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| 1 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Why can't poor people accept that they are poor or why can't homeless people live in a house. That's how sht your reply is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill and SheraSeven Content Are More Similar Than DifferentWell, you must get fan girl I guess. People on social media with attention slowly degratde over time expect a few. And also, her content is just saying men don't love women, men should be used and loved as only providers, use sex as reward or bait or leverage. And men who don't have money or assets ate low value losers who should never be dated. That's how it is. Just like tate, expect tate used extreme words that triggered a lot of people and grabbed media attention, while she doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonSo any guy who is timid, meek, shy, socially awkward is loser? Nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill and SheraSeven Content Are More Similar Than DifferentShe is just female version of tate but knows how to subtly push pink pill stuff and femosphere content without seeming toxic. You ever visited the sub reddit name after her. Its toxic and messedup in its own way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonYeah, the same men who never love the women and just used them as bangmaid/maid. The men most women are divorcing off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 11:13 AM |
| 6 | My boss [27F] is ruining everything for me.Ah! | /r/MensRights | 24/05/26 11:14 AM |
| 4 | I think men are gonna have more standards placed in them as time goes on and it will just break them and most people don't notice it.So, can we say the same for any other issues involving women or minority? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:23 AM |
| 5 | I think men are gonna have more standards placed in them as time goes on and it will just break them and most people don't notice it.Looking good enough to get dates is really hard for most men. And the pressure and competition is hard. That is necessary and bade minimum i agree. But would rather not use the bare minimum for this. In a society where women make as much as men, its hard to earn more money that women. And it attract ones with same earnings, you would have to be lucky , or have abig network of people you are connected or have something that charms women enough to date you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 09:35 PM |
| 1 | The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women.So bullying does not causes any life long trauma or self esteem issues or anything ha. Shit never knew that. Thanks for the enlightenment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Men who get their life together for the sake of becoming attractive but then decide to be single should not be blamed for their choiceCause most guys who own home could be married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Men who get their life together for the sake of becoming attractive but then decide to be single should not be blamed for their choiceNo, most women don't have apartments. You all are in your own fantasy. Most people from both genders are having a sht life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys should accept being aloneThis like telling someone who is innocent that they are guilty cause a guilty person would call themselves innocent when asked for. Ofcourse things are different and there is a little t if nuances, but I think when people say nice guy, women think fix in the sheep sking guy, while men think an average chill dude that is nice to spend some time with. Most young guys are out of options. Their age women have more experience and better careers than them. Most should just accept they will be alone an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Fiendish feminists' suicide gotchaSo seeking mental health support makes you a potential criminal for these people ha? That's a great way to solve problems. Will definitely make men seek professional help when needed. God that country is f'ed. Most are tbh. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/26 06:31 PM |
| – | I have anticipatory Retroactive Jealousy. Are there any one of you in this sub with this. Are most men and younger guys that have less to no relationship ke sexual experience suffering from it without really knowing about it?Thanks for the reply. yeah it is not easy to date. Atleast not as easy as I thought it is. There are less chances of finding a good relationship even if improved. But will try my best so that I would have no regrets. I made the post to give an insight into who some men like me could be and how we could be dealing with and get advices from others about how to deal with this and get better. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:58 PM |
| – | I have anticipatory Retroactive Jealousy. Are there any one of you in this sub with this. Are most men and younger guys that have less to no relationship ke sexual experience suffering from it without really knowing about it?cuckolded by imaginary men. God that was really pathetic of men when I think about it. its kind of funny too. My self from 1-2 years ago would never have believed this kind of thing is possible for me. And thanks for the advice.I made the post to give an insight into how men like me could be and how we could be dealing with and get advices from others about how to deal with this and get better. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:53 PM |
| – | I have anticipatory Retroactive Jealousy. Are there any one of you in this sub with this. Are most men and younger guys that have less to no relationship ke sexual experience suffering from it without really knowing about it?even though this is old, there are other many soul crushing one like fwb being better, posts about rj, cheating, cakeeating, many others. but yeah, I am dealing with it in my own way. Having a job made me more feel more normal and kinda of meeting more other people in real life is helping me. The whole thing was to give an insight into how men like me could be and how we could be dealing with and get advices from others about how to deal with this and get better. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:50 PM |
| 8 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADhttps://np.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/34vjco/i_wish_size_didnt_matter_and_ive_tried_living/ God this is a nightmare to most guys. Hope no one has to go through what the OP's husband has to go through. Wife thinking sex with a fling electrifying while with you is boring or even average just f**ks you up mentally. and God he is a virgin. Looks like there are a lot guys who are virgins than women in current times. Hope those virgins guys get goo experience or some one that can be comfortable … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the "online grape academy" which is just overblown and actually it's just 100 men telegram channel and media exaggerated it to 62 million people.https://www.instagram.com/p/DXb2eWfjNBB/?img_index=3&igsh=eHNudmRzamE3Zjk= This is just media shamelessly over exaggerating and twisting truth to paint men as monsters or rap**ts. The reporter didn't even proved her claims. People are eating this up without any fact checking. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/26 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men how ideally a man should properly behave, but they don’t reinforce that because they reward bad behaviour.You do know that the majority ones who pay a lot of money are actually married guys with kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Women tell men how ideally a man should properly behave, but they don’t reinforce that because they reward bad behaviour.Its not that women are different. Its that women change after time. And the change is not for reasons that make men feel good about it. And even if the change is for good resons, are you saying that most average dudes should sit in a cuck chair, vettering themselves for relationships so that any women are that gives him a change will get something out of him while ignoring how average guy has to deal with a phase where he has to go without any attention from opposite gender while hot guys and as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Women tell men how ideally a man should properly behave, but they don’t reinforce that because they reward bad behaviour.Women who dont sleep with players don't give a damn about them. Its the one that sleep with them that talk about them. And God women are passive and men are the active member in dating and women hate it when men (or average men) tries to even have a conversation with them. Most importantly, people have jobs/study and a shot life with things costlier than ever with social media and dating apps so it's hard for an average guy to even have a decent life alone. Dating on top of that is too much effo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Women tell men how ideally a man should properly behave, but they don’t reinforce that because they reward bad behaviour.The problem is not with women who have different values + preference. It with those who changed it different one after the have grown up. The change could be because they have grown up or could that they are not as attrqctive as the other younger competition or just feeling pressured by themself to be married. And even the growing up thing, is it because they lost intrest in the guys or is it because she realizes the guys she wants will not be stable or settle with her so she started trying the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Women tell men how ideally a man should properly behave, but they don’t reinforce that because they reward bad behaviour.Sonyiu are saying that average guy has to let women enjoy and get heartbroken by the chads while they sit and wait like sweet little cucks until women ~get bored or got too much baggage from and~ realize how wrong they were and come to them? Problem with that is those guys had to go through their most vulnerable phase without any attention from opposite gender and now they receive it after they have a job andd are settled, which gives them the impression that they are not into them for just them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 10:27 AM |
| 42 | UK: Women will decide if NHS treatment is worth paying for under trial to 'kick medical misogyny where it hurts'. OP: Men die 4 years before women. Men use the NHS much less than women. MORE MALE HATE FROM THE LABOUR PARTYWell looks like UK is going to dogs. If they keep pushing thing like this, the pendulam will swing back so fast and so strong that socity will not be able to face it. Even then, they will somehow blame men than accepting what the root cause is. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/26 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Any Brilliant piece of media that was able to show how f'ed up mens lives can be sometimes. For me, it was "Oyasumi punpun" and nothing can match it.Well yes, there are many other that can go deeper into the issues. But for me, PunPun was able to do that with a good story, and it takes its time showing the progression of the things in a way that had more impact to it. First time I read it, I didn't knew about the boys lagging behind girls, the dating crisis and all the things that men has disadvantage of. But this manga was able to make me think about how someone could end up like that and how common that could be. There were many, but the w… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/26 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Any Brilliant piece of media that was able to show how f'ed up mens lives can be sometimes. For me, it was "Oyasumi punpun" and nothing can match it.The thing that's is messed up about it is not that aoki treated him bad, but him having intercourse with his aunt whom he respected and admired as not a women but as an adult will impact you. You feel like your are a scum that doesn't deserves good things cause you had done it with our aunt behind your uncle's back who loves and supported you. He as a child/kid would not be able think like my aunt forced me, nothing is worng with me, it's was her fault. He would be like, "l like sex. When my aun… | /r/MensRights | 22/03/26 08:09 PM |
| 4 | Any Brilliant piece of media that was able to show how f'ed up mens lives can be sometimes. For me, it was "Oyasumi punpun" and nothing can match it.Whoa, so a guy or a gal that grew in a very bad environment and circumstances should always be kind, caring, empathetic and not have any flaws? Should be self-aware, able to introspect deeply and prioritize others feeling over their own feelings and comfort in every social situation/interaction? The problems was not just his mind. For every person, his/her beliefs, the ways he/she sees things and people and thinks about them, about themself, about love, sex, dating and relationships and all of t… | /r/MensRights | 22/03/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do men “neg” women?Yeah. It's better to never do those kind of things than doing them and stepping in a sensitive topic that could hurt them, even if it wasn't the intent or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do men “neg” women?But they are hard to notice than the direct ones right. If you trust in partner and they pull stunts like these on you, you will start to question your self and get really insecure and all. Like there is a manga where the wife and husband are trying to get her pregnent for children but no matter what, she is not able to get pregnent. Even Doctors say there is nothing wrong with both of them. The guy, due to the pressure gets anxious during sex and his penis goes limp. After that, it goes into cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Why do men “neg” women?Well there are cases where negging is indirect. Like giving no to less attention, going out with friends more to invite reaction, or talking about some guy(s) like office colleague, ex, friend, someone from gym, saying you are gaining weight, or going bald, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Why do men “neg” women?This could be just teasing them. Like wife and husband make fun of each other's negative qualities but they do it in a way to just have a laugh and are carefully not to make other feel bad. But other is harmful and not good. But the difference hard to know and it's a grey area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do men “neg” women?There is a subtle difference here. Negging to make them do something (to give more attention, put more efforts, have more sex etc.). but there is also negging done by insecure women/men to not do something (like leaving the relationship, being attracted to other women, etc which the guy/girl might not even be doing.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do men “neg” women?thats negging too. Make him feel small so that he doesn't leaves you. This strategy is used by women who are insecure and hard to self-realize for them. But it is also used by a group of people in an attempt to control other people. Like slut shaming by men, and height shaming, di*k shaming, virgin shaming, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 02:43 PM |
| 11 | Why do men “neg” women?Women neg men a lot too. Many women humiliate their bf or husband based on his pens size, his sexual performance, using his vulnerabilities against him, etc Its not a men or a women issue. Its just people who are insecure, but not just insecure but also have resentment (either towards their partner, her past, her friends, or towards himself, etc.) and don't have enough self awareness or empathy towards their partner (this is most of the time can be mutually inclusive). There is also soft version… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableWell there are trans women thag look close to women and it can turn it into a kind of fetish or kink. 50 years back, if you said that men could enjoy seeing their wives being fucked by other guys, and even have a show, where he would sit in a cuck chair like an audience, any guys would call you a degenerate for having such cursed thoughts. But here we are... Nothing is impossible for us human man. Proud to be one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 02:17 PM |
| -1 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableI am one of those guys. I am not attracted to men like gay guys do. But God a thick women with a strap on moves my gears like no thing could. Once you open your mind, you can enjoy many things. But if you spend too much time, you can become a degenerate or something much worse. There is a also this sissy concept which is not something I am interested so dont know much about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserablePorn fried so many guys' brain, so hard that they are wiggling their thing to trans, chicks with big dicks (different from trans and closer to women, but just with a big one) where she is doing it with other women or man or both. You might ask who and where. I am one and right here. I just don't watch trans ones but the other one a lot with 3d or 2d porn, comics/manga, etc. Sometimes, more than straight ones. Better than other hardcore ones. But I spend most of the time reading erotica so thats … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 11:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most young men would benefit greatly from going on as many dates as possible.anime are great man. there are trash but occasionally some top tier anime with an amazing stories and everything drops and can sometimes change the way you view thing. Games too are good. But moderation is important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 10:48 PM |
| 8 | Bieng a jerk helps a lotand that want most men want to. The experience. It's great to experience and also gives you confidence and high standards of. you might not like jerks, but they do get lots of opportunities. So guys can just spend their 20s being seductive jerks and then start being honest and real for relationships if needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 10:28 PM |
| 10 | Bieng a jerk helps a lotbut that laid the foundation for him and gave him the confidence and experience, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 04:45 PM |
| 12 | Can yall list some specific problems which men face in Western (or Leftist) countries? I want some examples to use in a debate against ppl who say men have it easier than women in Europe. Providing some sources as well would be especially greatmen don't have 3 human rights that women have. Bodily integrity/autonomy - FGM is illegal in 160 countries and widely condemned, MGM is legal in all countries, advertised and widely practised. Reproductive rights - a man cannot stop a woman from using his sperm to impregnate herself. He has no legal rights to stop her, and no legal rights to refuse paternity against his will, even if he was raped, statutorily raped, or he is/was a boy. He is legally obligated to pay for the resulting child for 1… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/25 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, have you even not been into someone despite them being good in bed?but well, guy who is a relationship material would have less benefits than the rural rancher or any other guy until 25+. And its not that hard to be a good relationship guy for most men, but the guy who makes her feral or be more physically attractive to her. So most guys have less to no incentive to be a relationship material than to be an asshole or rancher that why may men want to be like that. Relationship material is not rare, So | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 01:44 PM |
| -3 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menAverage or most relationships end up with divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menMost sex clubs don't allow single men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:26 PM |
| 1 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.No way is that true. They are just shit partners if they said that directly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:20 AM |
| 8 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Quit comparing, life is happier when everything isn't a competition. It would be great if it was that easy. RJ can be due to envy, jealousy, disgust, disappointment, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:15 AM |
| 7 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.No one is blaming the women or men. It just to spread awareness about the kind of thing you could face in a life, so make decisions from now on so that you don't have to face them or even when you face them, you have the strength to face it and overcome it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:03 AM |
| 7 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Women don't face the kind of pressure men face when it comes to sexual prowess. Being able to give good sexual experience is important for men to feel they are good lovers and won't have to face any insults, or criticism from other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:57 AM |
| 4 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Women don't have as much pressure as men have to give good sexual experience for his partner to be a good lover. This is mostly felt by guys that really want to please their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:54 AM |
| 8 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Women are never measured by how good they are in bed but men most definitely are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:52 AM |
| 9 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.But there is pressure for men to perform well to be seen as a good lover. Most women talk about how sex is bad or good with someone. But men most of the time would be glad if their wife is having sex with them without any too many or too long periods of no intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:47 AM |
| 13 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.These posts bugged me for a while and I just now posted them. There are many Such posts I have saved. Will make more posts in future, but hope I forget all this stuff and move on with life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:33 AM |
| 2 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.No one is blaming the other person. Just warning guys to be careful when they settle down with someone without thinking it through properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:18 AM |
| 4 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.So women don't have insecurities and don't suffer from RJ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:11 AM |
| 5 | Men are not approaching women as much anymore and that's a good thing.Well in that case the people that are getting killed and starving to death are just weak people, who are not able to survive? Would you survive in those conditions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women.that not redpill, thats black pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?most people hide their sexual past details from their partner as much as possible and give the details that are important and to not ruin their relationship or its quality. If a man or women knew that their partner had better experience with someone else, that would definitely would have some effect on the person. But that doesn't mean that person is getting an unfair deal out of it. They wanted a serious relationship and thats what they get. If he/she thinks its unfair or insecure about it, it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 07:11 PM |
| 8 | Individualism is overpushed and it hurts the dating scene too.In that case corrupted politicians and rich folks are not in wrong for pursuing money at the cost of middle class and society. If a person is strong there is nothing wrong if he bullies others inti giving him what they have earned. It doesn't matters what you do as long as you get what you want and are safe with no negative consequences. right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 08:56 AM |
| 6 | Women are amazingNo, he is putting men down indirectly by saying women's help/kindness/love are more special and better than men's. That how I and most guys see it. If not comparison, then yeah, many women are amazing, just like how many men are amazing too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Women are amazingYou just made something that's normal form both sexes special when its by women, indirectly undermining it when it comes from men, like its less valuable when it comes from a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Women are amazingNo, he is putting men down indirectly by saying women's help/kindness/love more special and better than men's. That how I and most guys see it. If not comparison, then yeah, many women are amazing, just like how many men are amazing too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 08:39 PM |
| – | Women's dissatisfaction with modern dating stems largely from their reliance on makeupJust because you are not serious and can have casual fun doesn't mean that you can look down upon other people who want a serious relationship or those who want casual but can't get it. You are no different compared to people who want women to not sleep around to uphold social stability. For most men, good pay and job is a requirement. For most women, it's an option in that they won't be judged if they don't earn less than average or average. So, there would be more men pressured to focus on mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 08:07 PM |
| – | Women's dissatisfaction with modern dating stems largely from their reliance on makeupSome of those guys could be late bloomers, desperate single guys that have no experience and want it before they settle. Sexual experience is now not just an option/choice but a requirement and getting sex is a competition for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Give me your thoughts on this timeline GPT-4.5 generated for me.I think the first ones to use them would be women. Men are shamed or looked down when they use sexbots cause it is perceived as the man being not good enough to get any kind of women. But for women, it is perceived as them not finding a good enough partner. And women benefit more form toys ham men do. A sexbot that does exactly what you want is great for women but for men, it is just a side thing or worse the only way to have sex. also women would shame men for using the bots as women sex toys a… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 05:45 PM |
| 8 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable men"People would consider it a defeatist mentality to date below your league but what matters in the end is how happy you are with someone." Dating below your league is good as long as you truly like her and think you can have a great relationship with her. But if you choose her because eshe was the only option you got, then thats bad in its own way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 05:07 AM |
| 1 | The dating market is being ruined by social media because its manipulating both men and women into self-destructive tendencies.Problem is most or all young folks use it more and are more vulnerable. If mature and better people don't step up and explain things, the degradation will continue on until it compounds alot and start affecting society in a serious way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:45 PM |
| – | Having Parasocial Relationship with Fictional characters while being in relationship is horrible for the partner. And forcing/pressuring your partner to act like a fictional charcter without considering his feelings is similar to a guy forcing his wife/girlfriend to do porn like sex.Dating in a relationship is important to feel good for both. Its just sometime women ask the men to do them without returning the favours for him (not the sexual ones but more like saying he looks good, etc.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:23 PM |
| – | Having Parasocial Relationship with Fictional characters while being in relationship is horrible for the partner. And forcing/pressuring your partner to act like a fictional charcter without considering his feelings is similar to a guy forcing his wife/girlfriend to do porn like sex.Guys who do that are most often called out about it. Most people would be loose respect to the guy if does that. its just the forcing of expectation for romance in a hurtful ways thats bad about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:18 PM |
| – | Having Parasocial Relationship with Fictional characters while being in relationship is horrible for the partner. And forcing/pressuring your partner to act like a fictional charcter without considering his feelings is similar to a guy forcing his wife/girlfriend to do porn like sex.Itd great you have a good one with you. The guy had to face a fact that was uncomfortable so it's understandable if he feels bad about it. But exploding is not a good action to do. Atleast should have just asked for some time and space to process it. My issue was not the request but the comparison that kind of rubbed me. He was a good partner and helped with chores and stuff and care about her. But it's was the romance that was lacking. She could have slowly pulled him into it and made him reali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:15 PM |
| – | Having Parasocial Relationship with Fictional characters while being in relationship is horrible for the partner. And forcing/pressuring your partner to act like a fictional charcter without considering his feelings is similar to a guy forcing his wife/girlfriend to do porn like sex.yeah, he acted like an ass without talking out with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:10 PM |
| – | Having Parasocial Relationship with Fictional characters while being in relationship is horrible for the partner. And forcing/pressuring your partner to act like a fictional charcter without considering his feelings is similar to a guy forcing his wife/girlfriend to do porn like sex.Yeah that true. The husband though had his reasons and feelings for being insecure and pissed about it, he should have had a talk with her about it. Should have expressed his feelings about the request. But most men suppress their emotions starting at the age of 4, so it's normal that most dudes wont' be as romantic as the game characters. But it's the pressuring part thats not good about it. It might have been a small request but for him, it was a sign that he was not romantic enough. It would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:07 PM |
| – | Having Parasocial Relationship with Fictional characters while being in relationship is horrible for the partner. And forcing/pressuring your partner to act like a fictional charcter without considering his feelings is similar to a guy forcing his wife/girlfriend to do porn like sex.It not the jealousy thats problem. Its the comparison and forcing/pressuring without consideration that problem. I think most men would have no problem if their partner is playing otome games. They might even support and try play it together too. Its the comparison with fiction even if the partner is doing his best that makes me feel sad about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:59 PM |
| – | Having Parasocial Relationship with Fictional characters while being in relationship is horrible for the partner. And forcing/pressuring your partner to act like a fictional charcter without considering his feelings is similar to a guy forcing his wife/girlfriend to do porn like sex.To be honest, first time I heard about the game, I was like hell yeah, men are not the only one that are gooner, women can be too. But after reading the reactions and women saying it gave them unrealistic standards and expecting them from future partners is what made me feel kind of wierd. Then they talking about them like the best lover they had, saying real men are immature or unromantic and shit is what pissed be off. God if a man says shit like that about porn and sex, he would be dragged to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:55 PM |
| – | Having Parasocial Relationship with Fictional characters while being in relationship is horrible for the partner. And forcing/pressuring your partner to act like a fictional charcter without considering his feelings is similar to a guy forcing his wife/girlfriend to do porn like sex.To be honest, first time I heard about the game, I was like hell yeah, men are not the only one that are gooner, women can be too. But after reading the reactions and women saying it gave them unrealistic standards and expecting them from future partners is what made me feel kind of wierd. Then they talking about them like the best lover they had, saying real men are immature or unromantic and shit is what pissed be off. God if a man says shit like that about porn and sex, he would be dragged to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:55 PM |
| 6 | really need to vent about some stuff and i was really hoping you will just let me do so here.Don't worry man. Thing are changing and all the shit done by misandry are snowballing and gonna have a big impact on society in near future (like 5-10+ years). Until then, focus on yourself and be cautious. Thats all. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/25 03:40 PM |
| 4 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.Oh they do. If you go to 4bmovement sub, most posts talk about men and not in a good way. Both genders are kind of in a messed up place and this would grow more in the nest 5-10 years unless something changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.Having fantasies is good and normal. Its when it start affecting your perception of reality and fantasy/fiction that it beomes an issue. Still a long as the issue is not out of control its fine. But in the current digital-heavy world, its kind of becoming a serious problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 05:02 PM |
| 3 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.God the names like mankeeping, mansplaining, manchild, Fictosexual, and other are pathetic. This is why many men hate the fake feminism. They spend more energy, focus and excitement on blaming men and making them feel like shit rather than solve problems. But the word that I hate the most is patriarchy. Most women use this simplify a deep, complex and complicated issue in a convenient way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 12:53 PM |
| 6 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.and people say men are the pathetic ones to use AI girlfriend. Men use them because they have no choice. Women use them to enjoy more. And still man is the wierd one to use AI girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 12:48 PM |
| 2 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.This would break their partner mind. Loving a fictional character and fangirling/fanboying is ok for most people. For some, it's even better than their partner being a fanboy/fangirl for a relationship life celebrity. But if their partner feels insecure, it's their duty to make him/her feel secure unless the partner is listening or is just bursting out or forcing them to drop it without trying to understand how they really feel. But the disrespecting their partner and feeling their partner is no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 11:55 AM |
| 3 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.Having good standards are not the problem. Its a good thing. But expecting men to be confident, proactive and charming/flirty and more without making dating more easy for them it experience it is just wrong. Most men go into dating like it's a hunt because it's hard for a man to even get a date. Too many rejections and the way they see dating and relationships changes and turn into something like a game or a humiliation ritual. On top of that, when you see your peers having a good time or blamin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 11:45 AM |
| 7 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.I mean, even most women are not confident. Confidence is not something most people can buy or earn with hardwork. Pushing men to be confident even though most women are not confident when it comes to relationship is just hypocrisy. Women only know what kind of relationship they want. If women were to chase, propose face rejections like men do, their mind would break or would lose their confidence and self-esteem. And saying it's men problem is like saying we don't care, which is fine. But then t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 11:20 AM |
| 9 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.is that such a crime for women to ain for? No. But the society is a point where most Men are struggling with their identity and posting stuff like how fictional men are better than real men would make it worse. Or it could act like a catalyst to this gender war and in just a few decades later we can see both men and women being more better than they are now when it comes it relationships. But the biggest hurdle would be online dating and casual sex without any incentives for most women. Fangirli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 10:40 AM |
| 2 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.bot dumping the girl and going to a threesome with 2 boys this is like the movie Her ending. That was a great movie. But many women found it boring or were unintrested. But men mostly really liked it. Romance for men I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 09:40 AM |
| 6 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.I have seen men who watch porn or play the otome games for men and all of them would say they would rather be in a relationship than play these games. For them, its just a cope until they can get into a relationship. But in case of women, I have mostly seen women say something like "My husband/boyfriend can never be like [*certain fic male*] but that's ok, they don't have to. Its unrealistic and men to have their own need and desires" like they are pitying their partner and consoling them for no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 09:01 AM |
| 3 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?Most Men cry not because they have no love. Its because they can't get laid like women, making them feel like they are unattractive and undesirable, pushing them into the survival/scarcity mode which makes it even more harder for them to get laid or get into relationships. If men were confident in their desirability, there would be less no of simps, and more healthy relationships because they won't be focusing on making themselves more attractive but more on meeting and having good relationships… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?Men get love in like women can get sex. Its the long sustainable love, which is hard. Many relationships survive not only because both partners are mature, but also because they love each other and don't want to lose it. Women can get the love too but they know that after a certain time, it will fade. Then its the women that has to initiate dates, and stuff. Men too face something similar, where the women is more attracted to him in the initial honeymoon phase days. But after that, its the man t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:48 PM |
| 9 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?Women want to be loved. Not sexualized because many do it too much. Men want to be desired, sexualized. They can get love much easier if they have a job and good personality. But even Love is much hard for men. So yeah, men have it really bad. The reason that porn is more erotic for men is because women in those videos are more direct and sexualize the men more than most women do their boyfriend/husband. Does't means that the their love is inferior. But just not more good for men. Is it not real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 05:59 PM |
| 10 | I received an interesting text from a friend. He wants to share his thoughts, and I think it's appropriate for this Reddit.This should be posted in other sub reddits to make the realize how it's fucked up for men to have any relationships or sexual experience needed to develope self esteem needed to get into serious relationships when they are adults with fearing their partners sexual past(Retroactive Jealousy) But society kinda hates or has a contempt against single males. One particular thing that is the best proof for it is that some swinging clubs only allow couples or single women but not single men. Even if th… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/25 02:11 AM |
| 7 | Women can caterwaul about how much scrutiny women face with their appearance, then turn the cheek and call men incels.This reminds me if the adam and eve story. Eve was the one who got tempted and ate the apple and even made adam eat it. Women were the ones who created this makeup, fashion and stuff but men never had to do those things so, they never focused on those things. But in the modern world, men are forced to do the same to just get their looksmatch and have to do skincare routines, style their hair and even body to attract females, etc. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Boys Educational (intentional) Neglectwhy are folks downvoting you? They too need them right? And many trans folks too turn into men and it could really be supportive and helpful for them. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/25 11:30 AM |
| 1 | This post gave me deeper understanding about why most Men are suffering.hey, I am a male. What I meant was that men should not rely on women for validation and should define ourself that maximizes our own happiness rather than others. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/25 05:14 AM |
| 8 | This post gave me deeper understanding about why most Men are suffering.yeah, I hate the way they blame the "patriarchy" which is just an abstraction for the way the society want it's working class to behave. Most women and feminists want men to be submissive and integrate in their world which is suitable in peaceful circumstances. But if war or violence rises, shit gonna be fucked and they would not hesitate to force men to sacrifice for their benefit. Women want their cake and eat it too. Whereas men may get less or equal benefits, but will get disposed in hard ti… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/25 11:39 PM |
| -15 | This post gave me deeper understanding about why most Men are suffering.I think we do need to change. But change in that not completely but like we need to de-centralize females and kids and women in general. Men should give the support and assurance/validation to the young men in a healthy way but not in an incels way. Incels are not bad people but, they just are the result of the circumstances they are placed in. Current relationship between men and women is like a divorced couple where the women spent months or years processing and left as it was no longer benefi… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/25 11:25 PM |
| 16 | As of yesterday it's been a decade of listening to men tell their stories of inequality and injustice. Here's what I've learned.What are the fallacies and falsehood you have noticed in the post? | /r/MensRights | 17/06/25 11:02 PM |
| -2 | This post gave me deeper understanding about why most Men are suffering.Hey, I am a guy and what I took from those comments is that men need a way if masculinity, like a new role that is compatible with the new modern world where intelligence and social skill are more valued than physical strength in general. That doesn't mean we men should adjust for society's sake but for our happiness and fulfillment. The current society is neglecting men for women and in hard times, will not hesitate to use men like disposable like it is happening in Ukraine. We men need to be m… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/25 10:55 PM |
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