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Rant/VentingTurkeytom86/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:43 AM
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Couldn't have said it better myself. I hope others read this.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 09:23 PM
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One of my friends uses SeekingArrangement to bang tons of girls. Never pays or buys them anything, beyond maybe grabbing a couple drinks at the bar. He's shown me the message convos, and I've even met one of the girls (who tried to get us to tagteam her...and I probably would've if I hadn't been too drunk to stand up), so I know he's not bullshitting me. Seems like another place to find easy lays to me. I guess my point is that good game still works there. If anything, these girls seem even easi…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 01:04 AM
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I find that intelligence and personality often go hand in hand. I'm not sure I understand what you mean by "use that intelligence to rationalize their decisions." You think stupid girls won't be able to rationalize doing something you don't like? You think only smart girls do this?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 02:34 AM
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I'm not referring to you specifically when I speak of insecurity; I'm talking "in the general sense". I feel like not dating an extremely attractive girl because "she has more options, and thus, is more likely to cheat" is like telling yourself that "you aren't good enough; you don't deserve nice things." I refuse to live this way. As for your other point: you say they lack value and personality in your experience, and I say that I find this to be untrue in mine. I will admit that looks come fir…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 02:33 AM
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I was out with a friend and a girl he had started dating, and she tried this. He immediately put her in her place and she never did it again. Sometimes you can save the situation.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 11:27 PM
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I feel you on this. I'm going through this exact situation with a friend and his wife right now. Doesn't seem to be anything I can realistically do about it...I have zero intentions of fooling around with her, and never reciprocate. But he's caught "the fear" and is avoiding me. I know some people will just go "oh Turkeytom is just humblebragging blah blah blah" but truly I wish there was a way out of this that would preserve our friendship. However, it seems that when you improve yourself to a …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 11:20 PM
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The halo effect is very real. You can realistically even view fitness/grooming/dressing well as an investment in your career; it's that important.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 11:15 PM
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I realize this is anecdotal, but in my experience, most of the attractive women are intelligent and usually pretty nice, if you get past your preconceptions and insecurities, and just talk to them like normal people. Sure there are outliers, but overall they just don't have these glaring issues most guys like to label them with. There have been several studies done that show a positive correlation between attractiveness and intelligence, as a matter of fact. This is just one more of those painfu…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 11:01 PM
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Seriously. Online dating is a sexual meat market, and girls do care about looks! If you've got "good meat", flaunt it.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 03:21 AM
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Jealous friend wanting attention. Focus on how your target is responding; don't worry about her ugly fat friends!
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 07:10 PM
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The only women I interact with non-sexually on a regular basis are the ones I work with.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 04:40 PM
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Yep. Boyfriend was probably trying to be a bro and actually get to know his girlfriend's friends. Even if they are pansy men.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 04:36 PM
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This is so true, ha. Literally the only girl I could call my "friend" is one that has been trying to get me in bed for the past four years. I'm simply just not attracted, and have told her so. But she doesn't leave, and at this point we actually do have something that resembles a real friendship. Still pretty sure she'd drop her panties immediately if I announced I was DTF, though. As you said, this is pretty much how every male/female "platonic" friendship goes, just in reverse. So there you go…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 04:33 PM
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I'm going through the same thing currently. You can almost see the wheels turning in their heads and know what they're going to do next. It feels contrived. That fantasy of a happy family, the picket fence, etc just seems unrealistic in modern times, after learning how things truly work.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:54 PM
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Quit watching porn completely if you haven't already. Otherwise, if you're not into a girl, you're just not into her. That's happened to me before. Sometime's you're just not feeling it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:45 PM
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You're posting about this again? Honestly man, if after all the responses you've gotten, you still don't understand why this is a no-no, I don't think you can be helped. Just take our word for it, don't do this. Especially if your friend is bigger than you.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 11:38 PM
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It's about respect. You don't want one of your friends using your sister as a pump & dump, do you? I might actually consider letting one of my friends date my sister, if he truly was interested beyond just getting some ass, and I thought he was good for her. But, he would still need to ask my permission. As for what she does on her own time (i.e. guys I don't know) that's on her. I'll give her advice if she wants it, but it's her responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:15 PM
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Hopefully their influence will rub off on you. This is how most male friends treat each other, honestly. There is constant ball-busting, joking, and shaming going on. Always. You'll get used to it. From your description, it sounds like everyone is liable to get blasted, and that they're not just singling you out. I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:24 AM
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I know a 28 year-old fat guy that lives in his parents basement and still slays decent-looking women on a regular basis. It's all about your attitude, man. I suggest that you stop worrying about women for the moment, and learn to love yourself first. It sounds like you have major issues there. Cease the pity party and get after it!
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:15 AM
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I'd say you're a pathetic, needy, blue-bill, beta bitch-boy if your options are so limited that you have to bang your friend's sister.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 09:39 PM
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Upvoted. Girls are everywhere; good friends are not. Cherish your true buddies. No amount of pussy is worth losing a real friend over.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:19 PM
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Nothing beta about treating your friends honorably. If anything, it is "alpha" to turn down a woman because of this. You know you can get another girl that isn't off-limits. If you know a guy well enough to consider him your friend, and bang his sister, you're liable for an ass-kicking...unless he specifically gave you the green light. This applies to his current plates/ex-gf's as well. Girls come and go, but your true male friends will always be there for you if you treat them accordingly. Alwa…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:12 PM
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This is honestly a gift. I'm nearing 29 myself, and have a bit of a babyface too. But it absolutely does NOT hold me back. I prefer younger, more attractive women (19-23ish range), and looking younger does not hurt here. In fact, I assume the advantages will only become greater as I grow older, but continue to look ten years younger than I actually am. Embrace this. Unlike you, I am able to grow a full beard to hide this if I choose. But, I have success with or without it. It honestly doesn't se…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 07:03 PM
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you guys must have glossed over the part where he said "I can't grow facial hair"
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 07:00 PM
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Maybe I'm just blessed with good genetics and high levels of arrogance, but I personally don't find it worth the effort to try to work things out with a girl that's not pleasing me/not truly interested in me. I'd rather just move on and try somebody else. Yes, as you've stated, it is ultimately the path of least resistance, but honestly I don't think that I should have to work to make someone like me, or agree with all of my viewpoints. If they don't, then they don't. That's life, and that's ok.…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:25 PM
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You're "creepy" if they aren't attracted to you. It's really as simple as that. I wouldn't worry about it; you'll be hot to some girls, and creepy to others. Always.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:39 AM
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Hell, even if you are ugly, just work out (as you already should be doing) and put a shirtless pic on your profile. I think you'd be amazed at how far a set of abs and nice chest/shoulders/arms will take you. I've gotten some very attractive girls on places like POF. Yeah some are probably what you'd call a "7", but hey, she was attractive and she was into me. She passed my boner test. What else matters? I personally don't live for other people's praise and adoration, so I don't care how others …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 01:24 PM
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Try Tinder. It's pretty much that.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:33 AM
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This is ridiculous. If you don't look like a bridge troll, you can clean house with online dating. Some of the easiest lays I've ever had have come from there. I do live in a huge city, so that probably helps. I think you're worrying too much about "being alpha". Just do what you want to do. If it works, it works.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:29 AM
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I agree. There's no reason to kick guys while they're already down. It's more "alpha" (this sub is far too obsessed with alpha-this, alpha-that, imo) to lead them, and help them to grow and become better. Lift people up. Don't put them down.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 09:28 PM
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She did go back though. She sure did. Didn't have sex, but she still went back. That fact alone pretty much throws all her credibility out the window, honestly. As for the being mugged analogy, it's not quite the same. When you're being mugged there's typically a weapon involved, or some other kind of force that compels you to comply. In her case, it would be like a guy coming up to you on the street, unarmed, and asking you for money repeatedly until you just gave in and paid him off, and then …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 09:33 AM
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If a guy is feeling you up, and you don't try to stop him, you're not being raped. Case closed. It's true, she's not very clear about exactly what happened. But what little she did write does not describe a rape. She makes no mention of trying to stop him, fight him off, attempting to close her legs, etc. I literally cannot even begin to count the number of times I've taken a girl home, and she has said "we're not having sex tonight", and then ends up fucking me like a whore all evening. Honestl…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 09:18 AM
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Being weak-willed, and refusing to actually say "no, I don't want to do this" does not equal BEING RAPED. You said it yourself: she gave in, and decided after the fact that she wished she hadn't. That is regret, not rape. That's the point I'm trying to make here.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 09:09 AM
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"major in Hodor" God I'm dying
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 08:59 AM
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Girl gets felt up at a party, admits to enjoying it, but still questions if its rape. She didn't try to stop it. Girl goes to see a guy, has sex with him. Says "he was forceful" but definitely does not mention him holding her against her will. She didn't try to stop it. She then goes on to say that she went back on a second date with him. COME ON. She happily goes on a second date with her "rapist". What's ridiculous is that she looks back on this, and just says "well I didn't really like it all…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 08:49 AM
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I have a better question: who cares? Are you really that concerned about receiving compliments?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 06:45 AM
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Spot on. Any time you are considering doing something that you normally wouldn't, just because there's a pretty face asking it, just say no. If anything, this boosts your chances with women too. She'll most likely respect you for standing up for yourself and valuing your time/money/self-respect/whatever. And if the shrew gets upset because you didn't bend over backwards for her with nothing in return, well, fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:56 AM
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She wants no-strings attached physical fun. When she drinks, her inhibition shield goes down and her inner slut shines brightly. How is this hard to understand? Go get it from her.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 11:12 PM
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I don't buy it. She doesn't even want to pursue it, because of her guilty conscience due to the fact she was about to falsely damn this guy she hooked up with, just to save her own ass. If he was going to go that route, he simply would've just left after he was done, and when they next spoke, just tell her she passed out, and that he put her in bed and went home...not rape her, then fucking sit there and wait for her to wake up so they could talk about it. Pull your head out of the sand. As I sa…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:28 PM
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Rape or not, she still fucked up inviting a strange dude into her house to hang out when she was supposed to be going to her boyfriend's. When you put the whole story together, every move she made leading up to the incident screams "untrustworthy whore". Also, why the FUCK would a rapist stick around and cuddle after he did his thing? And why would he call the goddamn cops when he thought the girl was in danger from the violent man that just broke into the house? Fact is, this girl was not raped…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 08:47 PM
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Amen. Every time a woman says something to me along the lines of "you're mean", yet continues to see me, I know I'm doing something right. I don't think I've ever been called marriage material, and I'm glad for the same reasons OP hates the term as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:47 AM
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"We changed positions three times." Sounds like a horrific rape, indeed. What the actual fuck. I just feel bad for him if she decides to go to the cops with her story, assuming he ever wises up and decides to leave her absolutely batshit crazy ass.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:42 AM
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This really is not always the case. It isn't so black and white. Yes, there are manipulative bitches out there. But it is also possible to have a girl genuinely want to be your friend. You act like being friendzoned is something these women do to you on purpose. YOU allow yourself to be friendzoned. If you are interested, and she refuses you sexually, you always have the option to leave. No rule says you have to just "deal with it". This doesn't make her a bitch for "putting you in the friend-zo…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:27 AM
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Or he could just do what he wants. If outsiders don't agree, who cares?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:51 AM
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