UTBeneVOLence Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Why is oneitis considered a bad thing? To be completely honest with you this is not oneitis. You mentioned lower in your comment that you are not stopped from going out and trying to meet other people. Oneitis is an issue when you are so infatuated in one woman (regardless of whether there is a dating possibility or not) that you don't go out with other women, don't try and meet other people and stop learning seduction because of that one woman. I hope this makes sense!	/r/seduction	23/12/14 10:33 PM
3	Remember, you are here because of a lack of male role models in your life Thanks! I was searching for a specific post in Seddut and forgot to click 'search this subreddit only' there was a post from this sub!	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/14 05:24 PM
33	Remember, you are here because of a lack of male role models in your life Just literally discovered this sub reddit.. I have suffered anxiety for more of my life just really getting over it with therapy now (age 26) I realised that my mum who has always been like it taught me that the world isn't a safe place and coddled me throughout my childhood, there was nothing my dad could do, probably because he didn't see the harm it... Realising you are like this is one of the most important steps to changing it and honestly after starting learning game and working out more I…	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/14 05:12 PM
2	Going out alone sucks! - Find A Wingman In Your City This is an absolutely brilliant idea. I live in Cambridge UK an was wondering if you could expand the app (once it's built) to include cities in the UK!	/r/seduction	15/12/14 10:35 AM
1	[Fr] Failed Success Dude, I am sure there is a story in there somewhere but none of it really connects, where does the boyfriend thing come in? How does that relate to the kiss. The only bit that made sense to me was the last paragraph, but could you elaborate and explain the [FR] further?	/r/seduction	03/12/14 10:05 PM
2	Falling apart I am not going to give you moral guidance... As long as something isn't illegal I won't tell you to avoid it. She's clearly not happy with the current setup and with what you vae told me I know you could 'game' her quite easily. This is not the issue here, the issue is... Her intentions and the fact you are overly concerned with the thoughts of another person (even if they hold a position of power) My two cents: I literally had a very similar experience to the above. Broke up with my long term g…	/r/seduction	25/11/14 05:30 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/24/14 Clubs require lots more confidence and then there is a temptation to drink lots to deal with that. If you can push it hard in clubs and deal with the "cold" ones then good for you but my advice is, you're going to get miles better results in bars/pubs as it's quieter, more relaxed and people aren't smashed usually. But by all means carry on trying in clubs, even if you fail everytime you need to open all the time/everywhere!	/r/seduction	24/11/14 10:58 PM
3	Anxiety issues + Vulnerability? Hey man, I know how you feel so wanted to give you some guidance. I have suffered from Generalized Anxiety and OCD for most of my life, I went to therapy two years for it, which really helped me get my thoughts in check. I picked up game within the last few months after splitting with my long term girlfriend and I realized I had the same problem you are having now. Short term: what you need to do is learn how to stay present (this is hard by the way) but if you can stay present in the moment dur…	/r/seduction	15/11/14 10:57 AM
3	All the girls in my class think I'm a player but at the same time think I'm the sweetest guy.... Sorry for the late reply.. My suggestion would be something like... her: "you're a player" You: "is that your best pick up line?" Although anything can go ere it's just to turn it Around and make it seem she is picking you up.	/r/seduction	10/11/14 11:23 AM
3	All the girls in my class think I'm a player but at the same time think I'm the sweetest guy.... natural and this is the way you are perceived. You can play to both of these strengths and actually it'll probably mean you do better off. A lot of women consciously want a sweet, nice guy who cares about them and considers their feelings. Subconsciously they want someone who is confident, strong, can enjoy life and look after them. You basically have both bases covered... Go you! To be honest I think you're over thinking it... Lets not focus on the comment itself but the attuitude these people …	/r/seduction	09/11/14 10:00 PM
10	All the girls in my class think I'm a player but at the same time think I'm the sweetest guy.... It's not necessarily a bad thing to be the sweetest guy and be regarded as a player... In fact this is a great frame for you if it's all natural and this is the way you are perceived. You can play to both of these strengths and actually it'll probably mean you do better off. A lot of women consciously want a sweet, nice guy who cares about them and considers their feelings. Subconsciously they want someone who is confident, strong, can enjoy life and look after them. You basically have both base…	/r/seduction	09/11/14 07:38 PM
4	I don't want it badly enough I'm new to r/seduction coming here after splitting with my fiancé and realising I literally do not remember how to talk to women. In the last couple of days of reading posts and going out with friends I have realised major factor which you are not utilising... If you aren't desperate to meet someone (you will avoid situations that will cause rejection and it doesn't upset you to behave this way) turn this around, use this lack of care and operate on a mindset that because you don't care and it's…	/r/seduction	18/10/14 11:46 AM