Turbulent-Falcon1554 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Looking For Advice		Turbulent-Falcon1554	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/26 11:17 PM

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1	Recently Divorced I would recommend trying out a couple of local speed dating events in your area if you can find some! I found some on MeetUp. I went on several dates on the apps prior to speed dating and the highs and lows were a little bit exhausting. I was really reluctant to go to speed dating, but it was a great experience. Talked to 15 different women for 5 minutes each. Matched with 6 or 7 that were interesting and went out a few nights later with the one that really caught my eye. We've been exclusive fo…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/07/26 04:23 AM
1	What was your part? I was a habitual people pleaser with no boundaries. She had (and still has) deep abandonment and avoidance issues. Those behaviors created a toxic spiral where I learned it felt safer to just bury my feelings because they wouldn't be validated anyway. Instead of putting my foot down, I just did everything for her because it was easier than dealing with the excuses and fights and eventually I enabled her to be helpless and regress into a child herself. I gradually built resentment over time until…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/26 07:41 PM