new pussy technically. There is no mental cockblock i thing, i have some severe social anxiety, not approach anxiety, so i am more at odds that my approach will get me flagged as a creep by 3rd party, thus ruining the night women wise + Stress. Like if the girl says fuck off to me i don't care, but the issue arrises when other people take issue with the interaction and i am done for … | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Weird annoying situation, i suck at game but have a few options, it is making me sad and here is whyI am actively looking for a replacement, but i can't find it..... These 2 are basically older ladies with self esteem issues, i just met them at clubs, they were incredibly sttaight forward and i just said yes, and asked questions directly. It is very hard for me to find myself in a situation that it is okay to just kiss a girl, or tell her she is gorgeous and i love it, most of the time this is a bad opener. Deep down i know i am a pussy afraid of being hostilized for being a pig, but well i AM… | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Weird annoying situation, i suck at game but have a few options, it is making me sad and here is whyBut man, i don't want to RELY on them, i feel like i am the one being completely at their mercy here, it doesn't feel good at all. Although i like them they are low quality overall, and well while i want them as friends forever if possible, i want to be able to help myself if they aren't available, especially at parties. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Valuable lesson on lonelinessSince you cited Jeff and Johnny, is baldness the cure to loneliness then? /s | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 05:15 AM |
| – | Self improvement doesn't work with attracting girls - It's all about your energy, you attract who you are.I mean this is the deal right, you climbed to a league with way less people so your statistics and probabilities got worse actually. The thing is, if you are too good guy-y, you won't have any use for your gains. No point having money you can't spend, a tank of a body that you can't abuse sometimes, too good of a moral code you can't really bend to have some rules. I mean, girls don't love rich old men, they like to leech the money of course, but what they actually like are playboys, because the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 10:57 AM |
| -1 | Women in their thirties are way better than many women in their twentiesVery, very hard to imagine LOL. This i why i don't date seriously, i just go on dates with girls i like because we are friends, and sometimes we fuck. This also leaves me open to more carnal experiences on the side. Commitment is useless these days, so i just treat every girl as best as she deserves and leave the labels for the rest, they don't guarantee or are worth anything positive anymore. You can have a girl that is basically your wife without getting married at all LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:40 AM |
| -3 | Women in their thirties are way better than many women in their twentiesMost of the wall talk is that 30s women are just less hot, which is true. Sure they may beat the young ladies in all other metrics, but they can't really, on average, be hotter than the young ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:31 AM |
| – | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Reddit is widely known as a retard redut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 04:18 AM |
| – | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?My other big dreams are to be a tank driver, explosives expert, or if i was brighter, an engineer at lockheed or General Dynamics. I just like things go boom, i am only not doing any of that because i live in a third world hellhole, and you aren't really allowed to drive tanks up the favelas... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:16 AM |
| – | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?If she enjoys sex and is curious about trying random things, i'm sold. A portion of my horniness is pure curiosity, mostly know how diff this girl is from the last. I am a weird mix of hippie marine, as long as i got some buddies, well supplied, and looking forward to cause some trouble i am happy. This translates that if i have buddies to go out with, hot girls to hit on, and loud music to dance, i am in. It can't be that hard to go sex drugs and rock n roll right? Or did the boomers steal that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:11 AM |
| – | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Ironically that is exactly what i have, parents in a loving 30+yo marriage, i am happy for them but i would despise that. Their life is too peaceful and they aren't interesting at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 02:47 AM |
| – | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?And what else of a goal there is. A lot of men get their empathy and innocence ripped out very early by a pretty face and a mean attitude. The profile of most men struggling consist of basically lust and ambition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 02:40 AM |
| – | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I already am a client if that counts... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 02:23 AM |
| – | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Bro, if they enjoy it too i call fair game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Girlfriend is not just sexually desired, unfortunately many gf's merely tolerate their partners physically, it's sadly common even | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Have you NEVER seen the level of grossness horny women get up to? I have the priviledge of having also a few gay friends, so the tale is very clear to me, women are MORE horny than men, they just aren't horny for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?The point is not just settle for this, but what can be done, if something, to get out of this "datezone" and go to the "fuckzone". The most common thing here in brazil is for men to get a job like truck driver, and have 3 different families LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I am not well versed in the world of indian living | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?If enough for a casual sex or FWB, and the Jessies are into the Woodies i'm in (You triggered me so HARD FUCK YOULOLOLOLL, A SUPER HOT GIRL SATURDAY I WAS MIRIN WAS LITERALLY A JESSICA, GOOD JOB CIA LOLOLOLLLOL) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Any tips, this is my current plan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Will take a look at scent layering! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:35 PM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean is everything about stuff you hate and do daily, imagine the horror, doind so for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I would call gross an overstatetement, the rest might be on point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Makes sense until you realize that nothing changed. Society still wants to ostracize (monastery/mgtow), or kill (send to war) the incels, there was never a fix, you were never welcome to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?It is also basically a gigantic pile of waste and junk that keeps accumullating as your body recycles unused sperm. Not advocating to fap furiously, but from time to time it's good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?The reason desire is important is because of control and security, if you know a girl desires you, you have much less maintenance to do to keep her happy, just doing the Captain thing from penguins of madagascar "Smile and nod boys", and you are set. If she doesn't desire you that much you have to keep monitoring and managing and playing the game. Having been on both sides, it's much better to be desired | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Ahh i see, the famous Turbo MOGGING? AKA just be attractive and go for the fish in demand already?, makes sense. Yeah the Kpop look seems to be the king physically, i am not that far actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?No-fap fr? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Redpill is like, 40% correct at max, the rest is pure speculation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:46 PM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Which is 90% a bunch of bollocks that don't work, that adapt their discourse everytime they see a new success case because their formula never really clicks? Gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?In my vision, it is only paying trading if the coins are switched. If you like her because she'a hot, and she likes him because he is rich, then something is wrong. If both of you are in for the hot cake it's fine. Hell it is even fine if both are in it for the money. The shitty part are the cover contracts, like she is basically being a hooker and him a john but no one can shed light on the truth else the magic is lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Yes, even better if it looks acts and shakes exactly like.... you.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?And mostly the young men too, it kinda works there, here it would be a total failure and would never fly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I think for men it's 80% gym and 20% all the rest. Really as men, you can buy good smelling shampoo/soap/deodorant all in one with a razor as makeup and be okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Tie an object weighting about 55kg to the ceiling, and leave it there for a day, decoration for the cops | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Maybe this is why gym mommy is so popular right now, like the apex human. Strong, hot, desirable, and self protective? Maybe gym rat girls are the new META | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Have you ever seen those little gym fuckers, with chiseled jawlines and visible abs at like 15, that is how Chad's are fabricated. Imagine if gyms had more structure to receive children and culture incentivized it more, different planet really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:33 AM |
| -2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Female right? You can't possibly comprehend, unfortunately opinion rejected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?It's not the average woman experience, this seems to be unfortunately universal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?It seems you are black or asian, i'm out of luck them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I think by grow up a little bit i think men need to start being taught how to be hot for the opposite gender from a much younger age. Girls learn makeup almost from birth, many young boys discover the gym with fucking zyzz=AKA way too late to have huge impacts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:20 AM |
| 6 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Indians i think still arrange marriages! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?All i am asking is HOW TO DO SO. What exactly about a male body is that tick that makes girls go Brrrr like girl with perfectly round boobs and a perky booty, or more subtle stuff like ankles and neck that many men find particularly attractive. I am considering going on a forearm routine because it seems to be a big thing among girls, outside of the just get big advice i feel kind of lost on the improvements part. I am not playing dumb, i neee coaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?It's natural because in the past the other men were either fighting, enslaved, or dead. The population of any given country always favoured women because of the constant blodshed of our past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Yeah this is certainly a possible case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?For real, all my bros my age all break up in less than a year with warning shots fired, it's a bad bad enviroment to create roots on It's not exactly that i struggle to find commitment, it's that commitment finds me way too much, all my hookups want to lock me down and i don't want, i just want to have fun, provide my fun, hand have that friendly dance. But yeah, this is somehow a sin for the average joe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Cheap enough for me to get dumb before i drink the rest of the bottle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?You can do all the dating without the commitment part. The most important thing for men is having abundance so he can be sure that the women he chooses is not because of lack of options Choice instead of gamble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 10:34 AM |
| 7 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?It's not exactly a victim, but he has no other options. The man is not a victim of the woman, he is a victim of his own balls making him turbo horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?They don't feel like pathetic losers, and i fail to understand why, their jobs are boring, weekends are meh, wifes are mid, there is nothing great about that simple living. I am a hater of simple living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean, been there, done that, not worth it at all. All women have their ups and downs, like all people, but having to tolerate some peoples downs because you love them is much better than tolerate her downs because you have no one else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean it sucks on both ways, but do you really monkey brain knows what a condom is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?There is a few at raves too i seen my fair share. All i want to know is if the whiskey is on the cheap side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Bro, the deep down reason men mate guard is because women can make you raise another man's child, and that is the issue, why cheating is so abhorrent. Emotions are involved yes, but the main part is the theft, no wonder men get madder at the lover before they get mad at a the wife most times. Anyway, sex is king man, there is no diversion from it, it is beggining and end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 09:59 AM |
| -3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Why would you do anything else besides trying to be happy and reproduce (at leasy simulate it), there is not much more to life unless you get holistic about it. Invent a god to worship or a flag to raise, the only real problem we have is how to maximize pleasure and reproduction. So an incel is failing at both and if he can't fix any of those he is wasting oxygen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Valid theory, buy any way now i want my big titty goth gf and it seems to have no cure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Only if he gets no action LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:53 AM |
| 6 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?You're late, the fucker is turning 5, he already ate my concrete wall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:50 AM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Are you suggesting rope? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Precisely my thoughts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?The most common bar tale we hear here is that men tried their best in their young years to get laid and one of 3 things happened: •They knocked some girl up and got married •They just married a girl a bit too hot for his level •They didn't get marrier and got some action 10 years later the only one not complaining is the third guy. And i say that coming from a very stable loving family married of 30 years, it's als the only one i know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Then what is the point of anything, the worst part is that i got "Chad" treated a few 2 lucky times, by some crazy girls. Now i'm fucked, i am already addicted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Bro have you ever been to a brazilian carnival? Like i've seen girls drag some questionable dudes to alleys to fuck, in public, maybe the emotions here is the thrill, but i call so much cap on this emotions part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?At least here, stats say otherwise, i also live in the biggest city in the country, so i guess locals are relevant data entry. There is a big reason why anglo/european tourist come here to do sex tourism. Being super white (as in only european possible white), and somewhat blonde or redhead even as a man is a big plus, girls love the gringos, also we tend to be shorter than europeans/americans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?It seems you are british, but let me tell you. Marriage isn't and was never sacred in Brazil, no one takes this shit seriously, our way of life and thinking is not very different from what you see in the street carnaval, or some baile funk parties. This is the country of the fuckfest, so i might biased. And my problem is not that it is like that, it's that i am not in on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean if he has terminal cancer with low chances of salvation, he should just go skydiving, rob a bank, or the classic cook some meth, you know all those things that would bite you in the ass if you did them before. Yeah they won't now because there is no tomorrow, rules don't apply to you anymore! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Yeah this is a math i am struggling to calculate, how much lean mass can you put on a full year? I need to calculate because this is the time i will take to learn french in the intensive classes. So how strong can i get in a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?If you can't fix your problems, then what is the point of doing anything. Like i personally with all respect, imagine your kid was born missing 2 legs and with both eyes stuck together like a cyclops, and the doctor gave you the option of euthanasia. If you didn't spare that kid of a lifetime of suffering, the cruel one here is you. And besides, getting laid is partially about having my kids and bloodline go through, helping the next person over is a task after you secured your shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Is it wrong if i too become a hot guy, it's not like i am wanting that to happen with me looking like a gremlin. I want to change to appeal to the women, and deserve the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Ukraine is not fighting, ukraine is suicide, if i had military experience i would've joined russia, it's a nice country as i have some russian friends from discord, went there a few times too. The problem is that both sides require previous military experience and i only have the 6 months obligatory service which doesn't count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Am i supposed to give up or pretend i like being average, i don't know what you are trying to say here. Anyway i think you are trolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:28 AM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?You aren't willing to go far enough. Man, the most mild thing i tried already was become a junkie. Blood runs thicker than water, they might forget my name but well, reproduction is the core mandament of life, you can't give that up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?As the Chosen One said himself The problem here is: "You lack conviction" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:25 AM |
| -2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Thank god for franciscus sylvius and night life buddy, quick tip is GHB too if you like jail. Drop your morals and it becomes easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?To 5 i call bluff, happiness is like meth, the fun part is searching for more. Most men give up their dreams to become pathetic people with mediocre lives. Because whoever the fuck your father was, it was likely him that murdered the other bastard About drugs, you should be aware of stimfapping, but try hitting on girl with GOOD dose of benzos, you either go to jail or with 2 girls in a hotel, it is a good gamble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Then you either surrender and deal with the regret of a defeated man, or you fight the 8billion minus 1 and die with pride trying. Like many did before, like the men in stalingrad did, like the men in dunkirk did, like the 200ish men in Rorke's drift did, like the samurai at shiroyama did. I rather die a warrior than a live forever a coward, and i find it baffling that many wouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?My personal experience, abundance breeds apathy, in an emergency situation, stacy would fuck you no problem if she had to, you aren't gross, it's just that both you and chad exist and 2 is too much for her. So you either get the women hornier or the men hotter, i vote the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:05 AM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Bro, honestly it's not a sex drive thing, i think most men are just ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?If reality is supposed to suck what is the point of prolonging it instead of terminating the failing process. And honestly for those school shooters, nothing can really stop them because suicide by cop is their plan already, similar to suicide bombers It is true that reality isn't supposed to be anything, but we being agents in it, we can and should shape it to our needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:48 AM |
| -2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Like men of old, i am not that emasculated to this point, the original solution to incel's was death by work/battlefield. So man, i rather die trying than to give up, it's very gay to give up. So yeah, men have died and killed for it and here you are talking about giving up. So man up and let's try to cook up a solution shall we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?So the solution is to put some Durateston in the water supply? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Why should i suffer in solitude and not fight back, if everyone is not on my team they are the enemy. This is how riot's always happened.... Think for one second, you have one shot, one life, will you really let life put you into a miserable deplorable videogame bound dorito eating for 25 years. The men who were our forefathers conquered this planet and you can't even fuck the hot neighbours daugther? What kind of disrespect for the world they build for us is this. If at least you fail at gettin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Then why should you not actively sabotage a system that is not collaborating with you. I can think of a billion ways to be a net nuisance, actually they are the primary ways that drug cartels and terrorist groups recruit people. Nothing more easy than to give a sad depressed 15yo an AR15 and some instructions and an extra mag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?So rope basically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?The definition of me of being "loved" is not what i am looking for, i crave the "POWER" of being hot, desired, the pursued. To be the one with the final say. I want to be what all women hate they are, sexually objectified, the kind of stuff you fap to, this shit. I don't love any hot actress but i know she is hot, and if she wanted me i would be totally down, because the decider of the interaction is her, because i want her a lot and she wants me less theoretically. All i want is to be the hot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:14 AM |
| -1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?You can't be serious LOL, have you ever hired a prostitute? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?The french foreign legion is military of france, i am going to be a soldier there basically, 2024 will be a bulk up and get ready phase, improve my french. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Actually the first one is WTF level, wow, i tried pulling off the bald look once it didn't work out great. For now my best bet is being a well kept mullet, but my face is very long and i have some surgery marks that fuck up my symmetry. So even if i went bald, or full beard, my eye area sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:47 AM |
| -3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Being a rich kid who never had to truly work doesn't mean i am hot, at least where i live playboy only means rich kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean we used to solve this problem quite handily but morals got in the way. Instead of let our boys kill themselves over the girls, we send to places to die and kill other things that require more expedite extermination, like afghanis, iraqis, vietcongs, germans, the few who came back were hailed as heroes by the ladies. This is so ancient in fact that even indigineous tribes have manhood passages that involve pretty lethal actions, like letting poisonous ants bite you voluntarily So yeah, suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:45 AM |
| -2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I know the reality of being a playboy, I AM A PLAYBOY LOL. The thing i don't get, is that obviously not every girl will be a yes, i just want always be a maybe, as in, i won't throw up if he touches me kind of deal. Like if i could get my confidence up to about a 5% success rate i would be very happy, like every 20 girls i score one? That is a good deal although i wish to improve. Like i will never be a famous DJ or a billionaire, at least i have to be hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Other than that: Do foreign legion to have military experience, i always wanted to be a tank crewmen but my country is conscription only and my time is up. Eventually use both the military experience and an engineering degree to work within the industry, from R&D to PMC work, i just love guns and things going boom too much, that's why i love hardstyle too LOL. Otherwise yes, this is my life plan for now, as the saying goes, sex drugs and loud music. The coone song says it better "It's go time, g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?It was an example, but i know a few guys who do indeed couch surf, just being charming and making it happen with girls, doing a few random side gigs for some random cache. You are extrapolating my example to make a point. Non-ironically: this happens frequently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?None of that comes through for real if she doesn't talk to you. You said the world yourself, friendly, i don't want to be just friendly, i want to be lust inducing, not friendzone material, i aim for the fuckzone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:14 AM |
| -1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?How can i become HOTTER so that girls will find it a fair deal to trade sex for sex? This is the only question i have. For now i got gym, but i can't really understandthe female gaze on how girls choose which guy is the hot guy in a club, i want to be that guy, how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean sure, but bear with me, it won't matter if a guy has the coolest stories if he is missing and eye and a leg. A good book cover does wonders for sales. I might not become hot like henry cavill but i need to at least be hot enough to make the girls curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Man, my current life plan is get laid as much as possible, be hot, since i am too old, i want to get fit to serve in the foreign legion (french) because i want to have the experience of having been a warrior (i love war stuff, all my childhood heroes are military stuff), then use that money to keep funding causes/lifestyle that i like (party/NGO/freedom fighters investors), all the while hooking up. If you want to send me to hell, pay me 100k dollars in a law firm and lock me up 18h a day in a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:07 AM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean, about my personality, i don't struggle with friends at all, in fact, i do make friends with different people easily, as long ofc that they are open to convo. However i have my own personality, that is my identity, i want not to be a different person completely, i want to be a hot ME. Put that super hot body over my excentric personality, so that girls will spot being just friends and add the benefits too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:03 AM |
| -3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?So for context, not ironically, when i was 14, a friend suggested me trying to date because having sex is easier while dating, so i gave it a shot. After 1.5 years looking, i hit on a girl who happened to have a twin, she didn't like me, her twin liked, we dated for 4 years, it was acceptable, her family was nice, but she was annoying, didn't like to go out and i am a party animal, she was also TERRIBLE in bed, and overtime because unbearable, but well, i had some consistent sex and a fun father… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean i actually agree with everything here. The only missing part here is that it doesn't seem to be proper guides on how to be sexually attractive for women in general. The few info we have are from untrustworthy redpiller snakeoil salesman, inkwells, and women with bad intentions. Like it seems to me that just getting massive in the gym won't cut, there is more to it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?True love is a woman who will like me as a friend, treat me as a brother, and fuck me as a lover. Commitment is not required to love, love is about wanting to see if i am okay, if i am free tonight to see her presentation in college, tell me that her mom healed from whatever. Love is much much more than about 5 grams of gold on your ring, love is care, relationship status is just propaganda. I had commitment with zero love, and so much love without commitment, it is all a scam. I don't want to "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I want to be a hot guy that makes girls happy, might sound silly but this is it. I want be Ken, the hot, funny, available, and cool guy every barbie girls want to have. But continuing the ryan gosling trend. Right now i feel more like a K, rotting away living a fake life, dreaming that an Ana de Armas would hug me good night so everything would be okay. And even more, because JOI (Ana's character in blade runner), is whoever K wants her to be, she is whatever. Difference with me is that i want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?That's the point, i don't want to give up, i want to be the dream boy, the one (please don't take this as pedo talk) that girls read on novels and movies and went, "i want my boyfriend just like that" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?And this my girl, you achieve by being free and not commiting, to share your best with that person but not bounding yourself with her, letting both of you explore. A hookup is just that, sharing of gifts and gestures without promises or demands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I used not to, but then i had a girlfriend, and a few times, i had chances with other girls, some were HOT, but i didn't because i was commited. That day i understood commitment is a price, not only with the other person, but on your pride and your morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I have never had real actual problems that i did truly care that much. Once we had an econ crisis on my country, since i didn't sell my PC (i was a kid) i barely cared that the food we ate changed, the house was smaller, i had to walk further to school, i just didn't care. All i cared at the time was that i liked a girl at school and didn't have the courage to tell her, i was always a horndog. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:28 AM |
| 6 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Do you consider transactionak relationships love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Adulterers are a topic of pride here in brazil, having a side chick is a power move. 2/3s being fat is an american problem, people in brazil work 12h a day and men likely also work physical jobs, the competition is fierce af here, not counting that 80% of men play soccer regularly which builds one of the most aesthetics physiques there is. My "rotation" currently is a girl 10 years older than me thrice divorced, i actually like her as a person but come on man, i am 22, i want at least once have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:25 AM |
| 6 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?The first answer is yes, they get consistent sex and someone to help split bills/warm the bed/raise kids, you don't need to be madly in love for that. But it still is a price to be paid, a transaction. It's not a ride or die for real. And even then, many married men cheat with prostitutes for this very reason. EDIT:Grammar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean, i know how hot the girls they are getting are, i am missing very much indeed. Like i am a young lad, i don't want to "work on myself" to be that 34 year old dude hitting on 18yo girls, that is borderline creepy and i want to get these girls now, i want to live it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:16 AM |
| 5 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?The average man in brazil is lean but not fit, has good social skills due to culture, and are maybe too overly masculine, none of that helps. What i don't get is what women find actually hot, like across the street hot, i am not really looking at personality because for hookups it matters less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Yeah i just got personally out of the literal best possible party of my life, with my favourite artists, and even still i am sad because i didn't hook up with anyone. This is why i made the post, i can't run away from my own sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean pay by commitment is that most men end up commiting to girls they don't want to, because they have no other options, so accepting the commitment is the price. But women do lust after men very hard, i just don't know what they are looking for and how to replicate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:09 AM |
| 8 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?A woman has a much much easier time replacing a partner than a man can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:07 AM |
| 6 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?For some maybe, but some of us can't truly feel complete without it, especially if you are horny and get constantly reminded of your failures everytime you see a hot girl It's not something you can realistically distance youself from, women exist and everytime you go out you are bound to interact with them even if just looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:06 AM |
| 5 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Monogamy is trusting and being at mercy that this one girl will not only plain out cheat but threaten you with competition for a lifetime, while being more and more demanding with time, not counting that she is likely very mid too. It's not that i personally don't get laid, but it feels very dumblucky tbh. Maybe in america LMS works, but here in brazil every guy is into some form of sports/fitness, the BBL here isn't surgical, competition is fierce af. I bet i must be just very fucking ugly but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:01 AM |
| – | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?So men should just give up and use the long object used to tie things around their neck? Sometimes i pray that the draft came back LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 03:55 AM |
| 8 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?I mean most people i know don't date, but even still, in dating women always have the most power to fuck things up, i don't feel safe dating personally. I also live in brazil so there is that too, idk maybe i am fucking ugly, and can't get a hookup to save my life LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Alcohol is a means of coping with anxiety/poor social skillsReally? The solution to this unfortunate problem is to give the person with vision problems some water, it always helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 08:38 PM |
| 14 | Alcohol is a means of coping with anxiety/poor social skillsDutch courage nowadays means MDMA for me LOL... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Women are against the legalisation of prostitution because they want the "hoeflation" to continue, and are ok with men being miserable.Oh sure, but it's not like people care about any of that unfortunately, they rather get rid of the whole industry, assuming that prohibition works (it never doea), without the industry itself there is no issue, ever. It's a similar idea as "we could solve all the wars in the middle east, we just nuke the place so there will be no one there anymore, there can't be any issue if both parties cease to exist. It still doesn't solve the sexless men problem, what men crave is power, including the power… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:57 PM |
| 8 | Women are against the legalisation of prostitution because they want the "hoeflation" to continue, and are ok with men being miserable.So i can have a say here, where i live it is legalized and regulated, in Brazil. For starters, yes they have their community and costumer base pretty strong here, however it is heavily stigmatized and both the men and women involved need to keep their identity a secret. Reason 1 is that it is a very big signifier that you are a powerless, undesirable loser, that needs those services and can't get laid normally, especially in a very sexual country. Reason 2 is that on basis of reason No1, it blee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:47 PM |
| – | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.What? In the past, priests and warriors were highly praised and high status. Technically nowadays we think of those things as shit, but back then it was kinda good to be those things. Like it was certainly better than being an unmarried and lonely serf everyone thought weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 12:09 AM |
| – | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Exactly why we have an incel problem right now, people just don't know what to with them since the old way is not possible anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 10:33 PM |
| – | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.LDAR means Lay Down And Rot. And the way society deals with it is by getting those men to go away, either by hermits or military service (in the past i mean). It's not about the volume of men (which is large still) it's about society and culture not providing these men a healthy alternative. Reminding that in the past, priests were HIGHLY respected and powerful, being a cannon fodder in an army was considered super noble and pride inducing, shamans were tribe leaders. Nowadays there is nothing v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 09:24 PM |
| – | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.The solution was either to send them to war/draft them, either for forced work or actual fighting, or to send them to monasteries, shamanic training, hermit spaces, monks, etc. And the common answer from all those options is, we don't deal with the problem at all, we just get rid of anyone with that problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 07:59 PM |
| – | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.This is the norm partly because of biology and partly because of culture. I bet you grew up in a place where culturally people were fully against the idea of sharing and also just being a fuckboy/hoe, that is widely frowned upon. What i suggested in the OP is that if the culture was supportive of this and VERY BIG basically, you could override the primal desires. And as a disclaimer, i actually fully agree with you, since i still live in planet earth, i was just exploring the possibility of a sc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 06:43 PM |
| – | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.It doesn't substitute a libido. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 06:04 PM |
| 0 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Aren't basically leaving people to LDAR also a big problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 11:55 PM |
| -1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.What the fuck are the losers supposed to do in this case. In the past the losers would just end up dead, either from war or through being cast out or something. But now people are mostly forced to live their entire lives as losers, because someone has to lose basically. And unlike other interests and hobbies, many researches show that dating and being connected is absolutely essencial for human health. Or are these people supposed to eat their pills (ironically) and just cope with being a loser … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.I don't really believe that i may have an abnormally shit body language, however the biggest thing about body language is that the body doing the talking matters. You need to look deserving of your behaviour for it to work, like a really scrawny nerdy and skinny man trying to behave super jock-ish, is never gonna look good. It must go inside girls heads something like "wow, he appears super confident, no wonder because he is absolutely gorgeous" Or possibly "wow look at that guy there, he is act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Not all people want the same thing, in fact both genders would need to be culturally shifted. It wasn't very different with past religious enforced monogamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 10:23 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.I really can't call how the package works, but it seems to be something among those things. The biggest issue with high end fashion for me is that 1o i'm a hippie of sorts (raver culture), clothing is by design weird, can't really work with that really, the fashion is REALLY gay af. It still really bothers me how still some very broke looking bros manage it, like the poor guys in the favelas who basically only have sport teams tshirts and jeans/short combo. Most of these things fall short when y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 10:21 PM |
| 0 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Have you ever heard of dumb fun. AKA Good ol' hedonism, some hellenic bros uses to love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Bro i literally just tell the girls to go find someone else when i'm not in the mood. Not that i didn't ever date, it just taught me that i hate dating, really hate dating. The idea behind what i posted is that in a very ideal scenario, like servitor AI style, there really wouldn't be any value, because everyone could just have anything, or anything within reason. If there won't ever be an equal and fair situations, what are the losers of this game supposed to do, don't tell them to rope tho, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:56 PM |
| 0 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Is looksmaxxing that easy for black men. Black guy is honestly kinda seem like nothing special where i live, since most people are actually mixed, it's brazil BTW It did happen to me sometimes the coffee history, but my specialty is actually girls with mental issues, they bond very easily and it's easy to position yourself as lord and saviour. Anyway what actually worked for you in the looksmaxxing thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.In the example i gave everyone would have a lot of time, it is basically an iddylic situation. You wouldn't really need to do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Because for this to work everyone has to be very immersed in said culture. As in you would be told by everyone that there is a norm, you would see it from the very day you were born. Chances are that if part of it is social it can be engineered. I can only think of 2 scenarios where the game was fair and equal, past enforced monogamy, or this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:42 PM |
| -1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.If your aim is to lockdown people and have exclusive one on one relationships, then the only way for everyone to win is for monogamy to be enforced, so the most amount of people as possible are paired automatically. If you leave it for the free market then men can't ever have a fair shot because hypergamy will reign on the inequality. The thing is, if everyone doesn't play the same game you can't ever fix the dating situation. Dating in the past was more stable because it was simply enforced. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:39 PM |
| 0 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.What is the use of a high libido if they aren't actually fucking and supposedly there isn't enough chad for everyone. So anyway, from the male perspective this being true is useless if women won't fuck you anyway. And if they are indeed hornier than men, then in theory they won't struggle as much in this scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:33 PM |
| 0 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.I mean i didn't say you needed to as everyone else by force, what i am saying is that this shouldn't be the common norm for the problem to be mostly solved. Btw this kind of mindset of damn everyone else and just do whatever is good for me at any cost is just terrible, the kind of people who should be thrown at sea first opportunity. Then people complain that men just disregard women's problems and they are in the wrong. Hypocrisy at it's core. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:29 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Then men already lost when they were born. Both men, women, the govt., culture, law, are in favour of women. Thus what is the point of life if you have to treat your partners as enemies, it makes zero sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.I work doing consulting basically, i'm an assistant of someone, i only really work when we are summoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.I have a LOT of free time, due to many circunstances. If i had 3 girlfriends i would still have a lot of time. Time is like oil, it is technically limited but we aren't running out of it anytime soon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:01 PM |
| 0 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Exactly my point, they weren't all your dream girl but you made each other happy in that moment and that counts for most. In fact this the only position where a person might actually consider advice is when they already know said advice giver is a trusted friendly, and people you are fucking might not even be your friend but you certainly trust them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Diametrically opposed to what men want. Men want to get laid a lot and have casual sex, people here say women don't want that. Either of three, men or women's interests are falsely portrayed or they are technically opposed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.To male expectations, that means the desire for sexual conquest in arguments sake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 03:54 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.You really don't have that much free time do you? I say this because most people have no notion of how much they are constantly occupied all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 03:07 PM |
| -2 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.It is historically the case that it has widely been the case so i assume it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:15 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.The many problems of the world are simply not solved because the people with the means to do it have no interest in solving it. Like most people don't care about most problems... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Do you think women's expectations are by design diametrically opposed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 12:00 PM |
| -1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.It is the assumption of post-scarcity, as in people have a lot of free time. That also includes men too. Non-ironically men have to actively seek something better to do in order to avoid the sexual urges, it is common practice actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 11:59 AM |
| 0 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.I got the job part but this really stems from a scarcity mindset. Like for my advice to work the situation would have to be something very post scarcity, where people really would have to work and compete much less or not at all. Even the thing about your boyfriend, the situation here would be that the deep monogamous relationship while possible would be highly optional and the reccurent level of intimacy in social settings would be higher, like some cultures just kiss each other to say hi, we d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 11:46 AM |
| -1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Sex workers don't love you, they in fact probably are holding the disgust in very hard. The thing is my situation is that if more people are deeply intimate with each other what will happen is that it would promote some of the biggest solutions we currently that is solving the connection and belonging problem that is causing the huge loneliness and inequality in dating we currently are dealing with. Sure you might not feel turbo special or the chosen one, but you belong, you are accepted, people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 11:19 AM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.The thing is, for this to actually work, the really adapted ones would be the children born INSIDE such system. The instincts aren't going away but they can be reframed and repurposed to better serve the common good, non ironically would be a social engineering project. And most of them are "triggered" by scarcity, most men fucking tons of women don't mate guard, women living in a very abundant society would have no reason to prioritize her children because prioritizing is irrelevant, jealousy/p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 11:11 AM |
| 0 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Here is one directly from google. The conclusion of the study is basically that being overcrowded and completely problem free (or mostly) cause serious breakdown of social structure and "people" just turn into antisocial or borderline hostile inssuferable fuckers LOL. Also this causes no sex because people begin to hate each other kind of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 11:04 AM |
| 1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.I really think that if there is to be less chaos we either come back to the old model where the hookup culture is basically outlawed, or it needs to be something widely available, the current model is extremely unequal and non-actionable. Is a person actually really bothered by their girl being open in a relationship if they are ACTUALLY POLY? this seems to be the situation where men just get into terrible situations for them because they are extremely horny and are lacking other options so they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 10:59 AM |
| -6 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.What i was thinking is that if you make the situation completely cost free for women, or minimize it to a maximum, women would propably maybe not directly seek out sex more but be much more likely to simply accept when men propose them, due to not having anything better to do. You might view this situation as a pity fuck but that leaves a lot of chance for men to show other qualities they weren't capable at showing before, like being good in bed or something. Besides i actually really believe th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 10:37 AM |
| -7 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Aren't those situations also reduceable, like stuff like better sex ed that includes how to be hot, and the more prevalence of sex also leading to more experience for the average man? Also some actual looksmaxxing not the phrenology based one so the average person is significantly hotter. Making the condition not that you have all the reasons to fuck a guy, but you really also have absolutely nothing to lose by having sex with person B so why not do it? It's a situation akin to making lottery ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 10:25 AM |
| -4 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.The very idea that she is your girl and it isn't just your turn is the actual problem here. You don't want to like get cuckolded by other men that's okay, but the notion that she is your girl/man, is not okay because technically everyone would be your girl/man to some extent. I may have some different views on this because i grew up around a lot of random baby daddy situations when more than one guy was involved, or people had to keep in touch for various reasons. And really the only solution to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 05:39 AM |
| -7 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.Hot people are not the norm, the suggestion is basically fuck anything with a pulse as long as said pulse haver is enjoying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 05:20 AM |
| -1 | A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring.I think what you are describing is that you seem to derive meaningness comparatively and in a exclusive way. It is ok to feel like that it is the most common response. But the thing is that if you approach it like that there will always be winners and losers, and really the only way this would be avoidable is by liquefying the way we see relationships so gravity can lead us all to an even stable surface, because the more rigid views of sex and relationships fail to fully utilize the volume of wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.You are being very condescending, and assuming being horny and wanting more than one girl, is somewhat evil and immoral by nature. Which is ironic since you don't seem to be religious and most people like that are religious. Besides, men being horny and wanting to fuck all the time does not mean men are woman haters or belittle women, in fact most men are so horny that they idolise women because they have what he craves most... Also, men wanting something all the time does not mean that they can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.Sex is good, novelty is awesome, men don't get pregnant, testosterone is one hell of a drug, power and status from being a goddamn bull... Women should thank god for inventing refractory periods, because else men could literally do it forever possibly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.It is much less work to dig for not so attractive girls because they will make themselves easy for you. Actually VERY ATTRACTIVE women often struggle more because men assume they must be impossibly picky! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.Not exactly disagreeing with you here. The thing is if every man could we would ALL be having Harem's, i bet money on that, ESPECIALLY the younger ones. However most men have literally negative value in the eyes of women, so men SETTLE with a girl because can't be a TurboChad, so AT LEAST they want this singular woman to not have been ran through or possibly even a virgin. It's not their first choice... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Girls who do hookups are better than girls who wanna go on a real datesIt might strike as odd, but men think that this is actually the correct answer 99% of the time. Men are much more "themselves" in bed than when dealing with life, because if you are already in his bedroom so he will reveal his actual true colors... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 11:55 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Girls who do hookups are better than girls who wanna go on a real datesThe secret is that men love hoes. The catch is that you must be his hoe and only his. Everyone else's hoe doesn't add up to much in the eyes of men, speaking as a man myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 11:51 PM |
| 7 | CMV: There are plenty of good men out there, but there’s a shortage of high value good men which are the men women actually wantThere are no high value people in general. I am not from the US, but from a western country, and man, people work long ours, for shit pay, have terrible mental and physical health, hate each other, are constantly brainwashed by social media, and have no access to any actual useful knowledge regarding these issues. Of course most men are low value, and women too, most people are living like vermins, and that is considering most western people are playing on vermin Deluxe most people's live suck i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menMan actually this is kind of hard, i'm kind of a hippie so this is not very proper. I have an ok job that pays the bills and affords the tickets/drinks/drugs to my parties for retarded people only. Really my vibe is really the deal with Sex,Drugs,RockNRoll basically. As long as i have a stable job and no debt, whatever i'm feeling like using in my pocket, sometimes nothing at all, a pair of boobs and a nice pair of hugging arms to lay my cheeks on, and VERY fucking loud bass melting my brain, i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menHappy, yes. But "self-fullfilled" is kinda tripping, like humans can't possibly be happy alone and by themselves, being socially immersed is crucial for humans, including sexuality. If incels could be happy without the sex they wouldn't even be complaining so much online. Sex is like food, it is worthless if you are super full, and more valuable than gold if you are starving. The gigachads and stacies are just a product of these men trying to crack the code of something they don't understand muc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menIt's a ROI thing. We aren't disagreeing anymore here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.And they still complain, just to point how bad it CAN get, it is a whole different frequency range. Unironically the saying "it will get worse before getting better" also applies to men getting healthy, the horny will get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Idk, it is usually a sign of beig unhealthy for men. Many things can be included here, drug dependence, mental health being shit, no exercise, crap diet, among other things. But yeah, low libido men=very horny women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.The only birth control that will actually come close is testosterone therapy that trans women go through. Quantity refers to quantity of intensity not time. You walked this road that men walk everyday, it was hard, however men are usually trying to drive a F1 car on the same track. Technically you walked the same path but the guy did so ALOT more intensely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.I mean what i tried to say is. You had the same exact experience, but MUCH less intense than the real thing. So the quality of the experience was on point, but the QUANTITY is very different. The deal outside of that, is on point, yeah it sucks. And well i need to turn fucking weak old and sick for it to stop, so a long time still... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Idk man fr unless you did a month of testosterone therapy i could call it bs. No offense but, you got really horny, but men get 10x more, like it's unbelievably worse. Men kinda know the difference because well, we were kids once, without testosterone haunting us. But yes, most hormonal contraception is kind of fucking poison. If i had the option of doing a drug daily that would fucking rid me of the horny without rotting my muscles and destroying my health, i would do it without a doubt. I like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menTwo things, problems arose with time and objective in your examples. If a goal for a man is just being a fuckboi/male slut, lying is actually better if you are good at it. Who cares if she finds out, gets mad, hates you after, whatever, you didn't ever wanted her simpathy or else, you went in for sex pleasure and bragging rights. So if you lie your way into her pants you basically already won by default. If it eventually fails you just move on to the next girl. Now if your goal is to find a part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Most is relative to sample size. Most above average men in america are desired by most women in the dating market in SEA, by going there they can achieve majority. Similar to limiting yourself to a subculture or a venue, being the biggest fish in a small pond is better than being a small fish in the ocean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 08:14 PM |
| 3 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Maybe consider a DMT situation kind of. They lose their perception of time and think they lived a lifetime as the other sex and then came back about 20 minutes later from a coma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.And you are being pedantic af. I shifted my argument because well you didn't get that "most" women is subjective. Enough women that he can barely manage would be a good term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Like actual bizarre last part LOL. Not even that man, if you are so keen on penetration just try to actually rub the G spot instead of just uterus drilling her into boredom. Again, NOT HARD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:37 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Imagine if you go to a party, there is 1000 people there. If 1% girls all fucking adore you that is 10 girls wanting your attention, 10 girls is a lot to juggle. A guy with 10 girls following him is fucking gigachad already. I bet a guy with that amount of attention is already a "most" girls in practical terms. Being a good maybe for most women is definitely a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:35 PM |
| 2 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Redpill is not bible man, a lot of pilled advice is incomplete or lacking, or just plain suck. Redpill will never explain how the damn hobos are smashing, drunk deadbeats, methheads. Like there is clearly something more primal at play, which the incels admit to exist, but absolutely miss the mark in trying to point it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:31 PM |
| 6 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.If he is selling his body then yeah this is to be expected. Bro i can't believe other men are so bad in bed, and i actually hear girls sometimes complaining. Dude it is actually quite easy to make women cum, a fucking vibrator can do it why can't you learn from it a bit. NOT HARD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:27 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.You are being pedantic but i see no ill in it so i will let it pass. If a group of women of large enough relevance, likes X guy then it is enough. If 20% of women like 1% of guys this is enough to be practically universally attractive. Like i bet in a well mixed bag of 5% attractive men there is one for every single women in the planet. If we round up all famous actors it won't add to even 0.001% of the population, but there is a pick for every woman. Wdym put off?, like rejected?, i highly doub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:25 PM |
| 2 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Actually you didn't consider the women would be the people who were previously men at the same time, so actually a girl might be very aware of how to play the game because she learned from chad possibly. Also knowing girl code, and the previous men being bad at executing it will just lead to these now women to be easily, VERY EASILY be cornered into shitty situations. I know this is asshole things, but naive girls are very very easy to manipulate and intimidate. If girls didn't have each others … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:21 PM |
| 0 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.I mean good luck actually getting rich, but yeah a few bucks is reasonable. I personally would just go out as slutty as possible and keep toying with men, go full on wizard mode casting lust spells, getting free shit. Like for real being hot is truly a superpower, you can very much so put spells on men... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:16 PM |
| 2 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.This may be true for trans people. Not starting a war here, but my post specifically said these weren't trans, i said literally magic to make this point very clear. Also i believe norah was just crossdressing, and pretending to be a man, she never got hormone therapy i think. Being a man is the art of balancing the insane energy you have to make up for the insanely shitty conditions you have to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:14 PM |
| 2 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Honestly not attract "most" women being impossible is like mathematically BS. Sure you may not be every single girl 10/10 but being a 7/10 to the majority is what chad is, technically. But yeah i think men will most likely spend their entire month going full whore mode and trying to see what they themselves liked, and just apply what they can when they come back. People aren't THAT different, sure if he likes X kind of guys when he is in becky's shoes, he will just try to emulate that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:10 PM |
| 5 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.This is turbo helpful! Like women and men sometimes dismiss the hormonal argument but it is very true. Likely why the dating market sucking doesn't affect women as much, they can more readily step out. May i ask what route you took MtF or FtM? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:35 AM |
| -2 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.YES, many men regret what they wake up in bed with sometimes. Like being turbo horny is very much so like a cocaine light (very light), you get hyperfocused. And when it passes you can sometimes regret what you did.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:31 AM |
| 0 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.I mean if they stayed 10 years as the other sex they would over time just forget the past, so not much would be gained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:27 AM |
| 2 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Oof | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:56 AM |
| -1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.It would make you understand why he does much of what he does and don't just stop doing it. Like the simping stuff, it is very pretentious to say those guys are just dumb, it's truly like a drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 06:03 AM |
| 3 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Yeah i get what you are saying. Consider that maybe it happens without people knowing. Some wizards cast a spell and people are not told it will be over in a month. Like a millionaire being thrown in the street and made believe his fortune was taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 06:00 AM |
| 2 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Aren't you considering testosterone 10x i guess. Also not considering you could spawn as not gay. Because personally, i not only not find men attractive but actively disgusting as a hetero man, i could more easily cut myself than be with a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:47 AM |
| 6 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Don't you really think any new things can be learned? Like for men to feel lust as a woman, for men in this case because i assume they remain hetero. I for real would kill for this knowledge which seems to be forbidden and or snake oiled af. I believe this would shake the game pretty hard. I don't think redpill mindgames or incel phrenology is that accurate fr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Is dealing with men this much easier that even women would rather be gay them in the shoes of heterosexual men?? This is hilarious LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Feminism’s wet dream may be possible in the near future as Male Killing virus discovered in insects.The conspiracy theory would be that these countries know that, so to force those men to move away seeking women, but they are so indoctrinated that they don't assimilate into the local culture and instead spread their original culture locally. It's like saying that the japanese migrants where sent to brazil not to emigrate but to establish a colony in brazil, here in são paulo you barely hear portuguese being spoken, it is either japanese or chinese, so it is a pseudo colony here. Now obviously … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 08:36 PM |
| 3 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Usually the husband has other very attractive qualities, the husband is hardly average in a general sense. Either a gym guy, lives a cool lifestyle (musician kind of stuff), or his position has a lot of prestige and respect. Like he could be a small scale lawyer or a firefighter, none of which are well paid (where i live at least), but carry a lot of prestige and "mystique". Like an army soldier might not be super rich, but they have both a prestige and that magic of "protecting" and bashing bad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menSo obvious isn't, you can't ever be rationally attractive to moderately delusional people, you need to feed them fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI am sorry, i meant to type options instead of choice. And well going from 0 options to 1 or 2 for the average bro struggling, is well, incalculably superior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 05:03 AM |
| 0 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menDoesn't the average guy get like 7 lays total in his lifetime? Being an average guy kind of by default puts your body count at the lower bracket. What you are trying to say is that you probably self improved, a lot, in many different ways. You stopped being average by definition, so your advice isn't for the average man, unless your advice is stop being average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menAdd a pandemic to that too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menBrazil, intimately know as bostil. Yeah the country sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menIn this case yes, the power of choice rules supreme in this scenario... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:16 PM |
| 4 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menOh, just below us, greetings from bostil, how is the inflation going? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menJust like makeup they say... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menMental rapist i never heard before, but yeah i think this applies here. Is mental rape a crime too? How should we better protect the girls against such things or better yet, punish the men who do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menLook at the comments, a lot of people are indeed doing just that, it's hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menFair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menWhat is the point of a drop into the ocean in terms of behavioral changes? Prisoner's dillema explains the only real outcome is and always tends to be that both men rat on each other, so it never is the ideal outcome. I SIMPLY CAN'T TRUST OTHER MEN TO STOP LYING, so i can't afford not to lie... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menIdk man, if i could just go up to random people and just ask for sex and usually get it, i would be 100x happier. Hell i guess the world would actually be a better place, like yeah, sure she isn't that hot or whatever, but there is nothing to lose and she will be happy, whatever. Same with women, actually believe that if sex was made much safer/not dangerous, men would start getting access to sex and stop bitching around. We place too much value on a meaningless action, that is just fun, nothing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menOn point, this is absolutely true. Actually it just becomes a function of maximizing your lays and minimizing the scams you fall for. Like a call center trying to scam another call center, whoever has more exp/more rotten usually wins out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI define sexually successful those who are happy with their sex lives, so it varies. And well, here is a big paradox, if a person is such a liar that it integrates into his personality he is always being true to himself or still lying? Fr, men happily emulate what they find being successful in his enviroment, and that often involves lying, manipulation, gaslighting, among other tactics. Like another commenter said, evilmaxxing is kinda meta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menKind of, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menAt least where i live, it 100% is LOL. Like you can even take out the money part out of it, every day is party day, from barbecue with family from open orgies in favelas, everything is party here. Unprotected sex is the norm here still, and that i totally understand, it is so much better, actually i may even like it more because i am male, so i am in control (it means i can always pull, will never get preggo etc.) Overall this is hilarious, it is representative of most in brazil, not even joking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menMeaningless sex is super fun wdym. Same appeal as shit like drugs, it just feels good and that's it, no other reason to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI mean why would your opinion not be valid? I did okay not lying, but far too few for my tastes. I still basically go most of my days salivating like a hungry dog because i am always do damn horny (not literally), so i think i just need more success, and well, lying is taking the easy path for me. Unnatural darkside powers kind of vibes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menIf every colleague that i ever had, from chad to incel, that did good with women, ends up being a compulsive liar if not a straight up asshole, then i can assume this is my lived experience. The easiest time i ever had with women was when i was sixteen, i mantained a 4 year relationship based purely on toxic shit, like it was fun but very very tiresome, but it was easy, it is a daily temptation to just go back to being an asshole and actively working against women's mental health, i just can't a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menIt is much easier trust me. Hell sometimes i even lie about my name LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menAre people's entire lived experience invalid? Sure it might just be me being incredibly unlucky, but this is hard to also prove otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:29 PM |
| 9 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menJust replace the slavery with french revolution worker abuse and it makes more sense. Nah if i actually tripped i wouldn't be able to write in english, i think i couldn't put my finger on the fingerprint sensor to unlock the phone. I need to buy more LSD, it is a nice vacation from reality, excellent if i get a decent batch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menAhh yes then i 100% agree. Honestly it is also much safer to do so, imagine this girl is a serial killer or some crazie, met a feel of those sorry excuses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menOh, sweet summer child. The lies the actual masters tell is just reality bending shit, like slowly convincing a girl she is ugly, making her hyper conscious of her imperfections so she seems lucky to have a man instead of giving him some crumbs. Being toxic can always be much, much worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menAh sure, but then it becomes a race, men doing OSINT and women being ever more demanding... Fr for men just looking to smash none of this matters, he just has to fuck her for bragging rights and a few moments of pleasure, the means are not relevant at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:03 PM |
| 4 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menSkill issue LOL. But yeah, everybody is playing the same game, but some play it on easy and most play it on I Want God of War | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menA few appreciate it, the only problem i have is lack of volume to actually play my numbers game. But otherwise yeah, i think those normal conventions are mostly toxic, and it's because people are too snowflaky to hear what people actually think thus end up deluded. Like telling a fat girl it's okay to be fat, might seem nice but it is deep down toxic, i can't really believe people eat this crap up, everyone is better off being fit, in fact it could actually endanger said girls health I really do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menIdk is the antithesis of lying being vulnerable? Being vulnerable doesn't mean a person is fragile. Like sure i tell the truth if possible 99% of the time, doesn't mean i am afraid this could be used against me. I own shamelessly whatever shit i do, sure i don't always tell everything but i never dodge questions, if a person doesn't like my real life, then it's her loss tbh. I personally went through the opposite, i lied being vulnerable so i could get with a girl who had her problems too, it wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menFair fr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menChad attitude, respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menBroo, thread? Actually fr, is this a thing, sounds kind of legit LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI mean, this is i think because you got raised in a world of soft liars and have normalized something that is ultimately quite toxic. If you think logically for a second, you shouldn't ever lie, why would you have something to hide? I personally believe lying is a weapon, a very dangerous one, and i don't point out weapons to innocents or friends, i only lie to people i actually consider an enemy or a threat, and society is so shit right now that merely being a stranger is considered a possible … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menThe real way of doing things is just having a more socialized child rearing system, so people can keep being individuals. Like going full spartan mode, take children away at 6-7yo and just return them at 18, made warriors first LOL. We are never returning to that old system, society will rot first. No one cares about children anymore, they are at best the continuation of your lineage and at worst, the little fucker who gives the right to your ex to take your money. So just let the state form the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI mean i like the example, makes sense. However not always those targets are the juicest. Truly the real Chad is the polar bear, only eats meat, murders absolutely everything in his vicinity, lives in a frozen wasteland, doesn't care. Like fr, i think a polar bear is like the ultimate murder machine, every guy wants to be white fat gigadoggo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menKind of lie by omission, it is kind of lying too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:00 PM |
| 9 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menNo way LOL, where do you live. Hilariously accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menThe first part means, men need support, not a quest giver, even if that support is a shoulder to cry on after a day of work, but well you aren't allowed that it seems. The point is just making life and working less soul crushing than it already is, not in a negative sense but life is by default suffering, and having someone who helps you keep your hope up, in a supporting way instead of a demanding one is valuable. On part 2, yes and no, yes in the sense that you indeed need to know what a girl … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menYeah i actually was raised in a very specific way + i always got fucked by games being played/people plotting. I have a peculiar hatred for lies of all kinds, but that is personal, the world is mostly a big theater we play in, very little is openly said. And well i fucking hate it deeply, but doesn't change the fact that it is very effective. There is a difference between actually being colleagues and pretending to be a good friend to all your colleagues, "AKA pretending you like each other a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI usually get laid without lying too, it's possible but it's much harder, this is the point of the post. We are exceptions thus we don't make the rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:22 PM |
| 7 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menPrecisely on point, nothing to add here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menHenh yes and no?? Sure some might, but men don't care about women think or not here and that is my point. They just tell women the most effective set of words to get them to bed and that's it. Now do women believe the lies or not? It is irrelevant if either way they are getting fucked, like it fr doesn't matter. However if most men were honest that would change a lot of things up, because women would either not have attraction for these guys, or they wouldn't be able to play the "you promised, m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menThis is only for men who don't know the powah of the dark side. She won't label you a creep if you slowly gaslight her into believing she is a piece of shit/uggo, then you showing some interest in her will be seen as a blessing instead of a curse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI mean actually most men do manipulate and gaslight women heavily here where i live. As in trying to make her self esteem lower so you can be above her so she desires you, very common, and not that hard tbh. However this is very hard to do if you are looking for a partner, not even considering casual or serious, finding someone to be your partner, your ally, is absolutely impossible, in some shape or form the women are your opponent in the dating game and well, this is hostile and tiring. What m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menMore likely the women being naive part. This is a big reality here in brazil. Although law says 18yo is the minimum but average virginity lost is 15yo, even the teenagers learn this quickly. The reason why men eventually become professional gaslighters is just selection. Our culture actively encourages this kind of behaviour, like having 3 children with 3 different women while avoiding child support is a bragging right instead of shameful behaviour. Current culture stinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI can't argue with that. A no-lying approach from men would likely look like "hey you kind of hot, wanna bang now"? Fr this is spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menThe random person getting laid is rarelly a skillful social animal, especially the men. Especially the very attractive people, the absolutely most inept i've ever met, like they have negative social skills, the situations they are provided makes the game very easy to play. And kind of yes, modern socializing involves a lot of lying, most colleagues are fake/not friends at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menWhen it bites you in the ass many men just move on to more impressionable women, like actually being passively attractive is really hard for men. So they keep foraging for low hanging fruit, instead of growing a spine and reaching the high ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menWe aggree, not much secret here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 11:54 AM |
| 9 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI mean i went overboard, compare it to a french revolution scenario, more appropriate. Still, young men are the biggest agents in any kind of civil unrest in all of history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menYeah very dumb situation but this is the modern meta for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 11:52 AM |
| 5 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI mean yes 100%. However you should still be authentic, "just be yourself" is mistaken as do nothing and keep whining. There is a better version of yourself possible, and well you don't need to fully do an 180 with your personality to improve. Move upwards and not laterally... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menHard aggree, can't argue with the obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 11:49 AM |
| 0 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menIt's a conditioning thing, men lie a lot to get women on a spot they know that a shot will hit home. It's more manipulation than lying, but it works... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:41 AM |
| 4 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menIdk man, where i live this is the norm, hell even parents teach their boys to do it. I know it is not technically necessary, but lying is the norm where i live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menPrecisely why lying works... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menOnly men telling women to choose better are the unwilling ones. Like the best way for women to choose better is honestly through vetting and actually letting the lies play themselves. Or just also lie themselves and fight fire with fire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI mean assertiveness and drama is a way to say it. Cheating girls get their heads shaven in the favelas, is this assertiveness or actually being a dangerous man? Low standards maybe, not physically at all, doesn't matter if she is a bitch tho, hot is hot here. And yes men do actively try to dismantle women into submission psychologically, like convincing her she is not that pretty/very annoying/if you leave no one will take you kind of deal. Their "game" is just pure confidence and not really af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:28 AM |
| 11 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menKind of yes. Unless you go the full jesus route, and just turn the other cheek, but i don't want to end up crucified/suffer so i don't recommend that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:55 AM |
| 29 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menHonestly this is where the appeal of becoming a rebel/outcast comes for the young boys... Like society actively treats you as an inferior citizen, like a christian living in a muslim country, or a slave in whatever place, you either want to flee to somewhere you are treated nice, or set fire to the corrupt village. It's about time another culture starts to take over. This anglicanized model of the world is failing turbo hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:54 AM |
| 7 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menYes and no? Like you are correct, but women also have weakness moments/random urges to cuddle/fuck, and the men keep a watchful eye like vultures waiting for something to rot so they can feast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menEhnn yes and no? Shitty people, for the most part yes, it isn't even about good or bad person fr, it's about moral or imoral behaviour. Like if you manipulate you can get many more women you otherwise wouldn't, hell you can even get women that aren't even available. Fair share of men poisoning stranger's relationships for sex, or saying they will commit to girls they never pretend to. Not even calling out the guys purposefully going after the drunk/high girls, but that also counts. I am not amer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI mean sure but she doesn't have to be your girlfriend, you can always just pump and dump, like if it is just for one night i couldn't care in the slightest if a girl is X Y or Z, for a night all that matters is how good she is in bed and how hot she is so i can proudly remember bagging it. Not much else tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:44 AM |
| 8 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menHonestly, maybe it's a culture difference idk. The guys that get the most women here are the men with 3 different kids from random moms that they fucked in an alley in a party (if you can't guess i am from brazil, big fuckfest here), usually with drugs and crime involved. But most guys even if they aren't actual criminals culturally try to emulate the vibe and style of such men to get sex. And well, one of the key components of non law-abiding citizens is a lack of compromise with the truth. So … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:42 AM |
| 7 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menThen you go for the ones who haven't figured it out yet. It is not hard to test people for naivety, and even some older women are very naive still, it isn't particularly hard tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:30 AM |
| 10 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menBoth... And most men actually just learn this behaviour, like it's not lying in a mean spirited way, but it is the only way many can do it. This is why spinning plates is more effective than just getting casual sex. Sure what the guy in question would want is just casual sex, but lying about commitment to women is much more effective. You just say you are testing the waters first and seeing where it goes, but reality is that you are testing the waters with 4 different girls and expect this to fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:29 AM |
| 14 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menIt got much worse after LOL. I am 23 LMAO long past highschool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:14 AM |
| 1 | The “Higher-Testosterone Men Like Thicker Women” meme is based on literally nothingThis is gaslighting, it is more likely than not just a plot for men to make a reverse logic to suit their ego's: Fat girls invent this rumour that "high test men like fatter girls", guys that believe it, will start giving these girls a chance just to say "i have high test, look here, all girls i like are fat" They want to be seen as high test so they give these girls a chance, so as a way to show that they are manly, using this assumption as fake proof. The only beneficiaries seem to be the fat … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 03:23 AM |
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