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well sounds like you should go become attractive, and then all of your problems would be solved
/r/TheRedPill06/07/21 11:08 AM
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well, i think that is a personal style question for me, if a girl is not really into me, i can't get into her so, in the situation OP is talking about, for me personally I would no longer be into the girl. If a girl doesn't think I am awesome, then in my mind she is probably pretty boring. so perhaps, "burning the bridge" is not the route I would take, but i certainly wouldn't put in any level of effort more than she is. now I do understand that OP is just coming from the "experiment" angle, and…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/21 11:06 AM
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I feel some questions are best left unanswered
/r/TheRedPill06/07/21 12:10 AM
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I can't really answer that I would say it depends exactly how you ask her But more importantly why does the answer to this matter?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/21 10:24 PM
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They like to keep options open and lead dudes on You constantly texting her, validates her If she gave you a flat out no, that validation would stop So no, she probably never will give you a real answer
/r/TheRedPill05/07/21 09:39 PM
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Yes, its a hard pill to swallow (pun intended) but everyone wants the exact situation they are in. everyone has the same 24 hours in the day, each individual chooses how to spend it. Its hard to explain it to these people, because when you do they start going off about all of these external circumstances that put them there. which in a sense is true, external circumstance has effects on peoples lives, but staying there and allowing external circumstance to keep you down, that is only the individ…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 02:24 PM
1

few truer statements have been put into words
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 12:53 PM
1

Yes, women run compliance tests, if you comply you lose
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 01:06 PM
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This is so not true it's not even funny
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 02:26 PM
1

I think we need to distinguish one thing, online vs in person approach texting needs to be approached differently. first attraction is key in both, you cant save a set with text game in either. but it does make sense to be willing to put in a little bit more comfort building with online because she never got a sample of your personality. that being said if you've been texting for more than 2 weeks with no meetup, and its not a situation where shes been out of town, then its very simple: you aren…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 03:28 PM
3

everyone overthinks this shit like no tomorrow......
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 01:25 PM
3

why are all of the comments so black and white? both work, both have advantages and disadvantages for different personalities, situations, girls, etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 01:29 AM
1

Men don't want sex more than, Women just naturally screen ALOT more than men
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 12:07 PM
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I haven't noticed this at all
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 11:23 PM
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This is absolutely beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 12:54 AM
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The 1/4 stat is world class, definitely not talking about me. Secondly I may have misrepresented that stat slightly, the 1/4 was cumulative between day and nightgame, Apologies Really the only point I'm trying to make is yes if you just keep doing more approaches you will get better, but in order to get great you need to learn and refine techniques to bust past sticking points.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 01:25 PM
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If you're worried about falling into her frame, you're already in it.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 04:50 PM
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I simotaniously agree and disagree. I think you're ignoring the nuance here, everyone is different and has different behaviours they already do. If you tell a complete chode to just go "be natural" he is going to be a chode, and get no where. Secondly while 8/100 is damn good, there are other guys who have taken a technical prescriptive and truly refined their skill who have achieved 1/4 pull/approach ratio. Idk the other guys but torero is intermediate in skill at best. I guess what I'm saying …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 04:11 PM
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The fact that you're putting something like this up, probably means you would turn into a "nice guy"
/r/seduction21/11/19 11:25 AM
2

This is a strong point. A lot of times forgetting game is the best solution to having better game.
/r/seduction18/11/19 06:53 PM
3

Go eat a dick
/r/seduction14/11/19 03:00 PM
2

Dude so true. I'm just now starting to get some results from cold approach. Took longer than it needed to because of myself, but actually taking control and responsibility for yourself is empowering.
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:57 PM
0

Yes part of it is this, but it's mostly because selling their self help BS is the only way to monetize 90% of the people that follow pua
/r/seduction13/11/19 12:39 PM
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I think the only rule here is: Which ever person in the room is worried about being in control, isn't
/r/seduction12/11/19 11:21 PM
1

Yes, gold star for you sir
/r/seduction09/11/19 05:34 PM
1

Personally I think it's a combo of public disdain for pua, and the bigger companies have just realized that 90% of the people who are interested aren't willing to do the the work that is needed to get good. Because of this second point, the bigger companies namely RSD have figured out how to monetize those 90% of people through self help BS. It's just a way to keep people on the train of thinking that they are getting better with women while not actually getting better. Thus the customers keep p…
/r/seduction09/11/19 05:32 PM
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Either way this story made my day, so thanks
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:54 PM
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No porn, and no jerking off is great advice. However not approaching and taking time to "work on yourself" is bs. If you're waiting for women to approach you it's only going to happen once in a blue moon, also they are not going to be the cream of the crop. Also by not actively approaching, when the unicorn does approach you're going to be needy AF.
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:49 PM
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I think it depends on how much value you conveyed thus far to the girl. If she is super attracted to you and you set a very man to women vibe, while disqualifying along the way, I think texting just for plans is best. If you came across a little boyfiendy, you're going to have to do more work.
/r/seduction07/11/19 02:10 PM
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If you try to not care than youre trying to not try, which means you're trying. You can't get your agenda out of game, not matter what you do. If you were truly outcome independent you wouldn't go out
/r/seduction07/11/19 02:46 AM
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What is cringy about saying she has massive jugs?
/r/seduction06/11/19 07:44 PM
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Yes, we must all be one the bhudda floating through the club on a cloud, agendaless, no attachments, with a raging boner in case a chick happens to want it. But you can't want anything, otherwise you won't get it....
/r/seduction06/11/19 07:43 PM
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I went to free tour a few weeks ago, and I had a similar experience. Honestly the level of dishonesty is fking annoying. He goes on and on about hard work and how he learned social skills over 20 years then he sends his sales pitch guy up and that dude starts saying how transformation has to be "instant" with a heavy implication that buying their shit would translate to this instant change. What I think it is is that they know 90% of the people into pickup are never going to take action so they …
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:34 PM
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Part of game is simply getting in a place where sex can happen, wether you have attraction or not. To say that you need attraction to have sex is bs. So him teaching this is in fact teaching good game.
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:33 PM
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Is this even a question? Toddv, duh
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:10 PM
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They have a very different set of problems, however equally difficult in different ways.
/r/seduction27/10/19 08:23 PM
1

Do you think any of the women Donald Trump slammed thought he was physically attractive?
/r/seduction24/10/19 04:30 PM
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You can't garuntee that you will get any one specific girl, but you can garuntee that you can get a girl similar to any one specific girl.
/r/seduction24/10/19 01:15 PM
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You're just looking for a pity party, that's why you're here. It's easier to say "I have a problem" for you than it is to head in the direction you want to go.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:48 PM
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Ultimately I can't say anything here that will "change" you Until you take responsibility for yourself, nothing will change. My advice would be to stop thinking you need someone on Reddit to tell you the perfect thing.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:16 PM
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Avoiding a behavior your want to have is the most manipulative thing you can do.
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:49 AM
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Eh, as a blanket statement no. Maybe 15% of the time, yes.
/r/seduction13/10/19 05:13 PM
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Tyler sucks ass. Too much wishy washy feel good bs
/r/seduction13/10/19 12:19 PM
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Farthest I've gotten is an instant date. daygame pulling is 100% possible.
/r/seduction08/10/19 02:04 PM
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Fake news
/r/seduction08/10/19 02:03 PM
1

What's you're game plan?
/r/seduction29/09/19 06:12 PM
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Well, you must first get their attention of course.
/r/seduction29/09/19 12:52 PM
1

80% of women go to the top 20% of guys leaving the remaining 80% of guys desperate
/r/seduction29/09/19 11:56 AM
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30 minutes west of Charlotte but I game in Charlotte
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:09 PM
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USA NC, totally looking for a wing
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:28 PM
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Why? Whenever people ask this question they are simply trying to find an easy way. There isn't one, go get your approaches in and get good game. Shortcuts don't exist
/r/seduction17/09/19 06:09 PM
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Yeah, I hate ultimatums but I think this is probably one of the few situations where it's needed. If she is dead set on this, it would be a hard no for me. Also I don't think bugging her about changing her mind is a good option, you'll just come across as needy. I think you just need to calmly tell her: I can't be someones boyfriend unless sec is involved.
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:14 PM
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Wtf are you talking about he is totally right
/r/seduction09/09/19 01:04 PM
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The idea is basically that with cold approach you have unlimited access. obviously its more difficult to start something in an hour than over a period of time. but once you get skilled in cold approach you essentially have unlimited abundance.
/r/seduction05/09/19 04:32 PM
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Yeah man, I totally get where you're coming from as far as not wanting to do the thing because you feel alone. thats specifically why I think a physical activity would be a good idea. something like drawing is inherently isolating/ in your head type of thing. most physical activities can be done in groups or alone. also with physical activities there is a a hormonal component to them, if you lift(real lifting not hoping on machines/treadmill) you're going to produce more testosterone. In my view…
/r/seduction05/09/19 04:22 PM
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I took it. would recommend. I think the main benefit is getting an outside opinion on things you're doing and ways you're conveying yourself from coaches who are advanced. Also just seeing the other guys taking it that are on your level or near it and that there actually are real life people that get good/ decent at this. only seeing super advanced guys on the internet can be demoralizing like watching the Olympic level athletes its sometimes hard to relate back to yourself. as far as the curric…
/r/seduction05/09/19 03:43 PM
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My personal opinion is to pick up a hobby that is challenging, preferably a physical one. specifically: lifting, martial arts, climbing I dont think just "going to the gym" is a good idea. The hard part isn't really getting started, its sticking with it even though you suck a the beginning, and identifying as someone who does this thing. The logic behind this is once you start with something and stick with it for a few years, you view yourself as someone that can finish something and has commitm…
/r/seduction05/09/19 03:30 PM
3

What's better drinking water, or breathing air
/r/seduction04/09/19 11:13 AM
1

I would recommend toddv he talks alit about this
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:09 AM
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Atomic habits. Definitely not game related, but a lot of it can be related to inner game.
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:05 PM
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No, the people who say they did those things but didn't actually put in the effort they say they did remain invisible.
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:19 AM
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yes if by "dress your best" you mean a polo and a khakis if you put in the time training and get shredded, then dress in a way that attractive guys do, you won't be invisible. then after all of that you still have to put in the time and actually initiate the interaction because again, unless your famous the most 95% of girls will give you is an ioi no matter how physically attractive you are. from there you learn verbal game. all of this is in your control.
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:49 AM
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wouldn't recommend super direct, other than that go with what you're most used too.
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:21 AM
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as a guy 75% of your looks are in your control with proper physical training and dress/grooming. you're just looking to make excuses for yourself any guy that doesn't have a physical deformity can achieve 7/10 looks. with game a 7/10 in looks can be a 10/10 total.
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:17 AM
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I'm not denying it's an advantage. But you're delusional if you think the girl will do "all the work"
/r/seduction01/09/19 11:21 PM
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Downtown
/r/seduction01/09/19 10:30 PM
2

Just record audio on your phone. Unless youre a pua on YouTube you don't need a camera. Listening to the audio will jog your memory as to what point in the interaction it was at.
/r/seduction01/09/19 10:24 PM
2

Lol bs. I'm an 11 and this definitely doesn't happen. They give you iois but definitely don't initiate.
/r/seduction01/09/19 10:22 PM
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There's your problem right there. You're supposed to tell them it's going in their asshole.
/r/seduction31/08/19 08:59 PM
2

Something conversational. There isn't a right answer, if you're looking for a right answer that's probably what's got you fucked up. You have to believe your answer to the problem is right for it to work. The thing I was trying to illustrate is: if you open supper casually what you says shouldnt imply "let's fuck" Conversely if you change directions look her in the eye and play t your feet right in front of her your opener shouldn't be "nice weather" because you clearly went to talk to her.
/r/seduction30/08/19 08:50 PM
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Open from the side with something indirect. Just be sure to make it look that you slowing down wasntt contrived so that you could open. If it looks like that was your purpose then your better of just making it look like you totally went in
/r/seduction30/08/19 05:10 PM
1

Do you believe that you can make a girl who is attracted to you not attracted to you?
/r/seduction30/08/19 12:45 PM
1

Slow down and match her pace.
/r/seduction30/08/19 12:40 PM
1

Honestly didn't read your whole post, however from the title this might help. When you're alone practice the "free association" game. What this is is: say a word preferably a noun that you see in the environment. Next say they next word that you can think of that is associated with that word. Just try to go as long as you can thinking of each new word in less than 5 seconds. The idea is your just learning to say whatever comes to mind without judging it, usually the judging it is what makes you …
/r/askTRP27/08/19 10:13 PM
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Daygame, online game
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:56 AM
1

Why the fuck is this a question worthy of posting? Isn't that your decision?
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:08 PM
1

I see where you're going but I don't think this is exclusive to basic white girls, you're describing American consumerism. That being said I knew this one chick that took 2k from her student loan to train her dog, so I know the face palm moment you're explaining.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 01:26 PM
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I disagree with this. Women are attracted to higher social status more so than looks. Social status is created by your behavior. using verbal game you can establish a social heirachy between you and someone else by making them qualify. In women, once they feel like they are a lower social status they get attracted. Getting a girl attached with game who otherwise isn't attracted is all about her observing you demisting higher value through behavior. Furthermore if you're Chad-looking and demonstr…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:55 PM
1

This is beyond vague.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:24 PM
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In my experience, she will be honest with you if you demonstrate that you won't judge her.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:18 PM
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I feel like the exception is when you frame it as teaching here something. So in my example it's not the logical back that turns her on but rather the fact that you're telling her and directing the convo not asking for her input on it.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:37 PM
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I don't understand this mentality. It has a negative connotation towards women because they want sex, yet we're all literally on a sub for men where we discuss how to get more/better sex. This double standard has to die.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 02:21 PM
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I look at it like jerking off. It's a problem if you aren't the one making the decision and you "need" it. Is the habit in control or are you?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:35 PM
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Why the fuck are you selling courses that can still be bought? Like wtf that's straight up stealing.
/r/seduction20/05/19 12:54 AM
12

Not with weed wtf is she going to do eat all your chex mix?
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:30 AM
2

Religious views towards sex are an archaic vestige of yesterday. Best way to approach it is to understand the reason why it existed and then decide whether it applies now or not (spoiler it doesn't). And then live your life accordingly. In a side note honestly I think things will eventually resort to more polygomy. Now that everybody can easily get the bare minimum to survive, women will choose the top 5% of guys again and have no use for providers beyond emotional support bags. You kinda see it…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 10:52 PM
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While I understand why you would come to that conclusion, I will assure you that is not the issue.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 04:10 PM
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Thank you guys for the thoughts. In summary sounds like it might be a good idea to build some rapport and make the plans less of a big deal.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:24 PM
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Monagomy doesn't serve the feminine imperative. It is a rule that aided societal cohesion in earlier times. Without this rule women tend to all cluster around the top 5% of guys and reproduce with only them. This causes societal unrest because the other 95% of guys end up tearing society apart. In Hunter gatherer and preindustrial agricultural societies, women on average can't do enough work in a day too provide a net gain in calories for the tribe. So the group needs all the men to serve this r…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 12:09 PM
1

No I can't get them out for a Meetup, not actually getting to the date. Most are from online however its from in person numbers aswell. Honestly I feel like a lot of it is a self fulfilling prophecy, a big reason I don't do much in person game is because this thought of no matter how much they like me I won't be able to get them out thought pops up.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 02:33 AM
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They flake/cancel but they continue to show signs of interest, in my frame, actually trying to jump through my hoops But then when I reschedule same deal always flake.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:23 AM
1

You don't need an isolation exercises to get aesthetic arms. If you want to be Jay Cutler then yes you need curls. Otherwise you can get good looking arms with exclusively compound movements.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:42 PM
1

I would like to offer a musical selection that may give you the answer you seek. If you're familiar with the rap artist "K camp" and their esteemed volume know as "cut her off" I believe a bit of wisdom can be found in this unintelligible giberish, that will relate directly to the situation you have described.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 09:21 PM
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I was totally thinking about writing something, then you're wisdom enlightened me. Much thanks.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 12:51 AM
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Damn straight
/r/askTRP14/05/19 12:34 PM
2

Telling someone that they're brain will be "rewired" by reading posts on Twitter is dishonest. So going off that, I assume the content blows.
/r/seduction11/05/19 07:21 PM
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And I assume this your Twitter page
/r/seduction11/05/19 01:16 PM
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It has fragmented into: 50% self help 35% looks/money is all that matters 15% real game Mystery still teaches he is just still super niche.
/r/seduction11/05/19 01:07 PM
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First, I don't understand why this matters. Second I think the thing to take away is that in all likelihood, most of the time the person who inherited it will not be as confident/ outgoing.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:39 PM
1

How can I win boxing without punching
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:06 PM
4

Asking other people how to be "alpha"/ worrying if you're "alpha" enough is the least alpha thing you can do. This is the thing I don't understand about redpillers
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:22 PM
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dating apps aren't "designed" to give women an advantage, they just do because of human nature.
/r/seduction26/03/19 04:25 PM
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Just bang her and dip
/r/seduction25/03/19 01:01 PM
1

That is the best rendition of how the sexual marketplace operates that I have ever read.
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:02 PM
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In a side note, had anyone noticed that their matches have dropped drastically over the past 2 months?
/r/seduction05/03/19 01:31 PM
1

Well lucky for you, I have a magic wand right here. I'll have it and cast an incantation, don't worry you'll feel better in 60 seconds.
/r/seduction01/03/19 01:18 PM
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My guess is that this would refer to the girl being aware of you prior to your approach. Ie strong eye contact, she observered you doing something or talking to someone. For example approaching a walking girl from behind prior to her noticing you would not be this.
/r/seduction24/02/19 03:38 PM
1

I guess that's what I'm asking, what were the initial interactions like? 10 sec number close? If so I would be surprised Or did you spend quite some time with them on the pick up?
/r/seduction23/02/19 03:39 PM
1

I'm not that experienced but honestly I don't feel like this would work unless you spent like 2+ hours with the girl before hand, and it was really on.
/r/seduction22/02/19 09:07 PM
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Yeah, I would say she's digging it. She was testing your frame with the adam and eve comment and you passed the shit test by exaggerating. Based off your description sounds like she is attracted.
/r/seduction14/02/19 08:22 PM
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I hate to be a negative Nancy but this is the chodiest post I have read in a while. First off, no one here has a magic wand or pill to solve this problem for you. If there is some one liner that would solve it, based off your vague post no one here would have the clairvoyance required to be devinly inspired by what this advice would be. Secondly, to me judging by your post it sounds like you're just looking for some type of validation or pity party regarding your past "traumas". You say your gen…
/r/seduction10/02/19 02:05 PM
1

I might have some interest in such a thing
/r/seduction03/02/19 10:40 PM
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For men it's dead, it gives women unlimited options
/r/seduction29/01/19 11:03 PM
8

What the actual fuck. Grow a pair and take responsibility for yourself.
/r/seduction13/01/19 05:08 PM
1

What do you expect out of a post like this? A pity party that's going to miraculously sway you to change and take action? I know it sounds cliche but grow some balls and start focusing on the things you can change and stop over magnifying the things you can't.
/r/seduction12/01/19 03:36 PM
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Todd V
/r/seduction11/01/19 01:28 AM
0

Just remember, your always allowed to quit.
/r/seduction08/01/19 02:45 AM
2

I would recommend immersion with Todd I have done it. I can't speak for any other program however. I will say that having done a 7 day program i don't think 3 would really do much as far as a lasting behavior shift.
/r/seduction18/12/18 02:45 PM
3

Wait wait wait, now hold the fuck up.... What rationale do you use to come to the conclusion that you're owed a response?
/r/seduction08/12/18 04:38 PM
1

Right now malls are my go too, also if you can find some indoor flee market of some sort.
/r/seduction25/11/18 04:58 PM
1

Following, this is an issue I am running into. It's not frigid where I am just cold, but less people are out.
/r/seduction25/11/18 01:59 PM
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This is 10 minutes of empty rambling
/r/seduction11/11/18 10:53 PM
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Gnarley stuff, thanks for the inspiration.
/r/seduction28/10/18 02:52 PM
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Worrying about how alpha you are is the quickest way to not be.
/r/seduction08/10/18 02:02 AM
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